Speaker 1: Misspelling with tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Look at how much water you've wait?
Speaker 3: Is it a lot? Oh? Mann?
Speaker 2: Okay? Should I guzzle it now? Because your your body
Speaker 2: will quit. Your body will take a stop, wait, take
Speaker 2: it back. It'll go into complete shock and be like,
Speaker 2: oh what is this liquid?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: I told you I started drinking water.
Speaker 2: It doesn't taste. It doesn't taste like diet doctor pepper
Speaker 2: or energy drink. Yeah. I drink kombucha on a regular basis.
Speaker 3: Every day, health fade. I love them.
Speaker 2: Really yes. Okay, well, good, I just shocked you. That's
Speaker 2: a good you did. Shock. It's a good thing.
Speaker 3: Coconut water Okay, I drink that, hmm.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's actually really good for you. Coconut water. The
Speaker 2: electrolytes in it are great.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: So from what I've heard, water doesn't actually hydrate you.
Speaker 2: People think like, I'm I'm dehydrated. I should drink a
Speaker 2: bunch of water, but you're But it's the electrolytes. It's
Speaker 2: the salt that you're so you know, when you're sweating,
Speaker 2: it's salty the water that's coming out. No, like you
Speaker 2: notice if you ever like if the water drips down
Speaker 2: your face into your mouth if you like, if you
Speaker 2: ever get it, it's a salty So those are that's
Speaker 2: the electrolytes.
Speaker 3: So I just learned that.
Speaker 2: So people that, Like, we had Dave Aspbury on our
Speaker 2: show and he was talking about he puts like something
Speaker 2: like eleven tea spoons of salt in a thing of water,
Speaker 2: like when he drinks water during the day, which is
Speaker 2: you always here like, oh, salt.
Speaker 3: Is bad for your levels or.
Speaker 2: So he was saying that it keeps the electrolytes in
Speaker 2: my body balanced at all, like it it's I was like, oh, man,
Speaker 2: I had no idea. So, yeah, drinking just plain water
Speaker 2: is actually not hydrating you at all, which is why
Speaker 2: sports drinks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, created never drink water.
Speaker 2: Well, like the electrolyte packets in it, those are actually
Speaker 2: a lot of work. It's not you just rip them
Speaker 2: open and pour them in. It's not a lot of work.
Speaker 3: What about salt water, It's.
Speaker 2: Not any more work than popping the top on an
Speaker 2: energy drink to drink it. Mhmm. Interesting, you pop the top,
Speaker 2: you tear the top, it's the same thing.
Speaker 3: What about salt water? What about salt water Like a
Speaker 3: new kind of packaged water.
Speaker 2: I don't like ocean water. That's way that the salinity
Speaker 2: is way too much.
Speaker 3: No, but like a business like if people, if that's true,
Speaker 3: then why not just package it and you.
Speaker 2: Should do it? People do though, electrolyte waters and stuff
Speaker 2: like that. That's not like new pH pH waters electrolyte
Speaker 2: waters sports drinks there also, I'm not not to that.
Speaker 2: I'm like shooting down your idea because I think it's
Speaker 2: great and you should.
Speaker 3: God gum, when we're young, what eterade? Gum?
Speaker 2: I do?
Speaker 3: Do you remember?
Speaker 2: I love Gatorade?
Speaker 3: That because I wasn't the thing that would like it.
Speaker 3: Would it would like stimulate your mouth.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, wow, Yeah, I'm a big fan of Gatorade.
Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of that flavor.
Speaker 3: The green one, the yellow, the OgH sorry.
Speaker 2: The yellow one is the o g one.
Speaker 3: You see it as yellow because I see it as green. Well,
Speaker 3: it's like greenish yellow. Are you colored blood?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: How do you know? No, I'm not because no stereotype.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 4: A lot of the boys are are inherently more color
Speaker 4: blind or apt to be color blind than women.
Speaker 2: So here's what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's test it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull up a photo of gatoring and we'll
Speaker 2: show it around the room. Get read flavors or.
Speaker 3: Colored flavors, because what's the original.
Speaker 1: When we were the lemon line is the original?
Speaker 3: It's like greenish yellow?
Speaker 2: Is that greenish yellow? You're fucked, Ruthanne? Is that greenish
Speaker 2: yellow to you? More yellow? It's more yellow?
