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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glizer Podcastser here's Nikki. Hello here, I am

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. It's Nicky Glazer Podcast. I'm here

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Speaker 1: in Saint Louis in studio with Ma Mama.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Hi, my god, thanks for having me back.

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Speaker 1: I love having you on. Like it's fun to hang.

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Speaker 1: Podcasts are hangs, you know, it's really fun. Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 1: You're good at it. You're chill, well, not trying anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying because you get what you get.

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Speaker 1: You get what you get. I just don't know what

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Speaker 1: that's about brushing to people when you don't you don't

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Speaker 1: put on any kind of artifice.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how to do that anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen you put it on. You can put

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Speaker 1: it on.

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Speaker 2: No, I really don't know. I don't get nervous anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's so great. It's really I've knocked it

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Speaker 1: out of you. Thank you, because you used to get

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Speaker 1: nervous and go, I'm what am I going to say?

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Speaker 1: You stop the self doubt thing of like no one

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Speaker 1: wants to hear me well, and I always just say, well,

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Speaker 1: do you just trust me that I'm not doing this

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Speaker 1: out of charity?

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Speaker 2: No, you've said that, and I'm so grateful because you're like,

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Speaker 2: I do not question if I didn't think you were

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Speaker 2: any good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to make things that are listenable. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: and if you held me back in any way and

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Speaker 1: made me talk differently, I wouldn't like it for my listeners. Well,

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Speaker 1: thanks for it, but I feel more free. This is great,

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Speaker 1: This is just great. Okay, So moms here, things are

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Speaker 1: going great over here. Brian Frandie's here, Noah's here. What's up, guys?

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Speaker 3: How are you Podcasts supporting comedians' mental health since twenty sixteen?

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Speaker 3: Without podcasts, there are so many comedian friends who would

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Speaker 3: not know anything about each other or hang out.

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Speaker 4: Ever.

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Speaker 1: What the comedians do before podcasts?

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Speaker 3: They got drunk at the bar after shows. But other

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Speaker 3: than that, there were no hangs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there were hangs.

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Speaker 1: Well, I've talked to actually some conduring the day there

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Speaker 1: were hangs after shows. Comedians don't hang out anymore. I

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Speaker 1: guess in New York they're still doing it. But in

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Speaker 1: LA there's not really that many hangs happening. And if

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Speaker 1: there are, they only talk. We don't talk about jokes,

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Speaker 1: which I've never liked really talking about jokes. Ever since

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Speaker 1: I was like five years into comedy, I've just been like, stop.

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Speaker 2: Waiting and you give them away, right, No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: That's not No one's stealing jokes. That's not a thing

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Speaker 1: you worry about that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 2: I kind of do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom hides jewelry because and forgets where she

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Speaker 1: even hides it. She's like a little squirrel. Do you

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Speaker 1: know that squirrels like half the nuts they hide, they

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Speaker 1: don't remember.

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Speaker 2: Where they Yeah, I have found them in my garage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's when you're looking for your jewels in the

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Speaker 1: garage hard. Yeah. But now that Yeah, they're not talking

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Speaker 1: about jokes anymore. They're not talking about you know, they're

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Speaker 1: just talking about algorithms, and I just I just can't

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Speaker 1: take an or views or this guy's getting this. I

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Speaker 1: mean we've always been complaining about who's getting what and

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Speaker 1: why are hurt? But yes, the views and.

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Speaker 3: The algas social it's just a curse, curs a thing.

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Speaker 1: I heard that on TikTok because I was talking to

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Speaker 1: someone who knows their way around this stuff. If you

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Speaker 1: have like a video that you've clipped that you've made

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Speaker 1: for TikTok, right, and you're like I'm gonna put this

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Speaker 1: on TikTok. It's behooves you and the algorithm to then

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Speaker 1: use the TikTok editing software within it, like make your

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Speaker 1: clip a little bit longer. So if you because TikTok

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Speaker 1: will know if you used its software to edit, and

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Speaker 1: it likes videos that you are using the app to

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Speaker 1: edit as opposed to using something else to edit. So

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Speaker 1: put on a little extra time when you're editing the

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Speaker 1: clip outside of TikTok, take it off within the TikTok app,

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Speaker 1: so that TikTok thinks, oh, they made this in here,

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Speaker 1: and then they'll give it more views. And companies do

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Speaker 1: this thing where everyone within a social media company that

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Speaker 1: works for one you know, will when they post for

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Speaker 1: a client, they'll tell all of their employees, hey, comment

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Speaker 1: on this post because if it gets lots of if

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Speaker 1: it will double the amount of views it gets.

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Speaker 3: Fuck TikTok. I can't wait. I hope it gets banned.

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Speaker 1: Isn't it getting banned? I disagree with anything about the band.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how to.

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Speaker 3: Congress past to ban TikTok, to pass the bill to

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Speaker 3: ban TikTok because of Chinese.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, they're stealing your information because.

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Speaker 1: That it's melting people's brains and making young girls kill themselves.

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Speaker 4: No, it's it's that too. It's because they trace all

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Speaker 4: of the steps that you take on your phone and

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Speaker 4: they start studying people and then it influences thestagram.

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Are they not stealing data?

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Speaker 3: We can all trust? He's fine, he's an American, a

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Speaker 3: colt America is a white blooded American male.

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Speaker 1: And thought they were banning TikTok because it's about the naive.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was because they are concerned about people's

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Speaker 1: mental health.

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Speaker 2: No, they're not Chinese.

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Speaker 1: That's what I believe that Ikea was cutting their costs

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Speaker 1: because they cared about the consumer.

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Speaker 3: Congress was upset that Matt Raife blew up so much,

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Speaker 3: and so they said, we have to do something about this.

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Speaker 1: It's why is this an issue now? Like, wasn't this

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Speaker 1: the big issue when it first came out? Everyone was like,

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Speaker 1: the it's fine, we don't care, it's too entertaining.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's legally perilous to say that a company must divest,

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Speaker 3: like the government forcing a company divest, But The argument

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Speaker 3: is that the Byte Dance, which owns TikTok, is going

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Speaker 3: to sell all of or give all of Americans data

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Speaker 3: to the Chinese government upon request because they can't say

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Speaker 3: no because they're a Chinese company under the brutal Chinese regime,

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Speaker 3: and they're going to use that information to spread propaganda.

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Speaker 3: And don't they.

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Speaker 1: Already have all the data they've gotten so far, Like

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Speaker 1: even if we banned it right now, it just means

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Speaker 1: not more data. It doesn't mean they have to give

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Speaker 1: back the data they've already collected. Right enough, they'd be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're good, we're so far.

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Speaker 3: They said that they're not giving up any data to

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Speaker 3: the government. But you know, I mean, like if you.

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Speaker 1: Banned it right now and then the Chinese there's still people,

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Speaker 1: they would still have it.

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Speaker 4: Like I don't have TikTok, so like they would still

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Speaker 4: want my information, I.

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Speaker 1: Know, but they're not going to You're not going on

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Speaker 1: anytime soon. Like I feel like everyone who's on TikTok

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Speaker 1: That's what it is.

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Speaker 4: New new customers.

