1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm just my voice. 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 2: We're back. We're black. 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Brown, ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition, Brown in the studio today. 4 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: It's not just me and Mandy. We got a guest 5 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: in the stew But first, Mandy, how are you girl? 6 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 3: I am doing well. I spent the last two hours 7 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 3: undoing the weekend that happened to my house, my two kiddos, 8 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 3: so you know, doing and I'm sure that's somewhere in 9 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: both y'all's book outsourced that ish, but you know what 10 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 3: it was. 11 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 4: It was meditative, it was doing good. How are you? 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 4: Where are you? My little firefly just a buzzing all over. 13 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: I actually so yesterday I got an award from Homework Mahogany, 14 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: which is really awesome. 15 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 4: Oh yes, you look so pretty. 16 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I had my You know, Hallmark has this 17 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: like black and brown brand called Mahogany where they really 18 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: celebrate the brownness of it all. 19 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 4: I did not know when you said Homemark. 20 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 3: I was like, did, Yeah, I've been because movies that's 21 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 3: what I know them of. 22 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: Well, I'm buying Mahogany cards because if you go into 23 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: like you know, Target or Walmart, whatever, you'll see a 24 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: section the Hallmark section, but then you'll see a mahogany 25 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: section where there's actually black and brown faces on it, 26 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: which I love. And so yeah, that's why I got 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: to get my car from and so yeah, they had 28 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: this inaugural event where they just celebrated twenty eight like 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: black Indevadis Honorees. I was sitting next to this woman, 30 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: this I was sitting next to. Oh don't I don't 31 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: know what they identify as. I want to be respectful. 32 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: I was sitting next to them. Their name is x 33 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: X created this this algorithm or tool that helped Google 34 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: identify the different intonations in black and brown skin. 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 2: Wow, which I was like, how am I here? Because 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: they're changing the world. So it was amazing. 37 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: I mean it ran the gamut from Pinky Coal was there, 38 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: which is amazing. Fantasia Burno spoke and she was just, 39 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we should talk. We'll talk about her 40 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: her speech later about how she shared how she's lost 41 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: her fortune again for the third time, was like, what 42 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: it was weet? 43 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 4: We like pre color purple okay or you know what? Okay, 44 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 4: that kind of tracks, but yeah, go ahead, go ahead. 45 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: So it just was really awesome because we're black and 46 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: brown women, especially black women. This is a room full 47 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: of black women, kind of like commune. People are just 48 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: loving on you. Just you're so many No, you're amazing. Yes, dress, yes, hair, 49 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: Okay now yes, So it was just awesome and so 50 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 1: to convenue, continue to awesome. Does we have an amazing 51 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: guest today? We have Rachel Rogers. 52 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 4: Wed So in her banana glam. 53 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: You might have heard of Rachel. I mean all of 54 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: y'all have heard of. We should all be millionaires. If 55 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: you haven't, what rock have you lived under? Well, Rachel's 56 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: missed is to help historically excluded groups, including women, people 57 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: of color, queer people, and people with disabilities, build their 58 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: businesses and become a millionaires. If you've never heard her speak, 59 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: you are missing out. 60 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 61 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: Since the inception of her company Hello seven, she has 62 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: helped hundreds become millionaires and thousands become financially free. We 63 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: welcome Rachel to the still. 64 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 2: Hey, Rachel, thank you for having me. 65 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: So, you know, like Mandy I had that that not 66 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: so secret group, the Bad Bitch Support Group. It's like 67 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: a group of like a handful of life. 68 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 4: Yes, you have told me many times. 69 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 2: Rachel's one of the babies. So I didn't know what's 70 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 2: what you call it? 71 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: That? 72 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 4: What's it called again? 73 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: We just we just made that up the bad bitch 74 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: support girl. 75 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 4: Okay, it's accurates. 76 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: So it's just really awesome to just have like this 77 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: group of amazing women who are doing amazing things. But 78 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: what I love. 79 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: Is that we mostly just focused on Oh, sire, what'd 80 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: your husband saying? What about these? 81 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: It's like, certainly talk about business and things, but it's 82 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: just really support for like you holistically as a woman. Yes, 83 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: and so I was like, yes, Rachel's going to be 84 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: in the stew with this. 85 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: So how did that little group get formed? And how 86 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 3: long has it been going? Because I feel like that 87 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 3: is so necessary, especially for the online entrepreneur people who 88 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 3: are working like super virtually. And I think that is 89 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: I think people listening are thinking, oh, I would love 90 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: to do that. But yeah, how did it get started with? 91 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: How did it from your perspective? 92 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 5: Yes, So one of our members decided that this group 93 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 5: needed to exist, and so she just emailed and texted 94 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 5: friends that she thought should be in this community. So 95 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 5: that's kind of how it formed. It was It's very informal. 96 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 5: It's just like a group of friends getting together and 97 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 5: just deciding that we're going to be here for each other. 98 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 5: And we're sort of like all kind of colleagues that 99 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 5: knew of each other. There were some friend groups within it, 100 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 5: but it was kind of like all just black women 101 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 5: who have accomplished a certain a certain level of success 102 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 5: in business. 103 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 2: And she just owned. 104 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 5: Well, I was singing seven or eight figures basically, and 105 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 5: so yeah, she just asked us to get together and 106 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 5: so we did. 107 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. 108 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: I don't think we thought it was going to form 109 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: like this permanent group. I think we were just like 110 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm tired, You tired, I'm tired, come to your house, okay, girl, 111 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: and we just kind of like had this amazing time 112 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: and it was like can we keep the party going? 113 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: And so yes, I would say it's been more than 114 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 1: six months, maybe I think November of last year or 115 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: December of last year of twenty three. 116 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 3: So I hope it lasts forever because that's such an 117 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 3: intention that's such an intentional way. 118 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 4: Of doing the whole well. 119 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 3: I believe in communities for every facet of life, like yeah, 120 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 3: you know, I feel like for yeah, so I have 121 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 3: my mom group who's like, you know, they can be 122 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 3: local but not local. 123 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 4: But then I have my super local mom group and. 124 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: The neighbors, and then I have my career you know, 125 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: entrepreneur kind of people, and like even a community. I 126 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 3: just joined a don't talk it too much, but I 127 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 3: just joined a group. 128 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 4: My first group therapy program can be. 129 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 3: Running for twenty weeks because I need to find my 130 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 3: people when it comes to high functioning anxiety. So I 131 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 3: found some people. I found a group through my psychiatrist, 132 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 3: and I'm really excited. But anyway, I was just thinking 133 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 3: about how like to make your own community around the 134 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 3: thing that you feel like a little alone in or 135 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 3: like a little lonely in. 136 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 4: I think it's beautiful. 137 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 5: Yes, I mean that's literally my whole business journey, to 138 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 5: be honest, it's just creating the community that I craved 139 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 5: and couldn't find. 140 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: You know, well, let's jump in, like Rachel, like just 141 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: in case for the people who do live under rock. 142 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: Hey rock, people like a girl us a little bit 143 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: about yourself. 144 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 5: So I am a former lawyer. I'm a mom of 145 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 5: four children, and I am married also, and so I 146 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 5: just my first business was at law practice. And I 147 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 5: did that right out of law school because there was 148 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 5: a recession in two thousand and eight. I graduated two 149 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 5: thousand and nine, A lot of the jobs that were 150 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 5: advertised to me my entire career, you know, schooling career, 151 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 5: were gone by the. 152 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 2: Time I graduated. 