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Speaker 1: Misspelling with tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Look at how much water you've wait?

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Speaker 3: Is it a lot? Oh? Mann?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Should I guzzle it now? Because your your body

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Speaker 2: will quit. Your body will take a stop, wait, take

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Speaker 2: it back. It'll go into complete shock and be like,

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Speaker 2: oh what is this liquid?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I told you I started drinking water.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't taste. It doesn't taste like diet doctor pepper

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Speaker 2: or energy drink. Yeah. I drink kombucha on a regular basis.

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Speaker 3: Every day, health fade. I love them.

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Speaker 2: Really yes. Okay, well, good, I just shocked you. That's

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Speaker 2: a good you did. Shock. It's a good thing.

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Speaker 3: Coconut water Okay, I drink that, hmm.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's actually really good for you. Coconut water. The

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Speaker 2: electrolytes in it are great.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So from what I've heard, water doesn't actually hydrate you.

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Speaker 2: People think like, I'm I'm dehydrated. I should drink a

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Speaker 2: bunch of water, but you're But it's the electrolytes. It's

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Speaker 2: the salt that you're so you know, when you're sweating,

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Speaker 2: it's salty the water that's coming out. No, like you

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Speaker 2: notice if you ever like if the water drips down

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Speaker 2: your face into your mouth if you like, if you

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Speaker 2: ever get it, it's a salty So those are that's

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Speaker 2: the electrolytes.

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Speaker 3: So I just learned that.

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Speaker 2: So people that, Like, we had Dave Aspbury on our

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Speaker 2: show and he was talking about he puts like something

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Speaker 2: like eleven tea spoons of salt in a thing of water,

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Speaker 2: like when he drinks water during the day, which is

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Speaker 2: you always here like, oh, salt.

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Speaker 3: Is bad for your levels or.

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Speaker 2: So he was saying that it keeps the electrolytes in

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Speaker 2: my body balanced at all, like it it's I was like, oh, man,

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Speaker 2: I had no idea. So, yeah, drinking just plain water

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Speaker 2: is actually not hydrating you at all, which is why

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Speaker 2: sports drinks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, created never drink water.

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Speaker 2: Well, like the electrolyte packets in it, those are actually

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Speaker 2: a lot of work. It's not you just rip them

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Speaker 2: open and pour them in. It's not a lot of work.

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Speaker 3: What about salt water, It's.

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Speaker 2: Not any more work than popping the top on an

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Speaker 2: energy drink to drink it. Mhmm. Interesting, you pop the top,

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Speaker 2: you tear the top, it's the same thing.

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Speaker 3: What about salt water? What about salt water Like a

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Speaker 3: new kind of packaged water.

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Speaker 2: I don't like ocean water. That's way that the salinity

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Speaker 2: is way too much.

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Speaker 3: No, but like a business like if people, if that's true,

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Speaker 3: then why not just package it and you.

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Speaker 2: Should do it? People do though, electrolyte waters and stuff

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Speaker 2: like that. That's not like new pH pH waters electrolyte

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Speaker 2: waters sports drinks there also, I'm not not to that.

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Speaker 2: I'm like shooting down your idea because I think it's

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Speaker 2: great and you should.

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Speaker 3: God gum, when we're young, what eterade? Gum?

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Speaker 2: I do?

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Speaker 3: Do you remember?

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Speaker 2: I love Gatorade?

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Speaker 3: That because I wasn't the thing that would like it.

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Speaker 3: Would it would like stimulate your mouth.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, wow, Yeah, I'm a big fan of Gatorade.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of that flavor.

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Speaker 3: The green one, the yellow, the OgH sorry.

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Speaker 2: The yellow one is the o g one.

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Speaker 3: You see it as yellow because I see it as green. Well,

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Speaker 3: it's like greenish yellow. Are you colored blood?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: How do you know? No, I'm not because no stereotype.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 4: A lot of the boys are are inherently more color

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Speaker 2: So here's what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's test it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull up a photo of gatoring and we'll

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Speaker 2: show it around the room. Get read flavors or.

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Speaker 3: Colored flavors, because what's the original.

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Speaker 1: When we were the lemon line is the original?

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Speaker 3: It's like greenish yellow?

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Speaker 2: Is that greenish yellow? You're fucked, Ruthanne? Is that greenish

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Speaker 2: yellow to you? More yellow? It's more yellow?

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Speaker 3: Emily hmhmm.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 3: We need to look at it now.

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Speaker 2: On look. I'll even zoom in on it. Steve Green, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: w what color is the thing on your yellow? Okay? Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you're okay, so.

