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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of parrible decisions, and you are

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Speaker 1: probably tuning in to us on Tuesday, because bitches, they

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Speaker 1: gave us Monday off for those of you incorporate. However,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to shout out the independence of this

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Speaker 1: motherfucking god forsaken country we live in. I want to

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Speaker 1: shout out to all the independent women. And if I

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Speaker 1: could play the music, I would right now. But we're

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Speaker 1: not bro and I do want to shout out to

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Speaker 1: the independent women. That's really all we have. We had

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Speaker 1: June Team, which by the way, um to me, and

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Speaker 1: we got Martin us the King day. I really yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right. No what I'm saying like June Chea just passed,

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Speaker 1: but like the studio either closed or double pay, like

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Speaker 1: this is some big sheet and I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 1: like I want to make sure that since other companies

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Speaker 1: are doing federal holidays a certain way, I gotta do

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Speaker 1: the black Ship right because we only got a few.

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Speaker 1: And I understand we got Dave and Yomi and Eddin,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know the Hispanic ones really yet. But

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Speaker 1: when I figured out out. Do you guys do y'all

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Speaker 1: celebrate the fourth of July? Like because it's our independence

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Speaker 1: But we've never really got in deepending. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I thought Shena saying they're not Mexican. No, I didn't

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Speaker 1: know what she's gonna say because I can't think of

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Speaker 1: another big like Latin holiday. But we just eat, bro,

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Speaker 1: what is the big? What is holiday? They barbecue the

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Speaker 1: day before Christmas? I was gonna say Christmas when y'all

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Speaker 1: make the best knee he like, oh wait, the bitch

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Speaker 1: deal delos. I don't know how to say, but that's

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Speaker 1: how it goes. That was good. Yeah, yeah, that do

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Speaker 1: you know what that means? That's Halloween Day day, but

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Speaker 1: that's like, don't go around Holliday, don't do us. Mexico

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Speaker 1: City goes up sign for like you wonder why I

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Speaker 1: was trying to get you to make sure that you

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Speaker 1: guys do what that men do it again. But you

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Speaker 1: lived in Mexico. You can do it better than that. No,

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Speaker 1: it's too it's you're coming in here during the Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: heyst up about okay? Uh speaking of Mexico, I want

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Speaker 1: to make it a little l a announcement. So you

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Speaker 1: guys have seen that we open the l A student

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Speaker 1: maybe you haven't. Maybe you have Hollywood Boulevard. And I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to shout everybody out um that has sent

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Speaker 1: in applications, but please still send them in. I do wanna, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, start hiring um without people that are like recommending.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like sometimes you know, whenever you open

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Speaker 1: a business, like you know you hired someone before you announced, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I do want to like leave the floor open

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Speaker 1: for people to come through and work there. Um, it's

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Speaker 1: in Hollywood on five six three one, um Hollywood and Grammar.

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Speaker 1: See it's like East Hollywood. It's nice, it's dope. There's

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Speaker 1: six K cams. We've got two sets come through. It's five.

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Speaker 1: But we will take the black brown and the Mexicans.

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Speaker 1: We got Mexicans that work here, dog and in l A.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you've almost got to like if I

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Speaker 1: don't have a Mexican under the w TF umbrella? Am

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Speaker 1: I doing l A right? You got Latinos, but like Mexican,

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Speaker 1: Mexican Mexican because it's okay, you don't feel that flooded

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Speaker 1: with Mexican. Yes, like you have to sucked up. It's

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Speaker 1: almost like you build a business in Harlem and you

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Speaker 1: have no black people, so I would like to have

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Speaker 1: a Mexican. Don't have no Asians here? We buy Chinatown?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? How no, this is Chinatown? Well you thought

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Speaker 1: Yomi was Asian and a lot of passive Jesus. And

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Speaker 1: not to mention, the building is Chinese own it show

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Speaker 1: is so they you in the building, they're right there.

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Speaker 1: You just don't work for you? Um, who is it?

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Speaker 1: I haven't really I don't know. I haven't really met

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe because like my demographics so many

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Speaker 1: niggas that I just only see the Latinos because that's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: if it's not them, it's them, Like you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't like even when we go to

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Speaker 1: like what up? And I always think it's the same girl.

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Speaker 1: I kind of thing yea, And I one was, you know,

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Speaker 1: everyone else in my studio is black, and I mean,

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Speaker 1: And we left our jobs in twenty nineteen, um Assante

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Speaker 1: why we're also as busy as we are now. Like

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Speaker 1: during the pandemic, bro, we was on tour ship quit

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Speaker 1: and we both were just like fun, we gotta find

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Speaker 1: like you either made it or breaking, like like seriously pandemic,

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Speaker 1: Like this is where the idea came from for me.

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Speaker 1: And like even like just through the pandem like I

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Speaker 1: don't know until you like I have nothing else to do.

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Speaker 1: And I think that a lot of my friends did

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Speaker 1: well during the pandemic, But the ones that didn't were

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Speaker 1: the ones that we're okay with being bored. M hmm.

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Speaker 1: Like think about Official box owner you were talking about,

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Speaker 1: how was your idea there in the pandemic, Like maybe

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Speaker 1: oh no, I love Tom, I just hate the zoom

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Speaker 1: is zoom. I just did my heart go boom boom

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Speaker 1: supernova girl. Here you go, there you go. That was

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Speaker 1: I mean. I just I mean, I do like still

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Speaker 1: him us nor more because that ship was annoying. As

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Speaker 1: motherfucking world. That ship was wild and even just made

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Speaker 1: me think about that day she said, I'm women with

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Speaker 1: women with the heat drop that listen to horrible decisions

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Speaker 1: at the roots picnic. I was too busy trying to

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Speaker 1: I think this is a difference with you and I like,

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Speaker 1: the moment you do and that's okay. Like some people

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Speaker 1: to be in control, and that's a very managerial thing

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Speaker 1: we gotta hire manager because I'm sick of it. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: no no, But I'm saying, like that's a good trait

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Speaker 1: to have, right as an entrepreneur starting off. Yes, you

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Speaker 1: But I'm the type of person like I'm going to

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Speaker 1: And then we showing up to see after party, I'm

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I say all that to say I was

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Speaker 1: Jets game. And this was maybe a year after I

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Speaker 1: Cardi on Instagram and Cardi yeah, Cardi b so uh,

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Speaker 1: Cardie dropped. She was dropping her mixtapes at the time,

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Speaker 1: I said, but she's a star. I've been told you.

