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Speaker 1: What will you do? Lisick at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels?

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Speaker 1: Second dat up date? Now, some people say you should

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Speaker 1: always date your friends. All I know is you should

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of lost when it comes to friends and relationships.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna learn a little bit from Lisa, who's

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Speaker 1: is that right, Lisa? That's right? Are you currently underwear? No? Okay,

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Speaker 1: well then you're not good enough friends to even really

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Speaker 1: So you went on a date with your friend? Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: we always do a friends giving and we come over,

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Speaker 1: but he and I would know. Okay, it's like a

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you? Yea, hang up looking jubil in

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Speaker 1: Lisa wants to call her friend Amilio. They actually have

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now and see if he'll

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Speaker 1: enjoyed your date or not? Thank you? All right, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hey is this Emilio? Yeah, this is Amelia.

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Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey, Amelio? How are you? Man? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, what's that?

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Okay, take it. You're a daily

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Speaker 1: listener super fan? Uh no, yeah? Sorry? What is it about? Merely?

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show.

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Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update. Have you ever heard

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Speaker 1: anything like that before? No? Okay, I'll explain. What it is.

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Speaker 1: email about you into the show about me? Yeah, who

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Speaker 1: is it from? Wouldn't you like to know? Yeah? Yeah

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Speaker 1: I thought so. Well, if you give me your credit

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about Lisa. Uh, Lisa? Like like Lisa, Lisa?

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Speaker 1: it's her last name. Lisa is Alisa, Lisa no Jewel, No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: But from her description, it's all died down, like it's yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you got an answer to your question. And Emilio,

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Speaker 1: I'll just text in right now seventy five to nine

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Speaker 1: two if he got some Triple z's Amelia was interested

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Speaker 1: I don't know about them going on a second date,

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Speaker 1: if you missed it, Lisa wanted to call her friend Emilio.

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Speaker 1: too much drama. No second date for them, and we'll

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