1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am 4 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: Jaselle Bryant. 5 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 3: What's that? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you 6 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 3: for being here. 7 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: Yes once again once again? Yeah listen, they try to 8 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 2: get rid of us. 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 3: Here we are again. Did anybody really try to get 10 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 3: rid of us? Oh? People try, they try, Yes, the takedown. 11 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 3: Yeah listen. 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: And that was actually so funny because that was actually 13 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: my shady moment of the week. Like people literally listen 14 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: to try to find things that we say to take 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:53,599 Speaker 1: us down. So this wasn't this week. This this came 16 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: to my attention recently, but somebody recently told me, like, 17 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: there's like at least one account that takes things that 18 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: we say and reports on them on their YouTube page 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 1: or their whatever whatever social media page that is it is, 20 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: and tries to like drum up like, you know, hate. 21 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 3: Us, hate for us. 22 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: So this account, one of them was like, do you 23 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: remember when I told the story about Corey opening the 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: pringles container, tasting the pring on it with stale and 25 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: put it back and target they literally took that, went 26 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: to their YouTube and pretty much tried to like, you know, 27 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: promote that. I'm like, you know, the one rob teaching 28 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:38,559 Speaker 1: their kids to be you. 29 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: Know, I don't know, yeah, like stuff like that, Like 30 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:42,839 Speaker 2: are they trying to get you banned from Target? 31 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 3: I don't write, I don't know. They're trying to get 32 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 3: me banned from life? 33 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: And it's just like insane, right, So I'm just like 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: I want to actually send like thoughts of peace to 35 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: these people because it's just like for you to live 36 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: your life worrying about what other people were doing and 37 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: having so much hate. 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 3: They said this person like hates. 39 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: Me, or well they want the clicks they're obviously are 40 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: they trying to make money? They get a certain amount 41 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 2: of views, right, I mean one watch. 42 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, I really, I really don't know what 43 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: their ultimate intention is. 44 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 3: Is it for money? 45 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: Is it because you like really really really hate people 46 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: and you want to see them, you know, be torn 47 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: down and fail or whatever, But whatever it is, it's like, 48 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you need to release that negative toxicity 49 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: in your in your life, in your brain and your 50 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: mind and your hate that you have for other people 51 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: and just release it. 52 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 3: So I mean, I offer. 53 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: Peace to that person or whatever I wish you peace, 54 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: I wish you, you know, peace of mind, all that 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: type of stuff. 56 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's like real shady, Like there's actually the shade. 57 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: It's like people actually listen to our podcast not because 58 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: they like us, but because they hate us and they. 59 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 2: Want to take our words and use them against that. 60 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: And I'm saying I'm here for that. Keep listening, I 61 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 2: mean right, keep listening. 62 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: But like realize, like we don't take ourselves too seriously, 63 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So if I'm sitting here 64 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: telling you the stories because I don't take myself or 65 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: life too seriously. 66 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: So if you want me to go to. 67 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: Jail because my son target jail, yes, because my son 68 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: opened a can of Pringles and realized they were stale 69 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: and didn't want them. Because Pringle's been ficking up on 70 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: the damn on their quality lately. 71 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 3: Like you know, have at it. 72 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: But actually just look inside yourself, ask why do you 73 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: do this to other people? 74 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 2: You're offering peace to them. I want them to get 75 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 2: kicked in the butt. I want them to trip on 76 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: the curb. I want them to lose their lunch, I 77 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: want them to get a high in the face. 78 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: I want a whole lot of things for them. Okay, 79 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 3: not peace, have nothing to do with peace. Listen. 80 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: It is nothing better than the feeling of, like releasing 81 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: all types of all negative and toxic energy. 82 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying? 83 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: Like I just I remember years ago, when I was younger, 84 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: the day that I actually said, you know what, I 85 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: am not letting negativity or toxicity consume me. Ever, And 86 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: there's a no better feeling than releasing that energy as 87 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: soon as it comes your way. Yes, it's freeing, Yes, 88 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: extremely freeing. So yes, you want them to get kicked 89 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: in the butt. I want people to experience what it 90 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: feels like to release toxic energy. 91 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 3: Toxic. I love that negativity, negative thoughts. 92 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 2: I love that, okay, okay, And that's why you're Robin 93 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 2: Dixon exactly. Yes, okay, I love that. Well, that is 94 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 2: your shady moment, whether you know it or not, and 95 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: mine would be. 96 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 3: So a couple things. I have a very nice thing 97 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 3: to report. 98 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 2: So a couple of weeks ago I talked about cal 99 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: gave me a plant from my dad. I planted it myself, 100 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 2: and I realized where I planted it, it wasn't getting 101 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 2: a lot of sunlight. Even though the deer ate the leaves, 102 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 2: and anybody who wants to shoot the deer have at it. 103 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 2: An when people don't come after me. And so my 104 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: landscapers were at my house and they were like planning 105 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 2: new bushes all around. 106 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 3: I said, you're about to do some lands gaving out here. 107 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: Yes, speaking of landscaper's. My landscaper wants to take you 108 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: out on a date, the one that doesn't wash his body. 109 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 3: What okay? And you're condoning this. I just I'm passing 110 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 3: the message. You're being his wing woman. You like me, 111 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: you like to go on dates, not with people who 112 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 3: don't shower. I'm passing the message. That was it. Okay, 113 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 3: if he showers, I told him I couldn't promise anything. 114 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 2: If he showers for two weeks consecutively, I'll think about it. Okay, 115 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 2: but it's got to be a good fourteen days okay, 116 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 2: every day at least once, not twice once okay, okay, afterwork, 117 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: right after yes, afterwork. He need's clean balls and penis. 118 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:39,679 Speaker 3: Okay. All right. 119 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: So the landscapers came and I was like, you know what, guys, 120 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 2: and oh, they were putting down new bushes because the 121 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 2: deer had eaten up the other ones, and I was like, hey, guys, 122 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: you know, I'm thinking I need this plant moved to 123 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: be in more sun. 124 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: Right. They said, okay, okay, we'll do it as a 125 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 3: Japanese maple. 126 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: They knew okay, from the stick with no leaves, they 127 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 2: knew it was a Japanese mape. I was like, yeallow, 128 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 2: is some badas I know. So they were at my 129 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 2: house all day. Now, I don't know how you get 130 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 2: charged for your landscaper. I get charged by every fifteen minutes. 131 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: Legit, shit is expense. Yes, so every fifteen minutes is 132 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: a fee fifteen Are you serious? Yes? 133 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: They break it down in fifteen minute increments because if 134 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 2: it's if it's just regular cutting the grass, sometimes that 135 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: takes eight minutes because they zoom zoom and they're done. Okay, 136 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: so it's fifteen minutes increment. Okay, Oh my god, Okay, 137 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,160 Speaker 2: that's insane. They're at my house for hours. They would lunch, 138 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: they came back. They're at my house for hours. They 139 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: moved the plant and good, this is not shady yet, 140 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 2: not getting to the shady part yet. There are leaves 141 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 2: growing from my plant. That means, okay, it's doing good. 142 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 3: It's doing good. 143 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 2: Okay, my dad is doing good in the ground. They 144 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 2: were at my house. This was probably Tuesday. They were all, 145 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: damn day, they're gonna give me a big ass bill. 146 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 3: Oh, it's gonna be big. Thursday, these people came back again. 