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Speaker 1: You know, the world is ending in like twenty years anyway,

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Speaker 1: who cares how it all goes down? That would you

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Speaker 1: not quit saying it? Because I'm not gonna quit. I

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Speaker 1: just think it's so insane that anyone thinks things are

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Speaker 1: gonna be okay.

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Speaker 2: There's hope where you just have to have that hope.

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Speaker 2: It's like faith, you just have to have.

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Speaker 1: It so blind blind help with no science behind it,

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Speaker 1: except all the science is really just thought that though,

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Speaker 1: like for so happens, but I go, someone's got to

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Speaker 1: be right at some point, and also you know, like

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Speaker 1: someone will be right. We're not gonna be around forever.

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Speaker 1: But things are seemed really I mean, I haven't been

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Speaker 1: around when people said it before, but it doesn't seem well,

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Speaker 1: we don't have winters anymore. Everyone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's fine. It's incredibly narcissistic to think that

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Speaker 3: where the ones that are going to experience the apocalypse,

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Speaker 3: you know, gonna be right. It's probably not gonna be Yes,

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Speaker 3: it probably gonna be a few generations from now. I

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Speaker 3: mean we're not we might have like, oh no it's

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Speaker 3: a little hot in New York in October.

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Speaker 1: They're already there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is, we're gonna have that we're gonna be uncomfortable,

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Speaker 3: but that's not the apocalypse, all right, all right.

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Speaker 1: I just know my building did not have hot water

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Speaker 1: last week and I got a little taste of what's.

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Speaker 2: The whole building?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for a couple of days, and I was just like,

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Speaker 1: what would this be like?

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Speaker 2: They you mean everyone would have their own water heater

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Speaker 1: Are you being facetious?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm being serious. I guess sounds crazy that one

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Speaker 1: So something was going on with it. So we didn't

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Speaker 1: have hot water, which I did not care about. I

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Speaker 1: was very understanding about things happened, deal with it.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't take a shower, no shower.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I didn't do sink sink shower. I did

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Speaker 1: a little of that, but I think it didn't boil

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Speaker 1: one day because it was Yeah, I just didn't care.

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna be sinky for one day. And

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Speaker 1: I've discovered this new deodorant that makes you truly odorless, odorless.

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Speaker 1: It's natural. It's called Purely Great. Chris discovered it wore

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Speaker 1: a little jar your on Amazon. Purely Great. It's charcoal

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Speaker 1: and you have to it has comes with a ladle

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Speaker 1: and you have to put the ladle in and you

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Speaker 1: stir it and then you put it on your armpit

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Speaker 1: and then you have to rub it in with your fingers.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not joking. You odorless, Yeah, you don't stink

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Speaker 1: for like two days.

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Speaker 3: I don't trust that. Wow, I don't trust the charcoal trend.

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Speaker 3: I don't get you try to ban it. I would

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Speaker 3: think that that Biden should ban charcoal. There's like charcoal soap.

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Speaker 3: Now there's charcoal toothpaste. Why all of a sudden, are

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Speaker 3: we like, oh, charcoal is safe for you? It's black.

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Speaker 4: Isn't a real charcoal like from the grill?

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Speaker 1: Or is it something else? Well? Is better than an

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Speaker 1: aluminum which has been proven to cause cancer in your armpits?

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Speaker 3: Like it's yes, Well, we just haven't done the studies.

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Speaker 3: We haven't done this. A little bit of natural it's

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Speaker 3: it's a periodic element.

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Speaker 1: Well, I was talking to someone this weekend about smoking

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Speaker 1: weed and how we used to just smoke it out

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Speaker 1: of pens and oh god, pipes, sugar free, sugar free

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Speaker 1: red bull cans, and you would just light aluminum on

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Speaker 1: it on fire and then breathing. Im, no, but there's plastic.

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Speaker 1: Do you think anyone should burn plastic? And then inhale

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Speaker 1: it no deeply, like no, it's it's just so insane.

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Speaker 1: She says no, and then I mean no o COVID.

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Speaker 1: I was smoking out of this like rubber pipe that

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Speaker 1: I got from Amazon, because.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember this the one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't use that if you ever find it in

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Speaker 1: your house, okay, because I left it there, but it

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Speaker 1: is I don't know that's rubber. You're burning plastic, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're breathing. But I got it because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm just tired of breaking things. Oh and I just

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Speaker 1: you could it could tip over, and I'm just a

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Speaker 1: clumsy person, so things are always shattering. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just got like, but I've told the story before, but

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Speaker 1: I smoked weed with someone out of a surfree red

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Speaker 1: I'm a little passive aggressive bitch. But Dad wants to.

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Speaker 3: Put a sign that says happy Saint Patrick's Day.

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Speaker 1: I want you to guess what my dad wants to

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Speaker 1: Rapist is a rapist? He wants to have that or

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Speaker 1: prove they would know who we put that. It's just

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Speaker 1: I really like it when Dad told me that he

435
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Speaker 1: wanted to do that. He's not going to, but it

436
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 1: made me feel like Dad takes after me a little bit.

437
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,120
Speaker 1: Like Dad's learned would.

438
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Speaker 2: Say go ahead, he'd be oh, thank god, he would

439
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:57,760
Speaker 2: order it. He's anti Trump, right, he's I'm not letting

440
00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:59,199
Speaker 2: him celebrating this.

441
00:20:59,240 --> 00:20:59,880
Speaker 1: He wants people to.

442
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 2: Want everyone you can do what you want.

443
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: So that's I couldn't even I asked for Dad's Trump

444
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: thought of the Day, like I used to a couple

445
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 1: of weeks ago, and he had. He told me that,

446
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 1: and I couldn't post it on my stories because I

447
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to get you will be

448
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 1: flagged for something. This is this is too scary to me.

449
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 1: But Dad's insane.

450
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 2: We're doing it and we can't do it.

451
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: No, you're not going to. You absolutely cannot do that.

452
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,880
Speaker 1: I care for my home, I care for your safety.

453
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 1: I care for those jewels that are hidden that you'll

454
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 1: never find even after down.

455
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I might find him.

456
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 1: So I the best thing happened to me this morning ever,

457
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: and I think everyone can agree that this is the

458
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: greatest when this happens. So, yes, I I'm trying out

459
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 1: new like workouts around my area because now I'm fit

460
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 1: and I feel like I can finally like enter into

461
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: places where there's classes because now I can like not

462
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,200
Speaker 1: be the worst one in there. So so I sign

463
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 1: up for this place near me. I'm not going to

464
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: say the name of it. I probably will at some point,

465
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: but I was going. I signed up for an eight

466
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Speaker 1: am class, which who you? Who made that?

467
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 2: Girl? I'll say, get up and go.

468
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: And there's something in me that when I make a

469
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Speaker 1: plan to go to my workout class later in the week,

470
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 1: it's I'm like, it's because it's most likely i'll go.

471
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 1: There's an eighty percent chance i'll go, So it means

472
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: I've done it. There's like an achievement in setting setting

473
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Speaker 1: the calendar to do it. Okay, So I did that.

474
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Speaker 1: I woke up at seven eight breakfast really bleary eyed.

475
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even have time to get coffee.

