WEBVTT - Gleb & Flow

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<v Speaker 1>Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was so depressing about last week's show,

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<v Speaker 1>was what you just said to me? You went home? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sad about it. I went to my twelve

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<v Speaker 1>year old, my nine year old, and my five year

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<v Speaker 1>old was the five year old. I just nine. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, guess who I just talked to. They're like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Shaia Twain and they're like, that hurts

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<v Speaker 1>my heart. It's just because we're old. We are young.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think they like with my parents generation,

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<v Speaker 1>like if they were like James Taylor, I'd be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>James Taylor is amazing. Do you know, like Richard Marks,

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<v Speaker 1>Like hello, love Richard Marks. But I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>everyone I don't know that's still a little older than us,

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<v Speaker 1>really right, I think it is Richard. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>know who they are, but what everybody our age don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just sad. I was like, you know, from

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<v Speaker 1>like the nineties, oh wait, oh wait, you weren't even

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<v Speaker 1>anyway that was excited. Um. The Memorial Day weekend was

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. We had a little pool party. I

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<v Speaker 1>got a little sad. It's hard being the single girl

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<v Speaker 1>around like husband and wives. You know, it's kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that this is this is nice. But then

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time I had your husband grilling, I

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<v Speaker 1>had Sais husband picking up dog poop with some plastic bags.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was like my rental husband's. But no, it

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<v Speaker 1>did like I got into a weird funk, which I

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<v Speaker 1>started to feel bad about because I'm like, this Memorial Day,

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<v Speaker 1>people have died today, and yet I'm in a funk

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm lonely and like sad that I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>someone with me. Well, I think that's okay. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that especially for someone like you that just loves

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<v Speaker 1>couple of things. I love couple of things, a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of nights, a couple of this intentional nights, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of person. It's going to be hard, which

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't even think I saw my husband

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday because he grilled the whole time. So like, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also not you know, but I get it. I

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<v Speaker 1>knew you were a little I could tell. It just

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<v Speaker 1>makes me sad and not And here's the deal, Like

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<v Speaker 1>even at parties before I like when someone checks in

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<v Speaker 1>with me, like I don't I don't want the person

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<v Speaker 1>like hanging on my side the ensure time, but I

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<v Speaker 1>like it check in. I like someone to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>come and grab you a little bit, like that's just me,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I want that, and I never got that, so

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm the same time part I'm kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I really had that anyways, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>still like knowing that, Yeah, I could write, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I get it. I do get it, but at

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<v Speaker 1>least with like that group, like the guys are kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like your brother's so it's kind of like, but

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. Yeah, speaking of brothers, I fight. I

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<v Speaker 1>fought like brother and sister with my next guest, and

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<v Speaker 1>that would be the one and only Glove seven Schenko Glove.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually really excited to have Glab on the show

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<v Speaker 1>because he was my Dancing with the Stars partner and

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<v Speaker 1>he's never come on the show, and I'm just excited

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to him because obviously he's going through life

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<v Speaker 1>changes as well, and I think, um, he's in the

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<v Speaker 1>waiting room. But I have to just have to let

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<v Speaker 1>Catherine tell this story of like not the first time

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<v Speaker 1>you met club, but what was happening? Where are we

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<v Speaker 1>at That's what I was going to ask you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's New York. Were we in New York? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>we couldn't have been in New York because it's New

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<v Speaker 1>York first, and this was at least a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>And surely this dance, Oh yeah, this dance was like

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<v Speaker 1>the like the fifth last dance I did. Why were

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<v Speaker 1>we We were some in some hotel take it away?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god. Um. I don't think it's like vague to me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just remember we were somewhere at a hotel

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<v Speaker 1>and I had my own I mean obviously, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had my hotel room, you had your hotel room, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But somehow I think it was your hotel room. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Somehow we end up in my hotel room.

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<v Speaker 1>And they have to practice their dance, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>they have like certain hours and they do all that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they go to the studios or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 1>they needed like a few minutes to just practice their dance.

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<v Speaker 1>We needed a bed, oh yeah, because the whole routine

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<v Speaker 1>was about being in a bed. So I'm like, it

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<v Speaker 1>was hard to do it on the floor because we

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<v Speaker 1>need an actual bed. So I'm like, so we go

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<v Speaker 1>to the and I make you come because I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be like in bed with him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, so I made you like be there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it was. But it was like a sweet

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<v Speaker 1>So I just remember that it was like a separate,

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<v Speaker 1>separate bedroom and I was in like the living room

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<v Speaker 1>part of it while y'all like practice for a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like you just stay in there for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>like like just trust me, Like just stay in there

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while. And then you're like hey, So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like what are they doing? And so then you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>come here, come watch for a minute. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>the bedroom scene dance which everybody remembers, the shower scene,

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<v Speaker 1>the showers of the shower. It was in a bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Now start in the bed and then like we roll around.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that I came in there and they proceeded and me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so awkward anyway, especially with like physical talk. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I don't ever try to hold Catherine, say

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<v Speaker 1>just a guy. So I'll look in and they're literally

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<v Speaker 1>rolling around on the bed and I've never been more uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>And literally, anytime I think of Glad, that's all I

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<v Speaker 1>think about. Yes, terrible. Well, let's bring him in high glad.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you do you remember Catherine? Hi? Remember Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning? How are you doing good? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>So we were just talking about I wonder if he

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<v Speaker 1>remembers I mean, do you remember when we did the

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<v Speaker 1>shower dance and we need it? Who can forget a

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<v Speaker 1>shower dance? I know he remembers that, right, But remember

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<v Speaker 1>when we because the beginning of that dance, we were

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<v Speaker 1>in a bed and we're like, we need a bed.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, well, let's go to the hotel room.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I had Catherine and I think tarn was

