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I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: podcast because Rod and Karen are a hot yo. 11 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: I don't understand how these catsip jackerie like it saw 12 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 2: good down at the Hit Factory. Be on fifty four 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: whole click back and me all that click clack and 14 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 2: retake your wrist rappery. I ain't no rapper b a 15 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 2: ski oozies, and I can't act. Turned down three movies. 16 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: So give me your chain, your jewels and your cash 17 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: and your fast food. I eat your food fast, my 18 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: rude ass, carry three weapons, and I give you face 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 2: a see section and keep stepping. Who else send a 20 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 2: hurry to murk We killed girls rape on Bury the 21 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: Skirts two thousand and six. Him A long way came 22 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: along with imagine me wake up seven thirty for work. 23 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 2: I'd rather run the street seven thirty with work. But 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: this knucklehead thirty won an order came and asked we 25 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 2: stopped pitching to his daughter. Seriously, man, can't be be 26 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: glad I'm not in a damn panty's got a damn handy. 27 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 2: How you gonna ever try to stop cam Candy? By 28 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 2: the way, these lyrics are all wrong. I just memorize 29 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 2: this song anyway. Hey, welcome to the Blackouts podcast. Your 30 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: host Rod And that's right, and we are alive on 31 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: a Monday night before a Supergirl comes on, ready to 32 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: talk about what everybody wants to hear us talk about, 33 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: but they really want to hear Karen talk about it. 34 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: Karen's trip to Jamaica. You know, we decided to just 35 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: kind of make this episode of a general debrief of 36 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: her Jamaica trip. And know a lot of people, you know, 37 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: out there in our audience, they have Nikes, but they 38 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 2: don't got passports, you know, because they're losing okay, just 39 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: you're losing their life. And you know, you got these 40 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 2: jigging suits, but you ain't been ever being out the country. Okay, 41 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 2: So Karen's here to tell us what it's like out 42 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 2: there and her best white woman of color life and 43 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: how I was living that existence for a week and 44 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: a group of black women before we get to that. 45 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 2: Of course, this is a black Optil's find us on iTunes, Stitcher, 46 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: Potomatically was five star reviews. The official weapon of the 47 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 2: show is an unofficial sports and bulletball Extreme and today's 48 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 2: podcast is brought to you by Luke Craig. 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But yeah, that's that's who 59 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 2: sponsored us. So let's uh oh, and I you know, 60 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 2: I'd like to thank our girl, a Nubian who sent 61 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: us uh these beautiful white women to color t shirts. 62 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 3: Yes she did, Yes, she did. 63 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: You can't copy these yet, so I don't know. 64 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 4: I don't know where you get them from. 65 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if she's gonna sell them or what. 66 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: But you know, if if it does a link or something, 67 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: I'll let you guys know when we get it. But 68 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 2: she sent us these in the mail, and uh uh, 69 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: it's just it's just funny, man, because uh, it's just 70 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 2: went from like a joke or whatever. But you know that's. 71 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 4: The video everything. 72 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: I don't know where I'm gonna go. And a white 73 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: woman of colored. 74 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: Shirt even all the questions. 75 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 2: Maybe, but they won't question the too much. So uh yeah, 76 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: but that's that's what we've been at. Hold So, like 77 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: my mic is low? 78 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: What was that? 79 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:34,119 Speaker 2: Okay? I'm talking directly into the mic front. I feel 80 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: like I'm not hold on. 81 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 4: I don't think you are either, baby. 82 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 2: And how did that happen? I didn't move it. 83 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 4: You know I haven't moved now. You know I ain't 84 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 4: moving nothing about your mic? All right? 85 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 2: I hate to do this live on it. I hate 86 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: to do this live on it. Give me a second, guy. 87 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 2: You sound far away. Yeah, I don't sound right. 88 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:53,840 Speaker 4: You sound are you fire. 89 00:04:54,520 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 2: M Yeah, ic on that? Oh there it is? What 90 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 2: the fuck? How to get over there? I'm talking to 91 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 2: the back of the mic. 92 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 4: All right, we can hear right now. 93 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. I must have been doing that all day yesterday too. Yeah. Okay, 94 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: because it's this it's not tight enough. There we go. 95 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 2: All right, guys, sorry about that. So, like I was 96 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: talking to. 97 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 3: You know, i't missed with it. 98 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: I just like, so can't even right now? 99 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 4: Guys, how dare you microphone? Yeah? 100 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 2: It's just too much. All right, So now we can 101 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:51,679 Speaker 2: start talking about Karen's trip to Jamaica. So first and foremost, Karen, 102 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: I feel like the audience needs to know what we're 103 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 2: What was the trip exactly? Like who planned it? Who 104 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: I was going, What was the purpose of the trip? 105 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 2: You know, what were y'all accomplished? I know it was, 106 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 2: I mean, if we're gonna do. 107 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 5: This, so. 108 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 2: What was the what was the purpose of the whole trip? 109 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 4: It was a black woman's being. 110 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: Beans like b E A and that I was gonna 111 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: some beans being was just existing like black women existing, 112 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: just being themselves, just being okay. 113 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 3: Uh, and let's Bee and Marissa uh started it. 114 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 4: Uh. They went last year listen, Marissa met each other 115 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 4: the last year and came up with that dial sexety 116 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 4: pin box and they wanted to kind of pay it 117 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 4: for wouldn't give it back, So this was their. 118 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 3: Thing, and uh, it turned out to be very beautiful. 119 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 4: It was about fifteen women it went and we really 120 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 4: had a good time. 121 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. Now the purpose of the tree was it just 122 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 2: a relax Was it just the Yeah. 123 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 4: It was to relax and we actually we had all 124 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 4: the cont activities going on and uh, but it was 125 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 4: a lot of it was just relaxing, I mean, like 126 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 4: a true relaxing, just taking a break. 127 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 3: A lot of a lot. 128 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 4: Of women are activists, right, you know, so they constantly 129 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 4: deal with a lot of then white people, then the 130 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 4: white women's aggression, you know, dealing with a lot of sexism, racist, right, Like, 131 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 4: they deal with a lot of those types of things, 132 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 4: and this was a little break from for a lot of. 133 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: Them, those pumpkin spice aggressions that we all accumulate. 134 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: Come on. 135 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 2: So, uh, was there anybody else on your plane with 136 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 2: you that you knew or you were just up there 137 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: by yourself from flying from Charlotte to Jamaica. 138 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,679 Speaker 3: No, some people flew in from other locations. 139 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: And yeah, but I mean where they on the plane 140 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 2: with you? 141 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, and Charlotte, like someone flew in and then we 142 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 4: were so like Charlotte was their layover and then they 143 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 4: flew on your flight to Jamaica. 144 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, that's dope planning by Marissa and Leslie and 145 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: Page and all of them to be able to get everybody 146 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 2: together like that. 147 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, she she's a planner. Yeah, shout out the Page 148 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 4: because she was. She kept everything together, so nobody. Now 149 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 4: when you left, depending where you're going, you might have 150 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 4: had to fly back by yourself, you know, depending on 151 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 4: where you're going. But actually going there, most people had 152 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 4: somebody else on the flight with them. 153 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's a she's an amazing young woman. And also 154 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 2: like you know, the way she keeps everything organized and 155 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 2: all that stuff. 156 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 4: You know. 157 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 2: Uh, like if you want to book something, you want 158 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: to get Leslie and Marissa on something, you know, like 159 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 2: that's who you need to go to. So do you 160 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: remember who was on your flight or did you not 161 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: want to say it? I mean, it's up to you. 162 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: You don't have to disclose any of this. It's up 163 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 2: to you. But I know if you remembered, did y'all 164 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: know that y'all were on the flight together, like, did 165 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: you know the other people? 166 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, they did it. I think I think before they 167 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 3: gave us that tenerary these people. 168 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: On this plane, Okay, so you knew. 169 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 4: So you kind of knew, even though you might not 170 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,119 Speaker 4: have known kind of what they look everybody looked. 171 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: Like, Oh where they were sitting necessarily right, because we 172 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 2: all wasn't like sitting together, but we're the because I 173 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: just imagine the scene and girl trip, that's just how 174 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 2: it came. I thought y'all was on the plane just together, 175 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: making these white people very nervous. 176 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 3: Flossy posy. 177 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: I thought the Flasi pazi was just in effect, so poz. 178 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: So what was the difference flying internationally compared to you know, 179 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 2: we phoone like nationally within the US. But you know, 180 00:09:55,920 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: I understand it's customs stuff like that, and we y'all 181 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 2: know from listening to this show. Hopefully you guys have 182 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 2: been listening for a while. Uh, women of color a 183 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 2: lot of times have issues getting through that that that 184 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: custom slash tsa thing. How was it for you guys 185 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: on your way in. 186 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 4: And the thing about it, I'm gonna let people know 187 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 4: out there if you've never flown outside of the United States, 188 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 4: which is something I did not know. 189 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 3: Normally, if fired. 190 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 4: Within the United States, you can kind of give a 191 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 4: leeway for time and you'll be fine. But flying internationally, 192 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 4: you need to least be there two hours prior to 193 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 4: your flight taking off, which we didn't know. I got 194 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 4: you there like an hour and a half, which we 195 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 4: didn't know. But but yeah, they got me through. It 196 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 4: wasn't no problem. 197 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: But now, how did you know it was supposed to 198 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: be two hours? Did they like just tell you what 199 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 2: an attitude like it should have been. You should have 200 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: been here thirty minutes ago. 201 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 4: What had happened was that I went to go check in, 202 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 4: and when I went to go check in at the kiosk, 203 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 4: the KEYOK, like you couldn't. I couldn't log in my bags, 204 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, why can't I log in 205 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 4: my bags? 206 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,839 Speaker 3: I was like, what's what's up's? What's up here? 207 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,439 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, well yeah, but yeah, three holurus, I'm sorry, 208 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 4: give yourself three hours, three hours. You know you're good. 209 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 2: Shout out the Cakene in the chat, she went to 210 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 2: the Dominican Republic. I guess she took the week off 211 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 2: with you and got her white woman of color internationally 212 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: and she's had a picture from when she was on 213 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: a plane and she wore she wore a black out 214 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: tip shirt and the steward recognized the shirt and he's 215 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 2: a listener to. 216 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 4: They took a picture. 217 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 3: Together shut after y'all. 218 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 2: I thought that was so cool. 219 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so sweet. 220 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, man, it's such a small world, ain't 221 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 2: it nough? 222 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, for those of you flying the nasal to 223 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 4: give yourself three hours, which is something we didn't I 224 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,319 Speaker 4: didn't know. 225 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: So what happened was that I went to go do 226 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:40,079 Speaker 3: my bags. 227 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 4: And I couldn't. So then that's when she was like, uh, 228 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 4: you the woman didn't know how to fix it. 229 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 3: So she told me to go to the actually talk 230 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 3: to a person. 231 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 4: And when I went to talk to a person, they 232 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, you need at least be here, you know, 233 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 4: two hours. Put like this three hours the truth be told. 234 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 4: But you know, they said two hours probably to the flight. 235 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 4: And so I uh paid for you know, my luggage 236 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 4: and stuff, and so they got it on the plane 237 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 4: and then I went over there. Uh at first I 238 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 4: was standing by myself and it was hilarious. Because uh, 239 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 4: I kind of knew I wanted to be by myself, 240 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 4: but I was looking around to see if I was 241 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 4: almost trying to claim every black woman. 242 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 3: I looked at if. 243 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 2: You're flying with me? 244 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 3: Is you flying with me? 245 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:20,080 Speaker 2: It's gotta be a lot of black people. 246 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. It was like he's flying with me. And 247 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 4: it was funny though, because I didn't know that Ronnie 248 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 4: was on the trip. 249 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 3: One of the girls flying less named Ronnie and I 250 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 3: looked at her. She looked at me. I say, I 251 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: don't know, I don't I don't know, you know, so. 252 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 4: And uh asa actually uh uh put her uh. 253 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 3: She said that she was there. 254 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 4: She was like the main person that everybody was supposed 255 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 4: to get up with. So she posted something and so 256 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 4: I posted my phone number. I was like, you know, 257 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 4: here's my phone number. Let me know. 258 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 3: And she was like, well, I'm over here by the 259 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 3: rocking chairs. 260 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 4: I was like, were the rocking chairs? I found the 261 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 4: rocking chairs, and that's when we found everybody in the 262 00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 4: Someone was already over there, but I didn't know like 263 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 4: that they were located right. 264 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 3: So and went over there. We sat down and we 265 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 3: started laughing and talking and then we got on. 266 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 4: The plane, and uh the plane trip was was it 267 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 4: was a cool plane trip. 268 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 2: It was hold on one second. 269 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 6: Walking at when depending on this walking, it's not my 270 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 6: boys walking. 271 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: Okay, how was the plane trip? I just gotta keep 272 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 2: the move going. I gotta keep going to Jamaica at 273 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,479 Speaker 2: this point. 274 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 4: Yes, we are, we are going to Jamaica. 275 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 2: And uh it was it was the pallet Jamaican No, 276 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: that would have been cool. 277 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 4: And all them people was white on the plane. Not 278 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 4: not the people on the plane because like. 279 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: We're leaving Charlotte, we should be arriving to Montigo Bay 280 00:13:55,080 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: and woe were like we're leaving Charlotte. We're riding montiguobd 281 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 2: and ting and ting and everything. And the thing is, 282 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 2: I'm still saying, buffa clap after you went just the 283 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: height of white women privilege. Keep going. I'm sorry, but 284 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 2: that's that's offensive at this one, right. 285 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 3: And I found out what it meant. I didn't know 286 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: what it meant. Oh fuck you you please, And I 287 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 3: did not know that. 288 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: So uh, y'all on the flight with uh without a 289 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 2: white uh, without a Jamaican piltt. 290 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 4: No Jamaican powder, no, you know, Jamaican pallette. 291 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: At all that not okay, So then what uh? 292 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 4: We flew on the plane. I had a window seat 293 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 4: shout out the less and she was like, what you 294 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 4: want to see that? I was like, I like to 295 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 4: stare at the window, which I do, and so I 296 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 4: took some gorgeous pictures of like the ground up in 297 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 4: the plane, the ground in the air. And we landed 298 00:14:54,160 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 4: and got off the uh plane and everything was so organized. 299 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 4: This was the most organized troops I've ever been on. 300 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 4: You basically got the plane and it's a dude with 301 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 4: like a sign this basically says a black women being. 302 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 4: Because the said already told this was going to be 303 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 4: somebody there. 304 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: I'm surprised it wasn't a lot of black women that 305 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: just went to the sign. I'm a black woman. I exist, ma'am, ma'am, 306 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: this is not for you. 307 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, No, no, just retreat. 308 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: Black woman that was just being could just come over 309 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 2: here and get a ride to the hotel. I just 310 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 2: I didn't know, no, no, it. 311 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 3: Didn't work like that. It didn't. And oh, I know 312 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 3: what I was gonna say. 313 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 4: So when you get on the plane, I've never flown internationally, 314 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 4: so when you get off the when you go on 315 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 4: the plane, they give you like this long white piece 316 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 4: of paper that you got to fill out, Give me 317 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 4: your name, address, telephone number, who we need to call 318 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 4: for a contact where you stand. I was like, why's 319 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 4: we sign a permission slip? I don't understand, and they 320 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 4: had to explain to me. They said, this is for customs. 321 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 4: They said, you feel a paper workout for like going. 322 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 2: That's weird you fill it out on the plane. 323 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel that on the plane, like you give 324 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 3: them the information. 325 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 4: So, like you said, in case something happened, you know 326 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 4: something like that, they know who to contact wherever you are. 327 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 4: You know the plane right, you never know. 328 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 2: Tracks them slumps. 329 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 4: In case something. I was so confused when they was 330 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 4: handing me this piece of paper. I was like, nobody 331 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 4: told me it was gonna be homework. 332 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 3: What the hell is this? 333 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 4: And so we had to fill that out, and the 334 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 4: dude he made sure that everybody feel their paperwork out 335 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 4: and got. 336 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: All that stuff together and shout. 337 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 4: Out to the phone companies, because as soon as you 338 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 4: start laying your phone picks up that you're outside of 339 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 4: the United States. So your phone is like, hey, you 340 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 4: outside of the United States, you won't unlimited talking text 341 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 4: and all that stuff will charge you ten dollars a day. 342 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 4: That's better than the the phone ninety nine a minute 343 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,239 Speaker 4: or whatever. 344 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: That you will be paying up the wise, which would 345 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 2: have been like seventy dollars for y'all stay. I mean, 346 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 2: it's not a terrible deal, but it's just money. You 347 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 2: wouldn't have needed this. 348 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 4: Fan, right, So the bulk of the time, unless we 349 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 4: were so well with cold get Wi Fi, just kept 350 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 4: it in like airplane mode and then turn everything off 351 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 4: on my phone. Most of the time I was there, 352 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:09,719 Speaker 4: And so the dude he got on our paper together 353 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 4: and uh, he actually we walked we were VIP because 354 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 4: when you with when you was. 355 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 3: Walking with him, Oh, while we was walking through the airport, we. 356 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 4: Seen like pictures of like, uh, people who have had 357 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 4: a big impact on like the country, like activists and 358 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 4: people who you know, fun to get slavery. The airport 359 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 4: was very very black, like as far as like the 360 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 4: the artwork and the textures and all that stuff. I 361 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 4: didn't get to take pictures in any of that, but 362 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 4: that was actually really really beautiful just walking and just 363 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 4: seeing all that blackness. 364 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 2: Around you, like a history lesson of Jamaica almost. 365 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 3: Right as you literally as you walked through the airport. 366 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 3: We landed in someone called Montigo Bay. 367 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 4: That's what it was. Montigo Bay's would landed and. 368 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 2: The beach boy, of course yes, and. 369 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 4: Uh so after we gave him all our stuff and 370 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 4: we went through customs, we felt special because it was 371 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 4: like this long ass line of people like holding these 372 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 4: like white pieces of paper and everybody was standing there 373 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 4: and it was hilarious because people, a lot of people 374 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 4: didn't know where to go. So people was falling behind 375 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 4: us as we were falling behind him. So after we 376 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 4: got i know, so after we got to a certain point, 377 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 4: he had to tell the white people, no, y'all line 378 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 4: over there. You see this long line, this is where. 379 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 3: Y'all need to be. 380 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 4: These women are following me. 381 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 3: And so basically it was. 382 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 4: Like a line of like sixty seven and I'm probably 383 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 4: one hundred people waiting for the for the first steps 384 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 4: of customs versus we actually walked past all that because 385 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 4: you know, we cheap they paid for like the person 386 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 4: that actually got us through customs, so be just be 387 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 4: a quicker process. 388 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 2: Okay, So we went through. 389 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 4: There, we got our bags faster, and when we got there, 390 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: we actually went to this lounge. I've never been at 391 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 4: a lounge at airport, so and I never know they existed. 392 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 2: I can't imagine that. It was a lot of good 393 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 2: music in the lounge. So uh in the lounge. 394 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 4: What happened in the lounge, some people were already there, 395 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 4: like like they had flown in together before we got there. 396 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 4: So we actually got up and we made like a 397 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 4: big group together. And the thing is, it was like 398 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 4: a whole new world. I'm learning all kinds of fancy stuff. 399 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 4: So my my taste and standings and my tasting standings 400 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 4: is hot. 401 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 3: I don't know if I can ever go back. I 402 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 3: didn't even gonna lie so. 403 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: After the trip. But at this time, at this time, 404 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: you were still not yet. 405 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 3: I was not cultured. 406 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 4: I you know, I never been in the lounge at 407 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 4: the airport. And when you walk in there, it was 408 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 4: literally all you can eat food, all you can drink beer. 409 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 3: Beer was actually on tap. 410 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:01,199 Speaker 2: Was it red Strikes? 411 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 3: I think it was. 412 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 4: I think it was, But it was delicious, like so 413 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 4: we would and people walking around with like rum punch. 414 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 4: So we was drinking like rum punch and beer and easy. 415 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 2: This is before y'all went through customs. 416 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 3: Before we finished going. 417 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, no, we had actually finished going through customs, 418 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 4: but were actually just sitting waiting for the. 419 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 2: Ride to get there. Oh okay, because I thought y'all 420 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: said y'all had some issues with customers. You didn't have 421 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: any issues with customers. 422 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 3: Oh, yes, we did. 423 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry. 424 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, take this back. We did have issues with customs. 425 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 4: Once we got to a certain point we. 426 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 3: Had to go and you actually talked to the customs person. 427 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 4: It was six of us, and me and Asa were 428 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 4: like the first two, but we were the last one 429 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 4: to leave. I don't know what was wrong with this lady, 430 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 4: but this lady got on my nerves, and I guess 431 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 4: my face looked irritated, but I didn't want to get 432 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 4: ugly because I was like, she might tell my black 433 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 4: ass can't get in there. Now. We all going to 434 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 4: the same place, and everybody else got their stamp and 435 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 4: they go on and she was like. 436 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 3: Well, where are you going, and we told her where 437 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 3: we were going. 438 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,399 Speaker 4: She was like this one, so she gave it up 439 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 4: a black So we gave an all the paper work 440 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 4: we had and the lady was like, this. 441 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,199 Speaker 3: Ain't enough, and I was looking at her. 442 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 4: I was trying to keep cool, but I was like, bitch, 443 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 4: all these other people gone, why why why are you 444 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 4: being unnecessarily like unnecessarily complicated for no reason? Everybody else 445 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 4: is gone, like what is the problem here? 446 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:28,239 Speaker 3: And eventually. 447 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 4: She stamped it and led us through. But I was like, 448 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 4: cause she actually had to go and talk to some 449 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 4: other people that actually left the other people through, and 450 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 4: I was like, why are we here? And this start 451 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 4: laughing at midde other can your face is like you 452 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 4: were irritated? I sayd y'all I read it was. I said, 453 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 4: I gotta get my face together because my face is 454 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 4: always stell how I felt. 455 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 2: And I was looking at the lady like this is ridiculous. 456 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 2: It literally was, Yeah, it really was. 457 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, okay, cool, cool. 458 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 3: We got We got through that. And then once we 459 00:21:59,080 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 3: got through that, that's. 460 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:00,640 Speaker 4: When we to the lounge. 461 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I figured something because I was like, they're 462 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:05,679 Speaker 2: not gonna let you go through customers drunk. You know, 463 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 2: you gotta get drunk afterwards. So all the drinks was 464 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 2: free in the lounge and everything. 465 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 3: All the drinks was free, all the food was free. 466 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 4: So we ate and we drank and we laughed and 467 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 4: they came. 468 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 2: And pick you up. 469 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, then they can't pick us up. Now. 470 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 2: How many cars they take to pick all y'all up? 471 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 2: They did one big bus. Okay, they did one big bus. 472 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 2: It was the music in the bus, yeah, it was 473 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 2: was it liked. 474 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 3: Them send your best friends up and show you. 475 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're on the bus now. I'm sure everybody's excited. Yeah, 476 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 2: everybody been drinking. 477 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 4: And this is when I met Shirley for the first 478 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 4: time because Srella was already. 479 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 2: On the bus. And they may know Shirley from the 480 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 2: podcast Cho Nilla La where she and her husband Cloth 481 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 2: did a podcast out of Canada. Yes, and Shirley is 482 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 2: if I'm not mistaken, she is he Hatian or Jamaica Hati. 483 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: She's Haitian. Yeah, so you know she got some of 484 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 2: them island routes as well. So how was it meeting 485 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 2: Shirley for the first time in person? 486 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 3: It was wonderful. 487 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 4: It was an instant connection because she's been a friend 488 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 4: of mine for a very long time. And this year 489 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 4: and last year has been the year of us meeting 490 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 4: everybody on our list, like you know, because we met Chris. 491 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 3: And Phenom and you know a lot of people. 492 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 4: We've been knowing for what five, six, seven, eight years 493 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 4: by now, so this is my first time meeting her 494 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 4: and it was beautiful. It was an instant connection. Shirley 495 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 4: is special. 