WEBVTT - She Peed a Little… and Got Ghosted?

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at advocatesla dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Sierra is on the phone today for a first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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<v Speaker 2>see why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

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<v Speaker 2>But first, Sierra, how long has it been since you

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<v Speaker 2>heard from Alie?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>It's been gosh, like maybe a week, two weeks now.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you reached out to him in that time?

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<v Speaker 3>I texted him once and I haven't heard anything back yet,

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<v Speaker 3>and so he's just ghosting me.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just it's not awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's go backwards. Why don't you tell us about how

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<v Speaker 5>you guys met how the date was.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I met Ali online and we decided we should

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<v Speaker 3>do something that's super fun for our first date. So

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<v Speaker 3>we do something a little non traditional.

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<v Speaker 4>And went glow bowling. It's like glow night, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was so much fun. It was like a rave,

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<v Speaker 3>lots of glow lights everywhere, body paint, you know, like

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<v Speaker 3>black light everything in loud music, lots of drinks.

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<v Speaker 4>It was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and it was a really good date. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we were dancing and there's a lot a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of music and drinks and and.

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<v Speaker 6>Like we had a fun time.

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<v Speaker 4>And then we went back to his place afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, because I was going to ask if you got

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to talk to him much. You know, glow

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<v Speaker 2>bowling is not necessarily a place for talking. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>place for glowing and bowling.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and we we kind of, you know, knew that

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<v Speaker 3>going in, but we just wanted to see, like if

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<v Speaker 3>the chemistry was there, and it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I see what you mean. You just got artistic

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<v Speaker 5>with your body paint.

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<v Speaker 4>Or yeah, yeah, that's that's a good way.

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<v Speaker 6>Cool.

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<v Speaker 5>And so the chemistry was there, Yes, I felt it.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like we had a really great time.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say I think maybe I had maybe

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<v Speaker 3>one too many drinks at the Bullerina.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like my.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I didn't come off as good as I could have,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I should have just kept myself.

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<v Speaker 4>To two drinks, and instead I had three.

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<v Speaker 6>And I just think that.

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<v Speaker 4>It took me to the next level. Maybe maybe I

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<v Speaker 4>scared him. I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember anything that you did that was too much.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think maybe he didn't expect.

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<v Speaker 6>Me to drink as much.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, three drinks isn't terrible, I mean unless I

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<v Speaker 5>mean some people are kind of, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Light, total lightweight, So I am such a lightweight.

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<v Speaker 4>Just like one drink for me and then it's like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>she's gone. But he was like, oh, I'll drive you home.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll go to my place, you know, and he drove

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<v Speaker 4>me home.

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<v Speaker 5>So like, I don't know, were you sloppy? Were you

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<v Speaker 5>saying things?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I don't know. I don't know, Like I I

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<v Speaker 4>definitely was fifty, but I don't know. I don't think.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think it was that bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but if you were to say something weird happened

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<v Speaker 5>on the day, it would be that you were wasted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's the last thing that he said to you?

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<v Speaker 4>I think he said, like, have a good night.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, That's what I said. After you guys had chemistry.

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<v Speaker 5>He said have a good night oof.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hm, not like i'll see you again. And did

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<v Speaker 2>you guys plan another date or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of pushed that where I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>let's use this against it. Let's let's do something later

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<v Speaker 4>this next week, and he was like, I'll have to

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<v Speaker 4>wait and see, like I have to go and check

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<v Speaker 4>some things. And he didn't get He gave me like

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<v Speaker 4>a non answer.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, so it got weird. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>Well we'll play a song come back, and then call

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<v Speaker 2>him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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<v Speaker 2>you and maybe get you another date. Okay, thank you, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll play a song, come back and get your first

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<v Speaker 2>date follow up.

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<v Speaker 1>Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 1>Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Right in the middle of today's first Day follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us, Sierra is on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie. We're

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<v Speaker 2>about to call him and see fatals why he's ghostinger.

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<v Speaker 2>But first, Sierra, why don't you catch us up on

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<v Speaker 2>your situation?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Allie and.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to glow Night at the Bowlereina near us

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<v Speaker 3>and we had a great time. I got a little

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<v Speaker 3>too tipsy, I think, and now he's ghosting me and

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<v Speaker 3>we went back to his place and then I went

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<v Speaker 3>home later after.

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<v Speaker 2>And got a strike. He hasn't gotten back to back

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<v Speaker 2>to you. Are you ready for us to call him?

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<v Speaker 2>M Okay, here we go, hell I may I speak

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<v Speaker 2>to Ali? Please?

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<v Speaker 6>This is him, Ollie?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you? My name is Jewbl. I'm calling from

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<v Speaker 2>a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, Ali, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hello. Do you listen to the show ever?

