1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: All right, here it is your brand new episode today. 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey. Thanks for funding our Second Date podcast. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: We appreciate it. We got a self proclaimed love bomber 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: one day, she's coming in hot, all right, every day 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: that they admit it. Yeah, we're gonna get to that 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: beforest comments. 7 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, this almost cute, Jenny said, O MG, did you 8 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: guys really encourage to do a shout out for your band? 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: I've been listening obsessively from the Netherlands for about a 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: year now, and you guys have inspired a song I've 11 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: written about dating or basically the fact that I've given 12 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: up on dating at this point. Oh well, it's called 13 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 2: love is such a big word by Jenny Janine. It's 14 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:38,959 Speaker 2: on Spotify and it'd be a dream to know what 15 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: you guys think, and I'll dent it to you guys 16 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 2: on our next show. 17 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: We're gonna go listen. 18 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 3: Yea. 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 4: Even better, I'm gonna fly to the Netherlands and tell 20 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 4: you exactly how I feel about it. 21 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: Well, we'll go to a concert. Yeah, he's just showing 22 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: up at Jenny's house. Yeah, be careful of what you 23 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: wish for, Jenny. Okay, let's get you a brand new 24 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: episode right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second 25 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: date updates. 26 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 4: It's nice to have people who are self aware in 27 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 4: the dating world. 28 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: Oh yes, very few and far between. 29 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 4: I think, at least with our listeners, and sometimes they 30 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 4: know immediately when they made a mistake or if they 31 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 4: crossed a boundary. They might even know their own love language, 32 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 4: like mine personally is camouflaged inflatables. What I'm self aware? 33 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: I don't think that's one of the six or seven. 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: I took a different test than all this duff. 35 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, who says you're limited to like the five ones 36 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 4: that are written down in the book. 37 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: Why does it creep me out now that you're wearing 38 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: a chemo? 39 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: But I only bring it up because one of our 40 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 4: listeners emailed us. Her name's Paulina, and she admits that 41 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: she is a self professed love bomber. Oh, the recent 42 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: bombing was on full display during her first date the 43 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 4: other night. I am very eager to learn about it. So, Paulina, 44 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 4: welcome to the show. 45 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: Hello, Thank you for having me here. 46 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 4: Guys. 47 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm so curious to hear her level of love. Yeah, 48 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 6: because there's like a really fine line between it being 49 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 6: awesome that you're expressing yourself and then being way too much. 50 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, okay, well we'll find out where you are 51 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 4: on the spectrum of love bombing. But what's the guy's name? 52 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 3: Okay? His name is Justin? 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: Oh you even say it like you yeah, excited? 54 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: I feel it? So tell us about Justin? 55 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 3: All right? 56 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 5: Well, we had a nice date. We meant for just 57 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 5: like a simple meal. 58 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: You know, just is this dinner? Is this lunch? 59 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 3: It was? 60 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 5: It was lunch okay, yeah, casual? 61 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 3: You know, so I know within. 62 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 5: Thirty seconds of meeting a person how I feel I do. 63 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 4: There's science behind that, though, there really is. 64 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: But are your feelings right? 65 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: Actually? 66 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 4: Who's to say these feelings are right and wrong? 67 00:02:59,600 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 3: Bro? 68 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 4: She's feeling a feeling. What's wrong with that? 69 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: It's just like thirty seconds is. 70 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 5: Guys, don't get me wrong. Connecting with him online? You know. 71 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 5: I wasn't expecting that, you know, I was like, whoa okay, 72 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 5: so we started like going deep quickly? 73 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: Wow, what does that look like for you? Like, what 74 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: do you mean deep? 75 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 3: Okay? 76 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 5: I even said I can already picture our future dog. 77 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 5: He's brown and his name is Microwave Microwave. 78 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 3: Micro for sure. 79 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 5: But he's a big dog, so it's ironic micro for 80 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 5: a dog. 81 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: It's better than picturing your future kids. Like that's at 82 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: her statement for sure. 83 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 4: What is Justin's reaction to that? 84 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 5: He laughed. He laughed. 