1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hi, Hello, Hi, Hi, 2 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: what's up? You have a dirty little secret? Yes? I do? 3 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: Then you called the right radio show. What's your dirty 4 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: little secret? My dirt little secret is uh, I've turned 5 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: into a big secret now. So it's like grown over time. Okay, Okay. 6 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: My husband and I we've been married for eight and 7 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: a half years now, and I've got him thinking he 8 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: is just the man in bed. It's great. It's just 9 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: that I've got him thinking that he you know, over 10 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: and over and you can make it feel like you 11 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: know something telling lord and I know women do this 12 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,320 Speaker 1: a lot, but like, honestly, it's more you're doing men 13 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: and yourself. I think more of a favor. If you're 14 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: just honest, the right dude would like to work hard 15 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: to help go the extra mile. But if you if 16 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 1: you're faking it, you actually you're screwing yourself over because 17 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: they think they're doing a great job every single time. Well, 18 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 1: I mean, are you just doing this like pump up 19 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 1: a confidence or no? I I agree, Like I wish 20 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: that I could go back in time and not have 21 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: faked it because I would like to, you know, actually 22 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: reach there because he doesn't know. Yeah, now you have 23 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: to come clean with him and tell him that you're lying. 24 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: Alex and I are married, and one of the things 25 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: that I've always loved about her is she'll shoot you 26 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: straight no matter what. When we first started doing herself together, 27 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: I would be like, did you and She's like no. 28 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: It wasn't like bad. It was just like in my mind, 29 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: I'm just like, all right, the next time it's on. Yeah, 30 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: you know, come on, girl, how long have you been 31 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: faking it? Yeah? With the guy? Have you the whole time? 32 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: There's a long time. I mean, I do reach in 33 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: a in other ways, that's a bumber. Hey, it's your 34 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: phone's just a little hard to hear. You're getting us 35 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: almost there, so far away almost. I'm sorry about that, Okay, Yeah, 36 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: it seems just like I didn't I wasn't lying about it, 37 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: you know, I was just toning the truth. Then it 38 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: kind of went on for a while to where, you know, 39 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: he was starting to get defeated. I felt like I 40 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: felt like he was like, you know, damn, like you know, 41 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: I'm just not doing the job, you know, And and 42 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: so I just started taking it and then I have 43 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: done it now for way too long, and I would 44 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: like to come clean about it, actually, but for sure, 45 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: you know it's gone on for that loan. It's like, 46 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: how do you see that? I don't want to make 47 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: him feel even more defeated, But was there a guy 48 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: before him that managed to get you there? That was 49 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: my question? You know, No, okay, okay, okay, I didn't 50 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: reach that. Get the wand get the wand you know 51 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: it's a white wand get the wand for both of you, Yeah, 52 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: there's some fun stuff you can um the wand can't 53 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: get you both there clean and be like, you know, 54 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: maybe I'm like thinking of halfway coming through quick real quickly. 55 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: I don't think that, you know, I think maybe it 56 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: could be more intense. So maybe, you know, maybe we 57 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: need to start trying different things and you know, kind 58 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: of coming trying to come clean with them and making 59 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: him realize that, you know, I have been a little 60 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: bit of a bibber. Yeah, well, come clean and you 61 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: guys can figure out a fun way to spice things 62 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: up a little bit, all right, thank you, thank you? 63 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, finish, finish, she said, that's what she said. 64 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: She's like, I can't finish in the bedroom. I'm gonna 65 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: finish it. That's probably why shebil show on demand.