1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: Don't given a. 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: Million bus buss boozy sea listening to. 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 4: Show. I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you. 7 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 5: Love you. 8 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 6: You turn. 9 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: You to turn the mouth the turn. 10 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 4: You probably got to turn the mouth to. 11 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 1: Turn him out, turn the wa the water up looking. 12 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: Come come on you'll think that I sure will. 13 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 7: Good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on, 14 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 7: dig me down one and only Steve Harvey got a 15 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 7: radio show. 16 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: Man o, man o, man, I just I have to 17 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: tell you this. How good is the God I serve? 18 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 7: How amazing is he? That's that's all I you know. 19 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 7: And you know what, really, man, when I try to 20 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 7: explain how I feel about what he does for me, really, 21 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 7: the words that I come up with, that they just 22 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 7: they they inadequate. Man, They don't they don't cut it. 23 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 7: They really don't. You know, I could say amazing. At 24 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 7: one time, I even just got that. I tried something 25 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 7: real ignorant. One time, I just said, you know, God 26 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 7: is just super captual, fragilistic as be all adocious. 27 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 2: I just tried that. See how that felt that's that's 28 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 2: all to change. He is with me. I just try 29 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: to because see how that felt. 30 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 7: But then I ain't feel right saying that's the fact 31 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 7: that he's amazing and awesome and he's an awesome God. 32 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 7: You hear people say that is it's bigger than that too, man. 33 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:13,079 Speaker 7: So you know, as hard as I try, no matter 34 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 7: what I do every day, I'm gonna come up short 35 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 7: with trying to explain to you exactly how he works 36 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 7: and how he is for me. 37 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 2: So I just thank him that every day every chance 38 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 2: I get. 39 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 8: Here. 40 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 6: It is. 41 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: It is your determination and your effort. Listen to me carefully. 42 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: It is your determination and your effort. I think that 43 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 2: the average person, and I'm not knocking you, I just 44 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: want you to hear me out. I think what stops 45 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: the average person from becoming successful is that we don't 46 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: realize the effort that it takes. And that's just truth. 47 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 7: I found that to be so true in my life 48 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 7: and my talking to people and meeting people, and people 49 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 7: aren't asking me questions about it and me trying to 50 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 7: figure out the way myself. I don't think that you 51 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 7: really can comprehend the effort that it takes to become successful. 52 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 7: This is the thing that you have to wrap your 53 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 7: mind around very quickly if you want to be successful 54 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 7: on any level in any area. The dream is the beginning. 55 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 7: Good Lord, let me tell you something. The determination and 56 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 7: effort is massive. You cannot be overly concerned with sleep. 57 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 7: If you are a person who is always concerned about 58 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 7: sleep gets success out your mind. Ain't finna happen, partner, 59 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 7: It's not finn happen. You cannot be that concerned about sleep. 60 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 7: Now listen to me. You have to get your rest. 61 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 7: But this was my philosophy. I'm just sharing you with 62 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 7: what how I did it. My philosophy was I stopped 63 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 7: being concerned about sleep. I got my rest, but I 64 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 7: got just enough to get back to it, and I 65 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 7: got back on the grind to hop in the hustle. 66 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 7: I got just enough rest so I could go and 67 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 7: put forth some more effort. 68 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: But listen to me. 69 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 7: You cannot sleep a third of your life away and 70 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 7: expect to become successful. If you're not already successful. If 71 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 7: you are asleep for eight hours, that is a third 72 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 7: of your day. You cannot be asleep a third of 73 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 7: your life and expect to get successful. Now, after you 74 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 7: get successful. You know, you learn as you go to 75 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 7: work smarter, not harder. So as you get successful, you 76 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 7: may have eight hours available to you. But on the 77 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 7: way up there, I don't see how you can do it. 78 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 2: I promise you. I don't. Now, maybe somebody can come 79 00:05:58,160 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 2: for it. 80 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 8: I did it. 81 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, probably lying. But okay, tell your story. 82 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 7: Because everybody I know that's successful that I've sat down 83 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 7: and had real talks with they wasn't concerned with sleeping. 84 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 7: You cannot be concerned with sleeping if you want to 85 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 7: be successful. 86 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 2: How can this happen for you? Listen to me. 87 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 7: The effort that it requires is massive. It's an all 88 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 7: out of salt on your dream. Now you got to 89 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,679 Speaker 7: make an assault. It requires an all out of salt 90 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 7: on it. And you can't be sleeping. Fight at the 91 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 7: same time. You can't fight when you sleep. Man, I 92 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 7: wish I could get y'all understand this right here. Understand 93 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 7: that the effort that is required to be successful will 94 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 7: take everything you have, and when you think you've given 95 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 7: your all, it's gonna require some more. 96 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: The quality of your chield is amazing. 97 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 7: See okay, listen to what is sitting around having a 98 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 7: bill day faux what but they're sitting around smoking weed 99 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 7: for every day phone. 100 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: Come on, man, for. 101 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 7: Real, But if you took that beer, drinking weeds, smoking 102 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 7: chill time and applied it to progressing yourself towards your dream. 103 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: When you do carve out. 104 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 7: Of vacation, guess where you be able to go. Guess 105 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 7: what part of the world you can go see? Guess 106 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 7: how you can cheer now now instead of you just 107 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 7: driving Every year your family to the family union, sit 108 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 7: at the same picnic table. Everybody pull they money in 109 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 7: two ten families don't never pool they money in. 110 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: They down there eating like y'all eating. 111 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 7: You got attitude cause cause the day or day side 112 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 7: don't have a chip in or know they down there 113 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 7: eating the extra potatoes at it making place. 114 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: You're not arguing about this every year? 115 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 6: For real? 116 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 7: Man, They ain't got the T shirt money. You know, 117 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 7: they got the same T shirt on. They ain't put 118 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 7: in that really, man, so so so so so you 119 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 7: want that to be it every year? Or do you 120 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 7: want this year? I'm taking my family to New Orleans. Oh, 121 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 7: I'm taking my family see the Grand Canyon. I'm taking 122 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 7: my family down to the beach this year. Me and 123 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 7: me and my family gonna go sight see. We're gonna 124 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 7: go ride a couple of river on Chicago. Me and 125 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 7: my family gonna go skiing this year. Me and me 126 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 7: and my family going out to La Man we go. 127 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 7: We're gonna go out there for a weekend. You know, 128 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 7: you know it can happen like that. But if you 129 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 7: ain't working, listen to me. Average effort gets average results. 130 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 7: That's that's all it is to it. See, ordinary effort 131 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 7: gets ordinary results. But if you put forth an extra effort. See, 132 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 7: the only difference between extraordinary and ordinary is one word. 133 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: That's extra. 134 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 7: If you do extra, you can take ordinary right on 135 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 7: over to extraordinary. Do you understand you have to have 136 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 7: a massive assault on your dreams? Quit sitting up in here, man, 137 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 7: trying to chill all the time. I'm sorry, man, I 138 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 7: wish I could tell you another way, but it ain't one. 139 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 7: Here's what I did. I wasn't concerned about how much 140 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 7: sleep I got. I just had to get my rest. 141 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 7: And once I got enough rest to get up and 142 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 7: get the task done, I got up. Somebody sent me 143 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 7: a tweet the other day, a partner mine. He said, 144 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 7: to see if I can pull it up While I'm 145 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 7: talking to you. But he just sent me a little 146 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 7: sign just what nothing, just a little something to say, 147 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 7: Hey man, I ran across this, I thought about you, 148 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 7: and I sent it to you. 149 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 2: It said no. 150 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 7: Alarm clock needed, My passion wakes me. It's in block print. 151 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 7: He said, no alarm clock needed, my passion wakes me. 152 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 7: That's what you got to be about. 153 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: Your listeners to it, Steve Harvey. 154 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 2: Moore, Ladies and gentlemen. 155 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 7: Again, God Almighty has done it again, created the one 156 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 7: thing that only he can do another day. And he 157 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 7: did the other thing that only he can do. He 158 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 7: gave you the breath to partake in it. This is 159 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 7: all God right here. You have no say so in 160 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 7: this matter. 161 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 2: Ain't that crazy? Ain't that amazing? Ain't that something else? 162 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 2: Have you thought about it like that? You actually have 163 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 2: no say so in how long you live? 164 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 8: Now? 165 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 7: You can cut it short, but the length of time 166 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 7: can vary. You can cut it short. Oh, you can 167 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 7: do ignity things with your health, you know, and then 168 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 7: just gone and you know, mess it all up. But 169 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 7: an unhealthy life is no life at all. So pay 170 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 7: attention to your health. Everybody. Thank God for this day, 171 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 7: because the day is the day that the Lord has 172 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 7: made to rejoice and be glad in it. I'm glad 173 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 7: in it. 174 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 2: You feel me? 175 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey, Marty Show, Shirty Strawberry College for Reld, Mississippi, 176 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 7: Monica Jr. 177 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 2: And the legend that is Nephew Tommy Jr. What's on 178 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 2: your mind this morning? 179 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 5: Man? 180 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 2: Ain't you glad? You ain't who you used to be up? 181 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 2: Because I could just see all the change in you. Man, 182 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: you ain't who you used to be? 183 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 9: Better off at this version of yourself now because you have. 184 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 7: A different work like that, different much better, much better 185 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 7: than a sad thing. But do you to owe you 186 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 7: all the remnants? The remnants are there. You know how 187 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 7: people get saved and they get washed white as snow. 188 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 7: I didn't get that version. I just got wrinked off. 189 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 7: I didn't get the whitest snow version. I still got 190 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 7: a couple of things I'm dealing with. I'm an imperfect 191 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 7: soldier for Christ that I know. 192 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: You know. 193 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: It's funny. 194 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 7: I'm not gonna mention any names, but I heard the 195 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 7: Minister again put my name in his pull pit, and 196 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 7: I'm just curious as to his fascination with celebrities and 197 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 7: other people. Look, we all make mistakes. If you're gonna 198 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 7: use everybody else's mistake as the example, could I please 199 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 7: see one of yours? Could you just use yourself one time? 200 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 7: Tell me that you was once a sinner saved by grace. 201 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 7: Tell me that you made some mistakes. Tell me what 202 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 7: you failed and got up from. Because I'm yet to 203 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,559 Speaker 7: hear that Sunday, but I got to hear all this 204 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 7: about Steve Harvey. He got new and now Steve Harvey 205 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 7: says more than one way to heaven. No, I was saying, 206 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 7: I don't know what's how God thinks it could be 207 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 7: more than one way to heaven. 208 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 8: I don't know. 209 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 7: I'm not the judge and jury made a whole sermon 210 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 7: about that. But then, lemonstraighten something out. I'm not a pastor. 211 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 7: I'm not standing in the poor pit telling y'all to 212 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 7: follow me. I am an imperfect soldier for Christ. That's 213 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 7: all I am. I'm trying to do the best I 214 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 7: can with what I got and be the better version 215 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 7: of who I can be. Now I am a better version. 216 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 7: Thank God for that, because to do forty years ago, 217 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 7: him him the twenty eight year old, Oh he wasn't 218 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 7: wrapped right. He didn't have he didn't have it all together. Man, 219 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 7: I thank God for changing me though, I do, I do? 220 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: I like this version. Now you know I can actually 221 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 2: walk away from stuff. Now what comes? What a blessing? 222 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 2: That is not even at school? 223 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: All right, guys, coming up at thirty two minutes after 224 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 1: the hour, we will hear from the nephew as he 225 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: runs that frank back right after this. You're listening Steve 226 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health question. Even though 227 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know 228 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: your immune system weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in. 229 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: They help train and strengthen your immune response to fight 230 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: off certain respiratory illnesses like blue numacaco, pneumonia, RSV, and 231 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen This fall, ask your doctor which vaccines you 232 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot com 233 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 234 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: It's time now to run that prank back with the nephew. Nephew, 235 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: what you got for us today? 