WEBVTT - | Ep 110 | My Man, My Man, My Man 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:04.320 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:06.600 Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.000 Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:18.880 Jaselle Bryant. 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:21.040 What's that? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:21.680 for being here. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:25.880 Yes once again once again? Yeah listen, they try to 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:26.400 get rid of us. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.840 Here we are again. Did anybody really try to get 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:33.360 rid of us? Oh? People try, they try, Yes, the takedown. 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:34.800 Yeah listen. 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:37.240 And that was actually so funny because that was actually 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:41.159 my shady moment of the week. Like people literally listen 0:00:42.080 --> 0:00:44.760 to try to find things that we say to take 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:53.599 us down. So this wasn't this week. This this came 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.920 to my attention recently, but somebody recently told me, like, 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:03.680 there's like at least one account that takes things that 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:08.080 we say and reports on them on their YouTube page 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:11.479 or their whatever whatever social media page that is it is, 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:15.400 and tries to like drum up like, you know, hate. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:16.200 Us, hate for us. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:20.480 So this account, one of them was like, do you 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:22.880 remember when I told the story about Corey opening the 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.679 pringles container, tasting the pring on it with stale and 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:30.560 put it back and target they literally took that, went 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:34.200 to their YouTube and pretty much tried to like, you know, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:37.160 promote that. I'm like, you know, the one rob teaching 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:38.559 their kids to be you. 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.240 Know, I don't know, yeah, like stuff like that, Like 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:42.839 are they trying to get you banned from Target? 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:44.399 I don't write, I don't know. They're trying to get 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:45.200 me banned from life? 0:01:45.480 --> 0:01:49.000 And it's just like insane, right, So I'm just like 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:54.080 I want to actually send like thoughts of peace to 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:57.040 these people because it's just like for you to live 0:01:57.080 --> 0:02:00.280 your life worrying about what other people were doing and 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:01.200 having so much hate. 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:02.960 They said this person like hates. 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.240 Me, or well they want the clicks they're obviously are 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.160 they trying to make money? They get a certain amount 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.480 of views, right, I mean one watch. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.480 I don't know, I really, I really don't know what 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:14.560 their ultimate intention is. 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:15.240 Is it for money? 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.680 Is it because you like really really really hate people 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:20.079 and you want to see them, you know, be torn 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.840 down and fail or whatever, But whatever it is, it's like, 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.880 you know, sometimes you need to release that negative toxicity 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:28.520 in your in your life, in your brain and your 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.560 mind and your hate that you have for other people 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:32.040 and just release it. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:33.520 So I mean, I offer. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.440 Peace to that person or whatever I wish you peace, 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:37.560 I wish you, you know, peace of mind, all that 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:38.240 type of stuff. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.680 But yeah, it's like real shady, Like there's actually the shade. 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:44.240 It's like people actually listen to our podcast not because 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:47.359 they like us, but because they hate us and they. 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:50.120 Want to take our words and use them against that. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:52.680 And I'm saying I'm here for that. Keep listening, I 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:53.760 mean right, keep listening. 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.639 But like realize, like we don't take ourselves too seriously, 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:58.400 you know what I'm saying. So if I'm sitting here 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:01.480 telling you the stories because I don't take myself or 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:02.440 life too seriously. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:03.400 So if you want me to go to. 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:07.160 Jail because my son target jail, yes, because my son 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:10.440 opened a can of Pringles and realized they were stale 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:14.080 and didn't want them. Because Pringle's been ficking up on 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.320 the damn on their quality lately. 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.040 Like you know, have at it. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:21.280 But actually just look inside yourself, ask why do you 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:22.280 do this to other people? 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:24.799 You're offering peace to them. I want them to get 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:27.640 kicked in the butt. I want them to trip on 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:31.000 the curb. I want them to lose their lunch, I 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:32.280 want them to get a high in the face. 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:34.720 I want a whole lot of things for them. Okay, 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.320 not peace, have nothing to do with peace. Listen. 0:03:37.760 --> 0:03:42.240 It is nothing better than the feeling of, like releasing 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:45.520 all types of all negative and toxic energy. 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:46.360 Do you know what I'm saying? 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:50.240 Like I just I remember years ago, when I was younger, 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.240 the day that I actually said, you know what, I 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:58.120 am not letting negativity or toxicity consume me. Ever, And 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:04.040 there's a no better feeling than releasing that energy as 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:06.920 soon as it comes your way. Yes, it's freeing, Yes, 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:10.080 extremely freeing. So yes, you want them to get kicked 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:12.840 in the butt. I want people to experience what it 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:15.440 feels like to release toxic energy. 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.960 Toxic. I love that negativity, negative thoughts. 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.359 I love that, okay, okay, And that's why you're Robin 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.120 Dixon exactly. Yes, okay, I love that. Well, that is 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.279 your shady moment, whether you know it or not, and 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:26.880 mine would be. 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.720 So a couple things. I have a very nice thing 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:32.240 to report. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:36.080 So a couple of weeks ago I talked about cal 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.960 gave me a plant from my dad. I planted it myself, 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.920 and I realized where I planted it, it wasn't getting 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.440 a lot of sunlight. Even though the deer ate the leaves, 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:48.839 and anybody who wants to shoot the deer have at it. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.800 An when people don't come after me. And so my 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:55.880 landscapers were at my house and they were like planning 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:58.840 new bushes all around. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.640 I said, you're about to do some lands gaving out here. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.719 Yes, speaking of landscaper's. My landscaper wants to take you 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:07.200 out on a date, the one that doesn't wash his body. 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.320 What okay? And you're condoning this. I just I'm passing 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.760 the message. You're being his wing woman. You like me, 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.400 you like to go on dates, not with people who 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:20.080 don't shower. I'm passing the message. That was it. Okay, 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:22.640 if he showers, I told him I couldn't promise anything. 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:26.920 If he showers for two weeks consecutively, I'll think about it. Okay, 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:29.360 but it's got to be a good fourteen days okay, 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:34.000 every day at least once, not twice once okay, okay, afterwork, 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:38.240 right after yes, afterwork. He need's clean balls and penis. 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:39.679 Okay. All right. 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:43.400 So the landscapers came and I was like, you know what, guys, 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:46.560 and oh, they were putting down new bushes because the 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.799 deer had eaten up the other ones, and I was like, hey, guys, 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:53.240 you know, I'm thinking I need this plant moved to 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:54.680 be in more sun. 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.360 Right. They said, okay, okay, we'll do it as a 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:58.200 Japanese maple. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:01.080 They knew okay, from the stick with no leaves, they 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:02.839 knew it was a Japanese mape. I was like, yeallow, 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.440 is some badas I know. So they were at my 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.480 house all day. Now, I don't know how you get 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:11.880 charged for your landscaper. I get charged by every fifteen minutes. 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:17.640 Legit, shit is expense. Yes, so every fifteen minutes is 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:20.120 a fee fifteen Are you serious? Yes? 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:24.760 They break it down in fifteen minute increments because if 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.719 it's if it's just regular cutting the grass, sometimes that 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:32.560 takes eight minutes because they zoom zoom and they're done. Okay, 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:34.920 so it's fifteen minutes increment. Okay, Oh my god, Okay, 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:38.160 that's insane. They're at my house for hours. They would lunch, 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:41.080 they came back. They're at my house for hours. They 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:45.120 moved the plant and good, this is not shady yet, 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:48.120 not getting to the shady part yet. There are leaves 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:51.920 growing from my plant. That means, okay, it's doing good. 0:06:52.000 --> 0:06:52.760 It's doing good. 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:56.240 Okay, my dad is doing good in the ground. They 0:06:56.240 --> 0:07:00.840 were at my house. This was probably Tuesday. They were all, 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:04.800 damn day, they're gonna give me a big ass bill. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:10.960 Oh, it's gonna be big. Thursday, these people came back again. 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:14.720 I said, hell, no, no, you're not. I looked at it. 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:16.040 I went outside. I looked at them. 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:19.800 They came back just to like, quote cut grass. No fools, 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:22.560 y'all did that two days ago. Get away from my 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.080 house and don't charge me for this fifteen minutes and 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:25.680 get away. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:30.160 They were shady. Try it. Yeah, oh yeah, they try it. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:34.520 They they try it because they gotta get it in 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:37.800 because they're gonna have a nice time period when they're 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.280 not doing any work, right, So that's why they got 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:42.640 to like, well, they got a cutch of grass. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.240 As many times as they can, but they get it 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:46.160 in with the leaves, the picking up of the leaves, 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:47.640 which I need, so they get it in kind of 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:50.000 like that way. But no, no, what we're not doing. 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:52.040 We're gonna you're gonna double back. You're gonna twice a 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.920 week meat, don't you twice a week? 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:54.200 Meat? 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:58.600 No, get out of here anyway, guys won a little 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:00.840 more reminder that the Real Housewife as the Potomaca. We'll 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.880 be back on November fifth, eight o'clock. It's going down. 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:06.680 Ravo season eight, baby woo. 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:10.800 How do you feel season eight? Just like I felt 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:13.200 season one? Like actual, well not just like I felt. 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:15.160 So season one was definitely like a. 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.760 Like an unknown, like, yeah, we didn't really know what 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:20.960 to expect, right right? 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.680 We know now we know now, yes, but see, but 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.640 it is similar season one because even every season I'm 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:30.520 just like how did I get here? And I still 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:33.640 eight seasons later and like how did I get here? 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.040 Like it's very weird to me, but it has very 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:39.640 much become a part of my life. Yes, even though 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:43.000 it's like a part of my life that I don't, 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.520 don't let it define my life. Yeah, and I'm still 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:50.160 you know, grateful for it, but I'm still also like 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:51.240 how did I get here? 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:51.520 Yeah? 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.840 I can say for you you have settled in, like 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:58.559 you're like, because for like six seasons, Robin was one 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:00.560 foot in, one foot out, like she was like I'm out. 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.920 Here, I can't do this, this is so horrible. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:06.200 But like you've like settled in. You're like, Okay, yeah, 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:07.560 I guess I'm on TV. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.719 Right, Yeah, I guess I've now accepted, like, Okay, this 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:11.800 is what I do. 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:14.720 Yeah, this is yes, this is actually what you do, 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:18.520 and you have the tax bracket to show. Right, Okay, 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:21.160 moving on, I want to talk about a couple of 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:23.720 things that are on television. Okay, well, well, actually this 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.800 is not on television. Oh, this is social media. I 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:30.760 have to say that I've been being I've been entertained 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:35.120 by Shannon Sharp and Chad Ocho Cinco. 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.960 Oh yeah, I've come across them. I've only crawled across 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.160 from one time. So what are they? 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:41.199 I think it's. 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:44.280 Called I think it's the the The podcast is called 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:48.320 Nightcap maybe, okay, maybe, but it's like Shannon. You know, 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:52.160 Shannon Sharp has his own I guess show, so this 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.679 is separate from that. Yeah, And I think he had Todd. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.640 I mean I had Chad as a guest, and I 0:09:57.720 --> 0:10:00.000 think it like really went well because they battle each other. 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:02.240 And so I think this is like a reincurr thing 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:04.800 I've seen. And the only reason why I really know 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.760 because the guys have on different clothes. I've seen maybe 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:11.400 five clips with different clothes those different occasions. 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:16.640 They are so freaking funny. Like they're they're a good duo. 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:22.239 They are amazing, so I want to like recommend them. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:26.560 I can't figure if I'm team Shannon or team chat right. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:28.560 But why don't be team either one? 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:32.280 Because they're both telling each other to shut the f up? Yeah, 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:34.280 so you know you want you want to like root 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:35.120 for one, right o? 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:36.240 Yeah, okay, but. 0:10:36.240 --> 0:10:39.040 They're both full of like they both are talk about 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:42.200 like how amazing they are, right, and they're like trying 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.960 to battle each other about how amazing they are, which 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:45.560 is hilarious. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:48.640 Right, But are they so the topic mostly sports? 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:53.400 It's sports, it's women, it's just what you do on 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:54.400 an average day. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.360 It's just kind of like what we do, yeah, minus sports. Yeah, 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:58.040 they're funny guys. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:02.760 Yeah, And guys are hilarious to watch, like debates, yes, 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:05.520 because they go who hard. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:11.240 Power. But what I do like about guys going back 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:13.559 and forth out outside of women because we don't know 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:17.600 how to do this. They listen and they talk about 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:21.760 what they've just heard as opposed to talking about as 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:22.880 supposed to name calling. 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:23.200 Right. 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.079 Yeah, the guys they don't have to throw insults in 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:27.280 they literally stick to the topic. 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:27.640 Yep. 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:30.920 And they are very passionate about their topic, right, and 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:32.600 they go they can go back and. 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:33.200 Forth and back. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.480 It's so funny because I because this happens a lot 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:38.199 in my house with Wand and his his buddies and 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.719 his friends and his brothers and cousins and all that. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:45.400 So they start off and they're like strongly debating a topic, right, 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:49.280 and it's usually sports centered related to sports. And the 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:52.960 longer they go, the more they're saying the same thing. 