Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Evan is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and he's been dating his girlfriend Marcy for about
Speaker 1: six months, and now he thinks she might be cheating.
Speaker 1: So let's see if we can figure it out for you. Evan, Sorry, man,
Speaker 1: but what's going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been together about six months.
Speaker 3: Like we met at a bar one night. I thought
Speaker 3: it was just a one night stand, but it just
Speaker 3: kind of progressed from there. Okay, we kind of weren't
Speaker 3: looking for a relationship.
Speaker 2: Per sae. We just got out of a long relationship.
Speaker 3: Both of us and are like, yeah, our mindset wasn't
Speaker 3: in that direction, but it's just, uh, you know, I
Speaker 3: got to have a long relationship.
Speaker 2: She was seeing a.
Speaker 3: Married guy that she would hope would leave his wife
Speaker 3: or her, and we were just talking to bonding about
Speaker 3: like how screwed up our lives were, and we just
Speaker 3: started expressing our connection in other ways, like you know,
Speaker 3: basically bedroom like one yeah, one one.
Speaker 2: Night stand, let to another one night stand.
Speaker 3: And then it just turned into this thing, you know,
Speaker 3: and then I just started to kind.
Speaker 2: Of care for her, you know, I don't know. It's
Speaker 2: just we've always tried to level up with one another.
Speaker 2: I always try to be honest.
Speaker 1: You know, We've had enough drama to.
Speaker 2: Last a lifetime. And I was like, well, if.
Speaker 3: We're gonna do a relationship type of thing, then we
Speaker 3: need to be upfront about things nobs, and she said.
Speaker 2: She wanted the same thing. I don't know. It's like
Speaker 2: we kind of saved.
Speaker 3: Each other from like launching ourselves off a bridge or
Speaker 3: ring our mind.
Speaker 4: So you definitely play a very key role in both
Speaker 4: of each other's lives. And she feels the same way
Speaker 4: you do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I guess, I guess.
Speaker 4: Sorry thought, So, what's been going on that makes you
Speaker 4: feel like things are changing?
Speaker 2: So probably within the last month or so. I don't know,
Speaker 2: she's like like.
Speaker 1: A different woman.
Speaker 3: Like she's always been busy, you know, she's she's to
Speaker 3: go get her you know, but she's becoming like more
Speaker 3: scarce than normal.
Speaker 2: Like we don't live.
Speaker 3: Together, but we always made some type of effort kind
Speaker 3: of see each other, and like lately she would do
Speaker 3: this thing where she said she would call and then
Speaker 3: we could meet up, but then she never calls. Then
Speaker 3: she'll just start fights for no reason and like make
Speaker 3: them bigger than like they need to be.
Speaker 2: And then then there was a there was a client party.
Speaker 1: Okay, what happened that?
Speaker 2: With that?
Speaker 3: She had a client party thing and she she mentioned like, hey,
Speaker 3: do you want to come? And then she decided to
Speaker 3: downplay like it's not really that big a deal. You
Speaker 3: can stay home if you want to, And I was like, no,
Speaker 3: I want to. I want to go, like you know,
Speaker 3: on the stressful legs out what's that open bar is free?
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, that sounds like a fun night, you.
Speaker 2: Know, So I tagged along.
Speaker 3: That's when I noticed the Mary guy.
Speaker 2: Oh he was there. I was across the.
Speaker 3: Room talking to someone and I noticed them. I knew
Speaker 3: they worked together, but like she seemed really really really
Speaker 3: really comfortable talking to him. And you can pick up
Speaker 3: on body language like when you want to go with somebody,
Speaker 3: and that's kind of the vibe I was getting. And
Speaker 3: then later I made a comment about it, and then
Speaker 3: she kind of shut it down. And then she made
Speaker 3: the comment of like, jealousy isn't a good color on you?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, I mean you know, she got a
Speaker 3: point a little bit, like we never really put strong
Speaker 3: parameters on our relationship. But I don't know, Man, Marcie's
Speaker 3: smarter than this man, Like, yeah, she should be over
Speaker 3: being strung along with someone that's like fake promises that
Speaker 3: he's going to leave his wife and he's not.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just want her to do what she needs to do,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: I hope it's not that.
