Speaker 1: Brooking Cuba in the morning. Second date update. If I
Speaker 1: were to describe the guy who's on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today, if I were to describe
Speaker 1: his first date with a newspaper headline, it would probably
Speaker 1: read spontaneous first date spontaneously combusts, oh, leaving one survivor.
Speaker 1: That would be Sean, Who's on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date update right now? What's up Sean? Hey? What's
Speaker 1: up man? How are you doing good? Would that be
Speaker 1: a pretty accurate headline. I'd have to say, yeah, oh no,
Speaker 1: that's not a good fate for the girl you went
Speaker 1: out with. Your email was a little confusing, So why
Speaker 1: don't you tell me exactly what happened? Okay, So it
Speaker 1: was a weird night. I was supposed to hang out
Speaker 1: with some friends and they couldn't show up. They he
Speaker 1: texted me, Hey, we're not gonna make it. So I'm
Speaker 1: just like wandering around downtown board alone till I jumped
Speaker 1: on tender and said, a you know, let's see if
Speaker 1: I can find someone that's close by. Maybe I could, Okay,
Speaker 1: something else to get into. You know, I like that
Speaker 1: you are taking lemons and making lemonade. Sir, Hey, what
Speaker 1: you gotta do, man, all right, so tell us about
Speaker 1: the lemonade. Okay, So the lemonade's name is Nina. Nina Lemonade.
Speaker 1: I like it, sweet heart too sugary? Would you think
Speaker 1: of the Nina lemonade? I gotta say the Nina lemonade
Speaker 1: was awesome. Um. So we ended up meeting at a bar, okay,
Speaker 1: hanging out already with her friends, and she was like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, why don't you just come by meet up
Speaker 1: with us. We're already out, you know, we're close by,
Speaker 1: so it's a pretty safe situation. And so when I
Speaker 1: met her, she was cute. I mean she was like
Speaker 1: hot in a in a weird, quirky way, like she
Speaker 1: she's not like that girl as you walk in it's
Speaker 1: like everything stops, but she was. She was. She was like, uh,
Speaker 1: like sexy librarian hot. Okay, Okay, so she's business is
Speaker 1: usual hot, Like she's not hot where everything stopped. She's
Speaker 1: hot where everything just goes on about its normal pace
Speaker 1: and she's just in there looking like like that. I
Speaker 1: did not follow that at all. But you're parking a
Speaker 1: lot high I like to call that parking lot, Like
Speaker 1: you walk by here and you're like, you walk by
Speaker 1: here in the parking lot, You're like, all right, she
Speaker 1: was okay, and then you just continue onto your car.
Speaker 1: She was parking lot. Why are you in a parking lot?
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. She was beautiful, is what I hear.
Speaker 1: She was a step up from parking lot hot. She was.
Speaker 1: She was that middle school teacher that if you see
Speaker 1: her at the bar, you'd still go for it. Okay, listen,
Speaker 1: compared to a middle school teacher or something that you
Speaker 1: look at in the parking lot. But she's compared to
Speaker 1: a hot middle school teacher, completely different. We're all the
Speaker 1: same page here, Sean, Oh my god, so lost. How
Speaker 1: did the whole evening go though? With her? All right? So,
Speaker 1: first impression, I went baller on her and I bought
Speaker 1: drinks for her and her all her girlfriends. Nice, okay,
Speaker 1: you know, it was all good. We were having great conversation.
Speaker 1: I was flowing with her and her girls. I was
Speaker 1: one point with my jokes. And then, you know, I
Speaker 1: thought I really must have been doing well because her
Speaker 1: girls branched off and gave me some alone time with her. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know, because if your girls co sign on it,
Speaker 1: then you're you're your foot's in the door, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you I've been out with my girlfriends
Speaker 1: when they've had a tender date meet up with them,
Speaker 1: and he did not turn out very good. So we
Speaker 1: did not leave her side. Oh yeah, because then you're like,
Speaker 1: you shall not pass. Yeah, well you're just trying to
Speaker 1: help her out, man, But she was obviously into it
Speaker 1: if her girls left exactly. So then we're hanging out,
Speaker 1: you know, we're sort of kicking it and nuzzled up
Speaker 1: a little bit, I thought. And so she said, oh, wait,
Speaker 1: you know, I gotta run through the restaurant real quick.
Speaker 1: I'll be right back. So I'm waiting and waiting and
Speaker 1: she never comes back. So she did, dude. But this
Speaker 1: is the weird part. Now it gets even weirder, right,
Speaker 1: her girlfriends are still in the next room. Wait, so
Speaker 1: she's not hanging out with her girlfriend She's like, gone, gone, Well,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm thinking. I said, Okay, Well, maybe
Speaker 1: she's in the next room with her girlfriends and they,
Speaker 1: you know, they got caught up talking about something or whatever.
