1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Third Days, Bobby Bones Show, Morgan Studio. Thank 2 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: you very much. Do you want to hear the intros 3 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: Lauren wrote for you guys? Yeah? Oh, I don't know 4 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: the last one. For me. These aren't all mean okay, 5 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: but Lauren's new to the show and sometimes she writes intros. 6 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: All right, at first, he's good enough to coach his 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: son's team, just not good enough to coach his son's 8 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: team to win. Oh here he is data four produce 9 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 1: ready all right. So anyway, my cousin Leroy texted me 10 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: the other night. He was drinking with a buddy. He said, dude, 11 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 1: I need you to settle this debate for us, who 12 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: is the biggest country artist right now? So I guess 13 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: him and a buddy were drinking they were having this argument. 14 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: So I answered, but I don't say who you know? 15 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: I answered, my and I want to see what you 16 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: guys thought. The question is who is the biggest country 17 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: artist right now? Amy, I mean, I would say wall 18 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: has a lot of songs. He's big. He does have 19 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: a lot of songs right now. I feel like when 20 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: we do the countdown, it's like Morgan Wallen here again, 21 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: Morgan Wallen Morgan Wallen Lunchbox. Oh, when we were in, 22 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: iHeart it's Morgan Wallen. The crowd goes crazy for Morgan Wallen. 23 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: There's really only two people in this discussion. It's Luke 24 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: Combs and Morgan Walling, and so both you could probably argue. 25 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with Luke Combs. He's not in the 26 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: news as much, but he does sell out stadiums. He's 27 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: definitely not in the news as much. But I would 28 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: accept either one of them. But I'm gonna go Luke Combs. 29 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: It's tough, though, I'm gonna go Doke Combs. Why what's up, 30 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: I said, Morgan Wallen, And then he responded and went, oh, 31 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: come on, because I guess his buddy had guess Morgan. 32 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: My cousin had guess Luke. So I don't know there's 33 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: a wrong answer, but okay, that's a good question. I mean, 34 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: I said, I don't I don't really don't know, dude. 35 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 1: But from my point of view, I think it's Morgan Wong. 36 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 1: I think you probably go songs that are hits, tickets, 37 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: sale stream, yeah, all that stuff, and they're probably pretty close. 38 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: All right, Next up, Lunchbox, here's your intro. Let me 39 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: hear it. He never feels ashamed, and his clothes are 40 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: always stained here. He is lunchbox everybody. Well, speaking of 41 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: my clothes, apparently I look like a homeless dude too, 42 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: because I went to meet my wife for lunch. We 43 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: were meeting at a sandwich shop. So I'm just sitting 44 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: on the bench out front waiting for it because she 45 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: was late, and I'm sitting there and this lady walks in. 46 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: About ten minutes later, she walks out and she hands 47 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: me a sandwich. Who goes, God bless you. You were open, 48 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: and I was like huh, and then they took me 49 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: a comas armer. I was like, this woman thinks I'm homeless. 50 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: What did you say back to her? What she said, 51 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: God blessed? I was just like okay, and like she 52 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: walked away and I didn't even think about it. And 53 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: like two minutes later, I'm going she thinks I'm homeless. 54 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: I realized what she thinks. She thinks I'm just camping 55 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: out on this bench because I'm homeless, And I was 56 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: just like, man, it was a pretty uh. I think 57 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: it's the hair and the beard and the sweat, sloppy clothes. Yeah, 58 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: I was wearing like, uh, flip flops, my you know, 59 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: my little basketball pants, stick a little bag on it. Dude, 60 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: you want to talk about like a blow to the ego. 61 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: I was just like, wow, you do. Can't give off 62 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: that vibe though. Yeah, it's just chill though. Yeah, how 63 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: thoughtful of her. Absolutely, And she said, God bless you'd 64 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: hand you a sandwich? And you said what again? Okay? Oh, 65 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: because I was like, you accepted this well. I was 66 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: just like I was confused. I don't know what's going on, 67 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: but okay, what did you do with the sandwich? Way? 68 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 1: Oh dude? No, it was like a it was a 69 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: turkey and cheese with tomatoes and mayonnaise, and like, if 70 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: you're gonn to buy someone a sandwich, you can't put 71 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: all the extra stubbe generic. Yeah, I was, now, you're 72 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: hating on her for doing something nice? What a I 73 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: don't white tomatoes and mayonnaise, which I don't hungry. You 74 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: probably want tomatoes, take them off. I want hunger. And 75 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: then your wife got there to tell her yeah, and 76 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: she's super attracted to you. Then huh it was like 77 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: you want to make out? I was like, yeah, sure 78 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: she did. Okay, next up, George Strait's biggest fan and 79 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:27,239 Speaker 1: and most likely to get scammed. It's Amy everybody. Okay, Well, 80 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: if you're tired of people calling you salespeople, scams like 81 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: that text messages, you can go to Do Not Call 82 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: dot Gov and register your phone to get put on 83 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: a list where you won't get as many of these calls. 84 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 1: They can't guarantee that the calls will just stop, but 85 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: maybe you'll be removed from a lot of lists at 86 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: your numbers on. And then if you're like me and 87 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: you signed up on a bunch of websites when you're 88 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: doing Christmas shopping to get ten percent off, twenty percent off, 89 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: and you have to register your number for text messages, 90 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: well you can tech back stuff and they'll put sending 91 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: you all their deals like every day. Do Not Call 92 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: dot Gov. Yeah, then when you go there, you have 93 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: to put in you click register my phone, click on that, 94 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: and then go in make sure you're not getting scanned, 95 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: and then you type in all your information and then 96 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: it's required that you also provide them with your email. 97 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: They can send you an email and you click the 98 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: leak in there credit card number, firm that it is you, 99 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,280 Speaker 1: and then your number I'm sure it's right, dot Gov. 100 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure that's legit. She just her intro said she's 101 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: always one click away from full identity theft. Yeah, okay, Amy, 102 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: thank you. Ray from Mountain Point in Arkansas. His bulldogs 103 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: fur looks like he's balding, And boy, can you rip 104 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: open a Spaulding? Bobby Bones? What your dog opens? Back? 105 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 1: Your rip of Spaulding like a baseball basketball? Spaulding me 106 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: a basketball? I don't know. I think. Okay, good job. Right. 