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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh hey, hi, amigo, has your week been so far?

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Speaker 2: I've been busy. I've been busy. I'm usually busy, but

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Speaker 2: you know, busy's good. But I'm feeling like I'm busy.

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Speaker 2: I'm really good at that, you know. That's my therapy,

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Speaker 2: being busy. It is, Oh my god, I find it

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Speaker 2: so annoying.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. No. I love to be on the

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Speaker 1: go physically and mentally. It's very therapeutic for me. You know.

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Speaker 2: Therapy for me is relaxing. Very good at relaxing, and

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Speaker 2: when I have too much stuff coming at me, then

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Speaker 2: I freak out. I'm just not the woman I used

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Speaker 2: to be. I'm on a different path.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's good too. We got to embrace every

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Speaker 1: every stage in our lives.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely every you know, there's yeah, different stages going all

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Speaker 2: the time. Every decade. I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I feel like mine is always that I'm really looking

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Speaker 1: forward to, like my relaxing and and just doing nothing.

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Speaker 2: That's going to come. I think I'm able to do

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Speaker 2: that because I don't have children. You know, you have

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Speaker 2: you have the kids.

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Speaker 1: My kids. I have the beauty bar. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Business.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm also looking for somebody to move to quick

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Speaker 1: you know, not quickly soon. You know, my my one

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Speaker 1: year lease is expiring. It's coming to an end.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you're happy about that, and I'm happy I.

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Speaker 1: Am, and I'm happy that you know what I love.

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Speaker 1: I think my first of all, I was a beautiful day.

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Speaker 1: I went to actually look at a few apartments earlier today,

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Speaker 1: and it's such a beautiful day here in Miami. We

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Speaker 1: could have picked up better day to look at apartments.

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Speaker 1: And you know, they're all on the beach, you know,

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Speaker 1: on the water, so we use are spectacular and we're

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Speaker 1: so blessed to live in this beautiful city. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go anywhere.

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Speaker 2: I miss views. In my entire life where we lived,

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Speaker 2: I've had a view. This is the first time I

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Speaker 2: don't have a video since you know I'm here with

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Speaker 2: Blue Bear. Mm hmmm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Well you have your backyard is a good view, your

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Speaker 1: pool house, and yeah, I like to see the ocean

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Speaker 1: when I wake up. There's something about it that's just exhilarating,

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Speaker 1: and you want to go conquer the day. I think

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Speaker 1: that's why I don't want to go conquer the day

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Speaker 1: because I look in the back and I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm in a jungle and I don't feel inspired.

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Speaker 1: We can train, you can come to my place and

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Speaker 1: enjoy the beach and the water.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and where are you going to go? You want

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Speaker 2: to come here to the jungle, and I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you know, the jungle's good too. So yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: been very busy this morning.

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Speaker 2: Good for you. Good.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm done here. I'm going to the

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Speaker 1: beauty bar.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you have a face of the face right now

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Speaker 2: of a person that looks very productive.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. I have on that productive face every day.

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Speaker 1: The choice but to put on that face. Speaking of

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Speaker 1: putting on faces, did you watch the Oscars? I did.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to miss that. I love the Oscars

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Speaker 1: me too, you know, I not only for the fashion,

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Speaker 1: but obviously to see, you know, all the great movies

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Speaker 1: that are being recognized and awarded. Yeah, were you surprised

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Speaker 1: by any of the of the wins? I was really

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Speaker 1: surprised that. And I can't think of her name right now,

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Speaker 1: the girl that I can't think of, the children of

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Speaker 1: the Flower Moon. I think I saw that with Steve,

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Speaker 1: the girl that played the American Indian.

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Speaker 2: I was so shocked that she didn't win. Shocked.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's won in the past some other awards

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Speaker 1: and season Golden Globe, Golden Globe. Yes, maybe she's so talented.

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Speaker 1: Yet she think it's.

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Speaker 2: Amazing she should have won that Oscar. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what happened. I was shut up.

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Speaker 1: When she's young, and I think this is, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm excited for her and for her

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Speaker 2: next movie. So I thought I saw something that I

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Speaker 2: thought was kind of odd. And I hear it's been

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Speaker 2: like it was a theme for the Oscars this year.

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Speaker 2: But so don't you think it was kind of odd

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Speaker 1: Like like in you know age, she was backstage by

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Speaker 2: I thought she was home. No, she was posting videos

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Speaker 2: of his dressing room that she was there supporting her man.

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Speaker 2: But you never see her. He never brings her to

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Speaker 2: a red carpet. It's so odd to me why she's

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Speaker 2: so beautiful. You know, she's audio me that she's never

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Speaker 2: done any more movies. I mean, she's such a big

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Speaker 2: when it seems kind of like.

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Speaker 1: She stepped down right to give to be a mother,

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Speaker 1: you know, a good cube of Gowana, She's like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, I'm going to stay at home. She's two daughters,

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Speaker 1: and nine year old and a seven year old is

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Speaker 1: very very Latin.

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Speaker 2: Ryan went along with that, like my dad did.

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Speaker 1: I said exactly the same thing. It's so cool right

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Speaker 1: the green. I was like, you know, man, that's a

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Speaker 1: But you see, I didn't know that that she was

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Speaker 1: she said like, come back home now to put our

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Speaker 2: Oh well, you know, curiosity got the best of me

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Speaker 2: and I saw him on the carpet. I didn't see her,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, why are they never together? She's a

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Speaker 2: movie star too, And then I went to her and.

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Speaker 1: By the way, they both would have been invited to

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Speaker 1: the Vanity Fair party because they're both big stars. Because

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Speaker 1: you know how the Vanity Fair parties. Not not everybody

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Speaker 1: a plus one. But in their case, they're equal, and

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Speaker 1: they both were very invited and welcomed to the party.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's her that doesn't want to go?

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Speaker 2: Highly doubt. He's like telling her you can't come, must

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Speaker 2: be her. I agree, I think it's her. You know,

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Speaker 2: maybe it's not an agreement that they have between them,

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Speaker 1: You know, my husband, he performed, he sang you know

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. Well, you know you and I love

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Speaker 2: a red carbet and a beautiful gown. Maybe they're trying

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Speaker 2: to keep their privacy and their relationship so that people don't.

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Speaker 1: Know they have They've always been very private, But how

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Speaker 1: do you keep that private? You know, people are talking

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Speaker 1: it's great that you keep your personal life, especially your children,

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Speaker 1: out of the limelight. If that's what you choose. But

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Speaker 1: it also because they find it odd that she would

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Speaker 1: not be there, especially that she was there. You said,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I did not know that she

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Speaker 2: No, maybe not, I don't know. I'm thinking. You never

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Speaker 1: I love that, you know, I love that that she

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Speaker 1: They've decided to keep their personal life private because you know,

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Speaker 1: I think that everybody respects that. But for this kind

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Speaker 2: I was going to get an oscar, not as.

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Speaker 1: Barbie af I his barbie and he owns on her

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Speaker 1: cuban barbie by the way, you know. I also found

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Speaker 1: an interesting fact of Eva is older than than ken

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Speaker 1: She looks she's beautiful. I've always been such a fan

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Speaker 2: They introduced us.

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Speaker 1: We said we were like both Cuban, and we gravitated

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Speaker 1: like a fun She's so fun. She's so Cuban, and

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Speaker 1: you can see that she's a good wife, a good mom,

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Speaker 1: a good daughter. She's always talking about her mom. I

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Speaker 1: I'm just excited. I want her to do a comeback.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think that she's always been such a

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Speaker 1: and being nominated for an Oscar because.

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Speaker 2: I think she can do it. We need a Cuban

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Speaker 2: with an Oscar. Is there a Cuban out there with

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Speaker 2: an Oscar. Hmm, does Andy Garcia say one? I don't

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Speaker 1: I think he does.

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Speaker 1: I think that Anti Garcia has one for sure, either

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Speaker 1: as a supporting actor or an actor. I'm not sure,

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Speaker 1: but he deserves one too. Yeah, and you and I

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Speaker 1: I don't want Oscar. I always knew I was going

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Speaker 1: the weirdest face when you're wearing a gold dress to

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Speaker 1: match your statue.

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Speaker 2: I was like on the floor, looking like, look at

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Speaker 2: my Oscar. I got it. I knew it. I knew

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Speaker 2: I was going to get one. Andy Andy Garcia was nominated,

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Speaker 2: but he didn't win.

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Speaker 1: Was it?

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Speaker 2: I think it was for that Meg Ryan film that

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Speaker 2: he did when when she was an alcoholic.

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Speaker 1: You know, for sure, Andy Garcia's had nominations because he's

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Speaker 1: another incredible actor. So, but did Ryan go to the

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Speaker 1: after party? Did he go to the Vanity Fair party?

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Speaker 1: Because that's another thing that I find very interesting. So

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Speaker 1: a lot of people, obviously a lot of the actors

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Speaker 1: and actresses don't get to attend the oscars and but

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Speaker 1: a lot of them are invited to the after party,

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Speaker 1: which is the Vanity Fair Oscar party.

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Speaker 2: And there's the Elton John after party that's the big

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Speaker 2: one too.

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Speaker 1: But is it the same night that Elton John is

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Speaker 2: We have to agree together.

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Speaker 2: So Basically, the Vanity Fair Oscar party is invite only,

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Speaker 1: That sucks, right well, I mean there's a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you could go and do like a carpet

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Speaker 2: I would want to stick around. You know, there's some

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Speaker 2: You don't want to, Steve, don't take me.

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Speaker 1: Now, right, But like in your real life, like with

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Speaker 2: Kind of like a working work thing, maybe you don't.

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Speaker 1: Feel weird, you know, without being you know, with your

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Speaker 1: Would have would you stick around?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Stick around?

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Speaker 1: You know, I swear to you, I'm there's going to

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Speaker 2: I know you would have found him like a catering

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Speaker 1: No, but I've heard that, like they stop people. You know,

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Speaker 1: As if we could, right imagine count how they feel

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Speaker 1: for the guys. That's all right, now, yeah, my personal experience,

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Speaker 1: is really young. Thirteen years well, no, twelve years, thirteen

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Speaker 2: Old kid, right, and we're already mature to begin with.

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Speaker 1: But there are some twenty four year old girls and

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Speaker 1: think she's like a really pretty girl, and she's very young.

433
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 1: You know, she's very like youthful and playful. I means

434
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 1: she was three. She's just gay.

435
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm youthful and playful and I'm in my fifties.

436
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 1: Okay, so what are you trying to say? What are

437
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 1: you learning?

438
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 2: Just thirty seven, I was like extra youth, baby festive, right, But.

439
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, So I don't blame her, right

440
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 1: that you want. I mean, she also had kids at

441
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: a young age, just three kids, so she's already been married.

442
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: So you know what, she just wants to have fun.

443
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,879
Speaker 1: So you're gonna have fun. Well, you know, this is

444
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 1: the good this is a good person to do it with.

445
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 2: Right, That's what I'm hoping for her, That she's looking

446
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 2: at this young man as fun because he's too young

447
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 2: and she's got a.

448
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 1: Prety well like she says, I mean, I don't think

449
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,159
Speaker 1: she's searching for a relationship, because again, you know, she

450
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 1: she already had that and she has she has kids,

451
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: so I think she just liked them because he's so

452
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 1: hot and she just wants to have fun and there's

453
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that.

454
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 2: She said, He's very sweet from the jump. He was

455
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: so sweet to me, like the very first thing, he

456
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:48,360
Speaker 2: said to me, was you're like really pretty.

457
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, oh my god, that's how she's judging that.

458
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 1: He's super nice. You know, construction were so sweet all

459
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 1: right from the street. You're pray hot and with whistles.

460
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: He's so sweet. You know, don't come care a construction

461
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: worker with this kid.

462
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: I can't.

463
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 1: Did you see him? He's very cute. He's a TikToker.

464
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 1: I know, I can you know, I don't do TikTok.

465
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 1: But when I was seen a picture of him, you

466
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,440
Speaker 1: know what's It's a stage that she's going on. She's

467
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,920
Speaker 1: having a lot of women go through these stages, and

468
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,439
Speaker 1: you know, we're there. It's always going to be judged.

469
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: But again, you know, men have always done it, and

470
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, well I have the problem is like

471
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 1: it's okay for men to do it, but it's not

472
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 1: okay for women. Newsflash, we are equal, We are the same.

473
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 1: The same way that men can do it, women can

474
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: do it also, absolutely. But I think there's a certain

475
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 1: spread of a certain age where it works, like twelve

476
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 1: years super thirteen years isn't that much. Thirteen years is

477
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: about it.

478
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,400
Speaker 2: But the spread to me is okay, So maybe if

479
00:22:54,520 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 2: she was, you know, I don't know, in her forties

480
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: and he's late thirties, maybe it's not such a big deal.

481
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: But he's twenty four, Like you graduate college when you're

482
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 2: twenty four, and she's younger.

483
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: Than Frankie, Yeah, exactly, how would you feel about that? Well,

484
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm also older than her, so it's a little different,

485
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 1: but you know, thirteen years, like you says, is really

486
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: not so much. But I understand where you're saying that

487
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 1: she's in her thirties, late thirties and he's in his

488
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: early twenties, so there are different stages in their life.

489
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: But we don't know that, Like you know, he probably

490
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 1: wants her life because I find, like you know, maybe

491
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: at his age and he's more mature, he wants at

492
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: her life. He wants to have children, he wants to

493
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: have a family, he wants to be in his career

494
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 1: where she's at because she's done very well with her

495
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: career and she's a businesswoman. So if I feel like

496
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 1: a lot of time the young guys, they are fascinated

497
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: by older women, especially somebody like her. That she's pretty,

498
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: she's successful, she's famous, so she has all these attributes

499
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: that any young kid would fall in love with and

500
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 1: it's up to her not to be foolish.

501
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: And I's in love with him exactly. I mean, I

502
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 2: get his fascination, but yeah, she cannot let it be

503
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 2: anything more than fun for her.

504
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: I think, I think, And my mom would always tell me, like,

505
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: be careful, like when you're, like you said, like thirties

506
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: and the forties, you know, when you date usually when

507
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: you are that age and you do want to date

508
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: much younger like that. My mother would always tell me,

509
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: like think we all. I remember when I got separated

510
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: and I was like forty some years old, forty eight,

511
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: and my mother's like, when you date younger, because Santa Morandi,

512
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: they fall in love with you, and they fall in

513
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: love with you. And I know for people, it's like

514
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: really hard to believe that, like why would this young

515
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 1: kid like or whatever, like somebody older, But it's really

516
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: not older because she's thirty seven and her body still

517
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 1: looks great, her face, like her energy, the way that

518
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 1: she is, so it's not like you know, she's like

519
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: oh yeah, so, like I don't understand that.

520
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 2: I have the craziest story. My friend I was working

521
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 2: a winter music conference at the Raleigh Hotel, and this

522
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 2: really cute guy kept staring at me all night long.

523
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 2: All night long, he was dancing there with a group

524
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 2: of people, and I was like, why is he looking

525
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: at me? He's really cute. I don't look that good anyway.

526
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: I was like forty one years old. He asked me

527
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 2: for my number. I was like, okay. All the girls

528
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 2: in the office were like, oh my gosh, he's so cute.

529
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: And he told me he was twenty eight, and I

530
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 2: was like, okay, perfect day. Forty one, twenty eight, you

531
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: know whatever, let's just see, you know, thirteen years come

532
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 2: being uh huh, well guess what what did he want?

533
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: Julie my old employee. Julie, my old employee, went on

534
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 2: Facebook after he'd been texting me for like a couple

535
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 2: of weeks and screams one.

536
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: Day at me.

537
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: Marsa, oh my god, come here. You know she was

538
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 2: a snoop detective. I go over to her.

539
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 4: She goes, stop boys in high school. That boy that's

540
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 4: been text you was in high school. No, he was

541
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 4: like sixteen sixteen. I never thought with him. I just

542
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 4: texted with him.

543
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 2: I was in shocked. I almost died.

544
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: I almost didn't he look, but I was forty, I

545
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: mean sixty sixty baby, he I mean he definitely had

546
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 1: mommy issues. I'm sorry. He had dark hair, so we

547
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: had a sad boy. The shadow on the face like

548
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: from the beer. And he was muscular in tan. Was

549
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: he looking for his mommy? Did he?

550
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 2: I think he was looking for a bit of sugar mama.

551
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: It was crazy. I couldn't believe it. But you know,

552
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: in your forties the young'ins come. But I thought that

553
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: was that stream young got sick to me.

554
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, like no, I know, no, that's how I shied.

555
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,719
Speaker 1: But twenty and forty one couldn't work out. I mean,

556
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying like a long you know,

557
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: relation ship, but you know, sometimes it does like to me,

558
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 1: age is a number. But the fact that Kristen's getting

559
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: like all this hate and like people judging her and

560
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: all this criticism, I think it's stupid. Well, people are

561
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: people are always going to judge women. Again, men can

562
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: do it and it's okay, but women do it and

563
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: you know they're they're terrible. Well, I do have a

564
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: little bit of a problem with her is the fact

565
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: that she's went out and said that her kids have

566
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: already met Mark.

567
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: Hmm.

568
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,880
Speaker 1: You know she's been with those like three months, and yeah,

569
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: well the kids might be a little bit confused. Well,

570
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: her kids are still young, but still, you know, I

571
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 1: think and this has nothing to do with age, you know,

572
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 1: I just think that any woman and every woman should

573
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 1: take a little bit longer when it comes to introducing

574
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 1: their kids.

575
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, to the person. I mean, you don't know.

576
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because she doesn't she sees it as fun

577
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: and you know, like you know, he's like, I don't

578
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: know he's going to be around. So maybe it's but

579
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 1: I don't know about the kids really knowing or involving

580
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 1: the kids and the kids knowing that you're in some

581
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: kind of relationship with this guy. Not because of his age.

582
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: But I just wouldn't do it with anybody unless I'm

583
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: really serious about him.

584
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 2: I mean, after three months, that's too soon. That's too soon.

585
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: So do they like him.

586
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: That? I don't know? You do? You have the article

587
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: there if you want to read it?

588
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, here we go. Uh, she says, uh, this is

589
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 2: the she has three days.

590
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: Like I said, she met her the boyfriend Mark Estas

591
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: she said that this is the first guy she her

592
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,879
Speaker 1: children is Matt. He came to pick me up and

593
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: the boys were like, can I show you my room?

594
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: And he went upstairs to see the kids rooms. My

595
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: boys are so excited about him. They probably thought he

596
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: was a playdate.

597
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 2: Thanks you play date, mom?

598
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, can we stay with us and play you can

599
00:28:54,600 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: go mom? Well speaking with Mark, Oh okay, but hold on.

600
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: So she has the three kids, she has two sons,

601
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: Camp then that's eleven. That's a difficult age. Eleven and

602
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: Jackson that's nine, and her daughter that's eight.

603
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: Right, So when you started dating Herman, your boys were

604
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 2: in that age range, right, you.

605
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: Know they were young. Frankie was four and Peter was eight, Yes, eight, okay, yeah,

606
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: and it's always a difficult age. Yes, it's always a

607
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: difficult age. But my kids were very vocal about letting

608
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,479
Speaker 1: Herman know in the beginning that they didn't like them,

609
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: and he was not walcome in my home.

610
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 2: I love it, I'm sure those kids.

611
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, actually Frankie waited waited for him going by

612
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: with a bag, and he was with a date in

613
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: his mouth, and he's like he still had a dated

614
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: the pacifier at the age of four. Yes, it was

615
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: one of those Cuban moms and let my my son

616
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: have the pacifier. Was ready to give it up. No, no,

617
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: so he was ready to give it up when he

618
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: was ready, like a four and a ha. With Peter's help,

619
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: because people can do whatever you want. He came, go

620
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: la ahida, I would buy him all the cutest days

621
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: you can go la ahda of the pacifiers and said, here, mommy,

622
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: I don't want I'm not doing this anymore. You can

623
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: have them, and he did, so we did that. But anyways, yeah,

624
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: my kids weren't so open to any other man, which

625
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: you know, is I understand right, because you know, for them,

626
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: it's always like their father, you know, no matter what.

627
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: And I think the boys are very protective with their mom,

628
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: you know. And I think that they you know, at

629
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: least mine weren't afraid to show it. And it takes

630
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: a little bit longer, you know. I think it's very

631
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: hard for them. You know, this is a house where

632
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: they live with their mom. Then they see a stranger,

633
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: you know, the kids think that the man's going to

634
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: take away their love or vice versas the other way around.

635
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: And you're killing are obsessed with their father. They adore

636
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: their father. So I think you're kids. So I think

637
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: that these kids also love their father. I mean, I

638
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: don't know the top of relationship that she talks with

639
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,959
Speaker 1: this instance that they came with the bat and they

640
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: were not accepting of him because I know how they

641
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: have their father, their dad. Yeah, and then they ended

642
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: up loving herman as well, which is the beautiful thing, right,

643
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: And they would always say they had two dads, you know,

644
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: which was beautiful. But you know, it's hard for all

645
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: the kids. That's why I think as women, we don't think. So.

646
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I think, you know, Christen's doing it because

647
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: she's excited and you know, she's having fun and she thinks,

648
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: you know, she wants to include her kids or kids

649
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: could kind of understand. But sometimes at that age, our

650
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: kids are afraid to tell us, like what they really feel.

651
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: And by the way, after all these years and after

652
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: Hermann passed away, Peter admitted that he was the one

653
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: behind like telling Frankie like, you know, right right because

654
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: mom will do it right. So that's what I'm saying,

655
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: right because and they're afraid, you know, to tell us

656
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: their how they feel and their emotions. But you know,

657
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: some way and it's only a matter of time they

658
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: start acting out. But you know, hopefully I hope it

659
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: works out for her because I like every to get

660
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: along and be in love and all.

661
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 2: Your families you know, love love right, No, I know,

662
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: But what.

663
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying is I want her to have, you know,

664
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: healthy kids and a healthy relationship. But you know, it's hard,

665
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: you know sometimes as mother, you know, our kids they

666
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: don't come with a handbook, so we don't we don't

667
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: know whether we're doing the right thing or the wrong thing.

668
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: With the experience that I have, I think it's a

669
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 1: little bit too soon, you know, to bring you know,

670
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: somebody that, especially if you're not that serious about the

671
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: person you know, into your home and introduce them to

672
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: your kids, because you know, they never really understand.

673
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: So maybe she excited as a play day, like like

674
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 2: Lisa introduced Jody as their gay uncle, remember.

675
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: Right, Maybe you think I would do that, but you know,

676
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: I understand, Like you know, Lisa was excited too. She

677
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: was like, you know, she found a god that she liked,

678
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: and you know, so it's kind of like you're stuck.

679
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: You know, I've been there, so you don't know as

680
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: a mom what the right thing to do is. You know,

681
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: we just want our kids to be happy, and we

682
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: want to be happy, and you know, we never know

683
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: if it's going to work out or not. You just

684
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 1: do the best that you can well be And she

685
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: says that this is the first guy that the kids met,

686
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: which is good. Well, that's a little bit too personal.

687
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: Why don't we just start by showing in my little

688
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: room or the pool in the backyard. Don't come to

689
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: my room. I mean, who am I to talk when

690
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: I When I married my second husband, I was forty

691
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: two and he was thirty two, ten years apart. Yeah,

692
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: I didn't use ten years I started. Yeah, so he

693
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: was younger, twelve years young years French. They're very you know,

694
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: worldly and educated, and they just seem a lot older.

695
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: It was very mature.

696
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 2: An American dude is sometimes own Kuwana or were the

697
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 2: guys that we have in.

698
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: Our Like I said, age is just a number. A

699
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: lot of times, age is just a number. My mom

700
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: always married younger, and they were actually closer in age

701
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: to my sister and I and I never had any

702
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: type of connection with them because I found them like

703
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: old souls. I understood, like why my mom, you know,

704
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: could date younger because it's you know, age a lot

705
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: of times, and I've seen it in my own personal

706
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: experience is just a number, so I'm not concerned. I mean,

707
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: I don't think this is anything alarming that Kristen is

708
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: having fun with a twenty four year old you know

709
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: when you know when men do it all the time.

710
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 1: You know that we're you know why we're talking about

711
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: it because it's a woman. If it would be a man,

712
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: it would be like nobody cares. You know how many

713
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: scott this a guy they I think his young girls.

714
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: Nobody talks about it.

715
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 2: I think it's also that age gap of it's not

716
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: like she's fifty for and he's forty or you know

717
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 2: that I would get. But he's twenty four and she's

718
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 2: thirty seven, close to forty with three kids. And when

719
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 2: I'm h with a family and he's say not just

720
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 2: because you have to.

721
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: Be kids, I don't know, man, just again, I can

722
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: see his fashion, his fascination with her, of course, yeah,

723
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: I can see her fascination with him, I hope.

724
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: So that's ten year old.

725
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: That's just me personally, so you know what, I am

726
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: rooting for them. At least I have fun, you know,

727
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: just to at least I have fun because I think

728
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: the sex to teen together. M and I don't know,

729
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: but what has age ever prevented you from dating someone?

730
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: I married someone ten years younger than me. No, and

731
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: my husband's older than me.

732
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: I don't for me, years really are Okay, we were

733
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: ten years apart, right, So definitely if you were looking

734
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 1: for a long time partner, like age wasn't an issue

735
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: for you at that moment in time in my life. No,

736
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm going to do this. I

737
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: didn't have any kids, he had no kids. We worked together.

738
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: I knew them for years through work and doing business together,

739
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: and eventually went on a few dates, and then.

740
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: It didn't work out, not because of the age gap.

741
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 2: I think in the end, there was just too many

742
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: differences between us, you know, work ethic, the way we

743
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 2: were raised, they were different.

744
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: You know went, Okay, that's different. That's because of your culture, right,

745
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: So there are culture differences, but it's difference.

746
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: One hundred percent. Well, you know, he still was pretty young,

747
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 2: so so.

748
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: He wanted to have a baby. Do you talk about family?

749
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: That was just like if it happens, it happens. But

750
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: it didn't happen because you know, I didn't even know.

751
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: It didn't happen.

752
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 2: You know, it just didn't happen, and it couldn't happen.

753
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,279
Speaker 2: And it's just something that I was never physically able

754
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 2: to do. And but we never took a big deep

755
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: dive into it. We were freestyle, so you see.

756
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: I feel like if that would be an issue if

757
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: a younger man wants to have a family and children

758
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: and the woman either can't have them anymore biologically or physically,

759
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: she's already going to be doesn't want them because she

760
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 1: already has two or three, that could be a problem.

761
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: That's why I find that age is a problem. But

762
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: a lot of times you meet younger men that are

763
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 1: not interested in having children, so that's perfect, you know,

764
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: and maybe though the woman already had her kids or

765
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: doesn't want any more kids either, so that works out.

766
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: But I find that the biggest problem could be would

767
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: be that if you want to have a family, you

768
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: know on either side, whether the guy wants it or

769
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: the woman wants it or doesn't.

770
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 2: Right, everybody's got to be on the same page.

771
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: In my love, did you ever have like an age

772
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 1: limit to date? What about dating? Like forget about marriage

773
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: and the family, but like what about just dating.

774
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, if someone was significantly younger than me,

775
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't interested, absolutely not, absolutely not. What's significant for you?

776
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 2: So seven to ten years younger was the most I

777
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 2: had ever done, really the most? Yes, yes, yes, oh no,

778
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 2: they so seven years younger and no, twenty one and

779
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: I was twenty eight in the nineties and then and

780
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 2: then my husband that was ten years younger than me.

781
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 2: That's it. Other than that, they've always been older than

782
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: me or the same age. I like older.

783
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: Well, I have a rule that I actually told Andy

784
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: Cohen when I was on his show with Sophia and Watch,

785
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: and my rule is that I cannot date anyone younger

786
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: than my boys.

787
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 2: Well that makes sense.

788
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: That's Peter's turning thirty two this year and Frankie's just

789
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: turned twenty seven. Well, first of all, I'm happily married

790
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: to a younger man. By the way, I know he's

791
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:28,879
Speaker 1: gonna say he's fifty one, and so we're good, right,

792
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, six seven years difference, we're six

793
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: years I actually five years and a half. We're five

794
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,919
Speaker 1: and a half years apart. So they're like you said

795
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: in your fifties, you can't tell the difference. And I

796
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: don't think in any you know, at any time in

797
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: our lives that would have been a problem, you know,

798
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,839
Speaker 1: five six, seven years, like you said. But one thing

799
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: is marriage and you know, a long term relationship, and

800
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: another thing is just dating.

801
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 2: I mean dating. That was really like my rule.

802
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I just you know, they have to be

803
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: older than than my sons because I have two sons,

804
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: you know, So that's why if I didn't have children,

805
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: maybe that wouldn't even be a rule. But you know,

806
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: it is what it is. And I just think that

807
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: age is a number, and a lot of times you

808
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: connect with people and you can't even tell their age, right,

809
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: you know, by the way you look. You could be talking, right,

810
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: you could be talking to a thirty year old guy.

811
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: I mean sounds like exactly, you know, and then you

812
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 1: meet some fifteen fifty year old man to have peter

813
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: Pan syndrome, and then it's like talking to like, you know,

814
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: a twenty year old exactly. So I'm enjoying all this,

815
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: jeam mate, we're quite the cheap mold us here. Well

816
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: I heard you know what. Then that's why we're so

817
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,839
Speaker 1: happy and we're doing so good. Because gossip is really

818
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: good for you.

819
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 2: I know, I just read about that and I thought,

820
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: you know what, every person that I know that's a

821
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: cheap mosa, they just never go away. They're like a

822
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 2: good atcha that lives forever. And you and I love

823
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: to cheat me out. So you and I are going

824
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 2: to live forever, right, But I'm a good chiam Mosao,

825
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 2: I'm like mosa. Together.

826
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: We need to share inflation, right. We like to talk.

827
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: We like to talk and you know, and even about

828
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: other people. But I think it's like therapeutic. I think

829
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: it's good. It's free therapy, right, And it's not like lies.

830
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: You know. I have a problem with gossipers that like

831
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: spread lies and rumors Ecosa Fea. You know, I'm not

832
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,879
Speaker 1: It's not about that. We like to talk about people,

833
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: but like in a good way, like just like what

834
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: we're doing right now. I mean, we talked about Kristen,

835
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 1: we talked about other people that came up, Eva Mendez,

836
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: and but it's all good stuff, you know, it's not

837
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: touch or like lies and rumors and try to like

838
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 1: bring people down to story people like that's not my.

839
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 2: By the way, the only person that I share information

840
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 2: with is you and my husband and it's always just

841
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 2: to keep each other abreast and share information and keep

842
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 2: each other up to what's happening and what's going on,

843
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 2: and then maybe comment like what do you think, just

844
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: like we're doing right now right, And I think it's

845
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 2: also we're actually bonding.

846
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: I think, you know, meando and gossiping a little bit.

847
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: It's like it brings people closer together and you gets

848
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: stop off your chest that you just you need to

849
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: sometimes you need to talk to someone. Like I said,

850
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: it's like free therapy. I think it's super therapeutic. My

851
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: mom was a psychiatrist. Was always like she got home

852
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: and like it was a jealous We had to give

853
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: her like like an hour like before she was ready

854
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: for us, and it was and we would be like, Mommy,

855
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: aren't you tired. You're like all day listening to people's problems,

856
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: and then you come home and your friends are calling

857
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: you to and it's like an hour or two on

858
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: the phone like to talk to all her friends. And yeah,

859
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 1: So I felt like it was always like something good.

860
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: I always saw it was always like in a happy, supportive,

861
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: good way. It was never like something negative, you know.

862
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: It was always just so like it was kind of

863
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 1: like storytelling.

864
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: Well, that's what we do. But there's a lot of

865
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: people that like just spread negative gossip. And you know

866
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 2: what they say, there's no greater bond than two people

867
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 2: coming together over a mutual disdain for a third party.

868
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,800
Speaker 2: That is, it's a tough way. It's true, but it's true.

869
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 2: It's true, and it happens on our show a lot too,

870
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: and all the shows you get two people that don't

871
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: like one person, there's nothing more powerful than that they

872
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 2: will not stop to take you down. And that's the

873
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 2: bad type of gossip. I don't like that kind of gossip, right, No.

874
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: I mean, like to me, that's not even gossip because

875
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:36,240
Speaker 1: like what we're talking about is what we're just talking about,

876
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: is you know, like we said, just like talking about

877
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,399
Speaker 1: like what happened or did you see if we went

878
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: to like a party or like you know coming you know,

879
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: just comment on whatever on like the house, on the people,

880
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: and you know, just like silly fun stuff like that,

881
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: just like lighthearted Well obviously do I mean, I mean,

882
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 1: if we do see like a man that's a married

883
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 1: man flirting with somebody or he's not there with his wife,

884
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: we're also going to comment on that. But that's ignore,

885
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: but we're not gonna like publish it or whatever. We'll

886
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 1: commented between us. Oh my god, did you see that guy?

887
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: He's married, but he was like flirting the whole time

888
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: with this woman and the all one wasn't paying attention

889
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: to the man. So it's a little bit like of everything,

890
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: but always like in a good way. So anyway, it's

891
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: good for our health. Yeah, I actually so, I was

892
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: telling my cleaning lady was more like a mom to me. Oh,

893
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say that she was actually Moosa.

894
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 2: No, well she likes the gossip too, okay, but she

895
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 2: was telling me as I was telling her about this

896
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: topic because we liked her and I like to chat

897
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: a lot, and she's like, Na, my daughter's mother in

898
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 2: law is the biggest chie Mosa and she's gonna turn

899
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 2: one hundred and one years.

900
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: Old because she gets it all out right.

901
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, she gets it all out all day long.

902
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: You're just validating her emotions because it's like you get

903
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: it out. And besides that, imagine me all day in

904
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 1: a chi me too, because the beauty bar, yeah, the salon,

905
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 1: and with like latinas working there all day long, it's

906
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: like Achi may in and out, like the clients come,

907
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 1: make go with they leave with everybody. But but it's fun,

908
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's it just like keeps us going.

909
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that you probably have a lot of great stories

910
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 2: you could turn into like short stories for like Netflix,

911
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 2: from all the gens. What I'm the brabo, what I'm

912
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 2: being pitching my own show at the beauty bar. Yeah,

913
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 2: you should do that, but you need to those stories

914
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 2: could be developed in something bigger because people come in

915
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 2: with stories and you're like, I can't believe that the

916
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: things that you hear in the street, you would never

917
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,959
Speaker 2: think were actually really happening in real life.

918
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:51,760
Speaker 1: But you can slugetto can talk right, and the people

919
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 1: in the salon, Yeah, when you're trying a gi met

920
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: So it's like it's I'm like all day long listening

921
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: to gossip.

922
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: Listen. I'm not encouraging this behavior, but maybe it's a

923
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: way to cheat death. Yeah, yeah, if you're gonna live longer,

924
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 2: we could cheat death by just being big gossips. So

925
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 2: who's the first person that you call.

926
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: Have a gossip?

927
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 2: It's pretty much you and Steve saying it.

928
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: No, I know I was going to tell you the

929
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: same whatever I have to say, like, wait, I have

930
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 1: to call Marasol.

931
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: Because I know and I tell you it dies right there,

932
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 2: it's over and Steve doesn't talk to anyone, so it's

933
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 2: dead saying yeah, yeah, I know whatever.

934
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: It could be the same. I call you, and I

935
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: call Johnny and Jonathan. Oh well your list is longer, no,

936
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: because I need a lot of validation, you know what

937
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: I mean. I'm very emotional passionate, so I have to

938
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: get like three different perspectives, right. But yeah, I've always

939
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: been a communicator. I've always like to talk and and

940
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 1: I think it's very good that you just like get

941
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: it out there. But there are people it's different, like

942
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, like well yeah.

943
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 2: Because I mean I think when we talk and share

944
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 2: information with each other, we're just trying to like get

945
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 2: a reaffirmation of what we're thinking and feeling.

946
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh you know what the word is and like yeah,

947
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,839
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So that it's different from

948
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: like I can't even really say it, but you know

949
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: what I mean, Yeah, I remember that word. Some tangles

950
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: things and twist things and then changes it all because

951
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: they cause a lot of right, that's what a lot

952
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: of problems like you can repeat something or like you know,

953
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 1: gossip and you know a little bit, but you know

954
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: out whateveruento storytelling. But once you start things and manipulating,

955
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: that's what I don't like. Yeah, those are the tanglers.

956
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: That is no danger in tanglers I don't like.

957
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's very dangerous because people die. People can

958
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 2: die if you get someone angry enough because you're twisting

959
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,919
Speaker 2: a lie and pressing their buttons and their emotions. People

960
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 2: die like that or they take their own life because

961
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 2: they can't take it.

962
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: In a real frissure and a real friend group, we're

963
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: all like gmosa, like in a good way. It's all

964
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: like fun stories, like happy whatever. It's not like, you know,

965
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: we were very blessed because we do have a great

966
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: friend group that they're all like good listeners and we

967
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: talk and we laugh and we support each other. But

968
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: it's not like that, you know what I think, which

969
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: I don't like me neither my friend. Well, no, that's

970
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 1: why we're You're my number one person that I call

971
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: because I know you're just gonna listen, you're gonna vogiate

972
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: my emotions, you're gonna you're gonna cooperate, which is very

973
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: important too, because you know you need the other side.

974
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: So like you want to come to a quinto, you

975
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 1: want to like say like you're you're part, but I

976
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: want to hear your part. Two.

977
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 2: We should have a therapy hotline called nine one and

978
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 2: there's just people waiting on the other end that let

979
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 2: you download and then talk you off a ledge. I

980
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: think that it could be like the new Psychic Network.

981
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 2: Really yeah, well, I.

982
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: Think we should do an app because I think the

983
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: app is more twenty twenty four. We can break one

984
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: those up. Sure you'll come up with a clever name,

985
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: because I know you're really good at that. I just

986
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: did line one one, but let's make it a nap

987
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: instead of a line line this So well, now that

988
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: we gave everyone an idea, it's always good to see

989
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,240
Speaker 1: you same.

990
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 2: You know, I look at you and I see I

991
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: pull forward and I look at you and I have.

992
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: A big smile on my face and I'm laughing. So yeah, well, guys,

993
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: thank you for listening. It's always a pleasure to co

994
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: host with Marathol and to know that you wonderful listeners

995
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: are listening to us and laughing along with us or

996
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: laughing at us.

997
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: Laughing at us. Thank you so much.

998
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: We appreciate we make you smile and laugh a little

999
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: bit and giggle with us like we like to do.

1000
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: And we have everyone to just hang up or not

1001
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 1: hang up because you're not on the phone with us,

1002
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: but it kind of like seems like you are, and

1003
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: just call your friend e each each. Just call your

1004
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: friend and you know, and just gossip a little bit

1005
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: and you're going to feel so much better and you're

1006
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: going to live longer. Apparently, I put forward until next time.

1007
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: See ya, Thank you, bye, guys, love you, thanks for listening.

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Speaker 2: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast.

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