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Speaker 1: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Heh man,

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Speaker 1: back in business too, Man, Man, How good is God?

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Speaker 1: I mean, really, if you think about it in spite

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Speaker 1: And I've just had to have this conversation with myself

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Speaker 1: When a challenge faces you, are you going through a

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Speaker 1: Gratitude is a powerful resource if you can be grateful

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Speaker 1: when it's dim for you and got a little bumpy

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Speaker 1: You gotta be grateful for the things that are going

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Speaker 1: share that with you? Man? Is that a tough one

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Speaker 1: to learn? It is for me. It has been one

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Speaker 1: grateful because it's a powerful resource, but how to be

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Speaker 1: See here's a mistake I would make. See when something

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Speaker 1: this is bad, man, I can't believe this is happening.

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Speaker 1: Why just keep going down? That doesn't fix anything? You know,

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Speaker 1: My first weapon of choice was you do it to me,

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Speaker 1: it's not my business to make sure you don't get

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Speaker 1: I've chosen prayer as as my weapon of choice now

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Speaker 1: when it happens ugly for me, I pray about it.

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Speaker 1: When it gets tight and dismal for me, I pray

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Speaker 1: changes things. Yes, it does. Now read about it and

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Speaker 1: a wonderful weapon. You're listening show, ladies and gentlemen. It

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Speaker 1: Alive and well, walk too, want to beat. I know

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Speaker 1: your altitude. Get your tube together, man, this is the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show, Charley Strawberry, Colin Pharrell, Mouth of

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Speaker 1: the South, Mississippi, Monica. That bars back, Junior and ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, yours truly, Junior. What's on your mind today? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Where you been? Junior? Let's let's ask him the question.

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Speaker 1: Where you've been? Do I have to tell you? Yeah? No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you know what. I understand what you're saying. Um, hey, family, listen,

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Speaker 1: I got yeah, Julie, you did what? I got married?

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Speaker 1: Herd No, no, not, he not here to do, Julie. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then let me see. I know the fines. You

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Speaker 1: know I paid them all. Yeah, I paid them all

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Speaker 1: at three hundred thousand dollars when that hurt. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: know all the prices. But each word of the fanity.

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Speaker 1: time now to run that prank back with Steve. What

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Speaker 1: you and Tommy been out. You know, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: you announced it, said, make your announcement, Shirley. All right,

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Speaker 1: it is time now to run that prank back with Steve.

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Speaker 1: I was raising that church. Man, My mamma go to

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Speaker 1: Now I don't. I don't got the answer to these questions.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that it wasn't me.

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Speaker 1: What the damn? You just got a prank? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: his name is brother, uh brother Lawrence, Lawrence Lawrence. Oh

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Speaker 1: my Larry called Larry, but law Larry, Larry in trouble

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Speaker 1: with me. Hi, Man, I got one more thing that

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Speaker 1: So now, why are you calling me to ask me

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Speaker 1: that's when you got to start throwing grease on the

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, what dog needed to do? He needs to

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Speaker 1: go the hall apartment, said over the Hu. He is

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00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: definitely out. He back at a relative's house. You made

423
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,239
Speaker 1: Fried Cook that money right there, I'm telling you right

424
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: now that was Let me see what that was? A dollar?

425
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: I think that was a dollar or sixty five, But

426
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 1: that was back then. Wage is higher now everything else

427
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: I do not. I do not relative house. All right, Well,

428
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: moving on, I guess Bailey and Tacoma said. My older

429
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: sister had a pool party last weekend and we all

430
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 1: got drunk. My sister's husband kissed me, and my little

431
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: sister saw it, and she told my mom what happened.

432
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: My older sister had a pool party last weekend. We

433
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: all got drunk. My sister's husband kissed me, and my

434
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: little sister saw it and told my mom My, Mama

435
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: is upset and said, I've got to tell my sister

436
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: about her husband. Should I really do that? From Bailey,

437
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: y'all got drunk. I would let that go. M I

438
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: would let that go and tell mom stay out of it. Mama.

439
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: Problem is if she let the sister's husband kiss her,

440
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 1: which I don't hear nothing about. No fight at the pool.

441
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: I didn't hear no. I snatched and fell into water,

442
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: We knocked over the bobby que. I didn't hear none

443
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: of that. So she might have fell into his arms

444
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: and really went with this. Okay, Mama, all right, thank you.

445
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: Cielo coming up at the top of the hour, we'll

446
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening.

447
00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: Shot kaZulu. That name may sound familiar to a lot

448
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: of people. Shakazulu is a long time music executive and

449
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: manager of rapper Ludicrous. He's been charged with murder, aggravated assault,

450
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: simple battery, and possession of a firearm during the commission

451
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: of a felony. According to arrest warrants, Shakazulu, whose real

452
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: name is Ahmed Obafemi is accused of fatally shooting a

453
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: twenty three year old man in the chest, grazing another

454
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: man in the leg, and assaulting a third man by

455
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: slamming his head against a window outside of apartment for

456
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: B restaurant in Atlanta. This happened back in June. Fifty

457
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: two year old Zulu turned himself in last week and

458
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: posted a two hundred thousand dollars bond. That same day,

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00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: Zulu and another man were both shot in the back,

460
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: but Zulu is the only arrest made in this case.

461
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: Zulu's lawyer issued this statement saying a close review of

462
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: all the evidence, including the surveillance footage and eyewitness interviews,

463
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: reveals that mister Zulu was attacked and jumped from behind

464
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: by a gang of at least four individuals, sadly including

465
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: the decedent, and was forced to defend himself after this

466
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: gang repeatedly stomped, punched, and kicked him while he was

467
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: on the ground in a defenseless posture. Mister Zulu was

468
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: shot in the back during the shooting and nearly lost

469
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: his life and is still recovering from the nearly fatal injuries.

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00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: He sustained that evening It is not lost on mister

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00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: Zulu that someone lost his life. But had mister Zulu

472
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: not lawfully defended himself, mister Zulu would have been killed

473
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: that night. Soah, that's a lot. And yeah, that's a

474
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: whole lot. That's really too bad because I've known this

475
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: brother for a number of years. Man, he's just always

476
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: been just a fine business man, a great guy man.

477
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: So I wish you well a whole His attorney is

478
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: correct with all this footage, that doesn't stop charges from

479
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: coming in. We have to remember something. Just because a

480
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: person's charge don't mean he's guilty, right, I mean, you know,

481
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: if this attorney's statements are true or remotely true, that

482
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: could be a cause for self defence. I just don't

483
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: see this guy walk around, uh, initiated a crime violence,

484
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: That's not shocking. We all know him. He's a standard guy,

485
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: philanthropy working on the city of Atlanta. He cares about

486
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: the community. This track record is pretty good. Yeah, yeah,

487
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: it's a good guy, all right. Yeah, So we'll keep

488
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: you posted on what happens and develops in this story.