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:57.440 Oh and right, they're not really debating anymore because they agree, yes, yes, 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:01.000 I'm sitting there like y'all are these same things, and 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:04.240 y'all are still going back and forth and arguing like 0:12:04.240 --> 0:12:04.880 you're debating. 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:08.920 I'm like, this is so insane to me. Yeah, it's 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:12.600 so funny. Yes, and they don't. You know, guys, they don't. 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.960 They if they are mad each other, they'll make up 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:16.800 in like seventeen seconds. What. 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.280 And it's so funny. Like a lot of my personality 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.080 and the way that I handle things is because I 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:28.080 have literally been around guys my entire life. Yeah, like 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:34.680 between my brother, my you know, Wan, his teammates, his brothers, 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:37.640 his younger cousins like all, and I've literally like been 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.760 around this though, like all the time, and so when 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:45.320 I'm dealing with women and they can't, it's like I'm 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:48.320 more like straightforward, yes, and they can't handle it. And 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.040 then and then it you know, it's like you know, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.559 and guys crack on each other, like they don't throw 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.240 all the insults, but they just joke and crack on 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:58.040 each other. It's like, it's hard for me to deal 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:03.120 with women who are sensitive to like straightforwardness and like joking. Right, 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:07.120 so they try to say your jokes that funny, right, right, 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.840 you're bullying, You're being a bully, being a bully. 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:10.880 Or stuff like, and it's like, no. 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:12.720 I'm actually just doing with the what I'm used to, 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:15.120 like what I've what I'm used to all the time. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:18.280 We need to retire that word bully needs to be retired. 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.160 It really does. Let it go. It does ship. It 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:24.079 was something I wanted to say. Okay, so as you're 0:13:24.120 --> 0:13:24.760 thinking about that. 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:29.920 Oh, speaking of podcasts, Yes, we just did a little, 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:33.760 a little an interview with little Duval, Yes, who has 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:37.920 a podcast coming out. It's not released yet, but we 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:40.400 just want to share the experience with you all because and. 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:43.560 If y'all don't know who he is he don't have 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.160 time to go back and forth with you. He's living 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:50.880 his best life, right, Okay, Yes, he's I don't know 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.360 what would you call what You wouldn't call him a 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.959 singer or a rapper's he's more of a comedian. 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.760 He's a comedian. Yeah, he goes on tour. Oh okay, 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:00.440 he's more of a comedian. Okay. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.000 And then you know now he has like a strong 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.319 inner Instagram presence. He did you know that little that 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.480 viral song in the dance? 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.839 Right? Was it the song to the to Drake's song, 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:16.880 Oh the dance, key key, yeah dance? 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:18.720 How did he make that dance viral? He started? 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:20.360 Then we're gonna come back to Drake in a minute, 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:22.680 because Drake just dropped some new songs. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.360 Our new album, and we're gonna we're gonna get to that. 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:25.400 But yes, what podcast? 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.160 So, so, he has a new podcast coming out it's 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:32.880 yet to be named. However, we were a guest on it, 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:37.240 and he's he's a fellow Black Effect Network talent. Shout 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.280 out yeah black So we were on the podcast, and 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.160 so when we start off, he's kind of like he's like, yeah, 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:43.240 I don't know who y'all. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:46.400 Are and we was like, we don't know you either. 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:50.000 So he's like, so, y'all introduce y'allselves, tell me and 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:51.160 tell me about yourselves. 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.960 He smoked like eighteen blunts the whole time. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:58.040 Yes, So it's so funny because you know, we just 0:14:58.160 --> 0:15:01.240 we were just being ourselves, doing our thing, and by 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:04.880 the end of the interview, he's like, man, I like y'all, 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.400 y'all hood y'all like talking to y'all hang out. 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:09.240 Actually, he said he would hang out with Robins. Yeah, 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:12.640 he would have with me, right, and that's fine. I'm 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.080 fine now. He said, Robin's cooler than me. He would 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:16.960 like to hang out with both of us, but Robin's 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:18.760 more laid back, right, which she is. 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.640 But then he understood why you sell and our friends. Yes, 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.960 because you need because we balance each other. Yeah, you need, 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:26.520 you need to combo. Yeah, but we will let y'all 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:28.960 know when it or just be looking out for when 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:29.640 that episode drops. 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:31.800 Yeah, but it was just cool because it's like, it 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.760 was cool to talk to someone who has absolutely no 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:39.000 idea who we are and we're just literally talking to 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:42.400 him about I mean, we could we get juicy and spicy, Yes, 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:47.800 you know, advice relationship stuff, sex, whatever, and it's just 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:49.680 really cool just to talk to someone and they just 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.760 they form their own opinion of us based on their 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.560 interaction with us. Not We didn't talk about the TV 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.480 show nothing because he ain't never watching, He don't know 0:15:58.480 --> 0:15:59.120 nothing about. 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:00.600 It or cared. He doesn't care at all. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.800 Okay, So what a show on Netflix that I want 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:11.840 to tell y'all about, because you know y'all always asking 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:13.680 what am I watching? And it kind of caught me 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:17.800 off guard because I had my own speaking of like prejudging. 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:21.280 I had my own prejudgment of these people, one person 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:25.040 in particular. Anyway, the Beckham story that's on Netflix. 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:25.800 Have you seen it? 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.120 I haven't watched yet, but you saw that as advertised 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:34.800 or whatever. David Beckham. Hm, he is a mate sing 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:38.040 and I mean, yes, he looks good and all that, 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.320 but like he's a bad mamma jama. 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:42.560 Really what he had. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.920 To go through in order to not not in order 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:47.280 to get to where he is now, but just like 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:48.640 what he went through. 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:49.800 You have to see it. 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:53.880 Yeah, Okay, because because this was before social media, this 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:58.360 was before people could kind of bully you through typing things. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:01.960 He was getting spitting face he's walking through. 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:04.320 Why because the soccer fans are so hardcore. 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:07.600 Yes, and he did like one move in one game 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:09.560 and he got red carded. 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.359 It read something he had. 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:14.560 To leave the game. That means they have to play 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:20.280 one man down, right, and the entire country spin on him. Right. 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:25.520 They were hanging up effigies of like David Beckham dolls 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:29.439 like he couldn't go outside, right. I don't doubt I've 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:35.160 ever talked about it, just because I can't. I wasn't eating, 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:39.199 I wasn't sleeping. It took a toll on me that 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:45.399 I never even knew myself. Okay, So that's actually not 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:48.360 who I prejudged. I prejudged his wife, Okay, Okay, that's 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:53.800 Victoria Posh Spice. And I never really like I guess 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:55.440 I didn't know enough about her, but I kind of 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:59.000 thought she was a little snootye yeah, distant aloof all 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:02.960 the things. Like I got a different a different view 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:08.680 of her. I understand her much better. I like them together, okay, 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:11.199 And I'm happy that they've, you know, been able to 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:13.680 maintain a family unit for so long. 