Speaker 1: This is he said, a Ya dho with Eric Winter
Speaker 1: and Rodlin Fantas. Welcome back to another episode of He said,
Speaker 1: a yet depot post topics today, Rosy, I'm really I'm
Speaker 1: really surprised that you are going to miss an upcoming
Speaker 1: podcast episode that I'm gonna be doing with Deep Chopra
Speaker 1: that you decided you couldn't move your schedule around.
Speaker 2: Well, number one, don't say that because I'm about to
Speaker 2: not true, she's pass out because I'm misundersted you. You know, guys,
Speaker 2: I've been away and I didn't really I didn't read
Speaker 2: the email correctly. And they said, you know, can you
Speaker 2: do it this day? And I can't because I'll be
Speaker 2: in New York doing a campaign available and he has
Speaker 2: one day available and I cannot believe that I'm missing
Speaker 2: Deeprek Choprah.
Speaker 1: But I want to do.
Speaker 2: What I want to do is I want to actually
Speaker 2: put myself on tape asking questions so at least I
Speaker 2: have a presence.
Speaker 1: And then I was a minute, if I allow you to,
Speaker 1: I may not show your tape. I mean it's my episode.
Speaker 2: Well you are going to show the tame because it
Speaker 2: says he said.
Speaker 3: And he said, well, your web is busy a video exactly,
Speaker 3: he said that video, but there is no way to
Speaker 3: have that.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be a part of that episode
Speaker 2: because it's incredible.
Speaker 1: Well, the audience should send us some questions too, so
Speaker 1: we can really try to, you know, dive all in.
Speaker 2: What am I going to ask?
Speaker 1: I'm very very curious to find.
Speaker 2: It's going to be amazing.
Speaker 1: It'll be fun. I think I held down the fourth
Speaker 1: the way you were gone, I did pretty good. I
Speaker 1: had some good interviews, a good had some good fan trivia,
Speaker 1: fan questions. It was it was good. It was a
Speaker 1: good run. Listen, have you heard about this new story
Speaker 1: that just came out recently about a couple that was
Speaker 1: on a flight ordered pringles and a coke and a
Speaker 1: water and they were escorted off the plane by police
Speaker 1: because the girl's card bounced and she couldn't pay for it.
Speaker 1: And then the boyfriend said, look, just use my card,
Speaker 1: and the flight attends were like, no, we're not going
Speaker 1: to use your card. It was back and forth, arguing.
Speaker 1: They're saying that the couple refused to pay, and the
Speaker 1: couple's like, no, we didn't refuse to pay. The car
Speaker 1: just didn't work. It was a Ryanair flight and they
Speaker 1: were literally escorted off by police, embarrassed in front of the.
Speaker 2: Pringo's coke and what else?
Speaker 1: Nine dollars for an in flight payment. I've had my
Speaker 1: WiFi not work for an entire flight. I should have
Speaker 1: the freaking airline escort people off the plane for that,
Speaker 1: exactly pay for it. And I'm stuck waiting for a
Speaker 1: refund because the WiFi doesn't work.
Speaker 2: It happens to me a lot. And did you actually
Speaker 2: get a refund if the wife it doesn't work?
Speaker 1: I filed it for our trip to Parish? We take
Speaker 1: it the refund the credit.
Speaker 2: Wow. No, but let me ask you something. No flight
Speaker 2: attendant unless the family was absolutely rude and disrespectful. I
Speaker 2: understand the crew given the manetitude, but there's no nobody
Speaker 2: had the heart or the compassion to be like, you
Speaker 2: know what, I'm sorry. Nine dollars, I'll cover it, Thank you,
Speaker 2: We appreciate your business. And nobody, no passenger always like
Speaker 2: let me bail them out, they have no cash. I
Speaker 2: don't get it.
Speaker 1: So confused by it all that? If I mean, if
Speaker 1: I was in a situation like that, I was sitting
Speaker 1: next to them, I would have definitely First of all,
Speaker 1: I would pay the nine dollars and a tip just
Speaker 1: to not deal with the police coming on the plane
Speaker 1: because it would slow down everybody's exit from the plane.
