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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we are live at Wingo Tango, all thanks

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<v Speaker 1>to sugar Bear Hair, and you know, I just love

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<v Speaker 1>sugar Bear because my hair looks really good. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>here live and a lot of really awkward stuff just

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<v Speaker 1>happened down at the carpet. Can't wait to share that

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be a good wine down, fine down

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<v Speaker 1>with Janet Kramer and Michael Coffin. And I've heard radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how to start. I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what's remembering, um, how to lose a guy in ten days?

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<v Speaker 1>She goes, I'm mystified. I'm absolutely mystified that. Um, when

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<v Speaker 1>Kate Hudson shows up at her house and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you've only you've only diated the guy for

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<v Speaker 1>five days, I'm just mystified. Is that how you felt

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<v Speaker 1>on the carpet today? Yeah? I had a really uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm kind of like testing a little bit for

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<v Speaker 1>Extra for Extra, doing some hosting stuff. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>the first well, oh my god, it was a really

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<v Speaker 1>it was a really nice test. And I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be a correspondent for Extra because I

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<v Speaker 1>just had the most awkward encounter with Karin the girl

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<v Speaker 1>from the Bachelor, the girl from the Bachelor, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was apparently the villains or produced as or was the villain,

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<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, total villain. And I don't really I

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<v Speaker 1>just remember hearing a bunch of hate about her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew she was the villain. I watched after the

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<v Speaker 1>Rose ceremony and she was, you know, going at it

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of being mean to some of these other

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<v Speaker 1>girls and especially my girl Hannaby. So then I said

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<v Speaker 1>to her, I said, so, how does it feel to

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<v Speaker 1>be the most hated villain? And she was like uh

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<v Speaker 1>and starts like looking at her people, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this news to you? Because I thought you,

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<v Speaker 1>like knew that you were the villain. I didn't a villain,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't say that, but I was just like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, well, I mean, not like the

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<v Speaker 1>most hated, but I mean you're a villain. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, well that was That's a really rude question.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, you probably didn't even mean it

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You probably meant to say most hated or

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<v Speaker 1>villain and you just haven't say all that. I said both,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do the Ashley Simpson like just drop the mic

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Jana and run. It's okay, Like it's all good,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you could do this, just drop the mic and run.

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<v Speaker 1>But so, I mean, I don't know how I recovered

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<v Speaker 1>because I honestly blacked out. So how was the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the interview? You you salvage, You saved yourself. You

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<v Speaker 1>really saved face and turned it around. It is just

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<v Speaker 1>funny that and that has to be hard. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>people probably take that for granted when they see people

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<v Speaker 1>interview and I guarantee you there's not one interviewer, even

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest, who has interviewed everyone in the world probably

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<v Speaker 1>that hasn't had a moment like that that has done

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that they're interviewing. So here the problem is is

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing it solo. I really wanted you to

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<v Speaker 1>do it with me. I just feel like I'm better

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<v Speaker 1>with you, Like what like share it was not good

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<v Speaker 1>without Sunny damn right, like she was really good, just

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<v Speaker 1>that she was actually really good. Yeah, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>just think it was funny because I know what everyone

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<v Speaker 1>knew what you meant to say, right, but you said

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<v Speaker 1>you were like you're the most hated villain person ever

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<v Speaker 1>of all time in that show ever history. But she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was I mean, but I didn't mean, But

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, I didn't mean to put all those together.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe maybe I'm just not meant to be a host.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't base that off of one thing. And again

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't even that bad. Or again it felt she

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<v Speaker 1>could have easily turned that around laughed it off, and

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<v Speaker 1>she called it out, saying that was really rude. She

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<v Speaker 1>said that was kind of rude, but in like a

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<v Speaker 1>witchy way. Oh yeah, for sure, but she should shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be naive the fact that she was portrayed as the villain,

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<v Speaker 1>and so someone can easily turn that around, laugh it off,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, that's crazy, right. She had no idea who

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<v Speaker 1>I was to because she said she wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>a pop singer and I was like, well, I'm a singer. Sick,

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<v Speaker 1>oh you're a singer. And I was just like, you

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea, It's okay, it's all good. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>who's so sweet? And this is so I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep talking about the Bachelor people from for more

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<v Speaker 1>than we have to. But did the Hannah Bee was