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<v Speaker 6>I've heard it before? Yeah, definitely, I definitely recognize the name.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sweet, that's what we try to go for. I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard it before, so thank you for hearing it before.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'll tell you what it is. A first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up is the segment we do on the show

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<v Speaker 2>where if you go out on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 2>and then you end up ghosting them, they can email

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<v Speaker 2>us to get you on the phone and ask why

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got an email about

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<v Speaker 2>you from somebody really, Yes, have you been globaling lately?

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<v Speaker 6>Globaling? Mm hmm, yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it with somebody named Sierra Sierra?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Sierra, uh huh okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's been a few weeks since you talked to Sierra.

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<v Speaker 5>You had to spoon feed him. That are you really

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<v Speaker 5>seeing that many people?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know, I don't think I'm ghosting anyone. Yes,

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<v Speaker 6>there was a lot of fun. We had a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>She told us about She said that you guys really

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<v Speaker 2>hit it off, but now you're not responding to her,

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<v Speaker 2>which would be ghosting.

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<v Speaker 6>It was fun. I had a lot of fun. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I just haven't gotten back to her. I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean generally, when you don't get back to somebody

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<v Speaker 5>for a few weeks, that kind of is the Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I'm I was very busy with work,

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<v Speaker 7>and like my works, a very intense and kind of

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<v Speaker 7>takes a lot of my attention.

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<v Speaker 5>To her. It sounds if you really like somebody, you're

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<v Speaker 5>going to make sure you.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk to them.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean we had fun. We definitely had a

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<v Speaker 7>lot of drinks. And then I took her to my

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<v Speaker 7>place and you know, we had another drink and.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, she pat herself what no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, Ollie, Ollie. That's that's Sierra. She's actually on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, she also to wait till we got the answer

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<v Speaker 2>all the way out of you.

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<v Speaker 4>But Ollie, I didn't think you'd go there.

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<v Speaker 7>They asked, why, you know, I know you look. I

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<v Speaker 7>mean it was fine. I'm not mad.

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<v Speaker 6>I had a lot to drink.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was laughing by the way I was. I

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<v Speaker 4>was in the middle of laughing, like he had me laughing.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why I peek, okay, like it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was just a little ddle. What I mean, it's when

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<v Speaker 5>he laughed really hard and a little bit comes out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 5>It happens to everybody all the time.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean it was more than a piddle. I

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<v Speaker 6>had to get paper.

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<v Speaker 7>Towels and you know, and I was like, not upset.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just like, it's fine, it's fine. And but

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<v Speaker 7>then it wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Seriously, seriously, I'm bad.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not saying as bad that you peed and it's fine.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm definitely not saying it's bad. It's what I totally

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<v Speaker 7>get it. We have I believe, oh my gosh, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Peed behind a donuts store.

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<v Speaker 5>One serious.

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<v Speaker 2>You know the amount of people that I that have

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<v Speaker 2>peed on dates with me? A lot?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, are you serious? Likes, especially when drinking is involved.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that uncommon. I mean, and I've also done

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<v Speaker 2>it too, so.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not it's not a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Drinking had a lot to do with this, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 7>It was just sort of a first impression thing that

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<v Speaker 7>like like I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it was fun, definitely fun.

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<v Speaker 7>But then I think once that happened, I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 7>let's get you home.

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<v Speaker 5>Where did that happen? Were you guys like on the

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<v Speaker 5>couch or was this in bed?

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<v Speaker 6>Kind of bold?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I mean I did make a comment that her

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<v Speaker 7>piece I could smell her peed that.

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<v Speaker 6>Strong.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, at this point, I'm just making it's just commentary,

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<v Speaker 7>what's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>It did not smell that Okay, it did not just smelled.

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<v Speaker 7>It was like it could definitely smell the sense of it.

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<v Speaker 7>It was like a stronger you were drinking. It was

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<v Speaker 7>just an observation, Well, Ollie.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like to go out another day with Sierra?

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<v Speaker 2>Will pay for it?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>But I like Sierra, You're you're definitely like a weekend

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<v Speaker 7>only girl, like I want to like get you know,

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<v Speaker 7>wild and be entertained.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not a weekend only girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Just because I peed while I was drunk, there's I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>there's nothing wrong with the weekend only girl.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no thanks, So that's a yes, allie.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean yeah, if on the weekend you want to

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<v Speaker 7>do something, they're going to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>I would glow ball again. I just put down some

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<v Speaker 6>like pack.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually considering it because it was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, I'll find someone who is an every day

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<v Speaker 3>a guy who wants an every day of the week

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<v Speaker 3>kind of girl.

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<v Speaker 7>Well you know, if you're ever you know, bored on

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<v Speaker 7>a Saturday or something and you need somewhere to come

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<v Speaker 7>and see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Officer, no, I'll find somewhere else to be thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Juble's first day follow up