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Speaker 1: thought Cardi would be. But now we was I said, bitch,

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Speaker 1: where wet it was with Christopher and Duelipa. I said

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Speaker 1: not at all. Oh, Julie was doing state like in

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Speaker 1: the other markets. Yes, okay, I mean she's I don't

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Speaker 1: Always say that you know what I remember? I doesn't

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Speaker 1: in her old age, she will realize this. You have

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00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 1: made it your effort, Candice fucking Owens. I don't even

423
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,919
Speaker 1: know which camera to look at, but Candice Owens has

424
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 1: made it her literal effort to embarrass the black community.

425
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,800
Speaker 1: You must really hate your black skin enough that you

426
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 1: have to tear down dead people every single time they

427
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 1: die and be a contrarian when people are in pain,

428
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: in pain as a women with children, you've got the

429
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,879
Speaker 1: fucking white nerve to sit your ass up on every

430
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,119
Speaker 1: piece of social media and embarrassed men and women that

431
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 1: look like you. Black babies, black women, black men. You

432
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 1: are a fucking joke in disgrace to people. Bitch, So

433
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 1: without the bitch, you could add everything she just said

434
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 1: to Little Busy as well and going on to I'm

435
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: not cana. Little Bullsy is embarrassing, bro. He is embarrassing

436
00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:03,159
Speaker 1: to that with women too, That nigga is embarrased, Bro,

437
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 1: that nigga embarrassing everything. Tommy Lauren isn't as bad as

438
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: Candice Hall, all right, I will never say that I

439
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 1: disagree Tommy Lauren is like she tries to do the

440
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: shock value things. She's not as smart as Candice, which

441
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 1: makes her not as bad. Candice is smarter than that, right,

442
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,879
Speaker 1: Like we can't take to me like Tommy Lauren also

443
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 1: is white, so like I haven't seen or heard that

444
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 1: name in years where she Yeah, tomm Lauren failed was

445
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: swept right on the rug under tuk her Colls Night

446
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 1: this week Vanilla Ship. Guys, we're gonna get into it. Um,

447
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,919
Speaker 1: a Chinese feminine care brand is under fire over an

448
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: intimate wash. Um. This was um hor Hives submitted, So

449
00:22:54,160 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: thank you for this. Um enlarge the eyes, heightened the nose, bridge,

450
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 1: reshaped the ears like an elf, removed the muscles from

451
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: the calf, slim down the waist, shaved the body here

452
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 1: and now the latest brighten the vagina. Now I'm not

453
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: gonna see here and try to even read this motherfucking name.

454
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 1: This was sent in, by the way from UM someone.

455
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 1: I think she's living in China right now. Shout out

456
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: to Jess. She sent this in and I was like wow.

457
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 1: So a leading Chinese personal care brand has bat filled,

458
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: baffled and outraged the Chinese Internet with a controversial advertisement

459
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 1: which isn't in Chinese. Posted to Wee bow on Um.

460
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: This was actually two months ago in May, that claims

461
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: one of its new products can't suppress dark tissues and

462
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: remove odor causing bacteria in the vagina. Multiple taglines for

463
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 1: this high a Laurnic acid and acid and rose flourishing

464
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: intimate wash are included in the now deleted post. With

465
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: one reading wash and bring out a girl's pink. Yeah. See,

466
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: that's it's for women who are dissatisfied with their quote

467
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: unquote loose, dry and dark vagina. The company advised them

468
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: to reduce activities like working out, which might lead to

469
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: exercise friction in their private parts. Wearing skinny pants and

470
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: having too much sex are also apparently two of the

471
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: main factors causing darkenings of the volva, the post claims,

472
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: but it offers no assurance of the safety and effectiveness

473
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: of the product. One of the top voted comments on

474
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: social media called out the problematic nature of the post

475
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: and says, is it not clear enough that your target

476
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: customers are women and it's us who keep your business afloat.

477
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: Other commenters also called the post a blatant insult to women.

478
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: I want to say out your paint. Yeah, it's discussing,

479
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: but also the fact that you are assuming that the

480
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: darkness in the vulva area is caused by an extra

481
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: amount of sex is why. That's why. Also, they referenced

482
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,239
Speaker 1: the friction when you're exercising as to why you can

483
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: also be dark down there. Now, I'm not sure because

484
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: I can't speak from the um Asian experience, but as

485
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 1: someone with melanin, as someone with a lot of black

486
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: and Latina friends, like we have just dark spots in

487
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 1: different parts in our body that don't even have frictions,

488
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 1: like which look at my mother sucking elbows, like my

489
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: elbows are are are darker than than normal, like even

490
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: my knees and I do have definitely and I won't

491
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: say it's from shaping, because my my inner thighs have

492
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: been dark inside of them far before I even started fucking.

493
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: So I can see why this was insulting. But what's

494
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: also more insulting is the fact that they're pretty much

495
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: pushing out this false narrative around already a part of

496
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: our body that we're still learning because when we were

497
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 1: in cool there was an education on how to properly clean,

498
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: on what what feminine products to really use, what harm

499
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,439
Speaker 1: we were actually putting into our bodies with certain feminine products,

500
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 1: And so I just hate that this is now also

501
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: to me one of the things where a lot of

502
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: these companies are just pandering two women, because we are

503
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: consumers for a lot of things. We spend money on beauty,

504
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: we spend money on on so many things regarding the skin,

505
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: regarding our hair, regarding our our nails, eyelashes. That I

506
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 1: feel like that market specifically. You know how I feel

507
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 1: because I got into my nail shot debacle. I just

508
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: hate that they really just try to pander to so

509
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: much of our dollars. It is young favorites in AFRO.

510
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: When I lived in Singapore, deodorant had bleaching in it.