147 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 3: I said, hell, no, no, you're not. I looked at it. 148 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 3: I went outside. I looked at them. 149 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 2: They came back just to like, quote cut grass. No fools, 150 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: y'all did that two days ago. Get away from my 151 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 2: house and don't charge me for this fifteen minutes and 152 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 2: get away. 153 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 3: They were shady. Try it. Yeah, oh yeah, they try it. 154 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: They they try it because they gotta get it in 155 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: because they're gonna have a nice time period when they're 156 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: not doing any work, right, So that's why they got 157 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: to like, well, they got a cutch of grass. 158 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 2: As many times as they can, but they get it 159 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: in with the leaves, the picking up of the leaves, 160 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: which I need, so they get it in kind of 161 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 2: like that way. But no, no, what we're not doing. 162 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: We're gonna you're gonna double back. You're gonna twice a 163 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: week meat, don't you twice a week? 164 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 3: Meat? 165 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 2: No, get out of here anyway, guys won a little 166 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: more reminder that the Real Housewife as the Potomaca. We'll 167 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: be back on November fifth, eight o'clock. It's going down. 168 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 3: Ravo season eight, baby woo. 169 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: How do you feel season eight? Just like I felt 170 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: season one? Like actual, well not just like I felt. 171 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: So season one was definitely like a. 172 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 3: Like an unknown, like, yeah, we didn't really know what 173 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 3: to expect, right right? 174 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: We know now we know now, yes, but see, but 175 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: it is similar season one because even every season I'm 176 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: just like how did I get here? And I still 177 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: eight seasons later and like how did I get here? 178 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: Like it's very weird to me, but it has very 179 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: much become a part of my life. Yes, even though 180 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: it's like a part of my life that I don't, 181 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: don't let it define my life. Yeah, and I'm still 182 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: you know, grateful for it, but I'm still also like 183 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: how did I get here? 184 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 185 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 2: I can say for you you have settled in, like 186 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 2: you're like, because for like six seasons, Robin was one 187 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: foot in, one foot out, like she was like I'm out. 188 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 3: Here, I can't do this, this is so horrible. 189 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 2: But like you've like settled in. You're like, Okay, yeah, 190 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: I guess I'm on TV. 191 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I guess I've now accepted, like, Okay, this 192 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: is what I do. 193 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is yes, this is actually what you do, 194 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 2: and you have the tax bracket to show. Right, Okay, 195 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: moving on, I want to talk about a couple of 196 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 2: things that are on television. Okay, well, well, actually this 197 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 2: is not on television. Oh, this is social media. I 198 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 2: have to say that I've been being I've been entertained 199 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: by Shannon Sharp and Chad Ocho Cinco. 200 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've come across them. I've only crawled across 201 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: from one time. So what are they? 202 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 3: I think it's. 203 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: Called I think it's the the The podcast is called 204 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: Nightcap maybe, okay, maybe, but it's like Shannon. You know, 205 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 2: Shannon Sharp has his own I guess show, so this 206 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 2: is separate from that. Yeah, And I think he had Todd. 207 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: I mean I had Chad as a guest, and I 208 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: think it like really went well because they battle each other. 209 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: And so I think this is like a reincurr thing 210 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: I've seen. And the only reason why I really know 211 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: because the guys have on different clothes. I've seen maybe 212 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 2: five clips with different clothes those different occasions. 213 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 3: They are so freaking funny. Like they're they're a good duo. 214 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:22,239 Speaker 2: They are amazing, so I want to like recommend them. 215 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 2: I can't figure if I'm team Shannon or team chat right. 216 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 3: But why don't be team either one? 217 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: Because they're both telling each other to shut the f up? Yeah, 218 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: so you know you want you want to like root 219 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: for one, right o? 220 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but. 221 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 2: They're both full of like they both are talk about 222 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,200 Speaker 2: like how amazing they are, right, and they're like trying 223 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 2: to battle each other about how amazing they are, which 224 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 2: is hilarious. 225 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 3: Right, But are they so the topic mostly sports? 226 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 2: It's sports, it's women, it's just what you do on 227 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: an average day. 228 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 3: It's just kind of like what we do, yeah, minus sports. Yeah, 229 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 3: they're funny guys. 230 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, And guys are hilarious to watch, like debates, yes, 231 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: because they go who hard. 232 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: Power. But what I do like about guys going back 233 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 2: and forth out outside of women because we don't know 234 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 2: how to do this. They listen and they talk about 235 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 2: what they've just heard as opposed to talking about as 236 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: supposed to name calling. 237 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 3: Right. 238 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, the guys they don't have to throw insults in 239 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: they literally stick to the topic. 240 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 3: Yep. 241 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: And they are very passionate about their topic, right, and 242 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: they go they can go back and. 243 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 3: Forth and back. 244 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: It's so funny because I because this happens a lot 245 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 1: in my house with Wand and his his buddies and 246 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 1: his friends and his brothers and cousins and all that. 247 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: So they start off and they're like strongly debating a topic, right, 248 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: and it's usually sports centered related to sports. And the 249 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 1: longer they go, the more they're saying the same thing. 250 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 2: Oh and right, they're not really debating anymore because they agree, yes, yes, 251 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like y'all are these same things, and 252 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 2: y'all are still going back and forth and arguing like 253 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 2: you're debating. 254 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, this is so insane to me. Yeah, it's 255 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 3: so funny. Yes, and they don't. You know, guys, they don't. 256 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 2: They if they are mad each other, they'll make up 257 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 2: in like seventeen seconds. What. 258 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: And it's so funny. Like a lot of my personality 259 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: and the way that I handle things is because I 260 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: have literally been around guys my entire life. Yeah, like 261 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: between my brother, my you know, Wan, his teammates, his brothers, 262 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: his younger cousins like all, and I've literally like been 263 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: around this though, like all the time, and so when 264 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm dealing with women and they can't, it's like I'm 265 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: more like straightforward, yes, and they can't handle it. And 266 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: then and then it you know, it's like you know, 267 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 1: and guys crack on each other, like they don't throw 268 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: all the insults, but they just joke and crack on 269 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: each other. It's like, it's hard for me to deal 270 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: with women who are sensitive to like straightforwardness and like joking. Right, 271 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: so they try to say your jokes that funny, right, right, 272 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: you're bullying, You're being a bully, being a bully. 