1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: don't know, y'all have a suit on giving them like 3 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: the million bucks things in the count me through good 4 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: it sting to other. Stay I don't join me. You 5 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: got turn you are you gotta turn to turn them out? 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: Turn you got to turn them out? Then turn the 7 00:01:46,959 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: water the water go. Come, come on your ba I share. 8 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: Well a good morning everybody. Y'are listening to the voice. 9 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey 10 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 1: got a radio show. You know this week, I've just 11 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: been on it, so today it's no different. I'm telling you, 12 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the 13 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: principles of success. I'm more determined to help and guide 14 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: and teach as many people as I can the things 15 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: that I've learned. And I mean, man, I've been through it. 16 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: I have really been through it. I kid you not. 17 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: You know. I used to say, Okay, God, you know, 18 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: why is all this happening to me? But as I've 19 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: gotten older, I understand that was the ingredients. I needed 20 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: the ingredients to beat this cake. I needed all those 21 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: ingredients stirred up. I need all of that different flavors, 22 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: the stuff that I didn't think tastes so good. All 23 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: that stuff had to come into the bowl in all 24 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: for me to get to where I am today. As 25 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 1: much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients, 26 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: little did I know God was making this cake, not me. 27 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: But what he did was and you've heard you the 28 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 1: old saying God could turn lemons into lemonade, Well that's 29 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: what he was doing now. At the time, it all 30 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: had a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with 31 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 1: some other stuff in it too. I didn't care for it. 32 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: But little did I know that I needed everything that 33 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: happened to me to happen to me in the exact 34 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: order that had happened, in the exact array of things 35 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: that happened, for me to have a knowledge I have today, 36 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: the experience, the attitude, so I could turn around and 37 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: share that information. Okay, got that out the way. This 38 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: is what I want to give to you today. I 39 00:03:55,640 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: want you to understand something that discipline determine your destiny, 40 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: not your desire. Discipline determine your destiny, not your desire. 41 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: You've heard me say this how many times on the 42 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: show Okay, here we go against it. I got it. 43 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: Faith with our works, it's dead. But let me tell 44 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: you something. To be a hard worker, you got to 45 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: be disciplined. That's one of the hardest lessons I'm trying 46 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: to get through to my sons. You've gonna throw yourself 47 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: down a cliff if you're not a young man or 48 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: a man that possesses discipline. Because they got something for 49 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: undisciplined people. They got some street laws for undisciplined people, 50 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: and they got some federal laws and state laws for 51 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: undisciplined people. That's why them signs is outside on the freeway, 52 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: we're gonna let you go fast. But seventy is the limit. 53 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: Seventy fast enough. Really, if you're disciplined enough of a 54 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: person to leave your house at the time you're supposed 55 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: to leave your house, seventy miles hour is absolutely enough. 56 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: But if you're an undisciplined person, if you don't have 57 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: the wherewithal to leave your house on time, to get 58 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: ready to go where you want to go, see the 59 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: desires where you want to go, the discipline is how 60 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: you get there. You understand you can wanna go to 61 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: see your family in California, all you want, But the 62 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: flight leaves at one to eighteen. You leave your house 63 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: at twelve thirty. They told you you must check in 64 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: one hour before your flight. Now, if you ain't got 65 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: the discipline to get to the airport to check in 66 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: one hour before your flight, leaving your house forty five 67 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: minutes before the flight departs, what you think gonna happen? 68 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: Your desire to go see your family in la is 69 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: going to be thwarted because you lack the discipline to 70 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: prepare yourself and get yourself ready to do the things 71 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: that you have to do to make your desires come true. 72 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm telling you discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. 73 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: You can write down a list of stuff you want 74 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: to do all day, but if you don't produce and 75 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: show the discipline necessary to get there, what you think 76 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: gonna happen? Huh? Okay? I want to be rich, Okay, 77 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: I want to make four hundred thousand a year. Okay, 78 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: I want to be the best player that there is. Okay, 79 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: but you don't want to practice. See the cat that's 80 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: disciplined enough to show up at practice the shooting jumpers 81 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: when everybody going home, that's the guy that's gonna be 82 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: the best. The guy that's never late for practice, the 83 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: guy to study the playbook. That's the guy that's gonna 84 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: make it, not the guy that's talking crack I stalking 85 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: that smack. I'm gonna make the Pro Bowl, I'm gonna 86 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: make the All Star Team, I'm gonna be All American. 87 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: That's just what you're saying. But discipline determines your destiny, 88 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: not your desire. So now let's talk about this discipline. 89 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: What is that, really, Steve. That's your work ethic, that's 90 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: your hunger, that's your will. Discipline is how hard you're 91 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: willing to demonstrate the attributes and the traits to be 92 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: what you want to be. Did you hear me? It 93 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner that 94 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: is above and beyond what they say is necessary. Now, 95 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: this is a good example right here. Now. You can 96 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: want to be in the NFL all you want, but 97 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: they got this thing called the NFL Combines where they 98 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: bring in some of the top players at every position 99 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: to come in and they're gonna run a forty yard dash, 100 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: they're gonna do a standing broad jump, they're gonna do 101 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: a standing vertical leap. They're gonna do drills, running drills, 102 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: cutting drills. They can determine if a linebacker got stiff 103 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: hips by making back pedal, point him in one direction 104 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: and throw the football in another direction. How does he 105 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: turn his body? Now you can say you can tell 106 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: everybody at your college you want to play pro football. 107 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: You tell everybody at your high school. You tell them 108 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: in Peewee you want to play pro football. But they 109 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: got tests for you though. It's called the combines. Now 110 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: you get out here and you have a bad combine day, 111 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: ain't nobody trying to hear that. Let me tell you 112 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: how excuses don't work with people when they just trying 113 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: to get when they're trying to win in the NFL. 114 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: The fact that you had a bad day at the 115 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: combine and you don't run your best forties and you 116 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: just keep telling them you could do better, they don't 117 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: want to hear that. Because see, what ain't nobody gonna 118 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: pay you for is to play on Sunday. And that's 119 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: one of your bad days. We're paying you to play 120 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: on Sundays. But because you keep having these bad days, 121 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: because you ain't discipline enough to put in the work 122 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: to make sure that your maximum can be called upon 123 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: at any time. Now you at to combine with some 124 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: slow times that go on your record. You had to combine. 125 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: You don't jump as high as you did when you 126 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: was at the gym class. Well, hold up, man, this 127 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: is show day now in the NFL, Sunday is show day. 128 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 1: What they can't run the risk of is paying you 129 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: your money. And your bad day happened to be on 130 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: Sundays after we didn't cut your check. No, no, no, 131 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 1: We're looking for people who limit them bad days, who 132 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: got the discipline to work hard, to make an effort 133 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: for it. You understand what I'm saying to your folks. 134 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:32,359 Speaker 1: Please understand this. Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. 135 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: If you can want it all you want, but if 136 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: you ain't working, if you ain't grinding, if you ain't hurting, 137 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: if you ain't sweating real bad, if you always somewhere, 138 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: got to chill, you got to have a cold one, 139 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: you got to smoke one, You gotta do all them. Things. 140 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 1: Can't tell you something you ain't gonna make it. Discipline 141 00:09:54,600 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: determines your destiny, not your desires. You're listening morning show 142 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, the time is here the Steve Harvey 143 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Thank you for joining us. Hope you enjoyed. 144 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: It's about to be ignorant. Good morning, Um, SHIRLEYE. Carler, 145 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: Tommy Junior, Mississippi Morning. Good? What's happy Friday? You? Everything 146 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: is good? Junior? What you got man? Uh? Let me 147 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 1: ask something. Okay, So some people on their way to 148 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: work right now, and they're probably having this issue. How 149 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: do you let somebody know that their co worker is unattracted? 150 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: I'm just putting it out there. How how do you 151 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: let them co worker know the unattracted? Yeah? How do 152 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: you let a coworking on the untracked? I'm not saying 153 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: it's on this job. I'm just saying people on they 154 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: way to work. Well, when you get it work and 155 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: you're dealing with somebody that's unattracted, to let you and 156 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: you want to let them know? Yeah, you wouldn't let 157 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: because they tired of it. All these outfits they put 158 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: all you tired of that because it don't look good. Okay. 159 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: As soon as an ugly person speaks to me, as 160 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying good morning back, I immediately look off. But 161 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: I thought I was ugly. We are okay, then okay, Tommy, nonsense, 162 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: you didn't got in him go. Do you notice when 163 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: you speak to your uncle? Do you notice when I'm speaking, 164 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: I always kind of look off whatever. You had not 165 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: noticed that, because it's a way of doing it without 166 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: really being You don't have to be ugly to nobody. 167 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: They all ready ugly. What you don't want to do 168 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: be ugly to an ugly person. They've had enough of it. 169 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: They have mirrors. I'm pretty show that. You know, Tommy, 170 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 1: when the last time you looked at the men and 171 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: thought you was cute? Last night before I went somewhere, 172 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: he noticed how he didn't do that this morning. Yeah, 173 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,719 Speaker 1: he didn't say he didn't he didn't have an outfit on, 174 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: and he looked in that this morning and realized, I 175 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: just got to deal with this today. I gotta agree 176 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: with him. See, I thought he was gonna say this morning. 177 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: Now you know the truth comes out when you catch 178 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 1: him off God. Last night, for I went somewhere, he 179 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 1: put on his best and it wasn't him that was attractive. 180 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: He thought his outfit was attracted. But he got on 181 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 1: T shirt this morning when he got him looked in 182 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: that mirror this morning, he realized I got to deal 183 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: with it. There's another way. As we do these zoom calls. 184 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: Look at the cameras right now, who looks too close 185 00:12:48,920 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 1: to you? Not up? Ye, school bra right? Probably grand 186 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: it's in the wall and you want to say, all morning, 187 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: don you too close? We're getting the close up of it. 188 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: So that's how I say to deal with it. Morning, 189 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior, Thank you. Sorry. Every morning you can, 190 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: you can ask me whatnot Julie unc let me ask 191 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: you somef like all right, let's get it started coming 192 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the cello. 193 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this, 194 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time for 195 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: ask the clos Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey is here 196 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: to answer your love questions. This one is from Ginger 197 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: in Detroit. Ginger, Right, So, I'm thirty four years old 198 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: and I've been dating a twenty nine year old guy 199 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: or a year, and i attended a fundraising gallup for 200 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: one of my clients, and my boyfriend met my very 201 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: opinionated female boss for the first time. They got into 202 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: a debate about COVID and my boss called him an idiot. 203 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: I gave her a stern look and didn't say anything. 204 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: Monday at work, she told me that I'm dating an 205 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: idiot out of sheer respect. I didn't say a word. 206 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: How do I check her and keep my job? You 207 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to do that? Huh, that's it. 208 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: You're not gonna be able to check her and keep 209 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: your job. We're just trying to make a distant one. Yeah, 210 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: are you tired of her? I mean really tired of her? 211 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: Do you have application in anywhere else? Do you have 212 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: a skill set where you could take it somewhere and 213 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: not work for an opinionated boss. Then once you get 214 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: accepted at another position, then you walk in and check her. 215 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: But you're not gonna be able to check her and 216 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: keep your job, idiot? All right, moving on, Thank you, Tamika. 217 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 1: I can also assure you that your boss is unattracted. 218 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: We're just gonna start, all right. Tamika in Birmingham. She 219 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: sounds cute. I've been with my son's father for a 220 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 1: long time and we break up and make up all 221 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: of the time. Last year he got a girl pregnant 222 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: while we were broken up. I have accepted the baby 223 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: and we're back together. I went to his house yesterday 224 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: and there's a picture of him, his newborn daughter, and 225 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: his daughter's mom on his dresser. How could he take 226 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: a family picture with her and think I wouldn't mind? 227 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: Does he want them to be a family? WHOA wait 228 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: a minute, what do you mean? How does he think 229 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: you wouldn't mind? Wait a minute. You've taken everything else. 230 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: You've accepted every thing else he's been your You've been 231 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: dating your son's father for a long time. It's been 232 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: off and on. You accept that when I keep telling 233 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: women men don't do off. When when y'all off, we 234 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: somewhere own somewhere else. And then the last time he 235 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: proved it because while you was off, he got another 236 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: girl pregnant. I told y'all, this is what we do 237 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: when we off. You took him back again. You accepted that, 238 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: and you accept the baby. So now if you're gonna 239 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: accept him with her and the baby with him and her, 240 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: how you ain't gonna take the picture of all three 241 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: of them? That don't ever play out in your head? Man, sister, 242 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 1: little sister, You've accepted everything else he's given you to 243 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: gnaw own and swallow. Why would you not swallow this? 244 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: What you're gonna have to do is start establishing yourself 245 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 1: a new set of standards that you want to be 246 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: treated in it and and and accepted by, and start 247 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: applying nose, and you will find that you will accept 248 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: less bs off less people. That's right, That's right, all right, clo, 249 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: all right, Moving on Church, Amen, Amen. Moving on to 250 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: Alison and Nashville. Alison says, my husband and I are 251 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 1: empty nesters, and I'm just getting used to it. But 252 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: now I have a big problem with my husband. He 253 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: thinks this freedom from children means we need to have 254 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: sex all the time, all over the house. He loves 255 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: watching porn and he's always telling me to look at 256 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,959 Speaker 1: this or that on his phone. I'm sick of it. 257 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: My body can't take all that twisting and bending anymore. 258 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm okay with it once or twice a week. So 259 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: how do I set limits on him? Baby? We're gonna 260 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 1: do this once or twice a week. I'm coming here 261 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 1: with this phone everything. Okay, what all these white people 262 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: in here doing, We're not. We're doing this twice a week. Now, 263 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: which what two days? You want? What you need. What's 264 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 1: your best stage? Okay, I know you like sad sadness 265 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 1: and whatever you want. The weekend you want sadness and 266 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: whinsdays you want uses. You know. If I feel like 267 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: something else, I'll let you know. But what two days? 268 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: You won't stop showing me your phone. I don't care 269 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 1: what they doing. No, I'm not gonna lay my No, no, 270 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm not laying my leg up there on top of 271 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 1: the refrigerator. No, no, I don't like it with refrigerator. 272 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: Don open. Stop asking me that I'm not sitting on 273 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: the top of the tie wreck again, I don't that hurts? 274 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: All right? Can we move on? Now? You get the 275 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 1: don off? I'm not getting it no more? All right? 276 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: Moving on? In rowing up says, I've been married for 277 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 1: almost thirty years and my wife had a girl's night 278 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: out recently, and I had a few friends over to 279 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: watch the fight round midnight. I texted her to ask 280 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 1: if she was coming home, and she didn't answer. Around 281 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 1: twelve thirty am, she came in and I didn't recognize 282 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: the car that dropped her off. She said it wasn't uber, 283 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: but she got out of the front seat. Now I'm 284 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: paranoid about her. Whereabouts Do I press the issue or 285 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: let it slide? I don't know you. I told you 286 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 1: my wife. Don't come in at twelve thirty am. Get 287 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: out of cars I don't recognize, Get out the front 288 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: seat and say it was a uber. You know it 289 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 1: was a ugle drive on man. Yeah, hello, did she 290 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: leave in her car? Yeah? You know who picked up? 291 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: You're stupid, you know, Mackie. Thirty years things change, Yeah, 292 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: you ain't macke No mold packet wackmacket and got packet. 293 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 1: What you're driving here? Whacket, which means if she could 294 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: be somewhere getting in another sacket. Now you shouldn't ever 295 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 1: sitting at the house feeling like a lacket. And if 296 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: she really was by herself, she came home in a 297 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: taxi that would have a manage it more happy. Yeah, 298 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: but now here we is about that? All right? Thank you? 299 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 1: Seelo Coming up next, run that prank back with the 300 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: nephew right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show 301 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Miss Anne, 302 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: we'll be here with our national news and an entertainment news. 303 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: A sixty one year old man in Florida married. Get 304 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: this guy's his eighteen year old god daughter. And there's 305 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: a hmm right there. Let that marinade for a minute. Yeah, 306 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: while we're thinking about that, Yeah you heard me. And 307 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 1: there is a possibility as we move on that pigs 308 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: could one day be organ donors for us humans. But 309 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 1: right now, we'll talk about all this stuff at the 310 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 1: top of the hour. But right now it is time 311 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: to run that Frank back what you got for his nephew, 312 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: like hitless? Like okay, so I can have pig hitless 313 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 1: inven me. Okay, Frank is baby feat Uh, I'm not 314 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:39,119 Speaker 1: baby wait let's yeah, not like wait and see but 315 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: baby heavy baby heavy weight wait like that baby baby wait? 316 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: Can't hello Hello, I'm trying to reach a trainer please, Yeah, 317 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: this is traina great TRAINA. My name is Ernest, Ernest 318 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: Murphrey down here at the bus bond with from the 319 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: school district. Your son is j devid Am I right, yeah, okay, 320 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 1: Now he's in the sixth grade. I think, yeah, yeah, 321 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 1: everything is fine. I think he's on He rides bus 322 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: ninety Bus ninety three. Does he ride US ninety three? Yeah, 323 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 1: yeah he does. Okay, So now the school board has 324 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: implemented a new rule, and we're having to call a 325 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 1: lot of parents and let him know about the new 326 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 1: rule for us as far as the buses are concerned. Now, 327 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: from my understanding, each child that gets on the bus 328 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: has to weigh less than one hundred and twenty five pounds. 329 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 1: That's what the new rule that is implemented by the board. 330 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: What did you say that again? Each child that gets 331 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 1: on the bus has to weigh less than one hundred 332 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: and twenty five pounds. I don't understand. I don't understand. 