WEBVTT - Credibility | EP 6 | Saskia's Story

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Livengood pled guilty to just one count of second

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<v Speaker 1>degree rape. He took a plea deal that meant he

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<v Speaker 1>would only serve eighteen months in prison by the time

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<v Speaker 1>of his sentencing. Hearing the one You Heard last episode,

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<v Speaker 1>the judge's hands were tied, but she had watched those

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<v Speaker 1>chatterbait videos and she was sure of what she saw.

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<v Speaker 2>It was clear to me that miss Inwood was comatose,

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<v Speaker 2>not asleep, but comatose unconscious.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, any technicalities in the law didn't matter. The videos

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<v Speaker 1>spoke for themselves. To Judge Jill Cummins, this was rape.

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<v Speaker 2>You were a predator to miss Inwood, and I completely

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<v Speaker 2>understand it. The damage done to her.

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<v Speaker 3>Is probably irreparable.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you understand that by pleading guilty this morning, you

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<v Speaker 4>are waving or giving out that presumption of innocence?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>I do so was to plead guilty this morning, I do.

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<v Speaker 6>You're honor okay? And are you pleading.

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<v Speaker 2>Guilty today, sir?

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<v Speaker 7>Because you are in fact guilty, Yes, you're of the

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<v Speaker 7>one account.

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<v Speaker 1>You'd think that would have been the end of it,

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<v Speaker 1>But for Saskia, things were about to get much worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike was just getting started I'm Andrea Gunning and this

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<v Speaker 1>is Betrayal. Season five, episode six, Credibility. Mike's guilty plead

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<v Speaker 1>marked the end of his criminal proceedings, but his sentencing

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<v Speaker 1>hearing wouldn't be his last time in court. It wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be Soaski as either. For a year, the criminal matter

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<v Speaker 1>took center stage, but the whole time, there was another

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<v Speaker 1>case playing out, Saskia and Mike's divorce. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>rewind a bit to before Mike's plea deal, before he

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<v Speaker 1>was even charged with a crime. It was November one,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eighteen, just four days after Saskia discovered the videos

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<v Speaker 1>of her being sexually assaulted and went to the police.

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<v Speaker 1>On that day, Saskia was back at the courthouse finalizing

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<v Speaker 1>her protective order. But before she could leave the building.

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<v Speaker 3>I got served the divorce papers.

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<v Speaker 1>At first, having those papers in hand was a relief.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted a divorce as quickly as possible. But as

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia sat in the courthouse lobby reading the documents Mike

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<v Speaker 1>sent she realized this wasn't just any divorce filing.

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<v Speaker 3>He was actually saying that I was complicit in all this,

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<v Speaker 3>and I knew about chatter baden It's pages and pages

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<v Speaker 3>of allegations that him and I were a team camming together.

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<v Speaker 1>Just four days after Saskia realized what Mike was doing

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<v Speaker 1>to her, four days after Mike left the house, he

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<v Speaker 1>filed for divorce on the grounds of cruelty Saskia's cruelty

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<v Speaker 1>towards him. Mike said that Saski's allegations that he raped her, secretly,

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<v Speaker 1>videotaped her, and posted nude images of her without her

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<v Speaker 1>knowledge were all false. Saskia was making it all up.

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<v Speaker 1>The divorce complaint reads the parties would spend evening time

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<v Speaker 1>posting and watching other couples doing the same. This was

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<v Speaker 1>a regular activity that the parties engaged in openly. These

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<v Speaker 1>acts were all consensual.

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<v Speaker 3>To get this divorce complaint just floored me. I knew

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<v Speaker 3>that this was going to be really ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>These divorce proceedings were completely different than the criminal case

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<v Speaker 1>Mike was about to face. That case was the State

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<v Speaker 1>of Maryland versus Mike Cleven Goood. It was the state's

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<v Speaker 1>job to prove Mike's guilt. This divorce case was Mike

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<v Speaker 1>Levin Goood versus Saskia in Wood.

