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Speaker 2: Sierra is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Sierra, how long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from Alie?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: It's been gosh, like maybe a week, two weeks now.
Speaker 5: Have you reached out to him in that time?
Speaker 3: I texted him once and I haven't heard anything back yet,
Speaker 3: and so he's just ghosting me.
Speaker 4: It's just it's not awesome.
Speaker 5: Let's go backwards. Why don't you tell us about how
Speaker 5: you guys met how the date was.
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I met Ali online and we decided we should
Speaker 3: do something that's super fun for our first date. So
Speaker 3: we do something a little non traditional.
Speaker 4: And went glow bowling. It's like glow night, okay.
Speaker 6: Us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so much fun. It was like a rave,
Speaker 3: lots of glow lights everywhere, body paint, you know, like
Speaker 3: black light everything in loud music, lots of drinks.
Speaker 4: It was so much fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds fun.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was a really good date. I mean, like,
Speaker 3: you know, we were dancing and there's a lot a
Speaker 3: lot of music and drinks and and.
Speaker 6: Like we had a fun time.
Speaker 4: And then we went back to his place afterwards.
Speaker 2: Okay, because I was going to ask if you got
Speaker 2: a chance to talk to him much. You know, glow
Speaker 2: bowling is not necessarily a place for talking. It's a
Speaker 2: place for glowing and bowling.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we we kind of, you know, knew that
Speaker 3: going in, but we just wanted to see, like if
Speaker 3: the chemistry was there, and it was.
Speaker 5: Okay, I see what you mean. You just got artistic
Speaker 5: with your body paint.
Speaker 4: Or yeah, yeah, that's that's a good way.
Speaker 6: Cool.
Speaker 5: And so the chemistry was there, Yes, I felt it.
Speaker 4: I feel like we had a really great time.
Speaker 3: But I will say I think maybe I had maybe
Speaker 3: one too many drinks at the Bullerina.
Speaker 4: So I feel like my.
Speaker 3: Like I didn't come off as good as I could have,
Speaker 3: Like I should have just kept myself.
Speaker 4: To two drinks, and instead I had three.
Speaker 6: And I just think that.
Speaker 4: It took me to the next level. Maybe maybe I
Speaker 4: scared him. I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Do you remember anything that you did that was too much.
Speaker 4: I just think maybe he didn't expect.
Speaker 6: Me to drink as much.
Speaker 5: I mean, three drinks isn't terrible, I mean unless I
Speaker 5: mean some people are kind of, you know.
Speaker 3: Light, total lightweight, So I am such a lightweight.
Speaker 4: Just like one drink for me and then it's like, oh, okay,
Speaker 4: she's gone. But he was like, oh, I'll drive you home.
Speaker 4: We'll go to my place, you know, and he drove
Speaker 4: me home.
Speaker 5: So like, I don't know, were you sloppy? Were you
Speaker 5: saying things?
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know. I don't know, Like I I
Speaker 4: definitely was fifty, but I don't know. I don't think.
Speaker 4: I don't think it was that bad.
Speaker 5: Okay, but if you were to say something weird happened
Speaker 5: on the day, it would be that you were wasted.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the last thing that he said to you?
Speaker 4: I think he said, like, have a good night.
Speaker 5: You know, That's what I said. After you guys had chemistry.
Speaker 5: He said have a good night oof.
Speaker 2: Mm hm, not like i'll see you again. And did
Speaker 2: you guys plan another date or anything.
Speaker 4: I kind of pushed that where I was like, hey,
Speaker 4: let's use this against it. Let's let's do something later
Speaker 4: this next week, and he was like, I'll have to
Speaker 4: wait and see, like I have to go and check
Speaker 4: some things. And he didn't get He gave me like
Speaker 4: a non answer.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so it got weird. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: Well we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank you, Okay,
Speaker 2: we'll play a song, come back and get your first
Speaker 2: date follow up.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Sierra is on the phone
Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie. We're
Speaker 2: about to call him and see fatals why he's ghostinger.
Speaker 2: But first, Sierra, why don't you catch us up on
Speaker 2: your situation?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Allie and.
Speaker 3: I went to glow Night at the Bowlereina near us
Speaker 3: and we had a great time. I got a little
Speaker 3: too tipsy, I think, and now he's ghosting me and
Speaker 3: we went back to his place and then I went
Speaker 3: home later after.
Speaker 2: And got a strike. He hasn't gotten back to back
Speaker 2: to you. Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2: M Okay, here we go, hell I may I speak
Speaker 2: to Ali? Please?
Speaker 6: This is him, Ollie?
Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jewbl. I'm calling from
Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Ali, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: Oh oh hello.
Speaker 2: Oh hello. Do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 6: I've heard it before? Yeah, definitely, I definitely recognize the name.
Speaker 2: Okay, sweet, that's what we try to go for. I've
Speaker 2: heard it before, so thank you for hearing it before.
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 6: I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you what it is. A first day
Speaker 2: follow up is the segment we do on the show
Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with somebody
Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them, they can email
Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody really, Yes, have you been globaling lately?
