1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: My boyfriend is a spicy model, and my supervisor recognized him. 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: I've seen that ass around here before. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: Posting here because my friends are busy and I feel 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: like this is the next best thing. Since I listen 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: every week, I love reading everyone's comments and opinions on stuff. 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: We'll be your friends. Hey, thanks for listening every week. 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: This comes from user I'm drinking Apple Juice on the 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: arc slash Okay story times I've read it. We like 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: that name. I twenty four female, am a high school 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: science teacher and my boyfriend, twenty five male, is an 11 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: OnlyFans model. This is important. Today after school, he helped 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: me carry in some stuff for a lab i'll be 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: doing with my kids. When he arrived, the principal I'll 14 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: call her Jan, was outside for dismissal and was able 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: to meet him. While he was helping me set everything 16 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: up in my classroom, Jan came in and asked if 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: they had ever met, since he looked familiar. My boyfriend 18 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: said he didn't think so, and that was that. When 19 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: we finished, I gave him a tour of the school 20 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: that ended at the office. Jan was still there and 21 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: greeted us again. Before a look of what I can 22 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: only describe as fear came over her face. She quickly 23 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: excused herself and we were left alone and confused. My 24 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: boyfriend asked if maybe she recognized him from his OnlyFans page. 25 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: I said, surely not, because she's a middle aged woman 26 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: who barely knows how to use your phone. 27 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: She knows how to use it enough, she knows how 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 2: to use that phone with one hand, Specifically. 29 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: He let me live in denial until I got a 30 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: text from her as we were cooking dinner. She said, this, 31 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: good evening, OP, Good evening, OP, good evening, OP. I'd 32 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: like to have a meeting with you and HR person 33 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: from HR tomorrow morning. Please be in my office at 34 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: seven am. How is HR supposed to get involved here? Like? 35 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: This is none of her business, it's not even op. 36 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: This is a he's boyfriend, Ope, he's boyfriend. And also 37 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: that you recognize Yeah, like you. 38 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 3: Were on there, you were just disclosing your personal time stuff. 39 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like what if you like confused and you're 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: trying to figure this out in a professional manner. 41 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: We confused in a professional environment and need HR. Now 42 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm almost certain that my boyfriend was right, and she 43 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: does know him from his page. He keeps trying to 44 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: reassure me that it's not about that, but I can 45 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: see in his eyes that he's at least a little 46 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: proud of himself. Yeah. It, although I would understand if 47 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: maybe she had seen me on the you know, I 48 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: get around. I love subscribers. Yeah, who knows, who knows? 49 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: Maybe she does. I've kicked him out to go buy 50 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: me some stress snacks. My friends are busy, and my 51 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: family doesn't know. He's an OnlyFans model, so I don't 52 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 1: know who else to turn to. Maybe y'all have advice 53 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: for me. I want to crawl out of my skin. 54 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: We do have some relevant comments here. 55 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: I feel like they can't what can they do? 56 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: Oh, they can totally do. It's like once it's like 57 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: the school board and like HRGs involved, it's going to 58 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: be like a matter of like professional decency unit. It's 59 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: like the fact that they had him come in to 60 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: like like like help stuff in the in the classroom 61 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: or something. It is going to be dumb though that 62 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: it's literally just the principal's fault for like subscribing or whatever. 63 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: Really just she literally admitted to watching it. I know 64 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 3: he's getting flak for gating someone. 65 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: Definitely not right. I disagree. I think if anyone should 66 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: get flag, it should be the thirsty principal who's like 67 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: subscribed to one of her like coworkers boyfriend's pages. 68 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: I think that the boyfriend should put like his next thing, 69 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: his next post is just gonna be calling her out. 70 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: Yeah you, it's like not even hot in any way, 71 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: just like who suck principle? Relevant comments the dingo that 72 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: ate your baby? That would be a ridiculous reason to 73 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: be fired. I would recommend recording if you're in a 74 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: one party consent state, or recording. She can't fire you 75 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: because she's a naughty girl. In response from op, actually 76 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: you don't be really funny? Before I get the response 77 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: is what if the meeting with HR is literally just 78 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: so that she can be like, so, what does he like? 79 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: What does he does he like to go like on 80 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: long walks on the beach, Like what's his favorite color? 81 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: Liked you share? Yeah, when he liked to go on 82 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: a date with me as well? Can he do a 83 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: shout out? And I just wanted to make sure HR 84 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 1: was here so that I wasn't crossing any lines by 85 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: saying this. Don't you worry so OPI's response to that 86 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: comment about not being able to be fired. At the 87 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: beginning of the year, one of my coworkers told me 88 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: that another teacher got fired for wearing a skirt above 89 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: her knee. Damn. So I don't know. I'm just freaked out. 90 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: I guess the Catholic private school. Yeah, could be. Honestly, 91 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: could be from Solomon's marbles. Please say your union, call 92 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: your rep. Don't admit or agree to anything. In fact, 93 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: just say as little as possible. If it's about his 94 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: OnlyFans page, you're about to get paid. But here's a 95 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: flip side. You said he helped you carry things in. 96 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: Are you supposed to have visitors sign in? Did he hmm? Op? Yeah, 97 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: I asked for her permission to date in advance and 98 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: had him sign in at the front office. They give 99 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: him a sticker badge. Okay, so Op, he's done everything 100 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: by the book. Op did everything by the book. It's 101 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: not her faults. It's not her fault that her boyfriend's 102 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: hot and he can sell that hot nose on the internet. 