WEBVTT - Mister Brian Austin Green (Part 2)

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at how much water you've wait?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it a lot? Oh? Mann?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Should I guzzle it now? Because your your body

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<v Speaker 2>will quit. Your body will take a stop, wait, take

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<v Speaker 2>it back. It'll go into complete shock and be like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh what is this liquid?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I told you I started drinking water.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't taste. It doesn't taste like diet doctor pepper

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<v Speaker 2>or energy drink. Yeah. I drink kombucha on a regular basis.

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<v Speaker 3>Every day, health fade. I love them.

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<v Speaker 2>Really yes. Okay, well, good, I just shocked you. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a good you did. Shock. It's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Coconut water Okay, I drink that, hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's actually really good for you. Coconut water. The

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<v Speaker 2>electrolytes in it are great.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So from what I've heard, water doesn't actually hydrate you.

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<v Speaker 2>People think like, I'm I'm dehydrated. I should drink a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of water, but you're But it's the electrolytes. It's

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<v Speaker 2>the salt that you're so you know, when you're sweating,

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<v Speaker 2>it's salty the water that's coming out. No, like you

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<v Speaker 2>notice if you ever like if the water drips down

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<v Speaker 2>your face into your mouth if you like, if you

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<v Speaker 2>ever get it, it's a salty So those are that's

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<v Speaker 2>the electrolytes.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just learned that.

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<v Speaker 2>So people that, Like, we had Dave Aspbury on our

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<v Speaker 2>show and he was talking about he puts like something

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<v Speaker 2>like eleven tea spoons of salt in a thing of water,

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<v Speaker 2>like when he drinks water during the day, which is

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<v Speaker 2>you always here like, oh, salt.

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<v Speaker 3>Is bad for your levels or.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was saying that it keeps the electrolytes in

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<v Speaker 2>my body balanced at all, like it it's I was like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I had no idea. So, yeah, drinking just plain water

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<v Speaker 2>is actually not hydrating you at all, which is why

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<v Speaker 2>sports drinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, created never drink water.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, like the electrolyte packets in it, those are actually

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of work. It's not you just rip them

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<v Speaker 2>open and pour them in. It's not a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 3>What about salt water, It's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not any more work than popping the top on an

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<v Speaker 2>energy drink to drink it. Mhmm. Interesting, you pop the top,

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<v Speaker 2>you tear the top, it's the same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>What about salt water? What about salt water Like a

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<v Speaker 3>new kind of packaged water.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like ocean water. That's way that the salinity

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<v Speaker 2>is way too much.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but like a business like if people, if that's true,

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<v Speaker 3>then why not just package it and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Should do it? People do though, electrolyte waters and stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that. That's not like new pH pH waters electrolyte

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<v Speaker 2>waters sports drinks there also, I'm not not to that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like shooting down your idea because I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>great and you should.

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<v Speaker 3>God gum, when we're young, what eterade? Gum?

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<v Speaker 2>I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember?

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<v Speaker 2>I love Gatorade?

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<v Speaker 3>That because I wasn't the thing that would like it.

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<v Speaker 3>Would it would like stimulate your mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Like yeah, wow, Yeah, I'm a big fan of Gatorade.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a big fan of that flavor.

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<v Speaker 3>The green one, the yellow, the OgH sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>The yellow one is the o g one.

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<v Speaker 3>You see it as yellow because I see it as green. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like greenish yellow. Are you colored blood?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you know? No, I'm not because no stereotype.

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of the boys are are inherently more color

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<v Speaker 4>blind or apt to be color blind than women.

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<v Speaker 2>So here's what I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, let's test it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna pull up a photo of gatoring and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>show it around the room. Get read flavors or.

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<v Speaker 3>Colored flavors, because what's the original.

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<v Speaker 1>When we were the lemon line is the original?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like greenish yellow?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that greenish yellow? You're fucked, Ruthanne? Is that greenish

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<v Speaker 2>yellow to you? More yellow? It's more yellow?

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<v Speaker 3>Emily hmhmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to look at it now.

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<v Speaker 2>On look. I'll even zoom in on it. Steve Green, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>w what color is the thing on your yellow? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you're okay, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not color I'm not color blind.

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<v Speaker 2>I just identifying.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I think I actually have an elevated eye.

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<v Speaker 2>You have an elevated eye, not for color.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>How you think that gatorade is green?

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<v Speaker 3>Well's subjective because it's art correct, it's not color is?

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<v Speaker 2>Color? Is is factual? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Based on what?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>On a color chart?

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<v Speaker 3>Who made that?