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<v Speaker 1>so nice because she knew who I was, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh my god, you do. So do you

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<v Speaker 1>base people's niceness off of whether or not they know

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<v Speaker 1>who you are? Ums? Like, valid question. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel really nice, so sure, it made me

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<v Speaker 1>be like and then what I loved about her is

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<v Speaker 1>that she's a tree Hiller, And I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>love you, and now I'm tilers are awesome. They're the

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<v Speaker 1>greatest people alive. Yeah, they're hardcore. Yeah, like they're the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why a tree Hiller. Yeah. I can't believe you've

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<v Speaker 1>never seen an episode? Are you ever going to? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you've binge to all the shows. But yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I finished every show on Netflix but one Tree Hill,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that's like last on my cue. I

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<v Speaker 1>got the real I got the real life Alex do

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<v Speaker 1>pray right in front of me character. So, babe, who

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<v Speaker 1>are you most excited to see at Winko Tango? Let

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<v Speaker 1>me just go back to the generic coast questions as

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<v Speaker 1>I suckings. But this is actually, this has been a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. You know, it's June one, which is yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's where this is live. It's June one. June Gloom

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<v Speaker 1>has already begun on the first day June. And but

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's still a beautiful day. The temperature is great,

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone's downstairs having a good time. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of drinks now, and I'm happy you're golden.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a cheeseburger, a cup of coffee and to drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I'm actually starving right now. I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>get another drink or I mean drink. Okay, I have

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<v Speaker 1>not drink yet. No. Um. So I want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about sugar bar hair. So what happened to your amazing hair?

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<v Speaker 1>your beautiful hair back? I would I would love that.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't like that because you don't think I'm good

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<v Speaker 1>looking with hair. I actually don't think you're as attractive

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<v Speaker 1>so good, I want one right now, Mike. A second,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like six o'clock. These aren't really a yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna collapse on the carpet. But maybe I should

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<v Speaker 1>wait to eat those at home. Are we staying for

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<v Speaker 1>the So there's Joe, there's the Jonas brothers, and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's um, Well are we staying for them? Well? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>surprised because they're back together now that they did they

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<v Speaker 1>have a break up, though I don't really know the

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<v Speaker 1>hope that they did. It was essentially a break up.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like We're going to do our own thing.

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<v Speaker 1>They officially broke up. Really, how do brothers break up?

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<v Speaker 1>The names? They get too close, Dad likes you better.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you break out? I don't know. Are we

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<v Speaker 1>going to? Okay? So the Jonas Brothers, there's I really

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<v Speaker 1>love Hall at the Heart Awards show that we were

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<v Speaker 1>too and we saw Halisey open that show. We both

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<v Speaker 1>were like, okay, we kind of liked her now she

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<v Speaker 1>were like, she's badass, She's dope. She was awesome. She's

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<v Speaker 1>really opened the show amazing. Yeah, I agree, So I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to see her. And Z is always great. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>T Swift me, that's a good jam. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>good jam. It's the first Taylor Swift song and we

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<v Speaker 1>both talked about that. We liked from the first, from

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<v Speaker 1>the from the get go. A lot of times I

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<v Speaker 1>have to listen to it at least and we always

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<v Speaker 1>five or ten times. We always fall into the Swift

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<v Speaker 1>trap and end up loving every song that she puts

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<v Speaker 1>out was at the Swift trap. That's copyrighted, So Taylor Swift.

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<v Speaker 1>If you end up naming a song like that, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Um no, but no, that song me with Panic at

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<v Speaker 1>the Disco is fantastic. I mean, that's a jam from

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<v Speaker 1>the moment it hits, so um, should we just talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the fact that Sarah is engaged? Can you believe it?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe, Like, we don't have her on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>like right now, I know, I'm hoping that we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her for the Nashville show. Yeah, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>Nashville Live show. Because she is freaking engaged. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>happy for her. We were actually in an argument on

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<v Speaker 1>the way to film something together in the car and

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, why are you entering your phone face timing

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<v Speaker 1>in the car and I was like, because Sarah's called

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<v Speaker 1>me twice and it's either they've broken up or she's

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<v Speaker 1>got a ring, And I was I was like angry

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<v Speaker 1>that you were going to pick it up because we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't seeing out or something. I'm like, really talked your

