WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Ditch Me Once Shame On You

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Cuba in the morning. Second date update. If I

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<v Speaker 1>were to describe the guy who's on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today, if I were to describe

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<v Speaker 1>his first date with a newspaper headline, it would probably

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<v Speaker 1>read spontaneous first date spontaneously combusts, oh, leaving one survivor.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be Sean, Who's on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right now? What's up Sean? Hey? What's

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<v Speaker 1>up man? How are you doing good? Would that be

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty accurate headline. I'd have to say, yeah, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a good fate for the girl you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. Your email was a little confusing, So why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you tell me exactly what happened? Okay, So it

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<v Speaker 1>was a weird night. I was supposed to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with some friends and they couldn't show up. They he

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<v Speaker 1>texted me, Hey, we're not gonna make it. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like wandering around downtown board alone till I jumped

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<v Speaker 1>on tender and said, a you know, let's see if

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<v Speaker 1>I can find someone that's close by. Maybe I could, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>something else to get into. You know, I like that

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<v Speaker 1>you are taking lemons and making lemonade. Sir, Hey, what

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta do, man, all right, so tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the lemonade. Okay, So the lemonade's name is Nina. Nina Lemonade.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it, sweet heart too sugary? Would you think

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<v Speaker 1>of the Nina lemonade? I gotta say the Nina lemonade

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome. Um. So we ended up meeting at a bar, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out already with her friends, and she was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, why don't you just come by meet up

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<v Speaker 1>with us. We're already out, you know, we're close by,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a pretty safe situation. And so when I

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<v Speaker 1>met her, she was cute. I mean she was like

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<v Speaker 1>hot in a in a weird, quirky way, like she

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<v Speaker 1>she's not like that girl as you walk in it's

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<v Speaker 1>like everything stops, but she was. She was. She was like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>like sexy librarian hot. Okay, Okay, so she's business is

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<v Speaker 1>usual hot, Like she's not hot where everything stopped. She's

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<v Speaker 1>hot where everything just goes on about its normal pace

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<v Speaker 1>and she's just in there looking like like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not follow that at all. But you're parking a

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<v Speaker 1>lot high I like to call that parking lot, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you walk by here and you're like, you walk by

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<v Speaker 1>here in the parking lot, You're like, all right, she

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, and then you just continue onto your car.

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<v Speaker 1>She was parking lot. Why are you in a parking lot?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so confused. She was beautiful, is what I hear.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a step up from parking lot hot. She was.

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<v Speaker 1>She was that middle school teacher that if you see

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<v Speaker 1>her at the bar, you'd still go for it. Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>compared to a middle school teacher or something that you

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<v Speaker 1>look at in the parking lot. But she's compared to

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<v Speaker 1>a hot middle school teacher, completely different. We're all the

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<v Speaker 1>same page here, Sean, Oh my god, so lost. How

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<v Speaker 1>did the whole evening go though? With her? All right? So,

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<v Speaker 1>first impression, I went baller on her and I bought

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<v Speaker 1>drinks for her and her all her girlfriends. Nice, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was all good. We were having great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I was flowing with her and her girls. I was

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<v Speaker 1>one point with my jokes. And then, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I really must have been doing well because her

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<v Speaker 1>girls branched off and gave me some alone time with her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, because if your girls co sign on it,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're you're your foot's in the door, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll tell you I've been out with my girlfriends

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<v Speaker 1>when they've had a tender date meet up with them,

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<v Speaker 1>and he did not turn out very good. So we

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<v Speaker 1>did not leave her side. Oh yeah, because then you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you shall not pass. Yeah, well you're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help her out, man, But she was obviously into it

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<v Speaker 1>if her girls left exactly. So then we're hanging out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're sort of kicking it and nuzzled up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, I thought. And so she said, oh, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I gotta run through the restaurant real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be right back. So I'm waiting and waiting and

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<v Speaker 1>she never comes back. So she did, dude. But this

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<v Speaker 1>is the weird part. Now it gets even weirder, right,

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<v Speaker 1>her girlfriends are still in the next room. Wait, so