236 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 10: I got your son and my daughter. Your son and 237 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 10: my daughter. That's where we're going. We're going to do that. 238 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 10: This morning, we are dealing with your son and my 239 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 10: daughter cat dog. If you hold, let's put a little 240 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 10: Scooper stupid on this. Thank you so chach. 241 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 6: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Darren's Darren's fob. Is 242 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 6: Darren's bob? Yes, it's Darren scenes Listen, I'm calling you. Shanda, 243 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 6: my daughter, she goes to college up there with your son. 244 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 11: Uh. 245 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 6: And I'm getting the word I got a few minutes 246 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 6: ago was that the two of them then run off 247 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 6: and then got married together. I don't know what what 248 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 6: what what make him run off and get married? 249 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 5: Like? Wait, wait, wait wait wait where did you hear 250 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 5: this from? 251 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 6: I just got a phone call from one of the 252 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 6: kids at the school saying, today did this the girl 253 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 6: that grew up with and went to grew up with 254 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 6: also grade school. She called it Saint La Shanda and 255 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 6: there then then randoff and got married together. That they've 256 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 6: done that, say they've done it yesterday? 257 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 5: But he wait wait wait, my Saturday, my Sunday, and 258 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 5: I talked to him, uh about three days ago, and 259 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 5: he ain't done nothing like that. 260 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 6: I know son, yesterday I've been calling Shanda and call 261 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 6: ain't nobody picking up and I'm calling the boy. They 262 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 6: give me the bark phone number and I'm calling him. 263 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 6: It ain't nobody picking up in there as a nothing. 264 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 6: Ain't like my baby girl do like nothing, not nothing 265 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 6: like this here. 266 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 5: But it's not like my father do nothing like that 267 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 5: without talking to me first. So h let me call 268 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 5: down there and talk to Darren and uh, I can't 269 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 5: give me your number. I'll I'll call you back. 270 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 6: I'm going down there to that school myself. I'm gonna 271 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 6: find more for them. Now, I'm gonna call you to 272 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 6: let you know his Now, if I find out that 273 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 6: my baby girl and then ran off and got married 274 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 6: because she didne got pregnant, I promise you I'm gonna 275 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 6: do something of that boy yours. If you got my 276 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 6: baby pregnant, you me wait a. 277 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 5: Minute, now, wait a minute. Now, you does don't do 278 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 5: nothing to my son. I understand about your daughter. That's 279 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 5: my son. Now you're not going down and put your 280 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 5: hands on my son. If you got if you got me, 281 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 5: that's my only baby I got well, well, I understand 282 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 5: that's your only baby, but that's that's my only son. 283 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 5: And you tell me I'm going to put your hands on. 284 00:16:58,320 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 5: You're gonna have a problem. 285 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 6: If he got my baby pregnant. Your son, Darren gorry, 286 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 6: I'm gonna be there. I mean, what's your name again? 287 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 5: What's your name? 288 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 6: Doing my name? 289 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 11: Yell? 290 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 6: It's my baby. 291 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 5: What You're not gonna put your ass on my son? 292 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 6: Let me bring you I have. And that's the only 293 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 6: reason idn't see her doing something like that because I'm 294 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 6: taller you. I'm taller years and years and years. You 295 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 6: don't make no baby. You don't make no baby, not 296 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 6: be married. You don't do it. 297 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 5: Hey, you went off for god man. 298 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 6: That means you're trying to make it right. That's what 299 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 6: she did. 300 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 5: Mister Diler, mister Dillon, listen, kill me down I die, 301 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 5: just care. That's your daughter die and she's telling her whatever. 302 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 5: But let me talk to my son before you go 303 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 5: down there something try to do something crazy. Okay, let 304 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 5: me tell you something. 305 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 6: Your son didn't call her. It's my baby good to 306 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 6: getting married, and he didn't got up pregnant. I know 307 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 6: what's going on. 308 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 8: I know what it is. 309 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 5: I my surdy ain't done nothing to your daughter. Let 310 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 5: me crawl down there and talk to him before you 311 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 5: talk about going down there and putting your hands on somebody. 312 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 6: I told my mother, I told them the little thugs 313 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 6: a lord, what kind of man went over and getting 314 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 6: married and the heads of twenty and I ain't talking 315 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 6: to the parts and nobody would make him do something 316 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 6: like that. 317 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 5: Well, you talking about my toty, My surn ain't doing 318 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 5: nothing to Are. 319 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 6: You raising him? Did you raising I'm a dinner? You'ren't 320 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:36,959 Speaker 6: raising right? 321 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 5: Wait a minute, now, hell are you talking to I'm 322 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 5: talking to this my baby bregnant. 323 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 6: IM gonna beat your boy. You done. You're gonna get 324 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 6: your do too. Holdo on my Oh ho? 325 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 5: What you think you're talking to I'm talking to you. 326 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 5: I'm talking to old man had on. Nobody you put 327 00:18:57,320 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 5: your hand on my You know that you understand me. 328 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 5: That's my son. But your done. 329 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 6: But that's my man. 330 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 5: Hey man, hey, hey, that's my shirt. You're talking about 331 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 5: putting your hands on You gonna have a problem with 332 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 5: me if my baby bringing up promises you don't never 333 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 5: knowing downe it because I'm gonna do. 334 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 6: Something that bore you. A man. 335 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 5: That's the last talent on here you gonna send to 336 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 5: my shawl. Now now you gonna uh sit on down, 337 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 5: get to your shof and and and uh last for 338 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 5: a minute, let me call my friend and I'll get 339 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 5: back to you, because that don't need to come out. 340 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 6: I need to tell you. 341 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 5: But what's saying? 342 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 6: Man? 343 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 5: What where else you got? 344 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 6: I got something else? The farmer? That's cool to get 345 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 6: the woman. I want you to know one thing before 346 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,159 Speaker 6: I get off this phone. What is it? 347 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 11: Man? 348 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 3: Here? 349 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 6: I'm listening his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 350 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 6: Mister Darren, you jail got break by your son, Darren Junior. 351 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 8: Oh my goodness. 352 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 6: That boy. 353 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 3: This boy got better sense to. 354 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,199 Speaker 6: No, I got high blood pressure? 355 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 5: What I call his mama? 356 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 6: My time me. I gotta ask you, man, what is 357 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 6: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 358 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 6: show with the. 359 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 3: Land Steve Harvey Morning Show. 360 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 2: Isn't that a lovely teaspoon or stupid? This morning? 361 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 10: Isn't that what you want in your coffee? Just another 362 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 10: This a scoop of timing stupid, that's all. 363 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 2: And it gets you through. Yeah. 364 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 10: This this a little spoon and you know, little a 365 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 10: little stupid spoon and time man, that to get you 366 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 10: through your morning, that's all I'm trying to do and 367 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 10: maybe I'm dealing with some issues, but it felt like 368 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 10: a bowl of it to me. You got too much. 369 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 10: You know, you've got to take it in doses. You 370 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 10: just need a little tea spoon to keep it moving. 371 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 10: Don't worry about you'd be watch bowl of it sitting in. 372 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you've known them all his life. 373 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can get too much. I'll tell you right now. Wow, 374 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 2: I've gotten better. 375 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: I've got nephew. All right, nephew coming up next. 376 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 2: By who I used to be? 377 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 1: It is, asked the CLO or Chief Love Officer, Steve 378 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're listening to 379 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. 380 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 381 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 382 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune 383 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new 384 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: macacle pneumonia, rs V and co oh it at nineteen 385 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines you need and 386 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: visit vacxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule 387 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. Growing up 388 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, newly married family member 389 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: Earthquake will be our special guest Oway Earthquake coming up. Yeah, 390 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 1: uh huh, I can't wait for that. Right Yes, at 391 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 1: brand new Netflix Netflix special out and everything, we'll talk 392 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: about all of that, but right now it is time 393 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 394 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: All right, this is from Corey in Sunrise. Corey writes, 395 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: when my husband and I go out to eat, he 396 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 1: orders for me, and he eats most of my food. 397 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,959 Speaker 1: I end up eating really, really fast, so I can 398 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: beat him to it. I'm sick of it. How do 399 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 1: I stop him from doing it? 400 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 2: Well, why don't you just order your own? 401 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 7: Let him order for the both of you, and then 402 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 7: you order your own, and that when he eat yours 403 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 7: and his, that's really what he eating is his. He 404 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 7: just see when a man orders two and trees is 405 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 7: because he's not sure. 406 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 2: So what he wants to do is get some of both. 407 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: But that's both is yours. 408 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 7: So what you do is let him order and then 409 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 7: add yours to it, and then you solve the problems problem. 410 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: Now it's gonna be expensive, right right? Three three. 411 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:30,479 Speaker 11: Now. 412 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: I do it all the time. 413 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 7: I ordered two and trees all the time because if 414 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 7: I can't make up my mind, you know, I do 415 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 7: it all the time. Yeah, all right, Oh, I look 416 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 7: at the appetizer menu, and if the appetizer got that 417 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 7: on there, that's an entree two, then I just get 418 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 7: the appetizer, you know what I'm saying? 419 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 11: All right? 420 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Tamila and fort Worth. My 421 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: dad's knew what. 422 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 2: Got to get to the next one. Go ahead, I 423 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 2: move for sure, to just go ahead. I didn't move 424 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 2: for him either. 425 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 1: Tamla and fort Worth. All right, Tamla writes. My dad's 426 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 1: new wife was in jail for shoplifting years ago. My 427 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: husband can't control himself with the jokes. And he already said, 428 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: we're locking up our valuable valuables when they come over 429 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving? Should I uninvite them? So my husband will stop. 430 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 7: I want to hear the rest of the joke. Yeah, 431 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 7: let him through here. And that's how you can't sit 432 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 7: over there, too close to close. That's a crystal last tray. 433 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 7: Move over a little bit. Let me see you. 434 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 2: We need to take these two spoons and click them together. 435 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 2: The whole time you hear. We need to hear where 436 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 2: you at. We need to hear where you at the 437 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: old time. 438 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 4: No, this terrible boy. 439 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 2: Hey, why are you going in another room the bath? 440 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: No? 441 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 2: No, we're all in here. 442 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta use the bathroom. 443 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let me know when you need some tarlet tissue. 444 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 2: Because I took that out. I can't trust it with 445 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: d either. 446 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: So should she uninvite them? That's what she wants to do. 447 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 10: No, hell no, let your husband let do hell I 448 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 10: need you to shake these tic TACs the whole time 449 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 10: you in this house. 450 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 2: Shake the tic tac still all right? 451 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: Moving on to Carter and Hartford, Carter writes, I can't 452 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: get my wife off her phone at night while we're 453 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 1: in bed. Immediately after sex, she's back on TikTok, looking 454 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: at videos and giggling. My forty four year old wife 455 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: is like a teenager. Now, would I be wrong to 456 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 1: demand that she stays off her phone in bed? 457 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 6: Yeah? 458 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, go ahead try that, Yeah yeah, 459 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: go hold the demand. 460 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 1: Go ahead, man, your wife to do something. 461 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 2: How do you do that? I tried a couple of times. 462 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 1: I stopped because what did you say? 463 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 2: Oh no, it's something stupid. 464 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: That part. 465 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 10: I didn't think it was stupid, but you know, when 466 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 10: she explained it to me, I realized the category. 