1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: You are listening to What in the Winkler and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of What in the Winkler. 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: I am so excited because today I'm going to talk 4 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: about Ace's bar mitzvah, and so many of you guys 5 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: have asked me for details and for pictures, and obviously 6 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 1: I'm so thrilled because i love nothing more than talking 7 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: about it. So I'm very excited to just chat with 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: you guys today. I this is the second time I've 9 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: ever done in alone episode, so we'll see how it goes. 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: But I had my son's bar mitzvah over the weekend, 11 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: and uh, he's my first child, So I have three boys. 12 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: Ace is thirteen, Jules is nine, and Gus is seven, 13 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: and so this was the first bermitzvah in our family, 14 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: and I had been planning it for over a year. So, uh, 15 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: it's basically a wedding, not for everybody, but definitely for 16 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: me and my family. And I think like the most 17 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: incredible part about this whole process was that Ace really 18 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: wanted to plan it with me. He had like a 19 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: lot of ideas and a lot of he had a vision, 20 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: and so it was him and I really doing it together, 21 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: which I thought was so special. I think I've talked 22 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,199 Speaker 1: aout this before, but my husband and I are both 23 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: born and raised in Los Angeles. We both have really 24 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: big families. My husband's one of five kids. Everyone is married, 25 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: everybody has kids, so on his family on his side alone, 26 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: like his immediate family when we travel with them, is 27 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: twenty six people. And then his mom is actually one 28 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: of four kids. His dad is one of three, so 29 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: it's a very big family. So and then on my side, 30 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: I have two brothers, so there's three of us. We're 31 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: all married, we all have kids. So family alone was 32 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: like a huge part of this bar mitzvah. But also 33 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: because Rob and I are both born and raised here, 34 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: we had a lot of our friends, and then my 35 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: son had a lot of his friends, so it ended 36 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: up being about three hundred people, which is insane. And 37 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 1: I talk about my wedding all the time because I 38 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: loved every minute of it. I loved it so much. 39 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: It was one of like my favorite core memories of 40 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: my life. And to this day, I always on my anniversary, 41 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: I say that I miss my wedding. And now I 42 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: feel this way about Ace's bar Mitzvah. I planned it 43 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: for so long. I worked so hard on it, and 44 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: in one night, it's like over one weekend. And so 45 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: I had the most incredible party planners. I literally, like, 46 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 1: I cannot say enough about them. I know that some 47 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: of you that listen to this podcast know me really 48 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: well and some of you don't know me at all. 49 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: But I am not the easiest. I am just complicated. 50 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: And for me to have no notes for these women 51 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: and no like there was nothing that didn't go exactly 52 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 1: the way I had hoped is crazy. They are the 53 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: most talented women in the game. The company is called 54 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: Harper Sloan Productions, and I actually know Claire Davis, the owner, 55 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: because when I was a teacher, I taught her son, 56 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: and so I had gotten really close to her and 57 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: her family. I had gotten really close to her child, Harper, 58 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: and when it came time to plan this event, I 59 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: reached out to her and she said to me, like, 60 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: I want to do this with you. I want to 61 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: work with you, like you were so incredible to my son, 62 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: and I want to I wanna I want to plan 63 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: this incredible celebration for your son with you. And so 64 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: we did, and at the beginning when I was first 65 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: looking for a location, I looked everywhere in LA like I, 66 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: because I knew it was going to be a lot 67 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 1: of people. I wanted it to be different. I wanted 68 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: it to be fun. Obviously it's the most important thing 69 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: for the kids, but I really lived like wanted it 70 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: to also be amazing for the adults that were coming. 