1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so we are live at Wingo Tango, all thanks 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: to sugar Bear Hair, and you know, I just love 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: sugar Bear because my hair looks really good. So we're 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: here live and a lot of really awkward stuff just 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: happened down at the carpet. Can't wait to share that 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: this is gonna be a good wine down, fine down 7 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: with Janet Kramer and Michael Coffin. And I've heard radio podcast. 8 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to start. I'm kind of 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 1: what's remembering, um, how to lose a guy in ten days? 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: She goes, I'm mystified. I'm absolutely mystified that. Um, when 11 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 1: Kate Hudson shows up at her house and was like, 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: you know, you've only you've only diated the guy for 13 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: five days, I'm just mystified. Is that how you felt 14 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,959 Speaker 1: on the carpet today? Yeah? I had a really uncomfortable 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: So I'm kind of like testing a little bit for 16 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: Extra for Extra, doing some hosting stuff. And one of 17 00:00:56,280 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: the first well, oh my god, it was a really 18 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: it was a really nice test. And I guess I'm 19 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: not going to be a correspondent for Extra because I 20 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: just had the most awkward encounter with Karin the girl 21 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: from the Bachelor, the girl from the Bachelor, and she 22 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:21,279 Speaker 1: was apparently the villains or produced as or was the villain, 23 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: and so yeah, total villain. And I don't really I 24 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: just remember hearing a bunch of hate about her, and 25 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: I knew she was the villain. I watched after the 26 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: Rose ceremony and she was, you know, going at it 27 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: and kind of being mean to some of these other 28 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: girls and especially my girl Hannaby. So then I said 29 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: to her, I said, so, how does it feel to 30 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: be the most hated villain? And she was like uh 31 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: and starts like looking at her people, And I was like, 32 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: what is this news to you? Because I thought you, 33 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: like knew that you were the villain. I didn't a villain, 34 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: but I didn't say that, but I was just like yeah, 35 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, I mean, not like the 36 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: most hated, but I mean you're a villain. And she's 37 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: just like, well that was That's a really rude question. 38 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, you probably didn't even mean it 39 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 1: like that. You probably meant to say most hated or 40 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: villain and you just haven't say all that. I said both, 41 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: and then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted 42 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: to do the Ashley Simpson like just drop the mic 43 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: right now, Jana and run. It's okay, Like it's all good, 44 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: Like you could do this, just drop the mic and run. 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: But so, I mean, I don't know how I recovered 46 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: because I honestly blacked out. So how was the rest 47 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: of the interview? You you salvage, You saved yourself. You 48 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: really saved face and turned it around. It is just 49 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,920 Speaker 1: funny that and that has to be hard. You know, 50 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: people probably take that for granted when they see people 51 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: interview and I guarantee you there's not one interviewer, even 52 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, who has interviewed everyone in the world probably 53 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: that hasn't had a moment like that that has done 54 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: somebody that they're interviewing. So here the problem is is 55 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: I was doing it solo. I really wanted you to 56 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: do it with me. I just feel like I'm better 57 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: with you, Like what like share it was not good 58 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:06,959 Speaker 1: without Sunny damn right, like she was really good, just 59 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: that she was actually really good. Yeah, I think I 60 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: just think it was funny because I know what everyone 61 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: knew what you meant to say, right, but you said 62 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: you were like you're the most hated villain person ever 63 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: of all time in that show ever history. But she 64 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: kind of was I mean, but I didn't mean, But 65 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: you're right, I didn't mean to put all those together. 66 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: So maybe maybe I'm just not meant to be a host. 67 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: You can't base that off of one thing. And again 68 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't even that bad. Or again it felt she 69 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: could have easily turned that around laughed it off, and 70 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: she called it out, saying that was really rude. She 71 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: said that was kind of rude, but in like a 72 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: witchy way. Oh yeah, for sure, but she should shouldn't 73 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: be naive the fact that she was portrayed as the villain, 74 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: and so someone can easily turn that around, laugh it off, 75 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: like yeah, that's crazy, right. She had no idea who 76 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: I was to because she said she wants to be 77 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: a pop singer and I was like, well, I'm a singer. Sick, 78 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: oh you're a singer. And I was just like, you 79 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: have no idea, It's okay, it's all good. But you know, 80 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: who's so sweet? And this is so I don't want 81 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: to keep talking about the Bachelor people from for more 82 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 1: than we have to. But did the Hannah Bee was 83 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: so nice because she knew who I was, and I 84 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, you do. So do you 85 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: base people's niceness off of whether or not they know 86 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: who you are? Ums? Like, valid question. I mean it 87 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: made me feel really nice, so sure, it made me 88 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: be like and then what I loved about her is 89 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: that she's a tree Hiller, And I was like, I 90 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: love you, and now I'm tilers are awesome. They're the 91 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: greatest people alive. Yeah, they're hardcore. Yeah, like they're the 92 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: reason why a tree Hiller. Yeah. I can't believe you've 93 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: never seen an episode? Are you ever going to? No, 94 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: you've binge to all the shows. But yeah, I think 95 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: I finished every show on Netflix but one Tree Hill, 96 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: So I think that's like last on my cue. I 97 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 1: got the real I got the real life Alex do 98 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: pray right in front of me character. So, babe, who 99 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: are you most excited to see at Winko Tango? Let 100 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: me just go back to the generic coast questions as 101 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: I suckings. But this is actually, this has been a 102 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: lot of fun. You know, it's June one, which is yeah, 103 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: it's where this is live. It's June one. June Gloom 104 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: has already begun on the first day June. And but 105 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: it's it's it's still a beautiful day. The temperature is great, 106 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: and everyone's downstairs having a good time. And I have 107 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: a couple of drinks now, and I'm happy you're golden. 108 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: I had a cheeseburger, a cup of coffee and to drinks. 109 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm actually starving right now. I'd love to 110 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: get another drink or I mean drink. Okay, I have 111 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: not drink yet. No. Um. So I want to talk 112 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: about sugar bar hair. 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What's funny is 131 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: that I described this bottle of the sugar Bear Hair 132 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: Sleep vitamins because I was like me, and these are 133 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: so good, I want one right now, Mike. A second, 134 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: it's like six o'clock. These aren't really a yeah, I'm 135 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: just gonna collapse on the carpet. But maybe I should 136 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: wait to eat those at home. Are we staying for 137 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: the So there's Joe, there's the Jonas brothers, and then 138 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: there's um, Well are we staying for them? Well? I'm 139 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: surprised because they're back together now that they did they 140 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: have a break up, though I don't really know the 141 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: hope that they did. It was essentially a break up. 142 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: It wasn't like We're going to do our own thing. 143 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: They officially broke up. Really, how do brothers break up? 144 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: The names? They get too close, Dad likes you better. 145 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: How do you break out? I don't know. Are we 146 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: going to? Okay? So the Jonas Brothers, there's I really 147 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: love Hall at the Heart Awards show that we were 148 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: too and we saw Halisey open that show. We both 149 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: were like, okay, we kind of liked her now she 150 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: were like, she's badass, She's dope. She was awesome. She's 151 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: really opened the show amazing. Yeah, I agree, So I'd 152 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: love to see her. And Z is always great. Yeah. 153 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: T Swift me, that's a good jam. It is a 154 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: good jam. It's the first Taylor Swift song and we 155 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: both talked about that. We liked from the first, from 156 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: the from the get go. A lot of times I 157 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: have to listen to it at least and we always 158 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: five or ten times. We always fall into the Swift 159 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: trap and end up loving every song that she puts 160 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: out was at the Swift trap. That's copyrighted, So Taylor Swift. 161 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: If you end up naming a song like that, thank you. 162 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: Um no, but no, that song me with Panic at 163 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: the Disco is fantastic. I mean, that's a jam from 164 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: the moment it hits, so um, should we just talk 165 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: about the fact that Sarah is engaged? Can you believe it? 166 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: I can't believe, Like, we don't have her on the show, 167 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: like right now, I know, I'm hoping that we can 168 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: get her for the Nashville show. Yeah, we have a 169 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: Nashville Live show. Because she is freaking engaged. I'm so 170 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: happy for her. We were actually in an argument on 171 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: the way to film something together in the car and 172 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: You're like, why are you entering your phone face timing 173 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: in the car and I was like, because Sarah's called 174 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: me twice and it's either they've broken up or she's 175 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: got a ring, And I was I was like angry 176 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: that you were going to pick it up because we 177 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: weren't seeing out or