511
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: The lotion had bleaching in it. When my friend Jazz

512
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: came over, I said, can you please just bring some

513
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 1: products that don't have bleaching in it. I couldn't find

514
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: face washes, deodorance, lotions, no bleaching eaching there like a

515
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: lot of positive there, huge share was a lot of

516
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: um uh stuff in Japan that I saw with like

517
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: changing your eyes and widening the eyes, and it was

518
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: like a huge thing um where they would like do

519
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: advertisements of that, but bleaching. I did not bleaching. Well

520
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: that's the things. Well, we're not only being Western, right,

521
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: even though they're not white and black. The treatment in

522
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: Asia of the dark like when I went to Malaysia,

523
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: when I went to the Philippines, Uh, they're dark, they're

524
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: they're dark there and Thailand they're treated over in Asia

525
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: like the blacks and even when you won't actually want

526
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: jump into that for a moment, I don't ever, but

527
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 1: they're treated like black people in everywhere else in the

528
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: hanging in l A. A lot of people, um are

529
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: coming from the Bay and there's a lot of Filipinos

530
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: in the Bay. And I know there's a lot of Blazians,

531
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: but what there is also a lot of it is

532
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: just Filipinos and regular Asian people hanging out in l A.

533
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: Can you stop saying you're the niggas of where you're from?

534
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: Oh wait, they say that. Yeah, so anyone ever heard

535
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: this before? Actually they say the word. Yes, Oh no,

536
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: I heard it. I've met a Filipino person at last

537
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 1: LAP last day. They're the niggas. They say the inn word.

538
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: And she hangs out with a lot of niggas and

539
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 1: her man Man is a very popular black dude in

540
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: the industry. And I heard her say nigga and I

541
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: was like, and I made like a joke, like, oh,

542
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to cast it like a live and

543
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: then she was like trying to convince me, like, oh,

544
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: I'm Filipino, Like I'm also a person to call her

545
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: I have a nigga. Um, But then he's got on

546
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: this high rate of like how Filipinos are the quote

547
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: unquote black people of Asia. And I was like, be

548
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: that as it may, man, they could be treated poorly.

549
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: And I understand you want to do this whole analogy

550
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: thing here, but you're not a nigga. Yeah no, the date, babe,

551
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: the history that we have, I mean, although the history

552
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: over there is pretty bad too, well, they're not the

553
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: way they got conquered by the Spaniards. Like just being

554
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: over there and really talking to the locals. Yes, they're

555
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: not black, Like, they're not niggas. I'm gonna tell you

556
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 1: what I haven't heard. And I'm not sticking up for

557
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: him because my father is Jewish, but I never heard

558
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: a Jewish person walking around saying, Hey, at the Holocaust,

559
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: we were niggas. Said, I never heard that, but for

560
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: some reason, and I think it's because Filipinos feel and

561
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: they are people of color, right, And I understand that,

562
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: like we've welcomed Asians in the black community, but like, yeah,

563
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: I think so, I have not about you. You haven't

564
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: been in New York long enough. There you go all

565
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: the way back to Rodney King beatings in California and

566
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: here in Brooklyn, there's a huge divide between the Asian

567
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: community and the black But you also have to remember

568
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: how there has not that top culture clothing bro music.

569
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: Sound like Asians are their culture voters. They're not accepting.

570
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: I'm not saying don't accept them is, but they are

571
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: not not accepted bro, Like, are you serious? We have

572
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: a different take on this this actually and you know what,

573
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: it could be right down the middle. But yeah, Like

574
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: I think, especially on the West Coast, like more than

575
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life, they I have never seen.

576
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: Almost every black home girl I have from San Francisco

577
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: is blazing. That just means that Asians and Black people

578
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: are fucking. If you're mixed with if you're black, the

579
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: communities are now mixed up, right, So like as a

580
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: product of that, you have community. Like that's how they plan,

581
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: and that's how Latinos and black people come together. You

582
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: start fucking and then you build ship together. There are

583
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: a lot of Asians and black culture. Bro. Literally, my

584
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: talent producer on sex Cells is a fucking Asian dude, right,

585
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: He's got me my birth find isn't like niggas is.

586
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: They're a part of this ship and he was like, yo,

587
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: I worked at death Champ and also like diversity hires,

588
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: you gotta remember to right you start hiring people at

589
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: labels in different types of industry. I don't believe Asians

590
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: count as diversity highers. I worked in finance. We don't

591
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: have to cut super insensitive to say I don't believe

592
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: that they do. I worked in finance. This is my experience.

593
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: You can think Organs aren't diversity highers. No, not in

594
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: finance and accounting, they were the majority. They them and

595
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: white doesn't because the majority are known for working in

596
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: tech does not mean they're not a diversity higher. The

597
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: way diversity higher has even been brought up in current

598
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: times it is for black people, and I don't. I

599
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 1: will sit here and say sorry, maybe we have a

600
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: different experience. In finance and accounting, Asians and whites were

601
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: the majority. There was never And I will also say

602
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: when we went to d and I when we did

603
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: our diversity and inclusion events down in Baltimore, it was

604
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: just the black and Latina's that were that were offered

605
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: to come, not the affirmative action and diversity higher or

606
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: two to know we I literally had a trip for

607
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: the diversity an inclusion trip on the New Hires at

608
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: a top four firm. Asians were not included in this trade, bro,

609
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: So say what you want from you what America? This

610
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: is my experience and you are talking with your finance

611
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: and you've got a moment, and I agree with your

612
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 1: Asians are literally a part of diversification in America, Bro.

613
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: It is the biggest continent, It holds the most of

614
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: most people. They are the majority on the times going

615
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: against there literally with a a p. I like, I

616
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: don't know if you don't have enough Asian friends, but

617
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: like that's insane to say, Okay, you don't think Asians

618
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: diversify this country or like, like are you saying that.

619
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, okay, you're just just grouping in

620
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: white people in Asians right now, I'm saying they are

621
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: the majority of this planet. They are not the minority.

622
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,719
Speaker 1: And so when a diversity hire them to get up

623
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: the same area you did and you're telling and Asians

624
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 1: were the majority of where you live. No, I'm saying

625
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: for the globe, for the globe, there's a diversity hut.

626
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: They are the Jordy on this planet. I can't fight

627
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: you on this Okay, we're not. We don't need to

628
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: fight your opinion my opinion. Y'all leave it in the

629
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: comments where y'all stand on this, and we'll let it go. Yeah,

630
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: let me get forward. Let's move forward, back to candionsways

631
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,719
Speaker 1: as a cunt, I mean yes, and you're more than

632
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: welcome to say that she is all right. Well, I

633
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Speaker 1: which means they're diverse. No, she ain't everybody, but she

635
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638
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645
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Speaker 1: time to really be out here. But what's crazier about her?

