WEBVTT - Ep 275: Competitive Dating 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:09.040 Guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:12.680 welcome to another episode of parrible decisions, and you are 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:16.840 probably tuning in to us on Tuesday, because bitches, they 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:20.200 gave us Monday off for those of you incorporate. However, 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:22.280 I don't want to shout out the independence of this 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:24.799 motherfucking god forsaken country we live in. I want to 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.200 shout out to all the independent women. And if I 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.440 could play the music, I would right now. But we're 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.040 not bro and I do want to shout out to 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.199 the independent women. That's really all we have. We had 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:36.080 June Team, which by the way, um to me, and 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.400 we got Martin us the King day. I really yeah, 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.160 that's right. No what I'm saying like June Chea just passed, 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:45.279 but like the studio either closed or double pay, like 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:47.680 this is some big sheet and I'm telling you right now, 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:50.600 like I want to make sure that since other companies 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:52.879 are doing federal holidays a certain way, I gotta do 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:54.520 the black Ship right because we only got a few. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.639 And I understand we got Dave and Yomi and Eddin, 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.600 but I don't know the Hispanic ones really yet. But 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:02.800 when I figured out out. Do you guys do y'all 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:06.040 celebrate the fourth of July? Like because it's our independence 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:07.840 But we've never really got in deepending. I don't know. 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:12.759 I thought Shena saying they're not Mexican. No, I didn't 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:14.200 know what she's gonna say because I can't think of 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:17.040 another big like Latin holiday. But we just eat, bro, 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:22.480 what is the big? What is holiday? They barbecue the 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.640 day before Christmas? I was gonna say Christmas when y'all 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:31.000 make the best knee he like, oh wait, the bitch 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:34.959 deal delos. I don't know how to say, but that's 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:40.520 how it goes. That was good. Yeah, yeah, that do 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.640 you know what that means? That's Halloween Day day, but 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:45.240 that's like, don't go around Holliday, don't do us. Mexico 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:50.680 City goes up sign for like you wonder why I 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:52.040 was trying to get you to make sure that you 0:01:52.080 --> 0:01:57.480 guys do what that men do it again. But you 0:01:57.560 --> 0:01:59.360 lived in Mexico. You can do it better than that. No, 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:02.200 it's too it's you're coming in here during the Okay, okay, 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:07.680 heyst up about okay? Uh speaking of Mexico, I want 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:10.280 to make it a little l a announcement. So you 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:12.560 guys have seen that we open the l A student 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:15.160 maybe you haven't. Maybe you have Hollywood Boulevard. And I 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:18.200 just wanted to shout everybody out um that has sent 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:22.320 in applications, but please still send them in. I do wanna, um, 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:27.680 you know, start hiring um without people that are like recommending. 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:30.040 Like I feel like sometimes you know, whenever you open 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:33.240 a business, like you know you hired someone before you announced, right, 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:35.640 Like I do want to like leave the floor open 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.160 for people to come through and work there. Um, it's 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:42.000 in Hollywood on five six three one, um Hollywood and Grammar. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:44.600 See it's like East Hollywood. It's nice, it's dope. There's 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.200 six K cams. We've got two sets come through. It's five. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:50.639 But we will take the black brown and the Mexicans. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:52.959 We got Mexicans that work here, dog and in l A. 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.160 I feel like you've almost got to like if I 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:58.040 don't have a Mexican under the w TF umbrella? Am 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:02.360 I doing l A right? You got Latinos, but like Mexican, 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:09.520 Mexican Mexican because it's okay, you don't feel that flooded 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.600 with Mexican. Yes, like you have to sucked up. It's 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:14.440 almost like you build a business in Harlem and you 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:16.519 have no black people, so I would like to have 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:19.000 a Mexican. Don't have no Asians here? We buy Chinatown? 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.560 Thank you? How no, this is Chinatown? Well you thought 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:28.959 Yomi was Asian and a lot of passive Jesus. And 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:32.040 not to mention, the building is Chinese own it show 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.679 is so they you in the building, they're right there. 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:38.640 You just don't work for you? Um, who is it? 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:41.920 I haven't really I don't know. I haven't really met 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:44.520 any Asians that have ever asked for a job or anything. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:48.040 I don't know, maybe because like my demographics so many 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:51.800 niggas that I just only see the Latinos because that's like, oh, 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:53.920 if it's not them, it's them, Like you know what 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.200 I'm saying. We don't like even when we go to 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:57.920 live shows and we see like an Asian person every 0:03:58.040 --> 0:03:59.880 like what up? And I always think it's the same girl. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:04.120 I kind of thing yea, And I one was, you know, 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:06.760 everyone else in my studio is black, and I mean, 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:09.640 I'm just now reaching out for interns, so if you 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.920 want to entern but I was like, we've been in 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:14.680 this space for six years, and I think that that's 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.400 kind of how this happened to Like we first wanted 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:20.640 to reach out to people that worked with us in 0:04:20.720 --> 0:04:23.440 some capacity, like, hey, are you looking for something a 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.280 little bit more consistent, And so that's kind of where 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.040 I was, like, Oh, now I can have my friends 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:30.600 do something more consistent when you're in this creative space. 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:34.440 And we left our jobs in twenty nineteen, um Assante 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:36.920 and a lot of our other podcast friends left their 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.400 corporate jobs or wherever they were working years ago. This 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.000 ship has its ups and downs. I know that that's 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:44.800 why we're also as busy as we are now. Like 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.760 during the pandemic, bro, we was on tour ship quit 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:51.200 and we both were just like fun, we gotta find 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:55.200 like you either made it or breaking, like like seriously pandemic, 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:57.520 Like this is where the idea came from for me. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.200 And like even like just through the pandem like I 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:03.160 got hired, you know, working through even Audible and like 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:06.960 now like our studio is full production house post pre 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:10.640 fully like able to compose different ships and you really 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:14.000 don't know until you like I have nothing else to do. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.080 And I think that a lot of my friends did 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.200 well during the pandemic, But the ones that didn't were 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:22.440 the ones that we're okay with being bored. M hmm. 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:24.760 Like think about Official box owner you were talking about, 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:26.719 how was your idea there in the pandemic, Like maybe 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.360 you would have came up with it later in the 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.320 years to come, but if you were as busy would 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:34.520 you when you really sit and we weren't going on 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:36.280 to I was like, do we do a love That's 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:40.520 how we started town Halls? Yeah, I think so. For Patreon, 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:44.600 I loo I hate zoom now no No, I mean like, 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.200 oh no, I love Tom, I just hate the zoom 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.520 is zoom. I just did my heart go boom boom 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:55.840 supernova girl. Here you go, there you go. That was 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:57.960 I mean. I just I mean, I do like still 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:00.400 seeing people like I love the down. I could see 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:02.200 faces and I don't have to worry about to see 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.640 him us nor more because that ship was annoying. As 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:06.400 I know, I couldn't live in other parts of the 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:10.040 motherfucking world. That ship was wild and even just made 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:11.840 me think about that day she said, I'm women with 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:14.840 a beautiful thing on her son. Did you meet the 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:16.880 women with the heat drop that listen to horrible decisions 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.520 at the roots picnic. I was too busy trying to 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:23.760 get us paid this woman. I know it'll get done, 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:25.800 so I'll just be like I try my best. And 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:27.240 I think this is a difference with you and I like, 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:31.920 you need things to be right so you can enjoy 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:35.680 the moment you do and that's okay. Like some people 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:36.960 are like, this has to be right for me to 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:40.080 let go, right when you're a person that's like needs 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:43.200 to be in control, and that's a very managerial thing 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.400 about you, which is a really good uppose. It's not 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:48.840 we gotta hire manager because I'm sick of it. Oh no, 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:50.400 no no, But I'm saying, like that's a good trait 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.920 to have, right as an entrepreneur starting off. Yes, you 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:54.520 can have a team now and do things like that. 