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<v Speaker 3>It really felt like I was the one on trial.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike could have gone for a no fault divorce. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>he was determined to take Saskia down, and this path

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot to offer him. His criminal trial hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>taken place yet, so the divorce was a bargaining chip.

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia thinks that Mike was using the divorce case to

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<v Speaker 1>get her to back down and make his criminal troubles disappear.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that he assumed that I would accept some

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<v Speaker 3>kind of deal for alimony in exchange for not testifying.

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<v Speaker 3>It would be easy to throw some cash my way,

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<v Speaker 3>and that's what I'll I'll go away.

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia could have used that money she was dipping into

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<v Speaker 1>her four to h one K just to pay her

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<v Speaker 1>divorce attorney, but that kind of deal she'd never accept.

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<v Speaker 3>If the condition is that I don't testify it, there's

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<v Speaker 3>no way. I don't care. I'll be destitute. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>follow through with this.

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<v Speaker 1>The criminal proceedings went ahead with Saskia as an active

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<v Speaker 1>participant in the case, but even after Mike pled guilty,

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<v Speaker 1>even after the criminal matter was closed, he charged ahead

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<v Speaker 1>with the divorce on the grounds of cruelty. Saskia wanted

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<v Speaker 1>a divorce too, But like I said earlier, this was

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<v Speaker 1>no typical divorce. Mike was saying Saskia was a liar

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a lot at stake. If a judge

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<v Speaker 1>believed him, Saskia could owe Mike her rapist tens of

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of dollars. She could even be charged with false

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<v Speaker 1>reporting or sued for defamation. In this case, there were

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<v Speaker 1>lengthy depositions, requests for documents.

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<v Speaker 3>And then in January of twenty twenty one, the Dors

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<v Speaker 3>actually went to trial.

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<v Speaker 1>This is extremely rare, only about five percent of divorce

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<v Speaker 1>cases make it to trial. It was the middle of COVID,

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<v Speaker 1>so much of the trial took place over zoom. Saskia

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<v Speaker 1>sat at her kitchen table, staring at Mike through her screen.

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<v Speaker 3>He was sitting there in an orange jumpsuit after pleading

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<v Speaker 3>guilty to rape.

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<v Speaker 1>At this point, Mike had been convicted, but in spite

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<v Speaker 1>of that, at this divorce trial, Mike would claim he

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<v Speaker 1>was innocent. That's why he was so determined to see

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<v Speaker 1>this case through. You see, Mike couldn't win his freedom

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<v Speaker 1>through his plea. He'd waived much of his right to

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<v Speaker 1>an appeal, but convincing knew judge that Saskia was lying

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<v Speaker 1>could help him clear his name. If he won the divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>he could have an official document that proved Saskia made

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing up, a document he could take to employers,

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<v Speaker 1>friends and family to say this is what really happened.

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<v Speaker 1>The divorce judge saw the truth. On the surface, the

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<v Speaker 1>divorce trial was all about money, as most divorces are.

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<v Speaker 1>Who'd get the house, the cars, But really the trial

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<v Speaker 1>rested on who the judge believed, Mike or Saskia.

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<v Speaker 3>Mike looked very arrogant and cocky and had no emotion

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<v Speaker 3>or feeling. I think he thought that it would be

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<v Speaker 3>just a wash.

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<v Speaker 1>When Mike and his attorney opened their case, their strategy

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<v Speaker 1>was clear. Turned the spotlight off Mike and onto Saskia.

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<v Speaker 1>Their goal was to undermine Saskia's credibility. But what does

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<v Speaker 1>that really mean. Well, they would have to prove she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't believable. They'd introduce patterns of behavior, aspects of her

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<v Speaker 1>character that would show she wasn't a reliable narrator. How

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<v Speaker 1>would they do this by saying she'd lost her mind?

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<v Speaker 7>She was very depressed, she was unable to get out

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<v Speaker 7>for work. I'm depressed, I can't take it. I can't

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<v Speaker 7>work to stretching me out. The kids are stretching me out,

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<v Speaker 7>like is starting me out.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the courtroom audio from the divorce trial. That's

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<v Speaker 1>Mike's real voice you just heard, and calling out Saskia's

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety and depression wasn't the only way he tried to

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<v Speaker 1>undermine her credibility. He also talked a lot about her

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<v Speaker 1>use of drugs and alcohol.

