Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of parrible decisions, and you are
Speaker 1: probably tuning in to us on Tuesday, because bitches, they
Speaker 1: gave us Monday off for those of you incorporate. However,
Speaker 1: I don't want to shout out the independence of this
Speaker 1: motherfucking god forsaken country we live in. I want to
Speaker 1: shout out to all the independent women. And if I
Speaker 1: could play the music, I would right now. But we're
Speaker 1: not bro and I do want to shout out to
Speaker 1: the independent women. That's really all we have. We had
Speaker 1: June Team, which by the way, um to me, and
Speaker 1: we got Martin us the King day. I really yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right. No what I'm saying like June Chea just passed,
Speaker 1: but like the studio either closed or double pay, like
Speaker 1: this is some big sheet and I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: like I want to make sure that since other companies
Speaker 1: are doing federal holidays a certain way, I gotta do
Speaker 1: the black Ship right because we only got a few.
Speaker 1: And I understand we got Dave and Yomi and Eddin,
Speaker 1: but I don't know the Hispanic ones really yet. But
Speaker 1: when I figured out out. Do you guys do y'all
Speaker 1: celebrate the fourth of July? Like because it's our independence
Speaker 1: But we've never really got in deepending. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I thought Shena saying they're not Mexican. No, I didn't
Speaker 1: know what she's gonna say because I can't think of
Speaker 1: another big like Latin holiday. But we just eat, bro,
Speaker 1: what is the big? What is holiday? They barbecue the
Speaker 1: day before Christmas? I was gonna say Christmas when y'all
Speaker 1: make the best knee he like, oh wait, the bitch
Speaker 1: deal delos. I don't know how to say, but that's
Speaker 1: how it goes. That was good. Yeah, yeah, that do
Speaker 1: you know what that means? That's Halloween Day day, but
Speaker 1: that's like, don't go around Holliday, don't do us. Mexico
Speaker 1: City goes up sign for like you wonder why I
Speaker 1: was trying to get you to make sure that you
Speaker 1: guys do what that men do it again. But you
Speaker 1: lived in Mexico. You can do it better than that. No,
Speaker 1: it's too it's you're coming in here during the Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: heyst up about okay? Uh speaking of Mexico, I want
Speaker 1: to make it a little l a announcement. So you
Speaker 1: guys have seen that we open the l A student
Speaker 1: maybe you haven't. Maybe you have Hollywood Boulevard. And I
Speaker 1: just wanted to shout everybody out um that has sent
Speaker 1: in applications, but please still send them in. I do wanna, um,
Speaker 1: you know, start hiring um without people that are like recommending.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like sometimes you know, whenever you open
Speaker 1: a business, like you know you hired someone before you announced, right,
Speaker 1: Like I do want to like leave the floor open
Speaker 1: for people to come through and work there. Um, it's
Speaker 1: in Hollywood on five six three one, um Hollywood and Grammar.
Speaker 1: See it's like East Hollywood. It's nice, it's dope. There's
Speaker 1: six K cams. We've got two sets come through. It's five.
Speaker 1: But we will take the black brown and the Mexicans.
Speaker 1: We got Mexicans that work here, dog and in l A.
Speaker 1: I feel like you've almost got to like if I
Speaker 1: don't have a Mexican under the w TF umbrella? Am
Speaker 1: I doing l A right? You got Latinos, but like Mexican,
Speaker 1: Mexican Mexican because it's okay, you don't feel that flooded
Speaker 1: with Mexican. Yes, like you have to sucked up. It's
Speaker 1: almost like you build a business in Harlem and you
Speaker 1: have no black people, so I would like to have
Speaker 1: a Mexican. Don't have no Asians here? We buy Chinatown?
Speaker 1: Thank you? How no, this is Chinatown? Well you thought
Speaker 1: Yomi was Asian and a lot of passive Jesus. And
Speaker 1: not to mention, the building is Chinese own it show
Speaker 1: is so they you in the building, they're right there.
Speaker 1: You just don't work for you? Um, who is it?
Speaker 1: I haven't really I don't know. I haven't really met
Speaker 1: any Asians that have ever asked for a job or anything.
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe because like my demographics so many
Speaker 1: niggas that I just only see the Latinos because that's like, oh,
Speaker 1: if it's not them, it's them, Like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't like even when we go to
Speaker 1: live shows and we see like an Asian person every
Speaker 1: like what up? And I always think it's the same girl.
Speaker 1: I kind of thing yea, And I one was, you know,
Speaker 1: everyone else in my studio is black, and I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just now reaching out for interns, so if you
Speaker 1: want to entern but I was like, we've been in
Speaker 1: this space for six years, and I think that that's
Speaker 1: kind of how this happened to Like we first wanted
Speaker 1: to reach out to people that worked with us in
Speaker 1: some capacity, like, hey, are you looking for something a
Speaker 1: little bit more consistent, And so that's kind of where
Speaker 1: I was, like, Oh, now I can have my friends
Speaker 1: do something more consistent when you're in this creative space.
Speaker 1: And we left our jobs in twenty nineteen, um Assante
Speaker 1: and a lot of our other podcast friends left their
Speaker 1: corporate jobs or wherever they were working years ago. This
Speaker 1: ship has its ups and downs. I know that that's
Speaker 1: why we're also as busy as we are now. Like
Speaker 1: during the pandemic, bro, we was on tour ship quit
Speaker 1: and we both were just like fun, we gotta find
Speaker 1: like you either made it or breaking, like like seriously pandemic,
Speaker 1: Like this is where the idea came from for me.
Speaker 1: And like even like just through the pandem like I
Speaker 1: got hired, you know, working through even Audible and like
Speaker 1: now like our studio is full production house post pre
Speaker 1: fully like able to compose different ships and you really
Speaker 1: don't know until you like I have nothing else to do.
Speaker 1: And I think that a lot of my friends did
Speaker 1: well during the pandemic, But the ones that didn't were
Speaker 1: the ones that we're okay with being bored. M hmm.
Speaker 1: Like think about Official box owner you were talking about,
Speaker 1: how was your idea there in the pandemic, Like maybe
Speaker 1: you would have came up with it later in the
Speaker 1: years to come, but if you were as busy would
Speaker 1: you when you really sit and we weren't going on
Speaker 1: to I was like, do we do a love That's
Speaker 1: how we started town Halls? Yeah, I think so. For Patreon,
Speaker 1: I loo I hate zoom now no No, I mean like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I love Tom, I just hate the zoom
Speaker 1: is zoom. I just did my heart go boom boom
Speaker 1: supernova girl. Here you go, there you go. That was
Speaker 1: I mean. I just I mean, I do like still
Speaker 1: seeing people like I love the down. I could see
Speaker 1: faces and I don't have to worry about to see
Speaker 1: him us nor more because that ship was annoying. As
Speaker 1: I know, I couldn't live in other parts of the
Speaker 1: motherfucking world. That ship was wild and even just made
Speaker 1: me think about that day she said, I'm women with
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing on her son. Did you meet the
Speaker 1: women with the heat drop that listen to horrible decisions
Speaker 1: at the roots picnic. I was too busy trying to
Speaker 1: get us paid this woman. I know it'll get done,
Speaker 1: so I'll just be like I try my best. And
Speaker 1: I think this is a difference with you and I like,
Speaker 1: you need things to be right so you can enjoy
Speaker 1: the moment you do and that's okay. Like some people
Speaker 1: are like, this has to be right for me to
Speaker 1: let go, right when you're a person that's like needs
Speaker 1: to be in control, and that's a very managerial thing
Speaker 1: about you, which is a really good uppose. It's not
Speaker 1: we gotta hire manager because I'm sick of it. Oh no,
Speaker 1: no no, But I'm saying, like that's a good trait
Speaker 1: to have, right as an entrepreneur starting off. Yes, you
Speaker 1: can have a team now and do things like that.
Speaker 1: But I'm the type of person like I'm going to
Speaker 1: live in the moment and deal with it later. Like honestly,
Speaker 1: if I like was on my way to a party
Speaker 1: and my fucking ankle broke, I'd be like, oh, we'll
Speaker 1: go to the hospital. Like that's the type of first
Speaker 1: name man you would be like, we're gonna call the ambulance,
Speaker 1: We're gonna get it fixed. We're gonna I'm not that wet.
Speaker 1: And then we showing up to see after party, I'm
Speaker 1: still going to funk. I'm hobbling. I'll be like, no,
Speaker 1: it's a little I know it looks like a fucking
Speaker 1: you know, tennis ball in my football. We're okay, um.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I say all that to say I was
Speaker 1: able to have a good time that day. And I
Speaker 1: was on the high of our show and this woman
Speaker 1: comes up to me with a huge job and I'm
Speaker 1: not going front. When she was walking up to me
Speaker 1: and this is fucked up, I was like, what is
Speaker 1: she about to say? And she holds her phone open.
