1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, Welcome back to the bonus episodes of 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: the Give Them La La Podcast. I'm so excited for 3 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: today because we're talking about non negotiables. Jessica sent in, like, 4 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: because my brain is so fried. Jessica's continued being the 5 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 1: brain and then some and she was like, what about 6 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: non negotiables for the bonus episode? 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 2: Non negotiables and deal breakers. 8 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: And deal breakers, and I was like, oh my gosh, 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: I have a plethora of all of those, which is 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: why I have not many friends and don't have a boyfriend. 11 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: Because it's very it's not picky. It's called non negotiables, 12 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean, and deal breakers and no. 13 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 3: Negotiables are like because I've had to think about this, 14 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 3: those are like hard stop, like oh, you can meet 15 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 3: the perfect person and if they are stuck in this 16 00:00:54,920 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: certain way, Nope, no done moving on or friend And 17 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: if they're like whatever, sorry, I can't be your friend. 18 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 3: So I'm dying to hear your guys. 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: And then I have a. 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: Few do you have yours in mind? 21 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 4: Easton me? 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: But are you? Are you? 23 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 4: I'm teeing them up in my head because I'm thinking about. 24 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 5: It, and when I'm not, when I'm not on the mic, 25 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 5: I can grab them. 26 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, now you're feeling well, let's start with our friends, 27 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 1: our friends who wrote in, or just can start us off. 28 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: Well, I was going to say, we could start. 29 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 3: Do you want to start with us because you guys 30 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 3: first us so non negotiables for and this is right 31 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 3: now for friends and for partners. 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: My top is rude. And I know this is cliche. 33 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say it anyway. Rude to waiters, rude to. 34 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: Housekeepers, rude to any sort of staff that they could 35 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 3: possibly feel is which is not This is inta accurate, 36 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 3: but I'm going to say it. Would they act like 37 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 3: are beneath them, Rude to Nanny's, rude to this, rude 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 3: to that. I have gone on a date with a 39 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 3: guy who I thought back in Nashville was so fine, 40 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my, he was a musician. 41 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 3: I was like, he's so hot, he's successful. This is 42 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,399 Speaker 3: gonna be great. We go out, we go to a concert, 43 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 3: and this was like ten minutes into our date. He's great, 44 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 3: We're getting along and the waiter comes over and he's 45 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 3: such a dick to the waiter, like, you know, just 46 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 3: like not looking them in the eye, being an asshole, 47 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 3: and in my mind, I'm like, Okay, maybe he's in 48 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 3: a bad mood. Throughout the night, every time he were great, 49 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 3: every time the waiter comes over, dick rude. And then 50 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 3: I was like, finally, at the end of the night, 51 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I'm never gonna, you know, date this 52 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 3: guy again. And I was very upfront. I said, oh, 53 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 3: because then he went to tip. 54 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 2: Oh. Then he went to tip and it was like 55 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 2: ten percent, and I was like, through with him. 56 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 4: We should never goes, don't don't. 57 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 3: Go, and he's cheap, and I think God had cash 58 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 3: on me. I think I took out like sixty percent tip. 59 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 3: I put it on the table. I said, I'm going 60 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 3: to get an uber home. You're a dick, I was. 61 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: I was so fed up and disgusted. 62 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: I don't think people realize how forward you are. I know, 63 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: because you're so sweet. I know, but you I think 64 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: you're more forward than I am. 65 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 2: Thank you sometimes when, especially when I'm fed up. You've 66 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: heard me when. 67 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 3: I'm fed up, not with you, but with other people, 68 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: and I'm just like. 69 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 1: No, but you've been fed up on my behalf before. Yeah, 70 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: I send you in. I'm like you, I need you to. 71 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 5: Be like, you're really good at it too, like the 72 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 5: way you can approach it, and then the way that 73 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 5: it's you sweet talk it and then dismiss yourself. You're like, oh, okay, 74 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 5: well thank you as a sweet fuck you, but thank you. 75 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: So it's that. 76 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: And then lastly, I mean, I have a bunch. But 77 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: like true non negotiables hates pets. If you're like, if 78 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: you hate dogs. 79 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: Oh you have that too, all right, you hate piggy 80 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: back off of her the conversation. 81 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't like people who don't like animals or 82 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 5: like when they don't sit down in a house. 83 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: That like, okay, but hold on what kind of animals though, 84 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: because if I'm with some if I'm with a dude 85 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: and he's like, I'm just not a cat person, no 86 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: big deal, I can't say that I really am. Either. 