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Speaker 1: Phoning everybody. It's the j n V.

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Speaker 2: Charlamagne to gud we are the Breakfast Club. Jess Hilarius

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Speaker 2: is our guest co host. That's right now we're doing

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Speaker 2: just fix My Mess.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know, just got a podcast

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Speaker 1: Carefully Reckless.

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Speaker 3: He won't try to talk over that. I'm in the

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Speaker 3: third season. Can'tfully Reckless, Charlamagne, Thank you so much. And

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Speaker 3: I fix people's message. I try to do every Wednesday, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you have a question or you need relationship

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Speaker 2: advice and any type of advice, Jess is here for you.

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Speaker 4: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 5: This?

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Speaker 6: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Y'all?

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Speaker 4: Chop house?

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Speaker 2: Turning your radio down and ask Jess whatever your problem

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Speaker 2: is my advice.

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Speaker 5: Listen. I just got caught cheating on my old lady. Man.

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Speaker 5: I went out of town one time. She called me. Now,

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to get my family back together.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 5: I've been thinking Keisha Cole every day, and I hate

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Speaker 5: Keisha Cole with a passion.

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Speaker 7: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 4: You don't know what to do.

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Speaker 5: Move I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: You said, just move on on.

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Speaker 4: You're not getting a bad You gotta fight for that.

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Speaker 1: Back brother.

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Speaker 3: No, he it seemed like he's been fighting and he

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Speaker 3: ain't been winning.

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Speaker 5: Been fighting hard and beat my man, she done beat

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Speaker 5: my ass all type of the family.

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Speaker 3: It's not the first time. I can tell you. It's

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Speaker 3: not your first time cheating.

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Speaker 5: That the first time. That the first time. I ain't

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Speaker 5: never cheating on nothing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So what made you do it?

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Speaker 5: Man? I was drunk out of town one day.

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Speaker 4: Man, not to be trusted. Yeah, how did you get caught?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 5: I was drunk one night and I was chansing the girl.

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Speaker 5: When I came back home, I was tripping, y'all.

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Speaker 4: But this is the thing. Did you post something that

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Speaker 4: somebody call her that?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 4: How did she find out that you?

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Speaker 5: Oh, she went through my phone because I was just

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Speaker 5: moving kind of weird. You know. You know me, we've

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Speaker 5: been we've been together since middle school, really right.

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Speaker 3: So you don't know how to cheat me your first

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Speaker 3: time you got caught, So that's why you don't.

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Speaker 8: Need yeah.

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Speaker 5: Or not?

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Speaker 3: Well, I think that I think that she's more betrayed

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Speaker 3: than anything. So it's just gonna take time for that.

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Speaker 3: This is your first time, and and sometimes you only

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Speaker 3: got a cheat one time to lose the person that

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Speaker 3: you really shouldn't cheated on. But yeah, just keep trying.

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Speaker 5: Give a shout out to my wife real quick.

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Speaker 8: You do you want to embarrass in my bad We

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Speaker 8: never hear her name.

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Speaker 5: Marie McKenny, Angelina, Marie McKinney. I love you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I like Jessic's advice.

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Speaker 4: That's nice.

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Speaker 7: It's gonna take time, it's gonna take and you might

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Speaker 7: you might have messed it up so much that she

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Speaker 7: may not be coming back buddy, because.

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Speaker 4: She can't believe you.

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Speaker 2: Keep trying to be persistent, Be consistent, will be smart.

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Speaker 5: All right, appreciate y'all. Appreciate y'all. Y'all following me on

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Speaker 5: in the ground house. You are wrong.

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Speaker 1: About the wrong thing.

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Speaker 3: That's how you had bitches in the first place. In

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Speaker 3: the bed in Miami.

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Speaker 4: Talking about following me, I'm gonna give a shout out.

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Speaker 5: Hello this Hi, this is Erica.

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Speaker 4: Hey, good morning with your present for jess Hi family.

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Speaker 9: I feel like we're all family. Let's see you'll every.

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Speaker 7: Well.

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Speaker 9: My question is I've been with my husband for right

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Speaker 9: a sixth year. Before we got married, things were off,

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Speaker 9: you know, we there wasn't nobody taking score of anything. Whatever.

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Speaker 9: He didn't do I picked up the flag, did it

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Speaker 5: And this bikes vers us.

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Speaker 9: But we got married the first year. I can remember

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Speaker 9: my first anniversary. I'm fitt next table by myself with

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Speaker 9: the top of the cakes from the wedding and he's

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Speaker 9: outside walking the car. But it just went down here

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Speaker 9: from then. So I'm just trying to see should I say,

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Speaker 9: because every time he apologizes, I accepted it and seemed

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Speaker 9: like he does something else, like he seated the first year.

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Speaker 9: The second year, he just started going in on my character,

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Speaker 9: trying to make me feel like I'm letting who I am.

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Speaker 9: But thank god, I know who I am. But she's

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Speaker 9: just been so disrespect for and dis lawyers.

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Speaker 4: Well, family, listen, listen, listen. Well do you know who

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Speaker 4: you are?

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Speaker 9: I do?

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Speaker 4: Do you?

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 4: That's literally you know I'm serious.

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Speaker 3: No, that's a real question, though, seriously says do you

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Speaker 3: know who you are? You stuck around for a lot

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Speaker 3: and you got red flags early on, and he knows

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Speaker 3: all he got to do is apologize and then you

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Speaker 3: and you'll forgive him.

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Speaker 4: You love him to death.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 3: He loves the convenience, He loves being able to do

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Speaker 3: what he wants to do if he knows he can

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Speaker 3: smooth it over with you know, whatever you want to hear.

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Speaker 3: He knows what you want to hear. He knows how

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Speaker 3: to get back and good graces with you. I don't

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Speaker 3: think you do. I think you know who you are.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you know your value. I don't think that. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think you you should search for that, because that

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Speaker 3: is there's no way you're supposed to be in the

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Speaker 3: predicament you're in right now and you've seen all them flags.

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Speaker 4: Boll damn.

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Speaker 6: It is so hard.

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Speaker 9: Kept saying work you to I'm like, oh my god, mommy, daddy.

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Speaker 9: I just so you might. I don't know who you are.

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Speaker 3: You living for everybody else, You're living for everybody else.

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Speaker 3: You have to really know who you are. You have

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Speaker 3: to because honestly, he don't even know who you are.

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Speaker 3: If he did, he wouldn't be doing it.

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Speaker 4: So you got to go. You got to go.

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Speaker 3: Anybody talk to you about his family. He talks about

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Speaker 3: your girl, You're gonna get me mad. I talked about

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Speaker 3: you Wednesday, girl.

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Speaker 1: Damn, damn.

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Speaker 4: I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: That's true, though, I was going to say, at least

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Speaker 2: you know try to have a conversation with the with

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Speaker 2: the brother and but you know what, this is just just.

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Speaker 1: As just fix my mess eight and this is how

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Speaker 1: I fix it.

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Speaker 2: No right, eight hundred five one. You need relationship advice,

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Speaker 2: called Jess right now.

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Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, owing everybody. It's theej Envy charlamagnea God. We

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Speaker 2: are the breakfast Club now if you just join us.

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Speaker 2: Of course, our co host is Jess Hilary. She's here

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Speaker 2: and we opened up the phone lines for Jess.

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Speaker 4: Fixed my mess.

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Speaker 2: If you're going through some problems, some relationship issues, Jess is.

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Speaker 1: Here to help you. Hello, Sandy.

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, you're going through a big problem right now,

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Speaker 2: and I know what's holding you back, so you can

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Speaker 2: go ahead and talk to her right now.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, So I am Mary. I've been married for

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Speaker 6: three years and we just had our first baby last year.

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Speaker 4: Congrass, congratulations, thank you guys.

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Speaker 6: And the situation that's kind of drastic, Like at first

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Speaker 6: it sex was great, like my husband and I were

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Speaker 6: secting all the time. But it's been about eleven months.

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Speaker 6: I didn't do my breakfast the whole time. I've tried

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Speaker 6: like set in the mood I've done it all, Like,

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Speaker 6: but we're not having sex. Girl, I'm done breastfeeding, like

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Speaker 6: my body. I'm getting my body back right, I've lost

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Speaker 6: about sixty pounds. But he's just not he's not like

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Speaker 6: it's not getting up.

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Speaker 4: Excuse me, Charlamagne. What Okay? They said, have been twelve months,

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Speaker 4: you haven't had sex?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 4: Twelve?

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Speaker 6: What since I got twelve plus nine?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So y'all haven't sex in a long time?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever talked to him about it? Like you

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Speaker 3: know this communication with w Have you to ever talked

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Speaker 3: to him about it?

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Speaker 4: What's wrong?

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Speaker 6: Or you embarrassed to get a virtual virtual therapy session

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Speaker 6: like I asked him that you want to see like

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Speaker 6: a sex doctor. He's a he's an introvert, like he's

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Speaker 6: a black nerd. He's not really like aggressive. So I'm like, okay, baby,

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Speaker 6: we could work around that. But I'm kind of like

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Speaker 6: I'm needing a little bit.

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Speaker 4: More, okay. And then when you said that, what did

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Speaker 6: He was like, Okay, babe, I'll get it together. I'll try,

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Speaker 6: you know, and it just feel messing.

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Speaker 3: You don't think at all that it is somebody else.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to put that in your head. I

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Speaker 3: just have to ask, because you know, I'm a therapist.

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Speaker 4: Allegedly, I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: I honestly don't think so. I know finances were like

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Speaker 6: a big thing, you know. I know sometimes men to

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Speaker 6: stress multiple right scenes at once. I put the mear

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Speaker 4: Maybe she just had a baby. He's having stressed. Maybe

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Speaker 4: it's penis. Is not good she was and you were

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Speaker 4: cut off off.

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Speaker 3: She was talking about her damn baby, and you're going, Yo,

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Speaker 3: it's this penis.

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Speaker 4: Hold what I'm saying right now two talking to him?

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Speaker 7: Ain't now one woman brought up penis, but you did.

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Speaker 3: Here you go, and then now you got your man

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Speaker 3: holling at you, mad at you, and all of that. Listen,

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Speaker 3: all right, I'm sorry, Ash, I mean, what's your name is, Sandy?

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Speaker 4: Sandy? All right, Sandy, so listen.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So when it's stressed, when a man is stressed out,

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Speaker 3: it could be a number of things. Girl, you said

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Speaker 3: you took off for a year, so you you were home,

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Speaker 3: so he had.

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Speaker 4: To find for the whole household.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know what he does or what

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Speaker 3: that looks like, but I know that that man is

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Speaker 3: probably tired newborn baby, because I know you're tired. So

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Speaker 3: y'all still take turns with the baby, I'm assuming, and

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Speaker 3: then sex is probably the first, not the furthest thing

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Speaker 3: from his mind. But when you're struggling, it's a lot

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Speaker 3: of things going on. I'm telling you you can't get

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Speaker 3: it up. And I ain't got one to know. But

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Speaker 3: I had a man who was stressed out before and

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Speaker 3: could not get it up. Really I left, Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: left him, damn it. Yeah, he was struggling on his own,

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Speaker 3: not me.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Okay, yeah, so I think that's what I.

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Speaker 6: Do, Like just be patient and just.

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Speaker 4: Girl, do you have a role?

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Speaker 5: Do you have a toy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I know you asked me. Can you check you? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Do you still want to be married?

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Speaker 3: You good?

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Speaker 4: You still want to stay there?

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Speaker 8: I do?

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Speaker 6: I mean I'm at this point. I mean, I'm at

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Speaker 4: You're just okay.

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Speaker 3: So basically you're saying you're getting this body together, and

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Speaker 3: if ain't, and if if one man ain't going to

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Speaker 2: The doctor so he could get himself checked out. Because

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Speaker 1: They'm gonna be honest. You said he a nerd.

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Speaker 7: He probably in that metaverse having sex with the virtual reality.

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Speaker 4: That's why I said it has to be I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Don't put that in her mind. That might not be true,

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Speaker 4: you know what. Yeah, I say, thought about it too.

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Speaker 4: You know we ain't going there with it.

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Speaker 7: When you said you're playing video games, butt you being

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Speaker 7: there pumping the air? Shut up, man, put their dumb

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Speaker 4: This is what I think. This is what I think is.

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Speaker 3: I think you should honestly talk to him and tell

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Speaker 3: and you understand you know, his black nerdism and all

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Speaker 3: but you need to be sexually satisfied some type of way.

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Speaker 4: So if he can.

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Speaker 3: Give you a hall pass until he gets his his

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Speaker 3: you know, his thing situated, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Or does he does he give good oral what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Or is he too nerdy for that?

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Speaker 6: Well he's not really an oral person.

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Speaker 3: Oh girl, Yeah, you got to get a hall passed

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Speaker 3: if he ain't doing this.

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Speaker 2: But also, you know, sometimes it's not for me because

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Speaker 2: I actually I love with my wife's preendance. But sometimes

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Speaker 2: when you know, men see the baby come out the

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Speaker 4: So he gonna be turned He still turned off right now?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I still think there's compromises. And I'm not married.

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Speaker 3: These two men are married, but I think you have

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Speaker 3: to compromise. Look, if you know you ain't getting it up,

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Speaker 5: You have to.

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Speaker 3: You say, I don't like giving child, what do he

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Speaker 3: like doing? Damn radio silence exactly.

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Speaker 6: I mean it's not a year, Yeah, it's been a

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Speaker 3: I don't condone cheating. I don't condone. I don't condone cheating.

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Speaker 3: I condone and understanding that that that needs have to

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Speaker 4: How much did your body change?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she gaed about one hundred pounds.

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Speaker 1: You ain't say that what did you weigh?

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Speaker 4: Hold ups?

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Speaker 1: What did you supposed to lead with that man? You

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Speaker 4: Sorry, you left that off the scale, right?

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Speaker 2: For First of all, she WoT, I know, what what

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Speaker 6: I weighed one hundred and ninety pounds, but I mean

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Speaker 6: I carry it very well.

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Speaker 1: You got up to two ninety.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, you went from one ninety to two ninety.

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Speaker 3: So what he said, now, Jess, I just say that

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Speaker 3: she's doing the right thing by being in that damn gym,

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Speaker 3: and she just keep coming down and just.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's good, that girl keep on coming.

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Speaker 1: You on that pin too, that with that diabetic everybody.

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Speaker 3: No, I think she's doing good with the gam and

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Speaker 3: just keep on because the more you come down on

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Speaker 3: the weight, the more the penis will go up. I

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Speaker 3: think that's what it is. Now we get into it.

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Speaker 3: So I love you just staying there, don't she?

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Speaker 4: Damn?

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Speaker 7: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I thinkured that.

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Speaker 4: I was like, it's you know, maybe the body of transformed.

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Speaker 4: He's not turned on anymore, so you're you're a man,

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Speaker 4: So this is good.

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Speaker 7: I can ask the question, I supposed to love your

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Speaker 3: Sure he's saying that, you don't is his penis, don't

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Speaker 3: it's him.

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Speaker 4: He's saying he had and we.

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Speaker 1: Don't know what he looked like. He might have gained

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Speaker 4: He don't know.

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Speaker 7: You know what I mean, You don't know. It might

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Speaker 7: just be two big old circles just on top of

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Speaker 7: your right.

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Speaker 4: It's not enough.

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Speaker 1: We got just give us a little tea what we

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Speaker 1: talk about.

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Speaker 4: Every week, all right?

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Speaker 3: So stoles Piece says Biggie wanted to squash beef between

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Speaker 3: Diddy and the Locks before he died.

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Speaker 1: Great segue. Not call it a Biggie small story because

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Speaker 1: he was big.

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Speaker 4: That's right, Yeah, great segue.

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Speaker 1: Just what the mess is up?

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Speaker 5: Thanks?

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Speaker 4: Is the Breakfast Cloak a boarding the Breakfast Club