Speaker 3: Emily hmhmm.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 3: We need to look at it now.
Speaker 2: On look. I'll even zoom in on it. Steve Green, Sorry,
Speaker 2: w what color is the thing on your yellow? Okay? Okay,
Speaker 2: so you're okay, so.
Speaker 3: You're not color I'm not color blind.
Speaker 2: I just identifying.
Speaker 3: Oh I think I actually have an elevated eye.
Speaker 2: You have an elevated eye, not for color.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: How you think that gatorade is green?
Speaker 3: Well's subjective because it's art correct, it's not color is?
Speaker 2: Color? Is is factual? No?
Speaker 3: Based on what?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: On a color chart?
Speaker 3: Who made that?
Speaker 2: You?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 2: You have to mix two colors to get green? Green
Speaker 2: is not a primary color. You have to mix yellow
Speaker 2: and you have to mix blue to get green.
Speaker 3: You know what? My favorite color is clear?
Speaker 2: What like water? Which is funny because you never drink water.
Speaker 2: You would think you do nothing but drink water and
Speaker 2: be like my favorite color in the world. Oh, I
Speaker 2: love all of this color. I want to fill my
Speaker 2: body with this color. But you don't no what color
Speaker 2: are sports drinks typically? Like what color is like a
Speaker 2: red bull?
Speaker 3: Oh it is colored like yellow green. I don't look
Speaker 3: at it. I drink it out of a can pop top. Okay,
Speaker 3: better than ripping it. That'll electrolyte. Actually, my favorite color
Speaker 3: is green. Let's not joke. Is it not my favorite cover?
Speaker 2: And then why did you say it was clear that
Speaker 2: that was.
Speaker 3: A joke, got it?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: I don't make you laugh often.
Speaker 2: That's not true.
Speaker 3: Kind of not really.
Speaker 2: We when we were doing the podcast, we made a
Speaker 2: point of like not laughing at but because we know
Speaker 2: that's the direction you go is you go funny, quirky,
Speaker 2: like that's kind of your out, that's your easy way
Speaker 2: of dealing with the situation, be in a weirdo and
Speaker 2: like cracking jokes and all that. So we were like, Okay,
Speaker 2: let's not react to those things and force you like
Speaker 2: to stay in the uncomfortableness of the conversation, which I
Speaker 2: think was great. Yes, I think I love that conversation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that was really conversation.
Speaker 2: Watch it so great to watch it. It was so
Speaker 2: and I think for fans of you, it was really
Speaker 2: cool because people got to see much more of the
Speaker 2: tory that I know that Randy knows, like with your
Speaker 2: guard down a little bit, like it was, it felt
Speaker 2: really like nice and genuine and I and I watched
Speaker 2: that episode a few times, and I don't normally, but
Speaker 2: I really like, I really loved that conversation. I loved
Speaker 2: your vulnerability in that. I thought it was really good.
Speaker 2: But then I was like, God, she hasn't ever had
Speaker 2: me on her show since, Like I see all these
Speaker 2: people coming on, and I'm like, got she You know,
Speaker 2: originally we had talked about me doing her show and
Speaker 2: she just never reached out and never so I thought
Speaker 2: maybe you had a bad experience or something.
Speaker 3: On the port or you took it personally. It wasn't
Speaker 3: about you.
Speaker 2: It's true, which everybody does.
Speaker 3: I know, and it's just a call. Okay, it's because
Speaker 3: you snort too much.
Speaker 2: That's why that's why I didn't you didn't have me
Speaker 2: on sooner because I snorre.
Speaker 3: I actually asked you. We texted when you were reprising
Speaker 3: Oldish and you were showing me some of the artwork
Speaker 3: that you guys had done. I was like, this looks amazing.
Speaker 3: I'm so excited. And then oh, it took everything in
Speaker 3: my being to be like, will you do my podcast?
Speaker 3: And you said yes? And then why did it take
Speaker 3: so long for you to be on? Because I was
Speaker 3: scared to ask you again? I'm scared. I got to
Speaker 3: stop using that word. I'm not scared.
Speaker 2: God, I don't even remember that honestly, because like, as
Speaker 2: soon as you asked me to be on this time,
Speaker 2: I jumped at it. You didn't, yeah, absolutely, like made
Speaker 2: sure that that it happened. I don't. I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I think this order was better. I agree you
Speaker 2: doing Oldish first.