496 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 3: We had a great time and I was happy to 497 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 3: seek her and she was happy to see me. Was 498 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 3: just happiness. 499 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 4: And from uh, the airport to where we were was. 500 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 3: About an hour and a half drive. 501 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, the resort, Yeah, the resort. 502 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, the villa. It was about an hour and 503 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: a half drive. 504 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 4: We was in this area called particular area called a 505 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,080 Speaker 4: runaway Bay. 506 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 2: And you know why they call it runaway Bay? Go ahead, 507 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 2: I'm asking I'm throwing a Blake Griffin, Okay, Blake, I'm 508 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 2: throwing the alius. I'm Chris Paul right now and I 509 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: hate to be because he hit Pople in the balls. 510 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 2: I'm throwing you the ALUs. I know the answer to 511 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 2: the question. I just need you to go in and 512 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 2: dunk on them. So go ahead. Why why they call 513 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 2: it runaway bab Yeah? 514 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 3: Actually we find out from a tour guy which I 515 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 3: talked about like that to a guy named Karen. 516 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 4: You know, she gave the background from it. 517 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 3: It was actually a place where the slaves run away, 518 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 3: went away. 519 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 4: They ran away to this particular area, and from here 520 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 4: they went to like Cuba, and like they kind of 521 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 4: went to outside of the area because Jamaica was had 522 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 4: a lot of colonization from other people. And it's amazing 523 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 4: to find to find out because me and as being 524 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 4: an American, I'm very ignorant to a lot of things. 525 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna lie like like like Americans, U 526 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 4: truly our educational system cheats us out of a lot 527 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 4: of the rest of the world. 528 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: They don't want us niggas learn about no successful revolutions. 529 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,479 Speaker 2: They don't want us learn about no niggas that learn 530 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 2: how to do shit by theirself. They don't want us 531 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 2: learn about nothing that operates, you know, adverse to white supremacy. 532 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 2: You know, they don't want us have black heroes unless 533 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 2: they pre approved on a book. It's why we've been 534 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 2: talking about the same fucking twenty people for Black History class, 535 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 2: and the reason we all are shocked when we discovered 536 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 2: that there were three black women that apparently got us 537 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: to the moon and shit, like you know, like it's 538 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 2: that kind of stuff that we still learning as adults 539 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 2: because of that. So, yeah, there's nothing to be ashamed of. 540 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, you know, I'm sure I would have been 541 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 2: asking the same questions. 542 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, and most of the people there are descendants of 543 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 4: Africa and their main crop is sugar crop like sugarcane, 544 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 4: sugarcane in Jamaica. And they had some people from Jamaica 545 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 4: that actually got to Cuba and from the colonization, and 546 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 4: the uh uh I don't know what's British just with 547 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 4: British actually wanted them back and people said no because 548 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 4: they had been a baptized as Catholics, so they were Catholics. 549 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 4: So they was like, no, you can't have them back. 550 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 2: So I would have no see listen, I'm an atheist. 551 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 2: Well I would have got baptized with the men. I 552 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 2: had to go back to them white right there. 553 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,199 Speaker 4: So Keiber was like, what you ain't gonna do is 554 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 4: take them back. 555 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: Like I wouldn't have popped up with a motherfucking rosary on. 556 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 4: Come on. 557 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 3: They was like no, just right, here is what you is. 558 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 4: What is what you're not gonna do today? And uh 559 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 4: now they are trilled because they had when they first 560 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 4: built the airport, they fell out with the people about 561 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 4: the airport. So what they would do. They actually was 562 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 4: they threw tar on the airport and. 563 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 3: Was like, what's sucking up the buildings and ship? 564 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,239 Speaker 4: But they was like, what you ain't gonna do is 565 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 4: we told y'all we wanted certain things there. 566 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 2: And they went, so, now who in this situation the 567 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 2: people of the people on. 568 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 4: The island, right, They was like, because there was certain 569 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 4: things in certain ways they wanted to design, and people say, 570 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 4: we ain't. 571 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 3: Gonna do that. 572 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,439 Speaker 4: They was like, a fuck you, here's some tar. You know, 573 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 4: tar and tar hard. That shit is hard to get off, right, 574 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 4: So they were like, yeah, we're gonna suck it up. 575 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 4: And Marcus Garvey, they had a statue of him that 576 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 4: the university built, and what had happened was that when 577 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 4: they built him, they did not build him. 578 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 2: To how he originally looks. 579 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 4: They built him slender, and he's kind of hit his faces, 580 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 4: you know, because he's a black man. He's a bigger, 581 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 4: bigger black man and looking kind of white. Right, And 582 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 4: so the people got mad and the people was like, 583 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 4: we don't want this. 584 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why if you build a statue to Sami Sasa, 585 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 2: but you use Sammy Sosa now rather than Sami Socer. 586 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 2: When he was playing like, ain't nobody want to see 587 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 2: that white statue? 588 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 4: Right, So the people got mad in the university. 589 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 3: They didn't take them seriously if so eventually they. 590 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 4: Went there and they defaced it, and they was like, no, 591 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 4: you make this how we want to make. 592 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 3: We want a statue that actually represents him. 593 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 2: That's like the that's like the opposite of the Confederate statues. 594 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 4: Right. 595 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: They was like like, we're taking this ship down because 596 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 2: we want a better one. Like ye, this this nigga 597 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 2: was a thick snack and this is not this. I 598 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 2: don't know who this slim forrim me, uh Marcus is. 599 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, So they defaced it, and so the university is 600 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 4: because the university spent all this money and shit like that, 601 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 4: and they was like, fuck you and your statue just 602 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 4: don't look like that nigga. 603 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 3: No, so they defaced it. So, uh, they actually are 604 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 3: going through and they rebuilding another one. The university basically 605 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 3: had to come out. 606 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, we're gonna rebuild another one since 607 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 4: y'all defaced this one, you know, like no, And Shuller 608 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 4: was telling me how Haiti ain't ain't no joke either. 609 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 4: She was telling me that people came there and they 610 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 4: had rice, but the rice was made out of plastic 611 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 4: and the people was like, fuck this rice, this ain't 612 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 4: real rice. And they didn't want to hit him, so 613 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 4: they literally burnt the fact to be down. 614 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 3: They burned the whole factory down. 615 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 4: And they made them have to move. 616 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 3: But they were like, fuck y'all and this right, this 617 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 3: rice ain't. 618 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 4: Good, This rice ain't right, classic right right, And they 619 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 4: was like no, because you know, they a lot of 620 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 4: them live off of the land, so you know, they 621 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 4: know what real rs is. 622 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 3: You know, here in America, that's hony. 623 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 4: They probably could give most people that ship and they 624 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 4: wouldn't even know what it was, uh, because just how 625 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 4: American function. American functions alastic and we just don't know it. 626 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 2: I mean, y'all eat, come on. 627 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 3: And so it was just amazing. 628 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 4: And I learned that their political system started with two 629 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 4: cousins and it's kind of up hearing, so so you 630 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 4: know that they have had one and they broke off 631 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 4: and now they had two, and they had had. 632 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 3: Elections before we came. 633 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 4: So they was talking about asking we was riding down 634 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 4: the road, you were seeing like green flags and yellow 635 00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 4: flags for the two political parties. So that was really 636 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 4: really interesting. So, you know, just learning like that was. 637 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 2: A getting dark. By the time y'all got there, it 638 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 2: was still like out. 639 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 3: It was still light out. 640 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,680 Speaker 4: Okay, it was still light out by the time we had. 641 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 2: So in that hour and a half, did you just 642 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 2: talk to Shirley? You got to talk to everybody. 643 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 3: We got to talk to everybody. 644 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 4: And the one thing I did love about this trip 645 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 4: is that it was almost like a like instantly everybody joked, 646 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 4: everybody laughed, Everybody got to know each other, you know, 647 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 4: and the thing is, come to find out, a lot 648 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 4: of us already knew each other but didn't know like Tia, 649 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 4: you had Tea on your. 650 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 2: Show interview so for a medium talk and right obviously, 651 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 2: h you know see her from net Roots and the 652 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 2: protest action they had their So yeah, I mean it's 653 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 2: like the world is so small, but it's also so big. 654 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 2: But yeah, when you tell me t was on the 655 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 2: t other, I was like, what, like yeah, because that's okay. 656 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 4: That's crazy cause she said she was excited and stuff 657 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 4: like that. You decided to meet me, excited to meet her. 658 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 4: I got to meet a Michelle and heard years ago. 659 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah. 660 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 4: So it was beautiful meeting people that you've kind of 661 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 4: interacted with, but it was like your first time and 662 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 4: some people. For some people, it's my first time. 663 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 3: Physically meeting them. 664 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but for these. 665 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 3: Are some of the people that I kind of knew 666 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 3: through the internet. And it was a beautiful expense. 667 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 4: I think the first night everybody was there but Ashley. 668 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 2: So you get to the stuff, You get to the resort, right, 669 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,959 Speaker 2: what it was the resort, like you gotta describe the resort. 670 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 4: Oh my god, y'all. This resort was beautiful. It was 671 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:55,719 Speaker 4: three separate properties. It was fifteen of us and all 672 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 4: we kind of stayed at all the separate properties, and 673 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 4: all the homes had their all the villas had their 674 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 4: uh staff. So each so each villa had their own staff. 675 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 4: Each villa had its own chelf, it had. 676 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 3: His head, had a cleaning crew. 677 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 4: I think it had a uh grounds keeper person. 678 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 3: Uh and it had like a head uh. I guess 679 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 3: butler kind of a person. 680 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 2: And oh, going this beautifuls yes, and you. 681 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 4: Know what I mean, somebody mentioned sandals, y'all know what. 682 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 4: I've always thought sandals was a scam because when I 683 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 4: see Sanders, I was like I'm not paying that. 684 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get dan. 685 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 4: It's gonna be a sand on stick in the middle 686 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 4: of nowhere. No, this don't sound right. Resorts, Yes, sandals 687 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 4: never sounded real to me. 688 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 689 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 4: I always thought sandal was a gimmick. So I was like, no, 690 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 4: And a lot, a lot of a lot of people 691 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 4: went to sandals, so I was like, I guess it's one. 692 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:56,479 Speaker 3: Then I didn't know. 693 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 4: But no, no, no, this this was it like it 694 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 4: was private, separate from everybody. Everybody was black, All us 695 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 4: was black, all the staff was black. 696 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 3: It was nothing but black. 697 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: Even the white people as black. 698 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 3: They might as well have been black. 699 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 4: In my mind. Everybody was black. 700 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 3: Right, And so you. 701 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 2: Pull up to the place and the bus because you 702 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 2: just hit the music in your head like this right 703 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 2: to the Lord, don't you know? 704 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 5: Working my way back. 705 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 2: Now, I'm amazan boy red nowadays I'm the lost between 706 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 2: the shore. Fine, take us their care, put us in 707 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 2: the resort. 708 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 4: What was it? 709 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: What was the trees? 710 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 4: Like, oh, the trees were beautiful, they were tall trees. 711 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 3: There was actually coconut trees on the ground and. 712 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 4: All types of of of stuff on like on the 713 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 4: site and well we were at it had a. 714 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 3: Big, big, big, big pool. 715 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 4: For those who's been following me on like Facebook and Instagram, 716 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 4: that was one of the pools, one of the mini 717 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 4: pools on the property that I was walking up out of. 718 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 2: Oh I've seen seen there. 719 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 3: I had all y'all in the tank. Shot after you 720 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 3: and that tank kitty you know what. 721 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 4: Shot after Susan Barry because me and all was talking, 722 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 4: and she the one that got got me together because 723 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 4: she was like, have you got the stuff together? Have 724 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 4: you got your She was, you know, she was helping 725 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 4: me get my stuff together. So I was like, well, 726 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 4: I don't know the way. So I found out about tankeny. 727 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 4: So me and him went back and forth the show 728 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 4: and she was like, uh uh, I showed a picture. 729 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 4: She said, oh I like that, but I like that one. 730 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 4: So that's how I got on the tank. I had 731 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:53,839 Speaker 4: never heard the tank keys before my life. 732 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,439 Speaker 2: I'm old. Got them on Amazon, so it's not even 733 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 2: like and they were not expensive for those of you 734 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,759 Speaker 2: that was like Cam was fasting. I didn't spend no 735 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 2: money on One of us paid for him and one 736 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 2: of us didn't. But it was worth every time to see. 737 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 4: You in the well the person that didn't spend no 738 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 4: money can say they wasn't expensive because I spent zero. 739 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,839 Speaker 3: I just sent a list and told them what. 740 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 4: I wanted you worth it? 741 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:21,800 Speaker 2: Uh but uh, yeah, all right, So you have different 742 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,240 Speaker 2: pools at each one hot tubs. 743 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 4: The hot tubs was really really great to sit in 744 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 4: because it was almost like a massage, you know why 745 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,280 Speaker 4: you while you're sitting in the water. 746 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 3: And uh, each property had a pool. Uh. And let 747 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 3: me see because. 748 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 4: The first time I just said on our property and 749 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 4: I got to see my room. 750 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 3: My room was gorgeous. 751 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 4: Yawn. 752 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 2: I heard you was living like j what indoor shower, 753 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 2: outdoor shower, indoor basketball? What? 754 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 4: I was living like a radio up in this Yes, 755 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 4: I had an indoor shower. I had an outdoor shower. 756 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 4: So I took all my showers outside like the white 757 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 4: people should. But a lot of people doing like the 758 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 4: white woman to call I am. I couldn't turn up 759 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 4: turn down. 760 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 3: An outdoor shower. 761 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 4: And it was really really relaxing, just the beat outside 762 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 4: and stuff like that. 763 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 3: And my room you could open. 764 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 4: Up doors and when I got there, all. 765 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 3: The doors stuff opened up. 766 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 4: And from from where I was, you guys should walk 767 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,719 Speaker 4: outside and bleeding out to the patio. You was out 768 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 4: out out in the front. 769 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,400 Speaker 2: How did they keep like bugs and stuff from coming 770 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 2: in if they just had the doors open? Like how's 771 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 2: that even? You know what I'm saying. But it's like 772 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 2: something that only happens at resorts and shit, because if 773 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 2: we was at our house and I just opened up 774 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 2: the patio, man, I'd be like like the damn the 775 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 2: woods from King Kong after just a little bit, like 776 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 2: that's wild. I don't know how they do it. But 777 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 2: the same thing went to Miami, like they was like, 778 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 2: don't go to this part of town. It might be 779 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 2: some Zeka, but when it comes to like just like 780 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 2: walking in your room and shit, like you like you 781 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 2: don't know and nothing's in there. 782 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, And like let's say they closed at Dust. So 783 00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 4: what happened is that they open them up and then 784 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:06,879 Speaker 4: they close them at dust. 785 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 2: They like closed the window, but still buzz be up, buzz, 786 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 2: don't know the time. 787 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 788 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,720 Speaker 2: I'm just saying it's amazing. I'm not saying that were bugs. 789 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 2: I'm saying it's amazing. Like it's like the bugs, No, 790 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,359 Speaker 2: they're like hold up down, We at the resort. Don't 791 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 2: act up. Just stay out here. 792 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 3: I don't act the full. 793 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 2: Don't go in there and embarrass me. 794 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 3: Don't act the full. 795 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 2: So you're in, uh, you know you're in. You're getting 796 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 2: to see your room, yes, and get around the place. 797 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 2: You Also, you had a did you have indoor pool? 798 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 2: Outdoor pool? Just outdoor pool? 799 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 4: All the pools outdoors? 800 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 2: What about the the shower that's outdoors? How how you 801 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 2: out there showering? Like is it where everybody could see you? 802 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 4: Like? How do they? 803 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: How do they do that? 804 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 4: It was you had the bathroom, and then this was 805 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 4: an extension to the to my bathroom. Oh wow, So 806 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:59,080 Speaker 4: like you walk in the bathroom where you have everything there, 807 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,799 Speaker 4: and then it was like an extension of the bathroom, 808 00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 4: but I don't know how many feet it was right 809 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 4: and then it had like a big log and it 810 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 4: had like plants and all that stuff around there. And 811 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 4: then the ceiling went up and down and it was 812 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 4: holes in the ceiling where when it rained, it rained 813 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,760 Speaker 4: like down on the inside, like right in that area. 814 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 3: So it was really really really beautiful. 815 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 4: Then then at your feet, not where you stood, but 816 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 4: right where the shower was, it had like these. 817 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,919 Speaker 3: Rocks sitting down there and stuff like that. It was gorgeous. 818 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,479 Speaker 2: And then what about the staff, because you said you 819 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,839 Speaker 2: they they now they have different staff. 820 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 4: For each property property and everybody stays on site. 821 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 2: And so are the bedrooms all in one property or 822 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,720 Speaker 2: they spread out. 823 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 4: Or yeah, yeah, like you have where we are, and 824 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 4: then you have the property where the people who worked 825 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 4: they live. 826 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 2: So at night y'all go back to the to the 827 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 2: one property and that's where y'all go to bed and 828 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 2: all that stuff. But the other two properties is uh 829 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 2: where the other people would go. Okay, Now, also, you 830 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 2: know y'all are spreading out, y'all are you know, meeting 831 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,800 Speaker 2: each other and stuff like that. Y'all also have activities 832 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 2: and stuff. Did y'all do anything the first night y'all 833 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 2: were there? 834 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, we ate dinner and for the dinner the first night, 835 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 4: everybody was there but Ashley in Ariel, so everybody else had. 836 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 3: Had got there and all. 837 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 4: That stuff, and we had a really really good time 838 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 4: day oh oh before we before move on, when we 839 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 4: was leaving the airport going to the villa, I realized 840 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 4: some things. Uh, they drive on the opposite of the 841 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 4: road and because it was throwing me off because. 842 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know the white man is evil. 843 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:50,319 Speaker 3: I had no it's opposite of America. I was sold. 844 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,359 Speaker 2: America's does everything back when we used inches and ship 845 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 2: this is. 846 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 4: Stupid, right, we like, we ain't gonna change fuck it ignorant, right. 847 00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,359 Speaker 4: We do it because we can. That's the only reason 848 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 4: why all the the rest of the world us the 849 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 4: system of man go fuck y'all. And so they driving 850 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 4: off side of the road and so it's hilarious. That 851 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 4: was like, dex is gonna be our driver. And I 852 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:13,359 Speaker 4: seen Dexter, but I was like, how's he driving? Name? 853 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 4: Dexter was the best Dexa. What Dexter and Richie were 854 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 4: the m vps. 855 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 2: Of the trip the property? Yeah, yeah, and then Dexter 856 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 2: is the driver. Yes, dex is a driver, and he 857 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:27,919 Speaker 2: was gonna be driving all seven days. 858 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 4: Basically he anywhere you want to go, Dexa was on 859 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 4: it XL. When we pulled pulled up somewhere, Dexter told 860 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 4: us the rules. He told us what to expect. Oh, Butler, 861 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 4: and he told us the rules. He told us what 862 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 4: to expect. He told us this is what's gonna happen. 863 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,839 Speaker 4: That's what's gonna happen like, he actually prepared us. So 864 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 4: there was nowhere we went where we were not prepared 865 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 4: for what was gonna happen. Like he really looked out 866 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,480 Speaker 4: for us, and so he was literally the best. 867 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,479 Speaker 3: And so I couldn't understand what they was talking about. 868 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:00,680 Speaker 3: He was the driver. I was like, why is he 869 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 3: on the right side? 870 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 4: It confused me, But after a while I realized and 871 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 4: I should have known something was because we when. 872 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 3: We got in, we got in on the officer side 873 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 3: of where we were noble to get something. 874 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,360 Speaker 4: So when you get on, you get on on the 875 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 4: left first. Is getting on the right, none of that's 876 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 4: dawned on. 877 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,280 Speaker 2: Get first. So he drove you off from the airport 878 00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,799 Speaker 2: to the to the thing. 879 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, he was. 880 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 4: He was our driver the whole time. 881 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:27,319 Speaker 3: And and also something else. They beat a lot. 882 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 4: So while we was driving, I kept heying people beat 883 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 4: and I was like, everybody mad, Why is everybody beeping? 884 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,959 Speaker 3: Well, part of the culture there is the beat. 885 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 2: You beat to say hey, you beat to say the 886 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 2: police ahead, You beat the one people everybody is beat 887 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 2: beat beep. 888 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 4: Like I don't know the signals to the beat, but 889 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,680 Speaker 4: it's like a beat beat. It's a beat beat beat dation. 890 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 3: So so why you're riding you a whole lot of 891 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 3: beeping and stuff like that. 892 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 2: It's like the black Man head nod, but in a car. 893 00:41:58,280 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 3: Apparently it is okay. 894 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,040 Speaker 4: So it was a lot of a lot of beeping. 895 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 4: And they do their things in kilometers per hour versus 896 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 4: miles per hour, so it was like eighty kilometers and 897 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know how fast we're going 898 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:13,359 Speaker 4: because I don't I'm American, y'all, and ignorant. I don't 899 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,640 Speaker 4: know nothing in kilometers. I'm just keep it real. And also, 900 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,320 Speaker 4: their gas tripped me out. We was riding. 901 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 3: Their gas had three digits. 902 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 4: I looked up. It was like one sixty three seventy five. 903 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 4: I was like, why the fuck is this gas on? 904 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:32,880 Speaker 3: Got them high? I was like, I did not. 905 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,880 Speaker 2: Understand because there was a different currency right right. 906 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 4: That didn't dawn on me. 907 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 2: Things you didn't even think about. To you, No, that's 908 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 2: that's you living your best white woman of color life. 909 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,240 Speaker 2: That's ignorant, very ignorant. 910 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 3: Because I was like one hundred and six three dollars. 911 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, this ship is high, right. 912 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 7: Right? 913 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,799 Speaker 3: Can I speak to the man that Joe please up? 914 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 4: That's wrong air And they was talking about how to 915 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 4: take American dollars and translate over and it's not even 916 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,720 Speaker 4: per gallon. It's a little less than later probably probably 917 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:07,239 Speaker 4: something like that. 918 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 3: We do galls have we special in America. 919 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,439 Speaker 2: So we do gallons all the measurements, just only here, right, 920 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 2: So nobody else does that, nobody else, So I had 921 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 2: to get used used to that. 922 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 4: So when you would go to stay, stuff like just 923 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 4: tell me in American dollars, you would do something that. 924 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,240 Speaker 3: But I this is seven thousand dollars, ma'am. I don't 925 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 3: understand this. Is it twenty dollars? 926 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 4: Is it fifteen? How much? How much is it? Don't 927 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 4: confuse me with this big as number. 928 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my American ignorance. 929 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 2: So y'all are at the resort. The first night I 930 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,279 Speaker 2: have dinner. You remember what y'all ate or I mean, 931 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,240 Speaker 2: you don't have to know specifically. I know the food 932 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 2: was out the hook because y'all had like, what five 933 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 2: meals a day or something like that. 934 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a bunch of meals. 935 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:59,640 Speaker 2: Yet breakfist, yeah, first snack, lunch, second snack, and in dinner, right, Okay, Yeah, 936 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 2: that's that's how it was now what y'all do with leftovers? 937 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 2: Could you like bring leftovers to your room? Or was 938 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 2: that if you if you wanted to. 939 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, in a lot of times, if we was 940 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 4: up too late, we would just go right in the 941 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 4: kitchen and take the snacks out and you could be 942 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 4: got access to the kitchen. Right, so we got too late, 943 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,359 Speaker 4: people like I won't snack, You won't snack. 944 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's snacks. So you know that's that's what we did. 945 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 6: Uh. 946 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I said, I don't have like a list 947 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 3: of the order. Yeah, everything right. 948 00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 2: I know on your Instagram you took pictures of everything right, 949 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 2: So I don't know if you remember on your Instagram 950 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 2: app or something like that on your phone. 951 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 4: If you could just look at the pictures, I can 952 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:37,719 Speaker 4: hold on. 953 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 2: I know it's cool. It's time for another music break anyway. 954 00:44:52,239 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 8: Scene then my feelings my philism woon, I like, go 955 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,919 Speaker 8: with your names drum bang, funny time up fine, find 956 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 8: me continue money my feelings my feelings, woon, I like, 957 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 8: go your. 958 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,840 Speaker 2: Name is drum bang, funny time up. Sis, I'm continue 959 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 2: money block no new money now flop. There's nothing better 960 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,400 Speaker 2: than working out in the sun, coming out of the 961 00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 2: pool and walking up to a nice sexy body gall 962 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 2: with that thing that just ship like my girls, everything wrong, 963 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 2: Marti flat stomach flats so yo. The thing right, I'm 964 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 2: assuming that's what the Jamaica means. Was like they were talking. 965 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 2: Was they talking like that about everybody? 