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<v Speaker 6>She drank the signiat to get him out.

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<v Speaker 7>There was douqu on her heart more than mine, very

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<v Speaker 7>quickly snowball into seven eight nine drinks. She also received

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<v Speaker 7>the adderall and from a friend. When she starts drinking,

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<v Speaker 7>she doesn't stop.

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<v Speaker 1>All of this was to introduce doubt about Saskia. Saskia's

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<v Speaker 1>lawyer objected to a lot of this testimony, arguing that

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<v Speaker 1>Mike's side was trying to enter character evidence unfairly, but

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<v Speaker 1>the judge allowed Mike to continue.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt it goes on the twilight zone. The fact

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<v Speaker 3>that the judges were even listening to these things was

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<v Speaker 3>blowing my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>When sask and Mike's divorce trial began, he was zooming

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<v Speaker 1>in from jail and his legal strategy was to discredit

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<v Speaker 1>she was very repressed there.

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<v Speaker 7>With drug you on her part more than ane. She

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<v Speaker 7>starts drinking, she doesn't stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia sat through hours and hours of this testimony, listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Mike drag out every time she drank too much

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<v Speaker 1>and every time she couldn't get out of bed. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't that these moments hadn't occurred, it was that Mike

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<v Speaker 1>was using them to say Saskio was responsible for everything

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<v Speaker 1>that happened to her. He was telling the story of

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<v Speaker 1>the worst period of her life, but in this story

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<v Speaker 1>it was all her fault. She was the one causing chaos.

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<v Speaker 3>These things were so dehumanizing and so dismissive of what

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<v Speaker 3>I had been through in my pain.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to admit it's hard for me to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to Mike make this argument without feeling angry. Mike knew

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<v Speaker 1>her family's mental health history and how Saskia was determined

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<v Speaker 1>to remain stable walk the same path as her dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Saska thought Mike was on her team, and yet Mike

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<v Speaker 1>had been exploiting her mental illness, her use of alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>and drugs for years. Saskia's friend Heather put it best.

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<v Speaker 8>It was to his advantage to keep her in this drunken,

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<v Speaker 8>drugged up, bad mental health state, because the more vulnerable became,

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<v Speaker 8>the easier it became for him to take advantage of her.

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<v Speaker 1>But as Mike testified and his attorney spoke, his culpability

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<v Speaker 1>faded into the background. He zeroed in on her behaviors,

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<v Speaker 1>her imperfections, to show that she shouldn't be trusted and

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<v Speaker 1>even that she was to blame. I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>hear Mike's account of October twenty seventh, twenty eighteen, the

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<v Speaker 1>night of the Halloween party, the night Saskia saw what

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<v Speaker 1>was on Mike's computer screen. The audio isn't perfect, so

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<v Speaker 1>listen closely. Here's his story of that night.

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<v Speaker 9>We've been out of the part a home, we're both

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<v Speaker 9>stuck and ended up looking at cturbate the website.

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<v Speaker 1>When they got home, they went onto Chatterbait, the camming website,

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<v Speaker 1>but just as they were logging on, she.

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<v Speaker 7>Got up and wanted it off, so kind of it off,

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<v Speaker 7>went to bed and that was for the evening. Next morning,

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<v Speaker 7>he was very very aggated, wanted to look at the website,

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<v Speaker 7>which we did, and then became very focused on my

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<v Speaker 7>use of pornography, meaning looking at the website. Without her

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<v Speaker 7>that then we became.

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<v Speaker 6>Very emotional, but as all kinds of things.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's at the point where.

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<v Speaker 6>She stood there in front of the dresser and she

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<v Speaker 6>looked at how she said, you know, I now know

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<v Speaker 6>be doing and it was just shut the shock and

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<v Speaker 6>out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 7>It's completely floordy that moment when I realized that with

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<v Speaker 7>the worm that was going on there.