467 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,360 Speaker 7: So I don't I don't make no demands. I give 468 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 7: suggestions and then let it let her think it's her idea. 469 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 1: Oh that's what women do all the time. Yeah, I've 470 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: been doing that. 471 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 2: No, we just learning that. You got to be a 472 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 2: smart man to learn that. But most men still ain't 473 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 2: there yet. 474 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: All right, all right, last one, guys, This is the 475 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:54,640 Speaker 1: last one. Clo. This is from ONYX in Jacksonville. I'm sorry, 476 00:26:54,680 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Martinville writes. I purposely went on a date 477 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,639 Speaker 1: at a place that my ex boyfriend hangs out. It 478 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 1: got his attention, and now we're dating again. I heard 479 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: that he's still seeing another girl too. Is he back 480 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: with me because he wants me or because he was jealous? 481 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 7: Now he back with you because he can see You 482 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 7: didn't really go over there to make him jealous. You 483 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 7: went over there to see if you could get him back. 484 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 7: So you got to understand the reason for this. And 485 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 7: so guess what when you went over there, Now y'all 486 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 7: back dating? That was your whole reason for going over there. 487 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,440 Speaker 7: It wasn't to make him jealous. It was to see 488 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 7: if you could get him back. Tada, Now he got 489 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 7: you back, but now he got another girl. Yeah, because 490 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 7: guess what, that ain't part of the new deal. All 491 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 7: you wanted was for him to get you back. So 492 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 7: now he got you back and her, You stupid? 493 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 1: What happened to the date that she was on? 494 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: The date was just a decoy to get him over there. 495 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 7: She purposely went to a club where he hang out 496 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 7: to see if she still if he still wanted her. 497 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 2: He did. 498 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 7: Now they dating again, but she here he still he 499 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 7: got another girl. Dum, you went over there to go back. 500 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 7: You gotta understand why y'all broke up in the first place. 501 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 7: It was probably cause of the other girl. Now you 502 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 7: don to take your ignorant behind over there, and now 503 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 7: you the other woman this time? 504 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 2: Now she didne went from one to two. Yeah, just 505 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 2: like that, instantly, I know your number, know your number? 506 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: Wonder she heard sing the other girl who. 507 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 2: Told her that probably Neo. 508 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 3: The singer. 509 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 2: Got more than one. He got somebody else. Leo is 510 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 2: a dope songwriter, though he wrote a cold country song. 511 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: Oh ne is tell. 512 00:28:59,280 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 2: He cold? 513 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: Did you see when a guy he was performing, Neil wasn't. 514 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: A guy from the audience came up on stage. 515 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 8: And him. 516 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: Singing, didn't miss a beat. 517 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 12: You saw that I did sa on social media. That 518 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 12: guy jumped up there and knocked. 519 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: With one hand and kept on singing, had the mic 520 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: on the other hand and just kept on singing. 521 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: Y'all gonna put it running up on the stages. Yeah, 522 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 2: that's not a good idea. 523 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: That what happened at a comedy show. That happened with y'all. 524 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 2: Somebody ran up on Anthony Brown. He took the butter 525 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 2: that that Mike's stand and knocked him smooth out. Wow, 526 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,120 Speaker 2: like that. 527 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 7: You saw the base in the base base of that 528 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 7: Mike stand, put it dead in his forehead. Jay told 529 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 7: him not to come up there. I just met j 530 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 7: had known him that long. We were friends. So it 531 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 7: was to be a full blown fight because I had 532 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 7: nothing to lose. I had no money. You could see 533 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 7: me in I ain't even have to come to yeah 534 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 7: twenty eight I ain't had no money for court and nothing. 535 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 2: I was on the road. I'm not making a court appearance. 536 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 2: Twenty three years I would make a court appearance, and 537 00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 2: I'm on the lamb. 538 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: All right, Fello, thank you. Coming up at the top 539 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: of the hour, as promised, earthquake in the building. Right 540 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 541 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 2: All right, let's go, everybody. He's here. 542 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 11: Uh. 543 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 7: He really needs no introduction, but I specialize in him. 544 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 7: He is one of my favorites. On the Pivot podcast. 545 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 7: Recently they asked me who sits on my Mount Rushmore 546 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 7: of comedy. 547 00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 3: Now. 548 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 7: I told him there's a public monument, and there's a 549 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 7: private monument. 550 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 2: In my private monument. 551 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 7: Six cedrictly entertainer, it's sis j Anthony Brown, and it's 552 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 7: sits earthquake. I've never laughed so hard in a room 553 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 7: with Deeve fools right here and them three And if 554 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 7: I had to add one more sitting in the room 555 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 7: that you smiling, Lord, I have vomited with j Anthony Brown, 556 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 7: Ricky Smiley, earthquake has said entertainer, contract humor, Ladies and gentlemen, 557 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 7: he's here, got another Netflix special. He's on fire now, truly, No, 558 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 7: God is never too late. This boy just got special 559 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 7: after space. He went from no specials to specials everywhere. 560 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 10: Happily married the brad New the one and only the 561 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 10: living legend earthquake. 562 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 11: Cause in this shop ten over there, twenty four hours out. 563 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 11: We're in the top ten on next week as the 564 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 11: hotters in the country. Right now, it's called Joe telling 565 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 11: Business because these fools need to start telling jokes. If 566 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 11: you say you're a comedian and you fly to bat 567 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 11: of being a comedian, we want you to be funny. 568 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 11: Please get you the job descriptions. And that's what we're 569 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 11: talking about. And I think comedians need to do just 570 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 11: like driver's license, renew your license as a comic. 571 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 6: Go get out the game. You know what I'm saying. 572 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 11: That's why I name the steam joke telling Business because 573 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 11: I'm not walking about nothing but these jokes number ones 574 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 11: in their face like you taught me. And also steam, 575 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 11: dat is so great. 576 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 3: I done got married. 577 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 11: I'm the right woman and I'm gonna have my own 578 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 11: titcom Go ahead. 579 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 2: Boy, we'll love on that. I'm coming on that because 580 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 2: I just want to see you act. 581 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 11: I'm gonna ask for them check now. 582 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 7: Get the chip point, hey man, he a man. Tommy 583 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 7: went to the wind, Temmy, how was the big web 584 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 7: out there? 585 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 10: Outstanding? Outstanding? Quake looked amazing. Bride looked beautiful. It was 586 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 10: good everybody with the weather, outstanding, the hotel, everything, it 587 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 10: wasn't nothing wrong. 588 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 1: It was outstanding, a nice when essence right now. 589 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 11: You can watch it, you can see it. It was 590 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 11: out there to spend a lot of money, Steve, I 591 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 11: was trying to be like But I found my Marjory, 592 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 11: and I'm happy. I'm happily married. 593 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,959 Speaker 8: Loans Now, don't look at it happily. 594 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 11: You ain't want me when I was broke. 595 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, quake you happy now? 596 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 11: Man, man, listen, say I am so blessed. 597 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 6: I told you. 598 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 11: People always asked us, say, quake when you're gonna blow up. 599 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 11: I say, I'm one good black woman from making it. 600 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 11: And it happened, and I found her, And that's why 601 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 11: everybody's working out because I got it now. 602 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 8: She believes in me. 603 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 11: She believes in me, she loves me unconditionally, and that's 604 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 11: the most beautiful thing in the world. Is nothing like 605 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 11: being loved by a black woman to change your whole perspective. 606 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 11: And you know, I was all I only had quality 607 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:15,240 Speaker 11: because I didn't have quality. I had the quality because 608 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,200 Speaker 11: I couldn't find the right one. But I got it now, 609 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 11: so I'm out I'm out, I'm happy, and it's great 610 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 11: and we're doing big things. Brother. 611 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's an amazing statement. When you're gonna blow up. 612 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:35,279 Speaker 7: I'm just one black woman away from find it. 613 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 10: Bruh. 614 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 2: If you ain't never lied about that, man, you ain't 615 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 2: never lied. 616 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 7: Hey, man, So you know what you said something else too, 617 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 7: because one of the things I noticed, I'm still a 618 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 7: student of the game. Even though I got out of 619 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 7: stand up. You know, I still know the business of it. 620 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 7: And I had watched this business change. I've watched comedians. 621 00:34:56,440 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 7: Instead of telling jokes, they out there making as brash 622 00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:04,240 Speaker 7: a statement as they can and trying to be shocking. 623 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,759 Speaker 7: Our job is not to be shocking. Our job really 624 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 7: is to be funny. And I guess that's what prompted 625 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 7: the name of the special joke telling business. 626 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,280 Speaker 11: Yeah, because they're not they're not sticking with the job description, 627 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 11: you know what I mean. Then, if you're gonna be 628 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 11: all these things, you're gonna be a shock job. You're 629 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 11: gonna be a You're gonna sit around here and tell 630 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 11: what people should or should not be in their life. 631 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 11: You're gonna bring up they pass and you don't put 632 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 11: no jokes in it. Then be that, but do not 633 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 11: fly around here with the banner saying you're a comedian. 634 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 11: If you did not, you're not telling no jokes to 635 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 11: be funny. And you need to not just lay on 636 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 11: your loans or wrestle your loans to what you preleasedly did. 637 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 6: You need the reading you need to. 638 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 11: Renegotiate and renew your life is to prove that you're 639 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 11: a comedian and put something out that's funny, because that's 640 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:54,200 Speaker 11: our job. 641 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 6: We don't beef like this. We're not rappers. 642 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,800 Speaker 11: We said down them, we will never have Well, we 643 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 11: are coming to America or a hall of night with 644 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 11: the temperature that's going with comedians like this. That's why 645 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 11: we don't have metal detectives in comedy clubs. 646 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 8: Because we don't bring that. 647 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 11: We are the DNA of a clown. So be funny, 648 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 11: show your perspective and if not, get out of my 649 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 11: joenre do something else. But you're not a comedian if 650 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 11: you're not funny, and all platforms that put them on 651 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 11: there they need to hold them. 652 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 6: To that be funny. 653 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 11: If you're gonna come up as a comedian or get. 654 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:29,399 Speaker 8: Out the game. 655 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 2: That's all facts. Just get on the podcast and be 656 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 2: everything but funny everything. 657 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 7: But you gotta hear what killed me though your opinion 658 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,839 Speaker 7: of somebody else how they want to do. But then 659 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 7: you ain't none of who. 660 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:49,360 Speaker 2: You talking about. 661 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,479 Speaker 7: That's what be killing me that I'll be just sitting 662 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,959 Speaker 7: there going wait a minute, man, You talking about people 663 00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 7: you ain't even them. 664 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 2: Instead they talking about what they are. I'm proud of you, man, Man, 665 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 2: I am proud of you. 666 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:01,399 Speaker 8: Boy. 667 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 2: Don't go any babies. You are living witness that God 668 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 2: is never too late. Hey, we come back. 669 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 7: We're gonna talk more with the Legion earthquake spitting business 670 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 7: when joke telling business. That's the name of the Netflix special. 671 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 7: It's in the top ten already check it out. We'll 672 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 7: be right back. 673 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. 674 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 1: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 675 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 676 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune 677 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 1: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV, 678 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines 679 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 1: you need and visit vaxist dot com. That's vaexsist dot 680 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 681 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 7: All right, y'all, we back our special guest this morning 682 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 7: is one and only longtime friend Quake. I remember I 683 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 7: was in a hotel room in Mobile, Alabama, and you know, 684 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 7: my door was facing the parking lot and a knock 685 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 7: on the door and I came to the door with 686 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,960 Speaker 7: a fishing knife and I said, what who is it? 687 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 7: And he said, my name Earthquake. I opened the door. 688 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 7: He told me he was in the Navy. I didn't 689 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,360 Speaker 7: believe him, but he told me all of my jokes. 