333 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: What's okay? So what does what does that mean? So 334 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 1: starting on Monday, starting no Monday, what they're gonna do 335 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: if they're gonna the bus driver will have a scale 336 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: and he will wag the kids they get on on 337 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: the bus. I understand. Man, the doctor, like I say, 338 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm calling, I'm calling every patent that they say, you're 339 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna waive my child before he gets on 340 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: the bus. That's that's what the new rule. That's what 341 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: the new rules. And if he's over one twenty five, 342 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: then he he'll either have to walk, you have to 343 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: take him to school. But I have a job, Okay, 344 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: I have a job. I thought it gonna take my 345 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 1: kids in school, but I don't. That's what the bus explored, 346 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 1: that's what my tax dollars paid for us. But the reasoning, 347 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: the rationale behind this, Okay, let me tell you what's 348 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: going on. From what they're saying, the weight of these 349 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: children is wearing down these transmissions on this bus, on 350 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: these bus transmission, the transmission cannot take all of that. 351 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: They are limiting the weight of each child. So now 352 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: how much does that discrimination? I think that's discrimination. But 353 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: is over Is he over one hundred twenty five pounds? Okay? 354 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: He is? Ok? Then you you're probably gonna have to 355 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: take your son to school? Are you gonna have to walk? 356 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: He probably need to walk to school if he already 357 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: or hundred twenty five pounds? What ap are you talking about? Man? 358 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: All I'm saying. All I'm saying is if your son 359 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: can overweight one hundred twenty five you know, maybe the 360 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 1: exercise are doing good. When like I said that, the 361 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: school is that's gonna allow him on the plus. But sir, 362 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 1: I will not accept this. If who do I need 363 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: to call? Is there a manager? Is there a city's 364 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: council member? I mean, this is seriously the most up 365 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 1: disc mandatory practice I've ever heard of. It doesn't even 366 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: make sense. You're talking about a child, I understand, but 367 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: we're talking about a child weigh more than a grown person. 368 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: So I need to get what is your name, sir? 369 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: Tell me your name again. My name is Ernest. I'm 370 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,679 Speaker 1: down here at the bus ball. I would like to 371 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 1: speak with the supervisor, like, now, what do you You 372 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: do not get to speak to my about my child 373 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: that way? You get to speak to any kid that way. 374 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: You should not be working at a school if that 375 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 1: is your attitude. I'm no, I don't work at the school. 376 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: I work at the bus ball. I'm down here at 377 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: the bus ball and they gave me you they right 378 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 1: because you're saying he's over behind in point of fat pack. 379 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: I am an absolute shock. This is so okay. So 380 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: do you have a fat chat? I mean, do you 381 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 1: have scuba? I'm sorry, do you have a big chatter? Listen? 382 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: What my child looks like, how much he weighs is 383 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 1: none of your business. I'm going to call the school. 384 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: They can be working with your company. If this is 385 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: the way to eat, you treat people, and you talk 386 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,719 Speaker 1: about children, it's fit doesn't matter here. I guess what 387 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,640 Speaker 1: they're doing is this is the way of them approaching obesity. 388 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 1: You know, cho whoever, whoever over one hundred, they might 389 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: walk it all you're start. Listen, listen. That is the 390 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Okay, I have to work. 391 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: My son is getting on that bus and I'm going 392 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: to call the schoolboard and should not be working with you. 393 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 1: We're another bus company. I don't know, but I'm calling 394 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: the city. I will call Rember. They need to call. 395 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: But you need to give me a supervisor's name right now, 396 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 1: right now? Do you think you need to start cooking different? Poto, Devin, 397 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 1: don't have you know? Maybe maybe it's start us at 398 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: home and what you're feeding everybody. You know, I am 399 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,440 Speaker 1: calling the supervisor. I'm calling the the city, I'm calling 400 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: the school. I'm going to so fired, like I can't 401 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: even believe it. You're a live to make this call 402 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: like our other parents. Okay with this, I'm called when 403 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,160 Speaker 1: you on your way to work in the morning TRAINA 404 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: do you listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Oh 405 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: my god, yes I do. Ty from the Steve Harvey 406 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: Morning Yes, your cousin Vicky got me the plank Polk 407 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: call you baby, Oh my god, I'm gonna yeah. I 408 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: mean I was like, oh my god, I love Steve Harvey. 409 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: I love you. I was a god. You gotta tell 410 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 1: me this baby traina what is the baddest and I 411 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the lane? Steve Harvey? Ye, 412 00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: that is best baby. Wait wait, h let me correct 413 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,480 Speaker 1: it today because I got corrected by my uncle yesterday. 414 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing comedy okay, and Johnsonville and Jacksonville, Florida, November 415 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: twelfth and thirteenth, that's Friday and Saturday. 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Tickets are on sale right nine, New 425 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: Year's Eve, New Year's Comedy laugh Fest. All right, now, 426 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up as the top of the hour, 427 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: we'll have entertainment news and national news with miss Anne Tripp. 428 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 429 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 1: A sixty one year old Florida man named Mike Hoggabook 430 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: Mike Hoggabook has been accused of grooming and marrying his 431 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: eighteen year old god daughter, Deja hucle book Okay Hoga book. 432 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: In Florida, the legal age for consent is eighteen. Mike 433 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: and Dejah posted on Facebook that they will be raising 434 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: their four kids together. Now, it's not clear how many 435 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: of the children are Deja's biologically. Online reports of an 436 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: arrest in twenty fourteen show that Michael was fifty four 437 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: years old at the time, which would make him sixty 438 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: one years old now. Old photo surfast of Michael holding 439 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 1: Deja when she was just a toddler, and rumors indicate 440 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: that Michael had a serious past relationship or was married 441 00:29:53,800 --> 00:30:00,600 Speaker 1: to Deja's mother. I'm so confused. Yeah, it's god daughter. 442 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: How they got the same last name? Who belong to? Oh? 443 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 1: These are all questions we ain't nobody got no answer. 444 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 1: These are all questions that need to be answer somebody 445 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: crazy relationship. These are killing questions right here where we 446 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: need some answers. Yeah, we do. This is crazy though, right, 447 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't understand, Um, what don't you understand? I'm stunned. 448 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 1: It's just this country. It's just that. Yeah, we can 449 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: calmly report about this, no ramifications. Dave Chappelle do a 450 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: comedy special day outside Marching. Yeah right, it's something wrong 451 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, it's twisted in this country for sure. 452 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 1: This man can take this young girl, got four unexplained kids, 453 00:30:55,560 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 1: manhood sixty one, then groomed her. It's just it's just 454 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: the story of blog. Yeah, right, exactly. But now where's 455 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: the outrage? Where's the uproar? Where's the mark? You know from? Now, 456 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: if you don't have outraged for me, don't come over 457 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 1: here asking me to have enough for you. Okay, all right, 458 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: that's the new rule. Yeah. If you ain't gonna be 459 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: outraged by my causes, then please don't come up here 460 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 1: and ask me to be outraged by your causes. All right, 461 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: All right, Now we go from crazy to bizarre and 462 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 1: other news for the first time ever a pigs kidney, 463 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: a pigs kidney has been transplanet into a human without 464 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 1: triggering immediate rejection by the recipient's immune system. All Right, 465 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: The pig kidney functioned for fifty four hours in the 466 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: first ever successful transplant, and the procedure could potentially alleviate 467 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: alleviate the shortage of organs for transplants. All right. The 468 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: recipient of the pig kidney was a brain dead patient 469 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: with signs of kidney dysfunction whose family consented to the 470 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 1: experiment before she was due to be taken off life support. 471 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: You got that kidney worked, so pig kid I got 472 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 1: a lot of wow pigs in my neighborhood. So here's 473 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: the question. Okay, might want to set up a bullpit. 474 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: Starts turned into a business? You need it? Twenty five hall, 475 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: I thought you got rid of those hogs in your neighborhood. 476 00:32:53,760 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: Not not since he found out they had kidneys. All right, 477 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: we gotta move on. Come on, Steve, it's time, ladies 478 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss a trip. Thank you very much, Steve. 479 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody. This is a troop with the news 480 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 1: in Washington. Yesterday, House lawmakers voted two hundred and twenty 481 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: nine to two O two to hold a former White 482 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: House advisor and Trump pal Steve Bennon in contempt for 483 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: defining a Congressional subpoena from the Select Committee that's looking 484 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: into last January's Capitol Hill riot. As you would expect, 485 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: most Republicans remained in lockstep behind President Trump, voting against 486 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: the measure, but nine follow their own minds, like Wyoming 487 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 1: Republican Lynn Cheney, there's a moment when politics must stop 488 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: if we want to defend and protect our institutions. A 489 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: violent assault on the Capitol to stop a constitutional process 490 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: of counting electoral votes is that moment. But like I said, 491 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 1: most members of the GOP wouldn't even consider speaking out 492 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 1: against the writers or their suspected leaders. The contempt of 493 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: congress finding now sends the whole matter onto the Justice Department. 494 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: By the way, a President by says that white supremacy 495 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: motivated the Kapoli Hill riots. In his opinion on another subject, 496 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 1: the President is in disbelief over the way the GOP 497 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: has been acting about new voting rights. Mister Biden blames 498 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: Senate Republicans who blocked a key voting rights bill. They're 499 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,240 Speaker 1: afraid even just debate the bills in the US Senate, 500 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: even on a bill that includes provisions that they've traditionally supported. 501 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,240 Speaker 1: It's unfair, it's unconscionable, it's Unamerican. The President calls voting 502 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 1: a threshold liberty for democracy. But even though gop led 503 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 1: states have been threatening democracy by enacting new restrictions on voting, 504 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: he says, the fight's not over. They gonnatinue get out 505 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: there and do what they can do. The imprisoned ex 506 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 1: Minneapolis police officer who fatally shot a woman who'd call 507 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: nine one one has been resentenced on a lesser charge 508 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 1: to close to five years in prison. Mohammed Nor had 509 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,320 Speaker 1: already served twenty nine months for fatally shooting Justine Ruchek 510 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: in twenty seventeen after she made a nine one one 511 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 1: call to report a possible crime near her home. The 512 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: state Supreme Courts throughout Noor's murder conviction last month because 513 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: they say the third degree chart that they gave against 514 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 1: him did not fit the crime, so they threw that out. 515 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: But they left other charges on the books, and that's 516 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,879 Speaker 1: why he's going to still be in jail five years 517 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: in prison. A medical examiner says that the remains found 518 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: in the Florida Nature Preserve skeletal remains are those of 519 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 1: twenty three year old Brian Laundry. You know, he was 520 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: the only suspect, or at least a person of interest 521 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 1: listed in the killing of Gabby Petito. So we know 522 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,320 Speaker 1: the Potitos say now they'll never really know what happened 523 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 1: to Gabby and why. Sadly, in New Mexico, get this 524 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 1: actor Alec Baldwin totally destroyed after firing a prop gun 525 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 1: on the set of his new movie It's Western and 526 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 1: killing one man and injuring another one. The gun was 527 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,919 Speaker 1: supposed to be loaded with blanks, but again he shot 528 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: off twice, one guy killed, the other still being treated. 