WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ambushed By Mom 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.360 All right, here it is your brand new episode today. 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:04.840 It's Brook and Jeffrey. Thanks for funding our Second Date podcast. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:08.000 We appreciate it. We got a self proclaimed love bomber 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:11.840 one day, she's coming in hot, all right, every day 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.760 that they admit it. Yeah, we're gonna get to that 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:16.720 beforest comments. 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.759 Yeah, this almost cute, Jenny said, O MG, did you 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:22.360 guys really encourage to do a shout out for your band? 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:25.720 I've been listening obsessively from the Netherlands for about a 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:28.200 year now, and you guys have inspired a song I've 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.560 written about dating or basically the fact that I've given 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.040 up on dating at this point. Oh well, it's called 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.600 love is such a big word by Jenny Janine. It's 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.959 on Spotify and it'd be a dream to know what 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:41.240 you guys think, and I'll dent it to you guys 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:42.160 on our next show. 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:44.760 We're gonna go listen. 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:45.040 Yea. 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:47.680 Even better, I'm gonna fly to the Netherlands and tell 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:48.919 you exactly how I feel about it. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:52.280 Well, we'll go to a concert. Yeah, he's just showing 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:56.680 up at Jenny's house. Yeah, be careful of what you 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:59.520 wish for, Jenny. Okay, let's get you a brand new 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.680 episode right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:03.560 date updates. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.600 It's nice to have people who are self aware in 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:08.440 the dating world. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.440 Oh yes, very few and far between. 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:13.000 I think, at least with our listeners, and sometimes they 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.520 know immediately when they made a mistake or if they 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:19.080 crossed a boundary. They might even know their own love language, 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:25.440 like mine personally is camouflaged inflatables. What I'm self aware? 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.280 I don't think that's one of the six or seven. 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.360 I took a different test than all this duff. 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:32.240 Yeah, who says you're limited to like the five ones 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:33.360 that are written down in the book. 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:35.280 Why does it creep me out now that you're wearing 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:35.600 a chemo? 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:39.880 But I only bring it up because one of our 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:44.080 listeners emailed us. Her name's Paulina, and she admits that 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:50.120 she is a self professed love bomber. Oh, the recent 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:53.440 bombing was on full display during her first date the 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:56.720 other night. I am very eager to learn about it. So, Paulina, 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:57.920 welcome to the show. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:00.000 Hello, Thank you for having me here. 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:00.360 Guys. 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:09.440 Oh yeah, I'm so curious to hear her level of love. Yeah, 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:12.480 because there's like a really fine line between it being 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:16.480 awesome that you're expressing yourself and then being way too much. 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:19.080 Yeah yeah, okay, well we'll find out where you are 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:22.079 on the spectrum of love bombing. But what's the guy's name? 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.880 Okay? His name is Justin? 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:29.200 Oh you even say it like you yeah, excited? 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:31.520 I feel it? So tell us about Justin? 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:32.800 All right? 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:37.400 Well, we had a nice date. We meant for just 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:38.679 like a simple meal. 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.320 You know, just is this dinner? Is this lunch? 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:42.240 It was? 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:46.080 It was lunch okay, yeah, casual? 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.239 You know, so I know within. 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:52.400 Thirty seconds of meeting a person how I feel I do. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:54.920 There's science behind that, though, there really is. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:56.239 But are your feelings right? 0:02:56.960 --> 0:02:57.320 Actually? 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.560 Who's to say these feelings are right and wrong? 0:02:59.600 --> 0:02:59.760 Bro? 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.280 She's feeling a feeling. What's wrong with that? 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:04.560 It's just like thirty seconds is. 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.000 Guys, don't get me wrong. Connecting with him online? You know. 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:13.359 I wasn't expecting that, you know, I was like, whoa okay, 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:15.720 so we started like going deep quickly? 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.920 Wow, what does that look like for you? Like, what 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:19.760 do you mean deep? 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:21.680 Okay? 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:25.520 I even said I can already picture our future dog. 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:31.560 He's brown and his name is Microwave Microwave. 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:32.200 Micro for sure. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:35.800 But he's a big dog, so it's ironic micro for 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:36.600 a dog. 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:40.120 It's better than picturing your future kids. Like that's at 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:41.200 her statement for sure. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.080 What is Justin's reaction to that? 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:45.120 He laughed. He laughed. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:46.360 I don't know if he thought. 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.080 I was being serious, but I was. 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:55.040 Oh, that's okay, okay, guys, this is how much we clicked, 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:59.240 Like before we even ordered. He was facetiming with my mom. 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:05.080 Whoa, oh yo, that is awesome. Yeah, good, goody good, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:08.440 very nice. Wait, how did that happen? Did your mom 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:09.040 call you? 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:12.960 I surprising with it. I dialed her under the table, under. 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:17.440 The table, Oh. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.600 Girl, that's yeah, that's how I would want to me. 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:23.039 Did she like him though, I mean she loved him. 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.080 Oh, you loved him too. 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.800 How long was the face time? Yeah, your mom and 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:28.560 your Oh it. 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:30.240 Was just a couple of minutes. It was just, you know, 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:33.240 fun banter between me and him and mom, and it was. 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:36.479 Like, what, okay, so so far we're ten minutes into 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:39.640 the date you have planned getting a dog together. He's 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:42.640 met your mom in a surprise video chat. 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:44.839 Remember this is all mid day, Jeff. 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:48.120 We're in the middle of the day. Yeah, a lunch date. 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.800 I'm scared to ask what happens after ten minutes? 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:53.440 Did you slow things down a little bit for the 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:53.880 rest of the. 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.600 Day, I mean slow things down And that's how I roll. 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:56.880 You know. 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:00.559 I gave him a little I gave him a little unique. 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:02.240 Oh, you brought a gift with you. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.040 It's kind of a personal thing. I don't want to 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.760 say what it was, but if you get him on 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:06.880 the phone, he can say it. 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:09.960 Okay, what did he say when you handed it to him? 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:11.480 He didn't say anything. 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:12.880 Is I just got real big? 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:14.960 Oh? I can't wait to hear. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.719 Okay, maybe we should fast forward through the lunch. 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:21.080 Okay, we had a great lunch. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.160 Is tasty? 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:23.760 Okay? Good. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:26.920 We were just shooting back and forth. You know, we 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.560 were already talking about the subjects of relationship, right because 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:32.039 we're on a date. And I said, Hey, are you 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:35.039 a lefty or alrighty when it comes to closets? 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:37.000 What does that mean? 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:37.520 What do you mean? 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:38.880 Well? You know, like how if. 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.240 You're like, if you're moving together, like, are you going 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:44.280 to share a closet? Can be fifty to fifty? Are 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.400 they a LEFTI or a righty? 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.160 Ah? These are the important questions. That do need to 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.320 be asked on the first date? I do agree. 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.040 Did he answer that question? 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.120 He had no idea, he said, no one has ever 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:55.960 asked me that. 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:56.960 Wow. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:05:59.200 I said, let's go back to my place and look 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:01.000 look at the closet. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.159 Wait did he go back? He went back. 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:05.200 We went back to my house. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:10.200 It's not the usual invitation most guys get to go 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.320 back to someone's place, but it worked. 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:14.640 I thought he wouldn't be into it. But maybe we're 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:15.360 reading this wrong. 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:18.200 Yeah, what did he What did he think about the closet? 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.000 You know, I showed him the closet and we were 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.080 just you know, I was lashing and it was funny. 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:23.839 And then he like he. 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:26.000 Started having this like severe allergic reaction. 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.680 Oh oh god, yeah, he said, He's like, I think 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:33.280 I have to go And well, yeah. 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:36.240 Did he show any signs of allergic reaction like puffy lip, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:41.280 rat or rat? He started looking just like agitated, like 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:43.279 uncomfortable a little bit. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:44.800 Yeah, I mean. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.200 I do use a specific could be a cleaner. I 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.560 had just cleaned the house. Who knows. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.320 Did you send him a lot of follow up texts 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:54.920 and calls to check on his well? 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:56.320 Oh? 0:06:56.400 --> 0:06:58.599 Of course followed up with him. Yeah, of course, Oh 0:06:58.640 --> 0:06:59.800 my god, IM sure he's okay? 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:00.719 Did he answer? 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:03.120 I'm okay? 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.200 Very short though, very short. 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.960 Okay. I think I've heard everything we need to hear. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.360 I don't think I could stand to hear another thing. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.600 So I think I'm allergic to the same thing asn't. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.920 Let's uh, let's come back. We'll ask Justin what's going 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.000 on in his life, why he hasn't reached out to you, 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:23.720 and what he was allergic to, and we come back. 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:28.440 That's the number one thing. A gift, the gift, all 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.240 of it. We'll figure it out with your second date 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:31.400 update right after this. 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:34.320 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date update. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.240 If you're just joining us, we have a self professed 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.360 love bomber on the show with us today. 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:41.600 Hey, she knows who she is. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:45.280 Her name is Paulina, and she's not getting a callback 0:07:45.320 --> 0:07:51.160 from her possible soulmate Justin. Now, on the surface, you 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:55.000 might think, oh well, no wonder. In the first few minutes, 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:57.680 she brought up their future dog face timed her mother 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:01.040 gave him a unique mystery gift that we don't even 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:02.280 know what it is yet. 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:03.760 She even named the dog microwave. 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:07.800 Yeah, so if justin answers. The main thing I'm curious 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.680 about is probably that mystery gift. But the night did 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:14.400 end back at her place with them went back there, yeah, 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.960 trying to figure out which side of her closet his 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:22.280 clothes would go on. So overall, pretty normal first date 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.720 stuff until he said he was having an allergic reaction 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:28.280 and had to leave immediately. Yeah, no symptoms. 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.280 Yeah, he's only texted or two words since I'm okay. 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.160 Yeah, yes, and he is alive, so that's good. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:34.640 Yeah. 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:37.719 So how long has it been, Paulina since you were 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.839 at the apartment together. I was going to guess like 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:41.600 a week or so, but maybe closer to a couple 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:48.320 hours or minutes since he left three days, all right. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.320 You know, you may hear, which I don't know if 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:54.000 you've heard this before, that was maybe too much too soon. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:59.600 Are you opened to slowing down the relationship if. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.800 That's the case with him, I don't know. We've got 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:03.000 to be ourselves. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:04.360 Right, all right, So maybe it's not a good match 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:05.480 if that's how he felt. 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:07.559 Okay, let maybe she's in the hospital. 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:15.520 Yeah, why do you said there was so much hope? No? Oh, well, 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:17.440 I'm kidding. 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:19.000 Paulina kind of. 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.600 Let's just dial his number. We'll see if we can 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.400 get him on the horn and hopefully get all the 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.840 answers that you've been searching for over the last seventy 0:09:27.840 --> 0:09:31.000 two hours. Okay, thank you, all right, we got this. 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:41.960 Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Justin? 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:43.840 This is Justin. 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.240 Yeah, Hey, sounds healthy. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:49.120 You're in good health. That's great. It's really positive for 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.120 us to hear. Hey, we're a morning show. We're called 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.120 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning on the radio. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.200 Good morning, how are you. 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:01.079 I'm really happy to be talking to you. I hear 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:02.079 the story. 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:06.640 We've heard a lot about you, Justin, and I don't 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.240 know if we really want to know a whole lot more, 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.760 but we do want to dive into your personal life 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:11.520 just a little bit. 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:16.960 Okay, this is I'm sorry. This is just very awkward 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:17.559 and weird. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:20.160 Perfect. It's designed to be a little bit awkward because 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:23.360 this is called a second date update. We're hoping to 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.800 get some answers on behalf of our listener, Paulina, who 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:28.320 you went on a date with recently. 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:41.920 Okays ago, so yeah, because she's a lot a. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:46.240 Lot okay, she she did mention some of the things 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:49.840 that happened on the date, and who knows, maybe you 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:52.080 have even more to add, but let's just start with this. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:54.319 How was facetiming with her mom? 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:58.679 I would have to say very unexpected? 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.880 Unexpected because she pulled her phone out from under the 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:03.160 table and her mom was there. 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:06.400 Yes, and then I was kind of put on the spot. 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:08.680 But her mom is very nice, very sweet, so. 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.520 You could probably tell pretty early on that she was 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:15.480 super into you. Was that kind of a turn off 0:11:15.800 --> 0:11:17.480 or did you take it as more of a good 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:18.679 sign or what. 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.640 I mean? Honestly, I'll say it was kind of nice 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.319 to have a girl be that excited about me that 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:29.080 doesn't normally happen. Yeah. 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.800 Wow, had you ever gotten a present before on a 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:32.400 first date? 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:38.800 Ya? No, I can say I've never gotten a gift 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:39.760 on a first date. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.840 Okay. We have been dying to know about this gift 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:45.080 that she gave you because she wouldn't tell us what 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:47.480 it is. She said it was kind of personal and 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.440 unique and only you would be allowed to share it 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:51.640 if you wanted to. 0:11:52.440 --> 0:11:56.240 I mean, I don't know about it being personal and unique, 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:59.040 but it was a framed photo of myself. 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.680 She gave you a frame photo of you just you, Oh, just. 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:08.120 Me, and I knew the picture looked familiar. And then 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:10.600 that's when I like put the clues together that it 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.360 was my profile pick from my LinkedIn page. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:19.000 Oh and oh she took a professional headshot? 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:22.719 Yeah? What was the Was there like a card or 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:23.880 an attached meaning? 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:26.520 Nope, just printed and framed it. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:30.080 Okay, did you meet her on LinkedIn? Why was she 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:30.760 on your LinkedIn? 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:31.400 No? 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:34.040 We met. We just met on dating app. But she 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:34.599 must have. 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:36.199 You girls go to their linkedins? 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.000 How else do you check if their job is legit? 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:38.680 Yeah? 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:44.680 So okay, Well I think we're understanding why you left 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:46.880 so quickly after being over at her. 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.960 Oh, we want to know you you got all of this, 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.040 and then you still agreed to go to her apartment, Like, 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.319 so at that point you were still open to Paulina 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:57.600 and dating her. Am I right? 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.720 I mean, if I'm going back to your place, I've 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.040 got at least a curiosity about you. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:04.400 You know that's good. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:09.359 Well, you say you're curious about her, she's actually extremely 0:13:09.440 --> 0:13:13.880 curious about you, so curious that she's on the phone 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.080 right now listening into this conversation. 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.520 We're going to do it before we get theergic, before. 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:20.000 We get to the twenty minute mark, that would be 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:25.320 so let's let's just say, hey, Pauline is here. 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:32.800 Hey, not even hire you, justin, Hello, Hey, what's going on? 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:34.600 What's going on? Oh? 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:37.439 Just so, have you hear your voice? 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:38.120 You sound good? 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.520 Yeah? Yeah, feeling better? 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.959 Okay, okay, good good? 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:46.880 What did you figure out what you were allergic to? 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.240 Oh? 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:58.320 Be honest, justin I mean, okay, let me just say, okay, 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:01.360 so parts of the date, we're very fun with you, 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:05.120 and I didn't mind having a little more attention thrown 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:09.240 my way. That made me feel great. But that's awesome. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:14.480 But the reason I'm not calling, if I'm being totally 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:16.520 honest with you, is that when we were at your 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:21.720 house looking at the closet, there were some men's clothes 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:22.080 in there. 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:26.560 What what maybe she just likes to wear men's clothes 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:27.480 like it's right now. 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.920 They were like men's clothes and it wasn't. 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:36.320 Like what the deal was, Oh there's a deal. 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:39.400 Well, just because your boyfriend is on a work vacation, 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:43.280 that's uncomfortable for me. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.080 You, Paulina, you have a boyfriend. 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.560 I mean okay, First of all, I dumped some yesterday. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:50.920 The relationship was only a month. 