Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.
Speaker 2: All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Poor Blad.
Speaker 1: This is y'all. I'm a girl, Maydy Baka is dawny
Speaker 1: aka all of it, y'all, I'm weezy.
Speaker 3: If you're watching us on the YouTube, ill like YouTube
Speaker 3: were taking?
Speaker 1: What is that old?
Speaker 3: People think to say you watched us on the YouTube?
Speaker 3: A bitch, I feel old. It's a Friday night. I
Speaker 3: was reading a book before I came in here, bitch. Oh,
Speaker 3: I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in here.
Speaker 3: But imagination, oh wait, I was gonna say, this table
Speaker 3: ship is like really giving me seven year ago vibes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's four years man to upgrade it. Yeah, we started.
Speaker 1: We were like, I remember I.
Speaker 2: Was there, Yes, but we guys, if you are listening,
Speaker 2: we are currently in Vegas because, as you guys know,
Speaker 2: we are nominated hopefully winners by the time this drops,
Speaker 2: but we are nominated for or an Avan Award. So
Speaker 2: we came out here and we got me working. So
Speaker 2: she was like, well, let's record a podcast out there
Speaker 2: because I don't want anyways, So we're now recording podcasts
Speaker 2: in Vegas, and we are joined by some great people
Speaker 2: which I'm super excited to finally have on the pod. Well,
Speaker 2: Glen was on Tyomi. We have a friend who has
Speaker 2: been on the pod a year ago. Right, I just
Speaker 2: being I appreciate you. You did great at our live show.
Speaker 1: Too, I did. We crushed it, and y'all help me
Speaker 1: start on my tour and I still don't ride Dick.
Speaker 2: And then we are joined as well by someone who
Speaker 2: I just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're
Speaker 2: out here.
Speaker 1: At the same time, we have Daddy he Hello, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 2: Now I have to ask you because I know even
Speaker 2: when we when we met each other, you said daddy
Speaker 2: does have to be mentioned, like yes, I have to
Speaker 2: call you daddy the whole the whole episode or what.
Speaker 1: The rebellious one? Right?
Speaker 4: You don't want me to call you, do you? If
Speaker 4: your name is Weezy, I call you. I can call
Speaker 4: you we.
Speaker 1: Maybe if you got your mama name weasel or something.
Speaker 1: Oh no, but like let me ask. If someone doesn't
Speaker 1: do you not respond?
Speaker 4: That's correct? So, because here's here's the thing, right is
Speaker 4: that say, for example, if you give someone your name,
Speaker 4: like say say you say your name is Taquana just
Speaker 4: for the night. If they call you Kwana, you'd be like,
Speaker 4: I don't know who Kuanta is.
Speaker 1: You feel disrespected?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: What about women that have a daddy?
Speaker 4: Why? I doesn't because here's the thing. You calling me
Speaker 4: daddy doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right?
Speaker 1: Father?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I feel like daddy though is much like a cirt,
Speaker 1: like it's something that's it's like it's given me giving
Speaker 1: up power.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: So if I already have someone that's my dom, now
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just trying to play devil.
Speaker 3: If I have a dom, right, and then you say
Speaker 3: call me dad and I'm like, I can't it is
Speaker 3: it like you just.
Speaker 4: But no, here's the thing you said, what's your name?
Speaker 4: I said, my name is Daddy heth right. So if
Speaker 4: you are say you are a felm dom right, and
Speaker 4: your filmdom name is Mama Wesey right now, if I'm like,
Speaker 4: I don't want to call nobody else mama, But it's not.
Speaker 4: It's not about what you feel. It's about it's about respects.
Speaker 4: Respect is If your name is Mama Weasey, I'm going
Speaker 4: to call you Mama wese because that's how you introduce
Speaker 4: yourself to me right, hold.
Speaker 3: For God God as a wold of God Father has
Speaker 3: it's the whole different dude.
Speaker 2: Wait, there is a God damn Father. Here's the thing right.
Speaker 4: See when when I have people who who mess with
Speaker 4: my shadow right and would like to come in and
Speaker 4: tease a little bit, so they got this from I
Speaker 4: have this pastor outfit right right?
Speaker 1: No excuse me, It's okay, it's.
Speaker 4: It's a priest.
Speaker 1: It's a priest and not pastor. No, no, no, I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: You might want to stay pastor because priests be out
Speaker 2: here dealing with the little boys. You want to say,
Speaker 2: beyond call thought you was a pastor because we had
Speaker 2: that white suit when you lined up all them booties.
Speaker 4: That see, like I was telling someone that's so skeasy too. Definitely,
Speaker 4: that's wow.
Speaker 1: It'd be the children from Well then, real quick, what
Speaker 1: has you out here? Uh? In Vegas for a v N?
Speaker 4: Well, this is something I've been wanting to manifest for
Speaker 4: for a long time. So I was just like, I
Speaker 4: got the time and I met I met the place
Speaker 4: in my in my life and my career as far
Speaker 4: as my business, where if I want if there's a
Speaker 4: trip I need to go to. I'm going to go
Speaker 4: to and I've always wanted to come to to a man.
Speaker 4: So SIS was like, you're coming to a VN bro.
Speaker 2: Okay, and you do have a yes with you for
Speaker 2: the people listening again watching.
Speaker 4: So this this is the fantabulous, delicious, gorgeous, sexy as
Speaker 4: a motherfucker the naked unicorns.
Speaker 1: I wish you would have brought your unicorn in here, though, like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? No, that's her horn.
Speaker 3: But she has a unicorn like a little buddy that
Speaker 3: she carries, so like, I'm an unicorn collector. That's how
Speaker 3: we actually connect it because she's a little.
Speaker 1: Animate sh is.
Speaker 3: This is porn weekend, bitch, you better get all in
Speaker 3: the sex realm yard.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's give it actually then, well.
Speaker 2: Real quick, this is something new then we used to
Speaker 2: back in the day have something called the kink of
Speaker 2: the week. What is now We've been talking about unicorns
Speaker 2: in the essence of a woman joining in on a
Speaker 2: couple and that's.
Speaker 3: So not just splain to them. I call myself the
Speaker 3: unicorn because I'm a newist. I like being naked. And
Speaker 3: also I was told that my pussy is magical. So
Speaker 3: I'm a unicorn. This is me and stuffy form. This
Speaker 3: is my personality. I'm walking around with my personality in
Speaker 3: the stuffy form. Wait, so you both collect unicorns. I
Speaker 3: collect unicorns because I'm a little, so I do age play.
Speaker 3: My little is like three four years old. So I've
Speaker 3: been collecting stuffy since I was a kid. And so
Speaker 3: when I found out that being a little is a
Speaker 3: thing in like kink, I was like, oh shit, Wow,
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were a little.
Speaker 1: I did not know you was a little. You don't
Speaker 1: know that I know you know what it is.
Speaker 3: It's interesting to meet women that can be alpha in
Speaker 3: other spaces.
Speaker 2: And we're gonna get into that because because you're such
Speaker 2: a dom I'm surprised that you can.
Speaker 1: Tell on me.
Speaker 3: Made my mother get on her knee would have been
Speaker 3: a little wow. And so I didn't always know that
Speaker 3: I was. So she just helped my mama ride dick
Speaker 3: a yoga ball. That's exactly yeah. And I didn't know
Speaker 3: if she could get down, but she got down. I
Speaker 3: was happy about that.
Speaker 2: Okay, And real quick, before we give the mic back
Speaker 2: to daddy, have how long have you been unicorning like
Speaker 2: in this way? And is there a confusion as well
Speaker 2: when you explain that your unicorn.