273 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 3: Or stuff like, and it's like, no. 274 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm actually just doing with the what I'm used to, 275 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: like what I've what I'm used to all the time. 276 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: We need to retire that word bully needs to be retired. 277 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 3: It really does. Let it go. It does ship. It 278 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 3: was something I wanted to say. Okay, so as you're 279 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 3: thinking about that. 280 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: Oh, speaking of podcasts, Yes, we just did a little, 281 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: a little an interview with little Duval, Yes, who has 282 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: a podcast coming out. It's not released yet, but we 283 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: just want to share the experience with you all because and. 284 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 2: If y'all don't know who he is he don't have 285 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 2: time to go back and forth with you. He's living 286 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: his best life, right, Okay, Yes, he's I don't know 287 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: what would you call what You wouldn't call him a 288 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 2: singer or a rapper's he's more of a comedian. 289 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 3: He's a comedian. Yeah, he goes on tour. Oh okay, 290 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 3: he's more of a comedian. Okay. 291 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: And then you know now he has like a strong 292 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 1: inner Instagram presence. He did you know that little that 293 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: viral song in the dance? 294 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,839 Speaker 2: Right? Was it the song to the to Drake's song, 295 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 2: Oh the dance, key key, yeah dance? 296 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 3: How did he make that dance viral? He started? 297 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 2: Then we're gonna come back to Drake in a minute, 298 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 2: because Drake just dropped some new songs. 299 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 3: Our new album, and we're gonna we're gonna get to that. 300 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: But yes, what podcast? 301 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: So, so, he has a new podcast coming out it's 302 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: yet to be named. However, we were a guest on it, 303 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 1: and he's he's a fellow Black Effect Network talent. Shout 304 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: out yeah black So we were on the podcast, and 305 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: so when we start off, he's kind of like he's like, yeah, 306 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: I don't know who y'all. 307 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 3: Are and we was like, we don't know you either. 308 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: So he's like, so, y'all introduce y'allselves, tell me and 309 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: tell me about yourselves. 310 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 3: He smoked like eighteen blunts the whole time. 311 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: Yes, So it's so funny because you know, we just 312 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: we were just being ourselves, doing our thing, and by 313 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: the end of the interview, he's like, man, I like y'all, 314 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: y'all hood y'all like talking to y'all hang out. 315 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 2: Actually, he said he would hang out with Robins. Yeah, 316 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 2: he would have with me, right, and that's fine. I'm 317 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 2: fine now. He said, Robin's cooler than me. He would 318 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 2: like to hang out with both of us, but Robin's 319 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: more laid back, right, which she is. 320 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 3: But then he understood why you sell and our friends. Yes, 321 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 3: because you need because we balance each other. Yeah, you need, 322 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 3: you need to combo. Yeah, but we will let y'all 323 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 3: know when it or just be looking out for when 324 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 3: that episode drops. 325 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was just cool because it's like, it 326 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: was cool to talk to someone who has absolutely no 327 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: idea who we are and we're just literally talking to 328 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: him about I mean, we could we get juicy and spicy, Yes, 329 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: you know, advice relationship stuff, sex, whatever, and it's just 330 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: really cool just to talk to someone and they just 331 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 1: they form their own opinion of us based on their 332 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: interaction with us. Not We didn't talk about the TV 333 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: show nothing because he ain't never watching, He don't know 334 00:15:58,480 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: nothing about. 335 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 3: It or cared. He doesn't care at all. 336 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 2: Okay, So what a show on Netflix that I want 337 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: to tell y'all about, because you know y'all always asking 338 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 2: what am I watching? And it kind of caught me 339 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: off guard because I had my own speaking of like prejudging. 340 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 2: I had my own prejudgment of these people, one person 341 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 2: in particular. Anyway, the Beckham story that's on Netflix. 342 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 3: Have you seen it? 343 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: I haven't watched yet, but you saw that as advertised 344 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: or whatever. David Beckham. Hm, he is a mate sing 345 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 2: and I mean, yes, he looks good and all that, 346 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: but like he's a bad mamma jama. 347 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 3: Really what he had. 348 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: To go through in order to not not in order 349 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 2: to get to where he is now, but just like 350 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 2: what he went through. 351 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 3: You have to see it. 352 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, because because this was before social media, this 353 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 2: was before people could kind of bully you through typing things. 354 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 2: He was getting spitting face he's walking through. 355 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 3: Why because the soccer fans are so hardcore. 356 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 2: Yes, and he did like one move in one game 357 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: and he got red carded. 358 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 3: It read something he had. 359 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 2: To leave the game. That means they have to play 360 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: one man down, right, and the entire country spin on him. Right. 361 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: They were hanging up effigies of like David Beckham dolls 362 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 2: like he couldn't go outside, right. I don't doubt I've 363 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 2: ever talked about it, just because I can't. I wasn't eating, 364 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 2: I wasn't sleeping. It took a toll on me that 365 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 2: I never even knew myself. Okay, So that's actually not 366 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 2: who I prejudged. I prejudged his wife, Okay, Okay, that's 367 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 2: Victoria Posh Spice. And I never really like I guess 368 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 2: I didn't know enough about her, but I kind of 369 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: thought she was a little snootye yeah, distant aloof all 370 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 2: the things. Like I got a different a different view 371 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 2: of her. I understand her much better. I like them together, okay, 372 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,199 Speaker 2: And I'm happy that they've, you know, been able to 373 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 2: maintain a family unit for so long. 374 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. And I love me some David Beckham. Okay, he 375 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 3: is the main that is. 376 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: So funny that you say that, because I just went 377 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: out to lunch with some girlfriends over the weekend and 378 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: we were going around just talking about, you know, the 379 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 1: guys that would get the Hall passes or whatever. 380 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 3: They said David Beckham. Yeah, they were like, oh that David. 381 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 3: You know what. 382 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 2: I never put him on my list, really, no, yeah, 383 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 2: but I think I would have got about him. But 384 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 2: I do remember years ago being like, oh yeah, now 385 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 2: he I didn't know he's part owner of that Miami 386 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 2: were a messy place. Yes, yeah, which is that's an 387 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 2: amazing end to his story, right, yeah, oh. 388 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's awesome. Yeah. 389 00:18:56,200 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: So, speaking of Netflix, I'm gonna need for this strike 390 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: to end. Why because now like there's you know, no 391 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: new it's end. It ended though, didn't it. No, the 392 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 1: writer strike ended, okay, so the actor strike has not. 393 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: So now that the writer strike is over, okay, we 394 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: need the actors strike to end so that we can 395 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: get some like new American created filmed content because I 396 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: don't know if you've noticed on Netflix now it's like 397 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 1: all these like it's like new shows, but when you 398 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 1: watch them, they're actually dubbed or whatever. Yes, they're foreign 399 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: shows and they write they dubbed the English language over it, 400 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: and it's just it's so distracting to me. Yeah, I'm 401 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: like watching their lips move and they're totally not lining 402 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 1: up with. 403 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 3: The Yeah with the words. 404 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,239 Speaker 2: Somebody told me that you could change your settings and 405 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 2: get the English version, like you know, subtitled okay, way 406 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 2: you can. 407 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 1: Hear it, so you would listen to them in their 408 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: language and then just read the subtitles. Yeah, yeah, you 409 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: can probably do that. But for me, I'm just like, okay, 410 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: and it there's just so many more of those shows 411 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: on now, and it was like I had the aha moment. 