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.560 Yeah. And I love me some David Beckham. Okay, he 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:18.000 is the main that is. 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:19.520 So funny that you say that, because I just went 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:23.080 out to lunch with some girlfriends over the weekend and 0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:25.800 we were going around just talking about, you know, the 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:27.680 guys that would get the Hall passes or whatever. 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:33.480 They said David Beckham. Yeah, they were like, oh that David. 0:18:34.680 --> 0:18:35.040 You know what. 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:38.080 I never put him on my list, really, no, yeah, 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.159 but I think I would have got about him. But 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.840 I do remember years ago being like, oh yeah, now 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:47.240 he I didn't know he's part owner of that Miami 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:51.680 were a messy place. Yes, yeah, which is that's an 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.720 amazing end to his story, right, yeah, oh. 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:56.160 Yeah, no, it's awesome. Yeah. 0:18:56.200 --> 0:19:00.600 So, speaking of Netflix, I'm gonna need for this strike 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:04.560 to end. Why because now like there's you know, no 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:06.800 new it's end. It ended though, didn't it. No, the 0:19:06.800 --> 0:19:09.720 writer strike ended, okay, so the actor strike has not. 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:11.480 So now that the writer strike is over, okay, we 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.560 need the actors strike to end so that we can 0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:20.440 get some like new American created filmed content because I 0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:22.760 don't know if you've noticed on Netflix now it's like 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:24.920 all these like it's like new shows, but when you 0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:29.240 watch them, they're actually dubbed or whatever. Yes, they're foreign 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:33.000 shows and they write they dubbed the English language over it, 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:36.000 and it's just it's so distracting to me. Yeah, I'm 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:39.480 like watching their lips move and they're totally not lining 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:39.840 up with. 0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:41.360 The Yeah with the words. 0:19:41.400 --> 0:19:44.239 Somebody told me that you could change your settings and 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:49.119 get the English version, like you know, subtitled okay, way 0:19:49.280 --> 0:19:49.600 you can. 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:51.200 Hear it, so you would listen to them in their 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:54.320 language and then just read the subtitles. Yeah, yeah, you 0:19:54.320 --> 0:19:56.240 can probably do that. But for me, I'm just like, okay, 0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:59.359 and it there's just so many more of those shows 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:02.120 on now, and it was like I had the aha moment. 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:04.880 I was like, Oh, that's why all these here, because 0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:07.600 they don't have any new contents put out because of 0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:08.160 the strikes. 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:12.080 I don't think they're coming back until January, right, the strike. 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:13.919 You don't think the strike will be over until January 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:16.560 or so? No, I mean I think they're trying to 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:19.080 negotiate every day. Oh really yeah, okay. 0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:19.359 Yeah. 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:21.360 So the writers like the ones that can get back 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:23.720 to work, they're the ones that work on like, you know, 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:27.000 the the talk shows and stuff. Yeah, but as far 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:28.760 as like, I don't know, I guess writers can write 0:20:28.840 --> 0:20:32.920 scripts and stuff, but as far as anyone acting, it's 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:33.720 still not happening. 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:35.119 Switching gears. 0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:36.679 Do you remember a couple of weeks ago when we 0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:40.240 had an alert, a national alert. Do you know how 0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:44.680 any people got busted in the jails. They got busted 0:20:44.720 --> 0:20:47.440 in jails. They got in the Amish in the Amish 0:20:47.560 --> 0:20:51.240 Oh really country, not Amash country, in the Amish Land, Yeah, 0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:51.919 Amish country. 0:20:52.040 --> 0:20:52.240 Yes. 0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:55.719 There was so many of them that had a phone 0:20:56.400 --> 0:21:00.320 and they're swearing that they don't have any electricity, need 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:01.080 modern tech. 0:21:01.160 --> 0:21:03.679 Lollie and y'all all all. 0:21:03.600 --> 0:21:07.160 Y'all's phones went off with the hilarious that is insane, 0:21:07.280 --> 0:21:09.560 that's so funny. What was weird to me was it 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:11.600 was not timed. I mean, I don't want to say 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:14.040 it was not timed synchronized. It was not synchronized, like 0:21:14.359 --> 0:21:17.600 I was like two minutes after somebody. I was talking 0:21:17.640 --> 0:21:19.280 to somebody on the phone and they were like two 0:21:19.280 --> 0:21:22.280 minutes before me, and then mine went off and then. 0:21:22.280 --> 0:21:23.800 So it was like a wave. They did in a wave, 0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:24.120 I think. 0:21:24.160 --> 0:21:26.960 So it was staggered, or maybe it was per Maybe 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:30.120 it's based on your cell phone, your carrier, yeah, could 0:21:30.160 --> 0:21:31.000 have been your carrier. 0:21:31.280 --> 0:21:32.760 Yeah, that's funny. I read that. 0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:35.280 When I saw that the inmates were getting busted, that 0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:35.960 was hilarious. 0:21:36.000 --> 0:21:39.000 That was like, so then what happens do you have 0:21:39.040 --> 0:21:43.040 to go to the to the dungeon when you get 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:45.320 to just confiscated. I mean they probably just confiscated and 0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:47.320 that's it. But do you get like penalized for you 0:21:47.440 --> 0:21:48.840 talk to the already in jail? 0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:52.760 What more do you need? Nothing else? Okay? 0:21:52.960 --> 0:21:55.000 So how excited are we about? Because this is like 0:21:55.080 --> 0:21:59.800 now fall. It's like the weather's changing. If you come 0:21:59.840 --> 0:22:03.320 to Robin's house, she has now like you know, Robin's 0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:05.959 house is very decorated. 0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:09.720 She is missed. Decor's not not not like that? No, 0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:11.280 you like you like decor? Yeah? 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:13.840 Yeah, So like outside she has like a nice pretty 0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:18.160 fall read yes, and like yes door green or yeah 0:22:18.240 --> 0:22:22.600 my outdoor decor yes, and planters with nice it's very nice. 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:24.239 You took a picture and post it? 0:22:24.440 --> 0:22:25.080 Okay? Yeah. 0:22:25.680 --> 0:22:28.560 Anyway, yeah, I'm not done either, you know, I want 0:22:28.560 --> 0:22:31.439 to like add some more around it. 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:32.000 Okay. 0:22:32.600 --> 0:22:36.040 So I went to Trader Joe's and I I hadn't 0:22:36.080 --> 0:22:37.560 gone there in a while, and I was like, oh man, 0:22:37.560 --> 0:22:38.840 they got all the pumpkin stuff out. 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:39.240 Yeah. 0:22:39.359 --> 0:22:41.440 I was I was with Angel, I was literally no 0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:43.760 a door. I was literally throwing in the basket anything 0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:49.359 that said pumpkin, pumpkin bread mix and oh my god, 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:53.480 pumpkin oatmeal, and I mean pumpkin anything. I'm just throwing 0:22:53.520 --> 0:22:55.800 in the basket. I can't stand pumpkin anything. 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:56.840 I love it. 0:22:56.880 --> 0:23:00.520 I loved all the pump pumpkin spice stuff. Yes, half 0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:03.000 of this shit tasted horror. I was so mad at 0:23:03.040 --> 0:23:08.960 my no surprise, no pumpkin seed bark that tasted like 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:10.760 dog food like it was horrible. 0:23:11.080 --> 0:23:12.680 What was I thinking? No surprise. 0:23:12.920 --> 0:23:15.159 I think the only thing that probably tastes good to 0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:19.800 people is those pumpkin spice lattest Yeah from Starbucks. 0:23:19.840 --> 0:23:25.119 I've never had one, well and I refuse really yeah. 0:23:24.359 --> 0:23:27.000 But okay, so there. But there is tat have you been? 0:23:27.040 --> 0:23:30.760 A Tata is a bakery and it's not a bakery, 0:23:30.800 --> 0:23:33.639 it's like a restaurant in it was won by me. 0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:38.280 There's some in DC and every seasonally they have this 0:23:38.400 --> 0:23:42.680 like lemon pound cake. That's amazing, that sounds good, it's amazing, 0:23:42.720 --> 0:23:45.760 I approve. Okay, and if you get a piece to 0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:49.200 give you a big, huge thick slice, okay, so good 0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.200 sounds good, but seasonally, when it's this time of year, 0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:55.720 they changed it to a gingerbread cake, which is just 0:23:57.200 --> 0:23:57.760 it's not good. 0:23:57.840 --> 0:23:59.600 Gross. It's I don't want to say gross. I want 0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:00.720 to say, it's not my cup of tea. 0:24:00.880 --> 0:24:05.000 No, it's like to the spices for the fall, like 0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:07.040 the pumpkin the gingerbread. 0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.760 It's too fragrant, you know what I'm saying. I don't know. 0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:15.040 You know, you feel like you're eating perfume kind of. Yeah, 0:24:15.080 --> 0:24:15.840 that's never good. 0:24:16.040 --> 0:24:17.879 Like I don't like I don't like all that stuff, 0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:19.320 sweet potato pie. 0:24:19.560 --> 0:24:23.560 You don't like sweet potato. No, I don't like nutmeg. Okay, 0:24:23.800 --> 0:24:28.040 well you like eggnogs like all that stuff. Yeah, that's 0:24:28.040 --> 0:24:29.160 not out yet, it's coming. 