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Speaker 1: What's the lift service? And Angela yee, I'm Stephanie Fatiago,

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Speaker 1: I'm Laura Mourra, I don't call me white girl. And

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Speaker 1: Joey Badass is here for the first time. I was surprised.

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Speaker 1: I was like, cause I don't be seeing Joey Badass

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Speaker 1: do like a lift service. And I've been asking you

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Speaker 1: for a long Time's true, that's true. I'm glad we

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Speaker 1: finally made that happen. Yes, and it's your birthday when

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Speaker 1: we actually are feeling this, And so we were talking

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Speaker 1: about you being an Aquarius. Huh, that's true. I'm actually

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Speaker 1: like a cousin baby like we were saying. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm on one twenty, which is like kind of and

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Speaker 1: the Capricorn the beginning of Aquarius. So I got like

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Speaker 1: both properties or whatever, but I designate identified more with

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Speaker 1: Aquarious for sure, so different. I don't know. I just

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Speaker 1: always felt more like an Aquarious than a Capricorn, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like when I read like horoscopes

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Speaker 1: or characteristics, I've always resonated more with the Aquarius side.

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Speaker 1: But it's funny. I got mad Capricorn homie, both men

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Speaker 1: and women, and I got mad aquarious homies both men

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Speaker 1: and women. Like January is actually an overwhelming month for

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Speaker 1: me because it's like white after Christmas and then it's

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Speaker 1: like fifteen birthdays and people that I know, like people

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Speaker 1: who are really rock with too, So just like damn, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my dad's birthday is January second, mine is January three,

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Speaker 1: So that's always a weird time. You were right. I

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Speaker 1: January seven, got a homie, uh January nine, January fifteen,

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Speaker 1: January fourteen, January everybody together every birthday. But what is

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Speaker 1: even more funny is like every year a different person

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Speaker 1: from my January trial gets a gift. Okay, Ye're not

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Speaker 1: going to do like one of moments now you were

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Speaker 1: talking about Aquarius is and saying that Aquarius and men

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Speaker 1: can't be monogamous or no. Aquarius is in general. To me,

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Speaker 1: we're not meant for like one person or one thing

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Speaker 1: or one we got to move around. Aquarius is a

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Speaker 1: real like were like an entity, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Like we come in, boom, we're here, right, So he

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Speaker 1: knows he's a quaries over gapric Onnes were so different.

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Speaker 1: Y'all focused on money, very driven. We focused on life.

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Speaker 1: We like in your heads, you know, like we'd be

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Speaker 1: flowing with the wind. And you feel like aquarious can't

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Speaker 1: be monogamous. Well, I can't speak for all the quariers,

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Speaker 1: but you know I do resonate with that personally. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure for monogamous relationship is necessarily for me,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I loved your tweet. Let's

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Speaker 1: talk about it, all right, here's the tweets. Let me

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Speaker 1: see that all right. Time to gotta stop being a

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Speaker 1: sorry ass. And we'd tell Clo, you're fucking yiais and

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Speaker 1: you need more than one woman? Straight up? What's so

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Speaker 1: hard about being honest with our women? Fellas fun this

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Speaker 1: west and bullshit? Relationships should be expansive and beneficial for all.

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Speaker 1: Most of us have been in polyamorous relationships our whole lives.

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Speaker 1: The only differences we weren't honest about it. So that

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Speaker 1: deserves like, we know how you feel first of all,

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Speaker 1: just as a man to come out and say, because

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Speaker 1: that's not the broad thing to do. You're supposed to

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Speaker 1: be like, yeah, you know that's real ship, Like, that's

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Speaker 1: what I mean. I think it should be another mean,

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Speaker 1: say that's corny. Some people say he lies to you

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Speaker 1: I feel like people lie in general because they're trying

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Speaker 1: So it's like if I got to tell you, like, yo,

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Speaker 1: do for them to show that you love them? Sacrifice? Okay,

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Speaker 1: other relationships, but you know my sacrifice to look different

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Speaker 1: than your sacrifice, so the other way around. So you're

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Speaker 1: I love you, but I love other men. Right, I

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Thing, you got, you know, polygamous situations,

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Speaker 1: what their partner wants. It's more about what they want

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Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, they even go deeper. This

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Speaker 1: lot of the times, you know, women lack the understanding

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Speaker 1: Even though, like I've been saying this, I've I've thought

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Speaker 1: That's if it's the only way, because I do not.

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Speaker 1: It's just something I'm thinking about. Couldn't you be with

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Speaker 1: you know, but saying with saying that, I'm not dumb.

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Speaker 1: you if you're happy in the home, And because the

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Speaker 1: there's just something like women is more okay with Like,

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Speaker 1: all right, I funk with Joey, Like I know he

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Speaker 1: like I just think that that's exactly that's just because

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Speaker 1: but he's sleeping with other women, you're not making me happy.

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Speaker 1: If no matter what you do, you're not making me happy,

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Speaker 1: You're making me sad. All right, but let me stop

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Speaker 1: you right there though. How many times have you dealt

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Speaker 1: of today, not even women people of today. But I

423
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Speaker 1: want to put a focus on or focused with control

424
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Speaker 1: and power, but honestly controlling power that's more of a

425
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Speaker 1: masculine But I say this, I'm very good at like

426
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Speaker 1: I'm very catering to a person, but I also am

427
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Speaker 1: But your career base, yeah, I'm very and I said

428
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Speaker 1: it earlier. Put your career I work a lot, like

429
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Speaker 1: she'll tell you because but she goes hard though, like

430
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Speaker 1: that's how busy she is. She makes sure she do

431
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: little things like make somebody feel really spatial, and it's good.

432
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 1: But sometimes it's like I think guys have a problem with, um,

433
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Speaker 1: how much I work? M hmm. Like people would be like,

434
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Speaker 1: I don't want you to work anymore. I just want

435
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Speaker 1: to take care of things and a week and he said,

436
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 1: how many days you take off a week? Um, it

437
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 1: depends how to make sure? Yeah, I do not. Now

438
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: what's the highest duty of a woman? I think to

439
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Speaker 1: take care of them? Could clean and stuff like them.

440
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: Old school, don't let's simplify that it depends on the

441
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: man because different men have different No. No, no, it

442
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Speaker 1: don't depend on the man. Highest duty, just more of

443
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: a man nurture. Yeah, that's exactly what I feel like, nure.

444
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: I feel like, at the end of the day, a

445
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: man to nurture. Period. Duty of a woman is to nurture. Yeah. Period.

446
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So like in dynamics like yours,

447
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 1: what may exists for these men is feeling like, oh, like,

448
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: let me be the man because they want you to

449
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: be fully submissive as a woman. But you know, that's

450
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 1: why dynamics is important. And you got to understand dynamics

451
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Speaker 1: because just because I'm a man, don't mean that I'm

452
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Speaker 1: more masculine base. I could be more feminine base, and

453
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Speaker 1: I could be like, oh, you know what, it's cool

454
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Speaker 1: that you work baby, Like I'm I'm a hold. That's

455
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Speaker 1: what you're saying. I mean with me, you got beta man,

456
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: You guys, it's about understanding your dynamics. Really, you know

457
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So what I'm saying to you, and

458
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: just like, don't go looking for alpha male. If you

459
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: know that you like to be in control, you know

460
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: that you like to have the power to know, but

461
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: your man is going to be weaker than the typical.

462
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: I don't like anybody to let me walk all over them,

463
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: but I do feel like it's you know, I worked

464
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 1: really really hard to get to where I am, and

465
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Speaker 1: there's a lot of things that I still want to achieve,

466
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: and so it is hard for me to say, yeah,

467
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: it is hard for me to just say I'm gonna

468
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: not do this just so I could, you know, be home.

469
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 1: And I mean, I want my man to be in

470
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 1: total control of everything. On the money, I like, take

471
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 1: all my money and give me what I need. I

472
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: want my man to be in control of my whole life.