412 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's why all these here, because 413 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: they don't have any new contents put out because of 414 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: the strikes. 415 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 2: I don't think they're coming back until January, right, the strike. 416 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 1: You don't think the strike will be over until January 417 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: or so? No, I mean I think they're trying to 418 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 1: negotiate every day. Oh really yeah, okay. 419 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 3: Yeah. 420 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 1: So the writers like the ones that can get back 421 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: to work, they're the ones that work on like, you know, 422 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: the the talk shows and stuff. Yeah, but as far 423 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: as like, I don't know, I guess writers can write 424 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: scripts and stuff, but as far as anyone acting, it's 425 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: still not happening. 426 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:35,119 Speaker 3: Switching gears. 427 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 2: Do you remember a couple of weeks ago when we 428 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 2: had an alert, a national alert. Do you know how 429 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 2: any people got busted in the jails. They got busted 430 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 2: in jails. They got in the Amish in the Amish 431 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 2: Oh really country, not Amash country, in the Amish Land, Yeah, 432 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: Amish country. 433 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 3: Yes. 434 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,719 Speaker 2: There was so many of them that had a phone 435 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 2: and they're swearing that they don't have any electricity, need 436 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: modern tech. 437 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 3: Lollie and y'all all all. 438 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 2: Y'all's phones went off with the hilarious that is insane, 439 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 2: that's so funny. What was weird to me was it 440 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 2: was not timed. I mean, I don't want to say 441 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: it was not timed synchronized. It was not synchronized, like 442 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: I was like two minutes after somebody. I was talking 443 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 2: to somebody on the phone and they were like two 444 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 2: minutes before me, and then mine went off and then. 445 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 3: So it was like a wave. They did in a wave, 446 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 3: I think. 447 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 2: So it was staggered, or maybe it was per Maybe 448 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 2: it's based on your cell phone, your carrier, yeah, could 449 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 2: have been your carrier. 450 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's funny. I read that. 451 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: When I saw that the inmates were getting busted, that 452 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: was hilarious. 453 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 2: That was like, so then what happens do you have 454 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: to go to the to the dungeon when you get 455 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 2: to just confiscated. I mean they probably just confiscated and 456 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 2: that's it. But do you get like penalized for you 457 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 2: talk to the already in jail? 458 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 3: What more do you need? Nothing else? Okay? 459 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: So how excited are we about? Because this is like 460 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 2: now fall. It's like the weather's changing. If you come 461 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 2: to Robin's house, she has now like you know, Robin's 462 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,959 Speaker 2: house is very decorated. 463 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 3: She is missed. Decor's not not not like that? No, 464 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 3: you like you like decor? Yeah? 465 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, So like outside she has like a nice pretty 466 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 2: fall read yes, and like yes door green or yeah 467 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 2: my outdoor decor yes, and planters with nice it's very nice. 468 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,239 Speaker 2: You took a picture and post it? 469 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah. 470 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 2: Anyway, yeah, I'm not done either, you know, I want 471 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 2: to like add some more around it. 472 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: Okay. 473 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 2: So I went to Trader Joe's and I I hadn't 474 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 2: gone there in a while, and I was like, oh man, 475 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 2: they got all the pumpkin stuff out. 476 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 477 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 2: I was I was with Angel, I was literally no 478 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: a door. I was literally throwing in the basket anything 479 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 2: that said pumpkin, pumpkin bread mix and oh my god, 480 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 2: pumpkin oatmeal, and I mean pumpkin anything. I'm just throwing 481 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 2: in the basket. I can't stand pumpkin anything. 482 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 3: I love it. 483 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 2: I loved all the pump pumpkin spice stuff. Yes, half 484 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 2: of this shit tasted horror. I was so mad at 485 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 2: my no surprise, no pumpkin seed bark that tasted like 486 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 2: dog food like it was horrible. 487 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 3: What was I thinking? No surprise. 488 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 1: I think the only thing that probably tastes good to 489 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 1: people is those pumpkin spice lattest Yeah from Starbucks. 490 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 3: I've never had one, well and I refuse really yeah. 491 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 2: But okay, so there. But there is tat have you been? 492 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 2: A Tata is a bakery and it's not a bakery, 493 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 2: it's like a restaurant in it was won by me. 494 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 2: There's some in DC and every seasonally they have this 495 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 2: like lemon pound cake. That's amazing, that sounds good, it's amazing, 496 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: I approve. Okay, and if you get a piece to 497 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 2: give you a big, huge thick slice, okay, so good 498 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 2: sounds good, but seasonally, when it's this time of year, 499 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 2: they changed it to a gingerbread cake, which is just 500 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 2: it's not good. 501 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 3: Gross. It's I don't want to say gross. I want 502 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 3: to say, it's not my cup of tea. 503 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: No, it's like to the spices for the fall, like 504 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: the pumpkin the gingerbread. 505 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 3: It's too fragrant, you know what I'm saying. I don't know. 506 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 3: You know, you feel like you're eating perfume kind of. Yeah, 507 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 3: that's never good. 508 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: Like I don't like I don't like all that stuff, 509 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: sweet potato pie. 510 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: You don't like sweet potato. No, I don't like nutmeg. Okay, 511 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 2: well you like eggnogs like all that stuff. Yeah, that's 512 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 2: not out yet, it's coming. 513 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 1: Up, it's coming. But that's along the same lines. Really, 514 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: I think of like ginger, gingerbread and nut and eggnog 515 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 1: down like they go together. 516 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, any of that. I want to switch gears 517 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 2: again because we going back to Drake. So Drake has 518 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 2: some new music out, yes, and it's dog shit? 519 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 3: Is that what it's called? What it is? 520 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: It's called all something all the dogs, but the music 521 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: is dog shit. 522 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Now this caveat disclaimer Robin's a Drake fan, I'm 523 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 2: not okay, And if Robin says. 524 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 1: It's dog shit, yes, this is terrible. I mean, okay, 525 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: you know me, I'm the one. I need to give 526 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:10,719 Speaker 1: it a little bit more time. I don't know how 527 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: I felt about Beyonce Renaissance when it first came out. 528 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,119 Speaker 3: Yes, that had to grow on me. 529 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: Okay, but this here is a different situation. He should 530 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: have left all of the songs. Yeah, almost all of 531 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 1: them in the draft folder. 532 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 3: Like okay. 533 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 2: So my kids brought it to my attention that he 534 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 2: has new music out, and so you know, a door 535 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 2: was especially was like. 536 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 3: I listened to all of it. Some of it is fire. 537 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 2: She starts telling me all the collapse that he has 538 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 2: and then she was like and adonysis on it and 539 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: she was like, you know, mom, like yeah no, but 540 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna talk about it by his kid. 541 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 2: So I said, what, Like his kid is like ten, right, six, 542 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 2: six years old? 543 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 3: Six? So I said, let me hear that part. So 544 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 3: she pulled it up and he was like, my man, 545 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 3: my man, my man, my man, my man, my man, 546 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 3: my man. And I'm not making fun of him, but 547 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 3: I'm making fun of him. 548 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,120 Speaker 1: What in the world, right, So is that Drake trying 549 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 1: to be like Beyonce? You know, Beyonce had Blue Ivy. 550 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: This is the first thing that I thought, and that's 551 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,160 Speaker 1: what I said to a door. I was like, he's 552 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: trying to keep up with Beyonce Jay, Right, I mean, 553 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to assume or when you're an artist, that 554 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 1: you're in the studio, and sometimes you bring your kids 555 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 1: to the studio, right, because so they can experience, or 556 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: because you don't have babysitter or whatever. 