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<v Speaker 1>there too. Someone else not in that Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a several people there. I remember in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>I was the only one. But I just remember like,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, okay, there, I have like so much

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you about. Let's just start with that dance. Though,

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<v Speaker 1>Um that was like I I was even uncomfortable and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like a pretty you know you know, but like

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<v Speaker 1>that dance in the bed was like like sexy. Well listen,

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<v Speaker 1>the original idea was I wanted you to start with

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<v Speaker 1>two other guys, right, and they did not approve that

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<v Speaker 1>because they the show and whatever. So I was like, Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>how can we can make it work. We'll just put

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<v Speaker 1>you alone in the bed, and but it was, it worked,

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<v Speaker 1>It worked out perfectly. It was great. Oh my god, glad.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally forgot that you wanted two other guys. And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember being like, I'm so uncomfortable that this is

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<v Speaker 1>the show that my dad is coming to. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>have a video from a rehearsal somewhere because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have two guys, I had three different girls were like

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<v Speaker 1>doing it and I'm like trying to portograph choreograph on them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, So I have this video of them doing

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. It was. It was. It was thank god

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't use that because it was it would have

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<v Speaker 1>been terrible. Thank god. No. Yeah, I mean, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad that it ended up the way that it did.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do have to say like the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>my father was in the audience at that dance, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we did like the cute little like jive

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<v Speaker 1>and we did this, that and the other, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the one that he sees like like would

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<v Speaker 1>on the line when it says, come on, give me

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<v Speaker 1>a taste, Like I still I still to this day, like,

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<v Speaker 1>can't watch that dance because I'm like, oh my god, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did av see approve that? I know, it was crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was crazy. It was crazy good. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>we could have done actually that dance as a freestyle. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it would have been so like epic and so sick.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean we did get our first four tents,

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<v Speaker 1>and Pitbull even gave us. And I remember I was

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<v Speaker 1>so stressed because I was like, you know how it is.

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<v Speaker 1>We finished on the show and like in my head,

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<v Speaker 1>like I already started chotographing the next dance because I

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<v Speaker 1>have to teach you a little of the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>And you we got a first dance and you were like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go and celebrate, and I was like what, like

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate what? Remember that? I was like, I want to celebrate.

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<v Speaker 1>We got on first hand, and I was like so

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<v Speaker 1>caught up in the next thing. I was like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just keep pushing. And that's when we were like

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<v Speaker 1>I had a little, a little not a fight, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like what no, we definitely we had our

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<v Speaker 1>first fight after that those four tents. Remember it was

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<v Speaker 1>the next dance. It was like the oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>what it was like the washer dryer scene. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a samba samble, which I hate, I hate. I

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<v Speaker 1>hated it to my core, like hated it, hated it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we had to rehearse that. You were on tour

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<v Speaker 1>and we were somewhere like in that weird studio. We

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<v Speaker 1>had literally nothing, no windows, it was darker. It's just bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember we so and I've said again what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do? Then the stars again? You know, wait, would

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<v Speaker 1>you be my would you be my partner? Or or no?

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<v Speaker 1>I know maybe we'll pair you with Alan. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>would do it one of you're my partner, okay, no

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<v Speaker 1>nobody else Alan, now nope, no, no, because we we

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<v Speaker 1>deserve a do over. Okay because you got sick? Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>the last um you draw at me on the on

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<v Speaker 1>the finale, it was the worst. Like we were we

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<v Speaker 1>were in the top obviously, what did we make it?

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<v Speaker 1>We're top four? But then it's like I screwed so bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Like could you write like I got sick like really

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<v Speaker 1>the week before and I also got injured. Remember how

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<v Speaker 1>like you who did you rehearse with Alan? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you flew to New York with Alan to rehearse some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dance, and I mean also, it was so

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<v Speaker 1>exhausting for you because you were on tour. You just

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<v Speaker 1>had Jolie literally like six months before you're like looking

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<v Speaker 1>after a baby. You were doing dancing all the stars. What.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot have imagine how you did all of that

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time I was separated from you. Were

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<v Speaker 1>hurt too for like a while, yeah, like really bad

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<v Speaker 1>because I remember coming to visit you and he could

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<v Speaker 1>not move. I'm like, how are you dancing? Yeah? The

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<v Speaker 1>second week, we remember, we were up in the red

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<v Speaker 1>what is that called the Kissing Red Room, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like showing me something and I just I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I my innercostal muscles or whatever. I basically tore them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean since yeah, I mean for weeks I

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<v Speaker 1>was injured and it hurts. I can't that I can

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<v Speaker 1>leave you remember all of that, because I actually I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't know that you actually didn't remember all

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<v Speaker 1>of that very vivid memories of my dancing with the

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<v Speaker 1>stars dive. Um, yeah no, but I I have I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I have to like take back something that

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<v Speaker 1>I've said, because I've I've said that you were mean before.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, actually, it's so funny because Nicky Glaze and

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<v Speaker 1>just told me the same thing. And I never think

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<v Speaker 1>of myself that I could be mean. Look at me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the nicest guy, the nicest Russian, Like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>can'not be But she told me the other day, she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you actually will really mean. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it like a language bearer that I would

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<v Speaker 1>say something to me would be normal that like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I demand like if I saw you one straighten your leg,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I would expect you to do it all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. And that's why I want to correct it

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<v Speaker 1>because I think, um, you were tough, and like I

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<v Speaker 1>love tough, but I think, yeah, I mean, it might

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<v Speaker 1>be the language barrier a little bit too. But at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time, you're like you always make stronger like

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<v Speaker 1>stronger legs, and it's like, dude, I'm trying, like I

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<v Speaker 1>am not a dancer. I know you're trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>me ad answer, but like I I wish I could

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<v Speaker 1>do the I wish I could look like Jenna and

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<v Speaker 1>Emma and all those other girls and Whitney. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like I I'm like literally trying my hardest, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've I've talked to like Bobby Bones about this,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, Lauren, you're you know, your previous partner

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<v Speaker 1>and you know where it's like you go in and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're so excited, but then when you hit

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<v Speaker 1>like the second or third week, you are just so

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<v Speaker 1>mentally and emotionally just like just wrecked because you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I suck, I'm not good at anything. I'm the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Like and because it's just and you're putting yourself out

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<v Speaker 1>there and it's it's it's embarrassing. Then you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>Russian screaming at you things you know, stronger legs and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying listen. It's sometimes here's the thing us as

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<v Speaker 1>pros and I actually I've learned this along the way.

