Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am
Speaker 2: Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 3: What's that? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you
Speaker 3: for being here.
Speaker 2: Yes once again once again? Yeah listen, they try to
Speaker 2: get rid of us.
Speaker 3: Here we are again. Did anybody really try to get
Speaker 3: rid of us? Oh? People try, they try, Yes, the takedown.
Speaker 3: Yeah listen.
Speaker 1: And that was actually so funny because that was actually
Speaker 1: my shady moment of the week. Like people literally listen
Speaker 1: to try to find things that we say to take
Speaker 1: us down. So this wasn't this week. This this came
Speaker 1: to my attention recently, but somebody recently told me, like,
Speaker 1: there's like at least one account that takes things that
Speaker 1: we say and reports on them on their YouTube page
Speaker 1: or their whatever whatever social media page that is it is,
Speaker 1: and tries to like drum up like, you know, hate.
Speaker 3: Us, hate for us.
Speaker 1: So this account, one of them was like, do you
Speaker 1: remember when I told the story about Corey opening the
Speaker 1: pringles container, tasting the pring on it with stale and
Speaker 1: put it back and target they literally took that, went
Speaker 1: to their YouTube and pretty much tried to like, you know,
Speaker 1: promote that. I'm like, you know, the one rob teaching
Speaker 1: their kids to be you.
Speaker 2: Know, I don't know, yeah, like stuff like that, Like
Speaker 2: are they trying to get you banned from Target?
Speaker 3: I don't write, I don't know. They're trying to get
Speaker 3: me banned from life?
Speaker 1: And it's just like insane, right, So I'm just like
Speaker 1: I want to actually send like thoughts of peace to
Speaker 1: these people because it's just like for you to live
Speaker 1: your life worrying about what other people were doing and
Speaker 1: having so much hate.
Speaker 3: They said this person like hates.
Speaker 2: Me, or well they want the clicks they're obviously are
Speaker 2: they trying to make money? They get a certain amount
Speaker 2: of views, right, I mean one watch.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I really, I really don't know what
Speaker 1: their ultimate intention is.
Speaker 3: Is it for money?
Speaker 1: Is it because you like really really really hate people
Speaker 1: and you want to see them, you know, be torn
Speaker 1: down and fail or whatever, But whatever it is, it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you need to release that negative toxicity
Speaker 1: in your in your life, in your brain and your
Speaker 1: mind and your hate that you have for other people
Speaker 1: and just release it.
Speaker 3: So I mean, I offer.
Speaker 1: Peace to that person or whatever I wish you peace,
Speaker 1: I wish you, you know, peace of mind, all that
Speaker 1: type of stuff.
Speaker 3: But yeah, it's like real shady, Like there's actually the shade.
Speaker 1: It's like people actually listen to our podcast not because
Speaker 1: they like us, but because they hate us and they.
Speaker 2: Want to take our words and use them against that.
Speaker 2: And I'm saying I'm here for that. Keep listening, I
Speaker 2: mean right, keep listening.
Speaker 1: But like realize, like we don't take ourselves too seriously,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So if I'm sitting here
Speaker 1: telling you the stories because I don't take myself or
Speaker 1: life too seriously.
Speaker 3: So if you want me to go to.
Speaker 1: Jail because my son target jail, yes, because my son
Speaker 1: opened a can of Pringles and realized they were stale
Speaker 1: and didn't want them. Because Pringle's been ficking up on
Speaker 1: the damn on their quality lately.
Speaker 3: Like you know, have at it.
Speaker 1: But actually just look inside yourself, ask why do you
Speaker 1: do this to other people?
Speaker 2: You're offering peace to them. I want them to get
Speaker 2: kicked in the butt. I want them to trip on
Speaker 2: the curb. I want them to lose their lunch, I
Speaker 2: want them to get a high in the face.
Speaker 3: I want a whole lot of things for them. Okay,
Speaker 3: not peace, have nothing to do with peace. Listen.
Speaker 1: It is nothing better than the feeling of, like releasing
Speaker 1: all types of all negative and toxic energy.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like I just I remember years ago, when I was younger,
Speaker 1: the day that I actually said, you know what, I
Speaker 1: am not letting negativity or toxicity consume me. Ever, And
Speaker 1: there's a no better feeling than releasing that energy as
Speaker 1: soon as it comes your way. Yes, it's freeing, Yes,
Speaker 1: extremely freeing. So yes, you want them to get kicked
Speaker 1: in the butt. I want people to experience what it
Speaker 1: feels like to release toxic energy.
Speaker 3: Toxic. I love that negativity, negative thoughts.
Speaker 2: I love that, okay, okay, And that's why you're Robin
Speaker 2: Dixon exactly. Yes, okay, I love that. Well, that is
Speaker 2: your shady moment, whether you know it or not, and
Speaker 2: mine would be.
Speaker 3: So a couple things. I have a very nice thing
Speaker 3: to report.
Speaker 2: So a couple of weeks ago I talked about cal
Speaker 2: gave me a plant from my dad. I planted it myself,
Speaker 2: and I realized where I planted it, it wasn't getting
Speaker 2: a lot of sunlight. Even though the deer ate the leaves,
Speaker 2: and anybody who wants to shoot the deer have at it.
Speaker 2: An when people don't come after me. And so my
Speaker 2: landscapers were at my house and they were like planning
Speaker 2: new bushes all around.
Speaker 3: I said, you're about to do some lands gaving out here.
Speaker 1: Yes, speaking of landscaper's. My landscaper wants to take you
Speaker 1: out on a date, the one that doesn't wash his body.
Speaker 3: What okay? And you're condoning this. I just I'm passing
Speaker 3: the message. You're being his wing woman. You like me,
Speaker 3: you like to go on dates, not with people who
Speaker 3: don't shower. I'm passing the message. That was it. Okay,
Speaker 3: if he showers, I told him I couldn't promise anything.
Speaker 2: If he showers for two weeks consecutively, I'll think about it. Okay,
Speaker 2: but it's got to be a good fourteen days okay,
Speaker 2: every day at least once, not twice once okay, okay, afterwork,
Speaker 2: right after yes, afterwork. He need's clean balls and penis.
Speaker 3: Okay. All right.
Speaker 2: So the landscapers came and I was like, you know what, guys,
Speaker 2: and oh, they were putting down new bushes because the
Speaker 2: deer had eaten up the other ones, and I was like, hey, guys,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm thinking I need this plant moved to
Speaker 2: be in more sun.
Speaker 3: Right. They said, okay, okay, we'll do it as a
Speaker 3: Japanese maple.
Speaker 2: They knew okay, from the stick with no leaves, they
Speaker 2: knew it was a Japanese mape. I was like, yeallow,
Speaker 2: is some badas I know. So they were at my
Speaker 2: house all day. Now, I don't know how you get
Speaker 2: charged for your landscaper. I get charged by every fifteen minutes.
Speaker 3: Legit, shit is expense. Yes, so every fifteen minutes is
Speaker 3: a fee fifteen Are you serious? Yes?
Speaker 2: They break it down in fifteen minute increments because if
Speaker 2: it's if it's just regular cutting the grass, sometimes that
Speaker 2: takes eight minutes because they zoom zoom and they're done. Okay,
Speaker 2: so it's fifteen minutes increment. Okay, Oh my god, Okay,
Speaker 2: that's insane. They're at my house for hours. They would lunch,
Speaker 2: they came back. They're at my house for hours. They
Speaker 2: moved the plant and good, this is not shady yet,
Speaker 2: not getting to the shady part yet. There are leaves
Speaker 2: growing from my plant. That means, okay, it's doing good.
Speaker 3: It's doing good.
Speaker 2: Okay, my dad is doing good in the ground. They
Speaker 2: were at my house. This was probably Tuesday. They were all,
Speaker 2: damn day, they're gonna give me a big ass bill.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's gonna be big. Thursday, these people came back again.
Speaker 3: I said, hell, no, no, you're not. I looked at it.
Speaker 3: I went outside. I looked at them.
Speaker 2: They came back just to like, quote cut grass. No fools,
Speaker 2: y'all did that two days ago. Get away from my
Speaker 2: house and don't charge me for this fifteen minutes and
Speaker 2: get away.
Speaker 3: They were shady. Try it. Yeah, oh yeah, they try it.
Speaker 1: They they try it because they gotta get it in
Speaker 1: because they're gonna have a nice time period when they're
Speaker 1: not doing any work, right, So that's why they got
Speaker 1: to like, well, they got a cutch of grass.
Speaker 2: As many times as they can, but they get it
Speaker 2: in with the leaves, the picking up of the leaves,
Speaker 2: which I need, so they get it in kind of
Speaker 2: like that way. But no, no, what we're not doing.
Speaker 2: We're gonna you're gonna double back. You're gonna twice a
Speaker 2: week meat, don't you twice a week?
Speaker 3: Meat?
Speaker 2: No, get out of here anyway, guys won a little
Speaker 2: more reminder that the Real Housewife as the Potomaca. We'll
Speaker 2: be back on November fifth, eight o'clock. It's going down.
Speaker 3: Ravo season eight, baby woo.
Speaker 1: How do you feel season eight? Just like I felt
Speaker 1: season one? Like actual, well not just like I felt.
Speaker 1: So season one was definitely like a.
Speaker 3: Like an unknown, like, yeah, we didn't really know what
Speaker 3: to expect, right right?
Speaker 1: We know now we know now, yes, but see, but
Speaker 1: it is similar season one because even every season I'm
Speaker 1: just like how did I get here? And I still
Speaker 1: eight seasons later and like how did I get here?
Speaker 1: Like it's very weird to me, but it has very
Speaker 1: much become a part of my life. Yes, even though
Speaker 1: it's like a part of my life that I don't,
Speaker 1: don't let it define my life. Yeah, and I'm still
Speaker 1: you know, grateful for it, but I'm still also like
Speaker 1: how did I get here?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I can say for you you have settled in, like
Speaker 2: you're like, because for like six seasons, Robin was one
Speaker 2: foot in, one foot out, like she was like I'm out.
Speaker 3: Here, I can't do this, this is so horrible.
Speaker 2: But like you've like settled in. You're like, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: I guess I'm on TV.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I guess I've now accepted, like, Okay, this
Speaker 1: is what I do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is yes, this is actually what you do,
Speaker 2: and you have the tax bracket to show. Right, Okay,
Speaker 2: moving on, I want to talk about a couple of
Speaker 2: things that are on television. Okay, well, well, actually this
Speaker 2: is not on television. Oh, this is social media. I
Speaker 2: have to say that I've been being I've been entertained
Speaker 2: by Shannon Sharp and Chad Ocho Cinco.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've come across them. I've only crawled across
Speaker 1: from one time. So what are they?
Speaker 3: I think it's.
Speaker 2: Called I think it's the the The podcast is called
Speaker 2: Nightcap maybe, okay, maybe, but it's like Shannon. You know,
Speaker 2: Shannon Sharp has his own I guess show, so this
Speaker 2: is separate from that. Yeah, And I think he had Todd.
Speaker 2: I mean I had Chad as a guest, and I
Speaker 2: think it like really went well because they battle each other.
Speaker 2: And so I think this is like a reincurr thing
Speaker 2: I've seen. And the only reason why I really know
Speaker 2: because the guys have on different clothes. I've seen maybe
Speaker 2: five clips with different clothes those different occasions.
Speaker 3: They are so freaking funny. Like they're they're a good duo.
Speaker 2: They are amazing, so I want to like recommend them.
Speaker 2: I can't figure if I'm team Shannon or team chat right.
Speaker 3: But why don't be team either one?
Speaker 2: Because they're both telling each other to shut the f up? Yeah,
Speaker 2: so you know you want you want to like root
Speaker 2: for one, right o?
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but.
Speaker 2: They're both full of like they both are talk about
Speaker 2: like how amazing they are, right, and they're like trying
Speaker 2: to battle each other about how amazing they are, which
Speaker 2: is hilarious.
Speaker 3: Right, But are they so the topic mostly sports?
Speaker 2: It's sports, it's women, it's just what you do on
Speaker 2: an average day.
Speaker 3: It's just kind of like what we do, yeah, minus sports. Yeah,
Speaker 3: they're funny guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And guys are hilarious to watch, like debates, yes,
Speaker 1: because they go who hard.
Speaker 2: Power. But what I do like about guys going back
Speaker 2: and forth out outside of women because we don't know
Speaker 2: how to do this. They listen and they talk about
Speaker 2: what they've just heard as opposed to talking about as
Speaker 2: supposed to name calling.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the guys they don't have to throw insults in
Speaker 1: they literally stick to the topic.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 1: And they are very passionate about their topic, right, and
Speaker 1: they go they can go back and.
Speaker 3: Forth and back.
Speaker 1: It's so funny because I because this happens a lot
Speaker 1: in my house with Wand and his his buddies and
Speaker 1: his friends and his brothers and cousins and all that.
Speaker 1: So they start off and they're like strongly debating a topic, right,
Speaker 1: and it's usually sports centered related to sports. And the
Speaker 1: longer they go, the more they're saying the same thing.
Speaker 2: Oh and right, they're not really debating anymore because they agree, yes, yes,
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like y'all are these same things, and
Speaker 2: y'all are still going back and forth and arguing like
Speaker 2: you're debating.
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is so insane to me. Yeah, it's
Speaker 3: so funny. Yes, and they don't. You know, guys, they don't.
Speaker 2: They if they are mad each other, they'll make up
Speaker 2: in like seventeen seconds. What.
Speaker 1: And it's so funny. Like a lot of my personality
Speaker 1: and the way that I handle things is because I
Speaker 1: have literally been around guys my entire life. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: between my brother, my you know, Wan, his teammates, his brothers,
Speaker 1: his younger cousins like all, and I've literally like been
Speaker 1: around this though, like all the time, and so when
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with women and they can't, it's like I'm
Speaker 1: more like straightforward, yes, and they can't handle it. And
Speaker 1: then and then it you know, it's like you know,
Speaker 1: and guys crack on each other, like they don't throw
Speaker 1: all the insults, but they just joke and crack on
Speaker 1: each other. It's like, it's hard for me to deal
Speaker 1: with women who are sensitive to like straightforwardness and like joking. Right,
Speaker 1: so they try to say your jokes that funny, right, right,
Speaker 1: you're bullying, You're being a bully, being a bully.
Speaker 3: Or stuff like, and it's like, no.
Speaker 1: I'm actually just doing with the what I'm used to,
Speaker 1: like what I've what I'm used to all the time.
Speaker 3: We need to retire that word bully needs to be retired.
Speaker 3: It really does. Let it go. It does ship. It
Speaker 3: was something I wanted to say. Okay, so as you're
Speaker 3: thinking about that.
Speaker 1: Oh, speaking of podcasts, Yes, we just did a little,
Speaker 1: a little an interview with little Duval, Yes, who has
Speaker 1: a podcast coming out. It's not released yet, but we
Speaker 1: just want to share the experience with you all because and.
Speaker 2: If y'all don't know who he is he don't have
Speaker 2: time to go back and forth with you. He's living
Speaker 2: his best life, right, Okay, Yes, he's I don't know
Speaker 2: what would you call what You wouldn't call him a
Speaker 2: singer or a rapper's he's more of a comedian.
Speaker 3: He's a comedian. Yeah, he goes on tour. Oh okay,
Speaker 3: he's more of a comedian. Okay.
Speaker 1: And then you know now he has like a strong
Speaker 1: inner Instagram presence. He did you know that little that
Speaker 1: viral song in the dance?
Speaker 2: Right? Was it the song to the to Drake's song,
Speaker 2: Oh the dance, key key, yeah dance?
Speaker 3: How did he make that dance viral? He started?
Speaker 2: Then we're gonna come back to Drake in a minute,
Speaker 2: because Drake just dropped some new songs.
Speaker 3: Our new album, and we're gonna we're gonna get to that.
Speaker 3: But yes, what podcast?
Speaker 1: So, so, he has a new podcast coming out it's
Speaker 1: yet to be named. However, we were a guest on it,
Speaker 1: and he's he's a fellow Black Effect Network talent. Shout
Speaker 1: out yeah black So we were on the podcast, and
Speaker 1: so when we start off, he's kind of like he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know who y'all.
Speaker 3: Are and we was like, we don't know you either.
Speaker 1: So he's like, so, y'all introduce y'allselves, tell me and
Speaker 1: tell me about yourselves.
Speaker 3: He smoked like eighteen blunts the whole time.
Speaker 1: Yes, So it's so funny because you know, we just
Speaker 1: we were just being ourselves, doing our thing, and by
Speaker 1: the end of the interview, he's like, man, I like y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all hood y'all like talking to y'all hang out.
Speaker 2: Actually, he said he would hang out with Robins. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he would have with me, right, and that's fine. I'm
Speaker 2: fine now. He said, Robin's cooler than me. He would
Speaker 2: like to hang out with both of us, but Robin's
Speaker 2: more laid back, right, which she is.
Speaker 3: But then he understood why you sell and our friends. Yes,
Speaker 3: because you need because we balance each other. Yeah, you need,
Speaker 3: you need to combo. Yeah, but we will let y'all
Speaker 3: know when it or just be looking out for when
Speaker 3: that episode drops.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was just cool because it's like, it
Speaker 1: was cool to talk to someone who has absolutely no
Speaker 1: idea who we are and we're just literally talking to
Speaker 1: him about I mean, we could we get juicy and spicy, Yes,
Speaker 1: you know, advice relationship stuff, sex, whatever, and it's just
Speaker 1: really cool just to talk to someone and they just
Speaker 1: they form their own opinion of us based on their
Speaker 1: interaction with us. Not We didn't talk about the TV
Speaker 1: show nothing because he ain't never watching, He don't know
Speaker 1: nothing about.
Speaker 3: It or cared. He doesn't care at all.
Speaker 2: Okay, So what a show on Netflix that I want
Speaker 2: to tell y'all about, because you know y'all always asking
Speaker 2: what am I watching? And it kind of caught me
Speaker 2: off guard because I had my own speaking of like prejudging.
Speaker 2: I had my own prejudgment of these people, one person
Speaker 2: in particular. Anyway, the Beckham story that's on Netflix.
Speaker 3: Have you seen it?
Speaker 2: I haven't watched yet, but you saw that as advertised
Speaker 2: or whatever. David Beckham. Hm, he is a mate sing
Speaker 2: and I mean, yes, he looks good and all that,
Speaker 2: but like he's a bad mamma jama.
Speaker 3: Really what he had.
Speaker 2: To go through in order to not not in order
Speaker 2: to get to where he is now, but just like
Speaker 2: what he went through.
Speaker 3: You have to see it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, because because this was before social media, this
Speaker 2: was before people could kind of bully you through typing things.
Speaker 2: He was getting spitting face he's walking through.
Speaker 3: Why because the soccer fans are so hardcore.
Speaker 2: Yes, and he did like one move in one game
Speaker 2: and he got red carded.
Speaker 3: It read something he had.
Speaker 2: To leave the game. That means they have to play
Speaker 2: one man down, right, and the entire country spin on him. Right.
Speaker 2: They were hanging up effigies of like David Beckham dolls
Speaker 2: like he couldn't go outside, right. I don't doubt I've
Speaker 2: ever talked about it, just because I can't. I wasn't eating,
Speaker 2: I wasn't sleeping. It took a toll on me that
Speaker 2: I never even knew myself. Okay, So that's actually not
Speaker 2: who I prejudged. I prejudged his wife, Okay, Okay, that's
Speaker 2: Victoria Posh Spice. And I never really like I guess
Speaker 2: I didn't know enough about her, but I kind of
Speaker 2: thought she was a little snootye yeah, distant aloof all
Speaker 2: the things. Like I got a different a different view
Speaker 2: of her. I understand her much better. I like them together, okay,
Speaker 2: And I'm happy that they've, you know, been able to
Speaker 2: maintain a family unit for so long.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And I love me some David Beckham. Okay, he
Speaker 3: is the main that is.
Speaker 1: So funny that you say that, because I just went
Speaker 1: out to lunch with some girlfriends over the weekend and
Speaker 1: we were going around just talking about, you know, the
Speaker 1: guys that would get the Hall passes or whatever.
Speaker 3: They said David Beckham. Yeah, they were like, oh that David.
Speaker 3: You know what.
Speaker 2: I never put him on my list, really, no, yeah,
Speaker 2: but I think I would have got about him. But
Speaker 2: I do remember years ago being like, oh yeah, now
Speaker 2: he I didn't know he's part owner of that Miami
Speaker 2: were a messy place. Yes, yeah, which is that's an
Speaker 2: amazing end to his story, right, yeah, oh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's awesome. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, speaking of Netflix, I'm gonna need for this strike
Speaker 1: to end. Why because now like there's you know, no
Speaker 1: new it's end. It ended though, didn't it. No, the
Speaker 1: writer strike ended, okay, so the actor strike has not.
Speaker 1: So now that the writer strike is over, okay, we
Speaker 1: need the actors strike to end so that we can
Speaker 1: get some like new American created filmed content because I
Speaker 1: don't know if you've noticed on Netflix now it's like
Speaker 1: all these like it's like new shows, but when you
Speaker 1: watch them, they're actually dubbed or whatever. Yes, they're foreign
Speaker 1: shows and they write they dubbed the English language over it,
Speaker 1: and it's just it's so distracting to me. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like watching their lips move and they're totally not lining
Speaker 1: up with.
Speaker 3: The Yeah with the words.
Speaker 2: Somebody told me that you could change your settings and
Speaker 2: get the English version, like you know, subtitled okay, way
Speaker 2: you can.
Speaker 1: Hear it, so you would listen to them in their
Speaker 1: language and then just read the subtitles. Yeah, yeah, you
Speaker 1: can probably do that. But for me, I'm just like, okay,
Speaker 1: and it there's just so many more of those shows
Speaker 1: on now, and it was like I had the aha moment.
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's why all these here, because
Speaker 1: they don't have any new contents put out because of
Speaker 1: the strikes.
Speaker 2: I don't think they're coming back until January, right, the strike.
Speaker 1: You don't think the strike will be over until January
Speaker 1: or so? No, I mean I think they're trying to
Speaker 1: negotiate every day. Oh really yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So the writers like the ones that can get back
Speaker 1: to work, they're the ones that work on like, you know,
Speaker 1: the the talk shows and stuff. Yeah, but as far
Speaker 1: as like, I don't know, I guess writers can write
Speaker 1: scripts and stuff, but as far as anyone acting, it's
Speaker 1: still not happening.
Speaker 3: Switching gears.
Speaker 2: Do you remember a couple of weeks ago when we
Speaker 2: had an alert, a national alert. Do you know how
Speaker 2: any people got busted in the jails. They got busted
Speaker 2: in jails. They got in the Amish in the Amish
Speaker 2: Oh really country, not Amash country, in the Amish Land, Yeah,
Speaker 2: Amish country.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 2: There was so many of them that had a phone
Speaker 2: and they're swearing that they don't have any electricity, need
Speaker 2: modern tech.
Speaker 3: Lollie and y'all all all.
Speaker 2: Y'all's phones went off with the hilarious that is insane,
Speaker 2: that's so funny. What was weird to me was it
Speaker 2: was not timed. I mean, I don't want to say
Speaker 2: it was not timed synchronized. It was not synchronized, like
Speaker 2: I was like two minutes after somebody. I was talking
Speaker 2: to somebody on the phone and they were like two
Speaker 2: minutes before me, and then mine went off and then.
Speaker 3: So it was like a wave. They did in a wave,
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 2: So it was staggered, or maybe it was per Maybe
Speaker 2: it's based on your cell phone, your carrier, yeah, could
Speaker 2: have been your carrier.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's funny. I read that.
Speaker 1: When I saw that the inmates were getting busted, that
Speaker 1: was hilarious.
Speaker 2: That was like, so then what happens do you have
Speaker 2: to go to the to the dungeon when you get
Speaker 2: to just confiscated. I mean they probably just confiscated and
Speaker 2: that's it. But do you get like penalized for you
Speaker 2: talk to the already in jail?
Speaker 3: What more do you need? Nothing else? Okay?
Speaker 2: So how excited are we about? Because this is like
Speaker 2: now fall. It's like the weather's changing. If you come
Speaker 2: to Robin's house, she has now like you know, Robin's
Speaker 2: house is very decorated.
Speaker 3: She is missed. Decor's not not not like that? No,
Speaker 3: you like you like decor? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So like outside she has like a nice pretty
Speaker 2: fall read yes, and like yes door green or yeah
Speaker 2: my outdoor decor yes, and planters with nice it's very nice.
Speaker 2: You took a picture and post it?
Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah.
Speaker 2: Anyway, yeah, I'm not done either, you know, I want
Speaker 2: to like add some more around it.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So I went to Trader Joe's and I I hadn't
Speaker 2: gone there in a while, and I was like, oh man,
Speaker 2: they got all the pumpkin stuff out.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was I was with Angel, I was literally no
Speaker 2: a door. I was literally throwing in the basket anything
Speaker 2: that said pumpkin, pumpkin bread mix and oh my god,
Speaker 2: pumpkin oatmeal, and I mean pumpkin anything. I'm just throwing
Speaker 2: in the basket. I can't stand pumpkin anything.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 2: I loved all the pump pumpkin spice stuff. Yes, half
Speaker 2: of this shit tasted horror. I was so mad at
Speaker 2: my no surprise, no pumpkin seed bark that tasted like
Speaker 2: dog food like it was horrible.
Speaker 3: What was I thinking? No surprise.
Speaker 1: I think the only thing that probably tastes good to
Speaker 1: people is those pumpkin spice lattest Yeah from Starbucks.
Speaker 3: I've never had one, well and I refuse really yeah.
Speaker 2: But okay, so there. But there is tat have you been?
Speaker 2: A Tata is a bakery and it's not a bakery,
Speaker 2: it's like a restaurant in it was won by me.
Speaker 2: There's some in DC and every seasonally they have this
Speaker 2: like lemon pound cake. That's amazing, that sounds good, it's amazing,
Speaker 2: I approve. Okay, and if you get a piece to
Speaker 2: give you a big, huge thick slice, okay, so good
Speaker 2: sounds good, but seasonally, when it's this time of year,
Speaker 2: they changed it to a gingerbread cake, which is just
Speaker 2: it's not good.
Speaker 3: Gross. It's I don't want to say gross. I want
Speaker 3: to say, it's not my cup of tea.
Speaker 1: No, it's like to the spices for the fall, like
Speaker 1: the pumpkin the gingerbread.
Speaker 3: It's too fragrant, you know what I'm saying. I don't know.
Speaker 3: You know, you feel like you're eating perfume kind of. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's never good.
Speaker 1: Like I don't like I don't like all that stuff,
Speaker 1: sweet potato pie.
Speaker 2: You don't like sweet potato. No, I don't like nutmeg. Okay,
Speaker 2: well you like eggnogs like all that stuff. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: not out yet, it's coming.
Speaker 1: Up, it's coming. But that's along the same lines. Really,
Speaker 1: I think of like ginger, gingerbread and nut and eggnog
Speaker 1: down like they go together.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, any of that. I want to switch gears
Speaker 2: again because we going back to Drake. So Drake has
Speaker 2: some new music out, yes, and it's dog shit?
Speaker 3: Is that what it's called? What it is?
Speaker 1: It's called all something all the dogs, but the music
Speaker 1: is dog shit.
Speaker 2: Okay, Now this caveat disclaimer Robin's a Drake fan, I'm
Speaker 2: not okay, And if Robin says.
Speaker 1: It's dog shit, yes, this is terrible. I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: you know me, I'm the one. I need to give
Speaker 1: it a little bit more time. I don't know how
Speaker 1: I felt about Beyonce Renaissance when it first came out.
Speaker 3: Yes, that had to grow on me.
Speaker 1: Okay, but this here is a different situation. He should
Speaker 1: have left all of the songs. Yeah, almost all of
Speaker 1: them in the draft folder.
Speaker 3: Like okay.
Speaker 2: So my kids brought it to my attention that he
Speaker 2: has new music out, and so you know, a door
Speaker 2: was especially was like.
Speaker 3: I listened to all of it. Some of it is fire.
Speaker 2: She starts telling me all the collapse that he has
Speaker 2: and then she was like and adonysis on it and
Speaker 2: she was like, you know, mom, like yeah no, but
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna talk about it by his kid.
Speaker 2: So I said, what, Like his kid is like ten, right, six,
Speaker 2: six years old?
Speaker 3: Six? So I said, let me hear that part. So
Speaker 3: she pulled it up and he was like, my man,
Speaker 3: my man, my man, my man, my man, my man,
Speaker 3: my man. And I'm not making fun of him, but
Speaker 3: I'm making fun of him.
Speaker 1: What in the world, right, So is that Drake trying
Speaker 1: to be like Beyonce? You know, Beyonce had Blue Ivy.
Speaker 1: This is the first thing that I thought, and that's
Speaker 1: what I said to a door. I was like, he's
Speaker 1: trying to keep up with Beyonce Jay, Right, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm going to assume or when you're an artist, that
Speaker 1: you're in the studio, and sometimes you bring your kids
Speaker 1: to the studio, right, because so they can experience, or
Speaker 1: because you don't have babysitter or whatever.
Speaker 3: It's so.
Speaker 1: Donna's probably got on the microphone, you know, just playing around, right,
Speaker 1: And then Drake thought.
Speaker 2: Oh, that would be cute. Let me put this in
Speaker 2: a song. But it's like I think he wanted to
Speaker 2: establish a trust fund for him. So he like, because
Speaker 2: you know, he's not going to get money, he's not
Speaker 2: going to get paid for that portion.
Speaker 3: But that but the songs are trash, so he's not
Speaker 3: going to get paid that much. Not the song is trash.
Speaker 2: You heard it first, Drake said, your ship is trashy?
Speaker 3: How you tell it? On okay? Wait?
Speaker 1: Did you see how it's so funny? Like people were
Speaker 1: like criticizing Drake's album and then he's like literally getting
Speaker 1: in his feelings and going on Instagram and posting stories
Speaker 1: about the people and stuff like.
Speaker 2: Dude, dude, Him and Joe Button went back and forth
Speaker 2: and I don't know if y'all know who he is,
Speaker 2: but he has like a podcast show. Joe said it
Speaker 2: was trash, and then like Drake was like upset with
Speaker 2: him and like went to his DMS and was kind
Speaker 2: of like why you have to say that, Like like,
Speaker 2: but then trash Joe, Like you live in an apartment,
Speaker 2: I have a mansion, I have planes, and.
Speaker 3: You don't even have a scooter. Like it was just
Speaker 3: all this nonsense.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine if we went at everyone to criticize us.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm coming for all the people that are mad
Speaker 2: about something that I said on de Reil Housewives.
Speaker 3: I'm coming for y'all. That's so insane to.
Speaker 2: Me, Like I'm on, I'm a DM, y'all come like,
Speaker 2: come on, Drake, Yeah, you cannot sit here and be
Speaker 2: worrying about what people are saying. Then he said he
Speaker 2: was going to retire it, right, and you know what
Speaker 2: everybody said, good if this mat which you're going to
Speaker 2: be putting out, then good. Yeah, Okay, I need just rewind.
Speaker 2: What's the name of the CD or the something like
Speaker 2: All the Dogs. It's called all the Dogs something. Hold on,
Speaker 2: let me look it up. And Robin said his dog shit, Yes,
Speaker 2: and it is dogshit. Let me say, hold on a Drake,
Speaker 2: it is poor Drake for all the Dogs. Oh and
Speaker 2: the album cover is like maybe his maybe his son
Speaker 2: drew that. So now we have to give him what
Speaker 2: is it? Vocal credit and artistry credit to Adonnas. Yes, okay,
Speaker 2: there are twenty three songs on this like why my Man,
Speaker 2: My Man, My Man. That's gonna be the name of
Speaker 2: this episode. We're gonna get so much trouble for trashing
Speaker 2: a six year.
Speaker 1: Old, but we're not trashing six years we're trashing the
Speaker 1: father's decision to put yes a random you know audio track.
Speaker 3: Okay, So in twenty twenty seven, Robin, there will be
Speaker 3: hotels in outer space. It will not be according to
Speaker 3: whom according to this article right here.
Speaker 2: Okay, so there's gonna so if there is hotels and
Speaker 2: the first ever hotel in space is set to open
Speaker 2: in the year twenty twenty seven. Okay, what so if
Speaker 2: this happens, ever, would you want to stay?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: In outer space. No a bed and breakfast, no Airbnb.
Speaker 2: No you're not going.
Speaker 3: It's not happening. Okay, it's not happening. Okay are you sure? Yes? Okay?
Speaker 2: Because the Space Safe Station will have room for twenty
Speaker 2: eight occupants at a time. And they said that Hilton
Speaker 2: will design, you know, Hilton hotels. They will design the
Speaker 2: interior of the space station and it's going to be
Speaker 2: a luxurious experience.
Speaker 1: Where is it just floating around in outer space? Is
Speaker 1: it docked somewhere?
Speaker 3: I think it's it's on the float. It's floating. It's
Speaker 3: the Orbital Assembly.
Speaker 4: A company called Orbital Assembly is behind the development. Like
Speaker 4: most luxury hotels, there are showers and beds and restaurants.
Speaker 4: But unlike most hotels, the views of the Solar System
Speaker 4: are just beyond belief.
Speaker 1: Telp them get out of here with this, Like, use
Speaker 1: your money, seriously, use your money somewhere else, right, okay,
Speaker 1: Like there's so many people, so many communities, countries, causes
Speaker 1: that need money. We don't need a floating hotel.
Speaker 3: In outer space. No, we don't. But guess who's building this?
Speaker 3: I guess Elon Musk. Who is this?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: Oh oh, we're gonna talk about Elon Musk. Okay.
Speaker 2: So the person that's building this, I would assume that
Speaker 2: they have to work with NASA maybe, but Hilton has
Speaker 2: something to do with it. This is ridiculous because they're
Speaker 2: going to outfit it and make it look very hotel ish.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Speaking of people that need money, Soldier.
Speaker 3: Boy would be on that list.
Speaker 2: Soldier Boy was in debt to the ir rest or
Speaker 2: something like five hundred thousand dollars something something crazy. Anyway,
Speaker 2: there was a lawsuit that his ex, he like his
Speaker 2: ex sued him.
Speaker 3: Y'all know who Soldier Boy is. Yeah, Soldier Boy. Well
Speaker 3: watch me.
Speaker 1: What's what remind us of the song you You?
Speaker 3: You? Is that the only song? Though? One hit? Wonder? No,
Speaker 3: he's got several songs.
Speaker 2: Okay, but he he said he started rapping, like Soldier
Speaker 2: Boy takes wants to take credit for everything. He started rapping.
Speaker 2: He invented it, he invented everything.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Soldier Boy has to pay his ex five hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: Okay, he doesn't have the money to pay her.
Speaker 2: So you know what the judge said, she could do
Speaker 2: what come to his house and pick up whatever is
Speaker 2: worth value to five hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 3: Okay, he had like a.
Speaker 2: Lambeau, a bends, some gold chains, some diamonds.
Speaker 3: She cleared him out, really cleared him out.
Speaker 1: Okay, is this a baby mama? Why is she getting money?
Speaker 1: They weren't were they married?
Speaker 2: I know they weren't married, So I don't support this.
Speaker 3: This is the judge doesn't like soldier boy.
Speaker 2: And the judge said, clear his ands out, okay, And
Speaker 2: she came and took it all. Her name is Kayla Wires,
Speaker 2: I think, okay, and she came and took it off.
Speaker 2: So a chain worth ten thousand, black cardier, watch worth
Speaker 2: eight She took three cars value at two hundred and
Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars eighteen thousand dollarsand jewelry fifty thousand dollars
Speaker 2: in stock.
Speaker 3: This is insane, Yes, that is insane. But what is
Speaker 3: it for?
Speaker 2: She he owed her some money, and so I listen.
Speaker 3: I don't know the particulars.
Speaker 2: All I know is he didn't made a judge man,
Speaker 2: because that judge said right clean hiss. That is literally
Speaker 2: taken him to the cleaners.
Speaker 3: That's insane. That's I feel sorry for him. I don't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not he did not win. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: he needs to try to make another one hit wonder
Speaker 2: Oh Bobby you.
Speaker 3: Yes, because we haven't heard from a long time, so
Speaker 3: you need to get back in the studio. He wasn't
Speaker 3: he bragging about how Richie was at one point? Yes, yeah,
Speaker 3: he has more mo than anybody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he invented rapping, yes and speaking. And he
Speaker 2: hates Drake by the way, because remember he went to
Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 3: And he was like Drake.
Speaker 2: Oh, because because Charlemagne tried to say that he stole
Speaker 2: Drake's lyric or something right, and he was like Drake, Drake,
Speaker 2: oh that, And he had on he might need to
Speaker 2: beg Drake to put him on his album now, yes, yes,
Speaker 2: And he had on this like Gucci headband and it
Speaker 2: was like he had worn it fifty thousand times.
Speaker 3: It was a mess. I am the worst. Okay, that's
Speaker 3: how hor I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like we see the story so much, the
Speaker 1: fall from Grace or you know, the entertainers, rappers, sports
Speaker 1: athletes whatever that. You know, I have a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of money and then it's just like gone, gone like that,
Speaker 1: It's gone, Like I hate that.
Speaker 3: Okay, So back on very important news that we need
Speaker 3: to know about. Mario Lopez is very upset.
Speaker 2: Why because the California governor, who I love, he was
Speaker 2: a cutie buy who you know, might be my hall pass.
Speaker 3: He could get it. He signed a Skittles band.
Speaker 2: He's requiring companies to remove harmful ingredients in three years
Speaker 2: from Skittles, from hot Cheetos, and from a couple of food.
Speaker 3: Coloring whatever it's it's a certain one.
Speaker 2: It's called red dye number three, potassium bromate, bromated vegetable
Speaker 2: oil and pro for our beans.
Speaker 1: Okayans, How can the California governor regulate that? Oh he's saying,
Speaker 1: you can't sell it in the state of California. No,
Speaker 1: you can't sell it in state of California. So all
Speaker 1: of these things are banned in thirty countries, oh, outside
Speaker 1: of the United States. So the majority of food and
Speaker 1: the rest of the world, yes, doesn't have all this bullshit.
Speaker 3: Cleaner, healthier, Yes.
Speaker 2: When I went to Italy this summer, I ate pasta
Speaker 2: every day right like e, morning, noon and night.
Speaker 3: And I lost.
Speaker 2: Weight then gain No way, I lost weight. Ry that
Speaker 2: should tell us something. Yeah, yeah, I brought back the pasta.
Speaker 3: I brought some there. Oh, I had it shipped over here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the only pasta that I'm gonna eat, because
Speaker 2: you know, you brought that much back. I brought back enough, okay,
Speaker 2: and I don't really eat pasta off oh okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So I'm just trying to figure out why we got
Speaker 2: to wait three years in order to take it, take
Speaker 2: these things, or get these things clean up.
Speaker 1: Right, right, because if they're well, okay, when you were
Speaker 1: over in Italy or wherever you were, did they sell
Speaker 1: skittles anywhere?
Speaker 3: Did you notice?
Speaker 2: So they're candy what we would call candy. They don't
Speaker 2: necessarily have like ours, and if you do buy it,
Speaker 2: it tastes different. Yeah, they don't have that like sugary
Speaker 2: sugary sweet stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to really cut back on the sugar anyway.
Speaker 1: Like sugar is addicting, it's cancer causing, Like it's so
Speaker 1: bad for us. So I'm not mad at the governor.
Speaker 1: He's trying to actually save some lives.
Speaker 2: I agree with what he's doing, but like it shouldn't
Speaker 2: just be in California. So right, only place we're gonna
Speaker 2: get clean food is in California, right, But I am
Speaker 2: here for a skittle.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's trying to that, Maybe he thinks that'll make
Speaker 1: people want to move to California.
Speaker 3: Okay, but we want, we need for him to be
Speaker 3: the president. But that's a whole nother story.
Speaker 2: So like, so do we just take the red the
Speaker 2: red skittles out and we eat the red?
Speaker 3: I don't think the red.
Speaker 2: Listen, and I want you to know, my kids love
Speaker 2: some flame of hat cheetos, right, they are here.
Speaker 3: From Doritos and all of that. They say that those
Speaker 3: those processed foods are so horrible, so bad. Yeah, like
Speaker 3: we're not meant to consume that. We're not. No, you're not.
Speaker 3: Like I mean, think about.
Speaker 1: Like humans back when caveman when the cavemen started, they
Speaker 1: didn't have all these chemicals and stuff, like our bodies
Speaker 1: aren't meant to.
Speaker 3: But they didn't last that long. How long did a
Speaker 3: cave man?
Speaker 2: I know?
Speaker 1: But that's because they didn't have like medicine I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So they would like die from like an infection and stuff. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, they would cut
Speaker 1: their cut their arm and stuff, and then they would
Speaker 1: get infected and they die.
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we have medicine. But our food is
Speaker 2: horrible and processed. Yes it is, and humans people aren't
Speaker 2: supposed to be eating all this processed food. But what
Speaker 2: are you gonna do about it?
Speaker 3: Well? I don't know. Do you eat stuff like that
Speaker 3: like Dorito's have tried to like totally cut back.
Speaker 2: I really have, because I if it's in my house,
Speaker 2: it's for my kids.
Speaker 3: Yeah occasionally I do, but not really.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't eat much, but I will say, like my
Speaker 1: guilty Oh yeah, what's your food pleasure? Like junk food
Speaker 1: is our Oreo cookies and Dorito's.
Speaker 3: Which kind of dirido.
Speaker 1: So I'm like a pretty just basic nacho cheese one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was turned onto the spicy nacho ones, which are
Speaker 1: good too, but I like just the classic red bag
Speaker 1: nacho cheese to rito. And then for Oreos they have
Speaker 1: to be double stuff.
Speaker 3: Because you want all the nastiness.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want all the you know, they make like
Speaker 1: a triple stuff and a mega stuff.
Speaker 3: What.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah that's just gross too much? Yeah, that's too
Speaker 2: too much. Okay, so you're married, I have a robbin
Speaker 2: married question. Actually this was on the internet. I want
Speaker 2: to know, so telling your husband the same sentence ten
Speaker 2: days in a row, just to have him say, you
Speaker 2: definitely never told me that.
Speaker 3: Is that a thing? Yes, I don't want to say
Speaker 3: ten days in a row, right, but definitely there have been.
Speaker 1: It happens quite frequently, okay, where we have a conversation,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe a couple of times, and then a
Speaker 1: couple of days later he's like, oh, no, you ain't
Speaker 1: telling me that.
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know about that. Why didn't you tell me?
Speaker 2: But yes, oh yeah, okay, oh yeah, So that happens
Speaker 2: with my kids a lot.
Speaker 3: Really. Yeah, I'll tell them something. They'll tell me something.
Speaker 2: Oh they say they told me something they didn't and
Speaker 2: then they're and I'm like what. And then the next
Speaker 2: day they mentioned it and I'm like, what arey'all talking about?
Speaker 2: And they were like, mom, we told you yesterday.
Speaker 3: Right. So sometimes I think the kids do tell us stuff.
Speaker 1: We're like scrolling Instagram and we're not quite paying attention.
Speaker 3: To what they're saying. Oh so it's in one air
Speaker 3: and out the other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're kind of like, uh huh, I stop talking
Speaker 1: like cause we're like, but I need to see what's
Speaker 1: going on in the shade room.
Speaker 2: So do you need do you sit with I mean,
Speaker 2: do you tell one like look like, hey, you really
Speaker 2: don't listen to me.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I said, yeah, I'm like, you don't
Speaker 1: you don't listen, you're not paying attention or whatever.
Speaker 3: But then sometimes he gets me because you're not paying attention. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yes, But like I'll literally so say, say he calls
Speaker 1: me right and I'm like, oh, what are you doing?
Speaker 3: Where you're coming from?
Speaker 1: And then he tells me and then we talked about
Speaker 1: something blah blah blah. And then I'll be like, where
Speaker 1: are you where are you coming from? And it'd be
Speaker 1: like I just told you. I'm like, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3: What you said, and that is that's weird. So it
Speaker 3: goes both ways, that's for sure. It does.
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of times when we talk,
Speaker 1: we're like distracted. I think it's a difference between like
Speaker 1: talking to each other in passing, right, you know, when
Speaker 1: you're like on the phone and you're driving, you're going somewhere,
Speaker 1: you're cooking, you're doing something, versus like sitting down at
Speaker 1: the dinner table and having like a direct conversation real.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, that's very true.
Speaker 1: So or talking to them while they're watching sports like that's.
Speaker 3: Oh you can't talk to him? Yeah?
Speaker 2: No, But if you're looking at social media, Eli Musk
Speaker 2: said x X will be a place of uplift, mint
Speaker 2: and a positivity. It's soon going to morph into a
Speaker 2: place of positivity and meaningful conversation.
Speaker 3: Really, yes, Okay, when does he think this's gonna happen?
Speaker 3: And how the most toxic.
Speaker 2: Platform ever is all of a sudden going to turn
Speaker 2: into a place where it's meaningful positivity.
Speaker 3: Well, wait a minute.
Speaker 1: Didn't he say that he was going to start charging
Speaker 1: for Twitter or just anyone to have a Twitter account?
Speaker 2: Well he knows he can't do that, right because no
Speaker 2: one will be on it, right and then while then
Speaker 2: everyone's just going to go over to threads? Yeah, does
Speaker 2: he that Instagram? That's this boy, That's that's why they
Speaker 2: want to fight.
Speaker 3: What happened to the fight? They were supposed to fight
Speaker 3: in the ring? Right? I don't know? Yeah, they're getting ready.
Speaker 3: So wait, are you on threads? I'm on threads? Did
Speaker 3: you use it? No? I never use it? Do you
Speaker 3: have a I don't not on threats.
Speaker 2: I have have my own accounts, I have my name,
Speaker 2: but I just in my mind. I'm like, how could
Speaker 2: Elon must think that Twitter is going to be a
Speaker 2: place with positive thoughts, where it's meaningful, where something would
Speaker 2: somebody would like read something on Twitter and they like
Speaker 2: it challenges them to be a better.
Speaker 3: Person all that? Like, what are you talking about? Who is?
Speaker 2: Because they were still calling me like the most horrible
Speaker 2: person alive, Like they're trashing me constantly.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I don't know what he's thinking. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, hey, I love the thought of that, but
Speaker 2: how are you going to make that happen? He's a
Speaker 2: liar in his pants on I'm going to require a
Speaker 2: ton of regulation, all right. So we have a couple
Speaker 2: of is it reasonable or is it d This is
Speaker 2: from Kimberly Douglas and she says, Robin, is it reasonable
Speaker 2: or shady for my mother in law of three months
Speaker 2: to tell me that I should dress up for a
Speaker 2: casual family wedding that is serving barbecue food at a.
Speaker 3: Community center.
Speaker 2: When I have already told her that I was going
Speaker 2: to wear a more casual dress. I am thirty six
Speaker 2: years old and thirty three weeks pregnant. I do not
Speaker 2: think it's her place. But what do you think I
Speaker 2: love your podcast. By the way, it's Kim from New Jersey.
Speaker 3: Yeah, mother in law needs mind her damn business, right,
Speaker 3: mother in law? Oh, mother in law.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, mother in law, mind your business. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna wear what the hell I want to wear? Yes, okay, yes,
Speaker 2: And I don't give a shit what you say. So yes,
Speaker 2: and I thank god she told us it was a
Speaker 2: barbecue at the community it's a community center.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 2: You can wear your dunks, okay, a hoodie and whatever
Speaker 2: you want to wear.
Speaker 3: Okay, be comfortable.
Speaker 1: Right, and you're thirty three weeks pregnant. A little more
Speaker 1: pregnant by telling me.
Speaker 2: She probably had a baby at this point, right, So like, yes,
Speaker 2: tell mother in law mine to business.
Speaker 3: Yes, that is very shady.
Speaker 1: So this mother in law is shady for telling you
Speaker 1: to dress up, because I feel like she's secretly telling you.
Speaker 3: She doesn't like the way you dress. It's this secret. No,
Speaker 3: it's not a secret. It's not a secret. She's throwing
Speaker 3: you some hints.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like daughter in law and who's we need
Speaker 2: more information? Whose wedding is this?
Speaker 3: Right? So maybe it's like her other child.
Speaker 2: Or and Kimberly, are you the bride in the wedding,
Speaker 2: because if you the bride and walking down thirty three
Speaker 2: weeks pregnant girl, you're wrong for that. So yeah, where
Speaker 2: whatever you want? So this is from Jacob may Berry. Okay,
Speaker 2: dear Robin Injazel, you guys are so much fun and
Speaker 2: love y'all. I want your advice for if my situation
Speaker 2: is reasonable or shady. So for just over a month,
Speaker 2: I was saying a guy I met online, I'm gay.
Speaker 2: So you know where grinder? Grinder is gay? Yes, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, I mean that's like the only gay site.
Speaker 2: Probably not, but I think grinder. Okay, fine, that's like.
Speaker 3: The one that that's the most common one. Okay.
Speaker 2: It was going really well, and I was starting to
Speaker 2: catch early onset feels for the man. We were talking
Speaker 2: every day and I always told him like, wow, I
Speaker 2: have not even found one red flag, to which he replied,
Speaker 2: maybe I don't have any. Fast forward a few weeks.
Speaker 2: A few more weeks and I went to my hairdresser's house,
Speaker 2: one of my best friends, and I was giving her
Speaker 2: the rundown. I decided to bring up bring it up.
Speaker 2: Since it's been going really well. I usually like to
Speaker 2: wait a little bit before I tell people about this stuff.
Speaker 2: I told her how good he is, and she asked
Speaker 2: for a picture. I know what this is going, right,
Speaker 2: I showed her and she goes, that's my friend's boyfriend.
Speaker 3: Maybe okay. I was obviously in disbelief and shocked.
Speaker 2: She summoned her friend that she lives with, who also
Speaker 2: confirmed that it was him. I obnestly felt like shit
Speaker 2: for a number of reasons. My hairdresser then tells me
Speaker 2: she needs to tell her. I said, wait, let me
Speaker 2: talk to him first so I can give him the
Speaker 2: chance to do it. No, no, no, this man's doing
Speaker 2: the most. I didn't want to out him. I don't
Speaker 2: know how the girlfriend would react. They showed me his
Speaker 2: true identity and his real name, and when I went
Speaker 2: to stark him, he had blocked me.
Speaker 3: What Oh, this is getting good, this is juicy. Okay,
Speaker 3: he was thinking ahead, right.
Speaker 2: So I made a new Instagram account with a fake
Speaker 2: name as the user and decided to message him. Hey
Speaker 2: it's Jacob, I guess with a K or I don't know,
Speaker 2: maybe this is a fake name he gave us.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Hey it's Jacob. Message me. It's urgent.
Speaker 2: He replied straight away and then started messaging me on
Speaker 2: the fake account, where I confronted him and he did
Speaker 2: not it all. I said, I'm telling you so you
Speaker 2: can sort it out before you my friend does, and
Speaker 2: that had the potential to be explosive. He denied, denied, denied,
Speaker 2: So my headdresser called and told her yes, girl power
Speaker 2: stick together. Okay. The girlfriend reached out to me to
Speaker 2: get the deats and receipts. Not long after, this is
Speaker 2: the best juiciest story, guys. Okay, not long after, we
Speaker 2: were on the phone together and somehow trauma bonded I
Speaker 2: guess them, and they were besties. He was denying everything
Speaker 2: to her, even though the proof was there. We said
Speaker 2: we would keep it between us for his sake and
Speaker 2: if he's confused, we're just.
Speaker 3: There to help him. Okay, that's weird. Okay, I was surprised.
Speaker 3: It's weird.
Speaker 2: Yes, I was surprised. She was on the same page
Speaker 2: as me when he wronged us both. But we're still
Speaker 2: trying to help him and protect him. He denied all, saying,
Speaker 2: all I want is to to be with.
Speaker 3: You, saying that to the woman.
Speaker 2: He saying that to a woman to the girlfriend, and
Speaker 2: said I'm making up everything we see right through the bullshit,
Speaker 2: and she broke up with him. Yes, okay, all right,
Speaker 2: this is not neither reasonable.
Speaker 3: Or shady, Like, what's the question here? All right?
Speaker 2: So she was happy with me to be friends with
Speaker 2: him and try to help express himself, help him express himself,
Speaker 2: and help explore himself to see what he wants. And
Speaker 2: the three of us all ended up meeting at a
Speaker 2: festival about two months later after all this happened. What
Speaker 2: It was awkward in the beginning, but we just ignored
Speaker 2: the elephant in the room and we were just dancing.
Speaker 2: I can't I'm done, y'all. Okay, wait, wait, wait, there's more.
Speaker 2: Now we're in a weird sort of situation where some
Speaker 2: people think we're a throuple because of how we handled it.
Speaker 2: We're definitely not, and everyone thinks it's weird, but we're
Speaker 2: just trying to be supportive. He is a bit crazy,
Speaker 2: so he goes all off at us, and we kind
Speaker 2: of started to distance. She was getting twenty calls a
Speaker 2: minute from from black numbers, so she had to change it.
Speaker 2: He isn't taking the help, and he's not listening to us.
Speaker 2: It's always the heavily tatted straight guys. No one would expect,
Speaker 2: not you putting it out there that he is heavily tatted. Okay,
Speaker 2: is it reasonable or is it shady the way we handled?
Speaker 2: Should we just leave it alone?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 2: We tried so hard for so long. Love from Sydney.
Speaker 2: Sorry it was a bit long. Oh this thing warned
Speaker 2: me out, y'all. I want out twisted turn. Okay, So
Speaker 2: the girlfriend and the gay friend, yes, end up being friends, right,
Speaker 2: and now they're trying to help the guy who closeted
Speaker 2: straight gay man, Yes, who's heavily tatted.
Speaker 3: There's a bunch of tats. So it's a reasonable, shady
Speaker 3: way handed.
Speaker 1: I actually think they were very reasonable, Yeah, because they
Speaker 1: were extremely yes, extremely reasonable. They were trying to protect him,
Speaker 1: trying to make him feel better about himself. They realized
Speaker 1: that he wasn't being honest with himself or with his friends,
Speaker 1: and that there's some deep down issue that he's not
Speaker 1: ready to deal with. And they still kind of loved
Speaker 1: him and tried to help him and try to teach
Speaker 1: him acceptance and all of that. Yeah, I think what
Speaker 1: they did was actually really really reasonable. And then I think,
Speaker 1: you know, it sounds like they've kind of cut him off, right,
Speaker 1: And I think that's reasonable too, because at some point,
Speaker 1: if he's not willing to be honest, or if he's
Speaker 1: you know, lashing out in anger or whatever, it might
Speaker 1: be like you all have done everything that you can.
Speaker 3: Yes, you've showed him. This is beyond reasonable.
Speaker 2: Yes, because shady would be let's set him up, okay, right,
Speaker 2: let's and one invite him to dinner and then the
Speaker 2: other one pop up, right, that's shady, Yes, and that's
Speaker 2: what I would do.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, but I think it's reasonable. But I'm
Speaker 1: also like y'all are way too nice, like y'all quite strained.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we wouldn't be going out dancing. No, we wouldn't
Speaker 2: be doing none of that.
Speaker 3: No, but clearly they have a soft spot for him
Speaker 3: for whatever reason, because he's heavily tatted.
Speaker 2: They think, thank you, Yes, I'm heavily tatted guys who
Speaker 2: they win you over us?
Speaker 3: So you know, I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I God bless all of y'all in this situation, Yause,
Speaker 1: the two of y'all are angels and the straight, heavily
Speaker 1: tatted man is confused.
Speaker 2: Yes, and that was extremely juicy. If y'all have more
Speaker 2: juicy stories like that.
Speaker 3: Keep them coming, Keep them coming.
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