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Speaker 3: You're not color I'm not color blind.

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Speaker 2: I just identifying.

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Speaker 3: Oh I think I actually have an elevated eye.

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Speaker 2: You have an elevated eye, not for color.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: How you think that gatorade is green?

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Speaker 3: Well's subjective because it's art correct, it's not color is?

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Speaker 2: Color? Is is factual? No?

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Speaker 3: Based on what?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: On a color chart?

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Speaker 3: Who made that?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: You have to mix two colors to get green? Green

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Speaker 2: is not a primary color. You have to mix yellow

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Speaker 2: and you have to mix blue to get green.

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Speaker 3: You know what? My favorite color is clear?

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Speaker 2: What like water? Which is funny because you never drink water.

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Speaker 2: You would think you do nothing but drink water and

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Speaker 2: be like my favorite color in the world. Oh, I

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Speaker 2: love all of this color. I want to fill my

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Speaker 2: body with this color. But you don't no what color

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Speaker 2: are sports drinks typically? Like what color is like a

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Speaker 2: red bull?

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Speaker 3: Oh it is colored like yellow green. I don't look

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Speaker 3: at it. I drink it out of a can pop top. Okay,

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Speaker 3: better than ripping it. That'll electrolyte. Actually, my favorite color

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Speaker 3: is green. Let's not joke. Is it not my favorite cover?

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Speaker 2: And then why did you say it was clear that

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Speaker 3: A joke, got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I don't make you laugh often.

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Speaker 2: That's not true.

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Speaker 3: Kind of not really.

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Speaker 2: We when we were doing the podcast, we made a

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Speaker 2: to stay in the uncomfortableness of the conversation, which I

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Speaker 2: think was great. Yes, I think I love that conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that was really conversation.

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Speaker 2: Watch it so great to watch it. It was so

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Speaker 2: and I think for fans of you, it was really

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Speaker 2: tory that I know that Randy knows, like with your

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Speaker 2: I really like, I really loved that conversation. I loved

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Speaker 2: your vulnerability in that. I thought it was really good.

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, God, she hasn't ever had

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Speaker 2: me on her show since, Like I see all these

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Speaker 2: she just never reached out and never so I thought

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Speaker 3: On the port or you took it personally. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: about you.

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Speaker 2: It's true, which everybody does.

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Speaker 3: I know, and it's just a call. Okay, it's because

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Speaker 3: you snort too much.

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Speaker 2: That's why that's why I didn't you didn't have me

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Speaker 3: I actually asked you. We texted when you were reprising

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Speaker 3: Oldish and you were showing me some of the artwork

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Speaker 3: that you guys had done. I was like, this looks amazing.

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited. And then oh, it took everything in

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Speaker 3: my being to be like, will you do my podcast?

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Speaker 3: And you said yes? And then why did it take

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Speaker 3: scared to ask you again? I'm scared. I got to

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Speaker 3: stop using that word. I'm not scared.

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Speaker 2: God, I don't even remember that honestly, because like, as

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Speaker 2: I jumped at it. You didn't, yeah, absolutely, like made

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Speaker 2: sure that that it happened. I don't. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but I think this order was better. I agree you

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Speaker 2: doing Oldish first.

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Speaker 3: I agree doing my podcast, I was that was my default,

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Speaker 3: Because before that, I was like, well, if I can

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Speaker 2: It's easier for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's just and I because that's just my

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Speaker 3: when I did Oldish, like yeah, same like this episode, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Funny, funny moments in it, not nearly Old Oldish was

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Speaker 2: like I was so good though, so good. But I

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Speaker 2: warned you ahead of time. When you were like, hey,

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Speaker 2: we do not hold back. There was there was a

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Speaker 3: Are you gonna ask me now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So I'll ask you know on your on your podcast,

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Speaker 2: because that's the way we rolled. You have spoken in

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Speaker 2: books prior prior to this about the relationship that we had.

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Speaker 5: Mm hm.

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Speaker 2: So I I've all I've always been curious about that

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Speaker 2: because we I don't consider what we had and have

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Speaker 2: like a relationship like a fling or like a you know, well,

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Speaker 2: we were a boyfriend and girlfriend for this period of time,

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Speaker 2: so we went through all sorts of things. So I

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Speaker 2: was curious, though, why you labeled it as a relationship

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Speaker 3: I wanted to ask you about this today too, a

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Speaker 3: nice face. Oh I just got really hot, that's okay.