85 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 7: I don't know if he thought. 86 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 3: I was being serious, but I was. 87 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 5: Oh, that's okay, okay, guys, this is how much we clicked, 88 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 5: Like before we even ordered. He was facetiming with my mom. 89 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 4: Whoa, oh yo, that is awesome. Yeah, good, goody good, 90 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 4: very nice. Wait, how did that happen? Did your mom 91 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 4: call you? 92 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 5: I surprising with it. I dialed her under the table, under. 93 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: The table, Oh. 94 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,600 Speaker 4: Girl, that's yeah, that's how I would want to me. 95 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 1: Did she like him though, I mean she loved him. 96 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 3: Oh, you loved him too. 97 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: How long was the face time? Yeah, your mom and 98 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: your Oh it. 99 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 5: Was just a couple of minutes. It was just, you know, 100 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 5: fun banter between me and him and mom, and it was. 101 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 4: Like, what, okay, so so far we're ten minutes into 102 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 4: the date you have planned getting a dog together. He's 103 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: met your mom in a surprise video chat. 104 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: Remember this is all mid day, Jeff. 105 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 4: We're in the middle of the day. Yeah, a lunch date. 106 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 4: I'm scared to ask what happens after ten minutes? 107 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: Did you slow things down a little bit for the 108 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: rest of the. 109 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 5: Day, I mean slow things down And that's how I roll. 110 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 3: You know. 111 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,559 Speaker 5: I gave him a little I gave him a little unique. 112 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 4: Oh, you brought a gift with you. 113 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 5: It's kind of a personal thing. I don't want to 114 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 5: say what it was, but if you get him on 115 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 5: the phone, he can say it. 116 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: Okay, what did he say when you handed it to him? 117 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 5: He didn't say anything. 118 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: Is I just got real big? 119 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh? I can't wait to hear. 120 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 4: Okay, maybe we should fast forward through the lunch. 121 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 5: Okay, we had a great lunch. 122 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 3: Is tasty? 123 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 4: Okay? Good. 124 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 5: We were just shooting back and forth. You know, we 125 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 5: were already talking about the subjects of relationship, right because 126 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 5: we're on a date. And I said, Hey, are you 127 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 5: a lefty or alrighty when it comes to closets? 128 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 4: What does that mean? 129 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 130 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 3: Well? You know, like how if. 131 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 5: You're like, if you're moving together, like, are you going 132 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 5: to share a closet? Can be fifty to fifty? Are 133 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 5: they a LEFTI or a righty? 134 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 4: Ah? These are the important questions. That do need to 135 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 4: be asked on the first date? I do agree. 136 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: Did he answer that question? 137 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 5: He had no idea, he said, no one has ever 138 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 5: asked me that. 139 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 4: Wow. 140 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 5: I said, let's go back to my place and look 141 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 5: look at the closet. 142 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: Wait did he go back? He went back. 143 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: We went back to my house. 144 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 4: It's not the usual invitation most guys get to go 145 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 4: back to someone's place, but it worked. 146 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: I thought he wouldn't be into it. But maybe we're 147 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: reading this wrong. 148 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, what did he What did he think about the closet? 149 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 5: You know, I showed him the closet and we were 150 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 5: just you know, I was lashing and it was funny. 151 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 3: And then he like he. 152 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 5: Started having this like severe allergic reaction. 153 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 6: Oh oh god, yeah, he said, He's like, I think 154 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 6: I have to go And well, yeah. 155 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: Did he show any signs of allergic reaction like puffy lip, 156 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: rat or rat? He started looking just like agitated, like 157 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: uncomfortable a little bit. 158 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean. 159 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 5: I do use a specific could be a cleaner. I 160 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 5: had just cleaned the house. Who knows. 161 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Did you send him a lot of follow up texts 162 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: and calls to check on his well? 163 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: Oh? 164 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 5: Of course followed up with him. Yeah, of course, Oh 165 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 5: my god, IM sure he's okay? 166 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: Did he answer? 167 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 5: I'm okay? 168 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 3: Very short though, very short. 