1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: My brother in law is the reason why my husband 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: divorced me. 3 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 4 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: This comes from expensive Opinion nine to five to two. 5 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: Who says I? Female thirty eight met my brother in law, 6 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: male thirty eight at UNI. He asked me out in 7 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: our first year and I refused. 8 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 3: No. 9 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: He called me the C word and said that I 10 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: am shallow. Oh my gosh. My best friend told me 11 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: that it was harmless comments from a drunken guy who 12 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: got rejected. 13 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 2: No. 14 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: I never thought of myself as shallow. It was his 15 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: demeanor and awkwardness that was off putting to me. Anyway, 16 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: he proved my friend right. And other than these comments, 17 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: I have never felt uncomfortable during my UNI because he 18 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: never bothered me again. 19 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: Not even looked my way. 20 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: The next time I met him was when my baby sister, 21 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: female twenty eight introduced him as her boyfriend. 22 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 3: Wait her sister, her sister, her sister. God. 23 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: Kind of crazy, right? You know what else is kind 24 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: of crazy? Sophia is producing the stream today. Welcome, ladies 25 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Could you click out so we can I 26 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: could see both of our faces in there. Yeah, Sophia's producing, guys. 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: W's in the chat for Sophia's incredible production skills. Also, 28 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: are we centered there? Yeah, we can meet me too. 29 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: I should send her a little bit right. 30 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, I swear I was ready at twelve. 31 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: Guys, it happens. It happens. But guess what, ladies and gentlemen, 32 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: we're here now. Thank you for the w's in the 33 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: chat for Sophia. Let's get back to the story. I 34 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: didn't even recognize him at first, because it was like 35 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: nine to ten years since the day he had talked 36 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: to me. He was visibly annoyed that I didn't recognize 37 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: him and called him a liar. I guess like, he's like, 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: I've never met you, liar. The family was skeptical at 39 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: first about him, but he seemed to treat my sister right, 40 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: and she seemed happy. He is very rich, taking her 41 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: all over the world, and he seemed kind with uh. 42 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: And he seemed kind too with us too. They got 43 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: married after a year of dating, and they now have 44 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: three children. 45 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: Wow, that's a lot of children. That's this this wo Okay. 46 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 3: Everyone is saying we've read this story. I don't know 47 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 3: when we read it. I are you are you familiar 48 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 3: with this story? 49 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 2: I am not. I am not. 50 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: We'll go a little deeper. Yeah, I don't think we've 51 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 1: read this one. Maybe, uh, maybe if you could just 52 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: do a quick command pe. Indeed, in the great Place 53 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: of notion, I met my now ex, my now ex 54 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: male forty five years ago, and the only odd comment 55 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: from my brother in law was that I was still 56 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:47,839 Speaker 1: as shallow and superficial as I was in Uni. Wait, 57 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read that back. I met my now ex male. 58 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I met my now ex forty mail five years ago, 59 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: and the only odd comment from my brother in law 60 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: was that I was still shallow and superficial as I flucid. Yeah, 61 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: I mean I basically sounds like he's like still butt 62 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: hurt over one Measley projection ten years ago, which like. 63 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: Get over it, bro, and where did I go? Where 64 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: did I go? 65 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: By the way, quick tal the offer for everyone that 66 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: is just joining the stream. So basically OP went on 67 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: the state with this guy like ten years ago. Ten 68 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: years later, starts stating the sister, they get married, they 69 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: have three kids, and he's still like butt hurt about 70 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: getting rejected ten years ago, and he said some nasty stuff, 71 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: called her the C word for rejecting him, So dumb unexcusable. 72 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: And now she's seeing this new guy who we know 73 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: will in the future become her ex and the brother 74 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,119 Speaker 1: in law, the guy that she rejected ten years ago, 75 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: is still like, Oh, she's you. 76 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: Know, in ahole and all of this stuff. 77 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: You want a message, Mohammad, real quick, guys, we have 78 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: broken this stream already. Okay, we're gonna We're gonna get 79 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: our boy Muhammad on the stream to figure this out. 80 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: But we we looked it up. It seems like we 81 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: haven't read the story. 82 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: But we have not read this story. 83 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: But we have not read the story. We probably read 84 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: a similar one. We probably read a similar one. But 85 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: it seems like we have not read this one before. 86 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: But we will get back into it, should we do? 87 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: We do. 88 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: At the time, I thought it as a joke, but 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: in hindsight, when I found out the truth and started 90 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: thinking back and looking for red flags, this was probably 91 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: a big one. He never showed any signs. He never 92 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: showed any signs that he disliked my husband, and he 93 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: was always decent enough, and his indifference to have a 94 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: close friendship with my husband and I didn't seem odd 95 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: because he was. 96 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: Always a recluse. 97 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: So the guy is like basically refusing to have a 98 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: relationship with Op and her husband. But Op doesn't see 99 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: it as odd yet. But you know it's not odd 100 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:13,359 Speaker 1: at all. Sofia, what uh these donations? If you want to, 101 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: you can maybe pull that off and chat with Mohammad 102 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: on the side. Yes, but I'm gonna read out some 103 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: of these donations. First off, it's freaking Spiffy Tiffy with 104 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: the ten gifted donations. My god, we are starting the 105 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: stream off strong giving back to the community. Big W's 106 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: in the chat for Spiffy Tiffy. 107 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 2: W's in the chat. 108 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: Also dj Tozer for the five buck tip on the 109 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: donation link. By the way, if you guys donate on 110 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: the donation link, we save thirty from the big bad 111 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: Whitey those things for donating on there. Shout out to 112 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: Patria B for the five gifted donations. 113 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: We freaking love to see it. 114 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: Chat to Patria and ten bucks from Balm de la Rosa, 115 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: oh La. 116 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: All of you are awesome. 117 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: Guess what, Balm, You're awesome, thanks for your tip. And 118 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: of course Daddy's in the chat for the one the 119 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: only the first donator on this stream, Daddy Jesse with 120 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: the thirty buck tip. 121 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: On the Dono link. 122 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: Big shout out to you, Daddy Jesse, thank you so 123 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: much and a very quick deal the offer everyone hopping in. 124 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: Opie went on a date like ten years ago with 125 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: this guy. He was a complete a hole. Ten years later, 126 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: gets married and has kids with her sister that was 127 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: crazy and just continues to be weird in an a 128 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: hole and is refusing to be friends with Opi and 129 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: her now husband. He still seems but her ten years later, 130 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: this guy kind of sucks, But let's get back in 131 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: the story. Yeah, so a year ago, my husband came 132 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: home and accused me of cheating and he had evidence. Interesting, 133 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: this guy contacted him and he had nudes et cetera, 134 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: et cetera of me on his phone. Guys, this is insane? 135 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: How how how is my question? 136 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 3: How? 137 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 2: How? 138 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: How can this happen? The guy told my husband that 139 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: he didn't know at first that I was married, but 140 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: as soon as he found out he contacted my now ex. 141 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: He apologized to my husband. I have never met this 142 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: guy in my life. Nothing I said or did would 143 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: make my husband believe me. 144 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: He left me and our divorce is pending. 145 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 3: All right, Wait, Okay, I need a TLDR because I 146 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 3: was trying to sort of things. 147 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, guys. 148 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: Uh, Sophia is working ot over time to get the 149 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: Dono bar fixed and all the stuff. It's our first dream. 150 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: It's it's all crazy and we're gonna get it. But 151 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: by the way, is it is it looking good? 152 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? I think it looks so good. 153 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: Are you able to drag the discord over? Does it 154 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: keep putting it in front of everything? 155 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: You're able to chat with him on the side? 156 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? 157 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: Basically nice? Nice cool. Also, i'll give this to you 158 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: in a second. 159 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: But let's get into a quick tal the R so Sophia, Yes, producer, Sophia, 160 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: the Warm Queen's Me. The TLDR is OPI went on 161 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: a date with this guy ten years ago. He was 162 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: a total ahole and rejected her or sure, sorry, she 163 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: rejected him, and he called it a se word. 164 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 2: It was the whole thing. 165 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 3: Okay. 166 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: Ten years later he gets married and has kids with 167 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 2: her sister. 168 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 3: Whoa okay, yeah I didn't get that part. 169 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so, and and it was like literally the 170 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: sister introduced them and she was like, wait a second, 171 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: that's the guy. 172 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 3: Wait a minute. 173 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: So his kind of. 174 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: Continued to be weird towards her. Yeah, and he now 175 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: refuses to be friends with OPI, and her husband. 176 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: Refuses to be friends with even though the sister weird. 177 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: Right, And but now we've had this very odd thing. 178 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 1: This new random person enters the chat out of the 179 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: blue and is like, I have all of these nudes 180 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 1: from your wife. She sent them to me. I didn't 181 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: know you were married, so I get the nudes. We 182 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: have no idea. He's like, I needed to come forth 183 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: and tell you. The husband is like, oh, he's like, 184 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: I've never met this guy in my life. But the 185 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: husband's like, uh no, divorce. So now they're divorced, and 186 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: now we need to do a conspiracy theory. 187 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 3: Get that hat on, hold on, ah, I almost landed it. 188 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 2: I almost landed it. 189 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: Okay, So here's my conspiracy theory. Is this this guy 190 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: who the ahole, who she had a date ten years ago. 191 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: He somehow got this stuff and planted everything. He basically 192 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 1: fabricated this whole thing because he is still butt hurt 193 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: ten years later that she rejected him. His fragile male 194 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: ego is so brittle, crushed yeah to a thousand pieces, 195 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: that he's like, I need I need to get with veins, 196 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: because when you. 197 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: Do, he's been plotting for ten years. For ten years, 198 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: he has one of those boards with all like the 199 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 3: red you know, the red. 200 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: Yarn, the like FBI like corkboard. 201 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like, this is how I will have my revenge. 202 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: What if he married the sister as part of his revenge? 203 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: I wouldn't put him past him. I bet he do it. Wow, 204 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 3: he was like the guy type of guy who would 205 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 3: do it. 206 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 2: That's all adding up. That's crazy. 207 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: But let's get back to reality, specifically back too. 208 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: Knows. Could you scroll down a little vell? I know, 209 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: I know, right? 210 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: Did you do DJ toes her for the five bucks? 211 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: I believe you've heard that. Cat for the twenty five 212 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: buck tip on the donation, Like giving you guys a 213 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: tip because y'all are the reason I'm making the Dean's list. 214 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 2: Let's freaking go. 215 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: Cat, you guys are the best study buddies. Sending love 216 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: hugs and good vibes. Cat, Yeah, shout out to you. 217 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: I'm sure we were the reason, Sophia. 218 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 3: We are we are okay, Yeah, it's not your hard work, 219 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 3: it's us. 220 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 2: It's us. Okay, we are the study buddy. We are. 221 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 3: I'm so pleased that you put some respects on our names. 222 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: Okay, Sophia, it's not your hard work. 223 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: Woo and shout out to Foxy Cat for the five 224 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 1: buck tip. Just just waiting on John's mini to come 225 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: in the mail. 226 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 2: Minie what also happy? 227 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 3: That's making us like little mini mini figurines. 228 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: WHOA, that's awesome? Also happy almost four twenty from Denver, Colorado. 229 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: Happy almost for twenty to you, scrip Drop, Drip Drop, 230 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: drip Drop for the one hundred dollar donation on on 231 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: what Sophia on that don'no tip? 232 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: I mean the tip like that's on. 233 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 2: The dimpling. 234 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: Shout out to you, hey, guys, just a little something, 235 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: drip Drop. 236 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: This is not a little something. 237 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: This is a meteorite of awesomeness that is blowing up 238 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: our earth and maybe it's killing our dinosaurs, but it 239 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: is giving birth to new life. 240 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: Guys. I tried. I tried it with the analogy, but big, big, big. 241 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: Shout out to drip Drop fibird Folio's book for the 242 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 1: five eleven tip. Uh, why do I get the feeling 243 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: that someone gave him the nudes? Something smells funky? Fibridfolio Books, 244 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: one hundred percent. This seems all planted, like maybe maybe 245 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: the brother in law broke into the brother in law. 246 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 1: That's the that's the ahole. Maybe the brother in law 247 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: broke into or like phone or something like that. 248 00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: Totally possible. 249 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: And Patria Bee with the five with the fifty seven 250 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: ninety one specifically tip on the DONA link, big shout 251 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: out to you. My family is going through a tough 252 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 1: time and you guys are helping me through it. I 253 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: really love being part of the community. 254 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 2: Thank you. 255 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: Happy Friday, y'all. Worm heartworm, Patria am I am? I 256 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: butchering that, Patria. 257 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 3: I think that's correct. 258 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: Let me know if I'm mispronouncing it, because I need 259 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: to put respect on your name. Okay, Patria, we are 260 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: thrilled that you are part of the community. Guys, let's 261 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: put some let's put some hearts in the chat for 262 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: Patria and and show them that they are a valued 263 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: member of this community. Gosh, darn it, gosh darn, gosh, 264 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: darn it, I'm not seeing I'm not cursing. 265 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm doing I'm doing a good job. 266 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 3: So far, no minutes added. 267 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: But speak speaking of doing a good job, Sophia, I 268 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: think I think I need to get back to my job. 269 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 2: Get back to that job and read this story. Hell you, so. 270 00:13:56,000 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: My husband left me and the divorces pending. Then yesterday 271 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: that guy contacted me. He apologized for what he did, 272 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 1: and he told me that he is friends with the 273 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: stinky brother in law. The stinky brother in law. He 274 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: sent me conversations, endless conversations my brother in law had 275 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: about me four years WHOA, he has never forgotten that I, 276 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: in his words, quote unquote, didn't give him a chance 277 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: and only judged him. 278 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 2: By his luck. 279 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 3: Is itchy. 280 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 2: Ah, give me a full screen real quick of you. 281 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: Okay, I gotta talk to the people, talk to them, 282 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 1: all of you fragile men out there. 283 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: Stop. Stop. 284 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: Your fragile is peanut brittle and you're cracking and it 285 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: shows and I hate you the end. Let's get back 286 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: to the story. 287 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: He called me a c in the chat again again. Again. 288 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 3: He's obsessed with the OPI. He is obsessed with one 289 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: rejection ten years ago. That's embarrassing. Get over yourself, Get 290 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 3: over it. 291 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, both group chats with his friends, but 292 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: mostly with this guy. They planned this attack and my 293 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: brother in law somehow got access to my photos. The 294 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: reason the guy contacted me now is that he felt 295 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: guilty because, even when my marriage is over, my brother 296 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: in law was still angry and hateful, especially when he 297 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: heard that I was on a date last week. This 298 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: guy throwman jail, throwan jail, straight in jail. So the 299 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: friend felt that he didn't help his friend but ruined 300 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: rather innocent people's lives. I agree, not sure what to do. 301 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: My brother in law has actually been happier and more 302 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: sociable than usual since my divorce, and now I know why. 303 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: Although first I thought he. 304 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: Felt sorry and wanted to support me, his jokes about 305 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: me ended up an old maid with cats as companions 306 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: and don't sound like jokes anymore. 307 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: He meant them. 308 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin my sister's life. She's very 309 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: happy with her husband. I'm not sure either. I I'm 310 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: not sure either if I can with her husband. I'm 311 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: not sure if I should tell my ex or not. 312 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: I'm very heartbroken that he didn't believe me. Love him 313 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 1: very much. He is the love of my life, but 314 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: I'm not sure I can forgive him for not believing me. 315 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: But he is a victim in this too, so maybe 316 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 1: he needs to know foreclosure. I am so terribly sad 317 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: and hurt. I am sorry. This post not very long. 318 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. There is not only some relevant comments. 319 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 1: There is not only an update. There is another update 320 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: and relevant comments in addition to that. I know, I know, Sophia. 321 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: It's a lot to take in. It's a lot to 322 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: take in, but we gotta break this down real quick. 323 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: So just to keep Sophia on her toes, let's do 324 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: a poll. 325 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 3: I don't know if I could physically do that right now. 326 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 3: My screen has been taken. 327 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: Over the screen. Oh oh, but mos on the screen. Yeah, 328 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: big shout out to big Mo. All right, we're gonna 329 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: go no, no polls right now. But so there's two 330 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: things I think we need to discuss, uh and really quick. 331 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: To oldr so, OPI wan idea. 332 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: This guy ten years ago, he has just been a 333 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: stinky man this whole time and basically plotted this whole revenge. 334 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 1: He literally married Opie's sister and then had his friend 335 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 1: like fake that he had nudes and that they had 336 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,959 Speaker 1: been she had been in an affair and her husband 337 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: dumped her over this lie. Now, OPI knows the truth 338 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: because the guy who Like was was pretending to be uh, 339 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 1: the affair partner came forward to Opie and told her 340 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: the truth. Yeah. So first question, do we expose the 341 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: stinky brother in law. 342 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 2: To the sister? 343 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 3: I think yes, I think that's your sister. I think 344 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 3: he gotta you got it exposed, You got it exposed. 345 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: Who's talking here? 346 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 3: It's me? I'm here, And I think expose that dirty, 347 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 3: stinky man. 348 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree with you, Sophia. Yeah, I am. 349 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: I think that, like, if this is what he will 350 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 1: do to someone who rejected him once ten years ago, 351 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: what will he not do to someone that he has 352 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: like deeper ties, with more access to like ruined their life. 353 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: And also, I am still on the conspiracy theory that 354 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: he only married the sister as a revenge plot. 355 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 3: I think so. I think that makes sense. I think 356 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 3: it's all adding up. And I also think that she 357 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 3: should tell her husband not get back together with them. 358 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 3: You should just let him know that, like, hey, this 359 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 3: guy's the blame. 360 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 2: That. Yeah, that does answer my second question. 361 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 1: I think so too, Like if you present it in 362 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: a way where it's like, hey, I just found this 363 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: out and I just wanted you, just wanted you to 364 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,919 Speaker 1: know what happened. Yeah, I think that's a good move. 365 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: And to OPI's point, he might it might be good 366 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: for him to have I think it could be really 367 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: good for him to have the closure at least. Yeah, 368 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: although it could open up possibly a can of worms 369 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: put about whether or not they can get back together 370 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: or not. 371 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 3: I want a can of worm animation. It's like it's 372 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 3: like the chef Boyardy, like worm rolling or like a can. 373 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 3: It rolls into the stream with a little worm in it. 374 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 2: That's a great animation. 375 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 3: Are you picking up what I'm putting down? 376 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: I am. 377 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 1: I see the vision so clearly. It might as well 378 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: just be playing on the stream right now. 379 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 3: It's there. It's there, guys, imagine a little can rolling 380 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 3: across your street. 381 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: Let's let's read some of the comments from amazing community. 382 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: Kimber Kimberly find crazy brother in law is actually Steve 383 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: Buscemi in Billy something Billy Madison. Guess what, Kimberly find. 384 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what that's about. I haven't watched I 385 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: don't watch movies. 