Speaker 1: It's a picture of us sitting with Hannah Burner and
Speaker 1: her husband. She goes, is this you? And I said yeah,
Speaker 1: and she was like damn, I just lost three hundred
Speaker 1: dollars And I was like what. She's like, yeah, route
Speaker 1: for you there, Okay. She was like I just lost
Speaker 1: three hundred alls. I bet my sister wasn't you We
Speaker 1: couldn't see your tattoo. So I walked over to them.
Speaker 1: Her sister was also in a huge job and I
Speaker 1: was like I'm thinking about those like yeah, and like
Speaker 1: she was like yeah, we listened, I knew it was you,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I made a joke. I was like,
Speaker 1: maybe you couldn't see my tattoo, but you know my
Speaker 1: teeth are normally tell tale. She goes, yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: I knew it was you said it. Then just you
Speaker 1: said it. She agreed. I don't give a damn. I
Speaker 1: want to say, you know what I mean, you allied.
Speaker 1: You allied to me with the fucking money that she
Speaker 1: won three d son. Just who has been three hundred
Speaker 1: dollars for that? I look at that. You should at
Speaker 1: least I came up with a three hundred. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I really want so um you said, who says that?
Speaker 1: I make that dumb? I'll do that dumb sh it
Speaker 1: all the time all the time with my friends. Like
Speaker 1: we just started getting ridiculous with numbers and Alexe doing
Speaker 1: me and Dennis do it me and fucking video do
Speaker 1: it like we will literally make a better on something
Speaker 1: and like just know we're so right, And he goes
Speaker 1: me like, fuck you fifty hard. I don't give a funk.
Speaker 1: I know it's so much of fop for it. I
Speaker 1: was like, I literally just did that with my friend
Speaker 1: Crystal we was actually talking about at that we made
Speaker 1: in the car. What was it? H So that's how
Speaker 1: they show what me and you bet I wouldn't suck
Speaker 1: a dick and we came out was horrible. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it was. It was. It was all but no.
Speaker 1: I made a bet with Crystal. We were at the
Speaker 1: Jets game. And this was maybe a year after I
Speaker 1: had left Starlett. But I was a big fan of
Speaker 1: Cardi on Instagram and Cardi yeah, Cardi b so uh,
Speaker 1: Cardie dropped. She was dropping her mixtapes at the time,
Speaker 1: and this is maybe Bodak Yellow just came out and
Speaker 1: I said, but she's a star. I've been told you.
Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell you that. She was like,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a one hit wonder, she's not gonna
Speaker 1: get it. So literally, on the way back up for
Speaker 1: Ruth's picnic, we're driving the card of like, bitch, you
Speaker 1: ain't never pay me my motherfucking huntred dollars. I told
Speaker 1: you Cardi was gonna be something, and now she probably
Speaker 1: owed me a thousand because she super exceeded by anybody
Speaker 1: thought Cardi would be. But now we was I said, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'll bet you one hundred dollars. Hundred dollars is really
Speaker 1: where wet it was with Christopher and Duelipa. I said
Speaker 1: she would be a one hit wonder and she's not
Speaker 1: not at all. Oh, Julie was doing state like in
Speaker 1: the other markets. Yes, okay, I mean she's I don't
Speaker 1: listen to our music. Let me take sucking Um the baby?
Speaker 1: What was? How does we're not acknowledging the baby in
Speaker 1: twenty getting soon? We just got done with five months
Speaker 1: and you're acknowledging the baby on this podcast saying that's
Speaker 1: how I know it? Okay, okay, how does that song go?
Speaker 1: How do it? God? How does the song go? Looking now?
Speaker 1: I want you? Okay? Okay? And then yea yeah, yeah yeah?
Speaker 1: And then what's the other one? Don't start? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? You know anyway? She big? So okay? Um?
Speaker 1: What then? Was I just thinking about two? Oh? So?
Speaker 1: We were talking about July four before we ended up
Speaker 1: starting the cameras, and I was telling Mandy how I
Speaker 1: was out with a hotel. Um, no, I leave be
Speaker 1: hanging with hotep. It's not by the way, I know.
Speaker 1: I mentioned nineteen Keys and how like he's hot and
Speaker 1: horror But it wasn't him. This actually was a dude
Speaker 1: who is Samoan. How's up some Republicans? You really have
Speaker 1: quite the group of people you hang, okay, but but
Speaker 1: he's a Samoan in black dude. And we were like
Speaker 1: making a joke about dr umar and I said we
Speaker 1: were at sucking chilling drinking. Was four of us. I said,
Speaker 1: all right, what's the most hotep ship everybody believes? And
Speaker 1: I asked the table this and one of the guys said,
Speaker 1: I don't know if his hotep, but I believe TikTok
Speaker 1: is like building to become an ai. I believe TikTok
Speaker 1: is like taking all of our ship, and eventually it'll
Speaker 1: will we won't be able to figure out what a
Speaker 1: person is. I was like, okay, that's that's a good one.
Speaker 1: And so I said, I ain't gonna lie. I got
Speaker 1: one about white people. But there my homeboy goes, is
Speaker 1: it what I'm about to say? Are you gotta say
Speaker 1: what I'm about to say? I? Here we go. He
Speaker 1: also has a dangly earring, which makes even more fun.
Speaker 1: He's just a toxic Oh yeah, So he goes, all right,
Speaker 1: think about white people if they were real people? How
Speaker 1: come they burned everywhere they sell sunscreen in Alaska? They
Speaker 1: are so far from their planet that was further from
Speaker 1: the sun that they burned easily. So now right now,
Speaker 1: obviously this is ridiculous. But now I'm just having fun
Speaker 1: with this. Right just what does it mean? Had it's
Speaker 1: oh you known people for real, say some people at
Speaker 1: the same time. So right now I'm just like fucking
Speaker 1: you know, you're funking with somebody because they in their
Speaker 1: bag and you just like it's like almost rolling. As
Speaker 1: I said, Hey, yo, you know it's crazy dog. When
Speaker 1: I went to Israel, like my skin got better. Now
Speaker 1: this is actually I really believe a fact. So um,
Speaker 1: I grew up with exema and my skin got good,
Speaker 1: Like my hair was silky and not silky, but like,
Speaker 1: um it was shiny, like I could see it, and
Speaker 1: I was using pink moisturized no, son, Like I really
Speaker 1: believe when you go to where you're from, Like think
Speaker 1: about when like Dominicans go to the Dominican Republic, my
Speaker 1: friends be talking about how good they feel the food
Speaker 1: they eat. When black people go to Africa, everybody suddenly
Speaker 1: feels this crazy connection like and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: where do white people get that ship because they ain't
Speaker 1: getting it in London. He was like, and that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, they got nowhere to go because they ain't
Speaker 1: faking Europe. Europe. They said, they ain't got no see
Speaker 1: European spicy white black people. Saying earlier he said the
Speaker 1: Nordic blood, it ain't real. The bodies are flat, ain't
Speaker 1: no curvatures to him, ain't no no thing. They fact,
Speaker 1: they are not real people. Man, the oregans are the same,
Speaker 1: but they came to conquer because they ain't from here.
Speaker 1: It's like, does he really believe this? I don't know,
Speaker 1: but we was in a dog I'm sitting there with
Speaker 1: my best count Mark read like, but I wish Rory
Speaker 1: was sitting there because he said redheads is the epitome
Speaker 1: of him. He was like, he was like in them,
Speaker 1: He's like, they're just like bleeding through the skin. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It's coming out through their hair,
Speaker 1: the fire in their blood. I was like, he talks
Speaker 1: about how like they didn't exist in the originals hy
Speaker 1: of Homo sapiens. So it was so crazy and I
Speaker 1: was so wish they do say so when I was
Speaker 1: learning about the hieroglyphics of ship, like and I swear
Speaker 1: to God, don't don't laugh, but when I'm talking about
Speaker 1: my mother education. But for real, when I was learning,
Speaker 1: that's why they say the Egyptians, the kings and queens,
Speaker 1: they was all black, no one in them, little pictures,
Speaker 1: in the art, even in the figurines, in the in
Speaker 1: the temples, not the temples the pyramids because them is different,
Speaker 1: but the pyramids even them think, don't you know, I'm
Speaker 1: in it? But they even colored inside of the people,
Speaker 1: like there were color in those people. There were no
Speaker 1: white people. Even the sick figures had motherfucking color. So
Speaker 1: I'm just s well, I mean, we all know that.
Speaker 1: But they basically saying white people just landed in his bitch.
