Speaker 1: You're welcome to horribleut Decisions. Guys, welcome. Um this you girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy b A k A full pumps A k A
Speaker 1: that bitch. Um, and y'all know my other A k
Speaker 1: A s man. Y'all, y'all go ahead and call me
Speaker 1: a funk with me. You know, you know that's what's
Speaker 1: wrong with you. Listen. I'm actually sound like you have
Speaker 1: a right now with the squiggly lines that say A
Speaker 1: K A b k A you know, And that's actually
Speaker 1: I think what I had on my mysta. Um, I
Speaker 1: got the be actually from my name was it's Mandy
Speaker 1: bitch after Brittany came out with this Brittany bitch the
Speaker 1: bet I dropped the bitch. And where did the double
Speaker 1: eyes come from? Because it was cute back then? Hell yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know everybody had to double eyes. I used
Speaker 1: to write with threes as ease. There was three this ease,
Speaker 1: there was um the v's and the and the and
Speaker 1: I think it's cute. Oh, we can't start this episode
Speaker 1: without giving a big congrats to our friend Rory who
Speaker 1: was engaged. Now, Yo, I feel like I'm being left
Speaker 1: out everybody. I'm think Mall probably feels what if you
Speaker 1: and me had another co host and both the motherfucker's
Speaker 1: just got engaged. Oh, they gotta get canceled, Like Alex,
Speaker 1: I'll fire. I'm just saying, get ready, I'm really not ship.
Speaker 1: We just started the show. Let's be on. I feel
Speaker 1: like that puts mad fucking pressure on the other person,
Speaker 1: because like when one of us is dating somebody, it
Speaker 1: doesn't really feel like a big deal because it's one person.
Speaker 1: But imagine if it was two people planning weddings in
Speaker 1: the room. Yeah, that would be so no parks. Its
Speaker 1: parks married or well, probably about to get engaged. Now
Speaker 1: we got a girlfriend though, Um, but yeah, congratulations Rory.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how I felt super guilty because
Speaker 1: so I went to this party by myself, this roots
Speaker 1: jam thing in l A, and then Rory was there.
Speaker 1: Rory was by shut up. Rory's by myself too. So
Speaker 1: I'm like Rory, I'm like, don't leave, and He's like, no,
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna head back like Sam's. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't care, dude, we're on vacation, You're not leaving.
Speaker 1: I dragged this think in like four places. They was
Speaker 1: all closed because you know how l A go literally
Speaker 1: making him hang so like we could kick it. And
Speaker 1: then the next day I was like, yo at the
Speaker 1: rotten Nation brun feeling bad as fun. Can you imagine
Speaker 1: if someone had a big day like that and you
Speaker 1: just help me, guys, stay with me, come out with me.
Speaker 1: So I do want to say, can can I just
Speaker 1: start by giving a huge motherfucking shout out to l A.
Speaker 1: We are sold out? V I P We're sold out
Speaker 1: first general admission tickets. There are now less than thirty
Speaker 1: tickets left for the l A show, And I actually
Speaker 1: want to say Wee's first response was four o'clock show,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, bitch in is l A and
Speaker 1: everything closes so early. I'm so glad we're gonna be
Speaker 1: able to eat dinner when we're fucking done. And everything
Speaker 1: fucking closes early in l A. Bro, I'll be honest
Speaker 1: with you. I didn't realize, um that it was Grammy
Speaker 1: weekend when I went, because I went for some other
Speaker 1: kind of work, and so I say the weekend to
Speaker 1: kick it, so, like, I go out to a bunch
Speaker 1: of parties, right, I went to this b T showcase
Speaker 1: thing and um, then the Roots thing and some other stuff.
Speaker 1: And what was crazy. Mandy is like, people recognize me,
Speaker 1: but more people heard me talking and then asked me
Speaker 1: if I was on the podcast. No, that's like literally
Speaker 1: people say I heard your voice and knew it was you.
Speaker 1: It's so weird that y'all do that. By the way,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. It'll be people that don't here.
Speaker 1: He first gotten organized by that girl with her dad
Speaker 1: before they see us, and it's just crazy that. Let
Speaker 1: me know to like, I definitely need to do more
Speaker 1: like visual stuff like posting our fucking horrible decisions videos
Speaker 1: more and like doing things like that because I can't understand.
Speaker 1: I was sitting down with you know, Feezi from Miami,
Speaker 1: grabbed a bit with him. It was DJ Enough, some
Speaker 1: other dude who does radio and CALLI and feezis piping
Speaker 1: us up. He's like, yo, I don't know nobody that's
Speaker 1: selling out auditoriums like this, theaters like this, they're going
Speaker 1: crazy blah blah blah. And this dude here's me. You're
Speaker 1: talking and he looks at me and he supports us.
Speaker 1: I don't want to bring up his name again though. Thanks. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the dude next to him is like looking and
Speaker 1: trying to figure it out, and he was like yellow
Speaker 1: horrible decisions and I'm like yeah, and he's like wow,
Speaker 1: and he's like going through these texts where like people
Speaker 1: talk about us in group chats and absolutely, I think
Speaker 1: we're the group chat gods. I ain't even gonna hold
Speaker 1: you group chat god, Yes, because dog, everybody be bringing
Speaker 1: us up in the group chat. We get screenshots in
Speaker 1: our d M. We're pretty disgusting. We get the group
Speaker 1: chet convo's lip. Bro had an uber wear this guy um, well,
Speaker 1: the pool. The person in the pool listened to horrible
Speaker 1: decisions and then we're describing it to the uber driver
Speaker 1: and so the uber drivers like, god, I just said
Speaker 1: I read in the pool. That makes me feel poor.
Speaker 1: So the uber drivers like, what do you think is
Speaker 1: the craziest thing you've said on your show? I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't think it was me. I was like, tell
Speaker 1: me what might be saying. I said, what do you
Speaker 1: think is worse eating a cream pie out of someone
Speaker 1: or going to brunch with one of your friends and
Speaker 1: still haven't come on your neck? Dried come is not
Speaker 1: worth than eating a fucking cream pie? Bro? Bro? What
Speaker 1: the funk out of here? Bro? Dry nut is easily
Speaker 1: just a facial And what would gross you out more
Speaker 1: if you knew that someone in the car with you
Speaker 1: come out of a pussy who cares you? You swallow? Bro?
Speaker 1: When I saw that video that Tiana Trump did, I
Speaker 1: was disgusted. I couldn't even watch it. As soon as
Speaker 1: it started coming out the pussy hall, I had to
Speaker 1: stopped the video. Bro that ship with Nasty's b I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I was disgusted. I was like in
Speaker 1: my wild from feeling like this is not that crazy?
Speaker 1: Yeah you are, I do find crazy. Is your motherfucking
Speaker 1: ask you thinking you got? I was like, what the funk?
Speaker 1: I did wear a necklace? What's worse like? Remember that?
Speaker 1: And then it's not a flaking So basically mine was
Speaker 1: cleaner than yours. Get the funk out of here. You
Speaker 1: can sit here and believe that. Okay, so um, I
Speaker 1: do want to catch up about one thing. Uh. I
Speaker 1: have become obsessed with the idea of having a real
Speaker 1: role play scene with scissors because I've been watching so
Speaker 1: much Love After lock Up. Everybody's been telling me now
Speaker 1: that I'm doing any day fiance to watch Love After
Speaker 1: lock Up. First of all, Tyoming was on there in
Speaker 1: a quip in a clip because this virgin. They got
Speaker 1: this black girl who's a virgin that lives in Texas,
Speaker 1: who's talking to an inmate who's in Michigan. She's never
Speaker 1: had sex before, so she finds Tyomi. They're doing like
Speaker 1: a skype conference and Yomi's like teaching her how to
Speaker 1: like ride and have sex for the first time. It
Speaker 1: was really cute. So she's like picking out her wedding
Speaker 1: dress and getting all excited. She's like, you know, I
Speaker 1: know he has a baby mama, but I'm not worried
Speaker 1: about her. Bam. Camera then goes to a new scene
Speaker 1: where you see this white woman who's talking about how
Speaker 1: she's twenty four years old and engaged to her fiance,
Speaker 1: who is said man in prison. Both of these women
Speaker 1: at the same time are picking out wedding dresses bro
Speaker 1: both of them at the same time. This nigga is
Speaker 1: literally they got the camera going hey boo, hey boo,
Speaker 1: live you live you talking to both of them. Then
Speaker 1: the bitch who was the version the producers ain't shipped
Speaker 1: for that. I'm just gonna tell you that. The producers
Speaker 1: all y'all getting shot. I'm getting all my niggas. Y'all
Speaker 1: really go, baby, look like a fool. Y'all knew this.
Speaker 1: This nigga had another by her daddy, the Black Girl, right,
Speaker 1: and you already now on team black Girl. So he's like, Yo,
Speaker 1: there could be two or three women when you get there.
Speaker 1: She's like, he's not lying to me. So then she
Speaker 1: gets producers are not shipped. She gets to the airport right,
Speaker 1: and all I keep thinking of is how is the camera?
Speaker 1: How is everyone letting it get this far? Bro? I
Speaker 1: was screwed to the TV. So then he calls. He's like, baby,
Speaker 1: don't come. She's like, what you're talking about? I'm checking
Speaker 1: in for my flight and he's like, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get some things together. I'm trying to make it special
Speaker 1: for you. Bitch. Well, he's gonna make a jail bread
Speaker 1: the baby mama picks him up. They go in the car.
Speaker 1: He tells her to go do something. He used his
Speaker 1: homeboy phone FaceTime and using producers phones, bitch talking about
Speaker 1: you know, I ain't got no phone. That's why I
Speaker 1: can't call you. Think about you bay niggas. It's trash.
Speaker 1: But here's a what al right, guy, just tell O me,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Everybody wanted to tell me I was doing
Speaker 1: something wrong. Um No. But then they had a really
Speaker 1: good one where they got this black woman. She's forty one,
Speaker 1: she's been jails for ten years. She's talking to the
Speaker 1: old white man named Steve. Steve been tricking the fuck
Speaker 1: off bit. He gave her like a hunter jeez while
Speaker 1: she was in jail. You know why this isn't much fun?
Speaker 1: Do none of these people have accents? Otherwise I don't
Speaker 1: care to get a you know, the story is really good.
Speaker 1: So then she he goes to pick her up from
Speaker 1: the jail, right and then he gets there and she
Speaker 1: can't get out because all the money he was sending
Speaker 1: she was using to do fucking matt. So then they
Speaker 1: do season two, they're back, the bitch is there and
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, you know, I just don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm attracted to Steve. He'd been talking to her for
Speaker 1: three years, wasn't sucking nobody else, giving her a hunter
Speaker 1: of geese. She's like, so, I don't think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have sex with him. I need to clean him up first.
Speaker 1: So she gets these scissors and she's ready to cut
Speaker 1: his hair and she's like, you know, I was in
Speaker 1: cosmetology school. They kicked me out because I was too
Speaker 1: high on meth, but I took a few classes. It
Speaker 1: starts trying to like revamp his book. Gotta be scripted, Bro, No, Bro,
Speaker 1: it's just a little you know, broke people have the
Speaker 1: best live. It's gotta be like they just gotta be
Speaker 1: like the type of people today used to get on
Speaker 1: Jerry Springer, and Jerry Springer was not real. Don't tell
Speaker 1: me it's not real. I'm really was not real, dog.
Speaker 1: You don't know how many hours? Well, I paid thirty
Speaker 1: seven dollars on a flight tip and that wasn't real.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Ricky Lake was real, the only one
Speaker 1: that might have been real. And Jenny Jones, Jenny Jones
Speaker 1: definitely wasn't real. Bro, I'm gonna say the only one
Speaker 1: was Maury bitch. Bro, Maury was real. You had to
Speaker 1: get a real DNA swab. The only thing I don't
Speaker 1: believe about Maury was the decoys that they used to
Speaker 1: set it. Like that ship. Bro, I'm not around. I
Speaker 1: would love to be a decoy. Get the funk out
Speaker 1: of here, bro. That ship was the only part, you know,
Speaker 1: But the decoys be making out. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: No way, bro does I would love to come out.
Speaker 1: We know you you like to have sex for research,
Speaker 1: so we Manu shan Qula. I was back there with
Speaker 1: se Quantas and I tried to let him know, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm only gonna do this if you say going.
Speaker 1: He told me he was saying, Oh, so that's why
Speaker 1: I did it. You mean that's what you're gonna do. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: I would love to just be a part of that.
Speaker 1: What a great job. That would be. A worried How
Speaker 1: much do you think they got paid? I was about
Speaker 1: to say that, No, I think they got paid as
Speaker 1: much as NBA cheerleaders get fifty dollars a game. You know.
Speaker 1: I met a cheerleader at the airport that was a
Speaker 1: bartender two and I was like, but I don't get
Speaker 1: it here on the TV. Yeah, they make fifty dollars
Speaker 1: a game. What you know? What do you mean they
Speaker 1: make fifty dollars per game? Why? I think the Dallas
Speaker 1: Cowboy Chillers make the most. And I think they make
Speaker 1: a hunted or a hunt and fifty per game. Don't
Speaker 1: they gotta practice? Yes, and they don't get paid to
Speaker 1: practice either. They gotta like go and do appearances and ship.
Speaker 1: That's what a god. That's why a lot of them
Speaker 1: work at Hooters. Like yeah, maybe it's yeah, maybe you guys,
Speaker 1: we gotta do a pot you gotta start somewhere. We
Speaker 1: podcasted for free, put our money and our manpower in this,
Speaker 1: and now we're getting paid. Yeah. Well that's like you know,
Speaker 1: they hope to land one of them ball players on
Speaker 1: the court. So it's like when that's that's really what
Speaker 1: they do. It's like sucking for free. You hope it's
Speaker 1: a good end game. What about you? What did you
Speaker 1: do this? Weegod um So I'm in busy season. I'm
Speaker 1: super busy um with work. Um me got into a
Speaker 1: really big argument, so I don't know how if he's
Speaker 1: going to be president twenty nineteen any further. We got
Speaker 1: into just a really bad argument and he caught a
Speaker 1: little snappy ass attitude with me, So I caught one back. Nope,
Speaker 1: aregued on the phone and pretty much was like were
Speaker 1: dead at each other, like because you know, mind you.
Speaker 1: I think it was a little bit of an ego thing.
Speaker 1: Like he pretty much was like, man, I'm tight as funk,
Speaker 1: I just hit you right now, because I've literally missed
Speaker 1: his last five to six hit ups, like either by
Speaker 1: being sleep being at work, like not being available. I've
Speaker 1: been really busy and he's just like used to me
Speaker 1: like waking up, Like I've I make myself available for
Speaker 1: him very often, but it's literally gone like for two weeks. Um. No,
Speaker 1: I haven't been sucking anybody else. But that day we argued, bitch,
Speaker 1: I said well fuck you, and so I hit up
Speaker 1: another nigga real quick and was hoping he was available. Bitch,
Speaker 1: I took a train to Philly to get dick. That's
Speaker 1: how much I was not gonna make him upset me.
Speaker 1: So I took a train to Philly, got some dick,
Speaker 1: and bitch got on the train the next morning and
Speaker 1: went into work from from my job an hour and
Speaker 1: ten minutes. Yeah. Right, So I was like, and it
Speaker 1: was really really really really good sex. It was well
Speaker 1: worth it. We fucked really nasty. He like came all
Speaker 1: over my face and I watched it all off, Thank
Speaker 1: you very much, um, And it was just it was
Speaker 1: just really good. I gave him a massage. I think
Speaker 1: I am one percent now in the foot game because
Speaker 1: I massage his foot. It started at the ankle though no,
Speaker 1: I didn't put his foot in my mouth, but I
Speaker 1: like massage his whole foot, like the heel the massage
Speaker 1: feep and not like before sex scene. Well so no,
Speaker 1: we had already fucked. And then you know, he was
Speaker 1: like like my ankle hurts, like could you rub my ankle?
Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, so I wrote his ankle.
Speaker 1: Then I turned it into a foot massage. Then his
Speaker 1: hamstrings hurt, and b he shouldn't let me rode the handstrings.
Speaker 1: So the hamstrings I made him like I heard so
Speaker 1: much that he playing, No, don't worry about what damn
Speaker 1: hope anyway? Who sounds like a sports injury to me?
Speaker 1: Anyway his hamstring heard or whatever. So you know I
Speaker 1: started giving the massage and I was like damn, and
Speaker 1: he said my massage and was good. Um, I like
Speaker 1: it for a sex. I oh, I had some sex too,
Speaker 1: So Beard Bay was um in l a for grammies
Speaker 1: and we had sex. And let me tell you what's crazy.
Speaker 1: We get along so well to an energy where I
Speaker 1: don't really like how friendly we can be, but we
Speaker 1: just get along that well. Right seeing him, I get
Speaker 1: very relaxed and you talk and immediately when we see
Speaker 1: each other, we're always talking about like other lovers, right, like, oh,
Speaker 1: let me tell you about this and what's going to this.
Speaker 1: But the second we have sex, bro, literally he got
Speaker 1: inside of my pussy and it felt like my pussy
Speaker 1: was a fucking glove that was like perfectly fit. It
Speaker 1: was crazy. I did not want to come too hard
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to pipe him up that much.
Speaker 1: Holy sh it, Like it was so fucking good. And honestly,
Speaker 1: what was even more exciting about it was the fact
Speaker 1: that like Scissors was just so dope like the whole time,
Speaker 1: Like I had this little bit of a fear, like
Speaker 1: I know she knows what is scissors. I call her
Speaker 1: my girl, but I also like don't like labels, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know, she's an important person to me. People,
Speaker 1: Like some people were saying that other people don't mean
Speaker 1: anything because I only post her, but like she's just
Speaker 1: the only one that I feel is needs to be posted.
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's like the most consistent person in
Speaker 1: my life. And honestly, with the men that I date,
Speaker 1: I feel at um. For some reason, I wanted to
Speaker 1: be a little more private, maybe because she hasn't been
Speaker 1: in my life so long, I don't care. Like, for example,
Speaker 1: if I started dating my ex the Latin dude, I
Speaker 1: probably post him because I posted him before, But anyone
Speaker 1: that's new, I feel like they don't need to. That's
Speaker 1: where I'm at, And especially with the show, and as
Speaker 1: much as I think we are very transparent with our listeners, um,
Speaker 1: I feel like the ones who don't really ride for
Speaker 1: us can say very cruel things, or even they say
Speaker 1: things jokingly, and I don't know how my partners would
Speaker 1: take those things. Um. So, Like I said, even when
Speaker 1: I posted Jordan's like all of the comments under that
Speaker 1: ship and how fast it went, I was just like,
Speaker 1: no one's Like I love sharing stories with everyone, but
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that necessary to share photos and
Speaker 1: details of that person's life. Um. For example, like I
Speaker 1: used to wonder a lot with Jeeves, like what would
Speaker 1: happen after a while, Like it would always feel like
Speaker 1: we were about to post each other, and then I
Speaker 1: would just be like listening. I don't wanna bring you
Speaker 1: into something that I can never get you out of,
Speaker 1: and I don't know how far how do you can go? Like,
Speaker 1: for for people to post other people's Instagrams on you know,
Speaker 1: blogs or whatever it be and share it between each other.
Speaker 1: That's something you can't get back. That's something you can google.
Speaker 1: So if I have to live through that ship, I
Speaker 1: don't want you to have to. I even told Scissors, like,
Speaker 1: are you sure is this okay? Like I won't tag her,
Speaker 1: but it's still her face. Oh So I guess I
Speaker 1: will share one more thing that happened, and it really
Speaker 1: made me think oddly, and I want to know maybe
Speaker 1: if any of you women have been through this so
Speaker 1: um as you guys know, Like I live in my
Speaker 1: apartment now by by myself. So I had all this
Speaker 1: furniture delivery um over the weekend, and not only that,
Speaker 1: I needed a handyman, So bitch, I paid someone from
Speaker 1: handy to come and take furniture apart and dispose of furniture.
Speaker 1: Then I had two people come to deliver my furniture.
Speaker 1: Then I had someone to come and pick up my
Speaker 1: my entire living room set. In the span of like
Speaker 1: four hours, four or five hours, there were five strange
Speaker 1: men that came into my house. So I literally hit
Speaker 1: up Fellam Bay like where are you? Like, I just
Speaker 1: need your presence because I genuinely did not feel safe
Speaker 1: and it was stupid. I guess it's not stupid to
Speaker 1: feel that way, but literally it scared me that I
Speaker 1: was going to be in this house. Five strange men
Speaker 1: were coming, and I genuinely felt like I needed someone
Speaker 1: to protect me. Did you listen to my episode within
Speaker 1: her uprising? No, I didn't. I talked about the stuff
Speaker 1: that I haven't talked about this podcast with like someone
Speaker 1: recognized me right as I was putting the key into
Speaker 1: my door. I mean, you know where I live, um,
Speaker 1: and how I've felt like my safety has been a
Speaker 1: big deal and maybe because I live alone. And I
Speaker 1: said that one of the people I've called when I
Speaker 1: don't feel safe, I have no romantic relationship with him
Speaker 1: is Wax. Okay, I mean I'm in the I'm in
Speaker 1: the Bronx, So like, there's not many people that I
Speaker 1: can think of that are close outside of Christopher. Who Christopher,
Speaker 1: but I hit because right Alex lives in Queens and
Speaker 1: Alex is so busy with Andrew. Sometimes I've called Alex
Speaker 1: answer and like immediately when I'm freaking out, it's a
Speaker 1: weird default. I'd be like, I just immediately called wax.
Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just feel like he could
Speaker 1: kill someone for friend na like Nigga Nigga who was
Speaker 1: like ruthless. I feel like it wasn't even that I felt.
Speaker 1: I guess I just felt like I just needed another
Speaker 1: male's presence to wean off whatever, you know. Even the
Speaker 1: guy that came and picked up my sofa hit me
Speaker 1: and was like you're so beautiful, Oh my god, we
Speaker 1: should be friends after and so it was just very uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: like something I wanna tell everyone about who's listening that
Speaker 1: lives in New York. I started to feel so unsafe.
Speaker 1: Like in that same way, there's this place called Shaka
Speaker 1: Um and it's on Second and seventh. It's free self defense.
Speaker 1: Black guy who teaches it um. It's on Sundays from
Speaker 1: three to four and you could do Tuesdays and Thursdays
Speaker 1: at seven free women self defense. I'm telling you, man,
Speaker 1: when I took now, I'm just gonna get weapons and
Speaker 1: place them around my house. I have it to like
Speaker 1: weapons in my house, but that at least to know
Speaker 1: to fight someone off, like because once someone's in there,
Speaker 1: like a handy dude, right, how fast can you grab honestly,
Speaker 1: I will be very honest with you. Self defense classes
Speaker 1: are cool. However, in my mind, I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna turn like Three Dred is one of those movies
Speaker 1: that makes me feel like I could be anybody, and
Speaker 1: I literally feel like I'm going to turn into a
Speaker 1: Spartan in my mind. However, when I was sexually assaulted
Speaker 1: on the train, I froze. I could have beat the
Speaker 1: funk out that nigga, but because of what was happening,
Speaker 1: there was such shock that it happened that I literally couldn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. That moment that you
Speaker 1: had was a big shock because you're in a public
Speaker 1: place place. But I feel like if someone I'm still
Speaker 1: gonna like and I literally know, which is why I
Speaker 1: think I date giants because in my mind, I feel
Speaker 1: like I might feel like I could beat a nigga
Speaker 1: who's under five nine, but in real life, I know
Speaker 1: that I can't beat no nigga, bro. But you can
Speaker 1: at least disarm someone or like hit them after where
Speaker 1: you can run, And that's the main point I think
Speaker 1: of self defense. It's to at least just hit them
Speaker 1: so that you can go and get out and be okay,
Speaker 1: like the things that I learned in the hour and
Speaker 1: a half, like even like places on nose and like
Speaker 1: just little pinpoints to just make someone fall down for
Speaker 1: a second so you can go, I ain't gonna believe
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna remember that ship in the case to
Speaker 1: save your life one day, so I wouldn't say that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't remember it. You never know, Like an hour
Speaker 1: and a half is nothing for free out of your
Speaker 1: day to learn something that you know. And you live
Speaker 1: in a bronx bitch. I feel safer in my ship
Speaker 1: than I do come into yoship. You live by bars,
Speaker 1: mad bars with drunk people. I live by Indians, my
Speaker 1: their own business. And because in real life all my
Speaker 1: neighbors are from Bangladesh. When I tell you them holes,
Speaker 1: don't scare me. They'd be wearing a little ship from church.
Speaker 1: They all go to church from I don't know what
Speaker 1: they should call. What's it called? Oh well, Catholic ship
Speaker 1: that's what they wear, too under but they listen whatever
Speaker 1: Catholics where that's what they be wearing and real friendly.
Speaker 1: The women don't speak at all to us because they
Speaker 1: know I'm underrated. How safe it is you think we
Speaker 1: think it's underrated. Let's we're not going to do that.
Speaker 1: That that she she she was her, I was listening
Speaker 1: whenever when we were not able to make it to
Speaker 1: episodes together. Um. I listened to them while everyone else
Speaker 1: listened to them because I like to like live tweet it,
Speaker 1: because even when we record an episode and people will
Speaker 1: mention something we said, I'm like, what was that? Especially
Speaker 1: because we pre record so much, I don't right, So
Speaker 1: I like to listen in the moment. The second I
Speaker 1: heard overrated, I'm like, first of all, bit she was
Speaker 1: talking about sex positions for the Queen, but not only that,
Speaker 1: then the remake, her whole definition of overrated was wrong,
Speaker 1: and then someone was wrong. Someone in the background was
Speaker 1: trying to cap for her, like, oh, I never thought
Speaker 1: of it that way, and you're like, because you don't
Speaker 1: need to think of it that way, because it's not right.
Speaker 1: I was like, overrated means you're just really really good,
Speaker 1: so we rate you hot, No bitch, you know when
Speaker 1: I tell you. I was like, but no, I don't
Speaker 1: think that's right. That was awful. We didn't check Webster,
Speaker 1: so today's vanilla ship got sent to me by Christopher
Speaker 1: um it's an Orlando Weekly. Um article. It's really not
Speaker 1: about sex, but I was just in shock. Headline is
Speaker 1: George Zimmerman is on the dating app Bumble and he
Speaker 1: wants to grab coffee and cake pops. My nigga really
Speaker 1: do like them? Is really on this fucking app shirtless?
Speaker 1: The fox Simmerman shirtless pictures with him with his dog,
Speaker 1: and then here's his bio jury consultant at self employed.