386 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 2: What else? 387 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: Oh, a dash of start us if you scroll down 388 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: a little bit, A dash of start us. Brother in 389 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: law is a literal caricature at this point. Yeah, this 390 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,719 Speaker 1: is like a I can't even say it's a cartoon 391 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 1: villain because he is a sadistic, sick, twisted little man. 392 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 3: A cartoon villain would at least have like some style, 393 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 3: some pizzazz. 394 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I have more pizzazz. 395 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: Brother in law, that's just Cassanda says, Opie's brother in 396 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: law basically ruined her image and reputation and shouldn't be 397 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: able to get away with it. What a great additional point. 398 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: But it's a redit story, so we always know it 399 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: can't get worse, Cassander, We don't know yet. We don't 400 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 1: know it could if what if Opi and the husband 401 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: get back together? Yeah, what if the sister leaves and 402 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: is able to lead a safer, more productive life after 403 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 1: the fact. 404 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,000 Speaker 3: Who's to say? 405 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: One thing is to say, Sophia, that is these Roman 406 00:20:56,359 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: comments and then the update. Okay, so why five sixty 407 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: says it wouldn't shock me if this guy found your 408 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: sister and is dating her just to remain close to you. 409 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, I say that. 410 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: Feels too coincidental that he somehow popped back up in 411 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 1: your life and then got mad that you didn't remember him, Op, 412 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 1: I feel so too. 413 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: It makes it even worse that it does. 414 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: HC four four four says, why wouldn't you tell your 415 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:25,720 Speaker 1: sister your husband is bat crap crazy Firefly advocate says 416 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 1: and seemingly obsessed with Op to the point that their 417 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: marriage might be a weird revenge fantasy for him of 418 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: ten years. Might I add and three kids? 419 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 3: I forgot that he had three kids? 420 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 2: Dude, it is it is. This is disgusting. 421 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 1: Blue Diamonds one two C four says, OMG, that's entirely possible. 422 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 1: I wonder how much OP and her sister look alike, 423 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 1: to which OP responds, my family and friends believed me. 424 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: Did this come out. It has been hard and lonely, 425 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,439 Speaker 1: but I have had the support I needed. 426 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 2: I know. 427 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to expose him while my sister and 428 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: children are still with him, But then I don't know 429 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: how to start. If she chooses to stay with him, 430 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 1: then she's in danger. That then she's in danger that 431 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: I put her in. And yet I excuse me, I 432 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: can't help her. We are very close. She's the baby 433 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 1: of the house. 434 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 2: I think. 435 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: I think if you go to the sister, yeah and 436 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: tell her in confidence and say hey, can I help you? Like, 437 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: how can I be of service to you and help 438 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: you get through this? I think that would actually increase 439 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: her chances of safety rather than let her continue to 440 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 1: be married to this guy with no knowledge of what 441 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 1: he's done. I would say, and then if we do, 442 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 1: oh oh, and then it gets into an update. So 443 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 1: but ladies and gentlemen, we also have a few. 444 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 2: Don't know where was the last one, Laura. 445 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: Okay, here we go, Piggy to Slayer for the four 446 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: nineteen tip, love the specificity. 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Keep delivering, 487 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,120 Speaker 1: Keep delivering the Tomlet. Thanks for the ten buck tip 488 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: on the donor link again. You guys have a lot 489 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: of crossover with smash Reddit fans. Maybe a future collab 490 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: the Tomlet listen. We would love to collab with smash 491 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: if you guys want to go on their videos and say, 492 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I would love a collab with okop. 493 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm not going to stop you. Yes please, I will 494 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 1: not prevent you. That will help us do those collabs, 495 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: so please do that. Natalie Nilette, thanks for the three 496 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 1: sixty five Hya Hia. 497 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 2: Back to you. Spiffy Tiffy, Spiky Tiffy, the. 498 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: Spiffiest, the absolute tiffyist with the sixty nine dono link tip. 499 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: Have had a rough week but got a bonus at 500 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: work today. Oh that's that's good. Glad to hear that. 501 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: Sorry about a rough week today for my hard work 502 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 1: and wanted to give some back to the community. Smiffy 503 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: Tiffy has already gifted ten or fifteen memberships as well. 504 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 3: And Straight is gifted a lot which will be added 505 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 3: to the donation bar. Don't you worry, we are on that. 506 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 1: We are on the case, ladies and gentlemen. Not sure 507 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: if the membership gift count on the donor bar. Yeah, 508 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: so so here it is, love y'all. 509 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 3: Don't you worry? 510 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 2: We're getting out right now? Is it? Is it not 511 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 2: up to date or. 512 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 3: Not with the mems? Sorry, not with the memberships, but 513 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 3: with all of the donations. 514 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 1: Donos are the notes are up to date? Just we 515 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: are on the case. Slash, Sofia and Mo are on 516 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: the case. And Foxy Cat thanks for the five buck tip. Sofia, 517 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: I just bought some owl bear minis. They are super cute. 518 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 3: Please send pics in the discord. I would love to 519 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 3: see that. That sounds amazing. 520 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: Send him in and we're caught up on donos. 521 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: Also, I have a question for y'all. We released a 522 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,199 Speaker 2: video yesterday with some new editing styles. I want to 523 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 2: know what y'all think. 524 00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. Put it in the chat below. 525 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 1: We want to see what you guys think about the 526 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: edit and the great because there's the great jazz schism. 527 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all, y'all were so mad about the jazz and 528 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 2: the live stream. Not one of you, not one of 529 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 2: you commented about jazz being an issue in the video 530 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 2: that came out yesterday, So what's up, narry A person 531 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 2: loved it, loved the personality. Chika Waterman loves it. We 532 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: do have some MIAs. We don't like the mic clicking. Yes, 533 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 2: thank you, Tippy. 534 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: Let us know in the comments if we're getting a 535 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,959 Speaker 1: little little cliquies on the mics, it should be. We 536 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: have a solution for the next dream. By the way, 537 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: so apologies if there's any clicks. I think if we 538 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: if our volume is more consistent, it does help. 539 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 2: Oh though, just to notice is consistent volume for you. 540 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to live streams with Samuel Donner, bringing you the hottest, 541 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: the freshest, the smoothest stories. 542 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,879 Speaker 3: The hottest songs of the summer. 543 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 4: Starting with back that ass up, Sam oh ooh, and 544 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 4: now you receive your punishment of an extra minute. 545 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: But Sam, we have a tldr F you. This is 546 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: this is this is a crazy one. Get ready for 547 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: this OPI went on a date with this guy ten 548 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: years ago. She was like, Hey, no thanks. The guy 549 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: called her the sea word was was drunken and belligerent. 550 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 2: It was terrible. 551 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 1: Fast forward ten years later, her sister's like, hey, here's 552 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: my new husband. 553 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 2: Who is it? But that guy the a hole she. 554 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: Rejected, her new husband, her sister's new husband, her new 555 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: brother in law. 556 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: Her sister's new husband is a guy that she rejected 557 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 2: ten years ago. Right? Crazy? Right? You think it doesn't 558 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 2: get any crazier. 559 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: So they have three kids, so he's like obviously deep 560 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: in their life. 561 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 2: And deep in her sister a yo. 562 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: Basically ben, this random person comes out of the blue 563 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: and texts Opie's husband and is like, hey, I have 564 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: been cheating with your wife. Here's the nudes and all 565 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: of the conversations with her to prove it. 566 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 2: Uh. 567 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: The husband is like and and Op's like, I've never 568 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: met this guy in my life, Like I don't know 569 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: what this is. And the husband's like, I don't believe you. Divorce, 570 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: Opie loses her husband. 571 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 2: I feel like I remember, this feels eerily Does this 572 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 2: feel eerily oh familiar? This feels feels eerily familiar. 573 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 3: It said that it wasn't coming up. 574 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: We did have some comments. We didn't remember it, and 575 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: Sophia would different. It could be a totally different story. 576 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,239 Speaker 3: I didn't have a couple of people at saying it 577 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: was the same one. But we're already halfway through. 578 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: We're pretty deep. 579 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: I think we could finish uh with with maybe just 580 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 1: the comments of our of our lovely community. 581 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 2: Possibly. Yeah, but that's where we're at. 582 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,959 Speaker 1: And then uh, the alleged affair partner messages, Ope, She's like, 583 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 1: I lied. 584 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: He's like, I lied for your brother. I lied for 585 00:29:59,400 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 2: your brother. 586 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: There was no cheating the brother in law. Sorry, the 587 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: brother in law planted this guy to destroy the marriage. 588 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: Okay, we definitely haven't read this one. We have not. 589 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 2: It's a similar one. I think it was just we 590 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:11,479 Speaker 2: definitely haven't read this. 591 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 3: We haven't read it, guys. 592 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, only bring you. 593 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 3: The freshest yet. I haven't read it, so I believe 594 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 3: dutchess Casanda. 595 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there we go. So OPI just found out 596 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 1: that is where we're at. 597 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 2: Okay, dude, I'm I'm strapped in, I'm buckled up. Let's 598 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 2: get into this update. I'm locked, loaded, and goaded. Hmm. 599 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: Oh god, I just remembered something. What it was in 600 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: the story, She said, Oh god, I just wanted something. 601 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: Oh damn, and oh god. My sister has my pass 602 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:47,239 Speaker 1: codes he uh and my brother in law is an 603 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 1: it guy. But maybe it wasn't that he hacked my 604 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 1: accounts or something complicated. So basically it seems like he 605 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: could have hacked he's an it guy, his uh. Opie's 606 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: sister has her pass codes. Many ways the brother in 607 00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: law could have facted into her. 608 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 2: You know, what, do I know? I'm just thinking about it. 609 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 2: I think I think I remember the story that sounded similar. Ah, 610 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 2: very app. 611 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: We're going back and forth, ladies and gentlemen. Yeah, and 612 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: then another quick update or another update. My soon to 613 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: be ex husband knows everything now. She told him the truth. 614 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: Apparently the guy who contacted me contacted my husband at 615 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 1: the same time and confessed to him as well. My 616 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: soon to be ex is coming to town this weekend 617 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: and he wants to talk afterwards. I will probably need 618 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: to look into legal actions, if that's possible, and tell 619 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 1: my family. I think now that exposing him is the 620 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: best move and more safe approach should anything more serious happen. 621 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: At least people would be more aware of who is 622 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: to blame because right now her sister is still married 623 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: to this monster and has no idea married. 624 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 2: To the monster that basically is like sabotage. Sabotaging sounding 625 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 2: like a sleeper agent who knows what he could do 626 00:31:58,880 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 2: to her? 627 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: Right, So I want to at least make sure that 628 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: my sister and her children are in safety before I 629 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: tell them everything, like meeting them at my parents' house 630 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: after I tell my parents the picture. The pictures were 631 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: real and probably stolen from my phone or my husband's 632 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,719 Speaker 1: because he is the only one that I took pictures 633 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,959 Speaker 1: for those pictures, yes, the ones you're thinking of. I 634 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: don't know if I can get any justice since the 635 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 1: pictures were not of my face. At least I was 636 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: smart enough to not have my face shown in nudes. 637 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 2: Oh wait, so they were her? They were her nuts? Whoa? 638 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 2: They were real? Yes? Whoah? 639 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 1: The husband probably recognized them. 640 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 2: Well then if if the husband recognizes them, then it 641 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 2: was probably sent to the husband. 642 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 1: And it was. But he just didn't believe her. 643 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 2: She can't can't Did he not keep them? I don't 644 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 2: know a good question. Just look through your text history 645 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: and see, like, hey, right here, you busted a nut 646 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 2: two on like three twenty five to my nude. 647 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: OPI was like, because he wouldn't hear me out, that 648 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: is the reason why they might not get Oh. 649 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, OPI is like, that is a red flag against 650 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: my husband, basically to your sentiment. Yeah, she kind of cry. Yeah, 651 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 2: that is a little stinky. Right, that's a little stinky. 652 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 2: At least hear your wife out. 653 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: You gotta at least sit down and hear him out. 654 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what will happen. I have tried so 655 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: much to forget about him, and I thought I managed 656 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: it well. But hearing the but hearing his voice today 657 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 1: after over a year, just brought back all the good memories. 658 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: I haven't stopped crying today, missing the wait over a year, 659 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: like wait. 660 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 2: This all went down over a year ago. And then 661 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 2: and the husband wouldn't talk to her. 662 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm divorcing you. Oh, divorce that's what he said. 663 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 1: And she's sad at him that he wouldn't hear her out. 664 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 2: Of Yeah, duh right uh now, yeah, onto the brother 665 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 2: in law. This is the brother in law that sabotaged 666 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 2: the marriage by planting a sleeper agent to send fake, 667 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 2: real but misappropriated nudes to Opie's husband. He is the villain. 668 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 2: He's the true villain. He's the villain, dude. He is 669 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 2: on the brother in law. 670 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,400 Speaker 1: He's been following me throughout my UNI and even throughout 671 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: my UNI years, and even afterwards. He found my sister 672 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 1: and managed to charm her. When they got married. I 673 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: was single, and apparently he was telling his friends how 674 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: he was glad I was old, single and miserable, not 675 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: my experience of single life. Then when I met my husband, 676 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: he was angry because he didn't think that I would 677 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: find someone at my age at that time, which was 678 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 1: thirty three. Now when we are getting a divorce, he 679 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,959 Speaker 1: was very pleased, again saying I would definitely never find 680 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:04,520 Speaker 1: someone at thirty eight, that I would regret turning him 681 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 1: down on one day, like way over ten years ago. 682 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 2: At this point, how old is OP now to OPI 683 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:20,839 Speaker 2: now is to thirty eight? Thirty eight? Oh, so he 684 00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 2: rejected or she rejected him at thirty three. 685 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 1: Maybe a little earlier, because a decade after she rejected him, 686 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: that's when her sister got married, and then they had 687 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,760 Speaker 1: three kids after they got married. 688 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: So he's like, you will regret it. 689 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: He's holding a decade plus grudge. 690 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 2: He is a man of his word, bro. 691 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 1: When he says something he doesn't. If only he applied 692 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,760 Speaker 1: that to anything that was good. 693 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 2: Literally anything. 694 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: Oh, she rejected him at twenty three, and she's now 695 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:58,240 Speaker 1: thirty eight. Thank you Bell Conkling, Thank you Chad always 696 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 1: coming to clutch at twenty three, she's now thirty eight. 697 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 2: That was fifteen years ago. Wow, could you imagine like 698 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 2: again terrible but damn, like another minute to the stream. 699 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 2: Damn is that no? 700 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 3: I don't know what say you in the in the 701 00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 3: chat going to. 702 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:27,240 Speaker 2: Say, it's no no, it's we could say we cannot, 703 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 2: we cannot, no, no, you cannot do that. 704 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 3: I think that one. I think that one's a I 705 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 3: don't think that's. 706 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 2: What it's that it's anyways, let us side. But that 707 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 2: is like such commitment that, if applied to anything else 708 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 2: else in life, would yield massive success, massive success, and 709 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 2: this dude just uses it on ruining people's lives. That's 710 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 2: right here we are. 711 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,320 Speaker 1: Rose put all his energy into ruining this one person's 712 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: life who rejected him fifteen years ago on a date. 713 00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, get over yourself. Everyone says, dang, damn doesn't count. 714 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 3: Dang, But I still do have to add what. 715 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:09,439 Speaker 2: A quinzel says one more hour? What oh? What? Oh? 716 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:13,439 Speaker 2: Are we wait? 717 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,000 Speaker 1: Are we has the gifted memberships kicked in? I guess 718 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: maybe we can double check with mo. I think, he added, 719 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 1: I think it is. Yeah, I think that is who 720 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 1: I mean? Guys, go, we have hit another hour. Speaking 721 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: of of which, let's let's read out some of our 722 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: donuts real quick, some of our incredible donators, because we 723 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 1: just got a flurry and flurry Uh. 724 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 2: No, sorry, yeah, did we get fox? We did? Yes, 725 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:44,920 Speaker 2: we did. 726 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,840 Speaker 1: Sorry we did get shut out? Forgetful Sophie for the 727 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 1: five bucks tip. We don't like the music on Lives 728 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: because some of us are doing other things. 729 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 2: Anyone else agree? Interesting? Yeah, let us know about that. Yeah, 730 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 2: but the wait, okay, but aren't you guys like doing 731 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 2: things when you listen to the episodes? Yeah? Well yeah, 732 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:06,800 Speaker 2: but also, like, how does music change that? I don't understand. 733 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 2: I don't forgive, forgive, Sophie, I'm I'm confused. But you 734 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 2: so you don't like background music in the Lives, but 735 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 2: you do like them in the videos because it seems 736 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 2: like everyone likes them the videos. You just don't like 737 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 2: them in the Lives. That's what it seems like. So far. Okay, 738 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:23,959 Speaker 2: let us know. Maybe we can do a poll later. 739 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,800 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, now, actually. 740 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,480 Speaker 2: Whoa Asian person? Oh yeah, to put a pole? Put 741 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 2: a pole? Music in in videos, in videos, or music 742 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 2: in videos and lives or just in videos. 743 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so yeah, music, music videos, music videos and live. 744 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also Asian persuasion with the five dollars tip. I've 745 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 2: been watching you all too much. I had a dream 746 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,760 Speaker 2: about Sam last night. Oh God, save for work? Sure 747 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 2: I remember, Wow, I remember what happened. Okay, they'll try 748 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:02,960 Speaker 2: to pretend it was safer work. 749 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,320 Speaker 3: Wait, what do you want me to do in this pool? 750 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:07,080 Speaker 2: Okay? 751 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:13,480 Speaker 1: Do music or videos and live streams or just videos 752 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 1: and live streams? 753 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 2: Are just videos? Right for the music? 754 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 3: Got it? 755 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, videos and live streams or just videos. Groovy hippie chick. 756 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 2: Thanks for the ten gifted memberships and the fifty buck 757 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,839 Speaker 2: tip on the rad show. Oh wow, crazy fifty dollars tip. 758 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 3: Hi. 759 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 2: Everyone love it when I actually catch a live celebrating 760 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 2: my daughter getting engaged last weekends. What can go? Let's go. 761 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,319 Speaker 2: I hope there's no drama that you have to spill 762 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,520 Speaker 2: about that on the show. 763 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: Don't get on the show, Okay, don't get on the show. 764 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 1: Something happens, come on the show, Come on the show, 765 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: and then we'll talk about. 766 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 2: But nothing will happen. We'll beautiful, Its gonna be. It's 767 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 2: gonna be so great. Yeah, one or two videos and 768 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,839 Speaker 2: live streams, just videos for the music. Natalie Noah, thanks 769 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,760 Speaker 2: for the twenty five dollars tip. We appreciate you. Stanley 770 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 2: Coasta thinks to the five gifted memberships and then groovy 771 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 2: hippie check with a ten additional gifted membership. 772 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,720 Speaker 3: I think that might be the same one. 773 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,759 Speaker 1: Okay, shout out again, shout out. You deserve it. MJ 774 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 1: Grow thanks for the two buck tip. One more hour 775 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 1: and we hit it. 776 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 3: Gentlemen, we delivered. 777 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 2: That's right. 778 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: Lucid Love, thanks for the two buck tip on the 779 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 1: donation link. Oh try to collab with Cody co once again. 780 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:27,839 Speaker 1: Would love nothing more. 781 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it would be sick. Would love to be sick. 782 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 2: Just comment on the videos. Feel like I've ever I 783 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 2: haven't even even seen him before, like a lot of 784 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 2: these people like we've seen around that's true, but I 785 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 2: haven't even seen. 786 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 1: We haven't had a face to face. Yeah, where we 787 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:40,799 Speaker 1: challenge him to a duel of. 788 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 2: A collapse Okay, everyone doesn't. All right, people still don't 789 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 2: want music in the live streams. Okay, videos only, videos only. 790 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:49,359 Speaker 2: We hear you, We hear you. 791 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:51,919 Speaker 1: Shout out Patria B for the two buck tip because 792 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: you want to thank you. 793 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 2: Oh that's it, thanks for a two buck tip. 794 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 1: Jenny Gray celebrating her one month membership, let's freaking go. 795 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: Thanks for always making my days. Smiley Face been following 796 00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 1: y'all since y'all started. 