476
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Speaker 1: By the time I was ready to go, I was like,

477
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Speaker 1: I'm just going down. I went down. It's within walking

478
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Speaker 1: of my building. So I walk in at seven point

479
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Speaker 1: fifty nine boom, ready to go. I'm new it's my

480
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: first time here. And she was like, oh, then you

481
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 1: got an email telling you you need to come like

482
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Speaker 1: twenty minutes early to learn the equipment. And I go,

483
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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I do know that I need to

484
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Speaker 1: do that. Why didn't I think of that. I'm so sorry?

485
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Speaker 1: And I go and she goes, oh, well maybe we can.

486
00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 1: I go, you should, I should probably come back another time, right,

487
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 1: and she was like yeah, And so I didn't have

488
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Speaker 1: to work out because even though I.

489
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Speaker 4: Would have, and you showed up, so it's not like

490
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 4: you maybe go in for you and then you didn't.

491
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 4: You were a no show.

492
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Speaker 1: Yes, and so she and she was really kind and

493
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 1: was like, and I won't charge you for this one

494
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Speaker 1: because I bought three sessions for fifty bucks that I

495
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Speaker 1: have to do within two weeks period. Good deal.

496
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you bet you are.

497
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Speaker 1: But she she said, well, we won't take that class

498
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Speaker 1: off her. She was like, you're you're good. We'll throw

499
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Speaker 1: it back on and I was like, that is so nice.

500
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: So I triumphantly didn't have to go to a class

501
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: that I thought I would have to go to. But

502
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Speaker 1: what is it. It's like pilates but like hard. Oh

503
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: it's a class where it's like it's it's a well,

504
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Speaker 1: let me tell you. I went to another class last

505
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Speaker 1: night because I am experimenting. I went to my first

506
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Speaker 1: Orange Theory. Oh yeah, Brian, have you been.

507
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 3: No, never to Orange Theory?

508
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: But uh, do you know about it?

509
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah? Isn't the theory that he's a rapist?

510
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: You're that's his Yeah, that's his theory.

511
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: I did not know much about this class. I walk

512
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: by it all the time because there's one near my apartment,

513
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: and I see people coming in and out and looking

514
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: really triumphant and like there's like a camaraderie I sense

515
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: going on in there. So I, you know, I just

516
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: was like, I signed up for it, and I went

517
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 1: last night, and I got there early enough to like

518
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 1: learn the basics. They were so nice. They so what

519
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: you do is you put an armband on and it

520
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: does your heart rate, and then throughout the class you're

521
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: on a screen with a bunch of other people and

522
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 1: their heart rates are up and their calories and their

523
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: levels of energy percentage of energy. That is, so you're

524
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 1: trying to get in this zone, the orange zone, which

525
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: is why it's orange theory. And now there's also a

526
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 1: red zone, and so you always want to be you

527
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: don't want to be in the red The red zone

528
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 1: is when you're no, you want to be in it

529
00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: a little bit, but then you want to go back

530
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Speaker 1: to to the orange.

531
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Speaker 3: It's too much exertion. Red zone.

532
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 1: No red zone is good. It's like when you're doing sprints,

533
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: but you shouldn't stay there. And where you're gonna burn

534
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: fat based on their theory is like in the orange

535
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: zone where you've recover. You're recovering out of the red zone,

536
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,479
Speaker 1: but you're not totally like just limp, you know, like

537
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: you're still giving effort. We all know this, like interval

538
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: training and stuff. So maybe we don't all know this,

539
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: but sure three out of four of us know this.

540
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: So I but it was it's so fucking confusing Orange theory.

541
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 1: I went there in time, but it was just there.

542
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: There's too much going on. But I will say that

543
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: if you are someone who is looking for community, is

544
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 1: looking for friends, is looking to have enthusiasm in their

545
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: life and goal setting and mild competitiveness with like a

546
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: flirty theater camp vibe. Orange theory is for you if

547
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: you went to theater camp and you don't do theater anymore,

548
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: but you miss that dorky camaraderie that you got from

549
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: doing theater. I'm it is so which I loved. I

550
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: loved that part of their I was a dork, Like

551
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 1: I'm a dork now. Being a swifty is kind of

552
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: being a dork, like just being obsessed with something and

553
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 1: like having the secret language like you're a dork and

554
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: I mean that lovingly.

555
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 2: Wow.

556
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: But Orange theory.

557
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,959
Speaker 4: Is for people's trying to lot of that out, like

558
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 4: in a lot of group workout or like some kind

559
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 4: of like gym stuff. I know what happens in jiu jitsu,

560
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 4: and I feel like it probably happens in CrossFit a lot.

561
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: Yes, it felt like CrossFit to me. I don't know

562
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 1: anything about CrossFit, but it felt like that's the closest

563
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 1: I felt to it of this like group of people

564
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: who all kind of knew each other. There was like

565
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: a challenge yesterday to do the mile run who could

566
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: do it the fastest, and everyone was supportive, but like

567
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: there was a kind of a competition going on between

568
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: two guys that I could see that I thought thought

569
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: was very interesting. And then but there was a lot

570
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: of like go go go and support and like if

571
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Speaker 1: I was someone who lacked friends and felt like that

572
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: I spent too much time alone and I didn't have

573
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 1: a community, I would have won one hundred percent be

574
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: so into orange theory.

575
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: Wait, man, are you on a treadmill trying to.

576
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: So it's treadmill, it's floor weights, and it's rowing machine.

577
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: So you just jump from one to the other and

578
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: they kind of instruct you as you go what to

579
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: do and you run around. My problem is I sorry,

580
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,239
Speaker 1: I have been training with Pilates, with an instructor who

581
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: are like some of the best instructors in the world.

582
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: They've trained all over the world to come back to

583
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: Saint Louis to open the premiere Pilates gym, and it

584
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: is and I forget the name of it. Now, why

585
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,199
Speaker 1: do I always forget what It's called? Ploate's Lab. Sorry,

586
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: I know they're listening. Pilate's Lab is they don't give

587
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: me a discount. This is not a paid advertisement, but

588
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: Plotti's Lab is like there they do classical plates, so

589
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: it is like the way Joseph Pilates designed it. And

590
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 1: my body is being studied constantly. If I'm doing a

591
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 1: rep of anything, it's like, okay, well you need to

592
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: suck in your aps. Now you your big toe, put

593
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: your big toe down, Like, can you imagine a workout

594
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: where people are assessing your pinky toe is not in

595
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,199
Speaker 1: the place that should be when you're doing an arm workout.

596
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 1: This is the level of precision and detail that I'm

597
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: learning and ploties. So I go over to Orange Theory

598
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 1: and they're like, now, do a plank push up. But

599
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: then you know, just you know, you do a plank

600
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: on one of like the on the ground, and then

601
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: you take a weight and you do like this while

602
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: you're in the plank and my lips are flying everywhere

603
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: and my shoulders popping out of the socket. I have

604
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: horrible form. My butt's right up in the air. I'm piking.

605
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: There's no there's no plank and no one's no one's

606
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: gonna say you're just on your own. It's better than

607
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: nothing like there's it's certainly better to have bad form

608
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: and to do the exercise then to do nothing, but

609
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: I cannot be held accountable to have good form. And

610
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: that is why I'm sending my mom to personal training

611
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: three times a week. I just got her, my dad

612
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: and her a gym membership yesterday for a year.

613
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Thank you Nick and personal trainers.

614
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: And I'm kidding. I'm a person train her three times

615
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: a week because I want her to get an elderly woman.

616
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: You need to have muscle or you're gonna die. Bones

617
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: are deteriorating. Yes, yeah, so you need muscle. So my

618
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: mom's gonna go to a trainer. And she keeps saying can't.

619
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: I just go a couple of times and they teach

620
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: me the ropes and I go no, because you won't.

621
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: You won't stick to it.

622
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: You're formally will though. I don't want you wasted, but

623
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: you'll stick.

624
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: You'll do the exercise, but your form will be bad

625
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: unless you have someone watching you. Ow.

626
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: I do need to know how to do this.

627
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: Brian, Do you agree? Like? How do you you work

628
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: out on your own? And I know that most people

629
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: can't afford what I'm talking about, and I'm so grateful

630
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: that I'm able to have someone moderating the bonny every

631
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: second but what do you have trouble keeping good form

632
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: when you're doing your stuff? How do you stay up

633
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: with it?

634
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 3: Well, I just want to say, if wasting money is

635
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: the concern, then think about all the money that'll be

636
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 3: wasted when you need to get one of those chairs

637
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 3: installed on your staircase that automatically goes up right, or

638
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: bring the groceries.

639
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: In toilet next to my bed.

640
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally be a decade of save money if you

641
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 3: just work out.

642
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 2: I do know that Nikki.

643
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: I always say to her, she goes, it's too much money,

644
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: and I go, I would pay. I would give up

645
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: ninety percent of my income if it meant you were

646
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: going to live ten more years? Is that I will

647
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: saying high? But who wouldn't do that for their mom

648
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: to keep their mom around? If they like their mom?

649
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 2: I will if you're.

650
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: Good on the podcast, that means the hell. But I

651
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Speaker 1: want to know that.

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Speaker 3: So this is clo It's not even and I would

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Speaker 3: definitely doubt. I would definitely give up five hundred dollars

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Speaker 3: to keep my mom alive for tens No, I mean

655
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Speaker 3: like I.

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Speaker 1: Would if I could more and survive comfortably, I would

657
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Speaker 1: give up all my money to save my parents to

658
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Speaker 1: have my parents around ten more years, and that is

659
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Speaker 1: what having them do do strength exercises will do. Well.

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Speaker 2: I'm really excited. I need some upper body strength for sure,

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Speaker 2: I'm really.

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Speaker 1: But this doesn't mean you should be lifting anything. I

663
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Speaker 1: don't want you to get I still want you to

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Speaker 1: hire people to lift things for you. That's another thing

665
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Speaker 1: I need to do.

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Speaker 2: But move you know.

667
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Speaker 1: I need to get you a gift certificate to Craigslist

668
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Speaker 1: to just come over and pick up things for you.

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Speaker 2: I could save you a bunch of money, Nikki.

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Speaker 1: I can do it. I'm not paying that guy fifty

671
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: bucks to come over here and hang this. I can

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Speaker 1: do this. Brian, how do you keep form on when

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Speaker 1: you do your Tom Brady workouts?

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Speaker 3: Well, I worked at a gym when I was in

675
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Speaker 3: high school, and I went to see personal trainers sometimes,

676
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 3: so I feel like I can't. Obviously it's not like pilates,

677
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 3: but I feel like I'm pretty good at looking in

678
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Speaker 3: the mirror and assessing my own form as I go.

679
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,479
Speaker 3: You probably are, yeah, but it's obviously it's not perfect.

680
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Speaker 3: And even if you know what your correct form is,

681
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Speaker 3: it doesn't necessarily mean you're doing it right. Well, I followly.

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Speaker 1: Now Instagram's serving up all of these reels of girls

683
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Speaker 1: with amazing asses teaching me how to do the Russian

684
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Speaker 1: squat or whatever it is to get the best butt. Okay,

685
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 1: because there's like so many different muscles in your butt,

686
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: and to get the ones that lift your butt, you

687
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Speaker 1: have to do these really weird exercises where you put

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Speaker 1: one foot up and then you I don't even understand it,

689
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: but they all criticize each other about like the form

690
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: and the form I and they go, look at this form,

691
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: this is not right. Now this is the right form,

692
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: and you could get involved with I could never tell

693
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: the difference between these two things, kidding, And it's so

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Speaker 1: especially intuitive.

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Speaker 3: The other people who don't even agree on what the

696
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Speaker 3: right form is. Yeah a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's girls everywhere, and I think the right form

698
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Speaker 1: is filling out a form at a med spot where

699
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: you get things injected and ass to make yourself out

700
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Speaker 1: or sucked out of your stomach and then put in

701
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Speaker 1: your butt. Not everyone's doing it, but like I, I

702
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Speaker 1: just it just would never occur to me that some

703
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Speaker 1: of the stuff just you just have to tense your

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Speaker 1: whole body all the time. I my God, I've talked

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Speaker 1: about it enough. I'm just and I have Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: it's my life right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited about going today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But if you if you want community, join Orange Theory. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I did run a seven thirty nine mile, which I

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Speaker 1: was really proud of it. Forever.

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Speaker 3: It's not bad?

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Speaker 1: Was that more than everyone said? No, there was a

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Speaker 1: guy that ran like a six twenty something seven seven

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Speaker 1: thirty nine, whoa yeah, And there was oh shout out

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Speaker 1: to the girl who's an instructor there that was like

716
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Speaker 1: helping me throughout the whole class and telling me what

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Speaker 1: to do because I could not understand what the next

718
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Speaker 1: step was. And then I started going rogue and doing

719
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Speaker 1: my own thing. So they wanted me to go back

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Speaker 1: to the rower, but I was like, the rower doesn't

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Speaker 1: make sense to me. I have bad form, I know

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Speaker 1: I do. I'm never gonna get this, so I'm just

723
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Speaker 1: gonna stay on the treadmill and do my own thing.

724
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Speaker 1: And then at the end, we were all stretching and

725
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Speaker 1: I just didn't feel like being on the ground. It

726
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Speaker 1: just looked felt dirty to me. So I just left early,

727
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Speaker 1: and they did say we're gonna all get a picture afterwards,

728
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Speaker 1: and so I ducked out of that picture they wanted.

729
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Speaker 1: There was a part of me that did want to

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Speaker 1: be in the picture. Oh yeah, I mean, wait, good

731
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Speaker 1: is that picture? But it's no good? But it's what

732
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Speaker 1: it does is it makes people feel like they're a

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Speaker 1: part of something. We just all accomplished this thing. Like

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Speaker 1: when you go into the class, you high five the

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Speaker 1: guy on the way. Do they do it every class?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It was a special day. They were like,

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Speaker 1: you came on a special day. No no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: okay they did it. I saw them take a picture

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Speaker 1: of the class before mine. Oh okay, No, it wasn't that. Okay.

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Speaker 4: It's like a sticker that you get at the end.

741
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, an achievement sticker, little star. It does feel good

742
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Speaker 1: when you look up and you see all your stats.

743
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Speaker 1: But I gotta say I kind of know what calories

744
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Speaker 1: are and like how you burn them and how much

745
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Speaker 1: you're burning and right, how much have their numbers are

746
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Speaker 1: a little wonky. It's like a skinny mirror.