557 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 3: It's so. 558 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: Donna's probably got on the microphone, you know, just playing around, right, 559 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: And then Drake thought. 560 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 2: Oh, that would be cute. Let me put this in 561 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 2: a song. But it's like I think he wanted to 562 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: establish a trust fund for him. So he like, because 563 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 2: you know, he's not going to get money, he's not 564 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: going to get paid for that portion. 565 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 3: But that but the songs are trash, so he's not 566 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 3: going to get paid that much. Not the song is trash. 567 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: You heard it first, Drake said, your ship is trashy? 568 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 3: How you tell it? On okay? Wait? 569 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: Did you see how it's so funny? Like people were 570 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 1: like criticizing Drake's album and then he's like literally getting 571 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: in his feelings and going on Instagram and posting stories 572 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: about the people and stuff like. 573 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 2: Dude, dude, Him and Joe Button went back and forth 574 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 2: and I don't know if y'all know who he is, 575 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 2: but he has like a podcast show. Joe said it 576 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 2: was trash, and then like Drake was like upset with 577 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 2: him and like went to his DMS and was kind 578 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 2: of like why you have to say that, Like like, 579 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 2: but then trash Joe, Like you live in an apartment, 580 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 2: I have a mansion, I have planes, and. 581 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 3: You don't even have a scooter. Like it was just 582 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 3: all this nonsense. 583 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 1: Can you imagine if we went at everyone to criticize us. 584 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm coming for all the people that are mad 585 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,679 Speaker 2: about something that I said on de Reil Housewives. 586 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 3: I'm coming for y'all. That's so insane to. 587 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: Me, Like I'm on, I'm a DM, y'all come like, 588 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:56,439 Speaker 2: come on, Drake, Yeah, you cannot sit here and be 589 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: worrying about what people are saying. Then he said he 590 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: was going to retire it, right, and you know what 591 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: everybody said, good if this mat which you're going to 592 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 2: be putting out, then good. Yeah, Okay, I need just rewind. 593 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 2: What's the name of the CD or the something like 594 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 2: All the Dogs. It's called all the Dogs something. Hold on, 595 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,680 Speaker 2: let me look it up. And Robin said his dog shit, Yes, 596 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,639 Speaker 2: and it is dogshit. Let me say, hold on a Drake, 597 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 2: it is poor Drake for all the Dogs. Oh and 598 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 2: the album cover is like maybe his maybe his son 599 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 2: drew that. So now we have to give him what 600 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 2: is it? Vocal credit and artistry credit to Adonnas. Yes, okay, 601 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 2: there are twenty three songs on this like why my Man, 602 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 2: My Man, My Man. That's gonna be the name of 603 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:53,959 Speaker 2: this episode. We're gonna get so much trouble for trashing 604 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 2: a six year. 605 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 1: Old, but we're not trashing six years we're trashing the 606 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: father's decision to put yes a random you know audio track. 607 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 3: Okay, So in twenty twenty seven, Robin, there will be 608 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 3: hotels in outer space. It will not be according to 609 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 3: whom according to this article right here. 610 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 2: Okay, so there's gonna so if there is hotels and 611 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 2: the first ever hotel in space is set to open 612 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 2: in the year twenty twenty seven. Okay, what so if 613 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 2: this happens, ever, would you want to stay? 614 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 3: No? 615 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 2: In outer space. No a bed and breakfast, no Airbnb. 616 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 2: No you're not going. 617 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 3: It's not happening. Okay, it's not happening. Okay are you sure? Yes? Okay? 618 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 2: Because the Space Safe Station will have room for twenty 619 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 2: eight occupants at a time. And they said that Hilton 620 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 2: will design, you know, Hilton hotels. They will design the 621 00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 2: interior of the space station and it's going to be 622 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 2: a luxurious experience. 623 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: Where is it just floating around in outer space? Is 624 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: it docked somewhere? 625 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 3: I think it's it's on the float. It's floating. It's 626 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 3: the Orbital Assembly. 627 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 4: A company called Orbital Assembly is behind the development. Like 628 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 4: most luxury hotels, there are showers and beds and restaurants. 629 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 4: But unlike most hotels, the views of the Solar System 630 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 4: are just beyond belief. 631 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: Telp them get out of here with this, Like, use 632 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 1: your money, seriously, use your money somewhere else, right, okay, 633 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: Like there's so many people, so many communities, countries, causes 634 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 1: that need money. We don't need a floating hotel. 635 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 3: In outer space. No, we don't. But guess who's building this? 636 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 3: I guess Elon Musk. Who is this? 637 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 2: No? 638 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 3: Oh oh, we're gonna talk about Elon Musk. Okay. 639 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 2: So the person that's building this, I would assume that 640 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: they have to work with NASA maybe, but Hilton has 641 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 2: something to do with it. This is ridiculous because they're 642 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 2: going to outfit it and make it look very hotel ish. 643 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 3: Okay. 644 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 2: Speaking of people that need money, Soldier. 645 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 3: Boy would be on that list. 646 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 2: Soldier Boy was in debt to the ir rest or 647 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 2: something like five hundred thousand dollars something something crazy. Anyway, 648 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 2: there was a lawsuit that his ex, he like his 649 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 2: ex sued him. 650 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: Y'all know who Soldier Boy is. Yeah, Soldier Boy. Well 651 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 3: watch me. 652 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: What's what remind us of the song you You? 653 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 3: You? Is that the only song? Though? One hit? Wonder? No, 654 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 3: he's got several songs. 655 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 2: Okay, but he he said he started rapping, like Soldier 656 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 2: Boy takes wants to take credit for everything. He started rapping. 657 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 2: He invented it, he invented everything. 658 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 3: Okay. 659 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 2: Soldier Boy has to pay his ex five hundred thousand dollars. 660 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 3: Okay, he doesn't have the money to pay her. 661 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 2: So you know what the judge said, she could do 662 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 2: what come to his house and pick up whatever is 663 00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 2: worth value to five hundred thousand dollars. 664 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 3: Okay, he had like a. 665 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 2: Lambeau, a bends, some gold chains, some diamonds. 666 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 3: She cleared him out, really cleared him out. 667 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: Okay, is this a baby mama? Why is she getting money? 668 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: They weren't were they married? 669 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: I know they weren't married, So I don't support this. 670 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 3: This is the judge doesn't like soldier boy. 671 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 2: And the judge said, clear his ands out, okay, And 672 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 2: she came and took it all. Her name is Kayla Wires, 673 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 2: I think, okay, and she came and took it off. 674 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: So a chain worth ten thousand, black cardier, watch worth 675 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 2: eight She took three cars value at two hundred and 676 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: fifty thousand dollars eighteen thousand dollarsand jewelry fifty thousand dollars 677 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 2: in stock. 678 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 3: This is insane, Yes, that is insane. But what is 679 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 3: it for? 680 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 2: She he owed her some money, and so I listen. 