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<v Speaker 1>In Mike's memory, he and Saskia were at a party.

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<v Speaker 1>They were both drunk, looked at a website. The next day,

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia went crazy on him out of the blue. There

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<v Speaker 1>could only be one explanation for all of this. Saskia

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<v Speaker 1>was mentally ill. In court, this strategy is often effective.

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<v Speaker 1>It plays on misconceptions we all have about what it

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<v Speaker 1>means to be a rape victim. If you've watched any

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<v Speaker 1>crime show or any courtroom drama, you're probably familiar with

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<v Speaker 1>the character of the perfect victim.

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<v Speaker 10>As sure as I live and breathe, William Harris is

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<v Speaker 10>the man who raped me in that alley.

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<v Speaker 1>Think of Law and Order SVU. There's the perpetrator, the

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<v Speaker 1>bad guy, and then there is an innocent victim. She's

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<v Speaker 1>written to be brilliant, beautiful, and beyond reproach.

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<v Speaker 10>I tried to get away, but I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 8>She just left me there.

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<v Speaker 1>Storytellers love this archetype. The protagonist is clear, and audiences

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<v Speaker 1>love it too. We know exactly who to root for.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no room for doubt.

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<v Speaker 5>The problem is that most victims don't behave the way

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<v Speaker 5>this imaginary perfect victim behaves.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Deborah Turkheimer, a professor at Northwestern University Pritzker School

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<v Speaker 1>of Law.

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<v Speaker 5>I am a former prosecutor and I handled cases involving

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<v Speaker 5>special victims.

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<v Speaker 1>Deborah wrote a book called Credible, Why We Doubt accusers

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<v Speaker 1>and protect Abusers. She's an expert on sexual violence. She says,

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<v Speaker 1>the perfect victim character doesn't just live on screen. She's

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<v Speaker 1>the benchmark, the standard that all rape victims are judged

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<v Speaker 1>against in the courts and circles of friends everywhere.

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<v Speaker 5>The perfect victim standard includes misconceptions about how victims behave

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<v Speaker 5>and how they ought to behave before, during, and after

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<v Speaker 5>the abuse. Before there ought to be no drinking, no drug.

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<v Speaker 1>Use, and Saskia, as we know, was on a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of substances when she was raped.

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<v Speaker 5>During the abuse, the perfect victim fights, she fights back,

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<v Speaker 5>She fights hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But Saskia was knocked out.

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<v Speaker 5>And then afterwards, the perfect victim, he's able to recall

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<v Speaker 5>with precision every single detail of what happened, which again

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<v Speaker 5>Saskia couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>In every way, Saski failed to rise to the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>victim standard. The reality is most victims do.

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<v Speaker 5>It's unfair to impose a set of rules that, for

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<v Speaker 5>the most part, can be followed and aren't followed.

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<v Speaker 1>And yet the rules remain and they serve abusers like Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>because when victims aren't perfect victims, we can write them

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<v Speaker 1>off and we can turn them into other characters.

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<v Speaker 5>The regretful woman, so someone who had consensual sex and

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<v Speaker 5>then decided it was a mistake and so is now

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<v Speaker 5>quote unquote crying rape. The gold digger, someone who is

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<v Speaker 5>making this up because she wants money.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's the hysterical woman.

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<v Speaker 5>Someone who just really doesn't know what's going on and

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't have a firm grasp of reality.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of the oldest and most effective ways to

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<v Speaker 1>discredit a victim, to make the judge question their sanity

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<v Speaker 1>and doubt what happened to them. Here's Alice Perey, Mike's

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<v Speaker 1>attorney from the divorce trial.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you see that makes you believe that she

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<v Speaker 4>was struggling?

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<v Speaker 7>He was very depressed. He was unable to get out

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<v Speaker 7>for work. Many many time he was struggling with you

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<v Speaker 7>take care of the kids.

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<v Speaker 4>He's in which as I'm feeling like shit. How often

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<v Speaker 4>would she tell you something like that?

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<v Speaker 7>So many times I could not even count.