489
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: Um and switching gears now. Earlier, Um, you know we

490
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: mentioned that Junior have been out for a week shirltte.

491
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: Your announcement is not the way I want to get

492
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: into this one shot. Polight, surely it's such a it's

493
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: wonderful this damn food and came in here this morning

494
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: and hold us I'm married now? Hell what? Yeah? Because

495
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: you remember all them questions I had been asking you.

496
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: That's what I was getting prepared for. That's why I

497
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: need to know that missed it. What happened. I was

498
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: strolling over the weekend. Over the weekend, I went down

499
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: there to the church and got married. I'm really we're

500
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: still bugging out about this. I want you to hear

501
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: high sound up over the weekend. Over the weekend, I

502
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: just you know when I got I got mad. You know,

503
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: I asked mad. Now I went you know all the

504
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: questions I was asking you. I guess that was the

505
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 1: next thing I know. Oh no, I look ding dong.

506
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm married, Junior. We we talk all the time. You

507
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: never once mentioned this to me ever, So Junior, you

508
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: are legally married right now. That's where that work is amazing.

509
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: You see your name marriage license? Boy? Who did you marry?

510
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm married? Here, I'm married. I'm married a lady that

511
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: I've been dating for a very long time, and you know,

512
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: I just I love her. I mean, it really is

513
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: just you know when she walked in that when she

514
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: walked in that chap man, you ever think I've ever

515
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: seen that's that's that was what's so amazing. And I said,

516
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: God is actually on his mission. Man, he actually did

517
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: that for him. You're not gonna go from that statement.

518
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: You think you think you know she walked in and

519
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: I ever seen she's coming down the O was just like,

520
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: you know, God, it's you know him. All of a sudden,

521
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: I'm having this realization you know who I am, you know,

522
00:33:54,600 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: in this rold In life of crime and criminology that's

523
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: coming on the heels of that last story we just heard.

524
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting the pig just trying to figure out

525
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: how God it's good to me, you know, because you know,

526
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: I felt shot myself. It was I felt like it

527
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: was a shot of love for me. You know, I

528
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: just tied it into the last story. It just felt

529
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 1: like a shot of love to me. I support you,

530
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: watch you. I hate to ask you this, junior, but

531
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: this is personal. But where she pregnant? No, no, I

532
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: too old for my friend. It was a little shot.

533
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: You ain't got any nobody. Yeah, that's no shotgun though,

534
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: you know. Congratulations, but in shock. So I know you

535
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 1: have kids. Look what a kid. I'm a husband, a father,

536
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: and a grandfather. One day I did all of that.

537
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 1: Oh you're gonna need they wait what Yeah, I've actually

538
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: and it has been missus Junior next because I got

539
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: grand Keiths. Have you heard your voice? Anybody from to

540
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: call you papa? Yeah? What hold on, mister Junior. We

541
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: gotta we gotta get the rest, he said. That's what

542
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: we have to call him. Now, all right? Coming up

543
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after Wow, we'll have more of the

544
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up. We have to talk

545
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: about this Jackson, Mississippi ongoing water crisis and what's been happening.

546
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

547
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: the Steven Show. A class action lawsuit has been brought

548
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: against the City of Jackson, Mississippi, and the city's ongoing

549
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: water crisis. It is the first federal class action lawsuits

550
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: seeking injective relief uh and monetary damages against various government

551
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:03,760
Speaker 1: and private engineer entities over the neglect, mismanagement, and maintenance

552
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: failures that led to an environmental catastrophe, leaving more than

553
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty three thousand Jackson area residents without

554
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: access to safe running water. Legal counsel representing the plane

555
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: has stated government officials are turning a blind eye to

556
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: contaminated water and letting a major American city's infrastructure crumble

557
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: into disrepair. This lawsuit seeks to bring justice and safe

558
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: clean water to the Jackson community. Jackson's boil water notice

559
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 1: was lifted almost a week ago, but many Jackson residents

560
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: are still traumatized by the lead and harmful bacteria that

561
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: may still be lurking in the water supply. Wow, I mean, yeah,

562
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: this is sad. Yeah, this really really is. Yeah. Well

563
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: the sadness of it is, this only happens in communities

564
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:03,720
Speaker 1: that are underserved, under hacks, under privilege and black period.

565
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: They don't happen nowhere else. This is what happened in Flint, Michigan. Yeah,

566
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 1: it only happens there. This don't happen in the Hamptons.

567
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: This is not gonna happen in the Prescott area in Dallas.

568
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: This won't happen in Plain Oh you know, no, this

569
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 1: won't happen in sugarloaf in Houston. It's not gonna happen.

570
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: It's well, it's a sugarloaf in Atlanta, and it's a

571
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: sugarland in Texas. This ain't gonna happen in Beverly Hill. No,

572
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: it's not. And you just have to you have to

573
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 1: just tell the truth about it. You know, everybody is

574
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 1: you know, our country as supposed to be the richest

575
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: and most opportunity, most opportunities available, and the freest country

576
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 1: of them all. That's how claim. But we find a

577
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: way to treat our people about as bad as a

578
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 1: country with that reputation can do. Now, if your country

579
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: don't have that reputation, if you led by a dictator,

580
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:16,800
Speaker 1: that's a horrible tyrant, that's you. But we're talking about

581
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: the United States of America and the fact that we

582
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: can't even fix this wobbler problem with all our resources.

583
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: So hold on, let me ask you something. We can

584
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 1: put a man in a spaceship, take him to the moon,

585
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: land him and bring him back to the same landing place.

586
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: That's what we're able to do. But we can't get

587
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,800
Speaker 1: the people in Jackson, Mississippi, some damn water. Help me

588
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 1: understand that, ready, set go help me, all right, Steve,

589
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on and switch gears here because coming

590
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll talk

591
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 1: to sister O'Dell. She was over in London and we'll

592
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: see what happened over there for the queen's funeral. We'll

593
00:38:55,480 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: see right after this. You're listening morning show, all right, So, uh,

594
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:07,240
Speaker 1: sister Odell is here. She brings us news from across

595
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: the pond. She was in England. Jesus h really convicted

596
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: sounding keep me long? Whoa he will? Yes? Gloray, good

597
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 1: morna is everyone? Hey, sister down your mon is Shirley

598
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 1: Colling Sippy Clare was happening to the water, sweetie. We're

599
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: gonna pray for you. Get it all straight for the

600
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: people's down there. Hey, junior boy morning Sis, No down

601
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: hurt you. I'd married this weekend and they don't tell nobody. Yeah, yeah,

602
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: that was dumb. How y'all today? What why don't say

603
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: that troll? The say nobody gonna say it to him,

604
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: but you tooth call h All right, that's fine with me.