Speaker 1: He's like, you know how everybody say that all people
Speaker 1: come from Africa, They don't, okay. And when he mentioned
Speaker 1: the Nordic blood ship, because I made the joke like yeah,
Speaker 1: we're they're gonna o Fielder ship at like in London,
Speaker 1: and he's like, yo, some white people, you know, have
Speaker 1: a little bit of it, right, And he's like, maybe
Speaker 1: that is when Pani and white people have a little
Speaker 1: bit of what like the spicy white, they maybe brown
Speaker 1: and they maybe not burned, or their hair texture is different,
Speaker 1: like an Israeli person like the Kardashian. Yeah, I would
Speaker 1: say that like like like a Middle Eastern right. But
Speaker 1: then he said, um, something about I need I need
Speaker 1: to see this YouTube video. So I normally do the
Speaker 1: YouTube rabbit hole. I need to find this YouTube video. Bro,
Speaker 1: everything I know I love. I love conspiracy theory videos.
Speaker 1: You know. Mainly he talked about the flat the flatness
Speaker 1: and the body, and then I thought you were gonna say.
Speaker 1: Then he talked about how they weren't as athletes, don'tline
Speaker 1: and all this ship. And then I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: it's just why there's a difference of pink dick and
Speaker 1: brown dick white people. And he was like, I've never
Speaker 1: seen any like you see white digs that are brown
Speaker 1: like those are probably, bro, this is the thing. This
Speaker 1: is where niggas just belong. I don't think no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, I don't think men realized white men could
Speaker 1: have pink. Let me let me you how niggas be
Speaker 1: lying talking seen a dick exactly, But I don't see
Speaker 1: that he'd be on Twitter now, Okay, I didn't know
Speaker 1: when the dick. Have y'all ever noticed a pink or
Speaker 1: brown dick in porn? Do you know colors? Bro, there's
Speaker 1: clearly a difference. I don't think people noticed that. They
Speaker 1: know they know the difference, Like I just don't be
Speaker 1: looking at dick. I'm sorry, bro, when the dick a different, Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you. He knows when the dick is white, when
Speaker 1: it's brown, but you don't notice when it's pink or brown.
Speaker 1: I've never bro, there's a pink dick and there's a
Speaker 1: brown there's a pink dick, but we really nicks a
Speaker 1: white white. Well, the only reason that's that's what I'm saying. Well,
Speaker 1: the only reason is it's pink is because it's so translucent.
Speaker 1: The blood is lent. And I'll see how you what a?
Speaker 1: You better be high on this life, because damn, they're
Speaker 1: back in the office. They wasn't listening to us yesterday.
Speaker 1: It was eating Motherfu hot dogs. Well, I'm sure there's
Speaker 1: a white person listening to us pink talking about I'm
Speaker 1: a real person. You didn't just say they weren't real people,
Speaker 1: and that's exactly how you started this ship. I didn't say, y'all,
Speaker 1: wasn't I said my homeboy said, does he have a
Speaker 1: kufy on right now? Was the words of a feather
Speaker 1: flock together? Do they not bitch? The second that I said,
Speaker 1: what's everybody's home? Top thought, they all like took a
Speaker 1: while to get it out. And he was like, so,
Speaker 1: I think you all with me. I think you got this.
Speaker 1: I think we donna say. And you know, we made
Speaker 1: like a joke about how when something feels off, like
Speaker 1: we're doing something off, we make the joke that's white
Speaker 1: people ship. He's like, you know why, because they don't
Speaker 1: sit right in your body. This ship ain't right. It's
Speaker 1: the white devil shit yo. That she was crazy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like casserole on the holidays now, definitely don't sit right, bro,
Speaker 1: Like what the fund are we doing? And why are
Speaker 1: we just eating the castle? It's like a canned soup
Speaker 1: with some vegetables with some crunchy ship on top. It
Speaker 1: was like a one pot stop shop. It is, but
Speaker 1: it normally has it's really good. It has the cancer
Speaker 1: like the it has like the castrol large deep pit
Speaker 1: pan or bowl used for oh so caster all The
Speaker 1: word came from the name of the dish. The dish
Speaker 1: was deep alright and then people call it a cast
Speaker 1: role dish. If there's chopped vegetables, meat, what I tell
Speaker 1: you because because to bind it all, to buy it
Speaker 1: all you put in the oven, but you put like
Speaker 1: the mushroom, soup, the chicken, the cream and chicken. It
Speaker 1: normally I'm gonna ship it literally says pieces of meat, fish, tuna. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's I'm talking about. Like they it all has like
Speaker 1: a bind. I don't see soup, bro because it's can
Speaker 1: of soup. It's soup. Can you were thinking that French
Speaker 1: onion that they prove that the same thing. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. That's what they put in the in
Speaker 1: the in the green bea castrole. Oh my god. Anyway,
Speaker 1: let's get into our vanilla ship. But it's with the
Speaker 1: nigger castro. Are there any black cat Latins have a
Speaker 1: counsel road that's not really up? What's what is it about? Hey, hey,
Speaker 1: real quick. What we're not about to do is she's
Speaker 1: not gonna sit here and allow y'all to have motherfucking
Speaker 1: Latina lasagna, where she wouldn't let me sit here and
Speaker 1: have my Haitians spaghett That is not what I could
Speaker 1: I could ride with you. This bitch rolled me for
Speaker 1: you my Haitian motherfucker Spaghett and heans trying to die
Speaker 1: on this hill that Haitians and eating the hot dogs
Speaker 1: and spaghetti. There are how many people have sent you
Speaker 1: dog domerans also to me your mother fucking emails to
Speaker 1: stop motherfucking coming from me, because let's time we did it.
Speaker 1: It was thirty percent? Was it not? What was? I
Speaker 1: don't know there was? Okay, So basically she lying about
Speaker 1: these locks. But the Republicans and the hotels follow you,
Speaker 1: they're not gonna know. Allow, what do you mean I
Speaker 1: got Anthony? That it does about? If that what got you?
Speaker 1: Always say that you know what I remember? I doesn't
Speaker 1: really think Anthony's my only Republican friend. And you know,
Speaker 1: it's so funny, like every time we go out, he's
Speaker 1: such a mess that it's embarrassing. Like I've been taking
Speaker 1: Anthony to black Ship and then people are you got
Speaker 1: a barn? Wait? Even saying all the time it's so
Speaker 1: bad Anthony. If you guys remember that episode, he's just
Speaker 1: very wall Street, He very like Italian. He was like, look,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck you think that I'm sucking
Speaker 1: out here in the streets, like saying George Floyd should
Speaker 1: have been No. I love black people, black lives matter,
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, I'm not paying
Speaker 1: fucking taxes like this motherfucker. And unfortunately, some Republicans just
Speaker 1: do not care about social causes enough. And I do
Speaker 1: believe like that's why when you find a black person
Speaker 1: that's a Republican feels like a trader, like I don't
Speaker 1: understand how we could even go that way. But you
Speaker 1: know he ain't on his Candice Owens, He's just a
Speaker 1: rich asshole kenness. Owens is acting like the nigger at
Speaker 1: the end of uh queen slim like the fact that
Speaker 1: she is creating this whole process to get the motherfucker's
Speaker 1: from Black Lives Matter that was spending the money on mansions,
Speaker 1: that she's kind of funny, ain't It's it's funny the
Speaker 1: thing that's embarrassing about it. I almost to the documentary
Speaker 1: in her old age, she will realize this. You have
Speaker 1: made it your effort, Candice fucking Owens. I don't even
Speaker 1: know which camera to look at, but Candice Owens has
Speaker 1: made it her literal effort to embarrass the black community.
Speaker 1: You must really hate your black skin enough that you
Speaker 1: have to tear down dead people every single time they
Speaker 1: die and be a contrarian when people are in pain,
Speaker 1: in pain as a women with children, you've got the
Speaker 1: fucking white nerve to sit your ass up on every
Speaker 1: piece of social media and embarrassed men and women that
Speaker 1: look like you. Black babies, black women, black men. You
Speaker 1: are a fucking joke in disgrace to people. Bitch, So
Speaker 1: without the bitch, you could add everything she just said
Speaker 1: to Little Busy as well and going on to I'm
Speaker 1: not cana. Little Bullsy is embarrassing, bro. He is embarrassing
Speaker 1: to that with women too, That nigga is embarrased, Bro,
Speaker 1: that nigga embarrassing everything. Tommy Lauren isn't as bad as
Speaker 1: Candice Hall, all right, I will never say that I
Speaker 1: disagree Tommy Lauren is like she tries to do the
Speaker 1: shock value things. She's not as smart as Candice, which
Speaker 1: makes her not as bad. Candice is smarter than that, right,
Speaker 1: Like we can't take to me like Tommy Lauren also
Speaker 1: is white, so like I haven't seen or heard that
Speaker 1: name in years where she Yeah, tomm Lauren failed was
Speaker 1: swept right on the rug under tuk her Colls Night
Speaker 1: this week Vanilla Ship. Guys, we're gonna get into it. Um,
Speaker 1: a Chinese feminine care brand is under fire over an
Speaker 1: intimate wash. Um. This was um hor Hives submitted, So
Speaker 1: thank you for this. Um enlarge the eyes, heightened the nose, bridge,
Speaker 1: reshaped the ears like an elf, removed the muscles from
Speaker 1: the calf, slim down the waist, shaved the body here
Speaker 1: and now the latest brighten the vagina. Now I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna see here and try to even read this motherfucking name.