something. I'm like, really talked your 178 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: friend right now, now, it's not the time. And then 179 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: as as soon as Janna picked up after the fourth 180 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 1: misscall from Sarah, Janna picked up and the first thing 181 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: we both saw was the ring. I was like, Okay, 182 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't even be mad at that. 183 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: So I'm just so incredibly happy for her and Tie 184 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: and I'm I'm I'm anxious to get them on the 185 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 1: show because I just we kind of have to feel it. Well. 186 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: I wanted her to tell the story. So it's just 187 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: really really really cute. But it's funny how many messages 188 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: I've gotten from all the wine down people like saying, finally, 189 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: it's gonna be cool, you know, if we're able to 190 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: do some more live shows. Yeah, to get Stare out 191 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: there and and really have her talk about it, because 192 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: people are gonna love to hear about it. You know. 193 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: I love her. I'm so happy for So before we 194 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: got to Wingo Tango, Um, we're running a little late 195 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: because Janna couldn't stop packing and rest the house. And 196 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: we're to that point where the moving truck comes in 197 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 1: two days, and so the past couple of weeks we've 198 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: had and I fight a Nashville tomorrow right and then 199 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: why back day of backing sweet So Dad has the 200 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,839 Speaker 1: responsibility of getting the last minute stuff together, which is 201 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,079 Speaker 1: nothing because I've packed the entire Sime I was freaking 202 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: out about because because she's not here to do it. 203 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, I got it. I'm like, this box is 204 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: the box that we're going to put the rest of 205 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: the stuff. This is boxes for the rest of this stuff. 206 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: It's gonna be I was gonna say, um, you know, 207 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: for the last couple of weeks we've been living with 208 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: just enough to get by. But now it's like, okay, 209 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: even the things that we've had out to get by, 210 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: we have to box that up. Yeah, clothes, the plastic 211 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 1: where the we've been using to eat stuff in the like, 212 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: everything it's got to go like that. To day is tomorrow? 213 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: Is it tomorrow? Well, Sunday we have to have it all. 214 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, because Monday they come right, So 215 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 1: we're gonna be ready to go. I'm so stressed. It's 216 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: gonna be good though. It's gonna be fun. I'm excited 217 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: and tonight we can just like have a bunch of 218 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: fun a Wano tango because it's gonna be awesome. And 219 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: we just appreciate Sugar Bear Hair for hosting this little impromptu. 220 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: I know, I love it regardless of the whole what's 221 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: her name, Karin Karin situation on the carpet. Have you 222 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: enjoyed yourself doing the hosting thing? I have, but but 223 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: it's just it's a different beast. You have to kind 224 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 1: of just because you don't want to talk about yourself. 225 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: You want to relate, but it's not about you, which 226 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: is fine, Like I can do that, like contrary to 227 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:56,679 Speaker 1: what you may think about me, I know that it's 228 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: not all about me. But it's it's one of those 229 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 1: things where I he say, this is the problem. I've 230 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: been asked so many bad interview questions that I put 231 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: so much pressure on asking a good interview question. And 232 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 1: I think that's where the battle I'm having and struggling with. 233 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if you're trying too hard. So I 234 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: think that's that's the struggle, because I'm like, I don't 235 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, and I clearly sometimes I mess up 236 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: and say things that I don't mean to say, like 237 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: hated ever. Yeah, I think like that, but rubbing into 238 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: my face like dog poop. But I mean, you know, 239 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure like people listening right now, they see people 240 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: do it, and they see around seacrests, they see all 241 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: these people who interview on the carpets, and most of 242 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: them make it look easy. There's someone there where you'll 243 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: watch and you'll be like, Okay, that's that's kind of rough. 244 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: I mean, but even from an outsider looking in that's 245 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: got to be hard, you know. And like you said 246 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: on here, we're able to ask questions and talk because 247 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: we pull from our own experiences and tell our point 248 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: of view on something as we talk about or ask 249 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 1: the question. But out there you said you have to 250 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: just it's all about them. Yeah, and you can't relate. 251 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: You don't have time to tell your story or to 252 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: relate in a situation and it doesn't matter, but it's hard. 253 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: Then you're not able to really connect to the person 254 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: because they don't think you can relate or whatever it 255 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: may be. That's what I like to have more of 256 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 1: a conversation, and I feel like it's hard. You can't 257 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: really have that that conversation when you host right and 258 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: it's all it seems like it's more um, you know, 259 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 1: it's more of a process in a sense of you're 260 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: not even really you. You're focused on like asking the questions, 261 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: not even their answer almost right, because you're not even 262 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: really stemming your next question off of their answer. Necessarily, 263 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: you don't have time to do that. You have to 264 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,559 Speaker 1: be ready for something else. And I mean you did 265 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: great with t x T, the K pop group. They 266 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: spoke like they speak limited English, but I think that 267 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: was a real challenge for you, and I'm proud of 268 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: you because I think you stepped up to the plate 269 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: and you did really well. Thanks, Bead, I appreciate what 270 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: you were. Like my producer back there, I was like, hey, babe, 271 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: who's that? Look it up? What from? I had? My 272 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: producer happen? He's like, hey, that's um t XT the 273 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: I was just like, thanks, babe, I am um that. 274 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't talk to who they will They pulled Hannah 275 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: be away, but I got talked to her backstage and 276 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: she was cool. But then I would have loved to 277 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: talk to Jordan Sparks who she married to that well, No, 278 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: she was married to Trey Soon. Well. She wanted to 279 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: get the ring from what's his face? Because remember they 280 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: were dating for a long time. Drake, No, no, what's 281 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: his name? Shoot one moment, please, one moment please? Is 282 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: that a Jonas Brothers stick she was married? Because I 283 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: think she has Easton has a Jonas Brothers sticker on 284 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: the bass back of his computer. Because I'm a Joe 285 00:14:53,680 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: bro fan. She she um, I'm a sucker, right, she was. 286 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: She dated Jason Drueler for three years and then Uh, 287 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: she has a son with he's like a basketball player, 288 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: Dana Isaiah over my head, a fitness model. Yeah, and 289 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: they got pregnant and they had only been rated for 290 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: a month. It sounds like she has a very exciting life, 291 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: very exciting. She just looked beautiful. I really just wanted 292 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: to talk to her. And she was an American idol, right, 293 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: did she No? Yes, no, I have no idea. As 294 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: sources say, a Ka Easton, she won. Yes, she did, 295 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: go gall go try to think what else. I'm a 296 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: little tired today. Where you tired from? Well, I haven't 297 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: been able to sleep lately because of just the anxiety 298 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: of the move and then the last minute going to 299 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: do an event in Nashville tomorrow out and then flying 300 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: back the day of moving, and then moving across country 301 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: with two kids. It's it's just I'm just like a 302 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: little I'm a little stressed. You know most people would be. Yeah, 303 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: I think it's but I don't know. I'm I'm excited 304 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: for the for the new, for the new stuff. Like 305 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: we said, we're at Wine Go Tango, and as you 306 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: guys know, Jana loves wine and only drinks wine. But 307 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: I don't really know the answer to this, why don't 308 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 1: you drink anything other than wine? Like, I know, like beer. 309 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: There's a lot of women that don't drink beer because 310 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: the calories. But like right now I'm drinking a vodka 311 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: sprite with a lemon and a line. But like, why 312 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: don't you do not like liquor at all? No? I do. 313 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: Like I'll have a margarite to every once in a while, 314 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: and when she says she'll have one, she'll smell mine. 315 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: Thet me just smell it because I they I have 316 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: been told that wine is good for you, which it 317 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: has anti accidents in there, so I've been told that's 318 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: good for you. I'm going to find the one article 319 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: that says vodka or bourbon is good for you. Yeah, 320 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I know, you know, and also too, 321 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 1: I know how wine makes me feel. I know how 322 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: much of it I that I can have because you know, 323 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: I'm so terrified of getting drunk and being not in control, 324 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,359 Speaker 1: which is another reason why I don't drink really in public, 325 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: because I have that I'm gonna drink at a restaurant 326 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: with my friends with you, but when at a place 327 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: like this, I would never drink because I don't like 328 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: to feel not in control, and if something were to 329 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 1: happen like I'd be under influence. It just makes my 330 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: anxiety worse. I have some good news for you, Mike. 331 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: This is according to Town and Country magazine, vodka lowers cholesterol. 332 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: It's good for you, that's right. It can prevent clots, strokes, 333 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: and other heart diseases. You're terrified bo clots, Honey, you 334 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: need to drinkified And for those watching their weight, it's 335 00:17:55,119 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: generally considered a lower calorie alcohol. Oh. I'm not even 336 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: a big vodka drinker, but yeah, I just I look. 337 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: Wine is so good, you know, like it's just really good. 338 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 1: It's my drinks pretty good right now? What are you drinking? Bright? 339 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: You want one? Sep no um. So we were filming 340 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: something yesterday. It was funny because one of the questions 341 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:25,800 Speaker 1: was what annoys you the most about each other? And 342 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 1: we both had a really hard time coming up with things. 343 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: And then as soon as we got in the car, 344 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 1: as soon as we got in the car, everything so 345 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: should we tell him sure about me? One of mine 346 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 1: is when you tear into a bag of chips or 347 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: into anything that you have to tear open, you don't 348 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: tear it all the way off. You leave like a 349 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: microscopic little thing on there, so it just dangles. I'm like, 350 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: why not just tear it off and throw it away. 351 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: It's just it's just the way it drives me insane. 352 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: Are you still you're you're laughing over there? Because Alston 353 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: did the same thing. My wife does that, and I 354 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: know her defense is, um, it's if you're going to 355 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: reseal it, which you can't, but if there's an illusion 356 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: that they're that's the closest you can get. But it 357 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: just trips me up. She'll get it on a receivable bag, 358 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: you know where it says tear here above the receivable part. 359 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: She'll still leave it on top because I only I 360 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: only peel it to where I can then open it, 361 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 1: so with the point of peeling it all the way 362 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 1: off to get it out of the way. But it's 363 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 1: not in my way. It's not all about you. There's 364 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: other people that might go into that bag, right, yeah, okay, 365 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: what was one of yours? Um? Mine was, um, you 366 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: leave Jason's dirty diapers around the house, you don't throw 367 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 1: them away. It's so frustrating. It's like, just how hard 368 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: is it for you to change his diaper, take the 369 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: diaper and then throw it away, and then because walk 370 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: into room and I'm like, oh, that breaks a pea. 371 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 1: I wonder why, Yep, there it is, Thanks Mike. I 372 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 1: was a morning peepe morning pep diver. What was another 373 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: one that I said yesterday? I mean you had a 374 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: bunch of them. Well, the one was like, I don't 375 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: do something like you have to force me to the house. 376 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: Tades on here though, And then another one with the socks. 377 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: That was a good one. He wears two pairs of socks. 378 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 1: I think it's weird. And then yeah, and then every day, 379 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: every day he wears two pairs of socks. So when 380 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 1: we do laundry, there's about fifty million socks. Because I 381 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 1: can't stand all the socks and then having to take 382 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: the socks off, the socks, and I'm like, and if 383 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: I why if I have to change my outfit during 384 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: the day, and even if I don't sweat, like even 385 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 1: if I'm don't want the shower, but I'll change my outfit. 386 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: I'll change everything, underwear, socks, everything. I won't just take 387 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 1: your top clothes off and then put new ones on. 388 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: I had to change at all, just the where I 389 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: am and the thing with me is I would wear 390 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,360 Speaker 1: the same pair of socks for like a week, yes, 391 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 1: and they'll be mismatched. Janna tries to be sweet and 392 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: and folds my laundry, but I never do your socks, 393 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: and I hate because I told her, Honey, I appreciate it, 394 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,479 Speaker 1: but stop touching my socks because you just do them 395 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 1: all nixed match. You have a cruise sock with an 396 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: ankle sock, you'll have a mixed match. You'll have them 397 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: inside because it would take literally an hour just to 398 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: fold all the socks. And there's so many black socks. 399 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,239 Speaker 1: And he doesn't wear he doesn't wear white socks. They 400 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: have to be black socks. Like my mom got him 401 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: black socks or white sox for Christmas, and he's like, Nora, 402 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 1: I won't wear these. They're all black Nike socks. And 403 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 1: so we had to return the white sox to get 404 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: black socks. Yeah, all black black socks. Really don't wear 405 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 1: any socks today. That Commando getting naughty there, but I 406 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: get the only black sock. Thing. I just can't wrap 407 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: my mind around two perris. It's just something I've always done, 408 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: just in sports, and it just kind of carried over. 409 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: It's just I don't know, it's just a comfort thing. 410 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: I don't feels like a one way ticket to athletes 411 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: foot Central. It's like a pillow in your shoe. Okay, well, 412 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 1: maybe have to try that. You know, it's a You 413 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: can have a pillow for your head, yeah, so why 414 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 1: not for your feet? Yeah? And you know what what 415 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 1: can make your pillow for your head is silky smooth hair, 416 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: like like sugar bear hair, which so our hair gets damaged. 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We currently are not having 443 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 1: sex and I feel so unattractive, unloved, and unwanted. It's 444 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: also making me think he uh. It's also making me 445 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 1: think he is finding it somewhere else like he did before. 446 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: I want to connect with him on an intimate level. 447 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: He has a power lifter and has a very intense 448 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: trains edule, but when I try to initiate, he pushes 449 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 1: my hand away. I've asked her space, and one night 450 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: he was supposed to call me to discuss this on 451 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: a deeper level. Instead of calling, he texts me that 452 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 1: he's going to see a doctor because he's not sure 453 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 1: why he's not wanting to be intimate. You couldn't call 454 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 1: question mark. I fought for the last year and a 455 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: half of this relationship and now I'm feeling now, I 456 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: feel it's all for nothing. If you have any advice, 457 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 1: I'd gladly take it. I like the fact that he's 458 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: going to see a doctor. Yes, I think that's huge 459 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:34,399 Speaker 1: for sure, because it could very well be that. But 460 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: I have a feeling it's not. What do you think 461 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 1: it is? Um you know. I think it has to 462 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: do with you know, have an intimacy disorder where just 463 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: intimacy makes him uncomfortable, and when you're uncomfortable, it's forgot, 464 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: or at least in my experience, it's hard to perform. 465 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: It's hard to be in the moment when you feel 466 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: that uncome portable because, like I've said numerous times on here, 467 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: guys aren't light switches per se, especially guys with intimacy issues. 468 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: So it could be something that's more emotional than it 469 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 1: is physical. So you know, go see the doctor. Great, 470 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: try you know biagraph or sallis or something like that. 471 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: Great if it works, awesome. Um, But I think seeing 472 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: a therapist because it could also be very helpful. Yeah, 473 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,200 Speaker 1: I would definitely say a therapist. And I would say 474 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: to um, the all for nothing, I think is something 475 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: that I've learned, and I said to like, this is 476 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: all for nothing. Nothing is all for nothing. If that 477 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 1: does that make sense to you? Yeah, Like I see 478 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: how it feel that way. I totally can see how 479 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,119 Speaker 1: it feels that way. But it's you. It's not all 480 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 1: for nothing. Even if you spent like okay, Like for example, 481 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 1: I could say if we ended up not working out 482 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, it was all for nothing, but 483 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 1: it wasn't. I learned so much we through Maybe then 484 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,880 Speaker 1: we grew apart, but like I learned so much through 485 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: that process that yes, in the moments like man, I 486 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 1: just wasted three years, But then it's not all for 487 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 1: nothing because you're you're learning something along the way, right, 488 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 1: But it's interesting because you definitely felt that way in 489 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,680 Speaker 1: the early stages of our reconcil for sure. I think 490 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: you can't notice it until the switch. Yeah, oh for sure. 491 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 1: So it makes again, it makes sense why she feels 492 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: that because they're not to that point. She's not to 493 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: that point. You know, they haven't done the work yet. 494 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: Um or maybe she has but he hasn't. So it's hard. 495 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: It takes to both people. So yeah, I mean, it's 496 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: good that you've seen a doctor, but you know he 497 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: should see a therapist, and because it very well could 498 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 1: be coming from emotions and those kind of issues. But 499 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: it's it's tough in I mean, you know, you and 500 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: I still kind of talk about this sometimes when you 501 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 1: know you want to initiate and I don't jump on 502 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: board right away. It's a tough one for me. Yeah, 503 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:06,439 Speaker 1: for sure. So I empathize with that. Hopefully he can 504 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 1: learn how to empathize as well. Yeah, that's where we 505 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: need to. Hopefully he can get to that point. Oh 506 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:20,879 Speaker 1: you hear the music forwards starting, what do we um? 507 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, okay, so on that note, big shout 508 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 1: out again, sugar ba Hair, Thank you so much for 509 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: letting us do this. Um, thanks for letting me relive 510 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 1: my terrible hosting moment, and um babe, I won't do 511 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: it without you again to promise. Okay, I got your back. 512 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: By guys, see you and wind down at the normal 513 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: time on Monday.