966 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 4: No? 967 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 2: No, so it was just a fire on. Okay, all right, 968 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,320 Speaker 2: I've had my suspicions abouts far as that. This is 969 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 2: confirming a lot of things I already thought about him. Okay, 970 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 2: so it is your faking uh So I do remember 971 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 2: some of the pictures though. 972 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. The first night, that's when we had a cheese 973 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 4: tray and the thing. Oh while we was there waiting 974 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 4: and things like that, it was a bartender. So the 975 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,920 Speaker 4: butler was also a bartender. So the whole time we 976 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 4: was actually drinking and drinking water, drinking drinks and shit 977 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 4: like that, and my ignorant ass I shout out to 978 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 4: them because everybody, what you're going I just tell them 979 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 4: a fruit and they bring whatever food I had in 980 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 4: the mixed drink. They're like with a strawberry, banana, pineapple, 981 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 4: and that's what they were. 982 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 2: That's the right way to do it. Donalds of none 983 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 2: of they culture don't show no appreciation, because if you're 984 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,399 Speaker 2: gonna be a white woman to color overseas, you can't 985 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 2: be out here learning the customs of the of the 986 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 2: local land and learning and drinks and I mean strawberry, 987 00:46:58,719 --> 00:46:59,399 Speaker 2: that's what I said. 988 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense, strawberry. 989 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,480 Speaker 2: So I'm sure there was Kobe Somebou's alcohol being consumed. 990 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,760 Speaker 9: Yes it was, and it was all delicious. 991 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,359 Speaker 2: And what about music? Did they let y'all choose your 992 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 2: own music? Did they have music there? 993 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? So I think Leslie, Marissa and a few other 994 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,480 Speaker 4: people that actually have an app that's actually connected to 995 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 4: the sound system of the homes and you could actually 996 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 4: play the music aloud, so every house, you could actually 997 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,399 Speaker 4: play the music loud through the house, so we would 998 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 4: be outside literally no matter which house she was at, 999 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 4: you know, eleven twelve o'clock at night. Because like you say, 1000 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 4: the the plus of being on a villa is that 1001 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,439 Speaker 4: you ain't gotta hear white folks complaining about the shit 1002 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 4: you do. So you could blast card to be at 1003 00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 4: one in the morning and sing out loud and stump 1004 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 4: your feet and be loud and just be black and 1005 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 4: have a good time, and you ain't got nobody to 1006 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,720 Speaker 4: call her. A property manager calling down, says the hotel 1007 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 4: talking about y'all too loud. Can I tell you this 1008 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,600 Speaker 4: has changed my life? I'm like, you know what, I didn't. 1009 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 4: This really made me rethink vacations, like really truly did. 1010 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 4: Like I said, the first night, we had that cheese 1011 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 4: plate cheese trade and he bought it out and I 1012 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:13,800 Speaker 4: was like, ooh, cheese. 1013 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 3: And that's the for people to follow me online. That's 1014 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 3: the picture I took with a. 1015 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 4: Knife, said cheese. And that cheese was flamed. Y'all. I 1016 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 4: don't know what kind of cheese was, but delicious and 1017 00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,719 Speaker 4: it had enough to take honey and juice on honey 1018 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,879 Speaker 4: over the crackers, bitch, there was flames. I was eating 1019 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,320 Speaker 4: my asshole and everybody was over there playing around. 1020 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 3: I was like, y'all, do know this is flames, And 1021 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:35,240 Speaker 3: if y'all don't. 1022 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 4: Come over here and eat some of these crackers, I'm 1023 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 4: gonna ate up all these crackers and cheese. But the 1024 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 4: goddamn self that it was delicious and I was having 1025 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,640 Speaker 4: myself a good time. Oh and before we ate, then 1026 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:50,400 Speaker 4: that gave like adures, so we had I had something 1027 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 4: where it was a cucumber that. 1028 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 3: They had cut like a cracker and it had like fish. 1029 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,400 Speaker 4: And vegetables all on top of it. 1030 00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:58,320 Speaker 3: It was delicious. 1031 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 4: But we also had a punkin bisk pot pie that 1032 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,760 Speaker 4: was delicious. And it's not the pumpkin we ate America 1033 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 4: because I'm like, this salt tastes like pumpkin. 1034 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 3: It's like they're pumpkin. 1035 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 2: And well, I knew you as a white woman to color, 1036 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 2: you would have to try to pumpkin no matter where 1037 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:13,320 Speaker 2: we go. 1038 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,800 Speaker 4: Oh that, and they had a crust across it, and 1039 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,760 Speaker 4: you broke the crust and a pumpkin and it melted 1040 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:20,319 Speaker 4: in your mouth. 1041 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 3: And also I had a beet salad with goat cheese. 1042 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,800 Speaker 3: Never I like beets, but I never had beets in 1043 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 3: the salad before, and it was delicious. 1044 00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 4: I also had stuffed chicken with roasted potatoes and plantains 1045 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 4: and that was delicious too. That that was just it 1046 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,839 Speaker 4: was just everything. It was so delicious, y'all. Like I said, 1047 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,759 Speaker 4: some of the meals I had a description of some 1048 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 4: of I didn't like. I said, let me, I'm probably 1049 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 4: gonna be going back. 1050 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 2: No, you don't have to describe every meal. I'm not trying. 1051 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: I know, that would take for everything. But I was 1052 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,360 Speaker 2: just I just know that, you know, there were pictures 1053 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,480 Speaker 2: and stuff. So people can follow you on Instagram too, 1054 00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:58,399 Speaker 2: Yes they can. 1055 00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, my Instagram us private. 1056 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,120 Speaker 4: I went ahead and made it public because more people. 1057 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 2: Want to It's Instagram dot com slash say that again, 1058 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 2: that of course is dat. So also, like, what activities 1059 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 2: did y'all get to do the next day? 1060 00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:19,959 Speaker 3: Oh? Man, Now this is where I actually got real 1061 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,839 Speaker 3: white women in uh. Because I can't swim. I'm letting 1062 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 3: every notice I can't swim. 1063 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 4: So Marissa every day except for one day, did snorkeling 1064 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 4: at seven thirty in the. 1065 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 2: Morning, and so Chris and Leslie then were already there 1066 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:34,440 Speaker 2: when y'all got Yeah. 1067 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. I think Marissa Leslie pages the other day 1068 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,880 Speaker 4: early to kind of prey up and you know, make 1069 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,080 Speaker 4: sure everything was in order before everybody else showed up. 1070 00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,160 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah. We did do an open ritual with Shirley. 1071 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,640 Speaker 3: That's right on the first night. 1072 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:53,160 Speaker 4: Where uh she we had like this bag and it 1073 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 4: had like these various different things in them, and you 1074 00:50:56,160 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 4: got a partner and you kind of I don't want 1075 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 4: to say it's blessed, but you kind of spoke prosperity 1076 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 4: with with your partner, you kind of uh blessed their 1077 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:09,839 Speaker 4: feet to lead them in the right direction in their 1078 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,400 Speaker 4: hearts so they could hear their heart. 1079 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 2: That's like some queen sugar and nova. 1080 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 3: Ship and and and and we were like burning. I 1081 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,280 Speaker 3: want to say, I want to say it was Sage. 1082 00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:20,879 Speaker 4: I'm not sure. 1083 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,879 Speaker 3: And so we did that on the first night. Yeah, 1084 00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:32,239 Speaker 3: but Sage, thank you, Sage Cinnamon Paulo sento, that's right, 1085 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 3: it's you. 1086 00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, So y'all doing this ritual as Shirley was leading 1087 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 2: y'all in it. Wow, that's dope, man. Yes, And I 1088 00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:41,960 Speaker 2: wonder how she knew how to do. 1089 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 4: That, I'm not sure. And she she uh put the 1090 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,719 Speaker 4: the directions and stuff in the and I know group 1091 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 4: because we had a group for the people. So she 1092 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 4: put that there and so that that was really really 1093 00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 4: neat going through that. 1094 00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 2: And then for prosperity, are you like it was it 1095 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 2: Kreflo dollar type prosperity? You know, like can I get 1096 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 2: a whole lot of money? 1097 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:04,040 Speaker 4: You know? 1098 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 3: We had like these coins that she gave me. 1099 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,920 Speaker 4: You put the coins in your room, okay, And so 1100 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,360 Speaker 4: we hold on to the coins in our room and 1101 00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:17,800 Speaker 4: what was beautiful about the whole trip is that whenever 1102 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:21,279 Speaker 4: you woke up, you literally had an itinerary of what 1103 00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,239 Speaker 4: was happening next day, so you got a recap of 1104 00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 4: what was happening. Uh, every day you gotta recap up 1105 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:30,839 Speaker 4: this so every day you kind of knew what your 1106 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:31,480 Speaker 4: day was going to. 1107 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,720 Speaker 2: Be, so you started the day. So not a recap 1108 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 2: then like a preview, right preview, you get like a 1109 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 2: print out. Okay, so the first day, which would have 1110 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:45,480 Speaker 2: been let's see, you left on what Saturday, So the 1111 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 2: first day Sunday, basically it's your first full day there. 1112 00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 4: Yes, I know you. 1113 00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 2: Every time we go on vacation somewhere, you wake up 1114 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 2: at too in the morning. Five. 1115 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 3: I don't I cannot explain this, y'all. I can't tell 1116 00:52:58,640 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 3: you why. 1117 00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's because I'm just full of energy, 1118 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,359 Speaker 4: like every time, and I don't know if it's because 1119 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,239 Speaker 4: I'm not at home, but like every and it was 1120 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 4: a running joke with the stat The staff was really neat. 1121 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 3: It was a running joke with the staff that I 1122 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:13,319 Speaker 3: was waking up there early in the morning. 1123 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, what's the point of vacation you're gonna 1124 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,720 Speaker 2: spend it all, you know, awake at five in the morning. 1125 00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 2: But Karen, Karen likes to do that, so yeah, and 1126 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 2: I do it. 1127 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,400 Speaker 4: And it was hilarious because, uh I went to sleep 1128 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:31,239 Speaker 4: and no, lie about four five five thirty. Every day 1129 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 4: I was there, I was waking up, and it was 1130 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,960 Speaker 4: hilarious because they wouldn't expect them the first night. They 1131 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,840 Speaker 4: were shocked to see me, like up there early in 1132 00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 4: the morning. So because I heard them like moving around 1133 00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,759 Speaker 4: and stuff like that. And the the two ladies that 1134 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 4: cleaned the house, they was really sweet and really kind 1135 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:51,920 Speaker 4: and really nice and uh they and the thing is 1136 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:55,200 Speaker 4: the people on each property. I didn't realize they stayed 1137 00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 4: on the property at first, and I was like, oh 1138 00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,479 Speaker 4: my gosh, y'all are at four five in the morning. 1139 00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:01,319 Speaker 4: I was thinking of myself, how the hell did y'all 1140 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,120 Speaker 4: getting here so early in the morning. And I realized 1141 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 4: they kind. 1142 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:08,800 Speaker 2: Of just walked. They was thinking the same thing about you, like, 1143 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 2: hell ship up, So what would you do with four 1144 00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:13,680 Speaker 2: five in the morning. Every morning. 1145 00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 3: Most of the time I meet the staff. 1146 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,200 Speaker 4: And the thing is they got out there in the morning, y'all, 1147 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 4: and what they would do They would dust. 1148 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 3: So they would get up and dust. 1149 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,439 Speaker 4: You mean meet the staff when I when I would 1150 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,319 Speaker 4: get up every morning, the staff would alwaud be up 1151 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 4: normally and so the staff would dust and like sweet 1152 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:31,399 Speaker 4: the sand. 1153 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 2: I'm saying, what would you do? I know they were 1154 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,760 Speaker 2: doing their job, saying what were you doing overseeing? 1155 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,840 Speaker 3: It was no, no, no, no, no no no. 1156 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 4: Actually a lot of times I get up and I 1157 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,120 Speaker 4: love to wash the sunrise, So I would like wash 1158 00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:45,920 Speaker 4: the sunrise. 1159 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 3: I walk the beach because walk up down the beach. 1160 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:50,160 Speaker 3: So I walk up it down. 1161 00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,799 Speaker 2: So the property, which it does have like a wall 1162 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,800 Speaker 2: around it or something, right, mm hmm, okay, yeah, so 1163 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,160 Speaker 2: like part of it is they also had a beach. 1164 00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, so the so it's like a bunch of villas 1165 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 4: on the beach. So you can walk up and down 1166 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:06,040 Speaker 4: past your villa and the other people. 1167 00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 2: But you could just walk up and down any other 1168 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,800 Speaker 2: people up at that time walking the beach and stuff. 1169 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 4: Sometimes it was sometimes it wasn't most of the time. 1170 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 2: How are you not scared of this? I've been scared 1171 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,320 Speaker 2: to go down to the beach in the dark of 1172 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:23,520 Speaker 2: the morning. We was on the villatie, we was on 1173 00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:24,359 Speaker 2: the private villa. 1174 00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:27,359 Speaker 4: I was like, you don't have no business back here, 1175 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. And everything was locked up. 1176 00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,960 Speaker 4: I was like, unless you broke in, you was not. 1177 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:33,120 Speaker 3: Gonna get back there where we were. 1178 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:34,120 Speaker 6: So I didn't. 1179 00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:37,520 Speaker 4: I didn't have like a no, that's that's pure white, right. 1180 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:40,880 Speaker 4: I didn't have no fear of nobody grabbing me or 1181 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 4: no ship because most of the staff, you knew most 1182 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 4: of the staff, or they had a shirt of something 1183 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 4: that said staff. 1184 00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:49,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you knew that. 1185 00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 3: The people that were up oh and nigga, they was 1186 00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:56,280 Speaker 3: raking the sand. I was like, why are y'all raking 1187 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 3: the sand? 1188 00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,000 Speaker 2: I morning? 1189 00:55:59,480 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 4: Right? 1190 00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:01,520 Speaker 3: And I didn't understand that, like over. 1191 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 4: The night you had the tide comes in, comes in 1192 00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 4: and things like that. 1193 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:07,320 Speaker 3: So it brings like you know, the leaves and the breeze. 1194 00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 4: So every morning they would rake the sand to make 1195 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 4: it look like every morning it's a fresh beach. I 1196 00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:14,839 Speaker 4: was so confused that first day walking up and down 1197 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 4: the beachuck, ain't this. 1198 00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,279 Speaker 3: Ain't nothing wrong with the sand and sands? A sign. 1199 00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:24,760 Speaker 4: My ignorant self? And so I was like taking pictures 1200 00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 4: of like the water coming in. Oh, and they had holes, 1201 00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 4: uh biba on the ground. I think they said the 1202 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:36,320 Speaker 4: day before we came, one hundred and eighty turtles hatched 1203 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:38,279 Speaker 4: and went out to sea. We missed it, but you 1204 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 4: could see all the holes in the ground. So I 1205 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 4: took a picture of all the holes that all the 1206 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,239 Speaker 4: little baby turtles had came up off out of. 1207 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:46,359 Speaker 3: And went to the sea. 1208 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 2: Little Jamaican lit Jamaican turtles getting out into the sea. 1209 00:56:51,719 --> 00:57:00,759 Speaker 4: Like your. 1210 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 7: All right? 1211 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:15,359 Speaker 2: So the first night, first day was there? 1212 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:15,920 Speaker 4: What what? 1213 00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 2: What activities did y'all do? 1214 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,280 Speaker 3: The first day there? I woke up. 1215 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 4: I was up early in the morning. 1216 00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 2: We know, and every morning we're gonna assume you woke 1217 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 2: up early. 1218 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, every first day everyone as soon you 1219 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,680 Speaker 4: woke up. But that's where everybody was like, by the 1220 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 4: time you woke up. 1221 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,280 Speaker 3: You'd be like here posted this three hours ago. That's 1222 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:34,919 Speaker 3: why y'all. 1223 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,160 Speaker 4: That's why y'all got gonna fixed. 1224 00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 3: The first night, I mean, the first one that woke up, 1225 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 3: I started got to wear my bathing suits. So I 1226 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,040 Speaker 3: wore my bathing suit. 1227 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 2: Are you wein't on down to the beach at five 1228 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 2: in the morning or you waiting until everybody's up? 1229 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 4: Oh? No, Normally when I wake up, I wear my 1230 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,680 Speaker 4: pajamas outside, whatever I wore the night before, I will 1231 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:55,360 Speaker 4: my pajamas. 1232 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 3: And then about you know. 1233 00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,920 Speaker 4: Seven seventy fifteen, I kind of get up and go 1234 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,480 Speaker 4: and change it to my bathing suit whatever bathing cinnama 1235 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:03,960 Speaker 4: for the day. 1236 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 3: And I got to go, ah, oh, you can get 1237 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,400 Speaker 3: my pictures. Oh that's me. 1238 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 4: That right there is the the cracker tray, the cheese plate, 1239 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 4: and uh, that was delicious, and lots and lots of fruits, 1240 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,960 Speaker 4: lots and lots of fresh vegetables and things like that. 1241 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:25,640 Speaker 2: It's great. 1242 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 6: Son. 1243 00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,000 Speaker 2: Here, if you guys are listening to this podcast later, 1244 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 2: you can always go to crowdcast and look up the 1245 00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,120 Speaker 2: show and you can see the pictures. 1246 00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 4: Uh. This is that pumpkin bisc Yes, pumpkin biscuit. And 1247 00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:42,520 Speaker 4: it was delicious. 1248 00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:48,400 Speaker 2: So you also, like you said, going down to the 1249 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:54,480 Speaker 2: beach every morning and watching the sun come up every morning. 1250 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:58,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, And and something I did too, Uh my thing 1251 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,520 Speaker 4: was every morning I was gonna take a picture on 1252 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 4: my feet. 1253 00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,080 Speaker 3: So every morning you gotta you got a fresh picture 1254 00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 3: of my toes and some thigh meat. And this right here, 1255 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,000 Speaker 3: what Roger is showing is a view of the sunrising. 1256 00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 3: This was beautiful. M and so went around at the pool. 1257 00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:19,400 Speaker 4: And uh, the place where we went down at the 1258 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,960 Speaker 4: snorkel and a hammock I got lost in. 1259 00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:23,680 Speaker 3: I scared one of the people on the ground on 1260 00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,240 Speaker 3: one day, the groundkeeper. 1261 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 2: Because because he didn't see you in the hammock. 1262 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,400 Speaker 4: Right, because I've never been on a hammock before, so 1263 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:32,680 Speaker 4: I didn't notice you kind of sunk down into it. 1264 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 4: So I sunk down into it. And he was out 1265 00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,840 Speaker 4: there trying, you know, cleaning the pool, you know, vacuum 1266 00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:40,680 Speaker 4: in the pool, putting the chlorine. 1267 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 2: In the pool. 1268 00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 4: Then, because you're in the movie, so you swinging back 1269 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,080 Speaker 4: for I had to take my arm and flip it 1270 00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,240 Speaker 4: around and I turned around. I was like hey, and 1271 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:50,920 Speaker 4: he jumped. I was like, oh my gosh, I don't 1272 00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:56,000 Speaker 4: mean to scare you. Got your slipper, your beach shoes 1273 00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 4: shot out to the water shoes, Yes, the water shoes. 1274 00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 4: Them things was so comfortable. I think we got them 1275 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 4: before I left too. They were so comfortable. 1276 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,120 Speaker 2: And that's the whole right there where the turtles come 1277 01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 2: out of. 1278 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the whole. Whether it was a bunch of 1279 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,600 Speaker 4: them on the ground, uh, yeah, I took. These are 1280 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 4: some of the pictures I took on the first day 1281 01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 4: with the holes where the turtles that came out of 1282 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 4: of the ground. 1283 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:21,560 Speaker 2: So then what's this ladder right here? 1284 01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 4: Oh? 1285 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:24,960 Speaker 2: Yes, that that's a shower. 1286 01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:26,920 Speaker 3: Yes, that's the shower. I don't know if it shows. 1287 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 3: I think this is this a video? Yeah, okay, yeah, 1288 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:31,680 Speaker 3: I don't know if it let you the play or not. 1289 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,919 Speaker 4: But this is a video of my outdoor shower. Remember 1290 01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:37,640 Speaker 4: I was telling you how it was an extension of 1291 01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:41,600 Speaker 4: the bathroom. This right here was it was an extension. 1292 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,400 Speaker 2: So it's got like a little canopy over it right right. 1293 01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 4: So like you all outside and walk around, and the 1294 01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 4: shower had like the shower overhead. 1295 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,280 Speaker 3: And then it had like a spring. 1296 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:55,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool. 1297 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,400 Speaker 3: It was gorgeous. 1298 01:00:57,480 --> 01:00:59,760 Speaker 2: They go to setting them thighs out. 1299 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 3: Yes, I set these sides at Oh, and baby, please 1300 01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:05,000 Speaker 3: forgive me. 1301 01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 4: I do not remember your name, but shout out to 1302 01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 4: the fan that sent me the suntan lotion. It was 1303 01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:14,640 Speaker 4: like some glistening, shimmering suntan lotion. That's why everybody was like, 1304 01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:17,720 Speaker 4: why you shining? That's why I was shining. And the 1305 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 4: thing about it, I used the hell out of it, 1306 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,880 Speaker 4: and I liked the shimmering in it because it let 1307 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:24,640 Speaker 4: me know where I put it, so I made sure 1308 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:28,040 Speaker 4: I didn't miss a spot. And I didn't realize mosquitoes 1309 01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:30,800 Speaker 4: don't like like citrusy stuff, so it had a lot 1310 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 4: of cistricts in it. 1311 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:33,240 Speaker 3: So I didn't get bit that much. 1312 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:33,640 Speaker 2: Right. 1313 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,080 Speaker 3: Anytime I got bit is because I didn't reapply some 1314 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 3: shit like that. 1315 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 2: So you were also going snorkeling every morning? 1316 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,400 Speaker 3: Yes, I was shot. 1317 01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,560 Speaker 2: That's probably like fifties snorkeling videos, just s caring snorkeling 1318 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,360 Speaker 2: and showing us what's going on underwater and stuff. 1319 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,880 Speaker 4: Yes, and the thinct the hilarious thing about I've never 1320 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,520 Speaker 4: been snorking before and my heart was broken. 1321 01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 3: The first time I could have went snorkeling. 1322 01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:58,800 Speaker 4: I about fifteen sixteen. 1323 01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:00,840 Speaker 3: And my mama went in on the trip y'all. 1324 01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:05,240 Speaker 4: But uh it was me and mine Debby Maunka calling 1325 01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 4: my cousin Maurice. Uh we him went to the Bahamas 1326 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,080 Speaker 4: and they was like, well we can go snorkling. My 1327 01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:14,480 Speaker 4: cousin Maurice and uncle Carl went, but I didn't get 1328 01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 4: to go cause my mom was like, I just Patty 1329 01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 4: get her hair done. 1330 01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:18,960 Speaker 3: She ain't gone. 1331 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:23,080 Speaker 4: Snorkeling, okay and living y'all. My heart had been crushed 1332 01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:25,600 Speaker 4: ever since that time. And I promised myself if I 1333 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,000 Speaker 4: ever got a chance to go snorkeling again, I was 1334 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:30,720 Speaker 4: going motherfucking snorkling. I ain't given goddamn about my hair. 1335 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:37,760 Speaker 4: And so, uh, they shout out to Jasmine. Jasmine was 1336 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,480 Speaker 4: the one. There was a lot of swimmers there. I 1337 01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 4: think Marissa San could swim Leslie uh d C Certified 1338 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 4: diver and drew uh Jasmine. 1339 01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:51,960 Speaker 3: You know, it was a lot of people that were 1340 01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,000 Speaker 3: really strong swimmers. 1341 01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:57,760 Speaker 4: So they had I've never put on my life jacking 1342 01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:00,280 Speaker 4: for so they showed you how to, you know, drop 1343 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:03,160 Speaker 4: your life jacket on and put that on, and how 1344 01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:05,280 Speaker 4: to pick out your flippers because I never won't flipp 1345 01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 4: us before, and how to pick out your uh your 1346 01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:12,200 Speaker 4: goggles with your I don't know, your little pipe that 1347 01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,760 Speaker 4: you breathe out of your breathing tube from when you 1348 01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:18,160 Speaker 4: go and if the water and then we walk down 1349 01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:22,080 Speaker 4: to the bottom and we actually, uh, it's easier to 1350 01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:24,600 Speaker 4: actually put your flippers on, like once you get closer 1351 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,240 Speaker 4: to the water, so you set on the edge and 1352 01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,680 Speaker 4: you will put your flippers on and with you when 1353 01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 4: you got your goggles, you would actually spit into the 1354 01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,400 Speaker 4: eyes and wipe the spit around and then rinse it 1355 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 4: in the water to keep it clear, because I guess 1356 01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,600 Speaker 4: with your breathing and stuff, if you don't your eyes 1357 01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:42,120 Speaker 4: will the eyes will follow up and you won't be 1358 01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:42,520 Speaker 4: able to see. 1359 01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:46,240 Speaker 3: Uh. So uh, you would get down. 1360 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,520 Speaker 4: There, and then once you got down there, Marissa and 1361 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 4: them would let you test, like in the part where 1362 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 4: you can actually stand up. You would get used to 1363 01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 4: the breathing because you don't breathe through your nose at all. 1364 01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,800 Speaker 4: The thing right, But like I said, the first time 1365 01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 4: snork and I didn't know the mask that actually comes 1366 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 4: up in if your nose and it wraps around and 1367 01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:06,120 Speaker 4: you want it really really tight, and then you put 1368 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 4: the tube where you're bite down on the tube and 1369 01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 4: then the tube goes up. So then let you practice breathing, 1370 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 4: because they was like, you have to breathe, loan, you 1371 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:14,160 Speaker 4: can't just you can't go. 1372 01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:16,200 Speaker 3: You gotta breathe in and out. 1373 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,920 Speaker 2: Man, how are you able to get your phone pictures 1374 01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:19,840 Speaker 2: and stuff underwater? 1375 01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:20,720 Speaker 4: Oh? 1376 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,600 Speaker 3: Shout out the page she had she gave me her Uh, 1377 01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,120 Speaker 3: they have these cases for phones. 1378 01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:29,760 Speaker 4: Now that's the waterproof case. You're gonna actually strap your 1379 01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,280 Speaker 4: phone in there. And that's what I used to take 1380 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:35,520 Speaker 4: the pictures. I didn't I didn't know these things existed. 1381 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 4: So you actually strapped your phone and that's how I 1382 01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:40,240 Speaker 4: was able to take it too. But I didn't I 1383 01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:41,920 Speaker 4: didn't know I could do that till like the last 1384 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:42,520 Speaker 4: few days. 1385 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1386 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,360 Speaker 4: And so after you get used to the breathing, you 1387 01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 4: in the shallow part, and like I said, for those 1388 01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,000 Speaker 4: of you that have never been snokling for it can't swim. 1389 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,360 Speaker 3: You have your life jacket on, so you will not sink, 1390 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 3: because my thing was sinking. 1391 01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 4: But once you get used to the floating part of 1392 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,960 Speaker 4: it and you realize, okay, I'm not going under, everything 1393 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,040 Speaker 4: is okay, because I'm saying this with somebody who's a 1394 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:07,760 Speaker 4: non swimmer. 1395 01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:11,680 Speaker 3: After you realize you begin to float with the water, 1396 01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:12,960 Speaker 3: you're like, okay. 1397 01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:18,840 Speaker 4: And then we kind of went out. And some of 1398 01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:24,320 Speaker 4: the tips that I've learned is whenever you're moving around, 1399 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:28,240 Speaker 4: it's best to keep your legs straight. And the thing 1400 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,520 Speaker 4: is with the life vest, if you ever feel uncomfortable, 1401 01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 4: you just rock up and your people go underneath you 1402 01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 4: and the life vest will hold you. 1403 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:39,280 Speaker 2: Up to your ground or no, no, like like. 1404 01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,240 Speaker 4: Initially you were, but as you move out, the water 1405 01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,880 Speaker 4: kind of separates where you where you're up high and 1406 01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:47,600 Speaker 4: the water's down lone and so yeah, I don't know 1407 01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,840 Speaker 4: how many feet deep it was, but we were pretty 1408 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:51,440 Speaker 4: up pretty high, and so. 1409 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:54,720 Speaker 3: After after a while. 1410 01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:56,240 Speaker 4: At first you're just trying to get used to being 1411 01:05:56,280 --> 01:06:00,240 Speaker 4: in the water, but as you relax, and I began 1412 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,840 Speaker 4: to relax, and then they was like, well, Karen, put 1413 01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:05,000 Speaker 4: your face down in the water. 