Speaker 3: I agree doing my podcast, I was that was my default,
Speaker 3: like being funny and being ballsy and like uh. And
Speaker 3: then I started to notice the difference when I did
Speaker 3: an episode and I was speaking from my heart and
Speaker 3: talking about Shan and when I listened back, I was like, wow,
Speaker 3: I do have stuff to say, like I like do people.
Speaker 3: Because before that, I was like, well, if I can
Speaker 3: be funny, then it's easy.
Speaker 2: It's easier for me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's just and I because that's just my
Speaker 3: own insecurity, like they don't think I have anything of
Speaker 3: depth to say, or I'm not smart enough, I can't
Speaker 3: hold a conversation, which isn't true. So I heard that
Speaker 3: episode and I was like, wow, very eloquent, like poignant,
Speaker 3: like I I really enjoyed it. So and then same
Speaker 3: when I did Oldish, like yeah, same like this episode, Yeah,
Speaker 3: this isn't funny at all, Right, that's.
Speaker 2: Funny, funny moments in it, not nearly Old Oldish was
Speaker 2: like I was so good though, so good. But I
Speaker 2: warned you ahead of time. When you were like, hey,
Speaker 2: can I come do the show? I was like, we
Speaker 2: and I coined this from Dave Chappelle. I always give
Speaker 2: them credit. We we play hard in the paint, like
Speaker 2: we do not hold back. There was there was a
Speaker 2: question that I wanted to get to with you when
Speaker 2: you were on the show that I didn't that I
Speaker 2: just spaced on or it just didn't fit.
Speaker 3: Are you gonna ask me now?
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I'll ask you know on your on your podcast,
Speaker 2: because that's the way we rolled. You have spoken in
Speaker 2: books prior prior to this about the relationship that we had.
Speaker 5: Mm hm.
Speaker 2: So I I've all I've always been curious about that
Speaker 2: because we I don't consider what we had and have
Speaker 2: like a relationship like a fling or like a you know, well,
Speaker 2: we were a boyfriend and girlfriend for this period of time,
Speaker 2: like we were because it was a ten year period,
Speaker 2: so we went through all sorts of things. So I
Speaker 2: was curious, though, why you labeled it as a relationship
Speaker 2: in the in the books and if you felt like
Speaker 2: it was like you felt like it was.
Speaker 3: I wanted to ask you about this today too, a
Speaker 3: nice face. Oh I just got really hot, that's okay.
Speaker 3: I'm curious how I did and did I phrase it
Speaker 3: as a boyfriend or out of context like they do
Speaker 3: with podcasts, that was the catching news and they I'd
Speaker 3: have to go back and look.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't think I ever said because yeah, we definitely,
Speaker 3: I think as yeah, in our youth, I think I
Speaker 3: probably phimes wow, look at me and never had a
Speaker 3: loss for words, perceived it differently than you did, which
Speaker 3: as adults makes sense. I mean, yeah, I mean I
Speaker 3: want to say it was a crush, but it was
Speaker 3: more than that. There was like a summer.
Speaker 1: Correct, Yeah, okay, yes, so we we had much more
Speaker 1: like so we had it was it was a strange
Speaker 1: chemistry that we had.
Speaker 2: We had like a sexual chemistry that we would kind
Speaker 2: of uh tease each other with a little bit and
Speaker 2: we would kind of like jump into and then we'd
Speaker 2: quickly jump out of and because we were through it
Speaker 2: all like we were really good friends. We were brother
Speaker 2: and sister. Like we we covered the gambit of what
Speaker 2: a relationship could be, which is why then when I
Speaker 2: when people come to me and be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: so you and Tory were dating for a while, right,
Speaker 2: it was like, I, that's too easy of a label
Speaker 2: for me. Oh wow, like for you, for you to
Speaker 2: say that we were dating, It's like, no, we were.
Speaker 2: We were much more than dating, Like we we never
Speaker 2: ever win anyone and we were like, oh, we're boyfriend
Speaker 2: and girlfriend and held hands and did like we never
Speaker 2: did the typical dating thing. So it's a weird. I
Speaker 2: don't know how you label that. But then when I
Speaker 2: saw a label, I was like I or somebody told me, oh, there,
Speaker 2: she labeled it as this in a book. I was like,
Speaker 2: that's but that's not I don't feel like I did.