153 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 5: I'm like, how convenient is that? And I had six 154 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,119 Speaker 5: figures and loans to pay back. So I was like, okay, 155 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 5: what am I going to do? So I did a 156 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 5: clerkship for a year, and then after that, still not 157 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 5: a lot of job options, and so I decided to 158 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 5: create my own and just start my own practice. So 159 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 5: I had my own intellectual property law and business law 160 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 5: practice and eventually hired attorneys, hired team, scaled that up, 161 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 5: and then realized once I got really good at it 162 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 5: that of course I don't want to do it anymore, 163 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 5: as we do, right, get good at something and then quit. 164 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 5: So then, but what they were coming to me for 165 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 5: all the time, Like my clients who were coming to 166 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 5: me for they were paying me for legal advice and 167 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 5: legal work. They kept asking me for business advice, which 168 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 5: I gave them, and tour of mine was like, stop 169 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 5: giving that business advice for free. 170 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: You need to be charging for that. 171 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 5: So I was like, oh okay, So I just started 172 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 5: dabbling and like you know, basically book a consult with 173 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 5: me about business for five hundred bucks or something, just 174 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 5: to see what would happen. 175 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 2: And there was a lot of interest. 176 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 5: And then finally I took on my first one on 177 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 5: one coaching client, worked with her. Her business like exploded 178 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 5: within six months, and so I was like, oh, maybe 179 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 5: I'm good at this. And then I slowly transitioned into 180 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 5: Hello seven, which is the company that I run now, 181 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 5: And like you were saying, like I really built it 182 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 5: because all of the entrepreneurial spaces I went into. First 183 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 5: of all, most of the business advice for women was 184 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 5: geared towards like hit six figures, your first six figures, 185 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 5: And I was like, cool, but I did that already 186 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 5: and I'm still money's still tight. 187 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 2: So what else you got? What about that seven figures? Right? 188 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. So I was like, and this is of. 189 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 5: Course back in the day, because I started in twenty ten, 190 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 5: so that was when I started my first business. 191 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 3: Is it really can we not make too any time 192 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 3: back in the day? 193 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, just a couple of years ago, fourteen years to 194 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 6: the same aide, This feels mean, That's all I'm saying. 195 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: It just looks like an attack. 196 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 5: So but back then, right, it was like everything was 197 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 5: six figures, six figure, six figures, and I'm like, cool, cool, 198 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 5: But who got that seven figure joint? 199 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: Though? 200 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 5: Like because I want that one, right, So, like, tell 201 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 5: me about how to build a seven figure business. Nobody 202 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 5: was talking about that, definitely not geared towards women. 203 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 2: And so I was like, I started to. 204 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 5: Discover these spaces, which like tech bros basically, and that's 205 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 5: where I was going to get, like to join their 206 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 5: masterminds or going to events, and I, you know, was 207 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 5: sexually harassed in those spaces. People's one. I was called 208 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 5: the N word by an employee. After spending tens of 209 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,599 Speaker 5: thousands of dollars to be a part of this this community, 210 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 5: I've just experienced. 211 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: All kinds of fuckery. 212 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm allowed to say that on 213 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 5: the podcast you are okay, So yes, all kinds of fuckery. 214 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 5: And so I was like, Okay, I need a space 215 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 5: with ambitious people who look like me, who are diverse, 216 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 5: who care about having women on the stage, who care 217 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 5: about having people of color on the stage, like you, 218 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 5: white guys are not the only ones making money, right, 219 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 5: because I see it online, there's other people doing it, 220 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 5: so like where they at and who they're masterminding with 221 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 5: and how can I find them? 222 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 2: And so I just decided to create the community that 223 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 2: I was craving with. Hello seven. 224 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 5: So we've had a variety of programs over the years, 225 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 5: but our biggest one now is the Club, which is 226 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 5: a membership community with diverse members who are building businesses, 227 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 5: scaling businesses, making some of them making seven figures. We 228 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 5: have some eight figure members now and people who are 229 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 5: just starting out so like basically you know, climbing up 230 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 5: the ladder to hit their revenue goals. 231 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 4: Hey, be a fan. 232 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 3: We're going to take a quick break and we'll be 233 00:10:55,200 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 3: right back. Like what's your favorite kind of because there's 234 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 3: so many different kinds of businesses and styles of business. 235 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 3: What's your like superpowers you feel like? Or what kind 236 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 3: of entrepreneurs do you attract to the club? 237 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, like run the gamut? 238 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 3: Or is it sort of like online entrepreneurs? How do 239 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 3: how does it shake out? 240 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: We have a great variety. 241 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 5: I think we surveyed them once and we had like 242 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 5: one hundred and thirty different industries and careers like represented 243 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 5: types of businesses represented. But for me, I actually do 244 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 5: feel strongly that we should build businesses around our superpower. 245 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: So I love that you asked that question. 246 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 5: So my superpower is definitely public speaking and like basically 247 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 5: taking complex ideas and simplifying them. This is what I 248 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 5: did as a lawyer, and it's what I do in 249 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 5: business as well, Like, Okay, this business concept that I 250 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 5: need to understand, how can I simplify it so that 251 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 5: I can turn it into actionable steps? So I think 252 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 5: those that's what I'm good at. And public speaking, speaking 253 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 5: to a crowd. I love like big groups, you know, 254 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 5: and I love commune so and I would say writing 255 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 5: too is in there as well. And sometimes I think 256 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 5: I'm a better writer than speaker, but I get complimented 257 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 5: on speaking more. 258 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know anyway, but both of 259 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: those things. So I basically just. 260 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 4: Don't like to read any more, Rachel. 261 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 6: I know. 262 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,719 Speaker 5: Hence audio books my audiobook sell like hotcakes. 263 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: I mean, like the audio is meet people where they 264 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 2: are exactly, and I mean it's me too. I'm an 265 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 2: audiobook junkie as well. 266 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 5: So yeah, so anyway, so yes, I've built the business 267 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,320 Speaker 5: around like basically me speaking in groups. I really like 268 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 5: curating community and having groups of people. I think when 269 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 5: I've coached people one on one, what happens is I'll 270 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 5: coach them, They'll will help get rid of some of 271 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 5: the mind trash, They'll start taking action, but then all 272 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 5: the people in their life are sort of reinforcing who 273 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 5: they used to be, the old thoughts, right, and so 274 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 5: then it's like by the next call, it's like, Okay, 275 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 5: they still have retained ten percent of what I coach 276 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 5: them on the week before, but now I got to 277 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 5: recoach them on everything else. It's like, I'm like, I 278 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 5: need to get you in a community where you can 279 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 5: be reflected back, you know, like who you really are, 280 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 5: what you're capable of, You're surrounded by people on the 281 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 5: same journey. So I figured that out pretty early on 282 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 5: in coaching, that it's actually more effective if you can 283 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 5: do it in community. So even if they are getting 284 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 5: one on ones, I still like them to be in 285 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 5: a community of other people also getting coach because Iron 286 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 5: shop AND's iron So that's how I've always done it. 287 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: Community is always huge. 288 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 5: So community, coaching and education, those are the three elements 289 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 5: of every offer that we do at Hello seven. 290 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: I love that, yes, so I know you wrote your 291 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 1: book came out. What did your book come about twenty 292 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: twenty one. 293 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty one, Yeah, May May twenty twenty one. 294 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: And so why did you write we should all be millionaires? 295 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: Who did you help to reach? And I know you 296 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: have a new book which is like the workbook version 297 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 1: of this book that's coming Yeah, it's come out already, 298 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: or it's coming out. 299 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: It's coming out June eleventh. 300 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, tell us about like we should all 301 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,079 Speaker 1: be millionaires in this new book that you have coming out. 302 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 2: Yes, so we should all be millionaires. Why did I 303 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: write it? 304 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 5: I think I wrote it because why I do almost 305 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 5: anything is because something's annoying me, and I'm like, somebody 306 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 5: should do something about this. And then after a while 307 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 5: I get tired of hearing myself complain about it, and 308 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 5: then I'm like, fine, I guess I'll be the one 309 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 5: to do it. 310 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 2: If you insist. 