605
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: They want him here phone? What's going on there? It

606
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: was well, I'm not even gonna talk to him because

607
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I'm gonna check. You're gonna check to

608
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: see if he really got married. My granddaughter works down

609
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 1: at the coat. I'm gonna call down and have her

610
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: do the art marriage license. Junior getting married, Well, he

611
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: is wearing a ring. That's that's some news. But the

612
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 1: other thing that's going on, we heard you were in England. Um,

613
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: we don't know. Did you go to the queen's funeral

614
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,799
Speaker 1: or were you over there? Yes? I went over there,

615
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: you know, me and the queen. You shall roll who

616
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: wait a minute? What? Huh? Oh? She was queen. You know,

617
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 1: she was just a white girl waiting where the queen

618
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: samy years for that. She was just a white girl.

619
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: And that's when I know them, you know, And we

620
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 1: ran for twenty years. Then when she came queen, you know,

621
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: she got all up there, you know, unless she ain't

622
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: know nobody. Then, you know, we hung out a couple

623
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: of times after that, you know, you know, I had

624
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: to quit hanger with her because she started wearing all

625
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: them different colors, you know, or with the matching hat,

626
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: you know, all that powder blue and yelling all that.

627
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: If you ain't gonna wait missionary white we can't run. No,

628
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 1: people that hang with you have to wear white tooth. Well, well,

629
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: if we hang it where as we're going. I'm a

630
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: missionary for Jeus. I ain't gonna get off of that

631
00:41:56,200 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: just because you the queen. Now you know you might

632
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: be the queen, but I'm going to see the king,

633
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 1: ain't massa? Yes? Lord? And I wanted to say also,

634
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: congratulations to the new king. Yes now yeah lord? Good? Hello?

635
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: What about sister Hotel? See who's going to be told? See? Well,

636
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: what is the true with What do you mean? I

637
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: saw him and the queen standard together. I ain't know

638
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 1: who was who? Who was? Who are you saying they

639
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: look alike? Hey, Queen, King, King, Queen Queen was confused

640
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: your majesty, Hi, your majesty or your king your majest

641
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: I didn't know what it was. You know, he's pretty particular,

642
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: is the king is. He's been throwing tantrums and firing people.

643
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: Oh you know, he've been waiting to be king for

644
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah. Oh, hen that showing his natural behind.

645
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: Now he ain't He got a nine and shoelaces and

646
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: you know you heard about making shep with pine the

647
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: middle of the night that's a heavy meal. Extra hay

648
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: into the room nine extra Hey where the people they

649
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: got fined for bringing the hand? They thought it was

650
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 1: a horse in there. She got a black horse whether

651
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 1: they thought it was hu look at the time. Okay,

652
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 1: oh y'all ain't got time for the truth. Huh. Move on.

653
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: You don't believe me, but you believe junior. Hold on

654
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: with the very married junior coming up next. You're listening.

655
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it's

656
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is I'm

657
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: not trying to run him away. We'll get into that

658
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: find out what that's all about in just a few

659
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: but right now it is time for the prank phone call.

660
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,320
Speaker 1: And guess who's in for the nephew, the newly married,

661
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: the junior. We just found out. We just found this

662
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: out today. I know that's why you were gone. Boy.

663
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: It's three days a man, it's tough one. You've been

664
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: doing it alone. What did you say? This is tough? Who? Man?

665
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 1: Three days in? Boy's pressure? Three days Yeah, man, I

666
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: need to come by the house talk to you. Three

667
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: days in after you don't need to bring that attitude

668
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:55,479
Speaker 1: over here. Three days in maybe three days in him,

669
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: wait till the third year. I tell you it's right now.

670
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: The stuff we had to argument about last night, what

671
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: what I'll tell you. I'll tell you what. I'll tell

672
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: you about it in a minute. But right now, he's

673
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 1: your prank phone call, your check bounce. Come on cat, Hello, Hello,

674
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Monica system. Monica please, who's calling?

675
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: This is brother Deshan. I'm calling. Actually I'm a member

676
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: Greater Commissionary Baptist Church. How can I help you? Calling you?

677
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: Actually about the offering? Now? Did you? I know you

678
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: paid your ties every Sunday? Okay, Now you pay the

679
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 1: Love offering as well? Right? Yes? I do? Okay, Now

680
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 1: this past Sunday. I'm looking at a check that you

681
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: left us with the bank, right right, I sure did.

682
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,439
Speaker 1: I wrote a check Sunday. Okay. Now the check, ma'am

683
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: was two hundred and fifty dollars. Am I correct? Right? Right?

684
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 1: I wrote two checks for my ties and the love offering? Right?

685
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: I wrote one for fifty for the Love offering? Okay?

686
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: Now what is this call regarding? Why are you calling me? Well?

687
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: What I wanted to tell you is that I hate

688
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: to be a bar of bad news. But you your

689
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: check that you wrote for two fifty actually has bounced.

690
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: And wait a minute, you said my check bounce for

691
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty dollars. Your check bounce. So what

692
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 1: I'm doing is calling you about recouping the two fifth

693
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: as well as you know you you cost us thirty

694
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 1: dollars in bank fees. But wait a minute, now, I

695
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: wrote two checks. I wrote a check for one hundred dollars.

696
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: Did that one bounce? I don't see to it that

697
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: that that one bounced. All I know is the one

698
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: that the love offering has bounced. What did you put

699
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: them in at the same time? Because I wrote him

700
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: at the same time. They all go in on Monday, ma'am. Now,

701
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: I didn't put them in at the same time. I've

702
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: been putting them in for the last two three years.

703
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: The problem is why would people write the name m

704
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: brother Deshaun And you was at it Sunday, I was.

705
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters, And when I was there, ma'm,

706
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 1: the problem is that I didn't put these checks in,

707
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: And I don't understand why y'all write these checks to

708
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: the tracks that they're gonna bunk. The chause a lot

709
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: of people write that good well not right? Bad checks? Well,

710
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: why one clear? Why the other one didn't clear? Maybe

711
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: you didn't have enough money for both of them to clear?

712
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: What what did you just say? Maybe you didn't have

713
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: enough money in the bank for both of them to clear.

714
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: And I don't understand why people right planning money in

715
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 1: the bank at all. My checks clear. I don't write

716
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: no rubber checks. Well, you wrote one on Sunday, and

717
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: that's the problem. How you're gonna try to give a look?

718
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: You wait a minute. I think you got me confused

719
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: with somebody else. I don't write no bad checks. You

720
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: didn't wrote that to be nice to you. I'm trying

721
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: to be nice to you. When can we expect the

722
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: two fifty plus the thirty dollars? So thirty dollars that's

723
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: the bank feeds man for the doll gonna check bouncing?

724
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: My check didn't bounce. I don't check my bank. And

725
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: if my check clear, you're gonna pay me thirty dollars

726
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: for calling me, harassing me about a two hundred and

727
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 1: fifty dollars check bounce. I don't write no Why would

728
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: you write check? What? You want to sit up in

729
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: the church and write these big number checks when you

730
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: know you ain't got it in the bank. What did

731
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 1: you say? I said, why would you write these checks

732
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: when the money ain't in? Now, let me tell you

733
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: that's one thing. I don't write no bad check. And

734
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: you got a lot of nerves calling me telling me

735
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: my check bounce, y'all. Check is the one that has bounce.