107 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 1: So the last four or five months last year, I 108 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: said I'm not not reading. I took a break from reading. 109 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: I like to read. I took a break from reading 110 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: mostly because I was just reading a bunch of books 111 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: for learning, and then I really wasn't enjoying it that much. 112 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: So I'm back back on the book train. I've started 113 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: a new book. It's called The Nineties by Chuck Closterman. 114 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: It's nonfiction and it's you know, the social changes, attitudes, 115 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: economic conditions, etc. Of the nineties trends and how it 116 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: affects today and what we've learned from it. So I'm 117 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: back in. It does seem a little learn you're still 118 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: learning from this, Yeah, but it's not just only for 119 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: educational purposes. So I planned to read this book and 120 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: then get back back. I'm back on, but I read 121 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: last night. For here's the problem though. I have a 122 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: moleow iPad and I got one of those iPad minis 123 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: that I read on and I opened it up and 124 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: it's like two hundred and sixty page is and I'm like, okay, great, 125 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: this is not that long a book. But the type 126 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: was so small and I'm blind, so I go, okay, 127 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: I gotta By the time I could see, it was 128 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: five hundred and nineteen pages, and I'm like, oh no, 129 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: I don't so, yeah, i'd stunk a little bit. That's 130 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: what's up, glad you guys are here. Let's get started 131 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: with the show. Time for the mailbag. You get something 132 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: we call ye Hello, Bobby Bones. There's a cute guy 133 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: at my work who I have talked to a few times, 134 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: but the other day he asked me, Hey, what's your 135 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: name again? And then he asked me out. Now, there 136 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: aren't a lot of people in my office and my 137 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: name is pretty rare, so now maybe I put him 138 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: in the friend zone. I didn't give him answer yet, 139 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: I said, I think about it. Should I be bothered 140 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: because he forgot my name? Or do I give him 141 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: a chance to go on a date with him? Signed 142 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: forgettable in Colorado. Don't punish him for forgetting your name 143 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: because you have an original name. Don't punish him. Maybe 144 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: he didn't hear it. I think that part of it's gone. 145 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, remove that part from 146 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: your brain when considering to go out with a guy. 147 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: Maybe the time you introduced him it sounded like, I 148 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: don't know, maybe it's hearing problem. It could be all 149 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: these issues and he did ask you again. He could 150 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: have just lived life and act like he knew your 151 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: name until he figured it out. No punishment for the 152 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: forgetting of the name if it was a one time thing. Secondly, 153 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: do you want to go out with him? It's generally speaking, 154 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: not good to date someone that you see a lot 155 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: in the office all office, especially at a small office 156 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: like you said. But I'm saying even an office like this, 157 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: it's not good to date somebody because I tell you, 158 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: just playing the numbers, most people you date you don't 159 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: end up marrying. So most people you date you end 160 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: up dating and then not dating eventually. So odds are 161 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: you're going to date this person and then not date 162 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: them anymore. And most relationships don't end cordially where you 163 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: can hang out with each other. So just playing the 164 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: numbers here. Do you ever hear the saying don't poop 165 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: or you eat? Heard that one? Yeah, that's this so 166 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: numbers game. Don't date him in the office. However, the 167 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: heart wants what the heart wants. Just know if it 168 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 1: doesn't go well, it's gonna be bad for you. And 169 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: if you must, then do it. I'm not gonna tell 170 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: you not to do it. I'm just saying prepare yourself 171 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: because odds aret it's not gonna work out, just based 172 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: on simple numbers alone. But I feel like I really 173 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: want to go out with them, Then do it. She 174 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 1: called them a cute guy. And handle it in the 175 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: way of the whole time you're dating him. Handle in 176 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: the way of just in case it doesn't work out, 177 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: I want to make sure that I don't do anything 178 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: or treat him in a way that would make him 179 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: hate me, because we're always gonna be together. Like, don't 180 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: go you can't ghost him. There's all these things you 181 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: can't do that you could do a normal dating life. 182 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: You can't do here because you're gonna see hi every day. 183 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna see him every day, that's correct. I'm a 184 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,439 Speaker 1: big don't poop or eat guy. However, sometimes you want 185 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: to eat your poop. There are some people who do that. 186 00:09:55,840 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: So go out with him if you want to get 187 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: about the name forgetting. If you really want to go 188 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: out with them, life is short. Just know you need 189 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: to go into it with the idea of in cases 190 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: doesn't work. I need to actually treat this one a 191 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: little different. If I were just dating somebody randomly, and 192 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna see him every day while you're dating too, 193 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: it's just gonna be a whole different. It's all. It's 194 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: all different. But give it, give it a run. It 195 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: doesn't sound like you love him anyway. It doesn't sound 196 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: like she's super into it. If she's thinking about not 197 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: wanting to date them because he didn't remember her name, 198 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like she's really wanted to datum. So 199 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,439 Speaker 1: here's the final word on this. If you really want 200 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: to date them, go out with them. If you just 201 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: kind of do, don't get to know him a little 202 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: better first. He's probably in all that good anyway. Most 203 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: guys aren't that's right? All right? Time for the Bobby feud. 204 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: There are ten answers on the board. We asked two 205 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: thousand Bobby Bone Show listeners. The question is, if you 206 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: were granted one wish by a genie, what would you 207 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: wish for? We rolled the ice prior to the segment. 