Speaker 2: That was never the case, Like it wasn't ever, we
Speaker 2: did so much more than that, and we fought like
Speaker 2: we fought like brother and sister sometimes about stupid stuff
Speaker 2: about like who was on the cover of what, or
Speaker 2: who got more press at a thing, or like.
Speaker 3: You and I, Yeah, we would we would have those
Speaker 3: weird argument about that stuff.
Speaker 5: We would.
Speaker 2: I remember having those weird arguments where like that was
Speaker 2: always kind of the clapback we would give to each other,
Speaker 2: like if we were arguing about something, Yeah, well you're
Speaker 2: just upset because I was on the cover of the
Speaker 2: or I did this, like we would every once in
Speaker 2: a while.
Speaker 3: That made that joke to you. Do you think I
Speaker 3: would make a joke like that?
Speaker 2: You did make it? You think it's I'm not speaking
Speaker 2: as like I.
Speaker 3: Maybe if you said it first, I like joined suit.
Speaker 2: Sure, okay, that's what it wants.
Speaker 3: To tease me a lot. We teased No, I had to.
Speaker 2: I teased you.
Speaker 3: No. We so we teased each other, like how did
Speaker 3: it all start teasing? Like if we're gonna talk see,
Speaker 3: I don't even know how to even say it, Like
Speaker 3: if we're going to talk towards the sexual chemistry for
Speaker 3: one second or two or three, like what the teasing
Speaker 3: was kind of a part of the part like a flirtation.
Speaker 3: So here, so I didn't know. I went to an
Speaker 3: all girls' school, so it was like I was like, like.
Speaker 2: So then, so then here was the thing for me
Speaker 2: I came from. I was like the hyperactive, kind of geeky,
Speaker 2: annoying kid in school. All of a sudden, I'm on
Speaker 2: a show where people are noticing me and paying attention
Speaker 2: to me. But I still had like I had no game.
Speaker 2: I had like I never used it before. I'd know,
Speaker 2: I had no concept of what was cool. And so
Speaker 2: to me, when it was like I was attracted to somebody,
Speaker 2: that's what I did, Like I it's what kids do,
Speaker 2: like they're they tease and they poke and they do
Speaker 2: those things right, And I didn't know any different, you know,
Speaker 2: And I was young and we were and our the
Speaker 2: majority of our like any sort of chemistry or sexual
Speaker 2: connection was when we were young on the show, because
Speaker 2: then as we progressed, then we had relationships and things changed,
Speaker 2: and you know, and we were there for a while
Speaker 2: in our relationship, then our connection together change took.
Speaker 3: Into old habits once in a blue moon, right, But.
Speaker 2: But that was like that was very much my I
Speaker 2: my way of like flirting was being I'm like, I mean,
Speaker 2: I've always been you know me, I've always been like
Speaker 2: a bit of a chit starter, like I like to
Speaker 2: s it's fun. It's fun, it's fun. But you know,
Speaker 2: now I've I definitely have a much healthier way now
Speaker 2: of seeing of reading the room and knowing who I
Speaker 2: can have that with and who I can't. Like, I
Speaker 2: remember when I first started doing uh Special Forces the
Speaker 2: show Black China, Angela and I we like we started
Speaker 2: in a very kind of fun, playful like she would
Speaker 2: talk trash, I would talk trash, like we would joke
Speaker 2: with each other. And then all of a sudden, when
Speaker 2: she didn't react well to it in the tent, I
Speaker 2: was like, what the just happened? Like how did? Everyone
Speaker 2: was like what happened? I was like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: you know, nothing has changed with her, But she took
Speaker 2: it in a different way, which then made me rethink like, Okay,
Speaker 2: this is not somebody that I can have that same
Speaker 2: place to banter with and feel like everything's fine. We
Speaker 2: ended up like and we ended up getting along great.
Speaker 2: We've had no issue since then.
Speaker 3: It was literally like a an adjustment.
Speaker 2: It was a thirty second thing, but they the way
Speaker 2: they edited the show, they made it seem like we
Speaker 2: had some actual beef. And then the next, very next
Speaker 2: episode came out and they never spoke about it again
Speaker 2: because there was nothing more that happened from that point forward.
