1 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: Okay, oh my god, so don't come for me. I 2 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: have like fifty two thousand emails because I never have 3 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: deleted emails that come in, like from everything you've ever bought, 4 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Like every day you could get two hundred emails from 5 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: just stuff you've ordered online. 6 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: It is so fucked. 7 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: So I also have ten million pictures, like I just 8 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: I'll take six pictures and then not delete them. They're 9 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: just in there. And who cares? Well, here's why I care. 10 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: First of all, your memory will be used up on 11 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,279 Speaker 1: a phone. It'll just crap out one day. Second of all, 12 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 1: I get anxiety and I look down at all these 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: different emails, and I wanted a clean slate, so I 14 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: got a new phone. The problem was the minute every 15 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: time I get a new phone, I think I want 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: like a new life and a new clean slate. And 17 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: then my assistant would be like, you can't because what 18 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: about your the cloud and your email and your text 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: and whatever. And then you download everything you had on 20 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: the phone before, and then the new phone becomes a 21 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: shit box of fifty two thousand whatever, And I was like, 22 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: how does everybody live? Like where is everything? 23 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: Like this cloud? 24 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: Get the cloud and down like it's like, I just 25 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 1: like the old days when you developed pictures and you 26 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: just had what you had. You didn't have five million 27 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 1: pictures of Biggie my dog in one spot. And Paul 28 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: is militant and diligent about deleting. He'll delete he cleans 29 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: his email. When he says I'm cleaning out my email box, 30 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: it means like he doesn't have like cluttery emails. So 31 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: here's what I did. I got a new phone. First 32 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 1: we got I got a new phone with a new 33 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: phone number. And that was crazy because that was like 34 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,199 Speaker 1: and then my assistant was like, well, no, we're gonna 35 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: download all your accountants on the new contacts on the 36 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: new phone. I'm like, no, because I don't want Musa Siamak, 37 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: my accountant from South Beverly Drive from twenty five years ago, 38 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,639 Speaker 1: on my phone respectfully to his company account teams. Like there, 39 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: I haven't cleaned my contacts either. My contacts are filthy. 40 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: Not my eye contacts, but my phone contacts are filthy. 41 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: It's just like all of it's a fucking disaster mess. 42 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: I did it wrong. It's like you go up to 43 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: the salad bar and you get salad and you put 44 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: chickpea's on you, but onions, you put this, you put that, 45 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: and you fuck up your salad and it's gross. And 46 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: that's my phone. So I was like, no, I want 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: a new phone. So then I had a new phone number, 48 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: and I then felt like really nude, like I didn't 49 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: know what to do. So I made that phone a 50 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: bat phone, and we had a phone in my house 51 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 1: that was just like a brand new phone that we 52 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: were gonna use for content. I'm like, all right, take 53 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: my phone number from the other phone and put it 54 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: on this new phone where we're not downloading contacts. I'm 55 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: gonna input contacts as I need them for what I'm doing, 56 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna try to be diligent about it, like, 57 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, I put my daughter's name in twice, 58 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: and I was patic because I have so many people 59 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: on the other phone that are there twice and I 60 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: never took the time to correct it. So then my 61 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: emails are only on the other phone that literally has 62 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: a label on it says shit phone, because it's like 63 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: it's we've dumped everything I've ever owned on the shit phone. 64 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: So it says on the back shit phone, like on 65 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: a label. So I can go over to it almost 66 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: like a computer, because I don't have a computer, because 67 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to shot up a computer too. Now 68 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: I just want everything to be clean. So I'm going 69 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: over there, and I'm I'm gonna just use that as 70 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: like my computer for emails and we'll respond to them. 71 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: But I'm not bringing any of this garbage onto my 72 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: new phone. So I feel like I have a new identity. 73 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: I'm a new person. I pushed back with everyone because 74 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: I knew that this time would be challenging. In between, 75 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: like I have like four different phones all over the 76 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: house to get different things from, and I keep running 77 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: back to the old phone. But I feel happy. I 78 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 1: feel excited. I feel like I have a new lease 79 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: on life. I have a clean phone. It has like 80 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: ten contacts and no emails on it. It has an 81 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: email out just so I have it there if I 82 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: need it. But I'm not buying anything on this new phone. 83 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: And also I've really cut back on buying. Now that 84 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: sounds ridiculous because of all the social media stuff, and 85 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: there were product reviewing and I have a carve out 86 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: for luggage, but I don't buy as much anymore, and 87 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: I'm getting rid I'm getting rid of like ten shopping 88 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: bags a week, and that finally means something because now 89 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm not buying. So the getting rid is really making 90 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: a dent in my clutter free home. And I bring 91 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: that up because on my phone, I refuse to buy 92 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: anything on this new perfect phone because if I do, 93 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 1: I'll be signed up for everything. So I'm not even 94 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: like putting the credit card for Apple Pay. Like I'm 95 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: trying to stay lean and clean on my new phone. 