208 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: Lunchbox will go first. Two thousand listeners. We're asked, a 209 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: genie comes out says, you get one wish. What do 210 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: you wish for? Lunchbox money? Show me money number one? 211 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: Answer lunchboxes on the board. Oh yeah, it's all i'd 212 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: wish for. So I don't know what else you wish for? 213 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: My good what else do you wish for? What else 214 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: is there? Right? What else is there besides money? Guys? Yeah, absolutely, yeah, 215 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: yeah sure, just money. I mean, hell, he's like more money? 216 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: Oh my hell show him health? Yeah yeah, number two 217 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 1: is great health? See if three points right now? All right? Money? 218 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: Hell ah, I don't think he brings home back from 219 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: the debt, So that's not a good wish. Um, you can't. 220 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: I mean, that's any wishes a wish? Yeah, I know, 221 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: I know, I know. Well say uh, new house. I 222 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: think you were just figuring it out why you were going, 223 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, I didn't want to run out of 224 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 1: time there, so I would a new house. One wish 225 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: by a genie, Give me a new house. Lunchbox says 226 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: that people would wish for a new house. Oh I 227 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: had that one, Eddie. There are still eight answers on 228 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: the board. Number one is money. Number two is great health. 229 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: If a genie comes out of a bottle and says, oh, Eddie, yeah, 230 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: you get one wish, what do you think you're wishing for? 231 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: When Lunchbox went a new my word was car, a 232 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: new car. I feel like Lunchbox would wish for a 233 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: lambo in a second. Okay, show me a lambot or 234 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: a new car. That's why I didn't go that one. 235 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: Is that right? Well? I guess if you had all 236 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: the money, you wouldn't need to That's why i'm you know, 237 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: it's almost like you're two niche in yourself. If you 238 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: go money, you just get to buy a bunch crab. 239 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: But what do I know, Amy, world peace? That is 240 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: a very selfless wish. Yeah, you have faith in he manity. 241 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,079 Speaker 1: Then if we got the wish, it would be a 242 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: world piece. Yeah okay, Amy, says mister Jeanie Canal, wall 243 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: piece piece number four, answers, piece on Earth or world piece. 244 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: I thought about myself only Wow, let's go ahead and 245 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: in hunger end Hunger is okay, Hudgens, Yeah, I know 246 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: what is going on. It's funny, all right. Amy wants 247 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: to also end er lunchbox. You're up now. Second round 248 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: points are doubled. There is three, five, six, seven, eight, 249 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: nine to ten left on the board. The only things 250 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: off the board are money, great health, and wallpiece. Yeah. 251 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm ready for number ten. Finally, get one wish. You 252 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna wish for more wishes, more wishes, 253 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: gonna play the system fools. Come on. Now, that's how 254 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: you can think with your head. Do you think, oh, 255 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 1: I like get one wish? Well you I want to 256 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: wish for fifty wishes. The question is if you were 257 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: granted one wish by a genie, what would you wish for? 258 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: He says, more wishes. The problem is I would not 259 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: do that if a genie popped up, because I think 260 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: he would think, abt me, no wishes to go. You 261 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 1: had one wish that you just spoiled it and you wasted. 262 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: Then he was back in the bottle. Yeah, and then 263 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: you guys wouldn't believe me. The little genie came out. Yeah. 264 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: I think I just wasted that guess. Huh, Eddie. I 265 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: think like Abby, for example, she wishes she had a boyfriend, 266 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: So give me boyfriend, girlfriend, show me relationship or love? Yeah, 267 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: number five answer and that's double, So that's ten points. 268 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: That's right, that's not bad. I didn't think about that, 269 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: thanks dude. Okay, bones, what about like starting a family? 270 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: I wish I had a baby? Were you gonna have 271 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: to wish for it? Do you good? Do you wish 272 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: it another baby? No? No No, no, no, no no, not me. 273 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: Basically a nursery at your house. I don't want another baby. 274 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: Show Eddie another kid. Maybe you're the final one here 275 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: in the second round two thousand, Bobby Bunch, your listeners 276 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: were pulled. If you were granted one wished by a genie, 277 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: what would you wish for? Off the boarder? Money, great health, world, 278 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: peace and love? You get six answers up here. That 279 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: you could fly like a bird. That would be fun 280 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: to fly, That would be fun to buzz that one too. 281 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: Amy says she wished to fly. People wish that? Yeah, 282 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: to have magic power or to fly as a number eight, 283 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: I make sense. Oh that's sixteen points. Wow. I still 284 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: have some faith in humanity. So I feel like someone 285 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: might be like, you know what, I want to use 286 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: my wish to cure cancer? Oh, to cure cancer, A 287 00:15:55,360 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: cure for cancer, cure cancer, show me cure cancer. She 288 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: don a lot to get back. I mean, I've got 289 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: to start thinking bigger, like give back what I'm stoping about? Yourself? Buzzed? 290 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: Did get buzzed? Okay, we're that third round. Point totals 291 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: are tripled. Yeah, wents off the board, man, money, great health, 292 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: peace on Earth, world piece love and to fly or 293 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: a power magic power? M Ah, I think I know, yes, sir, 294 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know what you're gonna wish for? 295 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: You got to go first. That's a power spot. You 296 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: really haven't taken advantage of it. Yeah. I got a couple. 297 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: I got money three points though total. Yeah, but I 298 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: got the best one money yeah yeah, yeah, you're read 299 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: points ahead. Man. You're sitting there at your dead end 300 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: job and that genie pops up and you just wish 301 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: you could have your dream job, dream job, Show me 302 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: dream job, I have that one. Well, you got the 303 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: buzz too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, lunchbox out with three points. 304 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: I didn't want to play this, eddie. You have ten points. 305 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: You need an answer, at least one answer to get 306 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: back in this. Well, I only have one written down. 307 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: But and this may be stupid, but it may be genius. 