WEBVTT - Second Date Update: V-Day Love Trap

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat dating. Here's a good theoretical question for the

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<v Speaker 1>gen zer in the room, alexis, if you're casually dating

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<v Speaker 1>a guy, how many other girls is he allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>have in the rotation? And like three? None? But I

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<v Speaker 1>have unlimited, So this is casual dating. Yes, I know

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<v Speaker 1>she said none and she has unlimited. Yeah, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was expecting somewhere in the triple digits. But this

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<v Speaker 1>is good because I'm asking because I understand dating now

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<v Speaker 1>is a little bit different, and one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>is in a unique situation she wants our help with today.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Beth, So Beth, welcome to the show. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Are you juggling ape dudes right now? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what's going on? I'm not juggling. I just have

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<v Speaker 1>one dude i'm talking to. Okay, Okay, okay. Does this

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<v Speaker 1>dude have a name? Yes, it's Scott. Okay. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a little bit of a different scenario. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure if it's kind of qualifies as a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just hoping you guys can still help me out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll tell us what's going on. Yeah, so technically, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been out three times. The first time hang up

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<v Speaker 1>looks like why aren't you married? Right? Okay? Three three

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<v Speaker 1>casual dates. Yeah, so you know we've hung out. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if the first one counts. Honestly, the

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<v Speaker 1>first one, we'd be hooked up. Okay, he hung out

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<v Speaker 1>twice since then, but we've been really kind of hitting

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<v Speaker 1>it off. I really enjoyed talking to him and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of casually hang it out. But so the last few

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<v Speaker 1>dates that we were on, it seems like you've been preoccupied. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>not like while you're on the date, he's not really midge. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're realized he's a guy, right, Yeah, but it's like

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<v Speaker 1>he's on his phone all the time. That's the worst. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the second I walk away to go to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>like I can see, he like picks up his phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I come back and I casually like mentioned it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, everything good at work. You know, you just

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you're on your phone a lot and he's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, oh no, you know, he's quick to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of shut it down and just misses it and says

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<v Speaker 1>he's just like checking sports and you have a quick

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<v Speaker 1>question when he puts his phone down. Does he put

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<v Speaker 1>it face up or does he put it face down?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if someone's hiding something and nearly put a face down, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>looks phone right now? Yeah, times because they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to see other dudes or were girls texting them

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<v Speaker 1>and pop up and then you can look over and see, Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you have an answer? For the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>it's down. So I haven't really been able to see

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<v Speaker 1>except for one time though. He was over at my

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<v Speaker 1>place for dinner and I was coming coming back from

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<v Speaker 1>around the kitchen. You're sitting on the couch and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of took a peek over his shoulder and I

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<v Speaker 1>just saw like a few letters I couldn't tell, like

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<v Speaker 1>who the name exactly was, was like p E or

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<v Speaker 1>PA I don't know, you know, and I don't It's

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<v Speaker 1>cool if he wants to do that. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>him to be honest with me because for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, call me like old fashioned, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to make sure that if he's seeing someone that

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<v Speaker 1>I would want to know about it. So wait, when

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<v Speaker 1>you saw his message over his shoulder, was it a

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<v Speaker 1>I mean PA or PA PE doesn't mean that he's

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<v Speaker 1>dating anybody. It could be. I mean, is that all

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<v Speaker 1>you saw? You didn't see anything else? Yeah? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I just saw, like I tried to see the name,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just those two letters that I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of glimpse because he quickly kind of just put his

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<v Speaker 1>phone away. So I mean, it just even if it

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<v Speaker 1>was a guy's name, or if it was a dude

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<v Speaker 1>that he's texting, like, why be kind of shady about

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<v Speaker 1>it and quickly put your phone away. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried to tell him that you like want

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<v Speaker 1>to be exclusive with him? Not quite. I didn't quite

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<v Speaker 1>say it like that, but I kind of just asked, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen anyone else? Because I'm not that's the problem,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but that's it implied, like if you get

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<v Speaker 1>a text message like that, you obviously know that someone

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<v Speaker 1>wants to only date you. Well, no, Brooke knows the

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<v Speaker 1>problem is that you don't ask. You tell a guy

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<v Speaker 1>we are rules, you will Guys follow direction better than anything. No,

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<v Speaker 1>how did he respond to that? He said no, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feeling that it could be something else. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that. Yeah, I have five girls, So

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<v Speaker 1>that makes it worse because if he would have just

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<v Speaker 1>responded like, hey, I'm not ready for that step. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all he had to say. If he said no and

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<v Speaker 1>he's seen other women, that means he's lying at this point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's claiming that he's not seeing anybody else, but Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting the feeling that maybe he is. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know normally we call people in second dates and ask

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<v Speaker 1>them why aren't you reaching out to them? Yeah? What

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<v Speaker 1>are we going to ask him? Like? Why are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you? Yeah, this is gonna be why are

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out to so many people? Is that what we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask? Okay, this mister could have sold me

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<v Speaker 1>with that for sure. Beth, what do you want? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you asking from us? I'm just looking the CP

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<v Speaker 1>guys can help and there's anything you can do to

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<v Speaker 1>get some answers. I don't want to be dating this guy, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a month from now and turned out that

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<v Speaker 1>he's seeing a bunch of others girls to start seeing

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<v Speaker 1>anybody named Scott right now. I don't think that's my

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<v Speaker 1>roster of this one. Yeah, And I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>can't just ask him directly because if he's already told

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Beth, and he's probably not just going to

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<v Speaker 1>come clean to a bunch of radio people like, oh yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm seeing a bunch of But I actually might have

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<v Speaker 1>an idea though, Okay, but I need to ask you, Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be okay with us kind of tricking him

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit to get the real answer out of him.

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<v Speaker 1>There goes bro code, Well, I'm done with listener code. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that would help, Like, how would we do that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. We're going to great tend to be

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<v Speaker 1>his date. I have an idea. We have to play

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<v Speaker 1>a song first, because we're running out of time. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to meet with producer Boyd and we'll discuss it

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll see if this can work. Hopefully prove Brooke wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand. Here's an interesting situation that we're in. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a woman named Beth on the phone who's been

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<v Speaker 1>on two to three dates with this guy named Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants them to give this relationship a try without

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<v Speaker 1>them seeing anybody else. Yeah. When she's even asked him

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<v Speaker 1>are you seeing anyone? And he told her no, But

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<v Speaker 1>he's been kind of hiding the phone from her. She

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<v Speaker 1>said in her email that he sometimes seems a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit checked out when they're on the dates together a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit distracted and his energy is just like he's

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<v Speaker 1>losing interest. You know, you can you can tell when

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<v Speaker 1>that vibe starts to go down. You normally know you

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<v Speaker 1>want to date someone when the vibe keeps going up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>better and better and better, senses something might be off.

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<v Speaker 1>So she wants us to try and investigate to see

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<v Speaker 1>for sure if Scott is seeing another person and not

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<v Speaker 1>telling her. So I had an idea on how we

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<v Speaker 1>could do this before the break, and I went and

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<v Speaker 1>I talked to producer Boyd about it, and he laughed

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<v Speaker 1>hysterically in my face and setting up. We're not doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>When our producer laughs, it's at you. Yeah. So who

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be walking by at that exact moment, Jose, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And he actually came up with a much better idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Just guys know, I'm like a myth. When I hear laughter,

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<v Speaker 1>I just appear. He said, why don't you, guys offer

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<v Speaker 1>something to the guy on the phone and then ask

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<v Speaker 1>him who he'd like to get it to share it

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Why don't you just give him an open

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<v Speaker 1>gift card and see if he chooses. Yeah, yeah, that works.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it works better for you, because it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>even more awkward if a radio station was calling him

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<v Speaker 1>after three dates to be like, why aren't you probably run?

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<v Speaker 1>But I saw in your email to us you told

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<v Speaker 1>us that one of your dates was at a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and he left a complaint that night because they screwed

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<v Speaker 1>up the bill. Yeah yeah, okay, so sure you want

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<v Speaker 1>to date this guy already? So if I if I

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<v Speaker 1>call from that restaurant and I offer him a free

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<v Speaker 1>meal as an apology for the bill mix up. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>now I get it. I see. Okay, so we should

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<v Speaker 1>probably be quiet. Yeah, yeah, we'll do that safe. So Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me the name of the restaurant. Yeah, we went

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<v Speaker 1>to bar and grill. Okay, do a day. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a nighttime, no, no, no of the reservation like a

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<v Speaker 1>weekday night. Yeah, it was last Thursday, okay, Thursday. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Scott. Yeah. Um, if for some reason he

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<v Speaker 1>does me that he'd like to take me out, can

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<v Speaker 1>we just hang up because it's embarrassing. Oh, I'd prefer

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't, so that we could finish the time that

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<v Speaker 1>we have to fill here as the restaurant we three

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<v Speaker 1>way called your friend, don't do that. But I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call Scott right now and we'll see what he has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. All right, okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the manager from Bar and Grill. We had this

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<v Speaker 1>number on reservation from a few nights ago for a

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<v Speaker 1>Scott party of two. This is him. Hi, Scott. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you today because our hostess came to me recently

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<v Speaker 1>and said that there was an issue that you had

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<v Speaker 1>the night of your dinner, and I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call and make sure that everything's okay. Uh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it is now. It was like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>real pain then, and I like I was on a day,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was like even a kind of worse. But

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I am so sorry. We feel horrible

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<v Speaker 1>that that happened, and we would like to have you

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<v Speaker 1>back again, not just on a normal night. I know

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<v Speaker 1>we're normally booked out for months here, but Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 1>is coming up and we just had a table cancel.

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<v Speaker 1>We would love to offer that opening up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Yeah, that would be that would be solid.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't made plans yet for a bolotized wonderful well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll even do a complimentary bottle of champagne. We can

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<v Speaker 1>put a nice note on the table for you and

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<v Speaker 1>your date that night. Just I hope that we can

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<v Speaker 1>put this all the rest. I mean, just so we're clear, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't owe you anything for this, No, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do this one hundred percent on the house. It'll

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<v Speaker 1>be free of charge. Well I mean at that rate, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like offs for jammin. Okay, excellent. So M just in

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<v Speaker 1>order to lock in that reservation, we need your name

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<v Speaker 1>and the guest name that you'll have that evening. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my name's Scott. Okay, Scott, and can I get your

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<v Speaker 1>date's name? Please? Well? Do I need to put that

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<v Speaker 1>down now? It would just help us to lock in

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<v Speaker 1>the reservation. We want to have the note ready for

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<v Speaker 1>you with both of your names on it, just so

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<v Speaker 1>that we could apologize and make good with everything. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean okay, Um, I guess put down Penny Penny.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry did you say Beth? I said Penny Penny? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I got confused. No, Beth is the one that's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone listening right now to this conversation. Um, hey, Scott,

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<v Speaker 1>it's that Um. Why why would you lie when I

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<v Speaker 1>asked you if you were seeing anybody, like I told

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<v Speaker 1>you I wasn't seeing anybody. What's the house going on?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a setup, Scott. Yeah that Beth. Beth called our

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<v Speaker 1>show because she was worried that while you two have

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<v Speaker 1>been seeing each other, you may have been also seeing

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else on the side, possibly this Penny person, which

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<v Speaker 1>would have been cool if you didn't tell her. You

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<v Speaker 1>told her that you weren't seeing anyone else. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you lie to who's Penny? Penny's my sister. Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>is from another part of the country. You guys, get off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like blowing up people's spots, Like, what the hell

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<v Speaker 1>is this? Oh? Man, come on, we hooked up once,

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<v Speaker 1>we went on two days, and you're having people call