473
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Speaker 1: That's what I wanted my whole life. I still want that,

474
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Speaker 1: and I can never find because even when it comes

475
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Speaker 1: to money, I don't mind like spending money. It's not

476
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Speaker 1: a big deal to me. Me either, I'm not gonna

477
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Speaker 1: be like you gotta buy me this, you gotta, But

478
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Speaker 1: I don't mind buying things. I don't mind paying for

479
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Speaker 1: like it's not a big ba to me. Ever. See

480
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Speaker 1: what me is my personality, so it don't matter. I

481
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Speaker 1: have a lot, have nothing. Men just don't know how

482
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 1: to take this. And I'm at the point there where

483
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: it's like, because I've never dating anybody but black man,

484
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel that most black men can't take

485
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: a girl that's like how I am. Because once we

486
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: date and you get there totally sumiss. If I cook,

487
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: I clean our frider chicken, I'll bring you take the plate.

488
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Speaker 1: What you carry like that, I carry it like that.

489
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: But of course it's this big thing. I'm from North Philly.

490
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: This is who I am. I'm like, I don't give

491
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 1: you that day one because I can't trust you once

492
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: we locked it and I trust you completely, simiss if

493
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: that's who I am. But you gotta be a certain

494
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: type of negative even get through that, because this is

495
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: how I talk. I'm brash, I'm aggressive, a city girl

496
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: like not even that, Like I know how to show

497
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Speaker 1: you respect. I know how to do all it, but

498
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: that don't come day one. Like I feel like, just

499
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: because my personally how big is and I'm intelligent, a

500
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: lot of black men expect me to kind of like

501
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: dim my ship down so he could feel comfortable. That's

502
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: how I feel like, almost like be quiet, don't be asked, funny,

503
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: don't be asked more so he doesn't feel like a

504
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: bit And it's like I need a man, mean because

505
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: I can't make you feel like a bit being myself

506
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: because this is really who I am every day no

507
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: matter what. How does this translate into the bedroom? Then

508
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: when it comes to being dominant in the bedroom, they

509
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: go back to the question that I asked all y'all

510
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: that y'all all agreed on except for you, you're all

511
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Speaker 1: like to be dominating you're laughing, Yeah, I probably controlling

512
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: in the bedroom too, I am, I do, i'd be Yeah,

513
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Speaker 1: she's literally that's a problem for nigger like me. Like

514
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, I ain't be in control control that's it.

515
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: You better come what say you ain't up what you

516
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: ain't get tied up about? What about a role? I would?

517
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Speaker 1: That's different. The whole world role for you. Could you

518
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Speaker 1: play a role where you were dominant in life? Put

519
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: in the bedroom because you're so dominant in your life

520
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: you'd like to be tied up? No, because it wouldn't

521
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: be good acting. The roles that I take is like

522
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: subconsciously a piece of me. That's really like that. Why

523
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't you like to be tied up? He's like, I

524
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: like you need wouldn't like to be would you control?

525
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: But submissive? But you said you want to be? Like,

526
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 1: but you're being pleased? You could take your wal You've

527
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: seen that one video with Shorty who tired a man

528
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: up and she started tickling his feet. I can't what

529
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Speaker 1: about blind Oh yeah I did blind fold before. Okay,

530
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: so you've been blindsations on that. It's crazy? Okay, so

531
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: you like that. Now there's a woman I don't know.

532
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if you said this story. This woman

533
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: has two vaginas. Did you see this? All? Right? She

534
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: was born to She has an only fan she makes

535
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Speaker 1: seventy I'm just subscribed. Yeah, she has and she uses

536
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: one for work like as an escort, and the other

537
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Speaker 1: one she uses in her personal life. Lucky girl, right,

538
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: that could be like two women for you right, anybody else? Now,

539
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: that's crazy. I never seen that. Would you would would

540
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: you have sex to somebody? She's like, like, I gotta

541
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: tell you something I got. Yeah, Yeah, I mean if

542
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: I'm really if I'm really into like you know, she's

543
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: really something special, I'll be like, you know, that's new,

544
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: that's what you show. It's it's really too you know.

545
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: And I wanted to ask all of y'all something because

546
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: y'all were saying about if a person has two different things,

547
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 1: like um my experiences the good guys or the guys

548
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: with stuff like you have a career or whatever that

549
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: And I got a lot of mal friends. I feel

550
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: like they had the same experience the horse like the

551
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: bitches on the Project route, nasty, everybody like them. They

552
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: fuck the best, like the career, no shade the career experience.

553
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: The career group of George girls might be a said

554
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Speaker 1: the coach might be a ted corny me. All the

555
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Speaker 1: good sex has been on terrible guys. Oh man, Like

556
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: you know it's not enough sex or the sex sucks.

557
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you could get two in one.

558
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: The guy that got the whole package as far as

559
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: he digging you, damn he has something going for himself,

560
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: but libery and with his grandmother. All you're going that basement,

561
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: where are you out a few? Because the better dick

562
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: is one the homeless guy. What that's just honestly, you

563
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: want I don't know that you can stereotype. I will

564
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: say I will say that guys who were working for

565
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: a roof over their head are better because it's like

566
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: the same ship women, the same ship. He go from

567
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: his ground basement to you said, you said, guys who

568
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: what looking for a roof the best for the roof

569
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: over their head. They need a place to stay. All

570
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: they think about it like this is a job. I

571
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: got to do a great job. The best. The best

572
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: sex I've ever had is probably has been with one

573
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: of the richest guys I've ever been. Really yeah, we

574
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: have opposite experience. Yeah yeah, he was looking down for

575
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: a minute till you said that. I'm like, what that? Like?

576
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: What about that? Like? For women? Is there a different

577
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: inspires Like it's successful struggling. I don't think he got

578
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: to do with like success. It's just more about character

579
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: and personality, Like sure, you gotta have some type of edge,

580
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying? Like she gotta be raw type,

581
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. She gotta be from somewhere.

582
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: She gotta she had to see some ship like if

583
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: she didn't and she just like a good two shoot

584
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: and ship like she's got to be a super freak.

585
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: Like maybe she washed porn all day long. But I

586
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: just want to say, like I've seen both. I've seen

587
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: both sides of the spectrum and then really determined on

588
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: like success, like a good girl with glasses on sucking

589
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: you could just come over. The girls from the hood,

590
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: they always got something that like, you know, the girls

591
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: who not from the hood ain't got Oh I talk ship,

592
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: so yeah, yeah, yeah we could talk ship. Yeah. I

593
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: like that. I like, um, I like communication. Has anybody

594
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 1: ever said something that took you aback? Like well the

595
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Speaker 1: first time I was told to like spitting a mouth out,

596
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: but it was just like you did it? Oh yeah

597
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: I did it? I mean should I wasn't. Did you

598
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: not do it? If I liked it? Yeah, it was

599
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: like yeah it was going ain't gonna be it be

600
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Speaker 1: it's kind of thing now for me. Now you sneaking

601
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Speaker 1: girls now face it's wildly popular. Now. It wasn't that

602
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: they didn't start rapping bout it. It It got popular, like

603
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: super popular. I have a question. So if a girl's

604
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Speaker 1: like your dick, like you feel some type of way

605
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: if she don't swallow ship I don't get personal here

606
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Speaker 1: she go, I don't swallow Just to everybody, you want

607
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: to know something. Yeah, you don't like in your dick set.

608
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I love this guy. Imagine tomorrow your channel

609
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Speaker 1: father young Black repers he doesn't like get in this.

610
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Speaker 1: This is front page now, but this this might be

611
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Speaker 1: front page too. It's like I'd rather not busting nut

612
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Speaker 1: when you're getting not period. Yeah, yeah, I'm learning not

613
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Speaker 1: busting you don't like to happen. You don't like to

614
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: come when you're when you're having sex? Why because I'd

615
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: rather so this for the first time. It's gonna sound crazy,

616
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: but like I'd rather preserve my life force, you know

617
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like when a man ejaculates, Like there's

618
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Speaker 1: a lot of things that leave your body, this blood cells,

619
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: it's just talk to them energy. You know, you get depleted.