646
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: Almost more than Stacy Dash. Stacy Dash was just like

647
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: republican as fuck. She wanted to get another act. And

648
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: Canada's Owens known for like being a piece of ship

649
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,439
Speaker 1: to black people, so like you had to literally come

650
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: up from being that person. Stacy Dash was just like

651
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: the black girl that we all knew that loved Trump.

652
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: And you're like, what, but like she is literally on

653
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Speaker 1: a tirade. I think she'd take her white pink dick

654
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: out of her mouth. Jesus to fucking talk about black

655
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Speaker 1: people on the internet to make a school shooting suddenly

656
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Speaker 1: a trans thing? Wait what so you didn't see that?

657
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: There were like um pictures and I don't believe they

658
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Speaker 1: were real of a trans woman that like had a

659
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Speaker 1: similar look to the shooter. And Canada's Owens was like, oh,

660
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Speaker 1: mental illness is a thing trans people, which being trans

661
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Speaker 1: is a mental illness. If you you saw your son

662
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Speaker 1: in a skirt, you should have had him treated for

663
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: mental illness. It's not about the guns, twitch you did

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Speaker 1: all of their and his reaching his hand out to

665
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Speaker 1: the air. He that was the whole last craziest thing

666
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Speaker 1: I've read. And you're thinking about all these people in

667
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: this terrible moment in time and kids and like, what

668
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: how was that the first thing? Yo? Black ass? You

669
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Speaker 1: know what I mean? That's what everybody's trying to do.

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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, you wouldn't even know that it was this simple.

673
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 1: The key to better sex is all in your breathing breath.

674
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 1: I can believe that breath is like the siren going

675
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: off in your body if it's screwy. There are more

676
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: sinister forces at play, like stress, tension, and anxiety. None

677
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: of these are making the sex you have any better.

678
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: To really enjoy sex, you've got to connect yourself and

679
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: your partner in a fuller, deeper way, says Jimmy Burgio,

680
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: an instructor at Pure Yoga in New York. And the

681
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: easiest way to do that is by doing exactly what

682
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: you're doing right now. Let's do it breathing, but with

683
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:16,160
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684
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: like I would do that during anmal Oh you have to, oh,

685
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: but you have to let your bootahole like relax. So

686
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 1: during sex, and especially during sex with a new partner.

687
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: You can get nervous or agitated. You might hold your

688
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 1: breath or huff and puff erratically. You're thinking about a

689
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 1: thousand things at once when you only want to be

690
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: thinking about one thing. Controlled, mindful breathing quiets the excess

691
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: noise and relaxes your body. You're tuned into what's happening

692
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 1: in front of you, and the sex is actually more enjoyable.

693
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: I'll admit I've definitely almost like been unconscious from eating

694
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: pussy from not breathing. Wait, what is it like? You

695
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Speaker 1: know how you're diving in and I did not? I

696
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: was just in there? Wait? What but you know you

697
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: can breathe through your nose, right, you know? You just

698
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Speaker 1: forgot to breathe out of all holes. I forgot to breathe.

699
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Speaker 1: That was dedicated. It was great. Did you maybe do

700
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Speaker 1: you think subconsciously that you're into maybe suffocation of some sort,

701
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Speaker 1: because maybe subconsciously you you liked the idea of not

702
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: breathing in some pussy, and that could be what you

703
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,479
Speaker 1: might really be into stuffing. You just you almost died

704
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 1: eating position and not some ballership. Yo, what I feel

705
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Speaker 1: like I'm being judged here and that you you look

706
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Speaker 1: like you're being judged. I'm just trying to see if

707
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708
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Speaker 1: be smothering. But like you're just saying you forgot. That's

709
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Smothering and suffocation might be a thing.

710
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: So maybe you tried to do it although she wasn't

711
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Speaker 1: on top of it, and so maybe you like that

712
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 1: problem you have a nose, like that's why what are

713
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: you trying to say here with your nose in her?

714
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: But how did you forget to? Okay, see not the

715
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Speaker 1: sound effects that you feel up there? Thank you wolf. Well,

716
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Speaker 1: if you got a whole beard, you don't gotta put

717
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 1: your nose and eat out your beard in your mouth.

718
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 1: Oh wait, ed, and you're official here too, But wait,

719
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Speaker 1: you're saying like okay, and you're instance. You're just saying

720
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Speaker 1: that you're working both of them. So you're freaking you

721
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Speaker 1: got lightheaded from eating pussy? Yeah, get on the mic,

722
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Speaker 1: Get on, get on the mic. We don't want to

723
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: hear people in the background. We want to enjoyable, audible experience.

724
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: Is saying, I think it's easy to not prioritize breathing

725
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Speaker 1: when you're thinkin we're crazy if I got a dive

726
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Speaker 1: about a pussy on the do you hear you? Thank you?

727
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Speaker 1: If it's always had a nigg eat her pussy that

728
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Speaker 1: didn't want to live, she would have been a better person.

729
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: You know what, I need gonna hold you and you

730
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Speaker 1: got to come to work wolf, So please, now that

731
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Speaker 1: you're talking about it, I now don't even want knowing

732
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: you could eat my pussy unless he's gonna risk dying

733
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: and not for him while he us wants the pleasure

734
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Speaker 1: of Hey, this is the next? What the next? What

735
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: the god motherfucker ship? Anyway? What's the god motherfuckit? I'm

736
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: really learned how to curse differently, okay, crazy, Like we

737
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 1: like the solo episodes are really like just something. They're

738
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Speaker 1: like whoa many things. It's an outline. No, this is

739
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: an outline. Take it too. We get into I don't

740
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: know what we like. Maybe it's because we're too niche

741
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: in our podcast, like Mandy doesn't music and a sex podcast,

742
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:32,919
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like, so maybe you feel

743
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 1: like this is where you just gotta O. Don't know.

