WEBVTT - You’re Fine WIth That? 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.000 This is he said, a Ya dho with Eric Winter 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:08.880 and Rodlin Fantas. Welcome back to another episode of He said, 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:18.279 a yet depot post topics today, Rosy, I'm really I'm 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.280 really surprised that you are going to miss an upcoming 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:24.000 podcast episode that I'm gonna be doing with Deep Chopra 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.600 that you decided you couldn't move your schedule around. 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:32.239 Well, number one, don't say that because I'm about to 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:35.720 not true, she's pass out because I'm misundersted you. You know, guys, 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:39.600 I've been away and I didn't really I didn't read 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:43.159 the email correctly. And they said, you know, can you 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.720 do it this day? And I can't because I'll be 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:49.040 in New York doing a campaign available and he has 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.159 one day available and I cannot believe that I'm missing 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:52.600 Deeprek Choprah. 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:53.159 But I want to do. 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:54.640 What I want to do is I want to actually 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:57.880 put myself on tape asking questions so at least I 0:00:57.960 --> 0:00:58.639 have a presence. 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.840 And then I was a minute, if I allow you to, 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:05.120 I may not show your tape. I mean it's my episode. 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:07.959 Well you are going to show the tame because it 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:09.240 says he said. 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:17.440 And he said, well, your web is busy a video exactly, 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:21.600 he said that video, but there is no way to 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:22.920 have that. 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:25.240 I'm not going to be a part of that episode 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:26.360 because it's incredible. 0:01:26.440 --> 0:01:28.160 Well, the audience should send us some questions too, so 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:30.320 we can really try to, you know, dive all in. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.480 What am I going to ask? 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.320 I'm very very curious to find. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:35.720 It's going to be amazing. 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:37.320 It'll be fun. I think I held down the fourth 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:38.720 the way you were gone, I did pretty good. I 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:42.560 had some good interviews, a good had some good fan trivia, 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:44.679 fan questions. It was it was good. It was a 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:48.040 good run. Listen, have you heard about this new story 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.360 that just came out recently about a couple that was 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:54.400 on a flight ordered pringles and a coke and a 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:57.960 water and they were escorted off the plane by police 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.920 because the girl's card bounced and she couldn't pay for it. 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:03.000 And then the boyfriend said, look, just use my card, 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:04.840 and the flight attends were like, no, we're not going 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.680 to use your card. It was back and forth, arguing. 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.000 They're saying that the couple refused to pay, and the 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.560 couple's like, no, we didn't refuse to pay. The car 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:14.639 just didn't work. It was a Ryanair flight and they 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:19.680 were literally escorted off by police, embarrassed in front of the. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:22.480 Pringo's coke and what else? 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:27.400 Nine dollars for an in flight payment. I've had my 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.240 WiFi not work for an entire flight. I should have 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.520 the freaking airline escort people off the plane for that, 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.360 exactly pay for it. And I'm stuck waiting for a 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.040 refund because the WiFi doesn't work. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:39.919 It happens to me a lot. And did you actually 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.560 get a refund if the wife it doesn't work? 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.880 I filed it for our trip to Parish? We take 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:45.720 it the refund the credit. 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.240 Wow. No, but let me ask you something. No flight 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:54.079 attendant unless the family was absolutely rude and disrespectful. I 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:59.200 understand the crew given the manetitude, but there's no nobody 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.880 had the heart or the compassion to be like, you 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.880 know what, I'm sorry. Nine dollars, I'll cover it, Thank you, 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:08.960 We appreciate your business. And nobody, no passenger always like 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:11.280 let me bail them out, they have no cash. I 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:11.880 don't get it. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.080 So confused by it all that? If I mean, if 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:16.520 I was in a situation like that, I was sitting 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:18.720 next to them, I would have definitely First of all, 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:22.280 I would pay the nine dollars and a tip just 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:23.880 to not deal with the police coming on the plane 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.560 because it would slow down everybody's exit from the plane. 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.720 But the police shouldn't be called for nine dollars. 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:31.840 Don't you agree? Though, I'll give them twenty bucks just 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:33.679 to say, let this go away. I don't want to 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:35.840 wait for the police to come on because of these 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:37.600 two people and the argument the biginning. 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.760 No, I think they flew and when they landed the police. 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.400 I know, but you can't exit the plane until the 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:43.920 police come out and escort them off. 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:44.280 Got it? 