Speaker 4: But those types of relationships kind of turn into a drug,
Speaker 4: you know, and you have so many high highs and
Speaker 4: low lows that you get on these crazy rides. So
Speaker 4: you probably served as a wonderful distraction and showed her
Speaker 4: that life could be wonderful. But if this guy started
Speaker 4: popping back up, I mean there's a chance that she
Speaker 4: could she could be kind of playing around in that
Speaker 4: area again, or she's using the opportunity to have you
Speaker 4: to make him jealous. So either way, there's still gonna
Speaker 4: be some type of poking at that.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 4: I feel, Oh, I hate this for you, and I
Speaker 4: hate this for her.
Speaker 1: That sucks. Well, let's see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 1: You already told us a grocery store she's a rewards
Speaker 1: card member at. So we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call her and pretend to be from the
Speaker 1: grocery store and say that she's this month's lucky winner
Speaker 1: of free flowers delivered to whoever she wants to send
Speaker 1: them to, and we'll see if she sends them to
Speaker 1: you or to somebody else. Okay, okay, we'll play a
Speaker 1: song come back and get your to Catch a Cheater next.
Speaker 1: It's a double show right in the middle of to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us. Evan is
Speaker 1: on the phone and he thinks that his girlfriend of
Speaker 1: six months named Marcy might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 1: we're gonna call her and pretend to be from the
Speaker 1: grocery store that she's a rewards member at, and say
Speaker 1: that she's this month's a big winner of free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our floral department. We'll see if she sends
Speaker 1: those to her boyfriend or to somebody else. All right, Evan.
Speaker 1: Before we do that, though, why don't you remind us
Speaker 1: of your situation?
Speaker 2: Okay, me and Marcy Mett one night's stan turned to
Speaker 2: a relationship thing. Always very honest.
Speaker 3: Lately she's been kind of sneaky and then it looks
Speaker 3: like she at a work function and kind of awfully
Speaker 3: reconnected with a guy that she was interested in before me.
Speaker 1: Who's married.
Speaker 3: Yeah, married, stringer along. She deserves better than this.
Speaker 1: You know what's mary guy's name?
Speaker 2: It's Charlie.
Speaker 1: Charlie's America. Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, let's get let's pull that band aid off.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from grocers. I was
Speaker 1: looking for a awards card member named Marcy.
Speaker 5: Oh hey, this is she.
Speaker 1: Hi Marcy, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. Here
Speaker 1: this month's big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, well, thank you so much. That's awesome.
Speaker 5: What did I win?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: You've just won thirty six long sim red Roses, box
Speaker 1: of candy or chocolates and a card to be delivered
Speaker 1: to anybody that you want within the fifteen nine states.
Speaker 1: It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Actually, Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, congratulations.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 5: That's insane. What do I need to do?
Speaker 1: Well? How it works is I can take down the
Speaker 1: information in just a matter of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 5: And yeah, we could definitely do it over the phone.
Speaker 1: Then great, do you want me to set up a
Speaker 1: time to call you back, or do you know who
Speaker 1: you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 5: I definitely have somebody i'd want to send it to.
Speaker 5: It's a guy, though. Is there anything else I could
Speaker 5: maybe send him?
Speaker 1: Yes, we can send a bottle of it, like alcohol, whatever, wine?
Speaker 1: We have some whiskeys.
Speaker 5: Perfect, Yeah, I know he definitely like whiskey, so that
Speaker 5: would be perfect.
Speaker 1: Okay, how does that Woodford reserve sound?
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, she loves that. That'll do just fine.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll do a bottle of that and it will
Speaker 1: still come with flowers and then a card.
Speaker 2: Awesome.
Speaker 5: Well, thank you so much for what do I need
Speaker 5: to do?
Speaker 1: Well, I'm prepared to take the information right now. If
Speaker 1: you just if you forgive me the first and last
Speaker 1: name of the person you want to send them to,
Speaker 1: we can start there.
Speaker 5: Sure his name is Charlie.
Speaker 1: Is there anything you want to put on a card?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Actually, could we put just wanted to send something
Speaker 6: small to celebrate. I'm so excited to see what the
Speaker 6: future holds.
Speaker 3: Great AKA a married guy.
Speaker 1: Hello, Evan, your boyfriend on the phone. This is actually
Speaker 1: the Jubile show. Name's jubal Nina. Hi I'm Victoria and
Speaker 1: we do a segment called to Catch a Teeter, and
Speaker 1: Evan thought you might be messing around with a guy
Speaker 1: named Charlie, so the married guy.
Speaker 5: Okay, Hi, Evan, I'm so sorry you heard that. So
Speaker 5: you are with the married guy. So it's it's kind
Speaker 5: of complicated.
Speaker 6: He you know, I've been with Evan for several months
Speaker 6: and i'd kind of given up on Charlie.
Speaker 5: You guys are calling married guy. That's that's actually kind
Speaker 5: of funny. And he was.
Speaker 6: Still seeing his wife and I that's why i'd kind
Speaker 6: of stepped away for a while.
Speaker 2: And then I had kind of.
Speaker 6: Heard through the great line at work that things maybe
Speaker 6: weren't going so well with the wife, and I spoke
Speaker 6: to him at this work party that I did have
Speaker 6: Evan with me at. I kind of discouraged Evan for coming,
Speaker 6: but he wanted to come, and I felt like I
Speaker 6: kind of needed to say yes, and he came, and
Speaker 6: I spoke to Charlie for a while. Turns out him
Speaker 6: and his wife path completely separated. He has left, and
Speaker 6: at one point I stepped away and I did see
Speaker 6: Evan actually approach him.
Speaker 5: And tell him, you know, he better not hurt her.
Speaker 5: You better not mess with her?
Speaker 7: And why does this seem so nonchalant and funny to you?
Speaker 7: So you're just like it's like, oh yeah, and then
Speaker 7: you know I've been dating Evan, but whatever the dude
Speaker 7: was seeing his right, Like, that's that's crazy to me.
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I understand that the situation is.
Speaker 3: Kind of weird, but it does sound very assay about it, like,
Speaker 3: you know, like you kind of don't care like I
Speaker 3: care about you. I just want you happy. I don't
Speaker 3: want to be strong along yet either, and so this
Speaker 3: is I don't know, this is this is proof that
Speaker 3: I kind of have been strong along.
Speaker 2: And I thought we were more honest than that. You are.
Speaker 5: You're totally right, and I am. I'm sorry. I know
Speaker 5: we never really labeled things in the relationship, and sometimes
Speaker 5: I felt like maybe you were.
Speaker 6: Still hung up on your ex. But that's that's not
Speaker 6: an excuse. So I genuinely am very sorry, Evan. I
Speaker 6: didn't think this was going to happen. So, yes, Evan,
Speaker 6: I can confirm I was cheating on you.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, at least you're honest.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I mean, that's the type of honesty
Speaker 2: I'm used to. I just wish you were more honest
Speaker 2: in the lead up.
Speaker 1: You know, like sound very upset of it.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 3: It's weird because I'm upset and in a lot of
Speaker 3: ways that can't be you know, because.
Speaker 2: I still have feelings for my ex, but like that's not.
Speaker 3: A thing, and we were dating.
Speaker 2: And I started caring about.
Speaker 5: Marson, So wait, you still have feelings for your ex?
Speaker 6: Really?
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, we weren't.
Speaker 3: I mean that's how we met was we were pining
Speaker 3: over people that at the particular moment didn't want us.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I still have feelings, but like that's not
Speaker 3: a thing that's gonna happen because she doesn't want to
Speaker 3: be with me.
Speaker 2: I started caring about you.
Speaker 3: I thought we were more honest than this. That's why
Speaker 3: I'm upset, but I feel like I can't be but now.
Speaker 5: I know wait what, Oh my gosh, do it?
Speaker 2: I'm baffled all right, Like, wait, you've been cheating on me?
Speaker 1: Why is this getting turned about on me? I?
Speaker 2: Uh, this is this is ridiculous. This is the most like.
Speaker 3: Mental gymnastics I've ever heard from somebody to try to
Speaker 3: turn around on me like this.
Speaker 6: This is everything I needed to hear, I am so done.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Evan, she hung up. I think you
Speaker 1: just got broken up with by the person who cheated
Speaker 1: on you, but you didn't cheat. Yeah, huh, I think
Speaker 1: I didn't.
Speaker 2: Do anything wrong. That's that's the I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 4: Now you know that you guys both served a purpose.
Speaker 4: You helped each other get past or at least she
Speaker 4: helps you get past a little bit somebody else that
Speaker 4: you could open up to. Now the key is going
Speaker 4: to be don't take her back when married man decides
Speaker 4: he's going to stay married.
Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think she lived at anyway. So after I
Speaker 2: told her I saw feelings for my act. I'm so
Speaker 2: right now. But now I know, now that I know,
Speaker 2: I have a clear answer. That was not where I
Speaker 2: needed to put my energy at.
Speaker 1: Sorry that happened, but yeah, I bet there's somewhere elsewhere
Speaker 1: your energy is gonna be better. Start fresh. The Jewel
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