Speaker 3: Yeah, people always assume that it's the lifestyle term. When
Speaker 3: I say that I'm a unicorn, I was like, no,
Speaker 3: it's le naked unicorn.
Speaker 2: That's my corn star name. And it's just because your
Speaker 2: pussy's magical.
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I mean I'm magical in itself, but she
Speaker 3: has her own what are her powers?
Speaker 1: Got to ask the people who.
Speaker 2: Daddy have hold on? Take the mic back. I need
Speaker 2: to know what is the powers like down there?
Speaker 3: Hold on?
Speaker 4: In the famous words of Dave Chappelle, one.
Speaker 1: Here for now.
Speaker 4: But here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard
Speaker 4: the legend of that magical pussy. Okay, I heard It's
Speaker 4: like a land of paradise, and make believe, bitch.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold y'all. I'm about to come in
Speaker 2: with it with a unicorn horn on my mother head
Speaker 2: for the rest of the year. But I don't watch
Speaker 2: its powerful too. So I'm a unicornt. I do have
Speaker 2: a question. What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are
Speaker 2: the three of y'all all together here today?
Speaker 3: Okay? So me and this guy, we have a long history.
Speaker 3: His name in my phone can I say it?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: No, his name in my phone is the original name
Speaker 3: that I met him under. So when I first started
Speaker 3: my blog back in twenty eleven, he found me and
Speaker 3: he used to have a radio show on blog talk
Speaker 3: radio what was it every Wednesday, every Wednesday night, and
Speaker 3: so I would come on right I would come on
Speaker 3: and do the sex position of the week because on
Speaker 3: my block when I started Dick Gleam on one dot com,
Speaker 3: every Monday, I would do a sex position of the week.
Speaker 3: And so this guy has had so many legendary people
Speaker 3: who are popping right now on his show in the
Speaker 3: early days. And that's how we met. We just became
Speaker 3: super cool. Like ts Madison is one of the people
Speaker 3: that the thick, the big big bitch, Yes Yo Yo
Speaker 3: met her on his show back in twenty twelve.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: So we had an amazing conversation and like like on
Speaker 4: the air, I experienced. I talked about the time when
Speaker 4: I experienced having a prostate orgasm and getting my pro
Speaker 4: state milk. I talked about my process on my radio show,
Speaker 4: and I would have like certain things about about men's
Speaker 4: mental health and stuff like that, but most of it
Speaker 4: was about nasty, nasty, freaky that.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, gone, we'll go back to unicorn.
Speaker 4: So all right, So here's the thing. A lot of
Speaker 4: men have issues with the process as they get older
Speaker 4: because it gets it gets swollen, right, and when it
Speaker 4: gets swollen get you get estrogen and testosterone in there
Speaker 4: and the toxins, and then that's how they get prostate cancer,
Speaker 4: the polyts in their prostate. So what happens is when
Speaker 4: someone actually goes in and stimulates the pro the prostate,
Speaker 4: it massages it and deflects it.
Speaker 1: This is when Vinny said he made somebody squirt from there.
Speaker 2: But also this is what I'll be telling y'all s
Speaker 2: So basically, if we just out here fingering niggas bootth holes,
Speaker 2: we could keep them from getting pro Yes, whoa not.
Speaker 1: Just the prost you gotta here?
Speaker 3: Okay, but wait, fucking somebody in the ass can cure cancer?
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, I won't cure cancer. However, what.
Speaker 1: That actual prostate massage? Yes, it's given cure as long
Speaker 1: as search we've recently found on horrible decisions from daddy
Speaker 1: half as you know.
Speaker 2: I want to ask you though, because with blackness, specifically,
Speaker 2: they don't want their bootle hole being touched whatsoever. So
Speaker 2: was it a was it a woman that said it's
Speaker 2: not gonna hurt? Was it a doctor? Was it you
Speaker 2: going to the doctor and enjoying it the first time?
Speaker 2: So how did you do it?
Speaker 4: So here's the thing. Yes, when I was a freshman
Speaker 4: in college. Now, I was already at an advanced stage,
Speaker 4: right far as I eat pussy the first time when
Speaker 4: I was fifteen, Right, so I've been eating pussy. But however,
Speaker 4: you know, we were in it. We were in a
Speaker 4: sexual situation and she said, don't get mad, but I'm
Speaker 4: gonna lick your buddy. I was like, now no, I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm like eighteen. I was like, okay, let's see what happens.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. And I didn't really understood. I didn't
Speaker 4: understand what that feeling was. But when she had me
Speaker 4: hold my legs willingly and she was looking at them,
Speaker 4: I was like trying to tell y'all, me let me
Speaker 4: tell you, fellas, listen, let go of that ego and listen.
Speaker 4: You may need some roots. Shock will work. Let me
Speaker 4: tell you something, Let me tell you something. She would
Speaker 4: She'll look you like, she'll look you like a toddler.
Speaker 1: Let me lick you up, let me lick.
Speaker 4: You down, Come on down, turn around, all around. If
Speaker 4: y'all know that, let me nikky girl like your lover.
Speaker 1: Shit. I want to know, was this the age that
Speaker 1: you got melt?
Speaker 4: No, see, I'm giving you the genesis.
Speaker 2: You got into your hole? Yeah right, because I don't
Speaker 2: I don't like that was just tongued. When did you
Speaker 2: When did you graduate to the fingers?
Speaker 4: Oh? You know, maybe a few years later? Like okay,
Speaker 4: I had, I had, I had a partner and she
Speaker 4: stuck the tip of her finger in my ass.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, okay, don't stop now. Can I ask
Speaker 2: you a question? As a dom? Sure, that to me
Speaker 2: is a very submissive thing to do normally, Like even
Speaker 2: I talk about pegging all the time. I always feel
Speaker 2: like the dom and a lot of times the men
Speaker 2: become my bitch.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So because your ass is your manhood a lot of times,
Speaker 2: especially with black men, how is a dom?
Speaker 1: Do you even do you switch?
Speaker 2: Do you consider that being submissive or do you find
Speaker 2: a way psychologically to still feel like you're a dominant
Speaker 2: in that position?
Speaker 4: Well, at that point in time when I'm when I'm
Speaker 4: opening myself up, so his thing his the disclaimer by
Speaker 4: me saying this, I'm not saying that I a number
Speaker 4: one have been pegged number two like to be paid. Okay,
Speaker 4: so remember that, so disclaimer, okay, disclaimer all right. So however,
Speaker 4: I do know at that moment when I do decide
Speaker 4: to be I have to trust someone right, and I
Speaker 4: could be vulnerable with him and I and I know
Speaker 4: that they're there for my pleasure. Right when I could
Speaker 4: trust someone enough right that I could just spread my
Speaker 4: booty cheeks, you know what I'm saying, and and getting
Speaker 4: getting licked like a day, like a day, belvety hand
Speaker 4: a week.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait go background blog talk radio.
Speaker 3: Y'all met you were doing sex positions and then and
Speaker 3: we just became friends and we just send like this everything.
Speaker 4: We went down the rabbit hole then, yeah, we did.
Speaker 1: I just want to know if you guys don't have sex.
Speaker 3: We've never no. So this is like my brother. It's
Speaker 3: funny because like that's my.
Speaker 1: Girls be saying. But girls say that, but like homeboys.
Speaker 3: People get confused because they see us like kiss on
Speaker 3: the lips when we greet each other.
Speaker 1: But that's just how we greet each other.
Speaker 3: But like we are like a brother and sister, just
Speaker 3: a lot kinkier and open with our ship, Like we
Speaker 3: be naked around each other and everything.
