Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone
Speaker 1: to do a second date update. Today spent her first
Speaker 1: date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No
Speaker 1: worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon
Speaker 1: together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.
Speaker 1: But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like
Speaker 1: to wake him up Sunday morning when he's hung over
Speaker 1: and go, let's go to Target and walk around for
Speaker 1: a while, it hurts me to my core to have
Speaker 1: to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on
Speaker 1: the phone right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date,
Speaker 1: her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you
Speaker 1: like go on your date and then come back with
Speaker 1: the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know
Speaker 1: that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not
Speaker 1: what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.
Speaker 1: We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go
Speaker 1: on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,
Speaker 1: the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a
Speaker 1: work function and he asked me out, and I said, yes.
Speaker 1: So I waited a few days and hit him up
Speaker 1: and said, Hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want
Speaker 1: to come? And he said he yes. That's impressive because
Speaker 1: you decide weever like, ah, you know, I'm super busy today,
Speaker 1: but maybe we go to dinner or something sometime. Well,
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, dinner pressure. It comes to
Speaker 1: dinner and it's like then you gotta think what you're
Speaker 1: going to talk about, and he's the whole thing. Well,
Speaker 1: how was the date at Target? I thought the date
Speaker 1: went really really well. We had a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: We looked a quote, and then I suggested that we
Speaker 1: go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So then you turned it into like a legit date.
Speaker 1: You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You
Speaker 1: guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.
Speaker 1: I invite a guy to Target. If I like it enough,
Speaker 1: then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see
Speaker 1: a movie. You said this is what I do. Does
Speaker 1: that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes?
Speaker 1: Really mean well, I've never heard of anybody taking a
Speaker 1: date to Target. Ever. Well, when you're dating someone, you're
Speaker 1: trying to find out what you have in common. And
Speaker 1: when you go to a restaurant it takes about hour.
Speaker 1: It takes much longer. So if you go to Target,
Speaker 1: you can figure that out like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You could tell what kind of stuff they want to see,
Speaker 1: where they want to shop, what kind of clothes they like.
Speaker 1: You all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think
Speaker 1: it's awesome. If someone doesn't like Target, then you know
Speaker 1: right away it's not going to work. I will say,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly.
Speaker 1: Do you see things that spark your interests? Hey? Do
Speaker 1: you have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry
Speaker 1: I burnt something on using that iron. You know, I
Speaker 1: mean people some people meet at Starbucks to see if
Speaker 1: the conversation is over coffee, you just like to do
Speaker 1: it over Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end
Speaker 1: him going to the movie? No, he said that he
Speaker 1: has to go because he didn't have any time. Oh
Speaker 1: so he wasn't feeling it dead well. I believed him,
Speaker 1: But then when I hit him up a few days later,
Speaker 1: he never resounded. So he hasn't said anything to you
Speaker 1: since your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or
Speaker 1: did he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know
Speaker 1: when we got to the DVD section, we had a
Speaker 1: bunch of laughs there, I don't know, talking about all
Speaker 1: the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: it was a good date. Do you think he thought
Speaker 1: it was a date or he was just hanging out
Speaker 1: with his new friend at Target? Well, I mean, here's
Speaker 1: the thing. He asked me out, so I feel like
Speaker 1: he knew it was a date. Yeah, But did he
Speaker 1: ask you out to go somewhere and then you just
Speaker 1: texted him and we're like, I'm about to go to
Speaker 1: Target in an hour. You want to join me? Yes? Okay,
Speaker 1: that doesn't because if I were him, I'd be like, oh,
Speaker 1: she doesn't really want to date me, she just sort
Speaker 1: of wants to be friends or something. But then you
Speaker 1: could still say yes to the movie at the end, right,
Speaker 1: I don't know, not necessarily, because I might think, Hey,
Speaker 1: it's just my buddy, and now she wants to go
Speaker 1: see a movie and we're gonna sit there and share
Speaker 1: popcorn and maybe not even share popcorn. So you think
Speaker 1: that he thinks that I just want to be friends? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. What possibility is that could be
Speaker 1: one of the reasons why he's not calling you back. Well,
Speaker 1: I made it clear on my text messages that I'd
Speaker 1: like to go out with him again, so I don't
Speaker 1: really know how that would be the case. Okay, And
Speaker 1: he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How
Speaker 1: many times have you try to get a hold of him.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him
Speaker 1: and scare him off, but I mean a few times. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you fucking
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from
Speaker 1: today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.