744
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Speaker 1: I I do see the thing is too all the time, okay,

745
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: because you do, it's half all the time. I do

746
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: it all the time. We talked about transparency and not transparency,

747
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 1: like literally transparent pine is not real. Oh that okay,

748
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Speaker 1: get into the horrible decision this week. I thought it

749
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Speaker 1: was only right, especially with us being single and not

750
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: testing the waters. Now I came across the clip on

751
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 1: Twitter where a woman was saying that women are not

752
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 1: competitive anymore, that we don't go out of our way

753
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 1: even knowing that the person we're pursuing may have other

754
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: people pursuing them. There isn't any any inkling for a

755
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: woman to get in competition mode, which is why women

756
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: aren't catering, women are cooking for niggas, Women aren't showing

757
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: up in a way that bitch. You know, there's probably

758
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: other women that want the men you want. You know

759
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: why women are competing? Why because at the end of

760
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: the day, men love to chase, and so what happens

761
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 1: is if you're giving it up too much, suddenly there's

762
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: nothing for them to chase, and then they'll literally get

763
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: so fucking bored with all the fucking food you bag

764
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: that they start chasing another pussy because niggas get bored.

765
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: That's just no. I really believe like a lot of

766
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Speaker 1: women give too much too soon? Do you feel like

767
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 1: you've done that. I've seen the success in relationships where

768
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: I kind of cable things a little bit, you know,

769
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 1: I've I've stopped myself from doing things. I almost bought

770
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: this nickel like a little gift or something recently, and

771
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: I remember, like, that's not, that's not. That's a really

772
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: great point though, And you have to agree with that.

773
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: I have to. So what is holding it in? Right?

774
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: So let me ask you? Right, So, if y'all, if

775
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: you're dating women, though, do you not rank which one

776
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: is showing up a certain way more than the next,

777
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: Like aren't there still things that y'all want from women?

778
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: And when when one isn't doing something and another one is,

779
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,359
Speaker 1: you might lean more towards this one. Because I've had

780
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,759
Speaker 1: men feel like I'm completely just not that interested in them,

781
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 1: and maybe because I'm entertaining other men because I don't

782
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: show up for them in certain instances, they just feel

783
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: like I'm not that attracted, like I'm not into them.

784
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: So a lot of men aren't gonna also want to

785
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 1: be chasing after a woman who they feel like may

786
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: not even be that into them. That's you know what

787
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: I mean? And so that's where I've been just like, damn,

788
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: I actually feel like I've dropped the ball even thinking

789
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: of how I've shown up on this podcast and the

790
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 1: things I've said in terms of not cooking for men

791
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: or really just maybe going some days and weeks without

792
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: hitting the nigga. Maybe I should have been a little

793
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: bit more persistent and be it. I mean, and that's

794
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: been subconsciously because like, yeah, I don't think that wanting

795
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: someone means you show up more. I like as far

796
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: as like cooking and doing things for them, I mean,

797
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: more so show interest, not not like doing not not

798
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: like actors services, just like even just a reply or

799
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: thinking of you, or just small little things like that,

800
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 1: not like the big you gotta do. You don't have

801
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: to do like wifey stuff. But I'm thinking I'm not

802
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: talking about wife This is the issue we've had, I

803
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: feel like as men, or what I've had as a man,

804
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: where I've I'm definitely guilty of doing boyfriend things for

805
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: women who I have no interest of being my girlfriend.

806
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: Why And again I yeah, but that's that's bad because

807
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 1: where I've done it, I've done things where it's like

808
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be kind or trying to be

809
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: you know, cute, or sometimes it's too much and the

810
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 1: next thing you know, you're over here hyping them and

811
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: you're like, why are they trying to like get with

812
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 1: me like that? I was just trying to like we

813
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: were just trying to suck each other. And now I'm

814
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: almost in boy from material type of game, and it's

815
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: not good. I'm trying to think of where I'm at

816
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: in this moment because I am up someone that will

817
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: cook for you and do really nice things and I'm

818
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 1: a good partner. But hmm, I'm thirty one and I'm

819
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 1: meeting men around my same age. I meet dope asked

820
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: women too that are doing dope ship. But I know

821
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: that I'm special. I know that I'm one of a kind,

822
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: and I know that I'm not someone that's easy to

823
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: find in terms of like all that I can offer.

824
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: So there's very few times recently where I felt like

825
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: I've got so crazy. You said that I'm gonna send

826
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: you the audio. Now I had to play the clip

827
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: because you literally just said what this woman said in

828
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 1: this clip, and now we have to fucking go at it.

829
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna finish this out I'm not I'm not

830
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: saying that I can't do these things for you, but

831
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Speaker 1: I know for a fact, men finding a partner like

832
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: me is just not really gonna happen. Like men have

833
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 1: to work so hard to become this fucking dude that's

834
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: larger than life for women to want them. And I

835
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 1: will literally elevate a nigga with the ship that I'm

836
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: going to bring to the table. And when men recognize

837
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: that and understand that in me, like it's it. I

838
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: don't have to. I shouldn't be having to fight this

839
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: hard like I was fighting hard to you know, be

840
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: everything for a nigga when I didn't have much to offer.

841
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: Maybe I was cooking ten times a week because I

842
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: didn't really have anything else to give. I'm still going

843
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: to cook for you, but maybe now it's maybe we're

844
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 1: too on the move to where we're going to dinner together,

845
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 1: like Josh, just it. I'm gonna show up in other ways. Um,

846
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: But those literal things like yeah, it's a different, it's different.

847
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: Let me hear this clip and I sent it to

848
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: you on The text is to bring a man a plate,

849
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: rub his feet, just basic things of the attitude of

850
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 1: so many women that I see now is they don't

851
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 1: want to cater to a man in any It's almost

852
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: like it's a dirty word. It's they don't want to

853
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: compete for a man. They want him to just pick

854
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: her because she's so special. But it's too much competition.

855
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: There's too much out here. What are you doing to

856
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,919
Speaker 1: outbeat the competition? What are you going to win over

857
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: a man? And a lot of women they don't want

858
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: to do it. They want to have attitudes, you know,

859
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: not be in you know, working themselves in any kind

860
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: of way physically, mentally, spiritually. Just think they just just

861
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 1: to show up. Me being a lie, being a woman

862
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: with a vagina is enough for for a man to

863
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: choose me except me as I am. All the men

864
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: need to change, all the men need to stop being

865
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: this way. But us women were perfect out the world.

866
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: I could see what she's saying, But like, that wasn't

867
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: the conversation I've had just my pussy. I don't think

868
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna work. You know, I'm someone that offers way

869
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: more intellect than that, and I know that and literally

870
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 1: my daily fucking regimen shows that I would be a

871
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: different type of partner. You know what I'm saying, like

872
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: the way that I handle business, the way that I'm

873
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: moving in the world with goals, Like I don't think

874
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: it's just like I've got pussy now. I do believe

875
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 1: back then I did just have pussy, and that's why

876
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: I was topping it up with other things. But yes,

877
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: like I am someone that is hard to come by

878
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: and and and I don't know what she thinks is special,

879
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not talking about aesthetics or pussy or anything

880
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 1: like that. Um And I think when you're talking about

881
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: someone like that, I actually find it to be a

882
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: disservice to be a woman in the world moving like that.