Speaker 1: This was sent in, by the way from UM someone.
Speaker 1: I think she's living in China right now. Shout out
Speaker 1: to Jess. She sent this in and I was like wow.
Speaker 1: So a leading Chinese personal care brand has bat filled,
Speaker 1: baffled and outraged the Chinese Internet with a controversial advertisement
Speaker 1: which isn't in Chinese. Posted to Wee bow on Um.
Speaker 1: This was actually two months ago in May, that claims
Speaker 1: one of its new products can't suppress dark tissues and
Speaker 1: remove odor causing bacteria in the vagina. Multiple taglines for
Speaker 1: this high a Laurnic acid and acid and rose flourishing
Speaker 1: intimate wash are included in the now deleted post. With
Speaker 1: one reading wash and bring out a girl's pink. Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: that's it's for women who are dissatisfied with their quote
Speaker 1: unquote loose, dry and dark vagina. The company advised them
Speaker 1: to reduce activities like working out, which might lead to
Speaker 1: exercise friction in their private parts. Wearing skinny pants and
Speaker 1: having too much sex are also apparently two of the
Speaker 1: main factors causing darkenings of the volva, the post claims,
Speaker 1: but it offers no assurance of the safety and effectiveness
Speaker 1: of the product. One of the top voted comments on
Speaker 1: social media called out the problematic nature of the post
Speaker 1: and says, is it not clear enough that your target
Speaker 1: customers are women and it's us who keep your business afloat.
Speaker 1: Other commenters also called the post a blatant insult to women.
Speaker 1: I want to say out your paint. Yeah, it's discussing,
Speaker 1: but also the fact that you are assuming that the
Speaker 1: darkness in the vulva area is caused by an extra
Speaker 1: amount of sex is why. That's why. Also, they referenced
Speaker 1: the friction when you're exercising as to why you can
Speaker 1: also be dark down there. Now, I'm not sure because
Speaker 1: I can't speak from the um Asian experience, but as
Speaker 1: someone with melanin, as someone with a lot of black
Speaker 1: and Latina friends, like we have just dark spots in
Speaker 1: different parts in our body that don't even have frictions,
Speaker 1: like which look at my mother sucking elbows, like my
Speaker 1: elbows are are are darker than than normal, like even
Speaker 1: my knees and I do have definitely and I won't
Speaker 1: say it's from shaping, because my my inner thighs have
Speaker 1: been dark inside of them far before I even started fucking.
Speaker 1: So I can see why this was insulting. But what's
Speaker 1: also more insulting is the fact that they're pretty much
Speaker 1: pushing out this false narrative around already a part of
Speaker 1: our body that we're still learning because when we were
Speaker 1: in cool there was an education on how to properly clean,
Speaker 1: on what what feminine products to really use, what harm
Speaker 1: we were actually putting into our bodies with certain feminine products,
Speaker 1: And so I just hate that this is now also
Speaker 1: to me one of the things where a lot of
Speaker 1: these companies are just pandering two women, because we are
Speaker 1: consumers for a lot of things. We spend money on beauty,
Speaker 1: we spend money on on so many things regarding the skin,
Speaker 1: regarding our hair, regarding our our nails, eyelashes. That I
Speaker 1: feel like that market specifically. You know how I feel
Speaker 1: because I got into my nail shot debacle. I just
Speaker 1: hate that they really just try to pander to so
Speaker 1: much of our dollars. It is young favorites in AFRO.
Speaker 1: When I lived in Singapore, deodorant had bleaching in it.
Speaker 1: The lotion had bleaching in it. When my friend Jazz
Speaker 1: came over, I said, can you please just bring some
Speaker 1: products that don't have bleaching in it. I couldn't find
Speaker 1: face washes, deodorance, lotions, no bleaching eaching there like a
Speaker 1: lot of positive there, huge share was a lot of
Speaker 1: um uh stuff in Japan that I saw with like
Speaker 1: changing your eyes and widening the eyes, and it was
Speaker 1: like a huge thing um where they would like do
Speaker 1: advertisements of that, but bleaching. I did not bleaching. Well
Speaker 1: that's the things. Well, we're not only being Western, right,
Speaker 1: even though they're not white and black. The treatment in
Speaker 1: Asia of the dark like when I went to Malaysia,
Speaker 1: when I went to the Philippines, Uh, they're dark, they're
Speaker 1: they're dark there and Thailand they're treated over in Asia
Speaker 1: like the blacks and even when you won't actually want
Speaker 1: jump into that for a moment, I don't ever, but
Speaker 1: they're treated like black people in everywhere else in the
Speaker 1: hanging in l A. A lot of people, um are
Speaker 1: coming from the Bay and there's a lot of Filipinos
Speaker 1: in the Bay. And I know there's a lot of Blazians,
Speaker 1: but what there is also a lot of it is
Speaker 1: just Filipinos and regular Asian people hanging out in l A.
Speaker 1: Can you stop saying you're the niggas of where you're from?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, they say that. Yeah, so anyone ever heard
Speaker 1: this before? Actually they say the word. Yes, Oh no,
Speaker 1: I heard it. I've met a Filipino person at last
Speaker 1: LAP last day. They're the niggas. They say the inn word.
Speaker 1: And she hangs out with a lot of niggas and
Speaker 1: her man Man is a very popular black dude in
Speaker 1: the industry. And I heard her say nigga and I
Speaker 1: was like, and I made like a joke, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't want to cast it like a live and
Speaker 1: then she was like trying to convince me, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm Filipino, Like I'm also a person to call her
Speaker 1: I have a nigga. Um, But then he's got on
Speaker 1: this high rate of like how Filipinos are the quote
Speaker 1: unquote black people of Asia. And I was like, be
Speaker 1: that as it may, man, they could be treated poorly.
Speaker 1: And I understand you want to do this whole analogy
Speaker 1: thing here, but you're not a nigga. Yeah no, the date, babe,
Speaker 1: the history that we have, I mean, although the history
Speaker 1: over there is pretty bad too, well, they're not the
Speaker 1: way they got conquered by the Spaniards. Like just being
Speaker 1: over there and really talking to the locals. Yes, they're
Speaker 1: not black, Like, they're not niggas. I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: what I haven't heard. And I'm not sticking up for
Speaker 1: him because my father is Jewish, but I never heard
Speaker 1: a Jewish person walking around saying, Hey, at the Holocaust,
Speaker 1: we were niggas. Said, I never heard that, but for
Speaker 1: some reason, and I think it's because Filipinos feel and
Speaker 1: they are people of color, right, And I understand that,
Speaker 1: like we've welcomed Asians in the black community, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so, I have not about you. You haven't
Speaker 1: been in New York long enough. There you go all
Speaker 1: the way back to Rodney King beatings in California and
Speaker 1: here in Brooklyn, there's a huge divide between the Asian
Speaker 1: community and the black But you also have to remember
Speaker 1: how there has not that top culture clothing bro music.
Speaker 1: Sound like Asians are their culture voters. They're not accepting.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying don't accept them is, but they are
Speaker 1: not not accepted bro, Like, are you serious? We have
Speaker 1: a different take on this this actually and you know what,
Speaker 1: it could be right down the middle. But yeah, Like
Speaker 1: I think, especially on the West Coast, like more than
Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life, they I have never seen.
Speaker 1: Almost every black home girl I have from San Francisco
Speaker 1: is blazing. That just means that Asians and Black people
Speaker 1: are fucking. If you're mixed with if you're black, the
Speaker 1: communities are now mixed up, right, So like as a
Speaker 1: product of that, you have community. Like that's how they plan,
Speaker 1: and that's how Latinos and black people come together. You
Speaker 1: start fucking and then you build ship together. There are
Speaker 1: a lot of Asians and black culture. Bro. Literally, my
Speaker 1: talent producer on sex Cells is a fucking Asian dude, right,
Speaker 1: He's got me my birth find isn't like niggas is.
Speaker 1: They're a part of this ship and he was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I worked at death Champ and also like diversity hires,
Speaker 1: you gotta remember to right you start hiring people at
Speaker 1: labels in different types of industry. I don't believe Asians
Speaker 1: count as diversity highers. I worked in finance. We don't
Speaker 1: have to cut super insensitive to say I don't believe
Speaker 1: that they do. I worked in finance. This is my experience.