308 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: I wish there was more time in the day to 309 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 1: get stuff done. You think about it, you look at 310 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: the clock, You're like, oh, my God's word at the time, 311 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: gown more time in the day? Amy, What do you 312 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,360 Speaker 1: have over there? What I have left? Yeah, you've already won. 313 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: But what would you say as your next answer? Well, 314 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 1: the next one I had written down was to stop 315 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: to not age. That's good. You get a certain point. 316 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: You don't get old? Yeah, I think we. I think 317 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 1: we'd give this one too. You've already won, but get old. 318 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: Your looks Yeah, that's what it is. Better looks better, 319 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: looks good. So that's that's nine more points. You want 320 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 1: to keep rolling? Not you, buddy, You lost. You went 321 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: first and finished last. That's rare. I still haven't gotten 322 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: the number ten. Huh they're six, seven, nine to ten. 323 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,880 Speaker 1: Oh tough one, I know. Can I get to bring 324 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: back someone from the dead? Show me bring back someone 325 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 1: from the dead, number ten or thirty points. I told 326 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 1: you when you said it, that was a fine, acceptable answer. 327 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: You got to be kidding me. Why are you yelling? 328 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 1: Why what do you say? Oh? Man, that is so 329 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: you wouldn't have because you want to set it the 330 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,640 Speaker 1: first round and you still would have lost. But oh 331 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: that's true. Amy, go ahead, Okay, you're crushing the score. 332 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: You may have one hundred points of this point. I 333 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: would like to see the future. Oh that's a good one. 334 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: Show her the future. All right, Here are your other 335 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: answers at number six, Happiness, that's money, at number seven, 336 00:18:55,680 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: Fame that's money. At number nine until eligiance. I wish 337 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 1: that so Amy has fifty nine points. That might be 338 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: a new point. Recoy, Bobby, huge champions. It's time for 339 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: the good news. Bobby, I love a personnel. Tell me 340 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: something good. And this is Mary who has called us. 341 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:30,159 Speaker 1: Hey Mary, good morning, good morning. Will you share your 342 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: story with me? Yes? Fifty one years ago I gave 343 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: up a child for adoption. UM tough, tough decision, of course. 344 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,360 Speaker 1: I had prayed that he would contact me, that he'd 345 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: have a good life, and I'd looked for him to 346 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 1: no avail, and I signed up for Ancestry about three 347 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:56,640 Speaker 1: years ago, and right before this Thanksgiving, he contacted me. Wow, yeah, 348 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: how did I reach out to you? How did you 349 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: get in touch with you through Ancestry? It was a 350 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,120 Speaker 1: message and I ignored the first one because I thought 351 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 1: it was someone else. And then he said, I think 352 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: we're closely related. And his DNA points were like within 353 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: ten of my other son. So we had we spoke. 354 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: We we messaged back and forth so we could make 355 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 1: sure that we were related. And then um, we had 356 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 1: a zoom call. I would have flown there that day, 357 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 1: but he has a lot going on right now. He's 358 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 1: a teacher. And my first question was have you had 359 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 1: a good life and he said, yes, awesome, Yes, What 360 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: was it like when you saw him for the first time? 361 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: And well, we just did the zoom call. Yeah, but Ian, Yes, 362 00:20:55,200 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: when I saw his picture on Ancestry, I knew. And 363 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: I had his baby picture from the hospital. I've had 364 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: it all these years, and I've can't tell you how 365 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: many prayers have gone up that this would happen. And 366 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: I was very thick last year, very very sick, and 367 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: I thought I was going to die without seeing him 368 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: or talking to him, so really grateful. When do you 369 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: plan on getting to meet him in person? As soon 370 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: as he'll let me. He just has a lot going 371 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: on right now. He's separating, and he has two kids, 372 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: and so I got to see them on zoom, so 373 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: we're thinking springbreak. Congratulations Mary, thank you that I can 374 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,919 Speaker 1: tell by the emotion in your voice this means a 375 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: lot to you. It's obviously a big deal to you, 376 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: and I hope that when you finally do get to 377 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: meet him, it is everything you thought it would be plus. 378 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you very much. Thank that's crazy. Well 379 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: we might be related, not me and her, but when 380 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: I got on because I did twenty three and me 381 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: got all kind of eighth cousins coming out of the woodwork. 382 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: Hey we're oh, eighth cousins gonna get took us to Garth? Nope, 383 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: sorry not twenty three, am. You can't. So in order 384 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,239 Speaker 1: for those things to match up, do they have to 385 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: have they have to do the same test that you do, 386 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 1: so I believe so Okay, yeah, it's got to be 387 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: in the data. A wow, that's pretty amazing. Congratulations Mary. 388 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 1: I hope it goes awesome. Call us back after you 389 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: meet him. Would love for an update on this. We'll do. 390 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: Thank you guys, All right, Mary, that is what it's 391 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: all about. That was tell me something good. I want 392 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: to go over and talk to Melissa because they are 393 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: having an argument in their home. Melissa, what's the issue? Well, 394 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: morning studio. I needed, I guess, somebody to validate my 395 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 1: opinion on this whole thing. I was gonna get my 396 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: husband a muzzleloader gun for Christmas, and everywhere I looked, 397 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: I couldn't find one. So I got other stuff, yeah, food, shirt, cologne's, jeans, 398 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: all kinds of stuff, and asked for Christmas. He was 399 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: talking about wanting to get one of the gun, and 400 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: I said, y'all, I was gonna get you one, but 401 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: they I couldn't find it. Well, immediately he started looking 402 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: around calling places and he found a place that had him. 403 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: And I was already getting a little missed about it then, 404 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,160 Speaker 1: and we had to take stuff back from other issues 405 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: with Christmas stuff. So we stopt at this place against 406 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: my will, and he bought the gun. Tick one hundred 407 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: dollars for everything to get the gun. All everything he 408 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 1: needed branted for Christmas. I got one hundred dollars gift 409 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: certificate to get the manicure pedicure. That's all I got. 410 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: So he buys the gun and that's well over a 411 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: thousand dollars now that he's had spent on him for Christmas, 412 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 1: and I just my feelings were hurt and I just 413 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: can't get past it. I mean, I have barely spoke 414 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: to him in the last whatever it was, eight or 415 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: nine days since he bought that gun, like I, and 416 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 1: he knows I'm mad about it, and he tries to talk, 417 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,160 Speaker 1: and I just, you know, one word answers, yes, no, whatever, 418 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 1: But I just can't get past it. Yeah, and you are. 419 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 1: You absolutely have the right to feel that way, right. 420 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: Your feelings are yours and nobody else's, and you get 421 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: to have them, but then you get to figure out 422 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: why you're having them, at least owe yourself that as well. 423 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: So you should feel hurt if that's how you feel. 424 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 1: But then let's talk about that for a second. You 425 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: feel that he didn't put as much time, effort, money 426 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: into you as you did him. Is that kind of 427 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: the root of it, where you feel like you're giving 428 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: way more than you're getting. Yes, And it's not so 429 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: much about money effort time love. It feels like maybe 430 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: you're loving him more than you feel like he's loving you. Yes, 431 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: And I mean even getting the get He gave them 432 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 1: money to my daughter and she went and got it 433 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: for him, so he didn't even have to go get it. 434 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 1: Class on the envelope. Classic classic man thing. That's what 435 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, got, We're a caveman. We're done. We 436 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: do we do we do for present. Okay, now here's 437 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: what I'm going to encourage you to do is show 438 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: him a little bit of grit, not a lot, because 439 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,239 Speaker 1: he has to learn from this so as to not 440 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: do it again. Now, I don't think it's not going 441 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: to help anything for you to be mad and stay mad, 442 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,959 Speaker 1: because the resolution here is not going to change the 443 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: fact that you said you were trying to find him 444 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: that gun, and you couldn't open the door for him 445 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 1: to go find the gun himself because it was already allowed. 446 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 1: You already said you were trying to find it. So 447 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: he's like, whoaha, wah, crap, I'll go find it. So 448 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: I don't think he really did anything wrong there. He 449 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: would and found the gun as long as you guys 450 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: can afford it, that's okay. Well, she said they pulled 451 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 1: over at the gun store against her will. I know, 452 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: I know, but I'm telling you, if she had said, no, 453 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,159 Speaker 1: you don't, we can't afford that. You're never going to 454 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: get that, that's a different story because to him, the 455 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: door was opened, Oh you're gonna muslod. I really wanted 456 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: a Musloder from muslom season and let's go. Let's go 457 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: get it. Then now the issue is he didn't reciprocate that. 458 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: It's not that he wouldn't got the gun, it's he 459 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 1: didn't receipt precate that. This has got to be a 460 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: you have to be bigger, smarter, and more advanced than 461 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: him to make sure he knows why this hurt your feelings. 462 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 1: You cannot be aggressive with the conversation and you have 463 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: to actually say that like it. I'm gonna be honest 464 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 1: with this really hurt my feelings that I went through 465 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 1: all this effort and love and you you had our 466 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,480 Speaker 1: daughter to go get it, like I just need some 467 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: sort of effort. And I think that's the problem with 468 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: a lot of guys. We weren't exposed to a lot 469 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 1: of effort. It wasn't we weren't taught it was cool 470 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: to be vulnerable and do extra we saw in movies. 471 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: But who does that crab? Now that being said, I do, 472 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 1: I do. I was raise bad women and to Arkansa 473 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 1: Keiths came in the picture of my teen years. But 474 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 1: it's you. I'm talking to every guy listening to this 475 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 1: right now. It's not even about how much you spend, honestly, 476 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: because everybody has a different budget. It's about the effort 477 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 1: that you put in. It's about the thought. It's about 478 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: you showing up. It's about you saying how you feel, 479 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,719 Speaker 1: why you feel it, and this is what I'm going 480 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: to do because of that. That's what that's the root. 481 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 1: She doesn't feel as loved as she gave and at 482 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,560 Speaker 1: this time it happened to come out through material things. 483 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: I'd be ticked if I was here too. So she 484 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: has the right to that feeling. But if you want 485 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: this to improve, which is the only thing, unless're gonna 486 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: make him take the gun back. I mean, be honest. 487 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: Is that a question? Do you want him to take 488 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 1: the gun back? And he's already shot it? No, Okay, 489 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: he drove the car off a lot. It immediately lost 490 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: a lot of value in smart Yeah, so I would 491 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: go to him and say, this is what my feelings are. Hurt, 492 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 1: I did all of this. I just need more from you, 493 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 1: and I need you to buy me something because you're 494 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: doing both one. You're teaching him a lesson. You're not 495 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 1: being You will attract more flies with honey than you 496 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,479 Speaker 1: will vinegar. You've heard it a million times. I need 497 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 1: you to have honey, even though you shouldn't. I wouldn't, 498 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: I'd lock up, I'd get cold unless I had a 499 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 1: conversation with myself and realize, what is the best outcome here. 500 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,439 Speaker 1: The outcome here is he doesn't do it again. And 501 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 1: the outcome here is now you get a gift. You 502 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 1: need both of those to happen. So you teach the lesson, 503 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: you say I would like for you to get me 504 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,719 Speaker 1: something now from your heart, and then you challenge him 505 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 1: to it, and then you move on and he won't 506 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: do this again, or it'll be a while until he does. 507 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: So that's my advice to you. I would be mad too. 508 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: You have every right to have that feeling. I am 509 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,399 Speaker 1: not telling you you're wrong in any way. As a 510 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: matter of fact, I'm telling you are right. You are 511 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: right to feel that way. That is your feeling, but 512 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,639 Speaker 1: let's make sure it doesn't happen again, because that's the 513 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 1: best case scenario other than taking the gun back. So, Melissa, 514 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: what I want you to do is have that conversation 515 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 1: with him, even if he acts like he's not receptive 516 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: to it. He is. Guys are taught you gotta be 517 00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: tough and strong and you can't be vulnerable. But even 518 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 1: though we're acting it, we are we're taking notes internally. 