736
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: And you tell you what you do since my check bounce,

737
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: you paid them, since you got all the money, And

738
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: don't call me with this again. Hello, don't you hang

739
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: upon me no more? Why don't we gonna get this

740
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 1: two fifty and this thirty dollars? Somebody from the church

741
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: to my I wrote a bad check, I'll write, No,

742
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 1: you didn't write a bad check. I didn't write no

743
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: bad Yes, why are you calling me? Why the treasure?

744
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: Don't call me at church? The treasure is bis. I

745
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: ain't ever know the deacon called nobody about no bad check?

746
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: Your fully and thank you? You got the money I

747
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: ain't got. Who the hell is that in the background?

748
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: Who is that? For mine? Who it is? We both

749
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: go to the same church, and you're gonna call me

750
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: to my I wrote a bad check? You don't you

751
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: call me no more. And if the check bads, you paid? Okay?

752
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: He passed to know you talking like this? Do pass

753
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: to No you calling me? Can you ask for that? Look?

754
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: When are we gonna get this two hundred and eighty dollars?

755
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 1: It's what we're looking for from you. I wrote a

756
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: check for two fifty and not get two eighty. You

757
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: put the thirty dollars with it. You put two fifty

758
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: in there. It bounce. Thirty dollars cost us on bake fees.

759
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: That's two eighty. Waken the church. Expect the money. Never

760
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,359
Speaker 1: not no two eighty. You will never get to eighty.

761
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna make me come by your and my check

762
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: in But what did you say? I'm gonna do what

763
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: You're gonna make me come by your house and get

764
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: this money? Bring it on, bring it, bring it? What

765
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 1: is the address on this check? Check? I got it

766
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: off the check, bring your own. I bet you you'll

767
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 1: be limping back and I'm watching you. You bet not

768
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: be spending no money nowhere. You bet not spend nothing

769
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: until I get this two fifty plus thirty whatever I

770
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,879
Speaker 1: want to Okay, No, you you know where I am

771
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: and you don't call no more with this because my

772
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: check did not bounce. I don't see how one check

773
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: went through and the other bounce. Let me say this

774
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: to you, we cannot accept you back into the House

775
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: of the Lord no more until you are not don't

776
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: you come in the Sunday until we get coming up

777
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: in the Sunday, and I'm gonna make sure I find

778
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: you because you the person I want to see you.

779
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm gonna call the pastor right

780
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: now and asked him because I don't believe my check bounce.

781
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 1: You fuller what Let me say this before you called

782
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: pastor I got. No, I'm gonna called pastor. No, you

783
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: should have talked with pastor before you call me with

784
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: this information. I got one more thing I need to say.

785
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,439
Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to say to me. You don't

786
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: upset me with this I'm talking about I bounced a check.

787
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: You should have went to pastor before you call me

788
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: with you. I tall Pastor one I get, But I

789
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: got one more thing to say before I leave that

790
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: you're listening. What are you about to say to me?

791
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: What do you have to say now that you're gonna

792
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: pay the check? This is nephew timing from the Steve

793
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: Harvey Martin Show. You just got prayed by your girlfriend.

794
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: What did you say, baby? This isn't what did you say?

795
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: I'd say, this is nephew, Tommy, baby brother, Steve Harvey Morning.

796
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: Tell your girlfriend has pranked you. I'm gonna beat that.

797
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:24,879
Speaker 1: She just left hid her. She didn't let me ask

798
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: you one more thing though, baby? What is the baddest

799
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 1: radio show in the land, the Steve Harvey That is it?

800
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,399
Speaker 1: Your check back? That's good, hey, Julian, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

801
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: what y'all have an argument two days there about what

802
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: side of the bed? She won't now, now, I ain't,

803
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: I ain't never you know, I'm left handed. I need

804
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: to be on the left side. She said, I like

805
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:54,959
Speaker 1: sleep on the left. But I'm yeah, that will be arguing.

806
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: Who is she? Who is she? My wife? Yeah, you

807
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: don't even have the voice tones. That's what That's what

808
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: the whole thing about. Like She's like, I'm sleeping on

809
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:08,959
Speaker 1: the left side, and I think it because my tone.

810
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be aggressive with us. It didn't really work.

811
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: It didn't come back right, you know what I mean. Like, listen,

812
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: I'm sleeping on the left side. Understand me. Yeah, that

813
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: don't make nobody even roll over. Nobody, let alone get

814
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: up in the switch side. That ain't even to roll over.

815
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:29,919
Speaker 1: I hear that thing. How how do you stop? Steve?

816
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: Why did he say? Hey, Hey, I'm sleeping on the

817
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:41,240
Speaker 1: left side. I'm left handed. You hear me, I'm left handed.

818
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm on livet side. Listen it bad ain't big enough

819
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: for the two of us. Didn't move. I said this

820
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: bad ain't big enough for the two of us. We

821
00:52:55,120 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: gotta pray. Oh. Coming up next, it is the Strawberry

822
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,800
Speaker 1: Letter for today. The subject is I'm trying not to

823
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 1: run him away. We'll get into it right after this.

824
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

825
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: it's time now forward today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If

826
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,

827
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com.

828
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,879
Speaker 1: All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter.

829
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

830
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,439
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

831
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, it is time for the

832
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: Strawberry re Letter. My good friend Shirley straw theory. Are

833
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:43,320
Speaker 1: we really good, Steven Junior? Are we really good? Okay? Subject,

834
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 1: Thank you Subject. I'm trying not to run him away.

835
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old woman

836
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: and I'm with a man that is out of my league.

837
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. I have a great job and

838
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: I'm educated, but my past is sketchy. He's a surgeon

839
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 1: and his daughter just finished medical school. He's been divorced

840
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 1: for six years, and he's ready to settle down with me.

841
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 1: We met on a site for professional singles, and we've

842
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 1: been dating for almost a year. I've never been married,

843
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 1: but I worked as an escort and lived with a

844
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 1: man for fourteen years. Some say he was my pimp,

845
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: but I looked at it as a business that we

846
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: ran together and we made a lot of money. During

847
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 1: that time. I had a son by one of the

848
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: guys I saw regularly. The guy found out he was

849
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: the father and he filed for custody and one because

850
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:43,439
Speaker 1: of my lifestyle. I have a good relationship with my son,

851
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,399
Speaker 1: and I paid for his private school tuition up until

852
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 1: he graduated two years ago. I want to share this

853
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: part of my past with my new boyfriend, but I

854
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: do not want to run him away. I can't get

855
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: that time back that I wasted as an escort, but

856
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: I made sure that I changed my life for the better.