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:47.520 So that probably added another thirty forty minutes to the plane. Yeah. 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:49.760 I think it's all ridiculous, and I think that airline 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:51.480 is going to get a lot of heats because it 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:52.000 makes no sense. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:53.480 It's nine dollars, doesn't make any sense? 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:54.560 Are you kidding me? 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:58.600 People? Even if they were trying to take the nine dollars, 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.480 it's nine bucks. I said. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.000 People can be crazy. And if they caused a scene 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.920 and they were disrespectful and da da dad, You're like, 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:08.880 you know what, We're going to teach everybody a lesson 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:12.360 not to mess with crew with a crew because I 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:13.760 know they do take a lot of heat. You know, 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.400 they deal with thousands of people every single month, and 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.560 you know human beings can be a little tricky, So 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:21.600 I think their tolerance is very, very, very minimal. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:25.520 It's very It's very. 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:28.680 If there's footage showing that the person was like, listen, 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.159 there is a hiccup with the system. We try to 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:34.400 pay it didn't work. Sorry, I don't have cash. Can 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.280 somebody bail me out? If they were actually civil about it, 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:41.320 and the flight attendance decided to just cause a problem, 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:43.919 then I have no tolerance for that. I would have 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:44.960 lost my shit. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.119 What's the weirdest thing that's ever happened to you on a plane? 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.320 Anything you can think of? I mean, besides you trying 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.200 to take off your clothes. That's probably a pretty weird 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:53.240 thing for most people on the plane because you had 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:55.279 a panic attack. But is there anything else that's happened 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:56.919 to you when you were not having a panic attack 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:57.440 that was weird? 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:01.719 Well, Mota. When I had Mota and I was traveling 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:05.040 with my dog, and I used to be very relaxed 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:08.000 before I met Eric. Of course, we don't even travel 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.440 with the dogs as much. I never traveled without my children, 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:14.640 my doggies. Now they really go anywhere because they. 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:20.080 Well they're not really laptop Archie start here freaks out 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:20.640 about everything. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:24.359 Anyways, So I was traveling with Mota and I opened 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:26.880 the little canne for her because I wanted her just 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:32.679 to stretch, and she basically left and started walking, started 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:35.320 walking down the aisle, and I was doing something I 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:38.880 didn't notice, of course, and she took a ship. She 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.839 took a kaka on somebody's feet. 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:45.080 Oh you would have died, I would you would have died. 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.680 This is a true story, Eric, and I remember going, 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:50.839 oh my god, Mota, Oh my god. I stank, but 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:52.400 I said, it is what So I went over and 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:54.599 said my apologies, and I cleaned it up. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:57.560 He was okay, Oh I mean. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.119 He was, but he was like containing himself. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.719 And I knew it because I wasn't even met at 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.560 the dog. I'd be upset with you, the owner, but 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:07.640 I didn't mean it. 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:11.760 But that's so, and it's a little white less absolutely amazing. 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.320 I know, I know it doesn't matter. Would you see 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:16.840 that happens to me because I'm a dog all over. 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.200 Let's say I'm I'm insat a plane and a dog 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:21.839 comes over and has an accident on my feet or 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:23.560 my bag. It wouldn't bother me at all. 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:26.200 Okay, first of all, so long ago. I'll be like, 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:30.520 that's so long ago that maybe this wouldn't have happened then. 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.000 But and I don't know if you were flying with 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:32.760 me when this happened. 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:34.240 There was no police worry for me. 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:36.000 I don't know if there's But were you flying with 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:39.000 me when this happened? But there was a time where 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:42.080 I was on a plane. Yeah, a little kid. No 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.479 one I've talked about the pen I know. I'm another 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.960 one where a little kid was walking down the aisle 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.800 to go to their seat and poop pellets fell out 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:55.520 of the kid's pant, threw the diaper and left like 0:06:55.640 --> 0:07:00.160 three poops in the aisle. It shut down the plane 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:04.080 for about forty five minutes. Why they had to bring 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:08.080 a sanitation crew staring at the poop on the floor. 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.320 No one's allowed to pick it up. You couldn't get 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:11.520 a cleenics and just pick it up, put it in 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:12.040 the lavatory. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.680 I went back and forth with the tendons a flight 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:19.960 attendance station, getting papers and making them wet and going 0:07:20.000 --> 0:07:22.360 over and picking it up and going to the toilet. 