0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:31.840 Up, it's coming. But that's along the same lines. Really, 0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:35.520 I think of like ginger, gingerbread and nut and eggnog 0:24:36.119 --> 0:24:37.679 down like they go together. 0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:41.160 Yes, okay, any of that. I want to switch gears 0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:43.840 again because we going back to Drake. So Drake has 0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:46.760 some new music out, yes, and it's dog shit? 0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:49.400 Is that what it's called? What it is? 0:24:49.520 --> 0:24:52.800 It's called all something all the dogs, but the music 0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:53.560 is dog shit. 0:24:56.880 --> 0:25:01.960 Okay, Now this caveat disclaimer Robin's a Drake fan, I'm 0:25:02.000 --> 0:25:04.080 not okay, And if Robin says. 0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:07.359 It's dog shit, yes, this is terrible. I mean, okay, 0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:09.159 you know me, I'm the one. I need to give 0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:10.719 it a little bit more time. I don't know how 0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:13.440 I felt about Beyonce Renaissance when it first came out. 0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:15.119 Yes, that had to grow on me. 0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:18.480 Okay, but this here is a different situation. He should 0:25:18.520 --> 0:25:22.760 have left all of the songs. Yeah, almost all of 0:25:22.800 --> 0:25:24.160 them in the draft folder. 0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:26.359 Like okay. 0:25:26.480 --> 0:25:28.600 So my kids brought it to my attention that he 0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:31.160 has new music out, and so you know, a door 0:25:31.280 --> 0:25:32.480 was especially was like. 0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:35.080 I listened to all of it. Some of it is fire. 0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:37.360 She starts telling me all the collapse that he has 0:25:37.720 --> 0:25:39.439 and then she was like and adonysis on it and 0:25:39.440 --> 0:25:42.280 she was like, you know, mom, like yeah no, but 0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.000 like I'm not gonna talk about it by his kid. 0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:48.680 So I said, what, Like his kid is like ten, right, six, 0:25:49.240 --> 0:25:50.040 six years old? 0:25:50.080 --> 0:25:52.320 Six? So I said, let me hear that part. So 0:25:52.320 --> 0:25:54.680 she pulled it up and he was like, my man, 0:25:54.760 --> 0:25:58.840 my man, my man, my man, my man, my man, 0:25:58.960 --> 0:26:01.320 my man. And I'm not making fun of him, but 0:26:01.320 --> 0:26:02.200 I'm making fun of him. 0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:06.120 What in the world, right, So is that Drake trying 0:26:06.119 --> 0:26:08.359 to be like Beyonce? You know, Beyonce had Blue Ivy. 0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:10.680 This is the first thing that I thought, and that's 0:26:10.680 --> 0:26:12.160 what I said to a door. I was like, he's 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:16.200 trying to keep up with Beyonce Jay, Right, I mean, 0:26:16.240 --> 0:26:19.240 I'm going to assume or when you're an artist, that 0:26:19.800 --> 0:26:22.160 you're in the studio, and sometimes you bring your kids 0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:26.159 to the studio, right, because so they can experience, or 0:26:26.200 --> 0:26:27.840 because you don't have babysitter or whatever. 0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:28.800 It's so. 0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:35.520 Donna's probably got on the microphone, you know, just playing around, right, 0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:37.040 And then Drake thought. 0:26:36.840 --> 0:26:38.280 Oh, that would be cute. Let me put this in 0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:40.879 a song. But it's like I think he wanted to 0:26:40.960 --> 0:26:43.560 establish a trust fund for him. So he like, because 0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.119 you know, he's not going to get money, he's not 0:26:45.359 --> 0:26:47.000 going to get paid for that portion. 0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:50.080 But that but the songs are trash, so he's not 0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:53.199 going to get paid that much. Not the song is trash. 0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:59.240 You heard it first, Drake said, your ship is trashy? 0:26:59.280 --> 0:27:01.280 How you tell it? On okay? Wait? 0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:03.320 Did you see how it's so funny? Like people were 0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:06.520 like criticizing Drake's album and then he's like literally getting 0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:10.199 in his feelings and going on Instagram and posting stories 0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:11.520 about the people and stuff like. 0:27:11.800 --> 0:27:15.480 Dude, dude, Him and Joe Button went back and forth 0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:16.800 and I don't know if y'all know who he is, 0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:19.199 but he has like a podcast show. Joe said it 0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:22.760 was trash, and then like Drake was like upset with 0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:25.440 him and like went to his DMS and was kind 0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:27.879 of like why you have to say that, Like like, 0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:31.240 but then trash Joe, Like you live in an apartment, 0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:33.639 I have a mansion, I have planes, and. 0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.040 You don't even have a scooter. Like it was just 0:27:36.080 --> 0:27:37.000 all this nonsense. 0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:41.119 Can you imagine if we went at everyone to criticize us. 0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:44.920 Yes, I'm coming for all the people that are mad 0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:47.679 about something that I said on de Reil Housewives. 0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:50.199 I'm coming for y'all. That's so insane to. 0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:52.080 Me, Like I'm on, I'm a DM, y'all come like, 0:27:52.240 --> 0:27:56.439 come on, Drake, Yeah, you cannot sit here and be 0:27:56.560 --> 0:27:58.560 worrying about what people are saying. Then he said he 0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:01.280 was going to retire it, right, and you know what 0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:04.720 everybody said, good if this mat which you're going to 0:28:04.760 --> 0:28:08.720 be putting out, then good. Yeah, Okay, I need just rewind. 0:28:09.160 --> 0:28:12.240 What's the name of the CD or the something like 0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:15.040 All the Dogs. It's called all the Dogs something. Hold on, 0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:17.680 let me look it up. And Robin said his dog shit, Yes, 0:28:17.920 --> 0:28:21.639 and it is dogshit. Let me say, hold on a Drake, 0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:27.119 it is poor Drake for all the Dogs. Oh and 0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:30.359 the album cover is like maybe his maybe his son 0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:35.919 drew that. So now we have to give him what 0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:41.080 is it? Vocal credit and artistry credit to Adonnas. Yes, okay, 0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:44.600 there are twenty three songs on this like why my Man, 0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:48.080 My Man, My Man. That's gonna be the name of 0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:53.959 this episode. We're gonna get so much trouble for trashing 0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:54.680 a six year. 0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:56.400 Old, but we're not trashing six years we're trashing the 0:28:56.400 --> 0:29:00.960 father's decision to put yes a random you know audio track. 0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:08.480 Okay, So in twenty twenty seven, Robin, there will be 0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:14.840 hotels in outer space. It will not be according to 0:29:14.840 --> 0:29:17.600 whom according to this article right here. 0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:21.720 Okay, so there's gonna so if there is hotels and 0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:24.400 the first ever hotel in space is set to open 0:29:24.880 --> 0:29:29.440 in the year twenty twenty seven. Okay, what so if 0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:32.640 this happens, ever, would you want to stay? 0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:33.200 No? 0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:37.160 In outer space. No a bed and breakfast, no Airbnb. 0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:38.480 No you're not going. 0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:43.840 It's not happening. Okay, it's not happening. Okay are you sure? Yes? Okay? 0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:47.280 Because the Space Safe Station will have room for twenty 0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:52.840 eight occupants at a time. And they said that Hilton 0:29:52.960 --> 0:29:57.200 will design, you know, Hilton hotels. They will design the 0:29:57.240 --> 0:30:01.480 interior of the space station and it's going to be 0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:02.760 a luxurious experience. 0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:06.080 Where is it just floating around in outer space? Is 0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:07.080 it docked somewhere? 0:30:07.400 --> 0:30:10.240 I think it's it's on the float. It's floating. It's 0:30:10.240 --> 0:30:11.720 the Orbital Assembly. 0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:16.080 A company called Orbital Assembly is behind the development. Like 0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.240 most luxury hotels, there are showers and beds and restaurants. 0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:21.920 But unlike most hotels, the views of the Solar System 0:30:22.120 --> 0:30:23.320 are just beyond belief. 0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:26.040 Telp them get out of here with this, Like, use 0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:31.280 your money, seriously, use your money somewhere else, right, okay, 0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:36.680 Like there's so many people, so many communities, countries, causes 0:30:36.920 --> 0:30:41.400 that need money. We don't need a floating hotel. 0:30:41.040 --> 0:30:44.760 In outer space. No, we don't. But guess who's building this? 0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:46.720 I guess Elon Musk. Who is this? 0:30:46.840 --> 0:30:46.920 No? 0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:49.600 Oh oh, we're gonna talk about Elon Musk. Okay. 0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:52.520 So the person that's building this, I would assume that 0:30:52.560 --> 0:30:56.160 they have to work with NASA maybe, but Hilton has 0:30:56.200 --> 0:30:58.880 something to do with it. This is ridiculous because they're 0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:01.920 going to outfit it and make it look very hotel ish. 0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:02.560 Okay. 0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:06.720 Speaking of people that need money, Soldier. 0:31:06.320 --> 0:31:08.120 Boy would be on that list. 0:31:08.160 --> 0:31:13.760 Soldier Boy was in debt to the ir rest or 0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:17.160 something like five hundred thousand dollars something something crazy. Anyway, 0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:20.000 there was a lawsuit that his ex, he like his 0:31:20.040 --> 0:31:20.800 ex sued him. 0:31:21.200 --> 0:31:23.800 Y'all know who Soldier Boy is. Yeah, Soldier Boy. Well 0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:24.360 watch me. 0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:31.080 What's what remind us of the song you You? 0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:34.280 You? Is that the only song? Though? One hit? Wonder? No, 0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:35.440 he's got several songs. 