71 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: And honestly, three hundred people was like cutting it off, 72 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: cutting list off because my husband Rob and I really 73 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: wanted it to only be adults that had a real 74 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: connection to Ace and like knew him, and so it 75 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: wasn't just like people that we know, but people that 76 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: really knew our family well and really knew Ace. So 77 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: I looked all over Los Angeles and then on the 78 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: last stay, Catherine Claire's partner said to me, I went 79 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: to this incredible bar Mitzvah at Catch Steak. Ketch is 80 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: a it's a restaurant group here in Los Angeles. They 81 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: have one in Texas, they have them in New York, 82 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: they have one in Miami. I've never been, but it's 83 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 1: like a total like seeny yummy place and there's Catch 84 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: La and Catch Steak here in LA. And so she said, 85 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: I went to this you know party at Catch Steak, 86 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: and I think you should just look at it. And 87 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: we went and looked at it and it was definitely 88 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: out of my price range, but I was just like 89 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: obsessed with it, and I was like, I'll cut things 90 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: here and there and I'll just like make it work 91 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: at this place. So I booked it a year in advance. 92 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: We had like everything planned. In January, they called me 93 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: and said that they were closing Catch Steak, but that 94 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: I could do it at Catch. They're like main a 95 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: flagship restaurant. So I went to go see Catch. They 96 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: were so increased of all the people at Catch could 97 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: not have been more lovely and wonderful. And I went 98 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: in I saw it. I never even went for a tasting. 99 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: I was like, this is it. Let's just do it. 100 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: And so that was like the first little like maybe 101 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: like trip was that, like I had it planned at 102 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: this place, the place was closing two months. The place 103 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: was closing fourteen days before the party, and I had 104 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: to you know, switch locations. Did that. Everything was fine. 105 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: Then my mom got really sick, which I've talked about, 106 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: and you know, for me, families the most important thing 107 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: in the world. And to not have my mom. There 108 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: was just like something that I had come to terms 109 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: with and was going to It was going to be 110 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: what it would be. And you know, if my mom 111 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: couldn't be there, my heart would be broken. And I 112 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: knew that Ace and my family's hearts would be broken, 113 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: but I would we would still, you know, make it 114 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: incredibly special for Ace. But it was something that I 115 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: had just sort of come to terms with. And then 116 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: two weeks before his bar mitzvah, the fires happened in 117 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: La ten days actually, I'm sorry, ten days before his 118 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: barmitzvah was scheduled to happen, and so many of his 119 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: friends and our friends lost their homes, were displaced, family 120 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: was displaced, family had lost their homes. It was just 121 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: like a really heavy time. And during our evacuation the 122 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: first night when we were evacuated and we left, i 123 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: A said to me he was really obviously freaking out 124 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: about the fires. We all were, and he said to me, like, 125 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: what about my bar mitzvah? And I said, look, Ace, 126 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: either way it's going to be what it is. We're 127 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: either going to have it on the eighteenth and it's 128 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: going to be incredible, or we're going to push it 129 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: and it's going to be incredible. Either way, we're gonna 130 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: get through this. And you know, it's not just the party. 131 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: I know that I'm talking a lot about the party. 132 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: Ace worked for over He started going to Hebrew school 133 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: when he was in fourth grade. You have to learn 134 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: an entire new language with an entirely different alphabet. You 135 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: read from the Torah, you have to write a speech 136 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: about what it is that you're reading about. You have 137 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: a half Torah portion, you have all these things. So 138 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: it's a lot of work also to have a bar mitzvah. 139 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: It's not just the party, which is obviously incredible in heaven, 140 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 1: but it's also a service where you, as the bar 141 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: mitzvah about Mitzvah, lead the service and you you know, 142 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: read from this scripture, which is the Torah, which is 143 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: the most you know, the holiest. I don't know, I 144 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,679 Speaker 1: guess book. You know, we have his Jews and it's 145 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: a scroll and and so there's there's two really important parts. 