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Speaker 3: I'm curious how I did and did I phrase it

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I ever said because yeah, we definitely,

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Speaker 3: It was literally like a an adjustment.

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Speaker 3: The way I liked you. I had a crush on you,

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Speaker 3: like of course, like I don't know, anyone else could

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Speaker 3: It was because I'm really good at fitting in not

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Speaker 2: I can't do the roar? What do you mean I can't?

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Speaker 2: I don't do the roar? I did? Okay, I did, Yes,

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Speaker 2: No, I no, I never. I never said like anything

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Speaker 2: beyond chew Bac I would and that was it. That

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Speaker 3: I just mean again I had no like.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know, but everybody does. So everybody's got.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not trying to make you feel bad,

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Speaker 3: Trauma, trauma not on purpose.

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Speaker 2: No, it was no not on purpose, but still I'm sorry. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: has anybody ever told you you look like Chewbacca? Really?

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Speaker 3: Because my my six year old no label here he

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Speaker 2: You look like Chewbacca?

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Speaker 3: No, you're six years Oh I was talking about you

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Speaker 3: back when we were sixteen. Yeah, that sounded like I

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Speaker 3: Chewbacca to you?

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Speaker 2: this I did. I really wasn't aware of the crush

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Speaker 3: Affect you the difference.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Hmm?

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Speaker 2: If you had said something to me, I wouldn't have

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 3: This is the boy that I liked.

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Speaker 2: There was a girl in school that I had a

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Speaker 3: Wit So you didn't like me that much?

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Speaker 2: I a great I didn't. I didn't have a crush

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Speaker 2: on you.

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Speaker 3: What did you have on me? Then a first boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: I do? And then I remember you complaining about that.

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Speaker 3: I dumped him because I liked you, but like used

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Speaker 3: and like when he was around, it was weird.

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Speaker 2: Ish when he was around. When he was around because

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, not that guy. Oh oh oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: you were supposed.

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Speaker 2: To the guys I had issues with.

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Speaker 3: So no, rightfully, so actually my very Oh wait, so

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Speaker 3: I didn't start liking bad boys till after my first boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: perhaps you're responsible for the bad choices I've made with

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Speaker 2: Fair shit. Okay, So his you'll.

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Speaker 3: Remember when I tell you his name was Ryan, right,

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Speaker 3: then yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 2: I just I really liked you, so so you broke

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Speaker 3: Not because I thought you and I were going to

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Speaker 3: because I was attracted to it.

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Speaker 2: Just we were working together every day.

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Speaker 3: And then Disneyland happened, and then.

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Speaker 2: Disney Florida, Disney World.

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Speaker 3: That was before. Yeah, I think we fought.

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Speaker 2: We fought a lot at Disney World.

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Speaker 3: Disney was there, My mom was there, and he was

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Speaker 3: there too. He was there, He was there, and that

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00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 3: was the trip that I unders Oh my god, you

445
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 3: it was more than just like when you would say

446
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 3: things to me that I was like, oh, he's what

447
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 3: are we calling it? He's sexually attracted to me, Like,

448
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 3: but you don't think it at that age, but like

449
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 3: that's when I got it because you and I thought,

450
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 3: Remember we had to go on stage and present and

451
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 3: we had a huge blowout fight before.

452
00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 2: We used to have those huge blowout fights for a lot. Yeah,

453
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 2: we were like we and I think a lot of

454
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 2: that was like attraction and a lot of that was

455
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 2: like really coming of age in it all it was

456
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 2: it was a yeah, there was there was a lot

457
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,479
Speaker 2: that was going on. So that's so that's always been

458
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 2: the reason why for me. It's like when people go, oh, yeah,

459
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 2: weren't you guys dating, It's like, right, we know, we

460
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: like we lived a whole lifetime. We had ten years

461
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: of the most insane life that you could possibly have.

462
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: So to label it as that, it like belittles to

463
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: me what our relationship is. It belittles to me what

464
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 2: my relationship with anyone. When any when anyone is like, oh, yeah,

465
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: you lost your cast made It's like no, I lost

466
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 2: my brother or my sister. Like it's a different, it's

467
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 2: deeper than that. So when people when when people talk

468
00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 2: to me and they go, oh, I've been devastated. It's like,

469
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: I get it your devastation because you lost a character

470
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 2: that you love right watching on the show. I lost

471
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 2: a family member. So it's a different thing, you know. Yeah,

472
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 2: And that label of like oh, boyfriend, girlfriend or you dated,

473
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: it's like that's not that almost felt disrespectful to me

474
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 2: because it's like, no, we went through way more than

475
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: just what normal people go through when they're dating, Like oh, yeah,

476
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 2: we dated and then we broke up. Like we never

477
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 2: did anything. We never broke up. We never said like

478
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: you know, it's just you and me, like let's try,

479
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: like we never were. There were never any like boundaries

480
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: or rules or anything set to it because it like it.