Speaker 2: But the police shouldn't be called for nine dollars.
Speaker 1: Don't you agree? Though, I'll give them twenty bucks just
Speaker 1: to say, let this go away. I don't want to
Speaker 1: wait for the police to come on because of these
Speaker 1: two people and the argument the biginning.
Speaker 2: No, I think they flew and when they landed the police.
Speaker 1: I know, but you can't exit the plane until the
Speaker 1: police come out and escort them off.
Speaker 2: Got it?
Speaker 1: So that probably added another thirty forty minutes to the plane. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it's all ridiculous, and I think that airline
Speaker 2: is going to get a lot of heats because it
Speaker 2: makes no sense.
Speaker 1: It's nine dollars, doesn't make any sense?
Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: People? Even if they were trying to take the nine dollars,
Speaker 1: it's nine bucks. I said.
Speaker 2: People can be crazy. And if they caused a scene
Speaker 2: and they were disrespectful and da da dad, You're like,
Speaker 2: you know what, We're going to teach everybody a lesson
Speaker 2: not to mess with crew with a crew because I
Speaker 2: know they do take a lot of heat. You know,
Speaker 2: they deal with thousands of people every single month, and
Speaker 2: you know human beings can be a little tricky, So
Speaker 2: I think their tolerance is very, very, very minimal.
Speaker 1: It's very It's very.
Speaker 2: If there's footage showing that the person was like, listen,
Speaker 2: there is a hiccup with the system. We try to
Speaker 2: pay it didn't work. Sorry, I don't have cash. Can
Speaker 2: somebody bail me out? If they were actually civil about it,
Speaker 2: and the flight attendance decided to just cause a problem,
Speaker 2: then I have no tolerance for that. I would have
Speaker 2: lost my shit.
Speaker 1: What's the weirdest thing that's ever happened to you on a plane?
Speaker 1: Anything you can think of? I mean, besides you trying
Speaker 1: to take off your clothes. That's probably a pretty weird
Speaker 1: thing for most people on the plane because you had
Speaker 1: a panic attack. But is there anything else that's happened
Speaker 1: to you when you were not having a panic attack
Speaker 1: that was weird?
Speaker 2: Well, Mota. When I had Mota and I was traveling
Speaker 2: with my dog, and I used to be very relaxed
Speaker 2: before I met Eric. Of course, we don't even travel
Speaker 2: with the dogs as much. I never traveled without my children,
Speaker 2: my doggies. Now they really go anywhere because they.
Speaker 1: Well they're not really laptop Archie start here freaks out
Speaker 1: about everything.
Speaker 2: Anyways, So I was traveling with Mota and I opened
Speaker 2: the little canne for her because I wanted her just
Speaker 2: to stretch, and she basically left and started walking, started
Speaker 2: walking down the aisle, and I was doing something I
Speaker 2: didn't notice, of course, and she took a ship. She
Speaker 2: took a kaka on somebody's feet.
Speaker 1: Oh you would have died, I would you would have died.
Speaker 2: This is a true story, Eric, and I remember going,
Speaker 2: oh my god, Mota, Oh my god. I stank, but
Speaker 2: I said, it is what So I went over and
Speaker 2: said my apologies, and I cleaned it up.
Speaker 1: He was okay, Oh I mean.
Speaker 2: He was, but he was like containing himself.
Speaker 1: And I knew it because I wasn't even met at
Speaker 1: the dog. I'd be upset with you, the owner, but
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it.
Speaker 2: But that's so, and it's a little white less absolutely amazing.
Speaker 2: I know, I know it doesn't matter. Would you see
Speaker 2: that happens to me because I'm a dog all over.
Speaker 2: Let's say I'm I'm insat a plane and a dog
Speaker 2: comes over and has an accident on my feet or
Speaker 2: my bag. It wouldn't bother me at all.
Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, so long ago. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: that's so long ago that maybe this wouldn't have happened then.
Speaker 1: But and I don't know if you were flying with
Speaker 1: me when this happened.
Speaker 2: There was no police worry for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's But were you flying with
Speaker 1: me when this happened? But there was a time where
Speaker 1: I was on a plane. Yeah, a little kid. No
Speaker 1: one I've talked about the pen I know. I'm another
Speaker 1: one where a little kid was walking down the aisle
Speaker 1: to go to their seat and poop pellets fell out
Speaker 1: of the kid's pant, threw the diaper and left like
Speaker 1: three poops in the aisle. It shut down the plane
Speaker 1: for about forty five minutes. Why they had to bring
Speaker 1: a sanitation crew staring at the poop on the floor.
Speaker 1: No one's allowed to pick it up. You couldn't get
Speaker 1: a cleenics and just pick it up, put it in
Speaker 1: the lavatory.
Speaker 2: I went back and forth with the tendons a flight
Speaker 2: attendance station, getting papers and making them wet and going
Speaker 2: over and picking it up and going to the toilet.
Speaker 2: I took care of everything because I was so embarrassed
Speaker 2: and I was just trying to do the situation. But
Speaker 2: nobody gave me a problem. The guy kept his composure.
Speaker 2: I was not thrown out of This was a long
Speaker 2: time ago.
Speaker 1: So maybe if it happened nowadays, that would have happened.
Speaker 1: And this happened with a person forty five minute delayed
Speaker 1: to take off. Now, if you're in the middle of
Speaker 1: the air, we were in the middle of different We
Speaker 1: were find out you could do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were fineing.
Speaker 1: I bet you it would have delayed even nowadays. The
Speaker 1: next people from boarding. It took us forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: They had to bring up very way. They had to
Speaker 1: bring a full sanitation crew in with vacuum and sprays
Speaker 1: for this little kid's poop pellets that were on in
Speaker 1: the aisle. It was insane. I'm literally watching.
Speaker 2: What happens that happens to you. If we travel with
Speaker 2: Archie Bandit and that happens like next week, will you
Speaker 2: like break out? Really well, you shouldn't get because it
Speaker 2: is an accent. But that's that's why you like a
Speaker 2: basket case. It happened to be in san Francisco.
Speaker 1: I was doing the same way. You get a panic
Speaker 1: attack because we're sitting in the tarmac.
Speaker 2: You're going to get a panic attack.
Speaker 1: Stop pooped ship on somebody's foot. Yeah, bring out. I'd
Speaker 1: be so embarrassed. Wow, that kills. I didn't mind it
Speaker 1: at all.
Speaker 2: It happened to me at I was in San Francisco
Speaker 2: doing what is the show that I didn't We don't.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Shish Marine and oh my god, they
Speaker 2: got Natch bridges and I I'm with Mota and I
Speaker 2: go to and I'll never forget Iskata. You know that
Speaker 2: the brand is Skata, so it's a high end brand.
Speaker 2: So I walk into the thing and I have her
Speaker 2: and did the same thing's going through the things with me,
Speaker 2: and then stops and takes Gaca right in the middle
Speaker 2: of the store. And I was like Jesus the Lord,
Speaker 2: so I had to clean it up.
Speaker 1: Nightmare. It is nightmare. Listen.
Speaker 2: They're like babies, and if you have a problem, then
Speaker 2: you're the problem.
Speaker 1: You're not. But you could also take your dog potty
Speaker 1: before going into a store.
Speaker 2: I was walking down the streets.
Speaker 1: She could have done it, not in the middle of
Speaker 1: a store. I was walking through the street Francisco. She
Speaker 1: could have done it.
Speaker 2: I don't know why she decided to do it there.