Speaker 1: No longer is it dinner. You should take your first
Speaker 1: date to a department store. That's right. You just walk
Speaker 1: around a place like Target, and you take him over
Speaker 1: to the home furnishing sections and go, oh, look some
Speaker 1: Martha Stewart collection towels. What do you think about those?
Speaker 1: And then you see if they have similar interests. That's
Speaker 1: what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's
Speaker 1: what she's been doing for a lot of her first dates.
Speaker 1: When a guy wants to go out with her, she'll
Speaker 1: hit him up and be like, Hey, I'm going to Target.
Speaker 1: They want to come with me? And if they seem
Speaker 1: like they have a lot in common and they like
Speaker 1: the same things at Target, then she'll be like, let's
Speaker 1: go to the movies or something after and continue the date.
Speaker 1: If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date
Speaker 1: is a guy named Terence that she met at a
Speaker 1: work function. They went and hung out at Target. She
Speaker 1: really liked him. She invited him to the movies after
Speaker 1: he said, oh, I gotta go, and he hasn't talked
Speaker 1: to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready
Speaker 1: to call him and see why he's not getting back
Speaker 1: to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's
Speaker 1: your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how
Speaker 1: I met my last boyfriend. Okay, fairly, all right, Well
Speaker 1: I'm about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we
Speaker 1: get him on the phone and find out why he's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Terrence? Please? Is Terrence? Hey Terrence,
Speaker 1: how are you This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Sorry, from what Brooke and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how you doing.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling
Speaker 1: you because you recently went out on a date with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not
Speaker 1: calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: it's a segment we do on our show called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with
Speaker 1: a girl named Lucia. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us and
Speaker 1: told us about your little Target experience, and she says
Speaker 1: that she's asked you out a few times after that,
Speaker 1: and you just aren't responding to herself. She's wondering if
Speaker 1: you didn't want to see her again, or she did
Speaker 1: something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call
Speaker 1: a date like walking around Target and like shopping, you know,
Speaker 1: just like getting stuff. By the way, I want to
Speaker 1: point out I told her how weird it sounds to
Speaker 1: take somebody on a date to Target. Yeah, but if
Speaker 1: you don't like a person, why are you going to
Speaker 1: agree to go hang out with him at Target? Like
Speaker 1: you liked her at the beginning of this. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean yeah, and she's like cool and she's really cute,
Speaker 1: you know, which is like, I mean, I'm like a
Speaker 1: really simple dude. I'm you know, I'm down to hang
Speaker 1: out at Target. I just didn't really know what was
Speaker 1: what the deal was. You know. We're like walking around.
Speaker 1: She's like shopping, you know, like She've got like a
Speaker 1: towel set and toothpaste and like toilet paste, you know,
Speaker 1: just like she's like shopping, right, Okay, and I got
Speaker 1: like some Twizzlers because I love Twizzlers and they have
Speaker 1: them there, which is great. They have everything totally. But
Speaker 1: We're like in the checkout line, right and I'm like
Speaker 1: behind her and she's running all her stuff and it
Speaker 1: comes out to like ninety six dollars. The checkout person
Speaker 1: who like tells her the total and she turns and
Speaker 1: looks at me and she says, are you gonna get this? Nah?
Speaker 1: She had you buy her stuff at Target? You know
Speaker 1: what to do? What did you do? I paid for it?
Speaker 1: You paid for her stuff at Target? I mean, well,
Speaker 1: I don't. I was like, what, I didn't know if
Speaker 1: we wrote a date, I didn't like I thought maybe
Speaker 1: she's gonna give me cash, you know, like she didn't
Speaker 1: have any or like pay me, like say I'll write
Speaker 1: you a check or i'll pay like when she okay,
Speaker 1: So when she turned to you and said are you
Speaker 1: gonna pay for this? What was your first reaction to her?
Speaker 1: Because I would have laughed and been like no, I
Speaker 1: just like in line, you know, it's there people behind us.
Speaker 1: So I kind of just panicked and I gave the
Speaker 1: checkout lady my card and she didn't offer to reimburse
Speaker 1: you at any point, like I forgot my credit card,
Speaker 1: I'll pay you back later type of situation. I don't
Speaker 1: even know if she said thank you really, So you
Speaker 1: feel like she used you to buy her groceries or something.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like she used me. She totally used honestly,
Speaker 1: Like if that's how she is, it was a pretty
Speaker 1: cheap lesson, you know what I mean. I'm glad that
Speaker 1: I learned it at the start. Yeah, she says she
Speaker 1: really likes you, that's the thing. Would you like me
Speaker 1: if I bought you your grocery? Yeah, I guess you're right.
Speaker 1: I would. I would really appreciate that. Maybe you should
Speaker 1: you and I should hang out sometimes as you like
Speaker 1: doing that for people, Jence. So I also need to
Speaker 1: let you know that Lucia is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, I am. Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm so confused that's going on right now. I don't
Speaker 1: understand anything. What are you confused about? You may buy
Speaker 1: your groceries. Well, I thought we were on a date
Speaker 1: and you were a gentleman, and everybody knows on a
Speaker 1: first date the gentleman tastes are they pay, Lucia, they
Speaker 1: don't normally pay for your groceries at Target. Yes they do.
Speaker 1: That's how I found my last boyfriend, and other guys
Speaker 1: don't seem to have a problem. It just sounds like
Speaker 1: you're using men to just pay for your lifestyle. No,
Speaker 1: it was a first date. He should have paid, you know,
Speaker 1: he would have paid the same amount for dinner. We
Speaker 1: just got towld and stuff. That's the thing on a
Speaker 1: on a date, like you both do something together, like
Speaker 1: you and you both have this is we did and
Speaker 1: this is different because I'm just buying your you know,
Speaker 1: we spend time together like that was part of the date.
Speaker 1: We have fun together. We spent time. That's what you do,
Speaker 1: and I share stories with you see sharing sharing and
Speaker 1: the guy pays on a first date. Are you joking
Speaker 1: with this right now? Because look, I have taken plenty
Speaker 1: of guys to Target and they don't seem to have
Speaker 1: an issue. Well, they don't have an issue because you
Speaker 1: probably never hear from them again. No, they're just different.
Speaker 1: You're cheap and they're up. I mean, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm up against. No, No, I don't think she's a
Speaker 1: nut job. I'm what I'm This is what happens, this
Speaker 1: is what has worked for me in the past. And
Speaker 1: I thought, I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,
Speaker 1: I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the
Speaker 1: one that asked him out. So even if you guys
Speaker 1: were going to dinner, you should have been the one paid.
Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,
Speaker 1: technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,
Speaker 1: and then happened to be going to Target, and you
Speaker 1: made that date Target, and you thought he should have
Speaker 1: been a gentleman and paid for your first date at
Speaker 1: Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was the first date. He should have paid you. Ye, Lucia, Lucia,
Speaker 1: you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's gonna take
Speaker 1: you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes, he
Speaker 1: is right, Lucia, But would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second date
Speaker 1: wherever you want to go Walmart? Even I before I
Speaker 1: would have said yes, but not now. Really, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not interested in going out with someone who doesn't know
Speaker 1: proper etiquette for our first tea. And I think you're
Speaker 1: completely justified, Lucia. Okay, thank you, you're welcome. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't want to go out with him, but you guys,
Speaker 1: I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.
Speaker 1: You want the dinner even though you're not getting a
Speaker 1: second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,
Speaker 1: you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he
Speaker 1: was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terence,
Speaker 1: but you were he was, So you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put you on hold and then I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.
Speaker 1: Hang on the phone, okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,
Speaker 1: you are not taking things better. That nothing. I just
Speaker 1: want to do more second day updates with her. I
Speaker 1: know we're going to get more broken Jupil in the morning.