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<v Speaker 1>she's not hanging out with her girlfriend She's like, gone, gone, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm thinking. I said, Okay, Well, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's in the next room with her girlfriends and they,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they got caught up talking about something or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Running girls due. So I go in there and I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>where's Nina, And they were like, you don't know as

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<v Speaker 1>it what like, it's the only two rooms here, it's

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<v Speaker 1>where you are and where we were. She's not here

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<v Speaker 1>and she's not with you. You don't know where your

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<v Speaker 1>friend is. They're really playing dumb. They're like, no, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Last week saw her, she was with you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm thinking, Okay, they're running some kind of game

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<v Speaker 1>on me. But I don't even understand because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I was some cheap skate. I bought them all drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>If they're running game, they should have just kept pimping

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<v Speaker 1>me for the drinks, right, Yeah, yeah, I know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes not worth it to be honest. Really yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>mean we're women, We make her own money. We can

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<v Speaker 1>pare her on drinks. We don't need to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with you. If you really suck that bad, okay, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But would you leave your girlfriend with a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you felt suck really bad? No, we're exactly right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so I like, how was the hoose answer? She was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would never leave my girls. You know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that question was more for brothers. But would you leave

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<v Speaker 1>your girls with the guy that you thought sucks? It

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<v Speaker 1>is interesting? Have you? I mean, did you text her,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing. Yeah, so I'm texting her. I'm texting her.

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<v Speaker 1>I called her. She's not picking up and her girls

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<v Speaker 1>are still play time. Like they don't know where she is.

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<v Speaker 1>He can't get any contact with her either. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you supposed to do at that point? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you? Did the group of girlfriends seem concerned that

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<v Speaker 1>she was gone? They didn't seem concerned, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>they were lying to you. They knew where she was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you don't know where someone is and they

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<v Speaker 1>really just take off, then I would be worried. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh my god, what did she say to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did she go? Unless they're one of those friends

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<v Speaker 1>who always takes off, Like who always just gets drunk

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<v Speaker 1>and wandered off, You're like, whatever, I don't know what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just want to I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of I want to figure out what happened. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's interesting and it sucks. You got ditched twice in

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<v Speaker 1>one night, man, exactly, my friends, you know she got me.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, we'll play a song, come back, and then

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>just go hang out over there. We're gonna go to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom real quickly, rooking Cubil in the morning. Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date update if you just tuned in to today's second

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<v Speaker 1>Date update, Sean is on the phone. And Sean is

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<v Speaker 1>good at a lot of things. Well I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know the other things, but I know Sean is good

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<v Speaker 1>at getting ditched. Pretty much. What Sean is good at

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<v Speaker 1>he got ditched by his friends. So he was looking

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody to hang out with, and you hopped on

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<v Speaker 1>Tender and then he found a girl named Nina to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with. He showed up to the bar where

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<v Speaker 1>she was at, hung out with her and her friends

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, and then Nina kind of dipped out

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<v Speaker 1>and even the friends didn't know where she went. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering what happened to Nina because she hasn't called

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<v Speaker 1>him back since he met her that night. All right, Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>you ready to go? Yeah? And for the record, your

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<v Speaker 1>recap really did wonders for myself. I was hoping it

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<v Speaker 1>would help Sean. We're here for you though, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell thanks, Yeah, at least for like another

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes or so. And then, yeah, now, do you

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<v Speaker 1>just want to find out where she went? Or do

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<v Speaker 1>you actually want to go out with this girl again?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was very interested, you know, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we had a little something going on. So yeah, of

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<v Speaker 1>course I want to know what happened and where she went.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'd be interested in going out again if she

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<v Speaker 1>could explain this, okay, But if she can't and she

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<v Speaker 1>just said you suck and I laughed, then we shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>For the story. I'm glad that you found it, so

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<v Speaker 1>at least I know she is alive. Okay, all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her phone umber right now see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can get your second date update. Okay, all right, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Nina please? This is Nina. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh good, You're safe and I've been worried about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this? Oh? This is Jewil from brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning. This is Brooke, Hey, Nina, and

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<v Speaker 1>Jose is the guy that you just heard laugh? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I talking to a bunch of people because

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on our show called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then end up not calling them after,

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<v Speaker 1>they email us to see if we can get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out what happened. And you