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:56.840 But I'm the type of person like I'm going to 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.560 live in the moment and deal with it later. Like honestly, 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.160 if I like was on my way to a party 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:03.440 and my fucking ankle broke, I'd be like, oh, we'll 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:05.040 go to the hospital. Like that's the type of first 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.279 name man you would be like, we're gonna call the ambulance, 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:09.400 We're gonna get it fixed. We're gonna I'm not that wet. 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:11.600 And then we showing up to see after party, I'm 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.160 still going to funk. I'm hobbling. I'll be like, no, 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:16.160 it's a little I know it looks like a fucking 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.080 you know, tennis ball in my football. We're okay, um. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.640 But anyway, I say all that to say I was 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:22.960 able to have a good time that day. And I 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:24.920 was on the high of our show and this woman 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.120 comes up to me with a huge job and I'm 0:07:27.200 --> 0:07:28.880 not going front. When she was walking up to me 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:30.840 and this is fucked up, I was like, what is 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:33.280 she about to say? And she holds her phone open. 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:35.280 It's a picture of us sitting with Hannah Burner and 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:38.000 her husband. She goes, is this you? And I said yeah, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.360 and she was like damn, I just lost three hundred 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:45.080 dollars And I was like what. She's like, yeah, route 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.680 for you there, Okay. She was like I just lost 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:50.640 three hundred alls. I bet my sister wasn't you We 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:52.640 couldn't see your tattoo. So I walked over to them. 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.240 Her sister was also in a huge job and I 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:59.000 was like I'm thinking about those like yeah, and like 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.280 she was like yeah, we listened, I knew it was you, 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:02.640 and I was like, I made a joke. I was like, 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.320 maybe you couldn't see my tattoo, but you know my 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:06.480 teeth are normally tell tale. She goes, yeah, that's how 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:12.560 I knew it was you said it. Then just you 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:15.160 said it. She agreed. I don't give a damn. I 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:17.160 want to say, you know what I mean, you allied. 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:22.480 You allied to me with the fucking money that she 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:26.520 won three d son. Just who has been three hundred 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:29.920 dollars for that? I look at that. You should at 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.480 least I came up with a three hundred. I was like, oh, 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.719 I really want so um you said, who says that? 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.559 I make that dumb? I'll do that dumb sh it 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.480 all the time all the time with my friends. Like 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:42.320 we just started getting ridiculous with numbers and Alexe doing 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.640 me and Dennis do it me and fucking video do 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.080 it like we will literally make a better on something 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.319 and like just know we're so right, And he goes 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.439 me like, fuck you fifty hard. I don't give a funk. 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:52.679 I know it's so much of fop for it. I 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:54.960 was like, I literally just did that with my friend 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:57.040 Crystal we was actually talking about at that we made 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.840 in the car. What was it? H So that's how 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:02.880 they show what me and you bet I wouldn't suck 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:06.560 a dick and we came out was horrible. Oh yeah, 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.400 yeah it was. It was. It was all but no. 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:12.400 I made a bet with Crystal. We were at the 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:16.079 Jets game. And this was maybe a year after I 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:18.439 had left Starlett. But I was a big fan of 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:23.000 Cardi on Instagram and Cardi yeah, Cardi b so uh, 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:25.680 Cardie dropped. She was dropping her mixtapes at the time, 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:29.679 and this is maybe Bodak Yellow just came out and 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:31.719 I said, but she's a star. I've been told you. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.800 I've been trying to tell you that. She was like, 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:36.560 it's gonna be a one hit wonder, she's not gonna 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.280 get it. So literally, on the way back up for 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.520 Ruth's picnic, we're driving the card of like, bitch, you 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:42.960 ain't never pay me my motherfucking huntred dollars. I told 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.120 you Cardi was gonna be something, and now she probably 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:50.839 owed me a thousand because she super exceeded by anybody 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.319 thought Cardi would be. But now we was I said, bitch, 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.400 I'll bet you one hundred dollars. Hundred dollars is really 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.240 where wet it was with Christopher and Duelipa. I said 0:09:58.280 --> 0:09:59.679 she would be a one hit wonder and she's not 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:06.559 not at all. Oh, Julie was doing state like in 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.720 the other markets. Yes, okay, I mean she's I don't 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:12.640 listen to our music. Let me take sucking Um the baby? 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.160 What was? How does we're not acknowledging the baby in 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:18.120 twenty getting soon? We just got done with five months 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:22.600 and you're acknowledging the baby on this podcast saying that's 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:26.000 how I know it? Okay, okay, how does that song go? 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:32.480 How do it? God? How does the song go? Looking now? 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:42.680 I want you? Okay? Okay? And then yea yeah, yeah yeah? 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.280 And then what's the other one? Don't start? You know 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:51.240 what I mean? You know anyway? She big? So okay? Um? 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.120 What then? Was I just thinking about two? Oh? So? 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.720 We were talking about July four before we ended up 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:58.719 starting the cameras, and I was telling Mandy how I 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:01.360 was out with a hotel. Um, no, I leave be 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.520 hanging with hotep. It's not by the way, I know. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.959 I mentioned nineteen Keys and how like he's hot and 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:10.200 horror But it wasn't him. This actually was a dude 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:13.400 who is Samoan. How's up some Republicans? You really have 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:18.880 quite the group of people you hang, okay, but but 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:21.880 he's a Samoan in black dude. And we were like 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.439 making a joke about dr umar and I said we 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:28.040 were at sucking chilling drinking. Was four of us. I said, 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:32.079 all right, what's the most hotep ship everybody believes? And 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:34.680 I asked the table this and one of the guys said, 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:36.520 I don't know if his hotep, but I believe TikTok 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:39.560 is like building to become an ai. I believe TikTok 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:41.880 is like taking all of our ship, and eventually it'll 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:43.520 will we won't be able to figure out what a 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.280 person is. I was like, okay, that's that's a good one. 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.200 And so I said, I ain't gonna lie. I got 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:52.920 one about white people. But there my homeboy goes, is 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:54.600 it what I'm about to say? Are you gotta say 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:58.480 what I'm about to say? I? Here we go. He 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:00.559 also has a dangly earring, which makes even more fun. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:05.160 He's just a toxic Oh yeah, So he goes, all right, 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:11.280 think about white people if they were real people? How 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:15.120 come they burned everywhere they sell sunscreen in Alaska? They 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:18.080 are so far from their planet that was further from 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:21.760 the sun that they burned easily. So now right now, 0:12:21.920 --> 0:12:24.400 obviously this is ridiculous. But now I'm just having fun 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:28.720 with this. Right just what does it mean? Had it's 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:35.679 oh you known people for real, say some people at 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:41.840 the same time. So right now I'm just like fucking 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:43.559 you know, you're funking with somebody because they in their 0:12:43.600 --> 0:12:46.240 bag and you just like it's like almost rolling. As 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.439 I said, Hey, yo, you know it's crazy dog. When 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.280 I went to Israel, like my skin got better. Now 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.679 this is actually I really believe a fact. So um, 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.560 I grew up with exema and my skin got good, 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:59.679 Like my hair was silky and not silky, but like, 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:03.559 um it was shiny, like I could see it, and 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:07.520 I was using pink moisturized no, son, Like I really 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:09.760 believe when you go to where you're from, Like think 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.280 about when like Dominicans go to the Dominican Republic, my 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.240 friends be talking about how good they feel the food 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.920 they eat. When black people go to Africa, everybody suddenly 0:13:16.920 --> 0:13:19.760 feels this crazy connection like and I was like, yo, 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:22.280 where do white people get that ship because they ain't 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.160 getting it in London. He was like, and that's what 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.640 I'm saying, they got nowhere to go because they ain't 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:30.040 faking Europe. Europe. They said, they ain't got no see 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.599 European spicy white black people. Saying earlier he said the 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:35.760 Nordic blood, it ain't real. The bodies are flat, ain't 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.400 no curvatures to him, ain't no no thing. They fact, 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:41.480 they are not real people. Man, the oregans are the same, 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:44.400 but they came to conquer because they ain't from here. 