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<v Speaker 2>You?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>You have to mix two colors to get green? Green

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<v Speaker 2>is not a primary color. You have to mix yellow

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<v Speaker 2>and you have to mix blue to get green.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? My favorite color is clear?

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<v Speaker 2>What like water? Which is funny because you never drink water.

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<v Speaker 2>You would think you do nothing but drink water and

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<v Speaker 2>be like my favorite color in the world. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>love all of this color. I want to fill my

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<v Speaker 2>body with this color. But you don't no what color

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<v Speaker 2>are sports drinks typically? Like what color is like a

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<v Speaker 2>red bull?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it is colored like yellow green. I don't look

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<v Speaker 3>at it. I drink it out of a can pop top. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>better than ripping it. That'll electrolyte. Actually, my favorite color

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<v Speaker 3>is green. Let's not joke. Is it not my favorite cover?

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<v Speaker 2>And then why did you say it was clear that

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<v Speaker 2>that was.

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<v Speaker 3>A joke, got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't make you laugh often.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not true.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of not really.

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<v Speaker 2>We when we were doing the podcast, we made a

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<v Speaker 2>point of like not laughing at but because we know

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<v Speaker 2>that's the direction you go is you go funny, quirky,

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<v Speaker 2>like that's kind of your out, that's your easy way

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<v Speaker 2>of dealing with the situation, be in a weirdo and

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<v Speaker 2>like cracking jokes and all that. So we were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's not react to those things and force you like

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<v Speaker 2>to stay in the uncomfortableness of the conversation, which I

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<v Speaker 2>think was great. Yes, I think I love that conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like that was really conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch it so great to watch it. It was so

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<v Speaker 2>and I think for fans of you, it was really

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<v Speaker 2>cool because people got to see much more of the

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<v Speaker 2>tory that I know that Randy knows, like with your

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<v Speaker 2>guard down a little bit, like it was, it felt

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<v Speaker 2>really like nice and genuine and I and I watched

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<v Speaker 2>that episode a few times, and I don't normally, but

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<v Speaker 2>I really like, I really loved that conversation. I loved

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<v Speaker 2>your vulnerability in that. I thought it was really good.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I was like, God, she hasn't ever had

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<v Speaker 2>me on her show since, Like I see all these

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<v Speaker 2>people coming on, and I'm like, got she You know,

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<v Speaker 2>originally we had talked about me doing her show and

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<v Speaker 2>she just never reached out and never so I thought

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you had a bad experience or something.

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<v Speaker 3>On the port or you took it personally. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>about you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true, which everybody does.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, and it's just a call. Okay, it's because

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<v Speaker 3>you snort too much.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why that's why I didn't you didn't have me

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<v Speaker 2>on sooner because I snorre.

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<v Speaker 3>I actually asked you. We texted when you were reprising

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<v Speaker 3>Oldish and you were showing me some of the artwork

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<v Speaker 3>that you guys had done. I was like, this looks amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so excited. And then oh, it took everything in

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<v Speaker 3>my being to be like, will you do my podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>And you said yes? And then why did it take

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<v Speaker 3>so long for you to be on? Because I was

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<v Speaker 3>scared to ask you again? I'm scared. I got to

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<v Speaker 3>stop using that word. I'm not scared.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I don't even remember that honestly, because like, as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as you asked me to be on this time,

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<v Speaker 2>I jumped at it. You didn't, yeah, absolutely, like made

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<v Speaker 2>sure that that it happened. I don't. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think this order was better. I agree you

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<v Speaker 2>doing Oldish first.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree doing my podcast, I was that was my default,

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<v Speaker 3>like being funny and being ballsy and like uh. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I started to notice the difference when I did

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<v Speaker 3>an episode and I was speaking from my heart and

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<v Speaker 3>talking about Shan and when I listened back, I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I do have stuff to say, like I like do people.

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<v Speaker 3>Because before that, I was like, well, if I can

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<v Speaker 3>be funny, then it's easy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's easier for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like it's just and I because that's just my

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<v Speaker 3>own insecurity, like they don't think I have anything of

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<v Speaker 3>depth to say, or I'm not smart enough, I can't

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<v Speaker 3>hold a conversation, which isn't true. So I heard that

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<v Speaker 3>episode and I was like, wow, very eloquent, like poignant,

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<v Speaker 3>like I I really enjoyed it. So and then same

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<v Speaker 3>when I did Oldish, like yeah, same like this episode, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>this isn't funny at all, Right, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Funny, funny moments in it, not nearly Old Oldish was

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<v Speaker 2>like I was so good though, so good. But I

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<v Speaker 2>warned you ahead of time. When you were like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>can I come do the show? I was like, we

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<v Speaker 2>and I coined this from Dave Chappelle. I always give

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<v Speaker 2>them credit. We we play hard in the paint, like

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<v Speaker 2>we do not hold back. There was there was a

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<v Speaker 2>question that I wanted to get to with you when

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<v Speaker 2>you were on the show that I didn't that I

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<v Speaker 2>just spaced on or it just didn't fit.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you gonna ask me now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So I'll ask you know on your on your podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's the way we rolled. You have spoken in

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<v Speaker 2>books prior prior to this about the relationship that we had.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hm.