481
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 2: It showed itself in so many different ways. There were

482
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 2: so many different iterations of it throughout ten years.

483
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: Can we go back to Disneyland, yes, disney World nope,

484
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: Disneyland correct, the.

485
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: Stage that came up out of the ground, Disneyland No, because.

486
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 3: See I'm going to remember it differently than you. Okay,

487
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 3: so Disneyland. We I don't know why we got like

488
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 3: all it starts from Fox. We had like a night there.

489
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: It was like they closed down the park and it

490
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: was like people there but it was all like kind

491
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 3: of internal Jenny was there.

492
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't remember it at all. I know it's

493
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: so I have those things sometimes where it's like I

494
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: have zero memory of that, but please fill me in

495
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: because then all the place is irrelevant.

496
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 3: Okay, what happened that night is what I'm referring to. Okay,

497
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: we don't remember that.

498
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 4: No, what.

499
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: Shit?

500
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: And you're you're judging me now?

501
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, I'm judging myself for mentioning it.

502
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 2: Say whatever you want.

503
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 3: Do we have sex that the first night we slept together? Yes?

504
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: Oh no, that wasn't that?

505
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 3: What do you where do you think it was?

506
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 2: Wasn't it it like Shannon's house? No?

507
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: And I no, I remember it like because I'm oh,

508
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 3: you were only the second guy I ever slept with,

509
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 3: so like obviously I remember it more like eventful, not eventful,

510
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? Like I remember details. Yeah,

511
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 3: it was like after the disney World trip in Florida.

512
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 2: Disney World was after that.

513
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 3: It was after that we were at Disneyland.

514
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 2: It was like a night Wait, so Disneyland is here,

515
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: disney World is out there, so which it's at Disneyland here.

516
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 3: We had sex for the first time at Disneyland, Disneyland

517
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 3: Land in California, California.

518
00:30:52,160 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: Correct, at Disneyland, yeah, really yeah, but in your hotel

519
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Oh okay, so not in Disneyland, like

520
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: not on a ride or anything like that, like in

521
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: the Disneyland hotel hotel, yes, correct, but like for me, yeah,

522
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 2: it was just like we.

523
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 3: Were fighting so much and I was like, yeah, anyway

524
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 3: that night drunk, uh huh okay, yeah.

525
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean yeah, because that was kind of

526
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: a theme for that early like then, Yeah, like we

527
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 2: were like going out a lot.

528
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 3: But there was a moment where we were fighting and

529
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 3: we were in the middle of Disneyland and there were

530
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: people around. I'm not going to get it right now.

531
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 3: I feel blame.

532
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: I feel so don't feel blame. Don't feel stupid.

533
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 3: I feel like such a stupid girl.

534
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: No, because you have a better memory than I do,

535
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: so good for you.

536
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm going to hide my face wise while

537
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 3: I tell you this, because you're looking at my true box.

538
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 2: I'm actually not okay, So you're doing okay.

539
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 3: Thank you, But you know it's not just you. You know,

540
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 3: my memory is very specific, like it's not like I'm

541
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously it was special to me, but I

542
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 3: remember really obscure things.

543
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: So okay.

544
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: So it was in front of.

545
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 2: Space Mountain and was it really okay?

546
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 3: Oh no, what's the one the mountain mad Horn, Mati Horn.

547
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 3: There was a bunch of people and we were having

548
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 3: our usual fighting and then you said. I was like,

549
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 3: why why are you always getting mad? Why are you

550
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: why are we always fighting? And you said, have you

551
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 3: ever thought that maybe I fight with you because I

552
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 3: love you? No? No, I did not, Yeah, and you

553
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: were probably saying like I love you, like we're sister

554
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: brother like friends. And I was like, oh, he said,

555
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: I love you. And then we started kissing.

556
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 2: Wait what I love this story. I feel like I'm

557
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: like hearing a story of you and someone else right now.

558
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is because it's it's kind of epic.

559
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, because we were we're it was like

560
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 3: out of a John Hughes.

561
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: Movie, Like literally, that's amazing.

562
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 3: Fighting and fighting like you everything the reason is because

563
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 3: I love you. And then you started kissing me in

564
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 3: the middle of public and I was like, oh my god,

565
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 3: there's people and he's kissing me like this is crazy.