Speaker 1: Running girls due. So I go in there and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: where's Nina, And they were like, you don't know as
Speaker 1: it what like, it's the only two rooms here, it's
Speaker 1: where you are and where we were. She's not here
Speaker 1: and she's not with you. You don't know where your
Speaker 1: friend is. They're really playing dumb. They're like, no, we
Speaker 1: don't know. Last week saw her, she was with you.
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking, Okay, they're running some kind of game
Speaker 1: on me. But I don't even understand because it's not
Speaker 1: like I was some cheap skate. I bought them all drinks.
Speaker 1: If they're running game, they should have just kept pimping
Speaker 1: me for the drinks, right, Yeah, yeah, I know, it's
Speaker 1: sometimes not worth it to be honest. Really yeah, we
Speaker 1: mean we're women, We make her own money. We can
Speaker 1: pare her on drinks. We don't need to hang out
Speaker 1: with you. If you really suck that bad, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 1: But would you leave your girlfriend with a guy that
Speaker 1: you felt suck really bad? No, we're exactly right. Well,
Speaker 1: so I like, how was the hoose answer? She was like, no,
Speaker 1: I would never leave my girls. You know, I think
Speaker 1: that question was more for brothers. But would you leave
Speaker 1: your girls with the guy that you thought sucks? It
Speaker 1: is interesting? Have you? I mean, did you text her,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Yeah, so I'm texting her. I'm texting her.
Speaker 1: I called her. She's not picking up and her girls
Speaker 1: are still play time. Like they don't know where she is.
Speaker 1: He can't get any contact with her either. Okay, what
Speaker 1: are you supposed to do at that point? Can I
Speaker 1: ask you? Did the group of girlfriends seem concerned that
Speaker 1: she was gone? They didn't seem concerned, and I think
Speaker 1: they were lying to you. They knew where she was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because if you don't know where someone is and they
Speaker 1: really just take off, then I would be worried. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, what did she say to you?
Speaker 1: Why did she go? Unless they're one of those friends
Speaker 1: who always takes off, Like who always just gets drunk
Speaker 1: and wandered off, You're like, whatever, I don't know what happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just want to I want to get
Speaker 1: to the bottom of I want to figure out what happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's interesting and it sucks. You got ditched twice in
Speaker 1: one night, man, exactly, my friends, you know she got me.
Speaker 1: All Right, we'll play a song, come back, and then
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: just go hang out over there. We're gonna go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom real quickly, rooking Cubil in the morning. Second
Speaker 1: Date update if you just tuned in to today's second
Speaker 1: Date update, Sean is on the phone. And Sean is
Speaker 1: good at a lot of things. Well I don't really
Speaker 1: know the other things, but I know Sean is good
Speaker 1: at getting ditched. Pretty much. What Sean is good at
Speaker 1: he got ditched by his friends. So he was looking
Speaker 1: for somebody to hang out with, and you hopped on
Speaker 1: Tender and then he found a girl named Nina to
Speaker 1: hang out with. He showed up to the bar where
Speaker 1: she was at, hung out with her and her friends
Speaker 1: for a while, and then Nina kind of dipped out
Speaker 1: and even the friends didn't know where she went. So
Speaker 1: he's wondering what happened to Nina because she hasn't called
Speaker 1: him back since he met her that night. All right, Sean,
Speaker 1: you ready to go? Yeah? And for the record, your
Speaker 1: recap really did wonders for myself. I was hoping it
Speaker 1: would help Sean. We're here for you though, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can tell thanks, Yeah, at least for like another
Speaker 1: five minutes or so. And then, yeah, now, do you
Speaker 1: just want to find out where she went? Or do
Speaker 1: you actually want to go out with this girl again?
Speaker 1: I mean I was very interested, you know, I thought
Speaker 1: we had a little something going on. So yeah, of
Speaker 1: course I want to know what happened and where she went.
Speaker 1: But I'd be interested in going out again if she
Speaker 1: could explain this, okay, But if she can't and she
Speaker 1: just said you suck and I laughed, then we shouldn't.
Speaker 1: For the story. I'm glad that you found it, so
Speaker 1: at least I know she is alive. Okay, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial her phone umber right now see if
Speaker 1: we can get your second date update. Okay, all right, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Nina please? This is Nina. Oh,
Speaker 1: oh good, You're safe and I've been worried about you.
Speaker 1: Who is this? Oh? This is Jewil from brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. This is Brooke, Hey, Nina, and
Speaker 1: Jose is the guy that you just heard laugh? Okay?
