1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast am on 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio and welcome back to Coast to Coast, George nor 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: with your Sally Crowe. As a natural psychic medium who's 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: been aware of her gifts since childhood. We'll talk about that. 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: And for more than thirty years, she has worked as 6 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: a seer, using the terror and ruins as her tools. 7 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: With her ability to divine the future and revisit the past, 8 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: she advises her clients with compassion and a straightforward approach. 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: As a medium, she helps people to connect with their 10 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: beloved dead, family, friends and loved ones who have passed, 11 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: as well as making connections with the guiding spirits who 12 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: watch over them. As an intuitive healer, Sally Crowe is 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: dedicated to helping the beans of our planet in the 14 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: Earth itself and she is a Reiki master in six 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: schools of Raiki. That's amazing, a sound healer, druid and 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: practitioner of Rune elder in Seth Sally Crow Welcome to 17 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: Coast to Coast. Thank you, George. I'm really happy to 18 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: be here. Forward to this too. And when people hear 19 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: me mention your name, they think it's Sally s A 20 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,279 Speaker 1: L L Y, and then your last name is Crowe 21 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: tell me about the combination of your name, right, Well, 22 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: my name is Sally Crow, but it's spelled s A 23 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: L I c r Ow and Sally is my birth name, 24 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: and Crow is a spiritual name that I've worked with 25 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:32,639 Speaker 1: for probably the last thirty years, and it is also 26 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: something that is connected to my family. So more than 27 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: one person in my family uses the word crow in 28 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: connection to themselves on a spiritual level, or both my 29 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: sister and I, who are professional psychics, also use it 30 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: in our work life. How did you know you had 31 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: this gift as a little girl. Well, I was very fortunate, George, 32 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: and that my great grandmother was my first teacher. My 33 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: father was raised by his grandmother, So I'll just call 34 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: her Grammy Brown from this point forward because it makes 35 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 1: it a lot easier. So my parents were really young. 36 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: My dad was a Vietnam that my mom was actually 37 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: a teenager, and so my grandmother was Grammy Brown was 38 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: a huge part of raising me. And she was a 39 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: medicine woman. People used to come to see her for 40 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: her to look into their lives and their problems, to 41 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: talk to their dads, to have medicines or herbal concoctions, 42 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: and so I was being guided from the time I 43 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: was like three or four years old. Since this has 44 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: happened to you and you've gotten more and more pronounced 45 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: and better as the years go by, what have you 46 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: learned about all this? Well? I think that one of 47 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: the big things that I've learned is that I personally 48 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 1: believe we are going through a psychic evolution and that 49 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: more and more people are becoming more empathic, they are 50 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: having more intuitive and psychic moments themselves. And so the 51 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: biggest thing that I have really seen is that this, 52 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: in my opinion, is what we need to do in 53 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: order to be able to make it through the changes 54 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: that are coming for our planet. Is we have to 55 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: become more conscious. And I see that psychic ability is 56 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: a natural ability. So I like to tell people that 57 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:39,119 Speaker 1: you know, to remember that the word supernatural is still natural. 58 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: It's like, you know, if you go to McDonald's and 59 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: get a supersized order of fries, you're still eating fried 60 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: eating a bigger version of exactly. And so psychic ability 61 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: is an enhanced natural ability. Sally, what is it? Can 62 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: I just call you? Sally? Sure? That is what would 63 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: you say is your specialty. Oh, I've done this for 64 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: a long time. I think that when people ask me 65 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: what do people come to me for the most, I 66 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: would say spirit communication in particular. I am a well 67 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: because I'm also a healer. I'm a deep level counselor 68 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: around spirit communication. So I don't do any entertainment spirit communication. 69 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: I you know, I'm not going to go to a 70 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: haunted house. I'm not going to go I mean, if 71 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to a haunted house, I'm going to help 72 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: the family, not have some kind of entertainment value. So 73 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: spirit communication is definitely the thing that I think people 74 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: seek me out for the most. But I also have 75 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: I've been a healer for the last twenty years, and 76 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: I work a lot with people with trauma, particularly sexual trauma, 77 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: and with addiction and the pain that comes with the 78 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: end of life in grieving. So you know, I have 79 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot that I do. I actually 80 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 1: get like my local area within counselors and therapists come 81 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: to seeing themselves as well. It's in their clients to 82 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: me because I am a pretty practical person as well. 83 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: In your book, Spirit Speaker, you deal with a lot 84 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: of sensitive areas as well, such as suicides. Don't you yes, 85 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: what goes through some What goes through somebody's mind contemplating suicide? Well, 86 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what goes through each individual mind, but 87 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: what I can say that's common is that the person 88 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: is drowning in their emotions. So I have learned this 89 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: from working with the dead, that I like to describe 90 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: our emotions on a volume dial of zero to ten, 91 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: like if you're returning up your area. And most people 92 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 1: go through life or their emotions set at about a 93 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: three or four. People who are suffering from an high 94 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: level anxiety, depression and mental illness can be experiencing their 95 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: emotions as high as an eight or nine. And if 96 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: we were to imagine ourselves having to live every moment 97 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: of our life with our stereo blaring at us at 98 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: its top volume, we can understand how exhausting and overwhelming 99 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: that can be. So I think that the thing that's 100 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: going through everybody's mind when they reach that point is 101 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 1: that they're exhausted, that they feel like they've been in 102 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: how And I don't think anybody does such a thing 103 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 1: as a choice. Really, I feel like it's something that 104 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: is in many ways overwhelming, experience, do you get to 105 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: the person before they kill themselves or after they have 106 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: killed themselves. Well, I've worked with people with severe depression, anxiety, 107 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: and trauma, so I'd like to think that I've helped 108 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: some people before they get to that point. But most 109 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: of the people who I deal with around suicide, which 110 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: I do prefer to call it, have died from suicide 111 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: instead of committed suicide. I think this is an important 112 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: thing for us to think of because committed makes it 113 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: sound like it is an act a crime, when in truth, 114 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: it's really a something that comes out of deep suffering. 115 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: So when in my experience it's mostly families who have 116 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: lost somebody to suicide who come to me and I 117 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: am communicating with the spirit. That being said, like I said, 118 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: I have helped a lot of people who are struggling 119 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: with very deep depression, anxiety, addiction. So both ends. In 120 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: chapter three, you talk about the gray. The gray, So 121 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: the gray is a term that Spirit gave to me 122 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: a long time ago that refers to the space that 123 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: we enter when we may It's usually when we're dying 124 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: and whatever is going on for us, we can't get better. 125 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: So when they talk about a person being in the gray. 126 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: Most of the time they have reached a point in 127 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: their physical decline in which whatever they're doing for treatment 128 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: isn't going to work. They are on their way out. 129 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 1: And sometimes people can be in the gray when they 130 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: have recently crossed into spirit and don't know quite yet 131 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: or understand that they have passed, so they refer to 132 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: it as the gray. I talk about it a lot 133 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: like pregnancy, so you know, death and birth or two 134 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: ends of the same circle or the same passage that 135 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 1: we go through. And when somebody is pregnant, we obviously 136 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: see physical signs that a child is coming with the 137 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: mother's belly growing. And when somebody is dying, they start 138 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: to become more tangible in the spirit world, so that 139 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: means that they are likely to have more experiences with 140 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: their dad. So a lot of times this will happen 141 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: when people are, you know, either in hospice or in 142 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: nursing homes or even passing in their own home. But 143 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: when they've reached that deep state of their illness shortly 144 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: before death, they are more likely to talk about having 145 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: visitations from loved ones who's crossed into spirit. And this 146 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: is because they are in some ways almost creating that 147 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 1: portal between the realms themselves with their process of dying. 148 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: Interesting take on all of this, and what does dying 149 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: mean to most people just the end of their physical existence, 150 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: but there's much more after that tell us about the 151 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: after Yeah, yeah, well, I do think that dying is 152 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: the big the big one, right. We all have questions, 153 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: we all wonder what's going to happen. We're all going 154 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: to get there eventually, Yes, we are. And for some 155 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: people there's a tremendous amount of fear, mostly because they 156 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: don't have tangible proof that there's an afterlife. And you know, 157 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: it's one of the things that I've often said that like, 158 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: if you're a person who is a spirit sensitive, you 159 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 1: don't have to rely on faith because you're having a 160 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 1: personal experience. But most people are relying on faith. And 161 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean religious faith, but it means faith. 162 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 1: So for most people, they have to be able to 163 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: believe and count on that. The I personally believe in reincarnation. 164 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: I've never met a spirit that's been to heaven or Hell, 165 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: but I do believe that there is a you know, 166 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 1: likely a higher realm of existence. But I do not 167 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: believe that we get there in one shot. I don't 168 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: believe it's I have a lot of you know, my mind, 169 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: even as a child, wint to the idea that you know, 170 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 1: if it is one shot, how is this even close 171 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: to fair? You know, you could be born into this loving, 172 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 1: caring family with lots of opportunities, or you can be 173 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: born into war torn you know, world in which you're 174 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: starving and your parents are dead and you are given it, 175 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: done it six years old? You know that doesn't seem fair. 176 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: So and in my own experience, I, you know, have 177 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: talked to many spirits that when they die, they talk 178 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,719 Speaker 1: about becoming all that they ever were. Did you ever 179 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: meet a spirit, sally that you didn't like? Yes? Really, yeah, 180 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: tell me about that. I've met spirits that weren't healed. 181 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: That's a good way of putting it. And most of 182 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,719 Speaker 1: the time I personally work with beloved dead, so I'm 183 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: usually working with spirits that are being sought out by 184 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: their loved ones. But I've also been put in situations 185 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: in which people came to me to confront a spirit 186 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: that had hurt them in life. So the unfinished business 187 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: being more on the end of that confrontation, you know, 188 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: than the healing that was that difficult. I never really 189 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: like it, but I don't know until I get it 190 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: that situation and handle it with grace, I like to think. 