797 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:08,760 Speaker 2: Jenny, You're a real one. Since the first episode, really 798 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 2: first episode, A lot of so many people have been 799 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,959 Speaker 2: saying that recently, I don't believe you. 800 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 3: I wasn't even here. 801 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 2: I got like, actually why, I mean we did get 802 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,439 Speaker 2: a decent amount of views on our first tip talk. Yes, 803 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 2: that's true. 804 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 1: So maybe it's also possible that people found us on 805 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,760 Speaker 1: like the first year and then went back to the start. 806 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,400 Speaker 2: Are people saying three for no music anywhere? Is that 807 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 2: what's happening? Can we add three options? 808 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,080 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe the next one is live stream or no 809 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: music or sorry videos video music or I'm gonna give 810 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 1: you a new video music or no music. 811 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 2: So thanks to the five dollars tip? Party parrots, what 812 00:41:54,760 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 2: is that this party? Yeah? I'm gonna break my neck. 813 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 2: Will door to the door lady. Thanks for the one 814 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 2: dollar tip, Corey B. One month of membership. Thank you 815 00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 2: guys for becoming part of my daily routine. Planning a 816 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 2: trip to La and July. Any places y'all recommend to visit. 817 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 2: Oh what is it? 818 00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 1: Griffith Griffith Observatory, always a vibe, especially first. 819 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 2: Malaby Creek State Park, great Hagen Trails. There you go. 820 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:26,320 Speaker 2: And then poke Porky Morky with a fifty dollars tip 821 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 2: or or orf. Oh, we were watching Chip which is 822 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 2: the the dog, and he had a little nightmare like 823 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,799 Speaker 2: like an hour ago. Super cute, it was adorable. It 824 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:42,240 Speaker 2: was super Porky mork He thinks of fifty bucks. Huge. 825 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dono Gang, Dono Gang, Sophia. Should we 826 00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 2: increase that donation goal? Yes? Hold on old also doing 827 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 2: a great job killing it, killing the game right now. 828 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 2: That's in the chap for Sophia. That w's in the 829 00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:59,240 Speaker 2: chafter Sofia fact. 830 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:00,840 Speaker 3: Oh oh damn. 831 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: We're getting there, ladies and gentlemen. But in the meantime, 832 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,839 Speaker 1: in the meantime, yeah, in the meantime, we are far 833 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 1: from over in the story. 834 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 2: Oh, are we that is right? 835 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:16,319 Speaker 1: I'm double checking because really mean yes, and we've heard 836 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: all the comments and we've read these updates, which means 837 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: onto the brother in law. 838 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,040 Speaker 2: Let's get into it. Ladies and gentlemen, Giants Milk Lord Milky. 839 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 2: In the chat with the five Gifted Memberships. 840 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:30,480 Speaker 1: Giants Milk Lord, Micky Lord Milky and Tracy Savage thanks 841 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: for five bucks. I need some advice. I'm twenty four 842 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: of my coworker is forty five. I have a crush 843 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 1: on him, and I'm trying to decide how I should 844 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 1: tell him pretty big one. 845 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 2: Mmm. Wait they think about this? Yep. I'm thinking for him, 846 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,840 Speaker 2: thinking I'm him. If he's not married, don't if he 847 00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 2: if he If he's not married, I think single. Mmm. 848 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 2: If he's singles specifically, I wonder yeah if he If 849 00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,160 Speaker 2: he's single, then then this is the advice. I would 850 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:05,359 Speaker 2: love to know people's advice on this. Yes, Heidi Browning says, 851 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:11,640 Speaker 2: don't tell him ooh, I think, say, want to get 852 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 2: drinks after work? 853 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 1: Smart and then you just suss out the vibes from there. 854 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: You don't even have to say anything, and just sess 855 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:19,880 Speaker 1: out that evening. 856 00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:21,799 Speaker 2: See how it goes in that forty five is a 857 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 2: bit old, but I don't know you're you're an adult 858 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 2: forty five? Yeah, I mean I went on a date 859 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: with a forty five year old. It was fine, It 860 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 2: was fine. It was fine. If he's not married and 861 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 2: you're you are of sound mind, and so is he. 862 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 1: Yeah for a shot to your shot to your shot 863 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 1: chat Smithie for the five buck tips, Sam, have you 864 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:48,640 Speaker 1: watched The Dark History of Pigeons yet? 865 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 2: It's in your discord? I have not yet. Maybe we 866 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 2: could watch it on stream that'd be fine. Is that possible? 867 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know how long it is, Samith you 868 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: let us know how long it is, and Patrick would 869 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 1: be Thanks for the one thirty five tip on the 870 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,760 Speaker 1: donor link. When do we get the wheel spend please? 871 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: You're doing a great job, Queen Sofia. So Queen Sophia 872 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,479 Speaker 1: promised the people I did. 873 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 3: I promised them a free wheel spin because we were 874 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:13,880 Speaker 3: so late. We were so tardy, so tardy. It seems 875 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 3: like the likes not because of me, but it seems 876 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,719 Speaker 3: like the likes are not working according to YouTube. 877 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,440 Speaker 2: Uh so what do you mean according to you? Like 878 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 2: likes in general? 879 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, likes don't work I don't know. We can have 880 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:37,360 Speaker 3: mom and people say, Mom said it's not gonna work today. 881 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, however, we just dosa goals but the members bar. 882 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 2: We get rid of the members bar and just have 883 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 2: a chackle. Damn A good idea. Okay, figure that out. 884 00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 3: But what I was gonna say, Uh, I think we'll 885 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 3: spend the wheel after this story? 886 00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 2: Okay, correct a Mundo the Pigeon episode? What I for 887 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 2: an hour? What? Oh wow, that would be pretty funny. 888 00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,880 Speaker 2: We just would be happy. I would watch that episode 889 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 2: for an hour. 890 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,439 Speaker 3: Wait, other people can see the likes. It just won't 891 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:14,520 Speaker 3: show up here. Three hundred and seventy likes, all right, Well, 892 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,239 Speaker 3: when we get to five hundred, we'll get another wheel spit. 893 00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:17,960 Speaker 2: That's right. 894 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,840 Speaker 1: So getting ready, ladies and gentlemen, and also get ready 895 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 1: for the next part of the story. Let's get into it. 896 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 2: On the brother in law. 897 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 1: He's been following me throughout my uni years and even afterwards. 898 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 1: He found my sister and managed to charm her. When 899 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: they got married. I was single, and apparently he was 900 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,719 Speaker 1: telling his friends how he was glad I was single 901 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,800 Speaker 1: and miserable, not my experience of the single life. 902 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 2: Then, when I met my husband. He was angry. He 903 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 2: was angry. 904 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,240 Speaker 1: He didn't think I would find someone at my age 905 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 1: thirty three. Now when we are getting a divorced he's 906 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,399 Speaker 1: very pleased again, saying I would definitely never find someone 907 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 1: at twenty eight, that I would regret turning him down. 908 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 1: But I was on a date last week. So he 909 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,760 Speaker 1: spiraled down again and was angry and wrote horrible things 910 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: about me. So his friend chose to come forward because 911 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 1: he thought that uote unquote, my divorce wasn't enough for 912 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: this guy. His words, he's never gonna stop. He will 913 00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:10,239 Speaker 1: literally never be satisfied. But there is more onto this 914 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 1: next updates instead this next Relevan comment. I truly hope 915 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: both of you still have love for each other. I 916 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,680 Speaker 1: think that's in regard to Opie and her husband. Opi responds, 917 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 1: I do, but I don't know if he still does. 918 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 1: He doesn't live here anymore, and I'm not sure that 919 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,919 Speaker 1: I can trust him again, or he me for that matter. 920 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: The breakup was a mess, and he was in real 921 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: shock because he couldn't believe this of me. He called 922 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 1: me all kinds of stuff, psychopath, fake, low life, disgusting, 923 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 1: and he couldn't believe I could trick him like that 924 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: and act like I had morals. That is kind of 925 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:47,359 Speaker 1: tough to bounce back from. Nothing I said made him 926 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,360 Speaker 1: believe me. It made him even matter because I was 927 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 1: still so convincing, so convincing because she was literally living 928 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:58,320 Speaker 1: the truth and being a good person and being framed. 929 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,839 Speaker 2: So, I don't know, there is a lot of hurt there. Yeah, 930 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 2: it's hard to come back from. 931 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 1: It's very hard to come back from. But will they 932 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:07,319 Speaker 1: come back from it? 933 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 2: Only we could find out by spilling that tea throwback. 934 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:18,360 Speaker 1: Let's get into this update. Hi, Yes, I met my 935 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 1: husband and it didn't go well at all. He talked 936 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: and he apologized and asked me to forgive him. He 937 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,239 Speaker 1: said that he never truly believed that I would cheat, 938 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: but the evidence was overwhelming, and he just thought he 939 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: believed me because he was blinded by his love for me. 940 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,400 Speaker 2: What that doesn't make any sense. 941 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 1: He said that he never truly believed that I would cheat, 942 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 1: but the evidence was overwhelming and he just thought that 943 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: he believed me because he was blinded by his love 944 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:49,239 Speaker 1: for me. 945 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's like, He's like, I didn't want to 946 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 2: be just like a person that you walked on and 947 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,080 Speaker 2: so I did it, not because I didn't believe you, 948 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 2: but because, like, like emotionally, I believe you. Intellectually, it 949 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 2: felt like I shouldn't. Yes, And He's like, look at 950 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 2: this overwhelming amount of evidence. I can't, Like, I can't 951 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,040 Speaker 2: believe you. I'm not gonna let even though my emotions 952 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:19,319 Speaker 2: tell me, my emotion tells me believe you, my my 953 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 2: intellect tells me. And if and if this is true, 954 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,440 Speaker 2: then you're just gonna walk all over me. And I 955 00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 2: don't want to. Yeah, Shan Morris is basically his love 956 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 2: overruled his emotions. Great breakdown. 957 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,400 Speaker 1: He then wanted to head over to my sister and 958 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,560 Speaker 1: her husband to confront him, but I asked him not 959 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: to until I am comfortable that my sister is at 960 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: least at my parents' house, because again, the sister could 961 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 1: be in danger after this guy is exposed, because he's. 962 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 2: Such a maniac. Why is she in love with this nerd? 963 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 1: I he might be such a sociopathy, narcissistic whatever, he's able. 964 00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 2: To manipulate, manipulate people. 965 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 1: I wanted my parents to ask her to go visit 966 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 1: them and we tell her then that way she is 967 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,399 Speaker 1: not with her husband when she finds out and he 968 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 1: finds out that he is exposed. This morning, I got 969 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 1: many calls and text from everyone because my husband did 970 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 1: went and did it. Anyways, he exposed the brother in 971 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 1: law after op said explicitly not to. 972 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:21,759 Speaker 2: That's putting everyone in danger one hundred and he had 973 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 2: a huge fight with my brother in law. 974 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,759 Speaker 1: He denied everything, of course, so my husband blasted him 975 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: on social media and made an apology for believing rumors 976 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 1: about me. All Right, honestly, the husband's acting pretty stinky 977 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 1: right now. 978 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 2: Like, I don't don't going against her. I don't think 979 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:43,359 Speaker 2: stinky is like I don't. I don't know if he's 980 00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 2: in he's not intentionally being stinky, I don't think, but 981 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,879 Speaker 2: like he's I think he's Like, I disagree because he's 982 00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 2: acting stinky. She's putting everyone in danger, but I like 983 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 2: it feels like he's not doing it with malicious intents. 984 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 1: But look at a look at the reprecassions of what 985 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,920 Speaker 1: could happen and be She told him not to. 986 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:05,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, like and yeah, no, that's a that's a good 987 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 2: point and to my reason, and she gave reason. 988 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,359 Speaker 1: And to my understanding, he agreed not too. 989 00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, So he's a dirty liar. Yeah, it's just as bad. 990 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:18,040 Speaker 2: Ke we acting on impulse. I think he's acting on impulse, 991 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,920 Speaker 2: which is still bad because he's putting people in. 992 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,400 Speaker 1: People do lots of things acting on impulse. 993 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,359 Speaker 2: Dude, People stab people on impulse. That is that is true. 994 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,399 Speaker 2: That's true. It's called a crime of passion. I did 995 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 2: not know that. Yeah, just like like like basically, if 996 00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 2: you yell at me and I stab you, I'll get 997 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 2: less of a prison sentence than if like you yell 998 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 2: at me, I think about it, then I stab you. 999 00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:44,640 Speaker 3: Premeditated murder. 1000 00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:50,960 Speaker 2: That's premeditative stabbing. Like I guess like the government's like, hey, 1001 00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:55,200 Speaker 2: like people murder people in a moment, but like if 1002 00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 2: you think about it for a while and then murder, 1003 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 2: then like that's the governments. 1004 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,479 Speaker 3: Like people murder people all the time. 1005 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:10,960 Speaker 2: They're just passionate. What every time someone got murdered? We 1006 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 2: have no presidents? Come on, no presidents? Do the amount 1007 00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,319 Speaker 2: of presidents that murdered people come on at. 1008 00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 1: Least the first Yeah, yeah, you're mean technically technically all 1009 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,359 Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, technically president that has overseen a war. 1010 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,480 Speaker 1: That's true, bro, which is literally every. 1011 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:36,040 Speaker 2: President murders people that's so true, namely one president that 1012 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:39,640 Speaker 2: hasn't killed a man. I can't say, I can't say anything, 1013 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:41,120 Speaker 2: can't say that's what it is. 1014 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 1: But anyways, let's get away from murdering presidents and get back. 1015 00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 3: We were talking about murdering president. 1016 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,080 Speaker 1: Well, all right, now the de fens are on the street. 1017 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 2: Get out of the chat, guys, get him out of here. 1018 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 2: He's tried to murder the president. 1019 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,279 Speaker 3: Specifically, not talking about. 1020 00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 1: Murdering the Yes, thank you. This is entertainment. 1021 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 2: This is a joke. Anyways, my sister so uh. 1022 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: The brother denied everything, of course, so my husband blasted 1023 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,280 Speaker 1: him on social media and made an apology for believing 1024 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,680 Speaker 1: the rumors about me. My sister was angry with my parents, 1025 00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 1: who were confused and shocked. I have talked to my 1026 00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: parents and told them everything now, and they believe me. 1027 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,960 Speaker 1: But they agree that I should have given the chance 1028 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,560 Speaker 1: to talk to my sister before hell broke loose, which 1029 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,680 Speaker 1: in fairness, was Opie's original plan. Now she is not 1030 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 1: speaking to me because my husband tried to beat up 1031 00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:36,520 Speaker 1: her husband. 1032 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,839 Speaker 2: Oh oh my gosh, so they are actually fighting. Yeah, literally, Not. 1033 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:45,480 Speaker 1: Only did did Opie's ex husband expose him but she 1034 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,919 Speaker 1: also he also tried to fight the brother in law. 1035 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,400 Speaker 2: What does it mean to try to fight someone tried 1036 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,480 Speaker 2: to beat up her husband? It means that he sucks? Yeah? 1037 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 2: Did he like he like committed for a punch and 1038 00:53:56,440 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 2: then the other husband just like knocked him down. That's great, 1039 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,200 Speaker 2: that would be sad immediate. Cho, we're gonna maybe we'll 1040 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 2: see or was it just like eh and then missed 1041 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,400 Speaker 2: in there? Maybe maybe the way the sister was like 1042 00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:11,880 Speaker 2: stop it, yeah, And I thought it was like this, 1043 00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm good going if you're holding back right now? The 1044 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:17,919 Speaker 2: things I would do. 1045 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,400 Speaker 3: Hold on, fight no, no, no, fight when you got fight. 1046 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, stop, this isn't you. I can't read through. Oh wait, 1047 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,120 Speaker 2: that was funny because you're actually yeah, that was the point. 1048 00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,120 Speaker 2: I like. I like trying to fight like an old 1049 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 2: timey like nineteen twenties dude, where it's like, but my bad, 1050 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 2: wrong one. Here, U's the claw you me? 1051 00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:59,440 Speaker 1: But I was on a date last week, get right 1052 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,879 Speaker 1: back into it. But I was on a date last week. 1053 00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,719 Speaker 1: So he spiraled down again and was angry and wrote 1054 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,520 Speaker 1: horrible things about me. So his friend chose to come forward. 1055 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 3: Skip something. 1056 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,839 Speaker 1: I did not skip something. I somehow got blasted back 1057 00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:18,439 Speaker 1: in the past, blasted, blasted to the past. 1058 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 2: Irish Gig says the cister needs to kick her husband 1059 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,400 Speaker 2: to the curb to face the reality that her husband 1060 00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:31,439 Speaker 2: is a psycho and wants the sister. Yeah, dutchess. Casana said, 1061 00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,280 Speaker 2: you're backwards. Jasey said, you already read that. John Heidi 1062 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 2: Browning won eighty nine tip for even Gang Let's go 1063 00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 2: and read obsessionly things for the five bucks and Patrick 1064 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 2: b We already read it? But why not again? One 1065 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:47,360 Speaker 2: thirty five? When do we get to spin the wheel soon? 1066 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,800 Speaker 2: That's what do you mean? I said it twice? 1067 00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm adding, don't worry guys, what would I say, 1068 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:57,040 Speaker 3: said the A word? 1069 00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:01,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, guys, don't darn a word? 1070 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,200 Speaker 3: He said, blast that one's. 1071 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,520 Speaker 2: Oh Yeahank, we did. 1072 00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 1: We gotta, we gotta, we gotta get official on what 1073 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 1: we're counting and not like. 1074 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like that's a fair one 1075 00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,040 Speaker 2: and last year, like I like, donkey, you know, do 1076 00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,399 Speaker 2: all the platforms take us down if we say it? Yeah? 1077 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:20,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, honestly, No, I've had only one instance. 1078 00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:25,600 Speaker 2: There's only there's only one word that we legitimately can't say, well, actually, 1079 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,799 Speaker 2: there's probably a couple of words. There's only one word. 1080 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:32,799 Speaker 2: One they've confirmed the powers that we have said, the 1081 00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 2: one word that we have said that we've confirmed, we 1082 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:39,080 Speaker 2: can't say yes, and the word I think. 1083 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:43,479 Speaker 1: No stream will definitely get take it down now, Oh 1084 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,640 Speaker 1: my gosh, both of this. 1085 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:48,000 Speaker 2: He did. 1086 00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:51,680 Speaker 1: And I'm back. I'm back, ladies and gentlemen. At least 1087 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:52,960 Speaker 1: I think I am so yell at me if I'm 1088 00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: in the wrong place. But let's get into these comments 1089 00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: from No Baseball thirty seven, six twenty six. 1090 00:56:58,360 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 2: Right. 1091 00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:03,359 Speaker 3: No, he made it worse. Yes, that's where we are at. 1092 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 1: Can you highlight that and put your little head there, 1093 00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,880 Speaker 1: my little head, He made it worse. He made it worse. 1094 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,440 Speaker 1: He has always been calm and collected and good at 1095 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 1: de escalating bad situations. Never knew he would act so 1096 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 1: rash and make things worse. Then we're going into February six, 1097 00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:21,880 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four trigger warning for self harm. 1098 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,040 Speaker 2: I really don't have much to add. My sister is 1099 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 2: very angry. 1100 00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 1: She said that I have ruined her husband's reputation because 1101 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 1: my ex has blasted him and his friends everywhere. Now 1102 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,640 Speaker 1: he is talking about wanting to end his life because 1103 00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 1: I ruined it because of a joke. 1104 00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 2: He played a joke. Joke. Banks are getting out of hand. 1105 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:42,560 Speaker 2: He's like, it's just a joke. 1106 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:44,120 Speaker 3: I'm murdered a guy. 1107 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:44,920 Speaker 2: It's a break. 1108 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:52,320 Speaker 3: Brother in court and he's like, doudge your honor, your honor. 1109 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:54,920 Speaker 2: He was a break. I didn't know he died, so 1110 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 2: he would use your full screen when I didn't know 1111 00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 2: he died. That's not a joke for real. 1112 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, divorce is a joke. Now, forgetful Sophie, exactly exactly. 1113 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 1: My parents have told her everything that day was exposed, 1114 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,800 Speaker 1: and apparently she believed them me at first, but now 1115 00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:18,240 Speaker 1: she has turned on me and so is refusing to listen. 1116 00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,640 Speaker 1: I wish I could have had a moment with her 1117 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 1: before all hell broke loose. Sounds like the evil brother 1118 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:27,280 Speaker 1: in law has manipulated her into thinking that, oh, she's 1119 00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:30,360 Speaker 1: a liar. Oh yeah, oh my god. Well we got 1120 00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 1: some more relevant comments from No Baseball thirty seven to 1121 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:36,880 Speaker 1: twenty six. How are things ope getting back with the husband? 1122 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 2: Question mark? Op? I think he is seeing someone? 1123 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,280 Speaker 3: Oh big yikes? 1124 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 2: Ouch, Well I would have thought that he maybe wasn't 1125 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:50,680 Speaker 2: because he was like trying to maybe defend the honor 1126 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 2: or whatever. I think he was just yeah, but it 1127 00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:59,120 Speaker 2: felt like he was doing it like performative, performitatively yeah, 1128 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 2: you know, to like I went back at boo, but 1129 00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 2: maybe not, maybe not, maybe not boothing. 