WEBVTT - Episode 90: Ft. 3D Na'tee 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:05.320 Alright, west up, it's Angela Yee. It's a live service. 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:08.200 I'm talking me Santiago, I'm g G McGuire, I'm Glory 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:11.280 how and we got a special guest straight from New Orleans. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:16.639 Three d N. I'm in a building for having me. Now, listen, 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:19.520 I know New Orleans be turned up, okay, because we 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:23.239 go there a lot. Last time we went, we had 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.160 a black alright, So we're gonna start with that tip 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:27.920 of the day, and you're gonna give your advice, and 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.760 everybody's gonna give their advice to what's a good excuse 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.440 when you have to go missing from your man for 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:34.600 a couple of days. What can you tell them happen? 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:39.040 Um ship? Family ship? You gotta say something with the 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:41.639 family put out his hard strings. But the only thing 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.839 I feel like that's bad karma. When you say family 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.320 ship like you got, I mean, you're gonna missing anyway 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.560 from your man, So that's gonna it's kind of bad karma. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.240 What if he's like, well, what kind of family ship? 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.280 Why didn't you call me and tell me make up something? 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:56.480 I'm good on the fly. You just make up something. 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.880 Um My brothers, I'm with my brothers all the time 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.240 something happened with the family, I gotta go in. I 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:06.920 can't really discuss it. I can't really discuss it family business. Really, 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:10.720 she's done this before. What do you say, Stephanie. I think, um, 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.679 you should just blame it all on your home girl, Like, oh, 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.560 my home girl has something to do. Um going with 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:20.760 her somewhere. It's her, But I can't tell her business 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.119 like that. Gotta be there for my friend, not Yeah. 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.080 I just I feel like you should just blame everything 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.520 on your home girl. You're go missing, like you know, 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:35.600 something happened. We went to jail. Listen, guys. I dated 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.720 a guy one time and we were like away for 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:41.440 the weekend. He was my boyfriend, and somebody kept texting him. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:43.240 So when he went in the bathroom, I looked and 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:44.840 he had told a girl that he was in jail 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.600 and that's that he was locked up, and like some 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:51.120 whole story about how he just got out. But he 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.080 was gonna hit there. He's taking care of some stuff. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.040 That's an extreme excuse, and it always seems like a 0:01:55.120 --> 0:02:00.200 lie unless you have some paperwork, right, I know. Just 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:04.960 but still, like you know, back then, I was like okay, 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:07.560 because he feels kind of bad like man, because that's 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:09.480 like the sympathy thing too, Like I was mad at him, 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:15.400 but for him that I know that trick already. What 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:17.280 about you when you go missing? I ain't got a lie. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:20.560 I'm the worst liar when it comes to stuff like that. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:24.280 I've been and tolding myself, so I don't lie. Sometimes 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:28.920 I'll just be like I was somebody else. Look so 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.840 like I got caught. I got caught up with some ship. 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:34.080 I always talking to this one guy and I was 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:36.160 in my ex. So he was like, where were you? 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:37.919 I was calling you, I speak to you every day, 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:39.880 But how was I ain't gonna lie. I was with 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:42.760 my ex but he didn't even catch me her nothing 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:44.640 Like I just didn't have a lie. I don't know 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:46.320 why would you do that? But you know I do 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:52.840 that all the time. He stopped sucking, I mean he 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:58.360 started working back with me, like he was like crying 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:03.960 so bad ship, hard feeling. When you go missing, I'm 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:09.320 gonna start an argument. Oh that's a I'm gonna pull 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:10.760 up one of them things I got in my back 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.960 pocket that I never told him about. One of those 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:14.480 I'm gonna pull out one of those acts, like I 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.520 just found out about it and use that to start arguments. 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.040 Why do women do that? We know ship and then 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.360 we keep it like yeah, all right, I'm gonna use 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.960 this later. I'm not gonna tell him. I know I can't. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:26.800 As soon as I find out something, that's all I 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.120 gotta talk about you burning you up stuff. Yeah I can't. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.040 I don't last longer than three minutes. Yeah, I don't 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:36.520 even get back up after the first thing. I'm going home. Clearly, 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:40.720 it's very she has patients out this in the car. 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.640 She has a lot of patience. It's hard. I agree. 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.280 It's hard, Like when something happens with a guy and 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:48.400 you want to say it right away, like at this 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.760 to you. I heard this. I heard that. Like we 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:52.520 all have different things, Like Larry, you just have a 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.200 person to try to trick him in the saying sending 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:56.640 back acting like you know more than what you know. Yeah, 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:59.320 that's exactly what I do. I'm like, yeah, because you know, 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:01.760 I ran it to your boy and he told me 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:08.320 about that bit y'all was come out of mind. You 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:10.400 come out with it. I want to know you tell me, 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.720 But sometimes I do be knowing a little bit, so 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.200 I'll just try to hint around it and just let 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.760 him say more. But you get caught the same way too. Yeah, 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:21.200 that's exactly. Man. One time I got caught real bad, 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.080 but I just came out and said I was with 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:25.720 in and I was remember that last time. Last time 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:27.400 we would saying we went to lunch with so and so. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.159 I think it was like looking at me and ship, 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.400 like y'all went to lunch with so and so. Right, 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.000 So she got out the car as soon as she 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:35.880 got off the car. Oh, so you went to lunch 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:38.800 with that nigga hunt. But I told on my damn self, 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:40.279 I don't know what the funk be wrong with me? 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:43.200 You want to get caught. I just I'm honest. G 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:45.080 G might be, but you still do ship you're not 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:49.800 supposed to do. So what differences I'm honest about forget 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.200 my lives. So that's why I would say my family, 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.520 because you know they'll back me up with my like, no, 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.280 that's not what you're saying. You shouldn't be doing that. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:59.320 So she's like, I know that's the lie. I always yeah, yeah, 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:03.039 you're family for me. I mean it has worked for me. 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:04.839 It has worked for me. You gotta say that like 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:08.360 somebody had it sick that doesn't really exist in your family. Yeah, 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:16.159 like my grandfather like that little system. It's kind of 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:19.839 sucked up. But I blame it on like that's on 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.200 my father's side because I'm not really close with them. 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.520 So I just so, you just killed the whole film. 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:30.400 I just picked one whatever I want. That's crazy. Now 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:32.480 let's talk about your son, Maria. We just said the 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:35.440 video and that's a deep song. Has anybody here ever 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.599 had a friend that was jealous of them that y'all 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.520 grew up together, it was mad cool with each other, 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:43.000 and then the relationship change and you felt like they 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:48.039 was jealous of you. I mean, the song is partially true. 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:49.920 I don't respect for the situation. I don't really talk 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:54.200 about it too much, but um, it's partially true, especially 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:59.200 the jealousy side, you know what I'm saying. So, I mean, 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:02.360 do you ever feel like you have friends that are jealous? No? 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:04.560 I don't. I don't like to feel like that towards 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.520 my friends. If I feel like one of my if 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:09.000 I feel like I'm around someone who is a hater, 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:11.719 who's hating on me, I just don't be around them, 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:13.200 you know what I mean? But what if somebody you 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:16.039 grew up with. So I mean I've had um, you know, 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.279 I've had issues with you know, I had a best 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:20.479 friend that I was best friends with her fifteen years, 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.040 and you know, I don't feel but I never want 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.160 to call it jealousy. I feel like she was just 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:28.400 mad at herself for not being successful, you know what 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:30.360 I mean, Like she saw everything that I was doing, 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.120 and she probably could have did everything I was doing 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:35.560 if she wasn't doing the dumb ship that she was doing, 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.800 you know. So I feel like that kind of changed 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:40.919 the dynamic of our relationship because I was successful and 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:44.800 she was just complacent in the same place. You know, 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.600 she was just stuck in her ways. And did you 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.599 feel like you had to try to help her. I did. 0:06:49.640 --> 0:06:52.120 I tried to help her with everything. I even um 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:55.320 got her internship at def JAM. I tried to help 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:56.920 her out. She she said that she didn't want to 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:59.560 take it because they weren't paying her. But I mean, 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:03.160 situ aasutions like that always kind of remind especially if 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:05.080 you're just live in your life, you're doing what you 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:08.839 gotta do, your accomplishing your goals. So if somebody is jealous, 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.240 that's just gonna remind them of what they're not doing 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.760 with that lives. And when you see that, you gotta 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:16.760 distance yourself, you know, so we can use the word friend, 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:21.360 but we kind of realized they probably weren't really friends. 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:25.120 You just you distance yourself in those situations. It just 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:27.600 makes me sad. I don't really hate to think that, 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:29.640 you know, she was jealous of me. I felt I 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.640 felt I'd rather like look at it like she was 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:38.000 just mad. Yeah, but in the time, Maria, your friend 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.640 really was you know, Yeah, that was that was that. 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:43.360 It's hard for you to write that because you said it. 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:47.000 It's partially true, so somewhat it's just it's it's just 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:50.920 about one friendship. Um, I don't really it's just about 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:55.800 one friendship. That the dissension of our friendship. I know, 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:02.320 you don't have your friends man, and kind of yeah, 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:05.520 I think this situation that that I've I've spoken about before, 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:07.720 the friends that I've had for a long time that 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.360 went and told on me to my man, I think 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:13.680 that had some jealousy in the in the underlying tones 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.640 of that. Yeah, because why I asked, would you do that? Yeah? Um, 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:18.880 I feel like one of the two girls in particular 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:21.720 because Prior to that, you know, she was going around 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.840 claiming she was responsible for my popularity and responsible for 0:08:25.000 --> 0:08:28.000 like g McGuire, she wanted to becoming that person and 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:29.720 it was because she put me on a Magic City. 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:31.800 But just because you put me onto the Magic City 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:34.480 doesn't mean that you've taught me how to dance and 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.160 you gave me my friend you could have been that's 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:38.679 where That's where my my I don't even like to 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:41.319 say fame, because I'm not famous unpopular, but my popularity 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:44.239 came from myself. It came from my talent and my personality, 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:46.280 not because you told me to go dance at Magic City. 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:48.760 Because the girls that a dance in Magic City that 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:50.840 we don't even know their name, nor will we ever. 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:54.880 Have you ever had friends love me that you felt 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.239 like with jealous of you? Yeah? I had one in particular, 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.840 and I just felt like she started trying to become 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:03.120 me and like talk like me, or do things that 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:09.439 I would do, or yeah she did actually no, like 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:13.480 her voice change, thank you, her voice change. It was 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.440 just like, I don't know, it's weird, but you know, 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:17.080 I got to the point where I couldn't be friends 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.840 with her anymore because I just felt too weird, like 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:22.160 and weird for somebody to change their voice now, I'm 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.760 telling you, And like at first, like my friends would 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:26.520 say something to me like, yo, what's up with this 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:29.319 bitch is sick? Like why she sound different? She's starting 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:31.800 to talk like like her voice is getting highed, like 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:36.960 you know, all kind of He was like, actually, Angel, 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:44.559 why would you do that? No? But you that's scary though, 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:50.000 because you never know what that person are. Yeah, you know, 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:55.960 but you never know what that person like. You can't 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.120 trust them because if you tell them your secret, you'll 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:00.959 never know what's gonna happen. Like just somebody has jealous 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:02.920 of you. That's a friend. That's like you said, that's 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.240 not really a friend. Yeah, and if you feel like 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:07.880 they're your friend now every time you're telling them your win, 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:10.160 you know what I'm saying, it feels like they want 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.640 to try to one up your you know what I'm saying, 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.520 Like we're not in competition, Like I'm telling that's because 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:17.480 you're supposed to be my friend. I'm thinking you're gonna 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:20.360 be happy for me. Yeah, that's one thing. Are As 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.640 soon as I noticed that girls that are around me 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:24.520 are trying to compete with me. I'll stop walking with 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.559 them because I'm not in competition with people that I'm 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.720 friends with, right, like like either we built together or 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.640 you do you are do me? And when we meet 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:34.439 up in the middle, like or if you like he 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:36.040 had to touch me, girl, he tried to talk to 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:41.240 me too. I got a friend like that is it? So? 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.320 Is it really a friend though? I mean if you 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:46.480 realize we've been friends for twenty something years. But I 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:48.520 think that this particular friend just has a case of 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:51.160 mistaken identity. It's just one of those misses me two 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:55.599 people that everything. Yeah, it's like everything that you on, 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.000 she on, or every nigger that you know. She knows. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:11:03.000 That girl got an STT girl. She really is, Like 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:08.760 I love I love that girl. But she really is 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.959 like that, Like she'll assume different personalities based on her senfence. 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:14.560 She's like a chameleon, Like based on her surrounding, she changed. 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:19.160 That's a different person. Yeah no, no, this is just 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:22.080 off of me. Have you ever felt like you were 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:24.240 jealous of one of your friends, because that's a high 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:28.160 thing to admit, that's the thing to admit because because 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.080 the friend friend is a strong word to me, Like 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:36.520 I'm not gonna use it. One. I'm not going to 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.720 use that word if if it's uh, if it's not 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.800 that deep, you know what I'm saying. So it has 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:43.360 to be deep to me. I'm not I don't just 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.319 need bitches or just meet people in state, damn my friend. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:50.920 So no, if one little inkling you know, I know, 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:53.560 if I know your personality, then't cool. You learn to 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:56.520 deal with ship. But certain things you gotta distance yourself 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.240 because they're gonna, you know, bring you down. You're gonna 0:11:59.240 --> 0:12:02.439 find itself telling your other friends and all this her ships, 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:05.640 So you might as well just listen to yourself. All right. Now, 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:09.080 do you know any men or women who lie about 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:10.880 people they have sex with in this day and age 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.760 at our age? Do you know any women in particular 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:15.360 they have lied in to they have sex with somebody? 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:20.600 They didn't? Girls do that? Yeah? I don't. I know one? 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:24.840 Not a girl. Yeah. She told me that she slept 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.240 with not just slept with, but that she was sucking 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.480 with artists that I knew good and damn well, she 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:33.439 wasn't with this nigger. Like how do you know though? 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:42.760 Because she lying and say they didn't mean that's not 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:49.959 something like I'll know some trick. That's why if I 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:58.040 ain't comeing, don't count. So you look at it like no, 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.520 But I mean it's just some people that that kind 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.440 of they want attention, you know what I mean, and 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.760 they might think that's cool or something like that. And 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:08.920 I think that was the case with this person, because 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:10.800 I would feel like, if you're not really like popping 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:13.199 like that, you might do that. I sing because like 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:14.920 the average person won't. But if you kind of like 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:17.400 there's the same people that always had to tux to people, 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.880 but no one ever likes them. And I know men 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:26.320 like that, but now, but that's so lame that men 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.280 do it, women do it, people do that. Ship I'm 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:32.559 not lying. I'm not trying to add nothing. If anything, 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:37.199 we're trying to slice it. That's why why would I 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.720 do we really think about that? Like, do we still 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.760 think about that? I don't want to add another body? No, 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:46.480 I don't think like that. Still. Let me tell you something. No, 0:13:46.640 --> 0:13:49.280 let me tell you something. Two years ago, I decided 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:51.199 that I didn't want to add to my body count, 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.600 and if I wanted to have sex, I was only 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.280 going to have sex with somebody somebody already have sex 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.040 and I ended up in one of the worst relationships 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:02.320 of my whole lot. Okay, so it doesn't make sense 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.880 if things don't work out. You're a human being. Keep 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:09.679 trying and keep meeting people. It's okay, back up, you 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:13.480 gotta all of them, like you don't. I mean, I'm 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.040 saying you don't have to. You don't. You can't hear 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:19.280 you can't limit yourself like that, you know what I mean? Like, Oh, 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:21.080 I I just don't want to add a body so 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:23.640 I'm gonna go funk with this nigga who already shouldn't 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.560 on me my whole life. You know, if you want 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:28.160 to ask somebody basically have sex with them and don't 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:29.880 worry about you, I don't. I don't think you should 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.040 think about if you if you didn't think that it's 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:34.440 time for you to if you meet somebody and you're 0:14:34.520 --> 0:14:37.720 vibe and it works, like, don't think, oh I can't 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:39.840 sleep with you because I don't want to add to 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:42.560 my body count. That sounds so dumb, it sounds childish. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.000 Ship Well, I hadn't been dumb and childish because I 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.800 didn't went back to an ex thinking like, but I'm 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:49.640 not trying to funk. No, new nigger and I want 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:53.600 to have That's the dumbest I'm gonna not that it 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:55.840 didn't work out, because I didn't look at it like that. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:58.320 It was just that That's what I'm saying. I'm not 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.200 one night they and what you want. Yeah, you know, 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.880 but I don't have sex with none of my exes either. 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:10.320 I'm done. I'm not doing I don't like going backward. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.040 Here's the thing. If you know, like if you're in 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:16.280 the past, you were looking for a relationship or you 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:19.160 were looking for these qualities, and now you've inveted this person, 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.320 you know, they just don't possess those qualities. But the 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.760 dick may have been good. You're pussy is right right now? 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.440 Right then maybe you want to go, you know, because 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.320 y'all don't have those same expectations. Know what I'm saying, 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:31.280 I'm just not attracted to any of my exes once 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:35.240 we break out sometimes yeah, like none of like not 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.080 one of them, not one of my exes. But I 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.640 want to have sexes because once I'm over, somebody is over, 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.360 like I can't even I kind of feel like it's 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:44.920 got to be somebody new for me, because why do 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.480 you feel like, um, you've grown past them, or I 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:51.680 just don't like But it's it's really the thing of 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:55.440 going backwards. To go backwards, I feel like it's like 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:57.240 you know, most in my head, right, you could go 0:15:57.280 --> 0:16:00.120 backwards with a new nig Don't get it twisted. I'm 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:04.400 definitely go backwards. I'm true. I mean I cannot. All 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:06.680 depends on what it is you decided to do. Like 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.120 sometimes like my ex. You know, my ex did me 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:12.160 so dirty. I can never ever suck him again because 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:16.120 I just feel, you know, emotions are involved that I 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:17.720 just don't like him in that way. I don't even 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:20.840 like I couldn't even imagine doing that. He's an attractive 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.920 guy and we're cool, like we're friends. I just but 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:26.800 you're thinking about like old old exes. I'm talking about 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:29.840 like the last nigga that I might have stopped somebody. 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:32.800 I'm not somebody that you wasn't maybe that serious whip 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:36.840 exactly something really an ex And that's just considered that nigga, 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:41.320 my ex. Everybody I had to this my because friends. 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:43.920 That's that's and the words of passport cutting. If you 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:47.800 have sex with me and you're my boyfriend, that's what 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:50.920 I'm talking about. We go together, and then we go 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:53.480 together and now we're going put the now we go 0:16:53.560 --> 0:16:59.440 together together? All right? Now here's a little crazy, I 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:02.400 think it. So I get where she's because that's what 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:05.720 we call guys. Except with my x X. I don't know. 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.159 But when I say my ex, I'm talking about my 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.000 real AX, right, some of some of my exes that like, 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:13.520 I have an X that he was supposed to me 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:15.680 my boyfriend, but I don't consider him my ex. You know, 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:17.800 I'm not giving the X title to a guy who 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:20.000 wasn't who I wasn't in a relation. So what do 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:24.200 you mean some guy used to do ex mistake? Yeah, 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:27.600 you were on. You are only qualified in my book 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:31.400 as an X if we had a significant relationship relationship 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:33.040 and we ain't have a relationhip, we were just working 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:36.840 on each other and hanging out. Did we go on vacation? 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:42.480 What we were we committed? Fakely? Com really? Yeah? Did 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:44.320 we think we were committed? Did we travel with K? 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:47.480 Do we know each other? Say holidays together? Did we 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:49.600 lived together? Did you have a key to my shield 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:52.040 or vice versa? Did you buy my rolex? I mean, clearly, 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.480 I feel like I feel like when I started working 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:57.840 with somebody you knew nine out of ten times I 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:02.399 leveled up. So like fucking my exes especially now, like 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:05.920 compared to the body I'm having now, their body is 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:09.560 just it don't work. Kind of a turn off, Like 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.000 just thinking about having that sex that I used to have? 0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:15.480 Are you embarrassed that people from your past? Like, yes, 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:21.520 I need to think about that. Yeah, there's probably like 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:23.960 one or two for me that I really is like 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:28.880 I don't want I can say that I would never 0:18:29.000 --> 0:18:38.040 touch him with anybody. Thanks for caring for you. Three 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:42.200 d nat Is there guys that you're like embarrassed about? Yeah? 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:46.520 Do you still run into them? They're right in New Orleans. Right, 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:51.159 It's just it's not a lot. But good luck to you, 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:55.520 good luck to see if you see them speak? Um, yeah, 0:18:55.800 --> 0:18:58.520 you know what. One time, this dude he tried to 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:01.199 blow my ship up. I was speaking on the panel. 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:06.960 I went did he was here? I know? Positive panel? Positive? 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:09.280 Matter of fact, I was speaking at a university in 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:11.600 New Orleans. So I'm up there and I'm trying to 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:14.480 be as professional as I can be and he get 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:18.639 on the mic. He gets on the mic at the 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:22.400 end of the line, did you see him in line. 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:26.280 He stood in line, and I was like, don't here, 0:19:27.560 --> 0:19:30.960 I don't go here. I got on the mic and 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:33.840 he was like, so, how do you feel about people 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:38.600 in your past? I mean, I'm like, this thing, you 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:43.120 never helped me anything. I mean think wasn't even good. 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:50.520 But I can't say that, um Honestly, when I spoke, 0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:52.480 I was like, I mean, there's people in the past 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:55.400 that have played a part, and those people are still 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:59.520 here with me today to kill problems, those people who 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:05.840 are not far on the I that was a good one. 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:07.840 Ever had one of these, I probably would have got 0:20:07.880 --> 0:20:10.240 a little deeper. What if they had been been like 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:12.879 now you need you know, helped you know? He just 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:16.840 I mean he fell back because he always he fell back. 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:20.040 He played his position, go sit down and enjoy the 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:25.040 rest of mine speech. He already played itself by l 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:27.440 getting up in that whole time understanding there. And I 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:30.080 was like, what is he doing here? Over here? You 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:38.040 you here? You were street nigger like but here what 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:41.000 he would you feel like? You could understand why he 0:20:41.040 --> 0:20:42.920 said that though, like did he help you in any way? 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:47.680 Absolutely not. He was in his feelings. What happened was 0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:52.040 he kept I'm gonna be a hundred percent. What happened 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:54.320