Speaker 1: It's just what it is. But we're not blood. But
Speaker 1: blood wouldn't make us any closer, you know.
Speaker 3: Like we've literally grown up in this industry together. So
Speaker 3: anything that I had an opportunity to be a part of,
Speaker 3: I always brought him in.
Speaker 2: So then industry wise, you're both here for AVAN, but
Speaker 2: you do Exodica a lot.
Speaker 1: Now I work for Exotica.
Speaker 2: We got nominated and found out because the fan DMed
Speaker 2: me and said wow, truly I hit weezy. She's like, well,
Speaker 2: you know we nominated. I said, girl, I just got
Speaker 2: a DM and a fan said, we're nominated. I think
Speaker 2: I told Adam twenty two they were nominate, Like literally literally,
Speaker 2: we're not aware, and so we were like, well, we
Speaker 2: have nobody at ABN.
Speaker 1: No one even reached out to us and let us
Speaker 1: know that we were nominated. I'm not surprised.
Speaker 4: They just put you out on the fly.
Speaker 1: We pretty much were just on the one T can
Speaker 1: promote us.
Speaker 2: How many horror podcasts just put them all in right,
Speaker 2: all of them crazy is and we did go down
Speaker 2: the list we are were whenever this drops, one of
Speaker 2: only two black pods even recognized.
Speaker 1: Yes, so shocking, which I'm not gonna lie. Went to
Speaker 1: the convention today.
Speaker 2: I went to the convention today and was able to
Speaker 2: really like walk around I random people that I knew,
Speaker 2: like I actually read well, No, I read wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I did not run into many black people, but I
Speaker 2: did running run into King Nazir, who has been on
Speaker 2: the pod before.
Speaker 1: I also run into Adam and and.
Speaker 2: Uh and Uh, Lenna Lenna and then my friends. Then
Speaker 2: I knew that we're already working there, but there were
Speaker 2: not many black people, not many black porn stars either,
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, I see, okay, interesting, But
Speaker 2: I do want to ask you then, because you also
Speaker 2: have been in attendance the difference between the conventions and
Speaker 2: what someone may be able to expect at a porn
Speaker 2: or sex convention.
Speaker 3: So I work for Exotica as the resident sex expert
Speaker 3: in the sumer are coordinated for the show, and I
Speaker 3: have since twenty seventeen, but even prior to that time,
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've been yeah, my peoples, but prior to that,
Speaker 3: like actually working for them. I did every Chicago Exotica
Speaker 3: since twenty twelve. Wow, yes, I'm like you like ten
Speaker 3: years in the game basically, basically, I mean twelve years
Speaker 3: in general.
Speaker 1: In the game. Maybe like just take the keys right now,
Speaker 1: you can give me the keys.
Speaker 3: So there's a strict difference between Exotica and av AVN
Speaker 3: is like the industry show, like the big industry show.
Speaker 3: So a lot of the big production companies are out,
Speaker 3: the big stars who do at the contract work with
Speaker 3: like Browsers and Bang Bros. And in like a game
Speaker 3: exactly all in there signing, right, and so it's like
Speaker 3: the professional show. And then there's the award show where
Speaker 3: you know it means something to be nominated for an
Speaker 3: an award because you're recognized by the adult industry. Right.
Speaker 1: But over the last few years, ABN has an organization
Speaker 1: has pretty much plummeted. And I'm saying it's publicly because
Speaker 1: everybody knows that it's a true So I'm okay with
Speaker 1: saying how did it happen? But I'm not with that information.
Speaker 1: So it's not it does it have anything to do
Speaker 1: with the only fans and a lot.
Speaker 3: Of there used to be way more people that worked
Speaker 3: for the organization and be due to internal stuff. Now
Speaker 3: there's not as much staff and so you could see, like,
Speaker 3: and everyone was saying it when they came onto the
Speaker 3: floor that the organization was not the same, that it
Speaker 3: just seemed like it was a shell of what it
Speaker 3: used to be.
Speaker 2: I do wonder if it has anything to do with
Speaker 2: And we've talked about this on the pot too, especially
Speaker 2: with only fans now porn Hub, all of just the
Speaker 2: umbrellas of porn has something as well to do with
Speaker 2: tech now, and there have been a lot of tech
Speaker 2: layoffs over the last couple of years. And the vanilla
Speaker 2: shit that I even wanted to bring up is that
Speaker 2: now in the state of Louisiana, you have to show
Speaker 2: ID or how to verify your age now to even
Speaker 2: go on to pornhub dot com or any adult site.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hol on the South, the Bible belt is wildly.
Speaker 4: So I never heard it.
Speaker 1: But don't tell you why I like this, Oh you do?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 2: Hold on, let me read it before first. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: read it because okay, so y'all can understand. So it
Speaker 2: is now saying that many may be familiar with the
Speaker 2: common pop up message that implores people to verify that
Speaker 2: they're eighteen years or order before accessing a porn site. However,
Speaker 2: in Louisiana, people have to have to begin providing legitimate
Speaker 2: proof that they're a legal adult before visiting adult websites.
Speaker 2: The law, dubbed Act four forty, officially wanted to effect
Speaker 2: on January first of this year, and it's centered on
Speaker 2: protecting people under the age of eighteen from quote unquote
Speaker 2: commercial entities who distribute material harmful to minors aka pornography.
Speaker 2: Pretty much, you're gonna have to start uploading your passport,
Speaker 2: your ID or something to even verify yourself before going
Speaker 2: onto these sites. Which because I've been really into porn,
Speaker 2: Lady Only Fans does do that as well.
Speaker 1: In order to even.
Speaker 3: Only Fans is also like a register but for me
Speaker 3: to pay to watch. So here's my two reasons why
Speaker 3: I like this. And even though I do think it's
Speaker 3: insane that I have to log in to watch porn.
Speaker 1: But I know that in most cases when people are
Speaker 1: uploading porn or watching like child or anything, we always
Speaker 1: find out after the fact, right right. And they've said
Speaker 1: a lot of times that when you have people that
Speaker 1: get arrested for aggressive sex or violence against women, there's
Speaker 1: a trend in their porn, and so I do. There's
Speaker 1: always a trend in their porn, like they're watching certain
Speaker 1: type of porn. Now, I do love flucaqua. However, I
Speaker 1: mix it up with lesbian You know what I'm sayes
Speaker 1: that give X murderer no.
Speaker 3: But so if you're like starting to watch really violent ship,
Speaker 3: maybe you need to be the kids.
Speaker 2: But I'm curious how this like so for in the
Speaker 2: in the state of Louisiana, specifically Twitter, I watched so
Speaker 2: much I was gonna.
Speaker 3: Say, what about there's no way that they're gonna be
Speaker 3: able to like but itself is the number one youth site, right,
Speaker 3: and it's the number one site for what's the word
Speaker 3: when not revenge porn? But like someone didn't give consent.
Speaker 3: Oh it's consensual, non consent, thank you?
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, not that like like a nose fucked
Speaker 1: me and took a cell phone video of it and
Speaker 1: uploaded and uploaded. Oh that's revenge.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I'm actually talking about actual scenes of lisensual.
Speaker 1: What are what are y'all's thoughts on?
Speaker 2: Because by the way, when I lived over in in Singapore.
Speaker 2: When I studied abroad, you had to get a VPN
Speaker 2: just even access. So a lot of other count of
Speaker 2: Asian countries you have stipulate just to watch.
Speaker 1: Netflix. So scene that we just went through.
Speaker 2: The reversal of even Row versus Wade and now this
Speaker 2: is happening, yes down there on the Bible Go. What
Speaker 2: are y'all thoughts on Louisiana even doing like that? Do
Speaker 2: you think more states follow?