690 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 7: He said, I want to learn to bus. He came 691 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 7: in and sat down. That was in nineteen eighty eight, 692 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:38,799 Speaker 7: eighty seven. Wow, we've been friends ever since. Earthquake. 693 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: See that brotherhood. I love it. 694 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,919 Speaker 2: That boy right there, So Quake, how you feel? 695 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 6: Man with a man? 696 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,240 Speaker 2: So tell me this? You got a sitcom deal with Fox? 697 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 2: What's going on? 698 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 8: Man? 699 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 11: Oh Man? The president of the network that he want 700 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,479 Speaker 11: me on his network. They make it a transition from 701 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 11: going back to the founding where they started with a 702 00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 11: living color and married with children, and he wants me. 703 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 1: To be with my point of view I hooked up 704 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,720 Speaker 1: with the great my boy. 705 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:09,359 Speaker 11: Bill Burke from his production company, and right now we're 706 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 11: doing You've been through this before. I'm just interviewing for 707 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 11: my showrunner. Make sure I get the right one, and 708 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 11: we're gonna have it. 709 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 8: And it's called. 710 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 11: Steal Quake about Me. The whole time I learned from 711 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 11: you from I take everything from you. 712 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 1: Man. 713 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 11: When you told me you will never ever have another 714 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 11: show that you a name after me and the boys 715 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 11: went that did not have your name, so I made 716 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 11: sure they put an earthquake name on everything. So it's 717 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 11: still quake, and I'm looking forward to it. The specially 718 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,359 Speaker 11: is doing well, man, My beautiful wife and everything coming 719 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,800 Speaker 11: in and I'm over here getting it in. 720 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 8: Man, I'm getting it in, getting it in, So. 721 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 11: Go ahead. 722 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 2: Have you come up with a premise for the sitcom? 723 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 6: Yeah? 724 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 2: Are you still? 725 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 11: Yeah? 726 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 8: Man? 727 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,840 Speaker 11: Well as the printers of my sitcom is, I'm in 728 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 11: La My house got burned it down with the La 729 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 11: Fly the fires, and I said, man, this must be 730 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:00,120 Speaker 11: a sign. 731 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 6: For God for me to move back home. 732 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 11: And I moved back home about both my old comedy 733 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 11: club that I own, and that's what it's. You know, 734 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 11: it's about me, and they moved back with my family everything, 735 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 11: and I got my comedy club back in it doing 736 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 11: like me and used to. 737 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 7: Do when we had our own quaint. Oh, I'm going 738 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 7: to do that right there, boy, quake. I used to 739 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 7: come through your club and sit there. I do four 740 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,879 Speaker 7: shows a night. You and Gary Abdo and boy whoo, 741 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,959 Speaker 7: I was clocking dollars. 742 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 2: In them comedy clubs. Man, Thank you man, Yes. 743 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 8: She was you. 744 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 11: You showed me it was money in the comedy club. 745 00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,240 Speaker 2: You showed me quate and you've done it well. Congratulations. 746 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 1: Man. 747 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 7: We've got a sitcom coming out on Fox with right 748 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 7: now Everybody. The Netflix specialist on Netflix right now is 749 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 7: called The Joke Telling Business. It is starring the one 750 00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 7: the only Earthquake. Get your mind right Quake. We love 751 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 7: you boy, Appreciate you. 752 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 2: Correct, I love you more man, Thank you? 753 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 11: You know. 754 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 6: I love y'all. 755 00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:57,759 Speaker 3: Man. 756 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,040 Speaker 11: Thank you for the plug. See look at it and 757 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 11: tell me what you think. Man, And I love you man. 758 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 2: I watch it this week. Appreciate you. Ladia Jenner, do. 759 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:11,279 Speaker 6: All right? 760 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,440 Speaker 1: Coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour of 761 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 1: the federal government shut down and the standoff between Republicans 762 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,359 Speaker 1: and Democrats. We'll talk about it right after this. You're 763 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:28,880 Speaker 1: listening Hardy Morning Show. Well, we all know that yesterday 764 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 1: the White House declared a government shut down after the 765 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,000 Speaker 1: Senate failed to get funding to sustain federal operations. The 766 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 1: gop led measure was blocked in the Senate, failing to 767 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:44,320 Speaker 1: secure the sixty votes needed to advance. The Democrats accused 768 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,279 Speaker 1: Republicans of not wanting to work with them as they 769 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,239 Speaker 1: try to help the American people on this healthcare cost 770 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 1: on these healthcare costs. Typically in a shutdown, some essential 771 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,720 Speaker 1: federal employees that remain on the job continue work, often 772 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 1: without pay, until Congress acts to fund the government. Just 773 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 1: in case you're wondering now, this is according to US News, 774 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 1: the president's salary, though of four hundred thousand dollars a year, 775 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 1: is generally not affected by a government shut down. And 776 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 1: they say, with regard to the president's pay, Article two, 777 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,400 Speaker 1: Section one of the Constitution forbids the salary of the 778 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,760 Speaker 1: president to be reduced while he or she is in office, 779 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: thus effectively guaranteeing the president of compensation regardless of any 780 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: shut down action. That's according to the twenty eighteen Congressional 781 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 1: Research Service report. And by the way, this is the 782 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 1: fifteenth government shut down since nineteen eighty one. 783 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 2: Scene. Yes, nothing we can do about it. Nothing. 784 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 7: All them and all they doing up there. They play games. 785 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 7: They just play in the political game. This side say this, 786 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,760 Speaker 7: that side say that, and then the one that suffers 787 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 7: this people in the middle. 788 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:07,319 Speaker 6: Ye. 789 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 7: So you know again again the Republicans are blaming the Democrats. 790 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 7: The Democrats are blaming the Republicans. The Democrats are trying 791 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 7: to fight for the benefits and the healthcare of Americans, 792 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 7: which the Republicans are not telling you what's going to happen. 793 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:29,360 Speaker 7: But after the mid terms, the big beautiful Bill, I 794 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 7: want you all to be aware, will kick in full blast. 795 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 7: But it's gonna be after the mid terms so they 796 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 7: don't get stunned at the polls. But right after that, 797 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,439 Speaker 7: all hell gonna break loose and a lot of people 798 00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,800 Speaker 7: gonna lose a lot of stuff. And it's sad. And 799 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 7: it don't matter what the Democrat if you mega, it 800 00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 7: don't matter. The big beautiful bill being passed. The bill 801 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 7: has been passed. Yeah, hey, dog, in this presidency right here, 802 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 7: Donald Trump does whatever he wants to do, and he 803 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:09,680 Speaker 7: has every single Republican, which is the Senator is being 804 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 7: led and the House is being led, and they and 805 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:14,120 Speaker 7: they do whatever he says. 806 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 2: Do they scared? 807 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 1: Scared, terrified. 808 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 2: Because he and he's proved if you ever did anything 809 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:31,400 Speaker 2: in him, he coming. Yeah. Is it worth it? 810 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 7: Is it worth it to sacrifice your job and your 811 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 7: position to go after him knowing what the what the 812 00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 7: problem is going to be. And that's a crazy place 813 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 7: to be in knowing he's going to go after you. Like, 814 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 7: let me ask you all the question, would you give 815 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 7: up your job for the country? Would you give up 816 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 7: your family's, your job, your ability to take care of 817 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,840 Speaker 7: your family, your livelihood, your job for the country? 818 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,879 Speaker 2: I would that I understand, which I understanding. No, I'm 819 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,680 Speaker 2: not though quick getting you for the for your court, 820 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:08,840 Speaker 2: for the country. 821 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 1: Some of these government workers. 822 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,360 Speaker 7: Listen, No, listen, I don't want you to take it 823 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 7: in two weeks the check that you get from my 824 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 7: heart for coming in here to do the radio. In 825 00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 7: any other job you have, are you willing to sacrifice 826 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 7: that just for the good of the country. If they 827 00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 7: say you can help the country by giving up your position, 828 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 7: would you do it? 829 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 8: No? 830 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 7: Your status is you find to be real pope all 831 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 7: your money, Would you do that to sacrifice for the country? 832 00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 2: The answer is no. 833 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 7: Rich people are not going to sacrifice they're richest for 834 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,320 Speaker 7: the good of the country. 835 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,600 Speaker 2: Why ain't nobody understanding that they won't do nothing? Yeah, 836 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,279 Speaker 2: so that shows you. So why would I are you, 837 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 2: as a commoner, why would you do that? 838 00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: No? 839 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 7: Man, uh skip that because the rich ain't finna do it. True, 840 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:11,800 Speaker 7: I ain't fitna do it. 841 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: All right, we got to move on. Coming up next 842 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: to the nephew and the prank phone call for today. 843 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 844 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 1: Show coming up at the top of the hour, about 845 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and 846 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 1: the subject is you can't do what I do. Okay, 847 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,800 Speaker 1: we'll get into that find out what that's all about. 848 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's prank 849 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:43,240 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us, neph. 850 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 2: Well, Shirley. You know, sometimes schedules get cross and things happen. 851 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:50,239 Speaker 2: It's just it's just a part of life. 852 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,440 Speaker 10: But one of the greatest moments that most people have, 853 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,320 Speaker 10: one of the memorable moments is when they're getting married. 854 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 2: That's that's a memorable moment. We all we all love that, 855 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:00,799 Speaker 2: that great day. 856 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:05,000 Speaker 10: But what happens when you're getting married and the lines 857 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 10: have gotten crossed and there is a funeral at the 858 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:14,280 Speaker 10: church at the same time of your wedding? 859 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:17,360 Speaker 2: This right here is a wedding and a funeral. 860 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 10: Were double book and we can't from we call it. 861 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 10: We can't move about it. The body already Okay, finish, 862 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 10: but you can't move this wed neither. You understand what 863 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 10: I'm saying. It's a wedding in the funeral. Let's quit 864 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 10: worrying about Quit worrying about who laying back there gonna have. 865 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 1: You the bride and group. What you say so quick 866 00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: about who lays back this body. 867 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 10: Laying They out and they're gone. Why are you worried 868 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,480 Speaker 10: about that? This is a wedding and a funeral. 869 00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 8: Let's go get hell all right. I'm trying to Ryan, Ryan, 870 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 8: how you doing? 871 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm good. 872 00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 8: I'm thinking this is Josh, Josh over at you. I 873 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 8: want to be officials at the church where you guys 874 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,440 Speaker 8: are getting married tomorrow? 875 00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, how you doing? Man? 876 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 3: They want to thank y'all for that too, man. We 877 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 3: we'll appreciate it. 878 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,320 Speaker 8: Sure here. Well, we definitely hope to make you a 879 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 8: member here sooner or later since you guys are getting married. 880 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 3: You know, hey, man, you know I'm trying to get 881 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 3: this work schedule changed up. You know what I'm saying. 882 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,399 Speaker 3: They got me working on Sundays now, man, So as 883 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,279 Speaker 3: soon as I tweaked at a mood at around a 884 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:22,160 Speaker 3: little bit, I'll be there. 885 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 8: Okay, listen, we have a bit of a situation that's 886 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:29,359 Speaker 8: come up. We had some problems and miscommunication and it's 887 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 8: definitely been on the outside. They had your name Ryan 888 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 8: down here with your phone number as well as you 889 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 8: as soon to be wife's Sonya. They had her name here, 890 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:39,840 Speaker 8: but we didn't want to call her with if we 891 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 8: wanted to just reach out and talk to you and 892 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 8: see if it just make you aware of what was 893 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 8: going on. 894 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 3: Okay, what's going on? 895 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,160 Speaker 8: Man, there's been a mix up on scheduling. I don't 896 00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 8: know if you know since the older make she passed 897 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 8: away a week ago. Oh and you're not you're not 898 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:56,680 Speaker 8: a member of the church, so you wouldn't know her. 899 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,840 Speaker 8: But she's one of the one of the oldest members 900 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,360 Speaker 8: here at the church. It's the old May passed away. 901 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:05,840 Speaker 8: And what's going on is you all's wedding is tomorrow 902 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 8: at twelve o'clock, right, but the actual funeral is at 903 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 8: three o'clock here at the church. 