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<v Speaker 1>friend right now, now, it's not the time. And then

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<v Speaker 1>as as soon as Janna picked up after the fourth

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<v Speaker 1>misscall from Sarah, Janna picked up and the first thing

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<v Speaker 1>we both saw was the ring. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I can't even be mad at that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just so incredibly happy for her and Tie

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm I'm I'm anxious to get them on the

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<v Speaker 1>show because I just we kind of have to feel it. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted her to tell the story. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>really really really cute. But it's funny how many messages

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten from all the wine down people like saying, finally,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be cool, you know, if we're able to

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<v Speaker 1>do some more live shows. Yeah, to get Stare out

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<v Speaker 1>there and and really have her talk about it, because

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<v Speaker 1>people are gonna love to hear about it. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her. I'm so happy for So before we

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<v Speaker 1>got to Wingo Tango, Um, we're running a little late

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<v Speaker 1>because Janna couldn't stop packing and rest the house. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're to that point where the moving truck comes in

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<v Speaker 1>two days, and so the past couple of weeks we've

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<v Speaker 1>had and I fight a Nashville tomorrow right and then

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<v Speaker 1>why back day of backing sweet So Dad has the

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility of getting the last minute stuff together, which is

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<v Speaker 1>nothing because I've packed the entire Sime I was freaking

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<v Speaker 1>out about because because she's not here to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I got it. I'm like, this box is

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<v Speaker 1>the box that we're going to put the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff. This is boxes for the rest of this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be I was gonna say, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for the last couple of weeks we've been living with

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<v Speaker 1>just enough to get by. But now it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>even the things that we've had out to get by,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to box that up. Yeah, clothes, the plastic

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<v Speaker 1>where the we've been using to eat stuff in the like,

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<v Speaker 1>everything it's got to go like that. To day is tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it tomorrow? Well, Sunday we have to have it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, because Monday they come right, So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be ready to go. I'm so stressed. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be good though. It's gonna be fun. I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>and tonight we can just like have a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>fun a Wano tango because it's gonna be awesome. And

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<v Speaker 1>we just appreciate Sugar Bear Hair for hosting this little impromptu.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I love it regardless of the whole what's

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<v Speaker 1>her name, Karin Karin situation on the carpet. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed yourself doing the hosting thing? I have, but but

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's a different beast. You have to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just because you don't want to talk about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to relate, but it's not about you, which

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<v Speaker 1>is fine, Like I can do that, like contrary to

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<v Speaker 1>what you may think about me, I know that it's

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<v Speaker 1>not all about me. But it's it's one of those

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<v Speaker 1>things where I he say, this is the problem. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been asked so many bad interview questions that I put

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<v Speaker 1>so much pressure on asking a good interview question. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's where the battle I'm having and struggling with.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you're trying too hard. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's that's the struggle, because I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, and I clearly sometimes I mess up

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<v Speaker 1>and say things that I don't mean to say, like

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<v Speaker 1>hated ever. Yeah, I think like that, but rubbing into

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<v Speaker 1>my face like dog poop. But I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure like people listening right now, they see people

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<v Speaker 1>do it, and they see around seacrests, they see all

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<v Speaker 1>these people who interview on the carpets, and most of

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<v Speaker 1>them make it look easy. There's someone there where you'll

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<v Speaker 1>watch and you'll be like, Okay, that's that's kind of rough.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but even from an outsider looking in that's

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<v Speaker 1>got to be hard, you know. And like you said

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<v Speaker 1>on here, we're able to ask questions and talk because

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<v Speaker 1>we pull from our own experiences and tell our point

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<v Speaker 1>of view on something as we talk about or ask

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<v Speaker 1>the question. But out there you said you have to

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<v Speaker 1>just it's all about them. Yeah, and you can't relate.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have time to tell your story or to

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<v Speaker 1>relate in a situation and it doesn't matter, but it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you're not able to really connect to the person

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't think you can relate or whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>may be. That's what I like to have more of

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation, and I feel like it's hard. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>really have that that conversation when you host right and

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<v Speaker 1>it's all it seems like it's more um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's more of a process in a sense of you're

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<v Speaker 1>not even really you. You're focused on like asking the questions,

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<v Speaker 1>not even their answer almost right, because you're not even

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<v Speaker 1>really stemming your next question off of their answer. Necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have time to do that. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>be ready for something else. And I mean you did

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<v Speaker 1>great with t x T, the K pop group. They

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<v Speaker 1>spoke like they speak limited English, but I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was a real challenge for you, and I'm proud of

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<v Speaker 1>you because I think you stepped up to the plate

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<v Speaker 1>and you did really well. Thanks, Bead, I appreciate what

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<v Speaker 1>you were. Like my producer back there, I was like, hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>who's that? Look it up? What from? I had? My

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<v Speaker 1>producer happen? He's like, hey, that's um t XT the

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, thanks, babe, I am um that.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't talk to who they will They pulled Hannah

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<v Speaker 1>be away, but I got talked to her backstage and

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<v Speaker 1>she was cool. But then I would have loved to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Jordan Sparks who she married to that well, No,

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<v Speaker 1>she was married to Trey Soon. Well. She wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get the ring from what's his face? Because remember they

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<v Speaker 1>were dating for a long time. Drake, No, no, what's

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<v Speaker 1>his name? Shoot one moment, please, one moment please? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a Jonas Brothers stick she was married? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>think she has Easton has a Jonas Brothers sticker on

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<v Speaker 1>the bass back of his computer. Because I'm a Joe

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<v Speaker 1>bro fan. She she um, I'm a sucker, right, she was.

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<v Speaker 1>She dated Jason Drueler for three years and then Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>she has a son with he's like a basketball player,

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<v Speaker 1>Dana Isaiah over my head, a fitness model. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>they got pregnant and they had only been rated for

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<v Speaker 1>a month. It sounds like she has a very exciting life,

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<v Speaker 1>very exciting. She just looked beautiful. I really just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her. And she was an American idol, right,

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<v Speaker 1>did she No? Yes, no, I have no idea. As

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<v Speaker 1>sources say, a Ka Easton, she won. Yes, she did,

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<v Speaker 1>go gall go try to think what else. I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little tired today. Where you tired from? Well, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been able to sleep lately because of just the anxiety

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<v Speaker 1>of the move and then the last minute going to

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<v Speaker 1>do an event in Nashville tomorrow out and then flying

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<v Speaker 1>back the day of moving, and then moving across country

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<v Speaker 1>with two kids. It's it's just I'm just like a

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<v Speaker 1>little I'm a little stressed. You know most people would be. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's but I don't know. I'm I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>for the for the new, for the new stuff. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we said, we're at Wine Go Tango, and as you

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<v Speaker 1>guys know, Jana loves wine and only drinks wine. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know the answer to this, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you drink anything other than wine? Like, I know, like beer.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of women that don't drink beer because

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<v Speaker 1>the calories. But like right now I'm drinking a vodka

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<v Speaker 1>sprite with a lemon and a line. But like, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you do not like liquor at all? No? I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'll have a margarite to every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 1>and when she says she'll have one, she'll smell mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Thet me just smell it because I they I have

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<v Speaker 1>been told that wine is good for you, which it

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<v Speaker 1>has anti accidents in there, so I've been told that's

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<v Speaker 1>good for you. I'm going to find the one article

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<v Speaker 1>that says vodka or bourbon is good for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just I know, you know, and also too,

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<v Speaker 1>I know how wine makes me feel. I know how

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<v Speaker 1>much of it I that I can have because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so terrified of getting drunk and being not in control,

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<v Speaker 1>which is another reason why I don't drink really in public,

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<v Speaker 1>because I have that I'm gonna drink at a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends with you, but when at a place

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<v Speaker 1>like this, I would never drink because I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to feel not in control, and if something were to

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<v Speaker 1>happen like I'd be under influence. It just makes my

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety worse. I have some good news for you, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>This is according to Town and Country magazine, vodka lowers cholesterol.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good for you, that's right. It can prevent clots, strokes,

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<v Speaker 1>and other heart diseases. You're terrified bo clots, Honey, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to drinkified And for those watching their weight, it's

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<v Speaker 1>generally considered a lower calorie alcohol. Oh. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 1>a big vodka drinker, but yeah, I just I look.

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<v Speaker 1>Wine is so good, you know, like it's just really good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my drinks pretty good right now? What are you drinking? Bright?