Speaker 1: And how does that affect the space?
Speaker 3: So on one hand, I do appreciate that there has
Speaker 3: to be another level of verification because you can just
Speaker 3: say yes, I'm eighteen, and then you're in the site right,
Speaker 3: which doesn't have any true weight to it. So somebody
Speaker 3: could be fourteen logging on to peign hub just because
Speaker 3: they click.
Speaker 1: I show you the click. But also is that the
Speaker 1: kid's fault? Where's your daddy? But that work? No? But
Speaker 1: like that's the whole point.
Speaker 3: That's why it makes it good because parents can't watch
Speaker 3: their children twenty four to seven, right, and then with
Speaker 3: technology you have a broader access. So I think it
Speaker 3: is good that it puts restrictions on there because people
Speaker 3: get the misconception from watching porn. They think that that's
Speaker 3: how it's supposed to be when it's not real. My
Speaker 3: porn is real, by the way. My issue though, is
Speaker 3: like y'all doing with that extra information though that's somebody's
Speaker 3: whole like government information. Girl, we stand up for clear
Speaker 3: they got our information. I mean, yes, they got yes.
Speaker 3: And but I'm gonna say this though people don't know this,
Speaker 3: but a lot of the big names are owned by like.
Speaker 2: Only a few companies, which I did notice there was
Speaker 2: an agency room even at the convention. So even like
Speaker 2: when when I was doing the emails to get us
Speaker 2: the tickets and stuff, a lot of the response was, oh, well,
Speaker 2: that's normally done through agents. That's normally the agency handle
Speaker 2: all of that, and but your was, well, it's.
Speaker 3: Me and her, which is weird because if you're nominated,
Speaker 3: it's just be an easy thing.
Speaker 2: And it didn't help to say, well we're nominated. We
Speaker 2: were like tickets for the award show. But yeah, like
Speaker 2: a lot of the girls are. And it's weird because
Speaker 2: that's I would love to have an agent on here
Speaker 2: to describe the difference between agency and pimping.
Speaker 1: Because there's a lot it's a lot of that it's
Speaker 1: a lot. I ain't gonna hold you. I saw a
Speaker 1: lot of people. Okay, so.
Speaker 4: It's like.
Speaker 1: Pimp.
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, I wish I could have just asked
Speaker 2: one of them to come on the pot to it
Speaker 2: is pimp sitting baby and there and there you could
Speaker 2: tell like they.
Speaker 3: Just remember we almost had a pimp on the show
Speaker 3: and then we found out he was beating somebody.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well that's what they do.
Speaker 3: It's just crazy or not. I was gonna say that
Speaker 3: for agencies. I learned a little bit about the business
Speaker 3: of sex agency. So right now, in today's culture, the
Speaker 3: volume of money that people are making is from crowdfundings, yes, right,
Speaker 3: which is a fami, fans are whatever. So what happens is,
Speaker 3: let's just say you're the baddest bitch that can square
Speaker 3: a million miles an hour, Well, how are we to
Speaker 3: find you if you're just a normal person in the world.
Speaker 3: So much like a talent agency like Mandy and I
Speaker 3: have w me right, these agencies take a fee to
Speaker 3: then broaden the spectrum with you. And what happens is
Speaker 3: because they have relationships with let's say a porn hubb
Speaker 3: or you porn or whatever, it might be you then
Speaker 3: get to be on a front part of a page
Speaker 3: for exchange and whatever payola that they do in porn.
Speaker 3: So that's how the agencies work, and they track from
Speaker 3: when you've started on a quarterly basis like this is
Speaker 3: a full time thing. Some of them are taking in
Speaker 3: upwards of thirty five percent, depending on if the girl
Speaker 3: has like, no, it is my professional corporate But think
Speaker 3: about it if I'm just like, let's just say I'm
Speaker 3: a badass receptionist that's got one hundred followers, or maybe
Speaker 3: I have no face and I wanted to show my toes.
Speaker 3: How am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feet
Speaker 3: up there? They got agents, potmotils, they could.
Speaker 1: They got agents for everything. Yeah, for everything.
Speaker 4: People like people have no limits to what they like?
Speaker 1: Do you have limits?
Speaker 4: Daddy? Up? I wait?
Speaker 1: Now how does she say this?
Speaker 4: What what I said?
Speaker 1: Because you got softer when you do well, you said,
Speaker 1: it's not like they call me daddy. No.
Speaker 4: But okay, so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right.
Speaker 4: It can be yeah yah yeah, or you could be
Speaker 4: like hello, ladies, So it's the vibration of the lower tone.
Speaker 1: You gonna make all these bitchess pusses. What at work period?
Speaker 1: They gotta go to a bandroom? Go back to the
Speaker 1: unicorn joke. Now, I did want to ask.
Speaker 2: Both of you guys for a whore dirve. So our
Speaker 2: hoo dirve section is sex tips, and I want to
Speaker 2: start with you, Daddy have I would love for you
Speaker 2: to give a tip or a man who is maybe
Speaker 2: just being.
Speaker 1: Introduced to being a dom in his relationship. What tips
Speaker 1: would you have for for beginner doms?
Speaker 4: Make sure that whoever your partner is, that y'all have
Speaker 4: a trusting relationship because if they don't trust you, then
Speaker 4: they don't think that you can keep them safe or
Speaker 4: protect them. Right, So it's about trust. So like your
Speaker 4: partner can't submit to you. If you want someone to submit,
Speaker 4: you can be like you're gonna submit.
Speaker 1: No, what does what is keeping someone safe and protected
Speaker 1: look like?
Speaker 2: Just because I'm not going to the to the to
Speaker 2: the corner club, would that be getting shot up all
Speaker 2: the time and stuff like that? Like I don't walk
Speaker 2: around with a bulletproof vest? What does protection and safety
Speaker 2: look like from a partner? And I think because that's
Speaker 2: an issue I'm having even in my relationship.
Speaker 1: Well, I like I need somebody.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna let niked unicorn ancidents.
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, there we go. How does thatd have keep
Speaker 1: you safe?
Speaker 3: Well, we met in twenty twenty through my dom Madam Cartney,
Speaker 3: and we went to where Madame Carmen like a New
Speaker 3: York medical No not New York, madimal car with a see.
Speaker 1: We went to what was there space? We went to
Speaker 1: in Atlanta. I'm familiar with the laws. Okay, so we went.
Speaker 1: They do a lot of gay parties there. Now I
Speaker 1: had a horrible experience at the loss. I'm not used to.
Speaker 3: I'm not used to how things happened because we have
Speaker 3: Madame Carmen, she has kink Nick and our events are
Speaker 3: always always safe and protected. But anyway, this guy decided
Speaker 3: it was okay to grab my ass and right away
Speaker 3: that he helped correcting him.
Speaker 1: He did not have my co.
Speaker 3: We we actually we met because through my through my dom,
Speaker 3: we were Oh, I thought you guys met that night? Sorry, no, no, no,
Speaker 3: we went to the play party the night that we met.
Speaker 2: Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play
Speaker 2: party that absolutely makes sense, that is and if you
Speaker 2: got listened to a Patreon episode, I just had a
Speaker 2: mirror from both sides of the bed, and we talked
Speaker 2: about the etiquette of men in sex clubs. So I
Speaker 2: don't think it's talked about enough like that. First of all,
Speaker 2: we have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, I got
Speaker 2: to get it real well. Tune into our Patreon, Patreon
Speaker 2: dot contact slash Horrible Decisions. Uh, it's just we We
Speaker 2: had to have the conversation because even in terms of
Speaker 2: approaching men, or like when men approached me knowing that
Speaker 2: I come with my partner, like they'll just talk to
Speaker 2: me and not even acknowledge him, and then I get
Speaker 2: Then it's just a whole bunch. Anyways, we talk about
Speaker 2: it on Patreon. I wanted to come to you for
Speaker 2: a whore Drm Tyomi.