Speaker 1: You can think Organs aren't diversity highers. No, not in
Speaker 1: finance and accounting, they were the majority. They them and
Speaker 1: white doesn't because the majority are known for working in
Speaker 1: tech does not mean they're not a diversity higher. The
Speaker 1: way diversity higher has even been brought up in current
Speaker 1: times it is for black people, and I don't. I
Speaker 1: will sit here and say sorry, maybe we have a
Speaker 1: different experience. In finance and accounting, Asians and whites were
Speaker 1: the majority. There was never And I will also say
Speaker 1: when we went to d and I when we did
Speaker 1: our diversity and inclusion events down in Baltimore, it was
Speaker 1: just the black and Latina's that were that were offered
Speaker 1: to come, not the affirmative action and diversity higher or
Speaker 1: two to know we I literally had a trip for
Speaker 1: the diversity an inclusion trip on the New Hires at
Speaker 1: a top four firm. Asians were not included in this trade, bro,
Speaker 1: So say what you want from you what America? This
Speaker 1: is my experience and you are talking with your finance
Speaker 1: and you've got a moment, and I agree with your
Speaker 1: Asians are literally a part of diversification in America, Bro.
Speaker 1: It is the biggest continent, It holds the most of
Speaker 1: most people. They are the majority on the times going
Speaker 1: against there literally with a a p. I like, I
Speaker 1: don't know if you don't have enough Asian friends, but
Speaker 1: like that's insane to say, Okay, you don't think Asians
Speaker 1: diversify this country or like, like are you saying that.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, okay, you're just just grouping in
Speaker 1: white people in Asians right now, I'm saying they are
Speaker 1: the majority of this planet. They are not the minority.
Speaker 1: And so when a diversity hire them to get up
Speaker 1: the same area you did and you're telling and Asians
Speaker 1: were the majority of where you live. No, I'm saying
Speaker 1: for the globe, for the globe, there's a diversity hut.
Speaker 1: They are the Jordy on this planet. I can't fight
Speaker 1: you on this Okay, we're not. We don't need to
Speaker 1: fight your opinion my opinion. Y'all leave it in the
Speaker 1: comments where y'all stand on this, and we'll let it go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let me get forward. Let's move forward, back to candionsways
Speaker 1: as a cunt, I mean yes, and you're more than
Speaker 1: welcome to say that she is all right. Well, I
Speaker 1: want to ever tell you what. She probably hates the Asians,
Speaker 1: which means they're diverse. No, she ain't everybody, but she
Speaker 1: probably hate herself especially. I doubt she's even getting who knows,
Speaker 1: because that's how she's so miserable worried about everybody else. Listen,
Speaker 1: when you are getting dicked down, and when you are
Speaker 1: getting dicked down, I supwere to guy. Nobody else matters,
Speaker 1: Nothing matters like job. I'll be late because I just
Speaker 1: got some dick friends called calling back. I'm getting dick. Okay,
Speaker 1: they'll collect to call it. I'll never answer for them.
Speaker 1: I'm getting dick. You feel me? Favorite show is on TV?
Speaker 1: Catch it on DVR, Getting Dick Everything the way when
Speaker 1: you're getting dick. Candice Phone got way too much free
Speaker 1: time to really be out here. But what's crazier about her?
Speaker 1: Almost more than Stacy Dash. Stacy Dash was just like
Speaker 1: republican as fuck. She wanted to get another act. And
Speaker 1: Canada's Owens known for like being a piece of ship
Speaker 1: to black people, so like you had to literally come
Speaker 1: up from being that person. Stacy Dash was just like
Speaker 1: the black girl that we all knew that loved Trump.
Speaker 1: And you're like, what, but like she is literally on
Speaker 1: a tirade. I think she'd take her white pink dick
Speaker 1: out of her mouth. Jesus to fucking talk about black
Speaker 1: people on the internet to make a school shooting suddenly
Speaker 1: a trans thing? Wait what so you didn't see that?
Speaker 1: There were like um pictures and I don't believe they
Speaker 1: were real of a trans woman that like had a
Speaker 1: similar look to the shooter. And Canada's Owens was like, oh,
Speaker 1: mental illness is a thing trans people, which being trans
Speaker 1: is a mental illness. If you you saw your son
Speaker 1: in a skirt, you should have had him treated for
Speaker 1: mental illness. It's not about the guns, twitch you did
Speaker 1: all of their and his reaching his hand out to
Speaker 1: the air. He that was the whole last craziest thing
Speaker 1: I've read. And you're thinking about all these people in
Speaker 1: this terrible moment in time and kids and like, what
Speaker 1: how was that the first thing? Yo? Black ass? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? That's what everybody's trying to do.
Speaker 1: What let's get it to the hor derve. The hord
Speaker 1: Derve comes from Esquire dot com, where it actually says,
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, you wouldn't even know that it was this simple.
Speaker 1: The key to better sex is all in your breathing breath.
Speaker 1: I can believe that breath is like the siren going
Speaker 1: off in your body if it's screwy. There are more
Speaker 1: sinister forces at play, like stress, tension, and anxiety. None
Speaker 1: of these are making the sex you have any better.
Speaker 1: To really enjoy sex, you've got to connect yourself and
Speaker 1: your partner in a fuller, deeper way, says Jimmy Burgio,
Speaker 1: an instructor at Pure Yoga in New York. And the
Speaker 1: easiest way to do that is by doing exactly what
Speaker 1: you're doing right now. Let's do it breathing, but with
Speaker 1: more control, hold it at least so during I feel
Speaker 1: like I would do that during anmal Oh you have to, oh,
Speaker 1: but you have to let your bootahole like relax. So
Speaker 1: during sex, and especially during sex with a new partner.
Speaker 1: You can get nervous or agitated. You might hold your
Speaker 1: breath or huff and puff erratically. You're thinking about a
Speaker 1: thousand things at once when you only want to be
Speaker 1: thinking about one thing. Controlled, mindful breathing quiets the excess
Speaker 1: noise and relaxes your body. You're tuned into what's happening
Speaker 1: in front of you, and the sex is actually more enjoyable.
Speaker 1: I'll admit I've definitely almost like been unconscious from eating
Speaker 1: pussy from not breathing. Wait, what is it like? You
Speaker 1: know how you're diving in and I did not? I
Speaker 1: was just in there? Wait? What but you know you
Speaker 1: can breathe through your nose, right, you know? You just
Speaker 1: forgot to breathe out of all holes. I forgot to breathe.
Speaker 1: That was dedicated. It was great. Did you maybe do
Speaker 1: you think subconsciously that you're into maybe suffocation of some sort,
Speaker 1: because maybe subconsciously you you liked the idea of not
Speaker 1: breathing in some pussy, and that could be what you
Speaker 1: might really be into stuffing. You just you almost died
Speaker 1: eating position and not some ballership. Yo, what I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm being judged here and that you you look
Speaker 1: like you're being judged. I'm just trying to see if
Speaker 1: you may have an un unknown because not that would
Speaker 1: be smothering. But like you're just saying you forgot. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Smothering and suffocation might be a thing.
Speaker 1: So maybe you tried to do it although she wasn't
Speaker 1: on top of it, and so maybe you like that
Speaker 1: problem you have a nose, like that's why what are
Speaker 1: you trying to say here with your nose in her?
Speaker 1: But how did you forget to? Okay, see not the
Speaker 1: sound effects that you feel up there? Thank you wolf. Well,
Speaker 1: if you got a whole beard, you don't gotta put
Speaker 1: your nose and eat out your beard in your mouth.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, ed, and you're official here too, But wait,
Speaker 1: you're saying like okay, and you're instance. You're just saying
Speaker 1: that you're working both of them. So you're freaking you
Speaker 1: got lightheaded from eating pussy? Yeah, get on the mic,
Speaker 1: Get on, get on the mic. We don't want to
Speaker 1: hear people in the background. We want to enjoyable, audible experience.
Speaker 1: Is saying, I think it's easy to not prioritize breathing
Speaker 1: when you're thinkin we're crazy if I got a dive
Speaker 1: about a pussy on the do you hear you? Thank you?
Speaker 1: If it's always had a nigg eat her pussy that
Speaker 1: didn't want to live, she would have been a better person.
Speaker 1: You know what, I need gonna hold you and you
Speaker 1: got to come to work wolf, So please, now that
Speaker 1: you're talking about it, I now don't even want knowing
Speaker 1: you could eat my pussy unless he's gonna risk dying
Speaker 1: and not for him while he us wants the pleasure
Speaker 1: of Hey, this is the next? What the next? What
Speaker 1: the god motherfucker ship? Anyway? What's the god motherfuckit? I'm
Speaker 1: really learned how to curse differently, okay, crazy, Like we
Speaker 1: like the solo episodes are really like just something. They're
Speaker 1: like whoa many things. It's an outline. No, this is
Speaker 1: an outline. Take it too. We get into I don't
Speaker 1: know what we like. Maybe it's because we're too niche
Speaker 1: in our podcast, like Mandy doesn't music and a sex podcast,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, so maybe you feel
Speaker 1: like this is where you just gotta O. Don't know.