566
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 3: And then You're like, do you want to get And

567
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 3: I'm like yeah, and we like and then yeah, I

568
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 3: remember the next morning, I can see, like in the

569
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 3: hotel calling Jenny on the payphone. Would that even be

570
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:51,959
Speaker 3: a thing? No, not payphone, like the we can pick

571
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 3: up the phone and call up to the rooms. They

572
00:33:54,240 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 3: didn't even have that anymore, right, Yeah, okay? And lobby phone,

573
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 3: lobby phone, Yeah, okay. I was supposed to meet her

574
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 3: and Dan. She was with her first husband Dan at

575
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 3: the time, and yeah, she was the first person. I

576
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 3: was like, you're not gonna believe what happened, Like Brian

577
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 3: and I slept together. She was like what, I'm like, yeah, no, anyway,

578
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 3: what did she say?

579
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 5: I don't remember, God, I do not so I remember

580
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 5: other times, but I do not remember that time at all.

581
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: I don't know how that's possible.

582
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: I remember because it's me boring.

583
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: I can boobs none. I can only assume.

584
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 3: Wait what so like now they have like I don't

585
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 3: know what's the version of stuff in your bra? Now

586
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 3: girls do, like they have the ones they sell and

587
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: the Amazon. But back then, I remember, like I didn't

588
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 3: have my boobs done, and I like we would put

589
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 3: tiss you.

590
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: And I remember, wait, I remember that. Wait it was

591
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 2: me pulling it out. Yeah, I remember that.

592
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I remember sleeping with me one time.

593
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 2: No, I saw I remember all. I remember a lot

594
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: of other times, but not that time. But I do

595
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 2: remember that the tissue. Yeah, that's hysterical. Oh my god.

596
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: Oh I remember that. That was all I needed. That

597
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 2: was the the visual for me, flashed me right back

598
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: into I remember that. Yeah.

599
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 3: Anyway, Wait, I'm so curious, like we have had and

600
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 3: we'll continue to have such a great relationship based on

601
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 3: so many things, because it's a lot of people have

602
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 3: friendships for an eternity, but like it was a combined thing.

603
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 3: And I wonder how, like you can't label it, but

604
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 3: what word? Like I wish there was a wording we

605
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: could make.

606
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:10,560
Speaker 2: Up that would family. Here, you're, well, you.

607
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 3: Don't fuck your family, but no, no.

608
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: You don't, not in a healthy family.

609
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. It's a good one though. Yeah,

610
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: it's like it really evolved. Yeah, term, but I don't

611
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 3: know what it would be.

612
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 2: Long long relation we have. We've been in each other's

613
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: lives longer than we haven't. You're right, Yeah, it's interesting

614
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 2: to think. Yeah, we were sixteen when we met. We're

615
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 2: now both fifty one.

616
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: I know, wait, did you know that twenty twenty five

617
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 3: will mark the twenty five year wedding anniversary of David

618
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 3: and Donna. That's I just thought about the other day.

619
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 3: The same year though, like, because we went off the

620
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 3: air in two thousand. Yeah, we got married. It was

621
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 3: the final episode. So if you think about it, right,

622
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 3: twenty five years and it's the golden Like, is that

623
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 3: the golden wedding anniversary twenty five? It's supposed to be

624
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 3: gold golden not golden?

625
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,479
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, no, wait, golden is fifty oh okay, right.

626
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 3: But twenty five is a huge, like a big marker.

627
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forget what that's called. And then diamond is

628
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: a is one hundred seventy five? One hundred is ridiculous.

629
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: Nobody is married for one hundred years. Most people aren't

630
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 2: alive for one hundred years. You're looking it up right now,

631
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 2: are you.

632
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: It's the silver silver, David, Oh my silver. This is

633
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 3: what's even crazier. Twenty five twenty twenty five will mark

634
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 3: the twenty five wedding anniversary of David and Jonnas silver.

635
00:37:58,840 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 5: What the fuck?

636
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 2: Bam? Look at how that worked.

637
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 3: That's cool.

638
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 2: Okay, this has been super fun. This has been like

639
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: a fun stroll down like Memory Lane and Funck. We

640
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 2: have so many memories. I have so many memories. I

641
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 2: have so many memories of your shitty relationships, like so

642
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,280
Speaker 2: many of going.

643
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 3: Well, you don't have to think that hard.

644
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody. Let's save that one for another episode,

645
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 2: shall we.