191 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: I've also have helped some people to remove spirits from 192 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: their homes when that those spirits were harmful. Even though 193 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: most of the time I prefer to negotiate and just 194 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: give the spirit house rules, I have had a few 195 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: that were very, you know, unpleasant. I had a house 196 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: a family called me actually during the pandemic, and they 197 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: had a Their daughter was passing out upstairs, and when 198 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: they called, one of the first things I saw, I 199 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, if I'm looking out the middle bedroom 200 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: upstairs and my lookout, I can see that there's a 201 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: barn about katie corner from where you are. And long 202 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: story short, I was able to describe the fact that 203 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: there had they had found something in a wall when 204 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: they took part their porch. The man who was living 205 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: in their house was a really, really unpleasant human being 206 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 1: who had hurt a lot of people and had a 207 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: lot of problems with alcoholism, and he was probably one 208 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: of the least pleasant people. The spirits that I have 209 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: encountered on a personal level, because most of the time 210 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: I like to negotiate. In his case, it was just 211 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: meeting to remove him from the home. And did he 212 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: die in that house? He did not. He did not. 213 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: And that's kind of a you know, a mess that 214 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: a lot of people believe, is that we have to 215 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: die in a place in order to you know, haunt 216 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: it if you will. But it's really more that when 217 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: we had we die it, sometimes we'll go to a 218 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: place that we're very familiar with if we are not 219 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: ready to cross over. And a lot of times that 220 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: comes out of the living person's fear of death. And 221 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean everybody who's afraid of Jack is going 222 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: to get stuck. Usually there's a lot of unfinished business, 223 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: and in like this person's case, there was a lot 224 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: of misdeeds that they were not wanting to have to 225 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: look at. Um. But yeah, you don't have to die 226 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: in a place in order for a spirit to take 227 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: up residency there. It's just more likely. Is there any regret, Shelley, 228 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: from some of these spirits that have committed such heinis 229 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 1: acts when they were they do they do have regrets? Yeah, 230 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: a lot, especially because I end up. I mean, I'm 231 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: sure that This isn't surprising to anybody that you know, 232 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: we have a um an opiate crisis in our country 233 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: or in the world, but it's something that I've noticed 234 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 1: tremendously from UM you know, the last five to six years, 235 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: the amount of spirits from coming into contact with who 236 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: have passed to their own partially responsible for their own passing, 237 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: whether it was you know, potential overdose or not. And 238 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: one of the things I try to tell families is 239 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: that you almost when you have a loved one who 240 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: has mental illness of some kind, whether it's you know, 241 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: diagnosed or not, that you almost have to look at 242 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: them like two different people when they pass. There is 243 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: the addiction in the things that happen through that, and 244 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: then there is this clarity from the person that you 245 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: love because they're no longer dealing with that. That first 246 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: of all, the addiction, but second of all, you know, 247 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: remembering that when we die, our emotions get turned down 248 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: because we go back to that volume dial I was 249 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: talking about. You know that most people have the volume 250 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: set at about a three or four. People who have 251 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: a lot of anxiety or depression may have an eight 252 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: or nine on that scale of one to ten. When 253 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: we die, our emotions get turned down to about a two, 254 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 1: and that allows us to analytically review our life, to 255 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: look at it, to see not only our experience of it, 256 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: but what happened with other people and what their take 257 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: on it was or what they what was actually going 258 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: on for them. I think of it as like making 259 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 1: it more like watching something on television then having to 260 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 1: be in that deep emotional suit. So when we watch 261 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: something that's hard on television or a movie, we feel it, 262 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: but it's not as overwhelming, and so you know, those 263 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: spirits get that clarity. So that's why, you know, like 264 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 1: when we have somebody who has so much hardship around them, 265 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: in most cases where we are going to find that 266 00:17:54,600 --> 00:18:00,040 Speaker 1: there is remorse, that there is you know that you 267 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 1: get to really almost communicate with that part of that 268 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: person that you really loved and hoped to be able 269 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: to find their way back to the surface. And while 270 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: they at the same time are able to communicate about 271 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: the things that they also did they don't like suddenly 272 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,959 Speaker 1: become like, oh and nothing bad ever happened. They stuff 273 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,119 Speaker 1: to deal with those things, but they have more clarity 274 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: because their mind isn't fogged by their emotions, their mind 275 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: isn't fogged by, you know, the drugs that they may 276 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: have been taking. There's a lot more clarity. Listen to 277 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 1: More Coast to Coast AM every weeknight at one am Eastern, 278 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: and go to Coast to Coast am dot com for 279 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: more