169 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 4: Okay. I think I've heard everything we need to hear. 170 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 4: I don't think I could stand to hear another thing. 171 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: So I think I'm allergic to the same thing asn't. 172 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 4: Let's uh, let's come back. We'll ask Justin what's going 173 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: on in his life, why he hasn't reached out to you, 174 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 4: and what he was allergic to, and we come back. 175 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 4: That's the number one thing. A gift, the gift, all 176 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 4: of it. We'll figure it out with your second date 177 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 4: update right after this. 178 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date update. 179 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 4: If you're just joining us, we have a self professed 180 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 4: love bomber on the show with us today. 181 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: Hey, she knows who she is. 182 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 4: Her name is Paulina, and she's not getting a callback 183 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 4: from her possible soulmate Justin. Now, on the surface, you 184 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: might think, oh well, no wonder. In the first few minutes, 185 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 4: she brought up their future dog face timed her mother 186 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 4: gave him a unique mystery gift that we don't even 187 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 4: know what it is yet. 188 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: She even named the dog microwave. 189 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, so if justin answers. The main thing I'm curious 190 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 4: about is probably that mystery gift. But the night did 191 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 4: end back at her place with them went back there, yeah, 192 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 4: trying to figure out which side of her closet his 193 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 4: clothes would go on. So overall, pretty normal first date 194 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 4: stuff until he said he was having an allergic reaction 195 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 4: and had to leave immediately. Yeah, no symptoms. 196 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's only texted or two words since I'm okay. 197 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, and he is alive, so that's good. 198 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 199 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:37,719 Speaker 4: So how long has it been, Paulina since you were 200 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 4: at the apartment together. I was going to guess like 201 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 4: a week or so, but maybe closer to a couple 202 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 4: hours or minutes since he left three days, all right. 203 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: You know, you may hear, which I don't know if 204 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: you've heard this before, that was maybe too much too soon. 205 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: Are you opened to slowing down the relationship if. 206 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 5: That's the case with him, I don't know. We've got 207 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 5: to be ourselves. 208 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: Right, all right, So maybe it's not a good match 209 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: if that's how he felt. 210 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 5: Okay, let maybe she's in the hospital. 211 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, why do you said there was so much hope? No? Oh, well, 212 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 4: I'm kidding. 213 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 3: Paulina kind of. 214 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 4: Let's just dial his number. We'll see if we can 215 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 4: get him on the horn and hopefully get all the 216 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 4: answers that you've been searching for over the last seventy 217 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 4: two hours. Okay, thank you, all right, we got this. 218 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Justin? 219 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: This is Justin. 220 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, sounds healthy. 221 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 4: You're in good health. That's great. It's really positive for 222 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 4: us to hear. Hey, we're a morning show. We're called 223 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning on the radio. 224 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 3: Good morning, how are you. 225 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: I'm really happy to be talking to you. I hear 226 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 1: the story. 227 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 4: We've heard a lot about you, Justin, and I don't 228 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 4: know if we really want to know a whole lot more, 229 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 4: but we do want to dive into your personal life 230 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 4: just a little bit. 231 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 3: Okay, this is I'm sorry. This is just very awkward 232 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 3: and weird. 233 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 4: Perfect. It's designed to be a little bit awkward because 234 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 4: this is called a second date update. We're hoping to 235 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 4: get some answers on behalf of our listener, Paulina, who 236 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 4: you went on a date with recently. 237 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 3: Okays ago, so yeah, because she's a lot a. 238 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 4: Lot okay, she she did mention some of the things 239 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 4: that happened on the date, and who knows, maybe you 240 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 4: have even more to add, but let's just start with this. 241 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,319 Speaker 4: How was facetiming with her mom? 242 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 3: I would have to say very unexpected? 243 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 4: Unexpected because she pulled her phone out from under the 244 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: table and her mom was there. 