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<v Speaker 1>recently met up with one of our listeners, but now

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<v Speaker 1>you're not talking to him. Okay, this is weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, I figured it would be. But

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Sean oh White. Yeah, yeah, he seems

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<v Speaker 1>like a really cool guy. What wait, hold on, Nina,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you being so nonchalant about this whole thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he said that you ditched him. I ditched him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he says. He said, you went to the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and like didn't come back, ditched him. Oh, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I guess I did that. Oh god, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe I did that. That was so mean. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you not? I am so confused by you

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Nina? You know, how did you ditch him

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<v Speaker 1>on accident? And then why haven't you responded to his

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<v Speaker 1>phone calls or anything? Could be honest? When I went

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, I m I accidentally met up with

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<v Speaker 1>my ex, and um, you know, obviously we're no longer together,

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<v Speaker 1>but we just have this chemistry and whenever we tea

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<v Speaker 1>each other, we just hook up. We can't seem to

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<v Speaker 1>keep our hands of each other. And you know when

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<v Speaker 1>you went to the bathroom, you ran into your ex

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<v Speaker 1>and like wait home with him. Yeah, we just you

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<v Speaker 1>know how it is when there's like passion for someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I just, I honestly like forgot about Sean and we

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<v Speaker 1>just I was just in the moment and we took off,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I just ended up spending the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the night with him. I'm really sorry. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>I feel terrible, But how are you just now realizing

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<v Speaker 1>that you did Sean in this whole thing? I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just we just had so much fun at night.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I just completely forgot about Sean. I okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why not call him back or text him back after

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<v Speaker 1>you try to get a hold of you. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird afterward, you know. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him. I didn't want to lie to him. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of figured it was a quick situation and

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<v Speaker 1>he would go away, so I just kind of left

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<v Speaker 1>it at that. I think that's pretty understandable. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>only problem is, Nina, he hasn't gone away, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening to this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>was talk to you. Are you serious right now? Is

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<v Speaker 1>this really real life? Are you serious? You had him

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<v Speaker 1>waiting on the phone to talk to me this whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you guys? Oh my god, I'm sorry, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was waiting this whole time to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I guess he knows the truth. What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of person does this? Like? You? You actually forgot that

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<v Speaker 1>we were in the middle of a date, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>can you just forget that human being even exists because

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<v Speaker 1>you bump into some dude? Oh my god, Sean. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I was drunk and we like literally I

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<v Speaker 1>literally had just met you, like, you know, what was

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<v Speaker 1>it like forty five minutes? So so yeah, I died.

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<v Speaker 1>But so after you sobered up, you saw my text,

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<v Speaker 1>you saw that U miscalled, No nothing in you. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no remorse noe. Oh man, that's pretty messed up. Nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>no ideel bad about it. But I kind of figured

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<v Speaker 1>it was such a quick hook up, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I said goodbye to you before I left, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot, you know, I was, like I said, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a few drinks, so I wasn't thinking clearly. We're

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date, Nina, I mean, and you just

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<v Speaker 1>go hook up with your ex boyfriend. You don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you're all that broken up about it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel bad about it, but come on, we

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<v Speaker 1>met on tender dude. I mean, you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like you're gonna propose to me or anything. So I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think it was a big deal. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I I guess maybe at some point I would have

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<v Speaker 1>reached I just really didn't put a lot of thought

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<v Speaker 1>into it some point. But were you gonna wait till

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<v Speaker 1>at a birthday? I mean no, I figured I would

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<v Speaker 1>call you at some point, but you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just wrapped up with my ax, and I wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>putting a lot of focus on it. You know. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I know I feel so bad for you,

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<v Speaker 1>Sean Nina. That is really messed up that you just

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<v Speaker 1>ditched somebody. He had a bad night to begin with,

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<v Speaker 1>he had already been ditched by his friends. Well, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, not everybody has an ex like my ex. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, Oh well, I won't even get into that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I do feel bad for Sean. I

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<v Speaker 1>just never thought it was that deep. Really. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>now I don't even feel as bad. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>feels like because you know what I did to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wouldn't take a total loss for the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Was one of her girlfriends? No, you did not tell