620
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Speaker 1: They say it's like the equivalent and running twenty miles

621
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Speaker 1: when you're busting nuts. I'm dutive. I mean, you know,

622
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Speaker 1: you know, are you gonna feel the type of way

623
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Speaker 1: if I make you come six times, because then it's

624
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 1: not over till it's not somebody stopped. I've had guys

625
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: that did that, like they just like to the part,

626
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: I'm like I've come enough, like I've never said anything

627
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: like come and then they come where where you tell

628
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: them not to them? That was in advice like that,

629
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: and it was a good looking at me, But you know,

630
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: you're dealing with men who got like no you know,

631
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: no experience, no history of like you know with hold

632
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Speaker 1: and they see you back and ship. So what do

633
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: you do your box two years now? I don't stop,

634
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 1: I just just hold it. I just you just never come.

635
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: And the thing is just like once you don't release

636
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: like that big ejaculation, like you kind of come a

637
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: lot of times. You feel like you mean insective, like

638
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 1: the whole thing was like yea, yeah, you gotta let

639
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: you like you have like multiple but you don't finish.

640
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: So what you you're the type that like what you

641
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 1: know you're about to come, you stop and then you

642
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: just do something else to make sure she come again,

643
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: and you go back in because you got the energy back.

644
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: Your type act. If we have sex in the morning,

645
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: he wouldn't come because he said he couldn't get his

646
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: day right because they wouldn't be right. He can only

647
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: come at night. I like when guys be in a

648
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: feudal position after I've never seen. Yeah, that's you don't

649
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: like if I saw me in the fetal naked it

650
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: would I think I'll be scared. Said guys coming, they

651
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: just can't do nothing after that. But like that that's

652
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: crazy to baby too, But that sounds really master, baby girl,

653
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: that scene. You remember that scene for don't be a

654
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: management when sure he was in the truck with Mala

655
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 1: to must baby remember when I rest did the naked

656
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: thing he's in the like, ain'tle with a hairy ass.

657
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: I would be so over. That's wicked, she said, Like

658
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: you like, what about you don't mind a g being

659
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: on your domina? No, you almost there? You know of

660
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: the iceberg. Yeah, you're on your way. I feel like

661
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: you'd be full beaty or somebody. I got you, okay,

662
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: So when you organs about you loud, like do you

663
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: make noises? You scream nothing? I forgot you did not feel.

664
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, I can't like to make I'm not loud.

665
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm not like like screaming this ship. But

666
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm like like like, damn you like I got to

667
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: make a sound. Yeah, I mean you know, I like

668
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: like a grunt, like yeah, little something quietly come and

669
00:37:56,040 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: I'm not sign it at all, and I'm out like

670
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 1: I like, unless unless you're quiet for a reason, like

671
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: because you're trying not to make noise. I'm not quiet.

672
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: I'm damn. They're cracking jokes. Sometimes it's born. I'm cracking joke.

673
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 1: You can't crack, Ain't they funny? So I never fired

674
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: bas No, I'm never farted. Come on, I'm not far

675
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 1: in front of my meaning at all. This is that

676
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: you can't help it. I mean, but there's but I

677
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: mean fart, like my pussy's parted. I hate that. That's controllable,

678
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: but that's it's not it's not control when it's like

679
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: and it's good and it happens and I'm like fuck it,

680
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 1: like he's like, yeah, I mean I used to like that.

681
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: Don't like it when it happens to me. But it's

682
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: the only reason you're quiefing you're having a pussy far

683
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,439
Speaker 1: during sex is because he's too small. He's letting air

684
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: in it's too big and there's too much air, not

685
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: enough moisture experience. They're wrong with them. Yeah, it's it's not.

686
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,479
Speaker 1: It's not. You don't form guys and push air out.

687
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: I don't through your vagina. So it's from dom putting

688
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: it in and letting air go in. I don't think

689
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: we know or shun me, and I know that's probably ridiculous,

690
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: but no, I think you should think. I think he's

691
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: going to back crossed the door and then, you know,

692
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 1: try to do it when he's not like us the

693
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: bear from downstairs. Yeah, at least you have it down.

694
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm like the whole bear from like Bleach because I'm

695
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: getting rid of ships about I gotta get that sprayed

696
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 1: at before you pullos for a year, and you gotta

697
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: answer as soon as it hit the water flesh. It's

698
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 1: called a courtesy. Or just play music in there w

699
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: a lip service podcast. It's like taking a ship. I'm with.

700
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: Are you a kisser? Yeah, I'm a kissing Okay, so

701
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: you make out and all of that. Yeah, I like, Um,

702
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: I'm in the affectionist if that's the word. Um, yeah,

703
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 1: I like affection Uh, you cut off and affectionate publicly

704
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: PDAs too. I'll do a p A. Do you find

705
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: that now though it's harder for you to be out

706
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 1: in public doing things because everybody knows you. Yeah, but

707
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 1: like I feel like I just know how to move,

708
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: so you know, I'll be low despite all of that.

709
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: But every now and again be like, oh, like oh

710
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: ship you know, but yeah, you know I know how

711
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: to be low. How do you enjoy playing the character

712
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: of unique? Because we were all talking about that. We

713
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 1: actually had a little Mary killed with some of your

714
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: characters to see like the type of guy we would

715
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: like the best kill me. Well you know, they're all you,

716
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 1: but different roles, different roles. Oh yeah, yeah, we're killing

717
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: the we're killing he's a good guy, but good guys

718
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: always you're married, everybody moving. The nigga finished life. You

719
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: didn't even get to live his life, okay, but his

720
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: character not that you know, not him getting killed by

721
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: the cops, but like his character as a person, like, well,

722
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: I know if that was unique in that situation, I

723
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: didn't even consider that character and the options, yeah, because

724
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: he's just like I can't even tell because I had

725
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: to play a weak man. Money was having like a

726
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: one night have you ever had in one night stand

727
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: more than one many? Yeah, I've never had. How you

728
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 1: feel about that? I can't wait? Well, now it's not

729
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: a um like Now that I'm older, I don't seek

730
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: those type of experiences, you know what I mean? Like,

731
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: I like connectivity. I like connection, Like first of all,

732
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: you gotta have your mind in a certain type of space,

733
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,720
Speaker 1: feel like me, to even feel like the energy exchange

734
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: is worth it. So ties, I guess you could say that,

735
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: I just like it. I like spiritual connection. Did you

736
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: kids during one night stands? Like a woman? You didn't

737
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: know that? Well? Would you do that? That's sweet? But

738
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 1: that was like in my older life though, like now

739
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 1: I was young and coming up like yeah, I was

740
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: just young and wild and likely love quick. Um nah nah,

741
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: I've only had one relationship my whole life. Really me too,

742
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: well too but too But you so you're not in

743
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: a polyamorary relationship now, you're just um No, is that

744
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 1: what you want? You want to be in a polly

745
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: relationship or a polygamy thing. That's what you want to

746
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: You want to do polygamy. So you want your wives

747
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 1: to want to You want to wives, they're gonna get along? Well,

748
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 1: you know right now and with two girlfriends. Okay, say no,

749
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: so you don't want it. You don't want it to

750
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: be a family. You just want to have one family

751
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 1: here and one family there and everybody okay with it?

752
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: You know what they're mess with each other? Well, that's

753
00:42:57,840 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: up to them, you know what I'm saying, Like, as

754
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 1: the man, I feel like that's not really your role.

755
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It is like they would

756
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: have to be cool with each other. They have to,

757
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, be able to call each

758
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: other and stuff like that. And if they want to

759
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: get down like that, then cool. But they don't know that.

760
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: But not they don't have to. It's not a requirement.

761
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind the same city, um, potentially because that's

762
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: like but you know, I like to be by coast,

763
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: so maybe like, well it's New York and l a

764
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: real query. You think you're amazing in bed? Yeah? I

765
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: know it? Clear? He said. Six times he turned her

766
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 1: and said, who comes? Six times? I remember that? Well,

767
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: how do you think you got so good experience? You know?