87 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: I liked my cat, but like I can't say that 88 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,119 Speaker 1: I like would want to go out and get a cat. 89 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: That's good. 90 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: If people have cats, great, Like I'm not afraid of them, 91 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: but it's not a deal breaker. It's when you tell 92 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: me you don't like dogs that I'm like, you're a 93 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: piece of shit. 94 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: That's true, because what if they had a rat, like 95 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 3: I would not be okay with like a rat, a 96 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 3: pet rat. 97 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 4: Like a free rom rat. 98 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: No, Like people have pet rats that are like white and. 99 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: Red eye. 100 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 5: Honestly not negotiable for me. I think is pet rats 101 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 5: and snakes for women and birds? 102 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: Oh so you're going opposite. This is like if they 103 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: have pet rat, you can't. 104 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 4: That's non negotiable for me. 105 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: You're out of there. 106 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 5: I'm out birds, snakes, spiders, rats, spiders, spiders. 107 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: I love. 108 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: There was a guy who was really, really fucking hot built. 109 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 1: I would have climbed this like a treat, all right. 110 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: And I was ready to go to his house and 111 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: he's like, I can't wait for you to come over, 112 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 1: and he sends me a picture of his triantola, and 113 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: I was like, this is where I say, nice, I'm 114 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: not coming over there. It was like he like put 115 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: it on his chest, which his chest was looking nice 116 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: and mine. 117 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 3: But I'm like, ew, really, tarantula, you I love tarantula's. 118 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: How do you say it? Tarantula or triantula or a tarantula. 119 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: It's tarantula, not triant What did I say at the beginning? 120 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 4: I don't know. 121 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: All I know is they're ginormous and Harry and right. 122 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: There, Yeah, can you tell some of your non negotiables 123 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 3: because I feel like it's not just hates dogs. 124 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: Can I sing something to you? Because I said, it's 125 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: Harry and scary and it just tapped me into this 126 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: song that I used to sing as a little kid 127 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,679 Speaker 1: to like my friend's older brothers and they would laugh 128 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: so hard and I felt so cool, and I had 129 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: learned it from like another friend's older brother. But it's 130 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:10,239 Speaker 1: like I saw your mom. She opened up her legs 131 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: and said, come on. It was it was so scary, 132 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: big black and Harry. 133 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 6: Remind me of the Translas, like, oh, your mom own 134 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 6: the Transla Tarantula triangula a triangula tri angela I've ever 135 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 6: hurt in my life. 136 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: I don't know how to say it. It's really hard. 137 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 5: My non negotiables is a hairy triangula for me? 138 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: Tri no no, no no. Honestly, I think it would 139 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: be going and supporting animals in captivity. I would say 140 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: if you think that, like, and I'm always down to 141 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: educate you, all right, like I get the whole like, 142 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, what's going on vacation and like we 143 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: could swim with dolphins and then I go skirt. Let 144 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: me tell you about swimming with dolphins. First of all, 145 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: we shouldn't be staying at any hotel where there's dolphins 146 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: on the property for you to swim with. I will 147 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: not be supporting that. And if they still don't care, 148 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: like if they look at me like I'm so cute, 149 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: like we're good here, Like if you don't care about zoos, 150 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: We're going to Sea World and you think it's all 151 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: fun and entertaining, and. 152 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 2: Where else am I? 153 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: Goodness, say an Arca, We're done here, disgusting. We don't 154 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: need to we don't need to continue this conversation. 155 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 4: Now. 156 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: There are a lot of people who are still like 157 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: very ignorant to it. And if they're willing to open 158 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: their mind just to tad and listen to what I'm saying, 159 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: which there have been dudes where I'm like, hey, I 160 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: would love if you would watch Blackfish with me, and 161 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: the dudes who are like really down to watch it 162 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: and do watch it with me and then change their mind, 163 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, you're a keeper. Maybe not for me, 164 00:07:57,640 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: but like for someone. 165 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: Else, really maybe not for you. Because they change their. 166 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: Mind, they aren't here are they. 167 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 7: Oh, something else, something else may have ached me out, 168 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 7: but I'm like, Okay, I feel like you've got a 169 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 7: good heart, Like you can watch something and. 170 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: Go, wow, this is wrong. 171 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 4: You're open minded. 172 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say that's the biggest deal breaker. 173 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 3: Open minded is also top for me. That's not a 174 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 3: not that's a non negotiable. Just because you brought up 175 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 3: you have to be open minded. You can't be like 176 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: I honestly don't even care. I'll say this politically whise, 177 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 3: I kind of care a little, but like, I don't 178 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: need someone to take my political stance one hundred percent, 179 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 3: but I need you to be open minded. Same with religion. 180 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 3: I don't need someone who believes in my higher power, 181 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 3: but I would like you to have an open mind 182 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: with you. They can see why you believe, yes, or 183 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: at least take you know, they can take a stance 184 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 3: in great But also don't. 185 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: Be like that's stupid or that's it's like, have an 186 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: open mind. Hear me out. 187 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 3: And I feel like with Blackfish, you said, yes, some 188 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 3: people are uneducated, but if they can have an open 189 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 3: mind and be like, I mean, I don't see what 190 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: the problem is, but sure, let me watch something. Then 191 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 3: they most likely will change their views. 192 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: You know, that's interesting that you brought up like politically 193 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: and like spiritually or religiously. I think I think I 194 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: would have to be pretty in alignment politically spiritually. Those 195 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: are like, those are my core beliefs, and if we're 196 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: not on the same page, there will be a day 197 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 1: where something could happen in this world that's gonna tear 198 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: us apart. I think a good point. We've got to 199 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: be pretty on the same page. 200 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 3: A lot of people wrote in with that, By the way, 201 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 3: a lot of people said, like, if you believe certain 202 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 3: and I'm not talking morals. A lot of people wrote 203 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 3: in said, if you're a certain political party, that's a 204 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: non negotiable for me. I am a certain political party 205 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: in my family. A lot of my extended family is not. 206 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 1: I think it's changed though once we got little trumpy. Yeah, 207 00:09:56,720 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: you know now it's like variant. And I think if 208 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: someone were to come up to me and you know, 209 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: say that they're I just feel like those are core beliefs. 210 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: No, they one hundred percent. 211 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: Those are like the things where I look at the 212 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: world and go, this is what I want the world 213 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: to be like. And if you if you see the 214 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: world differently than I do. How are we supposed to 215 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: like be together and raise children together? 216 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 2: That's very, very interesting. 217 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: I love this because, for instance, Kyle and I are 218 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 3: higher power and spiritually very different. 219 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: Pages. 220 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: Well, you're a Catholic, right, No, I was raised I'm not. 221 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: But what I believe in higher power is way more 222 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 3: open now, And I just personally don't think God. I 223 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 3: think everyone's God is the same and God is just 224 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: a name to put to this. 225 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: Higher power. 226 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 3: He still and he wouldn't mind me saying this, but 227 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 3: he still questions if there's anything at all. 228 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: So it's like, you know. 229 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 3: We're very I couldn't live my life like that. I'm like, 230 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 3: I would break down. How do you get through every 231 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 3: day without like referring to a higher power every few hours? 232 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, God, please help me, you know what 233 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: I'm say or just like. 234 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: Have you talked about that when you do have kids? 235 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: Like what to say? 236 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,559 Speaker 3: He is down for As of now, we're constantly if 237 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 3: this was like two years ago, even completely different plays, 238 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 3: So we're always changing our opinions and growing. I'm sure 239 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 3: by the time we have a kid that it all 240 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 3: have changed. But as of now, he goes. I love 241 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 3: the core principles that religion teaches as far as being kind, 242 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: being this and that, and he goes. So I'm not 243 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 3: against having some sort of structure. That being said, I 244 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 3: don't agree with a lot of churches, and. 245 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: That's organized religion religion, and I feel the exact same way. Yes, 246 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: I don't want someone telling me how to live my life. 247 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: Here's a book, read this, and if you do exactly 248 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: what it says, you're going. 249 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: To go to heaven. And if you don't, you're gonna 250 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 2: go to hell. 251 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 1: Right like, fuck off. Yes, I'm just gonna go out 252 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: be a good person. Know that, Like my higher power 253 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: has got me, and you know we're good here. 254 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 255 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,960 Speaker 1: Maybe he's more spiritual. He doesn't like organized religion, Yeah. 256 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 3: No, And I think he's exploring that right now. And 257 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 3: I'm definitely exploring that right now. Spirituality and religion is 258 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 3: something that I have, Like every month, I have different 259 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 3: views and experiences. So I'm just open to sort of 260 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 3: that changing and growing. 261 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 2: But for both of us, you know. 262 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's so crazy when you think about going 263 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: out and like meeting people, whether it's friends or like 264 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: your life partner, how much you really have to do 265 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 1: take into consideration when it's like is this gonna be 266 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: a productive friendship or like a productive marriage where it's 267 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: gonna last a long time, like all of the things 268 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: that you don't really think about. You just think like, oh, 269 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 1: we're gonna fall in love and like we're gonna have babies. No, 270 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: it's like much more complex than that. Yeah, Like you 271 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: have to have the really tough conversations before you can 272 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 1: jump into like signing a contract, and like, here we are, 273 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: we're together forever, and the second we decide not to be, 274 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to kind of go through hell to 275 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: like not be around each other. 