904 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:20,839 Speaker 3: Okay, uh but brother Josh, Josh, okay, look here, brother Josh, Hey, man, 905 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 3: we we already got this thing in motion. Man, we 906 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,640 Speaker 3: didn't stand out. We had two hundred invitations. Man, I 907 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 3: mean blessed us so and and. 908 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,239 Speaker 8: I understand that, but but but I mean, you know, 909 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,040 Speaker 8: she's there's no way we could have moved it around. Now. 910 00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 8: The biggest problem the funeral home is bringing the casket 911 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,719 Speaker 8: first thing in the morning. So what I want, what 912 00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 8: I wanted to make you aware of, and I don't 913 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 8: want you to tell your wife this, but the actual 914 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 8: casket will be in the Saints Arear, but we will 915 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:47,960 Speaker 8: have it. 916 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 3: Come hold on, man, are you serious? 917 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:51,279 Speaker 6: Now? 918 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:53,479 Speaker 3: Look at him? Hey, y'all need to move this round. 919 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what y'all gonna do if y'all have 920 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 3: a fellows Paul in the back or something like that. 921 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 8: Ryan. The only place we can actually put the casket, 922 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 8: and if we didn't put it there, is in the 923 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 8: actual room that you'll as soon to be wife would 924 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,839 Speaker 8: be changing in. That's the only place you got your mile. 925 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,320 Speaker 8: My wife could have changed no room with the dead body. 926 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:15,759 Speaker 8: But you kidding, And you know what, I understood that. 927 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:17,480 Speaker 8: That's the first thing I thought of it. I thought, 928 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 8: I said that, just put the casket the way it 929 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 8: goes for the funeral and we're gonna cover it up 930 00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 8: and see basically you actually get in. 931 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 3: Wow, I can't even believe you call it what this man? 932 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 3: Look at the excuse my french man. Yeah, I know 933 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,279 Speaker 3: I need to get back into church, I really do, 934 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,360 Speaker 3: but right now that this ain't going down like this man. Now, 935 00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,439 Speaker 3: we didn't already paid the money. And first of all, 936 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,239 Speaker 3: first of all, you know she should have. I don't 937 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 3: even feel like she may had to pay, you know, 938 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,960 Speaker 3: touch the hold, no wedding over a hunch her to 939 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:49,319 Speaker 3: where she paid times at. That's that's the first thing. 940 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 11: You know. 941 00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,359 Speaker 3: I ain't like that from the jumping, but I would 942 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,320 Speaker 3: ahead and when win it because she want her pastor 943 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:55,759 Speaker 3: to marry us. And now you got the nerve to 944 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 3: tell me that, y'all, well, arrange something that a funeral 945 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 3: gonna happen the same day as my wedding. And my 946 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 3: wife got to get dressed in the room with a 947 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:03,240 Speaker 3: dead body. 948 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,880 Speaker 8: Well, we're not gonna put her in that, bro. Like 949 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,439 Speaker 8: I say, I'm putting that body first thing in the morning. 950 00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 8: I'm gonna put that body in the right there in 951 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 8: front of the full pit, and we're gonna cover it. Now, 952 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 8: what you're getting out of is you're getting more flowers 953 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,000 Speaker 8: because there's gonna be flowers from the filleral. So I'm 954 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 8: thinking that's probably gonna be a little bit of a perk. 955 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:24,399 Speaker 8: But I just wanted you to be don't wear. It's 956 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,320 Speaker 8: probably gonna be more people than you think because some 957 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 8: of the people that's gonna be a your wedding, it's 958 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,280 Speaker 8: really for the funeral. 959 00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,799 Speaker 3: A hold on, man, are you serious right now? I mean, 960 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,520 Speaker 3: look here, doctor, I then paid for the wedding to 961 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 3: happen at this church, man, Okay, And no disrespect to 962 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 3: the lady that is past. God bless her family. I 963 00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,400 Speaker 3: ain't planning to not putting no dead body having a 964 00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 3: funeral at my wedding. 965 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:49,760 Speaker 5: Man, that's crazy. 966 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:51,839 Speaker 3: I'm gonna come down their. 967 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,160 Speaker 8: Church too, sir. She's a member of the church too. 968 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,320 Speaker 3: I don't give it. I don't being no member of 969 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 3: the church. 970 00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:56,920 Speaker 2: Man. 971 00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:00,440 Speaker 3: I done, paid for this wedding, and it's gonna happen tomorrow. Man, 972 00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:04,080 Speaker 3: you my fixing and putting. No dead body at my wedding. 973 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 4: Right right? 974 00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:12,400 Speaker 8: I mean no distance. But the woman has passed. She 975 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 8: is not gonna get up. I mean, what what is it? 976 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,520 Speaker 3: The problem is? YO calls me with this man's day 977 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 3: before my wedding. We didn't schedule. There's six months ago. 978 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 3: I gotta spend twenty five thirty thousand dollars on this web. 979 00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 5: Okay, and I just wanna tell me that we got 980 00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 5: to shore. 981 00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 3: I will wed with a funeral. But the hell is 982 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 3: wrong with you? 983 00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 8: Man there? Do you want to have your wedding at 984 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:32,839 Speaker 8: this church? 985 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 5: I paid for the which we mean wrong. 986 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 3: I'm having a wedding, okay. I tell you what lift 987 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 3: the body be up in the morning. I rode in 988 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,239 Speaker 3: the right up the street planning. Y'all just stay out 989 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 3: saying in the front and and and throw for. 990 00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:44,439 Speaker 5: Hours like throwing rice. 991 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 3: But we're gonna have a wedding. It's out the same 992 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 3: here tomorrow. I promise you that I can't. 993 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 8: I cannot assure you that it won't be I have 994 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 8: no other place to put. 995 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 3: The body, okay, well, I'll bet you'll find somewhere to 996 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:57,879 Speaker 3: put it if I get that a mark me. It's 997 00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 3: a body in there. There's gonna be a couple of 998 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,399 Speaker 3: bodies in there, and you got two choices to move 999 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,440 Speaker 3: in funeral or to remburse me back. There's thirty thousand 1000 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:07,640 Speaker 3: dollars out of hour to spend those only two choices. 1001 00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 3: I want to hear about it. Meet me at the 1002 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 3: front door to night with a thirty thousand dollars cashier check, 1003 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:13,960 Speaker 3: or we say to have this wedding up in there 1004 00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 3: tomorrow morning. 1005 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 6: You heard me. 1006 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,800 Speaker 3: I ain't playing. I ain't playing at all. 1007 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:18,239 Speaker 8: No joke. 1008 00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:19,879 Speaker 3: What's wrong with child? 1009 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:20,120 Speaker 6: Man? 1010 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 8: You can do something else, man, I understand that. 1011 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 3: I don't want to to know from you. 1012 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,440 Speaker 5: Man. All I'm saying is it's going to be a. 1013 00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 3: Wedding at this church tomorrow without saying dead body. That's 1014 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 3: all I'm saying. 1015 00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:32,839 Speaker 6: To push it to the band. 1016 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 8: Man, there's one more bit of an issue that I 1017 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:36,640 Speaker 8: need to tell you. 1018 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 3: Also, What can be worse than a dead body? What 1019 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,319 Speaker 3: issue can be worse than dead body at my wedding? Man? 1020 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 8: The issue here that is worse than the dead body 1021 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 8: is this is nex few time and from the Steve 1022 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 8: Harby Morning Shore. Your best man, Jeff got me the 1023 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 8: prank phone call you. 1024 00:53:53,920 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 3: What you know what? Man the bitch man about to 1025 00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 3: get the business who when he can possibly get? Man 1026 00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 3: playing then got leave to get the best beat down possible, 1027 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 3: bab I'll telling you, hey, one more question. 1028 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,440 Speaker 8: What's the baddest radio show in the land? 1029 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,839 Speaker 3: Right the Steve Good Morning Show? Baby? 1030 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 2: And there you have it? 1031 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 10: Come on, come on up? 1032 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:34,320 Speaker 2: And that was crazy, That was like what would you 1033 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:35,359 Speaker 2: What would you do? Though? 1034 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 10: What would you do if you got a wedding the 1035 00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,280 Speaker 10: next day coming up the week of and they already 1036 00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:41,520 Speaker 10: got the body gonna be there. 1037 00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,719 Speaker 2: They're gonna have a funeral there earlier that day. What 1038 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:44,839 Speaker 2: you gonna do? Uh huh? 1039 00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:48,200 Speaker 1: You gotta get married at the house, the dead body 1040 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: at your wedding in your what now. 1041 00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 2: You might we gonna put the tucks on him that everybody, 1042 00:54:54,040 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 2: the girls one got on and don't make uniform? 1043 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: Who he talking to? 1044 00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:05,960 Speaker 2: Pass up there? 1045 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,399 Speaker 9: For in my father's house they have many mansions. If 1046 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,520 Speaker 9: it was not so, I wouldn't have told you all 1047 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 9: this is being said and. 1048 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:19,879 Speaker 1: Abet or worse right behind me to death to a start. Yes, 1049 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:25,040 Speaker 1: who is behind? Yes, he is dead and he has 1050 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 1: parted ceremonia too much. I'm done, all right, all right, nephew. 1051 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,279 Speaker 1: Coming up next it is my Strawberry Letter and the 1052 00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:42,960 Speaker 1: subject is you can't do what I do. We'll get 1053 00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:46,760 Speaker 1: into it right after this. Hey, everyone, quick health question. 1054 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,640 Speaker 1: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 1055 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,719 Speaker 1: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 1056 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 1: vaccines come in. They helped train and strengthen your immune 1057 00:55:57,000 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 1: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like newmacacle pneumonia, 1058 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:05,759 Speaker 1: RSV and COVID nineteen this fall. Ask your doctor which 1059 00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:10,320 Speaker 1: vaccines you need and visit vacxsist dot com that's vaexsist 1060 00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,799 Speaker 1: dot com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored 1061 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:22,800 Speaker 1: by Pfizer. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It is 1062 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,799 Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 1063 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:30,439 Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 1064 00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,400 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARBFM dot com and 1065 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:38,319 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter and write us. You know all 1066 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,680 Speaker 1: that we could be reading your letter live on the air, 1067 00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here, right. 1068 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 2: Now, right here, right now. Buckle up, a hold on tight, 1069 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,879 Speaker 2: we got it. Pull you here. It needs strawberry. 1070 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 6: Let us. 1071 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,840 Speaker 1: That's right, nephew, this one could be your subject. You 1072 00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:57,760 Speaker 1: can't do what I do, Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband 1073 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: and I were only having sex three time times a month. 1074 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:04,080 Speaker 1: That may have been cool for him, but I get 1075 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:07,440 Speaker 1: it when I want it, just not from him. I've 1076 00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,680 Speaker 1: had a man on the side for about four months, 1077 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,960 Speaker 1: and I don't feel bad about it. My man on 1078 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 1: the side is loving and thoughtful, and we only stay 1079 00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 1: in five star hotels. He whinds and dines me before 1080 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 1: we make love, and he lets me stay overnight in 1081 00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:25,440 Speaker 1: the room if he has to leave. He's married and 1082 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 1: he's very happy in his marriage, but he does not 1083 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,120 Speaker 1: get enough sex at home either. I used to feel 1084 00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 1: bad about it, but I enjoy my time with my 1085 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 1: side man. I thought I had it all figured out 1086 00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:41,560 Speaker 1: until I came out of a hotel late Saturday night, 1087 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,600 Speaker 1: late one Saturday night, late on a Saturday night, I 1088 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,040 Speaker 1: should say, and I saw my husband's truck park next 1089 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 1: to my car. I panicked and slowly walked to my car. 1090 00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,800 Speaker 1: He left a note on my windshield that said you 1091 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: can't do what I do. I called his phone to 1092 00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: see where he was, but it went straight to voice me. 1093 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,080 Speaker 1: I went back in the hotel to see if my 1094 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,439 Speaker 1: husband checked into a room. The lady at the desk 1095 00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 1: told me that she couldn't tell me that, but she 1096 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 1: said a man came in that night and commented that 1097 00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,400 Speaker 1: his wife was up in one of the rooms at 1098 00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: the hotel. I was so outdone because all this time 1099 00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,280 Speaker 1: he was cheating too. When I finally got up the 1100 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,600 Speaker 1: nerve to talk to him about the note, he was 1101 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: calm about it. He said that there's no way he's 1102 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,280 Speaker 1: going to allow his wife to run around behind his back. 1103 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,880 Speaker 1: He said, it's one thing if he does it, because 1104 00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,400 Speaker 1: I made him cheat by the way I try to 1105 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: control him. He told me, either I stopped cheating or 1106 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,520 Speaker 1: I'll have to move out. How can he say that 1107 00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: to me if he's still going to be stepping out 1108 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,440 Speaker 1: on me? Why the double standard? 