768
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: Triling never ship? You have some errors, I won't call

769
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 1: it errorge Well, yeah, yeah, I guess I guess average,

770
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: but mm hmm, I'm trying. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,

771
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: I've had some marriage coming for can have it to

772
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: the best of us. You know what I'm saying, what

773
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: did You're just not not even young boy things like

774
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: sometimes it's just about toming and as a young nigga,

775
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: I didn't really understand timing as much as I do now.

776
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's like, you gotta get

777
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: the pussy wet, like you know, you know what I'm saying,

778
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 1: But you gotta take your time, Like it's not about

779
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: one night stance. It's not about hitting it on the

780
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: first day. And she's like, like, I actually prefer not

781
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: to hit on the first day, yeah, because it builds

782
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: up anticipation, you know what I'm saying, Like you see

783
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: how unique queries is are? Yes, you never hear? Do

784
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: you like it? You're easy? Oh yeah? Yeah question? Yeah

785
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: that just came out of left field. And she's just like,

786
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,399
Speaker 1: you're good as I'm trying to see how you can't

787
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: be good if you don't need pussy. I mean, there's

788
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: men out there that you can't be good. I'm sorry,

789
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 1: I can't required to now. I don't like that that's crazy.

790
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: We talking about that already. Let's just move past it.

791
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: Do you like to use luke? Nah, he don't need to.

792
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 1: You gotta hat your pussy way. Yeah, I'm you know,

793
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: I take my time, and I can't imagine a guy

794
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,919
Speaker 1: wanting to have sex and not eating pussy. I feel

795
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: like that's the first thing they always go for us,

796
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: like close face and before you stick it. I don't

797
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: know over there you of it before you stick, you

798
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: looking like it's the it's the conversation, it's how we being,

799
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: you're making forth, it's the vibe. Is that I'm talking text,

800
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: but I need to know. I feel like when it's

801
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: a sexual chemistry, it's like face magnets, Like my face

802
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 1: is a magnet, yours is. Now that That's why I

803
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: was important to build that anticipation ship, the magnitism. Even

804
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: though I've had a great sexual experience with somebody that

805
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: I met and we just ended up having some great

806
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 1: sex just in a couple of hours. I would never

807
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: lie about that, but I feel like I was sex

808
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: that I may wait a little while. Besides that one

809
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: that was like you know, some people, some people you

810
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 1: just got it out for, you know what, Like you

811
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: met that person, It's like, damn, you got it off

812
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: for me like that, Like I've never had a one

813
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: night stand. I thought this guy was gonna end up

814
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,720
Speaker 1: being a one night stand. But the way it happened,

815
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: like we met, our eyes connected, and then I don't know,

816
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: we like ended up in the movie. I ended up

817
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: in a handstand and we had enough sucking up a

818
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: whole cime room. But he and I did end up

819
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: having a relationship, but on some relationship after that. Now,

820
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: what about masturbating, I think that's weird, but not for

821
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: a woman. I think so. I believe that women are

822
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: the more sexually sexual beings, you know what I mean,

823
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: They're a more sexual jenner. I feel like as a man,

824
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,280
Speaker 1: it's like you should be in control, Like you should

825
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: have self control over yourself. It's like, if you're at home,

826
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 1: masturbating is like, nigga, what are you doing? Like you're

827
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 1: wasting your time? This ship that could be done, you

828
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like you want women like you

829
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 1: need to fucking do ship. You know what I'm saying

830
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 1: that if you're sitting home watching poem ascident, I just

831
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: think that now they'll come into seconds some of them

832
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: have to fellas at home. Sorry, Like the self controlled

833
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: thing that's that is it just it is part of

834
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: the measure of a man, like how can how much

835
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: can you control? You come fa Stefani, you don't want

836
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: to mask because thinking at the masturbating. But I understand

837
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: what he's saying. No, you're younger. When you were younger,

838
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: this was me. This is like part of my process

839
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 1: of maturing it to a man. It's like, you know

840
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: where I started to realize Like no, that's like I

841
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: don't know, like I ain't gonna knock anybody, but you

842
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,720
Speaker 1: just I just won't be doing Yeah, that's just weird

843
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: behavior to me, you know what I'm saying. Just whacking

844
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: off Like that's wicked to me alone alone, Like that

845
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: means I have no self control because I got options

846
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 1: and I still gotta whack on off Like whoa what

847
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: if gets stressed out and it helps you go to sleep? Nah,

848
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: I don't sleep other ways you want to sleep like

849
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: we're not like and this was you know, me learning

850
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying as I was growing up,

851
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: because when I was younger, I used to definitely be

852
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: addicted to masturbation. Sixteen seventeen to be wiling and my

853
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: grandmother was wild and sorry, I'm not saying it's like,

854
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 1: you know this need to relate to that ship right there,

855
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: but it's just yeah, as you get older, it's like you,

856
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: I feel like you come to the point you realize

857
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: that's where don't behavior. That's like some little kidship, like

858
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: you think that it's so dirty? Did you feel dirty

859
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: after too? Like? Yeah, after like I have to, especially

860
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 1: if I use porn, I have to close it out

861
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: because I'm ashamed that. Yeah, I'm ashamed. Look, I can't

862
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: even sell you porn. And then masturbating, after masturbating is

863
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: over and I see the porn, I'm like, wow, I'm

864
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 1: just shut shut. I'm just I'm not gonna. I can't

865
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: believe this. Maybe this is a random category. Please, what's

866
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: the word I want to talk about? What's worry? Let's

867
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: just move fast. I covered him and I said to her,

868
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm confidence, I'm not It gets a little. What's the question? Category?

869
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: What category porn do you use? Don't do that? I thought, Okay,

870
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: that's just it. It's the storyline black White listen. I

871
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 1: was on here one time and they was talking about

872
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,240
Speaker 1: what porn are you watching? I was like school parm

873
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, wait, I don't mean like school poorm.

874
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: I mean like the teachers, their teachers. And then the

875
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: role play type. I've always wanted to do that. Yeah,

876
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you would. Yeah, I feel like I

877
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: would to be a home intruder. Oh my god, I

878
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 1: pulled a gun on you, Like, put that gun away, bitch.

879
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: I I'm not trying to ros. What would you if

880
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 1: you had to play the plumb I did on Mrs Clause.

881
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: It was like around Christmas time, on Christmas Day, like

882
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: the cases already, you know, and it on like the road,

883
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: the Miss Santa Claus Road. It's just like some nice

884
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: fishnets and stuff. And I was cooking breakfast. I knew

885
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,879
Speaker 1: he was about to come in, So what's he saying

886
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: at all? He funked it up like he was so like, alright, bro,

887
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: like do you just have to? It was, bro, it's over.

888
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 1: I saved it, he because I didn't. But it was

889
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: just like you killed it character definitely. So the plumber Okay,

890
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 1: so let's see this scenario. So you're the plumber, alright,

891
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: and you do role play, right, I mean I've done

892
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: that home and true today. Okay, all right, so you

893
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: come to the do alright, and so what do you say? Um?

894
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: Who is it? It's the plumber. I've come to fix

895
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: the thing. I didn't know. I didn't know what was

896
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: kind of my guy? This she freaky. Let's I've had

897
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: only things contact. She wakes a video. You're supposed to

898
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: be like t back out of the head and be like, yes,

899
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm clogged up. Oh take your ship. I don't like

900
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: she called me a thug. I said, I want to

901
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: do get your company money, but continue, I want to hear.

902
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 1: We want to hear the rest ship. We got a

903
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 1: call about, you know, something being backed up your pipes

904
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 1: right now? You bless it the clot to me off.