103 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: Come on, all right, we have an update from a 104 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: day after the original post. Hello, I'm not sure if 105 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to make a separate post for an update 106 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: or not. Sorry. This is my first time actually posting 107 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: on Reddit. I have an account for stalking, but my 108 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: name is linked to it. 109 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 3: Wait op has an account for stalking with her name attached. 110 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry about it. It seemed like a good 111 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: sit She told you not to worry about it. Don't 112 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: worry about it. I'm not worry. I asked for advice 113 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: and y'all gave me so much. Thank you. I felt 114 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: very supportive. Also, a lot of you clocked it. I 115 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: do work for a religious private school slocking in ship. 116 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: That's why punching in because I clocked it. 117 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 2: While your boyfriend's cocking in. 118 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: I arrived for my meeting at seven o'clock meeting. I 119 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: know a lot of you thought it was early, but 120 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: school starts at seven forty five, so it was a 121 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: normal time for me. I did record the meeting, and 122 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: even though I am in a one party consent state, 123 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: I asked just to be safe. The meeting started with 124 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: jan my thirsty principle, saying that it had recently come 125 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: to their attention that my boyfriend had been quote publicly 126 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: participating in lude acts. I asked what she meant, since 127 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: as far as I knew, my boyfriend had never had 128 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: charges file against him for something like that. That's when 129 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: the HR lady Pam said that somebody who they could 130 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: not name names, but they just said it was a 131 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: staff member, found his only fans account. Like many of 132 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: you said, I asked what that was since I had 133 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: never heard of it. But he's like, what are you 134 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: talking about? They explained, although they did not look as 135 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: uncomfortable as I had hoped, they're all watching it. They're like, 136 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: we want your boyfriend to make better only fans come. Yeah, 137 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: we all. 138 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 3: Looked at it just to make sure that you know 139 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: it was against the code, and we looked at it 140 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 3: a lot of times and. 141 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: It is Yep, it turns out it is against the code, 142 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 1: and uh, can we go on a date with him? 143 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: Then they asked if I had ever participated in or 144 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: intended to participate in one of his videos. See that's 145 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: what they're right there. They're like, you're watching him. Are 146 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: you gonna get in on that OnlyFans action? Or are 147 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: you just gonna leave him out? You know, you leave 148 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: him hung out to dry? Are gonna be in them? 149 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: I told them no. Jan said that I couldn't bring 150 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: any unvetted guests into the building. So I pulled up 151 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: the email thread I had asking for permission and reminded 152 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: her that he had his ID scanned in order to 153 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: get a temp badge. Pam said that it was due 154 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: to the nature of his online activity that he would 155 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: no longer be allowed in the school. I said okay, 156 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: and asked if when I brought my dad to help 157 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: with things in the future, would I need to disclose 158 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: his online activity as well. Pam said that wasn't necessary, 159 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: but that they couldn't have any teacher or staff member 160 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: affiliated with a spicy worker. He works the spice fields 161 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: on oracus. 162 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 2: WHOA, that's good, that's good. 163 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: I asked what that meant? What does that mean? Teacher? 164 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 1: Teach me please? I mean like, I don't know what 165 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: you mean. 166 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 3: Say more about that, Like he's just playing like dumb 167 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: to get them to admit stuff. 168 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: Exactly is the spice the spice work that you talk of? 169 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: I asked her what that meant, and she said that 170 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,599 Speaker 1: I could not bring him on to school grounds, to 171 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: school functions, or anything related to the school. Additionally, since 172 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: the school represented the church, the staff could only have 173 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: relationships with people who upheld a dignified image. Apparently my 174 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: boyfriend doesn't do that. She also said that if they 175 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: receive one report from a parent, student, or staff member 176 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: of my affiliation with him after this meeting, that would 177 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,359 Speaker 1: be grounds for immediate termination. 178 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: Wait, like, op, he can't even date him. 179 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: That's crazy because clearly it was the principal who was 180 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: familiar with his OnlyFans account. Oh so if the principle 181 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: is on OnlyFans, she needs to also be reprimanded, because 182 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that would be frogliating. That's affiliating. 183 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 3: And also I'm like wondering what this you know what, 184 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 3: like what is considered inappropriate? Like what type of relationship 185 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 3: they're considering, because that that is a various library's lope 186 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: that there already seemed to. 187 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: Be slipping on. It's like, where does this stop? 188 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 3: If? 189 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: Ye are you? You're doing this just for me for 190 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: this case? Why don't we just do this for everyone? Yeah? 191 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: Why don't we just bring back the Spanish inquisition while 192 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: we're at it? No one expects the Spanish Inquisition civil lawsuit. 193 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 2: Look at the contract, See what you can do here? 194 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 2: Play around with it might be tough because it's private. 