Speaker 3: You have been going off off on Twitter, onf phone.
Speaker 3: This has been dog period, just sit and people are
Speaker 3: just loving it.
Speaker 2: But I wanted you to give a tip to the
Speaker 2: thick girls who have sex and also please also share
Speaker 2: the myth busting fact that thick girls can't take dick.
Speaker 1: So I put out a sweet and I was like,
Speaker 1: rumor has it that thick girls can't take dick? Is
Speaker 1: this true?
Speaker 3: Now? There were more people that came back and said,
Speaker 3: it's actually a myth. It depends on the person, and
Speaker 3: it depends on the amount of foreplay. And that's actually
Speaker 3: ding ding Dean the truth.
Speaker 1: What do you think it stems from? Because like there's
Speaker 1: always no got anywhere it stems from.
Speaker 3: So, because so I already have the answer, what I'm
Speaker 3: doing is just generating public discourse that people talk about it. Right, So,
Speaker 3: after I let the tweet go off for like twenty
Speaker 3: four to forty eight hours, I said, all right, I've
Speaker 3: had enough of this.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I guess. Sure, Okay, I'm curious.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Can't understand why somebody would say that either. I've like
Speaker 3: the people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what is it? Stamina?
Speaker 3: No, No, it's the perception that if you are in
Speaker 3: a larger body you need firmer or harder handling, and
Speaker 3: it's not true. And so you have more cushions, You
Speaker 3: have cushion with women that are thicker. Yes, they're being
Speaker 3: rougher with us because they assume that our bodies have
Speaker 3: to be treated that way because of what the outside
Speaker 3: looks like. But it's like it's still vagina, still push.
Speaker 3: It still has a bottom, aka the service.
Speaker 1: So what are you doing?
Speaker 3: And if we're not warmed up, just like skinny girls,
Speaker 3: we're not going to be able to receive the full
Speaker 3: dick we need for a play.
Speaker 1: We need to be treated with safety.
Speaker 3: Safety looks like whatever a person says they need to
Speaker 3: feel comfortable in a situation, and everybody has a different
Speaker 3: level of what that looks like. And literally men were
Speaker 3: saying that women were saying that thick girls was like,
Speaker 3: I don't know about job, but over here, I'm taking dick.
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, me too, And I personally go into
Speaker 3: my my situations with lovers like hey, let me guide
Speaker 3: you into how to open me up before you try
Speaker 3: to go to poundtown. You can't go to Poundtown out
Speaker 3: of the gate. Even if I get on top out
Speaker 3: the gate. I've been warmed up to a certain a
Speaker 3: point where I can sit on the dick and it's comfortable.
Speaker 1: So the myth is just And one.
Speaker 3: Guy said it in the thread. He was like, I
Speaker 3: think the myths just comes from like one time there
Speaker 3: was a guy who just wanted to rush into it,
Speaker 3: and he assumed because he was rushing in that all
Speaker 3: thick chicks can't take dick because he didn't take the
Speaker 3: proper time to actually wark my body.
Speaker 1: Right, No, it wasn't. It was most of all it
Speaker 1: was not.
Speaker 2: But you know, they literally do feel like and I
Speaker 2: mean I've been thinking my whole guy exactly so I know.
Speaker 2: But yeah, they definitely come in I guess wanting to do.
Speaker 1: They come in so hot and relax. It's like I
Speaker 1: ain't even warmed up yet exactly.
Speaker 3: Like niggas get so excited because yeah, yeah, but I
Speaker 3: mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's like
Speaker 3: but but dog like right, you like all of that,
Speaker 3: but relax like and sometimes I think that they they
Speaker 3: think their erections are going to disappear, so as soon
Speaker 3: as an erection is there, it's like.
Speaker 1: Times sometimes I disappear in my thighs. They may be
Speaker 1: between my thighs. I'll be like, so you're not the
Speaker 1: one for me? Is the the little cushion between my
Speaker 1: thigh and knee, Like.
Speaker 2: Wait what you don't get the biggest between your thighs
Speaker 2: and been your leg And have guys like.
Speaker 3: Her mind like they don't think it start fun, but
Speaker 3: it feels do they spit there first? How does it
Speaker 3: get what in I mean, my love, myneds be sweating
Speaker 3: sweat if he was not boy. But the guys, yes,
Speaker 3: the guy. You gotta think guys and they stay together.
Speaker 3: It's just like they'd be rubbing and get legs and
Speaker 3: they're not in.
Speaker 1: But yeah, moistened. And now wait, you kept talking about
Speaker 1: being warmed up. Would love to know because I mean, yes,
Speaker 1: you did give us for Dirk, but what is your
Speaker 1: favorite way to get warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so
Speaker 1: I like stimulating conversations.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, well, not even read a book,
Speaker 3: but like I like to debate about ship like hip hop.
Speaker 3: You know you talk to me about like a right
Speaker 3: facts of hip hop and ship. But also like I
Speaker 3: like to be touched. So outside of like the mental
Speaker 3: simulation of my body, get back to the body in
Speaker 3: the boy knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip
Speaker 3: me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like
Speaker 3: I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So if
Speaker 3: I give you consent, please explore my body. I got
Speaker 3: a body like I need you to like cuff my booty.
Speaker 1: A certain ways.
Speaker 3: I need you to get all around like the thickness
Speaker 3: of my thighs, and then I like to be choked,
Speaker 3: you know, like play with my naked I got choked, yo, yo.
Speaker 1: The best thing that happened to me so far yesterday. Yes,
Speaker 1: it was your brain went right back yo. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got choked out on the couch.
Speaker 3: I was like, I remember this as I was fading
Speaker 3: to black, now as you were fitting to please before
Speaker 3: I got that much? Do you like to be choked
Speaker 3: until you're like I like to be challenged to the
Speaker 3: point to see like how far can I go before
Speaker 3: our pass out? But I only do that with partners
Speaker 3: that I trust, and this is a partner. It's no,
Speaker 3: absolutely not. I have to monitor it because a lot
Speaker 3: of guys like they think they know, but they really don't.
Speaker 3: So I have to train them in the moment and
Speaker 3: then give safe worst and stuff. This partner is somebody
Speaker 3: I've known since like twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, so he
Speaker 3: knows me, he knows my body, and we hadn't seen
Speaker 3: each other in years. But he it was like clockwork,
Speaker 3: like just jumping right back in. He knew how to
Speaker 3: do it, the right amount of pressure. He has big
Speaker 3: hands and let it Oh my god. Yeah, So that
Speaker 3: in itself like me like.
Speaker 4: Big hands and being choked.
Speaker 1: I like big hands being choked, big big men big. Yes,
Speaker 1: you do you know I don't like a big I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be with you. If you give me a skinny
Speaker 1: nigga with a big dig I'll take that too. I
Speaker 1: had a threat about that shit too. I used to go, Bro,
Speaker 1: I gotta say the skinniest I told I said this
Speaker 1: maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with Whisky
Speaker 1: recently and Mandy has been talking about him for a year. Bro,
Speaker 1: you seeing that, I'll tell you that nigga looks something me.
Speaker 3: There was a d wonder who play is gay? This
Speaker 3: woman couldn't even concentrate, bro, that's how fine he was.