905
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 1: I just get with it. You up, didn't I didn't

906
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 1: order a plumber. You sure, but you're sexy though you

907
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: get unclog these pipes. Come on, I would never be

908
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: it's being an apartment of shi. But I did. Oh yeah,

909
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:13,439
Speaker 1: actually already prepaid. So come on, yeah, can you show

910
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: me up with the problem. Man? Well, I amy, let's

911
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: keep going with me. I would let's try y scenario mona. Okay,

912
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: he's intruder right now, that's more of my thing. So

913
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: like I'm trying fish and you come in with I'm

914
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: a grabbing pistol. You don't hand a pistol. So I'm

915
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: trying to fish. You're coming from behind me. Nigga, get

916
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: out of my house. Just feels real like back, You're

917
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,719
Speaker 1: gonna go home and try it. That's the better one.

918
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to do role play so bad. Remember

919
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: like it Sex in the City when Samantha first started

920
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: dating her boyfriend and Johnsy Sex in the City the

921
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: new reboot. No, I did see the new reboot. Yeah,

922
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: we're not gonna talk about that. No, but remember Samantha

923
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: with what's his name? They used to do like they

924
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: in the beginning. He was an actor and they used

925
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: to They did the Intruder and they did a whole

926
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: bunch of ship and I always like, takes her down.

927
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: If my man got it, like, if you're dating, like

928
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,399
Speaker 1: I said, you're being honest. You gave me the choice.

929
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: I said, okay, like stuff, keep me on my feet,

930
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: keep me entertained, keep me like I don't. I want

931
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: to make sure that you I don't want to think

932
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 1: about it, like you told me. But you're doing so

933
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: much stuff like I'm gonna give you a scenario. Okay,

934
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: look are you ready to act? All right? Right now?

935
00:54:51,040 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: Unique is coming to the door. You a fiend, don't

936
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: clock and crazy Unique would even be doing personal drops

937
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: sexy crack. He turns her into a fing for both.

938
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: Or maybe I'm trying to get her to stop feen

939
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 1: there and I'm giving her another addiction, just getting deep. Damn.

940
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: That sounds like therapy. It does come to but sometimes

941
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: you know therapy is good. Which therapy you're here to

942
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: give me today? Which addiction are you here to satisfy

943
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,800
Speaker 1: on the dick? Well, you know you've got the choices

944
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: pink tops and bluetops today, Laura, First of all, you

945
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: need come to the door. Like girls love that character, yes,

946
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: but just love Unique for real. Yeah, for sure you

947
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: did that great honest like Beard boys though, that's what

948
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: we like. You know, you did a great job on

949
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: the air. And you know what, I'm not gonna lie.

950
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: When I saw Chranges at first, I didn't even realize

951
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: that was you. That's good, it's good. Actually I was

952
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 1: talking about that on the air. I was like, I

953
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: didn't at first, I was like, where is Joey Badass,

954
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: and I didn't even realize that with you. When that

955
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: ship came out, I was like, oh, I can't wait

956
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: for Unique to come out. See my range. And you

957
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because you know, that was obviously

958
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: a specific type of role and I never thought I'd

959
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: play a role like that. But a shout to my man,

960
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 1: James Samuel Uh. He's the one who created the Hortiday

961
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: Fall and everything. I was supposed to be in that actually,

962
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: but then I had took the role for Unique, Like

963
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: he literally called me a week later to come through

964
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: Hartiday Fall. When you got to make those decisions, well,

965
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: I already made it. It was like out of my power.

966
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: It was meant to It was meant to be, you

967
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:46,919
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But then a couple of months

968
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: later he hit me about the two Distent Strangers role

969
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 1: and he was like, Yo, I'm telling you play this

970
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: role bo boom, and it's like that manifested beautifully. You know,

971
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: do you like with Unique such a big character in

972
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: that show, so successful that people kind of care you

973
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: like that now? Like people talk to you like Unique

974
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 1: or be angry with that type of thing. Oh? No,

975
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: you know, to be honest, I don't really be outside

976
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:14,280
Speaker 1: enough like to even like really men Like it's definitely

977
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: a part of like I don't know, it's like I

978
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: got the hair cutting down, Like I had to cut

979
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: my dreads off for this role. So it's like I

980
00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: feel like people definitely kind of see it when I'm out,

981
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Because it's like this literally

982
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: the nigga who played it looks like he's still in Carroty.

983
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: He got the part. We're still shooting from ship actively,

984
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, that's how I'd be throwing

985
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: on hats more and ship now to like just be

986
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: more joey, you know what I'm saying, not even advantage

987
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 1: that kind of feel a little. Yeah, you had a

988
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: lot to say on that. Can we talk about that

989
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: because everybody's been like music, music, music, but clearly you've

990
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: been busy with your acting. So that song, why was

991
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: that like to come back, you know, new music coming

992
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:02,439
Speaker 1: song for you? Well, I had previewed like a few shows. Yeah,

993
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: I previous had a few shows that I did like

994
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: um back in like the Fall and it just went

995
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: crazy love like who blow me Up? I did that

996
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: rolling loud, um there was another show I did, and

997
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: it's just like the fan reception, the crowd response was

998
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: so crazy, and it's like I love having a hype

999
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: song and perform because I'm such a traditional rap artist.

1000
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying is like my style is

1001
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: usually boom back, but like you know what you call

1002
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 1: classic rap and ship like that. So me also being

1003
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: a festival performer, like I understand the dynamics of having

1004
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: a good up temple song. So like that's just kind

1005
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 1: of like the energy that I wanted to be on

1006
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: coming back and I like to show people that I

1007
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: got ranged, that I could do more than what they

1008
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: expect of me, because you know, with artistry, people always

1009
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: try to throw you in the box and ship like that,

1010
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I always like to

1011
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: come back and be like, oh, boom, but you know

1012
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: it's gonna come with that left because I'm such a

1013
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: right you know what I'm saying that, Because your fans

1014
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: have do have like this expectation, and sometimes you can't

1015
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: please everybody, Like you want to grow, you want to

1016
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: show raine, but people want you to stay. And it's

1017
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: like what I've realized to like what I've learned to

1018
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: accept is people are gonna always have something to say.

1019
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: Like as quick as we could accept that as human beings,

1020
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: we'll be living such a fruitful life. Because I'll tell

1021
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: you what, if I didn't drop Revenge, and if I

1022
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: let people get to my head and like just continue

1023
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: doing I was doing first, Nick's gonna be like, oh,

1024
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 1: Joey gotta grow Joey never gonna grow out this sound.

1025
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 1: And also I would have regretted not putting that song

1026
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: out because boom, now I'm back on stage again, and

1027
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: I feel like I ain't got something that's like monstrous

1028
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: that's gonna, you know, send shock waves through the crowd

1029
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 1: and everything. So it's just I've been coming terms with that.

1030
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: It's like I'm good with criticism, Like I really don't

1031
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: give a funk. At the end of the day. Niggas

1032
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: don't know me. They're not having the conversations with me.

1033
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: And I've accepted the fact that I'm a public figure.

1034
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, once you become a public figure, you're

1035
00:59:56,680 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: free game talk about you. You know what I'm I'm saying,

1036
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 1: It is what it is, like I can't get offended

1037
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: if somebody say something about something that I did publicly

1038
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: like it is what it is. That's your opinion. If

1039
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: you're disrespecting me, that's a different thing. You know what

1040
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We address that when you know what I'm

1041
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: saying when I see you in person, and that's what

1042
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 1: it is the best advantage. That's the answer you give

1043
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: to people that hate on me. But I still see you.

1044
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: It is supposed to feel you though, right people hating

1045
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: on you, it's supposed to feel you to be like, okay,

1046
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:32,400
Speaker 1: you disagree when when you know that, like the reason

1047
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: why they're hating is like, so first of all, everybody

1048
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: who could be possibly hating it is not the niggas

1049
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: who's buying your music. It's not the niggas who was

1050
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: buying your merch not the niggas was buying tickets to

1051
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: your should He's the niggas who's like right outside of that,

1052
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: who just kind of looking for a reason and not

1053
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: funk with you. But guess what, all of them haters

1054
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: still gonna listen to my album because they want to

1055
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: confirm why they was hating. The want to be like

1056
01:00:56,560 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 1: you see I told you like into the album and

1057
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh ship, Like now they're gonna have nothing

1058
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: to say this is gonna be quiet. You know, I

1059
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: disagree with that though, being fuel but I hate I

1060
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 1: just think it's corny and I think it's like everybody

1061
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 1: jumped on that thing where it's like my haters my motive. No,

1062
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: they hate that negatively like that. It's disgusting. This gross.