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<v Speaker 1>me to try to find out if there's a reason

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<v Speaker 1>you're singal. I mean so okay, I mean you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>so shady on your phone all the time. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know, like the truth. I mean, it's one

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<v Speaker 1>really your sister. No, no, I mean, Scott, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you just tell her when she asked if

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<v Speaker 1>you were seeing other people that you weren't ready to

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<v Speaker 1>be exclusive in your relationship. That's all you had to say. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have to say no and why? But well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at the time, I wasn't seeing anybody else

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<v Speaker 1>like oh in that actual minute. Yeah, like he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>in his That's great, are you naturally? Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>have other people like? For real? Well, obviously you couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be honest on your own. So I mean it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool, like I'm just I'm glad I got the

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<v Speaker 1>answer I needed just say, and this is still bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not like he's cheating, he's just lying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes Scott, how would you? How were you going

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<v Speaker 1>to explain to Beth that you already had play once

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<v Speaker 1>on Valentine's Day? I was like, you plan on explaining anything?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to answer your questions. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys set me up to look like on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what the hell to think? You made yourself

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<v Speaker 1>look that way a little bit, Scott, but right now

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<v Speaker 1>said yeah, would you that would be a lovely date?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like me to change the name on the reservation? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, you need to go yourself. Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 1>is coming up. And second of all, we were only

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<v Speaker 1>two and a half dates. I'm not cheating on anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't say you didn't say that. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just think Beth. I mean, Beth, how are you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like you're probably kind of upset because you lied to Beth? Yeah, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's not about the fact that you were cheating

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<v Speaker 1>on me or not, like it's it's the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>I asked you, I texted you and like, hey, you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing you are blah blah. I've heard the like four

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<v Speaker 1>times from you and enjoy three other idiots account I

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<v Speaker 1>tell one lie. Now you make me look like a jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>We were like serious, I would have answered truthfully, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's not where he was playing a prank on that.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're serious, that you're truthful, it's before that, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just anything. You guys are a bunch of morons. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>done talking to you. And why don't you enjoy your

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<v Speaker 1>single life on Valentine's Day because I know you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>by yourself. Oh wow, it's better than waiting at home. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on a date with Penny. Okay, it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like Scott hung up that the first red

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<v Speaker 1>flag should have been the plaint at the restaurant. Plain

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<v Speaker 1>you need to change it. You don't put in a

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<v Speaker 1>formal complaint like that's late. Yeah, I don't even look

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<v Speaker 1>at the I'm rich. Yeah, I had to smash plates

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<v Speaker 1>until they change my or I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it the formal way. And that's why you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be single. Also on Valentine'stack, I'm issuing a formal

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<v Speaker 1>complaint right now, Station Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, a relationship is like a flower you got,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta love it. You have to send that flower

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<v Speaker 1>some nude picks to let it know that you're interested.

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<v Speaker 1>How does that have to do that? Just did no flower?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting there, okay. And you know, you know the

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<v Speaker 1>buds before they open up and become beautiful pedals. That

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<v Speaker 1>was a bud ready to bloom. And then we ripped

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<v Speaker 1>the flower out of the ground and stomped on it before.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't dud. He was lying, he was sucky. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like that guy. He was complaining about the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing he's not complaining about the restaurant. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>a discrepancy in the bed. Do it on a d Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I thank you and then all I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know is if the other girl, Penny heard that,

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<v Speaker 1>because my guess is she doesn't know about bed. Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of flower you talking about? I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I should feel good about that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really feel that good. I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she saw the red flags, she knew she shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>kept dating him. She did see, but she also seemed

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<v Speaker 1>really sad to find out that he was a cheater.

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<v Speaker 1>So that kind of makes me feel sad that I

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<v Speaker 1>made one of our listeners sad, remember not cheater liar,

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<v Speaker 1>right exactly. And I don't want to open this up

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<v Speaker 1>don't want us to continue tricking and deceiving people unless

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners want us to do. Okay, well, we'll see

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