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<v Speaker 2>So I I've all I've always been curious about that

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<v Speaker 2>because we I don't consider what we had and have

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<v Speaker 2>like a relationship like a fling or like a you know, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we were a boyfriend and girlfriend for this period of time,

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<v Speaker 2>like we were because it was a ten year period,

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<v Speaker 2>so we went through all sorts of things. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was curious, though, why you labeled it as a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>in the in the books and if you felt like

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<v Speaker 2>it was like you felt like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to ask you about this today too, a

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<v Speaker 3>nice face. Oh I just got really hot, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm curious how I did and did I phrase it

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<v Speaker 3>as a boyfriend or out of context like they do

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<v Speaker 3>with podcasts, that was the catching news and they I'd

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<v Speaker 3>have to go back and look.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I don't, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I ever said because yeah, we definitely,

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<v Speaker 3>I think as yeah, in our youth, I think I

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<v Speaker 3>probably phimes wow, look at me and never had a

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<v Speaker 3>loss for words, perceived it differently than you did, which

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<v Speaker 3>as adults makes sense. I mean, yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 3>want to say it was a crush, but it was

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<v Speaker 3>more than that. There was like a summer.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct, Yeah, okay, yes, so we we had much more

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<v Speaker 1>like so we had it was it was a strange

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry that we had.

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<v Speaker 2>We had like a sexual chemistry that we would kind

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<v Speaker 2>of uh tease each other with a little bit and

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<v Speaker 2>we would kind of like jump into and then we'd

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<v Speaker 2>quickly jump out of and because we were through it

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<v Speaker 2>all like we were really good friends. We were brother

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<v Speaker 2>and sister. Like we we covered the gambit of what

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship could be, which is why then when I

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<v Speaker 2>when people come to me and be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so you and Tory were dating for a while, right,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like, I, that's too easy of a label

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<v Speaker 2>for me. Oh wow, like for you, for you to

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<v Speaker 2>say that we were dating, It's like, no, we were.

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<v Speaker 2>We were much more than dating, Like we we never

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<v Speaker 2>ever win anyone and we were like, oh, we're boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>and girlfriend and held hands and did like we never

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<v Speaker 2>did the typical dating thing. So it's a weird. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how you label that. But then when I

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<v Speaker 2>saw a label, I was like I or somebody told me, oh, there,

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<v Speaker 2>she labeled it as this in a book. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's but that's not I don't feel like I did.

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<v Speaker 2>That was never the case, Like it wasn't ever, we

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<v Speaker 2>did so much more than that, and we fought like

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<v Speaker 2>we fought like brother and sister sometimes about stupid stuff

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<v Speaker 2>about like who was on the cover of what, or

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<v Speaker 2>who got more press at a thing, or like.

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<v Speaker 3>You and I, Yeah, we would we would have those

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<v Speaker 3>weird argument about that stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>We would.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember having those weird arguments where like that was

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<v Speaker 2>always kind of the clapback we would give to each other,

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<v Speaker 2>like if we were arguing about something, Yeah, well you're

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<v Speaker 2>just upset because I was on the cover of the

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<v Speaker 2>or I did this, like we would every once in

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<v Speaker 2>a while.

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<v Speaker 3>That made that joke to you. Do you think I

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<v Speaker 3>would make a joke like that?

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<v Speaker 2>You did make it? You think it's I'm not speaking

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<v Speaker 2>as like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe if you said it first, I like joined suit.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, okay, that's what it wants.

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<v Speaker 3>To tease me a lot. We teased No, I had to.

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<v Speaker 2>I teased you.

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<v Speaker 3>No. We so we teased each other, like how did

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<v Speaker 3>it all start teasing? Like if we're gonna talk see,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even know how to even say it, Like

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<v Speaker 3>if we're going to talk towards the sexual chemistry for

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<v Speaker 3>one second or two or three, like what the teasing

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of a part of the part like a flirtation.

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<v Speaker 3>So here, so I didn't know. I went to an

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<v Speaker 3>all girls' school, so it was like I was like, like.

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<v Speaker 2>So then, so then here was the thing for me

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<v Speaker 2>I came from. I was like the hyperactive, kind of geeky,

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<v Speaker 2>annoying kid in school. All of a sudden, I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>a show where people are noticing me and paying attention

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<v Speaker 2>to me. But I still had like I had no game.

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<v Speaker 2>I had like I never used it before. I'd know,

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<v Speaker 2>I had no concept of what was cool. And so

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<v Speaker 2>to me, when it was like I was attracted to somebody,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I did, Like I it's what kids do,

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<v Speaker 2>like they're they tease and they poke and they do

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<v Speaker 2>those things right, And I didn't know any different, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was young and we were and our the

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<v Speaker 2>majority of our like any sort of chemistry or sexual

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<v Speaker 2>connection was when we were young on the show, because

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<v Speaker 2>then as we progressed, then we had relationships and things changed,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, and we were there for a while

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<v Speaker 2>in our relationship, then our connection together change took.

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<v Speaker 3>Into old habits once in a blue moon, right, But.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was like that was very much my I

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<v Speaker 2>my way of like flirting was being I'm like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I've always been you know me, I've always been like

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of a chit starter, like I like to

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<v Speaker 2>s it's fun. It's fun, it's fun. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>now I've I definitely have a much healthier way now

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<v Speaker 2>of seeing of reading the room and knowing who I

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<v Speaker 2>can have that with and who I can't. Like, I

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<v Speaker 2>remember when I first started doing uh Special Forces the

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<v Speaker 2>show Black China, Angela and I we like we started

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<v Speaker 2>in a very kind of fun, playful like she would

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<v Speaker 2>talk trash, I would talk trash, like we would joke

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<v Speaker 2>with each other. And then all of a sudden, when

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<v Speaker 2>she didn't react well to it in the tent, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, what the just happened? Like how did? Everyone

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<v Speaker 2>was like what happened? I was like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, nothing has changed with her, But she took

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<v Speaker 2>it in a different way, which then made me rethink like, Okay,

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:16.040
<v Speaker 2>this is not somebody that I can have that same

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<v Speaker 2>place to banter with and feel like everything's fine. We

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<v Speaker 2>ended up like and we ended up getting along great.

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<v Speaker 2>We've had no issue since then.

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<v Speaker 3>It was literally like a an adjustment.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a thirty second thing, but they the way

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<v Speaker 2>they edited the show, they made it seem like we

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<v Speaker 2>had some actual beef. And then the next, very next

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<v Speaker 2>episode came out and they never spoke about it again

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<v Speaker 2>because there was nothing more that happened from that point forward.

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<v Speaker 2>But I so I've always been that way with people.

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<v Speaker 2>I just know how to better read the room than

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<v Speaker 2>I did then, Like I didn't understand that you were

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<v Speaker 2>as sensitive to things that I said as you were,

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<v Speaker 2>and that you really took them to heart and they

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<v Speaker 2>bothered you.

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<v Speaker 3>The way I liked you. I had a crush on you,

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<v Speaker 3>like of course, like I don't know, anyone else could

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<v Speaker 3>say something and it probably wouldn't have effected me, but

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<v Speaker 3>I liked you so much that I mean, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I didn't. It's not like I like backed

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<v Speaker 3>away and was like, oh, he hates me, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>like me. Like I played game, I guess I still was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was because I'm really good at fitting in not

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<v Speaker 3>fitting in. Yeah, get that too, but especially with the

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<v Speaker 3>opposite sex. I am quite good at like reading what

0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:50.960
<v Speaker 3>they need me to be on their playing field, right,

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<v Speaker 3>which isn't always a good thing because then I lose

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<v Speaker 3>me again. So but yeah, like I still like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still self content, just like I was stuttering now about

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<v Speaker 3>like peach fuzz on my face because you used to

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<v Speaker 3>call me Chewbacca at sixteen. I was like, what the heck?

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<v Speaker 3>And you used to do the roar I'd walk on

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<v Speaker 3>the set.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do the roar? What do you mean I can't?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do the roar? I did? Okay, I did, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I did, And I.

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<v Speaker 3>Went through life thinking I had like oh and lamb

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<v Speaker 3>chops like it's like I.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I no, I never. I never said like anything

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<v Speaker 2>beyond chew Bac I would and that was it. That

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<v Speaker 2>was a joke. That was a joke. Shit, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 2>if that like negatively affected you because that was never

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<v Speaker 2>my that was never my intention. I think.

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<v Speaker 3>I just mean again I had no like.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know, but everybody does. So everybody's got.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm not trying to make you feel bad,

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<v Speaker 3>but every guy to this day. If I'm like with

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<v Speaker 3>a guy, I'm like worried, like does he think my

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<v Speaker 3>cheeks are fuzzy?

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<v Speaker 2>So so you're saying that I created like a lifelong.

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<v Speaker 3>Trauma, trauma not on purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it was no not on purpose, but still I'm sorry. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>has anybody ever told you you look like Chewbacca? Really?

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<v Speaker 3>Because my my six year old no label here he

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<v Speaker 3>told me, did.

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<v Speaker 2>You look like Chewbacca?

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<v Speaker 3>No, you're six years Oh I was talking about you

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<v Speaker 3>back when we were sixteen. Yeah, that sounded like I

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<v Speaker 3>was talking about a kid in my No, my sixteen

0:22:49.080 --> 0:22:54.720
<v Speaker 3>year old crush like no label, not boyfriend. He told

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<v Speaker 3>me I look like chewbaxa So I didn't imagine, like, so, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>Chewbacca to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like all I wanted was in defense of myself, because

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<v Speaker 2>I for sure need a fucking defense of myself on

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<v Speaker 2>this I did. I really wasn't aware of the crush

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<v Speaker 2>that you had, Like, I wasn't aware of how how

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<v Speaker 2>that could affect you. Like I thought you were attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to me kind of the same way I was attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to you. So it was like, Okay, it's it's more

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<v Speaker 2>playful and like, it's not. I didn't. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 2>it was deep and would.

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<v Speaker 3>Affect you the difference.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm?

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<v Speaker 2>If you had said something to me, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 2>taken such offense to it, and it wouldn't have stuck

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<v Speaker 2>with me so long because it was I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot writing on us having a relationship or not,

0:24:05.640 --> 0:24:06.800
<v Speaker 2>or like it wasn't right.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand that, but I didn't either. It was just

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:14.560
<v Speaker 3>and I hate saying the female version, but like I

0:24:14.640 --> 0:24:17.679
<v Speaker 3>don't know, Like I went to school with all girls.

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

0:24:20.320 --> 0:24:21.880
<v Speaker 3>This is the boy that I liked.

0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:23.520
<v Speaker 2>There was a girl in school that I had a

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:25.480
<v Speaker 2>crush on. And if she would have said to me,

0:24:27.080 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, anything negative, that would have stuck with me

0:24:29.720 --> 0:24:30.800
<v Speaker 2>for a long time for sure.

0:24:31.400 --> 0:24:32.800
<v Speaker 3>Wit So you didn't like me that much?

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:37.480
<v Speaker 2>I a great I didn't. I didn't have a crush

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<v Speaker 2>on you.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you have on me? Then a first boyfriend?

0:24:43.119 --> 0:24:46.359
<v Speaker 2>I do? And then I remember you complaining about that.

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<v Speaker 3>I dumped him because I liked you, but like used

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<v Speaker 3>to get in fights with me right over silly stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>and like when he was around, it was weird.

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:04.119
<v Speaker 2>Ish when he was around. When he was around because

0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:06.920
<v Speaker 2>I had a crush on you, or when he was

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 2>around because I didn't think it was a good relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, wait, not that guy. Oh oh oh no, no, no,

0:25:12.720 --> 0:25:13.720
<v Speaker 3>you were supposed.

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:17.639
<v Speaker 2>To the guys I had issues with.

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<v Speaker 3>So no, rightfully, so actually my very Oh wait, so

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:29.080
<v Speaker 3>I didn't start liking bad boys till after my first boyfriend,

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:31.280
<v Speaker 3>who I broke up with because I liked you. So

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:34.080
<v Speaker 3>perhaps you're responsible for the bad choices I've made with

0:25:34.200 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 3>men my entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Fair shit. Okay, So his you'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember when I tell you his name was Ryan, right,

0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:46.920
<v Speaker 3>He went to Birmingham, drove him the valley. Super nice guy. Yeah,

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:50.440
<v Speaker 3>great guy. I went to prom with him. Yeah, he

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:55.520
<v Speaker 3>went to Arizona for college. And then I yeah, and

0:25:55.680 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 3>then yeah, what happened?

0:25:57.320 --> 0:26:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I just I really liked you, so so you broke

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<v Speaker 2>it off with h Yeah.

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 3>Not because I thought you and I were going to

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 3>be in a relationship, but I couldn't focus on him

0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 3>because I was attracted to it.

0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:11.360
<v Speaker 2>Just we were working together every day.