Speaker 3: I took a picture with Wiz I know Satday Night seen,
Speaker 3: and she was like, why y'all y'all go together?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I hit her because I don't even want to see
Speaker 2: nobody take pictures with him. I was acting like a
Speaker 2: pa Okay, I was the producer on.
Speaker 1: Ain't seen it, I.
Speaker 4: Just know it.
Speaker 2: But I would love to be walking funny after that. Well,
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure we got to a horrible decision.
Speaker 2: Is Daddy have I'm gonna ask you some questions. Of course,
Speaker 2: so we've gotten into I mean clearly you being milked
Speaker 2: and everything else, but I wanted to really get into
Speaker 2: to bring up the milk and party you and you,
Speaker 2: but especially with you being here. Tell me I thought
Speaker 2: that it was right because you identify as a switch.
Speaker 2: I want to confirm you are only a dom.
Speaker 1: You are not a switch?
Speaker 4: Correct? Well, I am mostly a dom, okay, but sometimes
Speaker 4: I will switch.
Speaker 2: And then so with that, can you explain not only switching,
Speaker 2: but I want to talk about if there is a
Speaker 2: difference in roles and genders within being a dom or
Speaker 2: a sub, like what that looks like from a man's perspective,
Speaker 2: and if it changes across genders or not.
Speaker 1: I know how we show up as submissives because we're women.
Speaker 1: I know me as a dome.
Speaker 2: Everyone only assumes I'm a dom when I'm pegging a nigga,
Speaker 2: But there's other ways, even vocally, right, But I want
Speaker 2: to know, like if there is clear distinctions with the
Speaker 2: roles and genders between doms subs.
Speaker 4: In my opinion, just I think it's sort of gender fluid,
Speaker 4: okay with with you know, dominant submissive is very it's
Speaker 4: a very beautiful, fragile space. So it's not like men
Speaker 4: are more dominant. Some some men, even though they appear dominant,
Speaker 4: are really very submissive, very right, But they don't they
Speaker 4: don't feel and they don't feel safe enough for trusting
Speaker 4: anyone enough who they can be submissive to.
Speaker 2: Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,
Speaker 2: a lot of women don't create that safe space. I
Speaker 2: say that to my homegirls a lot, because when I
Speaker 2: do experience the things I experienced actually may be like,
Speaker 2: damn girl, how you be finding all the same type
Speaker 2: of niggas. It's in the same type of shit. You
Speaker 2: don't like I don't find them. It's that they or
Speaker 2: I've allowed them the space for us to do these things.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you probably have either sett in conversations
Speaker 2: something to let men know that you would judge them
Speaker 2: in certain exact or it's like this right, for example,
Speaker 2: talking about pegging. Right, I think there's probably two ways
Speaker 2: women are doing it. Like if you're talking about horrible decisions,
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So I was listening a horrible decision today and Mandy
Speaker 1: was saying how she pegged you ever been bad? Or
Speaker 1: you're like okay, So I thought it was really kinky
Speaker 1: because Mandy did would you be done to try that?
Speaker 1: Like when you're already putting something down.
Speaker 4: Yep.
Speaker 1: You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't
Speaker 1: want to show up for you and they're not the
Speaker 1: dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.
Speaker 3: I think someone said on the show the key to
Speaker 3: masculinity isn't in you asshole. But at the same time,
Speaker 3: when hearing a tone like that, I would I've got
Speaker 3: a nigga ask you had an divorce.
Speaker 1: No, well, damn you almost the things you could be
Speaker 1: proud of us you never even know. When you hear that,
Speaker 1: you're like, oh.
Speaker 4: Because because think about it this way, right, it's the
Speaker 4: same same way where if a woman squirts for the
Speaker 4: first time, that's the guy's first time experiencing people shame her,
Speaker 4: and she won't do it again because she associates squirting
Speaker 4: with shame with a partner. Right, So it's the same
Speaker 4: thing women. Right, Well, I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks
Speaker 4: I'm just speaking about myself. It's that once again, you
Speaker 4: have to trust the person. You have to trust that
Speaker 4: you're not going to attract somebody who's gonna be who
Speaker 4: who makes you feel that they gonna tell your business.
Speaker 4: So he's the thing that I gave this advice to
Speaker 4: someone I was associated with a while ago, and I said, listen,
Speaker 4: it's I hear around town too much that you like
Speaker 4: to get paid, Like, don't let everybody pick you. Though
Speaker 4: I told him that, I said, man, listen, you gotta
Speaker 4: be you have to be very discerning about your actions, right,
Speaker 4: Like you can't just be like, oh, that's the that's
Speaker 4: the pagan guy. I just get in good with him
Speaker 4: and uns.
Speaker 1: I feel like he is the pagan guy. And I
Speaker 1: feel like, I know you're talking about we had on
Speaker 1: the show. Maybe it is, Maybe it isn't. No, it's
Speaker 1: not having someone else. Some people want to some people, Yeah.
Speaker 4: But that's what That's what I'm saying. So like you
Speaker 4: just have to establish those different roles in as far
Speaker 4: as dominant so like me personally, like I have to
Speaker 4: really trust you to the fact that I would just
Speaker 4: like bend over and allow you to just go to
Speaker 4: work on me spanking.
Speaker 1: Now, I want to know, do you have to trust
Speaker 1: someone to dominate them, like to trust yourself.
Speaker 4: But there's a level of trust. First of all, I
Speaker 4: trust myself, right, and when say, when Necker Unicorn trusts me,
Speaker 4: then I know at that point in time if she
Speaker 4: trusts me, that's all that matters. Because but I'm also
Speaker 4: trusting that she's not going to do anything crazy, especially
Speaker 4: if I'm doing having like knife play or something, have
Speaker 4: a knife.
Speaker 1: After we got safety?
Speaker 2: Go Wait a second, So nine play, how do you
Speaker 2: introduce that you're into that? Is there blood happening? To
Speaker 2: explain ninth place? And so this and y'all are if
Speaker 2: y'all are, y'all listen, these are black people. Uh here
Speaker 2: way the knife play, let's get into it because that's interesting.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 1: So he's.
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, so's the thing. Wow, I don't think they
Speaker 4: make knives, but.
Speaker 1: All right, I was. I just thought the murders. Sorry wait,
Speaker 1: Swiss army.
Speaker 4: Like or like well not like a big like a
Speaker 4: big chef's no what like like like Michael Myers like
Speaker 4: them kind of big knives like that or you can
Speaker 4: use you can real.
Speaker 1: Not sex nice?
Speaker 4: Right? No, I don't. I don't think there's the such
Speaker 4: thing as.
Speaker 1: Candles question.
Speaker 4: Like like the sex and I can be like play
Speaker 4: almost it could look it could look like I'm just
Speaker 4: really I.
Speaker 1: Want to know how you introduce.
Speaker 4: All right. So so here's the thing. So you have
Speaker 4: to ask, okay with saying the closed mouth, don't get fed,
Speaker 4: here's the thing you know you want that, well, let
Speaker 4: me let me explain this to you, all right. So
Speaker 4: when you go through the things of what's your hard
Speaker 4: limits and your soft limits, what are you open to?
Speaker 4: This is when negotiation, right, So like give it for example,
Speaker 4: like this riding crop here, like it's nice to leathery here,
Speaker 4: but on this end it has little spikes. Okay. So
Speaker 4: the thing is, even though I want to use it
Speaker 4: on you, I have to say, Mandy, do I have
Speaker 4: your consent to use this? That's the negotiation. And if
Speaker 4: you touch it, you say can I touch it? Daddy?