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<v Speaker 1>You know over those years that you still want to

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<v Speaker 1>make it fun for a celebrity. You know, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to kill completely kill the vibe. You you she

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<v Speaker 1>will never become a professional dancer. You know. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>balance of two things. You want her to enjoy the process,

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy the competition, but at the same time you want

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<v Speaker 1>to push her, like so you don't want to always

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<v Speaker 1>have fun because it's not gonna get you anywhere, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? It's still but it's about so

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes like when I work, I kind of forget about

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<v Speaker 1>it and then started just drilling and drilling and drilling.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it goes over and over and over and

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<v Speaker 1>for you, like you said, you're not a professional dancer

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<v Speaker 1>and someone there's dude every day for eight hours a day,

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<v Speaker 1>it tells you that you suck. You kind of get

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<v Speaker 1>annoyed too, you know what I mean? Like you're like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying, but you know so, yes, So now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little different. I'm actually making it more fun for

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<v Speaker 1>my partners. Because I was your first US partner, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you were my second. Wait, because your first one was Li.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she just say an interview that she's in love

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<v Speaker 1>with you or something, or that she wishes or something

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<v Speaker 1>about having sex? She said, we had an emotional connection. No,

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<v Speaker 1>no MSR or something like that. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what it means. Like I was like, listen, we gotta

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<v Speaker 1>to learn some She said that she wished she wished

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<v Speaker 1>that she slept with you. Lisa vander Pop said that,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I love Mesa Lisa Vanderpup. What yeah, that she

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<v Speaker 1>wished that she's left with you. Well, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>we you know, she's married to Kim and I love

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<v Speaker 1>Kim okay, and I was married at that time. So

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<v Speaker 1>and like, I mean, here's the thing, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>all like you he can do it right, Like do

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<v Speaker 1>you wish that you slept with her too? Club? What? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I will say though, like I love

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation. By the way, this is amazing, this is

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<v Speaker 1>so fun. We're happy to have you on here. But

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<v Speaker 1>I will you know, it's you're very intimate. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, like our shower dance and other dances and

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<v Speaker 1>we are up. I don't know if I like knowing

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<v Speaker 1>that because it's like and essentially you're falling in love

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<v Speaker 1>in a dance, right, Like we had to be act

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<v Speaker 1>and be emotionally connected to each other and sexually connected

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<v Speaker 1>to each other. And obviously we had really good chemistry.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I was like, like, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>could handle one of my like if a boyfriend or

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<v Speaker 1>a husband, I don't know, because it's like you you

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<v Speaker 1>have to have that, Like I don't know it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's like listen, it's like acting, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Chapters Mary, they have family and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know you book a movie where you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be naked making out with a hot dude and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like shooting somewhere in Canada for four months. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>just acting, you still, you know, it's it's not real.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're transported in a different world. So you

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<v Speaker 1>want to create that illusion, you know that. And you

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<v Speaker 1>do have to have chemistry with I think with your

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<v Speaker 1>partner because it's important to work together, you know, like

0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:34.600
<v Speaker 1>you'd so much time together every single day. Um, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to hate each other, you know. But kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like with the acting thing though, it's almost like

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<v Speaker 1>Gleab is the normal actor and the other dancers are not,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a conversation you have with people all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you're the actor, it just feels like a job,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're not a normal actor, it doesn't. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so true. Yeah, for you, it's a lot easier too

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<v Speaker 1>because you're an actress. Like even though you're doing something

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<v Speaker 1>completely foreign to you, like your dance saying, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>putting yourself in character, you know what I mean When

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<v Speaker 1>I told you, like you have to be all this

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<v Speaker 1>like icy like that. You know you're doing it even

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<v Speaker 1>though it maybe it's not like perfect or whatever, but

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<v Speaker 1>you trying and when you're actually putting yourself out there

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<v Speaker 1>like doing it, committing to it, then it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>a dope freaking dance. Yeah. No, that's so true though,

0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.760
<v Speaker 1>because it's like I always talk to people and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so not like it's just acting and there's no like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have chemistry, but it's not. It stops there when

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<v Speaker 1>the scene ends, you know. And um, yeah, so that

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<v Speaker 1>makes that makes total sense. What you're saying to I,

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<v Speaker 1>who is your favorite partner? You don't have to say me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that you are my favorite partner. You are my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite partner. You know it. If we could go if

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<v Speaker 1>you could go back and redo our stuff, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our season, what would be different that you would want

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<v Speaker 1>to take into I think because here's the thing. Like

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<v Speaker 1>when we were on the season, I was taking a

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<v Speaker 1>week at a time. I was just like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>our last week, and we were on the bottom to

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<v Speaker 1>six times, like every time we go from week two,

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<v Speaker 1>we're on the bottom two and we never got eliminated.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was I thought, we're gonna go home every

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<v Speaker 1>single week. Now, what I would do differently, I would

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<v Speaker 1>just face ourselves, you know, like I would take it slow,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't have to do your best best work

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<v Speaker 1>every single week, even though you want to try it,

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<v Speaker 1>but sometimes you don't want to stress about it. And

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<v Speaker 1>because I was stressed, so stressed that I got sicked,

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<v Speaker 1>that I got you know, exhausted, that I got weak,

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<v Speaker 1>and the whole thing just fell apart. Even though we

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<v Speaker 1>made it fine, we could have been, we could have

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<v Speaker 1>want like you could have won it. You're that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of work material that actually can win the show. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I want to go back and like redo it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then do you remember this is the funniest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you remember this, but I got

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<v Speaker 1>we got into a fight. You called me a E

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<v Speaker 1>I T H. I remember exactly how it was. I

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<v Speaker 1>will remember exactly how it was to be so late,

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<v Speaker 1>and it drove me crazy because I'm like respect my

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<v Speaker 1>time as well, like I have my kid, I'm separated

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<v Speaker 1>from my husband, Like I'm like, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like stressed years that I know, So it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a semifinal something. It was still that was in the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the show. We have this master interview. Master

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<v Speaker 1>interviews you huge interviews, so important, right, so important hold

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<v Speaker 1>one production like temp producers on set all this like

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<v Speaker 1>lighting this set up for us. And I'm late for

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<v Speaker 1>about thirty four, like literally late for the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I was in wardrobe fighting them over Janna's dressed.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that, yeah, And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have like and I had this whole conversation with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm going to be late for this

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<v Speaker 1>mastering me like no, we we're gonna do this and

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<v Speaker 1>this and this, and I know how like she would

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<v Speaker 1>look beautiful in this. So I sit down and she

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<v Speaker 1>gives me this attitude la it I did. I was

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<v Speaker 1>like like at least like anyways, she snapped like she

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<v Speaker 1>said something really annoying, and I was like, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>bit like. I was like, and she oh my god.

0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:21.520
<v Speaker 1>It was like she everybody kind of went like oh uh.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, like I'm sorry, Okay, I shouldn't we

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<v Speaker 1>have already. I know, I know we were just we

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of high energies. Out of the room,

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<v Speaker 1>she threw the mic sort of stone out like I

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<v Speaker 1>ran up. I was like, okay, what do I do? Shoot?

0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:40.560
<v Speaker 1>So I ran on the street. I stopped for the

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<v Speaker 1>cameras followed that like some babe, we are in it together,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do the job, let's just dance, let's just and

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<v Speaker 1>they've never actually they showed a little bit of it,

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<v Speaker 1>but they've never actually showed the whole thing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean they showed, and I was I was glad they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't show mad at me, you know, And I have

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize to because I I had so much going

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<v Speaker 1>on with like my ext just coming back from rehab

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you know, the baby and the stress and

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<v Speaker 1>the show and like. And then I think when when

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<v Speaker 1>you called me that, I was just like no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like and then and I wanted to win two. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make you happy, and I wanted you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted all of that. So it was I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was just we were just when you spend that

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<v Speaker 1>much intimate time with someone and work and there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many emotions, and then on top of it, like you

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<v Speaker 1>had your family stuff going on. I had my family stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just it's a lot, you know. But I

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<v Speaker 1>would I would do it again, minus the bitch com

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<v Speaker 1>I would do it again. I would do it all

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<v Speaker 1>again over. I really would. It was it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a good time, who is your least favorite partner?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me it's only just us three? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, I don't have like a least favorite partner.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always comes like I love everybody, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking pretty much staying in touch with everybody. But when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to dancing, like if you can say, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can tell me who like probably was like the

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<v Speaker 1>least experience dancer and like with a lot of challenges

0:22:14.040 --> 0:22:17.479
<v Speaker 1>that obstacle that came my way, I would probably say

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<v Speaker 1>Nikki Glazer. She's so cool though, and I love that

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<v Speaker 1>y'all just like went out, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>He cares about dancing. So I would be like, if

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to choose between this and this, I

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<v Speaker 1>would take definitely Nicki, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 1>a I don't want to manage that other people's names.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you have like a celebrity that if you

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<v Speaker 1>could just pick someone to be your partner? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, help me out, let's brainstorm. Let's right now,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have like a dream person that would be

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<v Speaker 1>like the ultimate dance partner. Honestly, no, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, because well we'll figure that out. For you.

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<v Speaker 1>It really depends you can be here's the thing, Like

0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:04.760
<v Speaker 1>you can be an amazing dancer where you can be

0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:07.680
<v Speaker 1>very like flat of no personality, you know what I mean.

0:23:07.880 --> 0:23:12.479
<v Speaker 1>You can have a huge personality and really dancer. You

0:23:12.480 --> 0:23:16.480
<v Speaker 1>can be kind of like, you know, dancer but teachable

0:23:16.640 --> 0:23:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and likable and famous with great personality that you know.

0:23:21.119 --> 0:23:24.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's like a balance of everything. So the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>personally who can win? Got it. It's funny that, like

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<v Speaker 1>every time Glob gets a new partner, I secretly get

0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 1>like kind of jealous because I'm like, because it's such

0:23:35.600 --> 0:23:37.919
<v Speaker 1>a fun experience, Like even through all the ups and

0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:40.679
<v Speaker 1>downs we had, like it was still such a fun

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<v Speaker 1>experience and like to be able to do something that

0:23:42.760 --> 0:23:44.480
<v Speaker 1>was so out of my comfort zone. But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do I always get a little like, uh, like because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I want to go back and do it. Um.

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 1>But I will say, you know, throughout the years, you know,

0:23:53.880 --> 0:23:57.679
<v Speaker 1>we haven't stayed in like in touch a lot, but

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<v Speaker 1>I will say I I greatly appreciated, Um, you reached

0:24:01.840 --> 0:24:06.280
<v Speaker 1>out to me when you heard about my break or

0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 1>my my breakup, and it's just like you've been You've

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:13.080
<v Speaker 1>been so sweet and kind like through through it and

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:15.800
<v Speaker 1>because you know you've walked the same path, and I

0:24:15.840 --> 0:24:18.760
<v Speaker 1>just I really appreciate you reaching out and you know,

0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:23.800
<v Speaker 1>just kind of helping me, um with with you know, questions,

0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:25.520
<v Speaker 1>because I was asking him one time, like how do

0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you do it? Like how do you like? How do

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:29.119
<v Speaker 1>you co parent? Like when you're angry? And how do

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:31.639
<v Speaker 1>you like because you're you're going through that. So I

0:24:31.680 --> 0:24:36.040
<v Speaker 1>just appreciate all the support that you've you've shown me. Yeah,

0:24:36.280 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>it's life. You know, life happens, and we just keep moving.

0:24:41.480 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>You know, you gotta keep moving. You just gotta do

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:48.360
<v Speaker 1>what's best for you. Um. You know, in my situation,

0:24:48.520 --> 0:24:52.439
<v Speaker 1>we I love Elaine, I respect I have huge respect

0:24:52.480 --> 0:24:55.119
<v Speaker 1>to her. Um. Of course she's the mother of my kids,

0:24:55.119 --> 0:24:59.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So, UM, it's hard at

0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 1>times because you know, no one's perfect and there's always

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:07.560
<v Speaker 1>but you have to communicate. There's a conversation, you know. Um,

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:10.080
<v Speaker 1>when it's in the early stage, I feel like it's

0:25:10.119 --> 0:25:12.600
<v Speaker 1>really hard to do because you can't really stand each other,

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. You're like, I don't want

0:25:14.280 --> 0:25:18.679
<v Speaker 1>to see your ass at all. But because you have kids,

0:25:18.720 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 1>and like you know, we we just decided that we're

0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:28.679
<v Speaker 1>not going to speak about like anything, nothing negative in

0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:31.919
<v Speaker 1>front of the kids. You know, regardless of what's going on.

0:25:32.000 --> 0:25:34.239
<v Speaker 1>We can have an appointment with a lawyer and the

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:37.119
<v Speaker 1>mediator and have a huge, massive fight in the morning,

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:39.960
<v Speaker 1>But when we're together with kids, like you know, I

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.560
<v Speaker 1>pick up a living from school and I take her

0:25:42.600 --> 0:25:44.240
<v Speaker 1>to a dance studio, and I see her in a

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:47.359
<v Speaker 1>dance studio, we're cool, you know what I mean. We laugh,

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:51.480
<v Speaker 1>like I get her flowers from Mother's Day things like that,

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean That I want to show

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:57.920
<v Speaker 1>my girls that how that should treat their mom, which

0:25:57.960 --> 0:26:01.159
<v Speaker 1>is really important to me, you know, because they should

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:05.320
<v Speaker 1>know that how they should be treated in the future,

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like, so that's important and

0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:14.320
<v Speaker 1>everything else. You know, it is what it is. Do

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel that you're kind of on the other side

0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 1>of it now, Like do you are you Are you happier?

0:26:20.000 --> 0:26:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel lighter? Like do you feel like you

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:28.959
<v Speaker 1>made the right choice? I mean, here's the thing, Um,

0:26:31.040 --> 0:26:33.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not about making the right choice, do you know

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? It just it just happens. Whatever supposed

0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:42.280
<v Speaker 1>to happen happens. So It's not like, you know, like

0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 1>one day you wake up and you're like, Okay, I

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be with this person anymore. That's it, right,

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:49.760
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like it gradually. It's it's you know,

0:26:49.800 --> 0:26:52.840
<v Speaker 1>a long time coming, you know. So there's like a

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:55.199
<v Speaker 1>lot of issues that we were going through try to

0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>make it work. There's several times like broke up and

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 1>live separately for a little bit and tried to make

0:27:02.000 --> 0:27:04.040
<v Speaker 1>it work. I tried my best to make it work.

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.320
<v Speaker 1>She tried for best to make it work. There are

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:08.600
<v Speaker 1>certain things like when they're like I don't know, like

0:27:08.600 --> 0:27:12.720
<v Speaker 1>when the energy is not there, there's no there's really

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:18.680
<v Speaker 1>nothing really just kids holding you together. So that's that

0:27:18.800 --> 0:27:36.040
<v Speaker 1>becomes the end. I'm curious to like on dating, because

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, it looked like you had moved on quite

0:27:40.080 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>fast after the breakup, you know, and we were just

0:27:43.760 --> 0:27:47.639
<v Speaker 1>having this conversation where it's like she asked me, like

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>when would I want to start dating? By the way, no,

0:27:50.440 --> 0:27:52.439
<v Speaker 1>I know, not now, but like you you know, use

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.520
<v Speaker 1>some girl went to Camba with you and like you

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>were guys were like, you know whatever, and so Katherine

0:27:58.480 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>was asking, She's like, when are you going to start

0:27:59.840 --> 0:28:02.560
<v Speaker 1>doing and I'm like, I feel like there's this like

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:05.640
<v Speaker 1>timeline that like we're supposed to you know, not move

0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>fast into relationship or not you know, go to the

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 1>next one. But at the same time, it's like if

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:13.640
<v Speaker 1>you meet someone, then it's like why would why would

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:16.239
<v Speaker 1>I push out a beautiful person in my life just

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>because the timeline says that I should probably take more

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:21.639
<v Speaker 1>time or that I shouldn't move too faster. Where where

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:27.160
<v Speaker 1>like your thoughts on dating and kind of moving on? Um,

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 1>how was Miami? By the way, it was so fun.

0:28:32.800 --> 0:28:35.679
<v Speaker 1>Nothing happened, but it was so fun. So I mean

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 1>that's listen, here's the thing. You see, Like you went

0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:42.600
<v Speaker 1>to Miami, you took your time just for yourself to

0:28:42.760 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 1>enjoy your friends, with your girls, have fun, like sometimes

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you even need to date anyone and just have a

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:51.000
<v Speaker 1>good time. It's all about the energy surrounding yourself with

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>the people you want to be with, you know, and

0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 1>having that like recharge yourself, like find yourself back, like

0:28:58.200 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 1>have that you know, wake up in the morning and

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 1>be excited about life, you know, and have your way

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>of doing things, not like you know, someone tells you

0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:10.960
<v Speaker 1>that you have to do this and Okay, of fine,

0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:13.280
<v Speaker 1>because you don't want to make this person upset or something,

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Um, dating if it comes,

0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>it comes, if it's not like it's not so it's

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 1>not like you wanna go and like, oh now I

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 1>need to date. No, you know, you just I don't know,

0:29:27.200 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't have we actually thought of it. Um,

0:29:29.560 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the cowboy thing, Um, it was just a good times

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And you know, well listen, here's the thing.

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:42.600
<v Speaker 1>I tell you this. When you're married for fifteen years,

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:46.200
<v Speaker 1>and you were married for fifteen years, I was married

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:56.280
<v Speaker 1>for fifteen years, there's a lot of spouses support right there. Yeah,

0:29:56.320 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>well you know it. Come on, we're like man to

0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 1>man speaking like, Yeah, that one's I'm not ready to

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 1>talk about that one. And I'm still it's a little

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:12.680
<v Speaker 1>bitter about that one. Yeah, but anyway, so listen, cowboys beautiful.

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 1>But I want to go to Tuloom next time. I've

0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 1>never been to Tuloom. Let's go. That's friends, friends, like true,

0:30:22.200 --> 0:30:24.000
<v Speaker 1>they just took that one and ran with it, levenge

0:30:24.080 --> 0:30:27.400
<v Speaker 1>and and go to because I had so we just

0:30:29.480 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 1>but I mean, listen, what's wrong with that? Friends? Yeah,

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 1>we've danced on the show for four months. We've stayed

0:30:35.760 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 1>in touch, like what's right, Like when you're in the

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 1>l A, let's go to dinner, And I would love

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:43.880
<v Speaker 1>to go to dinner. Yeah, no, I would love to.

0:30:43.920 --> 0:30:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be there like a week or so,

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:49.720
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I would love to see you. And you know,

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to, um, what are you? Like, what are

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you doing now? So that the show starts in fall

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 1>right this year? Yeah? Okay, so and are you for

0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:03.960
<v Speaker 1>sure going back? Well I wish I want to, of course,

0:31:04.160 --> 0:31:07.880
<v Speaker 1>but we don't know until the very last moment, you

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:10.479
<v Speaker 1>know how they pick up grows until like literally two

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>days before we have to start rehearsals, like we have

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>no idea who we're going to be dancing with, and

0:31:15.680 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 1>like our partners will all get stressed and excited. Yeah.

0:31:20.760 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'm excited for it. It's an anniversary season

0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:28.600
<v Speaker 1>season thirty. Oh that sounds fussy. They should have done

0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 1>like a like an All Star for thirty. Well here's

0:31:32.480 --> 0:31:34.400
<v Speaker 1>the thing. If you go back in the All Stars,

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 1>like they will never pairs together. Why I don't know,

0:31:38.640 --> 0:31:41.840
<v Speaker 1>because they like to switch it up. See I would

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 1>think people would want to watch. Yeah, the same people

0:31:45.320 --> 0:31:47.640
<v Speaker 1>be partners again. That's why I would watch. I mean,

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:49.880
<v Speaker 1>we would definitely kill it, like it would be so good.

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>What's so, what are you doing then? So if you

0:31:53.040 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 1>might do the show, obviously you will because you're They

0:31:55.760 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>would be stupid if they didn't have you back on.

0:31:59.240 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 1>But what what else are you doing? Like are you

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 1>still teaching dancing or I mean this whole COVID thing

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 1>really kind of kill the vibe. With tour, we didn't

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>have tours, so we did last season, um with no audience.

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>We had to take COVID test every single day, literally

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:21.640
<v Speaker 1>every single day, no Saturday, Sunday. Um, and we're supposed

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 1>to go in through. We usually after the season we'll

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 1>go on tour for about three and a half months

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 1>and um, this time we didn't go. So I start,

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I had to do something, you know, I gotta hustle.

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I still gotta you know, dance and teach and you know, perform.

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:39.520
<v Speaker 1>So Um, I've been teaching a lot of online lessons. Um,

0:32:39.560 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm teaching. There's new really cool spot in Malibu called

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 1>Roughs Lounge. I'm doing every Saturday saws the classes there,

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:53.280
<v Speaker 1>which is still fine. There's a lot of people, Um,

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 1>and it's just survive. You know. It's a cool vibe.

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:59.000
<v Speaker 1>It's outside, it's right looking over the ocean, right across

0:32:59.000 --> 0:33:04.120
<v Speaker 1>from Nobu. Just it's super like I really enjoy it. Um,

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 1>So when you're in the LA, we should do that. Yeah,

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I should do that in l A. That would be

0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 1>so fun, actually said Saturday's Saturdays. Yeah, you can give

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 1>us all the lessons you can. I have a private

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 1>lesson private tonight. But looking over the beach. Please yeah,

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure after being spoused to support, you'll do that. Yeah,

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:41.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll for free for you all do for free. It

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:43.960
<v Speaker 1>would just be fun to like dance again, you know,

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 1>like I it's a good workout like that would just

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 1>be that would be really cool because I I really

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>did enjoy it. If there's one thing that you've learned

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 1>throughout your divorce, everything with the kids and justum, Elena,

0:33:57.520 --> 0:34:00.120
<v Speaker 1>what's what's one thing that like you want to do

0:34:00.240 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 1>better at and as a person for the next time

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the next go around. Uh, listen, the thing is my

0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:13.239
<v Speaker 1>kids out priority for me. They're everything, you know. I

0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like, Um, when I worked and there was in

0:34:18.920 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 1>the season and I was doing tour, we lived together,

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:25.600
<v Speaker 1>we always had like live in nanny with us, and

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, her mom would come in out. I would

0:34:28.640 --> 0:34:31.720
<v Speaker 1>spend less time with kids, and then I spend now

0:34:31.800 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>and we're splitting custody with her, so there are five

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:37.120
<v Speaker 1>days with me and five days with her. Um. I

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 1>would want to be more present for them, you know

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, just be even though I was present,

0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:45.960
<v Speaker 1>but I would love still too obviously, like besides work,

0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 1>like do fun stuff with them more so instead of

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 1>like just you know, nanny's taking care of them, like

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I would do it myself even though I did it.

0:34:54.360 --> 0:34:56.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'm saying this, Like I just

0:34:57.120 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like it's good, it's enough, but up, I wish I

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>could do more. It's just like it's always not enough

0:35:03.360 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 1>when I like with with my girls, like I feel

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:07.239
<v Speaker 1>like I want to be with them a little bit more,

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:09.399
<v Speaker 1>you know. No, that makes sense for sure, but you're

0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>also providing for them too, So it's that balance you

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:14.600
<v Speaker 1>have to walk, which also like I would take And

0:35:14.640 --> 0:35:16.880
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing that I think this is really important.

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 1>I would take more holidays together, you know, even without kids,

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 1>just you know, with like like I don't know, like

0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:30.719
<v Speaker 1>l A and like if I if I speak back right,

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:33.919
<v Speaker 1>Like with her, I would go more like just take

0:35:34.000 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 1>our time together, like go to like romantic dinners and

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:40.319
<v Speaker 1>like go um, you know, holidays, just two of us,

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:44.040
<v Speaker 1>do something fun stuff like do like some crazy activities

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>like go and take a road trip, just two of us.

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 1>You know, if you have a chance to have kids

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 1>with someone and they you know they've been looked after,

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 1>like do stuff fun stuff for for yourself because sometimes

0:35:54.960 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 1>like you get caught up and work so much and

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't spend time together and you kind of stop

0:35:59.280 --> 0:36:02.239
<v Speaker 1>losing that you know that's fun, Like you still have

0:36:02.320 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>to have fun together. Yeah, this is I don't know

0:36:07.680 --> 0:36:09.640
<v Speaker 1>why I started thinking about this when you were talking.

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 1>But for your next relationship, next serious relationship, would you

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 1>are you done having kids or would you have more?

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I would have more? You would, yeah, because I was

0:36:24.120 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 1>because I was talking with the girls and they were like,

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:28.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well what if you know, and They're like, well,

0:36:28.840 --> 0:36:30.880
<v Speaker 1>what if do you want more kids? And I'm like,

0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:32.480
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I've just never like I've never had

0:36:32.520 --> 0:36:35.080
<v Speaker 1>to think of that conversation or have that Like I

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>never thought I would have to have that conversation again.

0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 1>So I mean obviously I'm not kids. I don't know,

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't. I'm old, I'm having miscarriages, you know,

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't, but you know, like I know, we

0:36:50.080 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 1>talked about this last week, but I just I don't know.

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:54.759
<v Speaker 1>I just I don't think. I don't. I don't know.

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 1>Maybe if I met the one and you know, but again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mean to have a kid. I mean I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's I mean, it's not easy, but it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of easy, right, But to actually be with the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with the kid and be a good parent and like

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<v Speaker 1>commit and like you know, just spend all of your

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<v Speaker 1>time with that person. Just it's really important to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, So like if I wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, like if I'm working and I'm like busy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what's the point of it, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to experience that. I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy that moment. I think that's important for sure. If

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything I was one thing that I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to experience is like I've never been able to like

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<v Speaker 1>whenever I found out I was pregnant, there was always

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<v Speaker 1>like something happening or like in my relationship. So it

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<v Speaker 1>would be nice to experience it in a healthy and

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:50.520
<v Speaker 1>happy way and like celebrate it and not be like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you know, like because I was happy,

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<v Speaker 1>but like there was always something behind the scenes that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know about or I had just found out about.

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<v Speaker 1>So it would it would be nice to not have

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<v Speaker 1>any of that energy and just be like we're pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>like like what you're supposed to feel, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think that would be the only thing. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling? Like goes in waves, you know, Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the only thing that gets me is like the

0:38:18.600 --> 0:38:20.839
<v Speaker 1>other night, I was super overwhelmed. I don't have any help.

0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Um uh, And you know, the kids only go to

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<v Speaker 1>school twice a week, so the other days I'm in

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Jason's only half days. So it's just it's hard, and

0:38:30.800 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's I had a I had a partner

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<v Speaker 1>in this before, and so one of the days, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a really really really hard day. The kids

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<v Speaker 1>were just being difficult and I had a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>work to do and I only have like a few

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:43.839
<v Speaker 1>hours during that time to get that work done. And

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, I just started crying

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, I didn't ask to do this alone.