0:31:35.600 --> 0:31:38.600 Okay, but he he said he started rapping, like Soldier 0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:41.080 Boy takes wants to take credit for everything. He started rapping. 0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:43.760 He invented it, he invented everything. 0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:44.360 Okay. 0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:49.560 Soldier Boy has to pay his ex five hundred thousand dollars. 0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:51.840 Okay, he doesn't have the money to pay her. 0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:54.880 So you know what the judge said, she could do 0:31:55.120 --> 0:31:58.280 what come to his house and pick up whatever is 0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:01.120 worth value to five hundred thousand dollars. 0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:02.480 Okay, he had like a. 0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:07.520 Lambeau, a bends, some gold chains, some diamonds. 0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:11.120 She cleared him out, really cleared him out. 0:32:11.320 --> 0:32:14.080 Okay, is this a baby mama? Why is she getting money? 0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:15.160 They weren't were they married? 0:32:15.720 --> 0:32:19.800 I know they weren't married, So I don't support this. 0:32:19.160 --> 0:32:21.720 This is the judge doesn't like soldier boy. 0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:26.480 And the judge said, clear his ands out, okay, And 0:32:26.560 --> 0:32:29.680 she came and took it all. Her name is Kayla Wires, 0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:31.880 I think, okay, and she came and took it off. 0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:36.800 So a chain worth ten thousand, black cardier, watch worth 0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:40.560 eight She took three cars value at two hundred and 0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:45.200 fifty thousand dollars eighteen thousand dollarsand jewelry fifty thousand dollars 0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:45.680 in stock. 0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:50.640 This is insane, Yes, that is insane. But what is 0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:51.120 it for? 0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:56.440 She he owed her some money, and so I listen. 0:32:56.720 --> 0:32:57.880 I don't know the particulars. 0:32:57.920 --> 0:33:01.120 All I know is he didn't made a judge man, 0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:07.320 because that judge said right clean hiss. That is literally 0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:08.360 taken him to the cleaners. 0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:11.760 That's insane. That's I feel sorry for him. I don't. 0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:16.320 Yeah, that's not he did not win. No, no, no, 0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:19.040 he needs to try to make another one hit wonder 0:33:19.560 --> 0:33:20.320 Oh Bobby you. 0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:24.200 Yes, because we haven't heard from a long time, so 0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:26.120 you need to get back in the studio. He wasn't 0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:28.560 he bragging about how Richie was at one point? Yes, yeah, 0:33:28.600 --> 0:33:29.880 he has more mo than anybody. 0:33:30.080 --> 0:33:33.760 Yeah, because he invented rapping, yes and speaking. And he 0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.640 hates Drake by the way, because remember he went to 0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:37.600 the Breakfast Club. 0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:38.240 And he was like Drake. 0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:41.680 Oh, because because Charlemagne tried to say that he stole 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:47.000 Drake's lyric or something right, and he was like Drake, Drake, 0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:49.080 oh that, And he had on he might need to 0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.320 beg Drake to put him on his album now, yes, yes, 0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:54.040 And he had on this like Gucci headband and it 0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.400 was like he had worn it fifty thousand times. 0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:59.840 It was a mess. I am the worst. Okay, that's 0:33:59.880 --> 0:34:00.560 how hor I mean. 0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:02.360 I feel like we see the story so much, the 0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:06.560 fall from Grace or you know, the entertainers, rappers, sports 0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:09.279 athletes whatever that. You know, I have a whole bunch 0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:12.160 of money and then it's just like gone, gone like that, 0:34:12.239 --> 0:34:13.279 It's gone, Like I hate that. 0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:23.239 Okay, So back on very important news that we need 0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:26.960 to know about. Mario Lopez is very upset. 0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:32.120 Why because the California governor, who I love, he was 0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:34.919 a cutie buy who you know, might be my hall pass. 0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:38.080 He could get it. He signed a Skittles band. 0:34:39.640 --> 0:34:45.920 He's requiring companies to remove harmful ingredients in three years 0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:50.799 from Skittles, from hot Cheetos, and from a couple of food. 0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.520 Coloring whatever it's it's a certain one. 0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:58.160 It's called red dye number three, potassium bromate, bromated vegetable 0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:01.000 oil and pro for our beans. 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:08.840 Okayans, How can the California governor regulate that? Oh he's saying, 0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:10.960 you can't sell it in the state of California. No, 0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.560 you can't sell it in state of California. So all 0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:16.800 of these things are banned in thirty countries, oh, outside 0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.400 of the United States. So the majority of food and 0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:23.360 the rest of the world, yes, doesn't have all this bullshit. 0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:24.839 Cleaner, healthier, Yes. 0:35:25.200 --> 0:35:27.680 When I went to Italy this summer, I ate pasta 0:35:27.719 --> 0:35:29.560 every day right like e, morning, noon and night. 0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:30.719 And I lost. 0:35:30.520 --> 0:35:34.840 Weight then gain No way, I lost weight. Ry that 0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:38.400 should tell us something. Yeah, yeah, I brought back the pasta. 0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:41.279 I brought some there. Oh, I had it shipped over here. 0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:44.560 Yeah, that's the only pasta that I'm gonna eat, because 0:35:44.719 --> 0:35:49.000 you know, you brought that much back. I brought back enough, okay, 0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:50.920 and I don't really eat pasta off oh okay. 0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:51.440 Yeah. 0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:55.440 So I'm just trying to figure out why we got 0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:57.760 to wait three years in order to take it, take 0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:00.600 these things, or get these things clean up. 0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:04.040 Right, right, because if they're well, okay, when you were 0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:07.359 over in Italy or wherever you were, did they sell 0:36:07.400 --> 0:36:08.360 skittles anywhere? 0:36:08.880 --> 0:36:09.480 Did you notice? 0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:14.439 So they're candy what we would call candy. They don't 0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.040 necessarily have like ours, and if you do buy it, 0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:20.160 it tastes different. Yeah, they don't have that like sugary 0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.680 sugary sweet stuff. 0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:26.400 Yeah, we need to really cut back on the sugar anyway. 0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:31.160 Like sugar is addicting, it's cancer causing, Like it's so 0:36:32.040 --> 0:36:35.160 bad for us. So I'm not mad at the governor. 0:36:35.239 --> 0:36:37.680 He's trying to actually save some lives. 0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:40.200 I agree with what he's doing, but like it shouldn't 0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:42.160 just be in California. So right, only place we're gonna 0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:45.040 get clean food is in California, right, But I am 0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:45.840 here for a skittle. 0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:48.040 Maybe he's trying to that, Maybe he thinks that'll make 0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:49.720 people want to move to California. 0:36:49.800 --> 0:36:51.279 Okay, but we want, we need for him to be 0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:53.040 the president. But that's a whole nother story. 0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:55.440 So like, so do we just take the red the 0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:56.960 red skittles out and we eat the red? 0:36:57.000 --> 0:36:57.799 I don't think the red. 0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:01.759 Listen, and I want you to know, my kids love 0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:04.440 some flame of hat cheetos, right, they are here. 0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:07.720 From Doritos and all of that. They say that those 0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:12.360 those processed foods are so horrible, so bad. Yeah, like 0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:15.719 we're not meant to consume that. We're not. No, you're not. 0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:17.280 Like I mean, think about. 0:37:17.120 --> 0:37:20.960 Like humans back when caveman when the cavemen started, they 0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:23.000 didn't have all these chemicals and stuff, like our bodies 0:37:23.000 --> 0:37:23.759 aren't meant to. 0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:25.440 But they didn't last that long. How long did a 0:37:25.480 --> 0:37:25.799 cave man? 0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:26.040 I know? 0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.799 But that's because they didn't have like medicine I'm saying. 