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<v Speaker 1>What will you do? Lisick at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels?

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up date? Now, some people say you should

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<v Speaker 1>never date your friends, and other people say you should

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<v Speaker 1>always date your friends. All I know is you should

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<v Speaker 1>definitely wear your friends underwear when they're not around. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing I know about friend relationships. Other than that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of lost when it comes to friends and relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're gonna learn a little bit from Lisa, who's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now, because apparently she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update with a friend of hers. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>is that right, Lisa? That's right? Are you currently underwear? No? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well then you're not good enough friends to even really

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<v Speaker 1>call yourself friends. So yeah, your email was a bit confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went on a date with your friend? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we have the circle of friends and we just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of met a new guy and he just recently joined.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been hanging out for probably about a year, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I've just kind of had a crush

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<v Speaker 1>on him, like since today I saw him his name's

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<v Speaker 1>Emilio Amelia. It's really cool and we all get along

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<v Speaker 1>really well, you know, And so I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>decided that I wanted to ask him out. So did

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<v Speaker 1>you know immediately that you were asking him out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date or did he think it was just friendly? Backstory,

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<v Speaker 1>we always do a friends giving and we come over,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody brings something and we do this big party. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured, because it was going to be his first

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<v Speaker 1>friends giving, why don't we go and have like a

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<v Speaker 1>drink first, just he and I and it could be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a date and we could go to the

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<v Speaker 1>party together and not everybody would need to know or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but he and I would know. Okay, it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>secret date. Yeah, it kind of just like see how

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<v Speaker 1>it felt and did it feel good? It just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she want to see how it felt. So I'm just wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it feel. I'm blushing so hard right now,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, So it felt good. Go. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>that that's a really smart idea because then you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have the pressure of your friends also pushing a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>on you if you guys find out that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>actually click exactly. And I was like, I went back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth on it for a couple of days, but

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<v Speaker 1>I finally gave him a call and I was like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you feel about this? And he was like, yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go have a drink. So we did and it

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<v Speaker 1>turned out great, Like we had great conversation and we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't need the other people around us, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>have that conversation. Right. Did it feel like a date

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time or was it just like two friends

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out until you meet up with your other friends. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at first, it kind of felt like the latter the

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<v Speaker 1>two friends. But then he totally like ordered my drink

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<v Speaker 1>for me when he found out what I was getting

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<v Speaker 1>and he paid like it was a date. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it felt like a date to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any outright flirting that was going on? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there was definitely some like flirting or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but no like kiss or anything. Yet, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was very he was a gentleman, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>You wanted to wait until you got to your friends

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<v Speaker 1>giving party so you guys could start making out of

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<v Speaker 1>the table all over the pumpkin pie. Ye just happened.

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<v Speaker 1>We wanted to put on a show, um so fast forward.

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<v Speaker 1>The date went great. We got to Thanksgiving and everything

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be fine. You know, nobody really knew. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't anything that was super obvious, but the issue happened

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<v Speaker 1>like when dinner was actually being served. Oh there's an issue, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there is an issue. Unfortunately, we were all sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and I guess some political craft was being talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really know. It was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>on the other side of me, but I guess it

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<v Speaker 1>really upset Emilio and one of our other friends. They

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<v Speaker 1>were like fighting and arguing, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>they both like it up from their chairs and we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting very puffed puffed up, you know, like guys do

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<v Speaker 1>where they're like, ah, so wait, this is Amelio and

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<v Speaker 1>then one of your friends. It was at the table, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>now like one of our friends getting ready. They look

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<v Speaker 1>like they're about to beat the crap out of each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and and I'm sitting there like, whoa what happened? Emilio?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you okay? And everyone's trying to just calm everybody

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<v Speaker 1>down because no one's like blaming anybody. It's just a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that went awry on what happened. Well, they start

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<v Speaker 1>yelling and our other friends starts to like rear back

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<v Speaker 1>to hit him in the face, and then one of

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<v Speaker 1>the friends catches them, and Emilio just like leaves. He

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<v Speaker 1>just rushes off. He's like, I'm sorry, I can't do this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is ridiculous, and he just leaves and he won't

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<v Speaker 1>return my calls. I've been trying to text and call,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought we had a good time. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he's if he's just embarrassed from what

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<v Speaker 1>happened because he's like the new friend, or if there's

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong with me. I don't know. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even if something like that happened and you guys were cool,

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<v Speaker 1>you still think you'd respond to you right, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we could gossip about our crazy friend. And he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't said a word to you. He hasn't And I've

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<v Speaker 1>sent him like text messages like hey man, I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>sorry about what happens. Do you want to talk? And

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<v Speaker 1>I've even called and left the messages, and my last

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<v Speaker 1>message was basically, hey, I'm here if you need me.

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<v Speaker 1>Things got heated, it'll blow over and then nothing still Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>And have you heard from your circle? Of friends if

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't talked to anybody, like everybody we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>we have this group message, you know, and everyone's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like question Mark, question Mark and Melo and the

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<v Speaker 1>other guy whose name was Rob. They're all like, Rob's

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<v Speaker 1>taking a few days to himself. So it's always a

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<v Speaker 1>Rob that starts a fight. It's always Rob. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just so confused and I'm so hesitant, and i just

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<v Speaker 1>feel awkward. Okay, well we'll help you out and make

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<v Speaker 1>it even more awkward. We'll play a song and then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back and get your second day update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you? Yea, hang up looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning dates. You know, Lisa, if you didn't have friends,

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<v Speaker 1>none of this would have happened. I know. I tell

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<v Speaker 1>them every day like this whole thing is your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>No friends, you don't have to worry about other people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great, trust me, try it out anyway. Unfortunately, you

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<v Speaker 1>do have friends, and now you're on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update and if you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa wants to call her friend Amilio. They actually have

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<v Speaker 1>been friends for a while. He's in the same friend

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<v Speaker 1>group as her, and before a friend's giving event. They

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<v Speaker 1>decided to get together early, just the two of them

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<v Speaker 1>and have a drink as a date to see how

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<v Speaker 1>it went. And apparently everything went great. But then they

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<v Speaker 1>went to the friends giving and this dude, Ameilio ended

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<v Speaker 1>up almost getting in a fight with another dude over

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<v Speaker 1>some political argument and then stormed out, and she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him since. We're about to call him and

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<v Speaker 1>find out one if he likes Lisa and two if

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<v Speaker 1>he's ever going to be back in that friend group again.

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<v Speaker 1>And just to be clear, like none of your other

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<v Speaker 1>friends are pissed at Amelia or Rob. Right, everybody understands, No,

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<v Speaker 1>they just thought that. You know, politics are crazy right

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<v Speaker 1>now and people get an arguments and everything's cooled down.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Rob's fine again. He's just kind of taking a

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<v Speaker 1>rob to baticle, is what we call it, Rob Baticle,

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<v Speaker 1>Rob Baticle. I like that. So he's off for three days,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of being by himself, and so everybody's fine, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't get Emilio to answer back. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now and see if he'll

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<v Speaker 1>pick up our phone and then find out if he

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed your date or not? Thank you? All right, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello. Hey is this Emilio? Yeah, this is Amelia.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hey, Amelio? How are you? Man? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, what's that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Okay, take it. You're a daily

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<v Speaker 1>listener super fan? Uh no, yeah? Sorry? What is it about? Merely?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the second Date Update. Have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that before? No? Okay, I'll explain. What it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Is is if you go on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and then end up not calling them back after, they

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<v Speaker 1>can email us to get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out what went wrong. So we actually got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about you into the show about me? Yeah, who

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<v Speaker 1>is it from? Wouldn't you like to know? Yeah? Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I thought so. Well, if you give me your credit

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<v Speaker 1>card number for easy payments, I can tell you who

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<v Speaker 1>emailed the show. Don't listen to him? Okay, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to give him a credit card number. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>who are you talking about? It was worth a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about Lisa. Uh, Lisa? Like like Lisa, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's her last name, but Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>who you probably know pretty well. She's a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>yours and you guys actually went on like a little

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<v Speaker 1>date before your friends giving. Yeah, yeah we did. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's her last name. Lisa is Alisa, Lisa no Jewel, No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not. Oh okay, Yeah, she emailed us. She told

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date and said that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time with you, and then also told us about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened at your friends giving, how you almost got

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<v Speaker 1>in a fight with another dude and stormed off. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing was kind of kind of awkward. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it. Yeah, I mean, I don't even think

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<v Speaker 1>she really cares about that though, I mean she knows

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<v Speaker 1>politics can get heated. I think she cares because you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling her back, No I know, but like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I kind of just wanted to wait for

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<v Speaker 1>like the whole thing to die down, and honestly, like

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<v Speaker 1>it was stupid, like it's it's totally my fault, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But from her description, it's all died down, like it's yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she really enjoyed going on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>you and really wants to go out with you again?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, I mean, like, honestly, I can't even believe

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<v Speaker 1>she contacted you about this, Like it's actually like super

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing for me. What is I mean, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody understands that you just got in a fight, if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you're Yeah, no, I mean, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stupid and I just I put myself in a

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<v Speaker 1>really really bad spot. What did you do? Though? From

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<v Speaker 1>everything from what she tells, this sounds like you've just

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<v Speaker 1>got in an argument with your buddy and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to explain more than that, because what are we supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do go back to Lisa and be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all his fault and he made a huge, horrible decision,

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<v Speaker 1>but we can't tell you what it is because Okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'll just tell you guys, and like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>can tell her because I don't think I'm probably gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her after this. But like I'm seriously like

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't have even agreed to go out with her

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place. Okay, We've been friends with like

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<v Speaker 1>the same group of friends for a while, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you want to go get a drink before

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<v Speaker 1>the thing? And I can't say no because then things

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<v Speaker 1>would be like really awkward later, you know, that night,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I said I would because like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hurt her feelings and stuff. And so at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar when we went out, I was starting to

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<v Speaker 1>see that like, oh no, like she like really likes me,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I don't think I can turn back from this,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is like a date. So we go after

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<v Speaker 1>to this thing and like I kind of go hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with like my friends, and like I could start

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<v Speaker 1>to tell the way she was like talking to her

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<v Speaker 1>friends and looking over at us that like she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>more to happen. And so I was telling, like, my

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<v Speaker 1>friends are like, what's going on? Why is she like

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<v Speaker 1>acting all weird with you? And I was like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I told them, like we went on this date. And

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, okay, well, what are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to like get out of this. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm supposed to do, and so they kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gave me this idea. It was so dumb, but at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, like we were drinking and like we were

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<v Speaker 1>being dumb and so um, they were like we should

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<v Speaker 1>just like pretend that we like gott into a fight, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>pretend we have a fight, and then you could like

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<v Speaker 1>leave and be all mad and then you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with that anymore. Stage he staged the whole thing. Wow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm guessing you're in a tough spot now because

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't think into the future how that's going to

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<v Speaker 1>affect you. Yeah. No, I didn't think about anything. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like we were kind of drunk, and like I

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<v Speaker 1>was just thinking, like in that moment, I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how do I get out of here right now? About

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<v Speaker 1>like making it about her? And so I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then she'll just think I'm mad at these dudes, and

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<v Speaker 1>so like, oh man, he stormed out after me. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we just like I don't know, like him

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<v Speaker 1>and I just went down the street and like drank,

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<v Speaker 1>you know for the red you see it too. We're

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<v Speaker 1>probably drunk and cheers and like that was amazing that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe we pulled it off. But you are

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<v Speaker 1>such an ahole? How is that easier than just being

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<v Speaker 1>honest with someone and respectful of their feeling. It's especially

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<v Speaker 1>if it's somebody who you considered I think Emilio knows

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<v Speaker 1>that he's saying that he was drunk and stupid. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's why he sounds like he's feeling bad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that right? Yeah? Yeah? No, seriously, Like, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>I can ever like tell her that or talk to

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<v Speaker 1>her again, even well, it's a good thing we did

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<v Speaker 1>it for you, because she's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and also talk to you. Oh my god, yeah, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Are you kidding me? Lisa's definitely there?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you telling me that Rob was in on this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing? And you guys faking? So I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad a new flash. Now I feel even worse because

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<v Speaker 1>now everybody knows and is laughing at me. This, in

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<v Speaker 1>any way a better solution, Emilio than saying, no, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go out with you because I

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<v Speaker 1>everybody was there. I didn't want to like make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad in front of everyone. Like imagine, now I

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad for ever. I don't know. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>told you it was dumb. It was a stupid thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>dumb thing. I'm awesome. Why can't we have a drink

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<v Speaker 1>and it not be weird. That's right, Lisa, you tell

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<v Speaker 1>them how awesome you are. No, just you're just like

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<v Speaker 1>not my type. What does that exactly mean, Emilio, Because

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen the girls that you have gone out with. Whoa, Okay,

0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:23.880
<v Speaker 1>you've known each other a year, and I've seen some

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<v Speaker 1>questionable choices. Okay, well fine, you know, if we're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like be all honest and upfront about it, then

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just tell you. The deal is, you're not my

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<v Speaker 1>type because I'm into girls who have bigger chests than

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<v Speaker 1>you do. It's just likelys are the only reason you're

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<v Speaker 1>not going out with someone I have. How much boom

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<v Speaker 1>do you need? Okay, well, yeah that's not big enough

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I like them bigger. Enjoy not breathing ever again,

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Emilio. See, I told you That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to tell you, because you douldn't understand, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a type of girl that I like and

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<v Speaker 1>they're bigger than you. To keep dating bimbos, big big bimbos,

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<v Speaker 1>go enjoy it. Okay, Yeah, I know what I will.

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<v Speaker 1>I will be hotter than you. Oh I doubt that.

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<v Speaker 1>Enjoy your type well before you, guys, come to that conclusion.

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<v Speaker 1>I still have to ask him, though, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Lisa? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. No, oh, Lisa, you're interested in the second

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<v Speaker 1>day with Emilia? Or am I picking up the wrong signal?

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't think i'd be able to fill out

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<v Speaker 1>his bras so no, all right, well, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>at least you guys realize you don't want to date

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Any chance of you guys being friends. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see a problem. It's like we're still in

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<v Speaker 1>the same group of friends, like if we were hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out at the same place. I don't care. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have a problem because you just staged Ocean's fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>at our friends giving. All right, well, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to work out the rest. But Lisa, thank you for email.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you got an answer to your question. And Emilio,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just text in right now seventy five to nine

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<v Speaker 1>two if he got some Triple z's Amelia was interested

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<v Speaker 1>in you, That's what I'm talking about in the morning. No,

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven eighty five to nine two says

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about them going on a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would not want to be friends with anybody

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<v Speaker 1>in that friend group. Talking about today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>if you missed it, Lisa wanted to call her friend Emilio.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually went out on a date before a friend's giving,

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<v Speaker 1>and then at the friends giving them, they'd gotten a

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<v Speaker 1>huge fight over something and then left and wasn't talking

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<v Speaker 1>to her, And we got him on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>we found out that what really happened was he got

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<v Speaker 1>a little drunk and really wasn't interested in dating her.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't know that they were actually going on like

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<v Speaker 1>a real date beforehand, and so he and his friends

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<v Speaker 1>got together and staged a big argument so he could

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<v Speaker 1>leave and wouldn't have to like be cornered to try

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss her or something. At the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>and he left and wasn't talking to her. But then

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<v Speaker 1>he felt bad because he realized he was drunk and

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<v Speaker 1>made a mistake, and how's he going to like get

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<v Speaker 1>back in the friend group after he just staged that

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing to get away from her. He also said

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not his type because she doesn't have boobs

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<v Speaker 1>that are big enough and he likes ridiculously big ones.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess just even in the recap. They all need

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<v Speaker 1>new friends. Yeah they did, just a big breakup anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>too much drama. No second date for them, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>see if they can remain friends. Remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day up date, just email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Two point five