195 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 2: Try to get the Pope on your side, try to 196 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 2: get inside. I hear new Pope is actually. 197 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: Pretty cool, pretty cool. I asked if that also applied 198 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: to the staff member who reported it in the first place, 199 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: since they went onto a corn site. Hmm. Jan said 200 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: that was irrelevant, that the meeting was about me, not 201 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: about the other staff member. Interesting. Interesting, seems like this 202 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: meeting is actually about how the behavior of all staff 203 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: members should be processed. 204 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, those are just like malicious compliance. 205 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: That's what we should do. Let's just get let's hey, 206 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: let's make this in everybody meeting. Yeah, and you know 207 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: what else is in everybody meeting? Our lives on YouTube 208 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: every weekday three pm. You can join by just tapping 209 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: our profile. 210 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 3: I think what op he needs to do before we 211 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 3: get into this last chunk of the story. Op he 212 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 3: needs to say, Hey, I want you to clarify what 213 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 3: the like, what is considered an okay relationship? 214 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? 215 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 3: Like, I want you to list it out because this 216 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 3: was unclear, and just like play down again and be 217 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 3: like I didn't understand what you meant. Who am I 218 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 3: allowed to date? Who am I not allowed to date? 219 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 3: So that they spell it out and then you can 220 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 3: be like. 221 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: Here, here's a little lawsuit. I think all the ducks 222 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: get them in a row. Clearly, Like, if you're going 223 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: to stay in a relationship with your hot OnlyFans, guy, 224 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: I guess, don't do it in the presence of anyone 225 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: who can nark on you, because classic full of narks. 226 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: The Catholic some narks, that's their whole thing. Full of narks, 227 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: that's their whole thing. You nark enough, you get into 228 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: heaven automatically free pass into heaven if you a narkyp quick. 229 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: Okay, storytime, my church in Tennessee would talk about corn 230 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 2: and they would have pancakes and corn, and they would 231 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 2: they be like, they get pancakes, and we'll be around 232 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: and they'll be like, all right, who's watching it? And 233 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 2: the guy would do this, and all the walker teenagers 234 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 2: would just kind of like be like and he'd be like, 235 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 2: all right, who's actually watching it? And then they'd have 236 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 2: a talk about it. Okay, it's like it's like a 237 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 2: sweet shameful day. 238 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: And then the floor beneath all of the people who 239 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: raise their hands dropped out from underneath them and they 240 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: were sent straight to the hot place. 241 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 3: I remember we had one of our one of our retreats, 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 3: we would do this thing where we wrote down all 243 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 3: the like I don't know, there was a question, certain 244 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 3: questions that we did that we had to answer it 245 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,440 Speaker 3: on this sheet that were like aligned with I don't know, 246 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 3: sinple behavior or something like that. 247 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: And you would write it down. No, no, no, sorry. 248 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 3: It was like all the we would write down all 249 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 3: the people we loved, and then after that, okay, after that, 250 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 3: they would have us like puncture the paper with all 251 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: like every you know, if they said that, they're like, 252 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 3: have you cheated on test? 253 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: Puncturing? 254 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 3: So it was like all of those things, and it 255 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 3: was like, that's what you're doing to your family if 256 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 3: you've done any of this. 257 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: It was really intense. Last little chunk the meeting ended 258 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: shortly after they asked me to sign an acknowledgment of 259 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: the meeting. I told them I wanted to review it first, 260 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: and brought it home with me. My boyfriend is furious 261 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: and at the same time keeps apologizing, saying that it's 262 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: his fault, but it's not. He was just born that 263 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: hot guy. It's just so hot. He was like, I'm sorry, 264 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,199 Speaker 1: I can't control it. 265 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 2: Kept the entrepreneurship my body. 266 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: To everyone, I'm just a big hot, unentrepretne her man. 267 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: I can't even know what to tell you what else 268 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: I could be. The standards for teachers are crazy. We're 269 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: going to have to have a little indeed slash LinkedIn date, 270 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: so hopefully I can get out of their asap. Lesson 271 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 1: learned though, never take a job at a religious school. 272 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 1: And we do have some top comments. Just read this 273 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: one from not sloth Beard. You missed your opportunity to 274 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: ask Jan in front of HR if she ever figured 275 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: out where she knew your boyfriend from, since she said 276 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: he looked. 277 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 2: Familiar to her. 278 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that would have been a great move, But 279 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: I think HR would have just slipped it around and 280 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 1: been like, this is actually nice meeting about you. This 281 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: is not about Jan. This is a meeting about you. 282 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: Jan can't do that because that staff member is Jan. Yeah. 283 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, because she's the one who noticed. Yes, there was 284 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 3: no there is no other staff exactly. 285 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: It was Jan. It's all Jan's fault. And I feel 286 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: like the person who wrote this story definitely took like 287 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: all a lot of names from the office. Yeah, we 288 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: got Jan and Ham, so that means to her boyfriend 289 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: is Michael Scott. Oh, Michael Scott OnlyFans. Michael Scott OnlyFans 290 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: would be really funny because he wouldn't even make any 291 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: OnlyFans content. It would just be like amateur like magician 292 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: tricks and like bad stand up comedy. 