96 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: So we'll check back in about that. Thoughts and prayers 97 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: during this challenging time, the submarine has been a rollercoaster 98 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: of emotions. First, everyone was like, what the hell this 99 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: submarine is missing? And it's not a submarine, it's a submersible. 100 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: I learned that I've learned so much. I have a 101 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: wealth of education about underwater activities and pressure and miles 102 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: and meters and all these things that I never knew before. 103 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: And it reminded me oddly of when you get into 104 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: relief work you start learning about some vortex that you 105 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: end up in. And women were really provoked by this. 106 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: We're really really it took us by surprise. We just 107 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: I've been obsessed with it. I couldn't stop thinking about it. 108 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: It's just I'm invested. So I first heard about it 109 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: and my first thought was what the hell, Like. 110 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: Who the hell? 111 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: Why? Who goes and does that? You know? And then 112 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: we started to be humanizing the people, the father and 113 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: his son, the explorers, the adventure seekers, this is what 114 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: they do. And then hearing about a person who was 115 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: supposed to be on this submersible and opted out because 116 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: of the safety aspects, and then hearing that there have 117 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: been twenty five missions before that went well, so they 118 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: can say two customers, twenty five missions went well, And 119 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: I could see how somebody would do it. I mean, 120 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy because they say it was 121 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: locked from the outside, you can't get in, but most 122 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: people think it won't happen to me. And so if 123 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: you're a thrill seeker and adventure seeker and you know 124 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: twenty five people who have done it already. One of 125 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: the people was a producer for The Simpsons. And and 126 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: then there were all these things on TikTok where they 127 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 1: were saying the Simpsons right, because there was I guess 128 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: some animation about something like this, and you know, you 129 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: went through this emotional rollercoaster, and you were also doing 130 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 1: all these no pun intended deep dives on this, So 131 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: you were doing all these deep dives on this and 132 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: realizing that they signed waivers that mentioned death three times. 133 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: So the next place that I went in my mind, 134 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: First I went to, oh my god, who the hell 135 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: would do this? Then I went to after days and 136 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: then counting oxygen and hearing sounds inside, and then I 137 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: went to it's supposed to be so freezing down by 138 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: the Titanic. No one was talking about how frozen solid 139 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: they were. And then I went to they're definitely dead 140 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: before it was announced, And then I went to like 141 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: most of them knew what they were getting into, and 142 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,799 Speaker 1: they do these dangerous things year round and throughout their lives. 143 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: And then now where I am is like, it's millions 144 00:06:54,839 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: of dollars spent, and I know what money does to 145 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: help people, like I know exactly how much it costs 146 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: to help a family that has lost their home and 147 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: lost their their life in a hurricane. So I can't 148 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: even explain to you what we could do with ten 149 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: million dollars because someone said ten million dollars. Is that 150 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: how much this effort costs? It sounds a lot more 151 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: expensive than ten million dollars. They have all these major, 152 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 1: major pieces of equipment, but let's say it's ten twenty 153 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: million dollars. I mean that was my entire relief effort 154 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: for Puerto Rico, which I think was like fifteen million 155 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: pounds of aid, So I mean, who is really paying 156 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: for that? It's not you could appear insensitive, But these 157 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: guys they went, they did this on their own. They 158 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: wanted to go. 159 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 2: Just sounds nuts. The whole thing's nuts. 160 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: What happened with Pete Davidson leaving Pete a message about 161 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: his dog, so he got a dog at a They trolled 162 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: him for not getting a dog at a pound or 163 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: you know, rescuing a dog. And he said, this is 164 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: the only breed that he is not allergic to. Now, 165 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: I know that there are some dogs that are hypoallergenic, 166 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: meaning like certain terriers, certain dogs like a lassa. I think, shit, SEUs, 167 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: he got a cockapoo. I think, but there's certainly not 168 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: only one. You guys got to correct me. There certainly 169 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: isn't only one breed a cockapoo that is non allergenic. 170 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: Like it's like, I'm not only allergic to salmon. I'm 171 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: allergic to salmon and flounder and a bunch of different fish. 172 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: I can eat shellfish, but that's effectively a different that's 173 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: an entirely different animal. Like it's like a cow or 174 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: a chicken is different than shellfish, which is different than fish. 175 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: But I'm not only allergic to like one type of fish, 176 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 1: so is he He's only not allergic to one type 177 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: of breeder dog? Is that? How to talk to me 178 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: about that? Because I just haven't heard of that, So 179 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: I'm believing him. But it was interesting that he said 180 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: he had to get a dog from a breeder, which 181 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 1: is entirely his own choice. I'm a person that rescues. 