681 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 3: I don't know the particulars. 682 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,120 Speaker 2: All I know is he didn't made a judge man, 683 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: because that judge said right clean hiss. That is literally 684 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: taken him to the cleaners. 685 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 3: That's insane. That's I feel sorry for him. I don't. 686 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not he did not win. No, no, no, 687 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 2: he needs to try to make another one hit wonder 688 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 2: Oh Bobby you. 689 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 3: Yes, because we haven't heard from a long time, so 690 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 3: you need to get back in the studio. He wasn't 691 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 3: he bragging about how Richie was at one point? Yes, yeah, 692 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 3: he has more mo than anybody. 693 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because he invented rapping, yes and speaking. And he 694 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 2: hates Drake by the way, because remember he went to 695 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:37,600 Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. 696 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 3: And he was like Drake. 697 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 2: Oh, because because Charlemagne tried to say that he stole 698 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 2: Drake's lyric or something right, and he was like Drake, Drake, 699 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 2: oh that, And he had on he might need to 700 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 2: beg Drake to put him on his album now, yes, yes, 701 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,040 Speaker 2: And he had on this like Gucci headband and it 702 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 2: was like he had worn it fifty thousand times. 703 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 3: It was a mess. I am the worst. Okay, that's 704 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 3: how hor I mean. 705 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: I feel like we see the story so much, the 706 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 1: fall from Grace or you know, the entertainers, rappers, sports 707 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 1: athletes whatever that. You know, I have a whole bunch 708 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: of money and then it's just like gone, gone like that, 709 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,279 Speaker 1: It's gone, Like I hate that. 710 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 3: Okay, So back on very important news that we need 711 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 3: to know about. Mario Lopez is very upset. 712 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: Why because the California governor, who I love, he was 713 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,919 Speaker 2: a cutie buy who you know, might be my hall pass. 714 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 3: He could get it. He signed a Skittles band. 715 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 2: He's requiring companies to remove harmful ingredients in three years 716 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 2: from Skittles, from hot Cheetos, and from a couple of food. 717 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 3: Coloring whatever it's it's a certain one. 718 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 2: It's called red dye number three, potassium bromate, bromated vegetable 719 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 2: oil and pro for our beans. 720 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 1: Okayans, How can the California governor regulate that? Oh he's saying, 721 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 1: you can't sell it in the state of California. No, 722 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: you can't sell it in state of California. So all 723 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: of these things are banned in thirty countries, oh, outside 724 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 1: of the United States. So the majority of food and 725 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: the rest of the world, yes, doesn't have all this bullshit. 726 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:24,839 Speaker 3: Cleaner, healthier, Yes. 727 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 2: When I went to Italy this summer, I ate pasta 728 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 2: every day right like e, morning, noon and night. 729 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:30,719 Speaker 3: And I lost. 730 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:34,840 Speaker 2: Weight then gain No way, I lost weight. Ry that 731 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: should tell us something. Yeah, yeah, I brought back the pasta. 732 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,279 Speaker 3: I brought some there. Oh, I had it shipped over here. 733 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the only pasta that I'm gonna eat, because 734 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 2: you know, you brought that much back. I brought back enough, okay, 735 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 2: and I don't really eat pasta off oh okay. 736 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 737 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,440 Speaker 2: So I'm just trying to figure out why we got 738 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 2: to wait three years in order to take it, take 739 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,600 Speaker 2: these things, or get these things clean up. 740 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 1: Right, right, because if they're well, okay, when you were 741 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,359 Speaker 1: over in Italy or wherever you were, did they sell 742 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 1: skittles anywhere? 743 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 3: Did you notice? 744 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:14,439 Speaker 2: So they're candy what we would call candy. They don't 745 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: necessarily have like ours, and if you do buy it, 746 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 2: it tastes different. Yeah, they don't have that like sugary 747 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 2: sugary sweet stuff. 748 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to really cut back on the sugar anyway. 749 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: Like sugar is addicting, it's cancer causing, Like it's so 750 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: bad for us. So I'm not mad at the governor. 751 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 1: He's trying to actually save some lives. 752 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 2: I agree with what he's doing, but like it shouldn't 753 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 2: just be in California. So right, only place we're gonna 754 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 2: get clean food is in California, right, But I am 755 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:45,840 Speaker 2: here for a skittle. 756 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 1: Maybe he's trying to that, Maybe he thinks that'll make 757 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,720 Speaker 1: people want to move to California. 758 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 3: Okay, but we want, we need for him to be 759 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 3: the president. But that's a whole nother story. 760 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 2: So like, so do we just take the red the 761 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 2: red skittles out and we eat the red? 762 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 3: I don't think the red. 763 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 2: Listen, and I want you to know, my kids love 764 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 2: some flame of hat cheetos, right, they are here. 765 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,720 Speaker 3: From Doritos and all of that. They say that those 766 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 3: those processed foods are so horrible, so bad. Yeah, like 767 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 3: we're not meant to consume that. We're not. No, you're not. 768 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,280 Speaker 3: Like I mean, think about. 769 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: Like humans back when caveman when the cavemen started, they 770 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 1: didn't have all these chemicals and stuff, like our bodies 771 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:23,759 Speaker 1: aren't meant to. 772 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 3: But they didn't last that long. How long did a 773 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 3: cave man? 774 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: I know? 775 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,799 Speaker 1: But that's because they didn't have like medicine I'm saying. 776 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,760 Speaker 1: So they would like die from like an infection and stuff. Okay, 777 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, Okay, they would cut 778 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 1: their cut their arm and stuff, and then they would 779 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 1: get infected and they die. 780 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 2: Okay, So now we have medicine. But our food is 781 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:47,760 Speaker 2: horrible and processed. Yes it is, and humans people aren't 782 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 2: supposed to be eating all this processed food. But what 783 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: are you gonna do about it? 784 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:55,080 Speaker 3: Well? I don't know. Do you eat stuff like that 785 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 3: like Dorito's have tried to like totally cut back. 786 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 2: I really have, because I if it's in my house, 787 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 2: it's for my kids. 788 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 3: Yeah occasionally I do, but not really. 789 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:05,719 Speaker 2: No. 790 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no I don't. 791 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: I don't eat much, but I will say, like my 792 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: guilty Oh yeah, what's your food pleasure? Like junk food 793 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: is our Oreo cookies and Dorito's. 794 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:19,280 Speaker 3: Which kind of dirido. 795 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,800 Speaker 1: So I'm like a pretty just basic nacho cheese one. Yeah, 796 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,319 Speaker 1: I was turned onto the spicy nacho ones, which are 797 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: good too, but I like just the classic red bag 798 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 1: nacho cheese to rito. And then for Oreos they have 799 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: to be double stuff. 800 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 3: Because you want all the nastiness. 801 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you want all the you know, they make like 802 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: a triple stuff and a mega stuff. 803 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 3: What. 804 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah that's just gross too much? Yeah, that's too 805 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 2: too much. Okay, so you're married, I have a robbin 806 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,919 Speaker 2: married question. Actually this was on the internet. I want 807 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 2: to know, so telling your husband the same sentence ten 808 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,759 Speaker 2: days in a row, just to have him say, you 809 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 2: definitely never told me that. 810 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,239 Speaker 3: Is that a thing? Yes, I don't want to say 811 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 3: ten days in a row, right, but definitely there have been. 812 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: It happens quite frequently, okay, where we have a conversation, 813 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,239 Speaker 1: you know, maybe a couple of times, and then a 814 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 1: couple of days later he's like, oh, no, you ain't 815 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 1: telling me that. 816 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know about that. Why didn't you tell me? 817 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:26,240 Speaker 2: But yes, oh yeah, okay, oh yeah, So that happens 818 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 2: with my kids a lot. 819 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,120 Speaker 3: Really. Yeah, I'll tell them something. They'll tell me something. 