1109 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 8: What do I do? 1110 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:47,640 Speaker 5: Well? 1111 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: Double standards have been around since the beginning of time. 1112 00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: They aren't going anywhere. I mean, you can ask all 1113 00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 1: you want, they're just not going. So I'm sure your 1114 00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 1: husband mean what he says what do you do? You ask, well, 1115 00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: I think it depends on what you want. Your husband 1116 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:08,040 Speaker 1: already told you you can't do what he does. That's 1117 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 1: the double standard. He said. He cheats because you try 1118 00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: to control him. So unless you stop trying to control him, 1119 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:19,160 Speaker 1: according to your husband, he's gonna keep cheating. This makes 1120 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: no sense, but it is what it is. That's what 1121 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,720 Speaker 1: he said. You know, you can't fix what's wrong with 1122 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,520 Speaker 1: your marriage by going outside of it cheating, and neither 1123 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,240 Speaker 1: can he. But that's what you guys have chosen to do, 1124 00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,960 Speaker 1: and it is tearing your marriage apart. But the damage 1125 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 1: is done now. This marriage is on life support, it's 1126 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 1: barely hanging on. So the question is are you willing 1127 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,040 Speaker 1: to give up your side piece for the sake of 1128 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: your marriage? Are you gonna let your husband put you 1129 00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,640 Speaker 1: out of the house your house to stay with your 1130 00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 1: other man? I mean, those are the questions you have 1131 00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: to ask yourself or you know, I don't even know 1132 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,959 Speaker 1: if this marriage is so stablegeable at this point because 1133 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,280 Speaker 1: you guys are both cheating. You don't want to give 1134 01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:04,400 Speaker 1: up your side piece, and it doesn't sound like your 1135 01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: husband is gonna stop cheating. 1136 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:09,360 Speaker 7: Steve uh We're gonna do this letter a little bit 1137 01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,240 Speaker 7: differently because this is such an obvious letter to me. 1138 01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 7: By the time I make this statement right here, really 1139 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:17,120 Speaker 7: is over. So I'll let you all ask me any 1140 01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:21,040 Speaker 7: questions you like about this letter. For clarity, Let's just 1141 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:24,480 Speaker 7: get this one thing straight. Why the double standard? This 1142 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 7: isn't a letter about double standards at all. See the 1143 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 7: thing that you're trying to make it is when he 1144 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,000 Speaker 7: said when he found when he put the note on 1145 01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:38,000 Speaker 7: the windshield that said, you can't do what I do? 1146 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,120 Speaker 7: And then she's going, well, why can't I? You're thinking 1147 01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 7: that's the double standard. This is not about double standards. 1148 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 7: This is a straight gangster move he's pulling. He calm 1149 01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 7: is all out doors. I went and got me a 1150 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 7: side piece, chick, because you be trying to control me. 1151 01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:58,680 Speaker 7: But now you're gonna go out here and get you 1152 01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,920 Speaker 7: a side piece due And now when you bust it. 1153 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,160 Speaker 7: Y'all sitting up been talking about WHI is This is 1154 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 7: a double standard. No, this is a gangster move. And 1155 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:10,520 Speaker 7: you and I don't know how you don't see this 1156 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,400 Speaker 7: right here, this is him telling you all in a 1157 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,280 Speaker 7: one sided way, how. 1158 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 2: It's going to go. 1159 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 7: You have no options here. This isn't double standard. This 1160 01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:27,080 Speaker 7: is a gangster move. Okay, so you dating this, You 1161 01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:30,200 Speaker 7: seeing this side guy who's happily married, but he. 1162 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,080 Speaker 2: Don't get enough sex at home. You didn't say you 1163 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:34,120 Speaker 2: were happily married. 1164 01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 7: You just said you only get sex three times a month, 1165 01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:38,480 Speaker 7: but you get it when you want it because you 1166 01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 7: got this side dude. He winds and dines you, allows 1167 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:45,480 Speaker 7: you to stay at four star hotels even when he 1168 01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:47,560 Speaker 7: leave if you want to spend the night. I don't 1169 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,320 Speaker 7: know how you can be married and spend the night 1170 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:54,360 Speaker 7: at a hotel. I just don't understand that. This is crazy. 1171 01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 7: So and he go home every night because he can't 1172 01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,800 Speaker 7: do that. I promise you his life don't know this. 1173 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,520 Speaker 7: I give you my word on this right here. So 1174 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:07,760 Speaker 7: now you trying to feel good about yourself because he 1175 01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:10,880 Speaker 7: winds and dines you. Before you have sex, he bought 1176 01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 7: you some food and then y'all have sex. Now listen, 1177 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 7: if I hand you the money and you go eat 1178 01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,280 Speaker 7: with it, or I hand you the money and you 1179 01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:23,640 Speaker 7: buy drugs with it, or you go drink with her, 1180 01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:27,600 Speaker 7: you go buy a purse with it, it's a transaction. 1181 01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:32,360 Speaker 7: Y'all got now he's polite to you, and you just 1182 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,160 Speaker 7: ain't standing on the street corner. But this is a 1183 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 7: transaction and what you're getting out of it it's sex, 1184 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:43,600 Speaker 7: and so is he, and it costs money and most 1185 01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:46,040 Speaker 7: people understand that. But now you're trying to make it 1186 01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 7: look like it's more than that, because you're in a 1187 01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:52,680 Speaker 7: hotel room, folk star. So and now you go out 1188 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:54,600 Speaker 7: to the car, you find a note on the car 1189 01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:57,320 Speaker 7: that says you can't. 1190 01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 6: Do what I do. 1191 01:02:58,320 --> 01:02:59,920 Speaker 2: Now you want to go back in there to see. 1192 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: If you wait, I'll come back and tell you. 1193 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1194 01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,200 Speaker 2: We won't have no time for no questions. 1195 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:06,720 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1196 01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:09,440 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter. It's 1197 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,240 Speaker 1: subject you can't do what I do. We'll get back 1198 01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:17,320 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1199 01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 1: Great news. Homeowners rates have dropped. 1200 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,200 Speaker 9: Now the longer you've owned your home, the more equity 1201 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,880 Speaker 9: you've built, and Rocket Mortgage LLC licens than fifty states 1202 01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,720 Speaker 9: n Mlscosumer access dot Org number thirty thirty. 1203 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,040 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1204 01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:39,760 Speaker 1: The subject is you can't. 1205 01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 6: Do what I do. 1206 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,640 Speaker 7: This lady wants you to know why the doubles stand 1207 01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:48,480 Speaker 7: it because she got busted cheating. 1208 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,400 Speaker 2: This woman is married to her husband. 1209 01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 7: They only have sex three times a month, she said 1210 01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,200 Speaker 7: with him because she got a side dude, because she 1211 01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:57,840 Speaker 7: wanted more than three times a month. 1212 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,800 Speaker 2: The guy's kind to her, gets her full star hotels. 1213 01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,880 Speaker 7: They always eat before they have sex, and when he 1214 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 7: go home, he lets her stay there all. 1215 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,600 Speaker 2: Night if he want to. The groom pay for. 1216 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 7: You can't stay that past leven though, unkie, what room 1217 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,600 Speaker 7: you and they got that sign on the door checkout 1218 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:22,880 Speaker 7: time is that you gotta read that right by the 1219 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 7: peep hole. So once he buy a room that evening, 1220 01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,479 Speaker 7: he you gonna spend the night. That's what hotel rooms are, 1221 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:35,680 Speaker 7: and y'all order food. So so now you having sex 1222 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,440 Speaker 7: with this man. Now you go to the hotel one 1223 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,920 Speaker 7: night and you coming out to go gett in your truck, 1224 01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 7: and you know that your husband's You go get in 1225 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 7: your car, you notice your husband's truck is parked right 1226 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,600 Speaker 7: next to yours, and you look at there's a note 1227 01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,800 Speaker 7: on the windshield that says, you can't do what I do. 1228 01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,560 Speaker 7: You go back in the hotel to ask if your 1229 01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,160 Speaker 7: husband has a room. That a lady at the front desk, 1230 01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 7: being how women are y'all are try to be with 1231 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,840 Speaker 7: each other? He she can't tell you if he got 1232 01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,040 Speaker 7: a room there, but she said there was a man 1233 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 7: that came in earlier that said his wife is upstairs. 1234 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,960 Speaker 2: In the room, and he got a room she told. 1235 01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:14,960 Speaker 1: She told yeah. 1236 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:22,640 Speaker 2: Now, so now I was so outdone because all this 1237 01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,440 Speaker 2: time he was cheating too. 1238 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:29,080 Speaker 7: Why you out done? Why you out done? Because you 1239 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:33,200 Speaker 7: got out dead? Is that why you out done? Because 1240 01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 7: you got out dead. When I finally got up the 1241 01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,440 Speaker 7: nerve to talk to him about the note, he was 1242 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 7: calm about it. He said there's no way he gonna 1243 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:44,600 Speaker 7: allow his wife to run around behind his back. He said, 1244 01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,240 Speaker 7: it's one thing if he doesn't because I made him 1245 01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:49,760 Speaker 7: cheat the way I try to control him. He told me, 1246 01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 7: either I stop cheating or have to move out. How 1247 01:05:53,360 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 7: can he say that to me if he's still going 1248 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 7: to be stepping out on me? Why the double standard? 1249 01:05:58,160 --> 01:05:58,680 Speaker 8: What do I do? 1250 01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:01,320 Speaker 2: There is no double stand and it's a gangster moving. 1251 01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,240 Speaker 2: Let me explain to you how may if you sex? 1252 01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,120 Speaker 7: If I got over if I got a glass of water, 1253 01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,840 Speaker 7: and I asked, Shirley, does she want to drink? And 1254 01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:17,880 Speaker 7: she said, yeah, she takes her silk. And because their friends, 1255 01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,960 Speaker 7: she might say Monica, would you like a silk? And 1256 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:24,320 Speaker 7: it's thirsty, and Monica might take a sip of the water, 1257 01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,440 Speaker 7: and then Carlin might take the water and they bring 1258 01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,120 Speaker 7: the glass back to me. If I take my finger 1259 01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:32,520 Speaker 7: and I put my finger in that glass, and then 1260 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:35,440 Speaker 7: I let Tommy put his finger in the glass, and 1261 01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:37,640 Speaker 7: then I let Junior put his finger in the glass 1262 01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,040 Speaker 7: of the water, and then I hand it to Shelly. Shelly, 1263 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:44,880 Speaker 7: you want something, she gonna say no, Carly gonna say no, 1264 01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 7: Monica gon. See that's how sexy is, because see, once 1265 01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:53,520 Speaker 7: a man looks at it like that, wants you to 1266 01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,080 Speaker 7: let some people put put their finger in the water, 1267 01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:58,400 Speaker 7: That water ain't the same no more. 1268 01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:02,800 Speaker 2: And that's how we because see we could we could 1269 01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:03,800 Speaker 2: take our finger. 1270 01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:07,040 Speaker 7: And dry it off and it never been in the water. 1271 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:09,920 Speaker 7: But once you put the finger in the water, it's 1272 01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:13,160 Speaker 7: always in the water. You feel me, Can you understand 1273 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:13,840 Speaker 7: what I'm telling you? 1274 01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:18,040 Speaker 2: That's the nasty I take my finger out the water 1275 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:18,800 Speaker 2: I dried off. 1276 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,400 Speaker 7: It's like it's never been in the water. But once 1277 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 7: you had the water and a bunch of fingers been 1278 01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 7: in it, you can't And that's what and so that's 1279 01:07:29,480 --> 01:07:32,920 Speaker 7: what the double standard is. It's nothing else. Now you 1280 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:36,240 Speaker 7: are stupid, ma'am. If you gonna let him put you 1281 01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:40,040 Speaker 7: out the house for cheating while he cheating, that's dumb. 1282 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:46,160 Speaker 2: How he busted you was brilliant. But you went back 1283 01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 2: in that to the hotel. What was you finna do? 1284 01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:52,800 Speaker 2: That was dumb. Then you brought up the note to him. 1285 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,320 Speaker 7: He calm as hell now because he got you, He 1286 01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:58,960 Speaker 7: got you feeling some kind of way. 1287 01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:03,280 Speaker 2: Listen, this letter makes no sense at all. 1288 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,800 Speaker 7: You all don't have a marriage because both of you 1289 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 7: all have violated the marriage in the most vile way 1290 01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:11,880 Speaker 7: you can do, both of y'all. 1291 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 2: So just in this you don't want him and he 1292 01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:19,240 Speaker 2: don't want you. But now guess what I promise you. 1293 01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:21,000 Speaker 2: The married dude ain't leaving his wife. 1294 01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:21,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, he. 1295 01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:29,879 Speaker 2: Happily married. So this is not a double standard. 1296 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 11: Man. 1297 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:33,639 Speaker 7: You just got played, you got busted, and you found 1298 01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:35,439 Speaker 7: out your husband was doing the same thing. 1299 01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:37,120 Speaker 2: That's all. 1300 01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:43,640 Speaker 7: It ain't no big deal, all right, But I'm not 1301 01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,560 Speaker 7: leaving a note of well you if I'm married and 1302 01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:50,040 Speaker 7: you in the room with somebody, when you come out, 1303 01:08:50,680 --> 01:08:52,360 Speaker 7: you will be the note, but it won't be a 1304 01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:58,080 Speaker 7: windshield for you to put it on. Yeah, your note 1305 01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:02,240 Speaker 7: gonna be on top of the glass and this will 1306 01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 7: be you ain't go ahead and stay we I'm gonna 1307 01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,760 Speaker 7: tell you all that out all right. I'm going to 1308 01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:09,720 Speaker 7: be in my truck waiting on you to come out. 1309 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:12,120 Speaker 6: All right. 1310 01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:15,040 Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. This Saturday, I will be in my 1311 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:19,280 Speaker 1: hometown of Chicago for the ninth annual Sisters Truck Pink 1312 01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:23,120 Speaker 1: Celebration in honor of breast cancer awareness. It will be 1313 01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:26,920 Speaker 1: at the Salvation Army Ray and Joan Krock Community Center 1314 01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,639 Speaker 1: that's at twelve to fifty West one hundred and nineteenth 1315 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:33,160 Speaker 1: Street on the South Side. We start at ten am. 1316 01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:36,759 Speaker 1: Hopefully I will see you there this Saturday, October fourth, 1317 01:09:37,400 --> 01:09:40,360 Speaker 1: And you can post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter 1318 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:44,240 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check 1319 01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:47,519 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app 1320 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:50,639 Speaker 1: for it Never Sounded So Good. You can download it today. 1321 01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:53,760 Speaker 1: Coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we 1322 01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:58,040 Speaker 1: got sports talk with Junior right after this. What's going on? 1323 01:09:58,200 --> 01:09:59,960 Speaker 1: This is your boy Kevin Hart. This is Ericabye. 1324 01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 2: Hey, this is Dave Chappelle. Yo, what's up? 1325 01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:04,960 Speaker 1: This is ice Tube. This cip mailhusa gang here Han 1326 01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:07,280 Speaker 1: Yo to Kane, I can't call it. 1327 01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:09,640 Speaker 3: This your man Cedric d entertainer and you're listening to 1328 01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,479 Speaker 3: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1329 01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:16,000 Speaker 1: Now, my doubt you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1330 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,200 Speaker 1: Have you thought about buying life insurance to protect yourself 1331 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,599 Speaker 1: and your family? Globe Life Insurance is easy to understand 1332 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,120 Speaker 1: and easy to buy, with coverage of mons up to 1333 01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars. The application process is quick. 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Junior, what you got for us? 1340 01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:52,080 Speaker 2: All right? 1341 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:52,400 Speaker 11: Surey? 1342 01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,080 Speaker 9: But before I do that tomorrow tomorrow, I will be 1343 01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 9: in Greenville, North Carolina, at the Greenville Convention Center for 1344 01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 9: the Robinson Single Cell Foundation. I'm the keynote speaker at 1345 01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:06,639 Speaker 9: the Sickle Cell Expo for the third annual Sickle Seal Expo. 1346 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 2: So y'all come on out here. If you're sick, you 1347 01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:09,720 Speaker 2: got sickle, so you need to come hear me talk 1348 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:10,600 Speaker 2: about this. I'm just give you. 1349 01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a good and the bad and 1350 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:12,719 Speaker 1: the truth. 1351 01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:14,760 Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna do. So just come on out there. 1352 01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:16,840 Speaker 9: I like to see y'all. I can't wait to get this. 1353 01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:20,800 Speaker 9: It's at the Greenville, North Carolina, at the Convention Center. 1354 01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:26,040 Speaker 2: It ain't but one. You know, I see a go ahead, 1355 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,400 Speaker 2: go ahead, do the sports, go ahead, go. 1356 01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:31,640 Speaker 1: Ahead, just go ahead, because I. 1357 01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:34,960 Speaker 2: Know it's gonna be crazy. Go ahead. I decided not to. 1358 01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:37,720 Speaker 1: I'm glad you did because I know what you were 1359 01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:45,040 Speaker 1: gonna say, talk about that's gonna be so crazy. 1360 01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:52,920 Speaker 7: What exactly everybody, exactly in front of everybody, and then 1361 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:54,439 Speaker 7: keep trying to talk to it. 1362 01:11:58,400 --> 01:11:59,759 Speaker 1: See if that's so wrong. 1363 01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:01,000 Speaker 2: Let's talk about it. 1364 01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:03,080 Speaker 9: Let's talk about the clean brown the Cleveland Browns. 1365 01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:06,439 Speaker 2: They have bitch Joe Flacco. He will not be this Sunday. 1366 01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:07,400 Speaker 2: They will be. 1367 01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:11,559 Speaker 9: Starting Dalan Gabriel uh so y'all were playing the Minnesota 1368 01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,519 Speaker 9: Vikings over in London on Sunday, So I don't want. 1369 01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:15,639 Speaker 2: To go listen. 1370 01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:19,720 Speaker 7: And then and then Dylan he gonna have and then 1371 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:21,920 Speaker 7: they're gonna bring in Cool and then we're gonna go 1372 01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:23,120 Speaker 7: and get your thing rolling. 1373 01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:25,360 Speaker 2: That's I see it happens. 1374 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:30,200 Speaker 1: Cool bringing you. 1375 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:33,240 Speaker 2: Who they bring in. 1376 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,800 Speaker 9: We got Thursday night football. You got the forty nine 1377 01:12:42,840 --> 01:12:46,800 Speaker 9: ers and the Rams playing. Uh and man, uh you 1378 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:48,920 Speaker 9: know it's it's they both three and one. I don't 1379 01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:52,880 Speaker 9: know how you don't care. I don't care San Francisco 1380 01:12:53,080 --> 01:12:56,920 Speaker 9: and the Rams. I don't care. You ain't neither one 1381 01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:58,800 Speaker 9: of them going to the super Bowl. Why is we 1382 01:12:58,920 --> 01:12:59,479 Speaker 9: talking about this? 1383 01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:01,599 Speaker 10: Okay, well, good thing. 1384 01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:06,839 Speaker 7: We ain't talking about Buffalo, Baltimore, Kansas City, the Texans 1385 01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,519 Speaker 7: and the Texans, the Texans, you all know. 1386 01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:10,040 Speaker 2: Stop. 1387 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,639 Speaker 7: I told y'all, what do you mean? I told y'all 1388 01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 7: how to handle this. Y'all keep having any high hopes. 1389 01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 1: Yea, they say they're going. 1390 01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:17,599 Speaker 2: To the super Bowl. 1391 01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:19,599 Speaker 1: We want Sunday. What did you mean? 1392 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:20,080 Speaker 6: We want? 1393 01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:22,479 Speaker 1: We all our way. We're back on the super Bowl way. 1394 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:23,080 Speaker 8: We got a win. 1395 01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 2: Now, what's your record? Junior? 1396 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:26,920 Speaker 1: That ain't the point. 1397 01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 9: The point is we're going we want three, one and 1398 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:34,519 Speaker 9: three and who we beat is Owen Folk, now yeah. 1399 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so who y'all being. 1400 01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:47,880 Speaker 9: Yeah Win, don't don't be mad us because we're going I'm. 1401 01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:47,800 Speaker 2: Mad at you. 1402 01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:49,800 Speaker 7: I'm mad at you because you think you going that 1403 01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:51,920 Speaker 7: what I'm talking about, You're not going to super Bowl? 1404 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,960 Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top 1405 01:13:57,000 --> 01:14:00,439 Speaker 1: of the hour, grandmother on social media needs some advice. 1406 01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 1: She says she never gets to see her grandchildren. We'll 1407 01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:05,920 Speaker 1: talk about it right after this. You're listening to the 1408 01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:13,160 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, This is from Latricia 1409 01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:14,679 Speaker 1: on Steve Harvey FM. 1410 01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:15,160 Speaker 2: Steve. 1411 01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:17,920 Speaker 1: She says, my son barely speaks to me these days, 1412 01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,880 Speaker 1: so as a result, I almost never get to see 1413 01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:24,760 Speaker 1: my granddaughter. It feels so unfair. Whatever issues he has 1414 01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:28,559 Speaker 1: with me should mean I should be kept from my grandchild. Yes, 1415 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,080 Speaker 1: I wasn't always around when he was growing up, but 1416 01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,080 Speaker 1: I worked hard and provided for him, and he's never 1417 01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:38,160 Speaker 1: appreciated everything I did to sacrifice for him. Now he 1418 01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:40,560 Speaker 1: acts like I was never really there for him, and 1419 01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:42,840 Speaker 1: my punishment is that I don't get to be in 1420 01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,960 Speaker 1: his daughter's life. Now I've always wanted to be that 1421 01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:49,559 Speaker 1: doting grandmother and now I'm being shut out. How am 1422 01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:52,600 Speaker 1: I supposed to handle this? What can I do? 1423 01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:53,559 Speaker 11: Wow? 1424 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,559 Speaker 7: Well, I can't tell you how to handle that because 1425 01:14:56,640 --> 01:15:00,720 Speaker 7: you're his mother. I've never been a mother grandmother. I've 1426 01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:04,519 Speaker 7: never been to grandmother. So for me to to act 1427 01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:08,000 Speaker 7: like I know what you're feeling, I don't. All I 1428 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:10,760 Speaker 7: know is you and him have to have a sit 1429 01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:14,760 Speaker 7: down and this young man has to grow up. 1430 01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:19,200 Speaker 2: See. You know the problem with hanging on to the past. 1431 01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:22,840 Speaker 2: The past hangs on to you too. 1432 01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:26,840 Speaker 7: So now you can't have a future with your mother, 1433 01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,520 Speaker 7: and your baby can't have a future with her grandmama 1434 01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:32,120 Speaker 7: because you still mad about the past. 1435 01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:33,840 Speaker 2: Broh. 1436 01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:36,679 Speaker 7: At one point in time, for the good of all involved, 1437 01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:40,280 Speaker 7: especially yourself and your family, you got to let it go. 1438 01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:45,120 Speaker 7: You got to let it go because always remember this, 1439 01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:49,080 Speaker 7: anything you won't let go of won't let go of 1440 01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:49,679 Speaker 7: you either. 1441 01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:54,320 Speaker 2: Okay, we do that, how y'all like the way I'm 1442 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 2: starting to edit myself later, but I don't like it. 1443 01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:03,080 Speaker 2: But to know what you created, you finish? No, Well, 1444 01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:05,400 Speaker 2: you want to know there was a junior. I just 1445 01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:10,120 Speaker 2: edited when Junior speaking at the no in North Carolina. 1446 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:13,120 Speaker 2: At the I'm just saying, I just said, Shirley, let 1447 01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:13,560 Speaker 2: me do this. 1448 01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:16,639 Speaker 7: I edited myself from saying what I was thinking because 1449 01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:20,720 Speaker 7: he's speaking of Sickle Sale convention. He to keep no speaking. Yes, 1450 01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:26,240 Speaker 7: I just have an idea that would really no national 1451 01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:30,360 Speaker 7: point across people would be giving if they saw its. No, 1452 01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:32,920 Speaker 7: some people have never seen it though. 1453 01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:36,800 Speaker 1: All right, don't move on. We have time for We 1454 01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:40,160 Speaker 1: have time for another one. This is from TJ on 1455 01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:43,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM. TJ says, it's not like I'm new 1456 01:16:43,200 --> 01:16:46,160 Speaker 1: to the dating game, but but does something change when 1457 01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:49,240 Speaker 1: you hit thirty? About two months ago, I started dating 1458 01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:51,559 Speaker 1: a girl I met at a work function, and we've 1459 01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:54,560 Speaker 1: really hit it off. In fact, we've just made the 1460 01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:58,599 Speaker 1: whole boyfriend girlfriend thing official. There is a downside though, 1461 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,640 Speaker 1: Apparently being called my girlfriend also entitled her to a 1462 01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,680 Speaker 1: key to my place and I'm not feeling that just 1463 01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:08,879 Speaker 1: right now. And when I said that I wasn't comfortable 1464 01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:11,120 Speaker 1: with it, things turned into a what are you hiding 1465 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,479 Speaker 1: from me? Inquisition? Is this normal? 1466 01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:18,960 Speaker 7: I don't know, dog, you're thirty, you know how long 1467 01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:22,360 Speaker 7: It's been thirty eight years since I've been thirty. 1468 01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:30,479 Speaker 2: I was thirty. I didn't have a key to nothing thirty. 1469 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:33,160 Speaker 7: Man, I'd have gladly gave somebody a key, anybody had 1470 01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 7: gave me a key. But bro, listen to me, man, 1471 01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:41,280 Speaker 7: when y'all made it official, Yeah, y'all don't live together. 1472 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:43,599 Speaker 1: No, but she wants a kep. 1473 01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:47,519 Speaker 2: What you're hiding from it? That's a fair question. 1474 01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 11: Bro. 1475 01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:50,680 Speaker 7: If you don't want to give a key, don't give 1476 01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:53,599 Speaker 7: a key. Don't give me personally. I'll give a key, 1477 01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:56,040 Speaker 7: but I just want I just won't get the right 1478 01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:56,719 Speaker 7: one made. 1479 01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 1: You try coming over the other? 1480 01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:03,519 Speaker 2: Oh my bad. 1481 01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:06,559 Speaker 7: Let me get another one, Oh my bad. Maybe maybe 1482 01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:08,599 Speaker 7: I'll try to get you a copy made. Maybe they 1483 01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:09,320 Speaker 7: didn't do it right. 1484 01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll give you a key. I'm moving. I'm not 1485 01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 2: giving you now. You can't just open the door on me. 1486 01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:21,759 Speaker 2: We ain't that ain't We all often be surprised. 1487 01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:24,639 Speaker 1: What are you hiding from me? That's what she wants 1488 01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:24,960 Speaker 1: to know. 1489 01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:28,040 Speaker 2: The truth. 1490 01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:36,840 Speaker 1: Said that exactly exactly. All right, guys, coming up, we'll 1491 01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,559 Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty 1492 01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,240 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Right after this. 1493 01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:47,240 Speaker 7: Less up, it's DJ cagn and you're listening to Steve 1494 01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:50,759 Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. There's morning shows and there's the Greatest 1495 01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:52,439 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1496 01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 2: Another one. 1497 01:18:53,800 --> 01:19:00,679 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 1498 01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:03,120 Speaker 1: Carlo is here with Music News. What you got for 1499 01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:04,080 Speaker 1: its CALLI Girl? 1500 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,519 Speaker 13: Okay, So have you guys been seeing this on social media? 1501 01:19:07,800 --> 01:19:09,960 Speaker 13: The Nicki Minaj, Cardi B, the. 1502 01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:10,720 Speaker 4: Beadia, the beat. 1503 01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:13,479 Speaker 1: It's really bad. It's really really bad Cardi B. 1504 01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,600 Speaker 13: You know, she released her sophomore album titled am I 1505 01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:20,520 Speaker 13: The Drama, and it seems like it has re ignited 1506 01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 13: this feud between her and Nicki Minaj. 1507 01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:26,240 Speaker 1: These two women have the rappers. 1508 01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,759 Speaker 13: They have tossed accusations back and forth on social media. 1509 01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:35,640 Speaker 13: Nicki claims that Carti inflated the first week's sales of 1510 01:19:35,760 --> 01:19:39,760 Speaker 13: her album on the debut number one on the Billboard Charts. 1511 01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:41,960 Speaker 1: You know, I talked about that and Music News not 1512 01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:44,800 Speaker 1: too long ago. But this beef is too much. 1513 01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:49,240 Speaker 13: The insults they're going back and forth. It's very nasty. 1514 01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:50,879 Speaker 13: They're mentioning the children. 1515 01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:53,760 Speaker 1: It's too far. You got to keep the chills out 1516 01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:53,960 Speaker 1: of it. 1517 01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:58,040 Speaker 13: Yes, Tommy, it's it's nasty and it's ugly and I 1518 01:19:58,240 --> 01:19:59,160 Speaker 13: just want them to stop. 1519 01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:02,400 Speaker 2: It's just not really it really don't make no sense, 1520 01:20:02,400 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 2: you know. I'm so sick of us. Yes, we're the 1521 01:20:05,439 --> 01:20:06,320 Speaker 2: only ones that do this. 1522 01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 1: It's horrible. It's horrible, Steve. 