Speaker 1: Let's get coffee and cake pops. I'm looking for a
Speaker 1: mature and fun woman that's ready to be loved and
Speaker 1: respected the way she deserves and is able to reciprocate
Speaker 1: conservative Christian views. Bitch, So did you happen? Did you
Speaker 1: pick a King of the week? Already darned because this
Speaker 1: actually goes with one that's um find it, um I'm
Speaker 1: looking for right now. I cannot believe this nigga really
Speaker 1: has a nerve to live his life. And I don't
Speaker 1: want to say that I hope someone does something to him,
Speaker 1: but I do hope that someone that's looking for him
Speaker 1: finds him on Bumble. I will say that much and
Speaker 1: grabs coffee and cake pops and pop show. Motherfucking ass,
Speaker 1: that's right? Can you believe it, Like, just find love
Speaker 1: somewhere else. Why don't you go on Trump dating dot Com,
Speaker 1: which I saw in Jesus and Mary when they want Iceland.
Speaker 1: Trump dating dot Com is where you can go find
Speaker 1: other racist people and maybe you guys can build a
Speaker 1: wall around each other and live happily ever after. I
Speaker 1: cannot believe you're just out here. But you know it's
Speaker 1: even crazier. It's in Florida. So there's other that probably
Speaker 1: are like, Oh, I love you for what you one
Speaker 1: hundred percent, And so I want to look at um basically, damn,
Speaker 1: y'all know, I want to get you all the name
Speaker 1: for it, Um, what the king? So the kink is
Speaker 1: actually so there is a kink of people who are
Speaker 1: aroused by knowing that their partners killed someone or did
Speaker 1: something that is against the law. Um, there's an actual
Speaker 1: paraphilia for it. And I can't find the name. I mean, damn,
Speaker 1: but it's it's literally where if you think about it,
Speaker 1: probably these women or men that right, which is not
Speaker 1: no bitch, because you ain't sent me the outline till
Speaker 1: I was sitting in front of the god damn Mike,
Speaker 1: I could have didn't you sent me eleven minutes before seven.
Speaker 1: So what you're trying to say our show is in
Speaker 1: an hour? I said you, well, but no, So there's
Speaker 1: actually a kink where there are people who become aroused
Speaker 1: with knowing that. And it might be something with the
Speaker 1: bad guy vibe, like you know how we always feel
Speaker 1: like the no one wants a good guy? How we
Speaker 1: like the bad guy theme? The hell you with the
Speaker 1: drug dealers and scammers? And I was gonna say, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, but you used to love them
Speaker 1: having guns. What if they kill somebody with this ship?
Speaker 1: Because I ain't goa lie. I think it's sexy win. Oh,
Speaker 1: Marie Hart would be on Power just bopping niggas. That
Speaker 1: what I mean. Speaking to him, he was, it's not him,
Speaker 1: but someone that looks like him is on Riot. And
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, man, you gotta get on this ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he gotta be five, and it's just taller than
Speaker 1: Mari Hart. It wasn't Maria Mari he's married. It don't
Speaker 1: matter that n still gotta be five. It's just taller
Speaker 1: than that fell listen. I still calm down. So he's five,
Speaker 1: he's five eleven six foot another two. It's just cool,
Speaker 1: but like different between you smiling, like you got a
Speaker 1: name in your mind and I'm trying to think I
Speaker 1: got two of my whole life bits. Girl, please mouthing name,
Speaker 1: mouth name, Who are you talking about? Who are you
Speaker 1: talking about? It was so funny. I just thought about
Speaker 1: this guy you funk that you probably forgot that, remember Bama,
Speaker 1: and you fucked him at the studio. What we're doing? Yo?
Speaker 1: You know what? These niggas took us to this club.
Speaker 1: They used to be at church Club Destiny. Do you
Speaker 1: remember that? I really actually don't want to bring them
Speaker 1: up because Club Destiny, But it's one of those things
Speaker 1: that makes me go back and realize we were dealing
Speaker 1: with pedophiles. So I'd rather not think of the bitch.
Speaker 1: You still fun with niggas that with you when you
Speaker 1: was they were not. I don't sunk with any of
Speaker 1: the old niggas that was sucking me when I was
Speaker 1: sixteen seventeen. No, I don't, not one person. The point
Speaker 1: is not one person. I just don't really know how
Speaker 1: dumb were we. We went to this club and then
Speaker 1: we went back to a studio where these niggas live.
Speaker 1: Do you remember that they lived at this studio. How
Speaker 1: did that not go into my mind? You know what?
Speaker 1: I just want to say real quick, shame on us
Speaker 1: for being sixteen on stage with Boosey saying wipe me down.
Speaker 1: We used to get into the club, be the youngest
Speaker 1: in the club to the studio. We was in the
Speaker 1: studio with Grillas on ship bit Beat said a job
Speaker 1: that was at such a same we should not have been. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the only person I really wanted to funk back then
Speaker 1: was young Jeezy. It never happened or anything, but like
Speaker 1: that would have been like goals, you know, yeah, but
Speaker 1: that no, that would have been statutory. I feel like
Speaker 1: I would. I would suck them today, Gucci let me
Speaker 1: you know what fun more than them? I think I
Speaker 1: would want to fuck Lauren London and Nipsey. I know
Speaker 1: that Nipsey got beat like a boot when he was
Speaker 1: in that he was on my flight. He was on
Speaker 1: my flight coming back from from he so he was
Speaker 1: on my flight coming back from l A from All
Speaker 1: Star Weekend. Bitch. When I tell you, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is who he was, like the last person he
Speaker 1: was about to lose his motherfucking seat. By the way,
Speaker 1: Nigga came up latest fun to the gate so he could.
Speaker 1: I was like, god, damn, he is fine. She shit,
Speaker 1: but I feel like she looks boring. She doesn't look
Speaker 1: like she would be great in bed, but he looked
Speaker 1: like he would be nasty. Yeah he does. He looks
Speaker 1: like he's like he spanks too hard and then like
Speaker 1: he looked like he choked bit and your mouth like, no,
Speaker 1: that's all right, I'm still here. I love me some.
Speaker 1: I saw some people in person that was really good
Speaker 1: looking at these parties that I went to. One Georgia Smith.
Speaker 1: I see why Drake was obsessed. She's pretty on online,
Speaker 1: double taps on Rita Aura. Those are beautiful woman already. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but like there's other pretty girls and like I think,
Speaker 1: maybe disappointing in person, but like, goddamn, are there any
Speaker 1: guys that you've seen in person that were like way
Speaker 1: better looking in person than online? I got one. I
Speaker 1: got one, bitch, well real quick. I gotta, I gotta,
Speaker 1: I gotta break it down. And not to be disrespectful
Speaker 1: because he is married, but I really don't care because
Speaker 1: I'll take him in his wife. But the biggest dick
Speaker 1: energy from a celebrity I've ever met. And I said
Speaker 1: this on Live Over the Weekend. Bitch swizz beats. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, he got an aura and a swag and
Speaker 1: a confidence like I know that did come down to
Speaker 1: his anko, bitch when I tell you, And then he
Speaker 1: thought he fixed me a drink. I ended up meeting
Speaker 1: him at like a VH one Honors event when they
Speaker 1: did the VH one Honors here in New York, and
Speaker 1: it was like, I don't what was it for the
Speaker 1: music or something like that, but it was bitch. But
Speaker 1: he was like, you want to drink if you don't
Speaker 1: get your big dick away from me talking about you're
Speaker 1: fixing drinks. So he's a general drink bitch, just a
Speaker 1: drink all that ship. He had the biggest dick energy
Speaker 1: of any celebrity I've ever met. One of the best
Speaker 1: looking couples I've ever seen. Was well they're not together anymore,
Speaker 1: but a comment and Angela ry, oh yeah, you just
Speaker 1: say yeah, I would take. I'll take speaking of um
Speaker 1: just black people that are dope. Oh my flight back
Speaker 1: to New York, I saw Don Lennon, I saw you.
Speaker 1: I was fasting, right, and so I'm like, Anna, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing. So I was like leaving the flight,
Speaker 1: and I was like staring at him, and I know
Speaker 1: he could feel it, and I couldn't talk because I
Speaker 1: was so excited. So I just raised my hand in
Speaker 1: this fucking fist and he laughed, mad heart, where you
Speaker 1: play so fucking I try to thank who? I? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, bitch, you know it was really funny looking
Speaker 1: in person. I'm just gonna let you know. They can.
Speaker 1: They could tell you made this outline today, bitch, because
Speaker 1: all over the place because we talked. Bitch. First of all,
Speaker 1: my fucking like animals pouring categories. My ship might be
Speaker 1: all over the place, bitch, but it's a goddamn good time. Okay,
Speaker 1: well we got it. So um a whiskyly actually real
Speaker 1: cute with a skinny ass. Oh no, I like skinny niggas.
Speaker 1: UM know, you know it's really funny looking. So like.
Speaker 1: I've seen Neo a few times in Orlando, but I
Speaker 1: went to Poppy and saw him with his girl. No,
Speaker 1: not at all. He's is really nice, she is. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think Neo looks like how he looks. I don't
Speaker 1: think his girl has anything to look at like. I
Speaker 1: just feel like if I was like rich and I
Speaker 1: like I just could focus on being rich like that,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have a wiggy looking wig. And I was
Speaker 1: just so shocked, Like, if I'm that famous and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be taking pictures, I mean should I'll be giving
Speaker 1: a funk now and people take pictures of us every day?
Speaker 1: What I'll talking about y'all talking about me? No new
Speaker 1: you are, guest, that's here fucking horror. So anyway, today's
Speaker 1: episode is about drugs and the effect it has on sex. UM.