1063
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: I'm heavy on the block button stuff, sucking blocks. Longest

1064
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: ship block is longer than my father. But I don't

1065
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: even listen to sit here, but they're not going nowhere, right,

1066
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: And I block everybody too. But I also feel like

1067
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: if you hate on me, it's just it's nothing you

1068
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 1: can really do about it. It isn't but but I

1069
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: just that negative, just you're looking and you being negative.

1070
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't think that's helpful for I understand. You could

1071
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 1: turn it around real nice with the block here, and

1072
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: I'm crazy with it, like I really explain it later

1073
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: quick with that. Yeah, I'm not one of those people

1074
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: who says, oh I love my I love my haters,

1075
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: but you can't let it get you down. You also

1076
01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: shot and you also have to be like this is

1077
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: how I look at it. If you hate me now,

1078
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna hate me even more, yea, even like what

1079
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: Kanye said, is like should I'd be worried if they

1080
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:08,720
Speaker 1: were saying nothing. The fact that Nigga's got to spend

1081
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: energy to hate, It's like, damn, like I must be

1082
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: I must be doing something right. It's like you take

1083
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 1: your time out your day to speak with negative comments

1084
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: to someone like that's crazy. That shows how much power

1085
01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: that person got over you. Like I just motivated you

1086
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 1: to fucking dish energy out, whether it's negative or positive.

1087
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: And they're always picking apart lip service and I'm just

1088
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: like listening and if they don't pick us apart. So

1089
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: since you mentioned, let me ask you this, have you

1090
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: ever got into a fight over a woman? Because you

1091
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 1: see he want to fight Pete never never never gone

1092
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: to a fight over woman. I feel like, you know

1093
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 1: that's um, that's a little unmanly, you know what I'm saying,

1094
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 1: Like unless a man clearly disrespects you and your boundaries

1095
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: that you have said to him over a woman, like

1096
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: I don't think he's ever right for a man to

1097
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: like fight the woman like you know, I mean you

1098
01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: mean like if you stay away from my bit and yeah,

1099
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, if you set the

1100
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: boundaries like boom boom, Like, Yo, I know you my short,

1101
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 1: he probably has some history boom boom, But now you know,

1102
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: like nigga, you know it is what it is. But

1103
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: respect the line and if he go beyond that line,

1104
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: that you have every right to sock that nigg in

1105
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: the face when you seem because I told you stupid,

1106
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,920
Speaker 1: like now you're disrespecting me. You know what I'm saying.

1107
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: But in a situation like that is that you gotta

1108
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:40,439
Speaker 1: take that up with the woman, bro, or you gotta

1109
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: take that up with yourself, nigga, like you felt short

1110
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: and she moved on. You know, I'm not talking to

1111
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: game specifically, you know what I'm saying. I'm speaking in

1112
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: general and ship like that. But yeah, I think honestly,

1113
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: let's be real, you know, Yeah is smart. He said

1114
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:55,959
Speaker 1: that ship the same way we're saying like he wants

1115
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: people to talk about the scene. I don't think you

1116
01:03:58,120 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: really want to fight. I don't think I really want.

1117
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: And I also feel like with artists, like even with me,

1118
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: I'm a comedian, That's how I get my ship off.

1119
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: I'm putting everything into the joke because it makes me

1120
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: feel better at the time. It doesn't mean I'm really

1121
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,680
Speaker 1: going to do half that ship. People take some of

1122
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: the artistry to series. Now rap is different, I guess

1123
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: because it's lyrical. But for me, like, since I get

1124
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:18,919
Speaker 1: my ship off, you shouldn't take my jokes serious because

1125
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 1: they're sucking jokes. They didn't met you, they didn't make

1126
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: you laugh. That's the whole point of the too, you

1127
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like this generation just so sensitive

1128
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: things like it's it's it's trash the way this whole

1129
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: society has transformed in the last eight years, and the

1130
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 1: camp like I don't want to say, you know what

1131
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I like, I don't care to be because

1132
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm a public figure. I'm aware that when I say

1133
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: certain things, it's gonna send certain shock waves and it's

1134
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: gonna become a headline. And that's the part that I

1135
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: don't care about. I care about the message. I don't

1136
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 1: care about me becoming a distraction for people like, oh,

1137
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:05,919
Speaker 1: Joey Badass said this ship. You know what I'm saying.

1138
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: So just like most of the times, I'd rather just

1139
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: fall back. And it's like, if you know me, you

1140
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You know why I stand on everything,

1141
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. But have you ever Um,

1142
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 1: this is so random question because I'm thinking about all

1143
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 1: the other things that you do with the modeling, right,

1144
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: and so you're around all different kinds of people. Have

1145
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:27,600
Speaker 1: you ever said with a white woman when I was younger? Said?

1146
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: Of course, I don't know. I mean when I was younger,

1147
01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, I'm trying. I'm trying not to

1148
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 1: say anything that's going to give me a trouble. I mean,

1149
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:45,960
Speaker 1: a preference is a preferences. Preference man preferences different? Is

1150
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:49,919
Speaker 1: it different? As far as this is all I'm gonna say.

1151
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: I love my black queens. I love my black woman,

1152
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: and I don't know, black women just make me feel

1153
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: a certain type of ways. That's where I rock with

1154
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: Joey bands for person. That's nice, Okay, wanted it. I

1155
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 1: love my melon and queens, my melan and all the ships.

1156
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 1: That's it. I'm not gonna lie. That's not taking away

1157
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: from anybody from any other races too. Ain't gonna lie

1158
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:21,919
Speaker 1: but love black man, like like I like dark skin.

1159
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 1: I really love black man. But it's just something about

1160
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 1: my Puerto Rican man. They flock together, you know what color.

1161
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm just like black, like everyone asked me being Dominican,

1162
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 1: like you like Spanish. But I've never liked, no, you

1163
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 1: could be Dominican and dark. I know, no my saying

1164
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 1: this dark his same coloriding myself black. But there's a

1165
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: lot of Dominicans that consider themselves from North Philia. But

1166
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: I'm only Dominican. I've never met a North fully Dominican

1167
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,919
Speaker 1: grid that felt black, that told me she was black black,

1168
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 1: and growing up I was black even with my family.

1169
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: Like so that's why it's like, no identify and I

1170
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 1: love me a dark black man like me too. I

1171
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm allowed to like you. They call

1172
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: me white pictures, they think I'm white. I'm full black,

1173
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm all black. They call me white all the time.

1174
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,920
Speaker 1: You think you black because you got black kids. I

1175
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: think at this point in my life, though I'm over,

1176
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm choosing my man, like he has to be a

1177
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 1: black guy, or he has to be a white guy,

1178
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: or he has to be a Puerto Rican guy. I

1179
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: just feel like, you know, whatever God signs me, I'm

1180
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 1: not gonna stop dating black man because I like Puerto

1181
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: Rican guys or vice versa. You know, there's there's one

1182
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: thing we all think about what our kids gonna look like. Yeah,

1183
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,960
Speaker 1: it's nice. We all think about the blends, you know.

1184
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good black ship. It's never my kids

1185
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 1: to look like me. I want my kids to have

1186
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,640
Speaker 1: chocolate skin like me. You know what I'm saying, Like,

1187
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 1: I want my kids to be chocolate. Yeah. And see

1188
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 1: if I say I want my kids to be chocolate,

1189
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:17,800
Speaker 1: I really did because I went through so much being

1190
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: so light, and my mother's very like my mother went

1191
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 1: through a lot of being light. So I did want

1192
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 1: my kids did some color, though, I did. You know,

1193
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:26,080
Speaker 1: you want to protect your kids, So I never thought

1194
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 1: about it. I feel like I'm very accepting of all

1195
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: things just because of how I grew up. Yes, yeah,

1196
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: you know, like I never that's like, I want my

1197
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 1: kids to be a color. I don't think. I don't

1198
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 1: think I'm sexual. I don't think i'm see. Actually, my

1199
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 1: little one, I don't think. But it's like I love it.