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:24.280 I took care of everything because I was so embarrassed 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.480 and I was just trying to do the situation. But 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.400 nobody gave me a problem. The guy kept his composure. 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.760 I was not thrown out of This was a long 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:32.200 time ago. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:35.440 So maybe if it happened nowadays, that would have happened. 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:39.239 And this happened with a person forty five minute delayed 0:07:39.240 --> 0:07:40.960 to take off. Now, if you're in the middle of 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:42.680 the air, we were in the middle of different We 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:43.640 were find out you could do. 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:44.320 Yeah, we were fineing. 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:46.920 I bet you it would have delayed even nowadays. The 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:49.600 next people from boarding. It took us forty five minutes. 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:51.120 They had to bring up very way. They had to 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:54.000 bring a full sanitation crew in with vacuum and sprays 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:56.680 for this little kid's poop pellets that were on in 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.920 the aisle. It was insane. I'm literally watching. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.320 What happens that happens to you. If we travel with 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.080 Archie Bandit and that happens like next week, will you 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:09.000 like break out? Really well, you shouldn't get because it 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.120 is an accent. But that's that's why you like a 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:13.080 basket case. It happened to be in san Francisco. 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:14.760 I was doing the same way. You get a panic 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:16.720 attack because we're sitting in the tarmac. 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.400 You're going to get a panic attack. 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:22.400 Stop pooped ship on somebody's foot. Yeah, bring out. I'd 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:26.000 be so embarrassed. Wow, that kills. I didn't mind it 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:26.320 at all. 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.880 It happened to me at I was in San Francisco 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:30.920 doing what is the show that I didn't We don't. 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:36.080 Oh my god, Shish Marine and oh my god, they 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:40.360 got Natch bridges and I I'm with Mota and I 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:42.600 go to and I'll never forget Iskata. You know that 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:45.080 the brand is Skata, so it's a high end brand. 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.160 So I walk into the thing and I have her 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.600 and did the same thing's going through the things with me, 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:52.520 and then stops and takes Gaca right in the middle 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:54.240 of the store. And I was like Jesus the Lord, 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:55.679 so I had to clean it up. 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:01.680 Nightmare. It is nightmare. Listen. 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.000 They're like babies, and if you have a problem, then 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:04.760 you're the problem. 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:07.199 You're not. But you could also take your dog potty 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:08.120 before going into a store. 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:09.440 I was walking down the streets. 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:10.880 She could have done it, not in the middle of 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:16.640 a store. I was walking through the street Francisco. She 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:17.199 could have done it. 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:18.920 I don't know why she decided to do it there. 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:21.800 I don't know that's crazy. Anyways, listen, I have another 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:26.480 question for you. Yep. This was talked about with like 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:29.760 psychologists and all these sorts of things. Wood. Should dads 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:33.880 bring their daughters into the men's bathroom or the women's bathroom, 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.679 they asked experts. An expert said it should always be 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:41.760 within the men's bathroom. I would agree that a man 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:47.880 should not go into the women's bathroom. Would you agree, yes, Yeah, 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:49.680 I don't think there's any way around it. I don't 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.640 think a man should walk into the women's bathroom to 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:54.839 take to make the girl feel more comfortable going to 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:58.199 the women's bathroom. Yeah, And I think a boy can 0:09:58.200 --> 0:09:59.839 go into the women's bathroom or the men's bathroom. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:03.400 In dying, I don't go to the men's bathroom. I 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.679 bring Dylan to the girl's bathroom. But I wonder if 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:08.079 if he's like, at what point he's going to be 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:10.280 like I can do about myself, Mom, I don't need you, 0:10:10.320 --> 0:10:13.960 But at what point is it old enough that I 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:16.400 should not bring him to the women's bathroom. 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:17.960 I don't know what ages start doing with the bella 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:19.760 where letter? Now she just goes into the bathroom. Now 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:23.480 and goes to the bathroom. Dylan's got a ways to go, 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:26.000 but I'd say it's up there, you know, into that. 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.120 Let me ask you something, how we talked, how we 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:32.679 talked about Adolescence. Oh, you haven't seen it? 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:36.600 No, you know. I guess they're doing a part two 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:38.760 season two as Brad Pitt's company. 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:44.960 Yeah, that's the most besides Succession, guys, And I think 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:48.439 Adolescence is the best thing I've ever seen TV wise 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:52.920 or streaming wise in my life. It was a perfect show, 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:58.199 and it's so crazy. Everything about it is just absolute perfection, 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.600 even though it's just a Plano Sequenceia, which is one shot. 