Speaker 1: I really wanted to do this because Mandy told a
Speaker 1: funny story to me once about how it when she
Speaker 1: ate a weed brownie. She was super fucked up. I've
Speaker 1: had some someone I thought how it started. Someone on
Speaker 1: Twitter was like, you know, I'm an Amsterdam and I
Speaker 1: feel too high and like it reminds me of the
Speaker 1: story Wheezy told. So I narrowed it down to a
Speaker 1: few different drugs that people use during sex, and I
Speaker 1: also asked our Instagram followers for some of my ice
Speaker 1: on it to UM and for their to share some
Speaker 1: of their stories. So the first drug we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about today is poppers. You guys have probably heard about
Speaker 1: us talk about poppers. Well, yeah, we have gay men
Speaker 1: on the show. I know Vinnie uses it often. If
Speaker 1: you ever want to use it in the store, you
Speaker 1: have to ask for the leather cleaner UM. But it's
Speaker 1: basically in aroma that you sniff that gives you like
Speaker 1: a head rushed um. Their brand names could be Liquid
Speaker 1: Gold or rush um. They're often called nitrates. It's um.
Speaker 1: It's a really weird feeling comes in this little like
Speaker 1: glass bottle. If you ever go to a gate club,
Speaker 1: they're all like passing it around on the floor. But
Speaker 1: basically they can make you feel horny. But the main
Speaker 1: purpose of poppers is to lower the inhibitions and make
Speaker 1: your orgasm feel stronger. They relax the sphincter muscle, which
Speaker 1: is why it's commonly used them on gay men. So
Speaker 1: it's either to be fucked or fisted um. But they
Speaker 1: can cause a man to flo's a hard on too,
Speaker 1: so it's better to be the one who's taking it
Speaker 1: if you're using the poppers. Yeah, so I used it
Speaker 1: UM and I shouldn't. No, goddamn, he was gay for
Speaker 1: having poppers. But the gay porn star that I sucked
Speaker 1: and I found out he was a porn star after
Speaker 1: he actually had me sniffing this ship. And I was
Speaker 1: scared because this was our first time having sex. And
Speaker 1: he's like, smell this, and I'm thinking, I'm that was
Speaker 1: your first time. Yes, my only time, my first and
Speaker 1: only time using poppers was with him. Um, and I did,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie out of you. He brought like
Speaker 1: ship to your house, Like he fucked the goddamn ship
Speaker 1: out of me. Well, he has sugar sugar mom kids,
Speaker 1: he has sugar mama's. You said he brought different shipped
Speaker 1: to your house, sugar Mama's. We talked about it. He
Speaker 1: gave you the whole experience and trying to get got
Speaker 1: his own. Yeah about that nigga charge charge, I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean we'll get the discount, all right. So, um,
Speaker 1: the CON's um of poppers, there's a bigger risk of
Speaker 1: anal bleeding. Basically, it expands your blood vessels, so that's
Speaker 1: a possibility, and it does make your immune sister immune
Speaker 1: system a little bit weaker for a short amount of time. Um.
Speaker 1: Now let's get into real drugs. Want you gonna do
Speaker 1: some harder ship? All right? Well, let's talk about m
Speaker 1: d M A. So m d M d M A
Speaker 1: is a substance found in Molly um. It makes people
Speaker 1: feel highly a sex, affectionate, and sentimental. It gives an
Speaker 1: empathetic and connected feeling. But when it comes to physical pleasure,
Speaker 1: people have said women mainly have said it felt amazing,
Speaker 1: and a lot of men have said they can't get
Speaker 1: it up. But people seem to have this great experience
Speaker 1: during sex with M D m A, but rarely are
Speaker 1: able to orgasm. Bitch. I had great sex on Molly
Speaker 1: in Orlando. So yeah, Like if you remember, I left
Speaker 1: the club and we wouldn't have had sex in the car?
Speaker 1: Who was? Who was? Only? I can't? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: Mandy were so high. Do you remember that time we
Speaker 1: did it on these You did it on the cruise.
Speaker 1: I refused to do it. I just drank the liquor
Speaker 1: that we snuck in the shampoo bottles that we didn't
Speaker 1: get all the shampoo out. Up. Bro, I did that
Speaker 1: fucking Molly on the cruise and started crying. And that's
Speaker 1: when I realized I had to leave because it was
Speaker 1: just us and like five girls, and I was like
Speaker 1: it was fish. I'll be crying like a motherfucker on Molly.
Speaker 1: So I haven't done Molly and only because I know that,
Speaker 1: like the seriously, that was the last time I did
Speaker 1: Molly when I was chemical makeup of it though, Like
Speaker 1: so basically what Molly does you guys? From what I
Speaker 1: know and from how I've used it, I used to
Speaker 1: like love to rape back in the day. Still do
Speaker 1: love to go to music festivals. But Molly just it
Speaker 1: boosts up your serotonin, which is the thing in your
Speaker 1: brain makes you happy, right, makes you feel good, much
Speaker 1: like when you take a lexapro or zoloft. It gives
Speaker 1: you serotonin, but it's it slightly increases it. So when
Speaker 1: you get that much at one time, that large rush,
Speaker 1: what do you end up with? A huge fucking colmdown.
Speaker 1: So literally I feel super happy, and the next day
Speaker 1: I'd want to kill myself And it just lasted too long,
Speaker 1: and so I wasn't in the mood for it. But
Speaker 1: if you ever want to do Molly, I can recommend
Speaker 1: some vitamins to take UM five HTP or me and
Speaker 1: Vinny would go raven. We was definitely the Motherfucker's. They
Speaker 1: had vitamins on a campsite bit so vitamin C helps
Speaker 1: you get higher. If you feel like you're coming down,
Speaker 1: drink some orange juice or five HTP. But I wouldn't
Speaker 1: really recommend molly because I think it's really a hard
Speaker 1: drug to you are such a drug expert, Jesus, I
Speaker 1: don't do it anymore, but I can definitely well, I
Speaker 1: don't want to take anything that could like keep talking
Speaker 1: because it sounds like a professor. Here's the thing, right
Speaker 1: in those days when I was partying and doing molly,
Speaker 1: I have to make sure that, like I'm taking care
Speaker 1: of my body. So I was a very like get
Speaker 1: high and responsible bit, you know what I'm saying. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, oh no, no no, no, we gotta know how
Speaker 1: long is the high gonna last. I'd be on the
Speaker 1: internet checking. But um no, I mean it's a very
Speaker 1: hard drug to use. I think back when I I mean,
Speaker 1: what was that their cruise was almost ten years ago.
Speaker 1: Now it's because we're definitely under twenty one. That's why
Speaker 1: we had some testing kids. Though you can like dip
Speaker 1: it in the molley. But it seems like when people
Speaker 1: do drugs they never plan it, which I don't think
Speaker 1: it's a smart thing to do. Um that's why I
Speaker 1: don't remember it. But here's the interesting thing I've read
Speaker 1: from some people. Some When I wrote Twitter, dam said,
Speaker 1: I remember feeling really into it, but not amazing physically.
Speaker 1: I felt like I was so connected and super close
Speaker 1: to my boyfriend, like we were in our own universe.
Speaker 1: But I don't know if it felt as physically good
Speaker 1: as it did in my head. She sounds like she
Speaker 1: was high righting the bit. She was like, alright, what's
Speaker 1: the next one? So the next one I want to
Speaker 1: talk about is what most of us do. It's legal
Speaker 1: in some parts of the country and world marijuana. I
Speaker 1: Before we get on the marijuana, I'll tell you one
Speaker 1: thing I don't like doing while being high. We'd makes
Speaker 1: my mouth very dry. It also makes my mouth have
Speaker 1: a weed taste, and my partner have a weed taste.
Speaker 1: So the kissing is like, bitch, I taste the backwoods
Speaker 1: and everything. Uh oh yeah, my niggamoke, So I get
Speaker 1: that taste. And then because my mouth is so dry,
Speaker 1: giving head is just like uh and just like with
Speaker 1: giving morning head, like I taste my breath and smell
Speaker 1: like the weed on the dick, and it's just not enjoyable.
Speaker 1: But there's a feeling that it's that that cotton mouth
Speaker 1: side effect of weed. I really don't enjoy. One thing
Speaker 1: I really don't like doing is consuming weed. That's bitch.
Speaker 1: So I shared my stories of the edibles. Um my
Speaker 1: whole body paralyzes. I feel my heartbeat. It's crazy. I
Speaker 1: would say when it comes to the edibles, I will
Speaker 1: not take those in public. So for anyone listening, if
Speaker 1: you plan to take edibles, take them in the confines
Speaker 1: of your own home or someone you trust home, because
Speaker 1: they will be able to do whatever they want with
Speaker 1: you and you can't stop it because your arms don't move,
Speaker 1: your heart is beating there. Oh yeah, because you're right,
Speaker 1: or or that one particular person. Plural singular, bit I
Speaker 1: can't singular. I don't because my body feels too like
Speaker 1: weighty eat, I can't see. Why do you be coming up?