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:50.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, like I I wanted my husband. I wanted

0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>my partner to do this with me like this, this

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:56.360
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel good to like feel this frustrated and you know,

0:38:56.440 --> 0:38:58.279
<v Speaker 1>have so much mean, you should see my house. It's

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:00.279
<v Speaker 1>like it's a mess and it's but it's like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I only have so much time, and it's I just

0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm kind of like depleted a little bit,

0:39:05.520 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 1>and I need to ask for help and and you know,

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:10.400
<v Speaker 1>do that, but it's it's hard, and I get upset

0:39:10.400 --> 0:39:13.080
<v Speaker 1>because again it's like I didn't want to do this alone,

0:39:13.200 --> 0:39:14.840
<v Speaker 1>Like this isn't what I wanted. I didn't want to

0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:17.960
<v Speaker 1>be a single mom, you know. But it's not that

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I miss him because I'm very happy. I'm like how

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 1>you guys co parenting, I'm trying to keep the distance

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:32.719
<v Speaker 1>because I just think it's better for us with less communication,

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:37.400
<v Speaker 1>So putting the kids first and trying to keep because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like you said in the very beginning, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of emotions and it's very hard to uh

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<v Speaker 1>be the bigger person when the person that hurt you

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:53.520
<v Speaker 1>is not nice. So I just now know what I

0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 1>need to do now and just I'm just distancing myself

0:39:56.239 --> 0:40:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and you know, we're I'm doing I'm I'm doing my

0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:03.120
<v Speaker 1>partner being nice and that's all I can control. And

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm just less communication than better right now, right, Yeah,

0:40:07.719 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 1>but it sucks, you know, but hopefully one day when

0:40:09.960 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 1>all the emotions wear off and you know, we can

0:40:14.200 --> 0:40:19.799
<v Speaker 1>be friendly. Right But because I wish, Like I look

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:21.840
<v Speaker 1>at some couples and I'm like, they're like going on

0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 1>vacation together. I don't. I don't want that, but like,

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:26.120
<v Speaker 1>but at the same time, that's kind of cool. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe who knows, Like, let's try to be adults and

0:40:29.000 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 1>just get along. Yeah, you know, I love I should

0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:35.360
<v Speaker 1>take some time probably right, But I appreciate your friendship.

0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you, and um, I'm excited to see you

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<v Speaker 1>in l A for a little tango and lunching lunch.

0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:47.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm down for it. Thank you for coming on wind Down.

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<v Speaker 1>Where can our listeners find you? Um, you guys can

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 1>find me on Instagram, Glibs of Chink Official, g l

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:03.280
<v Speaker 1>eb suf Chin. You can find me on Twitter, um

0:41:03.600 --> 0:41:08.160
<v Speaker 1>gleab underscores Uchenko and where else you can find me. Malibu.

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 1>What's the Malibu classes? Yeah, you can find me Malibu

0:41:11.280 --> 0:41:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Roughs Lounge just Rops Lounge, right across from Noble every

0:41:16.680 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Saturday at the eleven the m I love it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I will one of the weekends I'm not

0:41:22.960 --> 0:41:27.520
<v Speaker 1>with the kids. I'll come okay, okay, so much love

0:41:27.600 --> 0:41:29.680
<v Speaker 1>to you, and um, I'll see you at the All

0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Stars Okay by glob h. We're friends again. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been friends for all He's so sweet. It's just yeah,

0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>he's he's a sweetheart. It's so crazy. They're like, how

0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 1>our lives are changing around the same time. How long

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:53.680
<v Speaker 1>has it been for him? Probably like six months? Maybe, yeah,

0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:57.680
<v Speaker 1>it was when it was when the Last Dancing Stars

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Chris was his partner, and then they're the whole headlines

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:03.280
<v Speaker 1>about them. But there's a couple of months ahead of you, okay,

0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 1>a couple of months ahead, which it really didn't mean

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot when he reached out, because yeah, it's I

0:42:08.600 --> 0:42:10.800
<v Speaker 1>will say. There's one person, a freend. Well, she was

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:13.640
<v Speaker 1>actually a really good friend. We're not really friends anymore.

0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Actually haven't talked at all. But you realize who your

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:20.800
<v Speaker 1>friends are when you go through that. Because I didn't

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 1>hear one word from that friend that still blows my mind.

0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Not one word, like I heard from people that don't

0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:30.360
<v Speaker 1>even know you, just checking on you. Yeah, like every

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and even like Taryn, my hair makeup lady, like she

0:42:32.719 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 1>was like I had friends texting me. I know, so

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I know she knows, like she's in the industry. She knows,

0:42:39.040 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 1>but it's like, how like yeah, so that that kind

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:45.640
<v Speaker 1>of hurts my feelings. And I've yet too, because at

0:42:45.800 --> 0:42:49.240
<v Speaker 1>this point I'm like, I don't need like it doesn't

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:52.240
<v Speaker 1>make sense. It's still hurtful. It's hurtful. Yeah, it's definitely

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:54.800
<v Speaker 1>hurtful because I would reach out and it's like a

0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:56.920
<v Speaker 1>good gleb and I aren't like besties, but like, you know,

0:42:57.000 --> 0:42:59.719
<v Speaker 1>he reached out. Like it's just so many people reach out.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice to know that people care, and then you realize

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>that people that don't really care, well you're better off.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was a really good episode. Thanks Catherine for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on and reminiscing about the bedroom scene. Oh my gosh,

0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:21.319
<v Speaker 1>so many memories from that time. Oh that was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That was really fun. I'm gonna try to post some

0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:28.600
<v Speaker 1>old videos from Dancing with the Stars because yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, I miss it so that'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put some stuff on my page, um um, and

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<v Speaker 1>we should go to Tuloom just like a big fun everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's all go, let's all go, book your tickets. Wind

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<v Speaker 1>down crew, See you guys next week