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:07.720 The entire hour is just one shot. It blew my 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:12.320 mind how they could do that. But it's the social 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:16.080 media component, Eric, of kids nowadays, you know, because they 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:19.720 without giving it away because you haven't seen it, the fire, 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:25.440 the you have to have to watch shows. It's too important, especially. 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:27.720 Because we have an a dolar you to know. 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:35.600 No. But Eric, it's like parents are so wrong and 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.520 and we think that we're doing everything right because we're 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:41.360 strict and we are all over our kids, you know, 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.360 we're all over Sabella. But she does have a phone, 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.880 and she has she's asking for a snapshot, doesn't have 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.880 it yet, but they have access to so much and 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.000 a lot of her friends do have TikTok and Instagram 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:56.679 and the snapshot, So when they're at school, she has 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:59.120 access to all these things. And the way the kids 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:03.960 communicate their brewt and bolling is brutal and social media 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:06.120 eighty five percent of the time, your kid is most 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:11.679 likely most likely going through something feeling something because they're friends, 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:17.040 other students, or people are making them feel something, and 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:20.920 parents have absolutely nothing what they're going through mentally and psychologically, 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.480 because you think you have a normal child and you 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:27.040 think you're doing everything right, and then something tragic happens 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:30.080 and then you learn about all the stuff that you 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.880 did not pay attention to that you should have paid 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.480 attention to, and it's crazy, Like I'm gonna give you 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.160 it's it's such a fine line on a. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:40.160 You agree with parents checking kids texts, right. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:41.559 Yeah, but that's what I was gonna say, Like, I'm 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.120 gonna give you an example, guys, So we get Sabella's texts, 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:46.760 you know, and she knows that we do right. She 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:47.600 doesn't know, she. 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:48.719 Doesn't know that we get them, but she knows that 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:50.560 we check them and we're allowed to check them whenever 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:51.240 we want. Yeah. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:55.280 So two days ago, Eric shows me this exchange from 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:59.559 her friends. Another friend is asking to join the group, 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:04.160 the group because you know, they have clicks, and we 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:08.120 read the whole exchange between her click about years or no, 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.480 and this is how I feel and blah blah, bah blah. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:14.560 At the end of the day, they're rejected. They decided collectively. 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.360 Rejected in the mean way, which is that some of 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:17.480 the kids in the group don't necessarily get along with 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:20.520 that person as well. And they said, no problem if 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.280 she wants to come hang out for a bit. But 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.079 I guess the way these groups are is like hanging 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:27.880 out in the group permanently, and I and part of me, 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:31.520 I understand both sides of it. I understand that I 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.960 feel bad if my kid everyone to hang out in 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:35.679 a group and they were like, no, you're not going 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:37.760 to hang out in the group. But I also understand 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.200 the side of like if somebody comes and hanging out, 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:42.720 hangs out in a tight knit group of people, and 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:44.600 that person doesn't get along with everybody in the group. 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:46.640 Then it disrupts the harmony of this kids hanging out. 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:49.040 I know, so it's a really weird fine line to walk. 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:52.280 But then put yourself in the shoes. 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:53.240 Over they handle it. 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.480 The girl that is requesting, can I please sit with you? Guys, 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.640 not only one day, maybe for many lunches. 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:02.600 Right, And they did say you can definitely stop by, 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:05.440 but we've told other kids that they can't. Like I know, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.720 but what kills me is I hate it. 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:11.400 I can't guarantee you that that girl, even though the 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:16.080 text back was very respectful, you know, she was still 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.560 kind of rejected. You can come, but doesn't mean that 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:22.440 you're going to be part of the group because I know, 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:25.840 but just it's just I'm just giving you this example 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:29.600 because we're going back to you don't know how that 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:34.760 girl is going to feel psychologically when she said, can 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:37.400 I be a part of the group, No, you can't 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:41.680 have way, not completely. You know, it sucks. And then 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:45.400 and listen Sabella's click. Everybody was respectful and and Sabella 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:49.440 herself used the word respectfully, I think we shouldn't do it. 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.600 And another one handled it even better, saying, but guys, 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:53.840 it doesn't mean that she has to be part of 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:55.600 the group, but I think it'll be nice if we 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.760 allow her. So they all had an opinion, and we 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:02.200 I am not able to say sabout I come over here, 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.000 what the heck is happening because we know all these 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:06.240 parents and we know the girl that is asking to 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.520 be to join the group really well. So it's uncomfortable 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:10.840 that we cannot say anything. 