0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:31.760 So they would like die from like an infection and stuff. Okay, 0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:33.920 you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, they would cut 0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:36.359 their cut their arm and stuff, and then they would 0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:37.319 get infected and they die. 0:37:38.360 --> 0:37:42.560 Okay, So now we have medicine. But our food is 0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:47.760 horrible and processed. Yes it is, and humans people aren't 0:37:47.800 --> 0:37:50.000 supposed to be eating all this processed food. But what 0:37:50.000 --> 0:37:50.920 are you gonna do about it? 0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:55.080 Well? I don't know. Do you eat stuff like that 0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:57.640 like Dorito's have tried to like totally cut back. 0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:01.719 I really have, because I if it's in my house, 0:38:01.719 --> 0:38:02.640 it's for my kids. 0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:05.560 Yeah occasionally I do, but not really. 0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:05.719 No. 0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:07.200 Yeah, yeah, no I don't. 0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:08.920 I don't eat much, but I will say, like my 0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:13.560 guilty Oh yeah, what's your food pleasure? Like junk food 0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:18.560 is our Oreo cookies and Dorito's. 0:38:18.320 --> 0:38:19.280 Which kind of dirido. 0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:24.800 So I'm like a pretty just basic nacho cheese one. Yeah, 0:38:24.960 --> 0:38:27.319 I was turned onto the spicy nacho ones, which are 0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:31.480 good too, but I like just the classic red bag 0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:35.920 nacho cheese to rito. And then for Oreos they have 0:38:35.960 --> 0:38:37.080 to be double stuff. 0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:39.960 Because you want all the nastiness. 0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:41.640 Yeah, you want all the you know, they make like 0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:43.200 a triple stuff and a mega stuff. 0:38:43.360 --> 0:38:43.440 What. 0:38:43.719 --> 0:38:45.920 Oh yeah that's just gross too much? Yeah, that's too 0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:49.600 too much. Okay, so you're married, I have a robbin 0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:52.919 married question. Actually this was on the internet. I want 0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:57.200 to know, so telling your husband the same sentence ten 0:38:57.280 --> 0:39:00.759 days in a row, just to have him say, you 0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:02.719 definitely never told me that. 0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:07.239 Is that a thing? Yes, I don't want to say 0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:10.239 ten days in a row, right, but definitely there have been. 0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:15.160 It happens quite frequently, okay, where we have a conversation, 0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:18.239 you know, maybe a couple of times, and then a 0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:20.520 couple of days later he's like, oh, no, you ain't 0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:20.920 telling me that. 0:39:21.000 --> 0:39:22.719 Oh I didn't know about that. Why didn't you tell me? 0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:26.240 But yes, oh yeah, okay, oh yeah, So that happens 0:39:26.239 --> 0:39:27.040 with my kids a lot. 0:39:27.360 --> 0:39:30.120 Really. Yeah, I'll tell them something. They'll tell me something. 0:39:30.239 --> 0:39:32.960 Oh they say they told me something they didn't and 0:39:33.000 --> 0:39:34.719 then they're and I'm like what. And then the next 0:39:34.800 --> 0:39:37.279 day they mentioned it and I'm like, what arey'all talking about? 0:39:37.320 --> 0:39:38.760 And they were like, mom, we told you yesterday. 0:39:38.960 --> 0:39:41.840 Right. So sometimes I think the kids do tell us stuff. 0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:46.359 We're like scrolling Instagram and we're not quite paying attention. 0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:47.520 To what they're saying. Oh so it's in one air 0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:48.120 and out the other. 0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:50.360 Yeah, we're kind of like, uh huh, I stop talking 0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:52.279 like cause we're like, but I need to see what's 0:39:52.280 --> 0:39:53.200 going on in the shade room. 0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:55.520 So do you need do you sit with I mean, 0:39:55.560 --> 0:39:57.560 do you tell one like look like, hey, you really 0:39:57.560 --> 0:39:58.239 don't listen to me. 0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:02.520 I mean yeah, I said, yeah, I'm like, you don't 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:04.720 you don't listen, you're not paying attention or whatever. 0:40:04.840 --> 0:40:08.080 But then sometimes he gets me because you're not paying attention. Yeah. 0:40:08.160 --> 0:40:11.120 Yes, But like I'll literally so say, say he calls 0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:13.480 me right and I'm like, oh, what are you doing? 0:40:13.480 --> 0:40:14.239 Where you're coming from? 0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:17.399 And then he tells me and then we talked about 0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:18.879 something blah blah blah. And then I'll be like, where 0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:20.200 are you where are you coming from? And it'd be 0:40:20.239 --> 0:40:23.799 like I just told you. I'm like, oh, I don't know. 0:40:23.760 --> 0:40:28.600 What you said, and that is that's weird. So it 0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:30.520 goes both ways, that's for sure. It does. 0:40:30.560 --> 0:40:32.200 I think it's a lot of times when we talk, 0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:35.239 we're like distracted. I think it's a difference between like 0:40:35.800 --> 0:40:38.399 talking to each other in passing, right, you know, when 0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:41.520 you're like on the phone and you're driving, you're going somewhere, 0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:45.080 you're cooking, you're doing something, versus like sitting down at 0:40:45.080 --> 0:40:48.520 the dinner table and having like a direct conversation real. 0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:50.000 Yeah, you know, that's very true. 0:40:50.520 --> 0:40:54.280 So or talking to them while they're watching sports like that's. 0:40:54.040 --> 0:40:55.759 Oh you can't talk to him? Yeah? 0:40:55.800 --> 0:40:59.880 No, But if you're looking at social media, Eli Musk 0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:06.239 said x X will be a place of uplift, mint 0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:11.880 and a positivity. It's soon going to morph into a 0:41:11.920 --> 0:41:17.000 place of positivity and meaningful conversation. 0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:21.120 Really, yes, Okay, when does he think this's gonna happen? 0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:25.160 And how the most toxic. 0:41:24.840 --> 0:41:26.919 Platform ever is all of a sudden going to turn 0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:29.120 into a place where it's meaningful positivity. 0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:30.200 Well, wait a minute. 0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:32.640 Didn't he say that he was going to start charging 0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:35.360 for Twitter or just anyone to have a Twitter account? 0:41:35.440 --> 0:41:38.120 Well he knows he can't do that, right because no 0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:40.080 one will be on it, right and then while then 0:41:40.160 --> 0:41:42.920 everyone's just going to go over to threads? Yeah, does 0:41:42.960 --> 0:41:47.200 he that Instagram? That's this boy, That's that's why they 0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:49.080 want to fight. 0:41:49.160 --> 0:41:51.319 What happened to the fight? They were supposed to fight 0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:54.560 in the ring? Right? I don't know? Yeah, they're getting ready. 0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:57.319 So wait, are you on threads? I'm on threads? Did 0:41:57.440 --> 0:41:59.480 you use it? No? I never use it? Do you 0:41:59.480 --> 0:42:03.120 have a I don't not on threats. 0:42:06.520 --> 0:42:08.799 I have have my own accounts, I have my name, 0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:12.160 but I just in my mind. I'm like, how could 0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:14.799 Elon must think that Twitter is going to be a 0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:19.800 place with positive thoughts, where it's meaningful, where something would 0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:22.560 somebody would like read something on Twitter and they like 0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:25.080 it challenges them to be a better. 0:42:24.920 --> 0:42:28.719 Person all that? Like, what are you talking about? Who is? 0:42:28.840 --> 0:42:33.240 Because they were still calling me like the most horrible 0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:35.640 person alive, Like they're trashing me constantly. 0:42:35.960 --> 0:42:38.000 Right, Yeah, I don't know what he's thinking. I don't know. 0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:41.600 I mean, hey, I love the thought of that, but 0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:43.239 how are you going to make that happen? He's a 0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:45.880 liar in his pants on I'm going to require a 0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:50.840 ton of regulation, all right. So we have a couple 0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:55.920 of is it reasonable or is it d This is 0:42:55.920 --> 0:43:01.000 from Kimberly Douglas and she says, Robin, is it reasonable 0:43:01.120 --> 0:43:03.800 or shady for my mother in law of three months 0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:06.600 to tell me that I should dress up for a 0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:11.160 casual family wedding that is serving barbecue food at a. 0:43:11.120 --> 0:43:12.480 Community center. 0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:16.879 When I have already told her that I was going 0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:19.759 to wear a more casual dress. I am thirty six 0:43:19.840 --> 0:43:23.719 years old and thirty three weeks pregnant. I do not 0:43:24.040 --> 0:43:27.960 think it's her place. But what do you think I 0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:30.719 love your podcast. By the way, it's Kim from New Jersey. 0:43:30.840 --> 0:43:34.200 Yeah, mother in law needs mind her damn business, right, 0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:35.239 mother in law? Oh, mother in law. 0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:38.960 Yeah, you're right, mother in law, mind your business. I'm 0:43:39.000 --> 0:43:41.760 gonna wear what the hell I want to wear? Yes, okay, yes, 0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:45.280 And I don't give a shit what you say. So yes, 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.880 and I thank god she told us it was a 0:43:47.920 --> 0:43:50.480 barbecue at the community it's a community center. 0:43:50.560 --> 0:43:50.840 Girl. 0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:54.360 You can wear your dunks, okay, a hoodie and whatever 0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:54.879 you want to wear. 0:43:54.960 --> 0:43:56.320 Okay, be comfortable. 0:43:56.480 --> 0:44:00.400 Right, and you're thirty three weeks pregnant. A little more 0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:01.359 pregnant by telling me. 0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:04.560 She probably had a baby at this point, right, So like, yes, 0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:06.080 tell mother in law mine to business. 0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:07.320 Yes, that is very shady. 0:44:07.600 --> 0:44:10.640 So this mother in law is shady for telling you 0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:14.080 to dress up, because I feel like she's secretly telling you. 0:44:14.040 --> 0:44:16.960 She doesn't like the way you dress. It's this secret. No, 0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:19.680 it's not a secret. It's not a secret. She's throwing 0:44:19.680 --> 0:44:20.360 you some hints. 