Speaker 1: So you want to talk about even words weighty? Where
Speaker 1: did I get that weight from? Because you have said
Speaker 1: that ship before, Like you really believe that's a word.
Speaker 1: I become weighty you mean light? No like heavy. I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm talking about this so like every time
Speaker 1: I could sue marijuana, I always feel like everything weighs
Speaker 1: a lot, Like my hands are real heavy to move
Speaker 1: through air, I get real do should be laced. Do
Speaker 1: you know what the best weed I've ever had? The
Speaker 1: best weed? No, there's just me eating It's okay. So yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why I said I can't move. Bit I told
Speaker 1: you I feel weighty. That No, that's not a word.
Speaker 1: You feel heavy, you feel paralyzed. That's what I say.
Speaker 1: High I've had any years that I remember from marijuana
Speaker 1: was the day that I went to the Women's March,
Speaker 1: walked into the studio and we were with the money.
Speaker 1: The reason I remember how great that high was because
Speaker 1: Dallas Penn talked about fucking that shoe and I was like,
Speaker 1: day am I everything? Um? So I just want to
Speaker 1: read you guys a few things about weed. UM side effects.
Speaker 1: Good side effects are higher libido and more orgasm. Studies
Speaker 1: that found that many people have higher libidos and better
Speaker 1: sex while stoned, apparently because we kind of slows everything
Speaker 1: down and has this effect on the brain. UM. The
Speaker 1: receptors that associated are that are associated with sexual pleasure decreased.
Speaker 1: Anxiety makes sex enjoyable because the orgasms last longer. Everything
Speaker 1: feels like it's taking longer. UM bad side effects that
Speaker 1: people have gotten. The number one that I'm reading is
Speaker 1: that women gets wet after smoking. Not everybody experiences that, UM,
Speaker 1: but that they say that's the most common side effect
Speaker 1: in women. UM. One of the other that was you
Speaker 1: said it increases or decreases, it increases libido, but it
Speaker 1: makes a lot of women have trouble with UM. Yeah,
Speaker 1: getting wet for something. Okay, that could possibly be with
Speaker 1: maybe males. So I looked it up real quick because
Speaker 1: I've heard of marijuana UM affecting fertility, and I'm actually
Speaker 1: reading here says before intercourse takes place, marijuana decreases libido
Speaker 1: and if you aren't filling in the mood, it's that
Speaker 1: much more difficult to get started. UM. But marijuana is
Speaker 1: something that UM and occasional users has reduced fertility. I
Speaker 1: actually I'm reading mine from very Well Health, very well,
Speaker 1: that's very well mind dot com. That's that's the same ship.
Speaker 1: So you just don't know how to read. No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, I was reading an article full on about
Speaker 1: drugs and sex, not just weed. Oh so so maybe
Speaker 1: it's another stuyah, So this is just we'd also that
Speaker 1: a damn shame. Some people get horny, some people the
Speaker 1: people despite the relaxation effects which you did mention, UM
Speaker 1: Research has shown that marijuana has negative effects on the
Speaker 1: male sexual response. Marijuana has been found to increase impotence.
Speaker 1: Impotence in potence is when you can't potent. Oh I
Speaker 1: thought it was potent, Like you know, sparan was potent. Okay.
Speaker 1: As well as interfering with your partner being able to
Speaker 1: have sex, impotence can also have negative effects on the
Speaker 1: male ego. UM and so yeah, and then it's just
Speaker 1: pretty much UM saying that if you are preparing for parenthood,
Speaker 1: it would be smart for both of you, um to
Speaker 1: decrease the intake of marijuana because you risk increasing the
Speaker 1: chances of infertility as a couple. Honestly, the impotence thing
Speaker 1: like that happens with molly. They say for men, alcohol, cocaine, Oh,
Speaker 1: it's any kind of which is crazy that a lot
Speaker 1: of men talk about haney dick and all of these things.
Speaker 1: When you're smoking weed, when you're doing molly, when you're
Speaker 1: doing X, when you're doing smoking weed, all of these
Speaker 1: things actually can affect your performance in bed. So yes,
Speaker 1: if you're drinking and a lot of them, I will
Speaker 1: say for for most of my partners, when they're in
Speaker 1: a state of being not sober and have any type
Speaker 1: of substance in their body, they don't come or they
Speaker 1: take forever to come, and and I hate it. I
Speaker 1: actually got something pulled up with alcohol two about that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so talk about we talking about alcohol though. Um, I
Speaker 1: want to bring up one more kind of drug hallucinogens. Uh,
Speaker 1: that's white people shot. White people say. A lot of
Speaker 1: black people wrote me stories on Twitter about it, dealing
Speaker 1: with creative, creative they just think about I feel like
Speaker 1: it's nah. Took naturals one time and didn't feel ship
Speaker 1: you really every time asked what um so okay? Acid
Speaker 1: ak LSD. It's a tab you put on your tongue.
Speaker 1: It melts um. And it's basically a way that we
Speaker 1: all people will say how things become cosmic and very
Speaker 1: euphoric and you see colors mix and it can alter
Speaker 1: the way that your visuals are. Right. Um, there's actually
Speaker 1: ship if you google um. Dubbs always used to talk
Speaker 1: about how she loved acid and like she would pull
Speaker 1: up these visuals um that were with like colors intertwining
Speaker 1: and like different like funnels and stuff, and it would
Speaker 1: feel like it was coming out of the screen and ship. Um.
Speaker 1: So this is a d M we got on Twitter.
Speaker 1: I'm a polyamorous, kiki woman, kinky woman. The first time
Speaker 1: I had sex with my boyfriend of two years, we
Speaker 1: had both taken LSD. He loves biting, so for play
Speaker 1: was the most intense session I've ever experienced. When his
Speaker 1: teeth pierced into my skin, I saw stars and fireworks.
Speaker 1: I gave him every inch in my body in a moment.
Speaker 1: In that moment, verbally, he has been fixing and abusing
Speaker 1: my beautiful, my beautifully ever since. I don't know. She
Speaker 1: meant another time he was beating me. Literally, he punched
Speaker 1: me off the side of the bed, she said, which
Speaker 1: brought me back from an intense trip. And then we
Speaker 1: came and we had another fantastic night of sex. There
Speaker 1: was another time, mixed with LSD, coke M d M,
Speaker 1: a bourbon twelve condoms later, we work up. Sex and
Speaker 1: drugs are wonderful, and she's black as sex and drugs
Speaker 1: are not wonderful. Okay, there's another person, I said. My
Speaker 1: first time doing acid, I'm a teacher, Please keep this private.
Speaker 1: My first time doing acid, I got it from a student.
Speaker 1: Realized that I was so deep and intuitive within myself.
Speaker 1: I called him over. He brought over another classmate that
Speaker 1: I hadn't meant. We all had a wonderful experience. This
Speaker 1: better be a college teacher, hope. I'm just gonna say
Speaker 1: that right now. She better be a university professor. Okay,
Speaker 1: you don't say nothing, not a bob. I was about
Speaker 1: to tell you go look at the biob and see
Speaker 1: where she teaching. I need to know she had better
Speaker 1: be a professor. It just says Brooklyn, New York. You
Speaker 1: think this college is in Brooklyn that she might there is?
Speaker 1: She better better be a one of them. Goddamn Cuney's hope,
Speaker 1: please keep me private like ten times so that their
Speaker 1: whole high school. There's one more that I've never heard of.
Speaker 1: It's called sense her name, her name in there. I
Speaker 1: just want to know. But I got to know you
Speaker 1: fucking classmates that are not only giving you drugs, they're
Speaker 1: bringing in other classics for YouTube. Fuck. I'm sorry, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look you up. Stop and if it's if
Speaker 1: it's a high school, I'm telling I'll delete it. Don't worry.
Speaker 1: I want high school. I guess she's a high school.
Speaker 1: I'm telling, bro, that's some bullshit. That's why I would
Speaker 1: never be a teacher in high school because some of them.
Speaker 1: That's so sense focus. I've never heard of this ever.
Speaker 1: This is my first time reading this, but it came
Speaker 1: up once I started researching LSD and hallucinogens with sex.
Speaker 1: It's getting high on feelings. The good news is that
Speaker 1: you do not need to withstand the risk of drugs
Speaker 1: to receive this benefit. These effects can appear with sense
Speaker 1: state focus. Much like Molly. You can pay careful attention
Speaker 1: to sex with someone you genuinely appreciate. After committing yourselves
Speaker 1: to regular sessions of slow, sensual touch and detailed communication,
Speaker 1: you can feel as emotionally connected as you might on
Speaker 1: M D M A, maybe a weed or an acid.
Speaker 1: But people that practice this do a lot of tantric breathing,
Speaker 1: a lot of breath play, a lot of like learning
Speaker 1: your bodies, and they say it comes with very very
Speaker 1: slow and long sex. So um, I think I've definitely
Speaker 1: done that ship bro low and long, because like that
Speaker 1: don't sound like none of the sex I have. I
Speaker 1: want to kind of like smoke weed before I do this,
Speaker 1: but I feel like I could definitely try, like get
Speaker 1: high off some feelings like fuck like you're on a molly,
Speaker 1: but you're not. Because here's the thing, right, And that's
Speaker 1: what I think made me stop doing it when I
Speaker 1: was younger, Like as much fun as I would have
Speaker 1: on it, I was like, bro, I've had this much
Speaker 1: fun before regular, right, like I I have. I'm an
Speaker 1: extroverted person. I have this energy. I don't really need it.
Speaker 1: So if I can get myself there and pique myself
Speaker 1: to that kind of high to where people ask me
Speaker 1: if I'm on drugs, I could do that. Ship and sex,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean I do that now. I feel
Speaker 1: like I enjoy sex like not only that I talked
Speaker 1: to my partners so much about sex before we have it.
Speaker 1: They know I'm nasty sober, so I think I will say.
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I did used to use maybe
Speaker 1: the concept of drugs and alcohol as an excuse for
Speaker 1: me being nasty, just so that they thought that I
Speaker 1: was this nasty just because I was under this. And
Speaker 1: also alcohol brings away a lot of this shame, so
Speaker 1: the Alcohore did. Yeah, I didn't want to think about ship.
Speaker 1: A lot of people we change ourselves for the sex
Speaker 1: we have, and we have to fucking I've had so
Speaker 1: many like, oh, let me have another glass of wine
Speaker 1: before I like, I, you know, do this. Um, So,
Speaker 1: alcohol and sex, the science behind whiskey penis and how
Speaker 1: drinking alcohol determines whether or not you get a direct shin.
Speaker 1: So basically, they're saying that it's a popular belief that
Speaker 1: alcohol is an aphrodisiac, but all it really does is
Speaker 1: inhibit your inhibition. But it also loses the ability to
Speaker 1: attain an erection during orgasm. Some people can overcome anxieties,
Speaker 1: but there is a bad physiological effect on the penis um.
Speaker 1: It's the common cause of erectile dysfunction. The amount of
Speaker 1: alcohol in the blood increases and it decreases the brain's
Speaker 1: ability to sense sexual simula. I will say that, Um.
Speaker 1: Something else that I've noticed as well is that as
Speaker 1: a as a woman, I don't get as wet when
Speaker 1: I'm really drunk. And I'm noticing that now more just
Speaker 1: trying to like I thought my pussy was broken, but
Speaker 1: I've like definitely been noticing that when I am under
Speaker 1: the influence specifically alcohol, because I'm an alcoholic, but I
Speaker 1: noticed that I don't become as wet, I become more ritable,
Speaker 1: with with the condom, like I dry out quicker, of
Speaker 1: course because I have I like condom dict um. But
Speaker 1: that's kind of what happens. I noticed, like my body,
Speaker 1: I don't get as wet. I mean, maybe that's why
Speaker 1: alcohol is a depressant, and maybe that's why it said
Speaker 1: with weed, maybe certain strains of weed can make you
Speaker 1: not be wet because it might take you down a
Speaker 1: little bit to um. So the depressant right, um, it's
Speaker 1: basically saying that you kind of lose your response to
Speaker 1: circulation and the sensitivity to nerve endings. Um word. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it causes the blood vessels to dilate, which influences the
Speaker 1: way blood moves in and out of the penis and claytorus,
Speaker 1: so women can maybe not feel as excited either. It
Speaker 1: might take you a long time to reach orgasm. Um.
Speaker 1: And the last and final drug I think I said
Speaker 1: alcohol was the last, but it's not. I wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about enhancement drugs and just tell you how they
Speaker 1: work for men or women. So basically we known them
Speaker 1: for boosting libido, but what it really does is increased
Speaker 1: blood flow to the genitals. So we always hear about
Speaker 1: VIAGRAA because we do need more of a blood flow
Speaker 1: and the male penis for heterosex. But with women when
Speaker 1: taking pills that are supposed to be like I've seen
Speaker 1: little ones of like seven eleven with like a kangaroo
Speaker 1: on them and like different ship and they always have
Speaker 1: different kind of vitamins in them. But the pills that
Speaker 1: women have that you see have vitamins in them like
Speaker 1: makaroo in like different shipped to increase libido and blood
Speaker 1: flow to the clip or the vagina um. Now where
Speaker 1: is It's not a direct effect on how pleasurable sex
Speaker 1: can be if there is more blood flow going on
Speaker 1: down there were like super sensitive, which is why you
Speaker 1: maybe get stronger orgasms from your clip or you can
Speaker 1: have multiple There's just one more thing I wanted to
Speaker 1: read that came up to alcohol with a listener letter.
Speaker 1: Someone wrote this in OK and it was called vomit
Speaker 1: dick Oh I did see. I love this one. Hey ladies,
Speaker 1: I love your show. You'll crack me up, and you've
Speaker 1: helped me expand my sex life with my partner. I've
Speaker 1: had the same partner for two and a half years,
Speaker 1: so nothing is off limits with us, and we play
Speaker 1: around a lot when we discovered I can literally fit
Speaker 1: this whole dick down my throat. Lit for not having hansols,
Speaker 1: we got carried away. I love when he gets rough
Speaker 1: and shoves his dick down my throat and fox my
Speaker 1: face when I'm on my knees. Well, one time it
Speaker 1: happens to me on a full stomach with many tequila
Speaker 1: shots and three margarita so I'm pretty drunk, and in
Speaker 1: the middle of him sucking my face full on, deep throat,
Speaker 1: puke comes out. He pulled out quick. I swallowed the
Speaker 1: puke the worst feeling a drink of water, and he
Speaker 1: continued until he came. I think our comfortability with one
Speaker 1: another plays a huge part. But yep, I puked on
Speaker 1: a dick and it didn't faithe either one of us.
Speaker 1: Love y'all, Tati bit, you're disgusting. No kicks shaving, but
Speaker 1: goddamn ballow. Not only that, I'll tell you that should
Speaker 1: be hot as fun, like throw up, to swallow it
Speaker 1: back down your esophagus for them, like ghetto motherfucking burning,
Speaker 1: but the ghetto doctors. Whenever I watch porn where people
Speaker 1: have thrown up, like they take they spit out right,
Speaker 1: they throw up. Maybe they didn't want to do it
Speaker 1: because she got good sheets or something. Bitch that, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why I like hotel sex. I completely understand. I
Speaker 1: did this interview with Shan Booty while I was in
Speaker 1: l A. And one of the things I was saying
Speaker 1: to her was like, Yo, I'm standing in a hotel
Speaker 1: right now, and like, I totally get why people funk
Speaker 1: nasty to do. Like, I see how people get pet
Speaker 1: in the hotel. That's the only place I've done it.
Speaker 1: Where else are you gonna do it? Like you're not
Speaker 1: doing it at my house? Bitch, I'm not, but I
Speaker 1: out down now in real life, I don't. I love swirting.
Speaker 1: I'm not squirting on my sheets. I just clean these
Speaker 1: and Bitch, I live in the Bronx. I gotta go
Speaker 1: drop my sheets off, get them washed. It's fifteen dollars
Speaker 1: from from my company. That's expensive. Now it's an exifteen
Speaker 1: dollars dollars. I ain't trying to do that. Then I
Speaker 1: gotta walhi the prices we pay for laundry, my nigga.
Speaker 1: Can I just say I was in l A for
Speaker 1: what five days? Two? God damn long. The city is gorgeous,
Speaker 1: the weather's but I would never want to move out there.
Speaker 1: I said that I did that ship for a weekend.
Speaker 1: I'm cool. It's so different, Like, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: went to wait, we have a show in that Like,
Speaker 1: can we like? I said, like, the people are boring?
Speaker 1: It's fun? Can you not do that just saying we
Speaker 1: saw we don't we sell it out in l A.
Speaker 1: The people are boring, but it's not the people don't
Speaker 1: listen to us, but the rest of them it's sucking trash.
Speaker 1: Shout out to all the friends I have and L like,
Speaker 1: but outside of them, I didn't. I wasn't Like I
Speaker 1: was telling the van. I was like, bro, I don't
Speaker 1: know how you everywhere ban is from Baton Rouge. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you love this place? How the way they got mad
Speaker 1: real niggas and like no one in l A is
Speaker 1: from there. No one exports, imports xbax, Pats boom, come on.
Speaker 1: Worried overwriting and I should get a website. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: but not like I was in the club and I
Speaker 1: was telling Mall. I was like, are you out here?
Speaker 1: I like needed some New York energy, bitch. I'm in
Speaker 1: the club right. Austin took me. We went to some
Speaker 1: doocey party that I think they threw, and he was like,
Speaker 1: I'll take you to pop. So we go and they
Speaker 1: literally kick every girl out of v I P except
Speaker 1: for me, Neio's girlfriend, and one other girl. Fifty niggas
Speaker 1: just to make room for more niggas to be around
Speaker 1: other famous Like why not New York is that way
Speaker 1: now to like like nigga girl because they really all
Speaker 1: fucking each other after the club. But we're not gonna
Speaker 1: get into that. I don't know. I mean, I haven't
Speaker 1: had those experiences in New York, but I was very
Speaker 1: disappointed that nobody danced in the club in l A,
Speaker 1: like because they are just pretty in there, Like why
Speaker 1: why are we here? Bitch going bad came on and
Speaker 1: I put my jacket down and was like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: about to get ready? She said, are you read it?
Speaker 1: And nobody? I was the only person. I'm like, have
Speaker 1: they got this song out before me? Every is everyone's
Speaker 1: heart this ship? Why am I willing for dancing? Well,
Speaker 1: you were also out of town, Like you get more
Speaker 1: lit when you're on vacation. Bro, you don't dance when
Speaker 1: you're in the club. I don't care where I am, Bro,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a good time if I made that,
Speaker 1: if I took the energy to get out of the
Speaker 1: house and put something nice on to go somewhere. I
Speaker 1: want to live my life and have a good time
Speaker 1: and dance. I didn't come here to fucking stare at
Speaker 1: other people and be a bit facts. Well, I do
Speaker 1: want to say thank you guys Atlanta this weekend. Speaking
Speaker 1: of dancing, y'all. Funny is this is this dropping? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm excited for the Atlanta show. We sold out.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. This is probably over sold. Ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna hold you. Yeah, They're gonna be closing on
Speaker 1: their house in Atlanta, and I'm like, well, they gotta come.
Speaker 1: They might some of my best friends, So like, how
Speaker 1: is everyone gonna fight? I ain't even gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: People won't be standing up because we got too many
Speaker 1: people fire hazardously. We could do friends. I'm happy. I'm happy. No,
Speaker 1: I got enough like real staff that I'm not even
Speaker 1: gonna right now. They could be on the side of
Speaker 1: the stage. Dog, That's what I'm saying. So I do
Speaker 1: want to say I'm excited just that we sold out Atlanta.
Speaker 1: We did y'all know as um March nine New York
Speaker 1: has sold out, we damn near selling out. March tense,
Speaker 1: So if you haven't got your tickets yet, please get
Speaker 1: them because that ship about to be selling which were
Speaker 1: selling that hope I want. I can't believe l A
Speaker 1: down in a day. That's crazy a day and a
Speaker 1: half and this is um Hollywood improv. So if y'all
Speaker 1: been like you're talking about half Nigga, I went to
Speaker 1: parties that didn't have that many people, So I can't
Speaker 1: wait to meet the l A who are hive. But
Speaker 1: speaking of the Atlanta this weekend, I don't know if
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to go back to that club that
Speaker 1: was so much fun, but like I couldn't breathe in there.
Speaker 1: So if you guys know a ghettohood funk club that
Speaker 1: doesn't feel and taste like blunts, let me know, because
Speaker 1: maybe it doesn't exist. I don't late. Jarnon is cool,
Speaker 1: but that's like an outdoor club. Bro. Do you remember
Speaker 1: how it was weezing and using my hailer in the
Speaker 1: club in Atlanta and the fact that it was an
Speaker 1: appearance and we had to be there. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: in tears. Medina was outside like it's okay, weezy. They
Speaker 1: saw you, they know you're here, and you were texting
Speaker 1: me like there's girls from London here. You gotta come back.
Speaker 1: I can't do it. Dog, Well, I'm gonna be club
Speaker 1: in all that. Damn. We can a fun time. We're
Speaker 1: excited to see um, to hug you and kiss you
Speaker 1: in the cheek and touch your titties. It's lit. So
Speaker 1: once again, this has been get another episode decision. Enjoy
Speaker 1: this episode at this next clip. I'm sorry. From our
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Speaker 1: can have access to a slew of episodes on there.
Speaker 1: Enjoy us. We have some really fun ship Bye bye.
Speaker 1: Let's settle this debate in a couple, Yes, who's better
Speaker 1: stranger or a friend? I haven't strangers? Oh you mean
Speaker 1: in a in a couple, the one you know, we're
Speaker 1: the one you don't know. They know. In a couple,
Speaker 1: we're a couple. We want to have a threesome. This
Speaker 1: is just assuming that the list right, my friend is better.
Speaker 1: I disagree. I so to me and I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: So we had this talk. So my my homegirl that
Speaker 1: I just had a threesome with By the way, guys,
Speaker 1: use this time to utilize our comments section on this
Speaker 1: Patreon post, and let's debate. Because so to tell you
Speaker 1: tell me why friend is better, I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 1: So I will tell you why a friend is better
Speaker 1: to me. I feel like a friend is better, especially
Speaker 1: one that you trust um, because I feel like that
Speaker 1: there's a huge understanding with where you stand with the
Speaker 1: partner you're bringing me in with. I also feel like
Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about a friend um as
Speaker 1: much as I do a stranger. And I say that
Speaker 1: because bitch, I'm a stranger to all the nigga's wives.
Speaker 1: I'll be sucking, so I don't give a funk about
Speaker 1: their feelings while I'm sucking a nigga. But a friend
Speaker 1: genuinely has a conscience when it comes to that. So
Speaker 1: I feel like with a friend, a good friend, not
Speaker 1: just a whole friend, not like a legit friend that
Speaker 1: knows your relationship that is just cool with your kinks
Speaker 1: and wants to help you experience this will be understanding
Speaker 1: to your relationship and not cross the lines that I
Speaker 1: think a stranger will. So I'm gonna hear you why
Speaker 1: I think a stranger is even better, and I think
Speaker 1: my reasons are the same as yours. A friend can
Speaker 1: be around my man again. A friend is going to
Speaker 1: be in our lives. A friend is going to pop
Speaker 1: up and for most women that have neuroses about live
Speaker 1: in town bro but point blank period, the friend is
Speaker 1: going to come back around at some point birthdays, holidays,
Speaker 1: and then we are always going to have that thing
Speaker 1: lingering there and what if it was bad, and what
Speaker 1: if it could possibly destroy my friendship. Strangers, I feel like,
Speaker 1: are a very safe space because if it was great,
Speaker 1: we can do it again. If it's sucked, we don't
Speaker 1: have to. Another thing about it is if it stuck
Speaker 1: to you, you don't have to. I feel like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: great sex amongst the board, like in a threesome, and
Speaker 1: maybe he liked fucking her, but like threesomes, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about us again. I get that. I think you have
Speaker 1: a lot more control on how that stranger can impact
Speaker 1: your relationship then you can't a friend, because as a friend,
Speaker 1: they can have easier access to the man than a stranger,
Speaker 1: because everyone has access. However, this is what happened. So
Speaker 1: I had a not so close friend joined me in
Speaker 1: a threesome. They didn't exchange any type of information in
Speaker 1: front of me. They fucking it doesn't matter. No, they
Speaker 1: weren't both famous Instagram models, not famous, and he and
Speaker 1: they were about popular left where they knew each other. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've all fucked regular guys still with Instagram's fair. She's
Speaker 1: not a stranger, she's a friend of yours, and she
Speaker 1: wasn't about what I'm saying. She wasn't a stranger, but
Speaker 1: she wasn't a close friend. Why I said, when you
Speaker 1: bring a friend like me and my friend who brought
Speaker 1: me into the threesome with her nigga, we legitimately how
Speaker 1: to talk. And I think it also helped that it
Speaker 1: was just like her nigga is not my type type.
Speaker 1: So I think that argument kind of makes to my
Speaker 1: point that person you brought in was a girl that
Speaker 1: you knew, super attractive, not friend friend maybe not You're
Speaker 1: you're saying she wasn't close enough to a relationship. So
Speaker 1: but she still did it, and he weren't happy about it,
Speaker 1: and if it was it was wrong, I wasn't. Of course.
Speaker 1: Now I think that situation makes sense to why dating
Speaker 1: and finding a partner just for that, like a stranger
Speaker 1: makes a lot more sense. I still disagree because me
Speaker 1: and and meeting someone as a couple is really really
Speaker 1: good too. For example, my friends that have threesomes. As
Speaker 1: she said on episode seventy, you guys can reference that.
Speaker 1: Just spoke to a girl. I don't know if she's
Speaker 1: comfortable about talking about it. She's a podcaster, and she said,
Speaker 1: having three SOMs with couples really makes me feel honored
Speaker 1: because they let me into their space. And I always
Speaker 1: want to make sure, like when we meet, like we
Speaker 1: discussed that, I want to know if I can talk
Speaker 1: outside the group chat they let me know if they
Speaker 1: do that or not. And she's like, I just feel
Speaker 1: like finding unicorns is a lot smarter of an idea.
Speaker 1: Strangers in a bar I think are a cool idea too,
Speaker 1: because then you can just like have that experiments and
Speaker 1: get rid of it. If you want to continue having
Speaker 1: three SOMs and try to try that type of thing. Maybe,
Speaker 1: But I genuinely feel like strangers hold no loyalty to
Speaker 1: either party. There's should but therefore, when you allow that
Speaker 1: stranger into the room, And this is where I've seen
Speaker 1: a lot of things go wrong, the bitch or nigga
Speaker 1: will hit up like this just happened with one of
Speaker 1: my friends and she's like, bitch, I brought you in
Speaker 1: here to have sex with both of us, and you
Speaker 1: sit in here and try to fund my nigga on
Speaker 1: the side. Like this happens with strangers, I think it
Speaker 1: also happens with friends, So guess what. People are trash.
Speaker 1: But no, let's go to number four. If we're talking
Speaker 1: about that situation, he was not my nigga, so there's
Speaker 1: a difference. No, no,