1414 01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 3: So I put my face down in the water and 1415 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,320 Speaker 3: I started slow breathing, and. 1416 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,480 Speaker 4: I literally felt like Ariel. 1417 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,080 Speaker 3: I was like a whole new world. 1418 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:20,200 Speaker 4: I looked down and which I did not know this. Uh, 1419 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:24,160 Speaker 4: when I looked down, everything was new to me. 1420 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:28,360 Speaker 3: And I kept going oooh and ah the whole time 1421 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 3: with my breathing tubone. 1422 01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:33,120 Speaker 4: So I didn't know that every time I did that, 1423 01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,919 Speaker 4: they could hear it above my head, so you would 1424 01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 4: literally see my face in the water and all that 1425 01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,720 Speaker 4: heard was coming up through my tube. But it was 1426 01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 4: funny though, because I was I was pointing like they 1427 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,640 Speaker 4: could see me. Couldn't nobody see me? Because unless you 1428 01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,480 Speaker 4: were like right near me. So I was pointing, I 1429 01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 4: would go older and I popped my head up. 1430 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, did y'all say that? 1431 01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:53,600 Speaker 4: And I was like a little kid. They was like, 1432 01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:56,080 Speaker 4: ain't that beautiful? I was like, yes, it is beautiful 1433 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,640 Speaker 4: to see the colors and to see the fish, and 1434 01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:02,640 Speaker 4: they and some of the coral looks like fans where 1435 01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,640 Speaker 4: it was like waving at you as the fish was blue. 1436 01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:08,520 Speaker 4: And I got to see schools of fish moving around. 1437 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:12,120 Speaker 4: And what was hilarious was that as we was moving around, 1438 01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:14,560 Speaker 4: and I know that didn't make no sense, but it's 1439 01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 4: a mental thing for me. As we was moving around, 1440 01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,040 Speaker 4: some of the fish were kind of moving around, and 1441 01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 4: I will actually try to move out the Fishwait, don't 1442 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,960 Speaker 4: ask me why, because I'm like, hey, you hear chillity 1443 01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:27,840 Speaker 4: and your bread Because then my big ass flipper went 1444 01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:28,439 Speaker 4: by your front. 1445 01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:29,720 Speaker 3: Do of course you're gonna come out and try to 1446 01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:30,600 Speaker 3: find out what the fuck it is. 1447 01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:33,320 Speaker 4: I'm disturbing your house, you know. So I would try 1448 01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 4: to move move around the fish and stuff, which made 1449 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:37,360 Speaker 4: no sense at all. 1450 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:41,520 Speaker 3: It maybe just a mental thing for me. And it 1451 01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:47,120 Speaker 3: was really really neat to see all the different sizes 1452 01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:47,640 Speaker 3: of the coral. 1453 01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,400 Speaker 2: You know, I had what are the rules about touching 1454 01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:53,960 Speaker 2: the coral? All that kind of stuff about. 1455 01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:56,040 Speaker 4: That, Oh, you can touch the coral. But the thing 1456 01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 4: one tip is be aware of how close you are 1457 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 4: to the coral, because the cora would actually cut you, 1458 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 4: like cut your legs and stuff if you if you're 1459 01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 4: too close to it. I got nicked one. 1460 01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:08,880 Speaker 3: And the thing is what happens is that as you're 1461 01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,160 Speaker 3: in the water, you go up and you go down. 1462 01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 4: You go up and you go down. So as you're 1463 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 4: going up and down, you have to be aware of 1464 01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,960 Speaker 4: what the coral is to you as you go up 1465 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 4: and down. So after about the second or third day, 1466 01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,760 Speaker 4: I was more aware of put this because I had 1467 01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:26,599 Speaker 4: to get you to the depth perception of the ocean, 1468 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:28,840 Speaker 4: you know. So once you get used to that, you 1469 01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:30,760 Speaker 4: start saying, oh, I'm getting close and you and you 1470 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:33,840 Speaker 4: learn how to kind of maneuver your way around the coral. 1471 01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 3: So that you don't get cut in it. 1472 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:42,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can. A lot of it washed up on shore. 1473 01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:44,720 Speaker 4: I got a piece for lailor then washed up on shore, 1474 01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 4: so I actually got you can't. 1475 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,760 Speaker 2: Just take that back like you have to. It goes 1476 01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,040 Speaker 2: through a process, all right, what. 1477 01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,040 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I took it and I washed it off, 1478 01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 4: and I just because it wasn't a big big so 1479 01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,320 Speaker 4: I just took it and stuck it in my bag. 1480 01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,320 Speaker 4: So I didn't have any problem with this particular piece 1481 01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 4: getting it through because you and you know they're gonna 1482 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 4: X ray everything and stuff like that, and if it 1483 01:09:05,479 --> 01:09:07,120 Speaker 4: was a problem even just spoted in my bag. 1484 01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:09,880 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I think. So you told me something about 1485 01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 2: you have to bleach a certain coral or something, but 1486 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 2: y'all don't. 1487 01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:16,719 Speaker 4: Have to do that, oh because uh this and I actually, 1488 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:18,479 Speaker 4: uh forgot to bring it. 1489 01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,000 Speaker 3: But it was some of the coral that. 1490 01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,599 Speaker 4: Was down at the bottom and they had to kind 1491 01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:24,519 Speaker 4: of get the sand out and bleach it and things 1492 01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:26,280 Speaker 4: like that, but just kind of washed those seas. 1493 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:27,240 Speaker 3: It was a little different. 1494 01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:32,360 Speaker 4: And uh, actually with snorkling, like every day, y'all, like 1495 01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:35,040 Speaker 4: every day. One time I went twice. 1496 01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:38,880 Speaker 2: And it was And so do they have like is 1497 01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 2: it like a special boat they take you snorkeling or 1498 01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,000 Speaker 2: do y'all y'all can just tell the people at the resort, 1499 01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 2: we want to go snorkeling, Like how does that work? 1500 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:46,400 Speaker 3: Because it's a private villa. 1501 01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:50,920 Speaker 4: The coral's right on the villa. Okay, so you just 1502 01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:52,840 Speaker 4: walk down some steps and you write that you can 1503 01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:54,439 Speaker 4: you're right that. 1504 01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:58,240 Speaker 3: So yeah, you didn't have to go out or anything 1505 01:09:58,320 --> 01:09:58,439 Speaker 3: like that. 1506 01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:01,599 Speaker 4: You literally walk down some steps, walk down some steps 1507 01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 4: a little a little closer to the ocean, and there 1508 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:04,599 Speaker 4: was the coral. 1509 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 3: And Marissa's biggest rule, nobody was never long. 1510 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:10,920 Speaker 2: Right, So you know, so the thing is and the 1511 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:12,880 Speaker 2: thing because like you can kind of swim, but you're 1512 01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:15,840 Speaker 2: not really you didn't. You haven't taken the full certification 1513 01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 2: for swimming yet, so you know, uh, like it's you know, 1514 01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:21,000 Speaker 2: and I know there's a lot of black people listening 1515 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,719 Speaker 2: to show, you know, we do have issues of swimming. 1516 01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:26,519 Speaker 2: It ain't our fault, come on, I understand. But at 1517 01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,280 Speaker 2: the same time, you know they would be nervose to 1518 01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,280 Speaker 2: even get in the water, right And and and. 1519 01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:35,360 Speaker 4: Then the thing is, I was determined that I wasn't 1520 01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:37,040 Speaker 4: gonna let fears kind of get in the way. I 1521 01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:38,439 Speaker 4: was like, I come to have a good time and 1522 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:39,240 Speaker 4: I didn't. 1523 01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:41,000 Speaker 2: White women would never. 1524 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 3: White woman never, and shout out to the too. 1525 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:47,680 Speaker 4: A lot of people that were it was a lot 1526 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,599 Speaker 4: of people in the group that was really highly educated, 1527 01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:53,960 Speaker 4: so they informed us and maybe look at learning how 1528 01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 4: to swim in a different way. 1529 01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:56,160 Speaker 2: I did not know. 1530 01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 4: I know this might sound ignorant, but I did not 1531 01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:04,519 Speaker 4: know that there is actually documentation of when we were 1532 01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:06,599 Speaker 4: bought over on boats. Black people knew how to swim 1533 01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,439 Speaker 4: because they were at the ocean. They knew how to swim. 1534 01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:14,519 Speaker 4: This doc that there's records of us saving white people, 1535 01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:16,400 Speaker 4: saving children. 1536 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:17,920 Speaker 3: And all that stuff. So we didn't have any fear 1537 01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:18,439 Speaker 3: of the water. 1538 01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:22,000 Speaker 4: Once they got to America, they literally beat that fear, 1539 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,360 Speaker 4: put the fear of water into us, so we wouldn't 1540 01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:24,960 Speaker 4: run away. 1541 01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:28,800 Speaker 2: Right, you know, so I was gonna swim across the ocean, right. 1542 01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,599 Speaker 3: So it's something that they literally just stripped away from us. 1543 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1544 01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:34,559 Speaker 2: And then also it's economic after a while, becomes class, 1545 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:38,160 Speaker 2: you know, access to swimming pools, dealing with racism in 1546 01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,800 Speaker 2: spaces like where you do have a pool and white 1547 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,759 Speaker 2: people decide we don't want know niggas in the pool, 1548 01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,200 Speaker 2: you know. I mean it's that famous patriot I think 1549 01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:48,200 Speaker 2: it was Dorothy Dandridge in the pool and the white 1550 01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,439 Speaker 2: people being like, oh my god, these nigger jeans are 1551 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,320 Speaker 2: gonna get on this or something. It's like Nigga, I 1552 01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:57,160 Speaker 2: would drink Dorothy Dandrid's bath. What are you talking about? 1553 01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:01,160 Speaker 2: You anyway? But yeah, so it's I mean, it's not 1554 01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:04,120 Speaker 2: necessarily any person's fault, but you know, I do think 1555 01:12:04,160 --> 01:12:06,240 Speaker 2: it's something that if you can learn it, you know, 1556 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 2: and you have access and the ability to it's a 1557 01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:13,280 Speaker 2: great fear to get over. Yeah, because two types of 1558 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,360 Speaker 2: people drown. People that can't swim and they're over com 1559 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,040 Speaker 2: and they and they just don't know what. They panic 1560 01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:22,080 Speaker 2: and they drown. And then there's people that they can 1561 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:24,680 Speaker 2: swim and they get over confident. That's another thing. So 1562 01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 2: that's something to be careful of. You had to vest 1563 01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:29,000 Speaker 2: On and stuff, so you should have been straight no 1564 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:29,400 Speaker 2: matter what. 1565 01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:30,400 Speaker 3: I had to vest On. 1566 01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:35,439 Speaker 4: And you were never alone, so there was already wherever 1567 01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:38,320 Speaker 4: you were, within a foot or two of you, you 1568 01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:41,360 Speaker 4: would constantly hear somebody back caring you okay, and you 1569 01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 4: say thumbs up and you put your head up and 1570 01:12:43,320 --> 01:12:45,719 Speaker 4: you say yeah. So even if you were by yourself, 1571 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:50,960 Speaker 4: it was somebody constantly watching you. And then not only that, yes, 1572 01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:53,240 Speaker 4: the first particular, first they shout out to Jazz because 1573 01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:55,320 Speaker 4: she had really helped me, you know, she would kind 1574 01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:57,360 Speaker 4: of walk me through things. You know, are you having 1575 01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:57,960 Speaker 4: problem breathing? 1576 01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:58,600 Speaker 3: This is what you do? 1577 01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:01,479 Speaker 4: You know, you know how to breathe, you know, and. 1578 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:02,080 Speaker 3: Things like that. 1579 01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 4: So that helped me kind of relax more in the 1580 01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 4: water because I don't have a fear of the water itself. 1581 01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:08,800 Speaker 3: I don't have a fear of going underneath the water. 1582 01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:11,320 Speaker 4: My everybody has to defense my fear because some people's 1583 01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,920 Speaker 4: spirits just get in their face with like, I don't 1584 01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 4: my fear isn't that. My fear is when my feet 1585 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:16,920 Speaker 4: can no longer touch the ground. 1586 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,320 Speaker 2: That's most people right around there right now. I don't 1587 01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:22,040 Speaker 2: think most people are like, if I put my toes 1588 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,759 Speaker 2: in this water, I'm an melt. It's the it's it's honestly, 1589 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:26,560 Speaker 2: it's the loss of control. Because as long as you 1590 01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:28,320 Speaker 2: can put your feet on the ground, you can walk. 1591 01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:30,639 Speaker 2: And if you can walk, then you know you can't drown. 1592 01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,320 Speaker 2: But it's it's that moment that you you're swimming and 1593 01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:37,559 Speaker 2: there's no bottom, you know, and a lot of people 1594 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:39,360 Speaker 2: freak out. The deep end of the poles is still 1595 01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,880 Speaker 2: scary for a lot of people. But like I said, 1596 01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 2: you know, y'all. You know, y'all were watching each other's backs. 1597 01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 2: Y'all had all the equipment and stuff, so that makes. 1598 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:52,360 Speaker 4: Sense, and and and the thing is is, uh, I 1599 01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:55,439 Speaker 4: think me. I don't think Page could swim. And me 1600 01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:58,160 Speaker 4: and Paige literally was out every time, me and her. Yeah, 1601 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:00,120 Speaker 4: it was one day where it was just me and 1602 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:02,320 Speaker 4: her and somebody set up hoih and actually just watched us. 1603 01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:07,639 Speaker 4: And the thing about it is that I was telling 1604 01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:10,240 Speaker 4: them Marissa, I was number on a recruiter because every time. 1605 01:14:10,160 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 3: You turn around, I was like, can you swim? Everybody? No, 1606 01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:15,120 Speaker 3: I was I can't either, you want to snorkle? 1607 01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:19,439 Speaker 4: They're like yeah, so yep. Extreme Sports Page was out there, 1608 01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:23,400 Speaker 4: Teal was out there, Shirley was out there, and a 1609 01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:27,240 Speaker 4: lot of us cannot swim. So uh, every time you 1610 01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:30,439 Speaker 4: turn around, we was out there swimming, and there was 1611 01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 4: Because I can't be telling them, I say, y'all, it 1612 01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:35,720 Speaker 4: is so beautiful like it was. It was. 1613 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,640 Speaker 3: It was literally nice. It's almost like somebody have you 1614 01:14:38,680 --> 01:14:39,439 Speaker 3: ever been with you? 1615 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,479 Speaker 4: Like all of a sudden you got a regular ass 1616 01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:43,080 Speaker 4: TV and somebody fuck around turning the. 1617 01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:45,080 Speaker 3: HD on you was like, oh, I didn't know what 1618 01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,000 Speaker 3: Like this That's how it was me. 1619 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,080 Speaker 2: Oh no, I definitely can't do that in Charleston and 1620 01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:54,439 Speaker 2: Myrtle Beach or the Brown Dirty Waters. You also was 1621 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:57,920 Speaker 2: on the beach channing and sunny, and a lot was 1622 01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:02,000 Speaker 2: that after you with snorkel or after I would eat, 1623 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:02,920 Speaker 2: Like when were you doing that? 1624 01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:07,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? After we uh snokel the things that the sun, 1625 01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:09,680 Speaker 4: the sun wasn't like. It wasn't like the sunder Man. 1626 01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:10,880 Speaker 4: Sometimes sun America feel like. 1627 01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:11,720 Speaker 3: It's whooping your ass. 1628 01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:13,679 Speaker 4: Take take this heat today. 1629 01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:17,760 Speaker 3: But that son was like, hey, let me just lay 1630 01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:20,320 Speaker 3: on you. It was almost like a warming sun. 1631 01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:24,200 Speaker 2: Well it's November there too, so that probably else, you know, 1632 01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:27,040 Speaker 2: like that's probably the cool time of the year for them, 1633 01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:29,800 Speaker 2: Like for them, we didn't. They didn't winter, you know 1634 01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:31,640 Speaker 2: what I mean, it's probably feeling perfect out there. I 1635 01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,400 Speaker 2: mean they got that the tropical breeze too, though. But 1636 01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:37,800 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, like there might be days 1637 01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:40,000 Speaker 2: in Jamaica woul the sun be kicking everybody ass, but 1638 01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 2: you know that might during be during the summer, you know. 1639 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:49,759 Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, in in November with that breeze and whatnot, 1640 01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:51,559 Speaker 2: you know, I'm sure it was beautiful. 1641 01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:55,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, also the sodas is made out of real sugar, 1642 01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,040 Speaker 4: and so the sodas had like a different taste to it. 1643 01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:01,559 Speaker 2: They got down with that HFC, that high fruit, those 1644 01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:02,160 Speaker 2: corn syrup. 1645 01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,559 Speaker 4: Ain't ain't nobody, ain't nobody got no time for that bullshit. 1646 01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 3: That that that right there would change like, oh, it's 1647 01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:09,639 Speaker 3: something else. 1648 01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 4: The first night, the crickets sound like you know how 1649 01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:15,760 Speaker 4: when you forget to change your battery on on your 1650 01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:19,479 Speaker 4: fire alarm and you big, big big. 1651 01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:22,320 Speaker 3: That's how the crookeets sounds, right, Oh right, I was. 1652 01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:24,000 Speaker 4: I was like I kept wanting to say, turn off 1653 01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:26,120 Speaker 4: your alarm five, I mean, changed bat on your follows. 1654 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 3: It was just the crickets. After a while, you get 1655 01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:29,680 Speaker 3: used to it and you just take you know, we're 1656 01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:31,519 Speaker 3: doing something. She just steck your black ass a sleep. 1657 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:37,120 Speaker 2: So you also at tanding a lot, Yes I was. 1658 01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,800 Speaker 2: Jasmine showed you how to to make videos. 1659 01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:43,240 Speaker 4: Yes she did. 1660 01:16:43,840 --> 01:16:50,639 Speaker 2: This is Karen listening to some Kendrick and uh that's 1661 01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:53,320 Speaker 2: in the had we the had I got you in Charleston. 1662 01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 3: Yes, y'all probably gonna talk about Jasmine a lot. 1663 01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:57,760 Speaker 2: Honey, that's jazz right there. 1664 01:16:58,120 --> 01:16:58,920 Speaker 4: Yes she is. 1665 01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:02,400 Speaker 2: She make like that little gift thing where you looped 1666 01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:02,840 Speaker 2: the video. 1667 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:04,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, she she showed. 1668 01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 4: She showed me how to be sad, how to be 1669 01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:09,559 Speaker 4: sexy and stunt on y'all because I wouldn't have known 1670 01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:11,240 Speaker 4: when she showed the old woman how to be great. 1671 01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:15,439 Speaker 4: And I learned how to use the stories to face 1672 01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 4: because the thing is you post stories on Instagram and 1673 01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:21,000 Speaker 4: they automatically post the Facebook. 1674 01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:24,320 Speaker 2: Right now, was this drink right here? This is pineapple? 1675 01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:25,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, pineapple? 1676 01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,280 Speaker 3: Some type of room. I'm trying to tell y'all. I 1677 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:33,800 Speaker 3: was very ignorant. I was like fruited and everything was good. 1678 01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:34,639 Speaker 2: I had a drone. 1679 01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:36,880 Speaker 3: Yes, we had a drone. 1680 01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:40,360 Speaker 2: Just flying around. 1681 01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:44,320 Speaker 4: I saw that that there's lunch table. The tables were beautiful. 1682 01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,799 Speaker 4: Sometimes we well, most most of the meals were outside. 1683 01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 4: Even the first dinner meal was outside of but it 1684 01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:52,479 Speaker 4: was outside kind of. It was in the cover. This 1685 01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:56,000 Speaker 4: was outside and like one of the other other villas. 1686 01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:57,719 Speaker 2: That's the drone right there, guys. 1687 01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:03,360 Speaker 3: It was beautiful where Jah would actually flat up and 1688 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:05,400 Speaker 3: you know, get shots and stuff like that. 1689 01:18:05,560 --> 01:18:07,160 Speaker 2: Wait, that's how you say her name. I've been calling 1690 01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:08,360 Speaker 2: her as all this time. 1691 01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:13,240 Speaker 4: Two people ask people, I got them confused too. 1692 01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:17,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so aja a j a probably and then 1693 01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:21,240 Speaker 2: as okay, cool, all right, this is the real, the 1694 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:24,000 Speaker 2: real soda with the with the with the sugar. Yes, 1695 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:28,240 Speaker 2: this is uh d g midnight grape. They grape you 1696 01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:30,879 Speaker 2: got different times of the day. What the fuck Jamaica 1697 01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:34,000 Speaker 2: is lit the midnight grape. I just thought we just 1698 01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:38,479 Speaker 2: had sugar water purple in America, but apparently in Jamaica, 1699 01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:40,760 Speaker 2: and it's like, oh nah, you need to get that 1700 01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:46,280 Speaker 2: midnight great play some slow jams. This is your room, 1701 01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,160 Speaker 2: the view of the ocean from your room. 1702 01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,040 Speaker 3: Yes, it's the view of the ocean from my rooms 1703 01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:50,639 Speaker 3: from whatever. 1704 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:52,080 Speaker 2: The part where the doors open. 1705 01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:55,200 Speaker 3: Up, yes, yes, when they had the doors open up. 1706 01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:57,280 Speaker 2: All right, let's talk about the tenerary though. We need 1707 01:18:57,360 --> 01:18:59,280 Speaker 2: to get to some of these activities. Karen. You know, 1708 01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:03,320 Speaker 2: so what'd y'all do Sunday? Did y'all because I know 1709 01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:07,479 Speaker 2: there were different activities. I know y'all went to the mountains. 1710 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:09,640 Speaker 2: I know y'all went more and more. 1711 01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 4: Of Sunday was more like after the snorkeling, it was 1712 01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:15,360 Speaker 4: more of like relaxing. We just unconscious because it was 1713 01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 4: really really relaxing. 1714 01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:18,680 Speaker 3: And that's when the rest of the crew who went 1715 01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:19,920 Speaker 3: there on the first night showed up. 1716 01:19:20,120 --> 01:19:23,200 Speaker 2: So let's get to then the next day, because I 1717 01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:24,920 Speaker 2: know y'all did some things. I seen it on your 1718 01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:26,280 Speaker 2: on your Instagram. 1719 01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:30,479 Speaker 3: Yes, we went to. Uh, I'm glad you was. We 1720 01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:30,840 Speaker 3: went to. 1721 01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:33,920 Speaker 4: We had a mixed Mystic Mountain excursion. 1722 01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:37,439 Speaker 2: Uh that wait, when did y'all have the meeting where 1723 01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:39,439 Speaker 2: y'all talked about how y'all met each other and stuff? 1724 01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:42,880 Speaker 4: But I can tell you that now. No, no, no, no, no, 1725 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 4: no no no. 1726 01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:44,680 Speaker 2: I just want to keep it in the right order. 1727 01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:46,120 Speaker 2: I just want to make sure I'm not skipping stuff. 1728 01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:50,640 Speaker 2: So what's this coconut water? We're run right here? This 1729 01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:54,000 Speaker 2: is they was making the coconut drinks straight on the Yeah, 1730 01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:54,320 Speaker 2: they had. 1731 01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:56,680 Speaker 4: Coconut trees and they were pulled. This is one of 1732 01:19:56,720 --> 01:20:00,880 Speaker 4: the chefs at at one of the other houses. Now, yeah, 1733 01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:03,200 Speaker 4: actually put him off the trees. He actually took a machete. 1734 01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:06,720 Speaker 4: He sliced it up and pucked it open, and you 1735 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:08,479 Speaker 4: put a straw in it and they pulled some right 1736 01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 4: rum in it. 1737 01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:11,919 Speaker 2: Wow. So you're literally drinking out of a coconut. 1738 01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:14,840 Speaker 4: Wow, your life will never be the same. 1739 01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:16,960 Speaker 3: I was like, I will never get that bullshit off 1740 01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:17,880 Speaker 3: the shelves again. 1741 01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:20,720 Speaker 2: Well, I guess I don't have to do this next 1742 01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 2: time I go to public, bring a machete in there 1743 01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 2: and get my life get a straw off from wrong. No, okay, 1744 01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:35,280 Speaker 2: So then let's talk about the activities though. Okay, so Monday, 1745 01:20:35,320 --> 01:20:37,360 Speaker 2: do you remember what y'all did, because I know y'all 1746 01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:40,120 Speaker 2: were going out doing stuff I've seen you on, Like 1747 01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:42,679 Speaker 2: y'all was on some type of zip line. 1748 01:20:43,040 --> 01:20:46,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. So this is where we went to the Mystic 1749 01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:49,599 Speaker 4: Mountains and that was fun. 1750 01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:53,599 Speaker 2: When we got there, it sounded like something from Doctor Strange. 1751 01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:55,679 Speaker 2: What was going on in the Mystic Mountains? 1752 01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:59,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're a ziplining with Bob Sledton. 1753 01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:01,679 Speaker 4: That down that was fun. 1754 01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:03,919 Speaker 2: Oh i've seen running I can only imagine. 1755 01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:08,280 Speaker 4: Yes, And we wrote I want to say living for me, 1756 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:10,160 Speaker 4: I wanst say. It was like a gondola where they 1757 01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:12,920 Speaker 4: actually pick you up. It almost like a ski lift. Yeah. 1758 01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:16,679 Speaker 3: So you had to do the ski lift yeah yeah, 1759 01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:17,720 Speaker 3: through the jungle. 1760 01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:20,160 Speaker 4: Right, because like you actually went up up the mountain 1761 01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:22,920 Speaker 4: through the jungles. And so while we was up high 1762 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:24,800 Speaker 4: and I took some pictures where you could actually look 1763 01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:29,280 Speaker 4: down low and see uh the jungle up beneath our feet, 1764 01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:33,680 Speaker 4: and we had a really really good time because once 1765 01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:36,360 Speaker 4: we got to the top of it, they were actually 1766 01:21:36,400 --> 01:21:37,639 Speaker 4: people dance was performing. 1767 01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,680 Speaker 3: So for those of you to follow me, I was. 1768 01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:43,280 Speaker 4: You seen like videos, but people were dancing to get 1769 01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:45,479 Speaker 4: beating drums and I even volunteered to dance. 1770 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:48,240 Speaker 3: We was up there and they actually had a tip drawer. 1771 01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:49,479 Speaker 3: We was giving them a tip drum. 1772 01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:53,000 Speaker 4: What I realized too, is that I think we were 1773 01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:56,559 Speaker 4: crunk and we're just happy to be there. And everywhere 1774 01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:59,599 Speaker 4: we went, particularly the black people, they felt our energy. 1775 01:22:00,400 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 2: Well they normally probably have to do all that shit 1776 01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 2: with white people and tourists. And I mean, I'm sure 1777 01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,800 Speaker 2: it's kind of like I was when when I was 1778 01:22:07,880 --> 01:22:10,519 Speaker 2: a waiter. I hop and you get a table and 1779 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:12,559 Speaker 2: it's some black people. It's like, you know, like I said, 1780 01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:15,559 Speaker 2: the racist waiters used to be like a black table, 1781 01:22:15,600 --> 01:22:17,280 Speaker 2: I don't want them. I'll be like, I'll take them, 1782 01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:20,080 Speaker 2: you know, because I'm like, hey, my people, let's do this, 1783 01:22:20,280 --> 01:22:20,880 Speaker 2: you know, right. 1784 01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:23,840 Speaker 4: And the thing is the energy level would go up, 1785 01:22:23,960 --> 01:22:28,240 Speaker 4: they would because it's a difference between somebody watching you 1786 01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:33,000 Speaker 4: and you quote unquote performing for them. And somebody watching 1787 01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:36,080 Speaker 4: you and they appreciate what you're doing. Like we were 1788 01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:38,200 Speaker 4: owing and were cheering them all we were. 1789 01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,000 Speaker 3: Tipping them like we wanted to be. 1790 01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:43,760 Speaker 2: It's like when you see George Bush in Africa and 1791 01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:45,800 Speaker 2: he's doing the dance and you like, this, motherfucker, I 1792 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,560 Speaker 2: don't like, there's no way he understands anything that's going on. 1793 01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:49,960 Speaker 2: The craftsmanship. 1794 01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:53,720 Speaker 4: It was a lot of clapping, a lot of hey hey, 1795 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:56,400 Speaker 4: so you probably gonna hear that a lot in the videos. 1796 01:22:57,360 --> 01:22:59,639 Speaker 3: It was a whole lot of yeah. Everywhere we went. 1797 01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:04,880 Speaker 3: We were literally lit and we had a really really 1798 01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:05,680 Speaker 3: good time. 1799 01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:07,640 Speaker 4: Oh and I think, well, well this might have been 1800 01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,760 Speaker 4: later on, uh, because you know, we're being all black, 1801 01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:13,679 Speaker 4: so it's been like black staff, black career, better be black. 1802 01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:17,400 Speaker 4: And all of a sudden I was falling behind the 1803 01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:20,240 Speaker 4: shell and this white one popped up and I looked 1804 01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:23,439 Speaker 4: at her like, what what are you doing here? Why? 1805 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:24,360 Speaker 4: What did you come from? 1806 01:23:25,320 --> 01:23:28,200 Speaker 3: My face changed because I was like, you don't belong here, ma'am? 1807 01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:32,680 Speaker 4: Are you lost? I looked at her like she And 1808 01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:36,680 Speaker 4: it was hilarious because early in the trip, this was 1809 01:23:36,800 --> 01:23:40,320 Speaker 4: Nick the second Yeah, just showed up just in all 1810 01:23:40,400 --> 01:23:43,040 Speaker 4: her whiteness out of nowhere in the middle of all 1811 01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 4: these black women, I'm assuming bringing each other's hair. 1812 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:47,679 Speaker 3: I know she didn't know that at first. 1813 01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:50,240 Speaker 2: She she just met two of us at playing phades. 1814 01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:52,799 Speaker 2: I don't know what all y'all was probably very fades 1815 01:23:53,400 --> 01:23:56,240 Speaker 2: and uh, very black stuff. And she just showed up 1816 01:23:56,320 --> 01:23:58,120 Speaker 2: and what was she lost. 1817 01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:00,840 Speaker 3: And almost accident. But I looked at her. 1818 01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:03,200 Speaker 4: She was like because when everybody just looked at her 1819 01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:05,040 Speaker 4: and I looked at her, she was like, she said, 1820 01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:06,479 Speaker 4: the magic word was leslie. 1821 01:24:06,880 --> 01:24:10,400 Speaker 2: That was she knew. So she knew, she knew the 1822 01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:11,840 Speaker 2: so she knew she. 1823 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,360 Speaker 4: Was supposed to be there right because she had problem. 1824 01:24:15,439 --> 01:24:23,320 Speaker 2: Okay, let me start the music back. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 1825 01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:25,599 Speaker 2: I thought it was thought it was an interloper. Go ahead, 1826 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:26,840 Speaker 2: I did do. 1827 01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:29,080 Speaker 3: And then I took her around the corner. I told last, 1828 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:30,600 Speaker 3: I said, lest it's a white woman here for you. 1829 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,120 Speaker 4: I know who that white woman was. And then the 1830 01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:34,800 Speaker 4: rest of the group they were like they were brain 1831 01:24:34,840 --> 01:24:36,880 Speaker 4: and handing it and everybody looked at her, like. 1832 01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:41,400 Speaker 3: What are you doing here? M You know you don't 1833 01:24:41,439 --> 01:24:44,479 Speaker 3: belong here, because the the thing is is that. 1834 01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,840 Speaker 4: For us, it was peaceful like this because we were 1835 01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:53,479 Speaker 4: black and everybody that was black, you could say, nigga 1836 01:24:53,600 --> 01:24:55,599 Speaker 4: made black jokes. We played our music. 