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:46.959 It's like, does he really believe this? I don't know, 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:48.679 but we was in a dog I'm sitting there with 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.959 my best count Mark read like, but I wish Rory 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.560 was sitting there because he said redheads is the epitome 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:58.040 of him. He was like, he was like in them, 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.040 He's like, they're just like bleeding through the skin. You 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:01.360 know what I'm saying, It's coming out through their hair, 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:04.440 the fire in their blood. I was like, he talks 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:06.720 about how like they didn't exist in the originals hy 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:11.040 of Homo sapiens. So it was so crazy and I 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.400 was so wish they do say so when I was 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:16.800 learning about the hieroglyphics of ship, like and I swear 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.000 to God, don't don't laugh, but when I'm talking about 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.600 my mother education. But for real, when I was learning, 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:24.760 that's why they say the Egyptians, the kings and queens, 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.400 they was all black, no one in them, little pictures, 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.160 in the art, even in the figurines, in the in 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:33.280 the temples, not the temples the pyramids because them is different, 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:36.640 but the pyramids even them think, don't you know, I'm 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:39.560 in it? But they even colored inside of the people, 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:41.760 like there were color in those people. There were no 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:45.280 white people. Even the sick figures had motherfucking color. So 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:47.600 I'm just s well, I mean, we all know that. 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:50.600 But they basically saying white people just landed in his bitch. 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.640 He's like, you know how everybody say that all people 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:57.120 come from Africa, They don't, okay. And when he mentioned 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.440 the Nordic blood ship, because I made the joke like yeah, 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:01.520 we're they're gonna o Fielder ship at like in London, 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:04.360 and he's like, yo, some white people, you know, have 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:06.720 a little bit of it, right, And he's like, maybe 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:08.440 that is when Pani and white people have a little 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.120 bit of what like the spicy white, they maybe brown 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.440 and they maybe not burned, or their hair texture is different, 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.880 like an Israeli person like the Kardashian. Yeah, I would 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:19.080 say that like like like a Middle Eastern right. But 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.360 then he said, um, something about I need I need 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:25.440 to see this YouTube video. So I normally do the 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:29.240 YouTube rabbit hole. I need to find this YouTube video. Bro, 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:33.440 everything I know I love. I love conspiracy theory videos. 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:37.000 You know. Mainly he talked about the flat the flatness 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:38.680 and the body, and then I thought you were gonna say. 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:41.600 Then he talked about how they weren't as athletes, don'tline 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:43.760 and all this ship. And then I was like, yo, 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:45.800 it's just why there's a difference of pink dick and 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:47.800 brown dick white people. And he was like, I've never 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:51.520 seen any like you see white digs that are brown 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.960 like those are probably, bro, this is the thing. This 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:55.840 is where niggas just belong. I don't think no, no, 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.080 no no, I don't think men realized white men could 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:00.960 have pink. Let me let me you how niggas be 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:03.920 lying talking seen a dick exactly, But I don't see 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.200 that he'd be on Twitter now, Okay, I didn't know 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:08.080 when the dick. Have y'all ever noticed a pink or 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:12.960 brown dick in porn? Do you know colors? Bro, there's 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.720 clearly a difference. I don't think people noticed that. They 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:21.280 know they know the difference, Like I just don't be 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:26.600 looking at dick. I'm sorry, bro, when the dick a different, Yeah, 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:29.120 thank you. He knows when the dick is white, when 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.200 it's brown, but you don't notice when it's pink or brown. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:36.000 I've never bro, there's a pink dick and there's a 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.000 brown there's a pink dick, but we really nicks a 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:42.000 white white. Well, the only reason that's that's what I'm saying. Well, 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.440 the only reason is it's pink is because it's so translucent. 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:50.000 The blood is lent. And I'll see how you what a? 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:54.200 You better be high on this life, because damn, they're 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:56.280 back in the office. They wasn't listening to us yesterday. 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.440 It was eating Motherfu hot dogs. Well, I'm sure there's 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.320 a white person listening to us pink talking about I'm 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:06.359 a real person. You didn't just say they weren't real people, 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.320 and that's exactly how you started this ship. I didn't say, y'all, 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.920 wasn't I said my homeboy said, does he have a 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:13.760 kufy on right now? Was the words of a feather 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:18.080 flock together? Do they not bitch? The second that I said, 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:20.600 what's everybody's home? Top thought, they all like took a 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:22.840 while to get it out. And he was like, so, 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:24.800 I think you all with me. I think you got this. 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:27.880 I think we donna say. And you know, we made 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:31.080 like a joke about how when something feels off, like 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:33.680 we're doing something off, we make the joke that's white 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:35.480 people ship. He's like, you know why, because they don't 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.920 sit right in your body. This ship ain't right. It's 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:41.960 the white devil shit yo. That she was crazy, Yeah, 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:46.679 like casserole on the holidays now, definitely don't sit right, bro, 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:48.600 Like what the fund are we doing? And why are 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:53.119 we just eating the castle? It's like a canned soup 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:56.639 with some vegetables with some crunchy ship on top. It 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:59.080 was like a one pot stop shop. It is, but 0:17:59.200 --> 0:18:01.399 it normally has it's really good. It has the cancer 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:04.000 like the it has like the castrol large deep pit 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:07.960 pan or bowl used for oh so caster all The 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:11.399 word came from the name of the dish. The dish 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:15.840 was deep alright and then people call it a cast 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:19.840 role dish. If there's chopped vegetables, meat, what I tell 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:23.960 you because because to bind it all, to buy it 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:26.000 all you put in the oven, but you put like 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:28.960 the mushroom, soup, the chicken, the cream and chicken. It 0:18:29.080 --> 0:18:35.080 normally I'm gonna ship it literally says pieces of meat, fish, tuna. Okay, 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:40.399 that's I'm talking about. Like they it all has like 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.439 a bind. I don't see soup, bro because it's can 0:18:43.520 --> 0:18:45.440 of soup. It's soup. Can you were thinking that French 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.320 onion that they prove that the same thing. That's what 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:49.520 I'm talking about. That's what they put in the in 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:53.760 the in the green bea castrole. Oh my god. Anyway, 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:56.520 let's get into our vanilla ship. But it's with the 0:18:56.600 --> 0:19:00.240 nigger castro. Are there any black cat Latins have a 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:10.320 counsel road that's not really up? What's what is it about? Hey, hey, 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:12.760 real quick. What we're not about to do is she's 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:15.680 not gonna sit here and allow y'all to have motherfucking 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:19.320 Latina lasagna, where she wouldn't let me sit here and 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:22.120 have my Haitians spaghett That is not what I could 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:25.080 I could ride with you. This bitch rolled me for 0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:27.920 you my Haitian motherfucker Spaghett and heans trying to die 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.240 on this hill that Haitians and eating the hot dogs 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:32.760 and spaghetti. There are how many people have sent you 0:19:32.880 --> 0:19:36.200 dog domerans also to me your mother fucking emails to 0:19:36.200 --> 0:19:39.399 stop motherfucking coming from me, because let's time we did it. 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:42.520 It was thirty percent? Was it not? What was? I 0:19:42.560 --> 0:19:45.600 don't know there was? Okay, So basically she lying about 0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:51.320 these locks. But the Republicans and the hotels follow you, 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:55.960 they're not gonna know. Allow, what do you mean I 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:58.240 got Anthony? That it does about? If that what got you? 0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:00.760 Always say that you know what I remember? I doesn't 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:03.440 really think Anthony's my only Republican friend. And you know, 0:20:03.480 --> 0:20:05.600 it's so funny, like every time we go out, he's 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:08.360 such a mess that it's embarrassing. Like I've been taking 0:20:08.359 --> 0:20:10.840 Anthony to black Ship and then people are you got 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:13.560 a barn? Wait? Even saying all the time it's so 0:20:13.760 --> 0:20:16.000 bad Anthony. If you guys remember that episode, he's just 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:18.480 very wall Street, He very like Italian. He was like, look, 0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:20.200 I don't give a fuck you think that I'm sucking 0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:22.680 out here in the streets, like saying George Floyd should 0:20:22.680 --> 0:20:25.120 have been No. I love black people, black lives matter, 0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:26.280 but at the end of the day, I'm not paying 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:30.600 fucking taxes like this motherfucker. And unfortunately, some Republicans just 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:32.639 do not care about social causes enough. And I do 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:34.520 believe like that's why when you find a black person 0:20:34.560 --> 0:20:36.360 that's a Republican feels like a trader, like I don't 0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:38.840 understand how we could even go that way. But you 0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:42.480 know he ain't on his Candice Owens, He's just a 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:46.040 rich asshole kenness. Owens is acting like the nigger at 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:49.960 the end of uh queen slim like the fact that 0:20:50.040 --> 0:20:53.119 she is creating this whole process to get the motherfucker's 0:20:53.119 --> 0:20:55.280 from Black Lives Matter that was spending the money on mansions, 0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:58.720 that she's kind of funny, ain't It's it's funny the 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:01.240 thing that's embarrassing about it. I almost to the documentary 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:04.440 in her old age, she will realize this. You have 0:21:04.680 --> 0:21:09.000 made it your effort, Candice fucking Owens. I don't even 0:21:09.040 --> 0:21:11.919 know which camera to look at, but Candice Owens has 0:21:11.960 --> 0:21:14.920 made it her literal effort to embarrass the black community. 