857
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: My new man and I have run into my ex

858
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: pimp or whatever he was, and I told my boyfriend

859
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: that he's an ex boyfriend. In the past, my ex

860
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 1: pimp purposely destroyed a great relationship I was in simply

861
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: because he was jealous. I can't let my new man

862
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: find out that way. I have not even told him

863
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,359
Speaker 1: that I have a son. What kind of man will

864
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: be okay with this? I feel like the longer I wait,

865
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,760
Speaker 1: the worse it will be. I have been in counseling

866
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: because I don't feel worthy of a good man like this.

867
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: But I know we all have skeletons. Do you think

868
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 1: he will judge me or dump me? Well, he might

869
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: do both, but that of course depends on how he

870
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 1: feels about you and the plans he has for you.

871
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: Guys moving forward, you said he wants to settle down

872
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: with you, but he doesn't have all the facts. He

873
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 1: doesn't know about your past, and he doesn't know that

874
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: you have a son. Everyone in life, each and every

875
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: one of us has a past. Yours is different and

876
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 1: yours is way more colorful than a lot of people's. Yes,

877
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 1: it is, But the thing is you say you are

878
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: no longer that person. That's what I'm going to focus on.

879
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: You've changed for the better, but you can't seem to

880
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 1: get past your past. So how do you expect others

881
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: to get past your past? You are constantly judging yourself.

882
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 1: You're ashamed, you haven't forgiven yourself. You're living with all

883
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: this guilt and fear. This has to be eating you

884
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: up inside. But who are you now? Who are you now?

885
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 1: That should be your focus. You know, you do need

886
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: to sit down with this man and tell him you

887
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: have a son who stays with his dad. Not telling

888
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: him that looks very suspicious, like what else is she hiding?

889
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: He's going to be thinking. You do not want him

890
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: to think you're faking. You do not want him to

891
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: think that you're not who he thought you were. I mean,

892
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: you're not. But you know you'll have to explain that.

893
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: You don't want him to find out from someone else.

894
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: You will lose his trust that way. You gotta tell

895
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: him you have a son. He will ask you why

896
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: you didn't tell him before. That's gonna be a red

897
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: flag for him. So I honestly think it's best to

898
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: come clean with your guy now, right now, and tell

899
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 1: him about your past. You got to do it. You

900
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: don't have to tell him every little detail. And please

901
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: don't want to mention the word pimp to him. Please

902
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 1: don't do that. But tell him something you have to

903
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: because at some point you're gonna have to face your past,

904
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: deal with it, let it go. It happened, you cannot

905
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: change it. You're better personnel, you're worthy and valuable. You're

906
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: seeing a therapist. I hope that they're telling you not

907
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: to beat yourself up. You beat yourself up enough about

908
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: your past. It's time to look to the future. If

909
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: your boyfriend really loves you and want you, he will

910
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: accept you for who you are now. But you also

911
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: you also have to accept who you are and who

912
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: you were, deal with that and move on with your life. Steve,

913
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,439
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if I can. It wasn't

914
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: because what I'm gonna tell you it's gonna be a

915
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: little bit different from what Shirley says, and you have

916
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: to wear it out for yourself. All right, let's go.

917
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying not to run him away. I'm a funny

918
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 1: seven year old woman. I'm with the man that's out

919
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: of my league. Don't get me wrong. I have a

920
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: great job and I'm educated, but my past is sketching.

921
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: Whenever you start a letter like this, we have a problem.

922
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: How are you dating a man that's out of your

923
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: league when clearly men have one objective to marry up.

924
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 1: We will get the best chick that we could get,

925
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: the one that makes us look and feel the best.

926
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: So stop thinking you're out of his league, because you're not. Now,

927
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 1: because I've known a whole letter, I was going to

928
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 1: tell you. You say, I'm educated, but my past is scheduling.

929
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 1: I know a lot of people, some sketchy pass I

930
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 1: can't tell you half of mine. He's a surgeon and

931
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: his daughter just finished medical school. He's been divorced for

932
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: six years, and he's ready to settle down with me.

933
00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 1: We went on the site for We met on the

934
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: site for professional singles. We've been dating for almost a

935
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: year now. I've never been married, but I worked as

936
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: an escort and live with a man for fourteen years.

937
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:39,439
Speaker 1: Something say he was my pimp right here? Hold on, Steve, Yeah,

938
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:43,479
Speaker 1: we got to kill all this right here. It's going

939
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: down here with these two escort pimp down here, friend

940
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 1: playing on fire. Anybody got a pass? Shoot what we're

941
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: going through? All right? Hang on, Steve. Part two of

942
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: your responses coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

943
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,240
Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters, subject I'm not trying to run him away.

944
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

945
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

946
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: The subject I'm trying not to run him away. Well,

947
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: it's forty seven year old lady that's dating a man.

948
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,439
Speaker 1: She claims he's out of league, and she just says,

949
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. I got a great job and educated,

950
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: but my past is sketching. Well, her pass is sketching.

951
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't be. You shouldn't allow yourself to be

952
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: married to your past. It's the future in who you

953
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 1: are now. That's the key to this whole thing. Right.

954
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: But now we have problems because we're gonna get some information.

955
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: He's been divorced for six years. Rady to settle down

956
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: with me. We met on the site of Professional Singles.

957
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: We've been dating for almost a year. I've never been married,

958
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 1: but I worked as an escort and I lived with

959
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: a man for fourteen years and something say he was

960
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 1: my pimp. Some say he was my pimp, but I

961
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 1: looked at it as a business and we were that

962
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 1: we ran together, and we made a lot of money.

963
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: Don't repeat that ignorant ass line to nobody else. Now,

964
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: we can't help you if you're gonna keep saying dumb

965
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: sugar honey, iced tea, and that's all. This is damn

966
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 1: it to write us with this information and didn't want

967
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: some damn help talking about I've been mad, I worked

968
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,439
Speaker 1: as an ascot and I live with a man fourteen years.

969
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 1: Something to say he was my pimp, but I looked

970
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: at it as a business that we ran together. We

971
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: made a lot of money. But during that time I

972
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,439
Speaker 1: had a son by one of the guys. I saw

973
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: regularly what the guy found out he was a father

974
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: and file for custody in one because of my lifestyle.

975
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: What lady, you can't tell this to no damn body.

976
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: It ain't going over good with me. I don't even

977
01:01:56,480 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 1: want you, and you don't judge like that. But you

978
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 1: give me this information and the next word out of

979
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: my mouth is I want to marry you. I suffer

980
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 1: wrong with me at this point, I'm just gonna be

981
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: honest with all y'all listening. Steve, give a hope and

982
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: all like that. You messed up, though, because you started

983
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 1: the relationship wrong. You didn't divulge this information, and you

984
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: can't pop this on this man. Now. I have a

985
01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: good relationship with my son, and I paid for his

986
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: private school tuition until he graduated two years ago. I

987
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,600
Speaker 1: want to share this part of my past with my

988
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: new boyfriend, but I don't want to run him away later.