Speaker 1: I don't know that's crazy. Anyways, listen, I have another
Speaker 1: question for you. Yep. This was talked about with like
Speaker 1: psychologists and all these sorts of things. Wood. Should dads
Speaker 1: bring their daughters into the men's bathroom or the women's bathroom,
Speaker 1: they asked experts. An expert said it should always be
Speaker 1: within the men's bathroom. I would agree that a man
Speaker 1: should not go into the women's bathroom. Would you agree, yes, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any way around it. I don't
Speaker 1: think a man should walk into the women's bathroom to
Speaker 1: take to make the girl feel more comfortable going to
Speaker 1: the women's bathroom. Yeah, And I think a boy can
Speaker 1: go into the women's bathroom or the men's bathroom.
Speaker 2: In dying, I don't go to the men's bathroom. I
Speaker 2: bring Dylan to the girl's bathroom. But I wonder if
Speaker 2: if he's like, at what point he's going to be
Speaker 2: like I can do about myself, Mom, I don't need you,
Speaker 2: But at what point is it old enough that I
Speaker 2: should not bring him to the women's bathroom.
Speaker 1: I don't know what ages start doing with the bella
Speaker 1: where letter? Now she just goes into the bathroom. Now
Speaker 1: and goes to the bathroom. Dylan's got a ways to go,
Speaker 1: but I'd say it's up there, you know, into that.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you something, how we talked, how we
Speaker 2: talked about Adolescence. Oh, you haven't seen it?
Speaker 1: No, you know. I guess they're doing a part two
Speaker 1: season two as Brad Pitt's company.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the most besides Succession, guys, And I think
Speaker 2: Adolescence is the best thing I've ever seen TV wise
Speaker 2: or streaming wise in my life. It was a perfect show,
Speaker 2: and it's so crazy. Everything about it is just absolute perfection,
Speaker 2: even though it's just a Plano Sequenceia, which is one shot.
Speaker 2: The entire hour is just one shot. It blew my
Speaker 2: mind how they could do that. But it's the social
Speaker 2: media component, Eric, of kids nowadays, you know, because they
Speaker 2: without giving it away because you haven't seen it, the fire,
Speaker 2: the you have to have to watch shows. It's too important, especially.
Speaker 1: Because we have an a dolar you to know.
Speaker 2: No. But Eric, it's like parents are so wrong and
Speaker 2: and we think that we're doing everything right because we're
Speaker 2: strict and we are all over our kids, you know,
Speaker 2: we're all over Sabella. But she does have a phone,
Speaker 2: and she has she's asking for a snapshot, doesn't have
Speaker 2: it yet, but they have access to so much and
Speaker 2: a lot of her friends do have TikTok and Instagram
Speaker 2: and the snapshot, So when they're at school, she has
Speaker 2: access to all these things. And the way the kids
Speaker 2: communicate their brewt and bolling is brutal and social media
Speaker 2: eighty five percent of the time, your kid is most
Speaker 2: likely most likely going through something feeling something because they're friends,
Speaker 2: other students, or people are making them feel something, and
Speaker 2: parents have absolutely nothing what they're going through mentally and psychologically,
Speaker 2: because you think you have a normal child and you
Speaker 2: think you're doing everything right, and then something tragic happens
Speaker 2: and then you learn about all the stuff that you
Speaker 2: did not pay attention to that you should have paid
Speaker 2: attention to, and it's crazy, Like I'm gonna give you
Speaker 2: it's it's such a fine line on a.
Speaker 1: You agree with parents checking kids texts, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's what I was gonna say, Like, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna give you an example, guys, So we get Sabella's texts,
Speaker 2: you know, and she knows that we do right. She
Speaker 2: doesn't know, she.
Speaker 1: Doesn't know that we get them, but she knows that
Speaker 1: we check them and we're allowed to check them whenever
Speaker 1: we want. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So two days ago, Eric shows me this exchange from
Speaker 2: her friends. Another friend is asking to join the group,
Speaker 2: the group because you know, they have clicks, and we
Speaker 2: read the whole exchange between her click about years or no,
Speaker 2: and this is how I feel and blah blah, bah blah.