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:17.800 You must really hate your black skin enough that you 0:21:17.880 --> 0:21:21.360 have to tear down dead people every single time they 0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:24.399 die and be a contrarian when people are in pain, 0:21:25.080 --> 0:21:28.600 in pain as a women with children, you've got the 0:21:28.880 --> 0:21:32.879 fucking white nerve to sit your ass up on every 0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:36.119 piece of social media and embarrassed men and women that 0:21:36.240 --> 0:21:41.159 look like you. Black babies, black women, black men. You 0:21:41.240 --> 0:21:45.680 are a fucking joke in disgrace to people. Bitch, So 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:48.560 without the bitch, you could add everything she just said 0:21:48.600 --> 0:21:53.240 to Little Busy as well and going on to I'm 0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:57.760 not cana. Little Bullsy is embarrassing, bro. He is embarrassing 0:21:57.840 --> 0:22:03.159 to that with women too, That nigga is embarrased, Bro, 0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:07.439 that nigga embarrassing everything. Tommy Lauren isn't as bad as 0:22:07.480 --> 0:22:09.560 Candice Hall, all right, I will never say that I 0:22:09.920 --> 0:22:12.960 disagree Tommy Lauren is like she tries to do the 0:22:13.000 --> 0:22:15.080 shock value things. She's not as smart as Candice, which 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:18.879 makes her not as bad. Candice is smarter than that, right, 0:22:18.960 --> 0:22:21.879 Like we can't take to me like Tommy Lauren also 0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:23.840 is white, so like I haven't seen or heard that 0:22:23.960 --> 0:22:31.240 name in years where she Yeah, tomm Lauren failed was 0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:34.359 swept right on the rug under tuk her Colls Night 0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:43.520 this week Vanilla Ship. Guys, we're gonna get into it. Um, 0:22:43.680 --> 0:22:47.919 a Chinese feminine care brand is under fire over an 0:22:48.080 --> 0:22:53.920 intimate wash. Um. This was um hor Hives submitted, So 0:22:54.160 --> 0:23:00.399 thank you for this. Um enlarge the eyes, heightened the nose, bridge, 0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:04.400 reshaped the ears like an elf, removed the muscles from 0:23:04.440 --> 0:23:07.920 the calf, slim down the waist, shaved the body here 0:23:08.320 --> 0:23:13.680 and now the latest brighten the vagina. Now I'm not 0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:16.240 gonna see here and try to even read this motherfucking name. 0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:18.160 This was sent in, by the way from UM someone. 0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:20.359 I think she's living in China right now. Shout out 0:23:20.400 --> 0:23:22.480 to Jess. She sent this in and I was like wow. 0:23:22.920 --> 0:23:26.679 So a leading Chinese personal care brand has bat filled, 0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:31.480 baffled and outraged the Chinese Internet with a controversial advertisement 0:23:31.520 --> 0:23:35.199 which isn't in Chinese. Posted to Wee bow on Um. 0:23:35.320 --> 0:23:37.760 This was actually two months ago in May, that claims 0:23:37.880 --> 0:23:42.240 one of its new products can't suppress dark tissues and 0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:46.840 remove odor causing bacteria in the vagina. Multiple taglines for 0:23:46.960 --> 0:23:58.160 this high a Laurnic acid and acid and rose flourishing 0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:01.840 intimate wash are included in the now deleted post. With 0:24:02.040 --> 0:24:06.960 one reading wash and bring out a girl's pink. Yeah. See, 0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:11.040 that's it's for women who are dissatisfied with their quote 0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:16.480 unquote loose, dry and dark vagina. The company advised them 0:24:16.680 --> 0:24:19.639 to reduce activities like working out, which might lead to 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:23.600 exercise friction in their private parts. Wearing skinny pants and 0:24:23.720 --> 0:24:26.840 having too much sex are also apparently two of the 0:24:26.920 --> 0:24:30.439 main factors causing darkenings of the volva, the post claims, 0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:33.200 but it offers no assurance of the safety and effectiveness 0:24:33.359 --> 0:24:35.879 of the product. One of the top voted comments on 0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:39.040 social media called out the problematic nature of the post 0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:41.840 and says, is it not clear enough that your target 0:24:42.280 --> 0:24:46.000 customers are women and it's us who keep your business afloat. 0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:50.359 Other commenters also called the post a blatant insult to women. 0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:55.000 I want to say out your paint. Yeah, it's discussing, 0:24:55.080 --> 0:24:58.879 but also the fact that you are assuming that the 0:24:59.119 --> 0:25:02.840 darkness in the vulva area is caused by an extra 0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:07.160 amount of sex is why. That's why. Also, they referenced 0:25:07.200 --> 0:25:10.239 the friction when you're exercising as to why you can 0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:14.040 also be dark down there. Now, I'm not sure because 0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:20.280 I can't speak from the um Asian experience, but as 0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:23.640 someone with melanin, as someone with a lot of black 0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.040 and Latina friends, like we have just dark spots in 0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:29.400 different parts in our body that don't even have frictions, 0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:31.639 like which look at my mother sucking elbows, like my 0:25:31.720 --> 0:25:34.480 elbows are are are darker than than normal, like even 0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:38.359 my knees and I do have definitely and I won't 0:25:38.359 --> 0:25:41.000 say it's from shaping, because my my inner thighs have 0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:44.639 been dark inside of them far before I even started fucking. 0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:49.480 So I can see why this was insulting. But what's 0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:53.639 also more insulting is the fact that they're pretty much 0:25:53.720 --> 0:25:57.200 pushing out this false narrative around already a part of 0:25:57.240 --> 0:25:59.760 our body that we're still learning because when we were 0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:03.040 in cool there was an education on how to properly clean, 0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:06.760 on what what feminine products to really use, what harm 0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:09.439 we were actually putting into our bodies with certain feminine products, 0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:12.639 And so I just hate that this is now also 0:26:12.720 --> 0:26:14.000 to me one of the things where a lot of 0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:17.720 these companies are just pandering two women, because we are 0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:21.240 consumers for a lot of things. We spend money on beauty, 0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:24.320 we spend money on on so many things regarding the skin, 0:26:24.760 --> 0:26:28.639 regarding our hair, regarding our our nails, eyelashes. That I 0:26:28.720 --> 0:26:31.880 feel like that market specifically. You know how I feel 0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:34.680 because I got into my nail shot debacle. I just 0:26:34.840 --> 0:26:37.000 hate that they really just try to pander to so 0:26:37.119 --> 0:26:42.800 much of our dollars. It is young favorites in AFRO. 0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:46.480 When I lived in Singapore, deodorant had bleaching in it. 0:26:46.920 --> 0:26:50.280 The lotion had bleaching in it. When my friend Jazz 0:26:50.320 --> 0:26:53.040 came over, I said, can you please just bring some 0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:56.120 products that don't have bleaching in it. I couldn't find 0:26:56.200 --> 0:27:00.920 face washes, deodorance, lotions, no bleaching eaching there like a 0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:04.879 lot of positive there, huge share was a lot of 0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:08.840 um uh stuff in Japan that I saw with like 0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:12.240 changing your eyes and widening the eyes, and it was 0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:15.280 like a huge thing um where they would like do 0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:19.359 advertisements of that, but bleaching. I did not bleaching. Well 0:27:19.480 --> 0:27:22.520 that's the things. Well, we're not only being Western, right, 0:27:23.200 --> 0:27:26.560 even though they're not white and black. The treatment in 0:27:26.760 --> 0:27:30.280 Asia of the dark like when I went to Malaysia, 0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:33.120 when I went to the Philippines, Uh, they're dark, they're 0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:38.399 they're dark there and Thailand they're treated over in Asia 0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:41.520 like the blacks and even when you won't actually want 0:27:41.600 --> 0:27:43.720 jump into that for a moment, I don't ever, but 0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:46.920 they're treated like black people in everywhere else in the 0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.960 hanging in l A. A lot of people, um are 0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:53.440 coming from the Bay and there's a lot of Filipinos 0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:54.960 in the Bay. And I know there's a lot of Blazians, 0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:56.760 but what there is also a lot of it is 0:27:56.880 --> 0:28:00.960 just Filipinos and regular Asian people hanging out in l A. 0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:05.360 Can you stop saying you're the niggas of where you're from? 0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:08.280 Oh wait, they say that. Yeah, so anyone ever heard 0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:14.320 this before? Actually they say the word. Yes, Oh no, 0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:18.960 I heard it. I've met a Filipino person at last 0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:23.120 LAP last day. They're the niggas. They say the inn word. 0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:26.119 And she hangs out with a lot of niggas and 0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:28.639 her man Man is a very popular black dude in 0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:31.280 the industry. And I heard her say nigga and I 0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:33.960 was like, and I made like a joke, like, oh, 0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:37.480 I don't want to cast it like a live and 0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.800 then she was like trying to convince me, like, oh, 0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:41.640 I'm Filipino, Like I'm also a person to call her 0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:45.120 I have a nigga. Um, But then he's got on 0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:47.360 this high rate of like how Filipinos are the quote 0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:50.040 unquote black people of Asia. And I was like, be 0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:54.360 that as it may, man, they could be treated poorly. 0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:56.320 And I understand you want to do this whole analogy 0:28:56.440 --> 0:29:00.600 thing here, but you're not a nigga. Yeah no, the date, babe, 0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:03.720 the history that we have, I mean, although the history 0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:06.320 over there is pretty bad too, well, they're not the 0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:09.600 way they got conquered by the Spaniards. Like just being 0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:11.800 over there and really talking to the locals. Yes, they're 0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.120 not black, Like, they're not niggas. I'm gonna tell you 0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:15.920 what I haven't heard. And I'm not sticking up for 0:29:16.040 --> 0:29:18.680 him because my father is Jewish, but I never heard 0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:21.160 a Jewish person walking around saying, Hey, at the Holocaust, 0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:23.640 we were niggas. Said, I never heard that, but for 0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:27.200 some reason, and I think it's because Filipinos feel and 0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:31.560 they are people of color, right, And I understand that, 0:29:31.680 --> 0:29:35.240 like we've welcomed Asians in the black community, but like, yeah, 0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:38.600 I think so, I have not about you. You haven't 0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:40.760 been in New York long enough. There you go all 0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:43.720 the way back to Rodney King beatings in California and 0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:46.600 here in Brooklyn, there's a huge divide between the Asian 0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:48.760 community and the black But you also have to remember 0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:54.480 how there has not that top culture clothing bro music. 0:29:54.600 --> 0:29:58.920 Sound like Asians are their culture voters. They're not accepting. 0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.640 I'm not saying don't accept them is, but they are 0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:05.080 not not accepted bro, Like, are you serious? We have 0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.360 a different take on this this actually and you know what, 0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:10.080 it could be right down the middle. But yeah, Like 0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:12.040 I think, especially on the West Coast, like more than 0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.200 I've ever seen in my life, they I have never seen. 0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:17.960 Almost every black home girl I have from San Francisco 0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:22.760 is blazing. That just means that Asians and Black people 0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:25.600 are fucking. If you're mixed with if you're black, the 0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.560 communities are now mixed up, right, So like as a 0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.560 product of that, you have community. Like that's how they plan, 0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:33.680 and that's how Latinos and black people come together. You 0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.440 start fucking and then you build ship together. There are 0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:39.240 a lot of Asians and black culture. Bro. Literally, my 0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:43.520 talent producer on sex Cells is a fucking Asian dude, right, 0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.480 He's got me my birth find isn't like niggas is. 0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:49.280 They're a part of this ship and he was like, yo, 0:30:49.360 --> 0:30:52.240 I worked at death Champ and also like diversity hires, 0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:55.280 you gotta remember to right you start hiring people at 0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:58.400 labels in different types of industry. I don't believe Asians 0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:03.640 count as diversity highers. I worked in finance. We don't 0:31:03.640 --> 0:31:06.360 have to cut super insensitive to say I don't believe 0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.840 that they do. I worked in finance. This is my experience. 0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:12.480 You can think Organs aren't diversity highers. No, not in 0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:16.880 finance and accounting, they were the majority. They them and 0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:19.440 white doesn't because the majority are known for working in 0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:22.480 tech does not mean they're not a diversity higher. The 0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:25.440 way diversity higher has even been brought up in current 0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:29.120 times it is for black people, and I don't. I 0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:31.400 will sit here and say sorry, maybe we have a 0:31:31.440 --> 0:31:36.560 different experience. In finance and accounting, Asians and whites were 0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.760 the majority. There was never And I will also say 0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:41.560 when we went to d and I when we did 0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:45.480 our diversity and inclusion events down in Baltimore, it was 0:31:45.640 --> 0:31:48.200 just the black and Latina's that were that were offered 0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:51.400 to come, not the affirmative action and diversity higher or 0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:53.920 two to know we I literally had a trip for 0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:58.320 the diversity an inclusion trip on the New Hires at 0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:02.080 a top four firm. Asians were not included in this trade, bro, 0:32:02.560 --> 0:32:08.600 So say what you want from you what America? This 0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:12.040 is my experience and you are talking with your finance 0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.040 and you've got a moment, and I agree with your 0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:19.479 Asians are literally a part of diversification in America, Bro. 0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:22.360 It is the biggest continent, It holds the most of 0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:24.920 most people. They are the majority on the times going 0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:27.280 against there literally with a a p. I like, I 0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:29.120 don't know if you don't have enough Asian friends, but 0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:34.000 like that's insane to say, Okay, you don't think Asians 0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:37.760 diversify this country or like, like are you saying that. 0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:39.720 I'm just gonna say, okay, you're just just grouping in 0:32:39.840 --> 0:32:43.000 white people in Asians right now, I'm saying they are 0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:45.880 the majority of this planet. They are not the minority. 0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:48.719 And so when a diversity hire them to get up 0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:53.080 the same area you did and you're telling and Asians 0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:55.320 were the majority of where you live. No, I'm saying 0:32:55.400 --> 0:32:59.000 for the globe, for the globe, there's a diversity hut. 0:32:59.400 --> 0:33:02.000 They are the Jordy on this planet. I can't fight 0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:03.800 you on this Okay, we're not. We don't need to 0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:06.760 fight your opinion my opinion. Y'all leave it in the 0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:10.360 comments where y'all stand on this, and we'll let it go. Yeah, 0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:13.440 let me get forward. Let's move forward, back to candionsways 0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:15.719 as a cunt, I mean yes, and you're more than 0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:17.840 welcome to say that she is all right. Well, I 0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:20.000 want to ever tell you what. She probably hates the Asians, 0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:23.120 which means they're diverse. No, she ain't everybody, but she 0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:31.000 probably hate herself especially. I doubt she's even getting who knows, 0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:34.920 because that's how she's so miserable worried about everybody else. Listen, 0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:37.680 when you are getting dicked down, and when you are 0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:40.280 getting dicked down, I supwere to guy. Nobody else matters, 0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:43.440 Nothing matters like job. I'll be late because I just 0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:48.040 got some dick friends called calling back. I'm getting dick. Okay, 0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:51.280 they'll collect to call it. I'll never answer for them. 0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:54.960 I'm getting dick. You feel me? Favorite show is on TV? 0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:58.520 Catch it on DVR, Getting Dick Everything the way when 0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:00.920 you're getting dick. Candice Phone got way too much free 0:34:00.960 --> 0:34:03.719 time to really be out here. But what's crazier about her? 0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:06.520 Almost more than Stacy Dash. Stacy Dash was just like 0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:09.480 republican as fuck. She wanted to get another act. And 0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:12.120 Canada's Owens known for like being a piece of ship 0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:15.439 to black people, so like you had to literally come 0:34:15.560 --> 0:34:18.759 up from being that person. Stacy Dash was just like 0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:20.759 the black girl that we all knew that loved Trump. 0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:24.880 And you're like, what, but like she is literally on 0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:27.680 a tirade. I think she'd take her white pink dick 0:34:27.800 --> 0:34:30.359 out of her mouth. Jesus to fucking talk about black 0:34:30.360 --> 0:34:33.360 people on the internet to make a school shooting suddenly 0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:37.120 a trans thing? Wait what so you didn't see that? 0:34:37.719 --> 0:34:40.160 There were like um pictures and I don't believe they 0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:42.000 were real of a trans woman that like had a 0:34:42.080 --> 0:34:46.040 similar look to the shooter. And Canada's Owens was like, oh, 0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:49.439 mental illness is a thing trans people, which being trans 0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:51.719 is a mental illness. If you you saw your son 0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:53.440 in a skirt, you should have had him treated for 0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.040 mental illness. It's not about the guns, twitch you did 0:34:56.280 --> 0:34:59.160 all of their and his reaching his hand out to 0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:01.680 the air. He that was the whole last craziest thing 0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:05.239 I've read. And you're thinking about all these people in 0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:09.040 this terrible moment in time and kids and like, what 0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:15.719 how was that the first thing? Yo? Black ass? You 0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:18.560 know what I mean? That's what everybody's trying to do. 0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:22.040 What let's get it to the hor derve. The hord 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:25.560 Derve comes from Esquire dot com, where it actually says, 0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:29.760 Jesus Christ, you wouldn't even know that it was this simple. 0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:36.400 The key to better sex is all in your breathing breath. 0:35:36.719 --> 0:35:40.680 I can believe that breath is like the siren going 0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:43.360 off in your body if it's screwy. There are more 0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:48.319 sinister forces at play, like stress, tension, and anxiety. None 0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:50.640 of these are making the sex you have any better. 0:35:51.040 --> 0:35:53.560 To really enjoy sex, you've got to connect yourself and 0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:58.400 your partner in a fuller, deeper way, says Jimmy Burgio, 0:35:58.880 --> 0:36:01.480 an instructor at Pure Yoga in New York. And the 0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.360 easiest way to do that is by doing exactly what 0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:08.239 you're doing right now. Let's do it breathing, but with 0:36:08.400 --> 0:36:16.160 more control, hold it at least so during I feel 0:36:16.160 --> 0:36:18.960 like I would do that during anmal Oh you have to, oh, 0:36:19.040 --> 0:36:22.320 but you have to let your bootahole like relax. So 0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:25.320 during sex, and especially during sex with a new partner. 0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:28.719 You can get nervous or agitated. You might hold your 0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:31.920 breath or huff and puff erratically. You're thinking about a 0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:33.840 thousand things at once when you only want to be 0:36:33.920 --> 0:36:38.800 thinking about one thing. Controlled, mindful breathing quiets the excess 0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:42.480 noise and relaxes your body. You're tuned into what's happening 0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:45.800 in front of you, and the sex is actually more enjoyable. 0:36:46.080 --> 0:36:49.160 I'll admit I've definitely almost like been unconscious from eating 0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:52.239 pussy from not breathing. Wait, what is it like? You 0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:56.800 know how you're diving in and I did not? I 0:36:56.920 --> 0:36:59.440 was just in there? Wait? What but you know you 0:36:59.480 --> 0:37:01.759 can breathe through your nose, right, you know? You just 0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:04.800 forgot to breathe out of all holes. I forgot to breathe. 0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:08.239 That was dedicated. It was great. Did you maybe do 0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:13.160 you think subconsciously that you're into maybe suffocation of some sort, 0:37:14.080 --> 0:37:18.560 because maybe subconsciously you you liked the idea of not 0:37:18.760 --> 0:37:21.719 breathing in some pussy, and that could be what you 0:37:23.120 --> 0:37:25.479 might really be into stuffing. You just you almost died 0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:33.040 eating position and not some ballership. Yo, what I feel 0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:35.520 like I'm being judged here and that you you look 0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:37.120 like you're being judged. I'm just trying to see if 0:37:37.200 --> 0:37:41.480 you may have an un unknown because not that would 0:37:41.520 --> 0:37:43.400 be smothering. But like you're just saying you forgot. That's 0:37:43.400 --> 0:37:45.759 what I'm saying. Smothering and suffocation might be a thing. 