WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Target Date

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update. Today spent her first

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<v Speaker 1>date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No

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<v Speaker 1>worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon

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<v Speaker 1>together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.

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<v Speaker 1>But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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<v Speaker 1>to wake him up Sunday morning when he's hung over

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<v Speaker 1>and go, let's go to Target and walk around for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, it hurts me to my core to have

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date,

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<v Speaker 1>her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like go on your date and then come back with

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<v Speaker 1>the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a

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<v Speaker 1>work function and he asked me out, and I said, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So I waited a few days and hit him up

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<v Speaker 1>and said, Hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to come? And he said he yes. That's impressive because

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<v Speaker 1>you decide weever like, ah, you know, I'm super busy today,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe we go to dinner or something sometime. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, dinner pressure. It comes to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and it's like then you gotta think what you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk about, and he's the whole thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the date at Target? I thought the date

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<v Speaker 1>went really really well. We had a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We looked a quote, and then I suggested that we

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<v Speaker 1>go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So then you turned it into like a legit date.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I invite a guy to Target. If I like it enough,

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<v Speaker 1>then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see

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<v Speaker 1>a movie. You said this is what I do. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Really mean well, I've never heard of anybody taking a

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<v Speaker 1>date to Target. Ever. Well, when you're dating someone, you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find out what you have in common. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you go to a restaurant it takes about hour.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes much longer. So if you go to Target,

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<v Speaker 1>you can figure that out like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You could tell what kind of stuff they want to see,

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<v Speaker 1>where they want to shop, what kind of clothes they like.

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<v Speaker 1>You all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's awesome. If someone doesn't like Target, then you know

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<v Speaker 1>right away it's not going to work. I will say,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you see things that spark your interests? Hey? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I burnt something on using that iron. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean people some people meet at Starbucks to see if

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation is over coffee, you just like to do

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<v Speaker 1>it over Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>him going to the movie? No, he said that he

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<v Speaker 1>has to go because he didn't have any time. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so he wasn't feeling it dead well. I believed him,

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<v Speaker 1>But then when I hit him up a few days later,

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<v Speaker 1>he never resounded. So he hasn't said anything to you

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<v Speaker 1>since your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or

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<v Speaker 1>did he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to the DVD section, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of laughs there, I don't know, talking about all

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<v Speaker 1>the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was a good date. Do you think he thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was a date or he was just hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with his new friend at Target? Well, I mean, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. He asked me out, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he knew it was a date. Yeah, But did he

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<v Speaker 1>ask you out to go somewhere and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>texted him and we're like, I'm about to go to

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<v Speaker 1>Target in an hour. You want to join me? Yes? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't because if I were him, I'd be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't really want to date me, she just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of wants to be friends or something. But then you

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<v Speaker 1>could still say yes to the movie at the end, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not necessarily, because I might think, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just my buddy, and now she wants to go

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<v Speaker 1>see a movie and we're gonna sit there and share

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<v Speaker 1>popcorn and maybe not even share popcorn. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>that he thinks that I just want to be friends? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. What possibility is that could be

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<v Speaker 1>one of the reasons why he's not calling you back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I made it clear on my text messages that I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with him again, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know how that would be the case. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times have you try to get a hold of him.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him

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<v Speaker 1>and scare him off, but I mean a few times. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you fucking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.

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<v Speaker 1>No longer is it dinner. You should take your first

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<v Speaker 1>date to a department store. That's right. You just walk

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<v Speaker 1>around a place like Target, and you take him over

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<v Speaker 1>to the home furnishing sections and go, oh, look some

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<v Speaker 1>Martha Stewart collection towels. What do you think about those?

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<v Speaker 1>And then you see if they have similar interests. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she's been doing for a lot of her first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>When a guy wants to go out with her, she'll

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<v Speaker 1>hit him up and be like, Hey, I'm going to Target.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to come with me? And if they seem

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<v Speaker 1>like they have a lot in common and they like

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<v Speaker 1>the same things at Target, then she'll be like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go to the movies or something after and continue the date.

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<v Speaker 1>If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date

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<v Speaker 1>is a guy named Terence that she met at a

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<v Speaker 1>work function. They went and hung out at Target. She

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<v Speaker 1>really liked him. She invited him to the movies after

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<v Speaker 1>he said, oh, I gotta go, and he hasn't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call him and see why he's not getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's

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<v Speaker 1>your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I met my last boyfriend. Okay, fairly, all right, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone and find out why he's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Terrence? Please? Is Terrence? Hey Terrence,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Sorry, from what Brooke and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you because you recently went out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a segment we do on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Lucia. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us and

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your little Target experience, and she says

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<v Speaker 1>that she's asked you out a few times after that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just aren't responding to herself. She's wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to see her again, or she did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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<v Speaker 1>a date like walking around Target and like shopping, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like getting stuff. By the way, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>point out I told her how weird it sounds to

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<v Speaker 1>take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like a person, why are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>agree to go hang out with him at Target? Like

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<v Speaker 1>you liked her at the beginning of this. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean yeah, and she's like cool and she's really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, which is like, I mean, I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>really simple dude. I'm you know, I'm down to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out at Target. I just didn't really know what was

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<v Speaker 1>what the deal was. You know. We're like walking around.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like shopping, you know, like She've got like a

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<v Speaker 1>towel set and toothpaste and like toilet paste, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just like she's like shopping, right, Okay, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>like some Twizzlers because I love Twizzlers and they have

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<v Speaker 1>them there, which is great. They have everything totally. But

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<v Speaker 1>We're like in the checkout line, right and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>behind her and she's running all her stuff and it

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<v Speaker 1>comes out to like ninety six dollars. The checkout person

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<v Speaker 1>who like tells her the total and she turns and

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<v Speaker 1>looks at me and she says, are you gonna get this? Nah?

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<v Speaker 1>She had you buy her stuff at Target? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do? What did you do? I paid for it?

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<v Speaker 1>You paid for her stuff at Target? I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I was like, what, I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we wrote a date, I didn't like I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna give me cash, you know, like she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have any or like pay me, like say I'll write

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<v Speaker 1>you a check or i'll pay like when she okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So when she turned to you and said are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pay for this? What was your first reaction to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I would have laughed and been like no, I

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<v Speaker 1>just like in line, you know, it's there people behind us.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of just panicked and I gave the

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<v Speaker 1>checkout lady my card and she didn't offer to reimburse

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<v Speaker 1>you at any point, like I forgot my credit card,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll pay you back later type of situation. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if she said thank you really, So you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like she used you to buy her groceries or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like she used me. She totally used honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if that's how she is, it was a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>cheap lesson, you know what I mean. I'm glad that

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<v Speaker 1>I learned it at the start. Yeah, she says she

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<v Speaker 1>really likes you, that's the thing. Would you like me

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<v Speaker 1>if I bought you your grocery? Yeah, I guess you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>I would. I would really appreciate that. Maybe you should

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<v Speaker 1>you and I should hang out sometimes as you like

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<v Speaker 1>doing that for people, Jence. So I also need to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know that Lucia is actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, I am. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so confused that's going on right now. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand anything. What are you confused about? You may buy

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<v Speaker 1>your groceries. Well, I thought we were on a date

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<v Speaker 1>and you were a gentleman, and everybody knows on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date the gentleman tastes are they pay, Lucia, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't normally pay for your groceries at Target. Yes they do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I found my last boyfriend, and other guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't seem to have a problem. It just sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're using men to just pay for your lifestyle. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a first date. He should have paid, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he would have paid the same amount for dinner. We

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<v Speaker 1>just got towld and stuff. That's the thing on a

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, like you both do something together, like

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<v Speaker 1>you and you both have this is we did and

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<v Speaker 1>this is different because I'm just buying your you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we spend time together like that was part of the date.

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<v Speaker 1>We have fun together. We spent time. That's what you do,

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<v Speaker 1>and I share stories with you see sharing sharing and

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<v Speaker 1>the guy pays on a first date. Are you joking

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<v Speaker 1>with this right now? Because look, I have taken plenty

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<v Speaker 1>of guys to Target and they don't seem to have

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<v Speaker 1>an issue. Well, they don't have an issue because you

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<v Speaker 1>probably never hear from them again. No, they're just different.

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<v Speaker 1>You're cheap and they're up. I mean, this is what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm up against. No, No, I don't think she's a

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<v Speaker 1>nut job. I'm what I'm This is what happens, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what has worked for me in the past. And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one that asked him out. So even if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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<v Speaker 1>technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then happened to be going to Target, and you

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<v Speaker 1>made that date Target, and you thought he should have

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<v Speaker 1>been a gentleman and paid for your first date at

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<v Speaker 1>Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the first date. He should have paid you. Ye, Lucia, Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>is right, Lucia, But would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you want to go Walmart? Even I before I

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes, but not now. Really, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested in going out with someone who doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>proper etiquette for our first tea. And I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with him, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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<v Speaker 1>You want the dinner even though you're not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terence,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were he was, So you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you on hold and then I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on the phone, okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not taking things better. That nothing. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to do more second day updates with her. I

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<v Speaker 1>know we're going to get more broken Jupil in the morning.