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<v Speaker 1>You want one? Sep no um. So we were filming

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<v Speaker 1>something yesterday. It was funny because one of the questions

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<v Speaker 1>was what annoys you the most about each other? And

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<v Speaker 1>we both had a really hard time coming up with things.

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<v Speaker 1>And then as soon as we got in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as we got in the car, everything so

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<v Speaker 1>should we tell him sure about me? One of mine

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<v Speaker 1>is when you tear into a bag of chips or

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<v Speaker 1>into anything that you have to tear open, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>tear it all the way off. You leave like a

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<v Speaker 1>microscopic little thing on there, so it just dangles. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why not just tear it off and throw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's just the way it drives me insane.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still you're you're laughing over there? Because Alston

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<v Speaker 1>did the same thing. My wife does that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know her defense is, um, it's if you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>reseal it, which you can't, but if there's an illusion

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<v Speaker 1>that they're that's the closest you can get. But it

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<v Speaker 1>just trips me up. She'll get it on a receivable bag,

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<v Speaker 1>you know where it says tear here above the receivable part.

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<v Speaker 1>She'll still leave it on top because I only I

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<v Speaker 1>only peel it to where I can then open it,

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<v Speaker 1>so with the point of peeling it all the way

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<v Speaker 1>off to get it out of the way. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>not in my way. It's not all about you. There's

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<v Speaker 1>other people that might go into that bag, right, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was one of yours? Um? Mine was, um, you

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<v Speaker 1>leave Jason's dirty diapers around the house, you don't throw

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<v Speaker 1>them away. It's so frustrating. It's like, just how hard

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<v Speaker 1>is it for you to change his diaper, take the

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<v Speaker 1>diaper and then throw it away, and then because walk

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<v Speaker 1>into room and I'm like, oh, that breaks a pea.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder why, Yep, there it is, Thanks Mike. I

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<v Speaker 1>was a morning peepe morning pep diver. What was another

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<v Speaker 1>one that I said yesterday? I mean you had a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of them. Well, the one was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do something like you have to force me to the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Tades on here though, And then another one with the socks.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a good one. He wears two pairs of socks.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's weird. And then yeah, and then every day,

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<v Speaker 1>every day he wears two pairs of socks. So when

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<v Speaker 1>we do laundry, there's about fifty million socks. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>can't stand all the socks and then having to take

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<v Speaker 1>the socks off, the socks, and I'm like, and if

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<v Speaker 1>I why if I have to change my outfit during

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<v Speaker 1>the day, and even if I don't sweat, like even

0:20:45.880 --> 0:20:48.280
<v Speaker 1>if I'm don't want the shower, but I'll change my outfit.

0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll change everything, underwear, socks, everything. I won't just take

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<v Speaker 1>your top clothes off and then put new ones on.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to change at all, just the where I

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<v Speaker 1>am and the thing with me is I would wear

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<v Speaker 1>the same pair of socks for like a week, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and they'll be mismatched. Janna tries to be sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>and folds my laundry, but I never do your socks,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hate because I told her, Honey, I appreciate it,

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<v Speaker 1>but stop touching my socks because you just do them

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<v Speaker 1>all nixed match. You have a cruise sock with an

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<v Speaker 1>ankle sock, you'll have a mixed match. You'll have them

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<v Speaker 1>inside because it would take literally an hour just to

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<v Speaker 1>fold all the socks. And there's so many black socks.

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<v Speaker 1>And he doesn't wear he doesn't wear white socks. They

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<v Speaker 1>have to be black socks. Like my mom got him

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<v Speaker 1>black socks or white sox for Christmas, and he's like, Nora,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't wear these. They're all black Nike socks. And

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<v Speaker 1>so we had to return the white sox to get

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<v Speaker 1>black socks. Yeah, all black black socks. Really don't wear

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<v Speaker 1>any socks today. That Commando getting naughty there, but I

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<v Speaker 1>get the only black sock. Thing. I just can't wrap

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<v Speaker 1>my mind around two perris. It's just something I've always done,

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<v Speaker 1>just in sports, and it just kind of carried over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I don't know, it's just a comfort thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feels like a one way ticket to athletes

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<v Speaker 1>foot Central. It's like a pillow in your shoe. Okay, well,

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:09.119
<v Speaker 1>maybe have to try that. You know, it's a You

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<v Speaker 1>can have a pillow for your head, yeah, so why

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<v Speaker 1>not for your feet? Yeah? And you know what what

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<v Speaker 1>This is from Karen, and Karen says he doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>with a man, but we've had infidelity in lies. The

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<v Speaker 1>infidelity was on his part. We currently are not having

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<v Speaker 1>sex and I feel so unattractive, unloved, and unwanted. It's

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<v Speaker 1>also making me think he uh. It's also making me

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<v Speaker 1>think he is finding it somewhere else like he did before.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to connect with him on an intimate level.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a power lifter and has a very intense

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<v Speaker 1>trains edule, but when I try to initiate, he pushes

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<v Speaker 1>my hand away. I've asked her space, and one night

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<v Speaker 1>he was supposed to call me to discuss this on

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<v Speaker 1>a deeper level. Instead of calling, he texts me that

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to see a doctor because he's not sure

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not wanting to be intimate. You couldn't call

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<v Speaker 1>question mark. I fought for the last year and a

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<v Speaker 1>half of this relationship and now I'm feeling now, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel it's all for nothing. If you have any advice,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd gladly take it. I like the fact that he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to see a doctor. Yes, I think that's huge

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, because it could very well be that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have a feeling it's not. What do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it is? Um you know. I think it has to

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<v Speaker 1>do with you know, have an intimacy disorder where just

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy makes him uncomfortable, and when you're uncomfortable, it's forgot,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least in my experience, it's hard to perform.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to be in the moment when you feel

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<v Speaker 1>that uncome portable because, like I've said numerous times on here,

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<v Speaker 1>guys aren't light switches per se, especially guys with intimacy issues.

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<v Speaker 1>So it could be something that's more emotional than it

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<v Speaker 1>is physical. So you know, go see the doctor. Great,

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<v Speaker 1>try you know biagraph or sallis or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Great if it works, awesome. Um, But I think seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a therapist because it could also be very helpful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would definitely say a therapist. And I would say

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<v Speaker 1>to um, the all for nothing, I think is something

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<v Speaker 1>that I've learned, and I said to like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>all for nothing. Nothing is all for nothing. If that

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<v Speaker 1>does that make sense to you? Yeah, Like I see

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<v Speaker 1>how it feel that way. I totally can see how

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<v Speaker 1>it feels that way. But it's you. It's not all

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<v Speaker 1>for nothing. Even if you spent like okay, Like for example,

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<v Speaker 1>I could say if we ended up not working out

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, oh, it was all for nothing, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. I learned so much we through Maybe then

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<v Speaker 1>we grew apart, but like I learned so much through

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<v Speaker 1>that process that yes, in the moments like man, I

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<v Speaker 1>just wasted three years, But then it's not all for

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<v Speaker 1>nothing because you're you're learning something along the way, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's interesting because you definitely felt that way in

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<v Speaker 1>the early stages of our reconcil for sure. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you can't notice it until the switch. Yeah, oh for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So it makes again, it makes sense why she feels

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<v Speaker 1>that because they're not to that point. She's not to

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<v Speaker 1>that point. You know, they haven't done the work yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Um or maybe she has but he hasn't. So it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes to both people. So yeah, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>good that you've seen a doctor, but you know he

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<v Speaker 1>should see a therapist, and because it very well could

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<v Speaker 1>be coming from emotions and those kind of issues. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's tough in I mean, you know, you and

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<v Speaker 1>I still kind of talk about this sometimes when you

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<v Speaker 1>know you want to initiate and I don't jump on

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<v Speaker 1>board right away. It's a tough one for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So I empathize with that. Hopefully he can

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:10.359
<v Speaker 1>learn how to empathize as well. Yeah, that's where we

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<v Speaker 1>need to. Hopefully he can get to that point. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you hear the music forwards starting, what do we um?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, okay, so on that note, big shout

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<v Speaker 1>out again, sugar ba Hair, Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>letting us do this. Um, thanks for letting me relive

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<v Speaker 1>my terrible hosting moment, and um babe, I won't do

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<v Speaker 1>it without you again to promise. Okay, I got your back.

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<v Speaker 1>By guys, see you and wind down at the normal

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<v Speaker 1>time on Monday.