989
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 1: He gone. As soon as you say this, he gone.

990
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:53,520
Speaker 1: And I can't thinking no man that would state unless

991
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 1: his other hustle when he ain't being a surgeon is

992
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: is he a him? What? I don't know of a

993
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: guy that can sign up for this. I can't get

994
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: that time back that I wasted as an escort, but

995
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,479
Speaker 1: I made sure that I changed my life for the better. Okay,

996
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: now we're working with a positive You've changed your life,

997
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: You're moving forward. That's good, congratulations. But the thing about

998
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: seeing is that I learned it cost you more than

999
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 1: you want to pay, and it makes you stay longer.

1000
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 1: Than you want to stay, and everybody gotta seeing that,

1001
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: they got to deal with you. Congratulations on pulling yourself

1002
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 1: together and climbing up and changing your life, and I

1003
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: commend you with that system. My new man and I

1004
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: have run into my ex pimp or what I've just

1005
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: told you to quit say. Stop saying that. I just

1006
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 1: told your ass full lines back, stop saying escort and pimp.

1007
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: Now you're talking about you ran up into your ex

1008
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: pimp or whatever he was. You know what he was.

1009
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: He was the pimp. Y'all run a business together and

1010
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: you're the only one with the product, and he's staying

1011
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: at the house collected money. That's a pimp. And I

1012
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: told my boyfriend that he's an ex boyfriend in the past,

1013
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 1: my ex pimping. Damn it, I just told you to

1014
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:25,280
Speaker 1: quit saying pimp. My ex pimp purposely destroyed a great

1015
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 1: relationship I was in simply because he was jealous. I

1016
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: can't let my new man find out that way. Well,

1017
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 1: how else gonna find out? I have not even told

1018
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 1: him that I have a son. Later. What kind of

1019
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 1: man will be okay with this? I don't know. Unless

1020
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 1: het a pimp, A pimp flash surgeon, surgeon, he's pimping

1021
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: on the side. I feel the longest I wait, the

1022
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: worst thing will be. It's already been a year. I

1023
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: will be in I've been in counseling because I don't

1024
01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 1: feel worthy of a good man like this. You can

1025
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 1: get out of counseling. You need prayer. But I do

1026
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: know we have all have skeleton. Do you think he

1027
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 1: would judge me and dump me? He gonna go write

1028
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: this one off? Start over, douces. The next man you meet,

1029
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: tell him that you have a son. You can leave

1030
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:27,439
Speaker 1: your path out of this. What have you been doing?

1031
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 1: I've been working various jobs. Stop saying that escort. Stop

1032
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: saying you had a pimp. You don't have to report

1033
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: that news to nobody. It ain't nobody's damn business. Everybody

1034
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: deserves to recover and get it right. Right now. You now,

1035
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:45,959
Speaker 1: I think you should go ahead and tell this guy

1036
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: and see what he do. Ye all right, Steve, please

1037
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: leave your kind on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and

1038
01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: check out you try to running when you tell him up.

1039
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: Next it is Sports Talk with the newly married Junior.

1040
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to morning show. All right, Junior, um, geez, uh,

1041
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: you're married, so you probably haven't seen many sports. Uh. No,

1042
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 1: you a new you in a sport called marriage. Yeah,

1043
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: this is a sport. You're gonna go ahead, go ahead, Yeah,

1044
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: ski sport. We need to talk. Go ahead and talk

1045
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: to you, go ahead, go ahead. I don't understand what

1046
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm stand like you, you're never gonna understand. Okay, that's

1047
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 1: never gonna understand. No, you cannot figure woman out. Put

1048
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: your damn hand down. I'm just saying you. Remember you

1049
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 1: had told me a while back, like you're time for

1050
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: you to get out, me to gonna get married. Well

1051
01:06:55,720 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: I went when I tell you that, But about three

1052
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 1: years ago you said, Joe, you're time, it's time. You

1053
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 1: look like an old horse after end and yeah, get married.

1054
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: Remember that? Well, now I got married now now yeah,

1055
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: he told I look like an old horse that you

1056
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: ain't got the most way when you have a pot belly,

1057
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 1: you should be married. He's working on it. Yeah, And

1058
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 1: so I'm just saying, no, now I got married. Now

1059
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: what I do? What? Yeah? I didn't got married. Now

1060
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: now what I'm supposed to do? It's so worried. You

1061
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 1: don't even understand what this is. What am I supposed

1062
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: to do now? Yeah, because I've been hurt him. Tell

1063
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: he needs to hear the truth. Junior, you now belong

1064
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 1: to another person. You have signed up for a contract

1065
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 1: that allows this person to determine a lot of things

1066
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 1: in your life that you've never needed help with before.

1067
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: Why we got to park back here? It's places closer

1068
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: because I don't want to body scratch the cop. But

1069
01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to walk this far. Wait, wait, wait,

1070
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 1: I've never had to consider yeah, this type of stuff. Yeah,

1071
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 1: you have to do all of this everything. Why you

1072
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 1: lead that dope? Because because if I go back over

1073
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 1: there to get another cookie, I ain't got to open

1074
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 1: the door. The damn it closed the dough and opened

1075
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 1: it every time you won't a cookie. I'll tell you something.

1076
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: I've realized that when I go get a bottle of water,

1077
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 1: I got to bring two back. I just came back

1078
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 1: with one bottle of water getting Oh you're stupid ass,

1079
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 1: Thank you the only one Thursday. Oh you're gonna want

1080
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 1: some sex, but I can't get no water. What I've

1081
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 1: been doing that, that's the weird thing you talked about.

1082
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 1: I've been doing that five days. I ain't understood none

1083
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: of this. Yeah heard, Oh you all right? We got

1084
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 1: to move on, Junior, coming up. I don't know how

1085
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 1: we can, but we're going to coming up on the

1086
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 1: top of the US. Did you know that middle age

1087
01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 1: white women travel to Africa for sex? Surprise anyone? All right,

1088
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: women travel to Africa for sex. I understand, We'll be

1089
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening to show, all right. So,

1090
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: did you guys know that Gambia is the biggest sex

1091
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: tourism destination in Africa for European women who now he is? Yeah? Yes,

1092
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: Older retired British women and other European women visit the

1093
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:51,639
Speaker 1: country in search of young men to date or pay

1094
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 1: for sex. The men are called bumpsters and this is

1095
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 1: big business for the young African men. But after more

1096
01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:01,400
Speaker 1: than thirty years of seeing thousands of middle aged and

1097
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:05,839
Speaker 1: older women visit annually for sex tourism, the Gambia government

1098
01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 1: is sick of it and seeks to change Gambia's reputation.

1099
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: The director of Gambia's tourism boards stayed at huh would

1100
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: you say I know what some dude, I'd be here.