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.440 Oh my god, he moved in and put clothes in 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:58.880 your closet just a month, Yeah, you. 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:00.880 Could move in. I was for into him and then 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:02.920 not ended. And then I met Justin and it was 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:04.360 like a million times stronger. 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:05.000 Justine, you. 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:09.200 Were on the dating apps when you were in a relationship, 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.560 I thought you were like a love bomber, like a 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:13.680 water one type of lady. 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:16.000 Sometimes I am. 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.920 What I'm hearing is that relationship is dead and done. 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.360 It wasn't dead until yesterday, it sounds like. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:26.720 But now it is. Oh god, let's not focus on 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:28.960 the past. She's free and single now. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.920 Justin, Well, I don't know, Well, how do I know 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:33.440 that you wouldn't do the same thing to me? 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.040 Absolutely, it's a. 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:39.560 Fair question, Justin, you don't because that was unpredictable. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:46.480 It's not unpredictable to log into a dating app and 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:48.400 then swipe right play a date. 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.640 I can't think of a better time to ask you too, 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:55.080 to go out on another date. Taste, it's unpredictable what 0:15:55.160 --> 0:16:01.640 anybody's gonna say. Yes, that doesn't surprise anyone, Paulina, you 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:03.040 know I will. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.920 Toss Nathan's clothes outside as soon as I get off 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:07.040 the phone and I'll wake him up. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:09.240 You're wake who up? 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:11.480 Nathan. I'm going to kick him out right now. 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:14.320 Your boyfriend is still in the house. 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:17.760 He's your boyfriend. Then, Paulina just remembering now her mom 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:19.000 still met him even though she shirty? 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:19.200 Has it? 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:20.920 Okay? 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.960 Yeah, Nathan, Nathan never met my mother. 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:29.760 Oh wow, stop talking about the boyfriend in your apartment 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.600 right now? Ex boyfriend, how do you know that, Jeff, 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:33.600 He's still there. 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.160 And he can't hear any of this happening. 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:38.760 So I'm dumb, Kim yesterday, he just needed a couple 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:39.560 of days to get out. 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:41.320 That's fair. That's nice of you to give him a 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:43.680 roof over his while he figures out his new life. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:46.400 So now we're back to you, Justin. Would you like 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:47.960 to see Paulina one more time? 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.960 I'm gonna politely, I'm gonna politely thing. 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:55.840 No, be polite about this, Okay, it's a no for now. 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:59.800 For now. I think it's a no for the people future. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.560 So a week or two, Like, how long is the future? 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:07.240 A lot longer than I think Paulina thinks? 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:11.440 So okay, can you just make just a blanketed rule 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:14.400 that if you have a man currently sleeping in your bed. 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:16.520 You're not allowed to call our show for a second 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:17.600 date with another man. 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:20.040 That's actually a stupid rule. 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:23.760 Yeah, let's have some fun on this show. Brooke a 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.800 lot of people to call with other people in their beds. 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.919 Let's get the show ratings bumped up for ones here 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:34.520 give me a headache, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.040 five bucks says. Paulina calls us back in the next 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:41.960 week for an awkward Tuesday with her ex Nathan, saying 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:43.040 he won't leave her house. 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:43.920 Yeah. 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:45.720 No, wait, she doesn't have another option. She's going to 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:47.359 be back together with him, Are you kidding? 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:47.440 Me? 0:17:47.680 --> 0:17:49.440 Back together and then broken up and then back together 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:50.160 multiple times. 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:51.399 This when we can't be single. 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:53.920 It did shot the entire room to find out our 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:57.440 love bomber was bombing more than one target. So she's 0:17:57.480 --> 0:17:59.120 like a love carpet bomber in a way. 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:02.240 Yeah, Like it was all so much for me. Yeah, 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:04.640 she was just a cheater, jeff I think is what 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:05.680 we can call her. 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:07.720 Yeah, but she's only dating these guys for like a 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:10.440 couple of weeks. It's hard to say that you're even 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:11.400 cheating at that point. 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:13.399 How does she have so many options? Just moving in. 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.280 Is the red all like that hard? Maybe that's her 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:18.159 apartment's really nice? Yeah, that should be. 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:21.920