Speaker 1: Why am I talking to a bunch of people because
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and then end up not calling them after,
Speaker 1: they email us to see if we can get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what happened. And you
Speaker 1: recently met up with one of our listeners, but now
Speaker 1: you're not talking to him. Okay, this is weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I figured it would be. But
Speaker 1: his name is Sean oh White. Yeah, yeah, he seems
Speaker 1: like a really cool guy. What wait, hold on, Nina,
Speaker 1: why are you being so nonchalant about this whole thing?
Speaker 1: Because he said that you ditched him. I ditched him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what he says. He said, you went to the
Speaker 1: bathroom and like didn't come back, ditched him. Oh, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I guess I did that. Oh god, I
Speaker 1: can't believe I did that. That was so mean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how are you not? I am so confused by you
Speaker 1: right now, Nina? You know, how did you ditch him
Speaker 1: on accident? And then why haven't you responded to his
Speaker 1: phone calls or anything? Could be honest? When I went
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, I m I accidentally met up with
Speaker 1: my ex, and um, you know, obviously we're no longer together,
Speaker 1: but we just have this chemistry and whenever we tea
Speaker 1: each other, we just hook up. We can't seem to
Speaker 1: keep our hands of each other. And you know when
Speaker 1: you went to the bathroom, you ran into your ex
Speaker 1: and like wait home with him. Yeah, we just you
Speaker 1: know how it is when there's like passion for someone.
Speaker 1: I just, I honestly like forgot about Sean and we
Speaker 1: just I was just in the moment and we took off,
Speaker 1: you know, and I just ended up spending the rest
Speaker 1: of the night with him. I'm really sorry. I feel
Speaker 1: I feel terrible, But how are you just now realizing
Speaker 1: that you did Sean in this whole thing? I know,
Speaker 1: it was just we just had so much fun at night.
Speaker 1: I guess I just completely forgot about Sean. I okay,
Speaker 1: why not call him back or text him back after
Speaker 1: you try to get a hold of you. I felt
Speaker 1: a little weird afterward, you know. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell him. I didn't want to lie to him. I
Speaker 1: just kind of figured it was a quick situation and
Speaker 1: he would go away, so I just kind of left
Speaker 1: it at that. I think that's pretty understandable. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: only problem is, Nina, he hasn't gone away, because he's
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening to this conversation and
Speaker 1: was talk to you. Are you serious right now? Is
Speaker 1: this really real life? Are you serious? You had him
Speaker 1: waiting on the phone to talk to me this whole time.
Speaker 1: What are you guys? Oh my god, I'm sorry, but yeah,
Speaker 1: he was waiting this whole time to talk to you.
Speaker 1: And now I guess he knows the truth. What kind
Speaker 1: of person does this? Like? You? You actually forgot that
Speaker 1: we were in the middle of a date, Like, how
Speaker 1: can you just forget that human being even exists because
Speaker 1: you bump into some dude? Oh my god, Sean. First
Speaker 1: of all, I was drunk and we like literally I
Speaker 1: literally had just met you, like, you know, what was
Speaker 1: it like forty five minutes? So so yeah, I died.
Speaker 1: But so after you sobered up, you saw my text,
Speaker 1: you saw that U miscalled, No nothing in you. There
Speaker 1: was no remorse noe. Oh man, that's pretty messed up. Nothing,
Speaker 1: no ideel bad about it. But I kind of figured
Speaker 1: it was such a quick hook up, and I thought
Speaker 1: I said goodbye to you before I left, So you know,
Speaker 1: I forgot, you know, I was, like I said, I
Speaker 1: had a few drinks, so I wasn't thinking clearly. We're
Speaker 1: on a first date, Nina, I mean, and you just
Speaker 1: go hook up with your ex boyfriend. You don't feel
Speaker 1: like you're all that broken up about it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I do feel bad about it, but come on, we
Speaker 1: met on tender dude. I mean, you know, it's not
Speaker 1: like you're gonna propose to me or anything. So I
Speaker 1: didn't think it was a big deal. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I I guess maybe at some point I would have
Speaker 1: reached I just really didn't put a lot of thought
Speaker 1: into it some point. But were you gonna wait till
Speaker 1: at a birthday? I mean no, I figured I would
Speaker 1: call you at some point, but you know, I was
Speaker 1: just wrapped up with my ax, and I wasn't really
Speaker 1: putting a lot of focus on it. You know. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I know I feel so bad for you,
Speaker 1: Sean Nina. That is really messed up that you just
Speaker 1: ditched somebody. He had a bad night to begin with,
Speaker 1: he had already been ditched by his friends. Well, first
Speaker 1: of all, not everybody has an ex like my ex. Okay,
Speaker 1: this guy, Oh well, I won't even get into that.
Speaker 1: And I mean I do feel bad for Sean. I
Speaker 1: just never thought it was that deep. Really. You know what,
Speaker 1: now I don't even feel as bad. I don't even
Speaker 1: feels like because you know what I did to you know,
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't take a total loss for the night.