1101
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:25,839
Speaker 1: Why are you talking to us about this? The director

1102
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 1: of Gambia's Turia Gambia's tourism boards stated what we want

1103
01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: is quality tourists, tourists that come to enjoy the country

1104
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:36,559
Speaker 1: and the culture, but not tourists that just come for sex.

1105
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:40,880
Speaker 1: You say what, Steve Harvey, I mean, I understand that

1106
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: what the government is saying. And all this here. Oh

1107
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: we're talking about supplying demand. Okay, they're coming over here

1108
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,640
Speaker 1: demanding it. I don't know what you want to do

1109
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: is to do of course they all do this. Let

1110
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 1: and you know, I don't know what like. Yeah, they

1111
01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,519
Speaker 1: might be called bumpsters, but you know, you gotta find

1112
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: them from somewhere. So they gotta have the business cards websites. Huh.

1113
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:21,680
Speaker 1: You know you could commercials out commercial? Hum come to Africa? Yea,

1114
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 1: the where that really? Yeah, we've carried your bags, we've

1115
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: picked your cotton. Now come let her lay your ass.

1116
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 1: That's the commercial. Now here's another commercial. Tired of feeling guilty, colonials,

1117
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: they shouldn't bothering you, Oh, guilt racking your nerves. Come

1118
01:11:56,320 --> 01:12:05,759
Speaker 1: to Gambia and pay us all back. It's a small gesture,

1119
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: but come and cleanse yourself in the motherland. In the

1120
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:18,080
Speaker 1: drum Star everything is drum. Everything is done by the

1121
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: beat of the drum. Yeah, pick the beat you like

1122
01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 1: and we'll match you up with the boy boo. Yeah

1123
01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:43,760
Speaker 1: that's choice one. Choice twoooooooooo, Choice three. You could have

1124
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:53,040
Speaker 1: got this in Jackson, Mississippi with the Sonic Boom. Yeah,

1125
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:54,720
Speaker 1: you didn't have to go to Africa for that. You

1126
01:12:54,760 --> 01:13:00,559
Speaker 1: could have went to the HBCU. You gonna ain't yourself

1127
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,720
Speaker 1: a whole lot of money in that trip. If that's

1128
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: what y'all trying to do. We're doing the same thing

1129
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: over here. Oh how much they get paid? Yeah, I

1130
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 1: mean Gamby shit, did embraced this definitely? Really they really

1131
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: should embrace it. Well they did for thirty years or

1132
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 1: for me? Yeah, yeah, yeah, they want it. They want

1133
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: to clean up their image though, going embrace it. Don't

1134
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 1: just come over here for sex. Enjoy our country, enjoy

1135
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 1: our culture. Okay, it's helping the economy though. It's helping

1136
01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: the economy, Yeah it is, he says commerce. Yeah, it's

1137
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: driven him. Yeah, it is definitely. I got to look

1138
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:49,559
Speaker 1: it up and see how that is going on the series. Yeah,

1139
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:55,040
Speaker 1: because I've never heard much, no, neither of mine. Yeah,

1140
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 1: I know they've been doing it over here with athletes

1141
01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:05,240
Speaker 1: for years, last years. Alright, do what you gotta do?

1142
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,479
Speaker 1: All right? Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour,

1143
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right

1144
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Save Harvey Morning Show.

1145
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:20,759
Speaker 1: Here's a question for you. Would you enroll your child

1146
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:26,560
Speaker 1: in the Donda Academy, that's the question. It's Kanye's exclusive

1147
01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: private school in California, and reportedly Kanye makes the parents

1148
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: of the students sign a non disclosure agreement before the

1149
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: child is admitted. A consultant to Donda Academy stated that

1150
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:40,920
Speaker 1: parents who want to enroll their children in the school

1151
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 1: are looking for a good Christian school in that area,

1152
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: and there's also a certain notoriety that comes with being

1153
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:51,720
Speaker 1: affiliated with Donda, so there's no need to advertise. The

1154
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 1: school has around one hundred children currently enrolled and for

1155
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 1: the record, no, Kanye's own children do not attend the school.

1156
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 1: Remember he spoke out on social media about that a

1157
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. The school is not accredited by

1158
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 1: the state of California. If the kids ain't, then why

1159
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:13,719
Speaker 1: am I going? That's well, him and Kim are battling

1160
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, yeah, he came out and talked about that.

1161
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 1: I mean, well, I think child, I think accredited, Yeah,

1162
01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 1: something like that. That's opening the school. Yeah yeah. If

1163
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 1: it's not accredited, how did the kids get credited? Forward? Yeah,

1164
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:34,680
Speaker 1: you gotta work on that part. I mean I was assuming. Yeah,

1165
01:15:35,800 --> 01:15:40,440
Speaker 1: you want to make an accreditation, that's that legitimized exacts.

1166
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 1: What you don't want to do is have these kids

1167
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 1: go to school, and then when they had to go

1168
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: to school, they got to start over. But what I do,

1169
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:54,679
Speaker 1: like nine, all right, we'll get more of the Seed

1170
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 1: Harway Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after

1171
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:01,759
Speaker 1: play around it would you rather it? After this? You're listening,

1172
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 1: all right, it is time now for a round of

1173
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather always be underdressed and

1174
01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 1: tacky or be overdressed and gaudy and just gaudy? But

1175
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 1: I was this weekend overdressed and gaudy dressed, tachy overdressing.

1176
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the overdressing. To feel about it,

1177
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it. Yeah, I'm going overdressed. Yeah. I

1178
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:35,720
Speaker 1: know we have a picnic, and I know the suit

1179
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 1: is pink, but this is all I had. What's with

1180
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 1: that big brooch on your lapel. Yeah all right. Would

1181
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:50,560
Speaker 1: you rather be bad in bed and not know it?

1182
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:55,040
Speaker 1: Or have a bad or have bad body odor and

1183
01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:57,600
Speaker 1: not know it? So bad in bed and not know it,

1184
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 1: or have bad body odor and not know it. I'm

1185
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 1: going with a because he's I'm busy. I'm busy, though

1186
01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 1: you might not be good at it. From you be

1187
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:12,679
Speaker 1: bad and bed and don't go with that bad body

1188
01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:16,000
Speaker 1: older and don't know it? Yeah yeah, yeah, I smell good,

1189
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 1: but I'm busy. Well what see, Well it's a twofold

1190
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 1: questions because now I go with being bad in bed

1191
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 1: and don't know it. Yeah yeah, but my pride life

1192
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 1: I could not a lie after happened. So, fellow reputation,

1193
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:42,719
Speaker 1: you rather have bad? Yeah you know, but you've never

1194
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: heard that about me? Well he wasn't nothing else that's fun. No,

1195
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff out me, but everyone ran out

1196
01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 1: of nowhere. But you'd rather people say bad body older?

1197
01:17:56,720 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: My bad dog just came from the gym. Every every time,

1198
01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, I saw you fall back, I saw you

1199
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:06,200
Speaker 1: fall back. Just now I think I know what that is.

