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Speaker 1: All right, See this person needs some advice. This is

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Speaker 1: from Cash and Lakeland. Cash says, I'm in a leadership

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Speaker 1: role at my job. My younger sister works in another division.

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Speaker 1: Her supervisor is a friend of mine, and he thinks

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Speaker 1: he can talk to me about my sister's job performance.

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Speaker 1: She's young and it's her first job, so he needs

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Speaker 1: to cut her some flack. But I can't ask him

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Speaker 1: to do that without sounding like I'm asking him for favoritism.

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Speaker 1: And I can't tell her to step up and do

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Speaker 1: better because I've seen that she's actually trying. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to shatter her confidence. What's the best way to

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Speaker 1: handle the situation with my friend and sister at work?

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Speaker 2: So if he your friend and that your sister played

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Speaker 2: a friend in his sister card, hm, hm, tell your

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Speaker 2: boy to help you out. Man. Make sure she's successful

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Speaker 2: in her job. If she needs some advice, pull it

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Speaker 2: to the side. If she needs to improve, let me

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Speaker 2: know and I can bring it to her. So let's

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Speaker 2: all keep each other happy.

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Speaker 3: What's the matter with that? People do that.

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Speaker 2: All the time, trying to keep the lines drawed in

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Speaker 2: the sand fall. That's it's called nepotism. That's why you

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Speaker 2: have people in the high position. So let me tell

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Speaker 2: you something. Once you get out of college, it ain't

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Speaker 2: got nothing to do with your degree.

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Speaker 3: It's who you know.

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Speaker 2: This relationship. That's how you make money. Keep the relationship

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Speaker 2: alive on them?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with you? What's all the rules you're coming

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Speaker 3: up with? He my friend. I don't want to ask him,

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Speaker 3: no favorite. She my sister. I see sit trying.

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Speaker 2: Boy, get your ass out that corporate mindset and act

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Speaker 2: black and do like I told you.

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Speaker 3: Let your blackness out.

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Speaker 2: Senn't been following all these dumb ass rules.

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Speaker 3: Stupid.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we have time.

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Speaker 3: I wants to get fired. Man, please let Fulda left?

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Speaker 3: That have me? Dog right? All right?

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Speaker 1: We have time for another one, Steve. This is from

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Speaker 1: Lola into Skegee. Lola says, this Christmas, we had planned

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Speaker 1: to go to Colorado with his family and my family.

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Speaker 1: There was going to be fourteen of us. My husband's

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Speaker 1: parents told us if they're not going unless they get

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Speaker 1: the primary bedroom in the main house we're hosting everyone.

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Speaker 1: So that's our bedroom and it's the main reason I

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Speaker 1: selected that house. My husband thinks I'm being mean to

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Speaker 1: his parents, but I'm not. My parents are happy to

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Speaker 1: be going on a free vacation and they'll sleep on

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Speaker 1: the floor if they have to. If we tell his

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Speaker 1: parents no, will it ruin our entire vacation?

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Speaker 3: Well if oh, she's saying her parents will go.

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Speaker 1: And sleep and you're cool with it, Yeah, his parents

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Speaker 1: the main bedroom Maine house.

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Speaker 3: We can't do that and have her parents not in

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Speaker 3: the main bedroom too.

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Speaker 2: So since we're sponsoring it, we should be in the

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Speaker 2: main bedroom, and then y'all have these other bedrooms because

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Speaker 2: her parents are sleeping in the regular bedroom. His parents

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Speaker 2: got to sleep in the regular bedroom too. You can't

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Speaker 2: get DIBs over her parents.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, everybody got a good treat. Well, she

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Speaker 3: ain't being mean, y'all. Her parents is in a regular room. Now.

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Speaker 2: Your mom and daddy talking about they not going if

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Speaker 2: they don't get the main room, we'll stay your ass on.

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Speaker 3: Too many people in his house, too many fourteen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her parents are grateful that they're going on vacation.

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Speaker 1: They'll take whatever. But his parents have to have the

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Speaker 1: main bedroom in the main house, which is you know

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Speaker 1: she set up for them. Forget that they're getting a

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Speaker 1: free vacation.

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Speaker 3: I think that's the right way. You're getting a free vacation.

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Speaker 3: Can't call those shots.

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Speaker 2: I think it's unfair of his parents to want to

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Speaker 2: have DIBs over everybody in the house, include them and

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Speaker 2: including her pets.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel if they just don't go? Well, look, man,

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Speaker 3: what you want me to do?

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Y'all need to cancel this whole damn trip. Y'all have

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Speaker 3: struck blend the knees thing. This ain't gonna work. You

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Speaker 3: bleeding kids. You can't blend the dunt that's funny speak.

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Speaker 2: Boy.

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Speaker 3: I think they are thought many dun'ts.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of crazy. All right, all right, We'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.