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, they're rejected. They decided collectively.
Speaker 1: Rejected in the mean way, which is that some of
Speaker 1: the kids in the group don't necessarily get along with
Speaker 1: that person as well. And they said, no problem if
Speaker 1: she wants to come hang out for a bit. But
Speaker 1: I guess the way these groups are is like hanging
Speaker 1: out in the group permanently, and I and part of me,
Speaker 1: I understand both sides of it. I understand that I
Speaker 1: feel bad if my kid everyone to hang out in
Speaker 1: a group and they were like, no, you're not going
Speaker 1: to hang out in the group. But I also understand
Speaker 1: the side of like if somebody comes and hanging out,
Speaker 1: hangs out in a tight knit group of people, and
Speaker 1: that person doesn't get along with everybody in the group.
Speaker 1: Then it disrupts the harmony of this kids hanging out.
Speaker 1: I know, so it's a really weird fine line to walk.
Speaker 2: But then put yourself in the shoes.
Speaker 1: Over they handle it.
Speaker 2: The girl that is requesting, can I please sit with you? Guys,
Speaker 2: not only one day, maybe for many lunches.
Speaker 1: Right, And they did say you can definitely stop by,
Speaker 1: but we've told other kids that they can't. Like I know,
Speaker 1: but what kills me is I hate it.
Speaker 2: I can't guarantee you that that girl, even though the
Speaker 2: text back was very respectful, you know, she was still
Speaker 2: kind of rejected. You can come, but doesn't mean that
Speaker 2: you're going to be part of the group because I know,
Speaker 2: but just it's just I'm just giving you this example
Speaker 2: because we're going back to you don't know how that
Speaker 2: girl is going to feel psychologically when she said, can
Speaker 2: I be a part of the group, No, you can't
Speaker 2: have way, not completely. You know, it sucks. And then
Speaker 2: and listen Sabella's click. Everybody was respectful and and Sabella
Speaker 2: herself used the word respectfully, I think we shouldn't do it.
Speaker 2: And another one handled it even better, saying, but guys,
Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that she has to be part of
Speaker 2: the group, but I think it'll be nice if we
Speaker 2: allow her. So they all had an opinion, and we
Speaker 2: I am not able to say sabout I come over here,
Speaker 2: what the heck is happening because we know all these
Speaker 2: parents and we know the girl that is asking to
Speaker 2: be to join the group really well. So it's uncomfortable
Speaker 2: that we cannot say anything.
Speaker 1: Let me flip this on you, as an adult, you
Speaker 1: have a core group of girls that are friends of yours.
Speaker 1: You like to go out to dinner a lot, and
Speaker 1: somebody says, I want to bring somebody so and so
Speaker 1: who you know? Irks you or will shift the entire
Speaker 1: way that dinner is going to go. Can't be as free,
Speaker 1: can't maybe open up as much, can't be yourself as much?
Speaker 1: How are you going to feel? Would you just back
Speaker 1: out of those dinners?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, And I'm an adult. It's completely different if
Speaker 2: this happens to me. I'm fifty one years old, and
Speaker 2: I do have my cliques, and I do have friends
Speaker 2: of my friends that I just go eh, I'm not crazy.
Speaker 2: And I have been in dinners when somebody's there that
Speaker 2: there's three of us that we just go. But I'm
Speaker 2: an adult and I know how to handle it and
Speaker 2: it's not going to affect me.
Speaker 1: But I do think I handled it fairly, respectfully, true,
Speaker 1: did the line how to be respectful somebody who could
Speaker 1: change the dynamics of their group. But my point is
Speaker 1: it's hard.
Speaker 2: I would like to just say, Isabella, this is what happened,
Speaker 2: and we saw this exchange, and this is how we
Speaker 2: feel about it, and let me help you navigate this
Speaker 2: whole thing. But if we tell her that we read it,
Speaker 2: then she's gonna.