883
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: And also think that you have to fucking push out

884
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: all these like modern housewife e, cook of your feet,

885
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 1: rolls just to keep someone right. I do believe we

886
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: should be treating ourselves like we're a catch. I've met

887
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: so many men that will say things like they're the

888
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: table or their X y Z are asking women what

889
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: they're bringing to the table now too, though, but putting

890
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,280
Speaker 1: in so much time and work into getting your degrees

891
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: and doing things like that, it's things that we associate

892
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 1: with men. So when women are able to accomplish goals

893
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 1: that most women are seeking men for you are special.

894
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 1: I hear that, woman, But to me, that's just that

895
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: silly ass podcast talk. You know when people have the

896
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: same podcast conversation like splitting a check or whatever. That's

897
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: stupid ass podcast talk. When you really live, walk and

898
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: breathe in a purpose where you know you're hard to find,

899
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: like you ain't. No, And I'm not saying I'm too

900
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,479
Speaker 1: good to cook for a nigga, A really a nigga.

901
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm right now. They know your worth, you know your

902
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: self worth. Yeah, it's it's just weird because as women were,

903
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: we know when there's other women pursuing a man that

904
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: it is. It's an unspoken in competition that's happening, and

905
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: a lot of women do want to be chosen. You're

906
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: not entertaining any of any of the men that you're

907
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: entertaining now without maybe if you want to be with them,

908
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 1: you do want to You want them to choose you

909
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: as who they're gonna with, whether they're other women or not.

910
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 1: It's also weird though, because for men, men, although they

911
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: are the chasers, right, they fucking hate competition. If they

912
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 1: know you're entertaining other niggas, they feel like you areho

913
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: and now I'm good. I'm not even gonna look at

914
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 1: you as thee. I know that there may be women

915
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: that want to be chose, but like now that I'm

916
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: at this point, there are niggas that want to be chosen.

917
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: Of course, you know what I'm saying. I have multiple

918
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,760
Speaker 1: men right now that would like want to either sleep

919
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: with me date me. But like, huh, there's a reason that,

920
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: like old Bay has done all of these things to

921
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: get back with me. Men unfortunately don't realize what they

922
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: have until it's gone. But like there's a grown ass

923
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: man that has made every effort to get back with me,

924
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: right when you sucked all these holes and you've done

925
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: all these things like take my phone, do this have

926
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:08,479
Speaker 1: the keys to my house? Like all these outlandish things.

927
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: And I really believe it's because you now went out

928
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: in the world and realize, oh, I really can't find

929
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: a dish like you, so I don't have I don't

930
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: believe when you have a lot of suitors like he

931
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: did want Maggie, but no, no, no, we go to

932
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: jazz weekly, Maggie and now look at Maggie. It's insane.

933
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: But you know, when you have a lot of suitors,

934
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: Like I don't believe you need to be you know,

935
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: men recognize that ship too. When I go out, they

936
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: see the men that are on my dick. They know

937
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: the people that I roll with or who was on

938
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,280
Speaker 1: my line, and like, you see my world, so you understand,

939
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: like it's not hard to get another one. And when

940
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 1: you walk talking act like that, that is how you

941
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: get a lot of men on your dick. And I

942
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: believe when women are so fucking focused and trying to

943
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: win at one, you will literally lose your chance at

944
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: other men. So you are only as good as your options.

945
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: I've been told that before and it is a real

946
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: fucking thing. Man, damn that I'm good as watch. It's

947
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: kind of little. I do want to you know, No, God,

948
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, actually, you gotta get out there, like you

949
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,800
Speaker 1: sitting there texting that one, like can I drop you

950
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: off food? Do you want to eat today? I'm like

951
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: with one nigga and watching the playoffs like do we

952
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: have to watch fun that I do? And I'm just like,

953
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 1: I will say that you do it when it's for SI.

954
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: Then niggas drops singles and now we gotta listen to

955
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 1: this Nigga's song in the Car like options right now,

956
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: they will they were, They're crazy, They're crazy. I did

957
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 1: before we get out of this, I wanted to characterize

958
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: some of the competition framework that maybe actually ruining some

959
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: of our listeners love lives. So if you're dating, these

960
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 1: are some things that they also consider quote unquote competition

961
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: where you're putting other people against each other and you

962
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: might not even know. So when you're dating, sometimes you're

963
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 1: seeking the best or hottest person according to the standards

964
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: of other people. Okay, that's one attempting to acquire attempting

965
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: to acquire a man or a woman who is in

966
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: heavy demand, So one who a lot of men or

967
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: women are chasing because you're motivated by the sport or

968
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,919
Speaker 1: the challenge of it. I know you heard that. Don't

969
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 1: do that. Don't do that. I've been talking to my mother.

970
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: He be like, goddamn country. I'd be like, hey, freend motivated,

971
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: don't do that. Don't just in Atlanta not too long ago.

972
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: I got back to my roots, you know what I mean.

973
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,439
Speaker 1: I've been in New York too long. All right, over

974
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,960
Speaker 1: emphasis on physical appearance and other words, rejecting other men

975
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: or women on apparent flaws, such as things as their

976
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: feet are too big, sort of like a judge at

977
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: a dog show hide his death. I'm sorry, that's a require.

978
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't give a fun house. And I had this

979
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: conversation I'll never forget. We talked about sharonas and uh

980
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: we went out somewhere in Sharonis was out, I can't remember,

981
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,479
Speaker 1: and like he was like, damn, isn't gonna be getting

982
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: mad course tales and oh Bay six feet and he

983
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:19,879
Speaker 1: said he said we would have never been together. Yes,

984
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: he said I would have been, so he would have been.