0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:48.120 So maybe you tried to do it although she wasn't 0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:51.120 on top of it, and so maybe you like that 0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:54.239 problem you have a nose, like that's why what are 0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:56.279 you trying to say here with your nose in her? 0:37:56.320 --> 0:38:01.880 But how did you forget to? Okay, see not the 0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:06.719 sound effects that you feel up there? Thank you wolf. Well, 0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:08.600 if you got a whole beard, you don't gotta put 0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:10.359 your nose and eat out your beard in your mouth. 0:38:11.960 --> 0:38:14.719 Oh wait, ed, and you're official here too, But wait, 0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:18.719 you're saying like okay, and you're instance. You're just saying 0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:20.759 that you're working both of them. So you're freaking you 0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:24.040 got lightheaded from eating pussy? Yeah, get on the mic, 0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:25.759 Get on, get on the mic. We don't want to 0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:28.960 hear people in the background. We want to enjoyable, audible experience. 0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:32.160 Is saying, I think it's easy to not prioritize breathing 0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:39.000 when you're thinkin we're crazy if I got a dive 0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:43.120 about a pussy on the do you hear you? Thank you? 0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:46.960 If it's always had a nigg eat her pussy that 0:38:47.000 --> 0:38:49.600 didn't want to live, she would have been a better person. 0:38:49.719 --> 0:38:51.560 You know what, I need gonna hold you and you 0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:53.880 got to come to work wolf, So please, now that 0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:56.120 you're talking about it, I now don't even want knowing 0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.160 you could eat my pussy unless he's gonna risk dying 0:38:58.239 --> 0:39:00.960 and not for him while he us wants the pleasure 0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:08.560 of Hey, this is the next? What the next? What 0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:13.600 the god motherfucker ship? Anyway? What's the god motherfuckit? I'm 0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:15.960 really learned how to curse differently, okay, crazy, Like we 0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:19.359 like the solo episodes are really like just something. They're 0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:22.640 like whoa many things. It's an outline. No, this is 0:39:22.640 --> 0:39:24.799 an outline. Take it too. We get into I don't 0:39:24.800 --> 0:39:27.719 know what we like. Maybe it's because we're too niche 0:39:27.800 --> 0:39:31.160 in our podcast, like Mandy doesn't music and a sex podcast, 0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:32.919 you know what I'm saying. Like, so maybe you feel 0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:35.440 like this is where you just gotta O. Don't know. 0:39:35.640 --> 0:39:38.439 I I do see the thing is too all the time, okay, 0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:41.960 because you do, it's half all the time. I do 0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:45.520 it all the time. We talked about transparency and not transparency, 0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:51.360 like literally transparent pine is not real. Oh that okay, 0:39:57.480 --> 0:40:00.279 get into the horrible decision this week. I thought it 0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.440 was only right, especially with us being single and not 0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:05.239 testing the waters. Now I came across the clip on 0:40:05.320 --> 0:40:08.800 Twitter where a woman was saying that women are not 0:40:09.040 --> 0:40:12.879 competitive anymore, that we don't go out of our way 0:40:13.239 --> 0:40:16.399 even knowing that the person we're pursuing may have other 0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:21.640 people pursuing them. There isn't any any inkling for a 0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:25.400 woman to get in competition mode, which is why women 0:40:25.440 --> 0:40:28.920 aren't catering, women are cooking for niggas, Women aren't showing 0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:32.920 up in a way that bitch. You know, there's probably 0:40:33.040 --> 0:40:35.520 other women that want the men you want. You know 0:40:35.600 --> 0:40:37.759 why women are competing? Why because at the end of 0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:40.960 the day, men love to chase, and so what happens 0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:44.359 is if you're giving it up too much, suddenly there's 0:40:44.440 --> 0:40:46.719 nothing for them to chase, and then they'll literally get 0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:49.200 so fucking bored with all the fucking food you bag 0:40:49.440 --> 0:40:52.239 that they start chasing another pussy because niggas get bored. 0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:57.279 That's just no. I really believe like a lot of 0:40:57.360 --> 0:40:59.920 women give too much too soon? Do you feel like 0:41:00.000 --> 0:41:04.920 you've done that. I've seen the success in relationships where 0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:06.960 I kind of cable things a little bit, you know, 0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:09.359 I've I've stopped myself from doing things. I almost bought 0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:12.239 this nickel like a little gift or something recently, and 0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:16.480 I remember, like, that's not, that's not. That's a really 0:41:16.520 --> 0:41:18.960 great point though, And you have to agree with that. 0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:22.520 I have to. So what is holding it in? Right? 0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:26.040 So let me ask you? Right, So, if y'all, if 0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:30.239 you're dating women, though, do you not rank which one 0:41:30.360 --> 0:41:32.480 is showing up a certain way more than the next, 0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:34.879 Like aren't there still things that y'all want from women? 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:38.279 And when when one isn't doing something and another one is, 0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:41.359 you might lean more towards this one. Because I've had 0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:44.759 men feel like I'm completely just not that interested in them, 0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:47.839 and maybe because I'm entertaining other men because I don't 0:41:47.880 --> 0:41:50.239 show up for them in certain instances, they just feel 0:41:50.280 --> 0:41:53.080 like I'm not that attracted, like I'm not into them. 0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:56.040 So a lot of men aren't gonna also want to 0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:58.360 be chasing after a woman who they feel like may 0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:00.480 not even be that into them. That's you know what 0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:03.600 I mean? And so that's where I've been just like, damn, 0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:05.759 I actually feel like I've dropped the ball even thinking 0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:07.719 of how I've shown up on this podcast and the 0:42:07.800 --> 0:42:10.040 things I've said in terms of not cooking for men 0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:13.239 or really just maybe going some days and weeks without 0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:15.160 hitting the nigga. Maybe I should have been a little 0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:19.719 bit more persistent and be it. I mean, and that's 0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:25.000 been subconsciously because like, yeah, I don't think that wanting 0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:28.960 someone means you show up more. I like as far 0:42:29.000 --> 0:42:30.960 as like cooking and doing things for them, I mean, 0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:34.719 more so show interest, not not like doing not not 0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:39.000 like actors services, just like even just a reply or 0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:41.880 thinking of you, or just small little things like that, 0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:43.800 not like the big you gotta do. You don't have 0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:47.400 to do like wifey stuff. But I'm thinking I'm not 0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:50.200 talking about wife This is the issue we've had, I 0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:52.239 feel like as men, or what I've had as a man, 0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:56.560 where I've I'm definitely guilty of doing boyfriend things for 0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:59.440 women who I have no interest of being my girlfriend. 0:42:59.600 --> 0:43:05.040 Why And again I yeah, but that's that's bad because 0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:06.880 where I've done it, I've done things where it's like 0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:08.360 I'm just trying to be kind or trying to be 0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:11.680 you know, cute, or sometimes it's too much and the 0:43:11.800 --> 0:43:14.320 next thing you know, you're over here hyping them and 0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:15.960 you're like, why are they trying to like get with 0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:17.320 me like that? I was just trying to like we 0:43:17.440 --> 0:43:18.920 were just trying to suck each other. And now I'm 0:43:19.200 --> 0:43:22.040 almost in boy from material type of game, and it's 0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:24.960 not good. I'm trying to think of where I'm at 0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:27.080 in this moment because I am up someone that will 0:43:27.120 --> 0:43:28.560 cook for you and do really nice things and I'm 0:43:28.560 --> 0:43:34.759 a good partner. But hmm, I'm thirty one and I'm 0:43:34.800 --> 0:43:38.240 meeting men around my same age. I meet dope asked 0:43:38.280 --> 0:43:40.600 women too that are doing dope ship. But I know 0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:44.600 that I'm special. I know that I'm one of a kind, 0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.080 and I know that I'm not someone that's easy to 0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.160 find in terms of like all that I can offer. 0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:52.719 So there's very few times recently where I felt like 0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:56.520 I've got so crazy. You said that I'm gonna send 0:43:56.560 --> 0:43:59.120 you the audio. Now I had to play the clip 0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:02.680 because you literally just said what this woman said in 0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:05.480 this clip, and now we have to fucking go at it. 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:11.440 I'm I'm gonna finish this out I'm not I'm not 0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:14.560 saying that I can't do these things for you, but 0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:17.600 I know for a fact, men finding a partner like 0:44:17.760 --> 0:44:22.680 me is just not really gonna happen. Like men have 0:44:22.840 --> 0:44:25.919 to work so hard to become this fucking dude that's 0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:29.080 larger than life for women to want them. And I 0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:31.399 will literally elevate a nigga with the ship that I'm 0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:35.600 going to bring to the table. And when men recognize 0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:39.800 that and understand that in me, like it's it. I 0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:41.480 don't have to. I shouldn't be having to fight this 0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:44.920 hard like I was fighting hard to you know, be 0:44:45.560 --> 0:44:48.000 everything for a nigga when I didn't have much to offer. 0:44:48.320 --> 0:44:51.600 Maybe I was cooking ten times a week because I 0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:53.680 didn't really have anything else to give. I'm still going 0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:57.000 to cook for you, but maybe now it's maybe we're 0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:58.840 too on the move to where we're going to dinner together, 0:44:58.960 --> 0:45:01.880 like Josh, just it. I'm gonna show up in other ways. Um, 0:45:02.160 --> 0:45:05.279 But those literal things like yeah, it's a different, it's different. 0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:10.080 Let me hear this clip and I sent it to 0:45:10.080 --> 0:45:12.640 you on The text is to bring a man a plate, 0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:16.080 rub his feet, just basic things of the attitude of 0:45:16.200 --> 0:45:18.359 so many women that I see now is they don't 0:45:18.440 --> 0:45:20.440 want to cater to a man in any It's almost 0:45:20.480 --> 0:45:22.239 like it's a dirty word. It's they don't want to 0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:24.279 compete for a man. They want him to just pick 0:45:24.320 --> 0:45:27.520 her because she's so special. But it's too much competition. 0:45:27.560 --> 0:45:29.800 There's too much out here. What are you doing to 0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:33.919 outbeat the competition? What are you going to win over 0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:36.440 a man? And a lot of women they don't want 0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:38.360 to do it. They want to have attitudes, you know, 0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:41.400 not be in you know, working themselves in any kind 0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:44.600 of way physically, mentally, spiritually. Just think they just just 0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:47.399 to show up. Me being a lie, being a woman 0:45:47.480 --> 0:45:51.120 with a vagina is enough for for a man to 0:45:51.280 --> 0:45:54.719 choose me except me as I am. All the men 0:45:54.880 --> 0:45:57.359 need to change, all the men need to stop being 0:45:57.400 --> 0:46:00.680 this way. But us women were perfect out the world. 