245 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 3: Yes, and then I was kind of put on the spot. 246 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 3: But her mom is very nice, very sweet, so. 247 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 4: You could probably tell pretty early on that she was 248 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 4: super into you. Was that kind of a turn off 249 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 4: or did you take it as more of a good 250 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 4: sign or what. 251 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: I mean? Honestly, I'll say it was kind of nice 252 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 3: to have a girl be that excited about me that 253 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 3: doesn't normally happen. Yeah. 254 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: Wow, had you ever gotten a present before on a 255 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: first date? 256 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 3: Ya? No, I can say I've never gotten a gift 257 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 3: on a first date. 258 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 4: Okay. We have been dying to know about this gift 259 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 4: that she gave you because she wouldn't tell us what 260 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 4: it is. She said it was kind of personal and 261 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 4: unique and only you would be allowed to share it 262 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 4: if you wanted to. 263 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know about it being personal and unique, 264 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 3: but it was a framed photo of myself. 265 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 1: She gave you a frame photo of you just you, Oh, just. 266 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 3: Me, and I knew the picture looked familiar. And then 267 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 3: that's when I like put the clues together that it 268 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 3: was my profile pick from my LinkedIn page. 269 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 2: Oh and oh she took a professional headshot? 270 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: Yeah? What was the Was there like a card or 271 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: an attached meaning? 272 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: Nope, just printed and framed it. 273 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 4: Okay, did you meet her on LinkedIn? Why was she 274 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 4: on your LinkedIn? 275 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 5: No? 276 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 3: We met. We just met on dating app. But she 277 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:34,599 Speaker 3: must have. 278 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 4: You girls go to their linkedins? 279 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: How else do you check if their job is legit? 280 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 5: Yeah? 281 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 4: So okay, Well I think we're understanding why you left 282 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 4: so quickly after being over at her. 283 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: Oh, we want to know you you got all of this, 284 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: and then you still agreed to go to her apartment, Like, 285 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: so at that point you were still open to Paulina 286 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: and dating her. Am I right? 287 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 3: I mean, if I'm going back to your place, I've 288 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 3: got at least a curiosity about you. 289 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 4: You know that's good. 290 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:09,359 Speaker 7: Well, you say you're curious about her, she's actually extremely 291 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 7: curious about you, so curious that she's on the phone 292 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 7: right now listening into this conversation. 293 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: We're going to do it before we get theergic, before. 294 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 4: We get to the twenty minute mark, that would be 295 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 4: so let's let's just say, hey, Pauline is here. 296 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 3: Hey, not even hire you, justin, Hello, Hey, what's going on? 297 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 3: What's going on? Oh? 298 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 4: Just so, have you hear your voice? 299 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 5: You sound good? 300 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, feeling better? 301 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, good good? 302 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 4: What did you figure out what you were allergic to? 303 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 5: Oh? 304 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 3: Be honest, justin I mean, okay, let me just say, okay, 305 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 3: so parts of the date, we're very fun with you, 306 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 3: and I didn't mind having a little more attention thrown 307 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 3: my way. That made me feel great. But that's awesome. 308 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 3: But the reason I'm not calling, if I'm being totally 309 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 3: honest with you, is that when we were at your 310 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: house looking at the closet, there were some men's clothes 311 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 3: in there. 312 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: What what maybe she just likes to wear men's clothes 313 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: like it's right now. 314 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 3: They were like men's clothes and it wasn't. 315 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: Like what the deal was, Oh there's a deal. 316 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 3: Well, just because your boyfriend is on a work vacation, 317 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 3: that's uncomfortable for me. 318 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 4: You, Paulina, you have a boyfriend. 319 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 5: I mean okay, First of all, I dumped some yesterday. 320 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 5: The relationship was only a month. 321 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, he moved in and put clothes in 322 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: your closet just a month, Yeah, you. 323 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 5: Could move in. I was for into him and then 324 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 5: not ended. And then I met Justin and it was 325 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 5: like a million times stronger. 