Speaker 1: I I do see the thing is too all the time, okay,
Speaker 1: because you do, it's half all the time. I do
Speaker 1: it all the time. We talked about transparency and not transparency,
Speaker 1: like literally transparent pine is not real. Oh that okay,
Speaker 1: get into the horrible decision this week. I thought it
Speaker 1: was only right, especially with us being single and not
Speaker 1: testing the waters. Now I came across the clip on
Speaker 1: Twitter where a woman was saying that women are not
Speaker 1: competitive anymore, that we don't go out of our way
Speaker 1: even knowing that the person we're pursuing may have other
Speaker 1: people pursuing them. There isn't any any inkling for a
Speaker 1: woman to get in competition mode, which is why women
Speaker 1: aren't catering, women are cooking for niggas, Women aren't showing
Speaker 1: up in a way that bitch. You know, there's probably
Speaker 1: other women that want the men you want. You know
Speaker 1: why women are competing? Why because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, men love to chase, and so what happens
Speaker 1: is if you're giving it up too much, suddenly there's
Speaker 1: nothing for them to chase, and then they'll literally get
Speaker 1: so fucking bored with all the fucking food you bag
Speaker 1: that they start chasing another pussy because niggas get bored.
Speaker 1: That's just no. I really believe like a lot of
Speaker 1: women give too much too soon? Do you feel like
Speaker 1: you've done that. I've seen the success in relationships where
Speaker 1: I kind of cable things a little bit, you know,
Speaker 1: I've I've stopped myself from doing things. I almost bought
Speaker 1: this nickel like a little gift or something recently, and
Speaker 1: I remember, like, that's not, that's not. That's a really
Speaker 1: great point though, And you have to agree with that.
Speaker 1: I have to. So what is holding it in? Right?
Speaker 1: So let me ask you? Right, So, if y'all, if
Speaker 1: you're dating women, though, do you not rank which one
Speaker 1: is showing up a certain way more than the next,
Speaker 1: Like aren't there still things that y'all want from women?
Speaker 1: And when when one isn't doing something and another one is,
Speaker 1: you might lean more towards this one. Because I've had
Speaker 1: men feel like I'm completely just not that interested in them,
Speaker 1: and maybe because I'm entertaining other men because I don't
Speaker 1: show up for them in certain instances, they just feel
Speaker 1: like I'm not that attracted, like I'm not into them.
Speaker 1: So a lot of men aren't gonna also want to
Speaker 1: be chasing after a woman who they feel like may
Speaker 1: not even be that into them. That's you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? And so that's where I've been just like, damn,
Speaker 1: I actually feel like I've dropped the ball even thinking
Speaker 1: of how I've shown up on this podcast and the
Speaker 1: things I've said in terms of not cooking for men
Speaker 1: or really just maybe going some days and weeks without
Speaker 1: hitting the nigga. Maybe I should have been a little
Speaker 1: bit more persistent and be it. I mean, and that's
Speaker 1: been subconsciously because like, yeah, I don't think that wanting
Speaker 1: someone means you show up more. I like as far
Speaker 1: as like cooking and doing things for them, I mean,
Speaker 1: more so show interest, not not like doing not not
Speaker 1: like actors services, just like even just a reply or
Speaker 1: thinking of you, or just small little things like that,
Speaker 1: not like the big you gotta do. You don't have
Speaker 1: to do like wifey stuff. But I'm thinking I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about wife This is the issue we've had, I
Speaker 1: feel like as men, or what I've had as a man,
Speaker 1: where I've I'm definitely guilty of doing boyfriend things for
Speaker 1: women who I have no interest of being my girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Why And again I yeah, but that's that's bad because
Speaker 1: where I've done it, I've done things where it's like
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be kind or trying to be
Speaker 1: you know, cute, or sometimes it's too much and the
Speaker 1: next thing you know, you're over here hyping them and
Speaker 1: you're like, why are they trying to like get with
Speaker 1: me like that? I was just trying to like we
Speaker 1: were just trying to suck each other. And now I'm
Speaker 1: almost in boy from material type of game, and it's
Speaker 1: not good. I'm trying to think of where I'm at
Speaker 1: in this moment because I am up someone that will
Speaker 1: cook for you and do really nice things and I'm
Speaker 1: a good partner. But hmm, I'm thirty one and I'm
Speaker 1: meeting men around my same age. I meet dope asked
Speaker 1: women too that are doing dope ship. But I know
Speaker 1: that I'm special. I know that I'm one of a kind,
Speaker 1: and I know that I'm not someone that's easy to
Speaker 1: find in terms of like all that I can offer.
Speaker 1: So there's very few times recently where I felt like
Speaker 1: I've got so crazy. You said that I'm gonna send
Speaker 1: you the audio. Now I had to play the clip
Speaker 1: because you literally just said what this woman said in
Speaker 1: this clip, and now we have to fucking go at it.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna finish this out I'm not I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I can't do these things for you, but
Speaker 1: I know for a fact, men finding a partner like
Speaker 1: me is just not really gonna happen. Like men have
Speaker 1: to work so hard to become this fucking dude that's
Speaker 1: larger than life for women to want them. And I
Speaker 1: will literally elevate a nigga with the ship that I'm
Speaker 1: going to bring to the table. And when men recognize
Speaker 1: that and understand that in me, like it's it. I
Speaker 1: don't have to. I shouldn't be having to fight this
Speaker 1: hard like I was fighting hard to you know, be
Speaker 1: everything for a nigga when I didn't have much to offer.
Speaker 1: Maybe I was cooking ten times a week because I
Speaker 1: didn't really have anything else to give. I'm still going
Speaker 1: to cook for you, but maybe now it's maybe we're
Speaker 1: too on the move to where we're going to dinner together,
Speaker 1: like Josh, just it. I'm gonna show up in other ways. Um,
Speaker 1: But those literal things like yeah, it's a different, it's different.
Speaker 1: Let me hear this clip and I sent it to
Speaker 1: you on The text is to bring a man a plate,
Speaker 1: rub his feet, just basic things of the attitude of
Speaker 1: so many women that I see now is they don't
Speaker 1: want to cater to a man in any It's almost
Speaker 1: like it's a dirty word. It's they don't want to
Speaker 1: compete for a man. They want him to just pick
Speaker 1: her because she's so special. But it's too much competition.
Speaker 1: There's too much out here. What are you doing to
Speaker 1: outbeat the competition? What are you going to win over
Speaker 1: a man? And a lot of women they don't want
Speaker 1: to do it. They want to have attitudes, you know,
Speaker 1: not be in you know, working themselves in any kind
Speaker 1: of way physically, mentally, spiritually. Just think they just just
Speaker 1: to show up. Me being a lie, being a woman
Speaker 1: with a vagina is enough for for a man to
Speaker 1: choose me except me as I am. All the men
Speaker 1: need to change, all the men need to stop being
Speaker 1: this way. But us women were perfect out the world.
Speaker 1: I could see what she's saying, But like, that wasn't
Speaker 1: the conversation I've had just my pussy. I don't think
Speaker 1: it's gonna work. You know, I'm someone that offers way
Speaker 1: more intellect than that, and I know that and literally
Speaker 1: my daily fucking regimen shows that I would be a
Speaker 1: different type of partner. You know what I'm saying, like
Speaker 1: the way that I handle business, the way that I'm
Speaker 1: moving in the world with goals, Like I don't think
Speaker 1: it's just like I've got pussy now. I do believe
Speaker 1: back then I did just have pussy, and that's why
Speaker 1: I was topping it up with other things. But yes,
Speaker 1: like I am someone that is hard to come by
Speaker 1: and and and I don't know what she thinks is special,
Speaker 1: but I'm not talking about aesthetics or pussy or anything
Speaker 1: like that. Um And I think when you're talking about
Speaker 1: someone like that, I actually find it to be a
Speaker 1: disservice to be a woman in the world moving like that.
Speaker 1: And also think that you have to fucking push out
Speaker 1: all these like modern housewife e, cook of your feet,
Speaker 1: rolls just to keep someone right. I do believe we
Speaker 1: should be treating ourselves like we're a catch. I've met
Speaker 1: so many men that will say things like they're the
Speaker 1: table or their X y Z are asking women what
Speaker 1: they're bringing to the table now too, though, but putting
Speaker 1: in so much time and work into getting your degrees
Speaker 1: and doing things like that, it's things that we associate
Speaker 1: with men. So when women are able to accomplish goals
Speaker 1: that most women are seeking men for you are special.
Speaker 1: I hear that, woman, But to me, that's just that
Speaker 1: silly ass podcast talk. You know when people have the
Speaker 1: same podcast conversation like splitting a check or whatever. That's
Speaker 1: stupid ass podcast talk. When you really live, walk and
Speaker 1: breathe in a purpose where you know you're hard to find,
Speaker 1: like you ain't. No, And I'm not saying I'm too
Speaker 1: good to cook for a nigga, A really a nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm right now. They know your worth, you know your
Speaker 1: self worth. Yeah, it's it's just weird because as women were,
Speaker 1: we know when there's other women pursuing a man that
Speaker 1: it is. It's an unspoken in competition that's happening, and
Speaker 1: a lot of women do want to be chosen. You're
Speaker 1: not entertaining any of any of the men that you're
Speaker 1: entertaining now without maybe if you want to be with them,
Speaker 1: you do want to You want them to choose you
Speaker 1: as who they're gonna with, whether they're other women or not.