1200
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: I tell him everyday, Poppy, you are so handsome. Your

1201
01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,599
Speaker 1: skin complexion is amazing. I love it. And so it's

1202
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 1: my other I got a butterpeakin and I got a

1203
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: milk it's golden. I don't think I'm I don't have

1204
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 1: any racial preference when it comes to your pink pussy. Yeah,

1205
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: I don't like I mean, I want to say that.

1206
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: I just don't want to limit myself. You know, I

1207
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 1: want to get married one day. I want to find

1208
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 1: a man for me, and I'm not gonna be like, oh,

1209
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: he's not it because he's white. But what's your favorite?

1210
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:26,640
Speaker 1: My favorite is to have black math Fuerto Rican, you know,

1211
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: relatability to me, I'm a New York Reacan. I'm very

1212
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 1: but I'm close to my culture. I'll listen to the music,

1213
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 1: I like to talk Spanish with my friends. And you know, um,

1214
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,600
Speaker 1: I like for my man to be culture whatever his

1215
01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: culture is, you know. I like him to be into

1216
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: his to know himself. I just like to learn ship

1217
01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: like relation with somebody. I want to learn some things

1218
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 1: that I never knew before. I just helped step me

1219
01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:58,600
Speaker 1: up in ways and I do the same thing and

1220
01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: for me already in a relationship. Yeah, I have to

1221
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 1: be able to teach and learn in my relationships, saying,

1222
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: you know, like I feel like I could learn in

1223
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 1: any room that I'm in, you know what I mean.

1224
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm as humble as they come, Like I

1225
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: could take direction from a kid, and I could learn

1226
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 1: from a kid. But like I do like to teach

1227
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 1: my partners, you know what I'm saying. I do like

1228
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: to be some type of guidance, a positive motivative force

1229
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: inside you know, my partner's lives, you know. And when

1230
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 1: it comes to me, I feel like a man can

1231
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 1: get to learn so much from me when it comes

1232
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 1: to a religion and culture because I'm so deep into

1233
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:39,680
Speaker 1: it and I really appreciate teaching, but I have to

1234
01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 1: be able to learn from discussed religion and relationships. You'd

1235
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:51,080
Speaker 1: be surprised. It depends though, as long as as long

1236
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: as you have respect for everybody's beliefs, it's it's a

1237
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 1: it's a good conversation. Yeah, that's a fact I was.

1238
01:10:56,200 --> 01:11:00,560
Speaker 1: I was raising no denomination like my mom's. It was

1239
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 1: one conversation that we had that like pretty much led

1240
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 1: me to be in an open minded soul. And it's

1241
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: like I remember, I was like eight years old, was

1242
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,640
Speaker 1: in the back seat riding with my mom's and you

1243
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 1: know how Flatbush Brooklyn is. You see like the Presbyterian Church,

1244
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,000
Speaker 1: then you see like the Catholic church that you see

1245
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 1: it's all these different type of churches. And then I

1246
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: was going to school and I had a Muslim girl

1247
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: in my class, so you know, questions started to arise,

1248
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,799
Speaker 1: and I asked my mom, like, your mom, what's our religion?

1249
01:11:27,080 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 1: And she said, we're a non denomination, meaning that we believe,

1250
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: we don't have a religion, but we believe in God.

1251
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: And that allowed me to be open minded to like

1252
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:42,520
Speaker 1: respect everybody else is thinking, but also still keep my spirituality,

1253
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: still keep my open connection with what I thought was

1254
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:49,519
Speaker 1: just undeniable, which is this outside For I would say

1255
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm more like agnostic now. It's like, you know, I

1256
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 1: believe in the Higher Power. I believe in God, Like

1257
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 1: I wake up every morning, I pray all that, like

1258
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 1: I pray multiple times of the day. You know what

1259
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And but um, I definitely don't identify with

1260
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: a specific religion. I actually feel like we all kind

1261
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,920
Speaker 1: of in a way supposed to have our own religion. Well, Joey,

1262
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:11,559
Speaker 1: you prayed most of the times a day, you believe

1263
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: in polegue me you sounds, But I feel like I

1264
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:16,719
Speaker 1: feel like as long as you believe in and something

1265
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: bigger and higher power and God, the universe, whatever you

1266
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: want to call it. It's so much to learn, you're

1267
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: never gonna stop learning. I think I'm a spiritual person,

1268
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: but I grew up going to church because my grandfather

1269
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:31,479
Speaker 1: was very religious. He was like doing missionary stuff and

1270
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 1: everything and traveling and donating all his money to the church.

1271
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:37,240
Speaker 1: Your black grand problem back, So you grew up what,

1272
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to church a lot. So he was Pentecostal,

1273
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 1: and so my mom used to go to church. But

1274
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: then my dad, who is Chinese, he did not ever

1275
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 1: go to church. And my grandfather used to write me

1276
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 1: letters and be like, my mom is a hen. He

1277
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: was like, you don't want to go to Hell, and

1278
01:12:55,280 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: he would always give me bibles and everything. Pressure, pressure,

1279
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: But I just tried to be like, I'm a very

1280
01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:07,720
Speaker 1: spiritual person. But I do feel like, you know, I

1281
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 1: do want to, Like I haven't been a church in

1282
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,560
Speaker 1: so long. I kind of go, you know, if you

1283
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 1: feel like you want if you want to go, you

1284
01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: should be a costles want to get the Holy Ghost.

1285
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: But I go online, yeah, every day all the time,

1286
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 1: and I pray about everything and I thank God for everything.

1287
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: I just always like in every church experience I've ever had,

1288
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 1: I've just always kind of felt like an outcast, you

1289
01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, I've never felt home in

1290
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 1: the church that I've been to. I've never been to

1291
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 1: a mosque churches here, and that's what I feel like.

1292
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:47,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like what every experience is like, you know,

1293
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm being judged by somebody, by the

1294
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: pastor or something, and you know, I always just kind

1295
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:56,600
Speaker 1: of repel me from church. Like, but I have a

1296
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 1: very strong, deep connection to God, Like I take my

1297
01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 1: action with God so serious, and I feel like if

1298
01:14:01,960 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm with a partner, if I'm with a woman, like

1299
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 1: she has to have that same type of connection with

1300
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:10,360
Speaker 1: God too, because everything with me is like I'm a

1301
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:13,720
Speaker 1: man who's led by spirit Like, it's all intuitive. It's

1302
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,840
Speaker 1: all spiritual like, which connects to the emotional and the

1303
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:21,240
Speaker 1: intellectual physical is like the last thing. So if I

1304
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 1: don't feel that connection, even with just business deals and

1305
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 1: ship like that, then it's just I don't trip over

1306
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 1: opportunities because if it missed me, I just look at

1307
01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 1: it like it wasn't. I gave my life, I gave

1308
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:35,320
Speaker 1: my life to my faith, and I moved forward in

1309
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: faith and I still am. And um I had this

1310
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 1: idea that I wanted a man to be into his

1311
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: faith as much as I am, and that's really hard.

1312
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 1: So what ended up happening. What happens now is I

1313
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:50,679
Speaker 1: put faith into the man I'm wearing. Every guy I'm wearing,

1314
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 1: I'm like putting faith for him, Like, you know, God

1315
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:58,680
Speaker 1: is amazing right already opened. No, I have to be

1316
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: honest it it does work out. Every time I leave

1317
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: a man, I know I left him with more God

1318
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 1: and him, and that makes me feel good. I think

1319
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:08,120
Speaker 1: God for everything. It'd be like stupid, I'd be like no,

1320
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 1: I'd be like, can I find a practice bad? Thank

1321
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:16,000
Speaker 1: you guys? And I think for every little thing, I'd

1322
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 1: be like, oh my God, I gotta thank you guys.

1323
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 1: I know that, and I'm making a point every day

1324
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:22,200
Speaker 1: the first words out of my mom to be thank

1325
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 1: you God. It's so important important to be grateful. But

1326
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 1: what happens with men is like I was with somebody

1327
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 1: who when I met his family, they say, you know,

1328
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:33,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't believe in God, right, because I'm always bringing

1329
01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:36,960
Speaker 1: up the conversation of religion, and his brother was like,

1330
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: you know, he don't believe in God, right, And I'm like,

1331
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 1: what are you talking about I'm make him pray with

1332
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:43,920
Speaker 1: me all the time, and now you know, six seven

1333
01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 1: years later, this man is a praying man. He believes

1334
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:51,559
Speaker 1: in God. He's he's so faith forward. And even even

1335
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 1: though even though he and I will be on a norful,

1336
01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: I know when we're not together, he's he's he became

1337
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,680
Speaker 1: a praying person and that makes me feel really good

1338
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: about your Yeah. Yeah, so like I said, it works out.

1339
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: Like even if the relationship doesn't work out, they take

1340
01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:10,720
Speaker 1: God got men take the faith in because it's not

1341
01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm not pressuring them into a religion. I'm Christian. You

1342
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,680
Speaker 1: have to be Christian. I'm not, you know, It's just

1343
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:18,599
Speaker 1: it's very important for me to be with somebody who

1344
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:22,680
Speaker 1: also has faith. That's it's just friendly. I'm supposed to

1345
01:16:22,680 --> 01:16:27,680
Speaker 1: be a missionary going door to door, but so much

1346
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,879
Speaker 1: I know your it's your birthday week, so I appreciate

1347
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:31,799
Speaker 1: you for coming through and I know you're super busy,

1348
01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: and so it means a lot to me though, because

1349
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:35,800
Speaker 1: like I said, I've been trying to get you up

1350
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 1: here every time I see you. I don't be pushing

1351
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: to him. This is the perfect time. And though like

1352
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: we couldn't have picked a better time to you know

1353
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And we had a little mini birthday

1354
01:16:47,600 --> 01:17:01,880
Speaker 1: I did. I did headcakes, candles, lit up. What you

1355
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:04,559
Speaker 1: got to play in the club because he's on perfect

1356
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:09,760
Speaker 1: raising kidded January birthdays. You celebrate the guys, right they

1357
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 1: got to come home. Appreciate the queeris why you lose this.

1358
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: We like the what you call that. We like the

1359
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:22,960
Speaker 1: torch parers. We bring the point that right back ahead,

1360
01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 1: are yes? End of it? Are you gonna ejaculate for

1361
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:35,479
Speaker 1: your birthday? At least? Are you come? Might? I just might?

1362
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,479
Speaker 1: I just might because I was thinking about doing a

1363
01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: little abstinent period after my birthday, So I got to

1364
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 1: get some out first, get one of your na She

1365
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 1: ain't got to send me that. I could just you know,

1366
01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 1: we could play together. Well, I need a video? She

1367
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,559
Speaker 1: well have you? You're busy and you all over the place.

1368
01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 1: So it's true, but you know it's my birthday. It's

1369
01:17:56,520 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 1: the one day out the year. I got an excuse

1370
01:17:58,600 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 1: to just do what I'm doing. One tied up. Okay, sorry,

1371
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: you got a domination's future already opened up. I got

1372
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,920
Speaker 1: a whip, I got changed. I got the sweet I'm

1373
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 1: not so was your mom's more dominant? No, not at all.

1374
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: So why why did you turn out this way? I

1375
01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 1: don't know that I'm dominant. I can't be controlling, but

1376
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm dominant like I'm very It's the

1377
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 1: same thing almost, you think, Y see it in here

1378
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: for short? You telling comments, tamp don't you come I'm

1379
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: that I'm sweeting at the arrested pussy ain't good if

1380
01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:53,560
Speaker 1: I leave in a fetal position, right and I'm not

1381
01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: borrow with it, and it serves I stole it. That

1382
01:18:56,360 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 1: was wild ship work. People like to be to feed it.

1383
01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta do to defeating She to be Joe,

1384
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 1: that's it. She got to be what you're going to like,

1385
01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:15,720
Speaker 1: like a fucking starfish like laid out that. Okay, the

1386
01:19:15,840 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 1: next that's it. You just got to trusted woman enough

1387
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 1: to allow you to just Oh no, I trust my

1388
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 1: baby to submit. You ain't don't do what I say.

1389
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 1: That's it to submit to what I say? When and

1390
01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:33,280
Speaker 1: when is the album coming? I know you said it's

1391
01:19:33,280 --> 01:19:35,640
Speaker 1: almost done or it's pretty much done. I'm shooting for

1392
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:40,960
Speaker 1: the end of this quarter. Okay. Yeah, So we're going

1393
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: ejaculate to that czy crazy experience the first time ever.

1394
01:19:51,320 --> 01:19:54,599
Speaker 1: On this is definitely not the last time. I'll come back.

1395
01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: See when you become a dominatrix next year one next

1396
01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:01,200
Speaker 1: time you see something we come back. We all got

1397
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:03,720
Speaker 1: to be role playing. Yeah, I'm sure as a as

1398
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: an electrician, you're going to be. You're a plumber. I'm

1399
01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:11,719
Speaker 1: not the plumber. I'm the plumber. He's the plumber. Kicky

1400
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: directors and forces us to get the position the best.

1401
01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 1: She Mrs Claude, I'll be Mrs Claude because she getting niggas. Yeah,

1402
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna breaking answering. I'm gonna breaking your listen. I

1403
01:20:29,880 --> 01:20:31,639
Speaker 1: have to tell you something. We have to be the comment.

1404
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:34,360
Speaker 1: Not only are we for Quarious. Back when I used

1405
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 1: to be in the streets a long time ago, my

1406
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 1: alias was Joey. So when you're typing my name, my

1407
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 1: name comes up, but Joey's under I don't use anymore

1408
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:49,120
Speaker 1: because the fuzz. No, okay, twin, but leg I'm gonna

1409
01:20:49,120 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 1: write a role for you, and that role you're gonna

1410
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:55,519
Speaker 1: be definitely tied up in it. So I will not

1411
01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:57,439
Speaker 1: be taking that role, you know, I don't come back.

1412
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: Oscar winning, okay, yeah, Oscar winning, big dog, congratulations a deal.

1413
01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 1: I don't know why a woman would want to tie

1414
01:21:06,640 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 1: up a man, but we're wrapping the show. I would't

1415
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 1: let my man tie me up, but I don't even

1416
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 1: think I would be comfortable with that. And you just

1417
01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 1: talk about it's a kid to tie you up, because

1418
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 1: it's just like, we don't even got to do all

1419
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 1: of that. You gotta do it. At least you could

1420
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 1: take your risk. You could slide them out to a

1421
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:34,000
Speaker 1: man to put force into me though, like to to

1422
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: let me feel his strength. But tying me up, it

1423
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,040
Speaker 1: is just like, all right, are you gonna stab me? Well,

1424
01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:46,400
Speaker 1: you like being slapped it choked with arms and her

1425
01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:50,560
Speaker 1: legs and like me just holding that ship exactly that

1426
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:57,000
Speaker 1: way too. Fine, I didn't but that hurt. Don't even

1427
01:21:57,360 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 1: pull out here comes. I mean, not bad, that's just

1428
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 1: in the way came working. But I know that he

1429
01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 1: said handcuffs. I think the handcuffs and ties together. I

1430
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,920
Speaker 1: don't like. It's like I don't even like, you know,

1431
01:22:08,080 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 1: being arrested. The bondage slavery isn't Oh my god, dad, Okay, guys, fine,

1432
01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:17,559
Speaker 1: tell you to keep your he still. People you're doing

1433
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:19,519
Speaker 1: breaking the entry. But y'all don't want to get a

1434
01:22:19,560 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: little loosely tied up. What about you getting taught up?

1435
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 1: All right, let's every