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<v Speaker 4>And with any particular reasons why.

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<v Speaker 7>She felt like shit because of this undepressed I can't

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<v Speaker 7>take it. I can work as here me out. The

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<v Speaker 7>kids are stripping me out like this, step from me out.

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<v Speaker 1>By Mike's account, Saska wasn't composed or stable or credible.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a woman in the midst of a breakdown.

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<v Speaker 1>Her word couldn't and shouldn't be trusted. She had to

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<v Speaker 1>have lost touch with reality because, according to Mike, he

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<v Speaker 1>and Saskia were camming together having sex on camera all

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<v Speaker 1>the time.

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<v Speaker 4>How many times had had the two of you canned

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<v Speaker 4>on chatterby, you know, two to three dozen hives? And

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<v Speaker 4>how many times had you observed other people camming on Chatterbay.

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<v Speaker 7>Three four a dozen times?

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<v Speaker 6>With the clip became were extremely adventurous.

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<v Speaker 7>With not a lot of livius. There were no bound bee.

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<v Speaker 7>That was something that they did not experience previously any relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>But Mike wasn't asking the judge to take his word

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<v Speaker 1>on all this. His divorce attorney, Alice Perey, said she

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<v Speaker 1>could prove it. She had a plan.

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<v Speaker 4>I would like to really admit all of the pictures

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<v Speaker 4>in all of the videos because I think how much

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<v Speaker 4>of them is relevant to mike client's case.

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<v Speaker 1>And when Alice said all, she wasn't just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the videos from the criminal trial the ones detective rule

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<v Speaker 1>recovered from twenty seventeen. In twenty eighteen, there.

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<v Speaker 2>Are hundreds of photographs, hundreds of videos, and they take

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<v Speaker 2>place over the course of years, in years six.

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<v Speaker 7>Or seven or more years.

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<v Speaker 1>There was more evidence, much more, and Alice claimed it

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<v Speaker 1>would show Saskia consented to everything, every sexual act, every video.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened is the defendant has under oath, been fleedings

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<v Speaker 4>and requested responses to admissions, just denied everything. Right, never

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<v Speaker 4>post her You're never participated in videos and.

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<v Speaker 7>You say this never happened.

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<v Speaker 4>And there is a picture of a living color or

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<v Speaker 4>video of it in movie motion Israel.

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<v Speaker 1>And according to Alice, it would show that Saskia was

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<v Speaker 1>not to be believed in the criminal trial, there were

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<v Speaker 1>about thirty videos recovered from Chatterbay. These videos were the

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<v Speaker 1>key to prosecuting and convicting Mike, But in the divorce trial,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike said he never raped Saskia or took images of

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<v Speaker 1>her without her consent. She agreed to all of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and to back that up, he said that he and

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia often made pornography together.

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<v Speaker 7>Which was done over the course of seven years, to

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<v Speaker 7>the tune of over two hundred photographs and videos.

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<v Speaker 1>Two hundred photographs and videos. His divorce attorney, Alice Perey,

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<v Speaker 1>seemed confident the.

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<v Speaker 2>Evidence will convinced Repoort that she was a willing participant

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<v Speaker 2>in these matters.

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<v Speaker 1>While working on this episode, we reached out to Alice Perrey.

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<v Speaker 1>She declined to comment. In these additional images, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just that Saskia's eyes were open, as we've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>in previous episodes. Alice claimed that in lots of instances,

0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:51.800
<v Speaker 1>Saskia was a weak and she was posing and performing

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<v Speaker 1>for the camera. If Saskia was saying she'd never consented,

0:21:56.400 --> 0:22:04.200
<v Speaker 1>she was lying or she was delusional. From the early

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<v Speaker 1>days of reporting this season, I knew that there were

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<v Speaker 1>some pictures Mike took off Saskia consensually. Saskia was open

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<v Speaker 1>about that with us and with detectives too. The kids

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<v Speaker 1>would be out of the house and they'd be drinking,

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time. Then Mike would pull out his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You heard about one of these incidents in episode one.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember one time he took a picture of me

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<v Speaker 3>and showed me how good my butt looked, or something

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<v Speaker 3>like that, and I explicitly asked him, what are you

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<v Speaker 3>doing with that picture, and he's like, well, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to erase it. I would never show it

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<v Speaker 3>to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>But she can only remember this happening a handful of times.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike said he had two hundred photographs and videos, and

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<v Speaker 1>most of these images.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember taking them. I never knew of their existence.

