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Speaker 1: What time is it?

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Speaker 2: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Nell and Syracuse says, my husband and I

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Speaker 2: are renovating our bathroom and he refuses to get us

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Speaker 2: a hotel room. He goes to the bathroom in the backyard.

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Speaker 2: But I can't do that, especially at night. I want

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Speaker 2: a nice shower and a toilet, and I don't want

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Speaker 2: to stay with his mother in her tiny, little dirty house.

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Speaker 2: Should I use my credit card and get a room?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes you sure, wife man, Yes

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Speaker 3: you should, and he will deal with it.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Marjorie has taught me a very, very valuable lesson that

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Speaker 3: I never knew. Her philosophy is I would rather ask

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Speaker 3: for forgiveness than to ask for permission.

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Speaker 2: A permission.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had to live with that, uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And it's actually a better way to live because after

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Speaker 3: she do it, I just don't even it's done.

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Speaker 1: It's right. What can you do, honey?

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Speaker 2: Forgive me? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Because they ask you, what does it sound like

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Speaker 3: when they say forgive me, honey, you go I ain't.

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Speaker 4: Boy, boy, if.

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Speaker 2: You want to forgiveness, you will give.

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Speaker 3: Us our truspasses, as we forgive those who trespass against her.

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Speaker 4: That's the Lawd's prayer. It was in steel for moments

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Speaker 4: just like.

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Speaker 2: That, because you know you're gonna do something that you

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Speaker 2: need forgiveness for. All right. Moving on to Karen in

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Speaker 2: Saint Louis, Karen says, I'm a thirty three year old

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Speaker 2: single woman and I met a man that lives.

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Speaker 1: With his ex wife.

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Speaker 2: He's thirty six, no children, and he has been divorced

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Speaker 2: one year. He said it's his house and he's letting

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Speaker 2: her stay temporarily. When I went to visit him, it

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Speaker 2: appeared to be the other way around. Why is he

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Speaker 2: still living with his ex is?

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Speaker 4: It's weird because he ain't got no money. He lying

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Speaker 4: because he ain't got no money. Now, if you went

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Speaker 4: went to the house.

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Speaker 3: And it appears the other way around, it's because he

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Speaker 3: ain't got no money. M hm, he don't have money.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to flat out, he ain't got no money.

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Speaker 3: I might finished stay with their eccent over the Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I live in my car. I stay down and be home.

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Speaker 3: Before I do that, I promise you I'll be sitting

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Speaker 3: up in a shelter. Yeah, before I'll do that.

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Speaker 4: And he ain't got no money.

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Speaker 3: And then when you went over there, it appeared like

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Speaker 3: he was living in her house. That's because when they

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Speaker 3: was married, it was her house, just like in most marriages.

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Speaker 3: So what it's supposed to look like she decorated the house.

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Speaker 3: She ain't going nowhere. He ain't got no money.

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Speaker 2: He just lied to Karen so he could get He

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Speaker 2: didn't lie to him. Well, what was it lie? Really? Well,

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Speaker 2: the line was, it's his house and he's letting her

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Speaker 2: stay temporarily.

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Speaker 1: Be ex there you go, Yeah, it.

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Speaker 3: Was his house at one point. Fix it. No, he's

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Speaker 3: not lying, And y'all stopped trying to make me in

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Speaker 3: lie all the time.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you, I'll tell you what'll be lying.

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Speaker 2: I think you've done a pretty good job about yourself, sir.

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Speaker 2: All right, Corey and Newark says, I'm a twenty eight

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Speaker 2: year old single woman and I've had a few good

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Speaker 2: dates with a new guy. I went to his house

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Speaker 2: for dinner and he turned on porn. He said he

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Speaker 2: was joking and then switched it to Netflix. Was he

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Speaker 2: testing me to.

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Speaker 1: See what kind of woman I am?

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Speaker 3: Of course, of course there was a test if you

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Speaker 3: sit there and liked it. It's jackpot. Yeah. If you protest,

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Speaker 3: I'm joking, don't go gwaven watch that. But he showed

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Speaker 3: headed cube up though, didn't it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh and he's done this before. That's a move of his. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because some dude, the man. What you do is when

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Speaker 3: they come over, you had that porn on and hit

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Speaker 3: press plate and if they get into it. Sometimes, man,

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Speaker 3: if they be right there, they be game for it.

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Speaker 4: You know. Oh man, I'm gonna try that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody tried and told it to it or he's

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Speaker 3: done it before in his work, one of the two.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, it was a test.

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Speaker 2: Dinner and peorn okay, yeah, all right in a movie, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: dinner in a movie. All right, moving on, this is

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Speaker 2: our last one see Patty in the Bay Areas as

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Speaker 2: I'm fifty two years old, I'm single. I wanted me

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Speaker 2: a handsome, financially stable man with a nice sized package.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think those men exist anymore because I

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Speaker 2: run into some runts in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Is it crash to ask a man if he's packing what?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: That is because now, and I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 3: it just seems like that's so high up on your

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Speaker 3: list of things. And so now once you ask a

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Speaker 3: man is he packing? What you wanted to say?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not. He could not.

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Speaker 3: Now let me, I promise you that's gonna be a

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Speaker 3: lot well because if he ain't who you know?

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Speaker 4: Excuse me? You packing a little bit sometime?

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Speaker 1: You know that's my favorite?

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Speaker 4: You know, you know you know? Let me ask you?

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Speaker 4: What is you used to?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to figure out how do you open

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Speaker 2: that conversation up?

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Speaker 4: What you know?

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Speaker 3: I'm you know, you know, go ahead, sure to ask

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Speaker 3: me a couple of times. I'm gonna show you different some.

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Speaker 1: Different res Oh, hi, how are you nice to meet you?

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Speaker 1: I have a quick question for you. Are you packing?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: I ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't mean for a trip. I don't mean

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Speaker 1: for a trip.

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Speaker 3: No what what?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Am I am I packing?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: As far as your size go.

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Speaker 4: No, I've been waiting.

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Speaker 3: I've been I've been waiting on my good license. I

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Speaker 3: don't carry until I get take good.

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Speaker 1: I think you're misunderstanding me.

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Speaker 4: Go ahead, what did you say?

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Speaker 2: You know I'm a very like sexual person, so I

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Speaker 2: want to know you know, what's happening down there?

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Speaker 1: Are you know.

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Speaker 4: What's going on? Oh? Am I packing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Are you packing?

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Speaker 4: Well, that ain't the job. I'm a driver at the

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Speaker 4: meat packing plan. I don't want to do packing. I drive.

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Speaker 2: No, no, baby, I don't think you understand.

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Speaker 1: That's when I'm trying to ask.

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Speaker 4: You, well you want to go out or what? What's

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Speaker 4: what's my sign?

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Speaker 1: No that, what's your sign? What's your size?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you. Oh, look at the time, we gotta go.

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Speaker 2: Maybe next time you're listening Hard Morning show