Speaker 2: But I so I've always been that way with people.
Speaker 2: I just know how to better read the room than
Speaker 2: I did then, Like I didn't understand that you were
Speaker 2: as sensitive to things that I said as you were,
Speaker 2: and that you really took them to heart and they
Speaker 2: bothered you.
Speaker 3: The way I liked you. I had a crush on you,
Speaker 3: like of course, like I don't know, anyone else could
Speaker 3: say something and it probably wouldn't have effected me, but
Speaker 3: I liked you so much that I mean, yeah, but
Speaker 3: I guess I didn't. It's not like I like backed
Speaker 3: away and was like, oh, he hates me, he doesn't
Speaker 3: like me. Like I played game, I guess I still was.
Speaker 3: It was because I'm really good at fitting in not
Speaker 3: fitting in. Yeah, get that too, but especially with the
Speaker 3: opposite sex. I am quite good at like reading what
Speaker 3: they need me to be on their playing field, right,
Speaker 3: which isn't always a good thing because then I lose
Speaker 3: me again. So but yeah, like I still like, I'm
Speaker 3: still self content, just like I was stuttering now about
Speaker 3: like peach fuzz on my face because you used to
Speaker 3: call me Chewbacca at sixteen. I was like, what the heck?
Speaker 3: And you used to do the roar I'd walk on
Speaker 3: the set.
Speaker 2: I can't do the roar? What do you mean I can't?
Speaker 2: I don't do the roar? I did? Okay, I did, Yes,
Speaker 2: I did, And I.
Speaker 3: Went through life thinking I had like oh and lamb
Speaker 3: chops like it's like I.
Speaker 2: No, I no, I never. I never said like anything
Speaker 2: beyond chew Bac I would and that was it. That
Speaker 2: was a joke. That was a joke. Shit, I'm sorry
Speaker 2: if that like negatively affected you because that was never
Speaker 2: my that was never my intention. I think.
Speaker 3: I just mean again I had no like.
Speaker 2: I didn't know, but everybody does. So everybody's got.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not trying to make you feel bad,
Speaker 3: but every guy to this day. If I'm like with
Speaker 3: a guy, I'm like worried, like does he think my
Speaker 3: cheeks are fuzzy?
Speaker 2: So so you're saying that I created like a lifelong.
Speaker 3: Trauma, trauma not on purpose.
Speaker 2: No, it was no not on purpose, but still I'm sorry. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: has anybody ever told you you look like Chewbacca? Really?
Speaker 3: Because my my six year old no label here he
Speaker 3: told me, did.
Speaker 2: You look like Chewbacca?
Speaker 3: No, you're six years Oh I was talking about you
Speaker 3: back when we were sixteen. Yeah, that sounded like I
Speaker 3: was talking about a kid in my No, my sixteen
Speaker 3: year old crush like no label, not boyfriend. He told
Speaker 3: me I look like chewbaxa So I didn't imagine, like, so, okay,
Speaker 3: Chewbacca to you?
Speaker 2: Like all I wanted was in defense of myself, because
Speaker 2: I for sure need a fucking defense of myself on
Speaker 2: this I did. I really wasn't aware of the crush
Speaker 2: that you had, Like, I wasn't aware of how how
Speaker 2: that could affect you. Like I thought you were attracted
Speaker 2: to me kind of the same way I was attracted
Speaker 2: to you. So it was like, Okay, it's it's more
Speaker 2: playful and like, it's not. I didn't. I didn't think
Speaker 2: it was deep and would.
Speaker 3: Affect you the difference.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 3: Hmm?
Speaker 2: If you had said something to me, I wouldn't have
Speaker 2: taken such offense to it, and it wouldn't have stuck
Speaker 2: with me so long because it was I didn't have
Speaker 2: a lot writing on us having a relationship or not,
Speaker 2: or like it wasn't right.
Speaker 3: I understand that, but I didn't either. It was just
Speaker 3: and I hate saying the female version, but like I
Speaker 3: don't know, Like I went to school with all girls.
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 3: This is the boy that I liked.
Speaker 2: There was a girl in school that I had a
Speaker 2: crush on. And if she would have said to me,
Speaker 2: you know, anything negative, that would have stuck with me
Speaker 2: for a long time for sure.