0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 3>And then Disneyland happened, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Disney Florida, Disney World.

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<v Speaker 3>That was before. Yeah, I think we fought.

0:26:23.119 --> 0:26:25.560
<v Speaker 2>We fought a lot at Disney World.

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:29.119
<v Speaker 3>Disney was there, My mom was there, and he was

0:26:29.160 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 3>there too. He was there, He was there, and that

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 3>was the trip that I unders Oh my god, you

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.440
<v Speaker 3>it was more than just like when you would say

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 3>things to me that I was like, oh, he's what

0:26:43.720 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 3>are we calling it? He's sexually attracted to me, Like,

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:47.800
<v Speaker 3>but you don't think it at that age, but like

0:26:48.800 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 3>that's when I got it because you and I thought,

0:26:51.320 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 3>Remember we had to go on stage and present and

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:55.879
<v Speaker 3>we had a huge blowout fight before.

0:26:56.400 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 2>We used to have those huge blowout fights for a lot. Yeah,

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:05.119
<v Speaker 2>we were like we and I think a lot of

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:09.920
<v Speaker 2>that was like attraction and a lot of that was

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 2>like really coming of age in it all it was

0:27:15.960 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 2>it was a yeah, there was there was a lot

0:27:17.800 --> 0:27:21.479
<v Speaker 2>that was going on. So that's so that's always been

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 2>the reason why for me. It's like when people go, oh, yeah,

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:27.520
<v Speaker 2>weren't you guys dating, It's like, right, we know, we

0:27:27.800 --> 0:27:30.639
<v Speaker 2>like we lived a whole lifetime. We had ten years

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 2>of the most insane life that you could possibly have.

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 2>So to label it as that, it like belittles to

0:27:38.600 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 2>me what our relationship is. It belittles to me what

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 2>my relationship with anyone. When any when anyone is like, oh, yeah,

0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 2>you lost your cast made It's like no, I lost

0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 2>my brother or my sister. Like it's a different, it's

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:57.640
<v Speaker 2>deeper than that. So when people when when people talk

0:27:57.640 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 2>to me and they go, oh, I've been devastated. It's like,

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:04.840
<v Speaker 2>I get it your devastation because you lost a character

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 2>that you love right watching on the show. I lost

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:13.120
<v Speaker 2>a family member. So it's a different thing, you know. Yeah,

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 2>And that label of like oh, boyfriend, girlfriend or you dated,

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 2>it's like that's not that almost felt disrespectful to me

0:28:21.320 --> 0:28:23.679
<v Speaker 2>because it's like, no, we went through way more than

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 2>just what normal people go through when they're dating, Like oh, yeah,

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 2>we dated and then we broke up. Like we never

0:28:29.960 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 2>did anything. We never broke up. We never said like

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's just you and me, like let's try,

0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:39.880
<v Speaker 2>like we never were. There were never any like boundaries

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:42.480
<v Speaker 2>or rules or anything set to it because it like it.

0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 2>It showed itself in so many different ways. There were

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 2>so many different iterations of it throughout ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we go back to Disneyland, yes, disney World nope,

0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 1>Disneyland correct, the.

0:28:57.320 --> 0:29:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Stage that came up out of the ground, Disneyland No, because.

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<v Speaker 3>See I'm going to remember it differently than you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so Disneyland. We I don't know why we got like

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 3>all it starts from Fox. We had like a night there.

0:29:20.480 --> 0:29:22.280
<v Speaker 3>It was like they closed down the park and it

0:29:22.360 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 3>was like people there but it was all like kind

0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 3>of internal Jenny was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't remember it at all. I know it's

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 2>so I have those things sometimes where it's like I

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:36.120
<v Speaker 2>have zero memory of that, but please fill me in

0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:38.440
<v Speaker 2>because then all the place is irrelevant.

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:43.280
<v Speaker 3>Okay, what happened that night is what I'm referring to. Okay,

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 3>we don't remember that.

0:29:45.360 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 4>No, what.

0:29:48.760 --> 0:29:49.000
<v Speaker 3>Shit?

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 2>And you're you're judging me now?

0:29:52.560 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 3>No no, no, no, no, I'm judging myself for mentioning it.

0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:56.160
<v Speaker 2>Say whatever you want.

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 3>Do we have sex that the first night we slept together? Yes?

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, that wasn't that?

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.560
<v Speaker 3>What do you where do you think it was?

0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 2>Wasn't it it like Shannon's house? No?

0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 3>And I no, I remember it like because I'm oh,

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 3>you were only the second guy I ever slept with,

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:24.400
<v Speaker 3>so like obviously I remember it more like eventful, not eventful,

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 3>do you know what I mean? Like I remember details. Yeah,

0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 3>it was like after the disney World trip in Florida.

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Disney World was after that.

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 3>It was after that we were at Disneyland.

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 2>It was like a night Wait, so Disneyland is here,

0:30:42.280 --> 0:30:45.840
<v Speaker 2>disney World is out there, so which it's at Disneyland here.

0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:50.080
<v Speaker 3>We had sex for the first time at Disneyland, Disneyland

0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 3>Land in California, California.

0:30:52.160 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 2>Correct, at Disneyland, yeah, really yeah, but in your hotel

0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Oh okay, so not in Disneyland, like

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 2>not on a ride or anything like that, like in

0:31:06.040 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 2>the Disneyland hotel hotel, yes, correct, but like for me, yeah,

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 2>it was just like we.

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 3>Were fighting so much and I was like, yeah, anyway

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:20.240
<v Speaker 3>that night drunk, uh huh okay, yeah.

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I mean yeah, because that was kind of

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 2>a theme for that early like then, Yeah, like we

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:29.080
<v Speaker 2>were like going out a lot.

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 3>But there was a moment where we were fighting and

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 3>we were in the middle of Disneyland and there were

0:31:36.040 --> 0:31:38.800
<v Speaker 3>people around. I'm not going to get it right now.

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 3>I feel blame.

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I feel so don't feel blame. Don't feel stupid.

0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 3>I feel like such a stupid girl.

0:31:45.440 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 2>No, because you have a better memory than I do,

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 2>so good for you.

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I'm going to hide my face wise while

0:31:52.440 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 3>I tell you this, because you're looking at my true box.

0:31:57.560 --> 0:32:02.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm actually not okay, So you're doing okay.

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 3>Thank you, But you know it's not just you. You know,

0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:08.800
<v Speaker 3>my memory is very specific, like it's not like I'm

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 3>I mean, obviously it was special to me, but I

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.240
<v Speaker 3>remember really obscure things.

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:14.880
<v Speaker 2>So okay.

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 3>So it was in front of.

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Space Mountain and was it really okay?

0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:24.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh no, what's the one the mountain mad Horn, Mati Horn.

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:26.920
<v Speaker 3>There was a bunch of people and we were having

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:32.840
<v Speaker 3>our usual fighting and then you said. I was like,

0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 3>why why are you always getting mad? Why are you

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 3>why are we always fighting? And you said, have you

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:41.960
<v Speaker 3>ever thought that maybe I fight with you because I

0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 3>love you? No? No, I did not, Yeah, and you

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:51.480
<v Speaker 3>were probably saying like I love you, like we're sister

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 3>brother like friends. And I was like, oh, he said,

0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 3>I love you. And then we started kissing.

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 2>Wait what I love this story. I feel like I'm

0:33:05.360 --> 0:33:08.920
<v Speaker 2>like hearing a story of you and someone else right now.

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, this is because it's it's kind of epic.

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:15.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, because we were we're it was like

0:33:15.840 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 3>out of a John Hughes.

0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 2>Movie, Like literally, that's amazing.

0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:23.520
<v Speaker 3>Fighting and fighting like you everything the reason is because

0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 3>I love you. And then you started kissing me in

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:27.640
<v Speaker 3>the middle of public and I was like, oh my god,

0:33:27.680 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 3>there's people and he's kissing me like this is crazy.

0:33:31.880 --> 0:33:33.160
<v Speaker 3>And then You're like, do you want to get And

0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:38.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm like yeah, and we like and then yeah, I

0:33:38.160 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 3>remember the next morning, I can see, like in the

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 3>hotel calling Jenny on the payphone. Would that even be

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:51.959
<v Speaker 3>a thing? No, not payphone, like the we can pick

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 3>up the phone and call up to the rooms. They

0:33:54.240 --> 0:34:00.720
<v Speaker 3>didn't even have that anymore, right, Yeah, okay? And lobby phone,

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 3>lobby phone, Yeah, okay. I was supposed to meet her

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 3>and Dan. She was with her first husband Dan at

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.960
<v Speaker 3>the time, and yeah, she was the first person. I

0:34:10.080 --> 0:34:13.240
<v Speaker 3>was like, you're not gonna believe what happened, Like Brian

0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:18.720
<v Speaker 3>and I slept together. She was like what, I'm like, yeah, no, anyway,

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:19.439
<v Speaker 3>what did she say?

0:34:20.080 --> 0:34:28.600
<v Speaker 5>I don't remember, God, I do not so I remember

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 5>other times, but I do not remember that time at all.

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:35.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how that's possible.

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 3>I remember because it's me boring.

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:41.120
<v Speaker 2>I can boobs none. I can only assume.

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:48.879
<v Speaker 3>Wait what so like now they have like I don't

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:50.759
<v Speaker 3>know what's the version of stuff in your bra? Now

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.080
<v Speaker 3>girls do, like they have the ones they sell and

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 3>the Amazon. But back then, I remember, like I didn't

0:34:57.760 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 3>have my boobs done, and I like we would put

0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 3>tiss you.

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 2>And I remember, wait, I remember that. Wait it was

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:07.320
<v Speaker 2>me pulling it out. Yeah, I remember that.

0:35:08.680 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, I remember sleeping with me one time.

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 2>No, I saw I remember all. I remember a lot

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 2>of other times, but not that time. But I do

0:35:16.840 --> 0:35:25.520
<v Speaker 2>remember that the tissue. Yeah, that's hysterical. Oh my god.

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh I remember that. That was all I needed. That

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 2>was the the visual for me, flashed me right back

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 2>into I remember that. Yeah.

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:45.360
<v Speaker 3>Anyway, Wait, I'm so curious, like we have had and

0:35:45.440 --> 0:35:48.279
<v Speaker 3>we'll continue to have such a great relationship based on

0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:52.759
<v Speaker 3>so many things, because it's a lot of people have

0:35:52.880 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 3>friendships for an eternity, but like it was a combined thing.

0:35:59.120 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 3>And I wonder how, like you can't label it, but

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:05.360
<v Speaker 3>what word? Like I wish there was a wording we

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 3>could make.

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Up that would family. Here, you're, well, you.

0:36:10.560 --> 0:36:14.319
<v Speaker 3>Don't fuck your family, but no, no.

0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 2>You don't, not in a healthy family.

0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:23.520
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know. It's a good one though. Yeah,

0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 3>it's like it really evolved. Yeah, term, but I don't

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:28.719
<v Speaker 3>know what it would be.

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:35.360
<v Speaker 2>Long long relation we have. We've been in each other's

0:36:35.480 --> 0:36:42.000
<v Speaker 2>lives longer than we haven't. You're right, Yeah, it's interesting

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:47.359
<v Speaker 2>to think. Yeah, we were sixteen when we met. We're

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:48.480
<v Speaker 2>now both fifty one.

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:54.080
<v Speaker 3>I know, wait, did you know that twenty twenty five

0:36:54.400 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 3>will mark the twenty five year wedding anniversary of David

0:36:58.600 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 3>and Donna. That's I just thought about the other day.

0:37:03.120 --> 0:37:05.320
<v Speaker 3>The same year though, like, because we went off the

0:37:05.400 --> 0:37:08.200
<v Speaker 3>air in two thousand. Yeah, we got married. It was

0:37:08.239 --> 0:37:11.319
<v Speaker 3>the final episode. So if you think about it, right,

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 3>twenty five years and it's the golden Like, is that

0:37:13.719 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 3>the golden wedding anniversary twenty five? It's supposed to be

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 3>gold golden not golden?

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:22.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, no, wait, golden is fifty oh okay, right.

0:37:22.480 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 3>But twenty five is a huge, like a big marker.

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I forget what that's called. And then diamond is

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 2>a is one hundred seventy five? One hundred is ridiculous.

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 2>Nobody is married for one hundred years. Most people aren't

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:41.680
<v Speaker 2>alive for one hundred years. You're looking it up right now,

0:37:41.719 --> 0:37:41.920
<v Speaker 2>are you.

0:37:42.200 --> 0:37:47.960
<v Speaker 3>It's the silver silver, David, Oh my silver. This is

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 3>what's even crazier. Twenty five twenty twenty five will mark

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 3>the twenty five wedding anniversary of David and Jonnas silver.

0:37:58.840 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 5>What the fuck?

0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:03.280
<v Speaker 2>Bam? Look at how that worked.

0:38:04.160 --> 0:38:04.640
<v Speaker 3>That's cool.

0:38:06.000 --> 0:38:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this has been super fun. This has been like

0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 2>a fun stroll down like Memory Lane and Funck. We

0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:18.480
<v Speaker 2>have so many memories. I have so many memories. I

0:38:18.520 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 2>have so many memories of your shitty relationships, like so

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:26.280
<v Speaker 2>many of going.

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:29.359
<v Speaker 3>Well, you don't have to think that hard.

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 2>Thanks for listening, everybody. Let's save that one for another episode,

0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:33.800
<v Speaker 2>shall we.