985
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 1: That's wow. Not a sixth book man. Honestly though, it's

986
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: because like I think, like women just don't see like

987
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: men that are attractive, and that there's just like men

988
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: are pretty trash. When you find a decent one, like

989
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,800
Speaker 1: you just be on and so I think that's just

990
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 1: what happens if you ever found yourself wanting guys that

991
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: were wanted that bad. I mean I'm sure like like

992
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 1: primarily I've actually been shot. Yeah, well I've been shocked

993
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: in some instances, like you mean wanted to be with them,

994
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 1: not just fucking with men that are wanting. Um, I

995
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 1: mean I've definitely. I mean, I've talked about the niggas

996
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: don't sucked on this podcast. Um, they let niggas, but

997
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: they are um. But to me, it's more so going

998
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: into that not with the idea of monogamy, not with

999
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: the idea of exclusiveness. Like I don't believe men can

1000
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: say no enough, like even people say, man, Kevin Samuel's

1001
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: bitch today, I don't believe that men will say, well,

1002
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: I said no this many times, so you should just

1003
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: be okay that I said no this many times. And yes,

1004
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: I sucked up this one time, but it's because I

1005
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 1: said no this many times. And it's because like litt

1006
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: niggas will have ship thrown at them. But then there's

1007
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: also a bit just like me, and yes I said

1008
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: like me where I don't give a funk about you

1009
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: being in a relationship. If I want you, I want

1010
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: you because women are that way the same way as niggas.

1011
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: Like like, I like to hold both parties accountable in

1012
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: this fucking space, And that to me is what it is.

1013
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: What was that people if someone's taken I heard you.

1014
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: That's not all the time. All the time, bro, she

1015
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: was talking about you guys want to bring up my

1016
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 1: ex girl. He didn't have a baby, Lambo, you said

1017
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: she looks baby mama. If he had, that's worse. No, no, no,

1018
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't. I really like, seriously, I really do not

1019
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: like you know what if I do, like it's literally

1020
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: like maybe I've had sex with X and like like seriously,

1021
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: like I don't meet men that have girlfriends And I'm like,

1022
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: this is what I'm gonna do tonight. How many times

1023
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,600
Speaker 1: do you think that they didn't tell you though? Oh knowing,

1024
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure because I'm sure Lambo's baby mama thinks she's

1025
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: his girlfriend, right well, probably why he's like, y'all be

1026
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 1: so you just go to New York and you just

1027
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: basically do all these episodes and they just come out.

1028
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: That was I mean, because I was getting together, breaking up,

1029
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: getting to other Mondigga so much. When we got together,

1030
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: I was I would literally just have to be like

1031
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:04,919
Speaker 1: well for the next month and a half. I'm talking

1032
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: about you on the on the show. Sorry, just so

1033
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: you know, even though we're in good space right now,

1034
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: I just don't listen to the pod please, I'm talking

1035
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: all this ship about you. Anyways. I want to get

1036
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: into our homemail before we get out of here. This

1037
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: one is called confession. Come off, give it to him.

1038
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: So during the pandemic, I slept with over fifteen plus

1039
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 1: different people. For the first year I was in a relationship,

1040
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 1: so it was just her and it was long distance.

1041
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: After we ended the relationship, I was going crazy on

1042
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: tender bumble and meeting people at events. I did a

1043
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: lot of things I never imagined, including to threesomes. One

1044
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 1: was two girls and I was the guy, and one

1045
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: was two guys one girl. One of the girls was

1046
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 1: in both threesomes. I was sucking so much, and I

1047
00:55:56,600 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: honestly didn't know why. I'm a whore and I payment.

1048
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 1: But now I met someone I really liked and I

1049
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: want to make her my main. But I'm having trouble

1050
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 1: letting go of one or two of the other girls

1051
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: I used to mess with my mom. My mom met

1052
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Speaker 1: this new girl and she likes her so much. She

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Speaker 1: wants her to be my girlfriend. If my mom gave

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Speaker 1: the green light, it's because if my mom has the

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Speaker 1: green light, it's because she sees something I don't, and

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00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: I think she's always been right about those things. It's

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Speaker 1: gonna hurt me to let go of my other partners,

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Speaker 1: which are more than that, truly, they are friends and

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Speaker 1: it's gonna hurt some feelings if slash when I go

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Speaker 1: public with the new person I met. Could y'all give

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Speaker 1: me some advice as to how I should break off

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Speaker 1: things with the other girls? And do you genuinely think

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Speaker 1: we can be friends or will they hate me? Because

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Speaker 1: they love me just as much as I love them,

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Speaker 1: but more platonic love than anything. At the moment, we

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Speaker 1: do still fun from time to time, and it's just

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Speaker 1: because the pussy is available. I need to practice self

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Speaker 1: control and focus on one. I'm scared of losing my

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Speaker 1: friends because they want me. I really like this guy. Man,

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Speaker 1: this is actually a very very good honest Yeah, um,

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Speaker 1: interesting he read of self control. Uh. Recently, the person

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Speaker 1: I've been seeing talked about their self control with me

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Speaker 1: and not having sex so soon and self control and

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Speaker 1: situations and like being faithful and different things like that.

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Speaker 1: And I never hear men talk about self control because

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Speaker 1: nigga's just as like seriously, men understand that like cheating

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Speaker 1: from the wild, playing far far way. So yeah, I think, Um,

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Speaker 1: it's a really good thing that you asked too women

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Speaker 1: that on a podcast and I'm gonna say this, you

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00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: don't really get great things in life without sacrificing something.

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Speaker 1: Um I don't believe there's just things like handed to you.

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00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: I believe you do have to sacrifice something. And I

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00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: think letting those two people go because is you found

1084
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: someone that could be a great partner is a smart

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00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: thing to do, particularly because now you can fully invest

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00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: your energy and time into that. And yes, they'll it'll hurt.

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Speaker 1: But one, if you love and care about someone, you

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Speaker 1: don't string them along. And too, if you could not

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00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 1: coexist in your current relationship, if she wants to be

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00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: a monogamous whatever. By having those women the way when

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00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: you start ship sucked up, ship ends sucked up. So

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00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: you have to make sure that you are acting out

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00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: certain people out of your lives so that you can

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00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 1: flourish in another space. And I don't really know if

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Speaker 1: there's advice on how to break off something. I think

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00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 1: a lot of people work in different ways. But I

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00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: will tell you that being totally honest that you care

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00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: about someone is the best thing to do. Um Old Bay,

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Speaker 1: whether he's lying or not, says one of the sideline

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Speaker 1: chicks that he had to cut off. He said, I

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Speaker 1: realized that the only way to have her understand was

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Speaker 1: to tell her how much I cared about you and

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00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 1: tell her that, like right, And he's like, that's not

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Speaker 1: easy because she cared about me. But if I could

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Speaker 1: explain to her that this is how I'm feeling because

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00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 1: obviously I've sucked her while with you, but like, I

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Speaker 1: have to have her understand that because I love this person.