Speaker 4: If I say sure, touch it and if you say no,
Speaker 4: then I take it away. But if you say yes,
Speaker 4: not me personally. I told you I really want to
Speaker 4: use it on you, but if you tell me no,
Speaker 4: but I gotta respect that. So I pulled it away, right,
Speaker 4: I pulled things away. So it's about it's you always
Speaker 4: have to ask first. So with the knife, the knife
Speaker 4: has to be something where like you're like, oh I
Speaker 4: would try that, got to be gott to be adventurous, right.
Speaker 3: So what you were just cutting some tomatoes and was like,
Speaker 3: can I stab you? Usually where he does his like
Speaker 3: his sessions, right, all of his tools are laid out,
Speaker 3: so a.
Speaker 1: N okay, now this is so then you're asked.
Speaker 3: Well, what's that about? So I remember my first time
Speaker 3: when knife play was with King New War. Okay, it
Speaker 3: was at Exotica at that because King No War and
Speaker 3: he's the mess of everything. Yes, yet absolutely do anything wrong?
Speaker 1: No, no, I don't think.
Speaker 3: But we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage
Speaker 3: at Exotica, like a week before.
Speaker 1: He said I want to do knife play with you.
Speaker 1: Are you open to that?
Speaker 3: Because he already had a list of like my soft
Speaker 3: Heart and Maybies right, knife flight was like a maybe.
Speaker 3: So I was like, well, what kind of knife you're using?
Speaker 3: He explained, I don't think it would matters, so he
Speaker 3: so I said okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,
Speaker 3: he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me
Speaker 3: at TSA, so I had to go buy another one.
Speaker 3: It's not my normal knife, but it's what it looks like.
Speaker 1: Are you with it?
Speaker 3: It had like a little knob on it, I was like, okay,
Speaker 3: I trust you. Yes, now he told me were a
Speaker 3: fish net like of body stocking. During the performance, the
Speaker 3: little knob kept getting stuck as he was dragging the
Speaker 3: knife across my body to cut off the stocking. I
Speaker 3: was shook out, froze, but I trusted him. So we're
Speaker 3: on stage, it's a performance. I gotta keep my face
Speaker 3: together and still be sexy.
Speaker 1: And I'm like on a low seat, like I ain't
Speaker 1: trying to tap out. But Boker, you do it.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: It's so for me.
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, it's everybody to experience.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I will try it again anytime soon,
Speaker 3: but I do like when knife play is used with
Speaker 3: wax play, so the nice you're not and you're not
Speaker 3: cutting because you talked about the fish nuts. So nine
Speaker 3: play is clothes. You can cut clothes off, so you're
Speaker 3: not getting wax.
Speaker 1: No blood, no no.
Speaker 4: If if you're in the blood plate and your bottom
Speaker 4: is in the blood play, then there's then there's blood, right,
Speaker 4: But if you're not, basically the knife, you're just it's aation,
Speaker 4: so it's just grazing across the skin that you would
Speaker 4: feel the sensation of the edge of the knife on
Speaker 4: your skin, right and to the point where you could
Speaker 4: where you where you could where you could use the
Speaker 4: point of the knife.
Speaker 1: Now, because we are black, black, white, you said.
Speaker 3: We're not doing the blood because honestly, if someone told
Speaker 3: me knfe play, I probably wouldn't guess that there was
Speaker 3: no blood in it.
Speaker 1: I thought that there was blood, and I didn't hear that.
Speaker 1: I didn't hear dash they once that for knife play instead,
Speaker 1: he'll use a credit card.
Speaker 2: If they're blindfolded, like saying he would show them the knives,
Speaker 2: but to feel it, he would only use like that's
Speaker 2: he would do credit cards.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you
Speaker 3: want to go, because for a person who likes to
Speaker 3: play hard, nice play is like on the harder side
Speaker 3: of things.
Speaker 1: Yeah it is.
Speaker 3: Now, I'm personally not a blood play person. It's a
Speaker 3: lot with a lot of safety protocol that goes with
Speaker 3: that that I'm just not willing to do.
Speaker 1: But also I like my skin, saying I only want
Speaker 1: I don't even want you, right, that's just bleed outside
Speaker 1: of it. I've only heard of one black person doing
Speaker 1: blood play, and it was Orlando.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and it was I I met a dom,
Speaker 3: a Black dom at fat Con in twenty twenty sixteen
Speaker 3: who was straight needling it on the con floor and
Speaker 3: I was just like, god, damn, I never seen like
Speaker 3: the first time Si.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like needles, Orlando, did she have you done that?
Speaker 1: It's pulling blood? That's not true. Yeah, that's a hard note.
Speaker 4: I have a phobia of needles. Like so even when
Speaker 4: I go get tested, I'll be about to pass.
Speaker 3: Out, bron when I get tested and they be saying
Speaker 3: stuff like, oh, do you have sex stuff?
Speaker 4: Right, like for real life? Okay, Like so needles for me, no,
Speaker 4: but not a night for me because like I'm really
Speaker 4: I'm really a very sensual domb. So for me, like
Speaker 4: I'm all about it's all about sensation, taking the mind somewhere,
Speaker 4: blindfolding everywhere. So like whether the way I flog, the
Speaker 4: way I use all my impact, in the way I
Speaker 4: hands bang is very sensual, gotcha. So for me, like
Speaker 4: you know, I'm big, I'm a big look feeling right,
Speaker 4: So I was always a big, kung ful like person.
Speaker 4: So but but like different movements like this like learning
Speaker 4: tachi and stuff like this. So basically the knife is
Speaker 4: all It's all like a move like energy. Yeah. So
Speaker 4: so basically when I when I do BDS and play,
Speaker 4: everything is about energy.
Speaker 2: So that's why he Look, they worried about what's on TV. Now,
Speaker 2: Karate kids, got your ass, Karate can't look everything's just turned.
Speaker 4: Sure example which example?
Speaker 1: There we go?
Speaker 3: Here we go?
Speaker 4: What may I excuse me? May I personal sluct this
Speaker 4: is my personal slut? Oh yeah, all right, so here's
Speaker 4: the thing, right, So we're gonna talk about choking a
Speaker 4: little bit, right, so hold on you doing a demo.
Speaker 1: It's an audio experience now. Now Black Effect pays us
Speaker 1: for the audio, but.
Speaker 4: I want to show you what happens, right, So like
Speaker 4: I'm big into energy, right, it's all about the touch
Speaker 4: right as time we was talking about about the touch.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's giving meditation all that, right.
Speaker 4: Because we're working on this hard space to right, and
Speaker 4: then we could tap up here right to release some things, okay, yes,
Speaker 4: and then we can go in here like this, squeeze
Speaker 4: a little bit.
Speaker 1: Bleep out the titty you remember, mm hmmm, they're gonna
Speaker 1: hit us at work. M yellow. That was yellow, that's
Speaker 1: what she said. Yellow. Yellow means okay, yes, yellow down.
Speaker 1: But that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,
Speaker 1: although you were the thing to watch. I looked at
Speaker 1: you a few times and you were getting it's obvious.
Speaker 3: And you know, it's nice to see that because I've
Speaker 3: definitely been in the presence of doms that think they
Speaker 3: have to keep that face one.
Speaker 1: Just so hard.
Speaker 3: And it's like as nice to see us to act
Speaker 3: ye it is yea, And sometimes that act kind of
Speaker 3: makes me not buy into it, right. It feels like
Speaker 3: just completely perform performative, and so I appreciate that.
Speaker 4: And so like I'm a I'm an exhibition. It's like
Speaker 4: I like like even going to like like.