0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:04.120 I could see what she's saying, But like, that wasn't 0:46:04.120 --> 0:46:06.040 the conversation I've had just my pussy. I don't think 0:46:06.040 --> 0:46:09.160 it's gonna work. You know, I'm someone that offers way 0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:12.880 more intellect than that, and I know that and literally 0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:19.759 my daily fucking regimen shows that I would be a 0:46:19.800 --> 0:46:21.480 different type of partner. You know what I'm saying, like 0:46:21.840 --> 0:46:24.520 the way that I handle business, the way that I'm 0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:26.799 moving in the world with goals, Like I don't think 0:46:26.840 --> 0:46:29.640 it's just like I've got pussy now. I do believe 0:46:29.719 --> 0:46:31.879 back then I did just have pussy, and that's why 0:46:32.000 --> 0:46:34.680 I was topping it up with other things. But yes, 0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:37.400 like I am someone that is hard to come by 0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:39.440 and and and I don't know what she thinks is special, 0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:42.200 but I'm not talking about aesthetics or pussy or anything 0:46:42.280 --> 0:46:46.799 like that. Um And I think when you're talking about 0:46:46.880 --> 0:46:50.279 someone like that, I actually find it to be a 0:46:50.360 --> 0:46:53.800 disservice to be a woman in the world moving like that. 0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:58.000 And also think that you have to fucking push out 0:46:58.040 --> 0:47:00.520 all these like modern housewife e, cook of your feet, 0:47:00.600 --> 0:47:03.320 rolls just to keep someone right. I do believe we 0:47:03.360 --> 0:47:05.880 should be treating ourselves like we're a catch. I've met 0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:08.040 so many men that will say things like they're the 0:47:08.080 --> 0:47:10.520 table or their X y Z are asking women what 0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:12.600 they're bringing to the table now too, though, but putting 0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:15.280 in so much time and work into getting your degrees 0:47:15.360 --> 0:47:18.480 and doing things like that, it's things that we associate 0:47:18.560 --> 0:47:21.360 with men. So when women are able to accomplish goals 0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:25.800 that most women are seeking men for you are special. 0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:29.480 I hear that, woman, But to me, that's just that 0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:32.279 silly ass podcast talk. You know when people have the 0:47:32.320 --> 0:47:36.000 same podcast conversation like splitting a check or whatever. That's 0:47:36.040 --> 0:47:39.120 stupid ass podcast talk. When you really live, walk and 0:47:39.160 --> 0:47:41.359 breathe in a purpose where you know you're hard to find, 0:47:41.520 --> 0:47:44.520 like you ain't. No, And I'm not saying I'm too 0:47:44.560 --> 0:47:46.479 good to cook for a nigga, A really a nigga. 0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:49.440 I'm right now. They know your worth, you know your 0:47:49.440 --> 0:47:53.080 self worth. Yeah, it's it's just weird because as women were, 0:47:53.719 --> 0:47:57.759 we know when there's other women pursuing a man that 0:47:58.160 --> 0:48:02.680 it is. It's an unspoken in competition that's happening, and 0:48:02.800 --> 0:48:04.920 a lot of women do want to be chosen. You're 0:48:04.960 --> 0:48:07.080 not entertaining any of any of the men that you're 0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:10.239 entertaining now without maybe if you want to be with them, 0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.320 you do want to You want them to choose you 0:48:12.800 --> 0:48:15.200 as who they're gonna with, whether they're other women or not. 0:48:15.480 --> 0:48:19.839 It's also weird though, because for men, men, although they 0:48:19.920 --> 0:48:23.480 are the chasers, right, they fucking hate competition. If they 0:48:23.520 --> 0:48:26.520 know you're entertaining other niggas, they feel like you areho 0:48:26.640 --> 0:48:28.640 and now I'm good. I'm not even gonna look at 0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:31.720 you as thee. I know that there may be women 0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:35.480 that want to be chose, but like now that I'm 0:48:35.520 --> 0:48:37.880 at this point, there are niggas that want to be chosen. 0:48:38.239 --> 0:48:41.960 Of course, you know what I'm saying. I have multiple 0:48:42.040 --> 0:48:44.760 men right now that would like want to either sleep 0:48:44.840 --> 0:48:49.800 with me date me. But like, huh, there's a reason that, 0:48:50.040 --> 0:48:52.160 like old Bay has done all of these things to 0:48:52.239 --> 0:48:54.680 get back with me. Men unfortunately don't realize what they 0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:57.160 have until it's gone. But like there's a grown ass 0:48:57.239 --> 0:49:00.080 man that has made every effort to get back with me, 0:49:00.360 --> 0:49:02.520 right when you sucked all these holes and you've done 0:49:02.520 --> 0:49:04.400 all these things like take my phone, do this have 0:49:04.480 --> 0:49:08.479 the keys to my house? Like all these outlandish things. 0:49:09.160 --> 0:49:12.560 And I really believe it's because you now went out 0:49:12.600 --> 0:49:14.279 in the world and realize, oh, I really can't find 0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:16.879 a dish like you, so I don't have I don't 0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:20.120 believe when you have a lot of suitors like he 0:49:20.239 --> 0:49:26.279 did want Maggie, but no, no, no, we go to 0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:32.320 jazz weekly, Maggie and now look at Maggie. It's insane. 0:49:32.840 --> 0:49:35.200 But you know, when you have a lot of suitors, 0:49:35.360 --> 0:49:37.960 Like I don't believe you need to be you know, 0:49:38.160 --> 0:49:41.160 men recognize that ship too. When I go out, they 0:49:41.320 --> 0:49:43.520 see the men that are on my dick. They know 0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.840 the people that I roll with or who was on 0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:48.280 my line, and like, you see my world, so you understand, 0:49:48.320 --> 0:49:50.000 like it's not hard to get another one. And when 0:49:50.080 --> 0:49:52.200 you walk talking act like that, that is how you 0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:53.719 get a lot of men on your dick. And I 0:49:53.800 --> 0:49:56.279 believe when women are so fucking focused and trying to 0:49:56.400 --> 0:49:59.040 win at one, you will literally lose your chance at 0:49:59.040 --> 0:50:02.040 other men. So you are only as good as your options. 0:50:02.400 --> 0:50:04.279 I've been told that before and it is a real 0:50:04.560 --> 0:50:07.040 fucking thing. Man, damn that I'm good as watch. It's 0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:11.160 kind of little. I do want to you know, No, God, 0:50:11.280 --> 0:50:14.520 I'm like, actually, you gotta get out there, like you 0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:16.800 sitting there texting that one, like can I drop you 0:50:16.840 --> 0:50:20.600 off food? Do you want to eat today? I'm like 0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:22.759 with one nigga and watching the playoffs like do we 0:50:22.840 --> 0:50:26.040 have to watch fun that I do? And I'm just like, 0:50:26.600 --> 0:50:28.359 I will say that you do it when it's for SI. 0:50:28.520 --> 0:50:30.719 Then niggas drops singles and now we gotta listen to 0:50:30.800 --> 0:50:35.520 this Nigga's song in the Car like options right now, 0:50:36.800 --> 0:50:39.120 they will they were, They're crazy, They're crazy. I did 0:50:39.200 --> 0:50:41.760 before we get out of this, I wanted to characterize 0:50:42.280 --> 0:50:46.080 some of the competition framework that maybe actually ruining some 0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:49.120 of our listeners love lives. So if you're dating, these 0:50:49.160 --> 0:50:52.080 are some things that they also consider quote unquote competition 0:50:52.560 --> 0:50:54.920 where you're putting other people against each other and you 0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:59.160 might not even know. So when you're dating, sometimes you're 0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:03.520 seeking the best or hottest person according to the standards 0:51:03.600 --> 0:51:09.520 of other people. Okay, that's one attempting to acquire attempting 0:51:09.560 --> 0:51:12.239 to acquire a man or a woman who is in 0:51:12.360 --> 0:51:15.160 heavy demand, So one who a lot of men or 0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:18.480 women are chasing because you're motivated by the sport or 0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:22.919 the challenge of it. I know you heard that. Don't 0:51:22.920 --> 0:51:26.480 do that. Don't do that. I've been talking to my mother. 0:51:26.920 --> 0:51:30.880 He be like, goddamn country. I'd be like, hey, freend motivated, 0:51:33.080 --> 0:51:36.440 don't do that. Don't just in Atlanta not too long ago. 0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:37.920 I got back to my roots, you know what I mean. 0:51:37.960 --> 0:51:40.439 I've been in New York too long. All right, over 0:51:40.640 --> 0:51:44.960 emphasis on physical appearance and other words, rejecting other men 0:51:45.239 --> 0:51:49.120 or women on apparent flaws, such as things as their 0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:51.440 feet are too big, sort of like a judge at 0:51:51.440 --> 0:51:54.560 a dog show hide his death. I'm sorry, that's a require. 0:51:54.920 --> 0:51:58.360 I don't give a fun house. And I had this 0:51:58.440 --> 0:52:03.839 conversation I'll never forget. We talked about sharonas and uh 0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.080 we went out somewhere in Sharonis was out, I can't remember, 0:52:06.520 --> 0:52:09.479 and like he was like, damn, isn't gonna be getting 0:52:09.480 --> 0:52:13.880 mad course tales and oh Bay six feet and he 0:52:13.960 --> 0:52:19.879 said he said we would have never been together. Yes, 0:52:20.160 --> 0:52:22.120 he said I would have been, so he would have been. 0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:31.319 That's wow. Not a sixth book man. Honestly though, it's 0:52:31.360 --> 0:52:35.800 because like I think, like women just don't see like 0:52:36.200 --> 0:52:39.759 men that are attractive, and that there's just like men 0:52:39.840 --> 0:52:43.680 are pretty trash. When you find a decent one, like 0:52:44.200 --> 0:52:47.800 you just be on and so I think that's just 0:52:47.920 --> 0:52:50.600 what happens if you ever found yourself wanting guys that 0:52:50.680 --> 0:52:55.120 were wanted that bad. I mean I'm sure like like 0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:58.360 primarily I've actually been shot. Yeah, well I've been shocked 0:52:58.400 --> 0:53:01.480 in some instances, like you mean wanted to be with them, 0:53:01.520 --> 0:53:08.279 not just fucking with men that are wanting. Um, I 0:53:08.360 --> 0:53:10.800 mean I've definitely. I mean, I've talked about the niggas 0:53:10.800 --> 0:53:13.400 don't sucked on this podcast. Um, they let niggas, but 0:53:14.440 --> 0:53:18.640 they are um. But to me, it's more so going 0:53:18.760 --> 0:53:22.960 into that not with the idea of monogamy, not with 0:53:23.080 --> 0:53:26.920 the idea of exclusiveness. Like I don't believe men can 0:53:27.000 --> 0:53:33.200 say no enough, like even people say, man, Kevin Samuel's 0:53:33.239 --> 0:53:37.160 bitch today, I don't believe that men will say, well, 0:53:37.200 --> 0:53:39.920 I said no this many times, so you should just 0:53:40.000 --> 0:53:42.480 be okay that I said no this many times. And yes, 0:53:42.520 --> 0:53:44.200 I sucked up this one time, but it's because I 0:53:44.280 --> 0:53:46.879 said no this many times. And it's because like litt 0:53:46.960 --> 0:53:49.279 niggas will have ship thrown at them. But then there's 0:53:49.280 --> 0:53:51.120 also a bit just like me, and yes I said 0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:53.360 like me where I don't give a funk about you 0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:55.319 being in a relationship. If I want you, I want 0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:57.680 you because women are that way the same way as niggas. 0:53:57.960 --> 0:54:01.239 Like like, I like to hold both parties accountable in 0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:04.120 this fucking space, And that to me is what it is. 0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:09.600 What was that people if someone's taken I heard you. 0:54:10.320 --> 0:54:13.120 That's not all the time. All the time, bro, she 0:54:13.280 --> 0:54:15.560 was talking about you guys want to bring up my 0:54:15.680 --> 0:54:17.960 ex girl. He didn't have a baby, Lambo, you said 0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:22.200 she looks baby mama. If he had, that's worse. No, no, no, 0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:24.880 I don't. I really like, seriously, I really do not 0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:28.920 like you know what if I do, like it's literally 0:54:29.000 --> 0:54:32.200 like maybe I've had sex with X and like like seriously, 0:54:32.280 --> 0:54:34.560 like I don't meet men that have girlfriends And I'm like, 0:54:34.920 --> 0:54:36.680 this is what I'm gonna do tonight. How many times 0:54:36.680 --> 0:54:39.600 do you think that they didn't tell you though? Oh knowing, 0:54:40.040 --> 0:54:43.600 I'm sure because I'm sure Lambo's baby mama thinks she's 0:54:43.640 --> 0:54:48.200 his girlfriend, right well, probably why he's like, y'all be 0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:49.800 so you just go to New York and you just 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:52.680 basically do all these episodes and they just come out. 0:54:54.320 --> 0:54:59.520 That was I mean, because I was getting together, breaking up, 0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:01.640 getting to other Mondigga so much. When we got together, 0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:03.239 I was I would literally just have to be like 0:55:03.520 --> 0:55:04.919 well for the next month and a half. I'm talking 0:55:05.120 --> 0:55:07.120 about you on the on the show. Sorry, just so 0:55:07.239 --> 0:55:09.080 you know, even though we're in good space right now, 0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:11.680 I just don't listen to the pod please, I'm talking 0:55:11.840 --> 0:55:14.640 all this ship about you. Anyways. I want to get 0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:17.400 into our homemail before we get out of here. This 0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:21.239 one is called confession. Come off, give it to him. 0:55:25.080 --> 0:55:29.279 So during the pandemic, I slept with over fifteen plus 0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:32.879 different people. For the first year I was in a relationship, 0:55:33.200 --> 0:55:36.040 so it was just her and it was long distance. 