182 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: I have had rescue dogs for the last you know, 183 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: for as long as I can remember. But it just 184 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: was interesting. It just struck me as like, wait, there's 185 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: only one dog that he's not allergic to, and it's 186 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: from this breeder. But he ripped Pete. God love. I 187 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: like Pete Davidson, by the way. I'd like to say 188 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: that in the past, I've made comments because he's been 189 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: with Kim Kardashian and all these different famous people and whatever. 190 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 2: But I like him. 191 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: He seems like a nice sweet you know guy who's 192 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: ridden this wave and I listen, go for yours. I 193 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: like pet David, and I just want to know about 194 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: the dog thing. I was actually concerned. Oh my god. 195 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: I have sleep apps and they give you a sleep score, 196 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: and it's almost a disservice because like, you wake up 197 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: in the morning and if you thought you slept well, 198 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 1: but it says you got like a seventy five. Like 199 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be happy if my daughter came up with 200 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: a seventy five on a test. And so it fox 201 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: with your head because you may think you slept well, 202 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: but then it tells you only slept six hours and 203 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: forty two minutes, and you then the whole day know 204 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: that you had a shit sleep even though you thought 205 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: you had. 206 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:13,599 Speaker 2: A good sleep. So these like sleep. 207 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: Apps and we track everything that goes on in our day. 208 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 1: It's a little obsessive, still doing it, Still love it, 209 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: Still love When I won something, I looked down at 210 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: it and it said I got a good grade. But 211 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: just keeping you apprized of that shit show too. Kids, 212 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: your kids, you have to ride the line for what 213 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: you disapprove of. And I want to explain this to you. 214 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: So this past weekend, my daughter was at a friend's house. 215 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: She slept over, and it wasn't on my time, it 216 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: was on her dad's time, and she was tired, and 217 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: I don't remember. I think she said she went to 218 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: get fresh baked bread early in the morning, and I 219 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: was like, what time. She's like, if we woke up 220 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: we went five o'clock to get bread. I'm like, you 221 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: set an alarm clock to get fresh bagels? And she 222 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: said she pulled it all nighter, which immediately to me, 223 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: it's like, okay, great, now she's gonna she pulled an 224 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: all night or she had a kid's party the night before. 225 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: Now she's gonna be sick, and you know, like I'm 226 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: doing that now. I don't remember if I was pulling 227 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: all nighters at thirteen. Maybe I was, but Paul and 228 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: I were like, ooh like, and she did it when 229 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: she was really young. One night, I told her she 230 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: could stay up all night, and she made it to 231 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 1: like two or three, Like I'm talking like she might 232 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: have been like eight years old or something. But I 233 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: was cringing, like why do you want to stay up 234 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 1: all night? It just makes you feel like such crap. 235 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: But their kids, they're different. They just have a different constitution. 236 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: And I said wait, because like she was just telling 237 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: me a story about the bagels. But of course I 238 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: have to be ornery and be like wait a minute, what, 239 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: and like disapproving. And I wasn't there and she could 240 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: do it. She could have let the house on fire 241 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: when I wasn't there. It wasn't my time. How would 242 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,599 Speaker 1: I know. So I kind of expressed that I disapproved, 243 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: but I diverted really quickly because in the future I 244 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,839 Speaker 1: can say something to the mom or any mom about 245 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: all nighters, but then I don't want her to be 246 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: the dork that's like wanting to go to bed early. 247 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 1: But now just like, let's see if they could probably 248 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: try to get like four hours of sleep, but what 249 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: parent could actually force that. But more importantly was that 250 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 1: I didn't want to be like a nag because then 251 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 1: I don't want her not to tell me things. And 252 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: I think many people helicopter and nag their kids, and 253 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: then their kids are gonna lie and not tell them 254 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: what they're really doing. So you have to ride the 255 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: line in some cases about not being too strict, not 256 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: because you're scared of your kids, because you're not strict 257 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: because I am strict and my kid is scared of me, 258 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: but because I don't want when she's not with me 259 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: for her to not tell me the truth about what 260 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: she's doing. It's just always better to stay in contact 261 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: with your kid and have there be an open forum 262 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:41,320 Speaker 1: to talk to each other like that they're gonna let 263 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: you know, like when it gets when they get older, 264 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: and when it involves other things, and when it involves 265 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: smoking and drugs and sex and things that really matter 266 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: and relationships and boys not acting right, and you know 267 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 1: you want to be involved. So I just think you 268 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: have to ride the line and not pick every battle 269 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: with your kids, because if you pick every battle, they're 270 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: not going to tell you anything, and then you're gonna 271 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: really be screwed. You'll be on the outside. And like 272 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: in Wall Street when Gordon Gecko told Charlie Sheen, like 273 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: if you're not on the inside, you're on the outside. 274 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: With your kids. You got to be on the inside.