146 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: And so he'd worked also so hard we'd like basically 147 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 1: focus just solely on the bar Mitzvah. He wasn't able 148 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: to play the sports he loved to play because he 149 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: would have tutoring and he would have to go to 150 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: meet with the canter and all this stuff. So it 151 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: was like an incredibly emotional time. And ultimately I said 152 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: to Claire and Catherine, if we can move this party, 153 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: and you know it doesn't it doesn't affect us financially, 154 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: like if we can, if we can just move it, 155 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: if it works for the vendors and for the the 156 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: temple and for the restaurant, let's do it, because I 157 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: don't A said to me, like, I really don't want 158 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: to like have this celebration when so many of my 159 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: friends are feeling so much pain. And I thought, what 160 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: an incredible thing for him to be able to at 161 00:09:54,559 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: you know, thirteen years old, put into words. And so 162 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: miraculously we were able to completely just shift the bar 163 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: mitzvah a few weeks and do it on February eighth 164 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: instead of January eighteenth. The temple was available. Our rabbi, 165 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: who is beyond words, who I've known since I was 166 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: a teenager. I went to camp at a camp called 167 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: hess Kramer, and he was like the rabbinical student there 168 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: when I was a camper, and he married Rob and 169 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 1: I because Rob's family and my family both belonged to 170 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: the same temple randomly, so my mom like had her 171 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: confirmation at this temple, I mean when she was, you know, 172 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: a teenager. So he was supposed to go actually on 173 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: a sabbatical, and January eighteenth was going to be his 174 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: last uh bar Mitzvah service that he was going to do, 175 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: and he he even said like, I'll wait till February 176 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: eighth and then I'll go on my sabbatical. So it 177 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 1: was just like everything just sort of was was looking 178 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: like we were going to be able to switch it 179 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: and it was going to be seamless as seamless as 180 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: it could be. We were definitely gonna lose some guests 181 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: who we love, but we also understood completely. And on 182 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: January thirteenth, my mom or January twelfth, actually my mom 183 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: went back in the hospital and I was just like, 184 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: you know what, let's do this. Let's just switch it. 185 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: And so we did, and it ended up being the 186 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: best choice for our family because on February eighth, Saturday, 187 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: my mom was able to be at aces ber Mitzvah. 188 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: She even came to the party for a little bit. 189 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: She our whole family was there, and I don't know. 190 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: It was just like it was. It was incredibly special. 191 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: Ace loves loves loves to ski. On my first date 192 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 1: with Rob, he said to me that skiing was a 193 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: very big part of his life and I was like, Okay, well, 194 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: I mean it's not a big part of mine, but 195 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: we'll see. And so far two out of three of 196 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: my kids are obsessed with skiing, Ace especially, And so 197 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: we decided to make Kat turn Catch into like a 198 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: ski shellet to be like, and we called it Operate Ace. 199 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: And so when you first walked in, there was like 200 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: all this snow everywhere and a huge neon sign that 201 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: said you're an Ace, and like it's so first of all, 202 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: I just want to say that I know that this 203 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: is insane, Like I know that the fact that there's 204 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: merch at these parties for thirteen year olds is mentally ill. 205 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: But whatever, we did it, and Ace actually designed them. 206 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: There's a brand called Essentials that is just a very 207 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: cool brand, and Ace wanted to do like a riff 208 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: on that, and so his sweatshirt said Ace Centrals Asentials 209 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: established twenty twelve because that's when he was born. And 210 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: we had that like the whole area for the merchants 211 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 1: at like Ace's ski shop, and there were ski lifts 212 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: and skis everywhere. And one thing that my party planner 213 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: did that I thought was just so amazing was there 214 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: were framed family pictures of us and all of our 215 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: friends all over the venue, which I thought was just 216 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: like the most amazing, beautiful little touch. I had soccer 217 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: Bit come and they are a Swedish candy brand. They 218 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: do like a bunch of gummies, but it has like 219 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: no red dye and no bad stuff in it, and 220 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: they were delicious. They did the candy. We had an 221 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: incredible DJ and dancers. I worked so hard on the montage, 222 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: so at bar Mitzvah's there's always like a little video 223 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 1: with pictures of the child from growing up in the family. 224 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: I worked so hard on this with this amazing man 225 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 1: named Ari who literally he went through six iterations of 226 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: the montage with me until it was like perfect. I think, 227 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: he I hope he'll work with me again because I 228 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: have two more bermitsupposed to do after this. And I 229 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: cried literally from the beginning of the day. I actually 230 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: started crying at the rehearsal on Thursday, and then at 231 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: the end of the Romtzvah. Rob and I both gave 232 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: a speech at the end of the service, and I 233 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: hysterically cried during my speech and Rob was like, come on, 234 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: come on, you can do it. You can do it. 235 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: And literally two seconds into Rob speaking, he started hysterical crying. 