293 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 2: Like bad magician does some dirty things with his hands, 294 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: does a card trip. 295 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, your niche bad magician. But that is the end 296 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: of that story. 297 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 3: My coworker's food makes me physically ill, so they called 298 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 3: me racist. 299 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:42,359 Speaker 1: Oh. 300 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 3: So I have a Korean coworker who was adopted when 301 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 3: she was a baby by the whitest people I have 302 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 3: ever met. I'm Hispanic and also adopted by the whitest 303 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: people ever, so we I guess bonded over it at first. 304 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from Okay Television one one 305 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 3: oh on the ar Slashoky storytime suburt it. So she 306 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 3: talks about her heritage though as if she was raised 307 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 3: Korean and pretends she doesn't have white parents, which I 308 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 3: don't understand, but to each therone. So, this coworker is 309 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: constantly bringing Korean food into the office that smells so 310 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 3: intense or bad the entire office smells for the rest 311 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 3: of the day. I have a sensitive stomach with smells 312 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 3: and cannot handle it constantly. We also work an extremely 313 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 3: small office space, so this isn't space where I can 314 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 3: ask to move desks or I'm bothered by some faint 315 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 3: smell in the distance. Now, I wouldn't have an issue 316 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 3: if it was once in a while, even once a week, 317 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 3: but it's making me physically ill at my desk every 318 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 3: day for months now. I really cannot emphasize enough that 319 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 3: it's not the smell of intense seasonings or ingredients that 320 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 3: is turning my stomach, but it actually smells like expired 321 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 3: bad food. 322 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,640 Speaker 1: Oo. She is a slippery slope, though, So what this 323 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: person is describing as fermentation. 324 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there is more, but I think so 325 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 3: far based off what we know. I think you I 326 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: don't think you can directly go up to her, because 327 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 3: that is, you know, you can be kind of culturally insensitive. 328 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 3: So I think maybe going to the you know, your 329 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 3: boss or whatever and saying, hey, can we just have 330 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 3: a rule where we don't eat inside the office? Yeah? 331 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: Or I yeah, something like that. If it's really like, 332 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: there's a way you can if you're if you're being 333 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 1: pushed to the point of like nausea and like like 334 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: just the way where you can because your hey ac 335 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: not about your Korean food. It's just that I am 336 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: getting ill, I am getting physically. Can you please help me? 337 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 3: Yesterday was the worst. I couldn't take it anymore. I 338 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 3: politely apologized and asked her if she could maybe consider 339 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 3: eating in the break room because my stomach couldn't handle 340 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 3: the smells. I would ask the same if our buddy 341 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 3: Sam was bringing tuna sandwiches in. 342 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 2: Was replaced tuna sandwiches with clam chowder. 343 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: Clam chowder. 344 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 3: Sam always eats clamchowder. 345 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: And it's pretty stinky. 346 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: Oh yes, I think I said I'm so sorry ten 347 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 3: plus times in the process of because I know she 348 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 3: is sensitive to it. She got quiet and threw out 349 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 3: her food. Oh damn, and again I apologized one hundred times. 350 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 3: But now the food was in the trash can, so 351 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 3: she hasn't actually finished anything or fixed anything. Next to 352 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 3: my desk and it was deadly the holes. D that's wow, dude, 353 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 3: that's perfooding. 354 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: You're having a problem, but you're trying to make it 355 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: someone else's issue. It's like it's your issue. You need 356 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: to be able to figure it out independently of other people. 357 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: Oh pie, Yeah, if you're like this could like the 358 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: Korean food or the kimchi, whatever the smell is. It 359 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: just like drives me insane. It's like, well, you don't 360 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 1: have the right to tell someone that they just can't eat. Yeah. No, 361 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: absolutely need to figure out how to solve it on 362 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: your own. Though. 363 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: I do think that there is a way again where 364 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 3: they could just talk to the like they could say, hey, 365 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 3: let's not eat in the that would be the only 366 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 3: thing they could do. 367 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then everyone can't eat in the office now, 368 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: and then it creates a problem for everybody. It's your 369 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: solution is either nose plugs or fixed vapor rub or like, 370 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. Growing up being. 371 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 3: So racist, I actually had to ask if I could 372 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 3: go home an hour early, and she made an off 373 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,640 Speaker 3: remark that I didn't have to pretend to be sick. 374 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 3: She wouldn't bring her culture to work. Again, I assume 375 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 3: things would be tense, but I woke up this morning 376 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: to a bunch of posts on our social media dragging 377 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 3: me by name as a racist. She went as far 378 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 3: as calling me a white supremacist. Oh he's not white, 379 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 3: but like the beginning of the story, who was like, 380 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 3: I'm not white in one and said that I told 381 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 3: her she wasn't allowed to eat anything non American in 382 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 3: the office, as it offended me. Lady's going too far, 383 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 3: My lady is going too far. 384 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 1: That's not what happened at all. That's the craziest taking. 385 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: Let's have on that. After someone apologizes, Yeah, it's like, 386 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, so sorry, I'm so sorry. 387 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. It's making me violently ill. I'm sorry, 388 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry racist. 389 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 3: My boss even said we had to have a meeting 390 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 3: this afternoon regarding issues with coworker, which this is obviously it. 391 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 3: And now I'm terrified of going to be fired for 392 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 3: being a rsist. 393 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, you shouldn't even be terrified. You 394 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 1: should just be like, here comes the money. Yeah, I 395 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:14,120 Speaker 1: mean you didn't you wrongful termination lawsuit incoming. 396 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 3: I tried to apologize to her and tell her there 397 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 3: may have been a misunderstanding, but she cried about how 398 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 3: insulting her cultural food was the deepest racist attack she 399 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 3: has ever experienced, and she doesn't feel safe working with 400 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 3: me anymore. 401 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: If that's the deepest most racist attack you've ever experienced. 402 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 1: Good for you, fair that is that is Yea, If 403 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: that's the worst racist thing that's ever happened to you, 404 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: you haven't had a lot of racism in your life. 405 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 3: Sounds like my other coworker previously mentioned Sam that said 406 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 3: that my comparison to him bringing tuna wasn't the same 407 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 3: because it has nothing to do with his heritage. 408 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 2: It is a white person thing to do, but nothing's. 409 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: Like, it's not to do with it. It's like it 410 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: just sucks. No, it's like that. But that's the point. 411 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: It's my point. Isn't that I hate this South Korean food. 412 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: It's I hate food that's smells bad and makes me 413 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: want to bar fe like, has nothing about South Korean. 414 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,720 Speaker 3: He said that maybe my nausea is really some repressed 415 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 3: racism that He's like, maybe your racism kind of comes 416 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 3: up as like a physical response. 417 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's been a lot of interesting studies recently about 418 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: racism being held in the new Yeah, it's like all 419 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 1: about your microbiome. If your microbiomes racist, it's gonna show 420 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 1: up in your day to day. 421 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 3: I don't even know how to process all this. I 422 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 3: genuinely feel like I'm losing my mind. I didn't mean 423 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 3: to offend anyone, let alone this badly Reddit. 424 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Yes? Yeah, dude, pict your 425 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: gut biomes you are the a hole one hundred percent. 426 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: You racist. If you hate every single South Korean person, 427 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: just say so, don't hide behind this flimsy veil of 428 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 1: like fermented foods making your stomach upset. 429 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 2: And if you don't want to be racist anymore, just 430 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 2: say you hate everyone and then people will accept that. 431 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's actually that's true. Easy, easy, I hate everybody. 432 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 1: I'm rac just to all humans. Well that's cool on 433 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: a real level, though, I do. I do understand we're 434 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: getting away from racism and back to the food thing 435 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 1: because but it's a thing with like truffle oil stuff 436 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: like black truffle, like white truffle anything trule like the 437 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,120 Speaker 1: smell of it my brain, Like if I smell it 438 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: is like, do not eat that, get it away from you. 439 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,959 Speaker 1: But the taste of it I actually like. But just 440 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: the smell of truffle oil stuff like makes me want 441 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: to reject the food. 442 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,399 Speaker 3: Like I think there's also just I mean, etiquette around 443 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 3: bringing anything like really sent SENTI into a small space. 444 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, to not eat karaokey, beef jerky or peanuts 445 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 2: on the plane, well. 446 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 1: Yeah you shouldn't peanuts, Wait, peanuts, wealgies and considerate much. 447 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I think there are some relevant comments, 448 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 3: so let's get into those. Honestly, the way they were 449 00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 3: talking about me being racist, I was googling if a 450 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 3: subconscient if I could get physically ill from it. Ever, 451 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 3: just meet people who make you question your sanity because 452 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 3: of how serious and genuinely angry they are. And we 453 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 3: don't have an actual HR department, just the manager, who 454 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 3: clearly already knows meeting around three, So we'll see how 455 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 3: it goes. But at this point she's so upset in 456 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 3: arms about me being a racist, I don't know if 457 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 3: manager would even want to deal with the backlash. As 458 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 3: far as pretending her parents are Korean, it's not that 459 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 3: she acts as if they are, but she talks constantly 460 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 3: about her birth parents as if they are her parents 461 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 3: what they are, and talks about Korea as if she 462 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 3: was raised there. I mean, that's all she ever talks about. Really, 463 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 3: my mom and dad were Buddhas, so I keep their 464 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 3: stuff with me, and her desk is covered in spiritual 465 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 3: stuff from them, but it's all stuff she bought. Her 466 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 3: actual mom and dad, who have come to the office before, 467 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 3: are so sweet and nice, and she acts friendly to 468 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 3: them but calls them by first name. Basis mind you, 469 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 3: this is a twenty six year old who never met 470 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 3: her birth parents, was adopted around one years old, and 471 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 3: has never been back to Korea since then. Basically, she 472 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 3: talks as if parents are Korean immigrants and she was 473 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 3: raised by them with their culture, while the sweet couple 474 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 3: who raised and spoiled her she pretends doesn't exist. And 475 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,119 Speaker 3: he says, I never said she couldn't eat it or 476 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 3: bring it, just asked her very politely to follow the 477 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 3: rule everyone else does. 478 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: So this is already a rule. 479 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 3: This is not saying because it would be a totally 480 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 3: different thing if everyone was like, you can eat that, 481 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 3: because that would be that would be you know. 482 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 2: I specifically asked Sophia not to eat meat anymore, and 483 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 2: she's on that because of it stinks when she makes it, 484 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 2: so now she's prescatarian. 485 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:30,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 486 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 3: I did it for Riley, not for any other reason. 487 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: It's Sophia's got stinky meat, you guys, do you mean? 488 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I think that that would be a 489 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 3: different problem. But it seems like Opie was literally just asking. 490 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 3: It seems like Opie was trying to be respectful. It 491 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 3: really could It really depends on how she asked about it, 492 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 3: and like what the policy is around it and stuff, 493 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: and whether or not it actually smells, because sometimes people are, 494 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 3: you know, pretty dramatic. Opie seems awfully judgmental of relationships 495 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 3: that don't affect her. I do agree. It does seems 496 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 3: she's making a lot of assumptions about a person's like 497 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 3: relationship to their culture. 498 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's dropping. 499 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: She's in there. 500 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 3: It's like, well, okay, respect relationship to you know, culture. 501 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 1: How does she know that? A little mixed bag here, 502 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: But I mean if she called out the girl and 503 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 1: being like, you're disgusting South Korean vomit, food needs to 504 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,479 Speaker 1: go away, that would be different. And so do you 505 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: that wherever you came from? Because I hate you? It's well, yeah, 506 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: that's pretty easy. Do I sense a little racism in response? 507 00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 3: Why am I the a hole for wanting my dust 508 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 3: space to not reek? It's shared space by everyone, and 509 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 3: there is a designated space for food because of this 510 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 3: exact reason, So please God, I don't understand what I 511 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:49,120 Speaker 3: did wrong about the smell. Yesterday's meal looked like at 512 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 3: achini alfredo made with rice noodles, but genuinely smelled like 513 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 3: spoiled milk. I'm weirdly not bothered by fish in general 514 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 3: by any means, I actually fish and will clean my 515 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 3: own fish. I mentioned to since it was the first smelly, 516 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,200 Speaker 3: non cultural related dish I could think of. Her food 517 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 3: doesn't smell fishy by any means. It smells more like 518 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 3: expired milk. 519 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 2: Okay, I see the problem here. I think you should 520 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 2: just call her a bad cook. I think that's really 521 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: what you should have just done in the first place. 522 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:19,239 Speaker 3: Problem so, I think she's genuinely using expired ingredients. I 523 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 3: don't know if that makes sense, but it genuinely it's 524 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 3: not like strong smelling food, but actually bad bad. I 525 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 3: would say the same to any food that smells genuinely rotten. 526 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 3: As I said in the main boast, it's not that 527 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,239 Speaker 3: the smell is intense, it is actually genuinely bad, like 528 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 3: spoiled milk. My best friend grew growing up were Vietnamese, 529 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 3: and though their food smells can be intense and different, 530 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 3: it was never like this. I don't care what culture 531 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 3: of the food is from. I have nothing against Korean food. 532 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 3: I actually love KBBQ, and I have a mom and 533 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 3: pop I frequent, which again smells really intense but not bad. 534 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 3: I cannot emphasize enough that it has nothing to do 535 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 3: with cultural food, but with however, she's cooking the dishes. 536 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,159 Speaker 3: Anyone else here Slash, what do others think? Everyone was 537 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 3: in the office and heard it. My three unmentioned coworkers 538 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 3: who shared the small space all agreed with me and 539 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 3: thanked me end of day yesterday. But they're also terrified 540 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 3: of my Korean coworker, as she is quick to be 541 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 3: offended and everyone kind of walks eggshells, so I don't 542 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 3: know how willing they would be to stand up for me. 543 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 3: There are security cameras so manager could even check. But 544 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 3: I was starting to genuinely be afraid that it was 545 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 3: racist to ask her not to eat at her desk 546 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 3: since the food is Korean. This isn't something I've ever 547 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 3: dealt with before, and by all means, I really was 548 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 3: polite and genuine as I possibly could be with her. 549 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,400 Speaker 3: I never said they can't bring it at all. She's 550 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: the only person who eats at her desk. I had 551 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 3: limited text, but my other three coworkers, who walk on 552 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 3: eggshells around her, thanked me after work. The only person 553 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 3: who didn't agree with me also called me racist because 554 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 3: they are her best friend outside of work, not just 555 00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 3: at work. I generally have no issue with her being food, 556 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 3: but when everyone else eats in the break room or 557 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 3: out of the office, why should we all have to 558 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 3: struggle with the smell at our desks? Moreover, it's not 559 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 3: that our food is cultural or intense. I genuinely think 560 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 3: she's using expired ingredients. Oh pause, really honing in on that. 561 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 3: They're like, it's not the cultural, it's it's it's expired. 562 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: I've genuinely never heard of somebody just being like probably 563 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 1: because I don't hang out with a bunch of racists, 564 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: but like just like just hating a food because it's 565 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 1: culturally like from some other culture. I don't like it 566 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: because it smells like it's expired. 567 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 3: I mean that is like a thing that a lot 568 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 3: of people have dealt with, Like a lot of kids 569 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 3: who have culture bringing cultural foods to school get you know, 570 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 3: crapped on, and they're like, oh, what's that disgusting? 571 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like those are I mean, like these people 572 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,920 Speaker 1: are twenty six. Yeah, like these are adults, not children, 573 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: like children are children are everywhere? Children Children are the 574 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,679 Speaker 1: most racist people on the earth. It's a lot of 575 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:53,199 Speaker 1: adults are. 576 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 3: Actually, I feel like that's not entirely true. 577 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,880 Speaker 1: Have you ever played a Call of Duty lobby with 578 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: twelve year olds? No? I haven't. Yeah, they they get 579 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: after it. I mean, there's never a way to like 580 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 1: excuse racism. But like, I don't know, if you're like 581 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: a fully formed, like adult and you're like, oh, gross, 582 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: like Korean food, those stinky Koreans could never know in 583 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 1: front of me, it's like your idiot. But also if 584 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: if this woman is like, you know, making her like 585 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,119 Speaker 1: feticini alfredo with expired milk, and then his being like 586 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,199 Speaker 1: you hate Korean people, it's like, first of all, fecini 587 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: alfredos not Korean. Okay, just because you made it does 588 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: not make it Korean. I want to know what the dishes. 