1200
01:18:06,840 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 1: My bad I followed that. Whoa, I ain't gotta be

1201
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:14,439
Speaker 1: a little bit too. All right, now, all right, now, yeah,

1202
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: I said my bad. Hey dog, Hey dog, come on, man,

1203
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:22,640
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta wipe your ass with t Come on now,

1204
01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 1: come on, but it, come on, dog dog, come on now,

1205
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: get about the flow. All this faintness still stop that? Yeah?

1206
01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 1: All right? Um? Last one? I think depending on time? Uh, Junior,

1207
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: newly married, would you rather forget your wife's birthday or

1208
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 1: forget your anniversary? Forget her anniversary? Forget that anniversary? I

1209
01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 1: mean to be averse. I have to get that birthday. No,

1210
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 1: you're not, you know you're not. That's the wrong ass.

1211
01:18:56,920 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 1: All right, damn, Junior, you got work, you got work

1212
01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:03,080
Speaker 1: to do. All right, we'll be back with our last

1213
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:05,439
Speaker 1: break of the day and at forty nine minutes after

1214
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey.

1215
01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. All right, guys,

1216
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,519
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day, and

1217
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,800
Speaker 1: it is time for some closing remarks from the one

1218
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey. What you got, Steve, Well, my

1219
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 1: closing remarks because I found out that my young MENTI

1220
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:29,680
Speaker 1: got married on the weekend. Us you can play the

1221
01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 1: closing remark music, but you didn't ask you. I just

1222
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 1: ask questions. Yeah, questions, go ahead, and I'm gonna ask

1223
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 1: them seriously, I mean because you Yeah you already see

1224
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm already struck. I'm already treading one already that I'm

1225
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:51,719
Speaker 1: having and so yeah, yeah go ahead. Yeah that killed.

1226
01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:55,640
Speaker 1: And I'm saying, uh, just like you know, is everything

1227
01:19:55,800 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 1: I got to do by her? Like? Is anything in

1228
01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:00,639
Speaker 1: this for me? Yeah? Yeah, it's it's gonna be something

1229
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 1: for you. But I want you to these are the

1230
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 1: rules everything you know, you and her. You signed a

1231
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: contract junior. He is now she and she is now he.

1232
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 1: Every time you get ready to say he or I,

1233
01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:21,560
Speaker 1: you have to think of her. See me, it's no

1234
01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 1: longer me. It's weak. I don't know How'm gonna do that.

1235
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 1: Her is no longer her, it's us? What is no longer?

1236
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 1: What it is? How every day? Every day to your

1237
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 1: ass divorce? Yeah? What else you need to know? Because okay, well,

1238
01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:47,000
Speaker 1: how about food? If I'm out, if I'm out of

1239
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 1: the fat food, wish what I got to bring something back? Well,

1240
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,120
Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. You can come up

1241
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 1: in that house and sit down with your bag in

1242
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: front of the TV and start eating out of it

1243
01:20:56,560 --> 01:21:00,880
Speaker 1: if you want to better school. And the fact that

1244
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 1: you didn't consider her or call her to ask her

1245
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 1: she wanted anything. You've made your last decision alone. Every

1246
01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:18,760
Speaker 1: decision you make moving forward, Junior has to filter and

1247
01:21:18,920 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 1: incorporate her in the decision. If not, the penalty is severe.

1248
01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:27,760
Speaker 1: Next question, because I'm saying, like, you know, like I did,

1249
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 1: because he's fine. No, no, no, right here, see that

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Speaker 1: right you said. I'm saying you won't say nothing else,

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Speaker 1: no more. And let that be the last time you

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Speaker 1: say you say it something. Go ahead, next question. So,

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Speaker 1: so you just said if you said something, So now

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Speaker 1: for going to say something, I need to stop saying that. Now,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and say it. You can say it to me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying to you. I'm trying to tell you, like

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Speaker 1: like my money, like my bla blah blah blah blah,

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Speaker 1: my my hour hour hour, yeah, our our our Oh

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Speaker 1: you are oh h h h h oh oh oh

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Speaker 1: my money is that my money? Go held what my money?

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Speaker 1: Asked you something? Let them ask your question. Watch this

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Speaker 1: right here. And I don't even know the answer to

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Speaker 1: the who paid for the wed? Oh man? I did okay,

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Speaker 1: well you you you you? You don't think it's some

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Speaker 1: more coming behind that. You think all you was gonna

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Speaker 1: do was pay for the wed boy. You've been to

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Speaker 1: pay for lifestyle everything. What else your stupid ass want

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Speaker 1: to know? Go ahead, Steve and my other gonna be

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Speaker 1: right again and you wrong wrong from now on, get

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Speaker 1: used to it, your damn opinion. What I gotta ask you?

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Speaker 1: What you thought? You ain't listen to me? The key

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Speaker 1: to being marriage. Listen to me, junior, here's the key

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Speaker 1: to being married. This is rule number one. All you

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Speaker 1: need to know. From now you can be happy or

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Speaker 1: you can be right. Pick m. I like being right.

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Speaker 1: I've been right a long time. I've been right. Okay, cool, cool,

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Speaker 1: Then your ass safean to be happy. Next question, all

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Speaker 1: of this, yeah, come on? Okay her family I got

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Speaker 1: all her family too. Yeah, everything comes with his package. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Does she have kids? Yes, sir, you are now a father. Okay,

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Speaker 1: does the kids have any kids? Yes, sir, you are

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Speaker 1: now a grandfather. Yeah. Your little ass that ain't never

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Speaker 1: been married, you'd have been into the whole ancelotta. Your

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Speaker 1: ass is now a husband, a daddy, and a granddaddy.

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Speaker 1: Oh and three day as we don't even know what's coming. Okay,

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Speaker 1: now let me how do you be a grandfather? I

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Speaker 1: don't have no grandfather advice other than stop put that down,

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Speaker 1: get from over there. That's all I got what the

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Speaker 1: grandfather and they gonna hate you a minute if you're

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Speaker 1: about to find out just how stupid you really are.

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Speaker 1: The wife is gonna tell you, the children are gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you, and the grandkids kids will let you know.

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Speaker 1: And Junior, with all that said, yeah, marriage can be

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Speaker 1: one of the greatest things that's ever happened to you.

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Speaker 1: You just got to learn the damn rules. And right

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Speaker 1: now you don't know him. What do you inn't need?

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Speaker 1: They needed kicking in now? Three days in, Junior will

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Speaker 1: be discussing this Tomorrow, ladies and gentlemen, Junior is now

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Speaker 1: married and we will be had we're doing. Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Counseling will began on tomorrow. You're the words, and tomorrow

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Speaker 1: we will be discussing the positive aspects of marriage, because

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Speaker 1: right now for you that are none. Congratulations Junior. For

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Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void ware prohibited.

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Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years

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Speaker 1: old unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey fm dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.