Speaker 1: Was one of her girlfriends? No, you did not tell
Speaker 1: us that minute you did? What? Oh, now it matters.
Speaker 1: Now it matters who was it? Who did you look
Speaker 1: up with? I mean, why does it matter? You know,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just some guy. You were gonna
Speaker 1: call it his birthday? I mean, no, you know, you
Speaker 1: know it doesn't even matter. I bet I know who
Speaker 1: it was. Anyway, She's a flood in the room. Now.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I'm really confused because if you did that,
Speaker 1: why are you, after all this trouble to contact me.
Speaker 1: Why don't you just both with her? That's a good point.
Speaker 1: Why are you contacting me? I mean I was a
Speaker 1: little more interested in you, but you know I'm over
Speaker 1: that now, obviously. I mean, you're you're It's sounding all
Speaker 1: confusing to me because if you're interested in me, why
Speaker 1: are you hooking up with one of my friends? Oh,
Speaker 1: let me do that's not wrong. Let me use your
Speaker 1: drunk excuse. Oh, I was drunk, so you know it's
Speaker 1: just trying to happen. I know you didn't. All On
Speaker 1: this note, I would like to ask you if you
Speaker 1: would like to go out with Sean again on a
Speaker 1: second date. We will pay for it. Oh that's a
Speaker 1: very generous offer, but I think I will respectfully decline.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wanted you guys to go out
Speaker 1: again to see who you'd actually end up going home
Speaker 1: with that night. Now, maybe you can pay for him
Speaker 1: to go out with Okay, I good. I mean I
Speaker 1: don't want to go you again anyway. Honestly, your girlfriend
Speaker 1: was a little hotter than you, and then there was
Speaker 1: a couple other ones that I might be more interested
Speaker 1: party anyway. Yeah, okay, Sean's got all the girls. This
Speaker 1: is why I should meet up with guys on tender.
Speaker 1: I am done with that whole situation. I mean, you
Speaker 1: have like completely turned me off, and like, if I'm
Speaker 1: going to be meeting drugs like you, then nah, not
Speaker 1: even worth it. Whoa, that's fine. Yeah, stick the guys
Speaker 1: that dump you in real life. Oh my god. All right, well,
Speaker 1: thank you very much, you guys, And at least, hey, Sean,
Speaker 1: look at it this way. Now that you're kind of
Speaker 1: an ex of hers, you went on a date, next
Speaker 1: time you see her out with another dude, you might
Speaker 1: be able to hook up with her. All works out
Speaker 1: in the morning text in at seven eight five nine
Speaker 1: two that says, can you give me Sean's number? I'd
Speaker 1: love to go out on a date with him and
Speaker 1: then run into my ex and sleep with my ex.
Speaker 1: Two Broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second
Speaker 1: date update. If you missed it, This dude, Sean wanted
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Nina. They met while they
Speaker 1: were out at the bar. Actually, he was like, he
Speaker 1: got ditched by his friends and then he found her
Speaker 1: on Tinder and he met up with her, and then
Speaker 1: she ditched him as well, so he couldn't figure out
Speaker 1: what happened. We got her on the phone and she
Speaker 1: actually sort of forgot about Sean when they were hanging
Speaker 1: out because she ran into her ex and her X
Speaker 1: apparently is one of those people that, no matter what,
Speaker 1: you can't get enough of. So she left the bar
Speaker 1: with her ex and just forgot that she was hanging
Speaker 1: out with Sean and then didn't want to call him back.
Speaker 1: And she's like, whatever, we hung out for like a
Speaker 1: couple hours, I don't need to get back to him.
Speaker 1: And yeah, she told Sean that she ditched him that
Speaker 1: night so she could go have fun with her X.
Speaker 1: I think everyone understands like that there's that one X
Speaker 1: that you hook up with no matter what, but there's
Speaker 1: still like some sort of niceties that you have to
Speaker 1: do and ending another date before you make that happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: at least say goodbye to the guys you know, d
Speaker 1: be like, Hey, it was really cool meeting up with you,
Speaker 1: but my ex is awesome in the bedroom. I haven't
Speaker 1: tested you out yet, so you can understand. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: stick with the old reliable here on this one. Didn't
Speaker 1: have any reborse man. No, she didn't care at all.
Speaker 1: Was well apparently so was their love mate. Yeah, text
Speaker 1: and seven eight five nine two. Do you have a
Speaker 1: relationship like that with your X. I'm curious how many
Speaker 1: people out there would actually ditch somebody on a first
Speaker 1: date to hook up with their AX. And if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day up, they remember. All
Speaker 1: I have to do was emailed the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back. Young
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