311 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 5: So that it was basically the same thing with the book, 312 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 5: Like I just felt like, y'all, we're not even paying 313 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 5: attention to our money, Like we need to focus on 314 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 5: our money. We need to recognize our agency when it 315 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 5: comes to our money. 316 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: Like there's a. 317 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 5: Lot of and we also need to acknowledge the factors 318 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 5: out there that are all designed to keep people that 319 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 5: look like us broke. 320 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 2: Right, we need to acknowledge that. 321 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 5: That's true, and you know, deal with the hurt of that, 322 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 5: and at the same time not take that on as truth, right, 323 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 5: and recognize our own agency to create financial freedom. So 324 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 5: and it comes out like your money is affected by 325 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 5: every choice you make, right, the decisions that you make, 326 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 5: the boundaries that you do or do not have, the 327 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 5: people that you allow to take advantage of your time. 328 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 5: Now you don't got time to make money because you're 329 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 5: doing all this other stuff for your mom and your sister, 330 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 5: your cousin, everybody else's needs are prioritize instead of yours. 331 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 5: All the excuses we make, all the things. I was 332 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 5: just like, you know, sometimes I just want to take people, 333 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 5: shake them a little. 334 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: Bit, you know. So that's basically what I was doing 335 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: in this book. 336 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm like, okay, here's everything I want you to know. 337 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 5: And I was also unpacking my journey, like who did 338 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 5: I have to become to become a millionaire from growing up, 339 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 5: you know, very low income and struggling. 340 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: What did it take? 341 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 5: Like, how did I have to change who I am? 342 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 5: How did I have to change how I was showing up? 343 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 5: How did I have to change my beliefs in order 344 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 5: to become a millionaire. I wanted people to be able 345 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 5: to have a pathway to do that, and so it 346 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 5: was really just me unpacking that in the book, and 347 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 5: it really was cathartic. And I don't know if you 348 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 5: found this too, but like, I think it's healing to write, 349 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 5: Like I literally cried through some of the stories I 350 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 5: was telling. It was like my own personal therapy. And 351 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 5: so that's the first book, and then Million Dollar Action, 352 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 5: which is the follow up. Is you know, I've had 353 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 5: hundreds of thousands of people messaging me for a couple 354 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 5: of years saying, you know, I loved this book. I'm 355 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 5: you know, I've taken action on certain parts of it 356 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 5: and they loved it, and you know, it was it 357 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 5: was great. And at the same time, I'm like, okay, 358 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 5: but like I would love for you to take more action, Like, 359 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 5: let's see, how can you take action on every part, 360 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 5: not just like the part that you liked the most, 361 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 5: Like that one chapter you took action on, Okay, cool, 362 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 5: but what about the rest? 363 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 2: So the workbook is. 364 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 5: Really about it's sort of taking action. It's million dollar actions, 365 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 5: like what are the actions that are required and let's 366 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 5: actually do them right now in this book, you know, 367 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,359 Speaker 5: and some of these these are a lot of exercises 368 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 5: that I do with my coaching clients to help them 369 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 5: to get results. So it's really deconstructing that and helping 370 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 5: them go through it on their own so that they 371 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 5: can start to create this. It ends with a million 372 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 5: dollar plan, right, like, what is the plan that's going 373 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 5: to help you to build that wealth? 374 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 4: Okay, so you got to share some of those steps. 375 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I could share Maybe I don't know one that 376 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 3: someone could do right now that's kind of like a 377 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 3: baby step, and maybe one that you are like, ooh, 378 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 3: this is like this is when they really turn it 379 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 3: up to the next level. 380 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like not for me or anything. 381 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:24,959 Speaker 1: Just like for everyone, for everyone, because you know, we 382 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: were just talking about this other day. It's just like, 383 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, this would be great. 384 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 4: Yes for my friend. 385 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 2: Yes. 386 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 5: So one of my favorite steps in the book is 387 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 5: about like creating your vision, right, what is the life 388 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 5: that you actually want for yourself. I think a lot 389 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 5: of times we have these dreams and desires, and we 390 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 5: don't see them as real or we don't think they're possible, 391 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 5: so we don't actually plan around them. We don't actually 392 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 5: say like, Okay, how do I make that happen. It's 393 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 5: just kind of like this esoteric thing that's out there 394 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 5: that's like that could never be me, you know. And 395 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 5: I grew up with family members too, who were always 396 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 5: dreaming up business ideas, who are always dreaming up like 397 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 5: big visions that they literally never even thought about taking 398 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,879 Speaker 5: action on. And so I'm like, okay, how can we 399 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 5: make this tangible? So and this is literally what I 400 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 5: did along the way to like continue to grow my 401 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 5: income is I would just get in touch with like 402 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 5: what do I actually want? 403 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: What are my desires? 404 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 5: And so you get in touch with your desires and 405 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 5: you create a list like what are the lifestyle upgrades 406 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 5: I want? What are the changes that I want to make? Well, 407 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 5: how do I want to feel every day? How do 408 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 5: I want to show up every day? And you just 409 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 5: create that vision and write it down, right, And when 410 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 5: we write it down, we're making it real. 411 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 2: That's part of it. 412 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 5: And then I want them to run the numbers on 413 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,239 Speaker 5: that what does my dream life cost? Because sometimes we're like, well, 414 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 5: i'd have to be a billionaire, or even being a millionaire, 415 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 5: you might be able to have ninety percent of what 416 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 5: you want without. 417 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: Being a millionaire. You know, like you don't even know 418 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 2: what it costs. Let's find out. 419 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 5: So it's like, I want one of those big beautiful 420 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 5: houses in this type of neighborhood. Okay, cool, go run 421 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 5: the numbers on what a big beautiful house in that 422 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 5: neighborhood costs? Right, how much would that cost you monthly? 423 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 5: And I make them do it monthly so that because 424 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 5: I think when we think of like. 425 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 2: Oh well that's a million dollar house. Cool, how much 426 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 2: does it cost a month? 427 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: Though? 428 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: Because who cares? 429 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 5: Right, Like if you pay for it monthly, So what 430 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 5: does that look like to like get the monthly number 431 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 5: for all the different things that you want. And so 432 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 5: then I have them add it all up and we 433 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 5: figure out like, okay, now you know what your dream 434 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 5: life costs. Now what are the action steps we need 435 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 5: to take to make that happen and make it real? 436 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 5: So it's like I like putting numbers on things, like, 437 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 5: let's just do the math on it so that we can. 438 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: Figure out how how do we get there? 439 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 5: Because sometimes we think that number is way bigger than 440 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 5: it is, like I need to make five hundred thousand 441 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 5: dollars a month maybe, or maybe you just need to 442 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 5: make another twenty thousand dollars a month, which that ain't 443 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 5: that hard. 444 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 2: You know. So that's one of the exercises that I love. 445 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 5: Another one is really about their their mindset, because I 446 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 5: always start with mindset because so many times I've had 447 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 5: clients come to me and be like, just tell me 448 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 5: the action steps so I could get this money, Like 449 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:00,199 Speaker 5: I just want to have the money, like you have 450 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 5: the money, just tell me the action steps. I just 451 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 5: want to skip to the part where you give me 452 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,120 Speaker 5: action and I'm like, listen, I hear you. 453 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 2: I get it. But let me tell you what. 454 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 5: You're not going to do any of the things that 455 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 5: I tell you to do until we deal with the 456 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,199 Speaker 5: mindin trash, right, Like until you deal with what's stopping 457 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 5: you from You already know what to do half the time, anyway, 458 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 5: you're just not doing it. Why that's the question we 459 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 5: need to answer. So that's actually what we deal with 460 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 5: first in this book, helping people to unpack the thoughts, 461 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 5: like what are the thoughts that you have what are 462 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 5: the stories that you're telling yourself that are preventing you 463 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 5: from taking action? And we always have them. I have 464 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 5: them right now right. 465 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 2: I just spent some time this weekend identifying. 466 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 5: More thoughts that are holding me back, and so I 467 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 5: was like, okay, I'm taking action now. So but you know, 468 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 5: but I spent probably months not being aware of it, 469 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 5: and you know, so I want us to have exercises 470 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 5: that we can use to help make it clear what 471 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 5: is it that's in my head that's stopping me from 472 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 5: taking action. So that way, when you have that list 473 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 5: of like here the okay, now now you have your 474 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 5: tangible to do, why are you not doing them? 475 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: Right? 476 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 5: But when you deal with the mindset trash, you will 477 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 5: actually start working that list. 478 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: You know, Hey, b a fam, We're gonna take a 479 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: quick break and we'll be right back. 480 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 3: I wish we could all just like put our heads 481 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 3: on each other's shoulders and then kind of like run 482 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 3: each other because I just feel like if we could 483 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 3: take the us out, like the art the eye out 484 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 3: of the situation. We're so good at giving advice to 485 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 3: everyone else and like wanting them to be great and 486 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 3: build like all that you're talking about the Hallmark thing, Tiffany, 487 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 3: when you get in the room with black women, it's 488 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 3: just like love and yeah you got it. 489 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: Girl, you so flying yeah in the mirror, like do 490 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 1: I look cute today? 491 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 2: And everyone is like and the. 492 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 4: Uber just like, what the hell did I say? That 493 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 4: was so stupid? 494 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,000 Speaker 3: You know, And I think if we just don't know, 495 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,119 Speaker 3: just had some kind of weird Frankenstein experiment, we're just like, 496 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 3: let me borrow Rachel's brain for a day and I 497 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 3: could do this. 498 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 4: But short of that, a book is fine. I guess. 499 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 5: Well, that's that's why I love community though, Like, that's 500 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 5: why community is so crucial, Like we should never be 501 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 5: doing this alone if we can avoid it, you know, like, 502 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,679 Speaker 5: definitely get friends involved, recruit people. And I include stats 503 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 5: about that in this book too, about how if you 504 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 5: can recruit a squad of friends and get them together 505 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 5: and tell them what your goals are and make sure 506 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 5: you're communicating on a regular basis about the goals, like 507 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,719 Speaker 5: you are ninety percent more likely to accomplish your goals 508 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 5: literally if you do them with a friend, even just 509 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 5: one friend. 510 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 2: You know, So, how many of. 511 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 4: Us feel alone? 512 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 3: Too many of the people that too many of y'all listening, 513 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 3: even if you're listening to this alone. I'm almost like, 514 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 3: start a brand ambition podcast club where you just listen 515 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 3: to the episodes and yes that yeah, it just it 516 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: just helps to have that because I think our thoughts 517 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 3: like when we're in when they're listening right now. I 518 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 3: do this to say I was listening to a podcast earlier, 519 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 3: and I'm like, I need to actually write something down 520 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 3: from this because it sounds so good in the moment, 521 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 3: But where's the like Tiffany, when you say when you 522 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 3: teach something, you learn it twice or whatever. 523 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you teach, yeah. 524 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 3: Someone like you tell someone about it, you learn again? 525 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 3: And I had I was like, who do I turn to? 526 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 3: I just heard this cool thing. Husband's like I can't 527 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 3: take it any more information. I just want to watch 528 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 3: videos on how to fix a Rolex watch. But you know, 529 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 3: I don't know, You're like you needed other things, your squaw. 530 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 3: I wonder to tell the story of how he owned 531 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:25,679 Speaker 3: it for a day and I made him return it. 532 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 2: About how do you Rachel? 533 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 1: Do you find that especially women of color or or 534 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: just people from historically exclude excluded groups really struggle with 535 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: even allowing themselves space to dream. Yeah, I find that 536 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: people are like I can't. I'm like, girl, it's in 537 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: your own head. No one you can literally say I 538 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: want to fly like a bird. It's allowed. 539 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 2: But they're like, oh, I can't. Even Like the other day, 540 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 2: I'm friend of mine. 541 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: She was like saying, what I fly. 542 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 5: Like a bird is my favorite example. I'm the starting 543 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 5: to say because. 544 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: If you ask, if you ask a little kid like 545 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: like yes. One of my nieces, Amelia, she told me 546 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 1: she wanted to go to the moon and I was like, 547 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,479 Speaker 1: you know, but then she also told me like I 548 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: want to meet Stevie Wonder because saying her like the 549 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 1: Stevie Wonder version of Happy Birthday. She's like, that's for 550 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: kids too, and I said, yeah, she's a who sings. 551 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: I was like, man, Stevie Wonder. 552 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 2: She was like, show me on YouTube. 553 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,199 Speaker 1: So I showed her on YouTube. 554 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 2: She said I want to meet him, and I was like, 555 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 2: you can't meet Stevie. 556 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 4: She's like said no more kids, bops. 557 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 1: She she told me to google where he lives and 558 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: I guess he like grew up in Pittsburgh. 559 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: And then she told me to google his mom because 560 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: I guess she won big a point date with her mom. 561 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: And honestly, it sounds so crazy, but I was telling 562 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: you who works with STEVIEE. Wonder. I didn't know, but 563 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 1: she works with Stevie Wonder's ex wife and they're still 564 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: very close. And I was telling a friend of mine like, oh, 565 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,199 Speaker 1: my niece is so silly. She's like no, no, Like, 566 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: next time I see her, because we're doing business together, 567 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to let her know. He's got to meet 568 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: your fan. And if you know, Tiffany, if you bring her, 569 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: she can meet him. I was like, wait, what the. 570 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 2: A Milias of the world get what they want? And 571 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 2: I told her. She looked like, okay, girl us exactly. 572 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 5: Google Google, did y'all see the story about the kid 573 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 5: in the Philippines? 574 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 2: Who is Beyonce? Is his friend Beyonce? Yes? 575 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And he was like, Beyonce, that's his. 576 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 5: Friend now, yes, she sent him flowers and no no, 577 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 5: And it was like, why is Beyonce not coming to 578 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 5: eat pizza with us? Obviously she's our friend, she should 579 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 5: come eat pizza with us. 580 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 4: Like it was such a dope job to just be 581 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 4: the floral, like, oh my million for Beyonce. 582 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 2: First of all, the viewers. First of all, I. 583 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 3: Just need to grow them in that place where they 584 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 3: grow the flower in black and black panther. 585 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 4: Look at that word. 586 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 5: We're just gonna speak it into existence that one day 587 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 5: I'm getting a bouquet from Beyonce, and when I do, 588 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna just fall out. And then once once they 589 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 5: bring the wake me up, then I'm gonna do a 590 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 5: whole video about her. 591 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 2: But you have to get your meeting on. 592 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 1: So I'm like, what can those of us who are 593 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: like listening, who are really like struggling with just even 594 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: in the secrecy of our own arts, say yes, want 595 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 1: because we're feeling we're undeserving or can't happen, whatever it 596 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 1: is that we're telling ourselves. What is a way to 597 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: kind of break free from just even saying thing that 598 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: we want? How can we do yes? 599 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 5: One of my favorite coaching questions that I loved, well, 600 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 5: there's two of them, but one of them is what 601 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 5: would I do if I wasn't afraid? 602 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,479 Speaker 2: Right Like? What's what's? What is? 603 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 5: What would I do right now in these circumstances if 604 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 5: I wasn't afraid? And it helps my brain to start 605 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,640 Speaker 5: just thinking about things and going there instead of doing 606 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 5: what's practical, because I think we create practical and it 607 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 5: becomes just like a ceiling for us and a box even, 608 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 5: you know. And I'm like, there's nothing practical about my 609 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 5: life when I look back at my life, right the 610 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 5: way that I grew up and the circumstances that I 611 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 5: dealt with, Like, you know, there was no there was 612 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 5: nothing practical about going from like paying for our groceries 613 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 5: with food stamps to you know, now having a significant 614 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 5: net worth and becoming a millionaire, right, Like there was 615 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 5: not that was not a pactical plan you know that 616 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 5: I had from day one. I just wanted to I 617 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 5: just didn't want to struggle financially anymore. Right, So, like 618 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 5: I had that in my brain, but I didn't even 619 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 5: think of trying to become a millionaire because it wasn't 620 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 5: even something to think on. So like, your dreams can 621 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 5: continue to grow with you. But I have a whole 622 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 5: section and we shall be millionaires literally dedicated to telling 623 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 5: people how to get back in touch with their dreams. 624 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 5: Because sometimes when I coach clients and I say what 625 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,640 Speaker 5: do you want, Like I always start, what do you want? 626 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 5: Let me help you? I will help you get it. 627 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 5: But like, first, you got to know what you want. 628 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 5: If you don't know what you want, I can't help you. 629 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 5: I don't know what to do with you. 630 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 2: You got to go to go to my friend. 631 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 5: She does life coaching. She'll help you figure out what 632 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 5: you want. Then come here and I'll help you get it. 633 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:41,160 Speaker 2: You know. So, But sometimes they don't. 634 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 5: Even know because they've not been asking themselves. They've never 635 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,679 Speaker 5: admitted it to themselves. They don't even know how to 636 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 5: dream anymore. 637 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 2: You know. And I saw something from do y'all know? 638 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 5: Sonya Renee Taylor, who wrote The Body is not an apology. 639 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 5: She is an amazing activist, body positivity activist and men 640 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 5: other things, amazing poet and a friend of mine. And 641 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 5: she U, I'm losing my train of thought. 642 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 2: She posted the other day. What did she post? Lord? 643 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 4: Something about knowing what you want? 644 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, she said, She said, thank you. I 645 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 2: appreciate you. Yes, mom, brain is real. 646 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 5: She was saying that, like my desire birthed a movement, 647 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 5: Like I just wanted to create this poem for my 648 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 5: friend who was feeling uncomfortable in her body. 649 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: She has a disability. She's a black. 650 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 5: Woman, and she felt shame right, like in a intimate 651 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 5: relationship with someone that she was with, and you know, 652 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 5: she was like, she responded to that by writing this poem, 653 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 5: The Body is Not an apology. And she gave this 654 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 5: poem I think back in twenty thirteen or something, you know, 655 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 5: twenty fourteen, something like that, and that poem became the 656 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 5: birth of a movement. And she wrote recently on social 657 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 5: media like on the anniversary, you know, many years later, 658 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 5: maybe it's the tenth anniversary of her delivering that poem 659 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 5: for the first time, and you could see it on 660 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 5: her Instagram. But she was like, my desire birthday movement, 661 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 5: So I need to I'm going to follow my desires 662 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 5: even more. I'm going to tap into my desires. I'm 663 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 5: realizing the power of my desires. And I think there's 664 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 5: something like spiritual about that. Like I think God literally 665 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 5: or whoever you believe in, gives us these desires so 666 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 5: we will take action. And maybe they're selfish. Maybe it's 667 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 5: like I just want a nice house and I want 668 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 5: to drive a Q car, you know, or whatever selfish 669 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 5: thing that you want. But in the process, right in 670 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 5: order to get that nice house or Q car, we 671 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 5: have to figure out, how were we going to serve 672 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 5: other people because they ain't going to pay us for nothing, right, 673 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 5: And so in the process of me trying to create 674 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 5: financial security for myself, I've now created a movement and 675 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 5: a community that has helped so many other people. And so, 676 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 5: like we think desires are selfish, No, no, no, this 677 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 5: is God's design. This is way more complex and sophisticated 678 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 5: than we think. Right, it's not selfish. It's actually following 679 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 5: your desires is helping you create a world that we 680 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 5: want to live in, you know what I mean. So, 681 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 5: like we need to really tap in, Like our desires 682 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 5: have so much power both to create wealth, but to 683 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 5: create who knows all kinds of things in the world, right, 684 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 5: to like make this world so much better. And I 685 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 5: think we are really disconnected from that. We're like disconnected 686 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 5: from our bodies, the messages that we're being told, right, 687 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 5: Like this this internal wisdom that we have, we don't 688 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 5: use it, and that is that is the key. 689 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: So when people are like what kind of business should 690 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: I start? I'm like, what kind of business do you 691 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 2: want to start? 692 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: Right? 693 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 2: What is calling to you? What is your interest? I 694 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: don't care if you have zero experience what's your interest 695 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 2: right where you. 696 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 4: Want the link in bio. 697 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 3: They want the Amazon the Amazon link bio of like 698 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 3: the things that they need. 699 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 4: That's kind of how like the brain works. Now it's 700 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 4: like what are you selling? 701 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 3: Where can I get this? Like I got you know, 702 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 3: I got this specific scrubbing brush and now my home 703 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:57,120 Speaker 3: is spotless. 704 00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 4: Like that's what That's. 705 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 3: My kind of TikTok that I want it like clean talk, 706 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: and I just feel shitty because I'm like like that 707 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 3: and listen, it's let's talk about it. Yes, but like 708 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 3: I think that a lot of people, a lot of 709 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 3: and I'll put myself there too, like we sometimes will 710 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 3: look or or will look at other people living their 711 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 3: lives on the internet like we does and sort of 712 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 3: and then it's like, oh, I want that too, and 713 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 3: I want that. 714 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 4: But it's like what do you actually. 715 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: But that's good follow that. I actually encourage people to follow. 716 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 5: Jealousy if you feel jealous, like I used to feel 717 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 5: jealous of like wait, I just saw her buy a 718 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 5: house and now she's on vacation. 719 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 2: How she do that? I can't do both of those 720 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 2: things in the same year, let alone the same month, you. 721 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? 722 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 2: Like how did she do that? 723 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: Right? 724 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 5: I wanted to know, how do you have enough money 725 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 5: for both of those things? And so like figuring like 726 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 5: follow that that that jealousy is a signal, Right, it's 727 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 5: giving us information. It's not about that other person. 728 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 2: It's about you. 729 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 5: It's about your seeing something that you want some version 730 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 5: of it. You probably don't want the exact same version 731 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 5: as this person you're watching, but maybe there is some 732 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 5: version of it that you want, you know, So like. 733 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. 734 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 3: I just mean, like, when you see someone who has 735 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: like a vending machine business, do you really want a 736 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 3: vending machine business or you just want the freedom that 737 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,720 Speaker 3: it comes with that or the passive income that comes 738 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 3: with that. And I think we have these like trends 739 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 3: of you know, business like, oh I saw this on 740 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 3: ig this person has a trucking business or whatever, and 741 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 3: I'm going I want to go start that thing. But 742 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 3: if you actually don't have a desire for it or 743 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 3: like that, it's so much harder because it is hard 744 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 3: to start and keep a business, it's harder to keep 745 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 3: it going. 746 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 2: I think this is good though. 747 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 5: I think when you see some like let's say, let's 748 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 5: take the vending machines Okay. So you see somebody who 749 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 5: has a vending machine business. Cool, right, You're like, okay, 750 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 5: they have freedom. They don't have to like sit in 751 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 5: a cubicle, which is what I want to get away 752 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 5: from whatever it is. 753 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 3: Maybe they have freedom because we don't know. Because it's 754 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 3: the internet, they can write. 755 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 5: So yeah, but they have something that I'm seeing that 756 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 5: I'm interested in. So let's just follow that inkling, right, 757 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 5: and so then maybe you start a vending machine business, 758 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 5: and then the vending machine business, like you know, maybe 759 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:07,959 Speaker 5: you make some money from it. 760 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 2: There's things that you like. You like talking to the customers. 761 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 5: Maybe you like managing the business, but like going around 762 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 5: filling the vending machines or whatever is not the part 763 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 5: you like. 764 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 2: Maybe, but it introduces you to. 765 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 5: Entrepreneur, you know, being an entrepreneur, right, and introduces you 766 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 5: to business. And maybe through that you really love the 767 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 5: retail stores that you're delivering to. And then you're like, 768 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 5: you know what, that's what I want. I want to 769 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 5: start a retail store. So it's like follow those inklings 770 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,160 Speaker 5: because they're taking you down a path like hello, seven 771 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 5: is what made me a millionaire? 772 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 2: And what has you know? 773 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 5: It's like I was running a law practice because I 774 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 5: wanted freedom and I had. I had a law degree 775 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 5: and legal skills, so I'm like, Okay, if I run 776 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 5: my own law practice, I will have that freedom. And 777 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 5: then I really didn't like practicing law. But I discovered 778 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 5: through having my own legal business that I love. Running 779 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 5: a business like that was super fun. I loved marketing, 780 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 5: I love talking to the clients. I loved educating them. Right, 781 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 5: So I figured out what I loved from it, and 782 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 5: then I transitioned into this. Without the law practice, there 783 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 5: would be no Hello, seven, Yeah you know what I'm saying. 784 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, I'm about to pass the coming explain 785 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 1: that it was true. So for example, like I think 786 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,839 Speaker 1: about like my first book that came out, I self 787 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 1: published it. It's called One Week Budget, and I wrote 788 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: a while the kids were sleeping during that time when 789 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 1: I was teaching preschool and because I just had this 790 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 1: inkling because people I knew I really loved teaching and 791 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 1: I was really good at like basic financial like money management, 792 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: and people kept asking me and I kept getting annoyed. 793 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: So I created a notebook where I was like, sit 794 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: with me in this notebook, and then someone was like 795 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: why don't you make this like a book book? And 796 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 1: I was like, I guess. And then I'd heard about 797 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: they used to call it vanity publishing back in the day, 798 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: which is like, you know, you just print your own stuff. 799 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 1: And I met a woman who like it was literally 800 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: just on the cusp of there's this company called create 801 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: Space that had not been bought by Amazon just yet, 802 00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: and so like, you know, like you can vanity, but 803 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: you can actually sell and I was like, huh okay. 804 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 1: And I remember distinctly, the Divine God was very clear. 805 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: He said, this book is going to make you a millionaire. 806 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what hello? You know because I 807 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 1: used a little girl that I was going to be 808 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 1: reached one day and I was like, so I was 809 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: very literal. 810 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I must, I'm going. 811 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: To sell enough books of this book and it's going 812 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: to make me a millionaire because of the book sales. 813 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: First month I sold one hundred books and I was like, oh, 814 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: look at me on my way. Second month I sold two, 815 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 1: third month zero, four month, zero, six months zero zero zeros. 816 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 2: Let me get Jesus on the main line, because he had. 817 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: Said, but it was where the bullions at that book 818 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: taught me how to market. It taught me how to 819 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 1: bring an idea to fruition. It taught me how to 820 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:47,799 Speaker 1: ask for help. Because I met a guy that was 821 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 1: consistently selling a few hundred copies a month. I was 822 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: at like a like some little kid had invited me 823 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:55,840 Speaker 1: to like their career day. So I was talking to 824 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: the creator. He spoke, I was in line with the kids, 825 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,520 Speaker 1: like hold up my turn stuff. 826 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 2: I say that I didn't like to ask a question. 827 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 2: He was like, you look a little big and fourth grade. 828 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm liken't worry about all it. 829 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 2: So you said three books a month now and so. 830 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: But it did make me a millionaire, but indirectly so 831 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,360 Speaker 1: because I gathered all these skills to I mean, the 832 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,479 Speaker 1: BUDGETISA had so many iterations. I thought I was gonna 833 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 1: do one on one. I thought, you know, and so 834 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 1: now I'm just free flowing into world. The next thing 835 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: is so I love that. I didn't realize that's what 836 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,360 Speaker 1: I was doing, kind of like following the inkling. Yes, 837 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: you know, there's this interest, and then the interest birds 838 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: the next interest, and there's the next thing and the 839 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 1: next person, and before you know it, you're like, wow, 840 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: that initial you're going to be a millionaire one day 841 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: or whatever that thing is. I'm here now, you know. 842 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 1: I drive from I used to live like a forty 843 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: five minutes outside of Newark, and New York is known 844 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: for its international airport, and so every morning when I 845 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 1: was driving to teach preschool, I would see the planes 846 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,320 Speaker 1: and the sky and something said, one day you'll be 847 00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: coming to Newark because you're gonna be getting on a 848 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: plane all the time. M And I was like, okay, 849 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 1: sounds cute, but I'm about to go to like, you know, 850 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 1: crack Alley because my girl where I taught daycare was 851 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:08,840 Speaker 1: dangerous and. 852 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,720 Speaker 2: You know, and like, okay, girl. 853 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: And now I live in Nord and I'm always on 854 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 1: the plane, and I'm like, oh, and so the inklings 855 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 1: are I think, the buying downloads, And yes, so many 856 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 1: of us don't follow them or to afraid to see 857 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: where they're gonna lead exactly. It's crystal clear. But they're 858 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: not meant to be clear, you know. 859 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 5: I agree, And they're not going to add up today 860 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 5: right like that somebody might have done the math on. Well, 861 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 5: it's gonna take me, you know, I'm gonna have to 862 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 5: sell whatever this many you know, hundreds of thousands to 863 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,320 Speaker 5: get to a million dollars. That's never gonna work, never mind, 864 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 5: and then you wind up like taking longer to get 865 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 5: down your pathway. Like I feel like almost like these 866 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 5: are little shortcuts for us, but sometimes we don't listen, 867 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 5: and then we got to do it the hard headed way, right, 868 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 5: And trust me. 869 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,879 Speaker 2: I have hard headed moments myself. 870 00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 5: So I know I have delayed, you know, gifts that 871 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 5: were meant for me, things that were meant for me 872 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 5: because I wasn't listening. 873 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 2: But I think tuning in is really important. 874 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 5: And I know it sounds hokey and people are like, ah, 875 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:08,880 Speaker 5: that don't work. Just give me something tangible, and I'm like, 876 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:12,040 Speaker 5: trust me, it does work. I promise you it does. 877 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 5: But there's some other tangible things you can do along 878 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 5: the way as well. But tuning into your desires is 879 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 5: very powerful. 880 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think you know, as you guys are speaking, 881 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, no one ever told a little kid who 882 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,759 Speaker 3: wanted to start a lemonade stand, like don't do that. 883 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 4: That's dumb. You'll never make any money from that. 884 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 3: Like you encourage that discovery, like we know, maybe we 885 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 3: don't know, maybe they'll strike some new like discover some 886 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 3: new flavor or whatever. Yes, but we get so much more, 887 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 3: I think, like less, we just get We're more likely 888 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 3: to say no to ourselves and to anticipate failure, and 889 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 3: then you have that confirmation bias of like, oh, well, 890 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,480 Speaker 3: I see other people trying something into not working out, 891 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 3: but it doesn't have to be that way for you. 892 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 3: But like we'll tell we'll like find other messages that 893 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 3: sort of confirm our own doubts and stuff. So yeah, 894 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 3: I get it. Totally get what you're saying. And I 895 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 3: think that it's a lot of too what I do 896 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 3: in my career coaching. It's like helping women be comfortable 897 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 3: with trying something different, yes, not having it be the 898 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 3: thing like this next job has to be the one. Yeah, 899 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, what if it's like one of 900 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,319 Speaker 3: many and that's how it's supposed to be and we're not. 901 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 3: You know, we've just sort of like changed the story 902 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 3: that we tell ourselves about the journey and what that 903 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 3: can look like. 904 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can. You can't get to the other thing 905 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 2: without it something else. 906 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,439 Speaker 5: Another quote from Sonya Renee Taylor is every story about 907 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 5: scarcity is a lie. This is something she said on 908 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 5: stage at my conference that I do every year ROI. 909 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 5: She was a speaker of the first year, and we 910 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,280 Speaker 5: had a conversation about is it ethical to become a millionaire? 911 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 5: Because I noticed that was a conversation that was always 912 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,879 Speaker 5: happening among black and brown people, is like, we we're 913 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 5: supposed to hate capitalism, but we're okay with having businesses, 914 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,319 Speaker 5: right like, and so this disconnect in their brains is 915 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 5: causing them to not grow their businesses. 916 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 2: So I'm like, let's handle this, let's deal with this. 917 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,240 Speaker 5: And so I had Sonya come, I had Rachel Cargo 918 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 5: com and we had a discussion about that. And that 919 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 5: was one of the quotes that has been repeated so 920 00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 5: many times by myself and all these people in my community. 921 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,959 Speaker 5: Every story about scarcity is a lie. 922 00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:15,359 Speaker 2: Right. 923 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 5: So it's like, if this next job isn't you know, 924 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,360 Speaker 5: it's not enough, right, or if I don't have the 925 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 5: thing right now holding on so tightly to the dream 926 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 5: and demanding it be today, is is scarcity? 927 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 4: Right? 928 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 5: It's it's sourced from scarcity, you know, it's not if 929 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 5: it doesn't happen, how it's never going to happen. 930 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 2: Right, That's a lie. You just making that up make up. 931 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 5: If you gonna make up things, make up useful things, okay, 932 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 5: make up helpful thoughts. Don't make up negative thoughts that 933 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 5: that discourage you. 934 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 3: You know. 935 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's amazing how your community so they can give 936 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:47,560 Speaker 1: you new thoughts. 937 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 2: Exactly. 938 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: I wish speaking to ourselves the way we do like 939 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,720 Speaker 1: preschoolers and kindergarteners, right, because we tell them it's all possible, 940 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,319 Speaker 1: it's all this, it's all it's till third grade. 941 00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 2: None not gonna happen for your life. 942 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 3: Dang third grade. I wanted to be an actress, not 943 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,240 Speaker 3: in the third grade. I didn't really lose hope until 944 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 3: about the tenth grade. 945 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: But you know, like we telled like young people that 946 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,440 Speaker 1: it's all possible, and then we look ourselves in the 947 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: mirror and tell us but not usis yes. 948 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 2: You know, it's so true. 949 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 5: And actually, this is the funny thing that was happening 950 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 5: this last week. I was recording the audiobook for Million 951 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 5: Dollar Action, this new book that's coming out, and I'm 952 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 5: reading to myself, my own words and my own coaching 953 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 5: and coaching myself for the process and be like. 954 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,360 Speaker 2: Girl, you see where you've been playing yourself? 955 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 5: Like literally the words of the page were coaching me 956 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:44,040 Speaker 5: as I was reciting them. And then I just came 957 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 5: home and was like, Oh, I see where I've been 958 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,399 Speaker 5: playing myself like I believe it for my clients. I've 959 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 5: believed it for myself in the past, but I'm not 960 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 5: believing it right now with this new thing, because that's 961 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 5: what happens, is like we get a new dream or 962 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 5: a new vision, and we go right back down to 963 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 5: the bottom of not believing and having to go through 964 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 5: this journey again. And so can I tell y'all what 965 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,839 Speaker 5: my new dream is? 966 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:04,880 Speaker 2: This is exclusive. 967 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:10,839 Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask you excessive out loud just. 968 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 5: For y'all, but no, and it's also for me right 969 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 5: for exactly what you said, Mandy, to say it out loud. 970 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,959 Speaker 5: But and this was the thing that I started taking 971 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 5: action on this weekend because I realized, like, oh, I've 972 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 5: been playing myself like I'm doing the same thing that 973 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 5: I tell my clients not to do. So new another 974 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 5: dream that I have is I want to start other businesses. 975 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 5: This Hello seven is largely run without me, although I 976 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,799 Speaker 5: am involved, I'm just not as involved in the day 977 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,800 Speaker 5: to day and I have a president who runs the 978 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:41,239 Speaker 5: day to day and so I'm like, Okay, well what 979 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,399 Speaker 5: else could I be doing with my time? And I've 980 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 5: been thinking about this vision and I took action on it, 981 00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 5: and then I kind of I talked to my best 982 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 5: friend about it, talked to my husband, I talked to 983 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 5: all these people and they. 984 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 2: Were like, I see it, and they were excited, but 985 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 2: like not really you know what I mean. 986 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 5: You know how you say it and you're like so 987 00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 5: hype and they're not matching your energy, so you get deflated, right, 988 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 5: And I'm like, how is that any different from when 989 00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:03,439 Speaker 5: I started Hello seven? 990 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,400 Speaker 2: Nobody saw the vision that I saw. It's a new vision. 991 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 2: Why would they see it? 992 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 1: Right? 993 00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 5: Like it's in my head, it's not in the world yet. 994 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 5: So I'm like, actually, it was like I needed the 995 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,400 Speaker 5: words from my own work book to coach me again 996 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,719 Speaker 5: and to remind me that, like, I don't need everybody 997 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 5: to believe, even my closest people, even the people I 998 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,839 Speaker 5: love the most, they don't need to hold this dream 999 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 5: for me. I'm holding it and I believe it, and 1000 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 5: I know I have support and I know I want 1001 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 5: to do this, So like, what is it that I'm 1002 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 5: actually waiting for? 1003 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 2: So I was like Okay, I'm going to take action. 1004 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 5: So I took a whole bunch of action yesterday, just 1005 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 5: sent all the emails to like get this party started. 1006 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:43,000 Speaker 5: But the dream is I want to I want to 1007 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:46,239 Speaker 5: create an in, Like I want to buy an old in, 1008 00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 5: renovate it, and turn it into this like hub of 1009 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,440 Speaker 5: physical community for historically excluded people to just have this 1010 00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 5: beautiful luck space to go and to know that they 1011 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,400 Speaker 5: are welcome, to know that their identity is celebrated, and 1012 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:02,879 Speaker 5: to just have dope things like. 1013 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 2: Beautiful art from historically excluded people on. 1014 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 5: The walls and jazz playing and you know, I just 1015 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,239 Speaker 5: have this whole curated vision of what the experience is 1016 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 5: going to be. And I'm like, I already identified the 1017 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 5: property and it's still on the market. I went to 1018 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,800 Speaker 5: go see it in January, but I keep messing around 1019 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 5: and now I'm like, you know what, just do it. 1020 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 5: So I sent the email to the realtor. Yesterday I 1021 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 5: talked to an architect, made an appointment. 1022 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 2: Like I just started lining up the ducks. You know, 1023 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 2: I can't wait. 1024 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,800 Speaker 1: I can see myself there already. 1025 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, I was reading a book. 1026 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 3: I was reading a book and it was like, I 1027 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,160 Speaker 3: don't know stories from entrepreneurs on advice and stuff, and 1028 00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 3: like I was just flipping through it and I stopped 1029 00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 3: on a page and I hadn't heard of it, but 1030 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 3: this heard of this woman. But she was the former 1031 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 3: editor in chief of Essence and she started her She 1032 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 3: has like three ends now, and I just like, I 1033 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 3: don't know. 1034 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 5: I think I know who you're talking about. 1035 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,560 Speaker 2: God, I don't know what is it? The qua? 1036 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: Yes, something like that one in DC's one. 1037 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 6: In d C. 1038 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 3: And what's like when you when you put together your 1039 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 3: mastermind of in owners Just like, I'll tell you it's 1040 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:13,239 Speaker 3: possible because she did it. 1041 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 4: There's one in Brooklyn. 1042 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,720 Speaker 2: Look what Okay, let's just recap what just happened for people. 1043 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,360 Speaker 2: I also have her phone number, so just put that 1044 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 2: in the mix. Look at that. Okay. 1045 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 5: So I was brave enough to say it out loud, 1046 00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:29,040 Speaker 5: and then Mandy, you're pointing out, Okay, here's enough. The 1047 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:30,600 Speaker 5: next step you need to take. You need to call 1048 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 5: this woman, Steve. She'll take your call and have a 1049 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 5: conversation with her. Tiffany already got the number in the connect. 1050 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? You see what happens when 1051 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 2: you say you get help. 1052 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:51,720 Speaker 3: You know, I want to brown ambitions, No, what is happening? 1053 00:45:53,320 --> 00:46:00,440 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, no, but I love that 1054 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 1: You're right instantly. It doesn't always happened like this, but 1055 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 1: look what happens when you open yourself up, yeah, reality, 1056 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,920 Speaker 1: Then you open yourself up to also receive the things 1057 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 1: that you're needing for success, so that. 1058 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,840 Speaker 3: You wouldn't have known about the woman if you hadn't 1059 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 3: like started hello seven and then change your mind and 1060 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:18,319 Speaker 3: not change your mind. 1061 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,319 Speaker 4: It's still going. But then you met Tiffany through that 1062 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 4: and now you're here. 1063 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:25,400 Speaker 3: And now it seem yeah, we shall stop here, guys 1064 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 3: before we up. 1065 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,280 Speaker 4: But like that was like the perfect. 1066 00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 2: Feel like it's not gonna get no better shut it down. 1067 00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 3: Just cut the video, cut the video right there were 1068 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 3: something else? 1069 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 1: Now this is real. Honestly, it is such a testament 1070 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 1: to that the thing you're wanting. I always think to 1071 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: myself that, like, is it that big of a deal 1072 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:51,279 Speaker 1: because you're motivating and find like an old nickel from 1073 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,400 Speaker 1: eighteen twenty five that's worth two hundred thousand dollars, I mean. 1074 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,759 Speaker 2: Anything, you know what I mean? 1075 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 1: Like, sometimes we think to ourselves, okay, in order to 1076 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,279 Speaker 1: make two hundred thousand. I don't know if you used 1077 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,200 Speaker 1: to watch like Anti Groacho, where I used to love 1078 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,439 Speaker 1: to find out this guy was like poor. His whole 1079 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 1: life was like, oh, I don't have any money. His 1080 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: grandmother passed away. 1081 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:09,440 Speaker 2: On the wall. 1082 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: She had some blanket or something like that. It turned 1083 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,960 Speaker 1: out to be some original Native American hypochi, but it 1084 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: was worth a million dollars. He wasn't poor his whole life. 1085 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: You had a million dollars on your wall. And so 1086 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,239 Speaker 1: so many of us literally are navigating life in that 1087 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 1: way where the thing that we're wanting is right there 1088 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: in proximity, but because we've already been committed to the narrative, 1089 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,040 Speaker 1: if I don't have, you know, it's like the universe 1090 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,600 Speaker 1: is like I I guess, honey. Meanwhile, a million dollars 1091 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: sitting on the wall at Granny's house just chilling, you know, 1092 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 1: And so you know, say the things. I call it 1093 00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,319 Speaker 1: getting my mimi on. Like I took the kids, my 1094 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: sister Carol has two kids, and I've got a niece 1095 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,719 Speaker 1: in Chicago. I took them to the White House. We 1096 00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,320 Speaker 1: were to Washington, DC, and I had taken them to 1097 00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: the White House, but the course, we're outside the gate 1098 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:01,880 Speaker 1: and she put her hand through the gate in Secret 1099 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: Services like no, no, no, and she was. 1100 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 4: Like, don't talk to me. I was like, girl, we 1101 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:05,920 Speaker 4: will both be arrested. 1102 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,160 Speaker 2: And then she said why can't we go in? 1103 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 1: And I said, well, you know, see those men here 1104 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 1: if they're to protect the president. She said, yeah, but 1105 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,040 Speaker 1: you met the president like. 1106 00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,879 Speaker 2: Girl playing with somebody else. I said, I hear you. 1107 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,400 Speaker 1: But I said, Amelia, you can't just go in. And 1108 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,080 Speaker 1: she was really upset by that because she was like, 1109 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 1: I don't that doesn't it's not. 1110 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:29,399 Speaker 2: Tracking you saw me there. And so because she. 1111 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: Told that to me, I was like, I had gotten 1112 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,000 Speaker 1: invited back to the White House for the State of 1113 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: the Union this year, and the coordinator who invited me, 1114 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 1: I was telling her the story as a little key key, like, oh, 1115 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 1: I brought my niece here a few months ago, and 1116 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 1: she was like upset and got in trouble with the 1117 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 1: Secret Service because she wanted to come in. And she 1118 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, we do private tours, just 1119 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: bring your family. Whenever I was like come again, she 1120 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,880 Speaker 1: said yeah. And when I told him Millia, she was like, as. 1121 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 2: I said, okay, once again, but. 1122 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 1: That's what I mean, is that like if she had 1123 00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:01,880 Speaker 1: never said that, It's like I had the scarcity mindset, 1124 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,799 Speaker 1: you know, not her. She was like, I saw you 1125 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:08,439 Speaker 1: at the White House. It's possible play with somebody else. 1126 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,439 Speaker 1: And so because of that, We're going to the White 1127 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:11,960 Speaker 1: House and I'm going to bring my family. We gotta 1128 00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,680 Speaker 1: get a private tour. 1129 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:13,880 Speaker 2: I love it. 1130 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:18,279 Speaker 5: Listense and she taking new care. 1131 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm like my therapist always till tell me. She's like, well, 1132 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: what would Amelia do? 1133 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 2: Because she let my little also taco because. 1134 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,800 Speaker 1: She hasn't been the world has not told her no yet, 1135 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: yes you know, and I'm just like, what would she 1136 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: do in this instant? You know? She said she wanted 1137 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 1: to go to the moon, and we all laughed, and 1138 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,239 Speaker 1: she's like, joke's on you. 1139 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,359 Speaker 2: She's six ship. 1140 00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 3: You can know Jack Beso, she can meet him and 1141 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,480 Speaker 3: get you never know possible. 1142 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,400 Speaker 5: I was thinking earlier, Amandy, when you said you wanted 1143 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,920 Speaker 5: to be an astronaut when you were younger, and I 1144 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 5: was like, you could still be an astronaut now if 1145 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:50,279 Speaker 5: you wanted to. 1146 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 4: You don't even need math. You just need you know, 1147 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 4: to know a Bezos or whatever. 1148 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 3: Them. 1149 00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,279 Speaker 2: You know, what I mean, I might get there. 1150 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,759 Speaker 4: I saw that Brad Pitt movie. 1151 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, sorry about Scarcey is a lie. 1152 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm just I wrote that down. That's just yes. 1153 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,919 Speaker 2: And that's the thing is like, just because the world 1154 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:10,480 Speaker 2: has told. 1155 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 5: Us no before, It's it's like we don't even pursue 1156 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 5: our dreams because we're afraid to be told no again. 1157 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,480 Speaker 5: And it's like, but you didn't die though from it, 1158 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,920 Speaker 5: Like it's not that serious. Just keep going, just try 1159 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 5: it and just collect those nose until you get that Yes. 1160 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 1: You know, wait, soil, where can the girls find your book? 1161 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,919 Speaker 1: I know you said it's coming out June. 1162 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 5: Right, Yes, if you go to helloseven dot co slash 1163 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,439 Speaker 5: Million Dollar Action, they can find there's a landing page 1164 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,040 Speaker 5: there about the book. But you can also find it 1165 00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:44,359 Speaker 5: everywhere like Barnes and Noble, Amazon, your local black owned bookstore, 1166 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 5: all the places. So it'll be out soon. And you know, 1167 00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,960 Speaker 5: I hope people go through it and really do all 1168 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 5: of the action steps so they can start to be 1169 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,839 Speaker 5: in touch with their own desires and start building that 1170 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 5: plan for their beliefs to happen. 1171 00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,239 Speaker 1: And where they order you like on social media. 1172 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,840 Speaker 5: Yes, so I'm on Instagram Rach Rogers e s Q. 1173 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 5: I still got that Esquire from the early. 1174 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 2: Days, Rogers. It means lawyer. Just it's a fancy way 1175 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:11,879 Speaker 2: to say lawyer. 1176 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:15,520 Speaker 3: You know, like like you need a dick Tracy like 1177 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 3: hat and I feel like in a suit. 1178 00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,319 Speaker 2: Like it makes me think of car San Diego. You 1179 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 2: know I used to love that show. 1180 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:25,359 Speaker 4: Yes, that's a vibe. You worked hard for that ship. 1181 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:29,759 Speaker 1: So hell here, helly exactly so Rach Rach Rogers s 1182 00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,040 Speaker 1: Q on Instagram. Anyplace else that you like to bet 1183 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 1: they want to just connect? 1184 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:37,160 Speaker 5: Yes, Well, the Hello seven podcast is coming back. So 1185 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 5: I've been on hiatus for a year, but I got 1186 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,880 Speaker 5: my life together now, so I'm going to the podcast 1187 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 5: is coming back, so yeah, so people can can check 1188 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,640 Speaker 5: me out on the Hello seven podcast. 1189 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,520 Speaker 3: So I'll try to play it cool, like I don't 1190 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:56,879 Speaker 3: already have the podcast downloaded. Wait, I won't play it cool. 1191 00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 3: I'll just say that out loud. 1192 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 4: That really so much for me, Rachel. 1193 00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,400 Speaker 1: Thank you amazing guests. You have been amazing. Even more amazing. 1194 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,839 Speaker 1: I knew of you, you know, but like to get 1195 00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,959 Speaker 1: to know you better, like as a person, as a woman. 1196 00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 2: Yes, it's a light thank you. This was so fun. 1197 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 2: Y'all are a blast. 1198 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 5: I would hang out with y'all every day. 1199 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,359 Speaker 4: Say yes, let me know when, let me know when 1200 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,239 Speaker 4: the end is open? You know what I mean? 1201 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:26,560 Speaker 3: This is on the early the Early Adopters list, whatever, 1202 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:27,200 Speaker 3: sign me up. 1203 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 5: Yes, I have the best name for it too. I'm 1204 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,400 Speaker 5: not going to share it yet, but I'm so excited. 1205 00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:37,919 Speaker 4: Oh look at your face lighting up. Yes, you deserve cool. 1206 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,160 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, well, if you enjoyed this episode, and 1207 00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 1: we know you did, this is not for you to 1208 00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,280 Speaker 1: keep to yourself, right, share with your mom and your cousin, 1209 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,759 Speaker 1: your uncle, your baby sis. You'll be CUsing your work 1210 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,560 Speaker 1: husband whoever. Share with them so they can get they 1211 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:54,640 Speaker 1: can let Rachel light up their life as well. 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