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<v Speaker 1>All of this brings up another painful truth about rape case.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter the corroboration, no matter the amount of prosecutors,

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<v Speaker 1>family members, and experts standing behind a victim.

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<v Speaker 5>There's an initial default doubt that is sort of culturally

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<v Speaker 5>ingrained in US.

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<v Speaker 1>That's law professor Debrah Turkheimer. Again. She says, doubt is

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<v Speaker 1>built into the crime of rape.

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<v Speaker 5>It's really difficult in the criminal setting to get past

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<v Speaker 5>that very high standard of proof beyond a reasonable doubt.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's true of every crime, but it's especially true

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<v Speaker 5>of rape. Historically, there were special instructions that were given

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<v Speaker 5>to juries that said you should be even more cautious

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<v Speaker 5>about convicting in this case because accusers are so untrustworthy.

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<v Speaker 5>Now those formal instructions aren't given, but we still have

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<v Speaker 5>a default to.

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<v Speaker 1>Doubt when someone comes forward. That's true even in a

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<v Speaker 1>case like this where there's so much.

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<v Speaker 5>Evidence, even sometimes when it's on video right, there are

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<v Speaker 5>questions of interpretation.

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<v Speaker 1>No judge or jury can turn back the clock to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the room at the time a rape happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and no one can get into the minds or bodies

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<v Speaker 1>of the people involved. And that's also a challenge for

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<v Speaker 1>us as reporters. That's my producer, Caitlyn Golden.

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<v Speaker 10>We can't go back in time, and so in understanding

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<v Speaker 10>the story, the only thing we can do is rely

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<v Speaker 10>on the evidence that is available to us.

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<v Speaker 1>When it comes to images like these, attorneys will always

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<v Speaker 1>make arguments of what was really going on. But our

0:24:46.119 --> 0:24:49.520
<v Speaker 1>team didn't understand the degree to which these were just

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<v Speaker 1>arguments until we saw the images for ourselves. After months

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<v Speaker 1>of reporting, we finally got access to the case files

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<v Speaker 1>from the divorce and the criminal case. We saw the

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of photos we heard so much about from Mike's attorney,

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:12.320
<v Speaker 1>ones where Saskia's eyes were open. One in particular has

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<v Speaker 1>stuck with us.

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<v Speaker 10>I remember the first time I saw that photo and

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<v Speaker 10>I had to immediately close my laptop because I mean,

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<v Speaker 10>it's so hard to describe as anything other than horrific.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, she's not there. No, No, she isn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate even describing it, but the only way I

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<v Speaker 1>could describe what I saw is it's like a corpse

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<v Speaker 1>with her eyes open. It's really upsetting. So when I

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<v Speaker 1>look at that photo, I think, of course, she doesn't

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 1>remember this.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, And the idea that images like this where her

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<v Speaker 11>eyes are open or being used to say that she

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<v Speaker 11>was awake and consented to everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm, is so disturbing. Seeing this image, it felt

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:10.160
<v Speaker 1>clearer than ever what happened to Saskia is real, it matters,

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 1>and Mike, not Saskia, is to blame. But in the

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 1>divorce trial back in twenty twenty one, there was only

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<v Speaker 1>one person that needed to be convinced of all this,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the judge, and Saskia was unsure what she'd

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<v Speaker 1>make of these images.

0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:33.760
<v Speaker 3>I knew that I wasn't going to be given the

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<v Speaker 3>benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 1>Before Mike's attorney could show the videos, the judge asked

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<v Speaker 1>to review the content herself. She stepped into her chambers

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>to watch in private. As everyone waited for the judge

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 1>to return, Saskia sat in her kitchen, staring at Mike

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:54.200
<v Speaker 1>through her screen. The man who'd hurt her was now

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<v Speaker 1>in jail. He was just a little box on zoom,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet he had power to make her feel so small.

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 1>He was the one behind bars, But the judge was

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>deliberating over Saskia's actions, her character.

0:27:11.119 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 3>It felt ridiculous and absurd and dehumanizing that I had

0:27:14.840 --> 0:27:17.399
<v Speaker 3>to go through that. But I also knew that I

0:27:17.560 --> 0:27:18.880
<v Speaker 3>just had to get through it.

0:27:19.560 --> 0:27:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Saskia knew the truth, the truth is always the best defense.

0:27:24.119 --> 0:27:26.760
<v Speaker 1>She just hoped the judge would see the truth too.

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<v Speaker 1>After a brief recess, the judge returned, So, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Have gone through the additional videos, and it looks as

0:27:37.359 --> 0:27:42.359
<v Speaker 2>though Miss Ininwood knows. She at points that pictures are

0:27:42.400 --> 0:27:47.600
<v Speaker 2>being taken and I'm not sure about knowing she's being videotaped,

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.400
<v Speaker 2>because I don't think I saw anything that expressly shows that.

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 2>So this could very well be a situation where, you know,

0:27:57.359 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 2>consending couple of Maria take pictures of each other. And

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that that is going to challenge miss

0:28:05.119 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Inwood's credibility, but I do believe that mister Levengood's attorney

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:18.160
<v Speaker 2>should have some opportunity to examine her about that.

0:28:18.960 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>The judge couldn't say for sure that Saskia did or

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<v Speaker 1>did not know she was being filmed, or whether she

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 1>knew this content was being shared, so she asked the

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>officers of the court to turn around, and Mike's attorney,

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 1>Alice Perey, pulled up the evidence. She wanted to show

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Saskia the videos and make her answer for them in

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:44.080
<v Speaker 1>front of everyone. Saskia looked at the video on her screen.

0:28:45.000 --> 0:28:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Despite what Alice said, this was a video of her

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:51.840
<v Speaker 1>being violated, a video that was now being shown to

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>a room full of strangers and.

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 3>Made me feel like a fool and made me feel

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<v Speaker 3>like less than a person.

0:29:02.960 --> 0:29:06.000
<v Speaker 1>The whole time, she couldn't stop thinking about Mike.

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:09.320
<v Speaker 3>It's heartbreaking to think that he put everybody through that

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 3>just so that he could get away with humiliating me.

0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:17.680
<v Speaker 1>With Saskia on this stand, the judge let Mike's attorney,

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<v Speaker 1>Alice Perey, proceed in the same way, Do you recall

0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>this video? No, I don't.

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:26.600
<v Speaker 7>Do you recall when it was eight?

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<v Speaker 6>Objection?

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<v Speaker 12>She just said no, she doesn't recall.

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:35.400
<v Speaker 7>How root, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you recall when this video was taken?

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 3>No, because I don't recall the video.

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:45.520
<v Speaker 1>The attorneys fought back and forth on objections and relevance

0:29:45.680 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>as Saskia just sat there.

0:29:48.040 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 3>It was so re traumatizing to have to defend myself

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:56.520
<v Speaker 3>as dehumanizing to have your life whittled down to that,

0:29:57.000 --> 0:29:59.080
<v Speaker 3>and to have people talking about things that are affecting

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 3>your life and you can't anything. You're just sitting there, helpless,

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:05.080
<v Speaker 3>having to listen to it. And it's something I wouldn't

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 3>wish on anyone.

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Alice continued cross examining Saskia for just a couple more minutes,

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>asking Saskia if she posed for pictures for Mike, and

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 1>then the judge popped in, can you go.

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 2>Ahead, Miss Parade, anything else you want to ask?

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:22.240
<v Speaker 11>No.

0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 2>Other questions of Miss Enwood.

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<v Speaker 12>None, I will save my time for miss to let

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 12>all right, all right?

0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Any She didn't ask much any any redirect are all right?