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:13.720 Let me flip this on you, as an adult, you 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.720 have a core group of girls that are friends of yours. 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:19.440 You like to go out to dinner a lot, and 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:21.880 somebody says, I want to bring somebody so and so 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:26.960 who you know? Irks you or will shift the entire 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.360 way that dinner is going to go. Can't be as free, 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:32.160 can't maybe open up as much, can't be yourself as much? 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:34.600 How are you going to feel? Would you just back 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:35.360 out of those dinners? 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:35.520 No? 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.800 Yeah, yes, And I'm an adult. It's completely different if 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:41.640 this happens to me. I'm fifty one years old, and 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.720 I do have my cliques, and I do have friends 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:46.840 of my friends that I just go eh, I'm not crazy. 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.280 And I have been in dinners when somebody's there that 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.120 there's three of us that we just go. But I'm 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.120 an adult and I know how to handle it and 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:55.160 it's not going to affect me. 0:15:55.200 --> 0:15:59.400 But I do think I handled it fairly, respectfully, true, 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:04.320 did the line how to be respectful somebody who could 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:08.000 change the dynamics of their group. But my point is 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:08.640 it's hard. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.160 I would like to just say, Isabella, this is what happened, 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:13.560 and we saw this exchange, and this is how we 0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:15.760 feel about it, and let me help you navigate this 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:17.800 whole thing. But if we tell her that we read it, 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:20.200 then she's gonna. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:22.520 I would have fully agreed, and I would have stepped 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.520 in if I saw Sabella did something that was rude, inappropriate, 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.480 or bullying or bullying, like if she was bullying or 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:31.320 she was me, then I would have fully stepped in 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.520 and said that can't happen. You're gonna have to treat 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.160 this kid differently. But because they were respectful and said, sure, 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:39.000 you can come by and hang out, but we haven't really. 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:39.760 But it's still sad. 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:43.720 It is It is because you want to have. 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:45.920 The girl that says, oh my god, absolutely, but it's 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:46.680 not about. 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:50.080 Her only it's about a group. So there's multiple people 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:52.720 who have an opinion. That's the tricky part, you know 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:54.760 what I mean. That's what I think. That's why it's 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.440 a little bit of a tough tough one to walk, 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:00.920 to walk the line on. But you know, I don't 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:02.880 like the clicks and the groups anyways, But that's how 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.359 all these schools navigate. That's how all these schools operate, 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:06.440 you know what I mean. 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:19.080 It's not cool. So the Internes is current favorite show 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:21.960 is a fictional group chat on TikTok. 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:26.760 Have you watched this at all? It's a TikTok. It's 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:30.919 a person who's acting out group chats girls group chats 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:34.040 on her TikTok and apparently it's doing extremely well because 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:37.400 she's doing very funny stuff. What does that mean. She's 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:40.359 she's seen a group chat from different girls and she's 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.479 acting it out, bringing it to life on TikTok and 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.200 it's getting twenty million views, a bunch of different hits. 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.359 It's doing well. She's she's making a little name for 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:51.919 herself as an influencer. What do you think? I don't know. 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:53.240 I have to check it out. I don't really have 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.199 an opinion because I don't I have to see it. 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:58.720 Lovely brands are name jumping on it. People are excited 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:01.000 about her. I don't mind someone finding their own new 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:07.040 way and they're doing clever content and you're basically finding 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:08.919 a script. It's like you're getting group text that's your 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:10.320 script and you're acting it out. 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:12.480 You know what's interesting. There's this other thing now that 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.440 is becoming really big and I have a friend of 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:19.119 mine doing it. It's like it's like a YouTube channel, 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:21.959 but they're shorts. They're like episodes that are like five minutes, 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:24.600 so they're like mini mini mini minuis of operas or 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:27.480 mini meaning. So every episode is very very short because 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.119 they're saying that people nowadays they just want to go 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:30.760 boom boom boom. They don't have the time or the 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:33.760 attention span to be like investing a whole hour, so 0:18:33.800 --> 0:18:37.000 people want things that that fast gratification. So they're like 0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:38.880 a full episode that is just five minutes. 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:39.159 Four minutes. 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.399