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Speaker 1: You know I'm going to lose what I have because

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Speaker 1: of this, so I can't do that to someone else.

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Speaker 1: And it's okay to have a hierarchy on your feelings. Also,

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00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: women will be okay. We know that there's kind of

1112
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Speaker 1: like always the one up board and the other. Like

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Speaker 1: I do believe it's okay to have a hierarchy and

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Speaker 1: your feelings that I want to be honest, be real

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00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: honest with them too. Yeah, they will be there so

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Speaker 1: whether this relationship last not, But that when I got

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00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: with my nigga during the pandemic, I'd let all my

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Speaker 1: hos no. But also and maybe being too honest there

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00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: now you already listen, as long as they're not married

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Speaker 1: with children by the time this relationship comes to an end,

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00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: then they just will be there. The plussy will be

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00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 1: available in a few years as long as the dick

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01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: is good. No, I'm saying for other people, listen, this

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01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: is about But what I'm saying is let them know

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01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: that you're in this relationship. I feel like he's in

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Speaker 1: fear of losing these people forever. Bro, if the dick

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01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:21,919
Speaker 1: is good, if the sex is good, you never really

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Speaker 1: lose people forever. I still got niggas in my phone

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Speaker 1: that I in high school, still willing to give me

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01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: the dick if I gave him the pussy. Uh, Mandy's

1131
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: fucking insane. No, I'm not, because here is the truth. Okay,

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Speaker 1: nobody leaves. Everybody always is around, whether they're in the

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01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: picture or whether they're not. Guess what's gonna happen When

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01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 1: you and this girl have your wonderful relationship and then

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01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: it ends, those two friends of yours will be right

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01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: there like, oh, I'm sorry it didn't work out, and

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01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: we'll still grab a drink a beer and give you

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01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 1: pussy as long as they are now not in love. Now,

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01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: that's what you have to be okay with lothing, right

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01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: hold on. What you have to be okay with losing

1141
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: is the fact that these friends, these women. You love

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01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: the vaginas, that's so good. You keep going back. You

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01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: need to fear that they may find a nigga by

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01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: the time you get back single, and then you're gonna

1145
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: had to wait. That's just how the world works. It

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01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 1: is a motherfucker's cycle. So when I tell you these niggas,

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Speaker 1: these bitches, they always there, always there, bro, And I

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Speaker 1: would love your relationship to last, but I'm a realist

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01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: over here it probably won't. So it's gonna be great

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01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 1: while it's great, and it's gonna last until it down

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01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: and then it's over. What. So I was you know

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Speaker 1: how I'm white. Oh, I'm very right, but you could

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't cause that you was sucking your

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01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: old baby niggas. Now I don't necessarily, um, you don't

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Speaker 1: just because you're saying it like this doesn't take away

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01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: you know. I started talking like that's about to come

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Speaker 1: out of there. There's some white people that just booked

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Speaker 1: our studio, and I was tell myself, I know I'm

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01:01:56,920 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 1: on my niggah today, so anyway, no, I'm just there

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Speaker 1: the room. I was like, oh not. Then walking too

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Speaker 1: with us said white people wouldn't really uh literally, they

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01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 1: probably came to conquer your ass. That's what they do.

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01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: They conquer. That bitch did tell me to get hers

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Speaker 1: of water. She said that the white bitch there, white

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01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: bitchund I said. I said, Joe, thank you for poking

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Speaker 1: with us. I know, what's your first time off? Yeah,

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01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: I heard the waters in the other room. Could you

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01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: get the water? I said, that's your a little slave

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01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:33,360
Speaker 1: on the fourth of July. Anyway, Okay, So I was

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01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 1: saying all that to say, um, well, I would saying

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01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: I didn't agree with you. Is mainly because he like

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01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 1: sounds like he wants his relationship to work. So I

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01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: don't want to wish that your relationship. And by the way,

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01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: these bitches is not your friend, like you came relationship

1175
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: calling them to your friend. They're waiting. They're waiting, buddy.

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01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 1: So lover boy and I I'm going to Milana and

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01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: like probably a few weeks with Gabby, my friend who's

1178
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 1: out there now for work. And he was like, oh, well,

1179
01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: when you're in Europe, let's get together. And I was like,

1180
01:02:58,480 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 1: oh great. And I think I even said to you

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01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: maybe do Iceland or something, which is crazy that that

1182
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 1: was even said. Why because if any of my friends

1183
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 1: from overseas just lands in America. It's not like, oh,

1184
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 1: let's just meet up since you're in America, like you're

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01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 1: as big as fun. But in my year, but we

1186
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: used to do that, we were together, Okay, I'm saying.

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01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: So he's like, you'll be in Italy. It's only two

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01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 1: hours away from me now, so like let's bounce around together.

1189
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Speaker 1: So I said, yeah, and did you on that dick?

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01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 1: Now that I've bounced on another dick? You really got

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01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: to catch somebody well, and I'm you do you do?

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01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: You gotta catch them. I'm not saying any single I'm

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01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: just saying a little less interested in doing this one

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Speaker 1: because like I'm saying that my pussy isn't open for Europe.

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01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like to start planning a trip, I'm

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01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: kind of like into someone else. It's like a little

1197
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 1: difficult and so I'm not as involved. And you really

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01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 1: got to catch someone so emotional. Bit just just top

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01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: on this old dick, because again, the dick is always

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01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: gonna be there. So while you when you're go ahead

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01:03:58,000 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: and take and it's just always gonna be there. Do

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01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: you want to? She don't know because now she's getting

1203
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 1: in her feelings about whatever. Nigga, she's sucking now you

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Speaker 1: multiple I'm sorking one day. I had a blip okay,

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01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: how to be looking one day? Okay? And this when

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Speaker 1: he becomes uh lover point is a blip TuS it

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Speaker 1: but not if you're planning it. Two blips in a

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Speaker 1: in a dick. She like, ain't that crazy? Two the

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Speaker 1: dick on that note. On that note, thank you guys

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