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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.

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Speaker 2: All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Poor Blad.

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Speaker 1: This is y'all. I'm a girl, Maydy Baka is dawny

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Speaker 1: aka all of it, y'all, I'm weezy.

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Speaker 3: If you're watching us on the YouTube, ill like YouTube

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Speaker 3: were taking?

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Speaker 1: What is that old?

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Speaker 3: People think to say you watched us on the YouTube?

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Speaker 3: A bitch, I feel old. It's a Friday night. I

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Speaker 3: was reading a book before I came in here, bitch. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in here.

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Speaker 3: But imagination, oh wait, I was gonna say, this table

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Speaker 3: ship is like really giving me seven year ago vibes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's four years man to upgrade it. Yeah, we started.

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Speaker 1: We were like, I remember I.

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Speaker 2: Was there, Yes, but we guys, if you are listening,

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Speaker 2: we are currently in Vegas because, as you guys know,

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Speaker 2: we are nominated hopefully winners by the time this drops,

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Speaker 2: but we are nominated for or an Avan Award. So

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Speaker 2: we came out here and we got me working. So

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Speaker 2: she was like, well, let's record a podcast out there

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Speaker 2: because I don't want anyways, So we're now recording podcasts

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Speaker 2: in Vegas, and we are joined by some great people

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Speaker 2: which I'm super excited to finally have on the pod. Well,

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Speaker 2: Glen was on Tyomi. We have a friend who has

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Speaker 2: been on the pod a year ago. Right, I just

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Speaker 2: being I appreciate you. You did great at our live show.

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Speaker 1: Too, I did. We crushed it, and y'all help me

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Speaker 1: start on my tour and I still don't ride Dick.

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Speaker 2: And then we are joined as well by someone who

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Speaker 2: I just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're

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Speaker 2: out here.

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Speaker 1: At the same time, we have Daddy he Hello, Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 2: Now I have to ask you because I know even

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Speaker 2: when we when we met each other, you said daddy

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Speaker 2: does have to be mentioned, like yes, I have to

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Speaker 2: call you daddy the whole the whole episode or what.

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Speaker 1: The rebellious one? Right?

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Speaker 4: You don't want me to call you, do you? If

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Speaker 4: your name is Weezy, I call you. I can call

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Speaker 4: you we.

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Speaker 1: Maybe if you got your mama name weasel or something.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, but like let me ask. If someone doesn't

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Speaker 1: do you not respond?

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Speaker 4: That's correct? So, because here's here's the thing, right is

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Speaker 4: that say, for example, if you give someone your name,

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Speaker 4: like say say you say your name is Taquana just

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Speaker 4: for the night. If they call you Kwana, you'd be like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know who Kuanta is.

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Speaker 1: You feel disrespected?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: What about women that have a daddy?

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Speaker 4: Why? I doesn't because here's the thing. You calling me

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Speaker 4: daddy doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right?

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Speaker 1: Father?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I feel like daddy though is much like a cirt,

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Speaker 1: like it's something that's it's like it's given me giving

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Speaker 1: up power.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: So if I already have someone that's my dom, now

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Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just trying to play devil.

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Speaker 3: If I have a dom, right, and then you say

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Speaker 3: call me dad and I'm like, I can't it is

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Speaker 3: it like you just.

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Speaker 4: But no, here's the thing you said, what's your name?

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Speaker 4: I said, my name is Daddy heth right. So if

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Speaker 4: you are say you are a felm dom right, and

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Speaker 4: your filmdom name is Mama Wesey right now, if I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to call nobody else mama, But it's not.

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Speaker 4: It's not about what you feel. It's about it's about respects.

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Speaker 4: Respect is If your name is Mama Weasey, I'm going

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Speaker 4: to call you Mama wese because that's how you introduce

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Speaker 4: yourself to me right, hold.

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Speaker 3: For God God as a wold of God Father has

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Speaker 3: it's the whole different dude.

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Speaker 2: Wait, there is a God damn Father. Here's the thing right.

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Speaker 4: See when when I have people who who mess with

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Speaker 4: have this pastor outfit right right?

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Speaker 1: No excuse me, It's okay, it's.

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Speaker 4: It's a priest.

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Speaker 1: It's a priest and not pastor. No, no, no, I ain't

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Speaker 2: You might want to stay pastor because priests be out

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Speaker 2: here dealing with the little boys. You want to say,

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Speaker 2: that white suit when you lined up all them booties.

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Speaker 4: That see, like I was telling someone that's so skeasy too. Definitely,

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Speaker 1: It'd be the children from Well then, real quick, what

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Speaker 1: has you out here? Uh? In Vegas for a v N?

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Speaker 4: Well, this is something I've been wanting to manifest for

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Speaker 4: for a long time. So I was just like, I

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Speaker 4: got the time and I met I met the place

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Speaker 4: in my in my life and my career as far

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Speaker 4: as my business, where if I want if there's a

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Speaker 4: trip I need to go to. I'm going to go

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Speaker 4: to and I've always wanted to come to to a man.

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Speaker 4: So SIS was like, you're coming to a VN bro.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you do have a yes with you for

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Speaker 2: the people listening again watching.

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Speaker 4: So this this is the fantabulous, delicious, gorgeous, sexy as

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Speaker 4: a motherfucker the naked unicorns.

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Speaker 1: I wish you would have brought your unicorn in here, though, like,

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Speaker 1: what do you mean? No, that's her horn.

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Speaker 3: But she has a unicorn like a little buddy that

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Speaker 3: she carries, so like, I'm an unicorn collector. That's how

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Speaker 3: we actually connect it because she's a little.

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Speaker 1: Animate sh is.

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Speaker 3: This is porn weekend, bitch, you better get all in

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Speaker 3: the sex realm yard.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's give it actually then, well.

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Speaker 2: Real quick, this is something new then we used to

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Speaker 2: back in the day have something called the kink of

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Speaker 2: the week. What is now We've been talking about unicorns

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Speaker 2: in the essence of a woman joining in on a

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Speaker 3: So not just splain to them. I call myself the

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Speaker 3: unicorn because I'm a newist. I like being naked. And

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Speaker 3: also I was told that my pussy is magical. So

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Speaker 3: I'm a unicorn. This is me and stuffy form. This

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Speaker 3: is my personality. I'm walking around with my personality in

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Speaker 3: the stuffy form. Wait, so you both collect unicorns. I

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Speaker 3: collect unicorns because I'm a little, so I do age play.

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Speaker 3: My little is like three four years old. So I've

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Speaker 3: when I found out that being a little is a

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Speaker 3: thing in like kink, I was like, oh shit, Wow,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know you were a little.

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Speaker 1: I did not know you was a little. You don't

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Speaker 1: know that I know you know what it is.

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Speaker 3: It's interesting to meet women that can be alpha in

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Speaker 2: And we're gonna get into that because because you're such

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Speaker 2: a dom I'm surprised that you can.

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Speaker 1: Tell on me.

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Speaker 3: Made my mother get on her knee would have been

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Speaker 3: a little wow. And so I didn't always know that

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Speaker 3: I was. So she just helped my mama ride dick

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Speaker 3: a yoga ball. That's exactly yeah. And I didn't know

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Speaker 2: Okay, And real quick, before we give the mic back

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Speaker 2: to daddy, have how long have you been unicorning like

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Speaker 2: in this way? And is there a confusion as well

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Speaker 2: when you explain that your unicorn.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people always assume that it's the lifestyle term. When

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Speaker 3: I say that I'm a unicorn, I was like, no,

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Speaker 3: it's le naked unicorn.

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Speaker 2: That's my corn star name. And it's just because your

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Speaker 2: pussy's magical.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I mean I'm magical in itself, but she

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Speaker 3: has her own what are her powers?

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Speaker 1: Got to ask the people who.

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Speaker 2: Daddy have hold on? Take the mic back. I need

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Speaker 2: to know what is the powers like down there?

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Speaker 3: Hold on?

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Speaker 4: In the famous words of Dave Chappelle, one.

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Speaker 1: Here for now.

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Speaker 4: But here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard

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Speaker 4: the legend of that magical pussy. Okay, I heard It's

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Speaker 4: like a land of paradise, and make believe, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold y'all. I'm about to come in

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Speaker 2: with it with a unicorn horn on my mother head

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Speaker 2: for the rest of the year. But I don't watch

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Speaker 2: its powerful too. So I'm a unicornt. I do have

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Speaker 2: a question. What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are

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Speaker 3: Okay? So me and this guy, we have a long history.

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Speaker 3: His name in my phone can I say it?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: No, his name in my phone is the original name

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Speaker 3: that I met him under. So when I first started

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Speaker 3: And so this guy has had so many legendary people

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Speaker 3: early days. And that's how we met. We just became

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Speaker 3: that the thick, the big big bitch, Yes Yo Yo

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Speaker 3: met her on his show back in twenty twelve.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: So we had an amazing conversation and like like on

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Speaker 4: the air, I experienced. I talked about the time when

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Speaker 4: I experienced having a prostate orgasm and getting my pro

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Speaker 4: state milk. I talked about my process on my radio show,

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Speaker 4: and I would have like certain things about about men's

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, gone, we'll go back to unicorn.

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Speaker 4: So all right, So here's the thing. A lot of

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Speaker 4: because it gets it gets swollen, right, and when it

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Speaker 4: and the toxins, and then that's how they get prostate cancer,

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Speaker 4: the polyts in their prostate. So what happens is when

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Speaker 4: someone actually goes in and stimulates the pro the prostate,

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Speaker 4: it massages it and deflects it.

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Speaker 1: This is when Vinny said he made somebody squirt from there.

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Speaker 2: But also this is what I'll be telling y'all s

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Speaker 2: So basically, if we just out here fingering niggas bootth holes,

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Speaker 2: we could keep them from getting pro Yes, whoa not.

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Speaker 1: Just the prost you gotta here?

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Speaker 3: Okay, but wait, fucking somebody in the ass can cure cancer?

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Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, I won't cure cancer. However, what.

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Speaker 1: That actual prostate massage? Yes, it's given cure as long

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Speaker 1: as search we've recently found on horrible decisions from daddy

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Speaker 1: half as you know.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask you though, because with blackness, specifically,

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Speaker 2: they don't want their bootle hole being touched whatsoever. So

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Speaker 2: was it a was it a woman that said it's

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Speaker 2: not gonna hurt? Was it a doctor? Was it you

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Speaker 4: No, see, I'm giving you the genesis.

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Speaker 3: Y'all met you were doing sex positions and then and

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Speaker 1: I just want to know if you guys don't have sex.

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Speaker 3: We've never no. So this is like my brother. It's

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Speaker 3: People get confused because they see us like kiss on

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Speaker 1: But that's just how we greet each other.

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Speaker 3: But like we are like a brother and sister, just

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Speaker 1: It's just what it is. But we're not blood. But

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Speaker 3: Like we've literally grown up in this industry together. So

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Speaker 2: We got nominated and found out because the fan DMed

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Speaker 1: No one even reached out to us and let us

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Speaker 4: They just put you out on the fly.

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Speaker 1: We pretty much were just on the one T can

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Speaker 2: How many horror podcasts just put them all in right,

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Speaker 1: Yes, so shocking, which I'm not gonna lie. Went to

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Speaker 3: So I work for Exotica as the resident sex expert

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Speaker 1: In the game. Maybe like just take the keys right now,

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Speaker 3: So there's a strict difference between Exotica and av AVN

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Speaker 1: But over the last few years, ABN has an organization

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Speaker 1: So it's not it does it have anything to do

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Speaker 2: I do wonder if it has anything to do with

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hol on the South, the Bible belt is wildly.

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Speaker 1: But don't tell you why I like this, Oh you do?

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Speaker 2: Pretty much, you're gonna have to start uploading your passport,

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Speaker 1: In order to even.

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Speaker 3: Only Fans is also like a register but for me

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Speaker 3: But so if you're like starting to watch really violent ship,

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Speaker 2: But I'm curious how this like so for in the

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Speaker 3: Say, what about there's no way that they're gonna be

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Speaker 3: Oh it's consensual, non consent, thank you?

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no, not that like like a nose fucked

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Speaker 2: Because by the way, when I lived over in in Singapore.

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Speaker 1: Netflix. So scene that we just went through.

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Speaker 2: The reversal of even Row versus Wade and now this

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Speaker 1: And how does that affect the space?

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Speaker 3: So on one hand, I do appreciate that there has

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Speaker 1: kid's fault? Where's your daddy? But that work? No? But

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Speaker 1: like that's the whole point.

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Speaker 3: That's why it makes it good because parents can't watch

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Speaker 3: their children twenty four to seven, right, and then with

444
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Speaker 3: technology you have a broader access. So I think it

445
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Speaker 3: is good that it puts restrictions on there because people

446
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Speaker 3: get the misconception from watching porn. They think that that's

447
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Speaker 3: how it's supposed to be when it's not real. My

448
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Speaker 3: porn is real, by the way. My issue though, is

449
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Speaker 3: like y'all doing with that extra information though that's somebody's

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Speaker 3: whole like government information. Girl, we stand up for clear

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Speaker 3: And but I'm gonna say this though people don't know this,

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Speaker 3: but a lot of the big names are owned by like.

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Speaker 2: Only a few companies, which I did notice there was

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Speaker 2: an agency room even at the convention. So even like

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Speaker 2: when when I was doing the emails to get us

457
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Speaker 2: that's normally done through agents. That's normally the agency handle

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Speaker 2: all of that, and but your was, well, it's.

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Speaker 3: Me and her, which is weird because if you're nominated,

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Speaker 3: it's just be an easy thing.

462
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Speaker 2: And it didn't help to say, well we're nominated. We

463
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Speaker 2: were like tickets for the award show. But yeah, like

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Speaker 2: a lot of the girls are. And it's weird because

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Speaker 2: that's I would love to have an agent on here

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Speaker 2: to describe the difference between agency and pimping.

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Speaker 1: Because there's a lot it's a lot of that it's

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Speaker 1: a lot. I ain't gonna hold you. I saw a

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Speaker 1: lot of people. Okay, so.

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Speaker 4: It's like.

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Speaker 1: Pimp.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, I wish I could have just asked

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Speaker 2: one of them to come on the pot to it

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Speaker 2: is pimp sitting baby and there and there you could

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Speaker 2: tell like they.

476
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Speaker 3: Just remember we almost had a pimp on the show

477
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Speaker 3: and then we found out he was beating somebody.

478
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well that's what they do.

479
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Speaker 3: It's just crazy or not. I was gonna say that

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Speaker 3: for agencies. I learned a little bit about the business

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Speaker 3: of sex agency. So right now, in today's culture, the

482
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Speaker 3: volume of money that people are making is from crowdfundings, yes, right,

483
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Speaker 3: which is a fami, fans are whatever. So what happens is,

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Speaker 3: let's just say you're the baddest bitch that can square

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Speaker 3: a million miles an hour, Well, how are we to

486
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Speaker 3: find you if you're just a normal person in the world.

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Speaker 3: So much like a talent agency like Mandy and I

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Speaker 3: then broaden the spectrum with you. And what happens is

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Speaker 3: because they have relationships with let's say a porn hubb

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Speaker 3: or you porn or whatever, it might be you then

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Speaker 3: get to be on a front part of a page

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Speaker 3: for exchange and whatever payola that they do in porn.

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Speaker 3: So that's how the agencies work, and they track from

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Speaker 3: when you've started on a quarterly basis like this is

496
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Speaker 3: a full time thing. Some of them are taking in

497
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Speaker 3: upwards of thirty five percent, depending on if the girl

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Speaker 3: has like, no, it is my professional corporate But think

499
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Speaker 3: about it if I'm just like, let's just say I'm

500
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Speaker 3: a badass receptionist that's got one hundred followers, or maybe

501
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Speaker 3: I have no face and I wanted to show my toes.

502
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Speaker 3: How am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feet

503
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Speaker 3: up there? They got agents, potmotils, they could.

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Speaker 1: They got agents for everything. Yeah, for everything.

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Speaker 4: People like people have no limits to what they like?

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Speaker 1: Do you have limits?

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Speaker 4: Daddy? Up? I wait?

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Speaker 1: Now how does she say this?

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Speaker 4: What what I said?

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Speaker 1: Because you got softer when you do well, you said,

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Speaker 1: it's not like they call me daddy. No.

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Speaker 4: But okay, so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right.

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Speaker 4: It can be yeah yah yeah, or you could be

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Speaker 2: Just because I'm not going to the to the to

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Speaker 1: They do a lot of gay parties there. Now I

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Speaker 3: I'm not used to how things happened because we have

551
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552
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Speaker 3: always always safe and protected. But anyway, this guy decided

553
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Speaker 3: it was okay to grab my ass and right away

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Speaker 1: He did not have my co.

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Speaker 3: We we actually we met because through my through my dom,

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Speaker 3: we were Oh, I thought you guys met that night? Sorry, no, no, no,

558
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Speaker 3: we went to the play party the night that we met.

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Speaker 2: Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play

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Speaker 2: party that absolutely makes sense, that is and if you

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Speaker 2: mirror from both sides of the bed, and we talked

563
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Speaker 2: about the etiquette of men in sex clubs. So I

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Speaker 2: don't think it's talked about enough like that. First of all,

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Speaker 2: we have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, I got

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Speaker 2: had to have the conversation because even in terms of

569
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Speaker 2: I come with my partner, like they'll just talk to

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Speaker 2: me and not even acknowledge him, and then I get

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Speaker 2: Then it's just a whole bunch. Anyways, we talk about

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Speaker 3: You have been going off off on Twitter, onf phone.

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Speaker 2: But I wanted you to give a tip to the

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580
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Speaker 1: So I put out a sweet and I was like,

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Speaker 1: rumor has it that thick girls can't take dick? Is

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Speaker 1: this true?

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Speaker 3: Now? There were more people that came back and said,

585
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Speaker 3: it's actually a myth. It depends on the person, and

586
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Speaker 1: What do you think it stems from? Because like there's

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Speaker 1: always no got anywhere it stems from.

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Speaker 3: So, because so I already have the answer, what I'm

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Speaker 3: doing is just generating public discourse that people talk about it. Right, So,

592
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Speaker 3: after I let the tweet go off for like twenty

593
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594
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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I guess. Sure, Okay, I'm curious.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Can't understand why somebody would say that either. I've like

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Speaker 3: the people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all the time.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what is it? Stamina?

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Speaker 3: No, No, it's the perception that if you are in

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Speaker 3: a larger body you need firmer or harder handling, and

602
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Speaker 3: it's not true. And so you have more cushions, You

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Speaker 3: It still has a bottom, aka the service.

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Speaker 1: So what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: And if we're not warmed up, just like skinny girls,

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Speaker 3: we're not going to be able to receive the full

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Speaker 1: We need to be treated with safety.

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Speaker 3: Safety looks like whatever a person says they need to

614
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Speaker 3: feel comfortable in a situation, and everybody has a different

615
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Speaker 3: level of what that looks like. And literally men were

616
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Speaker 3: saying that women were saying that thick girls was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know about job, but over here, I'm taking dick.

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Speaker 3: I said, yeah, me too, And I personally go into

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620
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Speaker 3: you into how to open me up before you try

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Speaker 3: to go to poundtown. You can't go to Poundtown out

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Speaker 3: of the gate. Even if I get on top out

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624
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Speaker 1: So the myth is just And one.

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Speaker 3: Guy said it in the thread. He was like, I

627
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Speaker 1: Right, No, it wasn't. It was most of all it

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Speaker 1: was not.

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Speaker 2: But you know, they literally do feel like and I

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Speaker 2: mean I've been thinking my whole guy exactly so I know.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, they definitely come in I guess wanting to do.

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Speaker 1: They come in so hot and relax. It's like I

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Speaker 1: ain't even warmed up yet exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like niggas get so excited because yeah, yeah, but I

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Speaker 3: mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's like

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Speaker 3: but relax like and sometimes I think that they they

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Speaker 3: as an erection is there, it's like.

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Speaker 1: Times sometimes I disappear in my thighs. They may be

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Speaker 2: Wait what you don't get the biggest between your thighs

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Speaker 3: Her mind like they don't think it start fun, but

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Speaker 3: get what in I mean, my love, myneds be sweating

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Speaker 3: It's just like they'd be rubbing and get legs and

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Speaker 3: they're not in.

658
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Speaker 1: But yeah, moistened. And now wait, you kept talking about

659
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: being warmed up. Would love to know because I mean, yes,

660
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: you did give us for Dirk, but what is your

661
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: favorite way to get warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so

662
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: I like stimulating conversations.

663
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, well, not even read a book,

664
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: but like I like to debate about ship like hip hop.

665
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 3: You know you talk to me about like a right

666
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 3: facts of hip hop and ship. But also like I

667
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: like to be touched. So outside of like the mental

668
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 3: simulation of my body, get back to the body in

669
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,479
Speaker 3: the boy knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip

670
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 3: me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like

671
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 3: I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So if

672
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: I give you consent, please explore my body. I got

673
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: a body like I need you to like cuff my booty.

674
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: A certain ways.

675
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 3: I need you to get all around like the thickness

676
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 3: of my thighs, and then I like to be choked,

677
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 3: you know, like play with my naked I got choked, yo, yo.

678
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: The best thing that happened to me so far yesterday. Yes,

679
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: it was your brain went right back yo. Yeah, I

680
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: got choked out on the couch.

681
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 3: I was like, I remember this as I was fading

682
00:34:55,360 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: to black, now as you were fitting to please before

683
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 3: I got that much? Do you like to be choked

684
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 3: until you're like I like to be challenged to the

685
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 3: point to see like how far can I go before

686
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 3: our pass out? But I only do that with partners

687
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: that I trust, and this is a partner. It's no,

688
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: absolutely not. I have to monitor it because a lot

689
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 3: of guys like they think they know, but they really don't.

690
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 3: So I have to train them in the moment and

691
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 3: then give safe worst and stuff. This partner is somebody

692
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,800
Speaker 3: I've known since like twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, so he

693
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 3: knows me, he knows my body, and we hadn't seen

694
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 3: each other in years. But he it was like clockwork,

695
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 3: like just jumping right back in. He knew how to

696
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 3: do it, the right amount of pressure. He has big

697
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: hands and let it Oh my god. Yeah, So that

698
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 3: in itself like me like.

699
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 4: Big hands and being choked.

700
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 1: I like big hands being choked, big big men big. Yes,

701
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: you do you know I don't like a big I'm

702
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 1: gonna be with you. If you give me a skinny

703
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 1: nigga with a big dig I'll take that too. I

704
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: had a threat about that shit too. I used to go, Bro,

705
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: I gotta say the skinniest I told I said this

706
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with Whisky

707
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: recently and Mandy has been talking about him for a year. Bro,

708
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 1: you seeing that, I'll tell you that nigga looks something me.

709
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 3: There was a d wonder who play is gay? This

710
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 3: woman couldn't even concentrate, bro, that's how fine he was.

711
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 3: I took a picture with Wiz I know Satday Night seen,

712
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,720
Speaker 3: and she was like, why y'all y'all go together?

713
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

714
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: I hit her because I don't even want to see

715
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 2: nobody take pictures with him. I was acting like a

716
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 2: pa Okay, I was the producer on.

717
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: Ain't seen it, I.

718
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 4: Just know it.

719
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: But I would love to be walking funny after that. Well,

720
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure we got to a horrible decision.

721
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: Is Daddy have I'm gonna ask you some questions. Of course,

722
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: so we've gotten into I mean clearly you being milked

723
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 2: and everything else, but I wanted to really get into

724
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: to bring up the milk and party you and you,

725
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: but especially with you being here. Tell me I thought

726
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 2: that it was right because you identify as a switch.

727
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: I want to confirm you are only a dom.

728
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: You are not a switch?

729
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 4: Correct? Well, I am mostly a dom, okay, but sometimes

730
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 4: I will switch.

731
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: And then so with that, can you explain not only switching,

732
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 2: but I want to talk about if there is a

733
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 2: difference in roles and genders within being a dom or

734
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 2: a sub, like what that looks like from a man's perspective,

735
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: and if it changes across genders or not.

736
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: I know how we show up as submissives because we're women.

737
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: I know me as a dome.

738
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 2: Everyone only assumes I'm a dom when I'm pegging a nigga,

739
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 2: But there's other ways, even vocally, right, But I want

740
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: to know, like if there is clear distinctions with the

741
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,720
Speaker 2: roles and genders between doms subs.

742
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 4: In my opinion, just I think it's sort of gender fluid,

743
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 4: okay with with you know, dominant submissive is very it's

744
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 4: a very beautiful, fragile space. So it's not like men

745
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 4: are more dominant. Some some men, even though they appear dominant,

746
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 4: are really very submissive, very right, But they don't they

747
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 4: don't feel and they don't feel safe enough for trusting

748
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 4: anyone enough who they can be submissive to.

749
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,

750
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: a lot of women don't create that safe space. I

751
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 2: say that to my homegirls a lot, because when I

752
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 2: do experience the things I experienced actually may be like,

753
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 2: damn girl, how you be finding all the same type

754
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 2: of niggas. It's in the same type of shit. You

755
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:44,840
Speaker 2: don't like I don't find them. It's that they or

756
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,239
Speaker 2: I've allowed them the space for us to do these things.

757
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you probably have either sett in conversations

758
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 2: something to let men know that you would judge them

759
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 2: in certain exact or it's like this right, for example,

760
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,919
Speaker 2: talking about pegging. Right, I think there's probably two ways

761
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: women are doing it. Like if you're talking about horrible decisions,

762
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

763
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: So I was listening a horrible decision today and Mandy

764
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: was saying how she pegged you ever been bad? Or

765
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: you're like okay, So I thought it was really kinky

766
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: because Mandy did would you be done to try that?

767
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: Like when you're already putting something down.

768
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 4: Yep.

769
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't

770
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: want to show up for you and they're not the

771
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.

772
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 3: I think someone said on the show the key to

773
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 3: masculinity isn't in you asshole. But at the same time,

774
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 3: when hearing a tone like that, I would I've got

775
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 3: a nigga ask you had an divorce.

776
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: No, well, damn you almost the things you could be

777
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 1: proud of us you never even know. When you hear that,

778
00:39:59,280 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: you're like, oh.

779
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 4: Because because think about it this way, right, it's the

780
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 4: same same way where if a woman squirts for the

781
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 4: first time, that's the guy's first time experiencing people shame her,

782
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 4: and she won't do it again because she associates squirting

783
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 4: with shame with a partner. Right, So it's the same

784
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 4: thing women. Right, Well, I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks

785
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 4: I'm just speaking about myself. It's that once again, you

786
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 4: have to trust the person. You have to trust that

787
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 4: you're not going to attract somebody who's gonna be who

788
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 4: who makes you feel that they gonna tell your business.

789
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: So he's the thing that I gave this advice to

790
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 4: someone I was associated with a while ago, and I said, listen,

791
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 4: it's I hear around town too much that you like

792
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 4: to get paid, Like, don't let everybody pick you. Though

793
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 4: I told him that, I said, man, listen, you gotta

794
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 4: be you have to be very discerning about your actions, right,

795
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 4: Like you can't just be like, oh, that's the that's

796
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 4: the pagan guy. I just get in good with him

797
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 4: and uns.

798
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: I feel like he is the pagan guy. And I

799
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: feel like, I know you're talking about we had on

800
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: the show. Maybe it is, Maybe it isn't. No, it's

801
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: not having someone else. Some people want to some people, Yeah.

802
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 4: But that's what That's what I'm saying. So like you

803
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 4: just have to establish those different roles in as far

804
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 4: as dominant so like me personally, like I have to

805
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 4: really trust you to the fact that I would just

806
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 4: like bend over and allow you to just go to

807
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 4: work on me spanking.

808
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,879
Speaker 1: Now, I want to know, do you have to trust

809
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: someone to dominate them, like to trust yourself.

810
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 4: But there's a level of trust. First of all, I

811
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 4: trust myself, right, and when say, when Necker Unicorn trusts me,

812
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 4: then I know at that point in time if she

813
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 4: trusts me, that's all that matters. Because but I'm also

814
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 4: trusting that she's not going to do anything crazy, especially

815
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 4: if I'm doing having like knife play or something, have

816
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 4: a knife.

817
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: After we got safety?

818
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 2: Go Wait a second, So nine play, how do you

819
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: introduce that you're into that? Is there blood happening? To

820
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 2: explain ninth place? And so this and y'all are if

821
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 2: y'all are, y'all listen, these are black people. Uh here

822
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 2: way the knife play, let's get into it because that's interesting.

823
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 4: All right.

824
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: So he's.

825
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, so's the thing. Wow, I don't think they

826
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 4: make knives, but.

827
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:45,919
Speaker 1: All right, I was. I just thought the murders. Sorry wait,

828
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: Swiss army.

829
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 4: Like or like well not like a big like a

830
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 4: big chef's no what like like like Michael Myers like

831
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 4: them kind of big knives like that or you can

832
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 4: use you can real.

833
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: Not sex nice?

834
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 4: Right? No, I don't. I don't think there's the such

835
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 4: thing as.

836
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: Candles question.

837
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:24,959
Speaker 4: Like like the sex and I can be like play

838
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 4: almost it could look it could look like I'm just

839
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 4: really I.

840
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 1: Want to know how you introduce.

841
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 4: All right. So so here's the thing. So you have

842
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,919
Speaker 4: to ask, okay with saying the closed mouth, don't get fed,

843
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 4: here's the thing you know you want that, well, let

844
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 4: me let me explain this to you, all right. So

845
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 4: when you go through the things of what's your hard

846
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 4: limits and your soft limits, what are you open to?

847
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 4: This is when negotiation, right, So like give it for example,

848
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 4: like this riding crop here, like it's nice to leathery here,

849
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 4: but on this end it has little spikes. Okay. So

850
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 4: the thing is, even though I want to use it

851
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 4: on you, I have to say, Mandy, do I have

852
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 4: your consent to use this? That's the negotiation. And if

853
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 4: you touch it, you say can I touch it? Daddy?

854
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 4: If I say sure, touch it and if you say no,

855
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 4: then I take it away. But if you say yes,

856
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 4: not me personally. I told you I really want to

857
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,800
Speaker 4: use it on you, but if you tell me no,

858
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 4: but I gotta respect that. So I pulled it away, right,

859
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 4: I pulled things away. So it's about it's you always

860
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 4: have to ask first. So with the knife, the knife

861
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 4: has to be something where like you're like, oh I

862
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 4: would try that, got to be gott to be adventurous, right.

863
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 3: So what you were just cutting some tomatoes and was like,

864
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 3: can I stab you? Usually where he does his like

865
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 3: his sessions, right, all of his tools are laid out,

866
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 3: so a.

867
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: N okay, now this is so then you're asked.

868
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 3: Well, what's that about? So I remember my first time

869
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 3: when knife play was with King New War. Okay, it

870
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 3: was at Exotica at that because King No War and

871
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 3: he's the mess of everything. Yes, yet absolutely do anything wrong?

872
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 1: No, no, I don't think.

873
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 3: But we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage

874
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 3: at Exotica, like a week before.

875
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: He said I want to do knife play with you.

876
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: Are you open to that?

877
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 3: Because he already had a list of like my soft

878
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 3: Heart and Maybies right, knife flight was like a maybe.

879
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 3: So I was like, well, what kind of knife you're using?

880
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 3: He explained, I don't think it would matters, so he

881
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 3: so I said okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,

882
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 3: he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me

883
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 3: at TSA, so I had to go buy another one.

884
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 3: It's not my normal knife, but it's what it looks like.

885
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: Are you with it?

886
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 3: It had like a little knob on it, I was like, okay,

887
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,320
Speaker 3: I trust you. Yes, now he told me were a

888
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:07,320
Speaker 3: fish net like of body stocking. During the performance, the

889
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 3: little knob kept getting stuck as he was dragging the

890
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 3: knife across my body to cut off the stocking. I

891
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 3: was shook out, froze, but I trusted him. So we're

892
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: on stage, it's a performance. I gotta keep my face

893
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 3: together and still be sexy.

894
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: And I'm like on a low seat, like I ain't

895
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: trying to tap out. But Boker, you do it.

896
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 3: You know.

897
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 4: It's so for me.

898
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, it's everybody to experience.

899
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 3: I don't know if I will try it again anytime soon,

900
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 3: but I do like when knife play is used with

901
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 3: wax play, so the nice you're not and you're not

902
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 3: cutting because you talked about the fish nuts. So nine

903
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 3: play is clothes. You can cut clothes off, so you're

904
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 3: not getting wax.

905
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: No blood, no no.

906
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 4: If if you're in the blood plate and your bottom

907
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 4: is in the blood play, then there's then there's blood, right,

908
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 4: But if you're not, basically the knife, you're just it's aation,

909
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 4: so it's just grazing across the skin that you would

910
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 4: feel the sensation of the edge of the knife on

911
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 4: your skin, right and to the point where you could

912
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 4: where you where you could where you could use the

913
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 4: point of the knife.

914
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: Now, because we are black, black, white, you said.

915
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 3: We're not doing the blood because honestly, if someone told

916
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 3: me knfe play, I probably wouldn't guess that there was

917
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 3: no blood in it.

918
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: I thought that there was blood, and I didn't hear that.

919
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: I didn't hear dash they once that for knife play instead,

920
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: he'll use a credit card.

921
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 2: If they're blindfolded, like saying he would show them the knives,

922
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 2: but to feel it, he would only use like that's

923
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: he would do credit cards.

924
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you

925
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 3: want to go, because for a person who likes to

926
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 3: play hard, nice play is like on the harder side

927
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 3: of things.

928
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah it is.

929
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 3: Now, I'm personally not a blood play person. It's a

930
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 3: lot with a lot of safety protocol that goes with

931
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 3: that that I'm just not willing to do.

932
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: But also I like my skin, saying I only want

933
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't even want you, right, that's just bleed outside

934
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: of it. I've only heard of one black person doing

935
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: blood play, and it was Orlando.

936
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and it was I I met a dom,

937
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 3: a Black dom at fat Con in twenty twenty sixteen

938
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 3: who was straight needling it on the con floor and

939
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 3: I was just like, god, damn, I never seen like

940
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 3: the first time Si.

941
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, like needles, Orlando, did she have you done that?

942
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: It's pulling blood? That's not true. Yeah, that's a hard note.

943
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 4: I have a phobia of needles. Like so even when

944
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 4: I go get tested, I'll be about to pass.

945
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 3: Out, bron when I get tested and they be saying

946
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 3: stuff like, oh, do you have sex stuff?

947
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 4: Right, like for real life? Okay, Like so needles for me, no,

948
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 4: but not a night for me because like I'm really

949
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 4: I'm really a very sensual domb. So for me, like

950
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,280
Speaker 4: I'm all about it's all about sensation, taking the mind somewhere,

951
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 4: blindfolding everywhere. So like whether the way I flog, the

952
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 4: way I use all my impact, in the way I

953
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 4: hands bang is very sensual, gotcha. So for me, like

954
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 4: you know, I'm big, I'm a big look feeling right,

955
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 4: So I was always a big, kung ful like person.

956
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 4: So but but like different movements like this like learning

957
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 4: tachi and stuff like this. So basically the knife is

958
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 4: all It's all like a move like energy. Yeah. So

959
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,319
Speaker 4: so basically when I when I do BDS and play,

960
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 4: everything is about energy.

961
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,879
Speaker 2: So that's why he Look, they worried about what's on TV. Now,

962
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 2: Karate kids, got your ass, Karate can't look everything's just turned.

963
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 4: Sure example which example?

964
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: There we go?

965
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 3: Here we go?

966
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 4: What may I excuse me? May I personal sluct this

967
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:13,919
Speaker 4: is my personal slut? Oh yeah, all right, so here's

968
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 4: the thing, right, So we're gonna talk about choking a

969
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 4: little bit, right, so hold on you doing a demo.

970
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: It's an audio experience now. Now Black Effect pays us

971
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 1: for the audio, but.

972
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 4: I want to show you what happens, right, So like

973
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 4: I'm big into energy, right, it's all about the touch

974
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 4: right as time we was talking about about the touch.

975
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 1: Okay, it's giving meditation all that, right.

976
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 4: Because we're working on this hard space to right, and

977
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:52,399
Speaker 4: then we could tap up here right to release some things, okay, yes,

978
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 4: and then we can go in here like this, squeeze

979
00:50:59,200 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 4: a little bit.

980
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: Bleep out the titty you remember, mm hmmm, they're gonna

981
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: hit us at work. M yellow. That was yellow, that's

982
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 1: what she said. Yellow. Yellow means okay, yes, yellow down.

983
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: But that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,

984
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: although you were the thing to watch. I looked at

985
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: you a few times and you were getting it's obvious.

986
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 3: And you know, it's nice to see that because I've

987
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 3: definitely been in the presence of doms that think they

988
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 3: have to keep that face one.

989
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:01,399
Speaker 1: Just so hard.

990
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 3: And it's like as nice to see us to act

991
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 3: ye it is yea, And sometimes that act kind of

992
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: makes me not buy into it, right. It feels like

993
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 3: just completely perform performative, and so I appreciate that.

994
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 4: And so like I'm a I'm an exhibition. It's like

995
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 4: I like like even going to like like.

996
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: We know, resort. Oh, but y'all are talking, so you

997
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: like to be watched?

998
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

999
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: Okay, well great because I'm going out tonight, told us

1000
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 2: and so and so you want to join us?

1001
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: You know you don't be wanting to go. You're not

1002
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: coming to the play party. Wait, are you kidding? Show

1003
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: that we're paratyp you know how we're bothering?

1004
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 4: We we we have right, that's right going people?

1005
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: Is it like hotel room? Yeah, it's well, I mean yeah,

1006
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't know either. I'm wait before we go, before

1007
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: we leave to uh just because you're here.

1008
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 4: I did want to know.

1009
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 2: I've recently shared a list of sex clubs and because

1010
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 2: we're in Vegas, have either of y'all been to the

1011
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:18,879
Speaker 2: Green Door?

1012
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 1: Is that what it is out here? I can't think

1013
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: about the one that I went to, but but the

1014
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,

1015
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But

1016
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: it was out here?

1017
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 3: Okay, So it was the way that they handled it.

1018
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 3: I can't even think of the name of it. I'm

1019
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 3: going to find it. But the way that they handle

1020
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 3: her being assaulted did not please. She put it on Twitter,

1021
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 3: she read about it.

1022
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: I wanted.

1023
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 2: I know, like more people are trying to venture into

1024
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 2: these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know, to

1025
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 2: experience the play parties how I have, especially in New York,

1026
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 2: but I know it's different everywhere, and so definitely want

1027
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: to make sure that we continue to share the safe

1028
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 2: spaces to go to. Yes for us and especially especially

1029
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 2: for us, And then maybe if you guys can share,

1030
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,720
Speaker 2: if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups

1031
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 2: as well for people to be vetted.

1032
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: And joined to come to the type of parties. Yeah,

1033
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 1: we like we like some we just don't vetting.

1034
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just don't invite anybody everybody to come in,

1035
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 3: Like we got to see what you look like your

1036
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,240
Speaker 3: social media and follow instructions.

1037
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: That's the moment. That's the main thing.

1038
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 3: It's like if there is a vetting form and we

1039
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 3: say feel out everything, and you'll feel out everything, but

1040
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 3: one thing, you're not coming because you're not following instructions.

1041
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 3: If you can't follow simple instructions, and how can we

1042
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 3: trust you to actually abide by consent? Yeah?

1043
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: Right, So people don't understand that.

1044
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:50,720
Speaker 3: And like with me being a switch, right, being both

1045
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 3: dominant and submissive, Right, I'm dominant when I have to

1046
00:54:54,960 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 3: control things when I'm like on to host to care

1047
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 3: of people. And then in my personal life, like there's

1048
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 3: partners that I both dom and sub for. It depends

1049
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 3: on the dynamic of our relationship, right, and if I

1050
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 3: trust them with my safety, because I don't just switch

1051
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 3: for anybody, right, I'm not going to see that's the

1052
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 3: missive side of me unless I rushed you.

1053
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: And so people are like, I know.

1054
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 4: You were a kitt.

1055
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were a little I didn't know

1056
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 3: you were whatever. It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that

1057
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 3: because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve

1058
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 3: to see me like that.

1059
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: Well, y'all, we are sitting here with a father, a unicorn,

1060
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: and a kidd.

1061
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 4: Yes, how many I bless you, my child, just like

1062
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:41,760
Speaker 4: you the right.

1063
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: To list my ass. My ass was read for like

1064
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: you made me lick a shoe bit damn you. I

1065
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: was at their rooms and you made people chance. Oh

1066
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: and you know I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it.

1067
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 2: But now.

1068
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: I didn't go words ship see you using wrong word.

1069
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: Now, Mandy's so hard with this battle that she said, sorry,

1070
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 2: it hurts so bad. Well, y'all, we I'm just so

1071
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 2: glad we got to do this well in Vegas. Please

1072
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 2: please please let all of our listeners know where they

1073
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 2: can follow you, find you and if you have anything

1074
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 2: coming up, parties, a lessons, of classes.

1075
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:34,439
Speaker 1: All the things.

1076
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 3: Yes, you can find me on I'm at real gleamozon

1077
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 3: Tyomi and on Twitter where we have public discourse about

1078
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Speaker 3: six At Glemazon, Tommy type it in because they have

1079
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:50,839
Speaker 3: me shuttle band or something.

1080
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:55,240
Speaker 1: That's just how it is exactly.

1081
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 3: And if you're trying to learn how to ride but

1082
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 3: also as a woman, feel better about your body and

1083
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:04,120
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1084
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1085
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 1: Home, and it's hard. I'm a botified version, y'all.

1086
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 3: So you know, I have people with like disabilities who

1087
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 3: are also in my tribe, and I make sure that

1088
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 3: as people come into my containers that I accommodate them

1089
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 3: as much as possible. So I've been working on like

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Speaker 3: new methods just to make sure everybody feels like they

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Speaker 3: can keep up at their own pace. And I'm launching

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Speaker 3: the Pleasure Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform,

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Speaker 3: and I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all

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Speaker 3: year again resident sexperson and our coordinators. So if you

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Speaker 3: are an educator and you're listening to the show and

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Speaker 3: you want to be considered to teach, go to Exotica

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Speaker 3: Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have

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Speaker 3: to approve you. Yeah, please feel it out, come and

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Speaker 3: join us at the Expo. Four shows, y'all, just a

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Speaker 3: lot you can teach, but we do four shows every year,

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Speaker 3: so go to our webs We do need a live

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Speaker 3: show come through like got cha.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, gotcha, We're gonna were gonna put that into

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Speaker 2: the universe issues.

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Speaker 1: Yes ahead to get it. And you can find me

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and Naked Underscore, Unicorn Underscoring. All of my

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Speaker 1: links are there. I'm shadow band. Yeah yeah, because I'm

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Speaker 1: shadow Band on everything as well. All right, un everybody

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Speaker 1: where they can follow you find you get into not

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Speaker 1: literally but maybe.

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Speaker 4: Yes, my child, you can find me an Instagram at

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Speaker 4: Real Daddy Health, Twitter, Daddy Underscore Health if you want to. Also,

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Speaker 4: we got the health Lifestyle community that's going to be

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Speaker 4: coming soon. That's a page subscripts and what's going to

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Speaker 4: have exclusive content all things lifestyle.

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Speaker 3: Are y'all all in Chicago or I'm in Chicago, he's

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Speaker 3: in Charlotte. I wasn't taking now I'm here, so everybody from.

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Speaker 2: All over, but we are all in Vegas and guys,

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Speaker 2: before we get out of here, y'all have heard us

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Speaker 2: say it, we gonna say it again. We want our

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Speaker 2: London teings. Y'all gotta come out and see us, all right,

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Speaker 2: say Valentine's Day, we are in London.

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Speaker 3: Make sure you get your tickets. Let we are at

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Speaker 3: the Clapham Gramm. We're so excited. We got a gang coming.

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Speaker 3: Vinnie's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are

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Speaker 3: bringing our entire production to London. This is not going

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Speaker 3: to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: This is just like our real show that we've been

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Speaker 3: doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it to.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to go across the water. We have been international, bitch.

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Speaker 1: We did Toronto well.

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Speaker 3: In Mexico and Jamaicico, we did, We did, but it

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Speaker 3: wasn't that was We didn't make I go on the pond.

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Speaker 3: We did, but not a listen as someone who has

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Speaker 3: multiple shows in London, flexed real.

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Speaker 1: Quick, have fun.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you get your tickets. It's s W A

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Speaker 2: C E n T dot shoes, that's s h o

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Speaker 2: O b S dot com. Get your tickets now and

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Speaker 2: bring your man your side, check your side, nigga, whoever.

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Speaker 1: It's Valenti.

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Speaker 3: We don't have a single lady section and if you

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Speaker 3: have the nerve to bring a couple, as I am

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Speaker 3: a single bitch, I'm I'm basically so.

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Speaker 1: Sweezy's gonna join y'all for sex right after.

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Speaker 2: Thank you'all for tuning in to get another episode of

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Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions,