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Speaker 1: I guess you're doing a blog. Now, go ahead, Bell,

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Speaker 1: I guess, so, yeah, sorry, we could have gone another one,

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Speaker 1: but okay, all right, Well Bell, I'm like, why is

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Speaker 1: Belle running in here? And why are you putting your

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Speaker 1: name next to Belle's ideas?

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Speaker 2: To be honest, you already asked me, and I thought, gosh,

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Speaker 2: what did I write about a grudge? But I didn't

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Speaker 2: want to ask you because I know you don't like

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Speaker 2: when we don't remember.

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Speaker 3: So then I was really fast, Well.

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Speaker 1: I don't like when you don't remember what you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah wrote, yes, yes, well you're asking me to remember

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Speaker 2: yesterday and I don't. So I scrambled because we were live,

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Speaker 2: and I told Belle to come in here, Bella.

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Speaker 1: What's your blog? Take it? Take it away, Bella, the

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Speaker 1: phone screener, go ahead, don't do a blog?

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Speaker 3: You your blog?

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Speaker 4: So what's an appropriate amount of time to hold a grudge?

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Speaker 4: So a couple of weeks ago, I went back home

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Speaker 4: to San Francisco, and I ran into some people I

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Speaker 4: knew from high school, and I ran into somebody who

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Speaker 4: I still hate. It's been eleven years, and this person

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Speaker 4: wrote on my Instagram photo that I wore too much

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Speaker 4: makeup and I was ugly.

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Speaker 1: Eleven years ago. Eleven years ago, and I we had

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Speaker 1: Instagram eleven years ago.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, I don't know that.

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Speaker 4: And I still hate them, and I can't get over it.

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Speaker 4: And I have mutual friends that are friends with this person.

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Speaker 4: And the thing is I didn't really know this person

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Speaker 4: and he probably doesn't remember that he did this, but

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Speaker 4: I still hate him and.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could get over it.

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Speaker 4: And unfortunately they were at my friend's wedding that I

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Speaker 4: was at, and so I couldn't get away from them.

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Speaker 1: And I talked to you like it never happened.

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Speaker 3: No, I made I made sure that they knew I

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Speaker 3: didn't like that.

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Speaker 1: How did you do that? How do you make sure

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Speaker 1: that someone knows you don't like them?

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Speaker 4: I give them the classic ballistare I look down and

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Speaker 4: up and then a head nod back.

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Speaker 3: Oh, shary, And I did it three times. Kicky knows

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Speaker 3: it well ye and scary yep.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I would ever get over anyone

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Speaker 1: calling me ugly. No, so I don't know that you

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Speaker 1: have to get over there. Now. Hate is, you know,

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Speaker 1: not necessary because hate requires energy from you. Now, that's

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Speaker 1: my thing about hate is to hate someone that's like

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Speaker 1: taxing on your system, you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 1: like if you're running too many apps and your phone

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Speaker 1: slows down, like that's hate to me. It only works

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Speaker 1: against you, really because the other person doesn't really care.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just really spiteful. I guess that's valid. But

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Speaker 3: you do have a lot of like one sided beefs.

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Speaker 2: And I noticed I did with some of the nicest

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Speaker 2: people around the office, and those are the ones that

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Speaker 2: maybe we can let go.

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Speaker 1: We have what other nice people do? We have beef?

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Speaker 3: Okay, a lot person that.

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Speaker 4: Did that was not nice to be who called me ugly.

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Speaker 1: It was nice to you that you have beef with.

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Speaker 3: There's just the poop shoes.

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Speaker 4: Somebody threw away pooh shoes in front of me in

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Speaker 4: the bathroom, and I'm very afraid of pink guy.

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Speaker 1: What are poo shoes?

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Speaker 3: Shoes? Their shoes that they stepped and dog poop in.

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Speaker 4: She screamed it in the bathroom while I was by

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Speaker 4: the trash can, didn't ask me to move, and threw

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Speaker 4: it at me.

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Speaker 3: And I've never forgiven her sense.

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Speaker 4: She's I don't even know if she remembers it, but

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Speaker 4: I do not like this person.

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Speaker 3: She could have given me pink eye. Fred. She's one

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Speaker 3: of the nicest people of sales. Hank guy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what else that person was supposed to do.

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Speaker 1: They stepped in, and so they threw the shoes away.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me, May I throw.

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Speaker 4: I guess out of the way so I can throw

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Speaker 4: in my poop shoes.

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Speaker 1: I think you can forgive but never forget.

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Speaker 4: Oh, and I don't forget, because you know what I'm

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Speaker 4: with you, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't always forgive. Yeah, I never forget. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I don't. But hate hate just it just requires too

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Speaker 1: much energy to hate.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, in my opinion, Yeah, I'm just one of those people.

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Speaker 4: It's like, you know, I feel like I'm pretty nice.

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Speaker 4: In the second that you don't do something nice to me,

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Speaker 4: I will never forget and I will always make you remember.

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Speaker 4: I know I have to be better at that, Yeah

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Speaker 4: I will.

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Speaker 1: I will say. I'm a very unforgiving person like you.

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Speaker 1: If you mess with me, if you do me dirty.

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Speaker 1: You guys are similar. I don't remember, you don't remember.

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Speaker 1: You don't forget either. I think you don't remember anything.

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Speaker 1: I thought you don't. I have the worst membery in

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Speaker 1: the world. That's why I let people do the same

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Speaker 1: crappy things to me over and over and over, because

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Speaker 1: you forget that's a get and I'm a door mat Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was just low self escape that we

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Speaker 1: all have therapy. Oh no, I tell Jason all the time.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you letting people like? No? The

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Speaker 1: answer is no, like no, you can say no, but no, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you should harbor any this

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Speaker 1: person that you've obviously surpassed them. Look at you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're you're famous. Now, I'm super faking. You're the boss

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Speaker 1: of the show, even though you're the lowest ranking. You're

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Speaker 1: the boss. You're scared of you. You're the mayor.

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Speaker 3: He's scared of me.

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Speaker 1: You're married. You know you got the Hebrew hammer that

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Speaker 1: you're married to. I mean, does does life get any better?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: It doesn't. I just want him to know that I

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Speaker 3: hate him. I just want him to know it.

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Speaker 1: We realize affected some change in the last five minutes.

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Speaker 1: After all that, You're like, she'll I hate him, right,