529 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: Remember Bruce Lee's son Brandon Lee, was shot and killed 530 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: like that from a supposedly non lethal gun back in 531 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: the nineteen ninety three on a movie set. Very sad. 532 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 533 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 1: to Harvey Mourning Show. All right, Steve, is that time again? 534 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 1: Let's do a quick round of would you rather ready? 535 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 1: Have you noticed when we play would you rather? I 536 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: have a tendency to pick my number before I hear 537 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: all of them. Ye, yeah, all right, let's try. Come on, 538 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: let's see, let's see do it again? Right, all right, 539 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: here we go. Would you rather go without a cell 540 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,760 Speaker 1: phone for a month or a bath for a month? 541 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: Keep that No, you keep that phone exactly, no man, 542 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 1: ask a millennial. I tell you right now, my kid's 543 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 1: gonna be sitting up in here. All the cell phone 544 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: is attached to the palm and they head, I'm three 545 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 1: showers a day. That's no way I could cut it 546 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,400 Speaker 1: to zero. See that's this, This is this is excessive 547 00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 1: nod showers. They ain't got no shower at the golf course. 548 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: They got a shower. I'm not taking my clothes off 549 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: in front of these people. I don't know them. You 550 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 1: got a whotail room at a house. What if I'm 551 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: shining at the golf course? Fall I'm up on that 552 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: damn You got up on that damn plane when you 553 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,720 Speaker 1: went to du buy and your ass took a shower 554 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: way up there, thousand two feet in the half for 555 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: nobody in the room. And I had a lock on 556 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 1: the dough. You can't lock you you clean when you 557 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: left the high You can't lock the dough at the 558 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: country club. They can all walk in. You got to 559 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: come out that shower. I liked privacy. What you're gonna 560 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:47,920 Speaker 1: stop doing is telling everybody you take three showers a day. 561 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:53,520 Speaker 1: I don't know why you take. You be asked, don't 562 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:57,239 Speaker 1: you Your ass got to be asked a little. I 563 00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: would rather take three showers. Let's keep moving. Would you 564 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: rather have another ten years with your partner in here? 565 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: Have another ten years with your partner or a one 566 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 1: night stand with your celebrity crush man? What I know? 567 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:27,359 Speaker 1: How min and my heart beat be be? I mean, 568 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,320 Speaker 1: I hope she listened this morning. But if NIA long reading, 569 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 1: I really do she read it. I wouldn't do Hannah 570 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:42,479 Speaker 1: already though it ain't gonna send me all right. Would 571 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: you rather live in a tiny house or would you 572 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 1: rather live in a cave? You rather live in a cave. 573 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 1: I know you don't like sy be, but a cave 574 00:38:54,600 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: be big ass cave? All right? Guys coming up in 575 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: this case, come and up a thirty four minutes after 576 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 1: the hour, former president believe what I'm moving in the 577 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 1: former President Clinton is out of the hospital and tweeting, 578 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,759 Speaker 1: we'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 579 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Former President Clinton gave an 580 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,640 Speaker 1: update on his condition in a video he posted to Twitter, 581 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: and he is on the road to recovery. In the video, 582 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: he thanked his well wishers and healthcare providers for their 583 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,720 Speaker 1: support while he was hospitalized. President Clinton wrote, I'm really 584 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 1: glad to be back home. I'm doing great, enjoying this 585 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: beautiful fall weather. I'm on the road to recovery. But 586 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,719 Speaker 1: I want to remind everyone out there to take the 587 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: time to listen to your bodies and care for yourselves. 588 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: We all have work to do, and each of us 589 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: has an important role to play in life and in 590 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: the immediate future. I for one, I'm gonna do my 591 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,760 Speaker 1: best to be around to keep doing the most good 592 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: I can for a lot longer. You can take President 593 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: clinton name off and put by every time I come 594 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 1: out to the hospital, I put that same thing, put 595 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: his name, put my name right there with Junior. Why 596 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: don't you just get it and have it all those 597 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,919 Speaker 1: scene copy paste. I tell you, I know that. Yeah, 598 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: stick around for a lot longer, all right, and moving on, 599 00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 1: we got to give a shout out to Morgan Freeman. 600 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: Let's see what Morgan did. Let's see what he did. Okay, 601 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 1: we're giving a shout out to Morgan Freeman for his 602 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: good deed. Last week in the Gulf Shores and Gulf 603 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 1: Shores of Alabama, uh, the Oscar winning actor was part 604 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,360 Speaker 1: of a setn't member panel that interviewed nine potential officers 605 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 1: for the Golf Shores Police Department. Morgan Freeman owns property 606 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 1: and Golf Shores and spends time in the town, so 607 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 1: when he was asked to participate, he did being a 608 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,960 Speaker 1: good citizen. The latest batch of police recruits were surprised 609 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,319 Speaker 1: to see Morgan Freeman, who was recognizable, of course by 610 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 1: his voice, you know that, and if not his voice, 611 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,800 Speaker 1: of course by his face in an Alabama beach town faced. 612 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 1: And who put this story in this ship? It's the 613 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 1: question I have it. I don't know, but I'm so 614 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: happy it's here. I'm so you seem to be the 615 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,760 Speaker 1: only one that's happy about it. I know what. Nobody 616 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 1: give a damn about him being in no meeting pig, 617 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: no police officership. I think this is great. I there 618 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: was the good in it. Well, where did you see 619 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 1: all this goodness? Well, okay, he owns property, he's doing 620 00:41:56,080 --> 00:42:01,720 Speaker 1: a good citizen citizen by helping property. Tommy old property. 621 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 1: Everybody old property with the property nothing he living in it, Tommy, 622 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: that's his other hole. But we haven't won academy awards 623 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:16,320 Speaker 1: and stuff and um, well, last time Morgan call and 624 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:21,839 Speaker 1: everything and it's Morgan Freeman. He ever invite you down 625 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,279 Speaker 1: to the beach house and your husband that y'all using 626 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 1: for a weekend or just me by myself? Maybe huh, 627 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,880 Speaker 1: you've been not gonna ride with him because you know 628 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,800 Speaker 1: you don't drive to well he flipped him calls. I 629 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: think this is great. I think white woman don't hate 630 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: him Morgan because he's doing good and doing good in 631 00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 1: the hood, in his hood on the beach. Ain't no 632 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: hoods down there, ain't no hood property on no beach. 633 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: Trust me good. The last time Morgan was in the hood, 634 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 1: it was the Great Depression, a miracle. You guys are 635 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: such haters and such haters. Well, anyway, mister Freeman, sir, 636 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,520 Speaker 1: I am proud of you, very We're proud of you. 637 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,719 Speaker 1: We're so proud of you. Come on, Tommy, he'll be 638 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,640 Speaker 1: he'll be God in another year, so he'll be God again. 639 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm waiting, Tommy, And I thought he was gonna jump 640 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 1: in when I said, thank you, we wait that long 641 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: small crack, don't your slam go on and jump? That 642 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,279 Speaker 1: was good. So they love the fact that they even 643 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 1: know who it is. He doesn't even have to show 644 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 1: his face, just his voice. He was joined by the 645 00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 1: police chief, a criminal justice professor, and other civilians. So 646 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 1: he's doing good in his own neighborhood race. Thank you, Morgan, 647 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 1: so so so he don't listening to this story, Jack, 648 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:12,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude. Up next it is a prank 649 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: phone call with the nephew. We love the story with 650 00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:18,680 Speaker 1: the nephew. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 651 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour. 652 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,839 Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, 653 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 1: and the subject is nothing is free over here. All right. 654 00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a bit, but right 655 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,160 Speaker 1: now it is time for the nephew and the prank 656 00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,879 Speaker 1: phone call which you got for his nev. This right 657 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 1: here is our truck driver exchange. Truck driver exchange. All right, 658 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,359 Speaker 1: my dad, when you don't know what do you find 659 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 1: to say? Truck driver exchange? Come on, hello, Hello, I'm 660 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 1: trying to read cycling. Yeah, this is Franklin. Franklin, how 661 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 1: you doing? This is Roosevelle giving you a call from 662 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 1: human Resources the recent Hey, what's up? Rose? I do 663 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 1: all right? Man, I'm calling you from Human Resources Trains 664 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,720 Speaker 1: of Partners. Where you been here? You've been driving trucks 665 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: for us for quite some time? Now? What do you you? Six? Six, 666 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,399 Speaker 1: six and a half years right now? Man, I'm eight 667 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,440 Speaker 1: and a half years year short, baby, Okay, eight and 668 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 1: a half you And how you doing? Man? I'm good man, 669 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,200 Speaker 1: enjoying this road life. Man, I love working a few guys. Man, 670 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 1: the benefits is there? I mean I'm supposed to get 671 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 1: a call from you. I mean, I mean, hope everything. 672 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure you're on the road right now. You're probably driving. 