519 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: We may not want to act like it because it 520 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: shows in our minds. Well if I act like I'm 521 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: listening and it shows I'm weak, but we're still taking notes. 522 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: Conveyed that to him, and also make him get you 523 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: a gift, and if he doesn't, I'll buy you a gift. 524 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: And you can go rubbing his face and be like, 525 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: you wouldn't give me a gift, but Bobby Bona's got 526 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: me a gift. I'll do that. You don't need to 527 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: do I will do that. He has a new muzzle loader. 528 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: Find muzzle will only get one shot. Though it's one ball, 529 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: you gotta shoot multiple times, like baby Crocker. That's exactly well, 530 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: that's my musload seasons right before a gun season. Okay, 531 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: so Melissa, that is my advice to you. I think 532 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: you can actually do something with this, and those are 533 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: the two requirements. I'm gonna give you some homework here. 534 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: Talk to your husband about that, tell him that he 535 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: hurt your feelings, don't be angry and they tell him 536 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: he needs to buy you something on the back side 537 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: of it, and then if he doesn't, I will and 538 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 1: we'll talk again soon. Okay, okay, And I'm thinking, after 539 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: twenty six years of marriage, I figured you know he would, 540 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: he would you know understand the assignment. Yeah, but the 541 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: assignment has to be told to us directly, almost written, 542 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: and you probably need to be naked when you tell us. Yes, 543 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: we're not gonna remember it, and you need to do 544 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: it again any year, because honestly, if just guys are idiots. 545 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: I like to think I'm better at this because I 546 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: was raised mostly by all women, but it's still I'm 547 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 1: missed too, and I think I really put time and 548 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: effort and I still miss and I need to be 549 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,000 Speaker 1: told things exactly, even if it's not about gifts. I 550 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: need to be we are doing this and this is why, 551 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 1: and this is why we do. I need to be 552 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: told that because I'm thinking about football or work or 553 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,920 Speaker 1: stupid things, or I'm like, wonder what Eddie's doing. I 554 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 1: wanted to answer my FaceTime, So Melissa, do that and 555 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: call me back in a couple of weeks and let 556 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 1: me know how it goes. Okay, Okay, thank you so much. Hey, 557 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: I appreciate the call. I'm sorry that happened, but we're 558 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: gonna grow from this and things are gonna get better 559 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: because of this. Yeah, amen, buy Melissa. I like it. 560 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: It's good. Yeah. Yeah, it stinks though, because you feel 561 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: like why I just lost. Okay, but that loss has happened. 562 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: You can't go back and turn that loss into a win, 563 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: and so you're angry. But let's look at it instead 564 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: of looking back going I'm angry, or let's go yeah, 565 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: I hurt my feelings, I'm angry, but how can this 566 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: actually be better for me? How can we grow from 567 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: this and this doesn't happen to me again? And it 568 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: is investing that moment and that a little bit of 569 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 1: time to make sure on the other side forward that 570 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: it's actually better. Your change can't change what's happened behind us, 571 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: but we can't change what's happened in front of us, 572 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 1: and I guarantee he has no clue none. That's the thing. 573 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: I'll think he's a bad dude at always like usually 574 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 1: not gonna get muzzle over her. I wanted it for Christmas. 575 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: And yes, all of his needs are getting met and 576 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: hers are not. Yeah, but we need to be told 577 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: exactly what the needs are, how we can meet them, 578 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: and probably multiple times. Right, And the longer, ladies that 579 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 1: we are passive, which that's something we do, can do 580 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: a lot of, then the you know, the longer it's 581 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 1: going to take to find that growth. On the phone 582 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: right now is West who lives in Oklahoma. West. We 583 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 1: appreciate you, Colin. What's going on, buddy? Hey, good morning guys, 584 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 1: morning studio. So I have a hotly contested thing that 585 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: I think he's not talked about him thought him and 586 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: that is a proper way to make a peanut butter 587 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 1: and jelly sandwich. I remove myself from this because I 588 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 1: hate peanut butter. I hate peanut butter. You know what 589 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 1: I hate war, stabbing, murder, and peanut butter. That's good. Yeah, 590 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get off and I'm probably not going 591 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: to answer this, but go ahead with your question. Sure, 592 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: so you got your jar peanut butter, your jar jelly. 593 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,479 Speaker 1: Did you use a knife on the peanut butter and 594 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: a spoon on the jelly or do you use the 595 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 1: knife on the peanut butter and try to clean it 596 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 1: off decent and then put it in the jelly that 597 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,479 Speaker 1: maybe cross contaminate. Okay, we're talking about contamination here, Amy, Okay, 598 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: you go a knife for the peanut butter, spoon for 599 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: the jelly. What about the extra you have to wash extra? 600 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 1: That b of a deal to me. It's it's one spoon, 601 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: and yes, I have almond butter, right, and I use 602 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,040 Speaker 1: almond butter and regular butter. I would never I go 603 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: butter knife on both and wipe it off. I don't 604 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: want to contaminate, like he says, But I would I 605 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 1: go one in wipe off. No, I can, like, literally, 606 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: this is crazy. This is to clean up because then 607 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 1: you got to like clean out of the spoon. It's fine, 608 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: you take the bread and you you press it up 609 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: into the spoon and everything gets on there. But this 610 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,080 Speaker 1: literally just happened in my house with my son. He 611 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: crossed cant. I opened up the jelly and I thought, 612 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: did this jelly go bad? And he's like, oh no, sorry, 613 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: that's chunks of peanut butter. Yeah. No, I had a throto. 614 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,719 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I don't like bread crust in 615 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 1: my butter, so I don't like to cross contamination. But man, 616 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: I just can't imagine dirty enough an extra piece of silverware. Guys, 617 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 1: it's really not the bigger every night one. It's not fun, 618 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: I hear you. But it's one vote. But if everybody 619 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 1: said that, we'd have no no elections. But really it 620 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: is just probably you with one spoon. But really it's 621 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: probably okay, no, he's one knife, yeah, Eddie, Oh dude, 622 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: you get the knife, you do the peanut butter, and 623 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: then you try to scrape it on the bread as 624 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 1: much as you can. I don't wipe it off with 625 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 1: a napkin. And then I go take the same knife 626 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: into the jelly. Okay, that's contamination that bread, Who cares? 627 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: And then cross contamination. This is peanut butter and jelly, 628 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: and I go for jelly for just a biscuit, and 629 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden I got peanut butter and bread 630 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 1: in there. There's only one time we use the jelly, 631 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 1: and that's for peanut butter and jelly sandwich. You could 632 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: do the peanut butter with the knife, get a paper towel, 633 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 1: wipe the knife clean, and then dip it in the 634 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 1: jelly if you want to an extra spoon lunchbox. Guys, 635 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 1: I don't understand. I've never heard of using a spoon 636 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,359 Speaker 1: for jelly in my life. You take that knife, you 637 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 1: dig it in the peanut butter, You wipe it on 638 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,839 Speaker 1: one side of the bread. Then you go and you 639 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 1: lick the knife clean. You get all the peanut butter 640 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 1: on the life by licking it with your tongue, and 641 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 1: then you stick in the jelly. Guess what, No peanut 642 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: butter is going in the jelly. You get the jelly, 643 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: put it on the other piece of bread, and then 644 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: you meat in the middle and you have a peanut 645 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 1: butter and jelly sandwich. That's how you do it. You 646 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,839 Speaker 1: know what, though, that's disgusting. He's licking the knife every 647 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 1: time you licking the knife. But look, I've never used 648 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: a spoon for jelly, and I struggle sometimes you try 649 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: to balance the jelly on the knife. It's hard to 650 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: get it out. If it's like stick to the bag, 651 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 1: a spoon on anything like that, it's hard to get 652 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: it to wipe it because it's up. Yeah, sure that's 653 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,560 Speaker 1: true too. Told you you take the bread and you 654 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 1: press it into the spoon. It doesn't know how start 655 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: your bread is passion? Just crap here, West, I know 656 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:11,759 Speaker 1: is everything I hope to be. So I'm gonna tell 657 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,479 Speaker 1: you lunchbox is disgusting. Yeah, Eddie and Amy are wrong. 658 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: I'm okay, And you just should go in one clean it. 659 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,879 Speaker 1: I can't believe you clean it even with just water. 660 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: You clean it two with your mouth. Yeah, I mean 661 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 1: wiping it. You're no better than a cat licking your 662 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 1: own butt. All right, that's fine, West, What do you do? So? 663 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: I grew up using the knife and spoon method, but 664 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,399 Speaker 1: now that I have to make more of my own 665 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 1: for my son that's in kindergarten for his lunches, I've 666 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,280 Speaker 1: gone the way of using the lid on the peanut 667 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,840 Speaker 1: butter to scrape off as much peanut butter as possible, 668 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: and then just going straight into the gym. When you 669 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 1: put the lid on, you're making a mess on the jar. 670 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,839 Speaker 1: Really no, no, no, I would imagine you don't grab 671 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 1: his jar peanut butter. It's all of your hands. I 672 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,360 Speaker 1: mean he's probably around the lid. I like it to 673 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 1: stay clean. Hey, how meticulous are you guys spreading the 674 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: jelly on the peanut butter? Are you like trying to 675 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: cover every space on the bread? Are you well, almond butter? 676 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,440 Speaker 1: I am. Oh, it's a heck of a it's a 677 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 1: heck of a spread. You cover everything, eat well. I 678 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 1: don't need it all covered equally, but I need it 679 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 1: to be perfectly square, like the corners. I like to 680 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 1: have a full bread, and then that's square to be 681 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: almond butter, and then the butter or jelly over it. 682 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: But yes, meticulous in that it's exactly as much and 683 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 1: the coverage is perfect. And I don't need like blobs 684 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: like heavy or here, lighter here that way. If I 685 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 1: do that, then I eat around the big blob to 686 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 1: the very end, and then I don't want to do that. 687 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: Just got you? Yeah, so, but what a topic not 688 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 1: on my sheet to talk about today? Yeah, chunky peanut 689 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 1: butter or smooth smooth, oh, smooth death to buy a 690 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,400 Speaker 1: thousand cuts neither West. Thank you for the call. We 691 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: appreciate it. And now we're all going to punch each 692 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: other in the face during the song Okay, sound good thing, 693 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: all right, see you a buddy. Here's a voice smell 694 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 1: from Mike in the Woodlands, Texas. I here, Eddie is 695 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: going to be the caddy and the at and t 696 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: Heavil Beach open at the high school golf coach in 697 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 1: the state of Texas. I would be glad to offer 698 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 1: my expertise to Eddie, rules for little things that he 699 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 1: needs to know to look forward to help him be 700 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,879 Speaker 1: the best Cattie he can be. Eddie, give me a call. 701 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,240 Speaker 1: You know where to find me. Eddie's gonna be my caddy. 702 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: But you have to know the rules. I didn't know that. 703 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: I mean we're not to play golf. We don't know 704 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,280 Speaker 1: the real rules. Like I just think you carry a towel, 705 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 1: you would seven iron. I give you the seven iron 706 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: kick them off. It's behind the tree out in front 707 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: of the tree. But I thought, like, if you have 708 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: a shot coming up, like your caddie is like, hey, 709 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 1: you need this club. That's okay. He forgets sometimes, Okay, 710 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 1: he's watching other people. We've done this before. A disaster 711 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,399 Speaker 1: hit it this way. Amy. We never get to play 712 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: with his pros, so I'm watching their shots and Bobby's 713 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 1: over there looking for his ball and like, oh, I'll 714 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 1: be there in a second. Uh. This is Luke from 715 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,359 Speaker 1: North Carolina. I want to know about Eddie's kids. Did 716 00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: he pass his tests? Did he get Chris? What's up 717 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,799 Speaker 1: with that? Edie said, if he didn't pass the test, 718 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: no Christmas for him. Of course he got Christmas, dude. 719 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: It's it's a fire that I need to light every 720 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 1: single year, Like I don't know, towards the end of 721 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 1: the year or towards before a big break. He just 722 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 1: gets like, really, I'm tired, I don't really want to work, 723 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 1: so I do something like this and then he gets 724 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,880 Speaker 1: really good grades. Dude, he got really really good grades 725 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 1: on the test, and I need to do that with you. 726 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: What do you mean before we go away for like 727 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 1: summer or Christmas? Take things from you, Eddie. If you 728 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 1: don't do good this last week, it shows there'll be 729 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: no fourth of July. Oh man, no beer for three months. 730 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: Little taste of my own medicine. Yeah, and just see 731 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 1: how you like that. I appreciate that. But yeah, this 732 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 1: kid did awesome. It's pretty cool to see you. Amy's 733 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,839 Speaker 1: pile of stories. So Bobby, how are you doing with 734 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: your drinking water. Well, this is my bottle I've had 735 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 1: for the last three days. It's the big one. This 736 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 1: one is thirty ounces, and I have my next one 737 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: ready to go right after that. It's it's hard because 738 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: I'm not carrying the big jug around and I'm not 739 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 1: keeping myself to a standard of I've got to exactly 740 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 1: do this much. But I'm trying to hit the weight 741 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 1: v body body weight ounces, meaning I'm one sixty eight 742 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: right now, so I need check one hundred and sixty 743 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 1: ounces water to day. It's very hard, but I think 744 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 1: I can do it for a month. Well, a whole 745 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,839 Speaker 1: study was done and new research is showing that the 746 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 1: average person only drinks half of the water they need daily. 747 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: And most people shared that they know they need to 748 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 1: drink more water, but they get too busy or they forget, 749 00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: and some say they would drink more if water tasted better. Yes, 750 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,399 Speaker 1: I was going to say that I wish water takes 751 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 1: like strawberries. That'd be nice. Yeah, So I just or 752 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:40,919 Speaker 1: dipping dots, so I drink a whole lot of water. Yeah. 753 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: I just thought that this new research to be a 754 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,919 Speaker 1: reminder to try to drink the water because it's good 755 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: for your brain, it's good for your body fundamentally, sleeping water. 756 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 1: If you can get that right, everything else is a 757 00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:57,319 Speaker 1: little easier. That's that's basically core strength. If you're thinking about, oh, 758 00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:58,880 Speaker 1: I want to get big arms, big legs, want to 759 00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 1: lose weight, you know, if you just start working at 760 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 1: that core and work your way out. Once you have that, 761 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: everything else is much easier. So I'm trying, I'm not 762 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: good at it. I'm only going for a month and 763 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 1: then I'm back to maybe drinking two swallows a week. 764 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 1: All right. So a woman named Lynette Rincon is trending 765 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok because she posted this, do not invite me 766 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 1: to your wedding or baby shower or house swarming party. 767 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:25,800 Speaker 1: If you don't invite me to movie nights, girls night out, dinner, 768 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: coffee dates, or lunch. Basically, don't invite me to something 769 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,840 Speaker 1: when you want a gift if you're not inviting me 770 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 1: just to hang out. Yeah, yeah, I felt that. She 771 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, oh, she's not bitter. She is she's 772 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,399 Speaker 1: finally had it and she's keeping it real. Okay, she's hurt, 773 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: she knows she's been used for gifts. So she's not coming, 774 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,800 Speaker 1: so don't invite her. You know, here's the thing about me. 775 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,879 Speaker 1: But invite me to everything, but don't expect me to come. 776 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:54,240 Speaker 1: And understand that if you don't invite me, my feelings 777 00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: are going to be hurt. But also don't have your 778 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: feelings that are when I never come right. I've been 779 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 1: through this, Okay, what else? Shane Mooney shared a clip 780 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 1: of himself with an acoustic guitar singing a little bit 781 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:23,280 Speaker 1: of a Dell's someone like You and it's amazing fine. 782 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,839 Speaker 1: It doesn't shy away from a single note. And usually people, 783 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 1: even if they do a Dell really well, they don't 784 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,360 Speaker 1: chase every part of it. And I thought, is he 785 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 1: gonna go for that? He did? He went for it. Yeah, 786 00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:39,399 Speaker 1: I think that guy's got a future. That's my pile. 787 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 1: That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the 788 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 1: good news. Vincent Basil, he's an er doctor in Philadelphia 789 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 1: and he was part of the Mummer's Parade. Do you 790 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 1: know what that is? It's a parade where people just 791 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 1: dress up in like vibrant colors, rainbows everywhere, and they dance. 792 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: But he was doing that, so he was dressing a 793 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 1: pink dress, and then he was going to go to 794 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: the Philadelphia Eagles game right after that. He goes to 795 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 1: the game in his dress, and he's a doctor and 796 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: he sees somebody's like, that's weird. That guy is like 797 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: on the ground and it looks like his face is 798 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: kind of not right. It is the color is our right, 799 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,919 Speaker 1: So he goes over there. There's already a nurse working 800 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 1: on him because yeah, he passed out. His face is blue. 801 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: So they both start conducting CPR. The guy regains consciousness, 802 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 1: like after two or three seconds, he's up, and the reaction, 803 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 1: he said, from the guy was amazing. Here's an audio clip. 804 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: She kind of hits me on the shoulder and says, hey, 805 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 1: there's like this guy laying down the ground over there. 806 00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:35,719 Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, you know, a guy in a 807 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: pink dress is running up next to me. I say, hey, 808 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 1: I know I don't look like it, but like, I'm 809 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,919 Speaker 1: an emergency medicine doctor. He looked at me, he said, 810 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: stark compressions until they get an ad here. So I doubts. 811 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,720 Speaker 1: The first thing you expect to see is a mummer 812 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: with face paint on, wearing like maiperglasses and all that stuff. Good, 813 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 1: good time, I mean his right place, right time. Yeah, 814 00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 1: that was down and he said the first thing the 815 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: guy said when he regaining conscious with what's the score 816 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,799 Speaker 1: of the Eagles game? Eagles, he punched them in the face. 817 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 1: Beca that's what Philadelphia fans do. Yes, thank you. Great story. 818 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 1: That is what it's all about. That was telling me 819 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 1: something good.