1130 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:06,120 Speaker 1: So it a butt wolf says. If he isn't at 1131 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 1: least hitting the pause button on any new relationship until 1132 00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,080 Speaker 1: this is sorted out, then he was never worthy of you. 1133 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,400 Speaker 1: If you and he really do continue on the path 1134 00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:19,000 Speaker 1: of divorce over this. It adds to a lawsuit against 1135 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:22,360 Speaker 1: your brother in law. Please, OP, see a lawyer. You 1136 00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 1: have evidence, you have real damage to your life. You 1137 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,880 Speaker 1: have a very good civil case against your brother in law. 1138 00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 1: Please take him to court and thrown in jail. Never 1139 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 1: mind your sister, her marriage has been built on a lie. 1140 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: You can sue your brother in law and there will 1141 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,000 Speaker 1: be plenty left over for her in her own divorce. 1142 00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:38,880 Speaker 2: OP. 1143 00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:41,960 Speaker 1: He is looking for jobs here because he wants to 1144 00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:44,960 Speaker 1: move back. I got very I got very anxious and 1145 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: asked if he is doing this because of me, because 1146 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,720 Speaker 1: we are not together and this wasn't the right time 1147 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,680 Speaker 1: to pressure me. But he said he was doing it 1148 00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: for himself, and that he doesn't want anything from me 1149 00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,880 Speaker 1: but that, And he doesn't want to leave town for 1150 01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 1: other in law to think he has easy prey to harm. 1151 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 2: Oh oh, he wants to stay in town. 1152 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:11,600 Speaker 1: So so the brethren, he's like protecting them by staying 1153 01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:11,960 Speaker 1: in town. 1154 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess. 1155 01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:16,040 Speaker 1: So I didn't ask I didn't have asked about I 1156 01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,600 Speaker 1: didn't ask about the person he is seeing. It felt 1157 01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:22,240 Speaker 1: it would be disrespectful to interrogate him since I had 1158 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:22,920 Speaker 1: no right to do that. 1159 01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:26,160 Speaker 2: And also like, what what what's going to happen from that? Yeah, 1160 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:30,640 Speaker 2: there's gonna be sad and sad. Here're be sad. True, 1161 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 2: you be sad. Here be sad. Maybe it is not serious, 1162 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:35,280 Speaker 2: or maybe she is willing to move here. 1163 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have spoken to lawyers. They don't 1164 01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:43,640 Speaker 1: seem to think that this could lead to anything. Yeah, agreed, Yeah, 1165 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 1: I think so. Queen uh Legalis says he had access 1166 01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:52,320 Speaker 1: to your photos. That's all revenge. Corn Opie said, yeah, 1167 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: they didn't care. 1168 01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:57,160 Speaker 2: What do you mean, well, lawyers, Yeah, because I mean 1169 01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 2: it's like one thing for something to be illegal, and 1170 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:05,160 Speaker 2: then it's another thing for it to be like easily prosecutable. Yeah. Right, 1171 01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:10,240 Speaker 2: so they're like yeah, it's illegal, but like, how hard 1172 01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:14,600 Speaker 2: is that going to be to be? Like to prove yeah? 1173 01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I mean I guess if it's a 1174 01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:23,040 Speaker 1: lawyer saying it, But I feel like it's more provable 1175 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,800 Speaker 1: because the guy is willing, the guy confessed to it, 1176 01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:28,720 Speaker 1: the guy who did everything. 1177 01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:32,440 Speaker 2: That you confess to it. I think our text. I 1178 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,240 Speaker 2: think over time, that might be something I don't know. 1179 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 2: I'm not a lawyer. 1180 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:38,520 Speaker 1: Don't speak my name, says op. Were you able to 1181 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: discuss with your soon to be ex the repercussions of 1182 01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,640 Speaker 1: his actions? Is he offering to help with the lawsuit 1183 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:45,760 Speaker 1: or clean up a bit of the mess he's made 1184 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,760 Speaker 1: with everything you went through? It sucks that he confronted 1185 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:52,200 Speaker 1: them first. You're definitely the real victim here and he 1186 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,160 Speaker 1: made it even worse. Also, cops won't help you on this. 1187 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 1: You can file a report and give it to a lawyer. 1188 01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,840 Speaker 1: I talked to a lawyer and sooo slash. 1189 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:03,360 Speaker 2: Cops don't care, but a lawyer would care, right, so 1190 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:04,920 Speaker 2: they don't care as cops. 1191 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:09,800 Speaker 1: I see ah ah, I see why see? And maybe 1192 01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,120 Speaker 1: that's why people keep saying, like, talk to a lawyer. 1193 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,160 Speaker 2: Talk to a lawyer, Okay, Yeah, that makes that makes sense. 1194 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,880 Speaker 1: Once in front of a judge, other charges may be 1195 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 1: given as well. So maybe in addition to like the civil, 1196 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 1: whatever charges Oph brings up, maybe he's broken some criminal 1197 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,640 Speaker 1: laws the judge will bring forth as well going through 1198 01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:28,000 Speaker 1: the case. Possibly is what it sounds like. Smart smart, smart, 1199 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,280 Speaker 1: Opie says, yes. And he said that he couldn't just 1200 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,280 Speaker 1: wait and let his brother in law believe that I 1201 01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:38,760 Speaker 1: was alone and an easy prey Broop. He said that 1202 01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 1: police wouldn't do anything. He was right about that, and 1203 01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,280 Speaker 1: people like brother in law are better exposed to everyone 1204 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: because they value their image. 1205 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:49,160 Speaker 2: OPI was gonna do that. Uh. He doesn't seem to 1206 01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:50,440 Speaker 2: be understanding of my. 1207 01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:54,040 Speaker 1: Sister in law however. Sorry of my sister however, and 1208 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,360 Speaker 1: the way she was put in the middle. He did 1209 01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: apologize a lot, but probably only because I was distraught 1210 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:01,760 Speaker 1: and upset about what he did. I don't think he 1211 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,840 Speaker 1: regrets anything. He is very sad himself, and he's been 1212 01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: apologizing all the time about everything, including not believing me 1213 01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:12,560 Speaker 1: or trusting his gut that believed me. My brother in 1214 01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:16,120 Speaker 1: law hasn't bothered me again since he called UH to 1215 01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:19,520 Speaker 1: threaten me. After everything blew up because my ex went 1216 01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 1: to his place and threatened beating him up again. Now 1217 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:27,480 Speaker 1: my sister is even angrier. We are getting closer to 1218 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 1: the end of the saga. 1219 01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,080 Speaker 2: We definitely have not read this. 1220 01:03:31,160 --> 01:03:39,960 Speaker 3: Ah, we told you, I check my stories. That's right, 1221 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:41,360 Speaker 3: check them. 1222 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:45,040 Speaker 2: You know what else we check? Sofia, what nation? 1223 01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 1: You can't do these before the new update, which seems 1224 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:49,640 Speaker 1: pretty big and juicy. By the way, guys, while you're 1225 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:51,560 Speaker 1: doing this, I'm gonna grab my coffee, Go grab it. 1226 01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 1: Shout out to door to Door Lady for the twelve 1227 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,160 Speaker 1: book tip on the donation link, saving that thirty percent. 1228 01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Here is your hard earned commission for my three sales 1229 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,160 Speaker 1: are so By the way, guys, door to Door Lady 1230 01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,280 Speaker 1: has been crushing it at her sales job, and she 1231 01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 1: is giving us a commission as she crushes her job. 1232 01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 1: It's amazing. We love it out here looking for my 1233 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: fourth eleven out of twelve soul this month, Let's freaking 1234 01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:18,000 Speaker 1: go one away from my bonus just started two and 1235 01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:20,640 Speaker 1: a half months ago and haven't uh and haven't hit 1236 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,000 Speaker 1: it yet, so this is a big achievement for me. 1237 01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,920 Speaker 1: Let's freaking go. Door to door Lady absolutely crushing it. 1238 01:04:26,960 --> 01:04:27,840 Speaker 1: This is freaking awesome. 1239 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,720 Speaker 2: Phoebe for the two fifty tip, Hey, you should do 1240 01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 2: a live show in the metaverse. 1241 01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 1: Interesting that that is basically like a three D It's 1242 01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:50,440 Speaker 1: like a three D like world basically from Facebook. Yeah, 1243 01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,640 Speaker 1: someone just said we should do a show in the metaverse. 1244 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:59,160 Speaker 1: Kind of interesting and porky morky, porky morky with the 1245 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 1: gifted memberships. 1246 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 2: Let's freaking go. Heck, yeah, that's awesome. 1247 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:10,360 Speaker 1: Thank you for all Right, ladies and gentlemen, are you 1248 01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:13,120 Speaker 1: ready to give it to this new update? 1249 01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:20,439 Speaker 2: It looks like a big one. Yeah, Sam is Samon. 1250 01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 3: All right, lord, let's get BacT reality, bactoriality. 1251 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 2: We talked to some Irish people today. We did what 1252 01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,040 Speaker 2: a lovely accent? Yeah, that's a great accent, just like 1253 01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:38,160 Speaker 2: it just flows. It's like a op to your accent top. 1254 01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 2: It feels like they're reading you a poem. It sings song. 1255 01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 4: It's like like that like that. 1256 01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,880 Speaker 2: So can you Irish accents? 1257 01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:51,680 Speaker 3: You occasionally? 1258 01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 2: Occasion? 1259 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:56,600 Speaker 3: Occasionally? No, I don't think so. 1260 01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:03,640 Speaker 1: Profit I have to build up for it, Okay, I'll 1261 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:04,360 Speaker 1: build up to this. 1262 01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 2: What do I do to people's ears? What? What do 1263 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:11,200 Speaker 2: I do? To people's ears. Was it the holy yeah? Oh? 1264 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,440 Speaker 2: Is it? Or what did I do? Was it the 1265 01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 2: holy yeah? Yeah? Let's do a pole? What did I do? 1266 01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:23,959 Speaker 2: What did I do? Oh my gosh, what did I do? 1267 01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:26,919 Speaker 2: And drip drop? Thanks for the fifty bucks, I'll donate again. 1268 01:06:26,960 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 2: If everyone likes a stream, guys like the stream. 1269 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 3: And we are at I do actually know this because 1270 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,200 Speaker 3: I'm looking at the YouTube we're at. I believe about 1271 01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:44,400 Speaker 3: four hundred and eighty nine likes. Whoa that is very 1272 01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:45,800 Speaker 3: close to five hundred. 1273 01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,000 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. We might have some more wheelspins in 1274 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:48,320 Speaker 2: the future. 1275 01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:50,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I might have a double wheel spin. 1276 01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:52,880 Speaker 2: But you know what else we have? What the story? 1277 01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 3: Oh? Oh? 1278 01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:58,000 Speaker 1: I am sorry that I've been gone for too long, 1279 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,560 Speaker 1: and I am overwhelmed by the support you have given him. 1280 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 1: Here some of you are still asking about me. I 1281 01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:05,520 Speaker 1: don't know where to start. I don't know where to start. 1282 01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,960 Speaker 1: I have been in constant pain and stress about everything 1283 01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: that happened to My brother in law is now exposed 1284 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,400 Speaker 1: to everyone about what he did to me. For those 1285 01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: of you who think that he is in love with me, 1286 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 1: he isn't. 1287 01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:21,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe I don't know. Yeah, you can't know. If 1288 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:22,840 Speaker 2: people are in love with you, maybe both. 1289 01:07:23,160 --> 01:07:25,520 Speaker 1: He very much hates my guts and has done since 1290 01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:28,919 Speaker 1: the day I rejected him. Hate also, hate is also 1291 01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:31,840 Speaker 1: a driving force, and not only love. So for the 1292 01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:34,640 Speaker 1: stupid users that I would like to call losers who 1293 01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,240 Speaker 1: made fun of me, who made fun of me, who 1294 01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:41,640 Speaker 1: made fun of it about me bragging about a man 1295 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,440 Speaker 1: not being over me in twenty years, that is not it. 1296 01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,280 Speaker 1: If this is bragging, then you're actually very sick in 1297 01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 1: the head. Unfortunately, I was sent these comments from a 1298 01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:51,920 Speaker 1: different sub What a bunch of losers. 1299 01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:53,920 Speaker 2: I was in constant. 1300 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:55,520 Speaker 1: Fear that my brother in law will be hurting my 1301 01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:58,520 Speaker 1: sister because of me, and I am not certain if 1302 01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 1: he will. But that was the only reason I have 1303 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,680 Speaker 1: been quote unquote apathetic. I wasn't sure what the right 1304 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,280 Speaker 1: step was with people like him. He has hidden his 1305 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 1: hatred for so well, for so long, so what more 1306 01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: is he capable of. I don't want my sister and 1307 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,360 Speaker 1: her children to be to be the collateral damage. That's 1308 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:18,519 Speaker 1: why I have been careful. 1309 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:21,040 Speaker 2: Well, he's basically put this person at the center of 1310 01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:25,439 Speaker 2: his world. Yes, it's like every every action he does 1311 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:29,759 Speaker 2: is motivated by hatred of op. 1312 01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:34,040 Speaker 1: And it's so terrifying, so terrifying. I am sorry to 1313 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:37,719 Speaker 1: disappoint you by not being the strong bad bee. 1314 01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:41,519 Speaker 2: I have other priorities. Oh, you're a bad bee. That's 1315 01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 2: right me. 1316 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,439 Speaker 1: My sister and I finally talked. I love her and 1317 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:48,679 Speaker 1: her children very much. She seemed very hurt and questioning 1318 01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:51,840 Speaker 1: her entire marriage, and who can blame her? I tried 1319 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:54,240 Speaker 1: the baby steps approach. I wanted her to note that 1320 01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,280 Speaker 1: I was there for her and I was honest with 1321 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:58,519 Speaker 1: her about my worries about her and her children with 1322 01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:01,160 Speaker 1: a man like him. It worked for a while and 1323 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:04,799 Speaker 1: I was being hopeful. But something changed, and it probably 1324 01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:08,000 Speaker 1: had to do with her husband giving her an ultimatum. 1325 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,679 Speaker 1: Divorce or cut your family off. 1326 01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:19,719 Speaker 2: Oh the the brother in law. Divorce or cut your 1327 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 2: family off? Divorce or cut your family off? What would 1328 01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:27,320 Speaker 2: you do? Let us know in the comments below. Divorce 1329 01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:29,920 Speaker 2: or cut your whole family off. This one's pretty hard 1330 01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:32,920 Speaker 2: divorce right. 1331 01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 1: She shows her marriage. Oh she's cutting off her family. Bye, Gods, 1332 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:46,600 Speaker 1: cutting off her family. It broke my parents and me. 1333 01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:49,960 Speaker 1: But I don't think we can do anything about it. 1334 01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,559 Speaker 1: It is her own choice, even if we believe it 1335 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,960 Speaker 1: is coerced. But maybe there's this little chance that she 1336 01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,559 Speaker 1: knows him better than we do. There's the little hope 1337 01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 1: that he he is a better person towards his family. 1338 01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:05,360 Speaker 1: I am clinging onto that hope. She wrote us telling 1339 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:08,840 Speaker 1: us to forget she and her children existed and that 1340 01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,760 Speaker 1: they will take legal action if we ever tried. 1341 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:12,320 Speaker 2: To contact them. 1342 01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,439 Speaker 1: That sounds like it was written by the brother in law, 1343 01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: Like he's like, send this or divorcing. 1344 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 2: I mean, like, think about how manipulative he's been, Like 1345 01:10:20,600 --> 01:10:24,479 Speaker 2: he has a full control. Yeah, Valley Lila says, Oh, 1346 01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:27,960 Speaker 2: he is isolating her. Yeah, isolating and controlling, and he's 1347 01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 2: basically going to get more control. I one thousand percent 1348 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:34,640 Speaker 2: believe he wrote this message word. Oh yeah, yeah, he. 1349 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:40,040 Speaker 1: Has her under his thumb. Thumb, that is correct. Tragically, 1350 01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:43,160 Speaker 1: brother in law deleted all his social media accounts and 1351 01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 1: his friends apparently all want nothing to do with him. 1352 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:48,599 Speaker 1: I have heard he is planning on leaving the city 1353 01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,120 Speaker 1: because everyone knows what he did now and he is 1354 01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 1: having a hard time with it. He barely leaves the 1355 01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,120 Speaker 1: house and he has been shamed even at work. 1356 01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,559 Speaker 2: That's good. So the cat's kind of. 1357 01:10:58,520 --> 01:11:01,080 Speaker 1: Out of the bag and brother in law or the 1358 01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:05,439 Speaker 1: brother in law, because remember the opie's ex husband blasted 1359 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:08,320 Speaker 1: him on social media, went around telling everyone. So it 1360 01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:09,960 Speaker 1: seems like the cat is kind of out of the 1361 01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 1: bag and he wasn't able to, like, you know, control 1362 01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:13,519 Speaker 1: it and everyone. 1363 01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:16,439 Speaker 2: But he's still controlling his wife. 1364 01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,799 Speaker 1: He is unfortunately still controlling his wife. 1365 01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:22,559 Speaker 2: But but at least maybe like the community around them 1366 01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:29,000 Speaker 2: can rally, can can they know? That's that's it? Uh? Oh? 1367 01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:33,080 Speaker 2: If he and her bugs true, if he loves her bugs, 1368 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:33,639 Speaker 2: that is true. 1369 01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,760 Speaker 3: They just love me. They flocks to me. 1370 01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:39,479 Speaker 1: You're the worm queen. You're like, you're like a snow 1371 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:41,000 Speaker 1: white calling the birds. 1372 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,680 Speaker 2: Except the little bugs. 1373 01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:43,320 Speaker 3: Me. 1374 01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,000 Speaker 2: How it works? How it works? 1375 01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:48,559 Speaker 1: Brother in law deleted all social media accounts, and his 1376 01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:51,000 Speaker 1: friends apparently all want nothing to do with him. I 1377 01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,320 Speaker 1: have heard he is planning on leaving the city because 1378 01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:55,439 Speaker 1: everyone knows what he did now and he is having 1379 01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:56,360 Speaker 1: a hard time with it. 1380 01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:58,559 Speaker 2: Gee, I'm so sorry. 1381 01:11:58,840 --> 01:11:59,520 Speaker 3: Huh. 1382 01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,200 Speaker 2: I feel zero percent bad. 1383 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,200 Speaker 1: I feel negative one thousand percent bad. 1384 01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,640 Speaker 2: I feel negative ten thousand percent bad. It's crazy that 1385 01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 2: you only feel negative one thousand percent. I'm a piece 1386 01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:11,320 Speaker 2: of crap. What can I say? Don't lean in to 1387 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:16,640 Speaker 2: defend yourself, John, I have heard he is. 1388 01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:19,920 Speaker 1: He barely leaves the house, and he has been shamed 1389 01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:22,040 Speaker 1: even at work. I reader that my ex husband and 1390 01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:25,439 Speaker 1: I are moving on with the divorce. The divorce is 1391 01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:27,800 Speaker 1: going to be a finalized good I don't blame him 1392 01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:30,080 Speaker 1: for believing the rumors, but at the same time, I 1393 01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 1: wish he knew me better like I thought he did, 1394 01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:34,840 Speaker 1: that I would never do such a thing and cheat 1395 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:37,639 Speaker 1: on him. I am so sorry that he moved back 1396 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:39,600 Speaker 1: from me and probably was hoping we could give it 1397 01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:43,040 Speaker 1: another chance, but I can't. He has apologized so many 1398 01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:46,760 Speaker 1: times and that he never believed the rumors. But I 1399 01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:49,719 Speaker 1: have started to think that our marriage wasn't strong enough 1400 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:53,760 Speaker 1: to overcome a rumor. Good observation. It is nobody's fault. 1401 01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,720 Speaker 1: But I thought our love was stronger than it actually was. 1402 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,719 Speaker 1: I thought we both thought. I think we both thought 1403 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 1: that I have started dating a new guy for a 1404 01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:04,840 Speaker 1: few weeks before all of this started, after over a 1405 01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:07,720 Speaker 1: year of me not being able to leave bed. Oh 1406 01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:11,439 Speaker 1: my goodness, he is crop for getting out there, truly, absolutely, 1407 01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:13,280 Speaker 1: it seems like this is a good thing for her. 1408 01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 1: He has seen all of this unfolding, and he's been 1409 01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,799 Speaker 1: very patient and supportive. I think I have a real 1410 01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:22,920 Speaker 1: shot at happiness now. At least he knows everything and 1411 01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,360 Speaker 1: is well prepared in case my brother in law isn't 1412 01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:28,000 Speaker 1: done with me. Thank you all for reading this, and 1413 01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,160 Speaker 1: thanks again for me being there. 1414 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:31,639 Speaker 2: Is there another update? 1415 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 1: Uh, there's some quick relevant comments that will that will 1416 01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:38,000 Speaker 1: close us out with awkward. That's where it ends. But 1417 01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 1: that's where the story ends. 1418 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:43,880 Speaker 2: Ok story? Okay, that's not that feels okay, I mean, 1419 01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,680 Speaker 2: except for the fact that there's someone being isolated and 1420 01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:50,439 Speaker 2: manipulated twenty four to seven, But like, hey, you know 1421 01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:51,559 Speaker 2: you don't win them all. 1422 01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:56,240 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, it's it's definitely not the best outcome possible, 1423 01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:59,919 Speaker 1: but it seems like it could be on the path towards. 1424 01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. I guess we have to hope that the community rallies, 1425 01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:07,799 Speaker 2: right because it's like, what it feels like right now 1426 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:17,000 Speaker 2: is Ope's sister just has no control over herself or 1427 01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:22,320 Speaker 2: her kids. Yes, so it's tough. Poor kids, Yeah, bad 1428 01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:25,799 Speaker 2: Wolf seven eight five zeros is poor kids, and Sophia, 1429 01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:29,559 Speaker 2: could you please move the stream elements things so we 1430 01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:31,720 Speaker 2: can see all of the can you make it like 1431 01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:35,720 Speaker 2: all like the same, so we can see everything and 1432 01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:40,800 Speaker 2: also the ourselves too. You can make it small though, 1433 01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah that's fine, but yeah rough, it is rough. But 1434 01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:51,080 Speaker 2: guess what, there's a bunch of new people in the stream, 1435 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,160 Speaker 2: which means we can start this new story with a 1436 01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 2: fresh group of people. We also do have a wheelspin. 1437 01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:01,960 Speaker 3: We have two wheel spins. 1438 01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:07,800 Speaker 2: Let's do that two wheel spin a and so feel 1439 01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:12,400 Speaker 2: let's do as many uh like, full camera switches as possible. 1440 01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 2: So while you're wheel spinning ball queue alright, ready, let's 1441 01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 2: do it. Spin that Wills, oh me, SAMs, do you 1442 01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:30,160 Speaker 2: know how to do memes? All right, let's spin. 1443 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:36,440 Speaker 3: We'll change that one. 1444 01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:42,040 Speaker 2: Hard mode. Oh I love hard mode. I love hard mode? 1445 01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:44,479 Speaker 2: Forgot what hard mode was? Is you you choose? So 1446 01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:48,800 Speaker 2: hard mode is you choose a side and stick with it. 1447 01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:51,519 Speaker 2: So you have to choose after the story read and 1448 01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:54,080 Speaker 2: stick with it for the entirety of it. And so feel, 1449 01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:56,839 Speaker 2: let's have full camera switches as much as possible. 1450 01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:02,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, hold on, wait, but we also have 1451 01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:03,960 Speaker 3: to do spin the wheel again. 1452 01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:06,479 Speaker 2: Well let's maybe maybe we do it after the hard 1453 01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:09,000 Speaker 2: mout I promised them too, all right, fine. 1454 01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, John questions. 1455 01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so how about we do how about we do 1456 01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 2: hard mode? And then John questions after. 1457 01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:23,400 Speaker 3: Yes, that's what you guys get. 1458 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:27,439 Speaker 2: Let's guess what you get. Gotta get that git. So 1459 01:16:28,000 --> 01:16:30,719 Speaker 2: that means Sam is reading a story. I am reading 1460 01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:36,080 Speaker 2: a story. I can't wait to pick my side. 1461 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,000 Speaker 3: Okay, do you want to read this last donation? 1462 01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:43,240 Speaker 2: Uh? Nate McKay, thanks for the three sixty five. Just 1463 01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,720 Speaker 2: finished working fourteen hours with a six hour nap in 1464 01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:49,840 Speaker 2: between my final school product. Now I got a week 1465 01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:52,040 Speaker 2: off and I'm going to sleep through most of it. 1466 01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:55,320 Speaker 1: Don't forget to play your pals okop in the background. 