673 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call and is this 674 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 1: a bad time? Can you talk right now? Yeah? I 675 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,359 Speaker 1: actually told ope, but man, I had to get something 676 00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 1: to eat. Man, Okay, okay, so listen. Let me tell 677 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 1: you what's going on here with uh GTP. What we're 678 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 1: doing is we are doing some job exchange and some 679 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 1: of the drivers that we have have been pulled out 680 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,880 Speaker 1: of a pool and some of you guys are gonna 681 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 1: be actually driving in different places. Now, so for the 682 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:13,120 Speaker 1: next six months, within the next thirty days, you're Franklin, 683 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna be um, You're you're gonna be driving trucks 684 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,040 Speaker 1: in South Africa. You're gonna be or for about six 685 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 1: for about six about six months, you're gonna drive in 686 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: South Africa. Holda holda hold, yeah, listen, I ain't got 687 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: no file in the South Africa. But y'ah, rather mind, 688 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,799 Speaker 1: I'm not going on South Africa. I don't come out 689 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 1: a job in the right handside of the row. Man. 690 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 1: I love Africans, I love everything about Africa, but I'm 691 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 1: not going I got a family out here in the 692 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 1: United States of America, and you're trying to tell me 693 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 1: I got to go to South Africa. Come on, man, 694 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,720 Speaker 1: what type of do you want that? It's it's frequently 695 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,280 Speaker 1: it's part of the job exchange. Just what it is, man, Okay, 696 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: you're only gonna change I got going on. Man, I 697 00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: don't want to be part of that job exchange. No, no, 698 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: I'm not going to know damn South Africa. This is 699 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,439 Speaker 1: not happening. But this is just listen to the track. 700 00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: Six months and you'll be back in the States. Okay, 701 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 1: let me say this. A national geographic program y'all got 702 00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 1: going on, man, I don't know what y'all got going on. 703 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 1: A y'all calling me. I'm in the middle of talking 704 00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,360 Speaker 1: like trying to eat me a cheeseburger from being on 705 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: the road or one night, and you're talking about sending 706 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 1: me to South Africa? What type of you on? Man? 707 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,200 Speaker 1: There's some foreign exchange program y'all got going on it. 708 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 1: I'm not being part of this. You pulled my name 709 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,880 Speaker 1: out of pool like it was a su suit to 710 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 1: come tell me that I'm up to be jobbing in 711 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,360 Speaker 1: South as This must be a joke, you know, No, 712 00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not so this is a good thing, though, Franklin, 713 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,400 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna like it and know it's not 714 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 1: a good thing. What do you tell me it's a 715 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:50,000 Speaker 1: good thing. I got wife and kids. But I'm what 716 00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: the fuck do you talking about South Africa? Do they 717 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,319 Speaker 1: even have roadways out there? I'm not gonna f are 718 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,279 Speaker 1: you serious? You're not here, I'm not I'm not hearing 719 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,239 Speaker 1: this correct, brother us. I'm not hearing this correct, mister Roses. 720 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 1: Though I don't salid what okay? I can't playing. Just 721 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 1: tell me cauth Africa? Are you serious? Okay, let's frank 722 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: hear me out here. Man. Let me like I said, 723 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: they pulled names out of a pool, and you and 724 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,720 Speaker 1: about fifteen other guys are gonna be going to different parts. 725 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: What type of pool you pulled it in? You better 726 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 1: put me back in the shallow part. You're going to 727 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,360 Speaker 1: the deep end pullers, man, get the fun. I'm not 728 00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: going to South Africa. I'm not gonna go Southrica. I 729 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,239 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not taking on malarious shots, so I 730 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:35,840 Speaker 1: don't even gotta passport. You want me to go to 731 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,520 Speaker 1: about that point, well, listen to me, Franklin. We're gonna 732 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: get you all the shots you need within the next 733 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 1: thirty days, so you'll be shut to go. I'm not 734 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,879 Speaker 1: going to go around go to South Africa and Trump 735 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: won't let me back in the country because of y'all 736 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 1: off with right now. I'm not going to South Africa. 737 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 1: It's a job exchange, Franklin. Okay, let me save let's job. 738 00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 1: So what are we exchanging? You're bringing South Africans over here, 739 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 1: and then you're bringing me over it y'all. My wife 740 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 1: is not going to be happy about this. I'm not 741 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 1: going my like someplace, babook. Can I tell you this 742 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,759 Speaker 1: that your salary actually doubles the six months while you're 743 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,400 Speaker 1: over there. Don't try to don't try to tell me 744 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,880 Speaker 1: about that South African dollars or American dollars? What is it? 745 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 1: What is it? Don't try that, Franklin, Franklin, it will 746 00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 1: be American dollars. I'm not going to know South Africa. 747 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:33,960 Speaker 1: I am not going that. Of fact, this is my 748 00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: last day and the bro y'all could come pick up 749 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: this brig and talking like because I'm not going to 750 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,320 Speaker 1: South Africa. I don't care how you spell it or 751 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: you say it. I ain't going. Okay, okay, Franklin, Listen, 752 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:51,759 Speaker 1: you've been into Country Company eight eight plus years, and 753 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 1: I just gotta tell you you are obligated. You've been 754 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 1: chosen out of a pool. All you have to do 755 00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 1: is six months, you're gonna get paid double. Your family's 756 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 1: go to be fine, You'll be back. I ain't obligated 757 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 1: to do but driving truck like I do everything day, 758 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 1: I'm not going. You can't tell me about being obligated. 759 00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I'm obligated to you I'm 760 00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 1: obligated to throw the truck. I'm forced here and try 761 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 1: right to your human resources window because I ain't going 762 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 1: to South Africa. And I keep telling you that I 763 00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:22,879 Speaker 1: told you that since you got in the damn phone, 764 00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:28,480 Speaker 1: I ain't going nowhere. Okay, but but but but let 765 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,440 Speaker 1: me ask something. Frankly, you've been here for what us 766 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,279 Speaker 1: for eight some years? Man, you don't you don't want 767 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: to continue your job here with the company. I don't 768 00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 1: give a about this job right now, trying to send 769 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,759 Speaker 1: me overseas like you're setting me up from I ain't 770 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:42,880 Speaker 1: going out of fact. Let me turn this truck on 771 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 1: right now. I'm coming down and see you, mister Roses out. Okay, 772 00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:53,360 Speaker 1: hold on, uh do you know Jermaine? Yeah? I know? Really, 773 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 1: but what do you gotta do with it? Okay? Let 774 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,319 Speaker 1: me go and don't say this. Frankly, This right here 775 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 1: that you talking to is nephew Tommy and your boy 776 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,640 Speaker 1: Rivers got me the planking phone call you. You just 777 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:12,320 Speaker 1: got pranked by your boy Jermaine Rivers. Oh that moment, 778 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,520 Speaker 1: wait till I see Rivers. So you ain't no roads 779 00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:24,640 Speaker 1: ago and I ain't gonna go to South Africa. No, god, man, 780 00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: this is nothing. Man, I'm just listening to y'alls on 781 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,520 Speaker 1: the road. Oh rivers, you want to play with us? 782 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:38,000 Speaker 1: I want to put some sugar in your trunk, all right, 783 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: flanking before we live? Man, tell me this. What is 784 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the lands, That Steve Harvey 785 00:51:45,840 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 1: Morning Show. I'm going for it right through your You 786 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,279 Speaker 1: really enjoy driving for you and everything so wonderful. Man 787 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:07,920 Speaker 1: about head Jordan the workman. You guys are great. I'm 788 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 1: not going to no damn South Africa. Man, put it 789 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,160 Speaker 1: you crazy. I don't even know how to drive on 790 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 1: the other side of the road. That's try and get 791 00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,799 Speaker 1: me over there. And Trump changing mind, I can't get 792 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 1: back home or he had involved Donald Trump? Right man, 793 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 1: not having it at all. My son play baseball, my 794 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 1: wife infening to hit his man. I ain't obligated to 795 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 1: do nothing. So put this truck in fourth drive and 796 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 1: bring it down there and run it through the window. 797 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:47,759 Speaker 1: That ain't h that's it, baby, that's that stupid side. 798 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 1: And now later on you get that sexy, suad side. 799 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,959 Speaker 1: That's tonight, y'all Friday night on the Own Network, Ready 800 00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,279 Speaker 1: to love all right. Chocolate City twenty singles ten Men 801 00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,800 Speaker 1: and ten Women, all looking for Love, hosted by yours 802 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 1: truly nephew, to anybody you'd have told you you a 803 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: suave and six Yes, yes, cool, Yes, I mean I didn't. 804 00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't remember their names. Okay, you don't 805 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: rockle to write everybody anybody. Don't worry about everybody anybody. 806 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:31,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Coming up Strawberry Letter, subjects nothing is 807 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,920 Speaker 1: free over here. We'll get into it right after this. 808 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:38,759 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 809 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting, 810 00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 811 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,919 Speaker 1: FM dot com. Click submit Strawberry Letter and we could 812 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 1: be receiving your letter and reading your letter live on 813 00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,640 Speaker 1: the air, just like we're gonna do this one right here, 814 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,800 Speaker 1: right now, and you never know it could be yours. 815 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on type. We got it for 816 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 1: you here. It is a Strawberry letta. All right, thank 817 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 1: enough you subject nothing is free over here. Dear Stephen Shirley, 818 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm thirty nine years old and I'm twice divorced and 819 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,360 Speaker 1: back on the dating scene. When I got married the 820 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,040 Speaker 1: first time, I was twenty two years old and I 821 00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,240 Speaker 1: married an NFL player. We date it during high school, 822 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,799 Speaker 1: and he promised to treat me like a princess if 823 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 1: I ever married him. When he proposed, I got a 824 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,440 Speaker 1: range rover, a ring, and the keys to a retail space. 825 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 1: He told me I could open up any type of 826 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:38,920 Speaker 1: business I wanted. We divorced after six years, and I 827 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,399 Speaker 1: had never opened up a clothing store or a nail 828 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 1: salon like I told him I would. He told me 829 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:48,239 Speaker 1: I was extremely selfish and he was tired of his 830 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:51,880 Speaker 1: needs not being met. I was meeting all of his 831 00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,080 Speaker 1: needs sexually, and I would always look amazing whenever we 832 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:58,399 Speaker 1: went out together. Soon after we got divorced, I met 833 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,719 Speaker 1: an older, wealthy guy and got married after six months 834 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 1: of dating. I had a full staff of people that 835 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: catered to my every need. When I turned thirty three, 836 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,120 Speaker 1: he filed for divorce and said I had a lot 837 00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,720 Speaker 1: of growing up to do. He said that I didn't 838 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 1: bring anything to the table and he couldn't hold a 839 00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,360 Speaker 1: real conversation with me. That hurt, and I had to 840 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:22,279 Speaker 1: do some introspection on how my mother raised me My 841 00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:25,000 Speaker 1: mom always had a man in her life that provided 842 00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,320 Speaker 1: for us, and I never saw her do housework or 843 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,960 Speaker 1: go to a real job. I always thought my mom 844 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:33,960 Speaker 1: was so regal because she always wore beautiful long nightgowns 845 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:37,440 Speaker 1: with matching robes and high heeled slippers. She taught me 846 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:40,320 Speaker 1: that if a man wanted a conversation with me, or 847 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 1: dinner with me, and especially sex with me, he had 848 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 1: to pay for it. I've been single for five years, 849 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,800 Speaker 1: and nothing's free over here and never will be. So 850 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 1: where are all of the gentlemen and the wealthy men 851 00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 1: that don't mind spoiling a woman? A woman? Am I 852 00:55:55,400 --> 00:56:02,040 Speaker 1: supposed to lower my standards? Wait? What? I really don't 853 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 1: get the point of this letter. I really don't. I 854 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,920 Speaker 1: think you left out a lot in this letter, and 855 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,640 Speaker 1: I got to ask you, what is it that you 856 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 1: want from us? I mean, this letter to me is 857 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: just really, really shallow. Do you want us to tell 858 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:19,400 Speaker 1: you it's okay to say nothing's free over here and 859 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:23,200 Speaker 1: never will be? Because I don't really know what that means. 860 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,000 Speaker 1: If a man wants to be with you, he has 861 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 1: to pay you money. What are you saying? I just 862 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:34,280 Speaker 1: gotta tell you this, any man of substance or wealth 863 00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:42,880 Speaker 1: or anything wants something from a woman. Okay, love, loyalty, support, conversation, something, 864 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:48,239 Speaker 1: and both your husbands say you didn't give him that. 865 00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,960 Speaker 1: You said your most recent husband told you he couldn't 866 00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,000 Speaker 1: even have a real conversation with you and that you 867 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 1: needed to grow up, so you were immature. You got 868 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,400 Speaker 1: to give him more than just pretty. I mean, I'm 869 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:04,279 Speaker 1: assuming that you're beautiful, but beauty is beautiful until it's not, 870 00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 1: because it fades. Your first husband said you were selfish. 871 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,319 Speaker 1: It's clear that that was all about you in both 872 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,720 Speaker 1: the marriages. It was just all about you. You didn't 873 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 1: do your part and they got tired of you. So yes, 874 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 1: it's definitely time for some introspection on your part. But 875 00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: I don't think the example your mom gave you helps. 876 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 1: I mean, no disrespect, but she's from a different era 877 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:28,880 Speaker 1: and what worked for her obviously isn't serving you. So 878 00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,680 Speaker 1: after five years of being single, you're asking where are 879 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 1: all the wealthy men who want to spoil a woman. 880 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 1: We have a wealthy man on the show. He's going 881 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,560 Speaker 1: to speak in just a moment where all the men 882 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:42,080 Speaker 1: that want to shower you and should you lower your standards, well, 883 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 1: I think wealthy men or where they always are with 884 00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,040 Speaker 1: the wealthy. I mean they're not at the club. Okay, 885 00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,600 Speaker 1: they're not there. And as far as your standards, it 886 00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,840 Speaker 1: doesn't sound like you have any except you want to 887 00:57:52,920 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 1: do nothing and marry well and then still do nothing. Steve. Well, well, well, 888 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:07,200 Speaker 1: well this letter right here. Have you ever heard the saying, 889 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,120 Speaker 1: now here's the letter nothing is free? Over here? Have 890 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: you ever heard the saying it might be you? Yeah, 891 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:21,360 Speaker 1: there is a saying everybody. The saying is it might 892 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:27,520 Speaker 1: be you. So I'm going to begin reading this letter slowly, 893 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:33,120 Speaker 1: and as we go, I'm going to point out ways 894 00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: where you can understand why I'm giving her this saying 895 00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 1: that it might be you. I'm thirty nine years old, 896 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: I'm twice divorced, and back on the dating scene. It 897 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:46,880 Speaker 1: might be you. It might be when I got married 898 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 1: the first time, I was twenty two years old. I 899 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,640 Speaker 1: married an NFL player. We dated during high school, and 900 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:57,400 Speaker 1: he promised to treat me like a princess. Now let's 901 00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 1: begin the lessons in this letter. If I would treat 902 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,240 Speaker 1: me like a princess if I ever married him. When 903 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 1: he proposed, I got a range rover or ring and 904 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 1: keys to a retail space. And he told me, I 905 00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:17,920 Speaker 1: can open up any type of business I want. Now, 906 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:21,320 Speaker 1: let me ask you that. Here's a question, but what 907 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 1: did he get? You got a ring, a range rover, 908 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:35,960 Speaker 1: and a retail space. But what did he get? Here 909 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:40,840 Speaker 1: we go? We divorced after six years, and I had 910 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,880 Speaker 1: never opened up a clothing store or nail salon like 911 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:48,560 Speaker 1: I told him I would. Here's the question again. Okay, 912 00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:54,160 Speaker 1: well what did he get? I'm just asking what did 913 00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 1: he get? You didn't open up to close the store, 914 00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 1: to nail salon. You got the ring and the range rover. 915 01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 1: You told him what you was gonna do. You never 916 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 1: did six years. He wanted a divorce. What did he get? 917 01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:08,480 Speaker 1: He told me I was extremely selfish and he was 918 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: tired of his needs not being met. He was trying 919 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:16,320 Speaker 1: to let you know that he wasn't getting something. When 920 01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:18,520 Speaker 1: I come back, it's a letter full of the Stay 921 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,920 Speaker 1: with me. Hang on, Steve. We'll have bert two of 922 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:24,080 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 923 01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:27,680 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters, subject nothing is free over here. We'll 924 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve 925 01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap 926 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,680 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letters. Subject nothing is free over here? The 927 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:42,000 Speaker 1: subject is nothing is free over here. The subject of 928 01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:46,480 Speaker 1: the letter I wish was it might be you. So 929 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read you the letter quickly, and I'm gonna 930 01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 1: show you what's wrong with this young lady. I'm thirty 931 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 1: nine years old, of twice divorced, and back on the 932 01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 1: Dayton scene. It might be you. When I got married 933 01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 1: the first time, I was twenty two years old. I 934 01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,320 Speaker 1: married an NFL player. We dated do It high school. 935 01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 1: He promised to treat me like a princess if I 936 01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 1: ever married him. So here we go. When he proposed, 937 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:09,040 Speaker 1: I gotta range rover ring the keys to a retail space, 938 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:10,960 Speaker 1: and he told me I can open up any type 939 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:14,320 Speaker 1: of business. I wanted. Question, but what did he get? 940 01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 1: We divorced after six years and I had never opened 941 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 1: up a clothing store or a nail salon like I 942 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,919 Speaker 1: told him I would. What because what did he get? 943 01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,920 Speaker 1: You got all? Listen, you didn't. He told me I 944 01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 1: was extremely selfish and was tired of his needs not 945 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 1: being met. He was not getting something. Then you said, 946 01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,120 Speaker 1: I was meeting all of his needs sexually, and I 947 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:42,800 Speaker 1: would look amazing whenever we went out together. So you 948 01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,560 Speaker 1: thought that was enough. I'm gonna have sex with you 949 01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna look amazing every time we go out. 950 01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:55,919 Speaker 1: You thought that was enough. Obviously it wasn't. What did 951 01:01:56,080 --> 01:02:00,280 Speaker 1: he get? Ain't nobody gonna live with you just because 952 01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:02,600 Speaker 1: you look good when you go out and you have sex. 953 01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:07,880 Speaker 1: It's more to this than that, Lady, Here we go. 954 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 1: Soon after we got divorced, Oh oh, that popped off again. 955 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,800 Speaker 1: I met an older, wealthy guy and we got married 956 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 1: after six months of dayton. I had a full staff 957 01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:22,000 Speaker 1: of people that catered to my every need. Let me 958 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:26,080 Speaker 1: ask this million dollar question again? What did he get? 959 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm just asking, lady, because you keep getting a whole 960 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,960 Speaker 1: lot of things. But what do he get? When I 961 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,160 Speaker 1: turned thirty three, he filed for divorce and said I 962 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,200 Speaker 1: had a lot of growing up to do. He said 963 01:02:38,240 --> 01:02:41,760 Speaker 1: I didn't bring anything to the table and he couldn't 964 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:48,560 Speaker 1: hold a real conversation with me. Again, what did he get? 965 01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,320 Speaker 1: He just got the girl that dressed up good in 966 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:55,080 Speaker 1: hand sex. He can't even have a real conversation with you. 967 01:02:56,360 --> 01:03:01,520 Speaker 1: You need to grow up because these men ain't got nothing. 968 01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 1: You don't bring nothing to the table self how you look, 969 01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:10,200 Speaker 1: and you have sex that is not gonna hold a man. Lady. 970 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:14,720 Speaker 1: Sorry that hurt, and I had to do some introspection 971 01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: on how my mother raised me. Here we go. My 972 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 1: mom always had a man in her life that provided 973 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 1: for us. I never saw her do housework or go 974 01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: to a real job. I always thought my mom was 975 01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:31,960 Speaker 1: so regal because she always wore beautiful long nightgowns and 976 01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,959 Speaker 1: matching robes and high heels, sleeping slipping. And she taught 977 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:37,920 Speaker 1: me that if a man wanted a conversation with me, 978 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,920 Speaker 1: or dinner with me, and especially sexual me, he had 979 01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:44,800 Speaker 1: to pay for it. Well, well, well, let me go 980 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:48,000 Speaker 1: back to this line. My mom always had a man 981 01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 1: in her life to provide for us. See what did 982 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 1: your mama do besides wearing long regal grounds and high heels. 983 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:07,160 Speaker 1: And the reason your mama always had a man in 984 01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,920 Speaker 1: her life because she always had to go get another one. 985 01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:15,200 Speaker 1: See you didn't say my daddy, you're my step do 986 01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: You said my mom always had a man in her 987 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 1: life who provided for us, because she always had to 988 01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:24,360 Speaker 1: go get a new one, because your mama just wore 989 01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,960 Speaker 1: high heeled slippers and matching robes and long beautiful nightgown. 990 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:32,840 Speaker 1: Here we go, and my mama told me if a 991 01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:34,920 Speaker 1: man wanted a conversation with me or dinner with me, 992 01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,080 Speaker 1: especially with sexual me, he had to pay for him. 993 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: Listen to me, We mad, We know we have to 994 01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:45,280 Speaker 1: pay for it, either directly or indirectly. We know that 995 01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:48,600 Speaker 1: we have to pay for a woman directly or indirectly. 996 01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: You can go to a brothel or a street corner 997 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,520 Speaker 1: and buy sex directly, or you can whine and die 998 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,080 Speaker 1: in a woman. The choice is yours. But the payment 999 01:04:57,160 --> 01:05:01,400 Speaker 1: gonna get made, we are clear about that. But in return, 1000 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,680 Speaker 1: what do we get? Because if you want to be 1001 01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:08,400 Speaker 1: in a relationship, it's got to be molding long gowns 1002 01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,920 Speaker 1: and high heel slippers and pretty pretty things and sex. 1003 01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 1: Nobody's staying with you for that for years. So where 1004 01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: are all the gentlemen and the wealthy men that don't 1005 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,160 Speaker 1: mind spoiling a woman. It's a lot of gentlemen out here, 1006 01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,360 Speaker 1: it's a lot of wealthy men out here. They ain't 1007 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 1: got a spoiler woman. They already you already got that. 1008 01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,720 Speaker 1: You had two of them. You had a man that 1009 01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,040 Speaker 1: gave your ranger over a ring and a retail space 1010 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,560 Speaker 1: for you don't open up anything. Then you had a 1011 01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:41,760 Speaker 1: man in here that gave you a full staff of 1012 01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,000 Speaker 1: people that cater to your every need. They're out there, 1013 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:49,120 Speaker 1: you keep meeting them, but you don't bring nothing to 1014 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:54,120 Speaker 1: the table. And just like your mama, you're gonna always 1015 01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 1: have to have a man because you don't bring nothing 1016 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:03,600 Speaker 1: to the table. Stop blaming this on men. You've had 1017 01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:06,600 Speaker 1: wealthy men that didn't mind spoiling the woman, but you 1018 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,600 Speaker 1: didn't do nothing for them. Tell out. I had sex 1019 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:14,120 Speaker 1: with them and always looked amazing. So have you looked 1020 01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:19,240 Speaker 1: on Instagram? Don't do it to yourself, girl, Girl, you 1021 01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 1: know how many amazing look at women out there that 1022 01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 1: ain't really do you gotta filter? Am I supposed to 1023 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:30,400 Speaker 1: lower my standards? No, you're supposed to want something else 1024 01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:33,640 Speaker 1: other than nice things and looking good and passing out sex. 1025 01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 1: You need to develop some standards, and you need to 1026 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 1: pass out something other than some tale, all right. Steve 1027 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 1: Leven comments on Today's letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey Fm, 1028 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:50,200 Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Up next, 1029 01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:54,840 Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening Steve 1030 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right time for Junior in sports talk? 1031 01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 1: What you got? Junior? He pipping this week? Setting ain't 1032 01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,920 Speaker 1: no doubt right here, Junior, he hold, I want you 1033 01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 1: what's up? Ladies? Some strong FM from this sometime? Ain't 1034 01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:20,360 Speaker 1: one love? What you I saw that show? You gotta 1035 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:28,400 Speaker 1: launched that one running for love? Who ain't go? Ahead? 1036 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,840 Speaker 1: Here we go, pippot all, ain't we gotta? How did 1037 01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:34,680 Speaker 1: I do last week? Junior? Ten to three? Pepper? You 1038 01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,520 Speaker 1: was out standing at three out? Piper was outstanding. Ready, 1039 01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:39,880 Speaker 1: I've been the bet Pola, I've been been money this week, 1040 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 1: i'na let go. Look, here we go watching the football 1041 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 1: team versus Green Bay Packers. Who you got, Pipper, oh Man, 1042 01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:48,240 Speaker 1: that's gonna be wrong because the Rogers man now Packers. 1043 01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:54,080 Speaker 1: The Kansas City Chiefs versus Tennessee tits Old Tennessee is 1044 01:07:54,320 --> 01:08:01,040 Speaker 1: rolling now man upset. Game of the week Tennessee Atlanta 1045 01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:05,200 Speaker 1: Falcons versus Miami Dolphins. Pepper oh Man, the Falcons gonna 1046 01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:10,040 Speaker 1: get a win. Finally, he goes Jets versus the Patriots. 1047 01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 1: Oh Man, that's a tough one. Patriots, Okay, Here we go, 1048 01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:19,519 Speaker 1: carolint of Persons Panthers versus the New York Jacks. That's 1049 01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,960 Speaker 1: John's playing good. Last. I get back to that when 1050 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:27,000 Speaker 1: I can't make it. Decis okay, Bengals versus Ravens, Bengers, 1051 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:34,040 Speaker 1: Ravens gonna whoop the Benna Eagles versus Raiders. Eagles vers 1052 01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:38,439 Speaker 1: the Raiders and Raiders. I don't know. Jalen Hurt, Oh man, 1053 01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:42,439 Speaker 1: it's tough, man. Oh I love that boy. Hurt up 1054 01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 1: in Philly, Frapporo, you know what I'm saying. I still 1055 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:52,920 Speaker 1: got to tell the truth though. Raider Detroit Lies versus 1056 01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:56,320 Speaker 1: the Loss Angeles Ram. You already know I love Detroit, 1057 01:08:56,439 --> 01:09:00,080 Speaker 1: but they can't whoop the Rams. He goes on, this 1058 01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:06,160 Speaker 1: is this is gonna be interested Texas versus Cardinals. Why 1059 01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:08,200 Speaker 1: is we even talking about that? You don't know, didn't hear? 1060 01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 1: Will y'all ain't gonna be There might be one and 1061 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 1: it might not. I'm gonna go with not. I'm going 1062 01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 1: with the car got you, Pippo. Chicago Bears versus this 1063 01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:25,519 Speaker 1: Tampa Bay bucking is Tampa Bay all day? Here we 1064 01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 1: go the coachs versus the forty Niners. Man coach okay. 1065 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:33,200 Speaker 1: Oh the forty Niners. That's a good okay. And we 1066 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:37,799 Speaker 1: got to New Orleans Saints versus the Seattle Seahawks. Russell 1067 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,840 Speaker 1: is hurt, man, and they and this new white boy 1068 01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: don't nobody even know him? Saints all right, pimpot back 1069 01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 1: up to these paths versus Giants. Man. I don't know, man, 1070 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:52,960 Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard, but I think the Giant's gonna 1071 01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:58,000 Speaker 1: mess around and pull out a wind. That is week 1072 01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:00,120 Speaker 1: seven picks. We gonna find out how you did. You 1073 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:06,680 Speaker 1: bade me nothing about Cleveland? All right? Coming up at 1074 01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:09,840 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, Jay Anthony Brown and the 1075 01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:18,439 Speaker 1: wedding right after this. You're listening all right, Steve, Uh, 1076 01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:21,280 Speaker 1: what is going on with you? And what is going 1077 01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:25,360 Speaker 1: on with your friend Jay? Please? What is happening the 1078 01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony though Brown, M I apologize for being late, 1079 01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:33,839 Speaker 1: but I was just all messed up. I just couldn't 1080 01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 1: get it together. I went to a wedding yesterday. I 1081 01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:40,840 Speaker 1: was so nervous. I was just I was just as 1082 01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:44,519 Speaker 1: my daughter's wedding, but just sitting in that environment, just 1083 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:50,680 Speaker 1: I was sweating, uh itching it was your daughter's it 1084 01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:53,720 Speaker 1: was my daughter's wedding. But in my mind, Steve, I 1085 01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,320 Speaker 1: thought it was gonna call my name, you know, I 1086 01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,880 Speaker 1: just I don't know why. I don't know when you're 1087 01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 1: walking down now, I know her her daughter walked her down. 1088 01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:05,280 Speaker 1: So I just had to be a participant, you know. 1089 01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:08,560 Speaker 1: And it was just I've never been so nervous in 1090 01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:12,479 Speaker 1: my entire life. I mean, it wasn't me, but just 1091 01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:16,200 Speaker 1: being around that. You know, I'm happy for nice guy. 1092 01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:22,240 Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know. I can't explain it. 1093 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:25,559 Speaker 1: I can't, and I'm just I'm not doing weddings no more. 1094 01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn who get married. Just that 1095 01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:32,000 Speaker 1: was the last one. I'm not going. I don't care 1096 01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:35,120 Speaker 1: who if just don't work out. I love my daughter 1097 01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:38,679 Speaker 1: and my son. If they get married again, I'm sending 1098 01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:41,120 Speaker 1: that I'm a cash app them and then I'm I'm out. 1099 01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:50,280 Speaker 1: That's just gonna be I I'm not gonna be there. 1100 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna physically putting myself through that again. And 1101 01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:59,439 Speaker 1: just who would do No, No, I don't even want 1102 01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,680 Speaker 1: to see that. I don't know. I'm not zooming. No, 1103 01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:04,559 Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't know. I don't need 1104 01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:08,280 Speaker 1: that in my spirit. No, it was nice it was 1105 01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,400 Speaker 1: really nice. I mean, heared up in everything, and I'm 1106 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,360 Speaker 1: happy for him. And he's a really nice guy child. 1107 01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:17,200 Speaker 1: I like him. He's a good guy. But just no, 1108 01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:25,720 Speaker 1: don't call me for a wedding again. Ever, funerals might 1109 01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:27,960 Speaker 1: work because you don't have to do the same thing. 1110 01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 1: You don't have to do to say you just you're 1111 01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:32,000 Speaker 1: gonna be there, whether you want to be there or not, 1112 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:34,439 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Some funerals might be better. 1113 01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:37,040 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. All right, here's my song. 1114 01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:40,559 Speaker 1: Everybody has been talking to Kyrie Irvin and they've been 1115 01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,080 Speaker 1: giving him a hard time. I think the problem is 1116 01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:46,720 Speaker 1: nobody sung to him. The man needs a song. He 1117 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,320 Speaker 1: needs a song. Here's a song for you, Kyrie. Hit it, 1118 01:12:50,439 --> 01:13:17,839 Speaker 1: damn sing no more. I bet by now your cheeks 1119 01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:25,560 Speaker 1: are soul. Man. This shot cannot help you live and 1120 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:34,640 Speaker 1: you only gotta take just to whoa. Come on, bro, 1121 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:43,759 Speaker 1: we want you balling on the floor. You made your point. 1122 01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:48,960 Speaker 1: Now it's time the in. Hey, what they're gonna do? 1123 01:13:54,120 --> 01:14:01,360 Speaker 1: You win it all yet alone? Just to play basketball. 1124 01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:18,040 Speaker 1: And that's a jam. When we woke. Come he shot 1125 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:52,840 Speaker 1: spy ten see do come lol? Cap you're losing money, money, Wow, 1126 01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,920 Speaker 1: all right, well that was good, Jay, thank you. Coming 1127 01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:58,000 Speaker 1: up more of a Stee Harvey Morning Show with twenty 1128 01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:05,559 Speaker 1: minutes after Right after this You're Listening show, Wendy Williams 1129 01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,000 Speaker 1: is still not well enough to return to work and 1130 01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 1: her medical leave has been extended into next month. Now, 1131 01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:15,439 Speaker 1: producers at the Wendy Williams Show hire two more guest hosts. 1132 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:18,519 Speaker 1: Leah Remany is filling in for Wendy this week and 1133 01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,320 Speaker 1: then next week Whitney Cummings will be the guest host, 1134 01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:25,760 Speaker 1: followed by Sherry Shepherd the first week of November. Of course, 1135 01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,960 Speaker 1: we will keep Wendy in our prayers and hope she 1136 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:35,479 Speaker 1: has a quick and speedy recovery. Um well, mentally mental 1137 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:39,560 Speaker 1: mental breakdown. And she's sees she had COVID, right, so 1138 01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:42,080 Speaker 1: she's just trying to recover. You know, she has Graves disease. 1139 01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:44,840 Speaker 1: She's always been nice to me, so I you know, 1140 01:15:44,920 --> 01:15:47,839 Speaker 1: I got nothing bad to say. Yeah, I want definitely 1141 01:15:48,520 --> 01:15:50,679 Speaker 1: to be all right. Yeah you wanted to be well 1142 01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:56,640 Speaker 1: of course, yeah, yeah, you don't want you Yeah, but 1143 01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:00,599 Speaker 1: hopefully her show, the most important thing, can survive. That's 1144 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:04,080 Speaker 1: what you know. People are questioning the people that are 1145 01:16:04,120 --> 01:16:07,120 Speaker 1: employed there everybody. They want to make sure that our 1146 01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:11,040 Speaker 1: show will Hollywood will move on. I can tell you 1147 01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:14,600 Speaker 1: that right they will. The most thing is that she 1148 01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,880 Speaker 1: survives this. Would you say the most important thing is 1149 01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:23,720 Speaker 1: that she survives this damn shight? Yeah, of course we want. 1150 01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:28,519 Speaker 1: We'd rather have your health than a TV show. Yeah, yep. 1151 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:31,200 Speaker 1: So we're hoping and praying for the best for Wendy. 1152 01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:36,080 Speaker 1: F then Carrie doing he doing nothing he should feeling, 1153 01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:42,599 Speaker 1: Carrie could feeling he Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 1154 01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,040 Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this, 1155 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:51,920 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. There's good news 1156 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,559 Speaker 1: for short people that want to be a bit taller. 1157 01:16:55,600 --> 01:17:00,479 Speaker 1: Leg lengthening surgery is a real thing. There is now 1158 01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:04,840 Speaker 1: an available procedure that can add several inches to your height. 1159 01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:10,320 Speaker 1: The procedure is expensive, though, between seventy and eighty thousand dollars. 1160 01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:15,280 Speaker 1: Between seventy and eighty thousand dollars. He got that don't 1161 01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:26,479 Speaker 1: say a word is let it go? Ye? Hey, he's 1162 01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:30,439 Speaker 1: Team Tommy. So so it's expensive and it's very painful. 1163 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:35,200 Speaker 1: Reportedly involve huh. It's it's praying for being short so 1164 01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:39,439 Speaker 1: he can have. It involves cutting your listen to what 1165 01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:43,640 Speaker 1: it involves though, cutting your leg bone to insert a 1166 01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:49,280 Speaker 1: remote controlled device and then slowly stretch your bones out. 1167 01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:54,600 Speaker 1: Now he's not using this difficent hit that button the 1168 01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:10,040 Speaker 1: three bow legged and five five, Jay, you shut up 1169 01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:13,519 Speaker 1: this go ahead college. I just wanted to say this 1170 01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:16,559 Speaker 1: one last thing. If you are a recipient of the surgery, 1171 01:18:16,640 --> 01:18:18,920 Speaker 1: you can expect to gain This is the good news. 1172 01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:21,879 Speaker 1: You can expect a game between two and five inches 1173 01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 1: five every talk when once everything is healed. So that's 1174 01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:31,160 Speaker 1: when we worry about healing. I do have a question. 1175 01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,200 Speaker 1: I do have a question. What's your question, Jake? You 1176 01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:41,320 Speaker 1: can only use this for your legs. That's that's look 1177 01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:44,760 Speaker 1: crazy when the moms don't match. I don't want my arms. 1178 01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:55,200 Speaker 1: Back away from the old me and there jokes talking 1179 01:18:55,200 --> 01:19:01,160 Speaker 1: about yes, if I had what I really needed it, 1180 01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I can look like a tarantula. I don't 1181 01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:06,480 Speaker 1: give a damn. My hands could be in my shoulders 1182 01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:14,400 Speaker 1: if I get the extension I'm looking for. Stupid. If 1183 01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:22,280 Speaker 1: I can get the extension, by the fact I don't 1184 01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,560 Speaker 1: need no arms. If I can get to extendion, I 1185 01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:31,280 Speaker 1: don't want Let's get back to this leg for seventy 1186 01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:36,200 Speaker 1: to eighty thousand dollars? How do you get somebody signed up? Shirley? 1187 01:19:36,400 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: Was there a website? Do we have to fly him 1188 01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:42,920 Speaker 1: out the country? Is this hit being held in only 1189 01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:47,479 Speaker 1: pigmy nations? Where in Africa? Where do we have to 1190 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 1: fly to get this surgeon? Well, you can ask her 1191 01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:55,719 Speaker 1: your your doctor about it. First of all, the operation 1192 01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:59,400 Speaker 1: is in Little Rock. It's in Little Rock. Okay, coming 1193 01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:06,640 Speaker 1: up and last break of the day and we'll have 1194 01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:08,960 Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey 1195 01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:12,000 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 1196 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:15,599 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. There we are, guys, our 1197 01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,640 Speaker 1: last break of the day and of the week on 1198 01:20:17,840 --> 01:20:25,200 Speaker 1: this Friday funny show show, your show. Don't get that 1199 01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:30,280 Speaker 1: but in the wrong way. You're gonna get more controls. 1200 01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:32,920 Speaker 1: And you know he cheats. He always try to get 1201 01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:35,479 Speaker 1: a dish cup that even say it between sixty and 1202 01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:39,120 Speaker 1: eighty thousand. Don't get to six o'clock because that ain't 1203 01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:42,360 Speaker 1: gonna change. I'm trying to get half right, Okay, you're 1204 01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:46,320 Speaker 1: gonna mess get half each anybody you all that pain 1205 01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:49,160 Speaker 1: and anybody gonna know damn because half inch tall ain't 1206 01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 1: gonna help. I'll tell you that it ain't gonna get 1207 01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:54,160 Speaker 1: you in the six foot clip. Oh man, you need 1208 01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:59,920 Speaker 1: the five inch should well, damn didn't need a pass 1209 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:09,000 Speaker 1: stills inserted in your legs. I'm ready, all right, Steve. 1210 01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:12,680 Speaker 1: What you got for us today? Well, I want to 1211 01:21:12,760 --> 01:21:15,560 Speaker 1: encourage people again, but I want to share something with 1212 01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:20,120 Speaker 1: each each one of you. There is greatness in all 1213 01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:26,840 Speaker 1: of us. It really is. There is greatness in all 1214 01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:32,200 Speaker 1: of us. But but but some things have to happen 1215 01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:37,240 Speaker 1: to have this greatness come out. First of all, you 1216 01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:42,840 Speaker 1: have to believe that there's something greater for you. That's 1217 01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:44,600 Speaker 1: the first thing you need to do. You need to 1218 01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 1: believe that's something greater for you. But how many times, 1219 01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:49,599 Speaker 1: and I'm going to ask you this, how many times 1220 01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:53,800 Speaker 1: have you sat around and said, man, this cannot be 1221 01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,320 Speaker 1: my life. That has to be more to my life 1222 01:21:57,360 --> 01:22:00,160 Speaker 1: than this. I think we've all said it at some 1223 01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:03,600 Speaker 1: point in time. So with that in mind, there you 1224 01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:07,599 Speaker 1: have it. I already know that the seed has been 1225 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:10,800 Speaker 1: planted for the greatness in you to grow. But we 1226 01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:17,519 Speaker 1: got to grow it. See, with this greatness that's in you, 1227 01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 1: everybody's bound for greatness, but you got to tap into 1228 01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:26,280 Speaker 1: it because listen to me, God is willing, God is ready, 1229 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 1: and God is available anytime. He's never too busy. He's 1230 01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:41,200 Speaker 1: on call twenty four seven. He's better than nine one one. Okay, well, Steve, 1231 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:45,759 Speaker 1: I got all that, But how do I get started? 1232 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,519 Speaker 1: Because see, after you know that God is willing, ready 1233 01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:53,240 Speaker 1: and able, what you gotta do is get started. Okay, Steve, 1234 01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,840 Speaker 1: how do I get started? Okay, first let's get Let 1235 01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:59,599 Speaker 1: me give you some basic stoke. What are your visions 1236 01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:03,120 Speaker 1: in dreams? What are the things that you aspire to? 1237 01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:06,479 Speaker 1: Some of the things you've shared with people, some of 1238 01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:09,960 Speaker 1: the things you never shared. But it's something on the 1239 01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 1: inside of you that's burning. Man, I really wish I 1240 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:16,080 Speaker 1: could be this. Man. I wish I had this business. 1241 01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:18,800 Speaker 1: Man I wish I could open this man. I wish 1242 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:21,280 Speaker 1: I had this career. Man I wish I had disdagree. 1243 01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:23,840 Speaker 1: Man I wish I had disposition in corporate America. You 1244 01:23:23,960 --> 01:23:28,000 Speaker 1: got something. You gotta have them visions and dreams. After 1245 01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:33,439 Speaker 1: you admit and write down your visions and dreams, that 1246 01:23:33,760 --> 01:23:38,000 Speaker 1: has to be an application of faith because everything you 1247 01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 1: write down you have to understand that's your vision for 1248 01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:45,200 Speaker 1: your form of greatness. And if all of us have 1249 01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:48,599 Speaker 1: greatness in us, then that means all of us can 1250 01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:53,360 Speaker 1: be bound to greatness if we get started. And to 1251 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:56,759 Speaker 1: get started, you need to write down your dreams and visions. 1252 01:23:57,040 --> 01:23:59,559 Speaker 1: That's the first thing. That's the thing that God puts 1253 01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:03,080 Speaker 1: in your imagination. That's for you as he gives you 1254 01:24:03,280 --> 01:24:06,200 Speaker 1: signs of what He has for you. After that's the 1255 01:24:06,280 --> 01:24:10,519 Speaker 1: application of faith. You've got to believe that this can 1256 01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:13,479 Speaker 1: happen for you. The best way to get this to 1257 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:16,280 Speaker 1: happen to you is next. You need to form a 1258 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:23,160 Speaker 1: connection with God. You need God. Man, listen to me. 1259 01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:27,160 Speaker 1: You can help yourself with this relationship with God. You 1260 01:24:27,320 --> 01:24:31,080 Speaker 1: need God. God don't need you. God gonna be God 1261 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:32,680 Speaker 1: with all the people that then came and went in 1262 01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:34,639 Speaker 1: this world. Don't you know God is still God. God 1263 01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:38,600 Speaker 1: don't need you. We'd have lost some great people in 1264 01:24:38,680 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 1: this world, man, and they served a purpose and they 1265 01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,439 Speaker 1: had a mission in life, and once it was fulfilled, 1266 01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:48,720 Speaker 1: they got they got called home. But if you don't 1267 01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:50,479 Speaker 1: do it, God to give somebody else to do it. 1268 01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,200 Speaker 1: After you've written down your dreams and visions, after you've 1269 01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,760 Speaker 1: made the application of faith, and after you've made a 1270 01:24:57,840 --> 01:25:02,720 Speaker 1: connection with God. He it is the critical element to 1271 01:25:02,880 --> 01:25:06,080 Speaker 1: it too. All of these are critical. You leave out 1272 01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:08,599 Speaker 1: any one of these and you're messing up the equation. 1273 01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:11,679 Speaker 1: So you can't leave out your vision board, your dreams 1274 01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:14,519 Speaker 1: and vision. You can't leave out the application of faith, 1275 01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,519 Speaker 1: the belief that you can do it. You cannot do 1276 01:25:17,680 --> 01:25:21,880 Speaker 1: it without the help of God. And last would not least, 1277 01:25:22,080 --> 01:25:28,759 Speaker 1: you cannot do it without developing an incredible work ethic. 1278 01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 1: You got to stop sitting around so much. You can't 1279 01:25:35,400 --> 01:25:37,479 Speaker 1: wonder why you ain't got this and you ain't got 1280 01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:39,600 Speaker 1: that when you don't do this and you don't do that. 1281 01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:46,519 Speaker 1: Stop sitting around so much. Count the idle times, idle minutes, 1282 01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:50,120 Speaker 1: that idle hours in your day. You could take those moments, 1283 01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:55,519 Speaker 1: those minutes and make them productive. But nah, you're sitting 1284 01:25:55,520 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 1: around looking out the window, sitting around watching stories on TV, 1285 01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:04,519 Speaker 1: sit around watching cartoons online, looking at other people's lives, 1286 01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:08,639 Speaker 1: troll and making comments I'm liking double tapping and all 1287 01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:13,479 Speaker 1: this here, give something for somebody else's double taper. Why 1288 01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:16,280 Speaker 1: you got to be the tapper? Your heart on everybody? 1289 01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:21,120 Speaker 1: Damn paid. Put your phone down and pick up your 1290 01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:24,880 Speaker 1: vision board. Put your phone down and pick up your faith. 1291 01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 1: Put your phone down and develop a relationship with God. 1292 01:26:28,920 --> 01:26:32,280 Speaker 1: Put your phone down and put some work into these 1293 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:36,160 Speaker 1: dreams and visions. You are bound for greatness, and greatness 1294 01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:39,400 Speaker 1: is in you. But you have got to do those 1295 01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:42,560 Speaker 1: four things. If you do those four things, greatness is 1296 01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:45,679 Speaker 1: coming your way. That ain't Steve Harvey's theory all less 1297 01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:47,960 Speaker 1: in the Bible. Y'all have a great day. Man. Hope 1298 01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:50,720 Speaker 1: that helps somebody to day. God willing y'all have a 1299 01:26:50,760 --> 01:27:00,560 Speaker 1: great weekend. I think right, Yes sir, Yes. Contest No 1300 01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:04,120 Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1301 01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:07,680 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1302 01:27:07,840 --> 01:27:12,120 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're listening 1303 01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:14,200 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.