1523 01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:13,000 Speaker 7: And you wait till you ask, you wait till you 1524 01:20:13,120 --> 01:20:16,080 Speaker 7: get where you ask God to get you, and then 1525 01:20:16,160 --> 01:20:17,120 Speaker 7: you start back. 1526 01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:21,200 Speaker 2: Pett Yeah, it's all about your business. There's plenty of 1527 01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:22,720 Speaker 2: room at the top for both of them. 1528 01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:26,719 Speaker 1: Thank you that part. Thank you. It's too much divide 1529 01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:28,840 Speaker 1: going on in the country for all this right now. 1530 01:20:29,200 --> 01:20:32,880 Speaker 1: So that said with music News, that's my commentary. Yeah, 1531 01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:35,400 Speaker 1: all right, thank you God for that. 1532 01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:36,320 Speaker 11: We appreciate it. 1533 01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:39,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, they need to stop. You're right, all right, coming up, 1534 01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:42,160 Speaker 1: we'll play around it, would you rather? Right after this 1535 01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:50,200 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone, 1536 01:20:50,439 --> 01:20:53,960 Speaker 1: quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, 1537 01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,719 Speaker 1: still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age. 1538 01:20:57,880 --> 01:21:00,960 Speaker 1: That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen 1539 01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:04,720 Speaker 1: your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, 1540 01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:09,040 Speaker 1: new macacle, pneumonia, rs V, and COVID nineteen this fall, 1541 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,640 Speaker 1: Ask your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaccist 1542 01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:16,479 Speaker 1: dot com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or 1543 01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:21,040 Speaker 1: more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. Time now for a roundup. 1544 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,960 Speaker 1: Would you rather? Would you rather have a great, big, 1545 01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,519 Speaker 1: old big toe or would you rather have huge lips? 1546 01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:38,080 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Steve, stay hole on lips though its picture. 1547 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:42,680 Speaker 7: Tony already wear at thirteen, y'all don't even know what 1548 01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:48,680 Speaker 7: that is, so I really can't head. I already got 1549 01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:50,880 Speaker 7: a big toe in big lips, so I really don't, 1550 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:55,479 Speaker 7: you know, damning them down in He's thirteen sometimes so 1551 01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:57,720 Speaker 7: both you know, it's just hard, you know, I'm just, 1552 01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,200 Speaker 7: like he said, already got it. I think it is 1553 01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:02,840 Speaker 7: an advantage to have it lips like this size. I mean, 1554 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,880 Speaker 7: I could tell you so many things the benefit of it, 1555 01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:10,400 Speaker 7: you know, like if you don't want to kiss a 1556 01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:13,800 Speaker 7: girl twice, just give them one good one and that 1557 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:17,280 Speaker 7: a holder. You know that'll stop all that. Yeah, you know, 1558 01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:19,240 Speaker 7: take your bad for donut. I just put the bottom 1559 01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:21,200 Speaker 7: lip in your mouth and choke your half to death. 1560 01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:26,800 Speaker 7: It works out like that, like like if I see 1561 01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,920 Speaker 7: if I'm had, if I'm eating soup, I don't have 1562 01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:32,360 Speaker 7: to cool the spoon. I do the whole boat. 1563 01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,679 Speaker 2: I just blow the bowl. See y'all pick your spoon 1564 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:37,559 Speaker 2: up and blow the spoon. I just blow the boat. 1565 01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,880 Speaker 7: Okay, you gotta have you know, and then like you know, 1566 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:44,320 Speaker 7: and then like I didn't have no trouble when I 1567 01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:46,880 Speaker 7: was a kid, But you got your lips poked out fault. 1568 01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:53,800 Speaker 2: And I ain't never never said that to me. Yeah, 1569 01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:56,200 Speaker 2: I ain't never. I never have never heard that. 1570 01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, would you would you rather it be 1571 01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:06,519 Speaker 1: summer or fall forever? Which one? 1572 01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:12,200 Speaker 10: Some while you're looking at me, I mean it's a 1573 01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 10: question for you. 1574 01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:18,200 Speaker 1: To summer, Yeah, for sure? 1575 01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 8: For you? 1576 01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:21,720 Speaker 2: Why don't you say that that the speech? You get 1577 01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:22,760 Speaker 2: a speech this week? 1578 01:23:22,800 --> 01:23:25,000 Speaker 1: You stop with your pointers. 1579 01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:29,080 Speaker 10: I'm just trying to give him some stuff to talk about. Speak, Yeah, 1580 01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 10: just talk about the weather. 1581 01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:35,320 Speaker 1: Which one, steve? Summer or fall forever? 1582 01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:36,439 Speaker 8: For me? 1583 01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:38,040 Speaker 2: Okay? All right? 1584 01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:42,640 Speaker 1: Would you rather have twenty million dollars right now or 1585 01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:47,639 Speaker 1: guarantee twenty more healthy years added to your life? Twenty 1586 01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:52,679 Speaker 1: more years, twenty more healthy years, healthy years, very important 1587 01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:54,680 Speaker 1: healthy years you can. 1588 01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:57,040 Speaker 10: Get I get that twenty million, I'm gonna kill myself, 1589 01:23:57,120 --> 01:23:58,360 Speaker 10: all right if I get that twenty me. 1590 01:23:58,760 --> 01:23:59,920 Speaker 2: I'm out. I'm a mess. 1591 01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:02,639 Speaker 1: It'd be wilding out. 1592 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:03,320 Speaker 6: Is that what you mean? 1593 01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:06,719 Speaker 1: What? Oh? 1594 01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm out of here. Five. I'm telling you five, 1595 01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:13,120 Speaker 2: I'm out. I had missed it all awful? 1596 01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:13,559 Speaker 11: Family. 1597 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 1: Why do you always say that you're gonna make me 1598 01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:22,760 Speaker 1: believe that you really mean that. 1599 01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:24,439 Speaker 6: I know where to do it. 1600 01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:25,720 Speaker 2: I know where to mess it all up. 1601 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:29,200 Speaker 1: I gotta price. Everybody got a price. 1602 01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:30,720 Speaker 2: Don't know what to mess it all up? 1603 01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 1: Man, y'all, y'all, All right, that's today's round of would 1604 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,960 Speaker 1: you rather? Coming up next? It is our last break 1605 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:39,160 Speaker 1: of the day, and we'll close out the show with 1606 01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:42,800 Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're 1607 01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:50,320 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick 1608 01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:54,559 Speaker 1: health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, 1609 01:24:54,760 --> 01:24:57,760 Speaker 1: did you know your immune system weakens with age. That's 1610 01:24:57,760 --> 01:25:00,800 Speaker 1: where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your 1611 01:25:00,840 --> 01:25:04,479 Speaker 1: immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like blue 1612 01:25:04,640 --> 01:25:09,120 Speaker 1: new Macaco pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall, Ask 1613 01:25:09,200 --> 01:25:12,840 Speaker 1: your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxsist dot com. 1614 01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:16,560 Speaker 1: That's Vaexsist dot com to schedule one or more of 1615 01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:20,840 Speaker 1: vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. All right, guys, here we are 1616 01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:24,320 Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Thursday. It's been 1617 01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:26,840 Speaker 1: a good days. 1618 01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:30,120 Speaker 7: All the perfect day for my ast junior, I said, 1619 01:25:30,280 --> 01:25:33,760 Speaker 7: was he was he a uh? Was he ever a 1620 01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,719 Speaker 7: New Edition fan of He was always joice? She said, 1621 01:25:36,720 --> 01:25:40,840 Speaker 7: when New Edition came out, he was four. They was 1622 01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:45,879 Speaker 7: on my TV show. Wow, say that that's crazy. 1623 01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,519 Speaker 12: Man, love New Edition. They could tour forever as far 1624 01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:50,480 Speaker 12: as concerned. 1625 01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:52,960 Speaker 2: No, and they still got it. 1626 01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:57,160 Speaker 1: Yes they do, oh buddy, And we still love Bobby 1627 01:25:57,200 --> 01:26:01,919 Speaker 1: Brown and all of them. Yeah, of course, Johnny, Frecky, 1628 01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:11,200 Speaker 1: Mike and Ralph of course Ralph. 1629 01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:16,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. All right, y'all. I got some closing remarks for you. 1630 01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:17,280 Speaker 8: All Right. 1631 01:26:17,920 --> 01:26:21,320 Speaker 7: It's something that I've learned over the years and I 1632 01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:25,599 Speaker 7: want to share it with you. And uh, I guess 1633 01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:29,640 Speaker 7: you know we were talking earlier, and I think the 1634 01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:32,679 Speaker 7: greatest lesson I learned in life was to walk away. 1635 01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:36,200 Speaker 7: You know, you can spend a lot of time with 1636 01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:41,000 Speaker 7: foolishness by staying in a place that don't respect you, 1637 01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:44,559 Speaker 7: that don't get you, that don't honor you, that don't 1638 01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:48,040 Speaker 7: value you. You can spend a lot of time trying 1639 01:26:48,080 --> 01:26:51,920 Speaker 7: to convince somebody of who you are me. 1640 01:26:53,400 --> 01:26:58,400 Speaker 2: I've learned to walk away. And you know something, I 1641 01:26:58,560 --> 01:27:00,600 Speaker 2: don't walk away now. I want you to hear what 1642 01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:03,880 Speaker 2: I'm saying to you now. I don't walk away to 1643 01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:08,840 Speaker 2: teach people a lesson. I walk away because I learned mine. 1644 01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,479 Speaker 2: That was the biggest thing I had to get. I 1645 01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:17,040 Speaker 2: do not walk away to teach people a lesson. I 1646 01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:18,960 Speaker 2: walk away because I learned mine. 1647 01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:24,840 Speaker 7: I would rather walk away and adjust to living with 1648 01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:30,599 Speaker 7: your absence that to stay over here, build up all 1649 01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:35,679 Speaker 7: these boundaries so I can exist in your disrespect. I'm 1650 01:27:35,760 --> 01:27:40,280 Speaker 7: not going to adjust my life anymore, set up all 1651 01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:44,320 Speaker 7: these boundaries so I can fit within your disrespect. 1652 01:27:45,240 --> 01:27:48,280 Speaker 2: I walk away, And let me tell you something, y'all. 1653 01:27:48,320 --> 01:27:49,879 Speaker 2: Walking away is not a weakness. 1654 01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:56,000 Speaker 7: It's actually strength because when you walk away, you can't 1655 01:27:56,120 --> 01:27:59,720 Speaker 7: lose what you never had. When you walk away, it 1656 01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:04,240 Speaker 7: mayom for greater things to come into your life. Sometimes 1657 01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,960 Speaker 7: you got to let go to grow. Sometimes you have 1658 01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:12,479 Speaker 7: to go to grow. Stop staying there thinking you you 1659 01:28:12,720 --> 01:28:17,120 Speaker 7: I'm biting in. I'm digging in for what You're trying 1660 01:28:17,160 --> 01:28:19,519 Speaker 7: to convince somebody of who you are, and they not 1661 01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:24,800 Speaker 7: trying to buy it. Stop selling it, Stop letting people 1662 01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:28,200 Speaker 7: devalue you, stop doing that. 1663 01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:29,320 Speaker 2: Know your worth. 1664 01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:30,360 Speaker 6: Move on. 1665 01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:33,800 Speaker 7: It's okay. So I'm not walking away to teach you 1666 01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:36,280 Speaker 7: a lesson. I'm walking away because I done learned. 1667 01:28:36,360 --> 01:28:36,679 Speaker 6: Mind. 1668 01:28:37,320 --> 01:28:41,760 Speaker 7: You ain't for me, you ain't with me, you don't 1669 01:28:41,840 --> 01:28:47,120 Speaker 7: want me, you don't value me. You keep trying to 1670 01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:49,120 Speaker 7: put who I am and what I am in your 1671 01:28:49,200 --> 01:28:50,120 Speaker 7: mental capacity. 1672 01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:50,960 Speaker 2: I ain't in that. 1673 01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:54,560 Speaker 7: It's a funny thing, man. I was dealing with this 1674 01:28:54,760 --> 01:29:00,120 Speaker 7: group one time in the government, a government agency, and 1675 01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:02,560 Speaker 7: I was talking to the higher ups and it was 1676 01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:06,719 Speaker 7: going really good. And then they said to me, well, 1677 01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:09,880 Speaker 7: I'm gonna put you with my team so they can 1678 01:29:09,960 --> 01:29:11,080 Speaker 7: analyze everything. 1679 01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:14,000 Speaker 2: And you know what they did. 1680 01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:18,120 Speaker 7: They put me with their team. But the team that 1681 01:29:18,240 --> 01:29:21,160 Speaker 7: they put me with, all those people sit in cubicles. 1682 01:29:23,360 --> 01:29:28,320 Speaker 7: I'm not a cubical person. You can't fit my ideas 1683 01:29:28,400 --> 01:29:30,920 Speaker 7: and dreams in your cubicle because a lot of times 1684 01:29:31,240 --> 01:29:33,680 Speaker 7: some people in cubicles can't see over the top of 1685 01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:37,719 Speaker 7: them cubicles. Some people just belong in a cubicle because 1686 01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:39,760 Speaker 7: they can't see over the top of it. They got 1687 01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:42,840 Speaker 7: their little computer, they got their little job description, and 1688 01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:45,559 Speaker 7: they sit in that cubicle and they operate as an 1689 01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:48,840 Speaker 7: expert in that cubicle. And then here you come with 1690 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:52,479 Speaker 7: a big idea, a better idea, and it's all outside 1691 01:29:52,560 --> 01:29:55,880 Speaker 7: their cubicle. But now they passing judgment. So now this 1692 01:29:56,040 --> 01:29:59,960 Speaker 7: person in a cubicle can't even understand the value the monetary, 1693 01:30:00,040 --> 01:30:03,720 Speaker 7: very value out and put on this deal, which is 1694 01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:06,880 Speaker 7: an amount of money they may never see. So now 1695 01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:10,360 Speaker 7: they sitting up been here looking at my idea, trying 1696 01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:13,240 Speaker 7: to get how they can fit my idea into their cubicle. 1697 01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:18,400 Speaker 2: It's time to walk away. It's time to walk away. 1698 01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,240 Speaker 2: And walking away, I ain't walking away to teach you 1699 01:30:21,360 --> 01:30:25,880 Speaker 2: no lesson. I'm walking away because I learned mine that 1700 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:26,840 Speaker 2: you don't get me. 1701 01:30:28,120 --> 01:30:31,840 Speaker 7: See y'all, when they don't get you, it's okay, go 1702 01:30:32,160 --> 01:30:39,240 Speaker 7: somewhere where they will, because somebody will get you. I 1703 01:30:39,360 --> 01:30:42,080 Speaker 7: don't know a lot of people who become famous at home. 1704 01:30:42,640 --> 01:30:46,560 Speaker 7: I just don't know a lot. I don't know a 1705 01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:49,920 Speaker 7: lot of people who get famous at home. It's too 1706 01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:50,439 Speaker 7: much hate. 1707 01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:52,280 Speaker 2: Who he think he is? Now? 1708 01:30:53,160 --> 01:30:55,160 Speaker 7: Why he over here talking like that? I remember when 1709 01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:57,400 Speaker 7: you were you just ride your bike in front of 1710 01:30:57,439 --> 01:31:00,360 Speaker 7: my house. Ain't nobody finn to pay you know, ten 1711 01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:03,439 Speaker 7: thousand dollars? What what is you talking about? How he 1712 01:31:03,520 --> 01:31:05,840 Speaker 7: gonna sit up in charge all that to come see him? 1713 01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:09,000 Speaker 7: Ain't that that little big little boy you sit on 1714 01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:12,640 Speaker 7: that porch down there? Ain't that ill baby? How he 1715 01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:13,880 Speaker 7: gonna sit up here and charge me? 1716 01:31:16,040 --> 01:31:16,160 Speaker 3: Now? 1717 01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:17,920 Speaker 7: The church I grew up in, why don't you come 1718 01:31:17,960 --> 01:31:21,160 Speaker 7: and bless us? Why don't you bless me? You know 1719 01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:24,200 Speaker 7: why I got to be in the blessing business. You 1720 01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:28,120 Speaker 7: make a church? You got four thousand members? Now why 1721 01:31:28,160 --> 01:31:30,200 Speaker 7: I got to come bless you? Why don't you bless me? 1722 01:31:30,800 --> 01:31:30,840 Speaker 11: You? 1723 01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:33,800 Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't know nobody got famous at home. I 1724 01:31:33,960 --> 01:31:37,720 Speaker 2: just don't. Sometimes you got to go to grow. Leave 1725 01:31:37,760 --> 01:31:40,240 Speaker 2: it alone, y'all walk away, and don't walk away to 1726 01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:43,080 Speaker 2: teach him a lesson? Walk away because you learned a lesson. 1727 01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:44,320 Speaker 1: Cool? 1728 01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:48,360 Speaker 7: Those are my clothes remarks. Y'all stay in peace today. Hey, 1729 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:51,960 Speaker 7: here's a big news. Talk to God today. He would 1730 01:31:51,960 --> 01:31:53,800 Speaker 7: absolutely love to hear from me. 1731 01:31:54,920 --> 01:31:56,760 Speaker 2: Man. I'm gonna say something to him in a few 1732 01:31:56,800 --> 01:31:57,559 Speaker 2: minutes myself. 1733 01:32:00,200 --> 01:32:03,640 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited 1734 01:32:03,680 --> 01:32:07,160 Speaker 1: participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1735 01:32:07,320 --> 01:32:11,520 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. 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