589 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 2: She probably learned it from her white parents. 590 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 3: It doesn't smell a lot. It smells bad like spoiled 591 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 3: and FYI, there is a sign of the break room 592 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 3: that seems to keep all meals in the kitchen That's 593 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 3: why I think Ope could have just kind of circumnavigated 594 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 3: this by going straight to the boss and being like, hey, 595 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 3: can we like, you know, some people are eating in 596 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 3: the break in the office. Can we eat in the 597 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,080 Speaker 3: break room? Why does her heritage matter? Or slash? Why 598 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 3: did Opie include that information? I included these details due 599 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 3: to what she's saying on social media. Her saying that 600 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 3: I insulted her Korean immigrant parents because they taught her 601 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 3: to cook when she has never met her Korean parents 602 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 3: is relevant because she's blatantly lying. She went as far 603 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 3: as saying I told her to go back to her country, 604 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 3: calling her and her family slurs. 605 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 2: Whoa that person would never make it as a chef. 606 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 3: Oh if someone was like your food is not good? Yeah, yeah, 607 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 3: don't have Gordon Ramsey trying. My issue was her home 608 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 3: cooking smelling like death. Not intense but awful. I didn't 609 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 3: even know it was Korean until she started calling me racist. 610 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 3: But as far as how she talks around about her family, 611 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 3: I was answering someone's questions who was curious and who 612 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 3: her family is matters, when again she's straight up lying 613 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 3: all over social media about involving me being racist would again, 614 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 3: I haven't done. I don't think she's aware there are 615 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: security cameras in her office, and there's a legitimate proof 616 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 3: I haven't done any of the things she's saying. I 617 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 3: need to really emphasize I effing love fetuccini alfredo, and 618 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 3: whatever disaster she home cooked was not how it's supposed 619 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 3: to smell. My other three coworkers also are ready to 620 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 3: vomit at all of her home cooked meals. I don't 621 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 3: know what this crazy lady is putting in her food, 622 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 3: but something is very, very wrong, and I'm not the 623 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 3: only one smelling it. Four out of six office employees 624 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 3: are ready to vomit, and the only one other than 625 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 3: her who isn't as has self proclaimed that they have 626 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 3: no sense of smell. I can swear to you it 627 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 3: is a miracle this woman is surviving, let alone thriving 628 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 3: off whatever the f she's cooking. The abomination of food 629 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 3: she called fettucini alfredo. 630 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: Is not anything I would deem edible. I love that. 631 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 3: Ope was like trying to be really, you know, careful 632 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 3: about it, and then after the comments was like, you. 633 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: Know what, I hate her food. Yeah, her food sucks, 634 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: all of it sucks. I was trying to be delicate, 635 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: but you know what's not delicate the flavor profile on 636 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: that disgusting excuse of a pile of barf that you 637 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: brought in and called Feraccini Alfredo. 638 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 3: No, I think that the coworker is definitely taking it. 639 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 3: I mean, if she's lying on on social media, there 640 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 3: is a wide responses, and since the post was deleted, 641 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 3: I don't know the final judgments update comment. Later that day, 642 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 3: the meeting was gold and I have to start with 643 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 3: my favorite part. 644 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: The food wasn't Korean. Wow, damn guys, Okay, we're who 645 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: it was. 646 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 3: Indeed, as suspected Feta Genie Alfredo. That's right, y'all are 647 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 3: mad at me for finding Korean foods smelling bad and 648 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 3: it wasn't even Korean. This unhitched woman lies no no limits. 649 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 3: So to start, she came in the morning and went 650 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 3: straight to manager's office, told them all the racist things 651 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 3: I said about her food and such, and was crying 652 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 3: in hysterics, like absolute hysterics. My manager came out after 653 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 3: and asked for the meeting, then went back over the 654 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 3: past few hours and watched every interaction we had together 655 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 3: over the last day and a half. We have security 656 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 3: cameras in the office due to working with some sensitive 657 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 3: sensitive information. What we say and to who on the 658 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 3: phone can legally matter a lot, so we all know 659 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,479 Speaker 3: we're being watched. But maybe coworker thought that was a 660 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 3: lie forgot who knows lo and bold though I didn't 661 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 3: say or do anything racist and was only asking her 662 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 3: to follow rules insanely politely. 663 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: Oh, he's like, I freaking was it racist? Guys? 664 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 3: Okay, Moreover, when he watched me leave the office yesterday, 665 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 3: he watched me say goodbye to everyone, and apparently right 666 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 3: after I left, Sam started asking the coworker about the food, 667 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 3: saying she told him she was making fetichini alfredo and 668 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 3: that it didn't look Korean, and the idiot confirmed. 669 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 1: Whoa wow, what a dum spid idiots. 670 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 3: So apparently she thought I was assuming it was a 671 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: it was Korean because of how she looks, and that 672 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 3: I was being racist. I don't think Opie even said like, hey, 673 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 3: could you get your Korean food out of here? OHI 674 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 3: was like, hey, do you mind eating the break room? 675 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? If you're gonna eat spoiled milk for lunch, can 676 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: you do it? Not next to me, thank you. Damn. 677 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: She's like, you're racist, you must hate Koreans. 678 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 2: Lily Benita says Opie's race just to Italians, not Koreans. 679 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: Now we've got Yeah, there we go. 680 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 3: She assumed because she looks Korean that me asking her 681 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,640 Speaker 3: to eat in the break room was an insult to 682 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 3: Korean food and decided to just lie around. That assumption 683 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 3: the most unhingched crap I have ever heard in my 684 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 3: entire life. I don't know who to be mad at 685 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 3: more my three coworkers who didn't tell me the crap 686 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 3: was cheesy noodles, the culprit for lying this good God 687 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 3: dang badly, or Sam for knowing and gaslighting me so 688 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 3: badly I thought I was going crazy. 689 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 690 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 3: Sam literally was like, it's not the same as my 691 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 3: tuna because it's it's cultural. 692 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: My tuna has no culture. But you know what, my 693 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 1: cultureless tuna. 694 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 3: But you know what, you can hate joining us live 695 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 3: every weekday for a three pm for Live. 696 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah you can't. You can't. If you hate it, we 697 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: will ban you. No, but we also won't do that 698 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 1: whatever you. 699 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but there is a little bit more to this. 700 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 3: But honestly, I think next time just go straight to 701 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 3: your boss to say, hey, can we enforce the rules here? 702 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 3: Don't even like, don't even bring up like specific co workers. 703 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 3: It can just be like, hey, you know some people 704 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 3: were eating in the office. Can we just eat in 705 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 3: the break room? 706 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? If you work within the truly is a problem. 707 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 1: And the levers of a bureaucracy, which would be the 708 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: office right there is the hierarchy of sort of control 709 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,399 Speaker 1: and power there. Just go straight to the person who 710 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 1: has the authority to tell everyone what to do. 711 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, I don't tell if you know she's a problem, 712 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 3: maybe that maybe hope you didn't. 713 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: But if you know she's a problem, she's so Kourian, so. 714 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 2: We know she's. 715 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 3: You're making really risky jokes man. 716 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: Guys, it's he's finding the line. It's come on, I 717 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: love Like what what did OP say? Like? That's not 718 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 1: I love? I love Korean barbecue? How could I hate 719 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: South Korean people? 720 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 3: But it was just that KVBQ. Guys, don't worry. 721 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: Literally, I hate so much of it last night that 722 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: it made me sick. 723 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 2: You didn't have that last night? You said you had 724 00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 2: other things ye do? 725 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,240 Speaker 1: That's I did, well you did? And then I had 726 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,879 Speaker 1: more stuff after it that made me actually physically ill. 727 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,800 Speaker 2: Okay, I was not listening to your story earlier. 728 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 1: We all, I wish that I lived in South Korea. Honestly, 729 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: that place rocks well. 730 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 3: Anyway, Yeah, my boss, thank god, was extremely chill about 731 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 3: it with me, and we ended up shooting the crap 732 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 3: for a short bit about some nerd stuff, and he 733 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 3: told me she's being put on two week leave while 734 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 3: he and the owner figure out how to fire her. Damn, 735 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 3: just trying to sue and to try and relax a bit. 736 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: She's definitely gonna be like, you aren't. 737 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 3: Firing me, it's discrimination. 738 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's absolutely gonna be a she's unhinged where she's 739 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: got to get out of there. She's liability to the business. 740 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,319 Speaker 3: He also already had screenshots of her socials and the 741 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 3: company will be threatening legal action if she doesn't take 742 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 3: it down. However, he did advise me, as many of 743 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 3: you guys did, to consider a lawyer or restraining order 744 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 3: because this thing is. 745 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,720 Speaker 1: So truly unhinged. Yeah. 746 00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 3: So basically I'm not having crazy as much as I 747 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 3: felt like it all got dang day effing fed a 748 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 3: Cheni Elfredo. And there are some relevant comments to finish us. 749 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 3: Dude on God, it shouldn't smell like that. I effing 750 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,319 Speaker 3: loved that, a Genie Alfredo, This woman should not be 751 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 3: allowed within a one hundred foot radius of a kitchen. 752 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 3: I don't know how you could mess up something that bad, 753 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 3: But when I say it smelled rancid, it was bad bad. 754 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 3: I love how many comments from op are literally just 755 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 3: saying it's rancid, it's bad. 756 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: You don't understand it's soiled. 757 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 3: No, like her cooking was all that bad, no matter 758 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 3: what she brought. One day, she made chicken noodle soup 759 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,280 Speaker 3: and it was so notably pungent, like a wet cloth 760 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 3: shoe that was worn all day. She even offered people 761 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,040 Speaker 3: to taste it, and one of our other coakers was 762 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 3: so desperately curious as to why it smelled like that 763 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 3: and arristed for the biscuit. They ended up vomiting later 764 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 3: that day and saying it was the worst thing they 765 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 3: ever tasted. I don't know what's wrong with their taste 766 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 3: buds or sense of smell, but holy god, I don't 767 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 3: even know how anyone could be so oblivious. 768 00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 1: How was she alive? That description that got me? Yeah, wondering, 769 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: Oh God, who don't know how like her stomach is 770 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: handling this, that's my question. She's got the iron gut. 771 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 1: She's gonna be everything of her gut. Biome studied really, 772 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: really really