Speaker 1: It's also weird though, because for men, men, although they
Speaker 1: are the chasers, right, they fucking hate competition. If they
Speaker 1: know you're entertaining other niggas, they feel like you areho
Speaker 1: and now I'm good. I'm not even gonna look at
Speaker 1: you as thee. I know that there may be women
Speaker 1: that want to be chose, but like now that I'm
Speaker 1: at this point, there are niggas that want to be chosen.
Speaker 1: Of course, you know what I'm saying. I have multiple
Speaker 1: men right now that would like want to either sleep
Speaker 1: with me date me. But like, huh, there's a reason that,
Speaker 1: like old Bay has done all of these things to
Speaker 1: get back with me. Men unfortunately don't realize what they
Speaker 1: have until it's gone. But like there's a grown ass
Speaker 1: man that has made every effort to get back with me,
Speaker 1: right when you sucked all these holes and you've done
Speaker 1: all these things like take my phone, do this have
Speaker 1: the keys to my house? Like all these outlandish things.
Speaker 1: And I really believe it's because you now went out
Speaker 1: in the world and realize, oh, I really can't find
Speaker 1: a dish like you, so I don't have I don't
Speaker 1: believe when you have a lot of suitors like he
Speaker 1: did want Maggie, but no, no, no, we go to
Speaker 1: jazz weekly, Maggie and now look at Maggie. It's insane.
Speaker 1: But you know, when you have a lot of suitors,
Speaker 1: Like I don't believe you need to be you know,
Speaker 1: men recognize that ship too. When I go out, they
Speaker 1: see the men that are on my dick. They know
Speaker 1: the people that I roll with or who was on
Speaker 1: my line, and like, you see my world, so you understand,
Speaker 1: like it's not hard to get another one. And when
Speaker 1: you walk talking act like that, that is how you
Speaker 1: get a lot of men on your dick. And I
Speaker 1: believe when women are so fucking focused and trying to
Speaker 1: win at one, you will literally lose your chance at
Speaker 1: other men. So you are only as good as your options.
Speaker 1: I've been told that before and it is a real
Speaker 1: fucking thing. Man, damn that I'm good as watch. It's
Speaker 1: kind of little. I do want to you know, No, God,
Speaker 1: I'm like, actually, you gotta get out there, like you
Speaker 1: sitting there texting that one, like can I drop you
Speaker 1: off food? Do you want to eat today? I'm like
Speaker 1: with one nigga and watching the playoffs like do we
Speaker 1: have to watch fun that I do? And I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I will say that you do it when it's for SI.
Speaker 1: Then niggas drops singles and now we gotta listen to
Speaker 1: this Nigga's song in the Car like options right now,
Speaker 1: they will they were, They're crazy, They're crazy. I did
Speaker 1: before we get out of this, I wanted to characterize
Speaker 1: some of the competition framework that maybe actually ruining some
Speaker 1: of our listeners love lives. So if you're dating, these
Speaker 1: are some things that they also consider quote unquote competition
Speaker 1: where you're putting other people against each other and you
Speaker 1: might not even know. So when you're dating, sometimes you're
Speaker 1: seeking the best or hottest person according to the standards
Speaker 1: of other people. Okay, that's one attempting to acquire attempting
Speaker 1: to acquire a man or a woman who is in
Speaker 1: heavy demand, So one who a lot of men or
Speaker 1: women are chasing because you're motivated by the sport or
Speaker 1: the challenge of it. I know you heard that. Don't
Speaker 1: do that. Don't do that. I've been talking to my mother.
Speaker 1: He be like, goddamn country. I'd be like, hey, freend motivated,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Don't just in Atlanta not too long ago.
Speaker 1: I got back to my roots, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I've been in New York too long. All right, over
Speaker 1: emphasis on physical appearance and other words, rejecting other men
Speaker 1: or women on apparent flaws, such as things as their
Speaker 1: feet are too big, sort of like a judge at
Speaker 1: a dog show hide his death. I'm sorry, that's a require.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fun house. And I had this
Speaker 1: conversation I'll never forget. We talked about sharonas and uh
Speaker 1: we went out somewhere in Sharonis was out, I can't remember,
Speaker 1: and like he was like, damn, isn't gonna be getting
Speaker 1: mad course tales and oh Bay six feet and he
Speaker 1: said he said we would have never been together. Yes,
Speaker 1: he said I would have been, so he would have been.
Speaker 1: That's wow. Not a sixth book man. Honestly though, it's
Speaker 1: because like I think, like women just don't see like
Speaker 1: men that are attractive, and that there's just like men
Speaker 1: are pretty trash. When you find a decent one, like
Speaker 1: you just be on and so I think that's just
Speaker 1: what happens if you ever found yourself wanting guys that
Speaker 1: were wanted that bad. I mean I'm sure like like
Speaker 1: primarily I've actually been shot. Yeah, well I've been shocked
Speaker 1: in some instances, like you mean wanted to be with them,
Speaker 1: not just fucking with men that are wanting. Um, I
Speaker 1: mean I've definitely. I mean, I've talked about the niggas
Speaker 1: don't sucked on this podcast. Um, they let niggas, but
Speaker 1: they are um. But to me, it's more so going
Speaker 1: into that not with the idea of monogamy, not with
Speaker 1: the idea of exclusiveness. Like I don't believe men can
Speaker 1: say no enough, like even people say, man, Kevin Samuel's
Speaker 1: bitch today, I don't believe that men will say, well,
Speaker 1: I said no this many times, so you should just
Speaker 1: be okay that I said no this many times. And yes,
Speaker 1: I sucked up this one time, but it's because I
Speaker 1: said no this many times. And it's because like litt
Speaker 1: niggas will have ship thrown at them. But then there's
Speaker 1: also a bit just like me, and yes I said
Speaker 1: like me where I don't give a funk about you
Speaker 1: being in a relationship. If I want you, I want
Speaker 1: you because women are that way the same way as niggas.
Speaker 1: Like like, I like to hold both parties accountable in
Speaker 1: this fucking space, And that to me is what it is.
Speaker 1: What was that people if someone's taken I heard you.
Speaker 1: That's not all the time. All the time, bro, she
Speaker 1: was talking about you guys want to bring up my
Speaker 1: ex girl. He didn't have a baby, Lambo, you said
Speaker 1: she looks baby mama. If he had, that's worse. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't. I really like, seriously, I really do not
Speaker 1: like you know what if I do, like it's literally
Speaker 1: like maybe I've had sex with X and like like seriously,
Speaker 1: like I don't meet men that have girlfriends And I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is what I'm gonna do tonight. How many times
Speaker 1: do you think that they didn't tell you though? Oh knowing,
Speaker 1: I'm sure because I'm sure Lambo's baby mama thinks she's
Speaker 1: his girlfriend, right well, probably why he's like, y'all be
Speaker 1: so you just go to New York and you just
Speaker 1: basically do all these episodes and they just come out.
Speaker 1: That was I mean, because I was getting together, breaking up,
Speaker 1: getting to other Mondigga so much. When we got together,
Speaker 1: I was I would literally just have to be like
Speaker 1: well for the next month and a half. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about you on the on the show. Sorry, just so
Speaker 1: you know, even though we're in good space right now,
Speaker 1: I just don't listen to the pod please, I'm talking
Speaker 1: all this ship about you. Anyways. I want to get
Speaker 1: into our homemail before we get out of here. This
Speaker 1: one is called confession. Come off, give it to him.
Speaker 1: So during the pandemic, I slept with over fifteen plus
Speaker 1: different people. For the first year I was in a relationship,
Speaker 1: so it was just her and it was long distance.
Speaker 1: After we ended the relationship, I was going crazy on
Speaker 1: tender bumble and meeting people at events. I did a
Speaker 1: lot of things I never imagined, including to threesomes. One
Speaker 1: was two girls and I was the guy, and one
Speaker 1: was two guys one girl. One of the girls was
Speaker 1: in both threesomes. I was sucking so much, and I
Speaker 1: honestly didn't know why. I'm a whore and I payment.