1837 01:24:55,920 --> 01:24:58,479 Speaker 3: They were singing along to our music like. 1838 01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:00,680 Speaker 4: Have right. 1839 01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:03,600 Speaker 3: So it was like because even if you would have 1840 01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,519 Speaker 3: had one white person there, it would have changed their 1841 01:25:06,560 --> 01:25:07,440 Speaker 3: whole experience. 1842 01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:11,439 Speaker 2: So they say one white person ruined the whole. 1843 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:15,360 Speaker 3: Bunch, the whole goddamn bunch. So it was all us 1844 01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:18,080 Speaker 3: niggas being niggas and the black people being niggas, and we. 1845 01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:21,120 Speaker 4: Appreciated Q Crew like they were people. So most people 1846 01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:24,880 Speaker 4: talk today property people and had a good time with 1847 01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:25,679 Speaker 4: their property feature. 1848 01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:28,120 Speaker 3: Yes, we played cards and so we had a really 1849 01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:30,800 Speaker 3: good time. But back to the excursions. Uh so we 1850 01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:32,840 Speaker 3: went to the mountains and. 1851 01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 4: Uh that was fun because at first we got to 1852 01:25:37,240 --> 01:25:39,320 Speaker 4: we got top of here that was dancing, so so 1853 01:25:39,560 --> 01:25:42,160 Speaker 4: you see those clips of everybody dancing. And then after 1854 01:25:42,240 --> 01:25:45,559 Speaker 4: that we went on they went went went Bob sledding 1855 01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:46,880 Speaker 4: with Bob sledding. 1856 01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:50,400 Speaker 2: Now, y'all Bob's setting and how does the Bob sled work? 1857 01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,800 Speaker 2: Because I know Bob slid you know on ice and ship, 1858 01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:55,040 Speaker 2: but what was your boss letting on? 1859 01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:57,160 Speaker 4: It was similar to a roller coaster. 1860 01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:00,559 Speaker 2: Okay, but you was actually in the little so it's 1861 01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:01,439 Speaker 2: like tracks or something. 1862 01:26:01,600 --> 01:26:03,479 Speaker 4: Yes, so you were literally on the bops like and 1863 01:26:03,640 --> 01:26:06,320 Speaker 4: you said it in the bob sled not ice is 1864 01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:09,960 Speaker 4: just something No, no, it's it's something different. And so 1865 01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:12,479 Speaker 4: you could either go by yourself or you could link. 1866 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:15,680 Speaker 4: So me and Tia, Me and Tia linked up together, right, 1867 01:26:15,880 --> 01:26:17,439 Speaker 4: and so I was at the front, so I did 1868 01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:20,240 Speaker 4: most of the driving and those things. Guys should go 1869 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:22,320 Speaker 4: pretty fast because you push it forward and you just 1870 01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:25,120 Speaker 4: go and and you were going to left, going to 1871 01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:27,799 Speaker 4: the right, and we had a ball. 1872 01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:31,439 Speaker 3: You went up, you went down. It was literally funk. 1873 01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:32,960 Speaker 4: So that was my first time going bob sled. 1874 01:26:33,120 --> 01:26:35,560 Speaker 2: And then because all black women, you don't have to 1875 01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:39,360 Speaker 2: worry about like the eyes of other people because you're 1876 01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:43,680 Speaker 2: the black place, black staff. And also you don't have 1877 01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:45,960 Speaker 2: to worry about men too, you know, like people can 1878 01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:49,760 Speaker 2: also be more free and not worry about judgment and 1879 01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:51,439 Speaker 2: all that acting differently around men. 1880 01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:57,720 Speaker 4: Right, because uh, it was really free, like you've seen. 1881 01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:02,800 Speaker 4: You had women of all colors, background, body shape sizes, 1882 01:27:03,680 --> 01:27:07,439 Speaker 4: all just being free, all wearing bathing suits all you know, 1883 01:27:07,680 --> 01:27:10,880 Speaker 4: when just like anything they wanted to wear how much 1884 01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:14,040 Speaker 4: or how less they wanted to wear at any given time, 1885 01:27:14,680 --> 01:27:14,960 Speaker 4: And it. 1886 01:27:15,120 --> 01:27:17,599 Speaker 2: Was just really really I guess you do have staff 1887 01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:19,160 Speaker 2: there and stuff, but they're pretty much just that. 1888 01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:21,760 Speaker 4: Assists, right, that that ass a lot of times no 1889 01:27:21,840 --> 01:27:23,439 Speaker 4: matter what you have on and didn't have on, they 1890 01:27:23,479 --> 01:27:25,519 Speaker 4: walk around you and stuff like that anyway, because you know, 1891 01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:26,840 Speaker 4: white folks tbay to come up there and do all 1892 01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:28,200 Speaker 4: kinds of ship and they just kind of just walk 1893 01:27:28,240 --> 01:27:28,720 Speaker 4: around them. 1894 01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:30,880 Speaker 2: So do they like just standing there when it's like 1895 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:33,479 Speaker 2: in the British TV shows and ship when it's time 1896 01:27:33,520 --> 01:27:35,720 Speaker 2: for y'all to get meals? Do they like staying in 1897 01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:37,120 Speaker 2: the room? Like how does that work? 1898 01:27:37,200 --> 01:27:39,280 Speaker 4: You know a lot of times when before dinner you 1899 01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:42,400 Speaker 4: see them coming out start setting up the tables, Like before. 1900 01:27:42,240 --> 01:27:44,960 Speaker 2: Dinner, y'all eat the meals, and they like come and 1901 01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,120 Speaker 2: wait the table or yeah, okay. 1902 01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:49,400 Speaker 3: And literally for the meal. 1903 01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:53,599 Speaker 4: Normally breakfast at your own individual houses, we had all 1904 01:27:53,760 --> 01:27:56,160 Speaker 4: ate lunch together, we would all eat dinner together, okay. 1905 01:27:56,920 --> 01:28:00,679 Speaker 4: And when we would eat lunch and dinner together, the chef, 1906 01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:02,719 Speaker 4: whoever the chef of the house is, because it varies 1907 01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:04,800 Speaker 4: per house, the chef would come and he would tell 1908 01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:07,719 Speaker 4: you what the meal was, like, this is what we're eating, 1909 01:28:07,800 --> 01:28:09,519 Speaker 4: and this is what we're having. And some of the 1910 01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:13,000 Speaker 4: meals were serving courses. So your first like your soup, 1911 01:28:13,000 --> 01:28:15,120 Speaker 4: people tell you what your suit was. Your salad he 1912 01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:17,120 Speaker 4: would come, I tell you what your salad was, your 1913 01:28:17,200 --> 01:28:19,040 Speaker 4: main dish, he would tell you what your main dish was, 1914 01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:21,120 Speaker 4: and then whatever your dessert was, he would tell you 1915 01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:23,600 Speaker 4: what that was. You know sometimes sometimes sometimes it was 1916 01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:25,880 Speaker 4: like a buffet. He would just explain everything at one time, 1917 01:28:25,880 --> 01:28:27,360 Speaker 4: and then you just serve yourself. It just kind of 1918 01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:28,760 Speaker 4: depended on how the meal was set up. 1919 01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:32,519 Speaker 2: Cool, So what was going on in the mountains when 1920 01:28:32,600 --> 01:28:33,240 Speaker 2: I went up there? 1921 01:28:34,120 --> 01:28:37,320 Speaker 4: Oh, it was like I said, and it was more 1922 01:28:37,360 --> 01:28:39,920 Speaker 4: of a once you got up there, like I said, 1923 01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:41,080 Speaker 4: went bob sledding. 1924 01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:42,000 Speaker 3: And then went ziplining. 1925 01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:46,720 Speaker 4: And the ziplining was so a first time ziplining. And 1926 01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:49,200 Speaker 4: the funny part about the ziplining you have to put 1927 01:28:49,280 --> 01:28:52,519 Speaker 4: on all this equipment. So did you get a helmet on? 1928 01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:55,120 Speaker 4: And they got this thing that they strap around your 1929 01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:56,800 Speaker 4: top part, and they got this thing that you put 1930 01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:59,400 Speaker 4: your legs in the strap around your bottom part, and 1931 01:28:59,600 --> 01:29:02,360 Speaker 4: so it's like this bard that kind of hangs in it, 1932 01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,439 Speaker 4: and I know, matter how city, it hangs almost like 1933 01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:07,160 Speaker 4: a penis because it hangs and just flaps and it 1934 01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:11,200 Speaker 4: actually asks its extra weight. So we were just walking well, 1935 01:29:11,479 --> 01:29:13,719 Speaker 4: I know some of us was. We're just walking around 1936 01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,000 Speaker 4: letting it dang and move around, talking to how it was. 1937 01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:18,320 Speaker 4: You know, women, black women could be free and talk 1938 01:29:18,360 --> 01:29:20,040 Speaker 4: about penis freela and not be judged. 1939 01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:23,960 Speaker 2: Right, And so we've seen Girls Trip Care come on 1940 01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,160 Speaker 2: and it was the number one he comedy of twenty seventeen. 1941 01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:29,320 Speaker 3: So it was and it one was funny. 1942 01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:32,200 Speaker 4: Everywhere we went, everybody was like, it's just some black 1943 01:29:32,400 --> 01:29:34,599 Speaker 4: power woman thing going on here. 1944 01:29:34,680 --> 01:29:36,320 Speaker 3: That's what every group they thought. 1945 01:29:36,360 --> 01:29:39,800 Speaker 4: It was all essence, fast right the whole time. And 1946 01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:44,760 Speaker 4: the thing is we would literally randomly if somebody sung 1947 01:29:44,800 --> 01:29:48,160 Speaker 4: a song, everybody would start clapping, no matter where we was, 1948 01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:52,639 Speaker 4: and now you here was somebody would twerk or somebody 1949 01:29:52,680 --> 01:29:53,160 Speaker 4: would drop. 1950 01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,559 Speaker 3: It like it's slow, just randomly, just out the blue. 1951 01:29:56,000 --> 01:29:57,920 Speaker 3: It didn't matter where we were, all were what we 1952 01:29:58,000 --> 01:30:00,840 Speaker 3: were doing. So it was literally a. 1953 01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:03,920 Speaker 4: Very carefree environment. You know a lot of times the 1954 01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:05,519 Speaker 4: staff and where we were at would just look at 1955 01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:06,519 Speaker 4: us and start laughing too. 1956 01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:08,639 Speaker 3: But they knew we were having a good time. 1957 01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:10,960 Speaker 2: And nobody lost their phone, zip line or anything. 1958 01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:12,439 Speaker 3: No, no, no, nobody. 1959 01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:12,560 Speaker 6: No. 1960 01:30:12,680 --> 01:30:16,360 Speaker 4: I I gave myself to Leslie because Leslie went with us, 1961 01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:17,800 Speaker 4: but she did at zipline, so I made sure I 1962 01:30:17,880 --> 01:30:19,880 Speaker 4: gave that stuffing before I went on the zip line. 1963 01:30:21,280 --> 01:30:24,479 Speaker 4: And the zip lining was was fun that we had 1964 01:30:24,520 --> 01:30:26,360 Speaker 4: these two black dudes and they will they will a 1965 01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:29,880 Speaker 4: ball and they explained everything to us. And it was 1966 01:30:29,920 --> 01:30:32,080 Speaker 4: funny though, because when you zipline, you stand up on 1967 01:30:32,120 --> 01:30:35,680 Speaker 4: a box and then they take your your harness thing 1968 01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:37,600 Speaker 4: and then they lift you up a foot, so you 1969 01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:38,320 Speaker 4: ain't ready for that. 1970 01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:40,800 Speaker 3: You be like, oh, so they lift your foot, they they. 1971 01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:43,680 Speaker 4: Kind of click you onto the thing that's going to 1972 01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:46,439 Speaker 4: send you down, and you have this bart that you 1973 01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:48,719 Speaker 4: hold on to and you need to cross your legs 1974 01:30:48,760 --> 01:30:52,720 Speaker 4: and you lean back. So you go okay, and you 1975 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:54,880 Speaker 4: start breathing, especially the first time. Then after a while 1976 01:30:54,960 --> 01:30:57,120 Speaker 4: they they send you off and they let you go. 1977 01:30:57,680 --> 01:31:00,080 Speaker 4: And so then the first time it was like you 1978 01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:01,960 Speaker 4: feel each time it got long and long and longer, 1979 01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:06,120 Speaker 4: right until you're like to the midway point of the mountain. 1980 01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:07,360 Speaker 3: We didn't going down to the bottom. You act the 1981 01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:08,200 Speaker 3: midway point of the mountain. 1982 01:31:08,320 --> 01:31:10,280 Speaker 4: Once you get to the bottom of the zip lining, 1983 01:31:10,360 --> 01:31:11,920 Speaker 4: I think a long it was like almos two hundred feet. 1984 01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:13,880 Speaker 4: It was like the longest slip on one side to 1985 01:31:13,920 --> 01:31:16,120 Speaker 4: the other side, and so each time you would go 1986 01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:18,400 Speaker 4: down and down and down. And what was funny though, 1987 01:31:18,520 --> 01:31:20,599 Speaker 4: was that when you got to the other side, they 1988 01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:22,800 Speaker 4: were like, put your phone box. You're like box, what 1989 01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:25,599 Speaker 4: boxcause because you're like laid back with your legs crossed. 1990 01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:27,680 Speaker 3: So after a while I got used to it. 1991 01:31:27,760 --> 01:31:29,720 Speaker 4: I started looking for the box about the third or 1992 01:31:29,800 --> 01:31:31,680 Speaker 4: about the second or third time. But at first you 1993 01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:33,800 Speaker 4: get to the other side, you're trying to trying to 1994 01:31:33,800 --> 01:31:36,600 Speaker 4: stand up on a box that you can't see. And 1995 01:31:36,960 --> 01:31:38,680 Speaker 4: so while you're going around with me, they had like 1996 01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:40,880 Speaker 4: bridges you went through kind of going up and down, 1997 01:31:40,960 --> 01:31:43,280 Speaker 4: and everybody cheered for everybody because a lot of people 1998 01:31:43,280 --> 01:31:45,560 Speaker 4: are very nervous and very scared of course, you know, 1999 01:31:46,240 --> 01:31:50,200 Speaker 4: so you know, everybody cheered for everybody. We all finished 2000 01:31:51,439 --> 01:31:55,719 Speaker 4: singing around all them big penises. Yes, it was flipping 2001 01:31:55,800 --> 01:32:01,800 Speaker 4: and flopping around all around us. Uh. And once we 2002 01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,439 Speaker 4: got to the bottom, it was literally the halfway point 2003 01:32:04,439 --> 01:32:07,120 Speaker 4: of the mountain. And from there you rode the gondola 2004 01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:07,559 Speaker 4: back down. 2005 01:32:08,160 --> 01:32:10,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So we were riding and. 2006 01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:14,200 Speaker 4: It was hilarious though, uh we had pulled up. It 2007 01:32:14,360 --> 01:32:16,320 Speaker 4: was like a bus full of white people beside us, 2008 01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:20,040 Speaker 4: and the whole bus was like white people, like people, 2009 01:32:20,080 --> 01:32:20,519 Speaker 4: white people. 2010 01:32:22,320 --> 01:32:25,960 Speaker 2: Does that also? Well, here's here's the picture when you 2011 01:32:26,040 --> 01:32:30,920 Speaker 2: cut your legs. Yeah, the car, but it's comes up 2012 01:32:30,960 --> 01:32:34,439 Speaker 2: too bad. There's a picture of the other people in 2013 01:32:34,520 --> 01:32:44,200 Speaker 2: the crew, the some of the black women. I don't 2014 01:32:44,240 --> 01:32:46,080 Speaker 2: know who's talking all the way on the left, you know, 2015 01:32:46,280 --> 01:32:47,600 Speaker 2: with the glasses. Can you say it? 2016 01:32:47,800 --> 01:32:50,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's I want mis pronounce it. 2017 01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:57,000 Speaker 2: Just that's okay, that's. 2018 01:32:57,400 --> 01:32:57,759 Speaker 4: Ashley. 2019 01:32:58,960 --> 01:32:59,160 Speaker 2: Yes. 2020 01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:00,280 Speaker 3: Actually on the. 2021 01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:05,240 Speaker 2: Other side, oh okay, okay, cool, that's me drinking. 2022 01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:08,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of drinking happening, a whole lot of drinking. 2023 01:33:08,400 --> 01:33:11,040 Speaker 4: That's how some strawberry I just told, I said strawberry, 2024 01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:15,000 Speaker 4: I said, my full fledged white woman. 2025 01:33:17,040 --> 01:33:17,280 Speaker 2: Yes. 2026 01:33:18,360 --> 01:33:18,599 Speaker 10: Yes. 2027 01:33:21,360 --> 01:33:24,040 Speaker 2: So also was that? So was that it for the 2028 01:33:24,120 --> 01:33:26,000 Speaker 2: mountain that y'all went out the way up and came 2029 01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:26,639 Speaker 2: all the way down. 2030 01:33:26,920 --> 01:33:28,800 Speaker 3: Yes? And then later on we had like a game 2031 01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:35,759 Speaker 3: night and we played one of them black card games. 2032 01:33:35,920 --> 01:33:37,360 Speaker 3: I forgot the name of one of. 2033 01:33:37,360 --> 01:33:41,760 Speaker 4: The card games where I never played it before, but 2034 01:33:41,880 --> 01:33:45,040 Speaker 4: I prayed about it. Oh, black card Revote, Black car Revote. 2035 01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:47,479 Speaker 2: Yet is making an actual TV show out of it? 2036 01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:50,360 Speaker 3: I've never had played it before, but that that was a. 2037 01:33:52,080 --> 01:33:55,280 Speaker 4: A whole lot of fun. Oh this was so you 2038 01:33:55,320 --> 01:33:58,240 Speaker 4: can hear the music outside of my room. We was 2039 01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:01,680 Speaker 4: playing the music and I think you're this was like 2040 01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:03,640 Speaker 4: the first or the second night. Yeah, second night we 2041 01:34:03,760 --> 01:34:04,000 Speaker 4: was there. 2042 01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:09,280 Speaker 3: Uh uh, somebody has said that. 2043 01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:12,240 Speaker 4: You know how you're talking about? You be a thought leader? Right? 2044 01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:15,200 Speaker 3: Yes, and they was. And somebody asked her, did you 2045 01:34:15,280 --> 01:34:16,960 Speaker 3: you mean thought leader or thought leader? 2046 01:34:18,160 --> 01:34:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, this is a this is what is 2047 01:34:21,960 --> 01:34:22,519 Speaker 2: this water. 2048 01:34:23,960 --> 01:34:24,719 Speaker 4: Up in the mountains? 2049 01:34:25,360 --> 01:34:34,000 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's beautiful, aren't that beautiful? I'm sorry? So 2050 01:34:34,160 --> 01:34:35,280 Speaker 2: thought leader or thought leader? 2051 01:34:35,400 --> 01:34:35,559 Speaker 6: Yeah? 2052 01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:37,639 Speaker 3: And she said, bitch, I'm both. 2053 01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:44,759 Speaker 4: And for a full fledged five minutes, everybody tried classic 2054 01:34:44,920 --> 01:34:48,719 Speaker 4: get time both, bet down both, bet Ti both. 2055 01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:51,040 Speaker 3: And the funny part about it is that the chef 2056 01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:51,519 Speaker 3: came out. 2057 01:34:51,760 --> 01:34:53,920 Speaker 4: So you had the chef standing there and like the 2058 01:34:53,960 --> 01:34:56,120 Speaker 4: people standing all around us waiting to give us our food, 2059 01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:58,360 Speaker 4: and they literally waited while we by the whole table 2060 01:34:58,680 --> 01:35:02,600 Speaker 4: clapped for five minutes, a hollering bitch on both for 2061 01:35:02,760 --> 01:35:04,840 Speaker 4: five minutes, Black Girl Magic, just. 2062 01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:09,400 Speaker 3: Loud, just having a good time, and like the whole time. 2063 01:35:09,479 --> 01:35:12,120 Speaker 4: You know, I love music, so the whole time we 2064 01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:15,640 Speaker 4: were eating you hip cardy b would bust out all 2065 01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:19,400 Speaker 4: your ratchet music would busts out like we were getting crunk, 2066 01:35:19,960 --> 01:35:21,880 Speaker 4: like the whole time, because you know, you get the 2067 01:35:21,960 --> 01:35:23,080 Speaker 4: music throughout the whole house. 2068 01:35:23,640 --> 01:35:26,080 Speaker 3: So it was a lot of dancing and random twerking. 2069 01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:27,200 Speaker 3: It was so much fun. 2070 01:35:27,360 --> 01:35:28,880 Speaker 2: And there is this where y'all were dancing at the 2071 01:35:28,920 --> 01:35:32,200 Speaker 2: Mountain Resort. Yes, and that's Tia, yeah getting it, I 2072 01:35:32,280 --> 01:35:36,080 Speaker 2: think till I think Tia is Jamaican. Right, this is daking. 2073 01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:38,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, let us know. Yeah, I don't want 2074 01:35:38,760 --> 01:35:39,839 Speaker 2: to say the wrong. 2075 01:35:39,680 --> 01:35:40,200 Speaker 3: Thing, but. 2076 01:35:41,920 --> 01:35:44,040 Speaker 2: But yeah, y'all also have videos of y'all dancing too. 2077 01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:45,639 Speaker 2: Wait oh that was a video that was a pature. 2078 01:35:45,640 --> 01:35:47,960 Speaker 2: I don't remember, But y'all have videos of y'all dancing too, 2079 01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:50,240 Speaker 2: and uh, you could tell the dancers was getting their 2080 01:35:50,280 --> 01:35:57,800 Speaker 2: life too. Yeah, of course it's in the video. Sorry, 2081 01:35:57,840 --> 01:36:02,400 Speaker 2: excuse all right, Well that's cool, but everybody was getting it. 2082 01:36:03,479 --> 01:36:06,519 Speaker 2: I enjoyed watching y'all dance man, and you can tell, 2083 01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:08,200 Speaker 2: like I said, you can see the dances was like 2084 01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:08,800 Speaker 2: into it. 2085 01:36:09,360 --> 01:36:12,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, because they enjoyed us and we enjoyed them, and 2086 01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:14,600 Speaker 3: it was like that connection. 2087 01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:18,880 Speaker 4: Right, you know, the whole trip. 2088 01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:21,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it was almost like my people, if 2089 01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:22,320 Speaker 3: that makes sense. 2090 01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:25,120 Speaker 2: I'm sure they thought the same thing. I mean, even 2091 01:36:25,160 --> 01:36:27,920 Speaker 2: though we all across the dash where, like you know, 2092 01:36:28,080 --> 01:36:31,120 Speaker 2: blackness still has its universal thing. Like I think so 2093 01:36:31,280 --> 01:36:34,519 Speaker 2: much shit and white supremacy has done to particularly divide us, 2094 01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:37,240 Speaker 2: you know, to make us feel like we're not connected, 2095 01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:40,160 Speaker 2: But I don't know that connection you see another black 2096 01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:44,880 Speaker 2: face somewhere. It's unspoken, but it always exists. It's like 2097 01:36:44,960 --> 01:36:48,639 Speaker 2: the force, you know. I think in a way, that's 2098 01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:51,600 Speaker 2: why we do feel so angered when somebody sort of 2099 01:36:51,680 --> 01:36:54,840 Speaker 2: breaks ranks, you know what I mean, when like it's 2100 01:36:54,880 --> 01:36:58,120 Speaker 2: a heightened level of anger when it's like, wow, you 2101 01:36:58,200 --> 01:36:59,960 Speaker 2: don't agree with me, or you're not on my side 2102 01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:02,960 Speaker 2: on this or whatever, because we do expect it, whether 2103 01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:06,200 Speaker 2: it's reasonable or unreasonable. But that's also why we I 2104 01:37:06,280 --> 01:37:08,920 Speaker 2: think it's kind of a universal love of like, hey, 2105 01:37:09,320 --> 01:37:40,280 Speaker 2: like my people, like you said, so that that's just 2106 01:37:40,400 --> 01:37:42,920 Speaker 2: some of the dancing I saw you got up there 2107 01:37:42,960 --> 01:37:43,920 Speaker 2: and did some dancing too. 2108 01:37:44,120 --> 01:37:47,559 Speaker 4: Yeah I did, Yes, Me and Steven Universe was getting 2109 01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:49,280 Speaker 4: I was like, I came to get my white woman 2110 01:37:49,280 --> 01:37:49,719 Speaker 4: in life. 2111 01:37:59,600 --> 01:38:02,200 Speaker 2: I don't know eyePhone like that, but yeah, you was 2112 01:38:02,240 --> 01:38:02,800 Speaker 2: getting it too. 2113 01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:06,439 Speaker 4: Yes, and oh. 2114 01:38:06,960 --> 01:38:19,439 Speaker 2: Okay, I guess that go Caring, Go Caring, go car. 2115 01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:48,240 Speaker 4: So that like everybody get a turn or oh some 2116 01:38:48,360 --> 01:38:52,640 Speaker 4: people didn't want to, but I did want to go 2117 01:38:52,880 --> 01:38:55,760 Speaker 4: because I was like, when would there would be a 2118 01:38:55,880 --> 01:38:57,799 Speaker 4: time that I would. 2119 01:38:57,600 --> 01:38:59,000 Speaker 3: Ever get to do this again. 2120 01:38:59,439 --> 01:39:02,120 Speaker 2: But that's the other thing too. From my understanding, Leslie 2121 01:39:02,160 --> 01:39:04,960 Speaker 2: didn't like force anybody that because like sometimes people can 2122 01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:08,040 Speaker 2: turn on vacation from organizing, they can kind of turn 2123 01:39:08,080 --> 01:39:11,840 Speaker 2: into like a negative experience for certain people because there's 2124 01:39:11,840 --> 01:39:13,760 Speaker 2: different types of people that need to be made consideration 2125 01:39:13,880 --> 01:39:16,200 Speaker 2: for that. Right now, everybody's gonna want to do every activity. 2126 01:39:16,240 --> 01:39:18,360 Speaker 2: Some people probably just want to stay in their room, chill. 2127 01:39:19,400 --> 01:39:21,679 Speaker 2: I want to just read on the beach, Like everybody 2128 01:39:21,840 --> 01:39:25,320 Speaker 2: is different. But that's dope playing in and dope organizing 2129 01:39:25,360 --> 01:39:28,280 Speaker 2: to allow people to have like their different experiences. 2130 01:39:28,520 --> 01:39:32,559 Speaker 4: You know, everything was optional. You know, some people went 2131 01:39:32,560 --> 01:39:35,040 Speaker 4: on like me went on everything. Some people kind of 2132 01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:36,519 Speaker 4: picked and choose what they wanted. 2133 01:39:36,320 --> 01:39:39,320 Speaker 2: To do, right, I know we almost had the break. 2134 01:39:41,040 --> 01:39:42,760 Speaker 2: Let me go to the next section. I will be 2135 01:39:42,880 --> 01:39:46,000 Speaker 2: right back, guys. Let me turn this up for the 2136 01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:51,519 Speaker 2: for the people on the podcast though, y'all getting upon. 2137 01:40:11,840 --> 01:40:17,560 Speaker 7: Oh yeah I got that? Yeah, oh yeah, got that? 2138 01:40:19,200 --> 01:40:19,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 2139 01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:20,840 Speaker 5: Sating my sleep? 2140 01:40:21,520 --> 01:40:27,240 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, got that? Yeah, oh yeah, got that? 2141 01:40:28,920 --> 01:40:29,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 2142 01:40:33,800 --> 01:40:41,599 Speaker 2: All right, we'll star war Karen get back in, guys. 2143 01:40:44,320 --> 01:40:49,559 Speaker 2: All right, so we have got to the mountain. Y'all 2144 01:40:49,640 --> 01:40:54,639 Speaker 2: did the dancing? Y'all come back? Y'all play game night? 2145 01:40:55,040 --> 01:40:59,679 Speaker 2: Yes you get your Black Carver vote? I'm assuming yes, yes, 2146 01:41:01,080 --> 01:41:03,040 Speaker 2: who won black car roke? How do you even win 2147 01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:05,120 Speaker 2: black car roke? You just don't get your car pulled? 2148 01:41:06,479 --> 01:41:08,800 Speaker 3: Is that is that the I don't think it was 2149 01:41:08,840 --> 01:41:09,320 Speaker 3: like a winner? 2150 01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:14,000 Speaker 2: Okay? Oh wait, I've been to share my screen again, 2151 01:41:14,080 --> 01:41:17,760 Speaker 2: so y'all can see Karen going through the mountains on 2152 01:41:17,840 --> 01:41:23,960 Speaker 2: the zip line. Okay, babies, once up, ladies. 2153 01:41:25,800 --> 01:41:27,000 Speaker 3: This is so beautiful. 2154 01:41:28,479 --> 01:41:29,000 Speaker 4: This is them? 2155 01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:29,479 Speaker 9: Now? 2156 01:41:29,520 --> 01:41:31,479 Speaker 2: What's this the gondola that y'all took up? 2157 01:41:32,200 --> 01:41:40,439 Speaker 4: Okay, no, just randomly talking. 2158 01:41:40,640 --> 01:41:49,360 Speaker 2: Black people were so great? Oh hold on, I gotta 2159 01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:54,920 Speaker 2: find some more black people. Uh to making music. All right, 2160 01:41:55,080 --> 01:42:00,600 Speaker 2: so you play Black Car Game night, y'all Space and 2161 01:42:00,640 --> 01:42:02,320 Speaker 2: game night of y'all playing Space every night? 2162 01:42:03,640 --> 01:42:05,760 Speaker 3: Well, I know I on to play Space one night. 2163 01:42:05,800 --> 01:42:10,600 Speaker 2: So more than that, they got a hammock times, you know, 2164 01:42:11,160 --> 01:42:12,880 Speaker 2: or the hamhocks and the hammock. 2165 01:42:14,120 --> 01:42:14,280 Speaker 4: Uh. 2166 01:42:18,120 --> 01:42:22,160 Speaker 2: Oh, let's see what else you got. Okay, that's the 2167 01:42:22,240 --> 01:42:23,519 Speaker 2: clipp of you dancing again. 2168 01:42:24,640 --> 01:42:25,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, some of some of them. 2169 01:42:27,280 --> 01:42:30,840 Speaker 2: Uh So then let me see the next day. Was 2170 01:42:30,880 --> 01:42:37,120 Speaker 2: that the one where y'all went to the the Maroon Village? Okay, yeah, 2171 01:42:37,240 --> 01:42:39,679 Speaker 2: tell everybody about the Maroon Village and who the Maroons 2172 01:42:39,680 --> 01:42:40,240 Speaker 2: are and stuff. 2173 01:42:40,800 --> 01:42:44,320 Speaker 3: The Maroon Village. That that that was an an awesome trip. 2174 01:42:45,040 --> 01:42:47,360 Speaker 3: When we went to the Maroon village. 2175 01:42:48,439 --> 01:42:53,280 Speaker 4: The Maroon Maroons of people that actually uh was renting 2176 01:42:53,320 --> 01:42:56,080 Speaker 4: away from the British and ran up into the mountains 2177 01:42:57,400 --> 01:43:00,720 Speaker 4: and that's where they lived. And they actually have like 2178 01:43:00,920 --> 01:43:02,519 Speaker 4: spots all up in the mountains. 2179 01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:08,160 Speaker 2: And the thing isntains run away from the British white folks. 2180 01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:11,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, they wanted to capture and make them slaves, and 2181 01:43:11,240 --> 01:43:13,160 Speaker 4: the white people were afraid to go up into the mountains. 2182 01:43:14,439 --> 01:43:16,559 Speaker 4: And so when they got up into the mountains, that's 2183 01:43:16,560 --> 01:43:18,439 Speaker 4: where they stayed, they actually came. They would actually come 2184 01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:21,040 Speaker 4: down and rescue other people and bring them up into 2185 01:43:21,080 --> 01:43:21,559 Speaker 4: the mountains. 2186 01:43:21,680 --> 01:43:22,599 Speaker 2: Oh so that's. 2187 01:43:23,960 --> 01:43:25,960 Speaker 4: Right, because the white people afraid of the mountains, and 2188 01:43:26,040 --> 01:43:28,720 Speaker 4: the only way they could track them they actually had 2189 01:43:28,800 --> 01:43:30,840 Speaker 4: to bring pound dogs from Britain. 2190 01:43:32,200 --> 01:43:33,639 Speaker 3: That would always take a long time. 2191 01:43:34,400 --> 01:43:38,360 Speaker 4: And because they had the advantage of the mountains, a 2192 01:43:38,439 --> 01:43:40,200 Speaker 4: lot of times they could see the ships coming. 2193 01:43:40,920 --> 01:43:43,799 Speaker 3: They could see the crew coming like from a distance 2194 01:43:43,840 --> 01:43:46,360 Speaker 3: because I'm so high up. So they had an advantage 2195 01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:47,120 Speaker 3: of a lot of stuff. 2196 01:43:47,880 --> 01:43:53,360 Speaker 4: And also you know the mountains, I mean the mountains, 2197 01:43:53,439 --> 01:43:55,240 Speaker 4: you know, they can get wet and things like that 2198 01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:56,720 Speaker 4: and muggy and so. 2199 01:43:57,120 --> 01:44:00,679 Speaker 3: A lot of their weapons were like swords and things 2200 01:44:00,760 --> 01:44:00,960 Speaker 3: like that. 2201 01:44:01,160 --> 01:44:03,960 Speaker 4: So a lot of times by the time they pull 2202 01:44:04,000 --> 01:44:05,960 Speaker 4: out their power and stuff they putting them jumped out 2203 01:44:06,000 --> 01:44:08,240 Speaker 4: the trees and stab people, chopped. 2204 01:44:08,040 --> 01:44:08,720 Speaker 3: Them and cut their heads. 2205 01:44:08,840 --> 01:44:12,799 Speaker 2: You know them British man, they do not understand gorilla warfare. 2206 01:44:14,000 --> 01:44:15,200 Speaker 3: Machete I'm sorry, machetes. 2207 01:44:15,400 --> 01:44:17,599 Speaker 2: Machetes, Yeah, yeah, I mean machete. 2208 01:44:17,720 --> 01:44:17,880 Speaker 4: Damn. 2209 01:44:17,920 --> 01:44:21,080 Speaker 2: It's basically a sort you know, all the Jamaican's using 2210 01:44:21,160 --> 01:44:24,040 Speaker 2: machete coldly, like the motherfuckers slapt you at the side 2211 01:44:24,080 --> 01:44:25,840 Speaker 2: of the machete and ship like they they were there, 2212 01:44:27,160 --> 01:44:31,880 Speaker 2: like but uh they And I think also, I think 2213 01:44:31,920 --> 01:44:35,000 Speaker 2: they be calling it a cutlass too. They'll be like 2214 01:44:36,080 --> 01:44:38,960 Speaker 2: cutless uh or maybe that's my boy from Trinidad, but 2215 01:44:39,080 --> 01:44:41,240 Speaker 2: that niggas always talk about getting this cutless. I was like, 2216 01:44:41,360 --> 01:44:45,680 Speaker 2: the fuck is a cutlass nigga machete? Like, I mean, 2217 01:44:45,880 --> 01:44:51,360 Speaker 2: please don't. But yeah. So in the village, they have 2218 01:44:51,520 --> 01:44:54,320 Speaker 2: like a bunch of pictures of their history, like it's 2219 01:44:54,439 --> 01:44:59,439 Speaker 2: very beautiful. It's very like, it's painted very educational, very. 2220 01:44:59,439 --> 01:45:08,120 Speaker 4: Very educating, a really really rich history for detailed history. 2221 01:45:08,520 --> 01:45:10,160 Speaker 2: So did I spend a lot of time learning y'all? 2222 01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:12,040 Speaker 2: Just touring and walking. 2223 01:45:11,760 --> 01:45:13,120 Speaker 4: Around like we toured. 2224 01:45:14,479 --> 01:45:17,200 Speaker 3: After we toured, and we went and literally did some 2225 01:45:17,320 --> 01:45:19,000 Speaker 3: more dancing. You know. 2226 01:45:19,120 --> 01:45:20,600 Speaker 4: That was a little longer. You might not want to 2227 01:45:20,600 --> 01:45:20,800 Speaker 4: put it. 2228 01:45:21,200 --> 01:45:22,439 Speaker 2: I saw that club. Yeah yeah, that was. 2229 01:45:24,200 --> 01:45:26,920 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's no yeah yeah, that's because I won't 2230 01:45:26,960 --> 01:45:28,559 Speaker 4: depend the whole thing, right. Uh. 2231 01:45:28,720 --> 01:45:32,360 Speaker 3: The people had a lot of stamina, a lot of stamina. 2232 01:45:32,560 --> 01:45:35,280 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I forgot. They operate outside of the Jamaican 2233 01:45:35,320 --> 01:45:36,479 Speaker 4: government still to the day. 2234 01:45:37,120 --> 01:45:40,519 Speaker 2: Oh wow, So the Maroons are still their separate government. 2235 01:45:40,560 --> 01:45:43,360 Speaker 4: They don't run underneath this thing. They they are their 2236 01:45:43,400 --> 01:45:46,240 Speaker 4: own separate entity, you know, even to today. 2237 01:45:46,960 --> 01:45:49,720 Speaker 2: Wow. So they had their own laws and stuff too. 2238 01:45:50,960 --> 01:45:53,800 Speaker 4: By and they go by, this is cool. 2239 01:45:53,840 --> 01:45:55,559 Speaker 2: What is this from the like a gep or something. 2240 01:45:56,120 --> 01:45:57,600 Speaker 4: No, just right here, no, just right here is like 2241 01:45:57,640 --> 01:45:59,280 Speaker 4: the front where you're going in, and it lily tells 2242 01:45:59,360 --> 01:46:04,000 Speaker 4: like the history of their people and the background they're 2243 01:46:04,040 --> 01:46:09,280 Speaker 4: running away and you know how h you know, because 2244 01:46:09,280 --> 01:46:11,360 Speaker 4: they would be down in the bottom of the boat 2245 01:46:11,760 --> 01:46:13,479 Speaker 4: and they would talk about like you go up the ladder, 2246 01:46:13,680 --> 01:46:15,040 Speaker 4: and when a lot of people went up the ladder, 2247 01:46:15,080 --> 01:46:18,240 Speaker 4: they died, you know. So they had like a ladder 2248 01:46:18,240 --> 01:46:19,560 Speaker 4: and all that stuff. When some people went up the 2249 01:46:19,640 --> 01:46:22,880 Speaker 4: ladder that actually lived ladder to the mountains or the 2250 01:46:23,080 --> 01:46:25,400 Speaker 4: other ship so on, there used to like puture of 2251 01:46:25,400 --> 01:46:26,840 Speaker 4: a ladder. And you know, for a lot of them 2252 01:46:26,880 --> 01:46:28,439 Speaker 4: when people went up the ladder, they normally went up 2253 01:46:28,439 --> 01:46:29,840 Speaker 4: the ladder, they would push them off. 2254 01:46:30,320 --> 01:46:30,760 Speaker 3: Kill them. 2255 01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:34,320 Speaker 4: What she had us do is that she had us 2256 01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:38,479 Speaker 4: stand side by side, like staying side by side. She 2257 01:46:38,560 --> 01:46:41,560 Speaker 4: had us put our ankles and feet together. Then she 2258 01:46:41,640 --> 01:46:43,800 Speaker 4: had us locked like kind of kind of lock arms, 2259 01:46:44,400 --> 01:46:47,200 Speaker 4: and then we was in in one long line and 2260 01:46:47,720 --> 01:46:50,439 Speaker 4: we had to move in unison and that was very 2261 01:46:50,479 --> 01:46:52,600 Speaker 4: difficult to do because she was you know, because they 2262 01:46:52,640 --> 01:46:55,000 Speaker 4: were talking about yea, I think some of these people 2263 01:46:55,000 --> 01:46:58,160 Speaker 4: didn't need speak same language, right, you know, they didn't 2264 01:46:58,160 --> 01:47:01,000 Speaker 4: even speak you know, different backgrounds. 2265 01:47:00,520 --> 01:47:04,680 Speaker 2: Is you know, not all black people from the same place, right, 2266 01:47:04,880 --> 01:47:05,600 Speaker 2: So it. 2267 01:47:06,680 --> 01:47:10,720 Speaker 4: Made me understand how difficult it was for them to 2268 01:47:10,720 --> 01:47:13,000 Speaker 4: actually walk around and move around and if you know, 2269 01:47:13,160 --> 01:47:15,160 Speaker 4: and sometimes if one person died, they would throw the 2270 01:47:15,200 --> 01:47:18,760 Speaker 4: whole chain out right, you know, so you know, in 2271 01:47:18,920 --> 01:47:20,760 Speaker 4: one of the things where one person go off, the 2272 01:47:20,840 --> 01:47:23,439 Speaker 4: whole crew goes off, and you know, things like that 2273 01:47:23,600 --> 01:47:26,960 Speaker 4: where it just makes you get a better understanding. 2274 01:47:27,120 --> 01:47:28,880 Speaker 2: That's why I like learning that kind of stuff, because 2275 01:47:28,880 --> 01:47:31,200 Speaker 2: we superheroes. Man, we're not supposed to be here, like 2276 01:47:31,400 --> 01:47:36,759 Speaker 2: fuck Marvel, fuck DC, fuck Captain America. Like to even exist, 2277 01:47:37,000 --> 01:47:40,240 Speaker 2: we had to be superhuman, you know, and at the 2278 01:47:40,280 --> 01:47:43,640 Speaker 2: same time we're still just human, but still like the 2279 01:47:43,760 --> 01:47:46,439 Speaker 2: things that people had to go through to still be here, 2280 01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:49,559 Speaker 2: like that's crazy, you know, the odds of even making 2281 01:47:49,640 --> 01:47:51,679 Speaker 2: it out of that continue to have a legacy having 2282 01:47:51,800 --> 01:47:55,000 Speaker 2: children generations later. Like when people say that we the 2283 01:47:55,080 --> 01:47:58,840 Speaker 2: dreams of slaves and our ancestors and not dead people 2284 01:47:59,040 --> 01:48:01,680 Speaker 2: like that shit is real, you know, don't waste your 2285 01:48:01,720 --> 01:48:05,800 Speaker 2: time here. But what was this You were talking about 2286 01:48:06,120 --> 01:48:27,200 Speaker 2: ways of communication for other villages. Yeah, so it's like 2287 01:48:27,240 --> 01:48:29,680 Speaker 2: an instrument that he played and they use it. They 2288 01:48:29,760 --> 01:48:31,920 Speaker 2: used that to communicate with other villages too in. 2289 01:48:31,920 --> 01:48:33,960 Speaker 4: The mountains, like if a baby below one, if somebody 2290 01:48:34,040 --> 01:48:37,479 Speaker 4: got married, if there was danger, if somebody was coming. 2291 01:48:37,800 --> 01:48:40,360 Speaker 4: Like that's how they would communicate with each other throughout 2292 01:48:40,360 --> 01:48:42,439 Speaker 4: the mountains because they would, you know, have varying groups 2293 01:48:42,479 --> 01:48:45,080 Speaker 4: of throughout the mountains. And I think the next one yep, 2294 01:48:45,240 --> 01:48:47,920 Speaker 4: And this is actually a picture of Jamaica and you 2295 01:48:48,040 --> 01:48:52,200 Speaker 4: like the little white flags are where some of their. 2296 01:48:52,200 --> 01:48:56,120 Speaker 3: Villages are, you know, up in the mountains. Wow, and 2297 01:48:56,200 --> 01:48:57,120 Speaker 3: you I'm amazed. 2298 01:48:57,600 --> 01:48:59,320 Speaker 2: And they still live there to this day and everything 2299 01:49:00,080 --> 01:49:00,439 Speaker 2: to today. 2300 01:49:01,880 --> 01:49:04,600 Speaker 4: And this is like some of the equipment that they 2301 01:49:04,840 --> 01:49:08,400 Speaker 4: used and and the tools that they used to do 2302 01:49:08,560 --> 01:49:09,559 Speaker 4: various different things. 2303 01:49:12,080 --> 01:49:17,000 Speaker 2: That's dope. What'd y'all do that night after the maroons before. 2304 01:49:16,760 --> 01:49:19,240 Speaker 4: We left, the after we danced and stuff we actually 2305 01:49:19,280 --> 01:49:22,880 Speaker 4: had and uh no with that, like an official meal 2306 01:49:23,560 --> 01:49:26,200 Speaker 4: like a maroon meal and Oh my god. 2307 01:49:26,120 --> 01:49:27,840 Speaker 2: That looked so good. I saw that. 2308 01:49:29,320 --> 01:49:30,400 Speaker 4: It was rice, and I don't know. 2309 01:49:30,400 --> 01:49:32,519 Speaker 3: What they did to the vegetables. The vegetables literally tastes 2310 01:49:32,520 --> 01:49:34,920 Speaker 3: like meat, Like you literally felt like you were eat 2311 01:49:35,000 --> 01:49:37,240 Speaker 3: no meat. It was so good. 2312 01:49:37,360 --> 01:49:40,040 Speaker 4: And then they gave us like cocaut coconut whatter doll. 2313 01:49:40,080 --> 01:49:41,320 Speaker 4: They gave us like coconut water. 