Speaker 1: I would have fully agreed, and I would have stepped
Speaker 1: in if I saw Sabella did something that was rude, inappropriate,
Speaker 1: or bullying or bullying, like if she was bullying or
Speaker 1: she was me, then I would have fully stepped in
Speaker 1: and said that can't happen. You're gonna have to treat
Speaker 1: this kid differently. But because they were respectful and said, sure,
Speaker 1: you can come by and hang out, but we haven't really.
Speaker 2: But it's still sad.
Speaker 1: It is It is because you want to have.
Speaker 2: The girl that says, oh my god, absolutely, but it's
Speaker 2: not about.
Speaker 1: Her only it's about a group. So there's multiple people
Speaker 1: who have an opinion. That's the tricky part, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. That's what I think. That's why it's
Speaker 1: a little bit of a tough tough one to walk,
Speaker 1: to walk the line on. But you know, I don't
Speaker 1: like the clicks and the groups anyways, But that's how
Speaker 1: all these schools navigate. That's how all these schools operate,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: It's not cool. So the Internes is current favorite show
Speaker 2: is a fictional group chat on TikTok.
Speaker 1: Have you watched this at all? It's a TikTok. It's
Speaker 1: a person who's acting out group chats girls group chats
Speaker 1: on her TikTok and apparently it's doing extremely well because
Speaker 1: she's doing very funny stuff. What does that mean. She's
Speaker 1: she's seen a group chat from different girls and she's
Speaker 1: acting it out, bringing it to life on TikTok and
Speaker 1: it's getting twenty million views, a bunch of different hits.
Speaker 1: It's doing well. She's she's making a little name for
Speaker 1: herself as an influencer. What do you think? I don't know.
Speaker 2: I have to check it out. I don't really have
Speaker 2: an opinion because I don't I have to see it.
Speaker 1: Lovely brands are name jumping on it. People are excited
Speaker 1: about her. I don't mind someone finding their own new
Speaker 1: way and they're doing clever content and you're basically finding
Speaker 1: a script. It's like you're getting group text that's your
Speaker 1: script and you're acting it out.
Speaker 2: You know what's interesting. There's this other thing now that
Speaker 2: is becoming really big and I have a friend of
Speaker 2: mine doing it. It's like it's like a YouTube channel,
Speaker 2: but they're shorts. They're like episodes that are like five minutes,
Speaker 2: so they're like mini mini mini minuis of operas or
Speaker 2: mini meaning. So every episode is very very short because
Speaker 2: they're saying that people nowadays they just want to go
Speaker 2: boom boom boom. They don't have the time or the
Speaker 2: attention span to be like investing a whole hour, so
Speaker 2: people want things that that fast gratification. So they're like
Speaker 2: a full episode that is just five minutes.
Speaker 1: Four minutes.
Speaker 2: There are many mini mini content, and I guess it's doing.
Speaker 1: Huge on what platform is on YouTube?
Speaker 2: I think YouTube, but then there's different platforms. Car Responsor
Speaker 2: is pushing one really yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean that's why people love I think TikTok. They
Speaker 1: get these many short versions of things they think they watch.
Speaker 1: I think that's what t B tried to do. Two
Speaker 1: B tried to do. Wasn't it to be? Not too?
Speaker 1: What was the other one that tried to do with
Speaker 1: the fair Yeah, I don't know. Was it to be?
Speaker 2: It was?
Speaker 1: It was?
Speaker 2: What is this guy?
Speaker 1: He's here?
Speaker 2: No it's not, it's not. I don't think there's a name.
Speaker 1: What was it that was trying to do short form content?
Speaker 1: It raised a bunch of money and then it folded.
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't it wasn't to be.
Speaker 1: I forgot what it was. But I know that's a
Speaker 1: big way that the younger generation is watching content now
Speaker 1: or short clips, you know, breaking through. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think this is a clever thing on TikTok. We
Speaker 1: might want to check it out. Maybe she's got something
Speaker 1: good going. All right, Well this was fun. We talked
Speaker 1: about a lot. We read it all. I love you,
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