0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:41.480
<v Speaker 1>us that minute you did? What? Oh, now it matters.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it matters who was it? Who did you look

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<v Speaker 1>up with? I mean, why does it matter? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm just some guy. You were gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call it his birthday? I mean, no, you know, you

0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:55.520
<v Speaker 1>know it doesn't even matter. I bet I know who

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<v Speaker 1>it was. Anyway, She's a flood in the room. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, I'm really confused because if you did that,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you, after all this trouble to contact me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you just both with her? That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you contacting me? I mean I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little more interested in you, but you know I'm over

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<v Speaker 1>that now, obviously. I mean, you're you're It's sounding all

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<v Speaker 1>confusing to me because if you're interested in me, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you hooking up with one of my friends? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let me do that's not wrong. Let me use your

0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:27.360
<v Speaker 1>drunk excuse. Oh, I was drunk, so you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to happen. I know you didn't. All On

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<v Speaker 1>this note, I would like to ask you if you

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<v Speaker 1>would like to go out with Sean again on a

0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.360
<v Speaker 1>second date. We will pay for it. Oh that's a

0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:43.000
<v Speaker 1>very generous offer, but I think I will respectfully decline.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I wanted you guys to go out

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<v Speaker 1>again to see who you'd actually end up going home

0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:50.160
<v Speaker 1>with that night. Now, maybe you can pay for him

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Okay, I good. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go you again anyway. Honestly, your girlfriend

0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:58.240
<v Speaker 1>was a little hotter than you, and then there was

0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.960
<v Speaker 1>a couple other ones that I might be more interested

0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:05.280
<v Speaker 1>party anyway. Yeah, okay, Sean's got all the girls. This

0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:07.560
<v Speaker 1>is why I should meet up with guys on tender.

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<v Speaker 1>I am done with that whole situation. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>have like completely turned me off, and like, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be meeting drugs like you, then nah, not

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<v Speaker 1>even worth it. Whoa, that's fine. Yeah, stick the guys

0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:26.360
<v Speaker 1>that dump you in real life. Oh my god. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much, you guys, And at least, hey, Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>look at it this way. Now that you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>an ex of hers, you went on a date, next

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<v Speaker 1>time you see her out with another dude, you might

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<v Speaker 1>be able to hook up with her. All works out

0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.040
<v Speaker 1>in the morning text in at seven eight five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two that says, can you give me Sean's number? I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to go out on a date with him and

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<v Speaker 1>then run into my ex and sleep with my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Two Broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second

0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:52.240
<v Speaker 1>date update. If you missed it, This dude, Sean wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Nina. They met while they

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<v Speaker 1>were out at the bar. Actually, he was like, he

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<v Speaker 1>got ditched by his friends and then he found her

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<v Speaker 1>on Tinder and he met up with her, and then

0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.160
<v Speaker 1>she ditched him as well, so he couldn't figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. We got her on the phone and she

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<v Speaker 1>actually sort of forgot about Sean when they were hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out because she ran into her ex and her X

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<v Speaker 1>apparently is one of those people that, no matter what,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't get enough of. So she left the bar

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<v Speaker 1>with her ex and just forgot that she was hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with Sean and then didn't want to call him back.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, whatever, we hung out for like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple hours, I don't need to get back to him.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, she told Sean that she ditched him that

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<v Speaker 1>night so she could go have fun with her X.

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<v Speaker 1>I think everyone understands like that there's that one X

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<v Speaker 1>that you hook up with no matter what, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>still like some sort of niceties that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do and ending another date before you make that happen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at least say goodbye to the guys you know, d

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<v Speaker 1>be like, Hey, it was really cool meeting up with you,

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<v Speaker 1>but my ex is awesome in the bedroom. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>tested you out yet, so you can understand. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>stick with the old reliable here on this one. Didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have any reborse man. No, she didn't care at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Was well apparently so was their love mate. Yeah, text

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<v Speaker 1>and seven eight five nine two. Do you have a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship like that with your X. I'm curious how many

0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.600
<v Speaker 1>people out there would actually ditch somebody on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date to hook up with their AX. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second day up, they remember. All

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<v Speaker 1>I have to do was emailed the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. Young

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey's song of the Week coming up in just a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes at eight ten