Speaker 1: But now I met someone I really liked and I
Speaker 1: want to make her my main. But I'm having trouble
Speaker 1: letting go of one or two of the other girls
Speaker 1: I used to mess with my mom. My mom met
Speaker 1: this new girl and she likes her so much. She
Speaker 1: wants her to be my girlfriend. If my mom gave
Speaker 1: the green light, it's because if my mom has the
Speaker 1: green light, it's because she sees something I don't, and
Speaker 1: I think she's always been right about those things. It's
Speaker 1: gonna hurt me to let go of my other partners,
Speaker 1: which are more than that, truly, they are friends and
Speaker 1: it's gonna hurt some feelings if slash when I go
Speaker 1: public with the new person I met. Could y'all give
Speaker 1: me some advice as to how I should break off
Speaker 1: things with the other girls? And do you genuinely think
Speaker 1: we can be friends or will they hate me? Because
Speaker 1: they love me just as much as I love them,
Speaker 1: but more platonic love than anything. At the moment, we
Speaker 1: do still fun from time to time, and it's just
Speaker 1: because the pussy is available. I need to practice self
Speaker 1: control and focus on one. I'm scared of losing my
Speaker 1: friends because they want me. I really like this guy. Man,
Speaker 1: this is actually a very very good honest Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: interesting he read of self control. Uh. Recently, the person
Speaker 1: I've been seeing talked about their self control with me
Speaker 1: and not having sex so soon and self control and
Speaker 1: situations and like being faithful and different things like that.
Speaker 1: And I never hear men talk about self control because
Speaker 1: nigga's just as like seriously, men understand that like cheating
Speaker 1: from the wild, playing far far way. So yeah, I think, Um,
Speaker 1: it's a really good thing that you asked too women
Speaker 1: that on a podcast and I'm gonna say this, you
Speaker 1: don't really get great things in life without sacrificing something.
Speaker 1: Um I don't believe there's just things like handed to you.
Speaker 1: I believe you do have to sacrifice something. And I
Speaker 1: think letting those two people go because is you found
Speaker 1: someone that could be a great partner is a smart
Speaker 1: thing to do, particularly because now you can fully invest
Speaker 1: your energy and time into that. And yes, they'll it'll hurt.
Speaker 1: But one, if you love and care about someone, you
Speaker 1: don't string them along. And too, if you could not
Speaker 1: coexist in your current relationship, if she wants to be
Speaker 1: a monogamous whatever. By having those women the way when
Speaker 1: you start ship sucked up, ship ends sucked up. So
Speaker 1: you have to make sure that you are acting out
Speaker 1: certain people out of your lives so that you can
Speaker 1: flourish in another space. And I don't really know if
Speaker 1: there's advice on how to break off something. I think
Speaker 1: a lot of people work in different ways. But I
Speaker 1: will tell you that being totally honest that you care
Speaker 1: about someone is the best thing to do. Um Old Bay,
Speaker 1: whether he's lying or not, says one of the sideline
Speaker 1: chicks that he had to cut off. He said, I
Speaker 1: realized that the only way to have her understand was
Speaker 1: to tell her how much I cared about you and
Speaker 1: tell her that, like right, And he's like, that's not
Speaker 1: easy because she cared about me. But if I could
Speaker 1: explain to her that this is how I'm feeling because
Speaker 1: obviously I've sucked her while with you, but like, I
Speaker 1: have to have her understand that because I love this person.
Speaker 1: You know I'm going to lose what I have because
Speaker 1: of this, so I can't do that to someone else.
Speaker 1: And it's okay to have a hierarchy on your feelings. Also,
Speaker 1: women will be okay. We know that there's kind of
Speaker 1: like always the one up board and the other. Like
Speaker 1: I do believe it's okay to have a hierarchy and
Speaker 1: your feelings that I want to be honest, be real
Speaker 1: honest with them too. Yeah, they will be there so
Speaker 1: whether this relationship last not, But that when I got
Speaker 1: with my nigga during the pandemic, I'd let all my
Speaker 1: hos no. But also and maybe being too honest there
Speaker 1: now you already listen, as long as they're not married
Speaker 1: with children by the time this relationship comes to an end,
Speaker 1: then they just will be there. The plussy will be
Speaker 1: available in a few years as long as the dick
Speaker 1: is good. No, I'm saying for other people, listen, this
Speaker 1: is about But what I'm saying is let them know
Speaker 1: that you're in this relationship. I feel like he's in
Speaker 1: fear of losing these people forever. Bro, if the dick
Speaker 1: is good, if the sex is good, you never really
Speaker 1: lose people forever. I still got niggas in my phone
Speaker 1: that I in high school, still willing to give me
Speaker 1: the dick if I gave him the pussy. Uh, Mandy's
Speaker 1: fucking insane. No, I'm not, because here is the truth. Okay,
Speaker 1: nobody leaves. Everybody always is around, whether they're in the
Speaker 1: picture or whether they're not. Guess what's gonna happen When
Speaker 1: you and this girl have your wonderful relationship and then
Speaker 1: it ends, those two friends of yours will be right
Speaker 1: there like, oh, I'm sorry it didn't work out, and
Speaker 1: we'll still grab a drink a beer and give you
Speaker 1: pussy as long as they are now not in love. Now,
Speaker 1: that's what you have to be okay with lothing, right
Speaker 1: hold on. What you have to be okay with losing
Speaker 1: is the fact that these friends, these women. You love
Speaker 1: the vaginas, that's so good. You keep going back. You
Speaker 1: need to fear that they may find a nigga by
Speaker 1: the time you get back single, and then you're gonna
Speaker 1: had to wait. That's just how the world works. It
Speaker 1: is a motherfucker's cycle. So when I tell you these niggas,
Speaker 1: these bitches, they always there, always there, bro, And I
Speaker 1: would love your relationship to last, but I'm a realist
Speaker 1: over here it probably won't. So it's gonna be great
Speaker 1: while it's great, and it's gonna last until it down
Speaker 1: and then it's over. What. So I was you know
Speaker 1: how I'm white. Oh, I'm very right, but you could
Speaker 1: you know, I don't cause that you was sucking your
Speaker 1: old baby niggas. Now I don't necessarily, um, you don't
Speaker 1: just because you're saying it like this doesn't take away
Speaker 1: you know. I started talking like that's about to come
Speaker 1: out of there. There's some white people that just booked
Speaker 1: our studio, and I was tell myself, I know I'm
Speaker 1: on my niggah today, so anyway, no, I'm just there
Speaker 1: the room. I was like, oh not. Then walking too
Speaker 1: with us said white people wouldn't really uh literally, they
Speaker 1: probably came to conquer your ass. That's what they do.
Speaker 1: They conquer. That bitch did tell me to get hers
Speaker 1: of water. She said that the white bitch there, white
Speaker 1: bitchund I said. I said, Joe, thank you for poking
Speaker 1: with us. I know, what's your first time off? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard the waters in the other room. Could you
Speaker 1: get the water? I said, that's your a little slave
Speaker 1: on the fourth of July. Anyway, Okay, So I was
Speaker 1: saying all that to say, um, well, I would saying
Speaker 1: I didn't agree with you. Is mainly because he like
Speaker 1: sounds like he wants his relationship to work. So I
Speaker 1: don't want to wish that your relationship. And by the way,
Speaker 1: these bitches is not your friend, like you came relationship
Speaker 1: calling them to your friend. They're waiting. They're waiting, buddy.
Speaker 1: So lover boy and I I'm going to Milana and
Speaker 1: like probably a few weeks with Gabby, my friend who's
Speaker 1: out there now for work. And he was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: when you're in Europe, let's get together. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh great. And I think I even said to you
Speaker 1: maybe do Iceland or something, which is crazy that that
Speaker 1: was even said. Why because if any of my friends
Speaker 1: from overseas just lands in America. It's not like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's just meet up since you're in America, like you're
Speaker 1: as big as fun. But in my year, but we
Speaker 1: used to do that, we were together, Okay, I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So he's like, you'll be in Italy. It's only two
Speaker 1: hours away from me now, so like let's bounce around together.
Speaker 1: So I said, yeah, and did you on that dick?
Speaker 1: Now that I've bounced on another dick? You really got
Speaker 1: to catch somebody well, and I'm you do you do?
Speaker 1: You gotta catch them. I'm not saying any single I'm
Speaker 1: just saying a little less interested in doing this one
Speaker 1: because like I'm saying that my pussy isn't open for Europe.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like to start planning a trip, I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like into someone else. It's like a little
Speaker 1: difficult and so I'm not as involved. And you really
Speaker 1: got to catch someone so emotional. Bit just just top
Speaker 1: on this old dick, because again, the dick is always
Speaker 1: gonna be there. So while you when you're go ahead
Speaker 1: and take and it's just always gonna be there. Do
Speaker 1: you want to? She don't know because now she's getting
Speaker 1: in her feelings about whatever. Nigga, she's sucking now you
Speaker 1: multiple I'm sorking one day. I had a blip okay,
Speaker 1: how to be looking one day? Okay? And this when
Speaker 1: he becomes uh lover point is a blip TuS it
Speaker 1: but not if you're planning it. Two blips in a
Speaker 1: in a dick. She like, ain't that crazy? Two the
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