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Speaker 2: Are they on the low end or no?

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Speaker 1: They're trying to make you feel like you did you

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Speaker 1: burned twelve hundred calories.

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Speaker 3: But taking our class.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I saw a couple of people in the class

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Speaker 1: before me burn like eight hundred calories and I go, no,

753
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Speaker 1: they there's were they here for three hours?

754
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: Non stop? Like I just I call BS on that,

756
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Speaker 1: but I do. It's still a good workout. It was fun.

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Speaker 1: Will I be back? No, because I don't.

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Speaker 2: I wondered if you'd go there because it's so well.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't. I think I'll be back because

760
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: I just felt too sloppy in my in my own

761
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,720
Speaker 1: workout I did, I felt like I'm gonna get injured.

762
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Speaker 1: But I think it would be good for someone, It

763
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Speaker 1: would be good for I just know too much now,

764
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Speaker 1: And that's no disrespect to anyone who's gone. I think

765
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Speaker 1: it actually is a really fun thing to do.

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Speaker 3: Just a little too lase fair for me.

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Speaker 1: It is because I just can't be trusted. I have

768
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Speaker 1: bad posture, I've got really flexible joints. Things are just

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Speaker 1: willy nilly. I've got no ass, and if you try

770
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Speaker 1: to make me work my ass, every other muscle in

771
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Speaker 1: my body will start working before that ass. Wow, Like

772
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Speaker 1: it's I don't even know what my ass muscle feels like,

773
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,240
Speaker 1: Like I don't even know how to clench it a squat.

774
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: You can't feel your but I feel I feel like

775
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: the sides of my butt, but that inner up the

776
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 1: up the rear but part like now I can feel

777
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: it because I've done plates. Yeah, but before I had

778
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: no fucking clue. And yeah, it's just like I'm I'm

779
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: not really in touch with my feelings in my body.

780
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 1: Like that's why I was going to this somatic therapist

781
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: lady for a while to be like, how does that

782
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: feel in your body? And I'd go, I don't know

783
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: what people feel things in their body when they're angry. Where, yeah,

784
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: where do you What do you feel when you're like

785
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: feeling angry? Do you feel it? Oh? You? Noah's pointing

786
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Speaker 1: to her solar plexus.

787
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Speaker 2: That's where I feel mine too.

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00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: And then I get a rush in my face? Are

789
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: you a rush in your face? And my like so

790
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: when you get.

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00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 2: Angry, I think that's where it all goes right in here,

792
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: it heats something.

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00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 4: It's like a heater furnace, Bryan.

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00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also my head a little bit like I'll

795
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 3: I'll get a little uh like foggy in the head

796
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 3: and I'll get in the chest tightness and yeah, blood

797
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 3: pressure is going up. That's what that means.

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Speaker 1: Dude. I am like this girl Heidi Pleab, who I've

799
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 1: been following on YouTube, who I talked about last week.

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00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm not joking you. I'm you if you're interested in

801
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: self help and getting better and fixing the things about

802
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: you that are like undercurrents are kind of fucking up

803
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: your life in pattern ways. She is unlocking some shit.

804
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: Last night I listened to this talk get this. So

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00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: when you so, okay, do you subscribe to No? No,

806
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: that's off. I mean you probably don't have YouTube premium,

807
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: so you're gonna watch some ads.

808
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 3: But that's fine.

809
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,760
Speaker 1: I have you. There's ads for you, right yeah, okay,

810
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: so it's free, but you just gotta watch it.

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Speaker 2: Got okay.

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00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 1: So there's this thing called limerence. Do you guys know

813
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: what limerence is.

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00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 3: I've heard that word. I don't remember what it means.

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00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: Its catchy little lowing my mind, a limerick. I thought it.

816
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: Sorry to let you finish your joke. Limerence is when

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00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: it's an obsessive it's usually romantic, a romantic feeling, but

818
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be. And it's when you have

819
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: like an obsessive desire to win over or like you're

820
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: in love. It feels like being in love. It feels

821
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: like the beginning of a relationship, like think Pete Davidson,

822
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: Ariana Grande, like all obsessed with each other, all over

823
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: each other, sustainable obsession phase. Yeah, but a lot of

824
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: times people have it when the other person doesn't reciprocate.

825
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: So it's like before before you eat, like you might

826
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: have a crush on someone. It feels like a crush.

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Speaker 1: But the difference between a crush and Limerens from what

828
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Speaker 1: she says, is the obsessiveness. So if you're someone like me,

829
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: who if you have a crush on someone, you like

830
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: to like close your eyes and think about what it

831
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: would be like to be with them, and like you

832
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 1: like let your mind if you are stuck in fantasy

833
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: about anyone, either romantically or like how a job is

834
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: gonna go or how, oh my god, I'm getting to

835
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Speaker 1: see my parents this weekend, how our weekend is gonna go,

836
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: and it never ends up matching what you imagine it

837
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: to be, and you kind of get high on this

838
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: kind of supply of fantasizing if you relate to this,

839
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: which I so relate to this so much. One of

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Speaker 1: My favorite things is when I would used to have

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00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: a crush when I was single, and I would see

842
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: the potential and I would just go on a plane.

843
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: My favorite thing would be being on a plane listening

844
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: to music that made me think about the crush, and

845
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: then thinking about things that were gonna happen in our.

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Speaker 4: Already married like and just just because you had a

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00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 4: good interaction.

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00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, like not yes and married but not. I wouldn't

849
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: even go that far. I would go to like when

850
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: he finally decides to show up at my door, and

851
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: then what that looks like, and then we go to

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00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: dinner after that, and then after that we go and

853
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 1: we watch a movie like and just thinking of the

854
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: warmth that I would feel inside that this person is

855
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: so perfect for me and we're getting along in all

856
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: these ways that I've never even gotten along with someone before,

857
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: and it never ever matches up because there's no one

858
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: like that out there. Well, what it does is it

859
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: which I did not know. I always just thought it's fantasy. Like,

860
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: I know it's fantasy. I know that I'm exaggerating this

861
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: person's personality to be perfect. But what it does is

862
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: it makes it so you can never really have a

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00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: good relationship with that person, because when you are with them,

864
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: you will always be disappointed. You were always waiting for

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00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: this other person to show up. You cannot be present

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Speaker 1: with them because you're actually you end up. She even

867
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: talks about in a relationship she was in, she had

868
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: so much limerence for this person. She had fantasized about

869
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: what they would be like. When she would be around him,

870
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 1: she would be so disappointed that she would like, couldn't

871
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: wait till it was over and she could go back

872
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: to her fantasy of him. So she couldn't even enjoy

873
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: being with him because she was like enjoying the fantasy

874
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: part of it more, but she needed to keep seeing

875
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: him in order to keep the fantasy going. So we

876
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: do this a lot, not even just in like romantic relationships.

877
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: We even do it with what you're supposed to do.

878
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: So you don't have limerens, which is just you know,

879
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 1: you tell me a lie about yourself. Yeah, you don't

880
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: want limerens because it sets you up for failure. It

881
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: makes it so you don't actually ever hear that person.