1467 01:16:57,720 --> 01:17:01,439 Speaker 2: That's true while you sleep, white noise while you sleep, 1468 01:17:01,640 --> 01:17:05,400 Speaker 2: and you're literally Sophia is doing a great job producing. 1469 01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,519 Speaker 2: I am just giving suggestions live because I have to 1470 01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:11,479 Speaker 2: talk to her through here. She's doing a great job's 1471 01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:15,120 Speaker 2: killing the game, and she knows it. I'm just giving suggestions. Guys. 1472 01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:20,320 Speaker 2: Geeze man, all are on my case? All right? 1473 01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:30,240 Speaker 1: Sophia's having so she is like, you want to screech 1474 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:31,240 Speaker 1: full switch full screen. 1475 01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:35,200 Speaker 2: I'll switch full screen. It's because I want I want 1476 01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:38,200 Speaker 2: Sophia to because we only ever see Sofia in the 1477 01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:41,000 Speaker 2: small square. I want to see your full face. You 1478 01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:44,080 Speaker 2: deserve more worms really quick. 1479 01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:47,479 Speaker 1: Someone just suggested John Viking braids, which we probably can't 1480 01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:48,600 Speaker 1: do today, but that's a good one for that. 1481 01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:53,200 Speaker 2: Oh that is a great that's a great wheel air basis. 1482 01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:54,880 Speaker 2: Stop producers pleading. 1483 01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:57,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you get back here and do it yourself. 1484 01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 2: Well, actually, well, what episode am I reading for you? 1485 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:07,320 Speaker 3: You know it's a little bit tricky, but go to 1486 01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:10,360 Speaker 3: four forty six and then go to the one that 1487 01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:11,920 Speaker 3: is four forty four s too. 1488 01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 2: It's nice. All right, this is hard mode. This is 1489 01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 2: hard mode. So just so y'all remember hard mode is 1490 01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:25,320 Speaker 2: you have to pick a side and stick with it 1491 01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:26,479 Speaker 2: for the entirety. 1492 01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:29,280 Speaker 3: I'm going to make a poll so everyone has to 1493 01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:32,080 Speaker 3: choose a whole or not and then we'll know. 1494 01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:35,759 Speaker 2: Okay, choose it now. Yeah, it's hard mode for everybody. 1495 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,839 Speaker 2: Had everyone, let's. 1496 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:40,360 Speaker 3: Do it because I saw some comments on our last 1497 01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:44,719 Speaker 3: video where we did hard mode and people people were like, sorry, 1498 01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:47,240 Speaker 3: I'm trying to do multi dusk and people said like 1499 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:49,439 Speaker 3: there were two comments where people were like I can't 1500 01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:52,439 Speaker 3: believe John and Sam had those like takes. 1501 01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:54,040 Speaker 2: Oh really, that's so funny. 1502 01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:55,839 Speaker 3: I was like, guys, guys, it's okay. 1503 01:18:56,160 --> 01:18:58,800 Speaker 2: Worn't hard mode, worn't hard mode. Maybe we could have 1504 01:18:58,880 --> 01:18:59,600 Speaker 2: like a little thing that. 1505 01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:03,639 Speaker 1: Says like, yeah, we should get that, all right, any 1506 01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 1: are you ready let's do it? 1507 01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:08,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Or should we? Should we choose a whole or 1508 01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,960 Speaker 2: not a hole? Yes, before we even read it, Yes 1509 01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:15,240 Speaker 2: we should. That's so good. Okay, A whole or not. 1510 01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,160 Speaker 1: A I'm going I'm going a whole. I'm going a whole, 1511 01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:17,720 Speaker 1: all right. 1512 01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:20,599 Speaker 3: You guys can choose to play along at home. 1513 01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:24,400 Speaker 2: I'm also gonna go a hole. All right, ready, let's 1514 01:19:24,439 --> 01:19:27,040 Speaker 2: do it. Oh, it's so good. Am I the a 1515 01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:35,040 Speaker 2: hole for saving orphans? Yes? Am I the a hole 1516 01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,600 Speaker 2: for telling my sister in law she can't comment on 1517 01:19:37,640 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 2: my wife's pregnancy until she's pregnant. Now? 1518 01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,080 Speaker 3: What did you say again, John? 1519 01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:46,040 Speaker 2: I said a hole? I said a whole too. All right, Sophia, 1520 01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:47,080 Speaker 2: you're not the a whole. 1521 01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:49,360 Speaker 3: I guess, so, all right, just to switch it up 1522 01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:49,720 Speaker 3: a little bit. 1523 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,960 Speaker 2: Okay, this comes from usual army six nine one. For context, 1524 01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:57,080 Speaker 2: I'm thirty male, sister in law twitter female, and my 1525 01:19:57,200 --> 01:20:00,680 Speaker 2: wife is thirty male. I don't like my sister or 1526 01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:03,439 Speaker 2: my wife is thirty female. I don't like my sister 1527 01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:07,759 Speaker 2: in law of course ahole ale move, ale move done. 1528 01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:09,960 Speaker 2: Just like what you just don't like someone just because 1529 01:20:09,960 --> 01:20:13,320 Speaker 2: they're your sister. Confirmed by the second sentence, easy, I 1530 01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:16,719 Speaker 2: hate everyone, Amy, I don't like my sister in law Amy. 1531 01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:20,040 Speaker 2: She's a very judgmental girl. Oh sounds like you're judging. Yeah, 1532 01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:23,799 Speaker 2: you're judging literally right now. She's us get a grip 1533 01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 2: coma who doesn't know when to read the room and 1534 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:34,519 Speaker 2: give unsolicited advice? Well, guess who's asking for unsolicited advice? Whoa, 1535 01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:36,880 Speaker 2: I guess if it's you're asking for it, it's not unsolicited. 1536 01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:41,559 Speaker 2: But as you man boy still stands, I'm civil. Oh yeah, sure, 1537 01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:44,360 Speaker 2: because you're publishing this to Matt Strangers on Reddit since 1538 01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,320 Speaker 2: she makes my brother Frank twenty eight male happy. But 1539 01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:51,639 Speaker 2: that's as much respect as I have for her. Well, 1540 01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:55,439 Speaker 2: guess how much respect I have for uop? So much? 1541 01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:59,720 Speaker 2: Not a zip? Anyway, she has problem with my wife 1542 01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:05,000 Speaker 2: and Pasha specifically. My wife keeps to herself. Okay, butthole 1543 01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:08,720 Speaker 2: move a lot of the time. It has always been introverted, 1544 01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:11,880 Speaker 2: or maybe she's just mean. She's been through a lot 1545 01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:15,000 Speaker 2: in her childhood. Sure, and oh ky, wait, this is 1546 01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:23,639 Speaker 2: kidd and has BPD things my polar disorder? Possibly? Oh man, 1547 01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:33,599 Speaker 2: about that John that Amy always comments on, but I 1548 01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:37,040 Speaker 2: always shut it down. Oh shut down your wife? Who 1549 01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:42,160 Speaker 2: wants to talk about BPD borderline personality sor yeah? Thank you? 1550 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:45,920 Speaker 2: How dare you? Op? How dare you? I think mental 1551 01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:48,680 Speaker 2: health should be talked about, but maybe you don't. Well, 1552 01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:52,040 Speaker 2: we found out we were pregnant, all right, classic man 1553 01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:56,480 Speaker 2: taking taking ownership over the pregnancy. 1554 01:21:56,640 --> 01:22:00,880 Speaker 1: Well, actually we were pregnant. Yeah yeah, wow, I didn't 1555 01:22:00,880 --> 01:22:01,720 Speaker 1: see you giving breath? 1556 01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:05,200 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, last time I checked. You aren't forcing a 1557 01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:11,439 Speaker 2: nine pound sausage through a hole, a gopher hole. Where's 1558 01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:13,720 Speaker 2: your uterus? Oh that's right, you don't have one. I'll 1559 01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:17,960 Speaker 2: have one. Get out of my face, say here. Anyway, 1560 01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:20,840 Speaker 2: we found out we were pregnant with our first Amy 1561 01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:23,759 Speaker 2: made comments about how she was worried her future niche 1562 01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:28,439 Speaker 2: slash nephew would get my wife's BPD and end up 1563 01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:34,400 Speaker 2: quote unquote crazy. Which to stay, which self to say? 1564 01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 2: She walked out of there with a black eye from 1565 01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:46,400 Speaker 2: my wife? WHOA I mean, she don't play. I can't 1566 01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:49,760 Speaker 2: believe she would resort to physical violence. A whole move 1567 01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:54,080 Speaker 2: my wife. Yeah, we only said OPI's the a hole. 1568 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah no, I'm not saying everyone associate with OP A hole. 1569 01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:03,280 Speaker 3: Interesting can and as the as the not a hole 1570 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:09,320 Speaker 3: in the group. Yes, uh standard ground man ground someone 1571 01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:10,280 Speaker 3: saying anything to. 1572 01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,559 Speaker 2: You them boom, Hey, take out a bazooka. 1573 01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:16,519 Speaker 3: Sam says, change your producing way. 1574 01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 2: Boom, knock him out. 1575 01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:22,160 Speaker 3: You're done. I have the power. You're never going to 1576 01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:22,880 Speaker 3: see Sam again. 1577 01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:30,280 Speaker 2: Now, Hi, I'm Sam. That is true, Sophia, so much power? 1578 01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:32,559 Speaker 2: And John, what was that? What was that? 1579 01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:34,719 Speaker 1: So? I thought I heard it's like the wind. 1580 01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:39,000 Speaker 3: Also, everyone seems to have voted or the majority voted 1581 01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,000 Speaker 3: for not the a whole, But all of you folks 1582 01:23:41,040 --> 01:23:43,240 Speaker 3: who voted a whole stick to your guns. 1583 01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:46,719 Speaker 2: Stick to your guns and they even pull one out. Yeah, 1584 01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:52,160 Speaker 2: and someone challenges you anyway, we found out. 1585 01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:54,280 Speaker 3: Oh here you go. 1586 01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,080 Speaker 2: From my wife. I lowered contact with Amy and told 1587 01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:05,720 Speaker 2: Frank to lay off for a while, which caused a 1588 01:24:05,840 --> 01:24:10,839 Speaker 2: rift between the family, with them taking Amy and Frank's 1589 01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:15,479 Speaker 2: side since they've never really liked Natasha and I. Well, 1590 01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:19,439 Speaker 2: obviously you're an ahle. Why would anyone like you? Yeah, 1591 01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:25,759 Speaker 2: you are a violent brood suck Birbee says BPD, big 1592 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:34,679 Speaker 2: punch delivered, Let's go so funny. She couldn't walk, barely breathe, 1593 01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:39,040 Speaker 2: and was in constant pain. I've never felt more useless 1594 01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:42,960 Speaker 2: knowing I couldn't take away her pain. I mean, wait, 1595 01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:47,120 Speaker 2: I can't imagine you feeling not more useless because your 1596 01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:49,840 Speaker 2: your utility is zero. I mean, yeah, you literally suck, 1597 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:52,879 Speaker 2: but you literally suck. You're an ahole. What happened the wife? 1598 01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:58,040 Speaker 2: This is the wife? So uh? The wife was oh, 1599 01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:01,680 Speaker 2: I may have I may have missed a bit. So 1600 01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:03,360 Speaker 2: I lowered contact with Amy and told for oh no, 1601 01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:05,519 Speaker 2: I didn't no, no, no, I may have missed a bit. 1602 01:25:05,760 --> 01:25:08,400 Speaker 2: I lowered contact with Amy and told Frank to lay 1603 01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:09,960 Speaker 2: off for a while, which caused a rift from my 1604 01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:13,680 Speaker 2: side of the family with them taking eight no. I 1605 01:25:13,720 --> 01:25:16,479 Speaker 2: read that I didn't care. I didn't care. I focused 1606 01:25:16,479 --> 01:25:18,759 Speaker 2: on my wife and our son six than our first 1607 01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:21,719 Speaker 2: girl four. Both pregnancies were okay, and me and Frank 1608 01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:24,680 Speaker 2: eventually made up and he could meet my eldest. So 1609 01:25:24,720 --> 01:25:27,400 Speaker 2: it sounds like the family reunited, got it all right. 1610 01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:30,759 Speaker 2: Come around the third pregnancy, and this was the worst 1611 01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:34,519 Speaker 2: I've seen Natasha. Natasha is his wife. Ah, she couldn't walk, 1612 01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:38,080 Speaker 2: barely could breathe, and was in constant pain. I've never 1613 01:25:38,280 --> 01:25:42,840 Speaker 2: felt more useless knowing I couldn't take away her pain. Well, 1614 01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:45,200 Speaker 2: I mean, if both of you are pregnant, maybe. 1615 01:25:45,000 --> 01:25:47,519 Speaker 1: How about you get a uterus and shut the f up? 1616 01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, what about split the baby in half? She 1617 01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,080 Speaker 2: gives birth to have the baby, and you give birth 1618 01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:55,280 Speaker 2: the other half. But guess what I get what you 1619 01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:58,400 Speaker 2: don't want to put in the work through you. I 1620 01:25:58,520 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 2: just said, put it in a uterus. That's all I said. 1621 01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:07,519 Speaker 2: I just all right, So I've never felt more useless. Sure, 1622 01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:10,880 Speaker 2: we had a daily hospital check up, which never really 1623 01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:14,160 Speaker 2: got anywhere except new medications, probably because you were there. 1624 01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,160 Speaker 2: Uh he's a disease that needs to be cured. Yeah yeah, 1625 01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:23,360 Speaker 2: but move yourself, remove yourself exactly. It was really bad 1626 01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:25,599 Speaker 2: at one point, and I broke down crying, all right, 1627 01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:31,439 Speaker 2: your little whiny baby, and begged her to abort, since 1628 01:26:31,479 --> 01:26:34,519 Speaker 2: I didn't want to lose her, and the kids losing 1629 01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:41,240 Speaker 2: their mom wants to kill kids. 1630 01:26:41,640 --> 01:26:45,599 Speaker 3: I feel like throughout hard mode is hard mode. We 1631 01:26:45,640 --> 01:26:47,400 Speaker 3: need to have a sign that pops up he goes 1632 01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:48,240 Speaker 3: hard mode. 1633 01:26:48,280 --> 01:26:53,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, hard We don't think this is hard exactly good. 1634 01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:54,720 Speaker 3: Yeah that's me. 1635 01:26:55,520 --> 01:27:01,960 Speaker 2: Heart hand refused. Good, I guess, don't listen to the able. 1636 01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:07,680 Speaker 2: And we pushed through and had our last baby girl. 1637 01:27:08,240 --> 01:27:10,960 Speaker 2: We pushed through who was almost gonna die your wife, 1638 01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:14,679 Speaker 2: not you, and had our last baby girl a couple 1639 01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:17,960 Speaker 2: weeks two months ago. She of course has postpartum, probably 1640 01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:21,160 Speaker 2: because she's with you. It's not horrible, but mixed with 1641 01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:24,760 Speaker 2: her mental illness. She's been really quiet and looks uninterested 1642 01:27:24,880 --> 01:27:27,240 Speaker 2: in the baby. Maybe it's just when you're around because 1643 01:27:27,240 --> 01:27:30,000 Speaker 2: she's uninterested in you. Agreed, But she does care, just 1644 01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:32,559 Speaker 2: really tired, and I'm doing my best to support her 1645 01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:36,200 Speaker 2: in all three of our babies by what like planned 1646 01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:40,040 Speaker 2: Fortnite last week we finally allowed visitations with the boundary. 1647 01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:42,000 Speaker 2: You're not a hard vone with me. I'm hard voting 1648 01:27:42,000 --> 01:27:45,000 Speaker 2: all myself. It was hard voting. I just said agree, agree, agreed. 1649 01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:49,360 Speaker 2: I just said agreed three times in a row. Back 1650 01:27:49,479 --> 01:27:51,800 Speaker 2: me up chat. I'm a town in the ship with me, 1651 01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:58,800 Speaker 2: not just agreed? Did I not just agree? Mar Moore 1652 01:27:58,880 --> 01:28:02,600 Speaker 2: says Sam. We did a chan with you reading smecksy stories. 1653 01:28:02,760 --> 01:28:07,280 Speaker 2: Your voice is fantastic. Oh god, oh yeah. Oh God 1654 01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:14,160 Speaker 2: about Johnzo God Uh yeah, yeah, yeah. Danielle Fiver says, sure, John, Yeah, sure, 1655 01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:17,080 Speaker 2: crosser creases notch on your throwing Sam to the world. 1656 01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:20,600 Speaker 2: What John be better? This is intermedia. Oh I'm not 1657 01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:25,760 Speaker 2: on intermediate mode. Maybe last week we finally allowed visitations 1658 01:28:25,760 --> 01:28:29,000 Speaker 2: with the boundary that Natasha wanted only her and me 1659 01:28:29,240 --> 01:28:31,840 Speaker 2: to hold the baby. Man, this guy probably has butterfingers. 1660 01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:35,679 Speaker 2: He shouldn't be holding anything but his limp penis, which 1661 01:28:35,720 --> 01:28:43,000 Speaker 2: everyone agreed, which everyone followed well to visit. When Natasha 1662 01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,960 Speaker 2: went to visit upstairs the feeder girl, that's when Amy 1663 01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:49,320 Speaker 2: turned my mom and it complained about Natasha not allowing 1664 01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:52,960 Speaker 2: anyone to bond with the baby and was being dramatic 1665 01:28:53,120 --> 01:28:56,280 Speaker 2: with the whole rule. Mom agreed and told me to 1666 01:28:56,320 --> 01:28:58,719 Speaker 2: talk to her so she can bond with her grand baby. 1667 01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:02,040 Speaker 2: But I shut them both down. Yeah, because he hates 1668 01:29:02,040 --> 01:29:04,280 Speaker 2: his mom, because he hates his off crap and crap. 1669 01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:06,320 Speaker 2: They should run away. That's what I'm freaking talking about. John. 1670 01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:09,000 Speaker 2: There we go, That's what I'm saying. Uh, she was 1671 01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:12,120 Speaker 2: the mother and it was her final choice. Amy scoffed 1672 01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:15,599 Speaker 2: and staid if she was a mom, she wouldn't act 1673 01:29:15,600 --> 01:29:19,799 Speaker 2: as dramatic. I got pissed. This girl didn't know half 1674 01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:23,240 Speaker 2: of what my wife went through. Oh, just because she's 1675 01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:27,040 Speaker 2: a girl doesn't know half way to be sexist, way 1676 01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:30,559 Speaker 2: to be sexy. Congratulations your misogynist. Yeah. And next thing, 1677 01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 2: you know, oh, women only know seventy percent of what 1678 01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:36,800 Speaker 2: men know. Yeah, you're gonna be saying that, You're gonna 1679 01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:39,439 Speaker 2: be saying suck. You know what. I love the gender 1680 01:29:39,439 --> 01:29:44,080 Speaker 2: pay gap things. Op says. Whoa wow, I didn't know 1681 01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:51,439 Speaker 2: you were quality op. Yeah, yeah, stop stop it right now. Anyway, 1682 01:29:51,840 --> 01:29:56,519 Speaker 2: Amy scoffed. I got pissed and half I didn't know 1683 01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:58,760 Speaker 2: half of what my wife went to and had the 1684 01:29:58,880 --> 01:30:01,640 Speaker 2: nerve to call her dramatic. And I told her what 1685 01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,880 Speaker 2: I said in the title, she's infertile bro and uh oh, 1686 01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,240 Speaker 2: she's infertile bro and her have been trying with no results, 1687 01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:12,840 Speaker 2: and basically Opie said she uh uh and my the 1688 01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:14,840 Speaker 2: a hil for telling my sister in law she can't 1689 01:30:14,880 --> 01:30:18,280 Speaker 2: comment on how my wife handles her pregnancies until she 1690 01:30:18,600 --> 01:30:22,280 Speaker 2: gets pregnant, and she can't get pregnant, like we've said 1691 01:30:22,280 --> 01:30:25,880 Speaker 2: from the beginning. Of course, he's massive ahole you could have. 1692 01:30:25,880 --> 01:30:29,400 Speaker 1: Reached inside and taken the high road. Yeah yeah, Instead, 1693 01:30:29,640 --> 01:30:31,760 Speaker 1: you're the lowest of roads. You don't just live in 1694 01:30:31,800 --> 01:30:35,160 Speaker 1: the gutter. You live in the under bowels of Satan's layer. 1695 01:30:35,479 --> 01:30:40,120 Speaker 2: You are you are pond scum. You are the the 1696 01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:43,320 Speaker 2: the the the poop at the bottom of the ocean, 1697 01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:47,120 Speaker 2: on the little crabs that eat that, the little, the little, 1698 01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:49,599 Speaker 2: little little poop eating crab. Yes, you are. You are 1699 01:30:49,640 --> 01:30:53,240 Speaker 2: a poop eating crustacean. That is correct. That is correct, 1700 01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:58,160 Speaker 2: And you deserve you just you deserve death. You could 1701 01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:00,479 Speaker 2: you can go. That's sale on that, and I'm going 1702 01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:07,799 Speaker 2: intermediate mode death anyway. Amy bawled her eyes out, screaming 1703 01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:10,080 Speaker 2: at me and ran out, with my brother following her, 1704 01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:14,320 Speaker 2: also calling me a butt. My parents left, and I 1705 01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:16,519 Speaker 2: told them not to come back till they apologize. I 1706 01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:18,519 Speaker 2: don't think I'm wrong, of course, because you're an a hole, 1707 01:31:18,640 --> 01:31:20,800 Speaker 2: but they've since cut contact with me, and my uncle, 1708 01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:23,200 Speaker 2: the one I'm closest to, told me to just apologize 1709 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:24,760 Speaker 2: so we can move on. I don't think I'm wrong. 1710 01:31:24,880 --> 01:31:27,080 Speaker 2: I haven't told that Daja what happened, and she doesn't 1711 01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:32,440 Speaker 2: seem to mind them not visiting anymore. So am I 1712 01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:40,360 Speaker 2: the A hole? Yes, obvious a hole, easiest, easiest ale ever. 1713 01:31:41,680 --> 01:31:47,559 Speaker 2: You wanted to kill your baby, you didn't grow uterus. Uh, 1714 01:31:47,840 --> 01:31:53,960 Speaker 2: you took credit for your wife's birth. You uh suck, 1715 01:31:54,400 --> 01:31:59,600 Speaker 2: you suck. You were a terrible support post pregnancy. 1716 01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,200 Speaker 1: You love inequality and the women's pay gap. 1717 01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:06,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, do we need to say anymore? Seriously? Do we? 1718 01:32:06,880 --> 01:32:08,559 Speaker 1: I mean, Sam, we could sit here and just write 1719 01:32:08,600 --> 01:32:10,960 Speaker 1: a whole book, right, we could write a novel op 1720 01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:14,479 Speaker 1: the A hole. Here's why. But do we even need 1721 01:32:14,520 --> 01:32:16,200 Speaker 1: to is that? Is it just a waste of time 1722 01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:18,120 Speaker 1: because of how obvious the A hole op is? 1723 01:32:18,960 --> 01:32:23,760 Speaker 2: It's waste time? Yeah, write Sophia. No, it's so obvious 1724 01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:24,880 Speaker 2: the ahole. 1725 01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:27,880 Speaker 3: Can I have a full shot to back me up? 1726 01:32:28,120 --> 01:32:31,880 Speaker 3: Go ahead, go ahead, Well the sister in law. 1727 01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:34,360 Speaker 2: I would love to see Sophia more. 1728 01:32:35,479 --> 01:32:39,120 Speaker 3: Thang thang. I actually didn't really take in a lot 1729 01:32:39,120 --> 01:32:43,360 Speaker 3: of this story. I was doing the producer. But I'm sure, 1730 01:32:44,520 --> 01:32:47,519 Speaker 3: I'm sure that's not the A hole. 1731 01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:52,800 Speaker 2: This is me read some of the commons and see 1732 01:32:52,920 --> 01:32:56,240 Speaker 2: if anyone could possibly disagree with us. Let's see it. 1733 01:32:56,560 --> 01:33:00,679 Speaker 2: Let's see it. Aida Canari says hard mode aside before 1734 01:33:00,680 --> 01:33:02,519 Speaker 2: they read the story and have to defend it throughout 1735 01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:05,799 Speaker 2: the story. That is true. Correct, Please don't clip anything 1736 01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:09,439 Speaker 2: we say and for us, yeah, except do it because 1737 01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:14,839 Speaker 2: that's what we believe. Amy Dutchess Cassandra says Amy shouldn't 1738 01:33:14,840 --> 01:33:17,600 Speaker 2: have had kids if she's so inflexible. What if she 1739 01:33:17,800 --> 01:33:24,960 Speaker 2: has a neurodivergent kid, she'd be a crap parent. Maybe 1740 01:33:24,960 --> 01:33:27,240 Speaker 2: some people think that so the sister in law says, 1741 01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:29,360 Speaker 2: the sister laws the a hole, not the a hole, 1742 01:33:29,400 --> 01:33:33,120 Speaker 2: says Da Canary. Janay Jackson says separating mom and newborn 1743 01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:36,960 Speaker 2: for this so called bonding time actually raises corsal levels 1744 01:33:36,960 --> 01:33:39,360 Speaker 2: in mom and baby bond with the baby once they 1745 01:33:39,400 --> 01:33:41,760 Speaker 2: are three months or older. 1746 01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:45,160 Speaker 1: Instead of abandoning your children like ope did yeah, smart, 1747 01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:47,759 Speaker 1: very smart, very smart. 1748 01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:51,000 Speaker 2: A dash Start says that was root of ope. But 1749 01:33:51,040 --> 01:33:53,080 Speaker 2: cistern in law has been pushing him and his wife 1750 01:33:53,120 --> 01:33:53,840 Speaker 2: the whole time. 1751 01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:58,160 Speaker 1: Maybe he's been pushing everyone away from him. Yeah, because 1752 01:33:58,200 --> 01:33:59,000 Speaker 1: he's a dirty monster. 1753 01:33:59,040 --> 01:34:02,439 Speaker 2: He's a dirty monster. But yeah, let us know what 1754 01:34:02,479 --> 01:34:04,439 Speaker 2: you think in the in the chat, like what what 1755 01:34:04,520 --> 01:34:07,479 Speaker 2: what what do you what do you really think? Put 1756 01:34:07,520 --> 01:34:12,639 Speaker 2: your answers in the chat, really think and that concludes 1757 01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:13,120 Speaker 2: hard mode. 1758 01:34:13,760 --> 01:34:15,599 Speaker 3: That concludes hard mode. 1759 01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:19,160 Speaker 2: You we said some out of pocket things right there, 1760 01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:28,800 Speaker 2: We said, especially me, lets me freaking die out here. Yeah, 1761 01:34:28,920 --> 01:34:32,479 Speaker 2: but uh, you know, I in reality, I feel like 1762 01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:37,920 Speaker 2: op is not the a hole. It sounds like he's 1763 01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:40,519 Speaker 2: trying his best to support his wife through like postpart 1764 01:34:40,560 --> 01:34:42,760 Speaker 2: and depression. I don't think it's a good move that 1765 01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:48,800 Speaker 2: the wife like punched, uh punched or was it or 1766 01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:51,519 Speaker 2: bipolar disorder, But I don't think it's a good move 1767 01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:54,320 Speaker 2: that the wife punched Amy Natasha. 1768 01:34:53,880 --> 01:34:58,759 Speaker 1: Punk yes, and so so basically really quick, so Opie's 1769 01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:02,599 Speaker 1: wife ha is BPD. And then the sister in law 1770 01:35:02,720 --> 01:35:05,120 Speaker 1: was like, why would you have a kid you have BPD? 1771 01:35:05,200 --> 01:35:06,960 Speaker 1: What if you pass it down? The wife punches her 1772 01:35:06,960 --> 01:35:08,200 Speaker 1: in the face, yeah either black guy. 1773 01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:14,040 Speaker 2: So like, like the sister was absolutely absolutely a hole 1774 01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:16,639 Speaker 2: to say that to someone who had a super hard 1775 01:35:16,720 --> 01:35:21,400 Speaker 2: berth and and also is is like not in the 1776 01:35:21,400 --> 01:35:23,680 Speaker 2: best mental state right now. To say something like that 1777 01:35:23,720 --> 01:35:25,599 Speaker 2: to someone who is in a good mental state would 1778 01:35:25,600 --> 01:35:29,960 Speaker 2: be terrible. But specifically this specifically what Natasha is going through, 1779 01:35:30,200 --> 01:35:33,720 Speaker 2: like super bad, Yeah, super messed up. So obviously the 1780 01:35:33,760 --> 01:35:39,200 Speaker 2: a hole. I think Natasha is going through a lot. 1781 01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:41,960 Speaker 2: Not a good move to punch someone in the eye, 1782 01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:46,800 Speaker 2: for sure, but I understand with like everything she's going through, 1783 01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:49,439 Speaker 2: why that would have happened. Yeah, but no, Never a 1784 01:35:49,439 --> 01:35:53,600 Speaker 2: good move to punch for someone throwing words at you, 1785 01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:56,360 Speaker 2: unless you're punching Opie. Unless're punching op because he's a 1786 01:35:56,360 --> 01:35:59,600 Speaker 2: thirty A hole exactly, dirty, a hole exactly. But we 1787 01:35:59,720 --> 01:36:02,479 Speaker 2: do have some people who are not a hole? Is 1788 01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:08,120 Speaker 2: that that? Are Spiffy Tiffy about to drive for two hours? 1789 01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:10,000 Speaker 2: Hope I get to listen to y'all for all of it. 1790 01:36:10,120 --> 01:36:13,640 Speaker 2: I love hard Mode. By the way. Some people like 1791 01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,439 Speaker 2: hard Mode. I saw one person that was like, I 1792 01:36:15,439 --> 01:36:19,599 Speaker 2: don't like hard mode. Fricking used to it? Grow up? 1793 01:36:20,320 --> 01:36:24,439 Speaker 2: Grow up? Oh we've read those, Yeah, we read that. 1794 01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:27,759 Speaker 2: Stanley Costa, thanks for the five buck tip for Spitfy 1795 01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:30,360 Speaker 2: Tiffy's ride home. In my sanity while doing work for 1796 01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:33,800 Speaker 2: my first conference presentation as a student, you present the 1797 01:36:33,840 --> 01:36:37,519 Speaker 2: freak out of it. You present present us to your class. 1798 01:36:37,680 --> 01:36:40,840 Speaker 2: Do it? Get them some, get us, get us some 1799 01:36:40,880 --> 01:36:43,840 Speaker 2: new Okay, family members, you'll get a gante, you'll get 1800 01:36:43,840 --> 01:36:46,679 Speaker 2: a new plus plus, or maybe they'll tell you you're 1801 01:36:46,840 --> 01:36:49,760 Speaker 2: an a hole by not doing the assignment. Could never 1802 01:36:50,000 --> 01:36:52,639 Speaker 2: never either way, you're getting a that's true, that's true. 1803 01:36:53,160 --> 01:36:56,240 Speaker 1: Chicken Wealthy for the four twenty tip. Jenner shutter here 1804 01:36:56,600 --> 01:36:59,400 Speaker 1: just getting on the stream after work. Love hard mode. 1805 01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:03,000 Speaker 1: Defo the a hole here, let's freaking go. Probably has 1806 01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:04,040 Speaker 1: two housekeepers. 1807 01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:06,439 Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, but uh, we were 1808 01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:12,000 Speaker 2: the last through Like, yeah, Chicken money, Yeah, Chicken malty. 1809 01:37:12,479 --> 01:37:16,200 Speaker 1: Their their handle is like referencing that Chicken wealth. 1810 01:37:16,240 --> 01:37:20,439 Speaker 2: That's so funny. Wow, you guys have the best inside jokes. 1811 01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:22,800 Speaker 3: Literally, it's the con that I saw that was like 1812 01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:24,920 Speaker 3: talking about you guys doing hard mode last time. It 1813 01:37:24,960 --> 01:37:28,559 Speaker 3: was like someone being like people work for their money, guys, Like, 1814 01:37:28,720 --> 01:37:31,560 Speaker 3: you can't be harassing them for having chickens. 1815 01:37:31,880 --> 01:37:34,439 Speaker 2: Yes slowly Toovia says Sam is very violent and hard 1816 01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:36,680 Speaker 2: vote yeah same goes all the way. Yeah got it. 1817 01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:38,439 Speaker 2: He is the hard boat king. Are you kidding? Like? 1818 01:37:38,479 --> 01:37:40,000 Speaker 2: I barely have a filter as is. 1819 01:37:41,120 --> 01:37:43,280 Speaker 1: If you win, the filter is supposed to be removed. 1820 01:37:43,800 --> 01:37:48,559 Speaker 1: That's right. But Foxy Sloth thanks for the one twenty 1821 01:37:48,560 --> 01:37:51,559 Speaker 1: five tip. I love watching your lives. I always missed them. 1822 01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:53,880 Speaker 1: Hello from the UK, love you all so much. Also, 1823 01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:57,639 Speaker 1: I love all of Sophia's accents. Everyone does. 1824 01:37:57,840 --> 01:37:59,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's great. 1825 01:38:00,640 --> 01:38:03,360 Speaker 1: Parallel Papaya, thanks for the twenty five buck tip. Hello 1826 01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:05,479 Speaker 1: on the donation link. Late to the show, but fingers 1827 01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:06,479 Speaker 1: crossed for another hour. 1828 01:38:07,520 --> 01:38:08,200 Speaker 2: We're close. 1829 01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:08,840 Speaker 3: We're close. 1830 01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,320 Speaker 1: That's right, we are close. Daddy Jesse, thanks for the 1831 01:38:11,360 --> 01:38:13,960 Speaker 1: ten buck tip. As someone who has BPD, had a 1832 01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:17,600 Speaker 1: baby and dealt with ridiculous parenting advice comments from a 1833 01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:20,240 Speaker 1: lot of people. The black eye they that lady got 1834 01:38:20,320 --> 01:38:23,759 Speaker 1: was minor compared to what she deserves. Daddy Jesse, laying 1835 01:38:23,800 --> 01:38:26,720 Speaker 1: it down in the donations was. 1836 01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:27,160 Speaker 2: The next one. 1837 01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:29,960 Speaker 1: Jetter Shutter, thanks again for the four twenty hard mode. 1838 01:38:30,040 --> 01:38:32,559 Speaker 1: I hear op is actually responsible for what is happening 1839 01:38:32,600 --> 01:38:33,360 Speaker 1: in Haiti right now? 1840 01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:34,400 Speaker 2: Do what happened in Haiti? 1841 01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:40,200 Speaker 1: Bad things. There's a guy they call barbecue what because 1842 01:38:40,200 --> 01:38:43,040 Speaker 1: he'd be cooking people what he'd be cooking. 1843 01:38:43,200 --> 01:38:44,719 Speaker 2: Like to eat? 1844 01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:48,240 Speaker 1: That's what he says. Seriously, I think so something like that. 1845 01:38:48,280 --> 01:38:50,960 Speaker 1: They call him barbecue? What on barbecue? 1846 01:38:51,040 --> 01:38:53,519 Speaker 2: Can someone update us on what's going on in Haiti? 1847 01:38:53,720 --> 01:38:56,120 Speaker 1: Let us know what of the jet Let us know 1848 01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:58,479 Speaker 1: in the comments below in a way that won't take 1849 01:38:58,520 --> 01:39:01,960 Speaker 1: the stream down, but bicking of the stream not going down. 1850 01:39:02,080 --> 01:39:09,439 Speaker 2: Strawberry with the twenty twenty gifted gifted memberships membership, are 1851 01:39:09,479 --> 01:39:12,720 Speaker 2: you freaking kidding me? Big shout out to Strawberry for 1852 01:39:12,760 --> 01:39:14,240 Speaker 2: the twenty gift of membership. That's amazing. 1853 01:39:14,280 --> 01:39:17,599 Speaker 1: Winners for the two bucks phone call. I'm available, brother, 1854 01:39:17,720 --> 01:39:21,720 Speaker 1: cause oh we should call you soon, Winnars, maybe right 1855 01:39:21,760 --> 01:39:25,280 Speaker 1: after this next story, right after this next story. And 1856 01:39:25,320 --> 01:39:27,200 Speaker 1: I believe that is all the donations. 1857 01:39:27,520 --> 01:39:28,360 Speaker 2: Thanks gang. 1858 01:39:28,680 --> 01:39:31,559 Speaker 1: We're pretty close to unlocking the next hour. See what happens, 1859 01:39:31,600 --> 01:39:32,799 Speaker 1: to see what happens. 1860 01:39:33,000 --> 01:39:35,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're also I would like to say I think 1861 01:39:35,880 --> 01:39:40,000 Speaker 3: at like six maybe I forgot six's fifteen likes? 1862 01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:43,400 Speaker 2: WHOA, but how many people are in this stream? Can 1863 01:39:43,400 --> 01:39:45,480 Speaker 2: you tell me how many there. 1864 01:39:45,200 --> 01:39:49,639 Speaker 3: Are one thousand and thirty five people here? 1865 01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:53,799 Speaker 2: You're telling me, let me get this straight. You're telling 1866 01:39:53,880 --> 01:39:57,599 Speaker 2: me that there are over a thousand people here yet 1867 01:39:58,200 --> 01:40:01,800 Speaker 2: yet we only have have less than a thousand legs. 1868 01:40:01,840 --> 01:40:04,439 Speaker 2: How many likes we have? We have. 1869 01:40:05,920 --> 01:40:07,120 Speaker 3: Six sundry. 1870 01:40:07,800 --> 01:40:12,040 Speaker 2: There are four hundred grifters in our mix, twenty eight. 1871 01:40:12,400 --> 01:40:16,479 Speaker 2: Four hundred people that are not picking up the slack, 1872 01:40:16,680 --> 01:40:20,120 Speaker 2: that are not carrying the load, that are not woa. 1873 01:40:20,560 --> 01:40:22,080 Speaker 3: You know who is carrying the load? 1874 01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:28,040 Speaker 2: Hey, Tia Revetti with one hundred dollars gay one more hour, 1875 01:40:28,680 --> 01:40:31,120 Speaker 2: Happy birthday to me. 1876 01:40:32,320 --> 01:40:35,400 Speaker 1: My goodness, wow, happy birthday to everyone here. 1877 01:40:35,600 --> 01:40:38,439 Speaker 2: Tia is carrying that load and. 1878 01:40:38,400 --> 01:40:42,160 Speaker 3: That means that we are at another hour. 1879 01:40:47,760 --> 01:40:52,639 Speaker 2: And Jayron thanks for the five X tip. Love you guys. 1880 01:40:53,240 --> 01:40:59,519 Speaker 2: YouTube handle pronounced Jayron. I'm half Persian. Thanks Jayron already 1881 01:40:59,680 --> 01:41:01,880 Speaker 2: pronounce that's your name. Half person. 1882 01:41:02,080 --> 01:41:06,160 Speaker 3: But we had another little spin the wheel goal. 1883 01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:08,800 Speaker 2: It was John. 1884 01:41:10,640 --> 01:41:14,280 Speaker 3: Spot like John John, I got some questions for you. 1885 01:41:14,320 --> 01:41:18,040 Speaker 2: Ask away black and white TV like, but that. 1886 01:41:18,120 --> 01:41:21,720 Speaker 3: Was not what the questions flop say. 1887 01:41:21,760 --> 01:41:27,320 Speaker 2: I'm flopped the chata. Can I Can I say one 1888 01:41:27,320 --> 01:41:30,200 Speaker 2: of the things that I learned about you recently the 1889 01:41:30,240 --> 01:41:34,200 Speaker 2: coffee stuff? Sure go ahead, okay, So John John has 1890 01:41:34,240 --> 01:41:38,960 Speaker 2: been giving me crazy coffee tips, like like I'm saying, 1891 01:41:38,960 --> 01:41:41,920 Speaker 2: I have never tasted coffee so good. And it was 1892 01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:45,599 Speaker 2: a very simple tip. It was just like grind your 1893 01:41:45,600 --> 01:41:52,000 Speaker 2: beans beans and uh. I learned that John started drinking 1894 01:41:52,240 --> 01:41:54,439 Speaker 2: coffee regularly at. 1895 01:41:54,520 --> 01:42:01,599 Speaker 1: Nine nine old years old something like that. 1896 01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:02,920 Speaker 2: Is that not insane? 1897 01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:05,240 Speaker 3: That's a pretty instant. 1898 01:42:05,320 --> 01:42:07,040 Speaker 2: What did you start drinking coffee high school? 1899 01:42:07,120 --> 01:42:10,200 Speaker 3: Right, so yeah, I still don't really drink coffee, but yeah, 1900 01:42:10,200 --> 01:42:11,400 Speaker 3: probably not until high school. 1901 01:42:11,800 --> 01:42:14,840 Speaker 2: Wait, demon demonic Christie says salt and coffee makes it 1902 01:42:14,880 --> 01:42:15,400 Speaker 2: less bitter. 1903 01:42:16,360 --> 01:42:18,519 Speaker 3: Okay is that kind of like? How well? I mean, 1904 01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:21,200 Speaker 3: I'm thinking about like watermelon, you could put salt home 1905 01:42:21,240 --> 01:42:23,519 Speaker 3: watermelon and really whoa? 1906 01:42:24,320 --> 01:42:25,559 Speaker 2: Interesting? Whoa? 1907 01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:29,800 Speaker 3: But I've got those questions ready, all right. First one 1908 01:42:29,880 --> 01:42:38,479 Speaker 3: we got is spot like you, what fictional universe would 1909 01:42:38,520 --> 01:42:39,320 Speaker 3: you want to live in? 1910 01:42:39,800 --> 01:42:41,360 Speaker 2: Harry Potter? Dude? Facts? 1911 01:42:43,720 --> 01:42:45,960 Speaker 3: Uh? What is your I don't know this. What is 1912 01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:48,560 Speaker 3: your favorite song by Bone Thugs and Harmony? 1913 01:42:48,680 --> 01:42:52,360 Speaker 1: Oh you know what? I couldn't name one. I'm not 1914 01:42:52,360 --> 01:42:52,920 Speaker 1: gonna lie. 1915 01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:54,439 Speaker 2: To you whose Bone Thugs and Harmony. 1916 01:42:54,439 --> 01:42:58,720 Speaker 1: Bone Thugs and Harmony was a nineties group that popularized 1917 01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:06,640 Speaker 1: the triplet flow before the Migos. Like, that's like the 1918 01:43:06,680 --> 01:43:10,200 Speaker 1: Begos flow. But that's right that I know about them. 1919 01:43:10,360 --> 01:43:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not. 1920 01:43:11,000 --> 01:43:14,040 Speaker 1: I'm not as big into like deep nineties. I think 1921 01:43:14,040 --> 01:43:17,080 Speaker 1: they're also Memphis, but I know that much. But I 1922 01:43:17,080 --> 01:43:19,080 Speaker 1: can't even a lot. I can't even I can't even 1923 01:43:19,120 --> 01:43:19,559 Speaker 1: name a song. 1924 01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:20,080 Speaker 2: What else? 1925 01:43:20,520 --> 01:43:23,880 Speaker 3: Final? Well, actually maybe not final question? Would you ever 1926 01:43:23,920 --> 01:43:24,599 Speaker 3: go bald. 1927 01:43:25,120 --> 01:43:30,000 Speaker 1: No, No, I would not unless unless the universe did 1928 01:43:30,040 --> 01:43:31,599 Speaker 1: it to me, then I would. 1929 01:43:31,360 --> 01:43:35,840 Speaker 2: Hear wouldn't dare exactly never. 1930 01:43:36,360 --> 01:43:38,080 Speaker 3: But the real last question is what did you want 1931 01:43:38,120 --> 01:43:39,000 Speaker 3: to be when you were little? 1932 01:43:39,520 --> 01:43:43,920 Speaker 1: Oh, I wanted to be I wanted to be an astronomer, 1933 01:43:44,400 --> 01:43:47,280 Speaker 1: and then I wanted I heard the word industrial engineer, 1934 01:43:47,360 --> 01:43:49,479 Speaker 1: so then I said, I wanted to be an industrial engineer, 1935 01:43:52,000 --> 01:43:55,439 Speaker 1: and then I wanted to be when I was fifteen, 1936 01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:58,240 Speaker 1: I watched a bunch of nineties Silicon Valley documentaries, and 1937 01:43:58,240 --> 01:44:02,479 Speaker 1: then I wanted to be like the founder of Napster uh. 1938 01:44:02,520 --> 01:44:05,240 Speaker 2: And then I wanted to be a contracrator. Now I'm here. 1939 01:44:05,280 --> 01:44:09,559 Speaker 2: Look at you, I am he is Look at there 1940 01:44:09,600 --> 01:44:15,080 Speaker 2: you go. Dreams do come true? Pull off a man bun? Yeah, facts, dude, 1941 01:44:15,479 --> 01:44:17,960 Speaker 2: I do. I do man bun. Sometimes I do it. 1942 01:44:18,439 --> 01:44:21,479 Speaker 2: We've seen it. We've seen it, well, seen it. There 1943 01:44:21,520 --> 01:44:21,800 Speaker 2: we go. 1944 01:44:21,920 --> 01:44:24,200 Speaker 1: I've been doing Oh shouting a foxy cat off the 1945 01:44:24,240 --> 01:44:28,120 Speaker 1: two bucks missed my donation, asking about was it Charlotte 1946 01:44:28,160 --> 01:44:33,880 Speaker 1: Obray or we're searching through Sometimes it glitches, Oh. 1947 01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:36,679 Speaker 2: What is it with the super chats with the stickers? Glitches? Sometimes? 1948 01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:38,400 Speaker 3: Oh, wait, not one. 1949 01:44:40,000 --> 01:44:41,760 Speaker 2: Read. Thanks for the one buck tip, Thank you for 1950 01:44:41,800 --> 01:44:44,559 Speaker 2: the victim. I think I think I saw it somewhere 1951 01:44:44,560 --> 01:44:46,559 Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, where are you going to do this, 1952 01:44:46,720 --> 01:44:52,480 Speaker 2: Charlotte Debray collab? That collab is I mean we reached out, 1953 01:44:53,439 --> 01:44:56,840 Speaker 2: we did, we did? Oh yeah, I forgot, but I 1954 01:44:56,840 --> 01:44:59,160 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. We'll see if we go, we'll. 1955 01:44:59,240 --> 01:45:01,200 Speaker 1: Once again, guys, if you if you go to their 1956 01:45:01,280 --> 01:45:04,120 Speaker 1: videos and say, oh my goodness, golly goobers. I would 1957 01:45:04,200 --> 01:45:09,240 Speaker 1: love to see a collab with okop. Yeah it might happen, Yeah, 1958 01:45:09,320 --> 01:45:11,880 Speaker 1: it might happen, but you know what else might happen? 1959 01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:16,960 Speaker 2: What? Uh? This call in this calling? Let's have we 1960 01:45:17,040 --> 01:45:20,600 Speaker 2: read three stories on this thing already? Or has it 1961 01:45:20,680 --> 01:45:22,400 Speaker 2: only been two? Maybe? 1962 01:45:22,560 --> 01:45:22,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1963 01:45:22,760 --> 01:45:26,719 Speaker 2: We have one more, one more, one more super quick 1964 01:45:26,920 --> 01:45:31,599 Speaker 2: story and then call in. Let's and if you want 1965 01:45:31,760 --> 01:45:35,680 Speaker 2: us to call you, uh, maybe text us at four 1966 01:45:35,760 --> 01:45:38,400 Speaker 2: four zero five or right six five sixty seven and 1967 01:45:38,800 --> 01:45:41,880 Speaker 2: be or or discord actually probably discord. Yeah that's right. 1968 01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:47,040 Speaker 1: Message you're on Riley's discord right but you're you're Riley 1969 01:45:47,040 --> 01:45:48,200 Speaker 1: on Discord right now. 1970 01:45:48,600 --> 01:45:53,800 Speaker 2: You did message Riley on Discord with your one sentence. Uh, 1971 01:45:54,040 --> 01:45:56,800 Speaker 2: cap or like recap of your story and we'll call 1972 01:45:56,840 --> 01:45:59,240 Speaker 2: you on Discord. That's right, We're like doing calls to 1973 01:45:59,280 --> 01:46:02,160 Speaker 2: Discord mainly. Now, that's correct. It's crystal clear. 1974 01:46:02,400 --> 01:46:04,400 Speaker 3: Sorry, I was trying to type in the chat. I 1975 01:46:04,439 --> 01:46:07,120 Speaker 3: was trying to type I'm fixing the timer, and I 1976 01:46:07,200 --> 01:46:14,639 Speaker 3: just wrote I II I. 1977 01:46:15,439 --> 01:46:16,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, have another story. 1978 01:46:16,840 --> 01:46:21,720 Speaker 1: Oh see see yep, let's get let's freaking get into it, 1979 01:46:21,760 --> 01:46:25,880 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. So I do not want my mother 1980 01:46:25,920 --> 01:46:29,679 Speaker 1: in law watching my kids. And ladies and gentlemen, there's 1981 01:46:29,720 --> 01:46:32,840 Speaker 1: a very good reason why this should not happen because 1982 01:46:32,840 --> 01:46:38,320 Speaker 1: this person is submitted it on our slash okay Op show. Yea, 1983 01:46:39,000 --> 01:46:41,639 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, if you want to have your stories 1984 01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:43,920 Speaker 1: read just like this, go to our sasho Kop show 1985 01:46:44,080 --> 01:46:46,960 Speaker 1: on Reddit and submit it there. We've been pulling way 1986 01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:49,840 Speaker 1: more stories. Big shout out to Sophia. Yeah, we pull 1987 01:46:50,280 --> 01:46:53,519 Speaker 1: that's right stories from Reddit and currently right now, ladies 1988 01:46:53,520 --> 01:46:56,439 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, we were number seventeen in podcasts on Reddit. 1989 01:46:57,439 --> 01:47:01,800 Speaker 1: We're number twenty four and we are two members away 1990 01:47:02,000 --> 01:47:05,120 Speaker 1: from hitting six K six K six O. 1991 01:47:05,240 --> 01:47:07,920 Speaker 2: Gals over there and joined, what are you doing? What 1992 01:47:07,960 --> 01:47:11,160 Speaker 2: are you doing? Do you want us to read your story, 1993 01:47:11,320 --> 01:47:17,519 Speaker 2: you're hoarding them to yourself. Share it s s. 1994 01:47:18,680 --> 01:47:22,840 Speaker 3: We're also four likes away from another wheelspin like. 1995 01:47:23,400 --> 01:47:23,880 Speaker 2: Is that true? 1996 01:47:24,040 --> 01:47:24,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1997 01:47:25,320 --> 01:47:27,439 Speaker 2: Hundred seven hundred. 1998 01:47:27,680 --> 01:47:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm overcome with emotion. With emotion, guys, make it happen. 1999 01:47:32,880 --> 01:47:37,200 Speaker 1: We have the powers away. Okay, let's see those likes 2000 01:47:37,280 --> 01:47:38,439 Speaker 1: and let's read this story. 2001 01:47:38,479 --> 01:47:40,559 Speaker 2: Gosh darn it, gosh darn. 2002 01:47:40,760 --> 01:47:43,559 Speaker 1: This comes from stressed out stay at home mom who says, so, 2003 01:47:44,040 --> 01:47:45,960 Speaker 1: am I the a hole for not wanting my mother 2004 01:47:45,960 --> 01:47:49,600 Speaker 1: in law to watch my kids. I am forty weeks pregnant. 2005 01:47:49,960 --> 01:47:55,880 Speaker 1: Deep that is deeply pregnant. I am getting induced tomorrow. 2006 01:47:57,040 --> 01:47:58,920 Speaker 1: That's that's about as pregnant as you can get. I'm 2007 01:47:58,920 --> 01:48:02,800 Speaker 1: giving birth tomorrow. My husband wants his mother to watch 2008 01:48:02,840 --> 01:48:05,040 Speaker 1: the kids until my sister gets off work while I'm 2009 01:48:05,080 --> 01:48:10,680 Speaker 1: at the hospital. Uh well, AnyWho, I don't want her to. 2010 01:48:11,320 --> 01:48:13,960 Speaker 1: I hate when she watches the kids because I come 2011 01:48:13,960 --> 01:48:17,240 Speaker 1: home and my entire house will be destroyed. I have 2012 01:48:17,320 --> 01:48:19,799 Speaker 1: told her during this pregnancy it's been hard to clean. 2013 01:48:20,160 --> 01:48:23,160 Speaker 1: Bending over hurts my stomach and back. This is my 2014 01:48:23,320 --> 01:48:26,760 Speaker 1: biggest pregnancy yet. I have two other kids. I will 2015 01:48:26,800 --> 01:48:29,639 Speaker 1: go to an our doctor appointment and will come back 2016 01:48:29,680 --> 01:48:33,479 Speaker 1: and my house is flipped upside down. I find it 2017 01:48:33,560 --> 01:48:37,240 Speaker 1: rude and inconsiderate. I would never watch somebody's kids and 2018 01:48:37,360 --> 01:48:40,559 Speaker 1: let them destroy their house, especially if they're pregnant. My 2019 01:48:40,680 --> 01:48:42,920 Speaker 1: husband says he'll clean, buddy. 2020 01:48:42,640 --> 01:48:43,080 Speaker 2: Never does. 2021 01:48:43,760 --> 01:48:46,760 Speaker 1: I can't enjoy anything when she watches the kids, not 2022 01:48:47,000 --> 01:48:49,519 Speaker 1: even if we get dinner together. I'm a stay at 2023 01:48:49,520 --> 01:48:52,640 Speaker 1: home mom, and I'm so tired of cleaning up after everybody. 2024 01:48:52,880 --> 01:48:55,400 Speaker 1: It's not like she makes them clean up after themselves. 2025 01:48:56,400 --> 01:48:59,320 Speaker 1: She starts taking off as soon as we get we 2026 01:49:00,360 --> 01:49:03,080 Speaker 1: or I get home. This is the thing stressing me out. 2027 01:49:03,160 --> 01:49:05,760 Speaker 1: I don't even want to go to the hospital tomorrow. 2028 01:49:06,120 --> 01:49:09,439 Speaker 2: She doesn't even want to deliver her baby's because she's 2029 01:49:09,479 --> 01:49:12,439 Speaker 2: so worried about the house going into ruin, which. 2030 01:49:12,320 --> 01:49:15,519 Speaker 1: Like, can you imagine coming home to a hurricane disaster 2031 01:49:15,640 --> 01:49:17,879 Speaker 1: zone after you've just pushed out a baby? 2032 01:49:18,120 --> 01:49:21,400 Speaker 2: That is not fun? I imagine not. That is not fun. 2033 01:49:21,439 --> 01:49:23,439 Speaker 2: I imagine not. I wouldn't even want to come to 2034 01:49:23,479 --> 01:49:27,120 Speaker 2: a hurricane disaster zone if I just just out for 2035 01:49:27,160 --> 01:49:30,280 Speaker 2: a walk. Big facts. Yeah, I can only imagine if 2036 01:49:30,320 --> 01:49:35,679 Speaker 2: I just shut someone out. Not fun. 2037 01:49:37,400 --> 01:49:39,479 Speaker 1: I don't even want to go to hospital tomorrow. I 2038 01:49:39,520 --> 01:49:42,479 Speaker 1: feel like I am not being respected or heard. I 2039 01:49:42,520 --> 01:49:44,799 Speaker 1: have said how I feel to my husband many times, 2040 01:49:44,840 --> 01:49:47,519 Speaker 1: and yet he says nothing to her. I don't know 2041 01:49:47,560 --> 01:49:49,759 Speaker 1: what to do. I don't want her watching my kids. 2042 01:49:49,800 --> 01:49:52,800 Speaker 1: I would rather take them to the hospital with me. 2043 01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:54,760 Speaker 1: Let's break this down real quick. 2044 01:49:54,800 --> 01:49:54,920 Speaker 3: Wait. 2045 01:49:54,920 --> 01:49:58,679 Speaker 2: Wait who I don't want who watching the kids? Opie's 2046 01:49:58,680 --> 01:49:59,880 Speaker 2: mother in law? Opie's mother. 2047 01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:03,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so the mother in law watches the kids. Basically, 2048 01:50:03,760 --> 01:50:07,400 Speaker 1: where's the partner? The husband would be with her in 2049 01:50:07,400 --> 01:50:13,720 Speaker 1: the hospital? M right, which makes sense. I mean it's 2050 01:50:13,720 --> 01:50:14,040 Speaker 1: good to be. 2051 01:50:14,080 --> 01:50:20,360 Speaker 2: There for the birth of your child. Yeah, I mean yeah, 2052 01:50:20,360 --> 01:50:22,200 Speaker 2: but it's only one I guess it's like one day. 2053 01:50:22,479 --> 01:50:25,559 Speaker 2: I mean the mother in law's the a hole. But like, yeah, 2054 01:50:25,640 --> 01:50:28,120 Speaker 2: I think so so so like I guess. But here's 2055 01:50:28,160 --> 01:50:31,000 Speaker 2: here's my question. Would you rather bring your young children 2056 01:50:31,120 --> 01:50:36,439 Speaker 2: to the birth with your husband and you or would 2057 01:50:36,439 --> 01:50:40,360 Speaker 2: you rather your entire house be a hurricane disaster and 2058 01:50:40,720 --> 01:50:44,479 Speaker 2: but have like the the hospital to yourselves. Yeah, I 2059 01:50:44,560 --> 01:50:48,519 Speaker 2: think I'll choose. I would choose a hurricane disaster. I 2060 01:50:48,479 --> 01:50:50,479 Speaker 2: won't want to know what CHAT would choose, though, Yeah, 2061 01:50:50,560 --> 01:50:51,040 Speaker 2: you choose. 2062 01:50:51,560 --> 01:50:54,639 Speaker 1: I was thinking I would have maybe initially like at 2063 01:50:54,640 --> 01:50:57,240 Speaker 1: the end of the day, this is something important to OPE. 2064 01:50:57,360 --> 01:50:59,519 Speaker 1: And I think the big thing is the husband is 2065 01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:04,280 Speaker 1: disrespecting her wish being the person who's literally going to 2066 01:51:04,560 --> 01:51:05,240 Speaker 1: push out. 2067 01:51:05,840 --> 01:51:08,679 Speaker 2: What's wait, how what is the husband? What's the husband doing? 2068 01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:12,280 Speaker 1: So the husband, so OPI has told him, do not 2069 01:51:12,479 --> 01:51:15,639 Speaker 1: ask your mom to watch the kids, but he went 2070 01:51:15,840 --> 01:51:19,760 Speaker 1: and asked her anyways, and and uh, OPI has said 2071 01:51:19,800 --> 01:51:21,880 Speaker 1: over and over like, hey, like, I don't like your 2072 01:51:21,880 --> 01:51:24,599 Speaker 1: mom doing this, and he has he hasn't said anything to. 2073 01:51:24,520 --> 01:51:27,320 Speaker 2: His oh, so there, so they're thinking, oh, let's just 2074 01:51:27,400 --> 01:51:29,560 Speaker 2: hire a babysitter. 2075 01:51:29,680 --> 01:51:35,000 Speaker 1: They they did, literally did not. They basically OPI just 2076 01:51:35,040 --> 01:51:36,240 Speaker 1: doesn't want the mom watching the kid. 2077 01:51:36,280 --> 01:51:37,400 Speaker 2: Do they have other options? 2078 01:51:38,720 --> 01:51:44,200 Speaker 1: It was not explicitly stated. They did not mention uh 2079 01:51:44,680 --> 01:51:45,760 Speaker 1: hiring someone, but. 2080 01:51:47,200 --> 01:51:50,719 Speaker 2: She did say yeah, okay, okay, so all right. So 2081 01:51:50,720 --> 01:51:52,680 Speaker 2: so so I'm trying. I'm tracking, right, I'm trying. The 2082 01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:55,320 Speaker 2: husband wants his mom to watch the kids. 2083 01:51:55,360 --> 01:51:57,880 Speaker 1: So the husband is like trying to push back and 2084 01:51:57,920 --> 01:51:59,559 Speaker 1: be like, let my mom watch the kids. 2085 01:51:59,640 --> 01:52:03,439 Speaker 2: Right, So okay, I'm I'm I'm just making sure that 2086 01:52:03,479 --> 01:52:08,160 Speaker 2: I'm tracking. So basically, Op's about to go into labor. 2087 01:52:08,720 --> 01:52:11,439 Speaker 2: Husband wants mother in law to watch kids. The mother 2088 01:52:11,479 --> 01:52:13,840 Speaker 2: in law is terrible at watching the kids because the 2089 01:52:13,880 --> 01:52:18,840 Speaker 2: house is the disaster and they may it doesn't seem 2090 01:52:18,880 --> 01:52:22,400 Speaker 2: like they have another Oh, they say, said the sister. 2091 01:52:22,840 --> 01:52:27,559 Speaker 2: The sister could watch. Oh do your sister will be 2092 01:52:27,680 --> 01:52:30,200 Speaker 2: late to watch them right right? 2093 01:52:30,280 --> 01:52:32,559 Speaker 1: So the mom would watch the kids in the meantime 2094 01:52:32,600 --> 01:52:34,040 Speaker 1: because yes, because she has to get. 2095 01:52:33,920 --> 01:52:39,679 Speaker 2: Off work, I believe. Mmmm hmmm, I would say, miss 2096 01:52:39,720 --> 01:52:41,800 Speaker 2: cha versus her sister can, but just not right away. 2097 01:52:41,800 --> 01:52:44,120 Speaker 2: So she'd rather bring them to the hospital until the 2098 01:52:44,120 --> 01:52:45,599 Speaker 2: sister can make it. That's honestly. 2099 01:52:45,720 --> 01:52:49,439 Speaker 1: So the husband brings the kids to the hospital for 2100 01:52:49,640 --> 01:52:53,280 Speaker 1: a limited period of time, sister swings by the hospital, 2101 01:52:53,680 --> 01:52:55,559 Speaker 1: grabs the kids, and then brings them home. 2102 01:52:56,200 --> 01:52:59,120 Speaker 2: That seems like a pretty good solution. Yeah, because you're 2103 01:52:59,120 --> 01:53:01,360 Speaker 2: gonna be in labor for a while. Ale. Yeah. 2104 01:53:01,400 --> 01:53:03,640 Speaker 1: And what I'm getting from the story is like the 2105 01:53:03,720 --> 01:53:06,640 Speaker 1: husband is really pushing and being like, no, let my 2106 01:53:06,800 --> 01:53:09,439 Speaker 1: mom watch the kids, and op is like, I don't 2107 01:53:09,439 --> 01:53:11,760 Speaker 1: want that to happen because your mom Like I. 2108 01:53:11,720 --> 01:53:13,679 Speaker 2: Don't want to come back to this, like terrible house 2109 01:53:13,680 --> 01:53:15,160 Speaker 2: is this? Yeah? I want to my house to be 2110 01:53:15,240 --> 01:53:17,920 Speaker 2: as at least as it was. Could you drop the kids? 2111 01:53:17,920 --> 01:53:20,240 Speaker 2: All right? What if? What if the mother whether you 2112 01:53:20,280 --> 01:53:23,519 Speaker 2: do let the mother in law, uh, take care of 2113 01:53:23,560 --> 01:53:28,519 Speaker 2: the kids, but in her house. Oh that's another great solution. 2114 01:53:28,640 --> 01:53:29,519 Speaker 2: Brig Baine moved. 2115 01:53:30,240 --> 01:53:33,920 Speaker 1: It is a big brain move. I feel like that 2116 01:53:34,040 --> 01:53:36,919 Speaker 1: the crux of this is that the husband keeps pushing 2117 01:53:37,080 --> 01:53:40,519 Speaker 1: towards going to the mom and Op's like and and 2118 01:53:40,520 --> 01:53:43,519 Speaker 1: and he won't say anything to her about them making 2119 01:53:43,520 --> 01:53:43,920 Speaker 1: a mess. 2120 01:53:45,000 --> 01:53:48,320 Speaker 2: And yeah, it's it might be because the mother in 2121 01:53:48,439 --> 01:53:52,920 Speaker 2: law is like like in the background pushing to do that. Yeah, 2122 01:53:52,960 --> 01:53:54,519 Speaker 2: she's like, I want to watch the kids. I want 2123 01:53:54,520 --> 01:53:57,599 Speaker 2: to see them. Yeah, and and the and the husband 2124 01:53:57,640 --> 01:53:59,320 Speaker 2: is like people to stand up to her throwing a 2125 01:53:59,600 --> 01:54:02,880 Speaker 2: growing a pair of freaking gonads. 2126 01:54:04,200 --> 01:54:07,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think maybe have have the mother in 2127 01:54:07,640 --> 01:54:09,000 Speaker 1: law watch the kids at her house. 2128 01:54:09,880 --> 01:54:12,080 Speaker 2: Take the alluring on dead says, why can't they go 2129 01:54:12,080 --> 01:54:14,800 Speaker 2: to her house? That's what I was thinking. Yeah, Tanja 2130 01:54:16,040 --> 01:54:20,320 Speaker 2: Sisney says, Sam's idea works. Dash of starters. There's definitely 2131 01:54:20,400 --> 01:54:24,920 Speaker 2: time to make arrangement or let the sister get them. Yeah. Yeah, 2132 01:54:25,040 --> 01:54:28,720 Speaker 2: or m O says a husband needs to step up 2133 01:54:28,760 --> 01:54:30,799 Speaker 2: and talk to the mom and get a cleaning service 2134 01:54:30,840 --> 01:54:32,240 Speaker 2: in before the wife comes home. 2135 01:54:32,320 --> 01:54:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm reading between the lines, but given that they haven't 2136 01:54:35,080 --> 01:54:38,440 Speaker 1: suggested just like hiring a professional babysitter, maybe money is 2137 01:54:38,440 --> 01:54:39,000 Speaker 1: an issue here. 2138 01:54:39,080 --> 01:54:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. So Coffee Girl though, says, what if 2139 01:54:42,200 --> 01:54:44,600 Speaker 2: the husband just goes early to clean out? 2140 01:54:47,480 --> 01:54:51,480 Speaker 1: True, but I could see in the hecticness of the 2141 01:54:51,560 --> 01:54:55,720 Speaker 1: birth and everything that being less feasible in reality. 2142 01:54:55,880 --> 01:54:57,960 Speaker 2: E Ryan says, bring the kids to the hospital, which 2143 01:54:58,000 --> 01:55:01,240 Speaker 2: was your idea, but like if the kids are kind 2144 01:55:01,240 --> 01:55:05,640 Speaker 2: of running around, running around, and yeah, you're not gonna 2145 01:55:05,640 --> 01:55:07,440 Speaker 2: want to bring them to the hospital when you're stressed 2146 01:55:07,480 --> 01:55:12,320 Speaker 2: out and like dealing with having the child. So I think, uh, 2147 01:55:12,520 --> 01:55:16,200 Speaker 2: bring the kids to the mother in laws or the sisters. Yeah. 2148 01:55:17,000 --> 01:55:19,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, either either way, so the house is like 2149 01:55:19,600 --> 01:55:21,160 Speaker 1: guaranteed untouched. 2150 01:55:21,920 --> 01:55:23,640 Speaker 2: Or the husband goes earlier to clean up. 2151 01:55:23,840 --> 01:55:26,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I no, I think I think I think 2152 01:55:26,240 --> 01:55:29,320 Speaker 1: the kids going to mother in law or sister's house. 2153 01:55:29,360 --> 01:55:32,720 Speaker 1: I think that's the best option of everything available. 2154 01:55:33,120 --> 01:55:36,160 Speaker 2: Yeah says why does an op want mom to watch them? 2155 01:55:36,200 --> 01:55:39,400 Speaker 2: Because every time they let the mother in law wat 2156 01:55:39,560 --> 01:55:41,600 Speaker 2: watch the kids, the house is a mess. They run 2157 01:55:41,600 --> 01:55:43,680 Speaker 2: a mook, they run amuck, They run amok, they run 2158 01:55:43,680 --> 01:55:46,120 Speaker 2: a muck. What do you all think? Chat? Put your 2159 01:55:46,240 --> 01:55:54,120 Speaker 2: answers in the church. Also, John, we've just got more 2160 01:55:54,400 --> 01:55:56,200 Speaker 2: branding stuff and it looks great. 2161 01:55:56,320 --> 01:55:59,960 Speaker 1: Oh my word, guys, are you ready? Are you really 2162 01:56:00,520 --> 01:56:01,879 Speaker 1: ready for this new branding? 2163 01:56:01,880 --> 01:56:04,000 Speaker 2: That's about that we've been we've been working on the 2164 01:56:04,040 --> 01:56:06,000 Speaker 2: rebrand and it looks it looks sick. Here take us 2165 01:56:06,040 --> 01:56:08,160 Speaker 2: out like this. It's not it's not fully this is 2166 01:56:08,160 --> 01:56:14,480 Speaker 2: such a tease, such a tease. That's wow. That really 2167 01:56:14,560 --> 01:56:16,960 Speaker 2: really really good, I think. But I think instead of 2168 01:56:17,000 --> 01:56:22,000 Speaker 2: the images, I think maybe making us all characters. Yes, yes, 2169 01:56:22,680 --> 01:56:26,680 Speaker 2: these are great merch, so many things. I know. It 2170 01:56:26,680 --> 01:56:32,120 Speaker 2: looks like a weed pin. I'm excited. The rings looks 2171 01:56:32,120 --> 01:56:37,760 Speaker 2: like I think it's a pregnancy test. I like pregnancy 2172 01:56:37,760 --> 01:56:41,040 Speaker 2: tests and stuff that's funny. A little worm too. Yeah, 2173 01:56:42,240 --> 01:56:42,720 Speaker 2: I like it. 2174 01:56:43,000 --> 01:56:46,560 Speaker 1: I like it's really, really, really really it's so good. 2175 01:56:46,600 --> 01:56:49,120 Speaker 2: You got a great designer, y'all. It's hard at work 2176 01:56:49,360 --> 01:56:52,560 Speaker 2: for you, guys. I'm so excited. Dude, cooking up some 2177 01:56:52,680 --> 01:56:56,480 Speaker 2: I'm so excited. But cooking up what you know? 2178 01:56:56,480 --> 01:56:58,040 Speaker 3: What you know what I'm cooking up? 2179 01:56:58,200 --> 01:56:59,879 Speaker 2: What are you cooking up? The wheels. 2180 01:57:02,320 --> 01:57:03,760 Speaker 3: We're at that time again. 2181 01:57:03,920 --> 01:57:06,360 Speaker 1: Well, Mike, we have just been hitting wheelspins left right 2182 01:57:06,360 --> 01:57:11,320 Speaker 1: in center. It's because it's because they they got a freebie. 2183 01:57:12,040 --> 01:57:13,240 Speaker 1: They got a freebe. 2184 01:57:15,640 --> 01:57:18,960 Speaker 3: Right that. Actually I don't know exactly what like. So 2185 01:57:19,040 --> 01:57:20,120 Speaker 3: we're at hold on. 2186 01:57:20,760 --> 01:57:22,560 Speaker 2: We're teasing you, guys. I know, I don't. I don't 2187 01:57:22,560 --> 01:57:25,280 Speaker 2: want to show you guys, because it's unfinished. It's like 2188 01:57:25,680 --> 01:57:28,720 Speaker 2: it but it's it's so sick. It's it's and it 2189 01:57:28,840 --> 01:57:30,840 Speaker 2: is a it's a I don't know. I Also I 2190 01:57:30,840 --> 01:57:33,320 Speaker 2: feel like I feel like, although I think it is 2191 01:57:33,360 --> 01:57:36,840 Speaker 2: objectively better than what we have now, I think people 2192 01:57:36,840 --> 01:57:38,800 Speaker 2: are still like that. People are always going to be 2193 01:57:38,800 --> 01:57:42,760 Speaker 2: attached to what we had to. Everyone loves loves an OG. Yeah, 2194 01:57:42,800 --> 01:57:44,720 Speaker 2: I really love that, like an o G. I think 2195 01:57:44,840 --> 01:57:45,440 Speaker 2: though this. 2196 01:57:45,560 --> 01:57:48,080 Speaker 1: Is for anyone that doesn't like it off rip. I 2197 01:57:48,400 --> 01:57:50,400 Speaker 1: ten percent believe it will grow on you. 2198 01:57:50,480 --> 01:57:54,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, time agreed, agreed, and I think y'all y'all will. 2199 01:57:54,760 --> 01:57:57,680 Speaker 2: We're doing a photo shoot for it on Monday. Get 2200 01:57:57,680 --> 01:58:01,160 Speaker 2: a haircut, one of my friends. Are you getting a haircut? Yes? Long? 2201 01:58:01,280 --> 01:58:03,200 Speaker 2: People with long hair still get their hairs cuts. 2202 01:58:03,080 --> 01:58:09,480 Speaker 3: In But you know what I want to cut that wheel. 2203 01:58:14,680 --> 01:58:15,360 Speaker 2: What does it say? 2204 01:58:17,400 --> 01:58:22,320 Speaker 3: Oh oh ha, you guys have to show the weirdest pictures. 2205 01:58:22,520 --> 01:58:24,720 Speaker 3: What you think you can define this however you want, 2206 01:58:24,760 --> 01:58:26,760 Speaker 3: but the weirdest pictures from your camera or. 2207 01:58:26,760 --> 01:58:32,000 Speaker 2: Weirdest Oh well. 2208 01:58:29,920 --> 01:58:30,960 Speaker 3: Find that however you want. 2209 01:58:31,560 --> 01:58:35,400 Speaker 2: Mm I mean like in the like like is there 2210 01:58:35,440 --> 01:58:40,480 Speaker 2: like a time limit or weirdest? Yeah? Kind like do 2211 01:58:40,520 --> 01:58:42,160 Speaker 2: you like do you want me to find? Is this 2212 01:58:42,240 --> 01:58:47,120 Speaker 2: something like go fast? I mean they're doing it. 2213 01:58:47,160 --> 01:58:50,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to read some donations. M J grow thank 2214 01:58:50,520 --> 01:58:52,320 Speaker 3: you for the two bucks, John. 2215 01:58:52,120 --> 01:58:57,520 Speaker 2: Space Bunds base Buns. That's kind cute. I could do it. 2216 01:58:57,560 --> 01:58:58,080 Speaker 2: I could do it. 2217 01:58:59,120 --> 01:59:03,520 Speaker 3: Christy, thank you for becoming a member or actually no, 2218 01:59:03,600 --> 01:59:07,560 Speaker 3: celebrating your one month of membership. Okay, op, love you all. 2219 01:59:07,600 --> 01:59:08,240 Speaker 3: We love you too. 2220 01:59:09,080 --> 01:59:09,360 Speaker 1: Uh. 2221 01:59:09,400 --> 01:59:12,480 Speaker 3: The adventure begins. Thank you for six twenty seven books. 2222 01:59:12,760 --> 01:59:20,680 Speaker 3: First time ONLVE. Hey from I own. Hello, Welcome. Let's 2223 01:59:20,720 --> 01:59:25,760 Speaker 3: see a Dasha STARTA says Stam showed a nude but 2224 01:59:26,400 --> 01:59:31,080 Speaker 3: doomed out. That's concerning. You've done that before. I think that, 2225 01:59:33,200 --> 01:59:40,360 Speaker 3: dudeplain explain to the people. Uh what else? I don't know? 2226 01:59:40,600 --> 01:59:46,120 Speaker 3: Ask some questions that chat. How's your days going? Collective 2227 01:59:46,240 --> 01:59:47,200 Speaker 3: days going. 2228 01:59:47,400 --> 01:59:51,080 Speaker 2: All right, I got I got one. I'm almost right. Okay, 2229 01:59:51,240 --> 01:59:53,560 Speaker 2: mind I'm looking for So when I was teaching English 2230 01:59:53,560 --> 01:59:59,120 Speaker 2: and China. This is a uh, this is a I 2231 01:59:59,320 --> 02:00:01,160 Speaker 2: was making food with this guy that I met on 2232 02:00:01,200 --> 02:00:02,240 Speaker 2: the street. 2233 02:00:02,560 --> 02:00:08,120 Speaker 3: Cool. Oh, it's you might have to show it on John's. 2234 02:00:08,760 --> 02:00:17,400 Speaker 2: That is a video, sir. Hey, hey, yeah, and that's 2235 02:00:17,400 --> 02:00:18,360 Speaker 2: like that food we were making. 2236 02:00:22,680 --> 02:00:24,800 Speaker 3: Nice. That's that's the weirdest one. 2237 02:00:25,360 --> 02:00:27,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. I got a lot of weird shit 2238 02:00:27,920 --> 02:00:28,160 Speaker 2: on here. 2239 02:00:28,640 --> 02:00:32,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so I I'll be honest. I'm going to 2240 02:00:32,320 --> 02:00:36,280 Speaker 1: send this on slack Sophia to Riley to Riley Slack 2241 02:00:36,320 --> 02:00:38,000 Speaker 1: so you can see it. Okay, guys, I'm gonna be 2242 02:00:38,040 --> 02:00:43,560 Speaker 1: cheating a little bit here. Maybe this isn't the most weirdest, 2243 02:00:43,680 --> 02:00:46,120 Speaker 1: but it's not. It's not weird at all. Actually, it 2244 02:00:46,200 --> 02:00:51,120 Speaker 1: is stunning. It is done gorgeous, It is beautiful. So 2245 02:00:51,160 --> 02:00:53,120 Speaker 1: it's not weird at all. Actually, but I. 2246 02:00:53,120 --> 02:00:56,600 Speaker 2: Just sent it anyways because it's so incredible and gorgeous. 2247 02:00:58,520 --> 02:01:02,160 Speaker 3: Okay. So the thing is, I think, don't I know 2248 02:01:02,200 --> 02:01:03,240 Speaker 3: what do I do with this? 2249 02:01:03,720 --> 02:01:07,680 Speaker 1: Go to the uh, go to the there should be 2250 02:01:07,760 --> 02:01:11,640 Speaker 1: the TV screen share on one of the does it sound. 2251 02:01:11,760 --> 02:01:13,000 Speaker 2: Does that ring any bells? 2252 02:01:13,800 --> 02:01:16,320 Speaker 3: No bells are being wrong in my own bells. 2253 02:01:15,960 --> 02:01:21,560 Speaker 1: Are being wrong. I will do that. Okay, ladies and gentlemen, 2254 02:01:21,640 --> 02:01:22,560 Speaker 1: let me pull this back up. 2255 02:01:22,600 --> 02:01:24,960 Speaker 2: All right, here we go. Let me turn on the 2256 02:01:25,000 --> 02:01:27,480 Speaker 2: brightness so y'all can really interesting China videos. 2257 02:01:28,720 --> 02:01:29,360 Speaker 3: Wait here you go. 2258 02:01:30,120 --> 02:01:34,600 Speaker 2: Wait, it's not gonna it won't it won't. What is that? Yeah? 2259 02:01:34,720 --> 02:01:36,040 Speaker 2: You can tossed it? 2260 02:01:36,200 --> 02:01:36,440 Speaker 1: Yeah? 2261 02:01:36,640 --> 02:01:41,680 Speaker 2: What is this? This is? Is this a swap? This 2262 02:01:41,840 --> 02:01:44,000 Speaker 2: is whoa? 2263 02:01:45,560 --> 02:01:47,520 Speaker 3: I thought that I was like, is this your sister? 2264 02:01:49,200 --> 02:01:57,640 Speaker 2: Technically? Technically yeah, damn so cute? Lily x Pilly says. 2265 02:01:57,400 --> 02:02:01,520 Speaker 3: Smasha bad un as girl. 2266 02:02:02,160 --> 02:02:07,760 Speaker 2: How does that? Oh? Thanks sir, A perfect lay? Thank you? 2267 02:02:07,920 --> 02:02:12,400 Speaker 2: Absolutely there you go. Cute. That's it. 2268 02:02:12,800 --> 02:02:17,560 Speaker 3: But we do have you guys wanted to call in? Yes, 2269 02:02:17,920 --> 02:02:19,520 Speaker 3: I don't fully know how to do that, but we're 2270 02:02:19,520 --> 02:02:19,960 Speaker 3: going to try. 2271 02:02:20,000 --> 02:02:22,400 Speaker 2: Anyways, we're gonna give it a shot. 2272 02:02:22,760 --> 02:02:23,680 Speaker 3: One thank you. 2273 02:02:23,760 --> 02:02:27,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's call brother. I believe if we if 2274 02:02:27,200 --> 02:02:30,440 Speaker 2: we does it a screen anyways? Yeah, you got a 2275 02:02:30,480 --> 02:02:32,920 Speaker 2: screen share with audio. 2276 02:02:32,680 --> 02:02:35,400 Speaker 1: On your your paper behind your time are there? It 2277 02:02:35,480 --> 02:02:39,400 Speaker 1: should have a number associated with the screen share or 2278 02:02:39,440 --> 02:02:45,480 Speaker 1: call on screen is one two, like a TV between. 2279 02:02:45,240 --> 02:02:50,920 Speaker 2: Us HM and you got it? You got it? You 2280 02:02:50,920 --> 02:02:53,240 Speaker 2: you uh, we can't see ourselves. 2281 02:02:53,240 --> 02:02:58,960 Speaker 1: But oh no, oh no, I think that is it? 2282 02:02:59,360 --> 02:02:59,880 Speaker 3: Hell it is. 2283 02:03:00,080 --> 02:03:05,680 Speaker 2: I think so that's web I put them. Do's say caller, yes. 2284 02:03:08,320 --> 02:03:11,120 Speaker 3: Caller, you know what I'm gonna have mohammed? 2285 02:03:11,640 --> 02:03:13,720 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, maybe we could. Maybe we could have a 2286 02:03:13,760 --> 02:03:16,080 Speaker 1: mo give her some coaching and read like a quick 2287 02:03:16,080 --> 02:03:18,000 Speaker 1: story in the meantime, something like that. Yeah, because I 2288 02:03:18,040 --> 02:03:20,360 Speaker 1: think I think, Sophia, there's like some sort of screen 2289 02:03:20,440 --> 02:03:24,640 Speaker 1: share that populates into the TV that routes the audio through. 2290 02:03:24,800 --> 02:03:26,760 Speaker 2: All right, well we'll do a call in in a 2291 02:03:26,760 --> 02:03:32,160 Speaker 2: little bit. But so, Fia, what episode should I do that? 2292 02:03:32,400 --> 02:03:35,600 Speaker 3: Yes, you should do four forty eight four. 2293 02:03:35,560 --> 02:03:40,440 Speaker 2: Forty eight four eight. Oh this is long, oh forty eight? 2294 02:03:40,680 --> 02:03:44,160 Speaker 2: S two? Uh, S one we could do. We could 2295 02:03:44,160 --> 02:03:44,560 Speaker 2: do one. 2296 02:03:44,600 --> 02:03:45,480 Speaker 3: Oh you want to do S two? 2297 02:03:45,640 --> 02:03:47,760 Speaker 2: We could just we could just go want to rip it? 2298 02:03:47,840 --> 02:03:48,240 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 2299 02:03:48,280 --> 02:03:48,720 Speaker 3: Let's do it. 2300 02:03:48,800 --> 02:03:52,720 Speaker 2: We go to rip it, but I can't see anything. 2301 02:03:53,760 --> 02:03:59,240 Speaker 2: I'm blind. Can you put it into the other thing there? Okay, 2302 02:03:59,280 --> 02:04:03,960 Speaker 2: all right, let's go back into this next story. Let's 2303 02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:11,360 Speaker 2: do it. Okay, So this is am I the a 2304 02:04:11,480 --> 02:04:14,240 Speaker 2: hole for calling off my engagement because my ex fiance 2305 02:04:14,760 --> 02:04:17,960 Speaker 2: invited my dad to our wedding. And this comes from 2306 02:04:18,000 --> 02:04:22,800 Speaker 2: practical will seven zero for six. I twenty nine female, 2307 02:04:22,880 --> 02:04:25,880 Speaker 2: met my ex thirty two male in college. He knew 2308 02:04:25,920 --> 02:04:28,920 Speaker 2: all about my troubled relationship with my dad and growing up. 2309 02:04:29,240 --> 02:04:32,400 Speaker 2: My dad struggled with addiction, cheated on my mom, and 2310 02:04:32,560 --> 02:04:36,520 Speaker 2: left us in debt. Not a great combination. Not fun. 2311 02:04:36,640 --> 02:04:39,280 Speaker 2: I only learned about his emotional and physical abuse towards 2312 02:04:39,280 --> 02:04:42,640 Speaker 2: my mom and siblings when I was much older. As 2313 02:04:42,720 --> 02:04:45,560 Speaker 2: the youngest, my memories are fuzzy, so family hid this 2314 02:04:45,640 --> 02:04:48,720 Speaker 2: from me, and I thought it was best because they 2315 02:04:48,720 --> 02:04:51,000 Speaker 2: wanted me to have a good relationship with him. Well, 2316 02:04:51,040 --> 02:04:53,240 Speaker 2: my dad wasn't actively involved in my life and we 2317 02:04:53,240 --> 02:04:56,240 Speaker 2: didn't see each other often, even though my mom let 2318 02:04:56,360 --> 02:04:59,320 Speaker 2: him come by whenever he wanted. He would promise to 2319 02:04:59,360 --> 02:05:02,320 Speaker 2: take me out on weekends, but he never really showed up, 2320 02:05:02,600 --> 02:05:04,520 Speaker 2: and when we did go out, he would yell at 2321 02:05:04,560 --> 02:05:08,920 Speaker 2: servers and threatened to beat slash un alive them. Oh 2322 02:05:09,320 --> 02:05:13,480 Speaker 2: oh my god. He'd race strangers and go one hundred 2323 02:05:13,560 --> 02:05:15,880 Speaker 2: miles an hour with me in the car, and he'd 2324 02:05:15,920 --> 02:05:22,520 Speaker 2: always criticize my mom to me slowed down. Oh my, 2325 02:05:23,200 --> 02:05:27,080 Speaker 2: this guy's not good. No, this guy, he is not good. 2326 02:05:27,240 --> 02:05:30,320 Speaker 3: Think news. That's right. 2327 02:05:30,400 --> 02:05:33,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. I have so many stories, but two extreme ones 2328 02:05:33,720 --> 02:05:36,840 Speaker 2: are the times he tackled a boy my age for 2329 02:05:37,040 --> 02:05:42,040 Speaker 2: talking to me and started beating him. Oh my off, no, storted, 2330 02:05:42,080 --> 02:05:46,720 Speaker 2: just beating him. He left him bleeding on the floor 2331 02:05:47,080 --> 02:05:50,680 Speaker 2: and dragged me to the car crying and shaking. Guy 2332 02:05:50,760 --> 02:05:53,680 Speaker 2: is awful. The other time he took me out for 2333 02:05:53,800 --> 02:05:57,400 Speaker 2: my fifteenth birthday, like my actual birthday, and he abandoned 2334 02:05:57,440 --> 02:06:00,320 Speaker 2: me at the mall. It was about three cities over 2335 02:06:00,400 --> 02:06:02,240 Speaker 2: from where I live. Oh my god. I didn't know 2336 02:06:02,240 --> 02:06:04,080 Speaker 2: what to do, so I decided try to take the 2337 02:06:04,200 --> 02:06:07,440 Speaker 2: bus home. I got lost and called my best friend. 2338 02:06:07,760 --> 02:06:09,720 Speaker 2: She and her older brother went to pick me up. 2339 02:06:10,000 --> 02:06:12,000 Speaker 2: That was the last time I saw him. 2340 02:06:12,680 --> 02:06:16,800 Speaker 1: What good He abandoned her at the mall on her birthday. 2341 02:06:16,440 --> 02:06:22,680 Speaker 2: On her birthday, bro three towns over. Oh my god. Yeah, 2342 02:06:23,080 --> 02:06:26,120 Speaker 2: oh he started. I had a troubled relationship with my dad. 2343 02:06:26,800 --> 02:06:32,960 Speaker 2: Understatement of the century. Understatement, and for sure that was 2344 02:06:33,000 --> 02:06:35,840 Speaker 2: the last Yeah, I read, last time I saw him. 2345 02:06:35,880 --> 02:06:37,920 Speaker 2: The crazy thing was that at the end of each 2346 02:06:38,000 --> 02:06:39,880 Speaker 2: visit he'd tell me to wait in the car for 2347 02:06:40,040 --> 02:06:43,520 Speaker 2: hours while he went to his friend's house. I just 2348 02:06:43,600 --> 02:06:45,480 Speaker 2: listened to music. It would be maybe two to three 2349 02:06:45,520 --> 02:06:48,800 Speaker 2: hours of us hanging out and another four to five 2350 02:06:48,920 --> 02:06:54,400 Speaker 2: hours of me sitting in the car. My mom thought 2351 02:06:54,600 --> 02:07:00,360 Speaker 2: we'd be hanging out all day, but obviously not so 2352 02:07:00,480 --> 02:07:02,200 Speaker 2: like he like there was a part of him that 2353 02:07:02,360 --> 02:07:06,880 Speaker 2: was just like, just at this friend's house for four 2354 02:07:06,880 --> 02:07:09,240 Speaker 2: to five hours and no one knew. I I feel 2355 02:07:09,240 --> 02:07:13,600 Speaker 2: an ICU in the comments. Is it a special friend? 2356 02:07:14,200 --> 02:07:17,240 Speaker 2: I think it's a special special friend. I don't know. 2357 02:07:19,440 --> 02:07:23,560 Speaker 2: So despite my dad's behavior, we still spoke on the 2358 02:07:23,600 --> 02:07:25,760 Speaker 2: phone from time to time. I felt bad that he 2359 02:07:25,760 --> 02:07:27,680 Speaker 2: didn't have anyone in his life. He'd tell me that 2360 02:07:27,760 --> 02:07:32,000 Speaker 2: all his family hated him. I wonder why. Hmm, sounds 2361 02:07:32,000 --> 02:07:36,040 Speaker 2: like a terrible person, and I thought that was really sad. 2362 02:07:36,360 --> 02:07:39,960 Speaker 2: Then one day my mom decided to divorce him, right 2363 02:07:40,000 --> 02:07:43,840 Speaker 2: because they his mom and the dad were still together 2364 02:07:43,920 --> 02:07:51,120 Speaker 2: the whole time. Wow, the ICU is going crazy with 2365 02:07:51,200 --> 02:07:53,520 Speaker 2: the four to five hours of this place. Yes, like, 2366 02:07:53,600 --> 02:07:57,240 Speaker 2: come on, Ice, we kind of all know. Yeah, we 2367 02:07:57,360 --> 02:08:08,520 Speaker 2: kind of all know. So oh yet even yeah, even cheating, cheating, right, cheating, 2368 02:08:08,640 --> 02:08:14,160 Speaker 2: cheating anyway. I basically told him that I thought it 2369 02:08:14,280 --> 02:08:19,840 Speaker 2: was Oh. He refused to give her the divorce until 2370 02:08:19,880 --> 02:08:23,120 Speaker 2: I stepped in. I saw that my mom was finally 2371 02:08:23,120 --> 02:08:25,440 Speaker 2: confident enough to make this step and thought it was 2372 02:08:25,480 --> 02:08:27,840 Speaker 2: so cruel that he wouldn't do this for her. I 2373 02:08:27,920 --> 02:08:31,160 Speaker 2: basically told him that I thought it was unfair and 2374 02:08:31,240 --> 02:08:33,480 Speaker 2: I would like him to please do it for me. 2375 02:08:34,200 --> 02:08:36,680 Speaker 2: He agreed, and I thought that our relationship would improve 2376 02:08:36,720 --> 02:08:39,520 Speaker 2: because he showed me that he really cared about me. Yet, 2377 02:08:39,560 --> 02:08:42,879 Speaker 2: even after the divorce, he remained distant and had another child. 2378 02:08:43,640 --> 02:08:46,040 Speaker 2: He only reached out when he needed help with paperwork, 2379 02:08:46,120 --> 02:08:49,920 Speaker 2: writing emails, or other favors. Eventually, he crossed a line 2380 02:08:50,280 --> 02:08:53,120 Speaker 2: by asking me to forge my mom's signature, and I 2381 02:08:53,240 --> 02:08:55,760 Speaker 2: told him I couldn't help him. He called me a 2382 02:08:55,800 --> 02:09:02,480 Speaker 2: stupid bee like my mother. Wow, oh my, this guy 2383 02:09:02,800 --> 02:09:05,160 Speaker 2: is terrible, though. I mean, I feel like at this 2384 02:09:05,240 --> 02:09:09,280 Speaker 2: point he's proven to you enough times that you should 2385 02:09:09,320 --> 02:09:14,320 Speaker 2: distance yourself. Yeah, you do not owe him the response 2386 02:09:14,360 --> 02:09:16,680 Speaker 2: and engagement. No, not at all, not at all. I 2387 02:09:16,680 --> 02:09:18,480 Speaker 2: told my family he did a lot of reckless things, 2388 02:09:18,520 --> 02:09:20,040 Speaker 2: but this was the first time he ever called me 2389 02:09:20,120 --> 02:09:24,280 Speaker 2: a name. That's when they told me the truth. Ruth. 2390 02:09:24,640 --> 02:09:29,200 Speaker 2: Dimitri Junior says, he's probably doing drugs. Guess what what 2391 02:09:29,840 --> 02:09:31,760 Speaker 2: you would be right. That's when they told me the 2392 02:09:31,800 --> 02:09:36,560 Speaker 2: truth about his abuse, abuse and drug use, abuse and 2393 02:09:36,640 --> 02:09:41,080 Speaker 2: drug use. I don't know. It just kind of rhymes 2394 02:09:42,560 --> 02:09:44,880 Speaker 2: not a song. I want to say. I knew he 2395 02:09:45,000 --> 02:09:48,000 Speaker 2: cheated and we went through financial issues, but I didn't 2396 02:09:48,040 --> 02:09:52,000 Speaker 2: know the severity of the situation. I realized that all 2397 02:09:52,040 --> 02:09:53,920 Speaker 2: the times he made it seem like he was just 2398 02:09:54,000 --> 02:09:56,760 Speaker 2: disliked and going through a rough time, he actually was 2399 02:09:56,800 --> 02:09:59,440 Speaker 2: just trying to get sympathy for me. He wasn't. It 2400 02:09:59,520 --> 02:10:02,520 Speaker 2: wasn't that he he was hated because he cheated. It 2401 02:10:02,600 --> 02:10:07,360 Speaker 2: was because of all the other crap he did. When 2402 02:10:07,360 --> 02:10:09,560 Speaker 2: I tried calling him, he texted me that I was 2403 02:10:09,640 --> 02:10:13,160 Speaker 2: ungrateful since I couldn't help with one little thing forward 2404 02:10:13,240 --> 02:10:16,680 Speaker 2: to document, considering he did me a favor by giving 2405 02:10:16,720 --> 02:10:22,480 Speaker 2: my mom the divorce and I owed him. That is crazy. Hmmm, sir, 2406 02:10:22,800 --> 02:10:25,240 Speaker 2: I gave your mom the divorce that she wanted, so 2407 02:10:25,360 --> 02:10:28,680 Speaker 2: you owe me? Yep? Wow, how does that make sense? 2408 02:10:28,720 --> 02:10:30,840 Speaker 2: Make it make sense? He blocked my number, and his 2409 02:10:30,880 --> 02:10:33,680 Speaker 2: baby mama ended up texting me telling me that all 2410 02:10:33,720 --> 02:10:35,720 Speaker 2: the times he wanted to go out with me, he 2411 02:10:35,920 --> 02:10:38,880 Speaker 2: just used me as an excuse to borrow his sister's car, 2412 02:10:39,240 --> 02:10:41,800 Speaker 2: and he actually needed the car to drive to his 2413 02:10:41,840 --> 02:10:46,680 Speaker 2: dealer's house for drugs or her house for sexy sleep. 2414 02:10:46,880 --> 02:10:51,720 Speaker 1: WHOA So the baby mom. The affair partner basically told 2415 02:10:51,760 --> 02:10:54,560 Speaker 1: the daughter, like, wow. 2416 02:10:54,760 --> 02:10:56,840 Speaker 2: And it seems like the baby mama is getting the 2417 02:10:56,840 --> 02:11:02,360 Speaker 2: same treatment as Opie's mom. Yep, makes sense, tragically, but 2418 02:11:02,440 --> 02:11:04,240 Speaker 2: it makes sense. He'll lose them how you get them. 2419 02:11:04,640 --> 02:11:06,520 Speaker 2: I can find it. I can find it in my 2420 02:11:06,600 --> 02:11:09,880 Speaker 2: ex about my dad's manipulative behavior and my decision to 2421 02:11:09,920 --> 02:11:12,440 Speaker 2: cut him out of my life when we started getting serious. 2422 02:11:12,800 --> 02:11:16,400 Speaker 2: My ucks understood and supported me. I feel like there 2423 02:11:16,440 --> 02:11:19,480 Speaker 2: are two versions of my father. The one I saw 2424 02:11:19,600 --> 02:11:21,680 Speaker 2: that was reckless and careless, which I chalked up to 2425 02:11:21,760 --> 02:11:25,640 Speaker 2: him being lonely and missing his family, and then the 2426 02:11:25,760 --> 02:11:29,360 Speaker 2: darker version, the one I never encountered. I realized I 2427 02:11:29,360 --> 02:11:31,320 Speaker 2: should have said something about all the things he did, 2428 02:11:31,680 --> 02:11:33,680 Speaker 2: but that I was just trying to make my dad 2429 02:11:33,720 --> 02:11:37,080 Speaker 2: and my family happy. He helped me get out of 2430 02:11:37,280 --> 02:11:40,440 Speaker 2: my people pleasing ways. He helped me stick by my 2431 02:11:40,560 --> 02:11:43,080 Speaker 2: decisions and not feel guilty for saying no. He had 2432 02:11:43,120 --> 02:11:45,400 Speaker 2: a great relationship with my family, which made me feel 2433 02:11:45,400 --> 02:11:49,400 Speaker 2: even more confident in our relationship. I felt like I 2434 02:11:49,400 --> 02:11:54,360 Speaker 2: could depend on him well. When we started planning our wedding, 2435 02:11:54,720 --> 02:11:57,400 Speaker 2: my ex asked about my dad, but I made it 2436 02:11:57,480 --> 02:12:01,080 Speaker 2: clear that I didn't want him here. And to be clear, 2437 02:12:01,120 --> 02:12:03,640 Speaker 2: we're talking about the X. Yeah, we're talking about invided 2438 02:12:03,720 --> 02:12:06,800 Speaker 2: in my ex about my dad's manipulative behavior and my 2439 02:12:06,920 --> 02:12:08,960 Speaker 2: decision to cut him out of my life. When we 2440 02:12:09,000 --> 02:12:11,560 Speaker 2: started getting serious. My ex understood and supported me. I 2441 02:12:11,560 --> 02:12:13,320 Speaker 2: feel like there are two versions of my father, right, 2442 02:12:13,400 --> 02:12:15,920 Speaker 2: So basically, oh, he's talking about the ex. 2443 02:12:15,600 --> 02:12:17,960 Speaker 1: And this is was this when her and her ex 2444 02:12:17,960 --> 02:12:20,840 Speaker 1: were planning their wedding in the past or is this 2445 02:12:20,960 --> 02:12:23,560 Speaker 1: her current wedding that she's not a current wedding she's 2446 02:12:23,560 --> 02:12:27,680 Speaker 1: inviting her Uh, it's their wedding in the past before. 2447 02:12:27,800 --> 02:12:31,400 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Right, when we started planning our wedding, my 2448 02:12:31,440 --> 02:12:33,480 Speaker 2: ex asked about my dad. Yeah, so this is in 2449 02:12:33,520 --> 02:12:36,200 Speaker 2: the past and the second time. Yeah, he hadn't been 2450 02:12:36,240 --> 02:12:37,960 Speaker 2: part of my life for seven years and I was 2451 02:12:38,000 --> 02:12:41,280 Speaker 2: ready to reconcile with him, especially Oh, and I wasn't 2452 02:12:41,320 --> 02:12:44,440 Speaker 2: ready to reconcile with him, especially not my wedding the dad. However, 2453 02:12:44,520 --> 02:12:46,680 Speaker 2: one day I came home to find my dad there, 2454 02:12:47,320 --> 02:12:54,400 Speaker 2: invited by my ex to bury the hatchet. Really, I 2455 02:12:54,560 --> 02:13:00,680 Speaker 2: was shocked and devastated because I, I mean, the X 2456 02:13:00,720 --> 02:13:02,680 Speaker 2: thinks he's doing something right. It was like, oh, like, 2457 02:13:02,720 --> 02:13:03,920 Speaker 2: you just need to make it up with your dad, 2458 02:13:03,920 --> 02:13:06,000 Speaker 2: but you don't understand the history of what someone's been. 2459 02:13:06,160 --> 02:13:10,400 Speaker 1: Well, didn't OP say like he was aware of at 2460 02:13:10,480 --> 02:13:11,880 Speaker 1: least to some toge. 2461 02:13:11,680 --> 02:13:13,960 Speaker 2: I guess aware, but maybe not like maybe didn't have 2462 02:13:14,000 --> 02:13:18,760 Speaker 2: the emotional intelligence to actually understand fully. You know, come on, dude, 2463 02:13:19,320 --> 02:13:24,840 Speaker 2: little booty hole. My ex's actions just completely disregarded my 2464 02:13:24,920 --> 02:13:28,440 Speaker 2: feelings and boundaries. I couldn't believe you would do this 2465 02:13:28,680 --> 02:13:31,440 Speaker 2: knowing how I felt about my dad, and without asking 2466 02:13:31,480 --> 02:13:34,720 Speaker 2: me first. My dad made a comment about how glad 2467 02:13:34,760 --> 02:13:37,920 Speaker 2: he was. I came to my senses and how excited 2468 02:13:37,960 --> 02:13:42,600 Speaker 2: he was to go to the wedding really quick. Here 2469 02:13:42,640 --> 02:13:45,920 Speaker 2: before we keep going, talk to me, where are we 2470 02:13:46,040 --> 02:13:50,200 Speaker 2: sensing some a holes the a holish behavior? Right now? 2471 02:13:50,240 --> 02:13:55,480 Speaker 2: We have the mom op OPI's dad and the ex. 2472 02:13:56,880 --> 02:13:59,480 Speaker 2: Who's the a hole in these the in this matrix 2473 02:13:59,520 --> 02:14:00,280 Speaker 2: of people. 2474 02:14:00,160 --> 02:14:02,480 Speaker 1: I mean, the dad just in general all around an 2475 02:14:02,520 --> 02:14:04,640 Speaker 1: a hole for like the litany of things that he did. 2476 02:14:05,360 --> 02:14:08,200 Speaker 2: I would say the X is the a hole because. 2477 02:14:08,320 --> 02:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Again from what I'm remembering in the story, OPI had 2478 02:14:11,080 --> 02:14:15,960 Speaker 1: at least communicated some of and and seemed to make 2479 02:14:16,000 --> 02:14:20,600 Speaker 1: it clear to the X that she didn't want to 2480 02:14:20,640 --> 02:14:23,520 Speaker 1: do anything. She didn't want to have anything to do 2481 02:14:24,160 --> 02:14:27,040 Speaker 1: with him. By the way, am I misremembering? Didn't she 2482 02:14:27,080 --> 02:14:29,400 Speaker 1: say her EX helped her like stand up for herself 2483 02:14:29,440 --> 02:14:31,800 Speaker 1: and like get him out of her life, get her 2484 02:14:31,880 --> 02:14:32,680 Speaker 1: dad out of her life? 2485 02:14:34,960 --> 02:14:39,160 Speaker 2: I remembering something that's not there. Well, what he did 2486 02:14:39,280 --> 02:14:45,720 Speaker 2: say is he confided yeah, in her EX about what 2487 02:14:45,760 --> 02:14:50,160 Speaker 2: was happening with the dad. And also when she was like, 2488 02:14:50,720 --> 02:14:55,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to cut my dad out, the X was supportive. Yeah, 2489 02:14:55,880 --> 02:14:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm going to cut my dad out. The X was supportive. Yeah. 2490 02:14:58,040 --> 02:15:00,920 Speaker 2: So the X kind of went through this, like went 2491 02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:04,919 Speaker 2: through this transition period with op Yes, yes, that's good context. 2492 02:15:04,960 --> 02:15:09,640 Speaker 1: So I think the husband, honestly, it doesn't really matter 2493 02:15:09,680 --> 02:15:14,680 Speaker 1: what the reason was, Like this is not what Opie wanted, 2494 02:15:14,760 --> 02:15:16,720 Speaker 1: and I don't think he should have gone against her 2495 02:15:17,520 --> 02:15:21,120 Speaker 1: wishes and path to invite, not only invite the dad 2496 02:15:21,160 --> 02:15:23,160 Speaker 1: in but invite the dad to the wedding. If you 2497 02:15:23,200 --> 02:15:31,880 Speaker 1: invite anyone to your wedding, especially uh, someone like like 2498 02:15:32,000 --> 02:15:34,720 Speaker 1: Opie's dad, that's got to be an able move in 2499 02:15:34,800 --> 02:15:36,560 Speaker 1: its in and of its own right, right. 2500 02:15:36,760 --> 02:15:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? And also it's just like a like I think, 2501 02:15:41,880 --> 02:15:43,640 Speaker 2: let's say he does go to the wedding, and she's 2502 02:15:43,640 --> 02:15:48,240 Speaker 2: gonna cost so much chaos because think about the the 2503 02:15:49,280 --> 02:15:52,040 Speaker 2: Opie's mom, Opie's mom and all the family that he 2504 02:15:52,120 --> 02:15:55,240 Speaker 2: screwed over, everyone that he's hurt and affected. So yeah, 2505 02:15:55,280 --> 02:15:58,839 Speaker 2: the ex definitely crossed the boundary. Harley and Quinsol completely 2506 02:15:58,880 --> 02:16:04,880 Speaker 2: agree with that. Yep. So uh, we got some, we 2507 02:16:04,960 --> 02:16:08,160 Speaker 2: got some, we got some more more tea coming for you. 2508 02:16:08,360 --> 02:16:11,960 Speaker 2: So basically the ex invited to bury the hatchet. But 2509 02:16:12,000 --> 02:16:16,360 Speaker 2: I was shocking, devastated My ex's actions just completely disregarded 2510 02:16:16,440 --> 02:16:18,920 Speaker 2: my feelings and boundaries for everyone who's just jumping in 2511 02:16:18,960 --> 02:16:23,040 Speaker 2: the stream. Basically, Op's dad is a terrible person, has 2512 02:16:23,080 --> 02:16:26,320 Speaker 2: done so much wrong, and Ope and her ex are 2513 02:16:26,360 --> 02:16:29,040 Speaker 2: about to get married. But Op's ex is like, you 2514 02:16:29,080 --> 02:16:32,200 Speaker 2: should bury the hatchet with your dad, and invited Ope's 2515 02:16:32,959 --> 02:16:36,840 Speaker 2: dad to their house or something to like bury the 2516 02:16:36,879 --> 02:16:40,880 Speaker 2: hatchet terrible. Well, my ex's actions just completely disregarded my 2517 02:16:40,879 --> 02:16:43,000 Speaker 2: feelings and boundaries. I couldn't believe he would do this 2518 02:16:43,080 --> 02:16:46,400 Speaker 2: without no, I couldn't believe he would do this knowing 2519 02:16:46,400 --> 02:16:50,039 Speaker 2: how I felt about my dad without asking me first. 2520 02:16:51,040 --> 02:16:53,320 Speaker 2: My dad made a comment about how glad he was 2521 02:16:53,440 --> 02:16:55,879 Speaker 2: I came to my senses and how excited he was 2522 02:16:56,440 --> 02:16:59,920 Speaker 2: go to my wedding, making suggestions that my half brother, 2523 02:17:01,080 --> 02:17:04,840 Speaker 2: the baby Mama, the fair baby fair Baby, could be 2524 02:17:05,400 --> 02:17:06,240 Speaker 2: the ring bearer. 2525 02:17:07,760 --> 02:17:11,840 Speaker 1: What bro so many lines are being crossed. 2526 02:17:12,400 --> 02:17:16,720 Speaker 2: I asked my dad to leave and warned him and 2527 02:17:16,760 --> 02:17:21,960 Speaker 2: warned him to never contact me again. My ex was furious, 2528 02:17:22,080 --> 02:17:24,480 Speaker 2: since he believed I should forgive my dad and work 2529 02:17:24,520 --> 02:17:27,920 Speaker 2: on repairing our relationship. But like, at some point, people 2530 02:17:28,080 --> 02:17:32,160 Speaker 2: just like show you so many times that they're terrible 2531 02:17:32,160 --> 02:17:34,039 Speaker 2: that you don't you shouldn't trust them again, That's. 2532 02:17:33,959 --> 02:17:38,480 Speaker 1: Right, Like it's not like OPI It seemed like Opie said, 2533 02:17:38,480 --> 02:17:40,920 Speaker 1: are like, oh, I was kind of like a more 2534 02:17:40,920 --> 02:17:43,040 Speaker 1: of a pushover, not as strong in the past. Opie's like, 2535 02:17:43,120 --> 02:17:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm finally gonna stop letting him do all these terrible 2536 02:17:46,400 --> 02:17:50,199 Speaker 1: things to me and you as her fiance, is not. 2537 02:17:50,120 --> 02:17:52,720 Speaker 2: Gonna suppart that I can't believe he didn't support her. 2538 02:17:52,760 --> 02:17:55,560 Speaker 2: That's that, That's what's awful. What are we talking about? 2539 02:17:56,120 --> 02:17:58,960 Speaker 2: But there's more to this story. This is heartbreaking. It 2540 02:17:59,080 --> 02:18:01,879 Speaker 2: is anyway I might I had to leave, never contact. 2541 02:18:01,959 --> 02:18:03,760 Speaker 2: My ex was furious, since he believed I should forget 2542 02:18:03,800 --> 02:18:05,720 Speaker 2: my dad and work on repairing our relationship. But I 2543 02:18:05,760 --> 02:18:08,320 Speaker 2: don't understand why I should forgive him when he was 2544 02:18:08,320 --> 02:18:10,600 Speaker 2: the one who cut ties with me. More importantly, I 2545 02:18:10,640 --> 02:18:13,680 Speaker 2: couldn't forgive someone who hadn't even apologized for their past actions. 2546 02:18:14,520 --> 02:18:16,920 Speaker 2: My ex believed that enough time had passed to allow 2547 02:18:16,959 --> 02:18:19,800 Speaker 2: me to work on forgiving him, but I argued that 2548 02:18:19,879 --> 02:18:23,279 Speaker 2: it's not fair that I have to put in the work. 2549 02:18:23,760 --> 02:18:27,200 Speaker 2: My number hasn't changed. My dad hasn't done anything to 2550 02:18:27,200 --> 02:18:29,640 Speaker 2: show me that he's changed. Sure, he gave my mom 2551 02:18:29,720 --> 02:18:32,080 Speaker 2: the divorce, but he never apologized for any of the 2552 02:18:32,080 --> 02:18:34,440 Speaker 2: crap he pulled and was happy to go along with 2553 02:18:34,480 --> 02:18:36,840 Speaker 2: the facade of him being a guy who cheated and 2554 02:18:36,879 --> 02:18:39,760 Speaker 2: made a mistake so he was vilified, and not all 2555 02:18:39,800 --> 02:18:42,120 Speaker 2: of the drug use that he was doing. I asked 2556 02:18:42,160 --> 02:18:44,080 Speaker 2: him how long he'd been in contact with my dad, 2557 02:18:44,080 --> 02:18:47,080 Speaker 2: and it turns out guess how long have they been 2558 02:18:47,120 --> 02:18:47,640 Speaker 2: in contact? 2559 02:18:48,000 --> 02:18:52,040 Speaker 1: Oh, because we know how long I have been in a relationship. 2560 02:18:53,040 --> 02:18:57,920 Speaker 2: We don't, right, uh? I think like a couple of years. 2561 02:18:58,200 --> 02:19:00,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to say, I'm going to go all the 2562 02:19:00,320 --> 02:19:03,600 Speaker 1: way since since the start of their relationship, close to 2563 02:19:03,640 --> 02:19:05,560 Speaker 1: the start of their relationship. 2564 02:19:06,000 --> 02:19:11,760 Speaker 2: Okay, not quite that long. But it turns out he'd 2565 02:19:11,760 --> 02:19:15,280 Speaker 2: been in contact with him for six months, a long time. 2566 02:19:15,520 --> 02:19:21,080 Speaker 2: Six months. Thank you man Kara to Sukiyari. Kukiyari says, 2567 02:19:21,120 --> 02:19:23,560 Speaker 2: six months. You got it right? Ooh nice. Yeah. I 2568 02:19:23,560 --> 02:19:25,920 Speaker 2: felt so disrespected and hurt by my ex's actions. I 2569 02:19:25,959 --> 02:19:29,920 Speaker 2: decided to call off the wedding and told him we 2570 02:19:29,959 --> 02:19:32,520 Speaker 2: need to rebuild the trust in communication in our relationship 2571 02:19:32,520 --> 02:19:36,200 Speaker 2: before we got married. But my ex refused, saying that 2572 02:19:36,240 --> 02:19:39,800 Speaker 2: it was either we get married we break up. So 2573 02:19:41,480 --> 02:19:48,279 Speaker 2: I ended the engagement. Yep, wow, yep. Ended the engagement 2574 02:19:48,440 --> 02:19:51,800 Speaker 2: over He knew that I had issues with that lack 2575 02:19:51,840 --> 02:19:53,879 Speaker 2: of honor. He knew I had issues with the lack 2576 02:19:53,920 --> 02:19:56,360 Speaker 2: of honesty and communication from so many people in my life. 2577 02:19:56,560 --> 02:19:58,920 Speaker 2: The decision made on my behalf without regard for my 2578 02:19:58,920 --> 02:20:01,280 Speaker 2: feelings and the years I spent trying to appease others, 2579 02:20:01,800 --> 02:20:05,240 Speaker 2: and yet yet by trying to force my father back 2580 02:20:05,240 --> 02:20:07,920 Speaker 2: into my life, it was like he was deliberately trying 2581 02:20:07,920 --> 02:20:10,760 Speaker 2: to set off my triggers. I still don't know or 2582 02:20:10,840 --> 02:20:13,440 Speaker 2: understand why he reached out to him, if he said 2583 02:20:13,560 --> 02:20:16,160 Speaker 2: he understood my reasons for not wanting my dad there 2584 02:20:16,640 --> 02:20:19,560 Speaker 2: or what. But I still love him. So it hurts, 2585 02:20:20,280 --> 02:20:23,160 Speaker 2: But I thought I did the right thing. Now it 2586 02:20:23,200 --> 02:20:25,120 Speaker 2: doesn't help that I'm getting so much hate from my 2587 02:20:25,120 --> 02:20:28,280 Speaker 2: ex's family, who are calling me names and blaming me 2588 02:20:28,800 --> 02:20:31,320 Speaker 2: for breaking his heart. They're calling me the a hole 2589 02:20:31,400 --> 02:20:35,160 Speaker 2: for being so sensitive about this and overreacting. With the 2590 02:20:35,160 --> 02:20:38,320 Speaker 2: amount of flak I'm getting, I'm starting to feel like 2591 02:20:38,400 --> 02:20:42,240 Speaker 2: the a hole. So did I do the right thing? 2592 02:20:43,080 --> 02:20:46,800 Speaker 2: And there is an update coming six days later. In 2593 02:20:46,840 --> 02:20:51,360 Speaker 2: a quick comment, Lynn K. Deborah says, your exes ridiculous. 2594 02:20:51,360 --> 02:20:54,080 Speaker 2: Stop communicating with his family or him, That's why they're 2595 02:20:54,120 --> 02:20:57,440 Speaker 2: called ex'es. Your dad sounds like a malignant narcissist. No 2596 02:20:57,560 --> 02:20:59,520 Speaker 2: contact is the way to protect yourself. And there is 2597 02:20:59,560 --> 02:21:03,120 Speaker 2: an update, but really quick stopping here, Yes, what do 2598 02:21:03,160 --> 02:21:06,680 Speaker 2: we think Opie should do pertaining to the X and 2599 02:21:06,720 --> 02:21:11,440 Speaker 2: pertaining to the bother and is there anything that I guess, 2600 02:21:11,480 --> 02:21:15,560 Speaker 2: is there anything that Ope should have done differently the ale. 2601 02:21:16,360 --> 02:21:19,520 Speaker 1: I do not think Op's the a hole. I'm pretty 2602 02:21:19,520 --> 02:21:22,600 Speaker 1: sure that OPI pretty much handled everything. Like, for instance, 2603 02:21:23,240 --> 02:21:25,760 Speaker 1: I think her response of like, hey, we need to 2604 02:21:25,760 --> 02:21:28,160 Speaker 1: call the wedding off until we can get back on 2605 02:21:28,200 --> 02:21:30,920 Speaker 1: the same page and make sure that you're respecting my 2606 02:21:30,959 --> 02:21:34,320 Speaker 1: boundaries that I think that's fair because she's like, let 2607 02:21:34,320 --> 02:21:36,960 Speaker 1: me give you a chance. We just can't like, yeah, 2608 02:21:37,160 --> 02:21:38,200 Speaker 1: that marriage right now. 2609 02:21:38,280 --> 02:21:40,360 Speaker 2: It was like it was I feel like that was 2610 02:21:40,400 --> 02:21:44,320 Speaker 2: a very measured response, which honestly is probably what I 2611 02:21:44,320 --> 02:21:48,840 Speaker 2: would have done in this situation where it's like you far, 2612 02:21:49,520 --> 02:21:53,199 Speaker 2: you flipped up, you messed up. Yeah, I caught myself. 2613 02:21:53,240 --> 02:21:57,920 Speaker 2: I caught myself. You messed up. But like I understand, 2614 02:21:57,959 --> 02:21:59,879 Speaker 2: people mess up. People don't necessarily know how to read 2615 02:21:59,879 --> 02:22:02,720 Speaker 2: the room. But and like like we can, we can 2616 02:22:02,800 --> 02:22:06,720 Speaker 2: like work through this, and gave him the opportunity. But 2617 02:22:06,959 --> 02:22:09,359 Speaker 2: it sounds like he didn't want that opportunity. 2618 02:22:09,920 --> 02:22:13,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think O be handled everything. Well, Yeah, 2619 02:22:13,400 --> 02:22:15,760 Speaker 1: I think the dad's the a hole. I think no 2620 02:22:15,840 --> 02:22:17,680 Speaker 1: contact with the dad for sure, Yeah, go no contact 2621 02:22:17,720 --> 02:22:20,000 Speaker 1: with the dad one hundred percent and uh, you have 2622 02:22:20,040 --> 02:22:22,600 Speaker 1: a fiance, just like the thing to me was. 2623 02:22:23,680 --> 02:22:29,039 Speaker 2: Should op leave the door open for the fiance like 2624 02:22:29,080 --> 02:22:33,720 Speaker 2: the way she did, or let like like like the 2625 02:22:33,720 --> 02:22:37,080 Speaker 2: fiances like, uh, it's either we get married or nothing. 2626 02:22:37,240 --> 02:22:39,080 Speaker 2: And then it's like, hey, I guess it's nothing. But 2627 02:22:39,120 --> 02:22:46,520 Speaker 2: if you change your mind, like let's talk. Hmmm. Tamanth Moran, omg, 2628 02:22:46,640 --> 02:22:48,720 Speaker 2: this is the first time I caught alive Welcome. 2629 02:22:48,520 --> 02:22:53,400 Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome. I don't think so because think about it 2630 02:22:53,440 --> 02:22:58,800 Speaker 1: like this of true testament to him being apologetic with 2631 02:22:58,920 --> 02:23:01,800 Speaker 1: him being like reached out later and being like, I 2632 02:23:01,920 --> 02:23:04,240 Speaker 1: just wanted to tell you what an a hole I 2633 02:23:04,440 --> 02:23:07,320 Speaker 1: was and what I did was wrong, and I don't 2634 02:23:07,360 --> 02:23:10,520 Speaker 1: want anything, but I just wanted to apologize. That would 2635 02:23:10,560 --> 02:23:13,200 Speaker 1: be an example of a sign of them maybe getting 2636 02:23:13,200 --> 02:23:13,440 Speaker 1: back here. 2637 02:23:13,480 --> 02:23:17,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't seem like he had a It 2638 02:23:17,600 --> 02:23:22,240 Speaker 2: doesn't seem like he had that intention for that maturity level, Like. 2639 02:23:22,160 --> 02:23:23,840 Speaker 1: He's got to go above and beyond if he has 2640 02:23:23,840 --> 02:23:25,800 Speaker 1: any hope of them getting back together. So I wouldn't 2641 02:23:25,800 --> 02:23:29,560 Speaker 1: even I wouldn't make it easy. I would intentionally be like, 2642 02:23:30,000 --> 02:23:32,440 Speaker 1: let me just completely back off, and if he really 2643 02:23:32,440 --> 02:23:35,320 Speaker 1: goes above and beyond without me like helping and nudging 2644 02:23:35,400 --> 02:23:37,200 Speaker 1: him there, then maybe I'll give him a chance. 2645 02:23:37,320 --> 02:23:41,680 Speaker 2: Yeah maybe, agreed, agreed, agreed, agreed. But but we do 2646 02:23:41,800 --> 02:23:45,039 Speaker 2: have a juicy, thick update. Oh god, and this poll 2647 02:23:45,160 --> 02:23:47,920 Speaker 2: is covering my face right now. Oh none, there we go. 2648 02:23:49,000 --> 02:23:51,720 Speaker 2: We do have a big juicy update. But before we 2649 02:23:51,760 --> 02:23:55,160 Speaker 2: get into this juicy update, we got some dull nations 2650 02:23:55,240 --> 02:23:59,320 Speaker 2: and in this in this house Asian persuasion. Thanks to 2651 02:23:59,320 --> 02:24:01,240 Speaker 2: the two bucks that day, I didn't wanted to drive 2652 02:24:01,320 --> 02:24:06,879 Speaker 2: twenty four minutes obviously, And then yeah, agreed, Mama m eighty, 2653 02:24:06,959 --> 02:24:09,560 Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. First Live. Your video has 2654 02:24:09,560 --> 02:24:12,080 Speaker 2: gotten me through some long days working with a certain 2655 02:24:12,160 --> 02:24:15,280 Speaker 2: mouse here in Florida. Uh love the vibe and energy 2656 02:24:15,720 --> 02:24:19,720 Speaker 2: always bring to every show. Yeah, then Mickey one sounds 2657 02:24:19,760 --> 02:24:23,360 Speaker 2: like it fibridfolios of books. 2658 02:24:22,879 --> 02:24:26,360 Speaker 1: Five eleven tip they didn't cross the line, they demolish it. 2659 02:24:26,760 --> 02:24:29,720 Speaker 1: Couldn't have said it better my freaking self and Samantha 2660 02:24:30,000 --> 02:24:32,320 Speaker 1: celebrating her two month membership of being a little silly. 2661 02:24:32,360 --> 02:24:34,840 Speaker 1: If my husband brought my dad, we haven't talked to 2662 02:24:34,879 --> 02:24:37,160 Speaker 1: each other in years, that's a story in it. That's 2663 02:24:37,160 --> 02:24:39,720 Speaker 1: a story full of trauma. I would be pissed off 2664 02:24:39,760 --> 02:24:42,240 Speaker 1: and very upset. 2665 02:24:41,520 --> 02:24:44,119 Speaker 2: As you should be, Samantha. And that's for being a member. Yeah, 2666 02:24:44,160 --> 02:24:48,080 Speaker 2: appreciate you two months bigosha the like goal. 2667 02:24:48,440 --> 02:24:51,119 Speaker 3: I believe it is a thousand right now? 2668 02:24:51,320 --> 02:24:51,959 Speaker 2: And what are we at? 2669 02:24:52,240 --> 02:24:55,720 Speaker 3: We are at hold for applause. 2670 02:24:56,600 --> 02:24:59,840 Speaker 2: Hold the line, I'm going, I'm. 2671 02:24:59,640 --> 02:25:06,840 Speaker 3: Going, Oh, we're at seven hundred and eighty five. 2672 02:25:07,680 --> 02:25:10,960 Speaker 2: But there was a thousand people in the stream. What 2673 02:25:11,000 --> 02:25:11,920 Speaker 2: are we doing here? 2674 02:25:12,080 --> 02:25:13,879 Speaker 3: That's a little suspicious. 2675 02:25:14,520 --> 02:25:16,520 Speaker 2: What are we freaking doing here? 2676 02:25:16,760 --> 02:25:19,920 Speaker 1: I heard the same people that aren't liking the stream. 2677 02:25:20,240 --> 02:25:23,240 Speaker 2: They're not even subscribing it. Oh oh, you're saying you 2678 02:25:23,280 --> 02:25:27,360 Speaker 2: are not subscribed to okay op right now? Are you 2679 02:25:27,560 --> 02:25:30,840 Speaker 2: kidding me? That's hard to take. Do you even like us? 2680 02:25:31,440 --> 02:25:34,600 Speaker 2: We love you, love us, we love make sure to subscribe. Yeah, 2681 02:25:34,600 --> 02:25:38,560 Speaker 2: come on, we love you and see you with this 2682 02:25:38,680 --> 02:25:40,000 Speaker 2: update right now? 2683 02:25:40,040 --> 02:25:41,280 Speaker 3: Are you ending the street? 2684 02:25:41,600 --> 02:25:45,160 Speaker 2: No? No, no, no, no, no, no no no no anyway, 2685 02:25:46,480 --> 02:25:50,600 Speaker 2: so so so so six days later, I'm just a 2686 02:25:50,680 --> 02:25:54,480 Speaker 2: quick update OP Live. It's a long update. I'm going 2687 02:25:54,520 --> 02:25:56,840 Speaker 2: back to therapy. But everyone who responded to my post 2688 02:25:56,879 --> 02:25:59,400 Speaker 2: really gave me the reassurance I did the right thing. 2689 02:26:00,800 --> 02:26:06,279 Speaker 2: My dad hasn't come by my apartment, but I'm planning 2690 02:26:06,320 --> 02:26:08,400 Speaker 2: to move out. I've been staying in a sublet apartment 2691 02:26:08,480 --> 02:26:10,840 Speaker 2: since I didn't renew my lease on my last place. 2692 02:26:11,040 --> 02:26:14,199 Speaker 2: Me and my ex planned on moving in together previously. 2693 02:26:15,200 --> 02:26:16,920 Speaker 2: I'm now moving in with my sister. She has a 2694 02:26:16,959 --> 02:26:19,400 Speaker 2: den in her house she's converting into a bedroom. It's 2695 02:26:19,440 --> 02:26:21,760 Speaker 2: adding much more time to my commute, but I'll do 2696 02:26:21,800 --> 02:26:25,360 Speaker 2: it for now. Probably a good idea. GenZ B, we 2697 02:26:25,440 --> 02:26:30,560 Speaker 2: love you too. I'm going to change my number, and 2698 02:26:30,600 --> 02:26:32,400 Speaker 2: I'm not planning to give it to my ex or 2699 02:26:32,400 --> 02:26:34,080 Speaker 2: his family. But I did want to reach out to 2700 02:26:34,120 --> 02:26:36,080 Speaker 2: his mom. We've been part of each other's lives for 2701 02:26:36,120 --> 02:26:38,600 Speaker 2: a long time, and I wanted her to know that 2702 02:26:38,680 --> 02:26:42,440 Speaker 2: this wasn't how I wanted things to be. Of the 2703 02:26:42,480 --> 02:26:45,840 Speaker 2: people who contacted me, she was not aggressive towards me, 2704 02:26:46,280 --> 02:26:48,760 Speaker 2: and I should have been more clear in my initial 2705 02:26:48,800 --> 02:26:57,160 Speaker 2: post because she was very disappointed. Well, my ex's dad, sister, cousins, 2706 02:26:57,200 --> 02:27:03,960 Speaker 2: and aunts were the ones harassing me. They were being 2707 02:27:04,000 --> 02:27:07,640 Speaker 2: little stinks. I wonder if they even neil stinkers. Probably 2708 02:27:07,680 --> 02:27:11,119 Speaker 2: not the whole story, yeah, I imagine to them. Speaking 2709 02:27:11,160 --> 02:27:15,360 Speaker 2: of whole stories, Samantha, thanks for giving us five whole 2710 02:27:15,760 --> 02:27:20,440 Speaker 2: gifted memberships. The Little Sillies Adventure begins. Thanks for the 2711 02:27:20,440 --> 02:27:23,000 Speaker 2: one twenty five tip, and Olivia Claire, thanks for one 2712 02:27:23,040 --> 02:27:25,440 Speaker 2: month of membership. Tuning in while I get ready to 2713 02:27:25,480 --> 02:27:28,440 Speaker 2: meet my boyfriend's family for the first time. So nervous, 2714 02:27:28,480 --> 02:27:32,039 Speaker 2: but the okay fan helps call us tell us about it. 2715 02:27:32,080 --> 02:27:33,960 Speaker 2: That'll be funny here, Yeah, gotta be fun to hear. 2716 02:27:34,080 --> 02:27:36,400 Speaker 2: I want to hear why you're nervous. That sounds funny. 2717 02:27:36,400 --> 02:27:38,199 Speaker 3: I feel like that's somewhat nerve wracking. 2718 02:27:38,280 --> 02:27:43,360 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, no nerves allowed. Oh zero, made 2719 02:27:43,360 --> 02:27:46,760 Speaker 2: a good impression on twenty five percent of my girlfriend's families. 2720 02:27:46,920 --> 02:27:47,760 Speaker 3: That's so low. 2721 02:27:48,959 --> 02:27:52,960 Speaker 2: Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, seventy fowl. 2722 02:27:53,440 --> 02:27:55,240 Speaker 3: I feel like you came into that, you know. 2723 02:27:55,959 --> 02:27:58,000 Speaker 2: Positive twenty five. 2724 02:28:00,080 --> 02:28:02,600 Speaker 3: Five percent success, rayev. 2725 02:28:03,920 --> 02:28:06,400 Speaker 2: There's only one set of parents that didn't like me. 2726 02:28:07,240 --> 02:28:09,199 Speaker 2: I mean in baseball, it's probably a pretty good record. 2727 02:28:09,360 --> 02:28:12,080 Speaker 2: Yeah for what I hear, Yeah, yeah, what I hear? 2728 02:28:12,120 --> 02:28:14,680 Speaker 2: Twenty percent of the balls first last, as I believe 2729 02:28:14,720 --> 02:28:17,680 Speaker 2: the first twenty five percent. I'm like best friends with 2730 02:28:17,680 --> 02:28:22,400 Speaker 2: my ex's dad. Chat. We just chat. He's awesome. Bring 2731 02:28:22,440 --> 02:28:27,720 Speaker 2: him on the stream prove anyway, and I was blocking them, 2732 02:28:27,760 --> 02:28:30,640 Speaker 2: but they were using other numbers, probably belonging to other 2733 02:28:30,680 --> 02:28:33,240 Speaker 2: family members of their partners. And they were making fake 2734 02:28:33,320 --> 02:28:36,200 Speaker 2: profiles online so they can message me through Instagram. Even 2735 02:28:36,240 --> 02:28:38,840 Speaker 2: if a profile is private, you can still receive messages. 2736 02:28:38,920 --> 02:28:43,199 Speaker 2: That's I know, get a grip. I called his mom 2737 02:28:43,240 --> 02:28:46,080 Speaker 2: and she was cold, but I explained how hurtful their 2738 02:28:46,120 --> 02:28:49,000 Speaker 2: treatment of me was. She was apologetic, but she thinks 2739 02:28:49,040 --> 02:28:51,680 Speaker 2: people were just mad and don't understand how I could 2740 02:28:51,680 --> 02:28:55,240 Speaker 2: just end a relationship because my ex ass if I 2741 02:28:55,280 --> 02:28:57,720 Speaker 2: could invite my dad, well it was a little bit 2742 02:28:57,720 --> 02:29:01,360 Speaker 2: more than that, wasn't it was? It wasn't it? And 2743 02:29:01,400 --> 02:29:06,200 Speaker 2: Cassie Reneey, thanks for the five giftain my merci. Cassie, 2744 02:29:06,320 --> 02:29:09,560 Speaker 2: you're awesome. And Hidie Brownie, this is for one dollar tip. 2745 02:29:09,640 --> 02:29:13,800 Speaker 2: The OP needs. OP needs in laws like mine. Both 2746 02:29:13,840 --> 02:29:18,080 Speaker 2: fathers in of mine and two of my brothers in law. 2747 02:29:18,560 --> 02:29:21,520 Speaker 2: Police officers brought their weapons and were ready to escort 2748 02:29:21,560 --> 02:29:24,800 Speaker 2: my sperm donor out of the wedding if he showed up. 2749 02:29:25,000 --> 02:29:27,760 Speaker 2: Let's go wow, get that security out there. But real 2750 02:29:28,560 --> 02:29:32,520 Speaker 2: she was apologetic, but she said she thinks that they 2751 02:29:32,520 --> 02:29:34,000 Speaker 2: were just mad and don't understand how I could just 2752 02:29:34,080 --> 02:29:37,480 Speaker 2: end the relationship. I was confused and told her that 2753 02:29:37,600 --> 02:29:41,320 Speaker 2: he did ask me when we first got engaged, and 2754 02:29:41,360 --> 02:29:43,640 Speaker 2: I didn't immediately call off the relationship. I postponed the 2755 02:29:43,680 --> 02:29:46,240 Speaker 2: engagement because he straight up invited my dad despite me 2756 02:29:46,280 --> 02:29:48,440 Speaker 2: telling him I didn't want him there. I only ended 2757 02:29:48,440 --> 02:29:53,080 Speaker 2: the relationship because he gave an ultimatum, not me. She 2758 02:29:53,160 --> 02:29:55,280 Speaker 2: asked why I never said anything to anyone. I told 2759 02:29:55,280 --> 02:29:57,560 Speaker 2: her because no one asked. I just got sent a 2760 02:29:57,600 --> 02:30:00,760 Speaker 2: bunch of hateful messages, and why I respond to people 2761 02:30:00,760 --> 02:30:03,160 Speaker 2: who treated me like that act. She was apologetic and 2762 02:30:03,160 --> 02:30:05,640 Speaker 2: told me she'd make sure her family knew. I told 2763 02:30:05,680 --> 02:30:07,640 Speaker 2: her it really didn't matter, but I just wanted her 2764 02:30:07,640 --> 02:30:09,440 Speaker 2: to know because she was important to me, and I 2765 02:30:09,440 --> 02:30:13,640 Speaker 2: thought maybe I was important to her too. That's cute, 2766 02:30:14,080 --> 02:30:16,879 Speaker 2: That's really cute. She got really sad after that and 2767 02:30:16,920 --> 02:30:19,440 Speaker 2: started crying, so I guess she does care somewhat. I've 2768 02:30:19,440 --> 02:30:22,039 Speaker 2: gotten a few other text from people, and they've been 2769 02:30:22,240 --> 02:30:25,640 Speaker 2: very apologetic too. I'm not expecting anything from those who 2770 02:30:25,680 --> 02:30:27,800 Speaker 2: haven't messaged me, but it's nice to know that there 2771 02:30:27,800 --> 02:30:29,760 Speaker 2: are some people who are willing to put their ego 2772 02:30:29,800 --> 02:30:33,680 Speaker 2: aside to apologize because Opie's just been catching the flack. Yeah, 2773 02:30:33,680 --> 02:30:35,680 Speaker 2: and it hits left right. Yeah. I looked online but 2774 02:30:35,680 --> 02:30:38,039 Speaker 2: couldn't really find a response about how long my ex 2775 02:30:38,040 --> 02:30:40,520 Speaker 2: can keep his stuff at my place. When we first 2776 02:30:40,520 --> 02:30:43,920 Speaker 2: broke up, I sent him an email and text, but 2777 02:30:44,000 --> 02:30:47,160 Speaker 2: he never responded, so I tried calling him, emailed and 2778 02:30:47,200 --> 02:30:50,400 Speaker 2: texting him again, and I mailed him a letter letting 2779 02:30:50,440 --> 02:30:53,520 Speaker 2: him know that he had thirty days to get his things, 2780 02:30:53,600 --> 02:30:57,720 Speaker 2: with copies of my initial text and email asking him 2781 02:30:58,320 --> 02:31:02,440 Speaker 2: to claim his items receipts. I don't know if he 2782 02:31:02,520 --> 02:31:04,920 Speaker 2: got the letter, but yesterday he texted me and asked 2783 02:31:04,959 --> 02:31:08,280 Speaker 2: me if I could, oh ask me if he could 2784 02:31:08,280 --> 02:31:11,480 Speaker 2: come to pick up his things and we could talk alone. Hmmm, 2785 02:31:11,959 --> 02:31:15,680 Speaker 2: So the ex is like maybe trying to reconcile. What 2786 02:31:15,720 --> 02:31:18,040 Speaker 2: would y'all do? Would y'all want to talk to the X? 2787 02:31:18,080 --> 02:31:20,880 Speaker 2: Would you want to hear him? Hear him out? Would you? 2788 02:31:20,920 --> 02:31:24,360 Speaker 2: What do you think? John? H No, don't hear him. 2789 02:31:24,240 --> 02:31:27,119 Speaker 1: Out, especially because like it seems like he turned all 2790 02:31:27,120 --> 02:31:32,840 Speaker 1: the family against OPI, when again, op, he literally did 2791 02:31:33,280 --> 02:31:37,120 Speaker 1: nothing wrong. I think op handled at every decision point, 2792 02:31:37,160 --> 02:31:38,560 Speaker 1: at every checkpoint in the story. 2793 02:31:38,879 --> 02:31:41,920 Speaker 2: Op think I was super level headed it's super fair. Yeah, 2794 02:31:41,959 --> 02:31:44,040 Speaker 2: and also like, like, well again what you said the 2795 02:31:44,280 --> 02:31:48,040 Speaker 2: X literally manipulated his entire family without telling the whole truth, 2796 02:31:48,160 --> 02:31:50,920 Speaker 2: thank you, or just like straight lives or straight lives, 2797 02:31:50,920 --> 02:31:53,599 Speaker 2: but you know who never lies to us? Oh Samantha 2798 02:31:53,720 --> 02:31:58,640 Speaker 2: with the tatent gifted memberships. That's dropping straight truth bombs 2799 02:31:58,680 --> 02:32:01,959 Speaker 2: to let the okay fan access our private streams. 2800 02:32:02,000 --> 02:32:05,039 Speaker 1: That's right to the real truth is it's readership that 2801 02:32:05,200 --> 02:32:06,240 Speaker 1: is true. 2802 02:32:06,680 --> 02:32:12,279 Speaker 2: So basically it's like, oh, I'm going to I want 2803 02:32:12,320 --> 02:32:19,400 Speaker 2: to talk about things. Yeah, so let's see what actually happens. Well, 2804 02:32:24,160 --> 02:32:26,400 Speaker 2: I'm not expecting anything of a message read. 2805 02:32:26,440 --> 02:32:27,279 Speaker 3: I was hesitant. 2806 02:32:27,520 --> 02:32:32,840 Speaker 2: Wait, I I lost my place. She was apologetic, but 2807 02:32:32,920 --> 02:32:35,240 Speaker 2: I just wanted to know, all right. She got really sad, 2808 02:32:35,320 --> 02:32:37,640 Speaker 2: started to cry. I gotten few text from other people. 2809 02:32:37,680 --> 02:32:39,600 Speaker 2: I'm not really expecting anything for Rosy matter to me, 2810 02:32:39,640 --> 02:32:41,720 Speaker 2: but it's nice to know that they are there and 2811 02:32:41,720 --> 02:32:46,280 Speaker 2: some people are willing to put their ego aside and apologize. 2812 02:32:46,959 --> 02:32:49,640 Speaker 3: Now I don't know where you are. Where did you go? 2813 02:32:49,879 --> 02:32:52,480 Speaker 2: I'm confused. I'm just going to go. I'm going to 2814 02:32:52,520 --> 02:32:53,000 Speaker 2: go back. 2815 02:32:53,040 --> 02:32:55,199 Speaker 3: You're read. I was hesitant, but I guess I really 2816 02:32:55,240 --> 02:32:56,320 Speaker 3: just want I'm highlighting it? 2817 02:32:58,080 --> 02:33:04,400 Speaker 2: Where highlighting it? Mind? It really show Okay? 2818 02:33:04,400 --> 02:33:05,560 Speaker 3: I said we could talk alone. 2819 02:33:05,640 --> 02:33:11,080 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay. So I don't know if he okay. I 2820 02:33:11,120 --> 02:33:13,119 Speaker 2: think I might have skipped some stuff. So I tried 2821 02:33:13,160 --> 02:33:15,280 Speaker 2: calling him, emailed and text him again. And I mailed 2822 02:33:15,360 --> 02:33:17,320 Speaker 2: him a letter letting him know that he had thirty 2823 02:33:17,400 --> 02:33:19,360 Speaker 2: days to get his things, with copies of my initial 2824 02:33:19,400 --> 02:33:23,400 Speaker 2: text and emails asking him to claim his items, so 2825 02:33:23,440 --> 02:33:25,760 Speaker 2: basically like saying, like the X should go get some 2826 02:33:26,040 --> 02:33:28,280 Speaker 2: get the stuff from obi yep. I don't know if 2827 02:33:28,280 --> 02:33:30,119 Speaker 2: he got the letter, but yesterday he texted and asked 2828 02:33:30,160 --> 02:33:32,120 Speaker 2: if when he came to pick up his things, we 2829 02:33:32,160 --> 02:33:34,600 Speaker 2: could talk alone. I was headcent, but I guess I 2830 02:33:34,640 --> 02:33:36,680 Speaker 2: really just wanted to put all this behind me and 2831 02:33:36,720 --> 02:33:38,840 Speaker 2: I want to make it clear to him in person. 2832 02:33:39,320 --> 02:33:40,840 Speaker 2: And I told him we could meet in a public 2833 02:33:40,879 --> 02:33:42,760 Speaker 2: place and he agreed. Oh, my brother Joe me to 2834 02:33:42,800 --> 02:33:44,960 Speaker 2: a cafe this morning and we waited in the outside 2835 02:33:45,000 --> 02:33:48,040 Speaker 2: patio while I went in to meet my ex. Well, 2836 02:33:48,480 --> 02:33:51,120 Speaker 2: according to him, he got it in his head that 2837 02:33:51,200 --> 02:33:53,920 Speaker 2: he was going to be making a childhood dream of 2838 02:33:53,959 --> 02:33:59,760 Speaker 2: mine come true, which was having a real friendship with 2839 02:34:00,120 --> 02:34:03,400 Speaker 2: my dad. I did tell him once that when I 2840 02:34:03,480 --> 02:34:05,920 Speaker 2: was younger and asked my dad to consider signing my 2841 02:34:05,959 --> 02:34:09,240 Speaker 2: mom's divorce papers, I hope we could rebuild our relationship 2842 02:34:09,280 --> 02:34:10,879 Speaker 2: to the point where he could walk me down the 2843 02:34:10,920 --> 02:34:17,520 Speaker 2: aisle and dance with me at my wedding. M b 2844 02:34:17,600 --> 02:34:20,720 Speaker 2: ruh rick or uh, how do you feel about that? 2845 02:34:21,480 --> 02:34:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm that changes nothing. You're an idiot, But you're an idiot. 2846 02:34:26,400 --> 02:34:28,640 Speaker 2: It changes something a little bit for me because like 2847 02:34:28,920 --> 02:34:30,560 Speaker 2: he is nothing for me, because he was just trying 2848 02:34:30,600 --> 02:34:33,560 Speaker 2: to be super thoughtful. He was like, oh, I remember 2849 02:34:33,600 --> 02:34:37,000 Speaker 2: this thing that she said he wanted. She wanted her 2850 02:34:37,120 --> 02:34:40,280 Speaker 2: dad to walk down the aisle let me like help. 2851 02:34:40,480 --> 02:34:44,080 Speaker 2: He's an idiot because obviously like nothing had changed and 2852 02:34:44,120 --> 02:34:46,360 Speaker 2: the father didn't say anything, but he was like his 2853 02:34:46,440 --> 02:34:47,440 Speaker 2: heart was in the right place. 2854 02:34:47,480 --> 02:34:49,879 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if it was. Honestly, I 2855 02:34:49,920 --> 02:34:54,560 Speaker 1: think I even am suspicious of him saying that. I 2856 02:34:54,600 --> 02:34:57,240 Speaker 1: think there's there's some kernel of truth to it. But 2857 02:34:57,440 --> 02:35:00,000 Speaker 1: I don't trust him. I don't I don't trust him, 2858 02:35:00,240 --> 02:35:02,400 Speaker 1: And no, I don't like it. 2859 02:35:03,040 --> 02:35:07,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. I guess what is the 2860 02:35:07,480 --> 02:35:10,760 Speaker 2: red flag here? Is the biggest red flag for me 2861 02:35:11,280 --> 02:35:15,840 Speaker 2: actually is not that he invited the dad, which is 2862 02:35:15,840 --> 02:35:19,240 Speaker 2: is pretty rough, but maybe we could see it from 2863 02:35:19,280 --> 02:35:21,360 Speaker 2: the lens of like, oh, he was just trying to 2864 02:35:21,400 --> 02:35:23,400 Speaker 2: do this thing that was her dream and he just 2865 02:35:23,920 --> 02:35:27,360 Speaker 2: totally misread everything to a massive extent. But the fact 2866 02:35:27,440 --> 02:35:31,119 Speaker 2: that he told his entire family a. 2867 02:35:30,879 --> 02:35:35,480 Speaker 1: Lie and when when So after the incident of like 2868 02:35:35,520 --> 02:35:38,720 Speaker 1: bringing the dad over saying that he's invited to the wedding, afterwards, 2869 02:35:38,760 --> 02:35:40,600 Speaker 1: OPI was like, how could you do this? And he 2870 02:35:40,680 --> 02:35:43,280 Speaker 1: doubled down in that moment too, Yeah, and he was 2871 02:35:43,320 --> 02:35:46,000 Speaker 1: like oh no, like like he should have apologized, Like. 2872 02:35:46,080 --> 02:35:50,040 Speaker 2: He should have apologized, and then like like OP gave 2873 02:35:50,120 --> 02:35:52,840 Speaker 2: him an out, yes, Op, Yeah, that's the thing. OPI 2874 02:35:53,000 --> 02:35:55,800 Speaker 2: gave him an out. Op. Opie literally did exactly what 2875 02:35:55,840 --> 02:35:57,440 Speaker 2: I would have done the scenario. Yes, Like in the 2876 02:35:57,480 --> 02:35:59,320 Speaker 2: scenario I would have I would have been like, that 2877 02:35:59,520 --> 02:36:01,760 Speaker 2: was f we need to rebuild trust. You had to 2878 02:36:01,840 --> 02:36:04,640 Speaker 2: understand where I'm coming from, and maybe we can like 2879 02:36:04,879 --> 02:36:06,879 Speaker 2: work on building the trust and then get married. But 2880 02:36:07,000 --> 02:36:09,320 Speaker 2: the guy was like no, no, no, so yeah, I think 2881 02:36:09,560 --> 02:36:12,640 Speaker 2: I'm still it doesn't really change like I think, op, 2882 02:36:12,640 --> 02:36:14,920 Speaker 2: he did everything right, It doesn't really change anything for him. 2883 02:36:15,000 --> 02:36:19,080 Speaker 2: He's stinky. He is stinky. Yeah. Danielle Fifer says he 2884 02:36:19,120 --> 02:36:23,720 Speaker 2: epped up, Yep, he's crawling back, and Desiree Harris says yeah, 2885 02:36:23,840 --> 02:36:26,400 Speaker 2: and he lied to her family to a dash of 2886 02:36:26,440 --> 02:36:30,520 Speaker 2: Starta says, he's grasping at straws well talk. That was 2887 02:36:30,600 --> 02:36:34,000 Speaker 2: years ago when Opie said I wanted to dance down 2888 02:36:34,000 --> 02:36:37,600 Speaker 2: the aisle with his wedding. That was years ago, before 2889 02:36:37,640 --> 02:36:39,840 Speaker 2: my dad blocked me, before I learned the truth about 2890 02:36:39,840 --> 02:36:42,920 Speaker 2: his physical, mental, and emotional abuse towards my mom and siblings, 2891 02:36:43,080 --> 02:36:45,560 Speaker 2: and before I really came to terms with how manipulative 2892 02:36:45,640 --> 02:36:48,400 Speaker 2: and careless he'd been towards me. Plus, the whole thing 2893 02:36:48,600 --> 02:36:50,720 Speaker 2: was that I wanted to make sure that our relationship 2894 02:36:50,760 --> 02:36:53,199 Speaker 2: got to the point where he could come to my wedding. 2895 02:36:53,560 --> 02:36:56,440 Speaker 2: He didn't put any effort or work to rebuild a relationship, 2896 02:36:56,480 --> 02:36:58,320 Speaker 2: so it makes no sense for him to just show 2897 02:36:58,400 --> 02:37:02,080 Speaker 2: up out of nowhere, apologize and admitted that when he 2898 02:37:02,080 --> 02:37:04,640 Speaker 2: saw my reaction, he knew he messed up, but he 2899 02:37:04,680 --> 02:37:07,600 Speaker 2: didn't know how to admit that, so he only gave 2900 02:37:07,640 --> 02:37:12,440 Speaker 2: me that ultimatum of as a bluff. What he never 2901 02:37:12,520 --> 02:37:15,560 Speaker 2: expected me to actually break off the engagement, but he'd 2902 02:37:15,600 --> 02:37:18,640 Speaker 2: already dug himself so deep he didn't know what to do. 2903 02:37:19,520 --> 02:37:21,680 Speaker 2: And he said he lied to his family because he 2904 02:37:21,760 --> 02:37:24,039 Speaker 2: knew he was wrong and didn't want his family to 2905 02:37:24,040 --> 02:37:26,720 Speaker 2: hate him. He asked if we could work on our 2906 02:37:26,720 --> 02:37:30,960 Speaker 2: relationship and go to couples therapy. Heels a little too late, 2907 02:37:31,240 --> 02:37:32,560 Speaker 2: doesn't he admitted. 2908 02:37:32,800 --> 02:37:35,920 Speaker 1: He literally admitted, I lied to my family so they 2909 02:37:35,920 --> 02:37:37,800 Speaker 1: wouldn't think that I'm a bad person. 2910 02:37:38,200 --> 02:37:41,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, a little too late, Come on, bruh. He told 2911 02:37:41,840 --> 02:37:48,120 Speaker 2: me we could start over, but I just said no. Yeah, 2912 02:37:48,200 --> 02:37:50,360 Speaker 2: I don't think he had good intentions and pointed out, 2913 02:37:50,400 --> 02:37:52,800 Speaker 2: like so many others did, that he went against my 2914 02:37:52,840 --> 02:37:55,720 Speaker 2: wishes and brought my dad back into my life. He 2915 02:37:55,879 --> 02:37:58,840 Speaker 2: was six months in contact with the abuser and never 2916 02:37:58,920 --> 02:38:02,760 Speaker 2: told me his ultimatum. Oh, he was six months in 2917 02:38:02,800 --> 02:38:05,480 Speaker 2: contact with the abuser and never told me his ultimatum. 2918 02:38:05,480 --> 02:38:08,279 Speaker 2: And the fact that he realized he was wrong and apologized, 2919 02:38:08,640 --> 02:38:10,400 Speaker 2: and the fact that he lied to his family and 2920 02:38:10,480 --> 02:38:13,240 Speaker 2: was all very manipulative, Yeah, that's like four red flags. 2921 02:38:13,560 --> 02:38:16,320 Speaker 2: A few people pointed out he might have a savior complex. 2922 02:38:16,680 --> 02:38:19,880 Speaker 2: I've been reevaluating our relationship and I feel like maybe 2923 02:38:19,920 --> 02:38:24,080 Speaker 2: it's the case either way, no one of that, either way, 2924 02:38:24,480 --> 02:38:26,760 Speaker 2: none of that matters anymore. I don't want him in 2925 02:38:26,760 --> 02:38:28,600 Speaker 2: my life. I don't think he'll be trying to come 2926 02:38:28,640 --> 02:38:31,240 Speaker 2: back into my life anytime soon. He cares too much 2927 02:38:31,240 --> 02:38:34,400 Speaker 2: about appearances to try to pull anything. He's supposed to 2928 02:38:34,400 --> 02:38:37,959 Speaker 2: get his things. Tomorrow, my brother and uncle will be present, 2929 02:38:38,000 --> 02:38:41,439 Speaker 2: and they're both big guys, and I know he's intimidated 2930 02:38:41,480 --> 02:38:43,920 Speaker 2: by them. I'm not planning to stay in the apartment 2931 02:38:43,959 --> 02:38:46,520 Speaker 2: in the meantime, and the only friend who knows where 2932 02:38:46,560 --> 02:38:50,480 Speaker 2: I'm going is my childhood friend of twenty of twenty years. 2933 02:38:50,800 --> 02:38:53,160 Speaker 2: I think that's it. I'm going to stay single for 2934 02:38:53,200 --> 02:38:55,720 Speaker 2: a while and go to therapy and just stay active 2935 02:38:56,120 --> 02:39:00,119 Speaker 2: and enjoy life. And that's where it ends. So is 2936 02:39:00,200 --> 02:39:02,160 Speaker 2: OP the a whole? 2937 02:39:03,600 --> 02:39:07,120 Speaker 1: Not in the slight not in the slightest, not in 2938 02:39:07,200 --> 02:39:11,960 Speaker 1: the slightest, uh, flawless execution flaw I really feel like 2939 02:39:12,000 --> 02:39:14,480 Speaker 1: this is probably like when I like a lot of 2940 02:39:14,520 --> 02:39:16,920 Speaker 1: these stories, a lot of these stories, I feel like 2941 02:39:17,600 --> 02:39:22,039 Speaker 1: the the advice from some of the comments and some of. 2942 02:39:22,040 --> 02:39:24,119 Speaker 2: The UH and some of like like like something like 2943 02:39:24,200 --> 02:39:28,360 Speaker 2: OP does, I'm like totally understand why you would do that. 2944 02:39:29,080 --> 02:39:31,480 Speaker 2: I just wouldn't, yes, right, like I would maybe be 2945 02:39:31,720 --> 02:39:34,119 Speaker 2: like a little bit more lenient or a bit more 2946 02:39:34,160 --> 02:39:38,600 Speaker 2: empathetic or whatever. But with this, I don't think I 2947 02:39:38,600 --> 02:39:41,880 Speaker 2: would have done anything differently in OP situation, like I 2948 02:39:41,920 --> 02:39:45,880 Speaker 2: would have done that to the team. But but I'm curious, John, 2949 02:39:46,879 --> 02:39:49,760 Speaker 2: would you have done anything differently? You know what, Sam, 2950 02:39:49,800 --> 02:39:53,360 Speaker 2: I gotta be honest. I would do nothing different, nothing different. 2951 02:39:53,440 --> 02:39:55,520 Speaker 2: I would do the exact same thing. I thought it 2952 02:39:55,560 --> 02:39:57,480 Speaker 2: was us. 2953 02:39:56,680 --> 02:40:01,920 Speaker 1: So fair, very uh, very tempered, very tempered, never really 2954 02:40:02,000 --> 02:40:05,560 Speaker 1: lashed out or did anything like never because we see 2955 02:40:05,560 --> 02:40:09,920 Speaker 1: this a lot where somebody is wronged, severely wronged, and 2956 02:40:11,040 --> 02:40:15,400 Speaker 1: ultimately they they maybe lash back and go over the 2957 02:40:15,440 --> 02:40:17,039 Speaker 1: line on their side. 2958 02:40:17,320 --> 02:40:20,520 Speaker 2: I don't think OP did that one single time. And 2959 02:40:20,560 --> 02:40:21,280 Speaker 2: this man, this. 2960 02:40:21,240 --> 02:40:27,400 Speaker 1: Man tried to this man disrespected worms. He tried to 2961 02:40:27,760 --> 02:40:33,440 Speaker 1: worm his way back into her heart. Absolutely not, absolutely not. 2962 02:40:33,480 --> 02:40:34,439 Speaker 1: I mean worm, queen. 2963 02:40:36,920 --> 02:40:40,199 Speaker 2: Ah what Sevia wasn't listening? 2964 02:40:40,560 --> 02:40:42,560 Speaker 3: I was doing. I was setting up the call. 2965 02:40:42,680 --> 02:40:45,400 Speaker 2: Do you agree? Don't you do? That's what I'm talking about. 2966 02:40:46,360 --> 02:40:52,640 Speaker 2: Produced she is hard and work listen listening? What is that? 2967 02:40:53,760 --> 02:40:57,160 Speaker 2: I have the same brain, like one track mind. We 2968 02:40:57,280 --> 02:40:58,840 Speaker 2: tune everything out when we're doing something. 2969 02:40:59,000 --> 02:41:02,480 Speaker 1: Honestly, I do not think I can produce the show interesting. 2970 02:41:02,680 --> 02:41:03,480 Speaker 1: I don't think I could do it. 2971 02:41:03,560 --> 02:41:05,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I don't hear you speaking. 2972 02:41:05,600 --> 02:41:07,520 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know how Riley does it. 2973 02:41:07,680 --> 02:41:08,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 2974 02:41:08,200 --> 02:41:11,400 Speaker 1: I truly do not know this. That man was born 2975 02:41:11,560 --> 02:41:13,959 Speaker 1: to push these buttons. Yeah, he truly was. 2976 02:41:14,160 --> 02:41:17,280 Speaker 3: He was born into this world to press things. 2977 02:41:17,520 --> 02:41:20,920 Speaker 2: That's well, Riley. Riley Wan's told us like his dream 2978 02:41:21,120 --> 02:41:23,360 Speaker 2: in high school was to do exactly this. 2979 02:41:23,560 --> 02:41:27,160 Speaker 1: Yes, kind of a crazy prophecy. 2980 02:41:26,640 --> 02:41:33,320 Speaker 2: Ful field a prophecy, but uh yeah, Royo Coo said. 2981 02:41:33,400 --> 02:41:36,600 Speaker 2: A one says he's a weasel, not a worm. Big facts. 2982 02:41:36,600 --> 02:41:37,800 Speaker 2: Not a worm. Doesn't deserve that. 2983 02:41:37,920 --> 02:41:40,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't don't go call on a hole's worms. 2984 02:41:40,640 --> 02:41:42,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, disgrace. 2985 02:41:42,760 --> 02:41:45,359 Speaker 1: He tried to worm his way as a weasel. Weasels 2986 02:41:45,360 --> 02:41:47,600 Speaker 1: cannot work about cannot work. 2987 02:41:49,080 --> 02:41:50,680 Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like op, he did everything right. 2988 02:41:51,240 --> 02:41:52,880 Speaker 2: Stay single for a bit, you know, he else to 2989 02:41:52,959 --> 02:41:53,800 Speaker 2: doing something right? 2990 02:41:54,000 --> 02:41:57,440 Speaker 1: What The adventure begins with their six dollars twenty seven tip. 2991 02:41:57,600 --> 02:42:00,720 Speaker 1: My name is Shelly? Uh did did my like? 2992 02:42:00,800 --> 02:42:01,360 Speaker 2: Thank you for that? 2993 02:42:01,959 --> 02:42:04,680 Speaker 1: You guys get me through my nine to five. I've 2994 02:42:04,800 --> 02:42:09,440 Speaker 1: never I've never made alive in UK Northern Island. Yup, 2995 02:42:09,560 --> 02:42:11,680 Speaker 1: that is in the United Kingdom. We'll shout out to 2996 02:42:11,680 --> 02:42:15,320 Speaker 1: you the Vinch Begins and Andra for the twenty five 2997 02:42:15,360 --> 02:42:17,039 Speaker 1: dollars tip on the donation link. 2998 02:42:17,080 --> 02:42:18,800 Speaker 2: Heck yeah, I hit up that donation link, y'all. 2999 02:42:18,959 --> 02:42:22,080 Speaker 1: Chris Tinfoil Hat celebrating their second month as a member 3000 02:42:22,800 --> 02:42:25,880 Speaker 1: wo heck yeah, nope, changes absolutely nothing, And I think 3001 02:42:25,879 --> 02:42:28,480 Speaker 1: he's trying to do a Hail Mary to save the 3002 02:42:28,520 --> 02:42:35,400 Speaker 1: relationship after this shit show he made. I agree, Brittany Lindsay, 3003 02:42:35,400 --> 02:42:36,960 Speaker 1: thanks for the five book tip on the donor link. 3004 02:42:37,200 --> 02:42:39,240 Speaker 1: I just want to say that not all addicts are 3005 02:42:39,280 --> 02:42:40,480 Speaker 1: table like Opie's dad. 3006 02:42:40,720 --> 02:42:42,160 Speaker 2: We are just people with the disease. 3007 02:42:42,360 --> 02:42:45,200 Speaker 1: Much love for you, guys, Brittany True, thank you for 3008 02:42:45,240 --> 02:42:50,240 Speaker 1: your perspective. Giants Milk with the five guys, Lord Milky, 3009 02:42:51,000 --> 02:42:54,119 Speaker 1: Lord Milk, the Milkman has delivered. 3010 02:42:54,360 --> 02:42:57,440 Speaker 2: He has delivered five. He's showing up the doorships. He 3011 02:42:57,480 --> 02:43:01,640 Speaker 2: showed up. He went, I got milk getting a little 3012 02:43:01,640 --> 02:43:04,680 Speaker 2: too friendly with my mom. But that's okay, Lord Milky. 3013 02:43:07,360 --> 02:43:10,920 Speaker 2: I was like, what what comment that? I kind of 3014 02:43:11,000 --> 02:43:15,360 Speaker 2: look like, Lord Milk, keepsnock clear. 3015 02:43:15,640 --> 02:43:17,520 Speaker 1: Sam is the only one saying this, I am not 3016 02:43:17,600 --> 02:43:20,880 Speaker 1: partaking in this commentary, but shout out to Lord Milkey. 3017 02:43:20,920 --> 02:43:23,320 Speaker 2: And I think that is all the donations that we're 3018 02:43:23,320 --> 02:43:26,280 Speaker 2: cut up on. Britney lindsay, we did see your donation. 3019 02:43:26,320 --> 02:43:30,240 Speaker 2: We just read it. Not not to you but John, 3020 02:43:30,840 --> 02:43:36,560 Speaker 2: but Sam but John. I think we need to also 3021 02:43:36,600 --> 02:43:39,640 Speaker 2: celebrate Moxies getting one month of members of Hey, Hey, 3022 02:43:40,120 --> 02:43:41,959 Speaker 2: everyone just wanted to say thanks so much for the 3023 02:43:42,000 --> 02:43:43,760 Speaker 2: call the other day, and I meshed the text line 3024 02:43:43,760 --> 02:43:46,080 Speaker 2: with another story. That's awesome, that's aweso