Speaker 6: Globaling? Mm hmm, yes, okay.
Speaker 2: Was it with somebody named Sierra Sierra?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Sierra, uh huh okay.
Speaker 2: And it's been a few weeks since you talked to Sierra.
Speaker 5: You had to spoon feed him. That are you really
Speaker 5: seeing that many people?
Speaker 6: Well, you know, I don't think I'm ghosting anyone. Yes,
Speaker 6: there was a lot of fun. We had a lot
Speaker 6: of fun.
Speaker 2: She told us about She said that you guys really
Speaker 2: hit it off, but now you're not responding to her,
Speaker 2: which would be ghosting.
Speaker 6: It was fun. I had a lot of fun. And yeah,
Speaker 6: I just haven't gotten back to her. I guess.
Speaker 5: I mean generally, when you don't get back to somebody
Speaker 5: for a few weeks, that kind of is the Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I'm I was very busy with work,
Speaker 7: and like my works, a very intense and kind of
Speaker 7: takes a lot of my attention.
Speaker 5: To her. It sounds if you really like somebody, you're
Speaker 5: going to make sure you.
Speaker 2: Talk to them.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean we had fun. We definitely had a
Speaker 7: lot of drinks. And then I took her to my
Speaker 7: place and you know, we had another drink and.
Speaker 6: Well, she pat herself what no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: No, no, Ollie, Ollie. That's that's Sierra. She's actually on
Speaker 2: the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Wait.
Speaker 2: Yes, she also to wait till we got the answer
Speaker 2: all the way out of you.
Speaker 4: But Ollie, I didn't think you'd go there.
Speaker 7: They asked, why, you know, I know you look. I
Speaker 7: mean it was fine. I'm not mad.
Speaker 6: I had a lot to drink.
Speaker 4: But I was laughing by the way I was. I
Speaker 4: was in the middle of laughing, like he had me laughing.
Speaker 4: And that's why I peek, okay, like it.
Speaker 5: Was just a little ddle. What I mean, it's when
Speaker 5: he laughed really hard and a little bit comes out.
Speaker 2: That's not a big deal.
Speaker 5: It happens to everybody all the time.
Speaker 6: No, I mean it was more than a piddle. I
Speaker 6: had to get paper.
Speaker 7: Towels and you know, and I was like, not upset.
Speaker 7: I was just like, it's fine, it's fine. And but
Speaker 7: then it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 4: Okay, Seriously, seriously, I'm bad.
Speaker 7: I'm not saying as bad that you peed and it's fine.
Speaker 7: I'm definitely not saying it's bad. It's what I totally
Speaker 7: get it. We have I believe, oh my gosh, I.
Speaker 6: Peed behind a donuts store.
Speaker 5: One serious.
Speaker 2: You know the amount of people that I that have
Speaker 2: peed on dates with me? A lot?
Speaker 5: Wait, are you serious? Likes, especially when drinking is involved.
Speaker 2: It's not that uncommon. I mean, and I've also done
Speaker 2: it too, so.
Speaker 6: It's not it's not a bad thing.
Speaker 4: Drinking had a lot to do with this, you know, like.
Speaker 7: It was just sort of a first impression thing that
Speaker 7: like like I can't do that.
Speaker 6: I mean, it was fun, definitely fun.
Speaker 7: But then I think once that happened, I was like, okay,
Speaker 7: let's get you home.
Speaker 5: Where did that happen? Were you guys like on the
Speaker 5: couch or was this in bed?
Speaker 6: Kind of bold?
Speaker 7: Okay, I mean I did make a comment that her
Speaker 7: piece I could smell her peed that.
Speaker 6: Strong.
Speaker 7: I mean, at this point, I'm just making it's just commentary,
Speaker 7: what's going on.
Speaker 4: It did not smell that Okay, it did not just smelled.
Speaker 7: It was like it could definitely smell the sense of it.
Speaker 7: It was like a stronger you were drinking. It was
Speaker 7: just an observation, Well, Ollie.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go out another day with Sierra?
Speaker 2: Will pay for it?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 7: But I like Sierra, You're you're definitely like a weekend
Speaker 7: only girl, like I want to like get you know,
Speaker 7: wild and be entertained.
Speaker 4: I'm not a weekend only girl.
Speaker 6: Just because I peed while I was drunk, there's I mean,
Speaker 6: there's nothing wrong with the weekend only girl.
Speaker 2: No, no thanks, So that's a yes, allie.
Speaker 7: I mean yeah, if on the weekend you want to
Speaker 7: do something, they're going to pay for it.
Speaker 6: I would glow ball again. I just put down some
Speaker 6: like pack.
Speaker 4: Actually considering it because it was a lot of fun.
Speaker 3: But no, I'll find someone who is an every day
Speaker 3: a guy who wants an every day of the week
Speaker 3: kind of girl.
Speaker 7: Well you know, if you're ever you know, bored on
Speaker 7: a Saturday or something and you need somewhere to come
Speaker 7: and see you.
Speaker 3: Officer, no, I'll find somewhere else to be thank you.
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