882
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: And really love is understanding and understanding is love. So

883
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 1: if you don't ever put yourself in a position to

884
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: understand someone else's point of view, or you don't try to,

885
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: like just accept them for who they are, and you're

886
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: always envisioning this version of them in your head that

887
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: is so perfect. You are going to fail them. They

888
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 1: will not feel seen, they will withdraw, and they will

889
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 1: not be attracted to you, and you won't get what

890
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: you want because you are people have done it to you.

891
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: Probably I was thinking, oh my god, people have done

892
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: this to me before, where I get to know a

893
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: guy who I can tell has had a lot of

894
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: fantasies about me in his head, and then I feel like,

895
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't live up to this. I

896
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: start to feel that way. Then I get insecure, but

897
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: then I always walk away from it, being like, man,

898
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: they just want it. They they I couldn't. I'm not

899
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 1: as good as they. I'm not good enough. I'm not

900
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: good enough for that because they seem to think I'm

901
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: something else. And then so you're doing that to people

902
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,879
Speaker 1: if you ever fantasize. So I've had to stop these

903
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: little little trips I take in my head almost on

904
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: a dime, and not even romantically. I mean, like I've

905
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: been doing some visualization about this big thing I have

906
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 1: coming up where I'm like, I imagine myself fucking killing

907
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: and just and and that's different because I think, because

908
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: I struggle with, Okay, what's manifestation and then what's fantasy?

909
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: Why are those different? Because manifesting is like living as

910
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: if it already happened, and it's I think the difference

911
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 1: is that manifestation feels awkward and fantasy feels real good.

912
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: So for me to fantasize about me killing it at

913
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: this thing feels really awkward to me. But I'm doing

914
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,919
Speaker 1: it because I know if it's hard to do, it's

915
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 1: probably good. If it feels easy and soothing and you

916
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: get a dopamine hit and you feel the direct relaxation

917
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: down your spine, it's probably not good. Wow. And So

918
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: the thing that she talked about that I couldn't that

919
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: blew my mind was that if stop think, stop presenting

920
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 1: to people, so to not to not set up people

921
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: to disappoint you and to feel disappointing because of what

922
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: you expect from them. Never never tell them thank you

923
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: for something they didn't do. Only speak from a place

924
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 1: of what you can judge. So, Mom, if I came

925
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: to you and I was crying about something going on

926
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: my life and you sat and listened. I can't say

927
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 1: I should not say to you, thank you so much

928
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 1: for being there for me and really understanding what I'm

929
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: going through. That is me a that I do that

930
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 1: you understood it. All I can thank you for is

931
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: thank you for coming over to my apartment and looking

932
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: at me when I talked and listening though, But I

933
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: don't even know if you were listening unless I have

934
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: actual evidence that you listened. Gotcha, You can't because that

935
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: is setting me up to assume something about you and

936
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 1: live in this limerence of like my mom and I

937
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: had this like I can say it felt really good

938
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 1: that you were here and that I perceived you as

939
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: listening to me, because that's my truth. It's like you

940
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: could only talk from a place of what you experience.

941
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: But that blew my mind that you can't just like

942
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: tell people like, thank you so much for for thank

943
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: you so much for being such a good friend. They

944
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: might not be such a good friend. They might just

945
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: feel obligated to do that because you moved them into

946
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: their house last week, so they're just fulfilling an obligation.

947
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: They might not just be doing this out of being

948
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: a good friend. You have to let them say so

949
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: you can't. This will help your life to address the

950
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: world as you observe it and not as or as

951
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: you are experiencing it in facts that someone in the

952
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: court of law would be like, Okay, yes, all we

953
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 1: have proof of is that Julie came over and looked

954
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 1: at her and appeared to be listening, right, But she

955
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: just sat there and looked at her and said, uh

956
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: huh wow after everything, But it doesn't we don't know.

957
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: So you just you have to live in this world

958
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: where you're kind of telling yourself the truth all the

959
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: time about things. What do you think? Uh, I think

960
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: that it sounds like, uh impossible. Yeah, it sounds really different.

961
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: That's what she says. It literally is impossible to do. Yeah,

962
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: because we are projecting our experience onto other things constantly

963
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: and we don't even know it.

964
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 2: We just wanted to be lovely and we wanted to

965
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 2: be like, are that she's she is a good friend?

966
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: Yes, we just assume it. But what you're doing is

967
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: you're saying that she's a good friend, and then if

968
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: she's not, if that's not her experience, but she feels

969
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 1: like we don't know now I'm how many times have

970
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 1: you been told Julie you're such a good friend? And

971
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: you think I don't even like this woman? Course that well,

972
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: you might like her more if she said thank you

973
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: for showing up, Julie and didn't say thank you for

974
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: being a good friend. Can do you know what I'm saying,

975
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 1: thanks for showing up, Thanks, thanks for showing up today,

976
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 1: thanks for helping me move this stove, as opposed to

977
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: thanks for being such a good more for loving me

978
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: so much, and you go, I don't love you at all,

979
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: bitch like that drives you away from her, As opposed to,

980
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: you might become closer to someone who just is calling

981
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: out the things as they are and as you experience

982
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: them too, just saying facts. I liked it. It was

983
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: radical interesting. Yeah, Heidi pleab. If you want to check

984
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: out what I'm talking about and actually hear a smart

985
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 1: person discuss it, it's her video on liber limerens l

986
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: I M E R E n CE. She's brilliant. I'm

987
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: obsessed with this. Wow, We'll be back. So we are

988
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: back on tour, Brian and I this weekend coming up Gary,

989
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: Indiana Friday.

990
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 3: Finally, Yes, Indiana. In a long time. But this is

991
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 3: technically not really even Indiana. Gary is basically Chicago, Chicago,

992
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 3: y yo, it is.

993
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: That's where Michael Jackson's from.

994
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, go go see his boyhood home you too, Yeah,

995
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 2: where so many great things happen. A lot of things

996
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: good happened there. Sure we know better.

997
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: Just the word boyhood and Michael Jackson don't really go

998
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: well together. But yeah, poor kid, Yeah, poor kid, poor thing,

999
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: what he went through. Aren't you going to Cincinnati? Yes,

1000
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: Sintannie on Saturday, and then my mom and dad will

1001
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 1: also be there. So if you want to see Jules.

1002
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 2: And Eves.

1003
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:37,479
Speaker 1: Snattie at the hard Rock Live. So we've got Gary,

1004
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: Indiana Friday night, Sary Indiana. You know there's a song

1005
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: about India, now I do. It's from Uh, don't tell

1006
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: me what I know?

1007
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: I know.

1008
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:47,959
Speaker 1: You don't that. How do you plead?

1009
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 3: Do you?

1010
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: No? Cincinnati is gonna be great. Yeah, it's gonna be

1011
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: so fun. And I love staying at these hard rock

1012
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: casinos really, yeah, because like it's the everything's hard rock,

1013
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: everything's like themed. You were there at one, yeah? Was

1014
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: that the one?

1015
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 2: We got it a lobster dinner.

1016
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were getting lobster, surf and turf baby, which

1017
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: you can't do anymore.

1018
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 2: I can't do that any Mom's a Basketarian.

1019
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: Oh I guess you could still get the lobster. Yeah.

1020
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: I had lobsters the other night. Oh, good for it. Yeah,

1021
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm not Did you get was that on sale at aldi?

1022
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 2: That was at Aldie. I was the frozen Hole lobster

1023
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 2: for ten ninety nine.

1024
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,720
Speaker 3: I was at the hard Rock in Florida this weekend.

1025
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 3: Really yeah. I went to the casino and I got

1026
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 3: policed at the blackjack table. I am not happy about

1027
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 3: hard rock.

1028
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: Brian. What are we doing with the gambling? Where are

1029
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 1: we at? Because you know, between you and me and

1030
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 1: everyone listening you, you were doubting if you should be

1031
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: doing this anymore.

1032
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,280
Speaker 3: No, it's bad for my health. And I do sometimes

1033
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 3: have limerens with gambling where I place a bet and

1034
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,240
Speaker 3: then I and then I just feel like I already

1035
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,280
Speaker 3: won the bet. Yeah, I already have the two hundred dollars,

1036
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 3: So let me make more bets based on the fact

1037
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 3: that I already won this bet that I placed. And

1038
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,760
Speaker 3: isn't it funnished yet? Yeah? Exactly. Sometimes that happens.

1039
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm going to scar.

1040
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 3: It works, but no, Blackjack is a is a loser's game.

1041
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 3: You're gonna you gotta. The goal in blackjack is to

1042
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 3: just try to lose as slowly as possible. Yeah, the

1043
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 3: goal is like, Okay, I sat here for two hours

1044
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 3: and lost all my money instead of losing all my

1045
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 3: money in ten minutes. And that's nice, But for your health, no,

1046
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm today I'm getting I have an

1047
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 3: enlarged dioritic root, which is like a heart condition I

1048
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 3: was born with. And I feel like today I'm getting

1049
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,399
Speaker 3: my heart scanned. I get my heart scanned every year

1050
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 3: to see if my root has grown. And I'm worried

1051
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 3: because all the gambling, it makes your blood pressure go up,

1052
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 3: It puts you in this stress level, makes your heart

1053
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 3: rate go up, and I've been gambling so much lately

1054
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 3: that I'm a little worried that about my latest scan.

1055
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:56,280
Speaker 2: Vibe.

1056
00:48:56,480 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, God's that's what you were saying that you

1057
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: were like, I have a heart condition. I don't think

1058
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:06,439
Speaker 1: four hours of being tense about this basketball.

1059
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 3: Game because I thought there was no downside to gambling

1060
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 3: on sports because I always win. But there is a downside,

1061
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 3: and it's just not financial It takes away health, your time,

1062
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:21,279
Speaker 3: your health, your your mental state. It takes away all

1063
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 3: those things. So every time I said there's no downside

1064
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 3: to gambling, even though I was being facetious and you know,

1065
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 3: flip about it, I did believe it. And now I

1066
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 3: realize I've changed my mind. There is a downside to gambling.

1067
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 3: It could kill you, ruin your life and your relationships,

1068
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 3: and waste all your time.

1069
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why, final thought. That's why when you check

1070
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: into it like a hard rock hotel.

1071
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 2: Why don't they give you a free gambling money. That's

1072
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 2: something they should think.

1073
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, that's a dumb question, but I

1074
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,360
Speaker 1: guess that's me putting too much on my feet. Actually,

1075
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: do give away money if you belong to these clubs. Yes,

1076
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: well that's Spade's joke about like he goes to It's

1077
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: my favorite joke. By the way, Spade and I are

1078
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: going to be in Vegas at the Venetian in May

1079
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:10,759
Speaker 1: and then also another date throughout the year. But you

1080
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: should come out and see that show for sure. But

1081
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: he has this great joke about about his buddy's Like, man,

1082
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: I go to Vegas all the time. I'm a big roller.

1083
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: You know, they fly me out comped and he goes, oh, really,

1084
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,959
Speaker 1: that's seventy five dollars Southwest flight and they go, yeah,

1085
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: you gotta roll with me. I'm a big roller. Then

1086
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 1: ground transportation too, in from the hotel. Oh that four

1087
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: minute car ride and it keeps like poking holes. I'm like,

1088
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: the casinos know what they're doing. They're not just giving there,

1089
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: never giveaway that money. Yeah, but yeah, it's it's it's

1090
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: a problem. It's so funny that there are signs of like,

1091
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: do you have a problem gambling all over all asinos.

1092
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's.

1093
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: Sporting on cigarettes.

1094
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 3: It's almost the way to get You'd be like, well,

1095
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,239
Speaker 3: if they're putting out all the warnings and I don't

1096
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 3: buy that means I don't probably have it. They probably

1097
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 3: would know if I had a problem and someone would

1098
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 3: stop me. That's not me. Yeah, the signs just make

1099
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 3: you feel like you don't have a problem.

1100
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe, but like it's just such a they're really

1101
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: worried about you. Yeah, they really want you to get

1102
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: help if you have a problem. Those signs in the

1103
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: cause it's just so stupid that we I think insurance

1104
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 1: they probably absolutely.

1105
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 3: The sign should just say like, are you a loser?

1106
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 3: Are you? Are you a loser? You know? Or you're

1107
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 3: like it's a bully in middle school, Like a bully

1108
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 3: in middle school, and like you're walking around like no

1109
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 3: one who actually has a gambling problem is going to

1110
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 3: be like, oh eight, that sign asked me if I

1111
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 3: had a gambling problem, and I do. No one's going

1112
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 3: to admit that. They're going to feel like it's an

1113
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 3: attack on there. It's like it's like asking an older man,

1114
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 3: you know, if they need a call and or something.

1115
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 3: It's like, well, I don't need a colonoscopy, if that

1116
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:03,959
Speaker 3: makes sense.

1117
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if that tracks for me, but I'm

1118
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: glad it did for you.

1119
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 4: Let's just confuse Nikki in this segment.

1120
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're lucky you don't even care about gambling.

1121
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm lucky. I don't. Yeah, I mean I just feel

1122
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: so bad to lose. Yeah, it's like a hangover. Like

1123
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 1: I quit drinking, not because the drinking part, but because

1124
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: of the hangover. Gotcha, I quit. I was recalling the

1125
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: other day to my friend about because she like loves

1126
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: candy and has a problem sometimes with eating too much

1127
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: of it, and she was going buck wild after Valentine's

1128
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: Day because she bought a bunch of candy hearts and

1129
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: that the marked ones. Yeah, you know it, the ones

1130
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: I say, I live. Yeah, so it smeared. Yeah, she

1131
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 1: went buck wild on some and I was like, girl,

1132
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 1: I've been there, Like I know, candy hearts are a

1133
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: thing that some people don't really go hard on, but man,

1134
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: they are my fit, that schalkiness. When they're a little

1135
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: stale too. I like them, I love them and so

1136
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: but I don't do them anymore because I went so

1137
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: hard one year. I got a whole bag, like you know,

1138
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: like a big bag that you would like a bulk bag,

1139
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: and I ate them all and I got a hangover

1140
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: from them. And I hadn't drank for years and years,

1141
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 1: so it was the first time I had felt that,

1142
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 1: like a searing headache. The next day sick but like

1143
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,919
Speaker 1: couldn't look up straight because my head hurts so much,

1144
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: and it was from all the sugar. And I really

1145
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: can't even touch them anymore because it's just I'm so

1146
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: scared of that feeling. So for me, if my body

1147
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: gives me a searing headache as a result of something,

1148
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 1: I will quit it on the spot. Wow And I

1149
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: wish that it'll be easy. I would love if it

1150
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: gave me more headaches for things, yeah, because I would

1151
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: quit things. But when it's until it gets to that point,

1152
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: me keep going. But yeah, like I uh that I've

1153
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:53,479
Speaker 1: overdone it on those.

1154
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 3: And sometimes psychosomatic reactions benefit you, Like I I have

1155
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 3: a action to high frupittose corn syrup that I know

1156
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 3: is psychosomatic. It gives me brain fog whenever I have

1157
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 3: and even if I don't know that it has it

1158
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 3: in there, if I.

1159
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 1: Just eat it can't psychosomitic.

1160
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 3: It is my body, I guess just knows. I don't

1161
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 3: know how, but.

1162
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: Because that's a't psychosmatic when you Oh.

1163
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't even know how my body does it,

1164
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 3: but my I get brain fog whenever I eat high

1165
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 3: fructose corn syrup and anything. Even if it's like I

1166
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 3: find out after I ate it that i'd had it, I'm.

1167
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, that's like you're just like you look

1168
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: at the label, you remember what you're talking about, Like

1169
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: you seem like a stoner, Like what's brain fog?

1170
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 3: Brain fog? Yeah, it's like, yeah, you just feel out

1171
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 3: of it. It's like being when you get like.

1172
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: Four hours in your brain.

1173
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you can't do wordle.

1174
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1175
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's good. That's a good indication.

1176
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, when you can't do the wordle, no, you know

1177
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 3: how you like you have four hours of sleep and

1178
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,479
Speaker 3: then you're just sluggish and slow and you can't think

1179
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 3: and nothing's coming to you.

1180
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 1: Yes, because that sugar brain fog is okay.

1181
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but because of that, I have not eaten anything

1182
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 3: with high fryptose corn syrup in like ten twenty years.

1183
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: Wow, it's in everything.

1184
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 3: It's it's amazing. Yeah, I'm not a purpose on purpose.

1185
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes it happens by accident.

1186
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 2: I want that.

1187
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 3: I want to do that. I could do all the

1188
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 3: work that it takes to like train on high fructose

1189
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 3: corn syrup and do exposure therapy and get it back

1190
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 3: so I don't have a reaction to it. But what's

1191
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:23,240
Speaker 3: the point.

1192
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:23,959
Speaker 1: What's the point?

1193
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 3: Just utilize exactly.

1194
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: It's it's like, okay, yeah, that's really good. I can't

1195
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 1: fall asleep without a sleep mask on my brain to

1196
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: do that. But now because I like it, Because when

1197
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: I do have a sleep mask on, my body knows

1198
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: it's time to go to sleep, and you can if

1199
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: I don't have one, I have to wrap a towel

1200
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: around my head or something and I have to like

1201
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: make shift one and that's not great. So I always

1202
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:48,839
Speaker 1: carry like five on me at a time, just in

1203
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: case I lose them. But they are so Yeah, there's

1204
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: certain things that my body is like learn it's time.

1205
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:57,439
Speaker 3: You're like baby sleep habits, Oh baby, yeah.

1206
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: Although I've been waking up a lot recently and just

1207
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: like with anxiety in the middle of the night. Oh,

1208
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: a lot on your plate. I do have a lot

1209
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: on my plot. But I've been like kind of loving

1210
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: my life recently. I go on the road on the weekends.

1211
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: I work hard. I play I don't even play hard.

1212
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: I just work hard doing the shows and then we

1213
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 1: get to hang out with friends and then we drive

1214
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 1: to the next venue and you travel all day and

1215
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: then you get I get one day off a week,

1216
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: which is perfect, and that day I am flying. And

1217
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: so some people would go, Nikki, that's not a day off.

1218
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: You need to be a static, But to me, flying

1219
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 1: is a day off because no one can get you.

1220
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: And on your day off, you have to go to

1221
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: the grocery store and you have to meal plan and

1222
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: you've got to go to home goods and pick up

1223
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:41,879
Speaker 1: you know, stuff for your pots on your front porch.

1224
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: I don't got to do shit because I'm flying southwest

1225
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: through three different cities and so there's nothing I can do.

1226
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 1: You're the only one that feels that's my favorite day off. No,

1227
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: because in our house, day off equals gotta go hiking. Oh,

1228
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: that's true. You gotta go see bald eagles out in

1229
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:57,400
Speaker 1: southern Illinois.

1230
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 3: That's true.

1231
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: I don't want to go do that shit. That's what

1232
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: days off mean to people. And I want to be

1233
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: in the air. Yes, you're controlled by the airplane. By yeah,

1234
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: and then all week I'm just doing voice lesson podcasts, pilates,

1235
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: orange theory, here and there, and by here and there,

1236
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: I mean one time, never going back, getting coffee, writing

1237
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: music box boats. Hey, don't call me out. I am

1238
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: all stuck up. Today I got botox. I was gonna

1239
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: get filler. I opted out. Ladies, if you need someone

1240
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: to encourage you not to get filler, I was about

1241
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 1: to get it today in my lips. And then I

1242
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: texted Anya and I go, did you get filler last

1243
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: time you went? And she was like, no, I haven't

1244
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: gotten filler for years, and I was like, and then

1245
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: I my niped lips are numb right because they put

1246
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: the numbing cream on because they're gonna poke you in

1247
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: the face with it. And I went out to the

1248
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:47,919
Speaker 1: lobby and I go, I don't want to get filler anymore. Okay,

1249
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: let's wipe it off. And I felt so bad. They

1250
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: were so nice about it. Shout out to Jenet front Neck.

1251
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: So I just got a bunch of botox, not even

1252
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: a bunch, just a little bit. Ye.

1253
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 2: And I only know because I picked you up there.

1254
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And Anya said, I think you're just going through

1255
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: something emotionally, because I was like, she was like, why

1256
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: do you need it? And I was like, I just

1257
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: want something different on my face, Like I just want

1258
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: to look at something different. I'm tired of seeing pictures

1259
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 1: of me. I want to look something. And she was like,

1260
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: I think you maybe just need to like calm down.

1261
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 2: Maybe you just need to go there and then say

1262
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 2: hi and walk out and feel like I've been there.

1263
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: I did get a facial tune. It was amazing. Oh

1264
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: a hydro facial It looks good. It was so good.

1265
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 1: I'm very happy. But yeah, if you want to go

1266
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: on the YouTube right now, and see me be stung up.

1267
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: I got botox, but it will not show up for

1268
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: eleven to fourteen days, so see the results in two weeks.

1269
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: I'll see there on YouTube. Thank you for listening to

1270
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: the show today. We'll be back tomorrow. We're going to

1271
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: be in Gary, Nian and Cincinnati, Ohio this weekend Friday

1272
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: and Saturday with Brian Frangie and Anya Marina. Get tickets

1273
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: at nikiklazer dot com. Dun'ti ka and just just fight

1274
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: Me