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 2>Thank you? Okay.

0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 1>Alice spent her remaining time questioning Mike again. Before long,

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>she ran out of time. Both sides closed their cases.

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 1>In the weeks that followed, Saskia waited and waited for

0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:55.320
<v Speaker 1>the divorced decision. She wasn't expecting any kind of big win.

0:30:56.200 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 1>She just wanted those papers in hand.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no faith in the justice system anymore. I

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<v Speaker 3>just wanted it to be over. I was already so

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<v Speaker 3>disheartened about everything and not hopeful at all. It was

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<v Speaker 3>like I was waiting for the time to rent out.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything was just getting in the way of me just

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<v Speaker 3>being divorced from this monster. I wanted nothing more than

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<v Speaker 3>to be divorced and be able to move on and

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<v Speaker 3>I could really say that this is not my husband.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a monster who was posing as my husband,

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<v Speaker 3>and now he's totally calm.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally, a few months later, the judge released her decision.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to have a producer or read part of

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<v Speaker 1>it for you. And remember, Mike is the plaintiff here,

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<v Speaker 1>Saska is the defendant.

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<v Speaker 12>The judge wrote, this court credits defendants testimony and expressly

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<v Speaker 12>discredits plaintiff's testimony.

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<v Speaker 1>In other words, she didn't believe Mike. She believed Saskia.

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<v Speaker 12>Plaintiff attempted to convince this court that defendant was aware

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<v Speaker 12>of the site and aware that she was being sexually

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<v Speaker 12>penetrated and otherwise manipulated by the plaintiff. The court is unconvinced.

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<v Speaker 12>The evidence revealed. Defendant has struggled during the party's marriage

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<v Speaker 12>and before with addiction and mental health issues, making her

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<v Speaker 12>particularly vulnerable to mistreatment by someone she trusted. Defendant learned

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<v Speaker 12>only after very personal images were broadcast to the world

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<v Speaker 12>on the Internet that she was married to someone whom

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<v Speaker 12>she could not trust. The plaintiff betrayed his spouse in

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<v Speaker 12>the worst type of way. He then lied about it

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<v Speaker 12>and continued to lie about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Another judge saw through Mike's lies and came to the

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<v Speaker 1>same conclusion. On paper, she won, but in reality to Saskia.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't matter. Of course, yes, she found that he

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<v Speaker 3>was not incredible and that I was credible, but it

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<v Speaker 3>still didn't take away from what I had been through

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<v Speaker 3>in this divorce and would have been taken away from me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was exactly how Saskia felt after Mike's plea deal.

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<v Speaker 1>She was told that this was a good outcome for

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<v Speaker 1>the court system, but it didn't feel that way. Professor

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<v Speaker 1>Debraah Turkheimer says that's often how these cases go.

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<v Speaker 5>Even in the end, if the survivor is found credible

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<v Speaker 5>and there's that vindication that comes along with it along

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<v Speaker 5>the way, that process can be enormously difficult, degrading, even traumatic.

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<v Speaker 1>Saskia was granted a divorce on the grounds of cruelty.

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<v Speaker 12>The judge wrote, this court can think of few actions

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<v Speaker 12>that weren't a divorce on this ground, more so than

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<v Speaker 12>the rape and sexual exploitation that occurred here.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had to live through two and a half years

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<v Speaker 1>of proceedings to get there, when he'd already been convicted

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<v Speaker 1>in criminal court. She spent two and a half years

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<v Speaker 1>defending herself, having to answer for every drink, she had,

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<v Speaker 1>every hospital stay, having all of her vulnerabilities put on

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<v Speaker 1>display when Mike had raped her, and this crime isn't

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<v Speaker 1>unique to Saskia.

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<v Speaker 3>You can see his hands, his wedding ring, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that I am in these images.

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<v Speaker 1>On the next episode, of Betrayal, we meet other survivors.

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<v Speaker 13>It has been a real journey for me to get

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<v Speaker 13>to the point of realizing that it's not my gut

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<v Speaker 13>that's broken, it's him it's broken.

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