Speaker 1: We know, resort. Oh, but y'all are talking, so you
Speaker 1: like to be watched?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, well great because I'm going out tonight, told us
Speaker 2: and so and so you want to join us?
Speaker 1: You know you don't be wanting to go. You're not
Speaker 1: coming to the play party. Wait, are you kidding? Show
Speaker 1: that we're paratyp you know how we're bothering?
Speaker 4: We we we have right, that's right going people?
Speaker 1: Is it like hotel room? Yeah, it's well, I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know either. I'm wait before we go, before
Speaker 1: we leave to uh just because you're here.
Speaker 4: I did want to know.
Speaker 2: I've recently shared a list of sex clubs and because
Speaker 2: we're in Vegas, have either of y'all been to the
Speaker 2: Green Door?
Speaker 1: Is that what it is out here? I can't think
Speaker 1: about the one that I went to, but but the
Speaker 1: one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But
Speaker 1: it was out here?
Speaker 3: Okay, So it was the way that they handled it.
Speaker 3: I can't even think of the name of it. I'm
Speaker 3: going to find it. But the way that they handle
Speaker 3: her being assaulted did not please. She put it on Twitter,
Speaker 3: she read about it.
Speaker 1: I wanted.
Speaker 2: I know, like more people are trying to venture into
Speaker 2: these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know, to
Speaker 2: experience the play parties how I have, especially in New York,
Speaker 2: but I know it's different everywhere, and so definitely want
Speaker 2: to make sure that we continue to share the safe
Speaker 2: spaces to go to. Yes for us and especially especially
Speaker 2: for us, And then maybe if you guys can share,
Speaker 2: if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups
Speaker 2: as well for people to be vetted.
Speaker 1: And joined to come to the type of parties. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we like we like some we just don't vetting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just don't invite anybody everybody to come in,
Speaker 3: Like we got to see what you look like your
Speaker 3: social media and follow instructions.
Speaker 1: That's the moment. That's the main thing.
Speaker 3: It's like if there is a vetting form and we
Speaker 3: say feel out everything, and you'll feel out everything, but
Speaker 3: one thing, you're not coming because you're not following instructions.
Speaker 3: If you can't follow simple instructions, and how can we
Speaker 3: trust you to actually abide by consent? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Right, So people don't understand that.
Speaker 3: And like with me being a switch, right, being both
Speaker 3: dominant and submissive, Right, I'm dominant when I have to
Speaker 3: control things when I'm like on to host to care
Speaker 3: of people. And then in my personal life, like there's
Speaker 3: partners that I both dom and sub for. It depends
Speaker 3: on the dynamic of our relationship, right, and if I
Speaker 3: trust them with my safety, because I don't just switch
Speaker 3: for anybody, right, I'm not going to see that's the
Speaker 3: missive side of me unless I rushed you.
Speaker 1: And so people are like, I know.
Speaker 4: You were a kitt.
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were a little I didn't know
Speaker 3: you were whatever. It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that
Speaker 3: because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve
Speaker 3: to see me like that.
Speaker 1: Well, y'all, we are sitting here with a father, a unicorn,
Speaker 1: and a kidd.
Speaker 4: Yes, how many I bless you, my child, just like
Speaker 4: you the right.
Speaker 1: To list my ass. My ass was read for like
Speaker 1: you made me lick a shoe bit damn you. I
Speaker 1: was at their rooms and you made people chance. Oh
Speaker 1: and you know I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2: But now.
Speaker 1: I didn't go words ship see you using wrong word.
Speaker 2: Now, Mandy's so hard with this battle that she said, sorry,
Speaker 2: it hurts so bad. Well, y'all, we I'm just so
Speaker 2: glad we got to do this well in Vegas. Please
Speaker 2: please please let all of our listeners know where they
Speaker 2: can follow you, find you and if you have anything
Speaker 2: coming up, parties, a lessons, of classes.
Speaker 1: All the things.
Speaker 3: Yes, you can find me on I'm at real gleamozon
Speaker 3: Tyomi and on Twitter where we have public discourse about
Speaker 3: six At Glemazon, Tommy type it in because they have
Speaker 3: me shuttle band or something.
Speaker 1: That's just how it is exactly.
Speaker 3: And if you're trying to learn how to ride but
Speaker 3: also as a woman, feel better about your body and
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Speaker 3: online you can work out from the comfort of your own.
Speaker 1: Home, and it's hard. I'm a botified version, y'all.
Speaker 3: So you know, I have people with like disabilities who
Speaker 3: are also in my tribe, and I make sure that
Speaker 3: as people come into my containers that I accommodate them
Speaker 3: as much as possible. So I've been working on like
Speaker 3: new methods just to make sure everybody feels like they
Speaker 3: can keep up at their own pace. And I'm launching
Speaker 3: the Pleasure Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform,
Speaker 3: and I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all
Speaker 3: year again resident sexperson and our coordinators. So if you
Speaker 3: are an educator and you're listening to the show and
Speaker 3: you want to be considered to teach, go to Exotica
Speaker 3: Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have
Speaker 3: to approve you. Yeah, please feel it out, come and
Speaker 3: join us at the Expo. Four shows, y'all, just a
Speaker 3: lot you can teach, but we do four shows every year,
Speaker 3: so go to our webs We do need a live
Speaker 3: show come through like got cha.
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, gotcha, We're gonna were gonna put that into
Speaker 2: the universe issues.
Speaker 1: Yes ahead to get it. And you can find me
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Naked Underscore, Unicorn Underscoring. All of my
Speaker 1: links are there. I'm shadow band. Yeah yeah, because I'm
Speaker 1: shadow Band on everything as well. All right, un everybody
Speaker 1: where they can follow you find you get into not
Speaker 1: literally but maybe.
Speaker 4: Yes, my child, you can find me an Instagram at
Speaker 4: Real Daddy Health, Twitter, Daddy Underscore Health if you want to. Also,
Speaker 4: we got the health Lifestyle community that's going to be
Speaker 4: coming soon. That's a page subscripts and what's going to
Speaker 4: have exclusive content all things lifestyle.
Speaker 3: Are y'all all in Chicago or I'm in Chicago, he's
Speaker 3: in Charlotte. I wasn't taking now I'm here, so everybody from.
Speaker 2: All over, but we are all in Vegas and guys,
Speaker 2: before we get out of here, y'all have heard us
Speaker 2: say it, we gonna say it again. We want our
Speaker 2: London teings. Y'all gotta come out and see us, all right,
Speaker 2: say Valentine's Day, we are in London.
Speaker 3: Make sure you get your tickets. Let we are at
Speaker 3: the Clapham Gramm. We're so excited. We got a gang coming.
Speaker 3: Vinnie's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are
Speaker 3: bringing our entire production to London. This is not going
Speaker 3: to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.
Speaker 3: This is just like our real show that we've been
Speaker 3: doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it to.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go across the water. We have been international, bitch.
Speaker 1: We did Toronto well.
Speaker 3: In Mexico and Jamaicico, we did, We did, but it
Speaker 3: wasn't that was We didn't make I go on the pond.
Speaker 3: We did, but not a listen as someone who has
Speaker 3: multiple shows in London, flexed real.
Speaker 1: Quick, have fun.
Speaker 2: Make sure you get your tickets. It's s W A
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Speaker 2: bring your man your side, check your side, nigga, whoever.
Speaker 1: It's Valenti.
Speaker 3: We don't have a single lady section and if you
Speaker 3: have the nerve to bring a couple, as I am
Speaker 3: a single bitch, I'm I'm basically so.
Speaker 1: Sweezy's gonna join y'all for sex right after.
Speaker 2: Thank you'all for tuning in to get another episode of
Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions,