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Speaker 1: Second dat up date? Now, some people say you should
Speaker 1: never date your friends, and other people say you should
Speaker 1: always date your friends. All I know is you should
Speaker 1: definitely wear your friends underwear when they're not around. That's
Speaker 1: the only thing I know about friend relationships. Other than that,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of lost when it comes to friends and relationships.
Speaker 1: But we're gonna learn a little bit from Lisa, who's
Speaker 1: on the phone right now, because apparently she wants to
Speaker 1: do a second date update with a friend of hers. Really,
Speaker 1: is that right, Lisa? That's right? Are you currently underwear? No? Okay,
Speaker 1: well then you're not good enough friends to even really
Speaker 1: call yourself friends. So yeah, your email was a bit confusing.
Speaker 1: So you went on a date with your friend? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: So we have the circle of friends and we just
Speaker 1: kind of met a new guy and he just recently joined.
Speaker 1: We've been hanging out for probably about a year, and
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've just kind of had a crush
Speaker 1: on him, like since today I saw him his name's
Speaker 1: Emilio Amelia. It's really cool and we all get along
Speaker 1: really well, you know, And so I just kind of
Speaker 1: decided that I wanted to ask him out. So did
Speaker 1: you know immediately that you were asking him out on
Speaker 1: a date or did he think it was just friendly? Backstory,
Speaker 1: we always do a friends giving and we come over,
Speaker 1: everybody brings something and we do this big party. Well,
Speaker 1: I figured, because it was going to be his first
Speaker 1: friends giving, why don't we go and have like a
Speaker 1: drink first, just he and I and it could be
Speaker 1: kind of a date and we could go to the
Speaker 1: party together and not everybody would need to know or anything,
Speaker 1: but he and I would know. Okay, it's like a
Speaker 1: secret date. Yeah, it kind of just like see how
Speaker 1: it felt and did it feel good? It just yeah,
Speaker 1: she want to see how it felt. So I'm just wondering,
Speaker 1: how did it feel. I'm blushing so hard right now,
Speaker 1: my god, So it felt good. Go. But I think
Speaker 1: that that's a really smart idea because then you don't
Speaker 1: have the pressure of your friends also pushing a relationship
Speaker 1: on you if you guys find out that you don't
Speaker 1: actually click exactly. And I was like, I went back
Speaker 1: and forth on it for a couple of days, but
Speaker 1: I finally gave him a call and I was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: what do you feel about this? And he was like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: let's go have a drink. So we did and it
Speaker 1: turned out great, Like we had great conversation and we
Speaker 1: didn't need the other people around us, you know, to
Speaker 1: have that conversation. Right. Did it feel like a date
Speaker 1: the whole time or was it just like two friends
Speaker 1: hanging out until you meet up with your other friends. Well,
Speaker 1: at first, it kind of felt like the latter the
Speaker 1: two friends. But then he totally like ordered my drink
Speaker 1: for me when he found out what I was getting
Speaker 1: and he paid like it was a date. It was.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it felt like a date to me.
Speaker 1: Was there any outright flirting that was going on? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean there was definitely some like flirting or anything,
Speaker 1: but no like kiss or anything. Yet, you know, it
Speaker 1: was it was very he was a gentleman, all right.
Speaker 1: You wanted to wait until you got to your friends
Speaker 1: giving party so you guys could start making out of
Speaker 1: the table all over the pumpkin pie. Ye just happened.
Speaker 1: We wanted to put on a show, um so fast forward.
Speaker 1: The date went great. We got to Thanksgiving and everything
Speaker 1: seemed to be fine. You know, nobody really knew. It
Speaker 1: wasn't anything that was super obvious, but the issue happened
Speaker 1: like when dinner was actually being served. Oh there's an issue, Yes,
Speaker 1: there is an issue. Unfortunately, we were all sitting at
Speaker 1: dinner and I guess some political craft was being talked about.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't really know. It was kind of
Speaker 1: on the other side of me, but I guess it
Speaker 1: really upset Emilio and one of our other friends. They
Speaker 1: were like fighting and arguing, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: they both like it up from their chairs and we're
Speaker 1: getting very puffed puffed up, you know, like guys do
Speaker 1: where they're like, ah, so wait, this is Amelio and
Speaker 1: then one of your friends. It was at the table, yeah,
Speaker 1: now like one of our friends getting ready. They look
Speaker 1: like they're about to beat the crap out of each other,
Speaker 1: and and I'm sitting there like, whoa what happened? Emilio?
Speaker 1: Are you okay? And everyone's trying to just calm everybody
Speaker 1: down because no one's like blaming anybody. It's just a
Speaker 1: conversation that went awry on what happened. Well, they start
Speaker 1: yelling and our other friends starts to like rear back
Speaker 1: to hit him in the face, and then one of
Speaker 1: the friends catches them, and Emilio just like leaves. He
Speaker 1: just rushes off. He's like, I'm sorry, I can't do this.
Speaker 1: This is ridiculous, and he just leaves and he won't
Speaker 1: return my calls. I've been trying to text and call,
Speaker 1: and I thought we had a good time. And I
Speaker 1: don't know if he's if he's just embarrassed from what
Speaker 1: happened because he's like the new friend, or if there's
Speaker 1: something wrong with me. I don't know. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: even if something like that happened and you guys were cool,
Speaker 1: you still think you'd respond to you right, right, like
Speaker 1: maybe we could gossip about our crazy friend. And he
Speaker 1: hasn't said a word to you. He hasn't And I've
Speaker 1: sent him like text messages like hey man, I'm so
Speaker 1: sorry about what happens. Do you want to talk? And
Speaker 1: I've even called and left the messages, and my last
Speaker 1: message was basically, hey, I'm here if you need me.
Speaker 1: Things got heated, it'll blow over and then nothing still Wow,
Speaker 1: And have you heard from your circle? Of friends if
Speaker 1: he hasn't talked to anybody, like everybody we kind of
Speaker 1: we have this group message, you know, and everyone's kind
Speaker 1: of like question Mark, question Mark and Melo and the
Speaker 1: other guy whose name was Rob. They're all like, Rob's
Speaker 1: taking a few days to himself. So it's always a
Speaker 1: Rob that starts a fight. It's always Rob. But I'm
Speaker 1: just so confused and I'm so hesitant, and i just
Speaker 1: feel awkward. Okay, well we'll help you out and make
Speaker 1: it even more awkward. We'll play a song and then
Speaker 1: we'll come back and get your second day update. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you? Yea, hang up looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning dates. You know, Lisa, if you didn't have friends,
Speaker 1: none of this would have happened. I know. I tell
Speaker 1: them every day like this whole thing is your fault.
Speaker 1: No friends, you don't have to worry about other people.
Speaker 1: It's great, trust me, try it out anyway. Unfortunately, you
Speaker 1: do have friends, and now you're on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update and if you're just joining us,
Speaker 1: Lisa wants to call her friend Amilio. They actually have
Speaker 1: been friends for a while. He's in the same friend
Speaker 1: group as her, and before a friend's giving event. They
Speaker 1: decided to get together early, just the two of them
Speaker 1: and have a drink as a date to see how
Speaker 1: it went. And apparently everything went great. But then they
Speaker 1: went to the friends giving and this dude, Ameilio ended
Speaker 1: up almost getting in a fight with another dude over
Speaker 1: some political argument and then stormed out, and she hasn't
Speaker 1: talked to him since. We're about to call him and
Speaker 1: find out one if he likes Lisa and two if
Speaker 1: he's ever going to be back in that friend group again.
Speaker 1: And just to be clear, like none of your other
Speaker 1: friends are pissed at Amelia or Rob. Right, everybody understands, No,
Speaker 1: they just thought that. You know, politics are crazy right
Speaker 1: now and people get an arguments and everything's cooled down.
Speaker 1: Like Rob's fine again. He's just kind of taking a
Speaker 1: rob to baticle, is what we call it, Rob Baticle,
Speaker 1: Rob Baticle. I like that. So he's off for three days,
Speaker 1: kind of being by himself, and so everybody's fine, but
Speaker 1: I just can't get Emilio to answer back. Okay, well
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now and see if he'll
Speaker 1: pick up our phone and then find out if he
Speaker 1: enjoyed your date or not? Thank you? All right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hey is this Emilio? Yeah, this is Amelia.
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey, Amelio? How are you? Man? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, what's that?
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Okay, take it. You're a daily
Speaker 1: listener super fan? Uh no, yeah? Sorry? What is it about? Merely?
Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show.
Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update. Have you ever heard
Speaker 1: anything like that before? No? Okay, I'll explain. What it is.
Speaker 1: Is is if you go on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: and then end up not calling them back after, they
Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out what went wrong. So we actually got an
Speaker 1: email about you into the show about me? Yeah, who
Speaker 1: is it from? Wouldn't you like to know? Yeah? Yeah
Speaker 1: I thought so. Well, if you give me your credit
Speaker 1: card number for easy payments, I can tell you who
Speaker 1: emailed the show. Don't listen to him? Okay, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to give him a credit card number. But like,
Speaker 1: who are you talking about? It was worth a shot.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about Lisa. Uh, Lisa? Like like Lisa, Lisa?
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's her last name, but Lisa,
Speaker 1: who you probably know pretty well. She's a friend of
Speaker 1: yours and you guys actually went on like a little
Speaker 1: date before your friends giving. Yeah, yeah we did. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's her last name. Lisa is Alisa, Lisa no Jewel, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's not. Oh okay, Yeah, she emailed us. She told
Speaker 1: us about your date and said that she had a
Speaker 1: great time with you, and then also told us about
Speaker 1: what happened at your friends giving, how you almost got
Speaker 1: in a fight with another dude and stormed off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the whole thing was kind of kind of awkward. It
Speaker 1: sounds like it. Yeah, I mean, I don't even think
Speaker 1: she really cares about that though, I mean she knows
Speaker 1: politics can get heated. I think she cares because you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back, No I know, but like I
Speaker 1: don't know. I kind of just wanted to wait for
Speaker 1: like the whole thing to die down, and honestly, like
Speaker 1: it was stupid, like it's it's totally my fault, okay,
Speaker 1: But from her description, it's all died down, like it's yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: she said she really enjoyed going on a date with
Speaker 1: you and really wants to go out with you again?
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I mean, like, honestly, I can't even believe
Speaker 1: she contacted you about this, Like it's actually like super
Speaker 1: embarrassing for me. What is I mean, it sounds like
Speaker 1: everybody understands that you just got in a fight, if
Speaker 1: that's what you're Yeah, no, I mean, it's just like
Speaker 1: I'm stupid and I just I put myself in a
Speaker 1: really really bad spot. What did you do? Though? From
Speaker 1: everything from what she tells, this sounds like you've just
Speaker 1: got in an argument with your buddy and you have
Speaker 1: to explain more than that, because what are we supposed
Speaker 1: to do go back to Lisa and be like, well,
Speaker 1: it's all his fault and he made a huge, horrible decision,
Speaker 1: but we can't tell you what it is because Okay, um,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll just tell you guys, and like you guys
Speaker 1: can tell her because I don't think I'm probably gonna
Speaker 1: talk to her after this. But like I'm seriously like
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have even agreed to go out with her
Speaker 1: in the first place. Okay, We've been friends with like
Speaker 1: the same group of friends for a while, and she
Speaker 1: was like, you want to go get a drink before
Speaker 1: the thing? And I can't say no because then things
Speaker 1: would be like really awkward later, you know, that night,
Speaker 1: and so I said I would because like I didn't
Speaker 1: want to hurt her feelings and stuff. And so at
Speaker 1: the bar when we went out, I was starting to
Speaker 1: see that like, oh no, like she like really likes me,
Speaker 1: and like I don't think I can turn back from this,
Speaker 1: Like this is like a date. So we go after
Speaker 1: to this thing and like I kind of go hang
Speaker 1: out with like my friends, and like I could start
Speaker 1: to tell the way she was like talking to her
Speaker 1: friends and looking over at us that like she wanted
Speaker 1: more to happen. And so I was telling, like, my
Speaker 1: friends are like, what's going on? Why is she like
Speaker 1: acting all weird with you? And I was like yeah,
Speaker 1: I told them, like we went on this date. And
Speaker 1: they were like, okay, well, what are you gonna do?
Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: how to like get out of this. I don't know
Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do, and so they kind of
Speaker 1: gave me this idea. It was so dumb, but at
Speaker 1: the time, like we were drinking and like we were
Speaker 1: being dumb and so um, they were like we should
Speaker 1: just like pretend that we like gott into a fight, Like,
Speaker 1: pretend we have a fight, and then you could like
Speaker 1: leave and be all mad and then you don't have
Speaker 1: to deal with that anymore. Stage he staged the whole thing. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you're in a tough spot now because
Speaker 1: you didn't think into the future how that's going to
Speaker 1: affect you. Yeah. No, I didn't think about anything. It
Speaker 1: was like we were kind of drunk, and like I
Speaker 1: was just thinking, like in that moment, I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: how do I get out of here right now? About
Speaker 1: like making it about her? And so I was like, well,
Speaker 1: then she'll just think I'm mad at these dudes, and
Speaker 1: so like, oh man, he stormed out after me. Um,
Speaker 1: and then we just like I don't know, like him
Speaker 1: and I just went down the street and like drank,
Speaker 1: you know for the red you see it too. We're
Speaker 1: probably drunk and cheers and like that was amazing that.
Speaker 1: I can't believe we pulled it off. But you are
Speaker 1: such an ahole? How is that easier than just being
Speaker 1: honest with someone and respectful of their feeling. It's especially
Speaker 1: if it's somebody who you considered I think Emilio knows
Speaker 1: that he's saying that he was drunk and stupid. I
Speaker 1: think that's why he sounds like he's feeling bad about it.
Speaker 1: Is that right? Yeah? Yeah? No, seriously, Like, and now
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I don't know how
Speaker 1: I can ever like tell her that or talk to
Speaker 1: her again, even well, it's a good thing we did
Speaker 1: it for you, because she's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and also talk to you. Oh my god, yeah, Lisa,
Speaker 1: are you there? Are you kidding me? Lisa's definitely there?
Speaker 1: Are you telling me that Rob was in on this
Speaker 1: whole thing? And you guys faking? So I don't feel
Speaker 1: bad a new flash. Now I feel even worse because
Speaker 1: now everybody knows and is laughing at me. This, in
Speaker 1: any way a better solution, Emilio than saying, no, Lisa,
Speaker 1: I don't want to go out with you because I
Speaker 1: everybody was there. I didn't want to like make you
Speaker 1: feel bad in front of everyone. Like imagine, now I
Speaker 1: feel bad for ever. I don't know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: told you it was dumb. It was a stupid thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: dumb thing. I'm awesome. Why can't we have a drink
Speaker 1: and it not be weird. That's right, Lisa, you tell
Speaker 1: them how awesome you are. No, just you're just like
Speaker 1: not my type. What does that exactly mean, Emilio, Because
Speaker 1: I've seen the girls that you have gone out with. Whoa, Okay,
Speaker 1: you've known each other a year, and I've seen some
Speaker 1: questionable choices. Okay, well fine, you know, if we're just
Speaker 1: gonna like be all honest and upfront about it, then
Speaker 1: I'll just tell you. The deal is, you're not my
Speaker 1: type because I'm into girls who have bigger chests than
Speaker 1: you do. It's just likelys are the only reason you're
Speaker 1: not going out with someone I have. How much boom
Speaker 1: do you need? Okay, well, yeah that's not big enough
Speaker 1: for me. I like them bigger. Enjoy not breathing ever again,
Speaker 1: my god, Emilio. See, I told you That's why I
Speaker 1: didn't want to tell you, because you douldn't understand, like,
Speaker 1: I have a type of girl that I like and
Speaker 1: they're bigger than you. To keep dating bimbos, big big bimbos,
Speaker 1: go enjoy it. Okay, Yeah, I know what I will.
Speaker 1: I will be hotter than you. Oh I doubt that.
Speaker 1: Enjoy your type well before you, guys, come to that conclusion.
Speaker 1: I still have to ask him, though, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Lisa? We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. No, oh, Lisa, you're interested in the second
Speaker 1: day with Emilia? Or am I picking up the wrong signal?
Speaker 1: I honestly don't think i'd be able to fill out
Speaker 1: his bras so no, all right, well, it's kind of
Speaker 1: at least you guys realize you don't want to date
Speaker 1: each other. Any chance of you guys being friends. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't see a problem. It's like we're still in
Speaker 1: the same group of friends, like if we were hanging
Speaker 1: out at the same place. I don't care. No, I
Speaker 1: do have a problem because you just staged Ocean's fourteen
Speaker 1: at our friends giving. All right, well, I want you
Speaker 1: to work out the rest. But Lisa, thank you for email.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you got an answer to your question. And Emilio,
Speaker 1: I'll just text in right now seventy five to nine
Speaker 1: two if he got some Triple z's Amelia was interested
Speaker 1: in you, That's what I'm talking about in the morning. No,
Speaker 1: text in at seven eighty five to nine two says
Speaker 1: I don't know about them going on a second date,
Speaker 1: but I would not want to be friends with anybody
Speaker 1: in that friend group. Talking about today's second date update
Speaker 1: if you missed it, Lisa wanted to call her friend Emilio.
Speaker 1: They actually went out on a date before a friend's giving,
Speaker 1: and then at the friends giving them, they'd gotten a
Speaker 1: huge fight over something and then left and wasn't talking
Speaker 1: to her, And we got him on the phone and
Speaker 1: we found out that what really happened was he got
Speaker 1: a little drunk and really wasn't interested in dating her.
Speaker 1: He didn't know that they were actually going on like
Speaker 1: a real date beforehand, and so he and his friends
Speaker 1: got together and staged a big argument so he could
Speaker 1: leave and wouldn't have to like be cornered to try
Speaker 1: to kiss her or something. At the end of the night,
Speaker 1: and he left and wasn't talking to her. But then
Speaker 1: he felt bad because he realized he was drunk and
Speaker 1: made a mistake, and how's he going to like get
Speaker 1: back in the friend group after he just staged that
Speaker 1: whole thing to get away from her. He also said
Speaker 1: that she's not his type because she doesn't have boobs
Speaker 1: that are big enough and he likes ridiculously big ones.
Speaker 1: I guess just even in the recap. They all need
Speaker 1: new friends. Yeah they did, just a big breakup anyway,
Speaker 1: too much drama. No second date for them, and we'll
Speaker 1: see if they can remain friends. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day up date, just email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back. Two point five