Speaker 3: Wit So you didn't like me that much?
Speaker 2: I a great I didn't. I didn't have a crush
Speaker 2: on you.
Speaker 3: What did you have on me? Then a first boyfriend?
Speaker 2: I do? And then I remember you complaining about that.
Speaker 3: I dumped him because I liked you, but like used
Speaker 3: to get in fights with me right over silly stuff,
Speaker 3: and like when he was around, it was weird.
Speaker 2: Ish when he was around. When he was around because
Speaker 2: I had a crush on you, or when he was
Speaker 2: around because I didn't think it was a good relationship.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, not that guy. Oh oh oh no, no, no,
Speaker 3: you were supposed.
Speaker 2: To the guys I had issues with.
Speaker 3: So no, rightfully, so actually my very Oh wait, so
Speaker 3: I didn't start liking bad boys till after my first boyfriend,
Speaker 3: who I broke up with because I liked you. So
Speaker 3: perhaps you're responsible for the bad choices I've made with
Speaker 3: men my entire life.
Speaker 2: Fair shit. Okay, So his you'll.
Speaker 3: Remember when I tell you his name was Ryan, right,
Speaker 3: He went to Birmingham, drove him the valley. Super nice guy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: great guy. I went to prom with him. Yeah, he
Speaker 3: went to Arizona for college. And then I yeah, and
Speaker 3: then yeah, what happened?
Speaker 2: I just I really liked you, so so you broke
Speaker 2: it off with h Yeah.
Speaker 3: Not because I thought you and I were going to
Speaker 3: be in a relationship, but I couldn't focus on him
Speaker 3: because I was attracted to it.
Speaker 2: Just we were working together every day.
Speaker 3: And then Disneyland happened, and then.
Speaker 2: Disney Florida, Disney World.
Speaker 3: That was before. Yeah, I think we fought.
Speaker 2: We fought a lot at Disney World.
Speaker 3: Disney was there, My mom was there, and he was
Speaker 3: there too. He was there, He was there, and that
Speaker 3: was the trip that I unders Oh my god, you
Speaker 3: it was more than just like when you would say
Speaker 3: things to me that I was like, oh, he's what
Speaker 3: are we calling it? He's sexually attracted to me, Like,
Speaker 3: but you don't think it at that age, but like
Speaker 3: that's when I got it because you and I thought,
Speaker 3: Remember we had to go on stage and present and
Speaker 3: we had a huge blowout fight before.
Speaker 2: We used to have those huge blowout fights for a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we were like we and I think a lot of
Speaker 2: that was like attraction and a lot of that was
Speaker 2: like really coming of age in it all it was
Speaker 2: it was a yeah, there was there was a lot
Speaker 2: that was going on. So that's so that's always been
Speaker 2: the reason why for me. It's like when people go, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: weren't you guys dating, It's like, right, we know, we
Speaker 2: like we lived a whole lifetime. We had ten years
Speaker 2: of the most insane life that you could possibly have.
Speaker 2: So to label it as that, it like belittles to
Speaker 2: me what our relationship is. It belittles to me what
Speaker 2: my relationship with anyone. When any when anyone is like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: you lost your cast made It's like no, I lost
Speaker 2: my brother or my sister. Like it's a different, it's
Speaker 2: deeper than that. So when people when when people talk
Speaker 2: to me and they go, oh, I've been devastated. It's like,
Speaker 2: I get it your devastation because you lost a character
Speaker 2: that you love right watching on the show. I lost
Speaker 2: a family member. So it's a different thing, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And that label of like oh, boyfriend, girlfriend or you dated,
Speaker 2: it's like that's not that almost felt disrespectful to me
Speaker 2: because it's like, no, we went through way more than
Speaker 2: just what normal people go through when they're dating, Like oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: we dated and then we broke up. Like we never
Speaker 2: did anything. We never broke up. We never said like
Speaker 2: you know, it's just you and me, like let's try,
Speaker 2: like we never were. There were never any like boundaries
Speaker 2: or rules or anything set to it because it like it.
Speaker 2: It showed itself in so many different ways. There were
Speaker 2: so many different iterations of it throughout ten years.
Speaker 1: Can we go back to Disneyland, yes, disney World nope,
Speaker 1: Disneyland correct, the.
Speaker 2: Stage that came up out of the ground, Disneyland No, because.