326 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 3: Justine, you. 327 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: Were on the dating apps when you were in a relationship, 328 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: I thought you were like a love bomber, like a 329 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: water one type of lady. 330 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:16,000 Speaker 3: Sometimes I am. 331 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 4: What I'm hearing is that relationship is dead and done. 332 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: It wasn't dead until yesterday, it sounds like. 333 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 4: But now it is. Oh god, let's not focus on 334 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 4: the past. She's free and single now. 335 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 3: Justin, Well, I don't know, Well, how do I know 336 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 3: that you wouldn't do the same thing to me? 337 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely, it's a. 338 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 5: Fair question, Justin, you don't because that was unpredictable. 339 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: It's not unpredictable to log into a dating app and 340 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: then swipe right play a date. 341 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 4: I can't think of a better time to ask you too, 342 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 4: to go out on another date. Taste, it's unpredictable what 343 00:15:55,160 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 4: anybody's gonna say. Yes, that doesn't surprise anyone, Paulina, you 344 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 4: know I will. 345 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 5: Toss Nathan's clothes outside as soon as I get off 346 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 5: the phone and I'll wake him up. 347 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: You're wake who up? 348 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 5: Nathan. I'm going to kick him out right now. 349 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 4: Your boyfriend is still in the house. 350 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: He's your boyfriend. Then, Paulina just remembering now her mom 351 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: still met him even though she shirty? 352 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 4: Has it? 353 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: Okay? 354 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, Nathan, Nathan never met my mother. 355 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: Oh wow, stop talking about the boyfriend in your apartment 356 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: right now? Ex boyfriend, how do you know that, Jeff, 357 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: He's still there. 358 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 4: And he can't hear any of this happening. 359 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 5: So I'm dumb, Kim yesterday, he just needed a couple 360 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 5: of days to get out. 361 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 4: That's fair. That's nice of you to give him a 362 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 4: roof over his while he figures out his new life. 363 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 4: So now we're back to you, Justin. Would you like 364 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 4: to see Paulina one more time? 365 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna politely, I'm gonna politely thing. 366 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: No, be polite about this, Okay, it's a no for now. 367 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 3: For now. I think it's a no for the people future. 368 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 4: So a week or two, Like, how long is the future? 369 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 3: A lot longer than I think Paulina thinks? 370 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: So okay, can you just make just a blanketed rule 371 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: that if you have a man currently sleeping in your bed. 372 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: You're not allowed to call our show for a second 373 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: date with another man. 374 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 5: That's actually a stupid rule. 375 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's have some fun on this show. Brooke a 376 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 4: lot of people to call with other people in their beds. 377 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,919 Speaker 4: Let's get the show ratings bumped up for ones here 378 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 4: give me a headache, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, 379 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 4: five bucks says. Paulina calls us back in the next 380 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 4: week for an awkward Tuesday with her ex Nathan, saying 381 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 4: he won't leave her house. 382 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 383 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: No, wait, she doesn't have another option. She's going to 384 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: be back together with him, Are you kidding? 385 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 3: Me? 386 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 4: Back together and then broken up and then back together 387 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 4: multiple times. 388 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 1: This when we can't be single. 389 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 4: It did shot the entire room to find out our 390 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 4: love bomber was bombing more than one target. So she's 391 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,120 Speaker 4: like a love carpet bomber in a way. 392 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was all so much for me. Yeah, 393 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 1: she was just a cheater, jeff I think is what 394 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: we can call her. 395 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, but she's only dating these guys for like a 396 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 4: couple of weeks. It's hard to say that you're even 397 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 4: cheating at that point. 398 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: How does she have so many options? Just moving in. 399 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: Is the red all like that hard? Maybe that's her 400 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: apartment's really nice? Yeah, that should be. 401 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 4: Love Bombing is extremely effective. You should try it sometimes. 402 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 4: I just don't see her as someone who's ever going 403 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 4: to have a totally clean break from a guy. Ever. 404 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 1: I see her as someone who's going to be back 405 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: on the show. I think that first person is correct. 406 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 4: That's good news for us. We need more content and 407 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 4: if you want to hear more Second Date updates, you 408 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,440 Speaker 4: can follow us. Go on to your podcast platform, whichever 409 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 4: one you do, Apple, Spotify, where you get yours. It's 410 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.