820 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 2: Oh they say they told me something they didn't and 821 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 2: then they're and I'm like what. And then the next 822 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 2: day they mentioned it and I'm like, what arey'all talking about? 823 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,760 Speaker 2: And they were like, mom, we told you yesterday. 824 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 3: Right. So sometimes I think the kids do tell us stuff. 825 00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,359 Speaker 1: We're like scrolling Instagram and we're not quite paying attention. 826 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 3: To what they're saying. Oh so it's in one air 827 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 3: and out the other. 828 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're kind of like, uh huh, I stop talking 829 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: like cause we're like, but I need to see what's 830 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: going on in the shade room. 831 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 2: So do you need do you sit with I mean, 832 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 2: do you tell one like look like, hey, you really 833 00:39:57,560 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 2: don't listen to me. 834 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I said, yeah, I'm like, you don't 835 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,720 Speaker 1: you don't listen, you're not paying attention or whatever. 836 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 3: But then sometimes he gets me because you're not paying attention. Yeah. 837 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: Yes, But like I'll literally so say, say he calls 838 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: me right and I'm like, oh, what are you doing? 839 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 3: Where you're coming from? 840 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 1: And then he tells me and then we talked about 841 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,879 Speaker 1: something blah blah blah. And then I'll be like, where 842 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: are you where are you coming from? And it'd be 843 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 1: like I just told you. I'm like, oh, I don't know. 844 00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 3: What you said, and that is that's weird. So it 845 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 3: goes both ways, that's for sure. It does. 846 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,200 Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of times when we talk, 847 00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 1: we're like distracted. I think it's a difference between like 848 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 1: talking to each other in passing, right, you know, when 849 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: you're like on the phone and you're driving, you're going somewhere, 850 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 1: you're cooking, you're doing something, versus like sitting down at 851 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: the dinner table and having like a direct conversation real. 852 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, that's very true. 853 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 1: So or talking to them while they're watching sports like that's. 854 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,759 Speaker 3: Oh you can't talk to him? Yeah? 855 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 2: No, But if you're looking at social media, Eli Musk 856 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 2: said x X will be a place of uplift, mint 857 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 2: and a positivity. It's soon going to morph into a 858 00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 2: place of positivity and meaningful conversation. 859 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 3: Really, yes, Okay, when does he think this's gonna happen? 860 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 3: And how the most toxic. 861 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:26,919 Speaker 2: Platform ever is all of a sudden going to turn 862 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 2: into a place where it's meaningful positivity. 863 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 3: Well, wait a minute. 864 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: Didn't he say that he was going to start charging 865 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 1: for Twitter or just anyone to have a Twitter account? 866 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 2: Well he knows he can't do that, right because no 867 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,080 Speaker 2: one will be on it, right and then while then 868 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 2: everyone's just going to go over to threads? Yeah, does 869 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 2: he that Instagram? That's this boy, That's that's why they 870 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,080 Speaker 2: want to fight. 871 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,319 Speaker 3: What happened to the fight? They were supposed to fight 872 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 3: in the ring? Right? I don't know? Yeah, they're getting ready. 873 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,319 Speaker 3: So wait, are you on threads? I'm on threads? Did 874 00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,480 Speaker 3: you use it? No? I never use it? Do you 875 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 3: have a I don't not on threats. 876 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 2: I have have my own accounts, I have my name, 877 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 2: but I just in my mind. I'm like, how could 878 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,799 Speaker 2: Elon must think that Twitter is going to be a 879 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:19,800 Speaker 2: place with positive thoughts, where it's meaningful, where something would 880 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 2: somebody would like read something on Twitter and they like 881 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 2: it challenges them to be a better. 882 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 3: Person all that? Like, what are you talking about? Who is? 883 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:33,240 Speaker 2: Because they were still calling me like the most horrible 884 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 2: person alive, Like they're trashing me constantly. 885 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I don't know what he's thinking. I don't know. 886 00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 2: I mean, hey, I love the thought of that, but 887 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 2: how are you going to make that happen? He's a 888 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 2: liar in his pants on I'm going to require a 889 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,840 Speaker 2: ton of regulation, all right. So we have a couple 890 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 2: of is it reasonable or is it d This is 891 00:42:55,920 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 2: from Kimberly Douglas and she says, Robin, is it reasonable 892 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,800 Speaker 2: or shady for my mother in law of three months 893 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 2: to tell me that I should dress up for a 894 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 2: casual family wedding that is serving barbecue food at a. 895 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 3: Community center. 896 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,879 Speaker 2: When I have already told her that I was going 897 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 2: to wear a more casual dress. I am thirty six 898 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 2: years old and thirty three weeks pregnant. I do not 899 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 2: think it's her place. But what do you think I 900 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,719 Speaker 2: love your podcast. By the way, it's Kim from New Jersey. 901 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, mother in law needs mind her damn business, right, 902 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 3: mother in law? Oh, mother in law. 903 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, mother in law, mind your business. I'm 904 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,760 Speaker 2: gonna wear what the hell I want to wear? Yes, okay, yes, 905 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:45,280 Speaker 2: And I don't give a shit what you say. So yes, 906 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,880 Speaker 2: and I thank god she told us it was a 907 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 2: barbecue at the community it's a community center. 908 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 3: Girl. 909 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 2: You can wear your dunks, okay, a hoodie and whatever 910 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:54,879 Speaker 2: you want to wear. 911 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,320 Speaker 3: Okay, be comfortable. 912 00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:00,400 Speaker 1: Right, and you're thirty three weeks pregnant. A little more 913 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,359 Speaker 1: pregnant by telling me. 914 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 2: She probably had a baby at this point, right, So like, yes, 915 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 2: tell mother in law mine to business. 916 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,320 Speaker 3: Yes, that is very shady. 917 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 1: So this mother in law is shady for telling you 918 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: to dress up, because I feel like she's secretly telling you. 919 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 3: She doesn't like the way you dress. It's this secret. No, 920 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 3: it's not a secret. It's not a secret. She's throwing 921 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:20,360 Speaker 3: you some hints. 922 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like daughter in law and who's we need 923 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 2: more information? Whose wedding is this? 924 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,760 Speaker 3: Right? So maybe it's like her other child. 925 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,320 Speaker 2: Or and Kimberly, are you the bride in the wedding, 926 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 2: because if you the bride and walking down thirty three 927 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:40,640 Speaker 2: weeks pregnant girl, you're wrong for that. So yeah, where 928 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: whatever you want? So this is from Jacob may Berry. Okay, 929 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 2: dear Robin Injazel, you guys are so much fun and 930 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,760 Speaker 2: love y'all. I want your advice for if my situation 931 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 2: is reasonable or shady. So for just over a month, 932 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 2: I was saying a guy I met online, I'm gay. 933 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 2: So you know where grinder? Grinder is gay? Yes, okay, 934 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,520 Speaker 2: all right, I mean that's like the only gay site. 935 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 2: Probably not, but I think grinder. Okay, fine, that's like. 936 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 3: The one that that's the most common one. Okay. 937 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,360 Speaker 2: It was going really well, and I was starting to 938 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 2: catch early onset feels for the man. We were talking 939 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 2: every day and I always told him like, wow, I 940 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 2: have not even found one red flag, to which he replied, 941 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,640 Speaker 2: maybe I don't have any. Fast forward a few weeks. 942 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,800 Speaker 2: A few more weeks and I went to my hairdresser's house, 943 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,399 Speaker 2: one of my best friends, and I was giving her 944 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,359 Speaker 2: the rundown. I decided to bring up bring it up. 945 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 2: Since it's been going really well. I usually like to 946 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 2: wait a little bit before I tell people about this stuff. 947 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 2: I told her how good he is, and she asked 948 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 2: for a picture. I know what this is going, right, 949 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:53,000 Speaker 2: I showed her and she goes, that's my friend's boyfriend. 950 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,440 Speaker 3: Maybe okay. I was obviously in disbelief and shocked. 951 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 2: She summoned her friend that she lives with, who also 952 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 2: confirmed that it was him. I obnestly felt like shit 953 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 2: for a number of reasons. My hairdresser then tells me 954 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 2: she needs to tell her. I said, wait, let me 955 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 2: talk to him first so I can give him the 956 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,399 Speaker 2: chance to do it. No, no, no, this man's doing 957 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,760 Speaker 2: the most. I didn't want to out him. I don't 958 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 2: know how the girlfriend would react. They showed me his 959 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:28,440 Speaker 2: true identity and his real name, and when I went 960 00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 2: to stark him, he had blocked me. 961 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:36,760 Speaker 3: What Oh, this is getting good, this is juicy. Okay, 962 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 3: he was thinking ahead, right. 963 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 2: So I made a new Instagram account with a fake 964 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,839 Speaker 2: name as the user and decided to message him. Hey 965 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,359 Speaker 2: it's Jacob, I guess with a K or I don't know, 966 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 2: maybe this is a fake name he gave us. 967 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 3: Anyway, Hey it's Jacob. Message me. It's urgent. 968 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:56,279 Speaker 2: He replied straight away and then started messaging me on 969 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 2: the fake account, where I confronted him and he did 970 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 2: not it all. I said, I'm telling you so you 971 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,919 Speaker 2: can sort it out before you my friend does, and 972 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,240 Speaker 2: that had the potential to be explosive. He denied, denied, denied, 973 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 2: So my headdresser called and told her yes, girl power 974 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,359 Speaker 2: stick together. Okay. The girlfriend reached out to me to 975 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 2: get the deats and receipts. Not long after, this is 976 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 2: the best juiciest story, guys. Okay, not long after, we 977 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,279 Speaker 2: were on the phone together and somehow trauma bonded I 978 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 2: guess them, and they were besties. He was denying everything 979 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,399 Speaker 2: to her, even though the proof was there. We said 980 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:41,000 Speaker 2: we would keep it between us for his sake and 981 00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 2: if he's confused, we're just. 982 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 3: There to help him. Okay, that's weird. Okay, I was surprised. 983 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:47,800 Speaker 3: It's weird. 984 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,880 Speaker 2: Yes, I was surprised. She was on the same page 985 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 2: as me when he wronged us both. But we're still 986 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 2: trying to help him and protect him. He denied all, saying, 987 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,560 Speaker 2: all I want is to to be with. 988 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 3: You, saying that to the woman. 989 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,239 Speaker 2: He saying that to a woman to the girlfriend, and 990 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 2: said I'm making up everything we see right through the bullshit, 991 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,480 Speaker 2: and she broke up with him. Yes, okay, all right, 992 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 2: this is not neither reasonable. 993 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 3: Or shady, Like, what's the question here? All right? 994 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 2: So she was happy with me to be friends with 995 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 2: him and try to help express himself, help him express himself, 996 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 2: and help explore himself to see what he wants. And 997 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 2: the three of us all ended up meeting at a 998 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 2: festival about two months later after all this happened. What 999 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 2: It was awkward in the beginning, but we just ignored 1000 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,440 Speaker 2: the elephant in the room and we were just dancing. 1001 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 2: I can't I'm done, y'all. Okay, wait, wait, wait, there's more. 1002 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,759 Speaker 2: Now we're in a weird sort of situation where some 1003 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,439 Speaker 2: people think we're a throuple because of how we handled it. 1004 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,879 Speaker 2: We're definitely not, and everyone thinks it's weird, but we're 1005 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,880 Speaker 2: just trying to be supportive. He is a bit crazy, 1006 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 2: so he goes all off at us, and we kind 1007 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 2: of started to distance. She was getting twenty calls a 1008 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 2: minute from from black numbers, so she had to change it. 1009 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,239 Speaker 2: He isn't taking the help, and he's not listening to us. 1010 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:17,400 Speaker 2: It's always the heavily tatted straight guys. No one would expect, 1011 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 2: not you putting it out there that he is heavily tatted. Okay, 1012 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,280 Speaker 2: is it reasonable or is it shady the way we handled? 1013 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 2: Should we just leave it alone? 1014 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 3: Now? 1015 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 2: We tried so hard for so long. Love from Sydney. 1016 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 2: Sorry it was a bit long. Oh this thing warned 1017 00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:36,839 Speaker 2: me out, y'all. I want out twisted turn. Okay, So 1018 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:44,919 Speaker 2: the girlfriend and the gay friend, yes, end up being friends, right, 1019 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 2: and now they're trying to help the guy who closeted 1020 00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 2: straight gay man, Yes, who's heavily tatted. 1021 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,360 Speaker 3: There's a bunch of tats. So it's a reasonable, shady 1022 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:56,799 Speaker 3: way handed. 1023 00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 1: I actually think they were very reasonable, Yeah, because they 1024 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,640 Speaker 1: were extremely yes, extremely reasonable. They were trying to protect him, 1025 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 1: trying to make him feel better about himself. They realized 1026 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: that he wasn't being honest with himself or with his friends, 1027 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 1: and that there's some deep down issue that he's not 1028 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,400 Speaker 1: ready to deal with. And they still kind of loved 1029 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,959 Speaker 1: him and tried to help him and try to teach 1030 00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,680 Speaker 1: him acceptance and all of that. Yeah, I think what 1031 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:26,319 Speaker 1: they did was actually really really reasonable. And then I think, 1032 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 1: you know, it sounds like they've kind of cut him off, right, 1033 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,959 Speaker 1: And I think that's reasonable too, because at some point, 1034 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 1: if he's not willing to be honest, or if he's 1035 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 1: you know, lashing out in anger or whatever, it might 1036 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,839 Speaker 1: be like you all have done everything that you can. 1037 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,600 Speaker 3: Yes, you've showed him. This is beyond reasonable. 1038 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,880 Speaker 2: Yes, because shady would be let's set him up, okay, right, 1039 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 2: let's and one invite him to dinner and then the 1040 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 2: other one pop up, right, that's shady, Yes, and that's 1041 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:54,839 Speaker 2: what I would do. 1042 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:58,719 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, but I think it's reasonable. But I'm 1043 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:04,879 Speaker 1: also like y'all are way too nice, like y'all quite strained. 1044 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, we wouldn't be going out dancing. No, we wouldn't 1045 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 2: be doing none of that. 1046 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 3: No, but clearly they have a soft spot for him 1047 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,000 Speaker 3: for whatever reason, because he's heavily tatted. 1048 00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 2: They think, thank you, Yes, I'm heavily tatted guys who 1049 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,240 Speaker 2: they win you over us? 1050 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 3: So you know, I mean, I don't know. 1051 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 1: I God bless all of y'all in this situation, Yause, 1052 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,840 Speaker 1: the two of y'all are angels and the straight, heavily 1053 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 1: tatted man is confused. 1054 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,400 Speaker 2: Yes, and that was extremely juicy. If y'all have more 1055 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 2: juicy stories like that. 1056 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 3: Keep them coming, Keep them coming. 1057 00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 2: But that is our episode. We love y'all so much. 1058 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,680 Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to live your life. Either reasonable or Shaky. 1059 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 3: Or Bowl Fight Night. 1060 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:54,840 Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network. 1061 00:51:55,080 --> 00:52:00,080 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 1062 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,680 Speaker 1: but wherever you listen to your favorite 1063 00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:04,760 Speaker 2: Shows, and you can connect with us on social media 1064 00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:15,239 Speaker 2: at Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady.