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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Hey Lisa, good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the program. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good?

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Speaker 1: How are you do?

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Speaker 3: And?

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Speaker 4: Ill right?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this dude? Justin?

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Speaker 2: We got to know everything on waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 2: How did you meet? Tell us about any dates you've

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Speaker 2: been on? And then why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Such just someone I met on the app.

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Speaker 1: And you know how.

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Speaker 4: Rare it is to actually meet somebody that like you

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Speaker 4: can talk.

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Speaker 3: To on one of those things like inside and outside

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Speaker 3: of the of the technology of it all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just talking about that on the show about

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Speaker 2: how it's it's it's hard to connect as a numbers

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Speaker 2: game and you know, you don't know you like someone,

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Speaker 2: but they're talking to five people and you don't know

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Speaker 2: how to lean in. And I don't know, I think

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Speaker 2: we're all conditioned now to not to sort of not

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Speaker 2: take things seriously until until they're real serious.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, And like I don't know, I just I just

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Speaker 3: we really connected.

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Speaker 1: We really hit it off.

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Speaker 3: We both enjoyed like the same stuff, Like it was

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Speaker 3: the same type of like banter, like I want somebody

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Speaker 3: who has like that witty, like dry and.

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Speaker 1: So humor, you know.

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Speaker 3: And so we went to go grab drinks at a

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Speaker 3: few dive bars and you know, the drinks were flowing.

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Speaker 3: We went to a few bars, like I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: this is going really well, Like we're in meeting places.

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Speaker 3: It's going great. And I ended up back at his place.

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Speaker 2: But I don't kiss and tell, so I know, right,

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Speaker 2: you don't have to, you know, you don't have to.

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Speaker 1: We we were picking up what your friend that way, right,

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Speaker 1: and I'm with you.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, you meet on an app, so you

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Speaker 2: don't really know if there's gonna be a connection. And

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Speaker 2: but then you you know, you guys went to multiple

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Speaker 2: venues and then whatever happened afterwards. So all of that

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Speaker 2: sounds good, except you haven't heard from this guy.

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Speaker 3: I haven't heard room then, literally at all, Like and

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Speaker 3: I don't want to seem like over eager, and I

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Speaker 3: I sent him like a text, and then I sent

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Speaker 3: him like a like a hey, like I know, like

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Speaker 3: we're going get like really busy kind of thing and

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Speaker 3: like but still down to like catch up and grab

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Speaker 3: a drink and.

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Speaker 1: To see you again.

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Speaker 4: And I haven't hear back from him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that's where we come in. We're going to

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Speaker 2: play a song and come back, Lisa. We'll call Justin.

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Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone at some point in the call.

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Speaker 2: I want you to jump in. You're welcome to you.

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Speaker 2: And the hope here is that we can figure out

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Speaker 2: what Justin's been up to, and you know, maybe he

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Speaker 2: has a good explanation, and then set you guys up

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Speaker 2: on a date that we pay for.

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Speaker 1: I mean that sounds great, Lisa. Hello, all right, let's

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Speaker 1: call Justin.

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Speaker 2: This is a guy that you met on the apps

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Speaker 2: and you guys chatted and then you went out. You

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Speaker 2: went to a few bars and had some drinks, and

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Speaker 2: then you guys went back to his place right afterwards.

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Speaker 2: So that's that's all good, you would think, except you

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Speaker 2: haven't heard from this guy. You've reached out to him

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Speaker 2: a couple of times. He hasn't responded to you. You

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Speaker 2: feel like you're being ghosted. You want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Justin now, Good luck Lisa.

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Speaker 3: Thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Justin?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: This is hey Justin. Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I do need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the call. Can we chat for just

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Speaker 2: a minute? Would you mind? You can hang up anytime. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is a surprise.

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Speaker 1: Oh I get that.

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Speaker 2: I can see what that would be that way. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So what's going on? We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 2: woman named Lisa who reached out to us. I guess

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Speaker 2: you guys met on the dating apps and he went

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Speaker 2: out on a date that had a few drinks.

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Speaker 1: You remember this person?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but oh man, I don't think I should talk

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Speaker 4: about that on the radio.

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Speaker 2: You don't think you can talk about Lisa on the radio. Well,

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Speaker 2: I think you can because well because I get to decide,

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Speaker 2: and also because she reached out to us, right, so

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Speaker 2: she asked us to find out why you're not calling

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Speaker 2: her back? So I think anything is fair game because

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Speaker 2: she asked us to help. So what's going on? Why

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Speaker 2: aren't you calling this woman back?

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Speaker 4: Well, first off, you guys can like edit the out

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Speaker 4: what can't be talked on the radio and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Right, you said you feel free. I want you just

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Speaker 2: a safe space for you for now, So don't worry

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Speaker 2: about it. I'll decide what Just just speak freely. Why

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Speaker 2: have you not called this woman back?

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Speaker 3: Ja?

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Speaker 4: Okay, here goes like Lisa is great and I feel

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Speaker 4: bad talking about this, but.

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Speaker 1: There was just something.

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Speaker 4: I I you know, it happened. I can't really get

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Speaker 4: over as much as I want to, but I just can't.

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Speaker 1: What is it? What is that thing? We're all on

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Speaker 1: the edge of our seats.

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Speaker 4: Just so, okay, we we we actually hooked up and

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Speaker 4: which which I would never say, but but it's important

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Speaker 1: I have to say this.

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Speaker 4: But a certain point, oh man, Uh, so I was

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Speaker 4: doing things to her, you know, and uh she had

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Speaker 4: a toilet paper and it ended up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I feel I feel bad. I'm just

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Speaker 1: I'm scarred about this and.

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Speaker 2: Like a little there's like a little bit somewhere, like

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Speaker 1: This is that little hanger on her.

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Speaker 2: No, no, this is why I use one.

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Speaker 1: This is exactly why I don't think that's I don't

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Speaker 1: think that's helping anything. Lisa lose one, lose multiple plays.

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Speaker 1: Lisa's here.

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Speaker 2: I forgot to mention that, Justin, Lisa, I feel bad too,

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Speaker 2: except you did ask us to find out why, and

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Speaker 2: this is the reason why.

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Speaker 1: I guess he was kind of grossed out.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, Okay, So Justin, you just can't get this

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Speaker 2: out of your mind.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is does happen.

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Speaker 2: Camon's right, like stuff happens sometimes.

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Speaker 4: I tried, honestly, I can't. I think she'd be great

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Speaker 4: for somebody else. Hopefully it doesn't happen again to them.

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Speaker 1: But it's just I'm I'm scarred, and uh, you just

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Speaker 1: can't unsee that, huh.

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Speaker 4: I mean I didn't want to bring it up and

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Speaker 4: talk about it.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to just, yeah, to walk it off.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's an expectation of a person.

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Speaker 1: I'm growing a human. What do you mean at least

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Speaker 1: like what a nice person society?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: No, no, you know what. We had a whole speech yesterday.

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Speaker 2: We need to value ourselves higher, okay, and that would

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Speaker 2: include the expectation of hygienics. What did you want to say, Lisa,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry this is this is a little snaffoo, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean you probably didn't even know.

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Speaker 3: I had no.

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Speaker 1: Idea, and I don't know why you just didn't.

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Speaker 5: Tell me instead of ghosting me, like if you were like, hey, listen, like.

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Speaker 1: I had a great time, but like I just don't think.

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Speaker 5: It's in the cars for me. It's like way better

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Speaker 5: than like being like one, you don't have to deal

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Speaker 5: with that problem that we have to deal with. We

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Speaker 5: have different plumbing as you will. That's besides the point.

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Speaker 1: And two like just.

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Speaker 5: Don't ghost somebody, just like tell them that like the

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Speaker 5: very least or not interested, because if I didn't know

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Speaker 5: that right like then then I would have thought it

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Speaker 5: went perfectly fine. And then you never texted me back.

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Speaker 2: I cannot understand why people don't like being ghosted. No

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Speaker 2: one likes being ghosted. I also can see, if I'm

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Speaker 2: being very honest, that that's a strange conversation to have

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Speaker 2: to have is because it's like, hey, I'm not interested,

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Speaker 2: Well why aren't you interested? And then if he's honest

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Speaker 2: with you, nobody really wants to have to say that.

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Speaker 2: And again, we're grown ups here, so we probably you know,

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Speaker 2: if we're going to do certain things, we should probably

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Speaker 2: explain certain things too. But I can kind of see

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Speaker 2: why he wanted to avoid this conversation. And he didn't

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Speaker 2: even want to tell us, but he did because we

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Speaker 2: kind of we kind of made him. But Justin, there's

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Speaker 2: no way you can overlook this. I mean, everything else

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Speaker 2: was fine. You know, these sorts of things happen in

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Speaker 2: the course of a relationship, and you know, to accident.

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Speaker 1: Has it happened to you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay no, but other things have you know that you

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Speaker 2: kind of wish didn't. But you know, you know, you

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Speaker 2: kind of got to look the other way if you

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Speaker 2: like the person a lot. So I don't know, Justin,

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Speaker 2: would you give it another chance?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I know that thing sucks, but I feel

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Speaker 4: even worse talking about it.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it, Okay, all right, He's not not

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Speaker 2: gonna be able to do it. Lisa, Hey, it's not

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Speaker 2: gonna work out. I'm sorry, but I do wish you

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Speaker 2: the best of luck and and and thank you for

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Speaker 2: your time.

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Speaker 1: Justin good luck to you as well. They sell the

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Speaker 1: days on Amazon that you cant your toilet. Oh, should

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Speaker 1: we give her the money and the date? Should buy

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Speaker 1: a good day?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We get her a God Day, Jason, I've always wanted

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Speaker 1: to buy a day. Get online? All right, guys, good luck,

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Speaker 1: thank you,