2314 01:49:42,000 --> 01:49:42,560 Speaker 2: The meal was. 2315 01:49:42,800 --> 01:49:45,120 Speaker 3: I don't know what they did with the rice, but 2316 01:49:45,280 --> 01:49:48,519 Speaker 3: the rice you literally could like dip your hands in it. 2317 01:49:48,640 --> 01:49:51,120 Speaker 4: And like eat the whole thing. It was out. 2318 01:49:51,360 --> 01:49:52,599 Speaker 2: What's that with? Just money right here? 2319 01:49:52,840 --> 01:49:57,080 Speaker 4: It's like from Ghana And this was she showed us 2320 01:49:57,080 --> 01:50:00,680 Speaker 4: the different money, uh that they used over the Some 2321 01:50:00,800 --> 01:50:02,400 Speaker 4: of that money they don't even used no more. 2322 01:50:03,160 --> 01:50:05,759 Speaker 3: But she was just showing us the various different currencies. 2323 01:50:06,880 --> 01:50:11,320 Speaker 2: Okay, ten shillings, oh boy, he took that went way back. 2324 01:50:11,600 --> 01:50:13,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's some of that don't use no more. 2325 01:50:13,920 --> 01:50:15,639 Speaker 2: They still made rum up in the woods. 2326 01:50:17,280 --> 01:50:17,680 Speaker 4: That was room. 2327 01:50:17,800 --> 01:50:19,479 Speaker 3: She was telling us how they would would come off 2328 01:50:19,560 --> 01:50:19,840 Speaker 3: the top. 2329 01:50:20,439 --> 01:50:22,439 Speaker 2: And these are the clothes and stuff they made from, 2330 01:50:22,520 --> 01:50:29,519 Speaker 2: like different strolls and shoes. Yeah, that's dope, man, Like 2331 01:50:29,600 --> 01:50:31,840 Speaker 2: I said, this is ship. I know, ain't nobody learned 2332 01:50:31,920 --> 01:50:35,880 Speaker 2: in the classroom and not America not not less. It's 2333 01:50:35,920 --> 01:50:37,679 Speaker 2: like some type of special college class. 2334 01:50:38,120 --> 01:50:38,240 Speaker 4: Right. 2335 01:50:38,320 --> 01:50:40,439 Speaker 3: So that right there is more to like about the 2336 01:50:40,600 --> 01:50:41,760 Speaker 3: history of them and things like that. 2337 01:50:41,840 --> 01:50:44,479 Speaker 4: And one of the now this right here is kind 2338 01:50:44,520 --> 01:50:47,080 Speaker 4: of important to me because these are some of the 2339 01:50:47,240 --> 01:50:48,439 Speaker 4: common last names. 2340 01:50:48,880 --> 01:50:52,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, they had. Karen took a picture of a sign 2341 01:50:52,680 --> 01:50:56,599 Speaker 2: they have of people. You may have Maroon ancestry if 2342 01:50:56,640 --> 01:51:04,479 Speaker 2: you have these last names Anderson, Bernard, Brown, Burke, Crawford, Dean's, Douglas, Downer, Ireland, McFarland, Patterson, 2343 01:51:04,560 --> 01:51:11,360 Speaker 2: Price with a with a wif, Paisley, Phillips, Roberts, Robinson, Sterling, Sutherland, Valentine, 2344 01:51:11,520 --> 01:51:16,360 Speaker 2: and Thompson. So you may have you may have this 2345 01:51:16,479 --> 01:51:18,400 Speaker 2: connection in your life and you may not even know it. 2346 01:51:18,680 --> 01:51:23,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and uh, come to find out. Ronnie was saying that, 2347 01:51:23,840 --> 01:51:25,400 Speaker 4: you know, she was kind of such in her history. 2348 01:51:25,560 --> 01:51:27,120 Speaker 4: He said, you come to find out there was some 2349 01:51:27,160 --> 01:51:29,960 Speaker 4: removes actually made it to America. They was down in Louisiana. 2350 01:51:31,240 --> 01:51:34,360 Speaker 2: I can imagine man like especially in order to live 2351 01:51:35,200 --> 01:51:41,599 Speaker 2: you know. So yeah, well, so y'all had the meal there, 2352 01:51:42,680 --> 01:51:44,559 Speaker 2: So does that take So when y'all have that meal, 2353 01:51:44,640 --> 01:51:46,280 Speaker 2: does that mean, when y'all get back to the villa, 2354 01:51:46,400 --> 01:51:48,439 Speaker 2: that's the meal, y'all. Y'all don't have to work, like 2355 01:51:48,520 --> 01:51:52,559 Speaker 2: y'all don't eat that meal. Okay, I was gonna say. 2356 01:51:52,680 --> 01:51:55,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, we were small. And after we danced at of 2357 01:51:55,840 --> 01:51:57,439 Speaker 4: stuff we did, we went to the river. My first 2358 01:51:57,479 --> 01:51:59,080 Speaker 4: time actually in the river. I've seen the river, but 2359 01:51:59,120 --> 01:52:00,200 Speaker 4: I've never been in the river. 2360 01:52:00,560 --> 01:52:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's where y'all were dancing at the waterfall, and 2361 01:52:03,320 --> 01:52:05,200 Speaker 2: y'all take the pictures as a different day that that. 2362 01:52:05,479 --> 01:52:07,439 Speaker 3: Was the mountains, which oh okay, So we moved to 2363 01:52:07,520 --> 01:52:08,439 Speaker 3: the Mystic Mountains. 2364 01:52:08,920 --> 01:52:10,120 Speaker 2: So y'all went in the river. 2365 01:52:10,400 --> 01:52:12,120 Speaker 3: It's like actually physically in the river. 2366 01:52:12,400 --> 01:52:12,679 Speaker 2: Wow. 2367 01:52:12,800 --> 01:52:15,320 Speaker 4: And we went up the rocks and the water felt 2368 01:52:15,600 --> 01:52:18,800 Speaker 4: so good. So we actually was in the river moving 2369 01:52:18,880 --> 01:52:22,000 Speaker 4: around and trucked in the river, and you know, the 2370 01:52:22,080 --> 01:52:24,120 Speaker 4: swimmers would tell you, ay, don't come out, but so 2371 01:52:24,280 --> 01:52:25,800 Speaker 4: far you know, they were like, hey, you don't want 2372 01:52:25,800 --> 01:52:27,200 Speaker 4: to come out this far because the water moved and 2373 01:52:27,240 --> 01:52:29,280 Speaker 4: stuff like that. So I stayed closer towards the edge. 2374 01:52:29,479 --> 01:52:31,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And so we actually. 2375 01:52:31,360 --> 01:52:33,400 Speaker 4: Went up like there was rocks and stuff. We climbed 2376 01:52:33,439 --> 01:52:34,880 Speaker 4: up the rocks and sat and stuff like that. We 2377 01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:37,000 Speaker 4: had a great time. Then after that we got on 2378 01:52:37,080 --> 01:52:37,479 Speaker 4: the bus. 2379 01:52:37,439 --> 01:52:40,360 Speaker 2: And headed back cool. Here's some carling. 2380 01:52:44,680 --> 01:52:52,920 Speaker 4: Oh I know, something in the water. 2381 01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:58,000 Speaker 2: So somebody was old. But that's how somebody holding the 2382 01:52:58,080 --> 01:53:01,439 Speaker 2: camera for you. Ja Oh okay, Jasmine was the m 2383 01:53:01,560 --> 01:53:01,760 Speaker 2: v P. 2384 01:53:03,600 --> 01:53:05,080 Speaker 4: Yeah she was. That's that. 2385 01:53:05,360 --> 01:53:07,320 Speaker 2: That's the meal that looks so good. 2386 01:53:07,640 --> 01:53:10,479 Speaker 3: That meal was outstanding. Oh my god, I got to 2387 01:53:10,560 --> 01:53:11,559 Speaker 3: go with you one day, baby. 2388 01:53:11,600 --> 01:53:12,920 Speaker 4: That meal was outstanding. 2389 01:53:13,640 --> 01:53:14,920 Speaker 2: They looked so delicious. 2390 01:53:15,720 --> 01:53:17,479 Speaker 3: Yes, they ate a lot of fresh stuff, a lot 2391 01:53:17,520 --> 01:53:19,360 Speaker 3: of greens and stuff like that. So I bought your 2392 01:53:21,000 --> 01:53:24,599 Speaker 3: mama some ear rings because they make they make their 2393 01:53:24,640 --> 01:53:25,280 Speaker 3: things by hand. 2394 01:53:25,320 --> 01:53:27,880 Speaker 4: You actually seen them like leaving over there making their 2395 01:53:28,280 --> 01:53:29,960 Speaker 4: all their stuff they sold by hand. 2396 01:53:30,640 --> 01:53:32,280 Speaker 3: So I bought your mama some ear rings. 2397 01:53:33,439 --> 01:53:33,679 Speaker 4: Set. 2398 01:53:36,200 --> 01:53:38,439 Speaker 2: So after that, y'all just go back to the to 2399 01:53:38,600 --> 01:53:40,880 Speaker 2: the dinner and chill. 2400 01:53:41,280 --> 01:53:44,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, the dinner and chill and ate more and drink 2401 01:53:44,360 --> 01:53:45,400 Speaker 3: more and stuff like that. 2402 01:53:45,640 --> 01:53:49,200 Speaker 2: Yes, which night, and then y'all had trap yoga the 2403 01:53:49,280 --> 01:53:52,320 Speaker 2: next day or I think the next morning. 2404 01:53:52,400 --> 01:53:55,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, the next morning we uh it was prompt too, 2405 01:53:55,160 --> 01:53:59,400 Speaker 4: but uh, Jasmine did trap yoga. That was very fun. 2406 01:54:00,200 --> 01:54:03,920 Speaker 4: Done that before yea, And she was a wonderful teacher. 2407 01:54:04,920 --> 01:54:07,320 Speaker 4: I've taken yoga before, but I know we talked about 2408 01:54:07,360 --> 01:54:11,360 Speaker 4: this though. It was all black people there, like teacher, 2409 01:54:11,400 --> 01:54:13,680 Speaker 4: everybody was black, and that's something I never remember, so 2410 01:54:13,760 --> 01:54:16,400 Speaker 4: I talked about before. It's something I never experienced before. 2411 01:54:16,880 --> 01:54:19,560 Speaker 4: And so uh and that was after I snorkeled. We 2412 01:54:19,680 --> 01:54:21,040 Speaker 4: did the trap yoga. 2413 01:54:21,720 --> 01:54:25,439 Speaker 2: And what's the difference between that and just regular yoga? 2414 01:54:25,960 --> 01:54:26,880 Speaker 3: Definitely trap music. 2415 01:54:27,320 --> 01:54:28,719 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, cool? 2416 01:54:29,080 --> 01:54:31,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, they play trap music and it ain't your normal 2417 01:54:31,600 --> 01:54:35,240 Speaker 4: white people music not just ain't funny for yoga. No, No, 2418 01:54:35,360 --> 01:54:35,720 Speaker 4: I make a. 2419 01:54:35,720 --> 01:54:38,120 Speaker 3: Difference, right, So it's more of music that you like. 2420 01:54:38,200 --> 01:54:38,440 Speaker 4: I don't. 2421 01:54:38,560 --> 01:54:40,800 Speaker 2: I don't know the carry o that thope. Well, when 2422 01:54:40,800 --> 01:54:42,280 Speaker 2: I went to Trap Carrier that she was like a 2423 01:54:42,320 --> 01:54:46,280 Speaker 2: spiritual experience. It was like, oh my God, like, yes, 2424 01:54:46,480 --> 01:54:48,600 Speaker 2: we are so lit as a people. I love this ship. 2425 01:54:48,720 --> 01:54:48,880 Speaker 3: Yes. 2426 01:54:49,040 --> 01:54:51,960 Speaker 4: And so while you've been in doing down with Dolph, 2427 01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:54,240 Speaker 4: you know, doing you all your types of move you 2428 01:54:54,400 --> 01:54:56,840 Speaker 4: just hear music just rocking and playing in the background, 2429 01:54:57,320 --> 01:55:01,640 Speaker 4: and it was so relaxed sing and you know, it's 2430 01:55:01,800 --> 01:55:05,160 Speaker 4: just stretching your body out, uh and things like that. 2431 01:55:05,440 --> 01:55:07,680 Speaker 3: It was so much fun. 2432 01:55:09,960 --> 01:55:13,760 Speaker 2: And also uh, no, I'm just laughing at your caption. 2433 01:55:13,880 --> 01:55:17,000 Speaker 2: At this picture, you're doing yoga. The nom a stated 2434 01:55:17,120 --> 01:55:20,320 Speaker 2: niggash color. 2435 01:55:20,760 --> 01:55:25,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was my hashtag following you on twitters, whatever, Twitter, Instagram, 2436 01:55:25,840 --> 01:55:27,600 Speaker 4: Facebook hashtag white woman of color. 2437 01:55:27,680 --> 01:55:29,920 Speaker 3: That's what the hashtag that I usually post all my ship. 2438 01:55:30,840 --> 01:55:32,200 Speaker 2: Now it was this breakfast or lunch? 2439 01:55:32,280 --> 01:55:32,600 Speaker 4: What is this? 2440 01:55:32,960 --> 01:55:34,160 Speaker 3: This was breakfast? 2441 01:55:34,520 --> 01:55:34,960 Speaker 2: Oh wow? 2442 01:55:35,800 --> 01:55:38,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, the table setting was beautiful. I told him, I said, 2443 01:55:38,760 --> 01:55:40,200 Speaker 4: I want y'all know I'm putting all your food on 2444 01:55:40,280 --> 01:55:43,600 Speaker 4: the internet. I could not help it. 2445 01:55:44,840 --> 01:55:47,720 Speaker 2: I think that's dope that you had good time. We 2446 01:55:48,120 --> 01:55:50,839 Speaker 2: really tankini, Yes. 2447 01:55:51,120 --> 01:55:54,080 Speaker 3: Honey, I all the Tangini picks. And I think was 2448 01:55:54,120 --> 01:56:00,240 Speaker 3: it this day off one of the day's we went 2449 01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:01,160 Speaker 3: on a private yacht. 2450 01:56:01,240 --> 01:56:02,640 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if this was the day or not 2451 01:56:03,280 --> 01:56:05,760 Speaker 2: the next So this is the next day. Yeah, I 2452 01:56:05,840 --> 01:56:07,840 Speaker 2: think it might have been the day that child went 2453 01:56:07,840 --> 01:56:08,320 Speaker 2: on the yacht. 2454 01:56:09,200 --> 01:56:10,520 Speaker 4: Yes, that's right. 2455 01:56:10,680 --> 01:56:12,760 Speaker 3: Michelle came up with between the shell tea. 2456 01:56:12,640 --> 01:56:14,840 Speaker 4: And one of them came up with that and yes, 2457 01:56:15,480 --> 01:56:19,400 Speaker 4: now I'm gonna stay And so it was running jokes, 2458 01:56:19,440 --> 01:56:22,200 Speaker 4: so I put it in there like, yeah, I'm taking that. 2459 01:56:22,320 --> 01:56:22,960 Speaker 4: I'm taking that. 2460 01:56:24,280 --> 01:56:26,840 Speaker 2: Maris had the brazen wait, what is my fature doing 2461 01:56:26,880 --> 01:56:27,200 Speaker 2: on here? 2462 01:56:28,480 --> 01:56:28,600 Speaker 4: Oh? 2463 01:56:28,680 --> 01:56:30,080 Speaker 2: This isn't that that? Okay? 2464 01:56:30,640 --> 01:56:31,120 Speaker 4: Prose? 2465 01:56:31,720 --> 01:56:34,200 Speaker 2: Oh guys, I have some you know what, I'll do 2466 01:56:34,320 --> 01:56:36,880 Speaker 2: my white woman stuff for maf This is about you 2467 01:56:37,000 --> 01:56:42,760 Speaker 2: to day Jamaica. I'm sure, I'm sure. So what was 2468 01:56:42,800 --> 01:56:43,280 Speaker 2: the yacht like? 2469 01:56:44,240 --> 01:56:48,040 Speaker 4: Oh, the yacht was a ball and it was an 2470 01:56:48,160 --> 01:56:51,320 Speaker 4: all black crew. Let me see one of these days 2471 01:56:51,320 --> 01:56:53,120 Speaker 4: we actually went shopping too. I forgot what day. 2472 01:56:53,160 --> 01:56:54,520 Speaker 2: I think that's the last day. 2473 01:56:55,760 --> 01:56:56,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, and so. 2474 01:56:59,560 --> 01:57:01,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, we went to the yacht and it was all 2475 01:57:02,120 --> 01:57:04,480 Speaker 3: black crew and the yacht was. 2476 01:57:04,600 --> 01:57:07,800 Speaker 4: A lot of fun all the boat. 2477 01:57:09,160 --> 01:57:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, she is gorgeous. 2478 01:57:11,280 --> 01:57:12,600 Speaker 4: She was glistening. 2479 01:57:13,920 --> 01:57:16,040 Speaker 2: Tell her like, I've been on these boats all my life. 2480 01:57:16,280 --> 01:57:17,480 Speaker 3: Oh my life. 2481 01:57:19,160 --> 01:57:21,760 Speaker 2: It's so hard being a Hollywood to start it on 2482 01:57:21,880 --> 01:57:24,960 Speaker 2: days like today when the sun is just seventy five 2483 01:57:25,000 --> 01:57:26,240 Speaker 2: degrees instead of seventy three. 2484 01:57:26,400 --> 01:57:30,320 Speaker 3: That was a beautiful picture. And then everybody told everybody 2485 01:57:30,440 --> 01:57:31,440 Speaker 3: kept talking about her skin. 2486 01:57:31,560 --> 01:57:32,600 Speaker 4: It looked flawless. 2487 01:57:33,000 --> 01:57:33,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 2488 01:57:35,000 --> 01:57:38,640 Speaker 2: Oh, but this is a picture from a video from 2489 01:57:38,720 --> 01:57:39,080 Speaker 2: the yacht. 2490 01:57:40,840 --> 01:57:42,520 Speaker 3: Yes, because I sat at the front of the boat 2491 01:57:42,600 --> 01:57:43,680 Speaker 3: going down, going over there. 2492 01:57:44,240 --> 01:57:45,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so what does the yacht take you to? 2493 01:57:50,400 --> 01:57:51,200 Speaker 3: Us falls? 2494 01:57:52,360 --> 01:57:55,480 Speaker 2: Okay? So that's when y'all was working in the waterfall. Okay, 2495 01:57:56,280 --> 01:58:00,640 Speaker 2: So yeah, I saw y'all was on the yacht like 2496 01:58:00,760 --> 01:58:04,160 Speaker 2: I was having a great time the yard. 2497 01:58:04,640 --> 01:58:06,480 Speaker 4: Yes, everywhere we went it was drinks. 2498 01:58:06,800 --> 01:58:12,360 Speaker 3: It was rum punch uh and the thing is uh 2499 01:58:12,840 --> 01:58:14,520 Speaker 3: uh yeah we dropped one punch over there. 2500 01:58:15,200 --> 01:58:15,320 Speaker 10: Uh. 2501 01:58:15,800 --> 01:58:20,720 Speaker 4: Everything was beauty to full, lots of sun, lots of sitting, 2502 01:58:21,400 --> 01:58:25,160 Speaker 4: lots of relaxing and shout out to Dexter because uh 2503 01:58:25,560 --> 01:58:28,760 Speaker 4: Dexter actually time stuff where we missed the cruise ships 2504 01:58:29,120 --> 01:58:30,960 Speaker 4: because all the cruise ships have to be gone by 2505 01:58:31,000 --> 01:58:33,360 Speaker 4: a certain times, so we had us come in after 2506 01:58:33,400 --> 01:58:35,200 Speaker 4: the cruise ship was gone so we could actually go 2507 01:58:35,680 --> 01:58:38,120 Speaker 4: and have a much fund of time and. 2508 01:58:41,600 --> 01:58:44,440 Speaker 2: Right, and when y'all was on the boat, did y'all 2509 01:58:44,480 --> 01:58:46,600 Speaker 2: see anybody or any other boat say anything? 2510 01:58:46,920 --> 01:58:49,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, moving and stuff like Daddy were like, you don't 2511 01:58:49,640 --> 01:58:51,960 Speaker 3: know nothing about this life. They was all packed in there. 2512 01:58:52,360 --> 01:58:54,560 Speaker 4: Ours was private, so it was just it was just 2513 01:58:54,680 --> 01:58:56,680 Speaker 4: basically the crew members of a bunch of black ladies. 2514 01:58:58,600 --> 01:59:01,400 Speaker 4: I don't think they was okay because everybody was looking 2515 01:59:01,440 --> 01:59:02,920 Speaker 4: at them like white people. 2516 01:59:03,520 --> 01:59:06,600 Speaker 2: White people. It was white people on boats out there. Yeah, 2517 01:59:07,080 --> 01:59:09,560 Speaker 2: and they was they was in the same order as 2518 01:59:09,600 --> 01:59:10,800 Speaker 2: y'all looking at y'all and stuff. 2519 01:59:10,880 --> 01:59:11,560 Speaker 3: Can you believe it? 2520 01:59:12,560 --> 01:59:15,640 Speaker 2: Hell no, No, they didn't understand this is the black 2521 01:59:15,680 --> 01:59:17,360 Speaker 2: woman being retreat for black women. 2522 01:59:17,760 --> 01:59:20,840 Speaker 4: Come on, and I got all boos. Y'all was like, 2523 01:59:21,160 --> 01:59:22,200 Speaker 4: you don't know nothing about. 2524 01:59:22,000 --> 01:59:24,080 Speaker 2: This life, right, It was probably jealousy. 2525 01:59:25,160 --> 01:59:27,240 Speaker 4: I bet you they was. And and I tell you, 2526 01:59:27,440 --> 01:59:30,560 Speaker 4: we had a great time and and and on the 2527 01:59:30,680 --> 01:59:33,440 Speaker 4: boat the crew. It was amazing to watch the crew 2528 01:59:33,480 --> 01:59:36,600 Speaker 4: move around because you could tell that it was used 2529 01:59:36,600 --> 01:59:38,200 Speaker 4: to the boat rock because it rocked a little bit. 2530 01:59:38,280 --> 01:59:40,360 Speaker 4: So you could tell that we used to rocking because 2531 01:59:40,520 --> 01:59:42,120 Speaker 4: you know, you moved around, but you kind of feel 2532 01:59:42,160 --> 01:59:46,840 Speaker 4: the bubble. They're walking around straight because I guess they right. 2533 01:59:47,320 --> 01:59:49,440 Speaker 2: Was how long was the white people there? 2534 01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:50,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 2535 01:59:50,280 --> 01:59:52,000 Speaker 3: They went that long? We just see him a little 2536 01:59:52,000 --> 01:59:53,440 Speaker 3: bit and roll and rolled around them. 2537 01:59:53,600 --> 01:59:55,920 Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, I'm gonna play the music again. Then 2538 01:59:57,800 --> 01:59:58,280 Speaker 2: go ahead. 2539 01:59:58,400 --> 02:00:00,400 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I know, right, all right? 2540 02:00:00,520 --> 02:00:02,960 Speaker 3: So uh we got uh. 2541 02:00:03,440 --> 02:00:07,160 Speaker 4: We were drinking rum punch and we finally got to 2542 02:00:07,400 --> 02:00:11,280 Speaker 4: the dun Falls and that's that was the falls. 2543 02:00:13,040 --> 02:00:14,760 Speaker 3: Hour two hours summer there at the falls. 2544 02:00:14,960 --> 02:00:16,840 Speaker 2: Cool and what do y'all do at the falls? 2545 02:00:17,200 --> 02:00:23,600 Speaker 3: We actually went up the mountains with the water running 2546 02:00:23,640 --> 02:00:23,800 Speaker 3: at you. 2547 02:00:24,080 --> 02:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, and and that that was that was a 2548 02:00:28,120 --> 02:00:29,720 Speaker 2: lot of this one that we held hands. 2549 02:00:29,800 --> 02:00:33,840 Speaker 3: They had us whole hands as we went up the 2550 02:00:33,880 --> 02:00:35,840 Speaker 3: mountain because we had a call. 2551 02:00:37,200 --> 02:00:39,800 Speaker 2: Then when y'all got back, y'all had the pajama party 2552 02:00:39,880 --> 02:00:40,160 Speaker 2: that night. 2553 02:00:40,520 --> 02:00:43,480 Speaker 3: Yes, but on the way back on the boat, this 2554 02:00:43,600 --> 02:00:44,560 Speaker 3: is when we went snorkeling. 2555 02:00:44,640 --> 02:00:46,960 Speaker 4: This for the second time that day, because we had 2556 02:00:46,960 --> 02:00:50,120 Speaker 4: all remember snorkeling, we went snorkeling again. And uh, and 2557 02:00:50,240 --> 02:00:52,000 Speaker 4: this was even more pretty because like a different part 2558 02:00:52,040 --> 02:00:54,480 Speaker 4: of the water, so everything was kind of different different 2559 02:00:55,040 --> 02:00:55,480 Speaker 4: down there. 2560 02:00:56,040 --> 02:01:00,760 Speaker 3: And he actually took it was some kind of spiky 2561 02:01:01,120 --> 02:01:02,080 Speaker 3: I forgot what it was. 2562 02:01:03,600 --> 02:01:04,520 Speaker 4: I don't remember the name of it. 2563 02:01:04,560 --> 02:01:06,600 Speaker 3: But he took a fish and he broke it like 2564 02:01:06,760 --> 02:01:07,880 Speaker 3: like like he broke it. 2565 02:01:08,400 --> 02:01:10,400 Speaker 4: Then he took it and he dripped it out and 2566 02:01:10,480 --> 02:01:12,840 Speaker 4: the fish would pop up back the crawl and start eating. 2567 02:01:12,600 --> 02:01:15,320 Speaker 2: It the way he took a fish and broke the 2568 02:01:15,400 --> 02:01:16,040 Speaker 2: fish and not. 2569 02:01:16,080 --> 02:01:20,160 Speaker 4: A fish, I forgot. It's some kind of I can't 2570 02:01:20,200 --> 02:01:22,920 Speaker 4: remember what the name of it. Yes, I think it 2571 02:01:23,000 --> 02:01:25,440 Speaker 4: was some form of an animal like something, that's what 2572 02:01:25,520 --> 02:01:27,640 Speaker 4: it was. So he cracked the sea orch and open 2573 02:01:27,720 --> 02:01:30,160 Speaker 4: up beneath the water and pulled out the meat from 2574 02:01:30,160 --> 02:01:32,560 Speaker 4: the sea urch and eat it right, and then the 2575 02:01:32,560 --> 02:01:34,720 Speaker 4: fish would come out the coral and actually come eat. 2576 02:01:35,640 --> 02:01:35,840 Speaker 4: You know. 2577 02:01:36,000 --> 02:01:38,120 Speaker 3: He was like, watch this, he told everybody looked down, 2578 02:01:38,120 --> 02:01:40,040 Speaker 3: and we looked down and see him he take it. 2579 02:01:40,160 --> 02:01:41,840 Speaker 3: He took it. He cracked it with his hand and 2580 02:01:41,920 --> 02:01:43,520 Speaker 3: he pulled out the meat and he would throw it 2581 02:01:43,560 --> 02:01:45,760 Speaker 3: out and I was like, you see these fishers swim 2582 02:01:45,880 --> 02:01:46,480 Speaker 3: up and just eat. 2583 02:01:46,480 --> 02:01:48,120 Speaker 4: It was real, really beautiful. 2584 02:01:49,680 --> 02:01:51,280 Speaker 3: And the same thing when we moved out with them, 2585 02:01:51,520 --> 02:01:53,320 Speaker 3: they was asking you, okay, are you right? 2586 02:01:53,440 --> 02:01:55,960 Speaker 4: And one of the crews was like the youngest person 2587 02:01:56,040 --> 02:01:58,480 Speaker 4: on the cruise, I mean the yacht was saying that 2588 02:01:58,640 --> 02:02:01,320 Speaker 4: this was the first time that they've had all black 2589 02:02:01,400 --> 02:02:02,280 Speaker 4: women on their boat. 2590 02:02:02,400 --> 02:02:04,400 Speaker 2: Right, most time they have, like, I'm sure it's a 2591 02:02:04,480 --> 02:02:09,000 Speaker 2: rare occurrence, right, what y'all did is pretty monumental considering, right. 2592 02:02:08,960 --> 02:02:11,800 Speaker 3: And so we had a really good time. And when 2593 02:02:11,920 --> 02:02:13,200 Speaker 3: the it was hilarious because. 2594 02:02:12,960 --> 02:02:15,160 Speaker 4: When the captain came down, the music was playing where 2595 02:02:15,160 --> 02:02:17,040 Speaker 4: everybody was dancing and rocking, and he was just looking 2596 02:02:17,040 --> 02:02:18,560 Speaker 4: at everybody like, what the hell is happening here. 2597 02:02:20,560 --> 02:02:22,840 Speaker 2: So then you uh, then y'all went back and had 2598 02:02:22,880 --> 02:02:23,720 Speaker 2: the pajama party. 2599 02:02:24,160 --> 02:02:26,000 Speaker 3: Yes, the jall party was lit. 2600 02:02:28,520 --> 02:02:33,600 Speaker 2: And my understanding is that the pajama party ended. The 2601 02:02:33,760 --> 02:02:34,840 Speaker 2: old people shut it down. 2602 02:02:35,200 --> 02:02:37,600 Speaker 4: The old people shut it down, y'all because I think 2603 02:02:37,640 --> 02:02:39,040 Speaker 4: a lot of people tired. 2604 02:02:38,840 --> 02:02:39,960 Speaker 2: From mountain climbing. 2605 02:02:40,080 --> 02:02:43,000 Speaker 4: And then y'all right, a lot of people. Yeah, we 2606 02:02:43,080 --> 02:02:45,200 Speaker 4: had a unicorn in the house. Yeah. 2607 02:02:45,280 --> 02:02:48,920 Speaker 3: It was team Unty, team unpty, y'all right. 2608 02:02:49,160 --> 02:02:50,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all held it down. 2609 02:02:51,040 --> 02:02:52,000 Speaker 3: We held it down. 2610 02:02:52,240 --> 02:02:56,920 Speaker 4: It was me, Cheila and Leslie. We shut it down. 2611 02:02:57,600 --> 02:03:00,280 Speaker 4: We were like the old folks and we did answer 2612 02:03:00,320 --> 02:03:01,800 Speaker 4: until it rain. It started raining on us. 2613 02:03:01,800 --> 02:03:02,840 Speaker 3: That's the only thing that made. 2614 02:03:02,760 --> 02:03:03,200 Speaker 4: Us go in. 2615 02:03:04,400 --> 02:03:07,200 Speaker 3: But other than that, uh, yeah, it was still team 2616 02:03:07,280 --> 02:03:09,280 Speaker 3: hunting for the win. Yes, we were a team hunting 2617 02:03:09,320 --> 02:03:09,840 Speaker 3: for the wind. 2618 02:03:12,160 --> 02:03:12,360 Speaker 7: Yeah. 2619 02:03:12,520 --> 02:03:13,320 Speaker 4: We was like, y'oll. 2620 02:03:13,400 --> 02:03:15,240 Speaker 3: Young folks went in. They was like, I'm tired. 2621 02:03:15,400 --> 02:03:18,280 Speaker 4: I got to go to big this is too much. 2622 02:03:19,840 --> 02:03:21,200 Speaker 4: I was like, what is happening here? 2623 02:03:21,960 --> 02:03:22,160 Speaker 2: Oh? 2624 02:03:22,760 --> 02:03:24,839 Speaker 4: Yes that We had a good time and the music 2625 02:03:25,080 --> 02:03:26,000 Speaker 4: was popping. 2626 02:03:25,880 --> 02:03:29,960 Speaker 3: And it was a female DJ, a black female DJ. 2627 02:03:30,360 --> 02:03:32,320 Speaker 4: And after a while I started making requests, you know, 2628 02:03:32,400 --> 02:03:34,400 Speaker 4: because I was like after everybody level was like, hey, 2629 02:03:34,400 --> 02:03:37,040 Speaker 4: I'm making request. Then I'm the only not the only one, 2630 02:03:37,080 --> 02:03:38,480 Speaker 4: but I want a few people. So I got him 2631 02:03:38,480 --> 02:03:41,080 Speaker 4: to pay, like Kendrick Lamar and like all types of 2632 02:03:41,200 --> 02:03:47,080 Speaker 4: other times, I sat y'all dancing all right, Yes pajamas, Yes, 2633 02:03:47,160 --> 02:03:51,600 Speaker 4: I was bemo. Yeah that's for the pajama party. Yes, yeah, 2634 02:03:51,720 --> 02:03:53,040 Speaker 4: you had a lot of good pajamas. 2635 02:03:53,760 --> 02:03:56,720 Speaker 3: I did. I like, I like, I like, uh, y'all, 2636 02:03:56,760 --> 02:03:57,760 Speaker 3: don't readly red pajamas. 2637 02:03:57,760 --> 02:04:01,240 Speaker 4: But this made me make me get into pajamas another yah, 2638 02:04:02,120 --> 02:04:04,440 Speaker 4: you know, I think this one and the last one 2639 02:04:04,600 --> 02:04:06,640 Speaker 4: was two of my favorites. I really like that purple one, 2640 02:04:08,440 --> 02:04:10,240 Speaker 4: the blue one, the blue and white one. 2641 02:04:10,360 --> 02:04:10,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 2642 02:04:11,440 --> 02:04:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah you had cloud eggs. 2643 02:04:14,440 --> 02:04:17,160 Speaker 3: Yeah I had Yeah the cloud that cloud eggs was 2644 02:04:17,320 --> 02:04:18,480 Speaker 3: out of this world. 2645 02:04:20,240 --> 02:04:23,120 Speaker 4: With the cloud eggs, they actually take the white and 2646 02:04:23,240 --> 02:04:27,160 Speaker 4: they mixed them until they start pecking, and then they 2647 02:04:27,240 --> 02:04:29,680 Speaker 4: bake it. And then they take the eggs yellow and 2648 02:04:29,720 --> 02:04:31,480 Speaker 4: put it in the middle and bake it again. And 2649 02:04:31,600 --> 02:04:34,520 Speaker 4: it was over tomato and the toe on toes. 2650 02:04:35,120 --> 02:04:37,560 Speaker 3: And it was really really really good. 2651 02:04:37,760 --> 02:04:37,920 Speaker 4: Oh. 2652 02:04:38,720 --> 02:04:42,320 Speaker 3: Also a lot of goats there, m h and. 2653 02:04:44,760 --> 02:04:47,640 Speaker 4: And I had curry goat and curry chicken and listen, nigga, 2654 02:04:47,680 --> 02:04:51,160 Speaker 4: it was everything. I had beef patties. 2655 02:04:53,840 --> 02:04:55,080 Speaker 3: What else the hell I was eating? 2656 02:04:55,120 --> 02:04:57,280 Speaker 4: Oh? My dad? The goats. 2657 02:04:58,920 --> 02:05:01,240 Speaker 3: The goats walk like that had a mission with me. 2658 02:05:01,440 --> 02:05:03,960 Speaker 4: But what I didn't know is that the goats actually 2659 02:05:04,000 --> 02:05:06,920 Speaker 4: just walk around grades and then at night all the ghosts, 2660 02:05:07,000 --> 02:05:09,080 Speaker 4: all the ghosts will go back home. And said, most 2661 02:05:09,120 --> 02:05:12,640 Speaker 4: of the goats for somebody's property. Because we was and like, 2662 02:05:12,760 --> 02:05:14,720 Speaker 4: people walk around the goat the ghats walk around the people. 2663 02:05:14,800 --> 02:05:15,960 Speaker 4: I was like, is he going to catch the bus? 2664 02:05:16,040 --> 02:05:17,320 Speaker 3: What did this goat is on the mission? 2665 02:05:18,240 --> 02:05:20,320 Speaker 4: And he would just walk eat grass, just walk and 2666 02:05:20,360 --> 02:05:22,840 Speaker 4: eat grass, and I that was just the neatest thing. 2667 02:05:23,520 --> 02:05:25,840 Speaker 2: Uh, do you start learning how to slow most? Start 2668 02:05:26,520 --> 02:05:29,960 Speaker 2: make slow motion videos? He starts trapping coming out the 2669 02:05:30,000 --> 02:05:37,920 Speaker 2: pool adjustment. I know it's taking a while to play, 2670 02:05:37,960 --> 02:05:40,600 Speaker 2: but it has no audio. But yeah, it's carry coming 2671 02:05:40,640 --> 02:05:41,800 Speaker 2: out of the pool. Its slow motion. 2672 02:05:42,640 --> 02:05:53,840 Speaker 9: Yes, I had myself, I did, I really did. 2673 02:05:56,960 --> 02:05:58,680 Speaker 3: I didn't know my phone could do that. Ain't dat. 2674 02:05:58,680 --> 02:06:00,800 Speaker 3: I'm older and I had this phone and I didn't 2675 02:06:00,840 --> 02:06:03,160 Speaker 3: know it could do that. This was fun. It started 2676 02:06:03,240 --> 02:06:03,920 Speaker 3: raining on us. 2677 02:06:04,560 --> 02:06:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I made some slow motion videos. Myself. Yeah, that's dope, man. 2678 02:06:31,920 --> 02:06:33,680 Speaker 2: Like y'all was just out there getting y'all life, and 2679 02:06:33,760 --> 02:06:35,840 Speaker 2: y'all got to play music and stuff. So it's just 2680 02:06:35,920 --> 02:06:38,720 Speaker 2: like a complete experience of y'all. Right, you got some 2681 02:06:38,920 --> 02:06:39,720 Speaker 2: fish in the fool? 2682 02:06:40,120 --> 02:06:41,160 Speaker 4: Yes? What is this? 2683 02:06:41,360 --> 02:06:43,280 Speaker 3: Was this one I here was softed fish and the 2684 02:06:43,360 --> 02:06:44,560 Speaker 3: other one I don't remember name of it. 2685 02:06:44,840 --> 02:06:47,760 Speaker 4: But the next one it's like softed cod because they 2686 02:06:47,800 --> 02:06:49,360 Speaker 4: would bring because like I said, it was eating all 2687 02:06:49,360 --> 02:06:49,560 Speaker 4: the time. 2688 02:06:49,680 --> 02:06:51,560 Speaker 3: So some of the some of the adirls was like 2689 02:06:51,640 --> 02:06:52,600 Speaker 3: in snack form. 2690 02:06:52,480 --> 02:06:55,640 Speaker 2: Like this, okay, all right, it was actually bite off 2691 02:06:55,680 --> 02:06:59,000 Speaker 2: it and eat it. Oh and and it was you 2692 02:06:59,080 --> 02:06:59,840 Speaker 2: did white face. 2693 02:07:01,720 --> 02:07:02,920 Speaker 3: This was not white face. 2694 02:07:03,360 --> 02:07:05,360 Speaker 2: I'm just I can't believe you would do something like 2695 02:07:05,440 --> 02:07:07,320 Speaker 2: that to our culture. But it's fine. 2696 02:07:07,600 --> 02:07:10,040 Speaker 4: That was not white face. That was that lush mask, 2697 02:07:10,200 --> 02:07:13,240 Speaker 4: which was everything, and I wiped that stuff off my face. 2698 02:07:13,360 --> 02:07:16,400 Speaker 4: My skin started going shout out to lush. I've never 2699 02:07:16,480 --> 02:07:18,440 Speaker 4: heard a lush in my life. And people are talking 2700 02:07:18,440 --> 02:07:20,560 Speaker 4: about they had that was spat day. People talking about 2701 02:07:20,560 --> 02:07:22,160 Speaker 4: they had like little balls that you. 2702 02:07:24,120 --> 02:07:26,080 Speaker 3: They do for water. Because even Laylor knew about it. 2703 02:07:26,080 --> 02:07:27,320 Speaker 3: I was like, I've never heard this place before. 2704 02:07:27,320 --> 02:07:29,440 Speaker 4: They said they got one here in Charlotte, and when 2705 02:07:29,480 --> 02:07:33,000 Speaker 4: you wipe your face, you literally could see the dirt 2706 02:07:33,120 --> 02:07:34,200 Speaker 4: kind of just come off your. 2707 02:07:34,160 --> 02:07:38,400 Speaker 3: Face, and after you finish your your skin would literally just. 2708 02:07:38,560 --> 02:07:41,160 Speaker 4: Pop out and glow. I was like, oh my gosh, 2709 02:07:41,200 --> 02:07:43,280 Speaker 4: I got to get my hands on this. So I 2710 02:07:43,560 --> 02:07:45,360 Speaker 4: don't know how much your cows, but I'd definitely be 2711 02:07:45,800 --> 02:07:48,440 Speaker 4: looking for some of that pretty soon. 2712 02:07:49,080 --> 02:07:57,040 Speaker 3: I also a oxtail and jerk chicken, yes, and red 2713 02:07:57,160 --> 02:08:00,600 Speaker 3: beef pea soup which was actually awesome. 2714 02:08:01,480 --> 02:08:05,040 Speaker 4: A lot of printain chips, a lot of banana chips, 2715 02:08:06,880 --> 02:08:09,680 Speaker 4: stuff like that, and it was really really good. Oh. 2716 02:08:09,720 --> 02:08:11,640 Speaker 4: We also forgot one of these days we went shopping 2717 02:08:14,080 --> 02:08:17,960 Speaker 4: and when we went shopping, UH, shout out to Charlotte. 2718 02:08:18,000 --> 02:08:22,400 Speaker 4: Shirley was my uh because uh was the negotiation right 2719 02:08:22,400 --> 02:08:24,120 Speaker 4: because Dexa told us when we got there. 2720 02:08:24,480 --> 02:08:27,320 Speaker 3: Dex was like, Hey, I'm on with you to know that. 2721 02:08:29,120 --> 02:08:31,640 Speaker 4: When you get here you can negotiate and there's no taxes. 2722 02:08:32,920 --> 02:08:35,760 Speaker 4: And I'm not good at negotiating at all. I just 2723 02:08:35,800 --> 02:08:37,440 Speaker 4: paid full price and keep it trucking. I don't know, 2724 02:08:37,520 --> 02:08:38,760 Speaker 4: negotiation just makes me nervous. 2725 02:08:38,880 --> 02:08:39,880 Speaker 3: Tell me what the hell I got to pay a 2726 02:08:39,880 --> 02:08:40,360 Speaker 3: week to move on. 2727 02:08:40,520 --> 02:08:43,280 Speaker 2: They're a very nice person. You don't want to be mean. 2728 02:08:43,480 --> 02:08:46,600 Speaker 2: And also I'm the same way. I hate negotiations. I 2729 02:08:46,760 --> 02:08:50,120 Speaker 2: hate the whole Like when you go buy a car youth, 2730 02:08:50,200 --> 02:08:51,880 Speaker 2: they tell you a price, and you tell them a price, 2731 02:08:51,920 --> 02:08:53,920 Speaker 2: and I'm like, why the fuck sell me the fucking 2732 02:08:54,000 --> 02:08:56,400 Speaker 2: car for the right price, and let's just get it 2733 02:08:56,480 --> 02:08:59,600 Speaker 2: over it. So yeah, but it's part of sometimes part 2734 02:08:59,600 --> 02:09:02,040 Speaker 2: of coach. A lot of times with tourist stuff, it 2735 02:09:02,160 --> 02:09:06,320 Speaker 2: is very much like a touristy thing. You know, people 2736 02:09:06,400 --> 02:09:09,240 Speaker 2: try to like talk them down to like crazy prices, 2737 02:09:09,280 --> 02:09:10,720 Speaker 2: so they could be like, oh, I got this for 2738 02:09:10,880 --> 02:09:13,520 Speaker 2: five cents, you know, like it was nothing like that. 2739 02:09:13,720 --> 02:09:15,600 Speaker 4: But it was just for the fact that I was nervous, 2740 02:09:15,920 --> 02:09:18,200 Speaker 4: and I think Shirley realized that. So I told Shirty 2741 02:09:18,280 --> 02:09:20,280 Speaker 4: we do it together. She was like, I need to 2742 02:09:20,320 --> 02:09:20,920 Speaker 4: get some stuff. 2743 02:09:21,080 --> 02:09:22,400 Speaker 3: I was like, fine, put it in the basket. We 2744 02:09:22,480 --> 02:09:23,160 Speaker 3: both get a deal. 2745 02:09:23,200 --> 02:09:24,520 Speaker 4: I paid for it, you know, you give me the 2746 02:09:24,600 --> 02:09:28,280 Speaker 4: money back. And we went in there and Shirley was 2747 02:09:28,320 --> 02:09:30,520 Speaker 4: doing her thing, and it would be hilarious because they 2748 02:09:30,520 --> 02:09:32,320 Speaker 4: would look at me and I'd be like, don't look 2749 02:09:32,360 --> 02:09:33,920 Speaker 4: at I closed my eyes don't look at me. She 2750 02:09:34,040 --> 02:09:34,720 Speaker 4: the woman talking. 2751 02:09:35,160 --> 02:09:38,640 Speaker 2: What's my picture doing there? This is uh, y'all, y'all 2752 02:09:38,640 --> 02:09:40,600 Speaker 2: went out because this one I went out with you 2753 02:09:40,760 --> 02:09:41,320 Speaker 2: and Justice. 2754 02:09:41,440 --> 02:09:43,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, because me and Leslie was joking about we didn't 2755 02:09:43,920 --> 02:09:45,760 Speaker 4: believe y'all went out and yeah, they. 2756 02:09:45,560 --> 02:09:48,800 Speaker 2: Told us we weren't gonna hang out because for some reason, 2757 02:09:48,840 --> 02:09:50,800 Speaker 2: I don't know why they thought that. But we hung out, 2758 02:09:51,280 --> 02:09:56,520 Speaker 2: had a good time, you know, enjoying pumpkin beer. But 2759 02:09:56,840 --> 02:09:59,720 Speaker 2: enough about me, guys. Oh you could do your white 2760 02:09:59,720 --> 02:10:02,520 Speaker 2: woman you Uh you got my video when I ate 2761 02:10:02,600 --> 02:10:04,960 Speaker 2: that cupcake. Yes, that was hilarious because I have the 2762 02:10:05,040 --> 02:10:08,880 Speaker 2: music on the dough so I couldn't tell at the music. Yeah, 2763 02:10:08,960 --> 02:10:10,520 Speaker 2: y'all don't have to music the one with the music 2764 02:10:11,880 --> 02:10:14,080 Speaker 2: because I actually made it to music. I had to 2765 02:10:14,120 --> 02:10:15,080 Speaker 2: find it on Twitter. 2766 02:10:15,400 --> 02:10:15,680 Speaker 4: Okay. 2767 02:10:16,080 --> 02:10:18,040 Speaker 2: Uh, this is you guys in the baby suits at 2768 02:10:18,080 --> 02:10:27,480 Speaker 2: the river. Yes, Yes, trapping for the ground. Uh did 2769 02:10:27,560 --> 02:10:30,400 Speaker 2: y'all walking up the the river? 2770 02:10:31,000 --> 02:10:31,240 Speaker 7: Yes? 2771 02:10:31,520 --> 02:10:32,040 Speaker 4: And uh. 2772 02:10:36,760 --> 02:10:40,520 Speaker 3: Shot a coffee. She me and her were like adventurous buddies. 2773 02:10:41,040 --> 02:10:41,240 Speaker 4: You know. 2774 02:10:41,480 --> 02:10:41,800 Speaker 6: We was. 2775 02:10:41,880 --> 02:10:44,040 Speaker 3: We was kind of being out there being. 2776 02:10:43,960 --> 02:10:45,120 Speaker 4: Bold and doing it all. 2777 02:10:45,320 --> 02:10:48,440 Speaker 3: And honey, we was out there doing it big, like I. 2778 02:10:48,520 --> 02:10:49,760 Speaker 4: Was like, come on. She was like come on. 2779 02:10:50,400 --> 02:10:51,640 Speaker 3: You know me and Tilla come on. 2780 02:10:51,880 --> 02:10:54,040 Speaker 4: It was one of the things where everybody was like, 2781 02:10:54,400 --> 02:10:57,080 Speaker 4: we're gonna do this together. Come on, hold hands, let's 2782 02:10:57,120 --> 02:11:00,160 Speaker 4: walk our way through this. And you know, there was 2783 02:11:00,160 --> 02:11:02,240 Speaker 4: a lot of people who didn't know how to swim, 2784 02:11:02,360 --> 02:11:04,080 Speaker 4: who was learning how to float because, like I said, 2785 02:11:04,080 --> 02:11:06,360 Speaker 4: so many people were really good swimmers, so they put 2786 02:11:06,440 --> 02:11:06,560 Speaker 4: us in. 2787 02:11:06,640 --> 02:11:08,760 Speaker 3: Like the pool wasn't that deep, so we were just 2788 02:11:08,880 --> 02:11:10,240 Speaker 3: practicing floating in the pool. 2789 02:11:10,760 --> 02:11:12,440 Speaker 4: You know, so you had black women have a black 2790 02:11:12,480 --> 02:11:15,560 Speaker 4: woman because like I said, we always there for each other. 2791 02:11:16,320 --> 02:11:19,200 Speaker 4: And everybody felt comfortable and nobody felt judged, and nobody 2792 02:11:19,280 --> 02:11:24,400 Speaker 4: felt like afraid of actually trying something new because you 2793 02:11:24,520 --> 02:11:26,760 Speaker 4: knew somebody looked like you was gonna be there or 2794 02:11:26,920 --> 02:11:29,480 Speaker 4: chim you on or telling you you could do it 2795 02:11:29,680 --> 02:11:31,920 Speaker 4: and encourage you in some way shape from a fashion. 2796 02:11:32,480 --> 02:11:35,480 Speaker 2: Right, So what was the next day? Was the next 2797 02:11:35,560 --> 02:11:36,040 Speaker 2: day shopping? 2798 02:11:36,240 --> 02:11:38,360 Speaker 4: Or it was a spy day? 2799 02:11:39,120 --> 02:11:40,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, so y'all had a SPA day. 2800 02:11:41,360 --> 02:11:49,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, just spat day was really really relaxing because everybody's 2801 02:11:50,120 --> 02:11:53,040 Speaker 4: massagy was got a scheduled throughout the day, or you 2802 02:11:53,120 --> 02:11:53,920 Speaker 4: got various. 2803 02:11:53,640 --> 02:11:55,440 Speaker 3: Different treatments done and. 2804 02:11:57,080 --> 02:11:59,920 Speaker 4: It was I got a seaweed scrub rap but I 2805 02:12:00,000 --> 02:12:02,800 Speaker 4: didn't get wrapped up in seaweed, but it was like 2806 02:12:02,960 --> 02:12:03,760 Speaker 4: like a sugar scrub. 2807 02:12:04,320 --> 02:12:05,280 Speaker 3: It felt so good. 2808 02:12:05,400 --> 02:12:09,000 Speaker 4: Followed by massage and the girl did a wonderful win 2809 02:12:09,240 --> 02:12:15,400 Speaker 4: for job and the music was like really uh slow 2810 02:12:15,760 --> 02:12:18,000 Speaker 4: and more and all that stuff. And the people around 2811 02:12:18,080 --> 02:12:20,560 Speaker 4: me were laughing at me because I was talking the 2812 02:12:20,600 --> 02:12:23,360 Speaker 4: whole time. They was say, we heard you talking. 2813 02:12:23,160 --> 02:12:25,040 Speaker 2: The whole time. I was say, my bad, I mean 2814 02:12:25,120 --> 02:12:26,160 Speaker 2: the room talking. 2815 02:12:27,000 --> 02:12:28,400 Speaker 4: Yes, I always talked, though. 2816 02:12:28,560 --> 02:12:32,200 Speaker 2: I know, sorry guys, I know y'all can't relax. 2817 02:12:34,360 --> 02:12:37,560 Speaker 3: But and that was like okay, And that was like 2818 02:12:37,840 --> 02:12:39,360 Speaker 3: because I was like, I didn't know the rules. 2819 02:12:39,760 --> 02:12:40,920 Speaker 2: There was like it was no rules. 2820 02:12:40,920 --> 02:12:41,920 Speaker 3: They was like it was just funny. 2821 02:12:42,000 --> 02:12:44,520 Speaker 4: Just he just randomly started talking to that lady. 2822 02:12:46,960 --> 02:12:49,200 Speaker 3: But that's what I do, I know. 2823 02:12:51,160 --> 02:12:54,080 Speaker 2: So after the SPA day, yeah, the. 2824 02:12:54,080 --> 02:12:56,960 Speaker 3: Spot day, we had the pajama party. 2825 02:12:57,160 --> 02:12:59,720 Speaker 2: Okay, that was a Jaba job party. Man, it's not 2826 02:12:59,800 --> 02:13:01,640 Speaker 2: fair at the takin's this one right here. 2827 02:13:03,680 --> 02:13:03,920 Speaker 7: Yeah. 2828 02:13:04,560 --> 02:13:05,920 Speaker 3: I like the brightness of it. 2829 02:13:08,760 --> 02:13:14,200 Speaker 2: I mean, credit was due and then they was on 2830 02:13:14,360 --> 02:13:19,480 Speaker 2: flee always. Then we'll see what else you did? 2831 02:13:19,760 --> 02:13:19,880 Speaker 4: Uh? 2832 02:13:20,280 --> 02:13:25,320 Speaker 2: So spat day for John party. Then it rained the 2833 02:13:25,440 --> 02:13:27,080 Speaker 2: last day you were there, right, because I think when 2834 02:13:27,120 --> 02:13:31,400 Speaker 2: on the last day when I woke up, it actually 2835 02:13:31,640 --> 02:13:32,800 Speaker 2: was raining that day. 2836 02:13:32,840 --> 02:13:35,080 Speaker 4: And it's hilarious because it was a running joke through 2837 02:13:35,120 --> 02:13:38,520 Speaker 4: the house as I woke up and they the cleaning ladies, they. 2838 02:13:38,520 --> 02:13:39,880 Speaker 3: Was like, we didn't think you don't get up this 2839 02:13:39,960 --> 02:13:40,760 Speaker 3: morning because it rained. 2840 02:13:40,760 --> 02:13:42,240 Speaker 4: Because I wanted to go outside and I didn't know 2841 02:13:42,280 --> 02:13:43,720 Speaker 4: how to open up the doors, so I had to wait. 2842 02:13:43,560 --> 02:13:45,240 Speaker 3: For somebody to let me out. I was like, I 2843 02:13:45,280 --> 02:13:46,800 Speaker 3: don't open but I want to. 2844 02:13:46,760 --> 02:13:49,040 Speaker 2: Go outside close because of the rain. 2845 02:13:49,360 --> 02:13:52,960 Speaker 4: Or they closed up at ninth. Ok yeah, they closed 2846 02:13:53,080 --> 02:13:55,320 Speaker 4: up at ninth, but I just didn't know how to 2847 02:13:55,400 --> 02:13:55,960 Speaker 4: open them up. 2848 02:13:55,880 --> 02:13:56,920 Speaker 3: To get myself upside. 2849 02:13:57,320 --> 02:13:59,080 Speaker 2: Then you got a whole bunch of snork on clips 2850 02:13:59,120 --> 02:14:01,320 Speaker 2: from the last like, I guess you just uploaded a 2851 02:14:01,360 --> 02:14:03,800 Speaker 2: bunch of them at the same time. I did get 2852 02:14:03,880 --> 02:14:05,440 Speaker 2: past though, because the same. 2853 02:14:05,360 --> 02:14:06,160 Speaker 3: But let's get past. 2854 02:14:07,880 --> 02:14:11,400 Speaker 2: So was the last So the last day was that 2855 02:14:11,560 --> 02:14:12,200 Speaker 2: the shopping day? 2856 02:14:12,280 --> 02:14:15,800 Speaker 3: Or no, the last day was the shopping day? 2857 02:14:16,000 --> 02:14:17,640 Speaker 2: Okay, all right? 2858 02:14:17,800 --> 02:14:19,800 Speaker 3: Last it was like the shopping day and stuff like that. 2859 02:14:20,600 --> 02:14:23,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, shop we went shopping that morning, Okay, we did, 2860 02:14:24,000 --> 02:14:28,040 Speaker 4: and we were going to go. Ah, that's right. We 2861 02:14:28,120 --> 02:14:28,960 Speaker 4: went horseback riding. 2862 02:14:29,000 --> 02:14:29,920 Speaker 2: That's right, that's what it was. 2863 02:14:30,000 --> 02:14:30,600 Speaker 4: That's what it was. 2864 02:14:30,720 --> 02:14:31,480 Speaker 3: Horseback riding. 2865 02:14:32,760 --> 02:14:34,640 Speaker 4: We went shopping and was even. 2866 02:14:34,480 --> 02:14:36,400 Speaker 2: Sugar cane straight off the cane. 2867 02:14:36,720 --> 02:14:39,440 Speaker 4: Yes, that's about that. That's the first time I ever 2868 02:14:39,680 --> 02:14:42,880 Speaker 4: had it. And it is the sweetest thing ever. And 2869 02:14:42,920 --> 02:14:45,160 Speaker 4: I didn't realize that's very traditional. That's what a lot 2870 02:14:45,200 --> 02:14:48,280 Speaker 4: of children eat. Are you biting it and it literally 2871 02:14:48,480 --> 02:14:51,040 Speaker 4: melts and you biting when you suck it and it 2872 02:14:51,160 --> 02:14:52,840 Speaker 4: literally melts in your mouth. 2873 02:14:53,000 --> 02:15:00,320 Speaker 3: It was the delicious. Yeah, Because we went shopping, and 2874 02:15:00,480 --> 02:15:03,000 Speaker 3: then from that, some people took cooking classes. 2875 02:15:03,080 --> 02:15:06,000 Speaker 4: You can go to either go cooking glasses or horseback riding, 2876 02:15:06,720 --> 02:15:13,800 Speaker 4: and I went riding because no, in fact, it wasn't 2877 02:15:13,840 --> 02:15:17,040 Speaker 4: scared at all. I was really really relaxed. 2878 02:15:17,080 --> 02:15:18,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. People that took cooking classes and said it was 2879 02:15:18,840 --> 02:15:20,960 Speaker 3: so good because the chef was the chef. 2880 02:15:20,880 --> 02:15:23,000 Speaker 4: That was over at our house and he had been 2881 02:15:23,040 --> 02:15:24,800 Speaker 4: making the book of the meals and everybody had been 2882 02:15:25,280 --> 02:15:27,960 Speaker 4: joking with him and laughing with him and stuff like that. 2883 02:15:28,080 --> 02:15:29,120 Speaker 3: Oh oh, they said that was it. 2884 02:15:29,240 --> 02:15:32,040 Speaker 4: I knew it was lip because honey, he had been 2885 02:15:32,120 --> 02:15:35,960 Speaker 4: joking with us and stuff like that, and uh, shout 2886 02:15:36,000 --> 02:15:39,480 Speaker 4: out to the chefs, the shelves cook they had. Everything 2887 02:15:40,200 --> 02:15:43,520 Speaker 4: was delicious. Oh you had a pitch up there, hamburger. 2888 02:15:43,080 --> 02:15:43,800 Speaker 3: And French fries. 2889 02:15:44,240 --> 02:15:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was all made from there, right. 2890 02:15:47,160 --> 02:15:50,960 Speaker 4: Everything he make the bread there, wow, the bread the 2891 02:15:51,120 --> 02:15:55,480 Speaker 4: ketchup like literally everything everything on their thing was homemade. 2892 02:15:55,480 --> 02:15:56,640 Speaker 4: He said, stuff for French fries. 2893 02:15:57,200 --> 02:15:57,480 Speaker 2: Wow. 2894 02:15:58,440 --> 02:16:00,640 Speaker 3: And it was out and dean. 2895 02:16:02,160 --> 02:16:04,200 Speaker 4: And like we were snacking. I think one of the 2896 02:16:04,280 --> 02:16:06,720 Speaker 4: snacks had that, and then't follaly about some ribs and 2897 02:16:07,120 --> 02:16:09,040 Speaker 4: all kinds offf Oh. They gave awards out on the 2898 02:16:09,160 --> 02:16:11,240 Speaker 4: last night, and this was my ward, was the best 2899 02:16:11,280 --> 02:16:12,080 Speaker 4: White woman of Color. 2900 02:16:14,240 --> 02:16:15,839 Speaker 2: Well, of course, of course. 2901 02:16:17,400 --> 02:16:18,920 Speaker 3: I was gonna win that because the whole time I 2902 02:16:19,080 --> 02:16:20,800 Speaker 3: kept saying I my best white woman. 2903 02:16:20,720 --> 02:16:21,400 Speaker 4: Of colored life. 2904 02:16:22,040 --> 02:16:23,880 Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about, Jessica, right. 2905 02:16:23,800 --> 02:16:29,880 Speaker 4: Because Jessica, Samantha, Victoria, Susan Barbara, I was calling myself 2906 02:16:29,880 --> 02:16:30,640 Speaker 4: a little bit everything. 2907 02:16:33,040 --> 02:16:35,160 Speaker 2: And then when y'all left, didn't he give you some 2908 02:16:35,640 --> 02:16:36,080 Speaker 2: food to go? 2909 02:16:37,040 --> 02:16:39,560 Speaker 4: Yes, the chef did. We left, we got like a 2910 02:16:40,280 --> 02:16:42,320 Speaker 4: salad and fruit and water. 2911 02:16:43,240 --> 02:16:45,240 Speaker 3: Yes, honey, they made sure. We was taking care of 2912 02:16:45,280 --> 02:16:46,840 Speaker 3: and everybody took pictures and. 2913 02:16:48,440 --> 02:16:51,560 Speaker 4: I gave extra money to the staff. You could took 2914 02:16:51,640 --> 02:16:55,880 Speaker 4: the staff. Oh yeah, the lanterns, which was beautiful. Uh 2915 02:16:56,080 --> 02:17:00,400 Speaker 4: head and Jasmine. On the last night we were sitting around. Yeah, 2916 02:17:00,640 --> 02:17:03,720 Speaker 4: the last night we were sitting around. Oh, let me go, 2917 02:17:03,920 --> 02:17:05,360 Speaker 4: let me before I talked about the last night. I 2918 02:17:05,400 --> 02:17:06,800 Speaker 4: think one of the first one or. 2919 02:17:06,800 --> 02:17:07,760 Speaker 3: Two nights were there. 2920 02:17:08,200 --> 02:17:10,320 Speaker 4: This is when we were sitting around and everybody was 2921 02:17:10,320 --> 02:17:14,520 Speaker 4: talking about how did we meet one another? And more 2922 02:17:14,600 --> 02:17:19,040 Speaker 4: than fifty sixty maybe seventy of us, like everybody and 2923 02:17:19,160 --> 02:17:22,279 Speaker 4: crew met through you in some form shape of passion, 2924 02:17:23,600 --> 02:17:26,160 Speaker 4: or they met through the Facebook group or they you know, 2925 02:17:26,440 --> 02:17:30,480 Speaker 4: they heard about you and started following each other. And uh, 2926 02:17:30,720 --> 02:17:35,480 Speaker 4: that speaks to the volume of the audience we cultivate, 2927 02:17:36,040 --> 02:17:38,279 Speaker 4: you know, and truthfully. 2928 02:17:38,280 --> 02:17:41,359 Speaker 3: That speaks towards uh, your love for black. 2929 02:17:41,160 --> 02:17:45,120 Speaker 4: Women, you know. And I know I told you on 2930 02:17:45,160 --> 02:17:47,880 Speaker 4: the phone, but that does mean a lot. That because 2931 02:17:47,959 --> 02:17:50,200 Speaker 4: even though you were there, we talked about you a lot. 2932 02:17:50,280 --> 02:17:53,440 Speaker 4: We joked, joked and laughed, and you know, we were 2933 02:17:53,520 --> 02:17:54,520 Speaker 4: said jokes from the show. 2934 02:17:55,560 --> 02:17:58,320 Speaker 3: It was hilarious. Somebody was cutting up and Marisa looked 2935 02:17:58,360 --> 02:17:58,600 Speaker 3: at them. 2936 02:17:58,680 --> 02:18:01,760 Speaker 4: She said, right by my and the whole time, and 2937 02:18:01,840 --> 02:18:03,840 Speaker 4: if she was in the front eating a salad, and 2938 02:18:03,920 --> 02:18:06,080 Speaker 4: the whole table like abrupted laughing. 2939 02:18:06,320 --> 02:18:07,480 Speaker 3: Did you know the background of that? 2940 02:18:08,600 --> 02:18:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course I did. I played the video for justin. 2941 02:18:11,320 --> 02:18:12,680 Speaker 2: I think I don't think I showed. 2942 02:18:12,440 --> 02:18:14,160 Speaker 3: You, okay, and I don't think we could. 2943 02:18:14,200 --> 02:18:16,160 Speaker 2: I think I told you what it was on the show, 2944 02:18:16,200 --> 02:18:19,920 Speaker 2: but you don't really normally remember that stuff. But I 2945 02:18:20,000 --> 02:18:21,600 Speaker 2: couldn't show it. I think it was a video. I 2946 02:18:21,640 --> 02:18:22,960 Speaker 2: told you. I couldn't show it because I think it 2947 02:18:23,080 --> 02:18:26,320 Speaker 2: was like two dudes having sex in front of this woman, right. 2948 02:18:26,680 --> 02:18:29,280 Speaker 2: I didn't know what the rules were were crowdcast and 2949 02:18:30,000 --> 02:18:31,800 Speaker 2: if that was okay or not, So I didn't want 2950 02:18:31,800 --> 02:18:34,120 Speaker 2: to risk it, right, And it was. 2951 02:18:34,560 --> 02:18:37,800 Speaker 4: Hilarious because we talked about that and yeah, and that's 2952 02:18:37,800 --> 02:18:38,039 Speaker 4: the thing. 2953 02:18:38,560 --> 02:18:39,840 Speaker 3: They knew what it was like. 2954 02:18:40,840 --> 02:18:41,279 Speaker 2: The staff. 2955 02:18:41,480 --> 02:18:44,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, so everybody would be busting out laughing. 2956 02:18:45,120 --> 02:18:46,720 Speaker 3: And so when I tell you, we literally had fun. 2957 02:18:46,840 --> 02:18:49,600 Speaker 4: I think that this was the most relaxing for them, 2958 02:18:49,680 --> 02:18:51,920 Speaker 4: even though they were doing a job, it was very 2959 02:18:51,959 --> 02:18:52,680 Speaker 4: relaxed for them. 2960 02:18:52,920 --> 02:18:55,840 Speaker 3: It was chilled for them because I think Leslie and Marissa. 2961 02:18:55,560 --> 02:18:57,040 Speaker 4: Said like the property manager had came back and we 2962 02:18:57,080 --> 02:18:58,640 Speaker 4: didn't see her, but she came back another time and 2963 02:18:58,720 --> 02:19:00,480 Speaker 4: she was asking about the crew and things like that. 2964 02:19:01,200 --> 02:19:03,160 Speaker 4: And you know, because a lot of times that's your fund. 2965 02:19:03,160 --> 02:19:04,600 Speaker 4: A lot of white people come there and they want 2966 02:19:04,680 --> 02:19:05,760 Speaker 4: them to do their job and they don't want to 2967 02:19:05,760 --> 02:19:06,920 Speaker 4: see them be bothered. 2968 02:19:06,640 --> 02:19:08,680 Speaker 2: With them, right, you know, but we want to talk 2969 02:19:08,680 --> 02:19:10,320 Speaker 2: to down and more de band than white people have 2970 02:19:10,360 --> 02:19:13,360 Speaker 2: a totally different experience. There's no appreciation. I mean, that's 2971 02:19:13,400 --> 02:19:16,120 Speaker 2: the thing. I mean, some black people do act real 2972 02:19:16,280 --> 02:19:18,200 Speaker 2: sedity when they get a little bit of power, and 2973 02:19:18,320 --> 02:19:21,520 Speaker 2: I know that's fucked up. But in general, man, I'm 2974 02:19:21,560 --> 02:19:24,080 Speaker 2: not gonna yell as a woman that looked like my mama, 2975 02:19:24,320 --> 02:19:27,120 Speaker 2: my aunt my, you know what I mean. Like, I like, 2976 02:19:27,360 --> 02:19:30,959 Speaker 2: there's a there's a relationship there that I don't really 2977 02:19:31,120 --> 02:19:34,200 Speaker 2: want to be one of me, you know, having an 2978 02:19:34,200 --> 02:19:36,440 Speaker 2: attitude and telling your ass what to do, like come on, 2979 02:19:36,760 --> 02:19:38,120 Speaker 2: you know, all right? 2980 02:19:38,400 --> 02:19:43,560 Speaker 4: And also I think and for us, like listen, I 2981 02:19:43,680 --> 02:19:46,160 Speaker 4: tell everybody you on vacation, and like for me, I 2982 02:19:46,200 --> 02:19:49,200 Speaker 4: think one night I learned how to close the blinds 2983 02:19:49,400 --> 02:19:51,680 Speaker 4: and like the air conditioned stuff like that, and I 2984 02:19:51,760 --> 02:19:52,720 Speaker 4: told him I was like, all righty. 2985 02:19:52,720 --> 02:19:54,400 Speaker 3: They was shocked that I had already kind of shut 2986 02:19:54,440 --> 02:19:55,400 Speaker 3: this stuff down. 2987 02:19:55,480 --> 02:19:55,640 Speaker 4: You know. 2988 02:19:55,760 --> 02:19:57,160 Speaker 3: They was like you did. I was like, yeah, I 2989 02:19:57,240 --> 02:19:58,800 Speaker 3: took me forever, but I like, I learned how to 2990 02:19:58,840 --> 02:19:59,440 Speaker 3: do it on my own. 2991 02:19:59,720 --> 02:20:01,000 Speaker 2: But so I was to let them do it. 2992 02:20:01,400 --> 02:20:03,640 Speaker 4: Right, you know, right, that was that thing you supost 2993 02:20:03,720 --> 02:20:05,080 Speaker 4: let them do it. But I think a lot of 2994 02:20:05,120 --> 02:20:08,200 Speaker 4: people started doing stuff cause it was like, we understand 2995 02:20:08,240 --> 02:20:09,120 Speaker 4: this is your job, but. 2996 02:20:09,240 --> 02:20:13,760 Speaker 2: It kind of feel like they black, you're almost at home, right. 2997 02:20:14,000 --> 02:20:17,520 Speaker 3: And they washed our clothes every night, so amazing. 2998 02:20:17,600 --> 02:20:20,400 Speaker 4: So when you come back home, all your clothes was clean. 2999 02:20:20,600 --> 02:20:22,680 Speaker 2: Just put your clothes back up. I don't know why 3000 02:20:22,800 --> 02:20:24,560 Speaker 2: every place doesn't do that. That's so dope. 3001 02:20:24,640 --> 02:20:26,440 Speaker 4: You put your clothes back up, and it was hilarious. 3002 02:20:26,480 --> 02:20:28,720 Speaker 4: The last night, Leslie was all she had to tell us. 3003 02:20:28,720 --> 02:20:29,880 Speaker 4: She had to break the bad news. 3004 02:20:30,360 --> 02:20:31,880 Speaker 3: She was like, this is the last night they washed 3005 02:20:31,879 --> 02:20:36,119 Speaker 3: your clothes. Whole table went on. Then tie your table 3006 02:20:36,280 --> 02:20:38,840 Speaker 3: grown and she was like, well, I was just letting 3007 02:20:38,920 --> 02:20:39,280 Speaker 3: y'all know. 3008 02:20:39,680 --> 02:20:41,480 Speaker 2: You know, they take long to get used to some 3009 02:20:41,600 --> 02:20:43,680 Speaker 2: nice things, real nice time. 3010 02:20:43,920 --> 02:20:47,520 Speaker 3: Take me nice and turn it off and tell and 3011 02:20:47,680 --> 02:20:50,600 Speaker 3: don't tell me the party over. What is happening here? 3012 02:20:50,959 --> 02:20:53,560 Speaker 2: Here's the chicken wings. Leslie did that Marissa didn't get 3013 02:20:53,560 --> 02:20:56,920 Speaker 2: any I'm assuming these infamous chicken wings. 3014 02:20:57,160 --> 02:20:59,680 Speaker 3: Yes it is, Yes, it is. 3015 02:20:59,760 --> 02:21:01,520 Speaker 4: She was like for snack because a lot of time 3016 02:21:01,560 --> 02:21:04,440 Speaker 4: before dinner, we have like a cocktail abe before dinner, right, 3017 02:21:04,760 --> 02:21:07,600 Speaker 4: and so this is where they serve like adrbs and. 3018 02:21:07,680 --> 02:21:08,560 Speaker 3: All types of stuff. 3019 02:21:08,840 --> 02:21:11,400 Speaker 2: And so I heard y'all was picking all Leslie. I 3020 02:21:11,480 --> 02:21:15,320 Speaker 2: mean Marissa, that's what I heard the great vine. I'm 3021 02:21:15,360 --> 02:21:18,600 Speaker 2: not saying who. I'm not saying who told me? You know, 3022 02:21:18,920 --> 02:21:21,800 Speaker 2: my source is safe? As they said his feelings that 3023 02:21:21,959 --> 02:21:25,400 Speaker 2: that y'all gave Marissa a little bit of a rough time. Okay. 3024 02:21:25,840 --> 02:21:28,560 Speaker 2: So and I heard she didn't even get no wings. 3025 02:21:28,680 --> 02:21:32,280 Speaker 2: So that that's that's that's like a whole waste for 3026 02:21:32,360 --> 02:21:35,440 Speaker 2: the trip, like you in Attaway Jamaican didn't get no 3027 02:21:35,560 --> 02:21:40,560 Speaker 2: jerk wings like nigga an touch. She touched all the 3028 02:21:40,600 --> 02:21:44,840 Speaker 2: snorkels touch y'all haves swim and this is and look 3029 02:21:44,879 --> 02:21:46,080 Speaker 2: at the thanks she got. Wow. 3030 02:21:46,240 --> 02:21:49,520 Speaker 3: And on the last nights, this is what they put 3031 02:21:49,600 --> 02:21:51,160 Speaker 3: on the bed. They made the bed up and then 3032 02:21:51,200 --> 02:21:51,800 Speaker 3: they made. 3033 02:21:51,879 --> 02:21:52,960 Speaker 4: Like a like a dove thing. 3034 02:21:53,080 --> 02:21:55,200 Speaker 3: That was beautiful. I had to take a. 3035 02:21:55,200 --> 02:21:55,760 Speaker 4: Picture of it. 3036 02:21:56,120 --> 02:21:58,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, that got the doughnut. 3037 02:22:01,120 --> 02:22:03,280 Speaker 4: Yes, and it was hilarious. 3038 02:22:03,959 --> 02:22:06,600 Speaker 3: I was wanted to turn on the light in the 3039 02:22:06,680 --> 02:22:11,000 Speaker 3: hallway and this was wall for like five switches. So 3040 02:22:11,120 --> 02:22:13,000 Speaker 3: I was flipping all the switches and the light wouldn't 3041 02:22:13,000 --> 02:22:13,200 Speaker 3: come on. 3042 02:22:13,680 --> 02:22:15,600 Speaker 4: So I told Richie, I said, Richie, I don't think 3043 02:22:15,680 --> 02:22:17,880 Speaker 4: that the light bull, I said, I think the light 3044 02:22:17,920 --> 02:22:19,520 Speaker 4: bulb about He sayss okay. 3045 02:22:19,680 --> 02:22:23,400 Speaker 3: So we was out there and one of the ladies 3046 02:22:23,440 --> 02:22:24,920 Speaker 3: to say that when the clean lady she came in, 3047 02:22:25,080 --> 02:22:28,000 Speaker 3: she says Karen. I said, yes, ma'am. She said come here. 3048 02:22:28,080 --> 02:22:29,600 Speaker 3: I said okay, and she went. 3049 02:22:29,520 --> 02:22:31,680 Speaker 4: In there and she was like, she's like, I want 3050 02:22:31,720 --> 02:22:32,640 Speaker 4: you to know nothing wrong with y'all. 3051 02:22:32,680 --> 02:22:34,360 Speaker 3: She said it was on the opposite side of the wall. 3052 02:22:35,720 --> 02:22:38,039 Speaker 4: And I didn't realize, because what do you mean, because 3053 02:22:38,360 --> 02:22:39,120 Speaker 4: I had two walls. 3054 02:22:39,160 --> 02:22:40,480 Speaker 3: I had a wall here with switches. 3055 02:22:40,520 --> 02:22:41,920 Speaker 4: Then on the opposite of the wall. 3056 02:22:42,000 --> 02:22:44,680 Speaker 3: That's a switch. Turn on that light. I didn't make 3057 02:22:44,720 --> 02:22:45,119 Speaker 3: the connection. 3058 02:22:45,200 --> 02:22:46,960 Speaker 2: I just thought it was one of the switches on 3059 02:22:47,040 --> 02:22:47,360 Speaker 2: the wall. 3060 02:22:48,240 --> 02:22:51,880 Speaker 4: And I had a dying laughing and I said, I say, 3061 02:22:52,840 --> 02:22:54,600 Speaker 4: I know you hit that switch like, what is wrong 3062 02:22:54,640 --> 02:22:56,440 Speaker 4: with this girl? She came on here and this light 3063 02:22:56,480 --> 02:22:59,320 Speaker 4: ain't out and she started dying laughing. I say, I'm fire, 3064 02:22:59,320 --> 02:22:59,879 Speaker 4: I said, cause. 3065 02:22:59,720 --> 02:23:02,080 Speaker 3: That's what I would have said about me if I. 3066 02:23:02,120 --> 02:23:03,600 Speaker 4: Would have talked about a light out and all I 3067 02:23:03,640 --> 02:23:05,200 Speaker 4: had to was reach on the other side of the wall. 3068 02:23:06,800 --> 02:23:10,640 Speaker 2: They gotta take do not the donut disturbed pajamas. 3069 02:23:10,840 --> 02:23:14,040 Speaker 4: I like that thing. I actually did a video. I 3070 02:23:14,040 --> 02:23:15,200 Speaker 4: don't know if you were able to play about it. 3071 02:23:15,240 --> 02:23:18,200 Speaker 2: Out saw the video of you being very upset that 3072 02:23:18,280 --> 02:23:22,160 Speaker 2: it rained. Yes, I was today, so you couldn't get 3073 02:23:22,200 --> 02:23:25,320 Speaker 2: out there early. This is the horseback ride you picked flowers. 3074 02:23:26,480 --> 02:23:29,680 Speaker 4: That actually picked flowers, the people that give you. Yeah, 3075 02:23:29,720 --> 02:23:33,520 Speaker 4: the horseback riding was so much fun. And what happens 3076 02:23:33,600 --> 02:23:38,120 Speaker 4: is that, uh, this wasn't the traditional horseback riding. Like 3077 02:23:38,800 --> 02:23:41,080 Speaker 4: so this horseback riding, we actually went through the city 3078 02:23:41,560 --> 02:23:44,680 Speaker 4: where actually people live and shot out the dexter when 3079 02:23:44,720 --> 02:23:48,480 Speaker 4: we uh uh yeah, yeah, the tourists don't do this part. 3080 02:23:50,360 --> 02:23:53,480 Speaker 3: Oh let's say she don't do it, okay, uh yeah, 3081 02:23:53,720 --> 02:23:54,760 Speaker 3: she don't do the tourist ship. 3082 02:23:55,200 --> 02:23:57,040 Speaker 4: So what happened was that when we pulled up to 3083 02:23:57,240 --> 02:23:59,480 Speaker 4: the it was for us win. I think everybody else 3084 02:23:59,680 --> 02:24:03,480 Speaker 4: did the a chill, and so we pulled up. Before 3085 02:24:03,520 --> 02:24:05,119 Speaker 4: we got off the bus, they could said, I want 3086 02:24:05,120 --> 02:24:08,160 Speaker 4: you to know, he said, I know how long it's 3087 02:24:08,200 --> 02:24:12,560 Speaker 4: trippy is? He say, And I'll be chiming it, he say. 3088 02:24:13,080 --> 02:24:15,080 Speaker 4: And the man who owned this he said, I know, 3089 02:24:15,160 --> 02:24:17,440 Speaker 4: but he stays, he says, so if y'all don't return, 3090 02:24:17,480 --> 02:24:18,039 Speaker 4: there's gonna. 3091 02:24:17,840 --> 02:24:18,480 Speaker 2: Be some problems. 3092 02:24:19,800 --> 02:24:23,360 Speaker 4: And that's why I was like, that's was looking out right, 3093 02:24:23,400 --> 02:24:25,120 Speaker 4: because he was like because Dex was like, I'm the 3094 02:24:25,160 --> 02:24:27,520 Speaker 4: one to schedule this one, like I'm the one that 3095 02:24:27,640 --> 02:24:30,480 Speaker 4: made sure, and because what they do is that this 3096 02:24:30,800 --> 02:24:33,040 Speaker 4: isn't the one that the tourists do. 3097 02:24:33,240 --> 02:24:35,240 Speaker 3: This is more of non touristy. 3098 02:24:35,920 --> 02:24:39,080 Speaker 4: And so what happens that you have somebody that actually 3099 02:24:39,120 --> 02:24:42,960 Speaker 4: owns the horses and they actually people come thin they said, 3100 02:24:42,959 --> 02:24:46,000 Speaker 4: they start at seven am to like five thirty pm. 3101 02:24:46,520 --> 02:24:50,880 Speaker 4: And the people walking us they make their money do tips, right, Okay, yeah, 3102 02:24:50,920 --> 02:24:52,400 Speaker 4: so they don't get paid by the hour, and all 3103 02:24:52,440 --> 02:24:53,600 Speaker 4: that money they make for the day. 3104 02:24:53,560 --> 02:24:56,600 Speaker 3: Is strictly through tips. So we made sure we tipped 3105 02:24:56,640 --> 02:24:57,679 Speaker 3: them and everything. 3106 02:24:58,000 --> 02:25:01,400 Speaker 2: I take care of other folks man, right. The horse's 3107 02:25:01,480 --> 02:25:02,519 Speaker 2: name was Diamond. 3108 02:25:02,240 --> 02:25:04,320 Speaker 3: Yes, most name was Diamond, and there were white people 3109 02:25:04,360 --> 02:25:05,200 Speaker 3: there with no shoes on. 3110 02:25:05,280 --> 02:25:07,840 Speaker 4: We adn't know what was happening. I know, right, we 3111 02:25:07,959 --> 02:25:09,920 Speaker 4: were looking like because them them them things. 3112 02:25:09,840 --> 02:25:12,680 Speaker 2: You put your It was white people at the It 3113 02:25:12,760 --> 02:25:14,840 Speaker 2: was white people at the horse back round. But because 3114 02:25:14,959 --> 02:25:17,000 Speaker 2: they didn't go to the route, we went like after 3115 02:25:17,160 --> 02:25:19,680 Speaker 2: went to black so they so y'all didn't see them after. 3116 02:25:19,840 --> 02:25:21,920 Speaker 3: After a certain point, no, after a certain point we 3117 02:25:21,959 --> 02:25:22,720 Speaker 3: separate from them. 3118 02:25:22,600 --> 02:25:25,320 Speaker 2: Because okay, all right, I play the music again. 3119 02:25:25,959 --> 02:25:33,480 Speaker 4: Nobody did not stop that. 3120 02:25:41,120 --> 02:25:42,760 Speaker 2: Sorry we needed a palate cleanser. 3121 02:25:43,080 --> 02:25:44,360 Speaker 3: Ain't that after? Truth? 3122 02:25:45,320 --> 02:25:47,520 Speaker 2: White showing up on the vacation right. 3123 02:25:47,600 --> 02:25:49,400 Speaker 3: Just showing up ruining everything. 3124 02:25:52,000 --> 02:25:55,520 Speaker 4: And it was really really neat to get on the horse. 3125 02:25:55,560 --> 02:25:58,959 Speaker 4: We actually walked through like through the city. We walked 3126 02:25:59,080 --> 02:25:59,520 Speaker 4: up up and. 3127 02:25:59,560 --> 02:26:03,920 Speaker 3: Down the road, and uh, I had a really really 3128 02:26:04,000 --> 02:26:04,560 Speaker 3: good time. 3129 02:26:04,800 --> 02:26:07,800 Speaker 4: We actually walked like through neighborhoods and we actually going 3130 02:26:07,959 --> 02:26:11,000 Speaker 4: uphills and downhills. You could actually see the sea from 3131 02:26:11,120 --> 02:26:14,360 Speaker 4: like what we was galloping through. It was really really 3132 02:26:14,440 --> 02:26:17,880 Speaker 4: really fun. I actually learned how to better control the horse, 3133 02:26:18,080 --> 02:26:19,640 Speaker 4: you know, like kind of make it pull back and 3134 02:26:19,720 --> 02:26:22,200 Speaker 4: stop like they would kind of give you instructions while 3135 02:26:22,200 --> 02:26:25,760 Speaker 4: you were moving around with the horses, and we actually 3136 02:26:25,800 --> 02:26:28,200 Speaker 4: got to go into the water with the horse. So 3137 02:26:28,280 --> 02:26:31,640 Speaker 4: we walked their horses on the beach and came around 3138 02:26:32,320 --> 02:26:35,000 Speaker 4: and shout out to Adventure Page. 3139 02:26:35,080 --> 02:26:38,760 Speaker 3: She was she was getting it getting hard on those horses. 3140 02:26:40,080 --> 02:26:41,640 Speaker 4: We actually had a real good time. I think the 3141 02:26:42,080 --> 02:26:45,680 Speaker 4: hardest part was learning like whenever you're going up a 3142 02:26:45,800 --> 02:26:47,400 Speaker 4: hill how to sit and when you're going. 3143 02:26:47,280 --> 02:26:49,720 Speaker 3: Down a hill how to lean back, you know, and 3144 02:26:49,800 --> 02:26:50,600 Speaker 3: little things like that. 3145 02:26:50,760 --> 02:26:52,880 Speaker 4: But they walked, they walked me through that whole process, 3146 02:26:54,400 --> 02:26:56,800 Speaker 4: and the people were really really good that I actually 3147 02:26:56,879 --> 02:26:58,080 Speaker 4: did the tour. 3148 02:26:58,400 --> 02:26:59,880 Speaker 2: And was this on the last day or this is 3149 02:27:00,040 --> 02:27:01,600 Speaker 2: the day before the last day? When was us? 3150 02:27:02,000 --> 02:27:06,360 Speaker 3: I want to say, this was the jay Okay, oh 3151 02:27:06,400 --> 02:27:07,920 Speaker 3: this man, this man have been on last day. 3152 02:27:08,120 --> 02:27:10,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all stayed so many days. Then they started running together, 3153 02:27:10,520 --> 02:27:13,480 Speaker 2: which is dope it you know, it's like a proper vacation. 3154 02:27:13,640 --> 02:27:17,640 Speaker 4: Right, and and the thing is shout out to Leslie. 3155 02:27:17,680 --> 02:27:21,440 Speaker 4: I think Leslie said she was an event planner because 3156 02:27:21,520 --> 02:27:23,920 Speaker 4: this was the first vacation where I didn't need a 3157 02:27:24,000 --> 02:27:26,720 Speaker 4: vacation from my vacation, if that makes sense, because you 3158 02:27:26,879 --> 02:27:29,920 Speaker 4: literally everything was planning, so you didn't have to make decisions. 3159 02:27:30,440 --> 02:27:33,360 Speaker 4: You just showed up, you went places, you had a 3160 02:27:33,440 --> 02:27:36,120 Speaker 4: good times. You could live to be free, you could 3161 02:27:36,160 --> 02:27:38,160 Speaker 4: just relax. You didn't have to worry about what to 3162 02:27:38,160 --> 02:27:42,200 Speaker 4: eat or anything like. Everything was just literally just taken 3163 02:27:42,320 --> 02:27:45,040 Speaker 4: care of. And it's one of those things where I 3164 02:27:45,160 --> 02:27:49,000 Speaker 4: was like, Oh, this is what a real vacation is 3165 02:27:49,360 --> 02:27:50,440 Speaker 4: supposed to be like. 3166 02:27:51,240 --> 02:27:53,640 Speaker 3: You know, you know, this is why people. 3167 02:27:53,480 --> 02:27:56,360 Speaker 4: Get like the airplane mound and do the lounges that 3168 02:27:56,480 --> 02:27:58,760 Speaker 4: they have to layover. They don't be out there when 3169 02:27:58,760 --> 02:28:00,320 Speaker 4: the rest of us sitting in them chain. Uh. They 3170 02:28:00,400 --> 02:28:04,400 Speaker 4: be in special places eating and drinking. You know why 3171 02:28:04,440 --> 02:28:06,440 Speaker 4: they waiting on their planes you know ship that I 3172 02:28:06,480 --> 02:28:09,680 Speaker 4: didn't even know existed. But I say, you had a 3173 02:28:09,680 --> 02:28:10,000 Speaker 4: good time. 3174 02:28:10,040 --> 02:28:10,360 Speaker 3: We had a. 3175 02:28:12,120 --> 02:28:15,600 Speaker 2: So then after that, y'all, what did y'all do the 3176 02:28:15,680 --> 02:28:17,000 Speaker 2: last day before y'all left. 3177 02:28:19,200 --> 02:28:22,959 Speaker 3: And doing the uh dinner? 3178 02:28:23,879 --> 02:28:25,040 Speaker 4: Uh, we did a lot of stuff. 3179 02:28:25,040 --> 02:28:27,360 Speaker 2: Who actually ate that was the award dinner? 3180 02:28:28,160 --> 02:28:29,600 Speaker 3: Ward dinner had last night? 3181 02:28:29,680 --> 02:28:34,400 Speaker 4: There was like the award dinner. So they actually had 3182 02:28:34,480 --> 02:28:36,760 Speaker 4: like awards that they gave out to everybody, which was 3183 02:28:36,800 --> 02:28:37,600 Speaker 4: actually hilarious. 3184 02:28:38,240 --> 02:28:38,360 Speaker 2: Uh. 3185 02:28:38,480 --> 02:28:43,200 Speaker 4: They awards after everybody we ate, everybody went around and 3186 02:28:43,280 --> 02:28:46,080 Speaker 4: started not not everybody didn't speak, but the bulk of 3187 02:28:46,080 --> 02:28:49,320 Speaker 4: the people went around and started, uh talking about the 3188 02:28:49,560 --> 02:28:53,520 Speaker 4: their experience and you know about you know, coming on. 3189 02:28:53,640 --> 02:28:56,039 Speaker 3: The trip and things like that, and you know. 3190 02:28:58,160 --> 02:28:59,760 Speaker 4: A lot of tea years, you. 3191 02:28:59,800 --> 02:29:02,920 Speaker 2: Know, because you know, I got to go back to 3192 02:29:03,000 --> 02:29:04,320 Speaker 2: the white folks on Monday. 3193 02:29:05,640 --> 02:29:07,920 Speaker 3: Uh, that alone to make you cry. 3194 02:29:08,200 --> 02:29:10,840 Speaker 4: But but this was black women happy to us though, right, 3195 02:29:10,879 --> 02:29:12,920 Speaker 4: I know, I'll just but but non't know that that 3196 02:29:13,040 --> 02:29:15,960 Speaker 4: will make you cry, you know, like like yeah, like 3197 02:29:16,040 --> 02:29:16,680 Speaker 4: I gotta. 3198 02:29:16,480 --> 02:29:19,800 Speaker 2: Leave this behind and go to these white people's. 3199 02:29:19,400 --> 02:29:20,040 Speaker 3: In the morning. 3200 02:29:20,400 --> 02:29:24,760 Speaker 4: No, right, that'll really have you all on your feelings. 3201 02:29:24,959 --> 02:29:27,920 Speaker 3: Right. And so oh and leslie mama was there. 3202 02:29:28,360 --> 02:29:29,800 Speaker 2: Yes, she came for a day, right. 3203 02:29:29,760 --> 02:29:32,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I bet she got that Wednesday, Wednesday, Thursday. 3204 02:29:33,120 --> 02:29:36,760 Speaker 2: And in the background, can starts trapping again, slow my 3205 02:29:36,879 --> 02:29:39,520 Speaker 2: pool thing. But this isn't my favorite tanking. 3206 02:29:39,800 --> 02:29:42,320 Speaker 4: So this is my favorite tanking. 3207 02:29:42,480 --> 02:29:43,360 Speaker 2: I was Leslie's mom. 3208 02:29:44,000 --> 02:29:48,560 Speaker 3: She was wonderful, she was funny, she was and that. 3209 02:29:48,959 --> 02:29:51,840 Speaker 2: Her mom's from Jamaica, right, is that right? I want 3210 02:29:51,840 --> 02:29:54,480 Speaker 2: to say, that's right. I know Leslie got some Jamaican 3211 02:29:54,520 --> 02:29:57,400 Speaker 2: in her yes she does, and uh it was. 3212 02:30:00,080 --> 02:30:00,840 Speaker 4: Home was the best. 3213 02:30:01,440 --> 02:30:05,040 Speaker 2: Yes, face give him the eyes. Karen look dead in 3214 02:30:05,120 --> 02:30:05,600 Speaker 2: that camera. 3215 02:30:07,040 --> 02:30:09,480 Speaker 4: After after a while, I after a while, I figured 3216 02:30:09,480 --> 02:30:11,040 Speaker 4: out how to do it. I figured out how to 3217 02:30:11,080 --> 02:30:13,760 Speaker 4: get my slow motion and then I did anothering one. 3218 02:30:13,800 --> 02:30:15,200 Speaker 3: I went down in the water and I did a 3219 02:30:15,520 --> 02:30:22,960 Speaker 3: I dipped on the dog. I dipped yay. Yes, I 3220 02:30:23,080 --> 02:30:23,879 Speaker 3: told her I blamed. 3221 02:30:23,959 --> 02:30:26,280 Speaker 4: I told everybody. I said, I blame Jasmine. Y'all want 3222 02:30:26,280 --> 02:30:28,120 Speaker 4: to know why I put them picked brain Jasmine. She 3223 02:30:28,160 --> 02:30:30,000 Speaker 4: showed me how to do this was the reverse when 3224 02:30:30,040 --> 02:30:34,480 Speaker 4: I did. But I went down and then did a 3225 02:30:34,600 --> 02:30:35,360 Speaker 4: dip in the water. 3226 02:30:35,600 --> 02:30:39,519 Speaker 2: Yes, the water was glistening all over yo, bod. 3227 02:30:39,720 --> 02:30:44,520 Speaker 4: Yes, it was all over my mighty honey, all over 3228 02:30:44,640 --> 02:30:45,160 Speaker 4: my body. 3229 02:30:45,400 --> 02:30:45,959 Speaker 9: I had a. 3230 02:30:47,959 --> 02:30:48,680 Speaker 3: A blast. 3231 02:30:48,879 --> 02:30:53,720 Speaker 4: And I think during the dinner the last night, everybody yo, 3232 02:30:54,080 --> 02:30:56,840 Speaker 4: uh Leslie recorded d shout out to you lastly she 3233 02:30:56,959 --> 02:31:01,199 Speaker 4: recorded this this d those last two videos and slow motion, 3234 02:31:01,879 --> 02:31:06,480 Speaker 4: and it was a beautiful dinner and everybody began to 3235 02:31:06,520 --> 02:31:09,000 Speaker 4: share things, and you know, and and I had to 3236 02:31:09,240 --> 02:31:11,040 Speaker 4: I feel like this talking to everybody. 3237 02:31:11,120 --> 02:31:13,720 Speaker 3: I've learned several different things from this trip. 3238 02:31:15,080 --> 02:31:16,959 Speaker 4: One thing I've learned is that. 3239 02:31:19,480 --> 02:31:20,039 Speaker 9: I am. 3240 02:31:21,920 --> 02:31:26,360 Speaker 3: I said, oh, well, before I go into this, before 3241 02:31:26,360 --> 02:31:27,160 Speaker 3: I go in to dinner. 3242 02:31:28,480 --> 02:31:29,240 Speaker 4: The dinner thing. 3243 02:31:29,600 --> 02:31:30,720 Speaker 3: We did this thing where we. 3244 02:31:33,200 --> 02:31:39,959 Speaker 4: Took uh there like balloons, and it was Tea and Jasmine. 3245 02:31:40,520 --> 02:31:44,039 Speaker 4: Uh actually walked us through a process. When Jasmine started, 3246 02:31:44,120 --> 02:31:46,760 Speaker 4: she talked about breathing and how to get in a 3247 02:31:46,840 --> 02:31:50,440 Speaker 4: peaceful place, how to relax, how to calm down, how 3248 02:31:50,480 --> 02:31:52,840 Speaker 4: to get in the in in in a free space 3249 02:31:52,879 --> 02:31:56,400 Speaker 4: in your mind, and kind of like yeah, kind of 3250 02:31:56,440 --> 02:32:01,040 Speaker 4: a grounding exercise. And then Tea came along and we 3251 02:32:01,160 --> 02:32:03,160 Speaker 4: had like we took a piece of papers, we voted 3252 02:32:03,240 --> 02:32:06,600 Speaker 4: in half and we wrote things we wanted to accept 3253 02:32:06,680 --> 02:32:09,800 Speaker 4: and things we're going to release. And you wrote a 3254 02:32:09,879 --> 02:32:12,680 Speaker 4: list of things you wanted to release and things you 3255 02:32:12,760 --> 02:32:17,240 Speaker 4: wanted to accept and things you wanted to release. You 3256 02:32:17,400 --> 02:32:18,840 Speaker 4: took it and you bought it up, and they had 3257 02:32:18,879 --> 02:32:20,760 Speaker 4: a bonfire, walk down to the bason. At the bonfire, 3258 02:32:20,800 --> 02:32:21,280 Speaker 4: you threw it in the. 3259 02:32:23,560 --> 02:32:24,080 Speaker 3: Burn it up. 3260 02:32:24,440 --> 02:32:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, Atlanta. But you know next week they 3261 02:32:27,240 --> 02:32:29,760 Speaker 2: was back then, you know, but still like I saw that, 3262 02:32:29,840 --> 02:32:32,320 Speaker 2: but I did see that. It was it was powerful, 3263 02:32:32,400 --> 02:32:37,000 Speaker 2: but then you know, monas got young. Just keep it going. 3264 02:32:37,480 --> 02:32:40,600 Speaker 3: So that was that was my first time doing anything 3265 02:32:40,760 --> 02:32:43,400 Speaker 3: like that. And yeah, it was a lot of things, 3266 02:32:43,560 --> 02:32:43,959 Speaker 3: a lot of. 3267 02:32:44,560 --> 02:32:47,960 Speaker 4: Negative things that I kind of realized I had been 3268 02:32:48,040 --> 02:32:51,600 Speaker 4: holding on to, you know, you know, for me, it 3269 02:32:51,800 --> 02:32:55,240 Speaker 4: was one of the things where you know, I wanted. 3270 02:32:55,000 --> 02:32:58,280 Speaker 3: To, uh stop apologizing. 3271 02:32:58,440 --> 02:33:02,160 Speaker 4: That's one thing I do constantly, you know, work on apologizing, 3272 02:33:02,600 --> 02:33:07,280 Speaker 4: work on not shrinking myself, you know, and realize that 3273 02:33:07,879 --> 02:33:10,400 Speaker 4: I am bold and I am strong, and you know, 3274 02:33:10,560 --> 02:33:13,039 Speaker 4: my voices there and I could be heard, you know. 3275 02:33:13,720 --> 02:33:14,879 Speaker 3: Kind of kind of kind of goes. 3276 02:33:16,520 --> 02:33:19,480 Speaker 4: Being around this group of very smart and intelligent women 3277 02:33:19,560 --> 02:33:24,720 Speaker 4: from all backgrounds made me realize that anything is possible, 3278 02:33:24,720 --> 02:33:29,160 Speaker 4: because it's something about being around different women. And regardless 3279 02:33:29,360 --> 02:33:31,600 Speaker 4: it was, it was amazing because regardless of what. 3280 02:33:31,680 --> 02:33:34,480 Speaker 3: Your educational level was, we all were ratchet. 3281 02:33:34,920 --> 02:33:37,480 Speaker 4: Regardless of what your education education there was, we all 3282 02:33:37,520 --> 02:33:41,640 Speaker 4: could sit and have conversations and we all could sit 3283 02:33:42,040 --> 02:33:43,840 Speaker 4: and get to know each other. Regardless of what your 3284 02:33:43,920 --> 02:33:46,600 Speaker 4: background was, we could sit and and I think the 3285 02:33:46,680 --> 02:33:49,560 Speaker 4: most beautiful thing about this trip, with it being all 3286 02:33:49,600 --> 02:33:53,240 Speaker 4: black women, we could talk about titties, we can talk 3287 02:33:53,240 --> 02:33:56,240 Speaker 4: about periods, we can talk about children, we could talk 3288 02:33:56,280 --> 02:33:59,080 Speaker 4: about all these things in a judgment free zone. We 3289 02:33:59,160 --> 02:34:02,359 Speaker 4: could talk about dinner with white people, dealing with oppression, 3290 02:34:02,680 --> 02:34:05,720 Speaker 4: dealing with systematic racism. You know, we could literally be 3291 02:34:06,000 --> 02:34:11,440 Speaker 4: open and free to express these things in an environment 3292 02:34:11,560 --> 02:34:15,760 Speaker 4: where people understood, where you knew your feelings were valid, 3293 02:34:15,959 --> 02:34:18,320 Speaker 4: and nobody looked at you or told you you were wrong, 3294 02:34:18,480 --> 02:34:21,600 Speaker 4: or told you that your feelings weren't valid, or or 3295 02:34:22,560 --> 02:34:23,680 Speaker 4: that really didn't. 3296 02:34:23,440 --> 02:34:24,680 Speaker 3: Happen to you the way you thought it. 3297 02:34:24,800 --> 02:34:30,440 Speaker 4: Happened to you. And so it was really an experience, 3298 02:34:30,920 --> 02:34:32,800 Speaker 4: you know, Like I said, people not knowing how to 3299 02:34:32,840 --> 02:34:34,600 Speaker 4: swim all of a sudden had to courage to want alone, 3300 02:34:34,640 --> 02:34:38,080 Speaker 4: how to float, you know, people out there doing trap yoga, 3301 02:34:38,320 --> 02:34:40,160 Speaker 4: you know, horseback riding. You know, a lot of us 3302 02:34:40,160 --> 02:34:42,480 Speaker 4: had never hosted. I know, I had never horstback reading before. 3303 02:34:42,879 --> 02:34:45,119 Speaker 4: I had never went ziphlne it before. I never climbed 3304 02:34:45,160 --> 02:34:47,640 Speaker 4: uprom mount before. You know, most of the events was 3305 02:34:47,680 --> 02:34:50,039 Speaker 4: the first time. Most of the food I had never 3306 02:34:50,120 --> 02:34:52,760 Speaker 4: eaten before, you know, but it was something that I 3307 02:34:52,879 --> 02:34:55,400 Speaker 4: was going to do and I noticed myself strange. But 3308 02:34:55,640 --> 02:34:57,640 Speaker 4: I want to tell you thank you because I remember 3309 02:34:57,680 --> 02:35:00,760 Speaker 4: when she talked about it, I was like, didn't even 3310 02:35:00,800 --> 02:35:02,520 Speaker 4: know if I really wanted to go, and like I 3311 02:35:02,680 --> 02:35:04,520 Speaker 4: was telling them at dinner, I was like, because I 3312 02:35:04,560 --> 02:35:06,840 Speaker 4: didn't think I was worthy of going, because, like I said, 3313 02:35:07,440 --> 02:35:09,959 Speaker 4: most people that won this trip with some from an activist. 3314 02:35:10,840 --> 02:35:14,280 Speaker 4: And to me, when I look at black women that 3315 02:35:14,480 --> 02:35:18,560 Speaker 4: are activists, I'm like, Okay, you put your body on 3316 02:35:18,640 --> 02:35:22,039 Speaker 4: the line, your faces out there. You do with harassment, 3317 02:35:22,640 --> 02:35:24,720 Speaker 4: people constantly coming at you. You have to do with 3318 02:35:24,920 --> 02:35:28,240 Speaker 4: possibly being doxic docks. You know, it is a lot 3319 02:35:28,320 --> 02:35:29,920 Speaker 4: to go with that. You have to deal with white 3320 02:35:29,959 --> 02:35:34,959 Speaker 4: women aggression, white man aggression, niggas, hotep niggas, like, it's 3321 02:35:35,000 --> 02:35:37,560 Speaker 4: a lot when you're on the forefront of a lot 3322 02:35:37,600 --> 02:35:38,240 Speaker 4: of these things. 3323 02:35:39,160 --> 02:35:40,640 Speaker 3: And I was like, I don't do none of that, 3324 02:35:41,240 --> 02:35:44,320 Speaker 3: Like I don't do any of any of that part 3325 02:35:44,400 --> 02:35:44,600 Speaker 3: of it. 3326 02:35:44,879 --> 02:35:46,480 Speaker 4: So to me, I was like, well, I was like 3327 02:35:46,720 --> 02:35:50,160 Speaker 4: I almost was like, well, I didn't understand why I 3328 02:35:50,320 --> 02:35:53,000 Speaker 4: was invited on the trip because I was like, I 3329 02:35:53,040 --> 02:35:54,920 Speaker 4: guess in my in my mind and that that that's 3330 02:35:55,000 --> 02:35:57,720 Speaker 4: more of that shrinking of yourself. You know that I've 3331 02:35:57,760 --> 02:35:59,920 Speaker 4: got to learn how to break, you know, Because then 3332 02:36:00,000 --> 02:36:03,760 Speaker 4: in my mind I was like, I'm among women that 3333 02:36:03,879 --> 02:36:07,560 Speaker 4: have done great things, and what have I done to 3334 02:36:07,680 --> 02:36:11,240 Speaker 4: make myself worthy of being here with them and being 3335 02:36:11,320 --> 02:36:16,360 Speaker 4: in their presence, not realizing that a lot of them 3336 02:36:16,640 --> 02:36:19,840 Speaker 4: want it to be in my presence, not realizing that 3337 02:36:21,760 --> 02:36:24,880 Speaker 4: talking to the talking to everybody there, you know, a 3338 02:36:24,959 --> 02:36:29,920 Speaker 4: lot of them was like, Karen, I've listened to you 3339 02:36:30,840 --> 02:36:35,480 Speaker 4: and you help me, you know, I you know, we 3340 02:36:35,680 --> 02:36:40,600 Speaker 4: do these things. But the way you say the things, 3341 02:36:41,080 --> 02:36:44,320 Speaker 4: people will actually hear them because they don't feel like 3342 02:36:44,360 --> 02:36:46,240 Speaker 4: they're being yelled at, you know, because a lot of time. 3343 02:36:46,120 --> 02:36:47,280 Speaker 3: When you're active, regardless of. 3344 02:36:47,240 --> 02:36:49,040 Speaker 4: What you say, people just assume that you're yelling at them, 3345 02:36:50,440 --> 02:36:53,520 Speaker 4: right is they take it in negative ways When you know, 3346 02:36:53,680 --> 02:36:55,960 Speaker 4: and when you speak, you actually are able to reach 3347 02:36:56,040 --> 02:36:58,959 Speaker 4: people that that I might not be able to reach, 3348 02:36:59,320 --> 02:37:03,320 Speaker 4: you know, because the thing is, it's like I see 3349 02:37:03,400 --> 02:37:07,080 Speaker 4: the work and the grind and the sacrifice and the 3350 02:37:07,160 --> 02:37:09,720 Speaker 4: heartaches and the pain that a lot of these women 3351 02:37:09,920 --> 02:37:11,840 Speaker 4: in the group went through to get to where they were. 3352 02:37:12,040 --> 02:37:14,280 Speaker 4: There were people that were PhDs, you know, there were 3353 02:37:14,320 --> 02:37:17,040 Speaker 4: people that were various different educations and backgrounds, women that 3354 02:37:17,080 --> 02:37:19,120 Speaker 4: had traveled all over the world, and some women like 3355 02:37:19,240 --> 02:37:22,000 Speaker 4: me that barely have been outside of the States, you know, 3356 02:37:22,840 --> 02:37:23,959 Speaker 4: And it was one. 3357 02:37:23,879 --> 02:37:28,480 Speaker 3: Of those things where it showed me how to be bolder, 3358 02:37:29,040 --> 02:37:30,680 Speaker 3: It showed me how to be more adventurous. 3359 02:37:31,280 --> 02:37:37,119 Speaker 4: It showed me not to allow myself to prevent myself 3360 02:37:37,160 --> 02:37:39,959 Speaker 4: from reaching my own greatness. Because sometimes you can put 3361 02:37:40,040 --> 02:37:42,280 Speaker 4: yourself in your own way. You can get on your 3362 02:37:42,280 --> 02:37:44,880 Speaker 4: own mind. You can think you're not worthy, you can 3363 02:37:44,959 --> 02:37:47,200 Speaker 4: think you're not good enough, you can think you don't 3364 02:37:47,240 --> 02:37:50,720 Speaker 4: have the correct education. You can just think, well, you know, 3365 02:37:50,840 --> 02:37:52,440 Speaker 4: people are gonna pick at me, people are gonna laugh 3366 02:37:52,440 --> 02:37:53,400 Speaker 4: at me, people gonna. 3367 02:37:53,240 --> 02:37:53,600 Speaker 3: Joke at me. 3368 02:37:53,959 --> 02:37:56,200 Speaker 4: You know, you can, you can you tell yourself so, 3369 02:37:56,400 --> 02:37:59,120 Speaker 4: particularly being a black woman, because society has told you 3370 02:37:59,240 --> 02:38:02,280 Speaker 4: that you are worth Society has told you that your 3371 02:38:02,400 --> 02:38:07,680 Speaker 4: life doesn't mean anything. Society has told you that at 3372 02:38:07,720 --> 02:38:10,600 Speaker 4: the end of the day, you are worthless, you know. 3373 02:38:11,080 --> 02:38:14,360 Speaker 4: And so many women grow up with a lot of 3374 02:38:14,400 --> 02:38:19,000 Speaker 4: this negativity. Even grown adults still have these chains wrapped 3375 02:38:19,040 --> 02:38:22,360 Speaker 4: around them. They have all these chains, all this hurt, 3376 02:38:22,640 --> 02:38:26,240 Speaker 4: all this pain, all this negativity for family, from men, 3377 02:38:26,560 --> 02:38:30,360 Speaker 4: from boyfriends, from husbands, from children, all this disappointment, all 3378 02:38:30,440 --> 02:38:32,720 Speaker 4: this hurt. They have it, and every day they get up, 3379 02:38:32,800 --> 02:38:34,000 Speaker 4: it weighs them down. 3380 02:38:34,160 --> 02:38:35,080 Speaker 3: It weighs them. 3381 02:38:35,000 --> 02:38:38,200 Speaker 4: Down and you have got to get to the point 3382 02:38:38,440 --> 02:38:41,040 Speaker 4: to realize that the only thing keeping you change is you. 3383 02:38:42,240 --> 02:38:44,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's the thing. If you defeat yourself 3384 02:38:44,320 --> 02:38:47,039 Speaker 2: before you even start, right, then how you don't even 3385 02:38:47,080 --> 02:38:48,800 Speaker 2: know what you're capable of? You know, I did the 3386 02:38:48,879 --> 02:38:51,560 Speaker 2: same thing, Like it's something you know, this year, I 3387 02:38:51,640 --> 02:38:54,400 Speaker 2: really been trying to Like it's a joke, but I'm serious, 3388 02:38:54,600 --> 02:38:57,240 Speaker 2: Like I really have been trying to fall into me, 3389 02:38:57,480 --> 02:39:00,640 Speaker 2: Like I really have been trying to be more comfortable 3390 02:39:00,959 --> 02:39:03,480 Speaker 2: and be more aware, be more present, and push myself 3391 02:39:03,720 --> 02:39:06,360 Speaker 2: to do things that maybe I wouldn't have done a 3392 02:39:06,480 --> 02:39:09,240 Speaker 2: year ago, two years ago, five years ago. I mean, 3393 02:39:09,360 --> 02:39:12,800 Speaker 2: all this stuff that we're doing with the show is 3394 02:39:13,200 --> 02:39:15,480 Speaker 2: stuff that I would have never perceived when we first 3395 02:39:15,520 --> 02:39:19,480 Speaker 2: started the show. The people we speak for, the people 3396 02:39:19,560 --> 02:39:26,280 Speaker 2: we speak to, like there's a void and we help 3397 02:39:26,360 --> 02:39:29,880 Speaker 2: feel that, and like we're not the only ones, and 3398 02:39:30,000 --> 02:39:32,080 Speaker 2: there's a bunch of shows, but we're the only ones 3399 02:39:32,120 --> 02:39:33,520 Speaker 2: that do it the way we do it, you know, 3400 02:39:33,800 --> 02:39:36,240 Speaker 2: and everybody has to do it uniquely the way they 3401 02:39:36,320 --> 02:39:39,000 Speaker 2: do it. But you get voice to certain things that 3402 02:39:39,040 --> 02:39:42,120 Speaker 2: people wouldn't Sometimes people don't even have the words to 3403 02:39:42,200 --> 02:39:44,680 Speaker 2: put it out and you get them the microphone, you 3404 02:39:44,760 --> 02:39:47,240 Speaker 2: share your soul with all these people. It goes all 3405 02:39:47,280 --> 02:39:48,920 Speaker 2: the way out into the world, and there's a bunch 3406 02:39:48,920 --> 02:39:52,280 Speaker 2: of people that identify with that, you know, whether they 3407 02:39:52,440 --> 02:39:54,880 Speaker 2: you know, sometimes it's just I know, I've had that 3408 02:39:54,959 --> 02:39:56,960 Speaker 2: experience where I'm like, oh cool, I'm not crazy. Like 3409 02:39:57,000 --> 02:39:59,760 Speaker 2: I'm just listening to someone's podcast and I'm like, okay, 3410 02:39:59,840 --> 02:40:04,720 Speaker 2: so I'm not crazy. And you know, especially in light 3411 02:40:04,840 --> 02:40:07,080 Speaker 2: of like all the shit on Twitter with that Bourbon 3412 02:40:07,160 --> 02:40:10,160 Speaker 2: Ball shit and all that fallout and people calling each 3413 02:40:10,200 --> 02:40:13,680 Speaker 2: other scammers and all this stuff, and you realize like 3414 02:40:15,200 --> 02:40:18,080 Speaker 2: that that was an event that brought so many people together, 3415 02:40:18,800 --> 02:40:21,800 Speaker 2: and yet so many people end up having a bad experience. 