276 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 3: And that's a great point. And this is where I'm 277 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 3: also going. This is a privileged view. But my viewpoint 278 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 3: is like when I met Kyle and he was like, oh, 279 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 3: there's nothing after you die. You just die and you 280 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 3: go into the ground. In my mind, I go, wow, 281 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: that's very different view. But like if I'm not meant 282 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 3: to be with him, then that'll like I'm obviously meant 283 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 3: to be with him, and his viewpoint has changed. I've 284 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 3: heard a lot of stories about people who believe in God, 285 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 3: they marry an atheist, they're great. They just have different 286 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 3: views and spirituality. The atheist gets in a car accident, 287 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 3: has a near death experience, views are changed in a second, 288 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 3: So it's just itchy about They're like. 289 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm not laughing about the near death experience. I'm just like, 290 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: things change like that, your viewpoints, and you know what, 291 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: we all reserve the right to evolve, change our minds, 292 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 1: take on new beliefs, And I think it's beautiful when 293 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: someone can feel a certain way and then have something happen. 294 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: He goes right back to you've got an open mind, 295 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 1: and you're someone who's a good human being because you're 296 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: going to be able to be placed in different situations 297 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: and get along with people and learn from them. You're 298 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: not going to be a dick because it's your way 299 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: or the highway. I don't dig people like that. I 300 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: don't either, Yeah, And I'm not saying that my non 301 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 1: negotiables like me saying, how am I supposed to raise 302 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: a family with you if we don't believe in the 303 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: same thing. That may not be the case there. I 304 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: know many people where the mom is Jewish and the 305 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: dad is Christian and they have a beautiful life together 306 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: and they raise their children and there's not a care 307 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: in the world. Well, there's a lot of cares in 308 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: the world, but you know they like deal, right, Yes, 309 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: So I'm not saying my negotiable art should be everybody's yes, no. 310 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: But that it's great points and they share. I don't know. 311 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times I say shit 312 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: and you're like, well, me and Kyle met two months 313 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: after he broke up. Well, me and Kyle don't believe it. 314 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: And I'm like, you and Kyle are different. 315 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 3: I like bringing it up though, like you make great points, 316 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 3: and in my mind, I go, yeah, that's so true. 317 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 2: I agree, and I go, wait a second, me and 318 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 2: Kyle don't do that. 319 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: And then you and Kyle changed my mind because you 320 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: have a very effortless It seems very effortless and easy 321 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: and it just works. Yeah, it seems very fun. When 322 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: I watch your Instagram stories, which I haven't watched them 323 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: in a few months, or because. 324 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: You've been off, I G. 325 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: I've been off. 326 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 4: I G. 327 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to be there right now, the. 328 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 4: One with you two. When he got that MGK guitarist, Oh. 329 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: My god, I died two nights in a row. 330 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: First night he's. 331 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 2: Going off about Sidney Sweeney. 332 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 3: He's like, look, you know, I said watches you know 333 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 3: he sees Sidney Sweeney in some sort of film, and 334 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 3: he's like, you know whatever, I'm. 335 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: Night follow Jessica on Instagram? What is your Instagram name? 336 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 2: Against j M Walter eight? But night too. I came 337 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: back help. He goes, I'm going to an event today. 338 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 2: I go, great, have funn He goes, it's a guitar event. 339 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: I come home. On the calendar there's a hot, hot chick. 340 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 3: A photo of this hot chick, fucking hot, blond and 341 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 3: barely anything, standing with a guitar. 342 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: And it says to Kyle. 343 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: Love Sophie, I are so fair a heart. 344 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 4: But you go, how does she know your name? And 345 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 4: he goes, it was not my name tag. 346 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 3: He goes, look, I was standing in line trying to 347 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 3: meet someone else and we had to go through her. 348 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 3: It was on my name tag. And he goes, I 349 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 3: didn't seek her out. And then he's like, she maybe 350 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 3: sees that. 351 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 2: I like you. 352 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: You dirty? 353 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 4: He is a dirty dog. 354 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 2: But I saw her, I'd probably wait in line for her. 355 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: She was for sure fantasizing about yanking on his mini 356 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: braid with a bi. 357 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 4: Old strap on his padawan braid. 358 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 3: Speaking of that, someone dogged me and these were about 359 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 3: to get to it, but the non negotiable someone said, 360 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 3: it's someone I know him. 361 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: I love when they dog you. It's someone you know. 362 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 2: It's someone he works at Action Park. His name's Teddy. 363 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 2: But he said a padawan braid, and I was like, 364 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 2: you're such a dick. Kyle's bread I like it. I 365 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 2: do too. 366 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 3: I think it's hot. But I think it's hot because 367 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: so many people hate it. And that's why Kyle keeps. 368 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 1: I think that's why it's hot, Kyle, the fact if 369 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: everyone loved it, it would be gone. 370 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 2: It would be gone, exactly. 371 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, what are other people's non negotiables? 372 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 2: This is a big one. Smoking. A lot of them. 373 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 3: Say, like smoking cigarette, smoking weed is great cigarette smoking, 374 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 3: So smoking. 375 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: SIGs non negotiable. You're a sick smoker, can I tell you? 376 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: And I feel really, really badly. 377 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: Okay. 378 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: I went to Ariana's show. The line was way too 379 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: long to go to the bathroom, so I went across 380 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: the street. I come back in it's intermission and people 381 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 1: wanted photos and I go to lean In and it's 382 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: where everyone's smoking and I felt like a dick, but 383 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 1: I was like you, I can't do the cigarette smoke 384 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: you guys, I'm sorry, I gotta go. I am not 385 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: taking any pictures with anyone who has a lit cigarette. 386 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah there's something different, Like I was a vapor. 387 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: Yeah that's the vapor. 388 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 5: From a guy's standpoint, i'd rather see a girl have 389 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 5: a vape and just a big old stick in her hand. 390 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you something with this with the cigarettes, 391 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: the cigarettes are not only hurting you, but they're hurting 392 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 1: me as well. 393 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 2: The vape. 394 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,479 Speaker 1: Go puff your vape. That's why I didn't feel bad 395 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 1: about it. I was like, I'm only hurting me. I'm 396 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 1: not hurt you know, I'm choosing to hurt like you can. Well, 397 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: I hope. 398 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 4: I do love a good drag from a cigarette. 399 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 6: Here, you're so disgustingly putting non negotiable for you. 400 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 2: Or it's not if a girl smokes, I can't have. 401 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 5: A girl like a constant smoker. But if we're like 402 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 5: out at a bar and like I don't drink, so. 403 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 4: It's like I got on that. 404 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 1: It stays this sense. 405 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 5: Not if I just take like two puffs on the 406 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 5: girl two puffs. 407 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 4: No, I mean, I'm just not looking for a smoker. 408 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 5: But if she takes a draggert who at a bar 409 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 5: once a month, I don't care. 410 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: Okay, let's take a step you're talking about smokers. 411 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 2: Let's take a step above that. 412 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 3: Do you think it's a little hot if you see 413 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 3: this hot girl and then you she doesn't smoke in 414 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 3: a month and you see. 415 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 2: At her bar and she takes a little drag off 416 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 2: a sag or is. 417 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: That too much? 418 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 4: Now? Hot? 419 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 1: Hot, very hot, very changing your No, are we talking 420 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 1: about somebody sitting there being like I'm just gonna have 421 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: or are we talking about someone who's got Marlborough reds 422 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 1: in their purse at all times? 423 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 4: I can't do a package. 424 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 1: You're not gonna sit there and have my guy with 425 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: SIGs in his pocket being like smoke break. It's like, no, 426 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: we're not. 427 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 2: We're good here. 428 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm down with I'm down with being against the SIGs. 429 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 3: I couldn't And it makes your teeth yellow, makes your 430 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 3: car smell, your hair smell. 431 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 1: I hope we don't offend smokers. 432 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 2: Smokers. We love you, but. 433 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: We're judging you. 434 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 3: Okay, But if it's little'll take a drag from you, Yes, 435 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 3: once in a while at the bar, and it'll be 436 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 3: hot that I find me. 437 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 2: I'm bringing this up. This is a great one because 438 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 2: you've said this to me before. 439 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: All Right, what is it. 440 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 3: I can't have a partner who this is from a woman, 441 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. I can't have a partner who isn't 442 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 3: motivated or driven towards something. 443 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 2: It can be anything. What do you feel about that? 444 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: Yes, they have to be driven by something. I don't 445 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: care what it is. But you have to have motivation, 446 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: like I need you to get up and care, but 447 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: also like I'm gonna need the motivation to like bring 448 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: home a paycheck, Like I can't have you out like 449 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: hobbying your ass off. Okay, go earn some money. You're 450 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: an adult. We have bills to pay. Like, I will 451 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: not be anyone's sugar mama. And there was a point 452 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: in time, y'all where I met this really hot six' 453 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: five sexy motherfucker THAT i was, like you don't have a. 454 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 1: CAR i got a. Car we're. Good like you don't 455 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 1: have a, JOB i have a. Job twinkle toes and 456 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 1: all of the, sudden like to the point where when 457 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: he would, TALK i was, Like, wow he's so, smart 458 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: and then like the blinders started falling. Off AND i 459 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 1: was sitting in his uh his studio apartment With fluretic 460 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: and he's. Talking i'm, like, oh you're Not you're not. 461 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: Smart you're really fucking. Stupid you say, out you put 462 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: a lot of words and things thoughts together to where 463 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: you just lose. People and they may think you're smart 464 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 1: because they can't keep. Up, yeah but it's really because 465 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: you don't make sense right, Right like once you started 466 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 1: comparing yourself to a, pig What i'm, like pigs don't have. Responsibilities. 467 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: Okay the landlord ain't rolling up To wilbur saying runt 468 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: sdo you fucking? Idiot and he was. Old he was 469 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: like pushing forty And i'm looking, around going what AM i? 470 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: Doing And i'm digmatized again what? 471 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 3: Happenedetized and he called himself a minimalist And you're, like you're. 472 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: Just he's the one that triggered me being Like i'm 473 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: doing this TikTok About. Uh he's, LIKE i don't have 474 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,199 Speaker 1: A tv BECAUSE i just don't WATCH. Tv, no you. 475 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: BROKE i don't have a car BECAUSE i just like 476 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,679 Speaker 1: don't feel like you need a. Car we live IN. 477 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 2: La you need. 478 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 4: One it's Not New. 479 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: York you broke at give them lalla, TikTok and you 480 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: guys shot out twinkle. Toes he was a. Snack he was. 481 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: Fine he was fine as it. 482 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 2: Gets not worth it, though not worth. 483 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:09,280 Speaker 1: IT i don't want to. 484 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 4: Scrub he was the greatest. 485 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 1: Thing, well you're the only one ever to say, that 486 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: because Whill. 487 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 5: Josh, yeah he also. Agreed he was, like he can't think, 488 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 5: that but all, yeah not you knock that Off. 489 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 2: Easton does this apply to? 490 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 3: You i'm always interested if this applies from men to. 491 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 3: Women obviously not every, case but for, you do you 492 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,680 Speaker 3: want a woman that's driven or say you met someone 493 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 3: she's LIKE i really don't want to work. 494 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 2: That because there's a lot of people out, there those 495 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 2: like a stay at home. Mom, YEAH i stay at home. 496 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 2: MOM i want to be a. 497 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 3: WIFE i want to have dinner, ready more. Traditional what 498 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:49,199 Speaker 3: are your thoughts on? 499 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 4: THAT i, MEAN i think that comes in. 500 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 5: WAVES i would like somebody to be driven in doing 501 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 5: something and if you, know going to, work getting a, 502 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 5: paycheck and or even just for, me it's just more 503 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 5: of a HOBBY i don't. 504 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,919 Speaker 1: Need but what's a hobby being a, Parent, well. 505 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 5: No like them going out and just doing something that they. Love, okay, 506 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 5: yeah you find with dad and just doing something that you, 507 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 5: love and then you, know if kids, come then you 508 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 5: can do this stay at home. MOM i like a 509 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 5: driven woman to get up and go and do whatever 510 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 5: she loves to. Do BUT i don't. NEED i don't 511 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 5: care if she's like bringing home a. Paycheck do you 512 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 5: get What i'm. 513 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 2: SAYING i get what you're. Saying my thought, was is that? 514 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,360 Speaker 4: Weird, no not. 515 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 2: At, all because Again i'm a straight. 516 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 3: Female BUT i would to me IF i met a 517 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 3: man who was, Like i'm very passionate about being a 518 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 3: stay at home. DAD i don't want to necessarily, work 519 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 3: BUT i just like cleaning the, house getting dinner, ready 520 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 3: raising the. Children to, me that's your, passion and that's, like, fuck, yeah. 521 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 5: Bro i'm not trying to take care of them and 522 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 5: tell mery and that obviously. 523 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah totally works for some. 524 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:53,439 Speaker 4: People. 525 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah for, ME i feel Like i'm such an alpha 526 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: in my day to day that when it comes to 527 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 1: me finding a, PARTNER i want to be able to turn, 528 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: Soft Like i'm sick of being a fighter at all 529 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:10,479 Speaker 1: times and bossing, up like When i'm with MY i 530 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: want to feel feminine and me and, LADYLIKE i need 531 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: you to like kind of take on a role Where 532 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: i'm feeling. Feminine that's so where THAT i feel. 533 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 3: Feminine, yeah that's so important to know a lot of 534 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 3: women who are bosses in their career are like the, 535 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 3: opposite like in the, bedroom the opposite in their. Relationship it's, like, no, no, 536 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 3: NO i want you to be traditionally, masculine me to 537 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 3: be traditionally feminine. 538 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: There, yeah, Yeah i'm not looking for anyone to take 539 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: care of. ME i can take care of, myself BUT 540 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: i need you to like still take on the manly 541 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: role for WHEN i come home THAT i can just 542 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: be put a little apron, on put my ass, out 543 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: push my tits, up and bend over Like, Okay i'm 544 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: not cooking you, anything but we'll pretend Because i've also 545 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: been bringing home bacon all, day, bitch that's my. 546 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 2: Cooking yes, exactly, okay. 547 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 4: But hold on. 548 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 5: Here, yeah that's see how that's funny from a woman's 549 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 5: standpoint and then a man's cause you're saying you're going 550 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 5: out making the. 551 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: Bacon i'm saying for me personally. 552 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:18,080 Speaker 5: As a, MAN i, know but as a, man If 553 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 5: i'm going out And i'm hitting it hard And i'm 554 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 5: making the bacon And i'm coming, HOME i kind of 555 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 5: want love as, well AND i don't want to put 556 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 5: on the hard hat to get. 557 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: Home and so you want to turn into a little bit, fine, 558 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: great go. 559 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 4: Do. 560 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: That that's gonna make you feel nice and sensitive and 561 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: take care of. You god fucking. 562 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 4: Pussy, NO i. 563 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 5: Don't agree on that, sometimes see that right. 564 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 4: There but see, now you see it, Right i'm talking 565 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 4: about for. 566 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: Me i'm telling you, That I'm i'm telling you that 567 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 1: for my, Man i'll put on an, apron bend over 568 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: and fuck. Him, okay why are you gonna put on the? 569 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: Apron and do you want to friend and mean to 570 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: bend him? 571 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 2: Over what the? 572 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: Fuck everyone's lost their goddamn. 573 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 4: Mind the, rain. 574 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: The rain is makingst. 575 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 5: And this is coming from sometimes men need to come 576 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 5: home and fucking feel like they're appreciated through Their i'm, 577 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 5: Saying i'm you're. Saying you're saying you want him to come. 578 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,959 Speaker 5: Home you want to take your hard hat off of 579 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 5: making the. Bacon that's what you, Did that's what we. 580 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 5: Said you want to come home are you talking. 581 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: ABOUT i have to write this down the Clip. Easton 582 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: i'm saying that WHEN i come, HOME i want you 583 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: to treat me like a. Housewife, OKAY i need you 584 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: to be Very i'm not looking for you to take 585 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: care of. Me take care of. Yourself, okay take care of. 586 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 1: Yourself i'm gonna go out And i'm gonna work. HARD 587 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: i have very masculine energy in my day. Today so 588 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: WHEN i find my, PARTNER i want to come home 589 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: AND i want him to treat me Like i'm a 590 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: like submissive house, yes, yes, okay treat me like a 591 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 1: little delicate. Bird, Okay, hi, honey how are. You did 592 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 1: you have a good. Day i'm sick of being. Alpha, 593 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: yes every aspect of my. Life i'm not, saying go 594 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: find you a bitch who like hold your ball, back baby. 595 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 1: BIRDS i. 596 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 4: Would like. 597 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 3: That so if you like, that see that's an East 598 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,159 Speaker 3: if you want to be treated like, that you Know 599 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 3: i'm not saying every day. 600 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: And by What i'm, Saying i'm not offended by what you're. 601 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: Saying IT'S. 602 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 4: I don't want to, no, no, no no. 603 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 5: No this is from a man's, standpoint BECAUSE i do 604 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 5: some DAYS i do want. 605 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 4: To go home and get. Coddled AND i feel like 606 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,400 Speaker 4: a lot of men want. That AM i saying every? 607 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: Night i'm gonna want To but we're saying the same. 608 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: Thing have you want to cater to? You By Beyonce 609 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: it or By Destiny's? Child i'm talking about that that 610 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 1: song Or dance For you By. Beyonce those songs encompass 611 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: WHAT i. Want you go out and be a boss. 612 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 1: Motherfucker i'm gonna go out and be a boss, motherfucker 613 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: and then WHEN i come, HOME i want to feel 614 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 1: like a woman AND i want to please my man 615 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: who was just working real, hard AND i want to 616 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: feel LIKE i wasn't busting my ass all day being 617 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: a boss. 618 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 5: Bitch, yeah you guys are saying because exactly what you're 619 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 5: saying is you're gonna. 620 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 4: Come. 621 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 1: NO i. 622 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 3: Agree i've never left that heart on this. 623 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 4: Podcast it's so. 624 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:40,320 Speaker 2: Funny it's YOU i have and me to fucket with that. 625 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 2: Visual oh my. 626 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: God, okay this ONE i need a. 627 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 2: Nap this one. 628 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 5: Is i'm so hotide and Now i'm hot. 629 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: Inside it's because you thought about yourselfing bent over in 630 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: an Apron. 631 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 4: No, no that's the paddle one braid, NO i. 632 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 2: CAN'T i. 633 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 3: Can't, okay, Okay, no this is a lighter one to end, 634 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 3: on but a good. 635 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: One. 636 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 3: No in quotes being friends with your ex like the 637 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 3: fuck absolutely, not but thank. You so this girl is saying, 638 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 3: LIKE i will be friends with my. Ex what are 639 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 3: you talking? About what do you guys think? About, wait 640 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 3: she will, be she will. Be she's, LIKE i will 641 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 3: not be TOLD i cannot be friends with an. EX 642 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 3: i will be friends with AN x one hundred. Percent 643 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 3: what do you guys feel that? 644 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 1: WAY i think if there's that WHAT i would have 645 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: to feel a Vibe if you're friends with your ex 646 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 1: AND i get no pit in my, stomach that's all. Key. 647 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: Key if you tell me you're friends with your ex 648 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: and my gut starts speaking to, me something is. Off, 649 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: okay so mine's mine's gonna that's not a non. Negotiable 650 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: but the FEELING i get is gonna tell me. Everything 651 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: that's a great. 652 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 2: POINT i THINK i agree one hundred. Percent, Yeah like if. 653 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 3: If Because i've BEEN i don't Have i'm not friends 654 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 3: with any, exes BUT i would be so open to 655 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 3: it if we still, vibed if it like ended on 656 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 3: good terms and we're just, like, oh you, Know i've 657 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,479 Speaker 3: seen them With kyle out and. About i've Seen KYLE'S 658 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 3: x out and About, sweetest the one he was with 659 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 3: for four. Years, sweetest she's a boss. Bitch Like i'm, 660 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 3: LIKE i could see myself being friends with. Her kyle 661 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 3: was friends with someone like, Her i'd be, Like, oh 662 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 3: that makes, sense but he just. 663 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 2: Isn't we just. 664 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 3: Aren't BUT i would be open to it IF i 665 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 3: don't get a Pit how do you FEEL i. 666 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 4: Can be friends with them but they can't. 667 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 1: Be oh, Right, HEY i love the. Honesty, OKAY i. 668 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 4: Can talk to. 669 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 2: Mine do you trust yourself being friends with your? 670 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 4: Ex that's WHY i. Think that's WHY i think. 671 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 2: That so then why would you? 672 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: Not she seems a really good dude because most people 673 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: are like, me ands to okay or you like EVERYTHING i? 674 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 4: SAID i pretty much stand most most people. 675 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 1: Suck, yeah and he AND i don't, drink, Right so 676 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: there's no gonna there's not ever gonna be like the 677 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: comfortability whit mixed with like alcohol because things. Happen question 678 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: is we're not your combination. 679 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 4: Significant other and they can drink? 680 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: Right oh, yeah, right you've said. That, NO i don't 681 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 1: want to be with. This SO i don't want to be, 682 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: Now i'm not looking for an alcoholic, right but, LIKE 683 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: i want to be with enormy BECAUSE i am. Strong 684 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: we've talked about. This i'm very strong in my. SOBRIETY 685 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: i don't want to have to worry about. YOURS i 686 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: don't want to have to worry that when you go 687 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: out with your friends that you could have a. RELAPSE 688 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 1: i want to worry about me and me only Because 689 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: i'm a tough broad and you, KNOW i don't mind 690 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: if you come home, drunk but if you're coming home 691 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 1: drunk a, lot we're done here Because i'm also not 692 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: going to try to get you sober for. 693 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 4: Dinner that's my favorite. THING i just had homies over the. 694 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 5: Weekend they came into town and they came over and 695 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 5: they had a bottle AND i was, like open that 696 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 5: on pouring them a. 697 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 2: Bottle of what wine or? 698 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 4: Vodka? Oh, okay so, yeah it was just the one 699 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:53,239 Speaker 4: pouring them. 700 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 1: Up oh it's like a CAN i say this just so? 701 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 2: People? 702 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: OH i love when people. THERE i JUST i know 703 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: when people who are, normal who are like celebrating a birthday, 704 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: party AND i watch my homies who work their asses, 705 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 1: off and they're, like it's my birthday and they want 706 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: to get. LIT i love being a part of that 707 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: type of. Celebration, yeah my, homies so it was like. 708 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 4: Party, yeah, well let's get you. 709 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: Drunk WHEN i SAY i don't want to help someone get, 710 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 1: sober WHAT i mean, is let's say THAT i was 711 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 1: with someone who was struggling with addiction and we shared 712 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: a child. Together that is a completely different. THING i 713 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: feel like at this point in my, life WHERE i 714 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 1: have my family AND i have, OCEAN i cannot allow 715 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: someone to come in and have me baby. THEM i 716 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 1: would absolutely sit there and, say here is the big, 717 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: book this is WHAT i recommend you go and. Do 718 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: BUT i can't take them on BECAUSE i have to 719 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: protect my family. Unit SO i don't want it to 720 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,479 Speaker 1: seem Like i'm cold when it comes to people who 721 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: are struggling with. Addiction IT'S i can't be with someone 722 00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: intimately who's who's gonna maybe be struggling BECAUSE i have 723 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: to protect my family. 724 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 3: Unit that's so important for, You that's WHAT i. Mean 725 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 3: and such a good. Boundary, yeah that makes one hundred percent. 726 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 2: SENSE whoa what an? Episode oh? Damn that? 727 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 5: Fine lauren and her apron and a six man and 728 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 5: then in and then. 729 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: How would that work? 730 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 2: Out she'll stand on a chair or Something. 731 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: EASTON i never want to visualize this, ever it's so, 732 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: funny you. GUYS i Love i've loved the non. Negotiables 733 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 1: you guys are freaking. AWESOME i hope you enjoyed this 734 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: episode Of give them A La boner episode and we'll 735 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: catch you Next. Monday just Remember bonus, episodes audio and 736 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: video drop every Single, monday so everywhere you get your 737 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: podcasts and on our YouTube. 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