0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:24.560 Yeah, she's like daughter in law and who's we need 0:44:24.600 --> 0:44:26.160 more information? Whose wedding is this? 0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:28.760 Right? So maybe it's like her other child. 0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.320 Or and Kimberly, are you the bride in the wedding, 0:44:31.440 --> 0:44:35.480 because if you the bride and walking down thirty three 0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:40.640 weeks pregnant girl, you're wrong for that. So yeah, where 0:44:40.680 --> 0:44:45.440 whatever you want? So this is from Jacob may Berry. Okay, 0:44:45.480 --> 0:44:47.560 dear Robin Injazel, you guys are so much fun and 0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:51.760 love y'all. I want your advice for if my situation 0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:55.680 is reasonable or shady. So for just over a month, 0:44:55.719 --> 0:44:59.200 I was saying a guy I met online, I'm gay. 0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:03.640 So you know where grinder? Grinder is gay? Yes, okay, 0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:05.520 all right, I mean that's like the only gay site. 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:09.000 Probably not, but I think grinder. Okay, fine, that's like. 0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:11.200 The one that that's the most common one. Okay. 0:45:11.320 --> 0:45:13.360 It was going really well, and I was starting to 0:45:13.400 --> 0:45:17.520 catch early onset feels for the man. We were talking 0:45:17.600 --> 0:45:20.840 every day and I always told him like, wow, I 0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:24.000 have not even found one red flag, to which he replied, 0:45:24.440 --> 0:45:27.640 maybe I don't have any. Fast forward a few weeks. 0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:30.800 A few more weeks and I went to my hairdresser's house, 0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:33.399 one of my best friends, and I was giving her 0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:36.359 the rundown. I decided to bring up bring it up. 0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:39.880 Since it's been going really well. I usually like to 0:45:39.920 --> 0:45:42.440 wait a little bit before I tell people about this stuff. 0:45:42.760 --> 0:45:46.120 I told her how good he is, and she asked 0:45:46.120 --> 0:45:49.520 for a picture. I know what this is going, right, 0:45:49.600 --> 0:45:53.000 I showed her and she goes, that's my friend's boyfriend. 0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:58.440 Maybe okay. I was obviously in disbelief and shocked. 0:45:58.800 --> 0:46:02.120 She summoned her friend that she lives with, who also 0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:07.560 confirmed that it was him. I obnestly felt like shit 0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:10.560 for a number of reasons. My hairdresser then tells me 0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:13.920 she needs to tell her. I said, wait, let me 0:46:13.960 --> 0:46:15.560 talk to him first so I can give him the 0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:19.399 chance to do it. No, no, no, this man's doing 0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:22.760 the most. I didn't want to out him. I don't 0:46:22.760 --> 0:46:25.719 know how the girlfriend would react. They showed me his 0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:28.440 true identity and his real name, and when I went 0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:31.000 to stark him, he had blocked me. 0:46:32.719 --> 0:46:36.760 What Oh, this is getting good, this is juicy. Okay, 0:46:36.920 --> 0:46:38.560 he was thinking ahead, right. 0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:40.960 So I made a new Instagram account with a fake 0:46:41.040 --> 0:46:44.839 name as the user and decided to message him. Hey 0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:47.359 it's Jacob, I guess with a K or I don't know, 0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:48.799 maybe this is a fake name he gave us. 0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.680 Anyway, Hey it's Jacob. Message me. It's urgent. 0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:56.279 He replied straight away and then started messaging me on 0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:58.520 the fake account, where I confronted him and he did 0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:01.600 not it all. I said, I'm telling you so you 0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:05.919 can sort it out before you my friend does, and 0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:10.240 that had the potential to be explosive. He denied, denied, denied, 0:47:10.520 --> 0:47:15.680 So my headdresser called and told her yes, girl power 0:47:15.760 --> 0:47:19.359 stick together. Okay. The girlfriend reached out to me to 0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:23.040 get the deats and receipts. Not long after, this is 0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:27.000 the best juiciest story, guys. Okay, not long after, we 0:47:27.000 --> 0:47:30.279 were on the phone together and somehow trauma bonded I 0:47:30.280 --> 0:47:33.680 guess them, and they were besties. He was denying everything 0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:36.399 to her, even though the proof was there. We said 0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:41.000 we would keep it between us for his sake and 0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:43.040 if he's confused, we're just. 0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:46.960 There to help him. Okay, that's weird. Okay, I was surprised. 0:47:47.320 --> 0:47:47.800 It's weird. 0:47:47.880 --> 0:47:49.880 Yes, I was surprised. She was on the same page 0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:54.080 as me when he wronged us both. But we're still 0:47:54.080 --> 0:47:57.160 trying to help him and protect him. He denied all, saying, 0:47:57.640 --> 0:48:00.560 all I want is to to be with. 0:48:00.560 --> 0:48:02.000 You, saying that to the woman. 0:48:02.040 --> 0:48:04.239 He saying that to a woman to the girlfriend, and 0:48:04.360 --> 0:48:09.680 said I'm making up everything we see right through the bullshit, 0:48:09.800 --> 0:48:12.480 and she broke up with him. Yes, okay, all right, 0:48:13.239 --> 0:48:16.040 this is not neither reasonable. 0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:17.920 Or shady, Like, what's the question here? All right? 0:48:18.719 --> 0:48:22.640 So she was happy with me to be friends with 0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:26.480 him and try to help express himself, help him express himself, 0:48:26.480 --> 0:48:29.680 and help explore himself to see what he wants. And 0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:32.319 the three of us all ended up meeting at a 0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:36.360 festival about two months later after all this happened. What 0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:39.920 It was awkward in the beginning, but we just ignored 0:48:39.920 --> 0:48:42.440 the elephant in the room and we were just dancing. 0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:46.200 I can't I'm done, y'all. Okay, wait, wait, wait, there's more. 0:48:46.719 --> 0:48:48.759 Now we're in a weird sort of situation where some 0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:52.439 people think we're a throuple because of how we handled it. 0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:55.879 We're definitely not, and everyone thinks it's weird, but we're 0:48:55.960 --> 0:48:58.880 just trying to be supportive. He is a bit crazy, 0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:01.520 so he goes all off at us, and we kind 0:49:01.600 --> 0:49:04.960 of started to distance. She was getting twenty calls a 0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:07.960 minute from from black numbers, so she had to change it. 0:49:08.520 --> 0:49:11.239 He isn't taking the help, and he's not listening to us. 0:49:11.280 --> 0:49:17.400 It's always the heavily tatted straight guys. No one would expect, 0:49:17.960 --> 0:49:21.160 not you putting it out there that he is heavily tatted. Okay, 0:49:22.040 --> 0:49:24.280 is it reasonable or is it shady the way we handled? 0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:25.640 Should we just leave it alone? 0:49:25.719 --> 0:49:26.000 Now? 0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:29.360 We tried so hard for so long. Love from Sydney. 0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:32.560 Sorry it was a bit long. Oh this thing warned 0:49:32.560 --> 0:49:36.839 me out, y'all. I want out twisted turn. Okay, So 0:49:36.880 --> 0:49:44.919 the girlfriend and the gay friend, yes, end up being friends, right, 0:49:45.400 --> 0:49:49.480 and now they're trying to help the guy who closeted 0:49:49.760 --> 0:49:52.160 straight gay man, Yes, who's heavily tatted. 0:49:54.360 --> 0:49:56.360 There's a bunch of tats. So it's a reasonable, shady 0:49:56.360 --> 0:49:56.799 way handed. 0:49:56.960 --> 0:49:59.239 I actually think they were very reasonable, Yeah, because they 0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:02.640 were extremely yes, extremely reasonable. They were trying to protect him, 0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:06.960 trying to make him feel better about himself. They realized 0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:10.600 that he wasn't being honest with himself or with his friends, 0:50:10.719 --> 0:50:14.360 and that there's some deep down issue that he's not 0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:17.400 ready to deal with. And they still kind of loved 0:50:17.440 --> 0:50:19.959 him and tried to help him and try to teach 0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:22.680 him acceptance and all of that. Yeah, I think what 0:50:22.719 --> 0:50:26.319 they did was actually really really reasonable. And then I think, 0:50:26.400 --> 0:50:29.600 you know, it sounds like they've kind of cut him off, right, 0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:31.959 And I think that's reasonable too, because at some point, 0:50:32.120 --> 0:50:37.480 if he's not willing to be honest, or if he's 0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:39.960 you know, lashing out in anger or whatever, it might 0:50:40.000 --> 0:50:42.839 be like you all have done everything that you can. 0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.600 Yes, you've showed him. This is beyond reasonable. 0:50:45.800 --> 0:50:48.880 Yes, because shady would be let's set him up, okay, right, 0:50:49.080 --> 0:50:51.040 let's and one invite him to dinner and then the 0:50:51.080 --> 0:50:54.200 other one pop up, right, that's shady, Yes, and that's 0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:54.839 what I would do. 0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:58.719 Yes, yes, yes, but I think it's reasonable. But I'm 0:50:58.760 --> 0:51:04.879 also like y'all are way too nice, like y'all quite strained. 0:51:05.200 --> 0:51:08.120 Yeah, we wouldn't be going out dancing. No, we wouldn't 0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:08.759 be doing none of that. 0:51:08.960 --> 0:51:10.920 No, but clearly they have a soft spot for him 0:51:10.920 --> 0:51:13.000 for whatever reason, because he's heavily tatted. 0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:16.200 They think, thank you, Yes, I'm heavily tatted guys who 0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:18.240 they win you over us? 0:51:18.320 --> 0:51:21.279 So you know, I mean, I don't know. 0:51:21.400 --> 0:51:25.160 I God bless all of y'all in this situation, Yause, 0:51:25.360 --> 0:51:28.840 the two of y'all are angels and the straight, heavily 0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:31.239 tatted man is confused. 0:51:31.320 --> 0:51:33.400 Yes, and that was extremely juicy. If y'all have more 0:51:33.440 --> 0:51:34.319 juicy stories like that. 0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:36.960 Keep them coming, Keep them coming. 0:51:37.200 --> 0:51:39.120 But that is our episode. We love y'all so much. 0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:42.680 Don't ever forget to live your life. 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