Speaker 3: See I'm going to remember it differently than you. Okay,
Speaker 3: so Disneyland. We I don't know why we got like
Speaker 3: all it starts from Fox. We had like a night there.
Speaker 3: It was like they closed down the park and it
Speaker 3: was like people there but it was all like kind
Speaker 3: of internal Jenny was there.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't remember it at all. I know it's
Speaker 2: so I have those things sometimes where it's like I
Speaker 2: have zero memory of that, but please fill me in
Speaker 2: because then all the place is irrelevant.
Speaker 3: Okay, what happened that night is what I'm referring to. Okay,
Speaker 3: we don't remember that.
Speaker 4: No, what.
Speaker 3: Shit?
Speaker 2: And you're you're judging me now?
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, I'm judging myself for mentioning it.
Speaker 2: Say whatever you want.
Speaker 3: Do we have sex that the first night we slept together? Yes?
Speaker 2: Oh no, that wasn't that?
Speaker 3: What do you where do you think it was?
Speaker 2: Wasn't it it like Shannon's house? No?
Speaker 3: And I no, I remember it like because I'm oh,
Speaker 3: you were only the second guy I ever slept with,
Speaker 3: so like obviously I remember it more like eventful, not eventful,
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Like I remember details. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was like after the disney World trip in Florida.
Speaker 2: Disney World was after that.
Speaker 3: It was after that we were at Disneyland.
Speaker 2: It was like a night Wait, so Disneyland is here,
Speaker 2: disney World is out there, so which it's at Disneyland here.
Speaker 3: We had sex for the first time at Disneyland, Disneyland
Speaker 3: Land in California, California.
Speaker 2: Correct, at Disneyland, yeah, really yeah, but in your hotel
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Oh okay, so not in Disneyland, like
Speaker 2: not on a ride or anything like that, like in
Speaker 2: the Disneyland hotel hotel, yes, correct, but like for me, yeah,
Speaker 2: it was just like we.
Speaker 3: Were fighting so much and I was like, yeah, anyway
Speaker 3: that night drunk, uh huh okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean yeah, because that was kind of
Speaker 2: a theme for that early like then, Yeah, like we
Speaker 2: were like going out a lot.
Speaker 3: But there was a moment where we were fighting and
Speaker 3: we were in the middle of Disneyland and there were
Speaker 3: people around. I'm not going to get it right now.
Speaker 3: I feel blame.
Speaker 2: I feel so don't feel blame. Don't feel stupid.
Speaker 3: I feel like such a stupid girl.
Speaker 2: No, because you have a better memory than I do,
Speaker 2: so good for you.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm going to hide my face wise while
Speaker 3: I tell you this, because you're looking at my true box.
Speaker 2: I'm actually not okay, So you're doing okay.
Speaker 3: Thank you, But you know it's not just you. You know,
Speaker 3: my memory is very specific, like it's not like I'm
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously it was special to me, but I
Speaker 3: remember really obscure things.
Speaker 2: So okay.
Speaker 3: So it was in front of.
Speaker 2: Space Mountain and was it really okay?
Speaker 3: Oh no, what's the one the mountain mad Horn, Mati Horn.
Speaker 3: There was a bunch of people and we were having
Speaker 3: our usual fighting and then you said. I was like,
Speaker 3: why why are you always getting mad? Why are you
Speaker 3: why are we always fighting? And you said, have you
Speaker 3: ever thought that maybe I fight with you because I
Speaker 3: love you? No? No, I did not, Yeah, and you
Speaker 3: were probably saying like I love you, like we're sister
Speaker 3: brother like friends. And I was like, oh, he said,
Speaker 3: I love you. And then we started kissing.
Speaker 2: Wait what I love this story. I feel like I'm
Speaker 2: like hearing a story of you and someone else right now.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is because it's it's kind of epic.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, because we were we're it was like
Speaker 3: out of a John Hughes.
Speaker 2: Movie, Like literally, that's amazing.
Speaker 3: Fighting and fighting like you everything the reason is because
Speaker 3: I love you. And then you started kissing me in
Speaker 3: the middle of public and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: there's people and he's kissing me like this is crazy.
Speaker 3: And then You're like, do you want to get And
Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, and we like and then yeah, I
Speaker 3: remember the next morning, I can see, like in the
Speaker 3: hotel calling Jenny on the payphone. Would that even be
Speaker 3: a thing? No, not payphone, like the we can pick
Speaker 3: up the phone and call up to the rooms. They
Speaker 3: didn't even have that anymore, right, Yeah, okay? And lobby phone,
Speaker 3: lobby phone, Yeah, okay. I was supposed to meet her
Speaker 3: and Dan. She was with her first husband Dan at
Speaker 3: the time, and yeah, she was the first person. I
Speaker 3: was like, you're not gonna believe what happened, Like Brian
Speaker 3: and I slept together. She was like what, I'm like, yeah, no, anyway,
Speaker 3: what did she say?
Speaker 5: I don't remember, God, I do not so I remember
Speaker 5: other times, but I do not remember that time at all.
Speaker 2: I don't know how that's possible.
Speaker 3: I remember because it's me boring.
Speaker 2: I can boobs none. I can only assume.
Speaker 3: Wait what so like now they have like I don't
Speaker 3: know what's the version of stuff in your bra? Now
Speaker 3: girls do, like they have the ones they sell and
Speaker 3: the Amazon. But back then, I remember, like I didn't
Speaker 3: have my boobs done, and I like we would put
Speaker 3: tiss you.
Speaker 2: And I remember, wait, I remember that. Wait it was
Speaker 2: me pulling it out. Yeah, I remember that.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I remember sleeping with me one time.
Speaker 2: No, I saw I remember all. I remember a lot
Speaker 2: of other times, but not that time. But I do
Speaker 2: remember that the tissue. Yeah, that's hysterical. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Oh I remember that. That was all I needed. That
Speaker 2: was the the visual for me, flashed me right back
Speaker 2: into I remember that. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Anyway, Wait, I'm so curious, like we have had and
Speaker 3: we'll continue to have such a great relationship based on
Speaker 3: so many things, because it's a lot of people have
Speaker 3: friendships for an eternity, but like it was a combined thing.
Speaker 3: And I wonder how, like you can't label it, but
Speaker 3: what word? Like I wish there was a wording we
Speaker 3: could make.
Speaker 2: Up that would family. Here, you're, well, you.
Speaker 3: Don't fuck your family, but no, no.
Speaker 2: You don't, not in a healthy family.
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. It's a good one though. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's like it really evolved. Yeah, term, but I don't
Speaker 3: know what it would be.
Speaker 2: Long long relation we have. We've been in each other's
Speaker 2: lives longer than we haven't. You're right, Yeah, it's interesting
Speaker 2: to think. Yeah, we were sixteen when we met. We're
Speaker 2: now both fifty one.
Speaker 3: I know, wait, did you know that twenty twenty five
Speaker 3: will mark the twenty five year wedding anniversary of David
Speaker 3: and Donna. That's I just thought about the other day.
Speaker 3: The same year though, like, because we went off the
Speaker 3: air in two thousand. Yeah, we got married. It was
Speaker 3: the final episode. So if you think about it, right,
Speaker 3: twenty five years and it's the golden Like, is that
Speaker 3: the golden wedding anniversary twenty five? It's supposed to be
Speaker 3: gold golden not golden?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, no, wait, golden is fifty oh okay, right.
Speaker 3: But twenty five is a huge, like a big marker.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forget what that's called. And then diamond is
Speaker 2: a is one hundred seventy five? One hundred is ridiculous.
Speaker 2: Nobody is married for one hundred years. Most people aren't
Speaker 2: alive for one hundred years. You're looking it up right now,
Speaker 2: are you.
Speaker 3: It's the silver silver, David, Oh my silver. This is
Speaker 3: what's even crazier. Twenty five twenty twenty five will mark
Speaker 3: the twenty five wedding anniversary of David and Jonnas silver.
Speaker 5: What the fuck?
Speaker 2: Bam? Look at how that worked.
Speaker 3: That's cool.
Speaker 2: Okay, this has been super fun. This has been like
Speaker 2: a fun stroll down like Memory Lane and Funck. We
Speaker 2: have so many memories. I have so many memories. I
Speaker 2: have so many memories of your shitty relationships, like so
Speaker 2: many of going.
Speaker 3: Well, you don't have to think that hard.
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody. Let's save that one for another episode,
Speaker 2: shall we.