0:55:36.640 --> 0:55:39.320 After we ended the relationship, I was going crazy on 0:55:39.440 --> 0:55:42.680 tender bumble and meeting people at events. I did a 0:55:42.760 --> 0:55:46.839 lot of things I never imagined, including to threesomes. One 0:55:47.080 --> 0:55:49.560 was two girls and I was the guy, and one 0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:53.160 was two guys one girl. One of the girls was 0:55:53.320 --> 0:55:56.440 in both threesomes. I was sucking so much, and I 0:55:56.600 --> 0:56:00.360 honestly didn't know why. I'm a whore and I payment. 0:56:00.600 --> 0:56:03.320 But now I met someone I really liked and I 0:56:03.440 --> 0:56:06.480 want to make her my main. But I'm having trouble 0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:08.319 letting go of one or two of the other girls 0:56:08.360 --> 0:56:11.759 I used to mess with my mom. My mom met 0:56:11.880 --> 0:56:13.840 this new girl and she likes her so much. She 0:56:13.960 --> 0:56:18.160 wants her to be my girlfriend. If my mom gave 0:56:18.280 --> 0:56:21.480 the green light, it's because if my mom has the 0:56:21.560 --> 0:56:24.520 green light, it's because she sees something I don't, and 0:56:24.640 --> 0:56:27.080 I think she's always been right about those things. It's 0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:29.120 gonna hurt me to let go of my other partners, 0:56:29.480 --> 0:56:32.480 which are more than that, truly, they are friends and 0:56:32.520 --> 0:56:35.120 it's gonna hurt some feelings if slash when I go 0:56:35.239 --> 0:56:37.759 public with the new person I met. Could y'all give 0:56:37.800 --> 0:56:40.080 me some advice as to how I should break off 0:56:40.160 --> 0:56:43.799 things with the other girls? And do you genuinely think 0:56:44.120 --> 0:56:46.759 we can be friends or will they hate me? Because 0:56:46.800 --> 0:56:48.560 they love me just as much as I love them, 0:56:48.840 --> 0:56:52.279 but more platonic love than anything. At the moment, we 0:56:52.400 --> 0:56:54.680 do still fun from time to time, and it's just 0:56:54.760 --> 0:56:57.959 because the pussy is available. I need to practice self 0:56:58.000 --> 0:57:01.000 control and focus on one. I'm scared of losing my 0:57:01.239 --> 0:57:04.200 friends because they want me. I really like this guy. Man, 0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:09.040 this is actually a very very good honest Yeah, um, 0:57:09.800 --> 0:57:15.000 interesting he read of self control. Uh. Recently, the person 0:57:15.080 --> 0:57:17.880 I've been seeing talked about their self control with me 0:57:18.720 --> 0:57:21.040 and not having sex so soon and self control and 0:57:21.120 --> 0:57:24.680 situations and like being faithful and different things like that. 0:57:25.200 --> 0:57:27.880 And I never hear men talk about self control because 0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:33.320 nigga's just as like seriously, men understand that like cheating 0:57:35.240 --> 0:57:40.320 from the wild, playing far far way. So yeah, I think, Um, 0:57:40.760 --> 0:57:42.680 it's a really good thing that you asked too women 0:57:42.720 --> 0:57:45.680 that on a podcast and I'm gonna say this, you 0:57:45.880 --> 0:57:49.600 don't really get great things in life without sacrificing something. 0:57:50.280 --> 0:57:53.120 Um I don't believe there's just things like handed to you. 0:57:53.120 --> 0:57:57.200 I believe you do have to sacrifice something. And I 0:57:57.320 --> 0:58:01.160 think letting those two people go because is you found 0:58:01.240 --> 0:58:04.280 someone that could be a great partner is a smart 0:58:04.400 --> 0:58:07.280 thing to do, particularly because now you can fully invest 0:58:07.680 --> 0:58:10.680 your energy and time into that. And yes, they'll it'll hurt. 0:58:11.160 --> 0:58:13.880 But one, if you love and care about someone, you 0:58:13.920 --> 0:58:17.440 don't string them along. And too, if you could not 0:58:17.600 --> 0:58:20.120 coexist in your current relationship, if she wants to be 0:58:20.120 --> 0:58:23.440 a monogamous whatever. By having those women the way when 0:58:23.480 --> 0:58:26.120 you start ship sucked up, ship ends sucked up. So 0:58:26.280 --> 0:58:30.520 you have to make sure that you are acting out 0:58:30.600 --> 0:58:32.120 certain people out of your lives so that you can 0:58:32.160 --> 0:58:35.760 flourish in another space. And I don't really know if 0:58:35.800 --> 0:58:38.480 there's advice on how to break off something. I think 0:58:38.520 --> 0:58:41.200 a lot of people work in different ways. But I 0:58:41.240 --> 0:58:43.640 will tell you that being totally honest that you care 0:58:43.640 --> 0:58:47.560 about someone is the best thing to do. Um Old Bay, 0:58:47.680 --> 0:58:50.880 whether he's lying or not, says one of the sideline 0:58:50.960 --> 0:58:53.760 chicks that he had to cut off. He said, I 0:58:54.000 --> 0:58:56.400 realized that the only way to have her understand was 0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:58.600 to tell her how much I cared about you and 0:58:58.720 --> 0:59:01.480 tell her that, like right, And he's like, that's not 0:59:01.600 --> 0:59:04.160 easy because she cared about me. But if I could 0:59:04.240 --> 0:59:06.840 explain to her that this is how I'm feeling because 0:59:06.840 --> 0:59:10.760 obviously I've sucked her while with you, but like, I 0:59:11.040 --> 0:59:14.080 have to have her understand that because I love this person. 0:59:14.680 --> 0:59:16.920 You know I'm going to lose what I have because 0:59:16.960 --> 0:59:19.960 of this, so I can't do that to someone else. 0:59:20.000 --> 0:59:22.280 And it's okay to have a hierarchy on your feelings. Also, 0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:25.480 women will be okay. We know that there's kind of 0:59:25.520 --> 0:59:26.920 like always the one up board and the other. Like 0:59:27.440 --> 0:59:29.080 I do believe it's okay to have a hierarchy and 0:59:29.120 --> 0:59:31.240 your feelings that I want to be honest, be real 0:59:31.360 --> 0:59:34.480 honest with them too. Yeah, they will be there so 0:59:34.720 --> 0:59:43.000 whether this relationship last not, But that when I got 0:59:43.040 --> 0:59:45.240 with my nigga during the pandemic, I'd let all my 0:59:45.360 --> 0:59:49.680 hos no. But also and maybe being too honest there 0:59:50.240 --> 0:59:53.720 now you already listen, as long as they're not married 0:59:53.760 --> 0:59:56.480 with children by the time this relationship comes to an end, 0:59:56.920 --> 0:59:59.120 then they just will be there. The plussy will be 0:59:59.160 --> 1:00:01.400 available in a few years as long as the dick 1:00:01.560 --> 1:00:07.520 is good. No, I'm saying for other people, listen, this 1:00:07.600 --> 1:00:12.240 is about But what I'm saying is let them know 1:00:12.600 --> 1:00:16.600 that you're in this relationship. I feel like he's in 1:00:16.800 --> 1:00:19.920 fear of losing these people forever. Bro, if the dick 1:00:20.040 --> 1:00:21.919 is good, if the sex is good, you never really 1:00:22.000 --> 1:00:23.840 lose people forever. I still got niggas in my phone 1:00:23.880 --> 1:00:25.680 that I in high school, still willing to give me 1:00:25.760 --> 1:00:27.640 the dick if I gave him the pussy. Uh, Mandy's 1:00:27.720 --> 1:00:31.800 fucking insane. No, I'm not, because here is the truth. Okay, 1:00:34.040 --> 1:00:39.560 nobody leaves. Everybody always is around, whether they're in the 1:00:39.680 --> 1:00:43.560 picture or whether they're not. Guess what's gonna happen When 1:00:43.600 --> 1:00:46.440 you and this girl have your wonderful relationship and then 1:00:46.480 --> 1:00:49.960 it ends, those two friends of yours will be right 1:00:50.000 --> 1:00:52.920 there like, oh, I'm sorry it didn't work out, and 1:00:53.000 --> 1:00:55.360 we'll still grab a drink a beer and give you 1:00:55.440 --> 1:00:58.280 pussy as long as they are now not in love. Now, 1:00:58.400 --> 1:01:00.200 that's what you have to be okay with lothing, right 1:01:00.480 --> 1:01:02.720 hold on. What you have to be okay with losing 1:01:03.240 --> 1:01:05.840 is the fact that these friends, these women. You love 1:01:05.920 --> 1:01:08.480 the vaginas, that's so good. You keep going back. You 1:01:08.680 --> 1:01:10.760 need to fear that they may find a nigga by 1:01:10.800 --> 1:01:13.160 the time you get back single, and then you're gonna 1:01:13.160 --> 1:01:16.640 had to wait. That's just how the world works. It 1:01:16.760 --> 1:01:20.280 is a motherfucker's cycle. So when I tell you these niggas, 1:01:20.560 --> 1:01:24.400 these bitches, they always there, always there, bro, And I 1:01:24.400 --> 1:01:26.880 would love your relationship to last, but I'm a realist 1:01:26.960 --> 1:01:29.760 over here it probably won't. So it's gonna be great 1:01:29.800 --> 1:01:32.120 while it's great, and it's gonna last until it down 1:01:32.920 --> 1:01:35.200 and then it's over. What. So I was you know 1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:38.760 how I'm white. Oh, I'm very right, but you could 1:01:38.960 --> 1:01:42.000 you know, I don't cause that you was sucking your 1:01:42.080 --> 1:01:49.080 old baby niggas. Now I don't necessarily, um, you don't 1:01:49.240 --> 1:01:51.000 just because you're saying it like this doesn't take away 1:01:51.120 --> 1:01:52.600 you know. I started talking like that's about to come 1:01:52.640 --> 1:01:54.160 out of there. There's some white people that just booked 1:01:54.320 --> 1:01:56.920 our studio, and I was tell myself, I know I'm 1:01:56.920 --> 1:02:00.640 on my niggah today, so anyway, no, I'm just there 1:02:00.680 --> 1:02:03.200 the room. I was like, oh not. Then walking too 1:02:03.240 --> 1:02:07.000 with us said white people wouldn't really uh literally, they 1:02:07.080 --> 1:02:09.920 probably came to conquer your ass. That's what they do. 1:02:10.040 --> 1:02:12.040 They conquer. That bitch did tell me to get hers 1:02:12.080 --> 1:02:17.840 of water. She said that the white bitch there, white 1:02:17.840 --> 1:02:22.040 bitchund I said. I said, Joe, thank you for poking 1:02:22.080 --> 1:02:24.000 with us. I know, what's your first time off? Yeah, 1:02:24.080 --> 1:02:25.360 I heard the waters in the other room. Could you 1:02:25.400 --> 1:02:28.480 get the water? I said, that's your a little slave 1:02:28.600 --> 1:02:33.360 on the fourth of July. Anyway, Okay, So I was 1:02:33.400 --> 1:02:35.960 saying all that to say, um, well, I would saying 1:02:35.960 --> 1:02:37.240 I didn't agree with you. Is mainly because he like 1:02:37.280 --> 1:02:38.760 sounds like he wants his relationship to work. So I 1:02:38.800 --> 1:02:40.640 don't want to wish that your relationship. And by the way, 1:02:40.680 --> 1:02:44.440 these bitches is not your friend, like you came relationship 1:02:44.520 --> 1:02:46.800 calling them to your friend. They're waiting. They're waiting, buddy. 1:02:47.360 --> 1:02:51.240 So lover boy and I I'm going to Milana and 1:02:51.320 --> 1:02:53.800 like probably a few weeks with Gabby, my friend who's 1:02:53.800 --> 1:02:56.840 out there now for work. And he was like, oh, well, 1:02:56.880 --> 1:02:58.400 when you're in Europe, let's get together. And I was like, 1:02:58.480 --> 1:02:59.640 oh great. And I think I even said to you 1:02:59.680 --> 1:03:02.440 maybe do Iceland or something, which is crazy that that 1:03:02.640 --> 1:03:05.520 was even said. Why because if any of my friends 1:03:05.560 --> 1:03:09.520 from overseas just lands in America. It's not like, oh, 1:03:09.720 --> 1:03:12.320 let's just meet up since you're in America, like you're 1:03:12.440 --> 1:03:15.680 as big as fun. But in my year, but we 1:03:15.800 --> 1:03:17.680 used to do that, we were together, Okay, I'm saying. 1:03:17.720 --> 1:03:19.480 So he's like, you'll be in Italy. It's only two 1:03:19.560 --> 1:03:23.120 hours away from me now, so like let's bounce around together. 1:03:23.200 --> 1:03:27.920 So I said, yeah, and did you on that dick? 1:03:28.360 --> 1:03:31.720 Now that I've bounced on another dick? You really got 1:03:31.800 --> 1:03:34.320 to catch somebody well, and I'm you do you do? 1:03:34.440 --> 1:03:36.600 You gotta catch them. I'm not saying any single I'm 1:03:36.640 --> 1:03:38.680 just saying a little less interested in doing this one 1:03:38.800 --> 1:03:41.800 because like I'm saying that my pussy isn't open for Europe. 1:03:42.280 --> 1:03:44.480 I'm just saying, like to start planning a trip, I'm 1:03:44.520 --> 1:03:46.160 kind of like into someone else. It's like a little 1:03:46.160 --> 1:03:48.960 difficult and so I'm not as involved. And you really 1:03:48.960 --> 1:03:52.840 got to catch someone so emotional. Bit just just top 1:03:52.920 --> 1:03:56.080 on this old dick, because again, the dick is always 1:03:56.080 --> 1:03:58.000 gonna be there. So while you when you're go ahead 1:03:58.000 --> 1:03:59.520 and take and it's just always gonna be there. Do 1:03:59.560 --> 1:04:01.720 you want to? She don't know because now she's getting 1:04:01.720 --> 1:04:04.040 in her feelings about whatever. Nigga, she's sucking now you 1:04:04.680 --> 1:04:10.000 multiple I'm sorking one day. I had a blip okay, 1:04:10.040 --> 1:04:13.200 how to be looking one day? Okay? And this when 1:04:13.240 --> 1:04:15.920 he becomes uh lover point is a blip TuS it 1:04:16.360 --> 1:04:19.320 but not if you're planning it. Two blips in a 1:04:19.440 --> 1:04:23.360 in a dick. She like, ain't that crazy? Two the 1:04:23.440 --> 1:04:28.240 dick on that note. On that note, thank you guys 1:04:28.600 --> 1:04:31.840 so much for tuning into another episode of four Decisions. 1:04:32.160 --> 1:04:34.360 Make sure you tune in. Look, I don't even know 1:04:34.400 --> 1:04:37.080 what Cameron. These are a little close. Okay. Make sure 1:04:37.160 --> 1:04:41.760 you tune into our patreon that's patreon dot com backslash 1:04:42.120 --> 1:04:45.280 Horrible Decisions. You definitely have to type it in because 1:04:45.280 --> 1:04:51.200 you're an eighteen plus platform there, all right, Jesus Jesus 1:04:52.760 --> 1:04:55.400 and guys, thank you yet again. 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