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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. The girl on the phone

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Speaker 1: to do a second date update. Today spent her first

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Speaker 1: date in my own personal hell, oh, chucky cheese. No

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Speaker 1: worse than that for me. Really, They spend an afternoon

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Speaker 1: together at Target. I love Target, you know you do.

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Speaker 1: But as a guy who've had many girlfriends who like

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Speaker 1: and go, let's go to Target and walk around for

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Speaker 1: a while, it hurts me to my core to have

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Speaker 1: to talk about this. Her name is Lucia. She's on

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Speaker 1: the phone right now, and apparently, yeah, for her first date,

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Speaker 1: her and this guy went to Target. Lucia, how you doing,

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? Oh? My god? Did you

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Speaker 1: like go on your date and then come back with

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Speaker 1: the best curtains and that candle that you didn't know

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Speaker 1: that you needed when you love Target? No, that's not

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Speaker 1: what happened. That's why it takes seventeen hours to go there.

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Speaker 1: We have such good stuff, Lucia, How does one go

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Speaker 1: on a first date to Target? Anyway? Well, in my situation,

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Speaker 1: the guy's name is Terrence. I met him at a

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Speaker 1: work function and he asked me out, and I said, yes.

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Speaker 1: So I waited a few days and hit him up

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Speaker 1: and said, Hey, I'm going to Target. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to come? And he said he yes. That's impressive because

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Speaker 1: you decide weever like, ah, you know, I'm super busy today,

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Speaker 1: but maybe we go to dinner or something sometime. Well,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, dinner pressure. It comes to

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Speaker 1: going to talk about, and he's the whole thing. Well,

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Speaker 1: how was the date at Target? I thought the date

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Speaker 1: went really really well. We had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: We looked a quote, and then I suggested that we

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Speaker 1: go to the movies, which was next door. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So then you turned it into like a legit date.

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Speaker 1: You didn't just go shopping for a half hour. You

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Speaker 1: guys did the movie too. Well, that's what I do.

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Speaker 1: I invite a guy to Target. If I like it enough,

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Speaker 1: then you know we'll continue after a Target, go see

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Speaker 1: a movie. You said this is what I do. Does

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Speaker 1: that mean you take all of your dates to Target? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Really mean well, I've never heard of anybody taking a

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Speaker 1: date to Target. Ever. Well, when you're dating someone, you're

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Speaker 1: trying to find out what you have in common. And

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Speaker 1: when you go to a restaurant it takes about hour.

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Speaker 1: It takes much longer. So if you go to Target,

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Speaker 1: you can figure that out like fifteen minutes. I guess. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You could tell what kind of stuff they want to see,

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Speaker 1: where they want to shop, what kind of clothes they like.

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Speaker 1: You all that. That's what I'm telling you. I think

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Speaker 1: it's awesome. If someone doesn't like Target, then you know

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Speaker 1: right away it's not going to work. I will say,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of opportunity for good conversation starters, right exactly.

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Speaker 1: Do you see things that spark your interests? Hey? Do

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Speaker 1: you have this in your house? Hey? Oh funny, Sorry

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Speaker 1: I burnt something on using that iron. You know, I

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Speaker 1: mean people some people meet at Starbucks to see if

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Speaker 1: it over Massimo or whatever. So did you guys end

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Speaker 1: him going to the movie? No, he said that he

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Speaker 1: so he wasn't feeling it dead well. I believed him,

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Speaker 1: But then when I hit him up a few days later,

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Speaker 1: he never resounded. So he hasn't said anything to you

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Speaker 1: since your Target experience. No, did he seem bored or

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Speaker 1: did he seem fully engaged in having fun? I know

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Speaker 1: the different kinds of movies you've seen. Yeah, I thought

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Speaker 1: texted him and we're like, I'm about to go to

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Speaker 1: he said nothing back to you at all. Nothing. How

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Speaker 1: many times have you try to get a hold of him.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't want to, you know, stock him

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. We are actually learning something from

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Speaker 1: today's second date update, and that's that dating has changed.

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Speaker 1: No longer is it dinner. You should take your first

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Speaker 1: date to a department store. That's right. You just walk

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Speaker 1: And then you see if they have similar interests. That's

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Speaker 1: what Lucia did on her first date, and apparently that's

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Speaker 1: what she's been doing for a lot of her first dates.

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Speaker 1: If not, then she just splits and goes like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that guy's a jerk. And her most recent target date

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Speaker 1: to her ever since. All right, Lucia, are you ready

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Speaker 1: to you. I'm ready, Lucia. Could I ask you what's

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Speaker 1: your success rate with the target test? Well, that's how

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Speaker 1: I met my last boyfriend. Okay, fairly, all right, Well

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Speaker 1: I'm about to dial Terrence's phone number. See if we

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Terrence? Please? Is Terrence? Hey Terrence,

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Speaker 1: how are you This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Sorry, from what Brooke and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, okay, how you doing.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why are you calling me. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: you because you recently went out on a date with

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners and they're wondering why you're not

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Speaker 1: calling them back. So you're doing a show about it. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: it's a segment we do on our show called the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. You recently went on a date with

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Speaker 1: a girl named Lucia. Okay, Well, Lucia emailed us and

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Speaker 1: told us about your little Target experience, and she says

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Speaker 1: you didn't want to see her again, or she did

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Speaker 1: something wrong on your date. Well, I mean you call

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like she used me. She totally used honestly,

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Speaker 1: I would. I would really appreciate that. Maybe you should

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Speaker 1: doing that for people, Jence. So I also need to

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Speaker 1: let you know that Lucia is actually on the other

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Speaker 1: line listening to this conversation. No way, yeah, I am. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused that's going on right now. I don't

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Speaker 1: understand anything. What are you confused about? You may buy

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Speaker 1: your groceries. Well, I thought we were on a date

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Speaker 1: and you were a gentleman, and everybody knows on a

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Speaker 1: first date the gentleman tastes are they pay, Lucia, they

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Speaker 1: don't normally pay for your groceries at Target. Yes they do.

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Speaker 1: That's how I found my last boyfriend, and other guys

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Speaker 1: you're using men to just pay for your lifestyle. No,

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Speaker 1: this is different because I'm just buying your you know,

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Speaker 1: We have fun together. We spent time. That's what you do,

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Speaker 1: probably never hear from them again. No, they're just different.

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Speaker 1: You're cheap and they're up. I mean, this is what

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Speaker 1: I'm up against. No, No, I don't think she's a

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Speaker 1: is what has worked for me in the past. And

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Speaker 1: I thought, I genuinely thought he was a nice guy. Okay, Natalie,

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Speaker 1: I was wrong. Yeah. Not only that, but you're the

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Speaker 1: I mean that's kind of the general rule. Right. Well, No,

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Speaker 1: technically he asked me out on the first date, okay, right,

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Speaker 1: Target exactly. So I'm completely innocent in all this. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it was the first date. He should have paid you. Ye, Lucia, Lucia,

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Speaker 1: you're exactly right, and I'm sorry that he's overreacting about that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome, and I'm sorry she's gonna take

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Speaker 1: you seriously. She should take me seriously, Lucia. Yes, he

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Speaker 1: is right, Lucia, But would you like to go out

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Speaker 1: with him again? Though? We'll pay for a second date

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Speaker 1: wherever you want to go Walmart? Even I before I

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Speaker 1: I mean for participating. I wouldn't mind to gift cards.

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Speaker 1: You want the dinner even though you're not getting a

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Speaker 1: second day. Well, this has been very stressful, it has been, Lucia. No, Lucia,

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Speaker 1: you're right, this has been stressful for you. And he

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Speaker 1: was kind of a jerk about the whole thing. I'm sorry, Terence,

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Speaker 1: you a bunch of gift cards. Okay, yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Hang on the phone, okay, okay, love you guys too. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you are not taking things better. That nothing. I just

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Speaker 1: know we're going to get more broken Jupil in the morning.