3416 02:40:22,480 --> 02:40:25,480 Speaker 2: You know, Now, we can't guarantee anybody's experience at like 3417 02:40:25,600 --> 02:40:28,800 Speaker 2: a black out Tips event, but the fact that we've 3418 02:40:28,840 --> 02:40:31,720 Speaker 2: gone this far knock on wood, this long with so 3419 02:40:31,840 --> 02:40:36,760 Speaker 2: many people that have truly been great, people that have 3420 02:40:36,879 --> 02:40:39,959 Speaker 2: been good towards each other, that have made spaces safe 3421 02:40:40,000 --> 02:40:42,240 Speaker 2: for those that we normally don't people normally don't look 3422 02:40:42,280 --> 02:40:45,920 Speaker 2: out for come out. You know the fact that you know, 3423 02:40:46,120 --> 02:40:51,920 Speaker 2: we can have a listenership where you know, we can 3424 02:40:52,000 --> 02:40:54,240 Speaker 2: have an event black women can be there and it's 3425 02:40:54,320 --> 02:40:57,040 Speaker 2: not you know, niggas in there trying to be creepy, 3426 02:40:57,280 --> 02:41:00,160 Speaker 2: get them drunk, touching people. The fact that people come 3427 02:41:00,240 --> 02:41:02,280 Speaker 2: up to us and they tell us like, you taught 3428 02:41:02,320 --> 02:41:03,880 Speaker 2: me how to love myself. You taught me how to 3429 02:41:03,920 --> 02:41:05,920 Speaker 2: love black people. You taught me how to love black women. 3430 02:41:05,959 --> 02:41:08,920 Speaker 2: You taught me how to love black LGBTQ people. You know, 3431 02:41:09,160 --> 02:41:15,080 Speaker 2: like to see people see the world differently because of 3432 02:41:15,760 --> 02:41:20,600 Speaker 2: hearing what we say and what we do and the 3433 02:41:20,680 --> 02:41:23,280 Speaker 2: people that brings together, Like it really warms my heart 3434 02:41:23,360 --> 02:41:25,640 Speaker 2: that so many women on the trip met through our 3435 02:41:25,720 --> 02:41:28,119 Speaker 2: show and met through the things that we do, because 3436 02:41:28,440 --> 02:41:31,240 Speaker 2: that when we started this show, that was the thing 3437 02:41:31,280 --> 02:41:34,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to do different. I wanted to define what 3438 02:41:35,120 --> 02:41:38,080 Speaker 2: we do as a It's not a competition to get 3439 02:41:38,280 --> 02:41:41,840 Speaker 2: like the copyright and the brand and the fucking like 3440 02:41:42,760 --> 02:41:44,959 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do your show. I'm gonna have beef 3441 02:41:45,000 --> 02:41:47,120 Speaker 2: and I'm gonna do this and all this, nigga just 3442 02:41:47,240 --> 02:41:49,640 Speaker 2: you know, it wasn't even that, Like, we just want 3443 02:41:49,680 --> 02:41:53,200 Speaker 2: a space, a space where everybody's invited as long as 3444 02:41:53,240 --> 02:41:56,279 Speaker 2: they fuck with each other and they not about disrespecting 3445 02:41:56,320 --> 02:41:59,400 Speaker 2: people's humanity right and to see that, you know, and 3446 02:41:59,520 --> 02:42:01,640 Speaker 2: you're a part part of that. Like it's like I couldn't. 3447 02:42:01,640 --> 02:42:03,560 Speaker 2: I would have never done the show without you. So 3448 02:42:03,840 --> 02:42:06,760 Speaker 2: you're a part of that, you know. So anything that 3449 02:42:07,240 --> 02:42:09,920 Speaker 2: I've accomplished, you've accomplished. You know, when you go to 3450 02:42:10,000 --> 02:42:12,960 Speaker 2: these conferences, I ain't going by myself, you know what 3451 02:42:13,040 --> 02:42:14,680 Speaker 2: I mean when they put us on these panels, I 3452 02:42:14,720 --> 02:42:17,120 Speaker 2: ain't never doing a panel by myself. It's you know, 3453 02:42:17,240 --> 02:42:21,760 Speaker 2: we're a team. So you know, if any way that 3454 02:42:21,840 --> 02:42:23,800 Speaker 2: you feel about the show and stuff is how people 3455 02:42:23,840 --> 02:42:26,400 Speaker 2: feel about you as well, you know, so you definitely 3456 02:42:26,440 --> 02:42:27,840 Speaker 2: deserve to be on that trail, you know. 3457 02:42:28,200 --> 02:42:31,800 Speaker 4: And I really thank you for encouraging me, because at 3458 02:42:31,840 --> 02:42:34,440 Speaker 4: first I was like, I literally was I really was 3459 02:42:34,480 --> 02:42:34,720 Speaker 4: going to. 3460 02:42:34,760 --> 02:42:37,520 Speaker 3: Tell them No. Initially I was like I was like, nah, 3461 02:42:37,560 --> 02:42:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm good. I was like, go ahead and get that. 3462 02:42:39,240 --> 02:42:42,520 Speaker 4: To somebody else that deserved it, somebody else that was 3463 02:42:42,640 --> 02:42:43,200 Speaker 4: worthy of it. 3464 02:42:43,400 --> 02:42:46,840 Speaker 2: You know, if it's the imposter syndrome thing too, you know, 3465 02:42:47,000 --> 02:42:48,960 Speaker 2: which everyone struggles with. That's not just a black thing, 3466 02:42:49,120 --> 02:42:53,840 Speaker 2: but black people, brown marginalized people uniquely have this extra 3467 02:42:54,000 --> 02:42:58,880 Speaker 2: level of like imposter syndrome, Like oh, I shouldn't be here, like, 3468 02:42:59,000 --> 02:43:03,800 Speaker 2: because whiteness by itself validates everything. Being a man by 3469 02:43:03,840 --> 02:43:06,720 Speaker 2: hisself validates everything. Right, there's no man it feels he 3470 02:43:06,760 --> 02:43:09,920 Speaker 2: doesn't deserve what the fuck he's got. There's no white 3471 02:43:09,920 --> 02:43:12,320 Speaker 2: person that doesn't feel they deserve what the fuck they got. 3472 02:43:12,760 --> 02:43:15,760 Speaker 2: Straight people, we feel like we deserve we earned. It's 3473 02:43:15,800 --> 02:43:18,560 Speaker 2: why people get so offended when someone brings up like, well, 3474 02:43:18,600 --> 02:43:21,920 Speaker 2: you know, being know, being gay in this situation would 3475 02:43:21,920 --> 02:43:23,520 Speaker 2: have really messed up my at the end, And we're like, 3476 02:43:23,720 --> 02:43:25,920 Speaker 2: what you're saying I didn't work hard? Are you trying 3477 02:43:25,959 --> 02:43:28,000 Speaker 2: to say that I didn't earn my degree? You know, 3478 02:43:28,080 --> 02:43:31,240 Speaker 2: it's that type of thing where what that defensiveness, it 3479 02:43:31,320 --> 02:43:34,320 Speaker 2: comes from the fact that it is true that there's 3480 02:43:34,360 --> 02:43:39,840 Speaker 2: a certain level of unearned. It just validity to the 3481 02:43:39,959 --> 02:43:44,640 Speaker 2: existence of people that are marginalized. So you know that 3482 02:43:44,959 --> 02:43:47,720 Speaker 2: voice that's inside and I'm people listening to us, people 3483 02:43:47,840 --> 02:43:50,960 Speaker 2: experiencing other people on the trip. I'm sure all had 3484 02:43:51,000 --> 02:43:54,160 Speaker 2: to like, but why why do I deserve? What did 3485 02:43:54,200 --> 02:43:55,199 Speaker 2: I do that's so special? 3486 02:43:55,840 --> 02:43:56,000 Speaker 4: You know? 3487 02:43:56,160 --> 02:43:57,520 Speaker 2: But I look at that group and I'm like, look 3488 02:43:57,520 --> 02:44:01,840 Speaker 2: at all these fucking amazing, dynamic black women that came together, 3489 02:44:02,440 --> 02:44:04,200 Speaker 2: you know, not just to make the trip happen, but 3490 02:44:04,240 --> 02:44:06,320 Speaker 2: all the stuff they did before the trip all. Like, 3491 02:44:06,400 --> 02:44:08,760 Speaker 2: there's a million other black women that deserve to be 3492 02:44:08,840 --> 02:44:10,360 Speaker 2: on that trip too, you know what I mean. But 3493 02:44:10,480 --> 02:44:13,160 Speaker 2: a lot of people got their lives and their experience 3494 02:44:13,240 --> 02:44:14,840 Speaker 2: through y'all. And a lot of people are gonna go 3495 02:44:15,120 --> 02:44:17,160 Speaker 2: to Jamaica because of y'all. A lot of people are 3496 02:44:17,200 --> 02:44:19,240 Speaker 2: gonna take a get a pass for it because of y'all. 3497 02:44:19,480 --> 02:44:21,160 Speaker 2: A lot of people are gonna say yes to an 3498 02:44:21,200 --> 02:44:24,080 Speaker 2: opportunity that wouldn't have because of y'all. You know, a 3499 02:44:24,160 --> 02:44:28,240 Speaker 2: lot of people gonna be inspired by that. You know that, sister, 3500 02:44:28,680 --> 02:44:30,880 Speaker 2: You know, the same way Girls Trip inspired people to 3501 02:44:30,920 --> 02:44:34,680 Speaker 2: go on vacations together like that. I mean, y'all deserve 3502 02:44:34,760 --> 02:44:37,440 Speaker 2: that too. So you deserve to be there. Everybody in there, 3503 02:44:37,680 --> 02:44:40,920 Speaker 2: in the in the villa deserve to be there, you know. 3504 02:44:41,240 --> 02:44:43,360 Speaker 2: So I was, you know, like I said, I was 3505 02:44:43,440 --> 02:44:45,440 Speaker 2: by carread people asking me what you're gonna do without camp? 3506 02:44:45,480 --> 02:44:48,000 Speaker 2: I was like, get my mother fucking life to them 3507 02:44:48,320 --> 02:44:52,240 Speaker 2: having fun, like what you know, Like what kind of 3508 02:44:52,240 --> 02:44:52,760 Speaker 2: shit is that? 3509 02:44:53,000 --> 02:44:53,160 Speaker 4: You know? 3510 02:44:53,560 --> 02:44:56,160 Speaker 2: Like I mean, obviously I miss you and everything, but 3511 02:44:56,959 --> 02:44:59,240 Speaker 2: I didn't want to spend my week on social media 3512 02:44:59,760 --> 02:45:02,640 Speaker 2: wor here because I'm like, who the fuck wanna? How's 3513 02:45:02,680 --> 02:45:05,160 Speaker 2: that a good time? I'm in Jamaica and this nick crime, 3514 02:45:05,240 --> 02:45:07,960 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? So and also I was 3515 02:45:08,040 --> 02:45:10,680 Speaker 2: having fun, you know, like like like I said, I 3516 02:45:10,800 --> 02:45:15,080 Speaker 2: just think we we all do that to ourselves. But 3517 02:45:15,120 --> 02:45:18,480 Speaker 2: if you beat yourself up, and you if you quit 3518 02:45:18,560 --> 02:45:20,800 Speaker 2: the race before you run the race, you can't never 3519 02:45:20,879 --> 02:45:21,160 Speaker 2: win the. 3520 02:45:21,240 --> 02:45:26,480 Speaker 4: Race, right right, And and and also it was one 3521 02:45:26,600 --> 02:45:30,280 Speaker 4: night where me and Marissa and Shirley sit down and 3522 02:45:30,400 --> 02:45:34,240 Speaker 4: if that conversation made me rethink the way I view 3523 02:45:34,320 --> 02:45:36,959 Speaker 4: the show and the way we work, yeah, you know. 3524 02:45:37,080 --> 02:45:38,520 Speaker 3: And we're gonna talk about it some more. 3525 02:45:38,560 --> 02:45:40,720 Speaker 4: But if this change is coming, I'm like, Okay, these 3526 02:45:40,760 --> 02:45:42,840 Speaker 4: are the things that I desired to. 3527 02:45:42,920 --> 02:45:45,360 Speaker 2: Do when I decided to We we are both kind 3528 02:45:45,360 --> 02:45:48,840 Speaker 2: of workaholics, yes we are. We work very hard. I 3529 02:45:48,959 --> 02:45:52,520 Speaker 2: feel I definitely had that weird guilt when I take 3530 02:45:52,600 --> 02:45:56,320 Speaker 2: shows off. When I do, like, you know, it's it's 3531 02:45:56,360 --> 02:45:57,760 Speaker 2: the whole thing. I don't want to get into all that, 3532 02:45:57,920 --> 02:46:00,320 Speaker 2: but you know, the but you do have to take 3533 02:46:00,360 --> 02:46:03,280 Speaker 2: care of yourself, you know. I felt refreshed after just 3534 02:46:03,360 --> 02:46:05,720 Speaker 2: taking that little week off and I still end up 3535 02:46:05,760 --> 02:46:08,800 Speaker 2: working some but it's still more refreshing, you know, to 3536 02:46:08,879 --> 02:46:13,879 Speaker 2: be able to say, you know, to think about yourself first, 3537 02:46:14,160 --> 02:46:17,080 Speaker 2: you know, so and it brings out that it gives 3538 02:46:17,120 --> 02:46:18,840 Speaker 2: you passion to keep wanting to do what you do 3539 02:46:19,000 --> 02:46:21,760 Speaker 2: and do a good job, and to do that it creative. Yeah, 3540 02:46:21,760 --> 02:46:25,200 Speaker 2: it allows you to be creative. Like if we had 3541 02:46:25,440 --> 02:46:27,240 Speaker 2: been taking time off for would it never came up 3542 02:46:27,280 --> 02:46:31,840 Speaker 2: with our newest segment taking out the trash. That's what 3543 02:46:31,920 --> 02:46:34,520 Speaker 2: we're gonna talk about. All these motherfucking people can't keep 3544 02:46:34,560 --> 02:46:39,000 Speaker 2: their hands to theirself. But yeah, so, like I said, 3545 02:46:39,040 --> 02:46:42,080 Speaker 2: I was happy. Now here's the video you on the 3546 02:46:42,200 --> 02:46:46,000 Speaker 2: last morning when you was about to leave. 3547 02:46:47,760 --> 02:46:51,480 Speaker 10: It's my last morning in Jamaica and I A'm officially 3548 02:46:51,840 --> 02:46:53,720 Speaker 10: one white woman of color. 3549 02:46:53,840 --> 02:46:56,840 Speaker 4: Now I don't know if you can hear it, but 3550 02:46:56,920 --> 02:46:57,480 Speaker 4: it's raining. 3551 02:46:57,840 --> 02:46:59,240 Speaker 2: How dare you rain? 3552 02:47:00,080 --> 02:47:00,200 Speaker 4: Uh? 3553 02:47:01,360 --> 02:47:03,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to tell you, embrace you white woman of color. 3554 02:47:04,560 --> 02:47:06,039 Speaker 3: I have called myself. 3555 02:47:05,840 --> 02:47:15,520 Speaker 10: Susie Becky, Susan Veronica because I can appropriate anything and 3556 02:47:17,240 --> 02:47:20,680 Speaker 10: this uh will ever change your life? I mean, I 3557 02:47:20,800 --> 02:47:23,519 Speaker 10: know y'all thought the hashtag was a joke, but now 3558 02:47:26,200 --> 02:47:28,360 Speaker 10: I am a white woman of color and you can 3559 02:47:28,480 --> 02:47:31,720 Speaker 10: be two. And I want everybody to join the movement. 3560 02:47:32,520 --> 02:47:34,880 Speaker 10: Hastag white woman of color. You think it's a game. 3561 02:47:35,160 --> 02:47:38,280 Speaker 10: I want to see other people be their best white 3562 02:47:38,280 --> 02:47:40,480 Speaker 10: woman of color and appropriate things from white folks. 3563 02:47:42,200 --> 02:47:43,120 Speaker 4: That's a challenge to you. 3564 02:47:48,720 --> 02:47:50,240 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, this is a version. 3565 02:47:50,320 --> 02:47:55,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, so that do you guys got on 3566 02:47:55,080 --> 02:47:59,280 Speaker 2: the plane. Page tried to leave y'all. From my understanding, yeah, it. 3567 02:47:59,400 --> 02:48:01,600 Speaker 4: Was by asking did because she left the Loungerry and 3568 02:48:01,640 --> 02:48:03,040 Speaker 4: they want to let her back in. I was like 3569 02:48:03,480 --> 02:48:04,120 Speaker 4: passion of me. 3570 02:48:04,400 --> 02:48:06,040 Speaker 3: I was like, I gotta have my I gotta have 3571 02:48:06,160 --> 02:48:08,600 Speaker 3: my buddy. I can't be flying myself. 3572 02:48:08,959 --> 02:48:09,920 Speaker 2: She got tired of the run. 3573 02:48:10,680 --> 02:48:12,879 Speaker 3: I know if Venter page Adventure on. 3574 02:48:13,000 --> 02:48:13,480 Speaker 4: Away from me. 3575 02:48:14,560 --> 02:48:16,240 Speaker 2: Here's all the people that was. 3576 02:48:16,680 --> 02:48:22,640 Speaker 4: Yes, that's the staff, Richie, Yes, that's Richie and his 3577 02:48:22,840 --> 02:48:26,520 Speaker 4: his soup as a vest. Game was on fleet because 3578 02:48:26,560 --> 02:48:28,840 Speaker 4: every time you turn around he had different colored vests. 3579 02:48:29,120 --> 02:48:30,680 Speaker 4: So we was joking about his vest. 3580 02:48:30,760 --> 02:48:33,520 Speaker 3: He was cleaning the grounds. We was joking about his vest. 3581 02:48:35,760 --> 02:48:36,720 Speaker 4: He was cleaning the grounds. 3582 02:48:38,560 --> 02:48:43,840 Speaker 2: Cool Derek, he like, man's. 3583 02:48:44,120 --> 02:48:44,800 Speaker 3: That's the chef. 3584 02:48:44,959 --> 02:48:48,200 Speaker 4: That's the chef that was making them bomb as meals. 3585 02:48:49,680 --> 02:48:55,840 Speaker 4: Those meals were delicious. Chef David Gordon, thank you. He 3586 02:48:55,879 --> 02:48:59,520 Speaker 4: talked about Yes, banana chips, cheese and onions. 3587 02:49:00,920 --> 02:49:03,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, we looked for these online. We couldn't find them. 3588 02:49:03,560 --> 02:49:04,720 Speaker 3: We could not find them. 3589 02:49:04,760 --> 02:49:07,440 Speaker 2: We found started taking pictures of my white woman and stuff. Okay, 3590 02:49:07,640 --> 02:49:10,240 Speaker 2: now I feel like you appropriated my white woman, and 3591 02:49:10,480 --> 02:49:12,320 Speaker 2: so I'll save these for another day. 3592 02:49:12,480 --> 02:49:16,360 Speaker 4: Yes, and before we go on, I gotta get back 3593 02:49:16,400 --> 02:49:18,200 Speaker 4: to like the last night. Yeah, we had a. 3594 02:49:20,640 --> 02:49:22,720 Speaker 3: Uh in addition to throwing uh. 3595 02:49:25,720 --> 02:49:29,520 Speaker 4: Uh, we release the fire things that we wanted to embrace. 3596 02:49:30,240 --> 02:49:32,840 Speaker 4: They had like these uh kind of balloons and you 3597 02:49:32,879 --> 02:49:35,040 Speaker 4: would light them up and it would fill up with 3598 02:49:35,120 --> 02:49:37,800 Speaker 4: air and then it flowed away. So people wrote wrote 3599 02:49:37,840 --> 02:49:41,240 Speaker 4: what they wanted and uh paper lanterns. You wrote it 3600 02:49:41,280 --> 02:49:43,760 Speaker 4: and you and it would fly away. And so you 3601 02:49:44,160 --> 02:49:46,240 Speaker 4: put wrote the things you wanted to kind of embrace 3602 02:49:46,360 --> 02:49:49,640 Speaker 4: and and things like that, and uh, you know, my things, 3603 02:49:49,680 --> 02:49:53,880 Speaker 4: they're very sappy, but it's you know, love, peace, joy, happiness, 3604 02:49:54,600 --> 02:49:57,920 Speaker 4: you know, because those things actually mean something to me personally. 3605 02:49:58,680 --> 02:50:03,040 Speaker 4: Because what I realized about those particular things, particularly love, 3606 02:50:03,200 --> 02:50:07,400 Speaker 4: peace and joy and happiness, you can't put a price 3607 02:50:07,480 --> 02:50:09,760 Speaker 4: tag on that, and that's something that people fail to 3608 02:50:09,800 --> 02:50:12,920 Speaker 4: realize because you can have those things and now have 3609 02:50:13,000 --> 02:50:15,480 Speaker 4: a dime in your pocket, and you can have. 3610 02:50:15,640 --> 02:50:16,840 Speaker 3: Those things and be rich. 3611 02:50:17,920 --> 02:50:20,440 Speaker 4: So regardless of where you're at in life, if you 3612 02:50:20,600 --> 02:50:23,720 Speaker 4: have those things, you are, to me you're a better 3613 02:50:23,840 --> 02:50:27,400 Speaker 4: person individually. And it's hard to get there because I 3614 02:50:27,520 --> 02:50:30,880 Speaker 4: think that some people in life, kind of like me, 3615 02:50:31,080 --> 02:50:34,520 Speaker 4: sometimes don't feel like they're worthy of happiness, don't feel 3616 02:50:34,560 --> 02:50:35,080 Speaker 4: like they're. 3617 02:50:34,879 --> 02:50:36,920 Speaker 3: Worthy of love or joy a peace. 3618 02:50:37,560 --> 02:50:40,360 Speaker 4: But you got to have those things to function in life, right, 3619 02:50:40,680 --> 02:50:43,920 Speaker 4: you know, And once you have them, they're yours and 3620 02:50:44,000 --> 02:50:46,120 Speaker 4: can't nobody take them away from you unless you give 3621 02:50:46,200 --> 02:50:48,520 Speaker 4: them to them to actually take away from you. 3622 02:50:50,400 --> 02:50:52,480 Speaker 3: And that's one reason why people Sometimes people ask why 3623 02:50:52,480 --> 02:50:53,000 Speaker 3: I smile so much. 3624 02:50:53,000 --> 02:50:55,160 Speaker 4: That's one reason why, because its an internal thing, like 3625 02:50:55,360 --> 02:50:58,200 Speaker 4: I am really happy, I am really like joful person, 3626 02:50:58,800 --> 02:51:01,600 Speaker 4: I am truly like here at heart. So I think 3627 02:51:01,680 --> 02:51:03,800 Speaker 4: that's why, you know, a lot of people really enjoy 3628 02:51:03,920 --> 02:51:06,360 Speaker 4: my excitement. But the excitement is real because, like I said, 3629 02:51:06,360 --> 02:51:08,000 Speaker 4: a lot of this stuff I was doing for the 3630 02:51:08,040 --> 02:51:10,040 Speaker 4: first time, I was enjoying for the first time. I 3631 02:51:10,200 --> 02:51:13,200 Speaker 4: was expensive for the first time, and I am. You 3632 02:51:13,280 --> 02:51:16,360 Speaker 4: know what, me doing this trip made me realize. I 3633 02:51:16,440 --> 02:51:18,320 Speaker 4: know it might sound stupid, and I kind of knew, 3634 02:51:18,560 --> 02:51:23,000 Speaker 4: but it made me realize how much the audience loves me. Right, Because, 3635 02:51:23,440 --> 02:51:24,880 Speaker 4: like I said, I got up to her in the morning, 3636 02:51:24,920 --> 02:51:27,000 Speaker 4: by the time most people got up, they had two 3637 02:51:27,080 --> 02:51:29,120 Speaker 4: or three hours with for pictures to go through, right, 3638 02:51:29,320 --> 02:51:31,640 Speaker 4: you know, so people actually just go through the pictures 3639 02:51:31,760 --> 02:51:34,560 Speaker 4: all day long, every day, and some people will be like, 3640 02:51:34,640 --> 02:51:36,080 Speaker 4: I'm having a rough day. I'm going to look over 3641 02:51:36,120 --> 02:51:40,240 Speaker 4: here at Camp's Instagram page, you know, and I was like, oh, this. 3642 02:51:40,440 --> 02:51:41,920 Speaker 3: Is really cheering people up. 3643 02:51:42,000 --> 02:51:45,000 Speaker 2: That's how while you're on the trip, you know, people 3644 02:51:45,040 --> 02:51:47,160 Speaker 2: follow you because of the show, and because of that, 3645 02:51:47,400 --> 02:51:50,080 Speaker 2: you know, you're getting your life shows and that they 3646 02:51:50,120 --> 02:51:52,840 Speaker 2: can get theirs, you know, so as possible, all right, And. 3647 02:51:52,879 --> 02:51:56,840 Speaker 3: So I didn't realize that people were actually enjoying it. 3648 02:51:57,040 --> 02:52:02,120 Speaker 4: And you know, I'm glad that people enjoyed me being 3649 02:52:02,240 --> 02:52:04,640 Speaker 4: myself because all that was just me being myself and 3650 02:52:05,280 --> 02:52:08,480 Speaker 4: you know, me going snorkeling and never been snoking before 3651 02:52:08,560 --> 02:52:11,480 Speaker 4: and snokling it every day, and you know, me just 3652 02:52:11,800 --> 02:52:17,119 Speaker 4: having myself literally the time of my life, y'all. 3653 02:52:19,440 --> 02:52:22,000 Speaker 3: And even if I never could to experienced it again. 3654 02:52:22,120 --> 02:52:27,360 Speaker 4: It was a quote unquote, wasn't lifetime opportunity, right, And 3655 02:52:27,480 --> 02:52:30,760 Speaker 4: I'm so thankful and so glad that I did not 3656 02:52:30,879 --> 02:52:35,080 Speaker 4: turn it down either, because I've gotten to the point 3657 02:52:35,120 --> 02:52:36,480 Speaker 4: that I've learned that. 3658 02:52:39,400 --> 02:52:41,440 Speaker 3: I am worthy. I've learned that I'm good enough. 3659 02:52:42,280 --> 02:52:48,080 Speaker 4: I've learned that, uh, what I do speaks val you, 3660 02:52:48,920 --> 02:52:52,000 Speaker 4: you know, And I realized that I represent other people. 3661 02:52:53,879 --> 02:52:57,880 Speaker 4: And I am so glad and so thankful that I 3662 02:52:58,080 --> 02:52:59,920 Speaker 4: was able to share the trip with you guys. You know, 3663 02:53:00,360 --> 02:53:04,120 Speaker 4: I'm glad that people were happy, and people you know, 3664 02:53:04,640 --> 02:53:08,320 Speaker 4: enjoyed and laughing around me putting thirst traps out there, 3665 02:53:08,720 --> 02:53:10,520 Speaker 4: and and you know, it's something else I realized. So 3666 02:53:10,560 --> 02:53:15,360 Speaker 4: I know this might sound stupid. I'm I spent a 3667 02:53:15,400 --> 02:53:20,400 Speaker 4: lot of my life not thinking that I was a 3668 02:53:21,080 --> 02:53:23,480 Speaker 4: pretty woman, not thinking that I was a beautiful child. 3669 02:53:23,720 --> 02:53:28,600 Speaker 4: I was very negative on myself, and I think over 3670 02:53:28,640 --> 02:53:31,440 Speaker 4: the years I've learned to love me. But I think 3671 02:53:31,520 --> 02:53:34,480 Speaker 4: this trip really made me get outside of that shell 3672 02:53:36,000 --> 02:53:38,360 Speaker 4: and really made me go gorgeous. 3673 02:53:39,120 --> 02:53:41,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I know, but but really made 3674 02:53:41,120 --> 02:53:43,440 Speaker 3: me think, no, no, no, no caring, you. 3675 02:53:43,680 --> 02:53:51,440 Speaker 4: Are gorgeous, like you are beautiful, you know. And it 3676 02:53:51,640 --> 02:53:55,240 Speaker 4: made me learn how to love my body more as 3677 02:53:55,480 --> 02:53:58,600 Speaker 4: is right, you know, And regardless of the size and 3678 02:53:58,680 --> 02:53:59,920 Speaker 4: the shape of it, it's mine. 3679 02:54:00,360 --> 02:54:00,720 Speaker 2: I love. 3680 02:54:00,800 --> 02:54:03,120 Speaker 4: It is a part of me, is an extension of me, 3681 02:54:03,879 --> 02:54:07,320 Speaker 4: you know. And my body makes and defines who I am. 3682 02:54:08,160 --> 02:54:11,199 Speaker 3: And you're gonna have to take me and accept me as. 3683 02:54:11,160 --> 02:54:14,720 Speaker 4: I am, you know. And I shouldn't have to shrink 3684 02:54:14,760 --> 02:54:20,800 Speaker 4: myself or reduce myself or make you feel comfortable because 3685 02:54:21,000 --> 02:54:23,760 Speaker 4: you're intimidated by me, or make you feel comfortable because 3686 02:54:24,000 --> 02:54:25,920 Speaker 4: you have problems with me being a woman or me 3687 02:54:26,000 --> 02:54:27,160 Speaker 4: being black, or whatever it may be. 3688 02:54:28,480 --> 02:54:29,760 Speaker 3: Also, I need to learn how to. 3689 02:54:29,760 --> 02:54:34,800 Speaker 4: Be bolder, you know, bolder and stronger you know, in 3690 02:54:35,080 --> 02:54:38,280 Speaker 4: the things that I do, and realize that I can 3691 02:54:39,080 --> 02:54:40,080 Speaker 4: walk in my truth. 3692 02:54:40,720 --> 02:54:43,560 Speaker 3: I can, you know, walk into my greatness. 3693 02:54:43,840 --> 02:54:47,720 Speaker 4: I can, and there's nobody stopping me but me, you know. 3694 02:54:48,879 --> 02:54:50,080 Speaker 4: And I know other people feel the. 3695 02:54:50,080 --> 02:54:52,959 Speaker 3: Same way too, you know. And I gotta talk about 3696 02:54:53,000 --> 02:54:53,400 Speaker 3: the change. 3697 02:54:53,520 --> 02:54:55,400 Speaker 4: For yeah, I used to be chained down like that 3698 02:54:55,640 --> 02:55:00,320 Speaker 4: chain heavily, with a lot of the defeat that there, felling, defeat, hurt, 3699 02:55:00,440 --> 02:55:02,160 Speaker 4: pain and all that stuff, you know. 3700 02:55:02,320 --> 02:55:06,640 Speaker 3: And I've realized that once. I Once I decided enough. 3701 02:55:06,760 --> 02:55:08,920 Speaker 4: Because sometimes when you're in that spot, no matter how 3702 02:55:09,040 --> 02:55:10,920 Speaker 4: much people talk to you or try to pull you out, 3703 02:55:11,480 --> 02:55:13,480 Speaker 4: if you're not willing to shake the chains off, you 3704 02:55:13,520 --> 02:55:15,640 Speaker 4: will stay there. You got to be willing to change. 3705 02:55:16,160 --> 02:55:19,920 Speaker 4: So once I realized that enough was enough, and I 3706 02:55:20,040 --> 02:55:23,720 Speaker 4: started breaking those chains and realizing that the buck stops here, 3707 02:55:24,800 --> 02:55:29,119 Speaker 4: you know, I will no longer defeat myself. I won't 3708 02:55:29,200 --> 02:55:32,480 Speaker 4: talk myself out of opportunities, I won't talk myself out 3709 02:55:32,520 --> 02:55:36,360 Speaker 4: of chances. I'll start saying yes more, Start saying yes 3710 02:55:36,480 --> 02:55:38,959 Speaker 4: to me more, Start saying yes to. 3711 02:55:39,160 --> 02:55:41,480 Speaker 3: Life more, because you only got one lived to. 3712 02:55:41,560 --> 02:55:48,320 Speaker 4: Live for the fullest, you know, write and start looking 3713 02:55:48,400 --> 02:55:51,039 Speaker 4: at life very differently, you know, because I know people 3714 02:55:51,320 --> 02:55:53,520 Speaker 4: you know, joking about the pumpkin spice and a white. 3715 02:55:53,320 --> 02:55:55,680 Speaker 3: Woman of color. But it's one of those things where 3716 02:55:56,840 --> 02:55:59,120 Speaker 3: I understand why white people feel the way they do, 3717 02:55:59,280 --> 02:56:01,280 Speaker 3: because one of the where if you could just. 3718 02:56:01,320 --> 02:56:03,760 Speaker 4: Live and be carefree, right and not have to worry 3719 02:56:03,760 --> 02:56:06,240 Speaker 4: about racism, not to war about oppression, not have to 3720 02:56:06,280 --> 02:56:09,120 Speaker 4: worry about everywhere you go wondering if people looking at you, 3721 02:56:09,160 --> 02:56:11,760 Speaker 4: if they judging you, if they realizing that you're black and. 3722 02:56:11,920 --> 02:56:14,160 Speaker 3: Just walking and just being bolder. 3723 02:56:14,760 --> 02:56:21,039 Speaker 4: Right, you'll start experiencing life the way life should be. Now, 3724 02:56:21,120 --> 02:56:22,920 Speaker 4: these things will always be there, don't get me wrong. 3725 02:56:23,040 --> 02:56:24,320 Speaker 4: And every now and then you might have to put 3726 02:56:24,320 --> 02:56:26,480 Speaker 4: a few people in their spots, right, But it's one 3727 02:56:26,480 --> 02:56:29,120 Speaker 4: of those things where if you start doing that, you 3728 02:56:29,240 --> 02:56:32,480 Speaker 4: won't feel ashamed, you know, because some people down deeping 3729 02:56:32,520 --> 02:56:34,959 Speaker 4: and hard feel the shame of being black, feel the shame. 3730 02:56:34,840 --> 02:56:36,039 Speaker 3: Of being brown. 3731 02:56:36,280 --> 02:56:37,160 Speaker 4: Don't feel a shame. 3732 02:56:37,480 --> 02:56:40,720 Speaker 2: Society puts it down right, Like it won't like were 3733 02:56:40,760 --> 02:56:44,200 Speaker 2: supposed to be like apologizing just for the fucking fact 3734 02:56:44,240 --> 02:56:47,640 Speaker 2: that we exist and were free and we you know, 3735 02:56:48,280 --> 02:56:52,440 Speaker 2: like live our lives and happen to notice the bush 3736 02:56:52,520 --> 02:56:54,520 Speaker 2: that we deal with. We supposed to feel sorry for it. 3737 02:56:54,680 --> 02:56:58,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, you uh, you know, like I definitely could 3738 02:56:59,000 --> 02:57:01,880 Speaker 2: see that. And I know when you came back and 3739 02:57:02,000 --> 02:57:05,160 Speaker 2: we uh hung out with at Leslie House for a 3740 02:57:05,240 --> 02:57:07,200 Speaker 2: little bit, you know, I could just see the energy 3741 02:57:07,240 --> 02:57:10,760 Speaker 2: from the trip and the camaraderie to everybody that built 3742 02:57:10,879 --> 02:57:13,960 Speaker 2: and the friendships and all that stuff, and uh, you know, 3743 02:57:14,120 --> 02:57:17,560 Speaker 2: it's a great experience to you know, for for everybody. 3744 02:57:17,600 --> 02:57:20,679 Speaker 2: And I'm sure other people felt likewise, hopefully everybody. 3745 02:57:20,640 --> 02:57:23,760 Speaker 4: Right, And and my thing is that I encourage people 3746 02:57:24,280 --> 02:57:28,480 Speaker 4: who are listening to actually do those things. Be bold, 3747 02:57:29,000 --> 02:57:35,280 Speaker 4: be strong, you know. Uh learned that it's okay to 3748 02:57:35,360 --> 02:57:38,240 Speaker 4: step into the unknown, and it's okay to quote unquote 3749 02:57:38,280 --> 02:57:41,840 Speaker 4: fail because being black, we've been taught that we can't fail. 3750 02:57:42,879 --> 02:57:45,320 Speaker 3: You know, we've been taught that feeling is a bad thing. 3751 02:57:45,400 --> 02:57:46,960 Speaker 3: Feeling is a terrible thing. 3752 02:57:47,280 --> 02:57:50,039 Speaker 2: Yeah when you when you're black, the limit is the sky, 3753 02:57:50,480 --> 02:57:56,760 Speaker 2: right right. But uh yeah, all right, So it sounds 3754 02:57:56,800 --> 02:57:58,720 Speaker 2: like it was a fun trip, and it was fun. 3755 02:57:58,840 --> 02:58:00,240 Speaker 3: It was a life changing trip. 3756 02:58:00,280 --> 02:58:02,120 Speaker 4: I'm gonna truly tell you that. Yeah. 3757 02:58:02,440 --> 02:58:07,959 Speaker 2: So, uh that's it, guys. It's Jamaica debrief. Everybody says 3758 02:58:08,000 --> 02:58:09,800 Speaker 2: it's gonna take a serious shows to get it done. 3759 02:58:09,879 --> 02:58:14,440 Speaker 2: But like we got it done, Uh pretty good. I'm 3760 02:58:14,440 --> 02:58:16,200 Speaker 2: sure it'll still keep coming up and there'll be other 3761 02:58:16,240 --> 02:58:19,200 Speaker 2: stuff that other experiences and things yeah that I remember. 3762 02:58:20,400 --> 02:58:22,600 Speaker 2: But I thought it was important to do this show, uh, 3763 02:58:22,720 --> 02:58:24,600 Speaker 2: this way so that people can kind of get a 3764 02:58:24,720 --> 02:58:28,120 Speaker 2: full accounting of it and maybe if they're inspired to 3765 02:58:28,160 --> 02:58:32,520 Speaker 2: go themselves, if they're you know, set up something for 3766 02:58:32,600 --> 02:58:34,920 Speaker 2: you and your your black women friends and the people 3767 02:58:34,959 --> 02:58:38,200 Speaker 2: in your life, and y'all go and treat yourself if 3768 02:58:38,200 --> 02:58:40,000 Speaker 2: it's possible. You know, I feel like a lot of 3769 02:58:40,000 --> 02:58:42,880 Speaker 2: times we don't really get to really just sit and 3770 02:58:43,040 --> 02:58:46,199 Speaker 2: enjoy ourselves, right, And that's that was important. 3771 02:58:46,240 --> 02:58:48,920 Speaker 4: Right, and sit and enjoy yourself and just and just 3772 02:58:49,040 --> 02:58:52,640 Speaker 4: be black. I mean really just be black and just 3773 02:58:53,080 --> 02:58:55,240 Speaker 4: be yourself and who you are. And if you're allow 3774 02:58:55,360 --> 02:58:57,440 Speaker 4: persons to be loud and you feel like dancing that dinner, 3775 02:58:57,879 --> 02:59:00,520 Speaker 4: dance that dinner, I feel like chat and then dancing 3776 02:59:00,560 --> 02:59:03,640 Speaker 4: the CARDI b like. It was really a very very 3777 02:59:03,920 --> 02:59:08,160 Speaker 4: free environment, which is something black women rarely get because 3778 02:59:08,160 --> 02:59:09,920 Speaker 4: we're always in put in the box. 3779 02:59:10,040 --> 02:59:12,960 Speaker 3: We were judged even by our own men exactly. 3780 02:59:13,120 --> 02:59:15,560 Speaker 4: So this is the spot where women could sit around 3781 02:59:16,120 --> 02:59:20,440 Speaker 4: being women and just enjoyed each other's company. And this 3782 02:59:20,520 --> 02:59:23,039 Speaker 4: particular group, it was something special about this particular group. 3783 02:59:23,440 --> 02:59:26,080 Speaker 4: Like I said, we got together, y'all and there was 3784 02:59:26,240 --> 02:59:31,520 Speaker 4: no negativity, not none, not not ray dropping negativity. It 3785 02:59:31,640 --> 02:59:35,000 Speaker 4: was no animosity, it was no jealousy, it was no envy. 3786 02:59:35,760 --> 02:59:39,040 Speaker 4: Everybody got in there and just no matter what, you 3787 02:59:39,120 --> 02:59:41,360 Speaker 4: got there and we just literally had a good time. 3788 02:59:41,440 --> 02:59:44,240 Speaker 2: Wet Mona Scott Young wasn't feeling it. Now, she would 3789 02:59:44,240 --> 02:59:46,640 Speaker 2: have showed up with some cameras with all that drinking, 3790 02:59:46,640 --> 02:59:51,520 Speaker 2: and somebody would through something, somebody would throw something, somebody 3791 02:59:51,959 --> 02:59:55,200 Speaker 2: going after they man. I mean, it's amazing what you 3792 02:59:55,280 --> 02:59:57,279 Speaker 2: can do. And it ain't no cameras there just saying. 3793 02:59:57,160 --> 03:00:00,640 Speaker 4: Amazing about what you can do. Yes, And like I said, 3794 03:00:00,720 --> 03:00:03,520 Speaker 4: I had a ball, and I'm glad that other people 3795 03:00:03,720 --> 03:00:07,160 Speaker 4: were happy about it. Did you want to share some 3796 03:00:07,240 --> 03:00:08,400 Speaker 4: of your white woman life or you. 3797 03:00:08,400 --> 03:00:11,080 Speaker 2: Want to know I'm waiting. I'm waiting and then you 3798 03:00:11,240 --> 03:00:15,200 Speaker 2: had the The other thing too, is like so this 3799 03:00:15,280 --> 03:00:18,280 Speaker 2: is I made chilli and stuff. So when Karen got back, 3800 03:00:18,360 --> 03:00:21,400 Speaker 2: I was like, we already have food to eat, and 3801 03:00:22,320 --> 03:00:23,760 Speaker 2: you know, she don't had to come in the house 3802 03:00:23,760 --> 03:00:25,680 Speaker 2: and do nothing, you know what I mean, Like that's 3803 03:00:25,680 --> 03:00:28,400 Speaker 2: got to suck. Come off vacation, all right, Well, get 3804 03:00:28,480 --> 03:00:31,040 Speaker 2: back in the kitchen. Make that air sound, you know, 3805 03:00:31,280 --> 03:00:34,440 Speaker 2: like so I like cooked and everything, and uh you know, 3806 03:00:34,920 --> 03:00:37,160 Speaker 2: uh the house is already kind of clean anyway. But 3807 03:00:39,400 --> 03:00:43,280 Speaker 2: uh so she's you know, I know that if she's 3808 03:00:43,720 --> 03:00:47,160 Speaker 2: on vacation, that means Karen wakes up at five in 3809 03:00:47,240 --> 03:00:52,320 Speaker 2: the morning. She doesn't sleep. She like, so we're there 3810 03:00:52,360 --> 03:00:54,400 Speaker 2: and everybody's like, y'all want to go out, like get 3811 03:00:54,440 --> 03:00:56,840 Speaker 2: something to eat or something, and I'm like, well, already 3812 03:00:57,040 --> 03:01:00,360 Speaker 2: already cooked. But I also know that Karen got home 3813 03:01:00,440 --> 03:01:03,320 Speaker 2: if all right the fuck asleep and then and she's 3814 03:01:03,360 --> 03:01:05,560 Speaker 2: gonna need that sleep because you know, we still got 3815 03:01:05,680 --> 03:01:08,120 Speaker 2: to do the show. She's going to work Monday and 3816 03:01:08,200 --> 03:01:11,959 Speaker 2: all this shit. And of course that's exactly what happened, 3817 03:01:11,959 --> 03:01:15,320 Speaker 2: because it's like automatic vacation energy and all the you know, 3818 03:01:15,440 --> 03:01:17,360 Speaker 2: all that stuff. It's just like go go, go, go, 3819 03:01:17,480 --> 03:01:19,200 Speaker 2: go go. Then as soon as he hit the house, 3820 03:01:19,200 --> 03:01:19,879 Speaker 2: it's like, oh. 3821 03:01:21,000 --> 03:01:24,800 Speaker 4: That's an extrovert, like like extraversion inniverse, a complete opposite, like. 3822 03:01:24,879 --> 03:01:25,800 Speaker 3: People don't grame me. 3823 03:01:27,520 --> 03:01:30,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know it was, but I can still 3824 03:01:30,800 --> 03:01:33,760 Speaker 2: feel like that energy just even being in the room 3825 03:01:33,840 --> 03:01:36,200 Speaker 2: and hearing y'all talk about the vacation and stuff and 3826 03:01:36,800 --> 03:01:40,240 Speaker 2: how much fun y'all had and how everybody knew each 3827 03:01:40,280 --> 03:01:43,920 Speaker 2: other and all that stuff. You know, it just it 3828 03:01:44,040 --> 03:01:46,360 Speaker 2: was just cool to to to see y'all have that 3829 03:01:46,560 --> 03:01:52,160 Speaker 2: time because you know, especially marginalized black people women films 3830 03:01:52,320 --> 03:01:56,240 Speaker 2: all this, they don't really get that time. You know 3831 03:01:56,240 --> 03:01:57,920 Speaker 2: what I mean, like, as a black man, I've still 3832 03:01:58,000 --> 03:02:01,080 Speaker 2: had times where I felt like it's a retreat from 3833 03:02:01,120 --> 03:02:02,920 Speaker 2: life in a bit, you know. And I don't mean 3834 03:02:03,000 --> 03:02:05,840 Speaker 2: like a vacation, but just life. Shit Like I'm gonna 3835 03:02:05,840 --> 03:02:07,920 Speaker 2: go play ball today and for two three hours, I 3836 03:02:08,040 --> 03:02:10,200 Speaker 2: just feel like the world melts away. Shit don't matter, 3837 03:02:10,600 --> 03:02:14,680 Speaker 2: you know. But I really feel like a lot of times, 3838 03:02:14,840 --> 03:02:18,959 Speaker 2: you know, women don't get that. And even as supportive 3839 03:02:19,000 --> 03:02:20,640 Speaker 2: as I am and stuff, I'm still a man, like, 3840 03:02:20,720 --> 03:02:23,360 Speaker 2: I'm still gonna be. My presence is gonna change things. 3841 03:02:23,680 --> 03:02:25,680 Speaker 2: People are gonna say. They would things they would have 3842 03:02:25,720 --> 03:02:28,120 Speaker 2: said if I wasn't there. They're not gonna say things 3843 03:02:28,200 --> 03:02:32,039 Speaker 2: that experience like, they're gonna worry about trying to change 3844 03:02:32,120 --> 03:02:34,880 Speaker 2: how to explain how they relate their experience so that 3845 03:02:35,600 --> 03:02:38,520 Speaker 2: even the quote unquote good guys don't get offended and 3846 03:02:38,560 --> 03:02:40,920 Speaker 2: shit like that. And to be in the environment where 3847 03:02:40,920 --> 03:02:42,440 Speaker 2: you don't really have to worry about that, I mean, 3848 03:02:42,680 --> 03:02:47,160 Speaker 2: there's other intersections there. Obviously, even within a group of 3849 03:02:47,640 --> 03:02:52,120 Speaker 2: black women, it's still not homogeneous, right, But the point being, 3850 03:02:53,280 --> 03:02:54,960 Speaker 2: it was cool to see y'all get the hat that 3851 03:02:55,080 --> 03:02:58,280 Speaker 2: experience without anybody there. You know, it's why. Like I said, girls, 3852 03:02:58,280 --> 03:03:01,240 Speaker 2: trip was so dope because it was just this group 3853 03:03:01,280 --> 03:03:04,240 Speaker 2: of black women being black as fuck, being funny, doing 3854 03:03:04,320 --> 03:03:05,039 Speaker 2: whatever they want to do. 3855 03:03:05,440 --> 03:03:08,720 Speaker 4: And lots of jokes, lots and lots of jokes, lots 3856 03:03:08,800 --> 03:03:13,200 Speaker 4: of random laughter, you know, just lots and lots of 3857 03:03:13,480 --> 03:03:14,520 Speaker 4: just black ship. 3858 03:03:15,680 --> 03:03:17,440 Speaker 2: Before we get out of here, I did want to say, 3859 03:03:18,040 --> 03:03:21,760 Speaker 2: you know, people have been my loving my shirt. White 3860 03:03:21,760 --> 03:03:23,920 Speaker 2: Woman of Color, Like I said, let Nubian sent it 3861 03:03:24,000 --> 03:03:28,200 Speaker 2: to us Karen, I want to start cracking up as 3862 03:03:28,200 --> 03:03:33,480 Speaker 2: soon as I saw it, and she said she hasn't 3863 03:03:33,560 --> 03:03:35,720 Speaker 2: started the site yet. You can go get it, but 3864 03:03:35,800 --> 03:03:38,400 Speaker 2: she is collecting people's emails. If you want to be 3865 03:03:38,440 --> 03:03:40,760 Speaker 2: on the list, you can email White Women of Color 3866 03:03:40,840 --> 03:03:45,039 Speaker 2: at gmail dot com say you know, and then they'll 3867 03:03:45,120 --> 03:03:47,000 Speaker 2: let you know when the store opens, hopefully within the 3868 03:03:47,040 --> 03:03:51,200 Speaker 2: next two weeks. So but yeah, man, it was the 3869 03:03:51,280 --> 03:03:56,080 Speaker 2: color of a movement apparently, so you know, I don't 3870 03:03:56,680 --> 03:03:58,960 Speaker 2: I appropriated that from you, sir, and I heard it 3871 03:03:59,040 --> 03:04:02,040 Speaker 2: from Nick. You was the first person I heard use it, 3872 03:04:03,120 --> 03:04:04,959 Speaker 2: So I don't know. It's been the thing for a while. 3873 03:04:05,120 --> 03:04:07,600 Speaker 2: But if you want to be officially out here with 3874 03:04:07,680 --> 03:04:12,039 Speaker 2: your shirt, you know, But thank you everybody for listening. 3875 03:04:12,200 --> 03:04:16,520 Speaker 2: We'll be back tomorrow, hopefully tomorrow. Will probably try to 3876 03:04:16,560 --> 03:04:22,360 Speaker 2: cover some news too. You know, I'm sure the entire 3877 03:04:22,560 --> 03:04:26,879 Speaker 2: internet is fucking acting crazy. Oh okay, Xavier came up 3878 03:04:26,920 --> 03:04:28,920 Speaker 2: with it. Okay, I'll follow him on Twitter. Yeah he's 3879 03:04:28,959 --> 03:04:32,800 Speaker 2: cool as ship. So yeah, white woman of Colors, entire 3880 03:04:32,879 --> 03:04:37,840 Speaker 2: motherfucking movement. So if you want to get your your ugs, 3881 03:04:38,080 --> 03:04:40,880 Speaker 2: your ug life, okay, you're pumpkin. If you want to 3882 03:04:40,920 --> 03:04:44,760 Speaker 2: pump and spice your life up, okay, this this fall, 3883 03:04:46,000 --> 03:04:46,760 Speaker 2: make sure you do that. 3884 03:04:47,080 --> 03:04:49,840 Speaker 4: Oh and something else I wanted to say too, because 3885 03:04:49,879 --> 03:04:52,200 Speaker 4: the food was everything was fresh and healthy and like 3886 03:04:52,320 --> 03:04:55,920 Speaker 4: cooked for you. The way your body processed food was different. 3887 03:04:56,160 --> 03:05:00,720 Speaker 4: That we didn't eat a lot of bread. A think 3888 03:05:00,760 --> 03:05:03,760 Speaker 4: it's up to the end for bread. And I called 3889 03:05:03,879 --> 03:05:04,480 Speaker 4: what was it a. 3890 03:05:06,080 --> 03:05:07,360 Speaker 3: Festivals fantastic? 3891 03:05:09,120 --> 03:05:11,400 Speaker 4: Why I called her fantastic shit because it was fantastic, 3892 03:05:11,680 --> 03:05:14,280 Speaker 4: but it was called festival It's like a bread dish. 3893 03:05:14,959 --> 03:05:17,359 Speaker 4: And Marissa corrected me. So I put out a statement 3894 03:05:17,480 --> 03:05:21,440 Speaker 4: and Leslie judged my statement. I did see the apologize. 3895 03:05:21,680 --> 03:05:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I did see a statement. I didn't understand the context. 3896 03:05:25,160 --> 03:05:28,120 Speaker 2: I just figured I had to be there, so yes, 3897 03:05:28,200 --> 03:05:29,920 Speaker 2: because I mean it. 3898 03:05:30,840 --> 03:05:30,920 Speaker 4: Now. 3899 03:05:30,959 --> 03:05:32,680 Speaker 2: I don't know why you put out a statement because 3900 03:05:32,680 --> 03:05:34,280 Speaker 2: it's white women of color. We're not supposed to be 3901 03:05:34,320 --> 03:05:37,560 Speaker 2: out here apologizing. But every white woman color does things 3902 03:05:37,640 --> 03:05:38,119 Speaker 2: her own way. 3903 03:05:38,480 --> 03:05:40,680 Speaker 4: I mean, I wanted to get things, but I wanted 3904 03:05:40,760 --> 03:05:42,320 Speaker 4: them to know that I'm the cool way personally. 3905 03:05:42,320 --> 03:05:45,800 Speaker 2: If I offend those people, they're not they can just 3906 03:05:45,879 --> 03:05:49,280 Speaker 2: take an apology out of my cold dead hands. Okay, Yes, 3907 03:05:49,600 --> 03:05:53,240 Speaker 2: that's their fault. Okay for getting all upset. Uh, they're 3908 03:05:53,240 --> 03:05:57,000 Speaker 2: always being so divisive. Okay, I didn't vert for Bernie 3909 03:05:57,040 --> 03:05:58,879 Speaker 2: Sanders and then Trump for this Okay. 3910 03:05:59,120 --> 03:06:01,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's a I think I made a point. 3911 03:06:01,560 --> 03:06:02,920 Speaker 4: She said she didn't want people to come out to 3912 03:06:03,000 --> 03:06:04,920 Speaker 4: Jamaica as for Fantastic because people like with ah, hell, 3913 03:06:04,959 --> 03:06:06,680 Speaker 4: are you asking for their festival? 3914 03:06:07,160 --> 03:06:11,000 Speaker 2: Mm hm, Well that's what they say. But that's their culture, Karen. Okay, 3915 03:06:11,080 --> 03:06:15,840 Speaker 2: we don't absorb those things. We asked for strawberry apples, yeah, 3916 03:06:15,920 --> 03:06:16,200 Speaker 2: we do. 3917 03:06:16,360 --> 03:06:17,360 Speaker 4: Pineapples, right. 3918 03:06:17,720 --> 03:06:18,880 Speaker 2: We don't learn their names. 3919 03:06:19,240 --> 03:06:20,880 Speaker 3: Okay, who got confidname? 3920 03:06:21,080 --> 03:06:23,480 Speaker 2: Take pictures with the guy, We take pictures of Derek 3921 03:06:23,520 --> 03:06:24,880 Speaker 2: and we don't even put his name in the caption. 3922 03:06:25,040 --> 03:06:27,959 Speaker 3: We don't care, no, have no care in the world. 3923 03:06:28,080 --> 03:06:28,920 Speaker 2: Takes too much time. 3924 03:06:29,200 --> 03:06:30,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it does too much brain power. 3925 03:06:32,040 --> 03:06:35,840 Speaker 2: All right, man, that's it for to make a debrief. 3926 03:06:36,200 --> 03:06:39,160 Speaker 2: I'm glad you had a good time, had a ball, 3927 03:06:39,400 --> 03:06:43,200 Speaker 2: you know, vicariously had a good time watching y'all get it. 3928 03:06:43,520 --> 03:06:43,640 Speaker 4: Uh. 3929 03:06:44,440 --> 03:06:46,760 Speaker 2: It was like it was like Black Woman Avengers for 3930 03:06:46,879 --> 03:06:49,680 Speaker 2: me because I'm just watching all these people from our 3931 03:06:49,680 --> 03:06:52,160 Speaker 2: Facebook and Twitter that's been having a solo careers and 3932 03:06:52,280 --> 03:06:57,480 Speaker 2: solo movies come together in one giant Black Woman blockbuster 3933 03:06:57,600 --> 03:07:01,600 Speaker 2: for the summer and uh and the shared Black Women 3934 03:07:01,680 --> 03:07:05,840 Speaker 2: Marvel Universe and having just get their entire life. Man, 3935 03:07:05,879 --> 03:07:08,120 Speaker 2: Because you know, I don't know everybody, but I know 3936 03:07:08,640 --> 03:07:14,760 Speaker 2: enough of the people that were, enough of the people 3937 03:07:14,840 --> 03:07:18,640 Speaker 2: that from Twitter and social media and stuff, and to 3938 03:07:18,720 --> 03:07:21,320 Speaker 2: see everybody there having a good time, and if it 3939 03:07:21,360 --> 03:07:24,200 Speaker 2: didn't bring us out of your face, then something wrong 3940 03:07:24,240 --> 03:07:24,440 Speaker 2: with you. 3941 03:07:24,840 --> 03:07:25,640 Speaker 6: So with you? 3942 03:07:26,280 --> 03:07:30,320 Speaker 2: All right, guys, we'll be back tomorrow, and like I said, 3943 03:07:30,320 --> 03:07:31,920 Speaker 2: we were talking about a bunch of stuff. I'll give 3944 03:07:31,959 --> 03:07:35,440 Speaker 2: you some of what I did last week, and then 3945 03:07:35,560 --> 03:07:40,720 Speaker 2: we'll also Wednesday recap The Walking Dead, So you're getting 3946 03:07:40,720 --> 03:07:44,960 Speaker 2: to Walking Theren recaps this week, all right, until next time, 3947 03:07:45,560 --> 03:07:45,960 Speaker 2: I love you,