236 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 1: So we were both It was just like a really 237 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: emotional day and it goes by so quickly. After the ceremony, 238 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: I had Courage bagel, which if you're in LA is 239 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: the best bagel in Los Angeles, hands down. So we 240 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: like hung out, had some bagels. Then we came back. 241 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: We rested for a little bit, we went to the 242 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: party and it's like this incredible and first of all, 243 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: it's so expensive. It's a wedding, so I can't say 244 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: the final amount because I don't even think my husband 245 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: knows how much because I literally like sold my soul 246 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: to get as far it's the done. But I really, 247 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: I I don't know. I don't regret one minute of it. 248 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: I am so sad it's over, Like I cannot believe, 249 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: like I have that like sadness after a party when 250 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: it's just like you work so hard on something. And 251 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: I had weekly meetings with my party planner, and now 252 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: it's done, and like business just goes on as usual 253 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: and I only I have three years until I get 254 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: to do rules is but to see, I mean, there's 255 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: all the extra stuff, which is crazy, and it's you know, 256 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: bringing in snow is you know, insane. But at the 257 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: end of the day, what it's really about is like 258 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: making these incredible special memories for people that you love 259 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: so much, your family, your friends, for me and for Rob. 260 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: Our friends and our family are so intertwined. All of 261 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: my friends know my parents, know his parents, all of 262 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: his friends. You know, these are my friends from high school. 263 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: These are my friends from elementary school who I get 264 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 1: to raise my kids with. And my son has gone 265 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: to the same school since kindergarten, so these are friends 266 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: of his that he has been in school with since kindergarten. 267 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: And when I was putting together the montage and I 268 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: was looking at all these pictures and of all these memories, 269 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: and of like how loved my son is and how 270 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: loved we are as a family, and how how tough 271 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: the last couple months have been for my family, with 272 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: my mom being so sick and the chance that she 273 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: wasn't going to be able to celebrate this moment with 274 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: us or be here with us. It was like everything, 275 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 1: like the emotion just sort of like takes you over. 276 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:33,479 Speaker 1: And really what I felt was gratitude and like so 277 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: grateful that I will have this memory for the rest 278 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: of my life with all these people that I love, 279 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: and that I got to see my son just so 280 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: filled with love and supported in a way that like 281 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: I feel like all you ever want is for your 282 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: kids or for you or for you know, to be seen. 283 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: And I felt like this night was so ace and 284 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 1: it was so us as a family. It's funny when 285 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: I welcomed when I said my speech, I welcomed everybody 286 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: to my bot mitzvah because that's what it felt like. 287 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: As had to keep reminding me, Mom, this is my 288 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: bar mitzvah, like this is for me, And I was like, no, 289 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: I get it, but like really it's for me. But 290 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: it was so incredible to have a night where it's 291 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: like the world feels so heavy right now in so 292 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: many ways for so many different people, and nobody is 293 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 1: any different, Like my situation was my mom. But but 294 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 1: some families lost their homes, some families lost everything that 295 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 1: they own, some family who knows what people are going 296 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: through in their lives, like literally you never know. These 297 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 1: are only the things that I even know about. But 298 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: it was like one night where everybody just came together 299 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,679 Speaker 1: for one for the same goal, which was just to 300 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: like have fun and and celebrate. And I just am 301 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: so like I can't get over it. I can't get 302 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: over the night and and what and what it was like, 303 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: and like I just want to look at the pictures 304 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: all day long. I had the most incredible photographers, these guys, 305 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 1: John and Joseph, and they were just, you know, so incredible, 306 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: and they were always like whenever I turn around, they 307 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: were I got to see a few of the pictures 308 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: and they were just they caught every moment. And and 309 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: now like when I keep going over it, I'm like, wait, 310 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: what happened at this time? What happened at this time? 311 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: What happened at this time? But I feel like I'll 312 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: have these pictures now to remember for the rest of 313 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: my life, and I just I don't know, I feel 314 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: I feel really I definitely went for it, Like I 315 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: definitely was like, we're gonna do it, We're gonna do 316 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 1: it right. The crazy thing was that every single time 317 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 1: my party planner was so incredible, and every single time 318 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: I like didn't have a drink, there would be like 319 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: another drink. So I definitely had some tequila. But I 320 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I was able to be 321 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: present and to see this incredible experience through the eyes 322 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: of my child and for him to be like so 323 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 1: lifted up with so much love and support is all 324 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,959 Speaker 1: I could really ask for. Like I don't I don't know. 325 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 1: I mean it was really we had an arcade that 326 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: that had like signed that said Ace's Arcade, and then 327 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,919 Speaker 1: we had like a claw game that had all of 328 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: these different like there was like, uh gift cards or 329 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: I had the DJs. There's this thing now where like 330 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: if kids dance and they like are really participating, they 331 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: at prizes. So I handed out some spider sweatshirts, which 332 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: is always a big hit. Shout out to Jen Meyer 333 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: and I I I just like, I don't know. There's 334 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: like times in your life where you just feel like 335 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: the work you put in and and the love that 336 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: you give sort of like it's you don't always feel 337 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,439 Speaker 1: like it comes back. And I just felt I don't know, 338 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 1: I just felt so grateful and happy and it felt 339 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:41,959 Speaker 1: like the perfect night, Like I don't know, it just 340 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 1: it literally felt like the most incredible night. And I 341 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: I'm aware that, like in La bar mitzvah's kind of 342 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: become this thing. There's that that movie You're not Invited 343 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: to my bar Mitza that I'm saying the movie, I'm 344 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: aware that bar Mitzva has become this thing where it's 345 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: like everyone's just trying to like, oh, do the next 346 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: and it's they become like the status symbol. And that's 347 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: not what this was. I'm not gonna say it was 348 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: like a simple bar mitzva because it wasn't. It was 349 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,400 Speaker 1: over the top, it was fancy, it was all the things. 350 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 1: It was expensive, but it was at its core anchored 351 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: in so much love and so much pride and so 352 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: much happiness, and it had nothing to do like you 353 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: can throw the best party, you could spend hundreds of 354 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: thousands of dollars and it could be like you could 355 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: feel nothing. You know that it doesn't. And at the 356 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: end of the day, what really matters is that is 357 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: like the way in which when you go to some 358 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: place and you feel like, okay, like this feels cozy 359 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: to me, this feels fun to me, This feels. This 360 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 1: feels like I'm I'm getting you know, what I came 361 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: here for. And I felt like every single person at 362 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: that party felt that way, like, oh my gosh. Also 363 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: the horror, like when we were lifting up, they lifted 364 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 1: up me and Raw and Ace and then Jewels and 365 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: Gus and they were like when we came home, Gus 366 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: that I can't wait for three years because then I 367 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,360 Speaker 1: get to go up on that chair again. It's just 368 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: like it was just every single person had the best time. 369 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I almost forgot. My friend Jamie Gleisher 370 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: lives in New York. She is incredibly talented. She makes 371 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: these insane beaded bracelets and necklaces and sun like bedazzled 372 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: sunglasses and mirrors. And she flew in from New York 373 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: and I had her come out and do a bead 374 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 1: bar and it was so insane. I am going to 375 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: share pictures on the Instagram. And then I had this 376 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: thing called Dragon's Breath, which is like this candy that 377 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 1: you eat and when you blow out, it's like you're 378 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: blowing out steam not steam smoke, but it's not smoke. 379 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: I don't even know. It was amazing. Basically every single 380 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: thing that was at this party was a shared vision 381 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: of me and my planners. And I feel like I 382 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,959 Speaker 1: cannot say enough good things about every single person that 383 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 1: was involved in that night. Every single waiter at Catch, 384 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: every single bartender, every the manager, the security, the oh 385 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 1: my god, the security. There was all this paparazzi outside 386 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: in the security. The security was like getting umbrellas to 387 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 1: like shield kids from It was just everybody was just 388 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: so incredible and kind and it just felt like the 389 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: best night. And I can be the kind of person 390 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 1: sometimes to find like the one thing that wasn't great 391 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: and focus on that, because I don't know, sometimes that's 392 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: easier than just feeling like full of love and gratitude. 393 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 1: And I can honestly save that today and this whole week. 394 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm on cloud nine, and that 395 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: my mom was able to be there, that my best 396 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: friends were able to be there, that my son was 397 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: able to have this incredible experience where he could just 398 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: be wrapped in so much love and so much support 399 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: is just something I'll never forget. And I cannot start, like, 400 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 1: I cannot wait to start working on Jewels's. I have 401 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 1: three years, so I got to really I got to 402 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: out do myself, so I wonder. I'm trying to think about, 403 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: like where I'll go next, what I'll do next. I 404 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 1: kept teasing Rob, like wait till the musical guest comes out. 405 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 1: Of course I didn't hire a musical guest, but I 406 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 1: was just making him squirm a little bit because he 407 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: was so scared at what I did. But even he 408 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 1: was like, it was the perfect party, and I loved it. 409 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 1: And I'm so grateful that you guys were even interested 410 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: in this kind of thing in my life, in my 411 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:54,719 Speaker 1: children's lives. I am just you know, I'm grateful. I 412 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 1: realized everyone was a couple parents were saying to me, 413 00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,679 Speaker 1: like when I would see them at school, like, oh 414 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,679 Speaker 1: my god, we can't wait for the Bermutsvah. It's going 415 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 1: to be so epic. The kids are so excited. I 416 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: couldn't understand like what they were excited about, Like I 417 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: knew that, like it was going to be a great party. 418 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 1: Obviously I'm amazing. But I finally realized when Kim walked 419 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: in that the kids were most excited because they know 420 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: that Kim is my best friend, and they knew that 421 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian would be there and that was like the 422 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: real that was the real draw. I couldn't understand. I 423 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: kept being like Ace, why, Like what do they think 424 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 1: is going to happen at this ber Mitza, Like what 425 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,040 Speaker 1: is it going to be? Like? I couldn't understand it. 426 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: And then I realized, Oh, this is what it is. 427 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: And because she's just the best of the best, she 428 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 1: took pictures with every single kid, like a kid would 429 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: look over and shed be like, you want a picture. 430 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: I was just like, Oh, this is it, this is 431 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: what's happening. But it's a night I will never forget 432 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:55,440 Speaker 1: and I can't wait to show you guys more pictures. 433 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: And anybody that voted on the thing saying they didn't 434 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: want Bermtsvah content, you should just follow me because I'm 435 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:06,439 Speaker 1: a ber Mitzvah queen now, so you know, I'm going 436 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 1: to do my best to just bring some bar Mitzvah 437 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: cheer for the next week and then I promise I'll 438 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 1: stop talking about it. But Ace had the night of 439 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: his life and we had the night of our lives, 440 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 1: and I am so thankful that we were able to 441 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: pull it off, even with you know, family stuff and 442 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: fires and the world being a complete dumpster. I don't know, 443 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 1: it's just like we were able to do it. And 444 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 1: it's funny. My dad actually today sent me he found 445 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,640 Speaker 1: my bar Mitzvah book from October ninth, nineteen ninety three, 446 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 1: which I cannot wait to look at. And I remember 447 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: at my mitzvah at the end of the night, everybody 448 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: jumped in the pool in their clothes and that was 449 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 1: so fun, and it's like a memory that I'm forty 450 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: four years old. I remember everything about my bot Mitzvah 451 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: until I had my wedding. That was like my favorite 452 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 1: day of my life. So clearly I love to be 453 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: the center of attention, and even if it's my child's 454 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 1: you know, moment, I'll somehow make it about me. Just kidding, 455 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 1: I won't. It's all about Ace and I cannot wait 456 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 1: to get all the pictures back from our photographer and 457 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: a video from my videographer. And it's a memory and 458 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,120 Speaker 1: a night that I'll cherish for the rest of my life. 459 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: So thank you guys for listening. And I'm interested to 460 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: hear what else you guys want to hear about from me, 461 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: so let me know. And if you like listening to 462 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 1: what in the Winkler, Please tell a friend okay bye,