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Speaker 1: motherfucking hometown. I'm trying to come out to some Florida's

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Speaker 1: ghetto ass motherfucking song. Matter of fact, I've been wanting

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Speaker 1: all there. Now let's get on with the shop. So, guys,

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Speaker 1: it's motherfucking damn. I always want to say it's Monday,

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Speaker 1: here with another episode of Horrible Decisions. You hold better

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Speaker 1: be holding it up for the Torna TOWNA baby, um, Hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and everything else. You know me the fu Hi, I'm Wheezy.

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Speaker 1: It's my birthday month and I want you to know

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Speaker 1: Someone was just writing, Well, I got some good story

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Speaker 1: the process of getting an erection can be. So this

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Speaker 1: words to the inside joke, and I won't do it

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Speaker 1: It's sound like, maybe just drink some water. Bro. It

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Speaker 1: like take too long. See, I've had guys take too long,

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Speaker 1: definitely if they're fucked up. But I was recently having

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Speaker 1: I sat God, nigga, I couldn't have done this ship

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00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: without a little The core that ship was effort and

424
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 1: then to have the nerve after we started sucking, like

425
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: tell me to throw it back? I was like, did

426
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: you see what I just did? Did you see what

427
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: I did? And if you saw what I did, you

428
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't ask me to do that? You suck me. You

429
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 1: have the hips and waste you thrust. I'll get on

430
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 1: top woint I choose, and it ain't today. That'd be

431
00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: me working throwing it back. That's a lot of work, baby,

432
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: and I'll be doing it. And to be doing a

433
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 1: little jiggle with my buddhi and then and then the

434
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,959
Speaker 1: dude that I sucked um during All Star weekend, he

435
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: was playing music and I was like when Nick played

436
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: music in a minute, like except for the one guy.

437
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 1: I think I told the story maybe at the live show,

438
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: this guy started playing fucking I said, we're not sucking

439
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 1: that ship. Then he went to go put on offset.

440
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: I said, who listens to offset solo and things? They're

441
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: gonna just suck the offset. No, So we literally did

442
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,919
Speaker 1: not sunk that night. Um, can you imagine like music

443
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 1: affecting the sex that much? Would you push the Gustelina? Now,

444
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: I'm not at it. This is your this is your house, Like,

445
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: do you fugget in the weekend you had a little

446
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: and I always looked back with my partner. You realize

447
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: we just that. So you listen to the music when

448
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 1: you're sucking right? Your horrible decisions? Nah? Yeah, I don't

449
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: get you can voices? What does that mean to move

450
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 1: the podast? Yeah to the podcast? Now I can't face

451
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: any fun a lip service, Damn, I mean, who pays

452
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 1: you need sixteen? That's just what my girl was watching

453
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: at the time. Relaxed he shut up already. I can't

454
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: really fuck the voices, like like I can't like shows

455
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: that I'm into. I'd be like, we gotta start it over,

456
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: Like I remember me and seven, we're chilling. We sho

457
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 1: to start Top Boy over every fucking episode like that

458
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: ship it to us forever. To get to that ship,

459
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: I said, nigga, we got to pay attention. They burn it.

460
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: I was just down. Something's going on. I said, who

461
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: did that to the other day? And it got real

462
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: weird and we almost both stopped. Oh there's a new show,

463
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: like I think it's literally called I'm a Killer and

464
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: it's it's so good. Yeah. So they got this old

465
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: bitch who killed her husband and blah blah blah blah blah. No,

466
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's not the one. They got this chick

467
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: who choked her man out in a Walmart pocket parking lot,

468
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 1: right and whatever was going on. So she's talking about

469
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: the death. We started sucking. Suddenly they go to his

470
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: parents in an interview and the parents have forgiven her

471
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: and visit her in um the jail and sing songs

472
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: with her and they say I love you. And that's

473
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: when I felt bad to admit that I heard it,

474
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: and I'm getting fun is jilling? Oh imagine your nigga

475
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 1: kills you. Your mom visited and jail She's like, no,

476
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: I forgive you, and then they sitting there singing. Jesus

477
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 1: absolutely not. I've watched you don't be a minute watch

478
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: drinking a juice in the hood while we're you know what. Yeah,

479
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: and I had to stop because I was like laughing,

480
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: like like, but see, they don't have to think about

481
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: is the dick. The dick can't be that good if

482
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: you're listening to what's going on on the TV is

483
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: really funny. Okay, but how many times have you seen it? Though, bitch,

484
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: don't matter how many times. So I want you to

485
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 1: give a sex tip, um, but I do want you

486
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 1: to give a sex tip in a way that gives

487
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 1: advice to our listeners. We know we're gonna talk about

488
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: you being a phone sex operator and how you talk. However,

489
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: this is something that I also have, UM need advice on.

490
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: So I would like you to give a tip to

491
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: our listeners on how they can get their partners to

492
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: be more vocal with them, if that's what they're looking for.

493
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: So okay, So, depending on your partner, yes, you have

494
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: more of a masculine partner or whatever. Um, you're gonna

495
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: have to be the more like, so you're gonna have

496
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: to go to them really sweet and just be like listen,

497
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: you know, it really turns me on when I know

498
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: that you are enjoying it when I see a tolls

499
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: curl when I see when I hear you moaning and

500
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: stuff like, you're gonna have to go that route. Um,

501
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: if you have a more signissive man, that's kind of easy. Easy,

502
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: like you know, um sexual or if you know versus

503
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: are or whatever. When I'm dealing with somadi or whatever,

504
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: I usually do a lot of like I talk a

505
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: lot of ship to me, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, right,

506
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,199
Speaker 1: so like they'd be sucking me or whatever. When I'm

507
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: asking like like this pussy, this pussy good or whatever,

508
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: I might choke them. I might slap them, you like,

509
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: And that's definitely not that's a more at that point though,

510
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: Is that not you dealing with a more submissive man?

511
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 1: You know what you're doing. If you're doing I've done

512
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: the choking and slap. No, I don't know, like no,

513
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: because I deal with a lot of more of the

514
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: dominant men, because that's just rough. Like a few times,

515
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to slap your ass too, so this

516
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: just sounds like domestic violence. Fucking okay, yeah, you know

517
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: you like I would have never slapped seven is like

518
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: any of the niggas that sucked me in, they're real dominant. Like, no,

519
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: I'll do the choking, but that's really because now I

520
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: feel like you're too deep in my goddamn pussy and

521
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: that's just me lifting you a little bit off of me.

522
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: But like the choking and slapping to a dominant that's interesting.

523
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: I did it. I did it this Valentine's Day. You

524
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: know that was deeper than my pussy, my pussy. You know,

525
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: we had a little drink and you know they I

526
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: was talking ship. We haven't sucked me and me in

527
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: the person and like maybe like two weeks. So it

528
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: was like, okay, motherfucker, like you've been going, I need

529
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: my my pussy fucked it. You know what I'm saying,

530
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: seriot periods you feel so New York. I mean my pussy.

531
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm like pussy and basically

532
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 1: he was sucking what so, so, what does Orlando girls

533
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: sound like? What the southfich sound like you bit, don't

534
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: do that as that that's exactly don't do that. I

535
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: can't ask I say that. I'd be like, let me

536
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: catch that nut. I can't catch the nut is so good?

537
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: So what do you say? Wheezy? I don't know because

538
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: you live in New York with you're not New York

539
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: with you for So what do you say? Are you

540
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: gonna come? What's the difference between that you're gonna ejoculate eculate?

541
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: I'd be saying, I want you to come from me.

542
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: I want you to like feel me up. I want

543
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: to feel it dripping out of me all day to see.

544
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: You'll be saying paragraphs the same way you text. I

545
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,479
Speaker 1: get it makes sense, but I'm just like, you know,

546
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: I said, you know, fill up my pussy, you know

547
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. How about the condom? Niggas's can say that,

548
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: you can still say it. Yeah, even if they know

549
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: there's a barrier, there still funny part of it. They'll say,

550
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 1: this bag feels so good. You know he's her imagination. Okay,

551
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: yeah he really your father. It's not your daddy. Okay, wait,

552
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: let me think what's the other thing. Oh, I've been

553
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: doing some nasty ship. I feel like I shouldn't give

554
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,479
Speaker 1: my tis. So if I'm like, if he could see me,

555
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: if you're not sucking me from the back, and he

556
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: like looks like he's about to come. Sometimes, Vincent, do

557
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: not take a picture of this. Sometimes take it back.

558
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,479
Speaker 1: I'll take like two fingers and I'll like open my

559
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: mouth and I'll be like, oh you do that, realm

560
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: smiths of Ship. Yeah, I'll be nasty. What is it? Call? Like?

561
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: It's real? Like, can I show you where I want

562
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: you to come? And he'd be like yeah, And I

563
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: mean that has has your question for you? Have you

564
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: your certificate? Other whomever? Have? They hit it from the

565
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: back and took their fingers and opened up your mouth,

566
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 1: And that's that realm. I ain't up front. I don't

567
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: know if he knew I was into it, but I

568
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: had to put his hands there and so at one

569
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: point he was putting my mind and I was like

570
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 1: there and I was like, I want them fingers like

571
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: in my mouth, to the point where I'm like a

572
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: little bit. I love that ship, but I'm also disgusting. See,

573
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: and I think that that's just me liking to be

574
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: in control even of my goddamn lungs. I don't like gagging. Control.

575
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: You can't of gagging, y you do you have TSS

576
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: or no, they ain't never been taken out, so I

577
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 1: think they're still there. They didn't disappear, okay. Um. So

578
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: if you when you put your finger in your mouth,

579
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: does it make a noise? For no? Um? I mean no? Yeah.

580
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: What also depends on the gonna gaging when I think

581
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: that was it, but that was not cly now hitting

582
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: something too. That's how Yeah, I don't know what. Yeah,

583
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: but you can control you can control that. I mean

584
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you know, semissus usually

585
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: have more of the control anyway in retrospect. But if

586
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: you take your tongue and you and you block it

587
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: with your your throat, there's a way of going about it.

588
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: So I gotta see, oh yeah, what you're taking? Are

589
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: you putting your tongue down or up? Put in my

590
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: tongue back? I put my tongue back because this is

591
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,719
Speaker 1: used for what this is. This is to control control

592
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: of the gag games. Are you giving a whole lot

593
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: of tips for the whole darky? Put your tongue back,

594
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: so hold hold back. Mess up. I ain't gonna lie

595
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: when I start dick Like guys, I like, like, while

596
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: it's even in my mouth, like when I stopt, I

597
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 1: was noticing it because this was a new dick in

598
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: my mouth. Well no, no, but like I don't know,

599
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,959
Speaker 1: maybe I was just more aware of what was going

600
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 1: on because this is a new dick and I haven't

601
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: had like like new dick doesn't really come like to

602
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: have like two new dicks already. Like but um, like,

603
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: because I've been you know, sucking the same person for

604
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: so long, I'm not like, you know, even the nigga

605
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: who had you know, Shirley come to Barbara or whatever. Um.

606
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: But anyways, I noticed like how much my mouth just

607
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: goes around and it actually helps me control how deep

608
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: he's going where my mo like, so yeah, I didn't

609
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: know about moving it like to the back for the gagging.

610
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: So it gives the you're not really gagging, see, but

611
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: it gives the allusion to them like that you are gagging. No,

612
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: I don't even want to do the illusion. I just

613
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: don't like going to think about to die. Okay, I

614
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't a gag. It makes me

615
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: feel incompetent, like I can't deep throat. No, I want

616
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: to die. Why sucking your dick? I want to die too.

617
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: If you can't, you fucking me while we're here. That is,

618
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: he doesn't want I don't want to die. On a second,

619
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: and actually, my heart said she recently said to me,

620
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: and she was like, bitch, I'm trying to die from

621
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: sex and I want him to speak at my funeral.

622
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: I was like, what a way to go. I imagine

623
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Stay up there, like so, y'all know where

624
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: it is wheezy, but I call it. You know, she

625
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: was cool as fun, We were wild, We always wow.

626
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: But on February you know what I'm saying, twenty nine,

627
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: it was a leap here. This bit decided to do

628
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: some while ship and leaped right onto my dick and

629
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: broke her motherfucking jaw and next thing you know, here

630
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: we are. And uh see, look it's so crazy because

631
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: I took it a whole different way. I'm thinking, like,

632
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Speaker 1: He had a heart attack. What I was having said

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Speaker 1: now with Tammy have gone to the funeral, and I think,

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Speaker 1: I don't know she would have spoke, but she was respectful.

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Speaker 1: She was respectful and got him dressed before the ambulance came.

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Speaker 1: that was respectful. I broke a whole. I broke a hole,

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Speaker 1: my whole fucking leg. When I was like, you broke

643
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644
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645
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646
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647
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Speaker 1: You know, let's not get into that because I've been

648
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649
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Speaker 1: the principal. So I'm working over this guy ship. But

650
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651
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652
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653
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Speaker 1: he was he was stuck at me from the bat

654
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656
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657
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658
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659
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663
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664
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Speaker 1: on with the show. Well, let's go ahead. We're gonna

732
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Speaker 1: get into the horrible decision for this week, and of

733
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: course it is phone sex work. UM. I guess before

734
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: we get into, um, how it's still popular. We have

735
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Speaker 1: had a ton of sex workers UM on the show.

736
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Speaker 1: I want to shout out once again to Mr Smartley

737
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: who came out to our New York show. Um, Sir

738
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: dash who came out Mistress Morley. I thought you said,

739
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Speaker 1: Mr Smartley, I said it no, Mr Smartley. Um. But

740
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Speaker 1: also Sir Dashington who's been um he did d C

741
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: in Philly, also Houston and Dallas. Um, but those are

742
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: kind of obvious to me. They have, you know, clients,

743
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,280
Speaker 1: they see people in person, They you know, act on things.

744
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: Mr Smartley doesn't even have sex, but she goes about

745
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Speaker 1: it in a different way. I wanted to ask you, um,

746
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: in dating and your family and your friends, do they

747
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: consider phone sex operator sex work? And do you I

748
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: can it is sex work. I do considerate sex work.

749
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Speaker 1: Can deny that? Uh? My guys or the girls that

750
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: I deal with, Um, I don't know if they really

751
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: considerate sex work, you know, I guess because I'm not

752
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 1: actually having sex with anybody right so, but it is

753
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:34,399
Speaker 1: a form of sex work. Interesting. Interesting, Okay, And so

754
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: I guess my question to you is like, what are

755
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: the platforms right now? Um, for someone who's into sex work?

756
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: Can we talk about that? Because, like I said, I

757
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: didn't know it was still a thing. Yes, it is

758
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: still a thing. So um, you can do I mainly

759
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: work off of night w work, Okay, so that's what

760
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: I work off night. Yes, that's what most of my

761
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Speaker 1: girls work off of. Your girls, do you, madam? She

762
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: doesn't like the term, but okay, I'm just I'm a

763
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 1: free spirit. Yeah. So that's where most of my girls,

764
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 1: um work off of. And you know I trained them

765
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 1: and everything else, but that's where they go. Okay, So

766
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: you know what we want to get into the tea.

767
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 1: How much are these calls? How long are you on

768
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: these calls? And how much can someone who may want

769
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: to do this on the side or anything like that,

770
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 1: how much could you can you really make from from

771
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 1: phone sex operating? Well, it all depends on you, Okay. So, um,

772
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: I have I have a couple of girls in Canada, right,

773
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 1: and I have girls here everywhere I forget it. So

774
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 1: I have I have like three or four girls that

775
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: already quit their job. They do this completely full time time.

776
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 1: I do it completely full time. I have a girl

777
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: who makes twenty thousand dollars a month. I have a

778
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: girl that makes ten tho dollars a month. I have

779
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: some of that makes five thousand a month. You know,

780
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: so it'll I'm about to get this right, I'm like,

781
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: you know, I got this ready, very interesting, and so

782
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: the guys that are calling, like, um, clearly because there

783
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: you guys are all, you know, based out of so

784
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: many different places and there's different time zones. Are there?

785
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: Do you have conversations about who these guys are, the clients,

786
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: what they do for a living, and also how long

787
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 1: are their calls? So my average calls usually last about

788
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: an hour. See that's a long time. Yeah, And I

789
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 1: charge petting on depending on what you want, what area

790
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Speaker 1: you want. I charged between two dollars and thirty five

791
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: cents a minute to to ninety nine a minute. Ah,

792
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: that's right, that's very expensive. How fast did they come?

793
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: Are they come? Yeah? Right? Right? So I'm saying like

794
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm figuring you have to stoll them. So, like, what's

795
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: the fastest, Like, just from talking to you, it's the

796
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: fastest I've had. You know, you have some pumps and

797
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: dumps we call them and then like ten fifteen minutes.

798
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: I don't have a call on less than twenty minutes

799
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 1: for the most part for me, you know, basic, let

800
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: me do this math a hundred and eighty dollars because

801
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: you're doing an hour, that's sixty minutes time says, what

802
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 1: are you doing. It's an hour times three dollars sixty. Well,

803
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: that's the that's the that's the shortest for me. That's

804
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Okay, so bad? And how many

805
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 1: calls are you taking a day? Um? For me, I don't.

806
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: I don't take that many calls at this point in time.

807
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: I'm taking maybe about five calls I have. I have

808
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: clients that have I have taken off and they have

809
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: my complete they can just cash up yours not likely information,

810
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: but you know they think so and UM, that's that's

811
00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: what you work too. So you know, I tell girls

812
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: like you know, make your own plans like this, you

813
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: want to text me all day? This is how much

814
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 1: it's gonna you know, text? Do they know what you

815
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: look like? No? Only only one knows what I actually

816
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: look like? Though, Wait, so you do all of this

817
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,399
Speaker 1: and it's literally your voice. So like we talked about,

818
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: we talked about the circle earlier, um, and I think

819
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: when Dustin came on, we made references to maybe what

820
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: someone blind, you know, would how you would describe yourself

821
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 1: to them. So do you ever get into where your

822
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 1: clients are asking you to describe maybe how how big

823
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 1: your breasts are or if you have hips in your thighs,

824
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: like depending on what character and playing really depending on

825
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: what character. I have about three characters. Oh, we gotta

826
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: get into the characters. So you have three characters, how

827
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: do you know which one you are? Give me Caucasian?

828
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: Are you ready Caucasian? They say good? So okay, So

829
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: my Caucasian girl name is Abby. She makes most of

830
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: them the money. Yeah, and I've been She's been with

831
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: me for two years now. Tell us about Abby and

832
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: Abbey's voice. Yes, you're talking to describe? Yeah, go ahead,

833
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: so just describe. I'm not even tell us about Abby,

834
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: just how she was where. She looks like? Heavy is

835
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: Italian from Long Island, right, she has black hair, she's tan,

836
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: hold on she has she has light green eyes. Abby.

837
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: Abby has a bunch of pictures that they can buy.

838
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: So i'll you be catfishes. I contract with certain models

839
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: to use their and come, oh wow, can we see Abby.

840
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: That's incredible, that is incredible. I do also want to

841
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: maybe hear what Abby sounds like, because things the Abby voice.

842
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: I was like, if you guys have it yet, we

843
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: are on YouTube, you guys can see. Of course, we

844
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: do want to focus on people of color in the

845
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: kink space, So we gotta I feel like he is

846
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: what any black really anybody? But like I can see

847
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: just a white guy being like, oh my god, that's

848
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: too much chips for me, Like you have oh wow? Okay,

849
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: So Dan calls you and you're abby? How do you

850
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: like it? Work? It works? It works. She looks regular too.

851
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: She don't look too over the top. So so so we

852
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: really has a lot of accents on the show. And

853
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever had another guest spring there

854
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: Sore from Long Island. Yeah, shut up. So, like, what

855
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: do you normally do on the weekends? I never see you? Well,

856
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: what I do on the weekends, I just relaxed by

857
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: the pool and um, just chill out in my bikini

858
00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: look sexy guys very like long eye like, and that's what.

859
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: Do you have any siblings? I have one sibling. This

860
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: really just sounds like the let me speak to your

861
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: many have you been doing this appy? I feel like,

862
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 1: you know, you're such a nice girl. Why do phone

863
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: sex work? Well? Guys, Um, they tend to like my

864
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: voice and they like to come, you know, and so

865
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: fuck it. I decided to just get some money off

866
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: of that fuck what is your other girl? Are you

867
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: do you portray yourself? Um doing phone sex operator work?

868
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: I okay, and that's just that's just you like what

869
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: we've been getting. And then what's your third girl? My

870
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: third girl is a eighteen year old college girl. Of

871
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 1: course I hold you when I was on like seeking arrangement,

872
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: And what's your price? Like where you got to go

873
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: and get dates and all that stuff for money? Like

874
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,439
Speaker 1: the best thing was to be in college like so

875
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: many men. Have you liked it? We haven't. Have you cuddled?

876
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Have I cuddled? That's a whole

877
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: another thing. What do you mean cuddle like cuddle come

878
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: through the phone? No whole? Wait wait what do you mean?

879
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: But you wait? What do you mean cuddle? It's cuddled

880
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 1: an app cuddle comfort, cuddle comfort, Yes, I have never

881
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: heard of that. And my goddam comfort. You make a profile,

882
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: you don't even have to put your picture there, and

883
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 1: then you go on there. You can become a professional

884
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 1: professional cuddler or you can do not professional cutter. I say, dude,

885
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: not professional cuddler. And then the guys will email you.

886
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: There you go, there you go, the guys get a

887
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: cuddle buddy, today, I charged seventy five dollars an hour.

888
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: Minimum is two hours. I don't know if I could

889
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 1: do that. I can't know. Wait, so but cuddling ain't

890
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: that we kissing too? Isn't it rubbing on your butt

891
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: or your breast? Because this is how here's the thing.

892
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: It all depends on you and how you want to

893
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: look at the like. So it's like just you. Some

894
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: people really just want to sit down and talk. This

895
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: is me and fellas asked you from what I'm sure? Yeah, yeah,

896
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: I mean I haven't done it like so many times,

897
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: but I know people who you know, do it for

898
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 1: they like, well, this is definitely prime time too, because

899
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,240
Speaker 1: the wintertime is when people want to be on the couple.

900
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't do it, you know, I do it here

901
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: and there. I thought we than I knew of all

902
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:22,800
Speaker 1: these we stay learning ship. I'm getting on that right now.

903
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: How does it work? Is it really free? Okay? So

904
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: honest you've been on seeking arranging. These guys are don't

905
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: go on. These guys are way more respectful. Really. Yes,

906
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: the cuddlers, yes that night, yeah, because like the dog as,

907
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 1: niggas don't be wanting the cuddle. They don't even want

908
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: they just let me like say on the side of

909
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: the bed from the cuddle app what what you mean? See?

910
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: But what's craziest So to me this is this is

911
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 1: where um even at one point like what I was

912
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 1: doing the seeking arrangement or like also which is why

913
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: I love like not that I love my lovers, but

914
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: my like my hose that I have, like I enjoy

915
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: being around them. And so a lot of my friends

916
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: that are escorts and going to sex work and like

917
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: we'll leave the club with guys I'm very big on

918
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: looks like I'm so shallow, Like so I'm not just

919
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: gonna be laid up with someone who aesthetically is not

920
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: pleasing to me. This to me, cuddling and intimacy with

921
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: someone you're not sexually attracted to, to me, this would

922
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: be harder than than having sex with someone who I

923
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: was actually just gonna say, I think this should be

924
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: harder because I think being kind to somebody isn't hard

925
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: like that, but like this is I would have to

926
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: do it is it is very intimate act more. Yeah

927
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: you gotta be a full on actor. Yeah you don't

928
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: have to, but you know I'm an actor, so you are, girl,

929
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: you've done it? What do you cuddle? And do you

930
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: watch TV? You watch TV? They talk about their day,

931
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: they talk about what's going on, you know, at work

932
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: and whatever. The case is, nothing, nothing crazy. What's some

933
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 1: what's some max hours? Like you've ever done? I have

934
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: minimum of two hours that I two hours pro. But

935
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: what's the most you've done. I've only done three hours.

936
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: They're like a technique to cuddling. There is. There has

937
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: a whole book about it, there is. So they're spooning

938
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,959
Speaker 1: like I know, like when I watch movies on my couch,

939
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: I like to put my leg over um. You can

940
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,359
Speaker 1: put the one leg like over their body and I'll

941
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 1: be spooning big old like big guys. So like you

942
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: read the book. No, not that I've read the book,

943
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 1: but I'm just saying that the different like positions of cuddling.

944
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: There's so many different positions. I've done it all of

945
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: like three times. It's good money in between time when

946
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: you want something like what the kind of cuddle position

947
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:48,879
Speaker 1: is my favorite? I like putting my arm over them.

948
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: I do like only like when watching TV, Like I

949
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: like to be like my head in the lap. So

950
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: I've been realizing, like I cannot sleep with my head

951
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: on a dude's chest my neck it because I know

952
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: he likes it, so like he'll be like trying to

953
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: do that with me, and I'd be like, oh, spoony

954
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: because I can't. And also, like my breath it gets

955
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: really bad in the morning, I think, And it's because

956
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: I drink a lot at that sounds really bad, but

957
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: I do. I'll be drinking and that ship be stinking

958
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: and I get drunk if you don't forget to brush

959
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: your teeth, to rush your teeth. Like so I feel

960
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: like if you're cuddling face to face, it's just like, wow,

961
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: you're a beautiful when you went to sleep, and now

962
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 1: like I don't know, but it's whine, Like I don't

963
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: be wanting to kiss when I wake up with a guy.

964
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: I even don't even like sucking dick in the morning

965
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 1: because I have to smell my own morning breath on

966
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: your goddamn dick, like I hate. I don't want to

967
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: do it with guys over the phone the whole. How So,

968
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,439
Speaker 1: how do you cuddle with guys over the phone? Talk

969
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: to us? Say? You literally just take the throw and

970
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: you put it on, speaking on it and you just

971
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: lay down and just talk. And they know sometimes that

972
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: the wait, wait, wait, you just we watched movies. I

973
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,400
Speaker 1: watched the whole presidential debate when it was between Hillary

974
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: and Trump with the guy who are you? When you

975
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: watched it, I was abby, I can't believe it, that bitch.

976
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 1: How So the whole presidential debate, the phone was just

977
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 1: on speaker and y'all like watching he was he was

978
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 1: going for Hillary. Oh that's a shocker. It definitely sounds

979
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 1: like a Trump thing to do. That incredible Trump guy

980
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to pay a sex worker if you think

981
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: there's a sex work, do you? Yeah? Sex work? Yeah, yeah,

982
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: it's definitely sex work. So who's your okay? Got appy?

983
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of my clients are doctors, lawyers,

984
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: that's just what they I think that that's funny. Like

985
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 1: we we've talked about this a lot, specifically with our show.

986
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: I remember um our video guy in Detroit, like, you know,

987
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: he knew, he knew the type of show we had,

988
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: and he went out and was like everyone looks so regular.

989
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: And you know, you talk about the kink space and

990
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: I think you expect everyone to be leather and bondage

991
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: with tattoos or I don't know what they expect like

992
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: people into the King space to look like. But he's

993
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: just like they look like regular people. But even our audience,

994
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: we have doctors, lawyers like all of you know, bankers

995
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: in our audience, and I love it. It's my students.

996
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,760
Speaker 1: I have social workers, I have psychologists, I have like

997
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: this is my students that would make sense. Regular teachers

998
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: like five years you know four that teach grade school.

999
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: Do they charge like a fee like task grab it?

1000
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: Like did they take up cut out? Oh? Yeah, the

1001
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: app that you're on. What is the person they take

1002
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: a small cut something like that, But it's it's not

1003
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: that's not a very small cut. What is that? I

1004
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:45,359
Speaker 1: don't even think patron journal. It's the connection. It's the

1005
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: connection fees that you you know that would make connection

1006
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 1: fees and then and then then their thing. But the

1007
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 1: whole goal is is to get them off of that

1008
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: of the off of the get you a text now

1009
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: or something like that. Right, and then you have cash

1010
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,879
Speaker 1: app thing, you have PayPal, you have these different things

1011
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: that you can have them. You know, I'm reading on

1012
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:06,760
Speaker 1: this website and the way they sell it is really great.

1013
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: It literally says how it works a friend, Do you

1014
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: know a friend who would make a great cuddle putty, um,

1015
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 1: the idea. It makes sense to have friends you cuddle with,

1016
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: but you struggle to find the courage asks to understand

1017
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: like this is like a real fucking thing, and it's

1018
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: a great idea because, to be honest with you, I

1019
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: haven't had many instances in my life where I wanted

1020
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 1: to cuddle with someone that I had a platonic relationship

1021
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: with and and I think I realized I do it

1022
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: with my gay male friends. And I think that I

1023
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: don't do it with home girls or dudes that are

1024
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: I'm just chill with because they know I like. My

1025
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 1: home girls know that I pitches. My homeboys know my niggas.

1026
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: But my gay male friends are like yeah, fun. So

1027
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: I think that's why I actually cuddle with my friends,

1028
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 1: and even the ones that I haven't fucked, I mean, like,

1029
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: come here, your on. I love just getting on on

1030
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:00,919
Speaker 1: my friends and being in the same bed. Um. But yeah,

1031
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm different though with with guys. Depending on the guy,

1032
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: I won't cuddle with everyone. Yeah, I'm just real picky

1033
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: with that. But yeah I'll cuddle with my home girls.

1034
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: This is just like so interesting to me because like

1035
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: I love Well, what's crazy to me is interesting that

1036
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: you can cuddle with home girls And you were talking

1037
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: about difficulty with intimacy, but with men, it's like, yeah,

1038
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: I know something right up here. I've been trying to

1039
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 1: figure it out too, Like, but fellow Bay has been

1040
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: coming over a lot lately, Um since he fucking came

1041
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: to the live show. Um, he like wants a day

1042
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: out of the week and everything already. I'm like, well,

1043
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: they're calmed down. Is that like a daddy thing what?

1044
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,399
Speaker 1: Or is that a control thing? What? What? Like? Like

1045
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: when you've got to block she enjoys cuddling, But there's

1046
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 1: a certain intimacy that you can't necessarily have with men,

1047
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: like I wonder, I mean what it depends the man.

1048
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: And so I've been very open on here too, like

1049
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm not necessarily going to cuddle with someone as a wife.

1050
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: That's not where our intimacy goes. I don't do those

1051
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: intimate things with with my hose on that level. But

1052
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 1: like Canadian Bay or like I'll say, Fella Bay too,

1053
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: those were guys that at one point I wanted to

1054
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: be with or saw myself being with even though fellam babe,

1055
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: just because especially Chipotle wouldn't hire him. I was like, Okay,

1056
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be with you, but like there are

1057
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 1: guys that I enjoy being around. So like me and

1058
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: him like exchanged. If he was working at you got

1059
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: them pretty odd goal to you? Did he wait? Did

1060
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: he have his gold teeth in at the show? I

1061
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: just remember, okay, remember a photo you should be yeah, yeah, yeah,

1062
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: but I'm like that what you're doing over here? And

1063
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: must well? Now he actually he gets off parole in March,

1064
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,919
Speaker 1: so like we've been like pre celebrating him, like ni,

1065
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: you better not get in trouble, no game. When he

1066
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: first came home, uh, he was like he was ten

1067
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 1: months he was like ten months out. Okay, yeah, yeah,

1068
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: sounds really like Rob. But I'd be telling him and like, man,

1069
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: because you want a podcast talking about my dick, little,

1070
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna show you what his dick do. And

1071
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I didn't say it was little, it's just

1072
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: not as big. But it's good though, wife in big

1073
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: dick is not where it's at. I wiped the big

1074
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: dick nigger and it was a Latino and it was

1075
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: hifters organ shift. Don't get me wrong. It's an exciting dick.

1076
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: It's an exciting fun dick. Shout out to hospital dick.

1077
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: Fun dick. But like and what and and just someone

1078
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 1: who's so in tune with his emotions. He was such

1079
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: a great person. I was like, how could the dick

1080
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: be attached to this person? How are you so great?

1081
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: And your dick is so big? Like you shouldn't be

1082
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: ship Yeah, yeah, you know, I say, I say, you

1083
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 1: have a dick down to your elbow, and you really

1084
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: are just intuitive intellectual, like you shouldn't be a good person. Honestly,

1085
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,600
Speaker 1: I do not expect a dick like that to come

1086
00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: in a good package, and when it does, something else

1087
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: has to be Like I don't believe it. That's my

1088
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: childhood friend. And his dick was like I you were like, damn,

1089
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: we was friends all this time, walking around with I

1090
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: used to like beat him up when we were like

1091
00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: nine and ten, and then you know, as we got older,

1092
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 1: the next thing, you know, I didn't I know his

1093
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: dick was big. I didn't see it when you know,

1094
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: first like winning me, he put a planet one with

1095
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 1: the thing. Then he got up and I'm realized that

1096
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: his Dick is like not hard on his thigh. I said,

1097
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 1: what kind of ship? Right, It's just and I kept

1098
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 1: working because it was great. I kept it and then

1099
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 1: he was like, what do you think about? No, no, no, no,

1100
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: I said, fucking not food. It's so weird. I like

1101
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: bodies like like, and I think that's why I like,

1102
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: I know I'm more straight than I guess as far

1103
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 1: as the Kenzie scale goes, like with men all literally

1104
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: like I do this thing where I'm like, can you

1105
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 1: just walk? Especially after we're done sucking and they're just

1106
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:54,479
Speaker 1: walking naked. I just like to look at them walk

1107
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: naked like I'd like I'd be like, okay, go back

1108
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: to the window and then go back to the bathroom.

1109
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: Let just see you walk, please not just be like god,

1110
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: you know, it's crazy with body types. I don't really

1111
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:11,000
Speaker 1: have a standard for women, but for men, I like

1112
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 1: when they're like cut up as but for chicks like

1113
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to give a fuck, like like I

1114
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: like a little thick, like a little thing, and they

1115
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: could be totally thin, like a little thick like that. Guys,

1116
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: really you exist, so I know, like so like so

1117
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: like my friends, I wouldn't say like I guess I

1118
01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: want to know the difference in we haven't had this

1119
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: conversation yet because we'll be trying to stare clear of

1120
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 1: like body shaming for men. But my friends don't like

1121
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: the athletic build of guys that I like. They like,

1122
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: how do you cut up with a six pack? Bitch?

1123
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: How do you do this? They like to get money gut.

1124
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: I'll say so more of like the Gucci man. Look

1125
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: before Gucci got out of jail, cross for whatever he got.

1126
01:00:57,200 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: To me, Recross is like a big guy. He's got

1127
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 1: to get money, gut guy who Gucci before he just

1128
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: had the belly like like like a money bag yo.

1129
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 1: Type of right, they look like they got a little bit.

1130
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: There's a there's a way Like when I see like

1131
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: a big guy, I look at the stomach and how

1132
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: the stomach sits, and if the stomach is see that.

1133
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: This is what my friends like, bro to get money good,

1134
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: that's the bob bro to get money, gut dog. That's

1135
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: what it is. You like that you like big guys, though,

1136
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: I like I like Rick Ross when he was so

1137
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: you like Ruben Stutter, Yes, I'll take ham okay, Biggie

1138
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: when he was here, Why do fat nigs always get love?

1139
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: Are you looking up Belly? Come on, come on at it?

1140
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, look up? Look up Rick Ross when he

1141
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 1: was belly. Okay, so see he's a little like money

1142
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 1: had a more before there it goes so that like yeah, okay,

1143
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: and so what do you get out of out of that?

1144
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: So many reasons why I like the guys like, you know,

1145
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 1: one when when you it's just I feel like it's

1146
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 1: more passionate. Maybe really because their body is tight and

1147
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: maybe it's warmer. I don't know what it is. You

1148
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, big niggas past that is very interesting.

1149
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: And I think that like when I be in like

1150
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,479
Speaker 1: missionary position, I don't got to like hold my legs

1151
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: out because it's just out anyway. It's like, it's just

1152
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: it's just so now this is the thing. It's just

1153
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 1: and I'm never hungry. So why I know you were

1154
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,800
Speaker 1: gonna say that, saying what you're trying to get a nigga,

1155
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: You almost just thinking about the ship. You're never the

1156
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: fat dude, I'm trying to think. But even but even

1157
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 1: the football guys, they were running backs or or wide

1158
01:02:55,600 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: receivers like the niggas couldn't played basketball if they wanted.

1159
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: Let me tell you the true story. Belly, I love

1160
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: rubbing on it everything, oh, rubbing on the belly. And

1161
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: then Mandy was just saying when we had our fat

1162
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 1: Phobo episode, she was like, I do not like when

1163
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 1: niggas touched my stomach. No, I hate it. But even

1164
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: like so, but even like the big like the biggest

1165
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: guy that I have, he's like solid. But even we

1166
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: were friends for Matt long before we fucked. And then

1167
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 1: he even made a comment he was like, you only

1168
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 1: fun with me because I lost sway hut because he

1169
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 1: ended up losing like sixty back. And I was like, well,

1170
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 1: you look great now, like you know, I have not.

1171
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: So I just had to pull up my list, um,

1172
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 1: which by the way, I'm sitting on the couch and

1173
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: really making jokes. And he's like, you really be acting

1174
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:41,800
Speaker 1: like he was a whole. How many niggs you fucked?

1175
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, don't ask me that, and he

1176
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:44,920
Speaker 1: was like, all right, don't tell me, but did be

1177
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: acting like he was a whole. And I was like, actually,

1178
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: let me show you my list, and he's no bullshit

1179
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 1: at the end of my list, and he was like

1180
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: that don't look like that. It's that bad. I was like,

1181
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 1: it's not. It's one, two three. That's how I got it,

1182
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:02,959
Speaker 1: he said. He like, but I had to just click

1183
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 1: on my fucking list to see if I've ever sucked

1184
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: a fat nigga, and from the looks of it, I'm

1185
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: gonna be honest with you. Um Troy Firefighter, Miami one Night,

1186
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: Australian guy from Tinder on fifty Street. Don't remember them? Um, well,

1187
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: I remember Miami one night because I was in the

1188
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: room with you. I don't remember. I had to bring

1189
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: it up. She forgot it. I was like, bitch, remember

1190
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: the nigga because I said because we had an episode.

1191
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 1: I was being very serious when I said it. I

1192
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I ever had one nice

1193
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: day and she was like, yes, you did. I was

1194
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 1: right there in the room. This is Do you want

1195
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: to know how long ago was? This was? We was

1196
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 1: leaving Dream Nightclub. We was partying to what the shot

1197
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: boys party like a rock star. That's when that song

1198
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: came out. We all we both had our fake I

1199
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 1: d s. Yeah, we had our fake I d s

1200
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: in Miami Memorial Day weekend and yeah, I think we

1201
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: were like what's sixteen? Yeah, yeah, like sixteen. But I

1202
01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 1: want to get into the home oil before we get

1203
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: out of here. And if you got to have any

1204
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 1: more questions, we're gonna let Tay drop all of her

1205
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: instas um our website so that if you guys want

1206
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 1: to learn how to do it, she gives courses. Um,

1207
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:11,439
Speaker 1: but let's get into um our homemail. It actually comes

1208
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 1: from one of our patrons. She said. First of all,

1209
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: I motherfucking love you guys. Y'all are my friends. But

1210
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: y'all I don't. Oh, but y'all don't know me. Anyways,

1211
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,919
Speaker 1: I need some advice or just need some motherfuck event

1212
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,840
Speaker 1: because I am tired. My My birthday was February and

1213
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: the man that I'm with didn't give me ship for

1214
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. Um. I told him how I felt about it,

1215
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: and he just responded with well, for Valentine's I knew

1216
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: we were going out, so I didn't have time to

1217
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: buy nothing. I knew I was going to pay for

1218
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: the drinks. Dog he bought me two drinks and I

1219
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: paid for a whole bottle at the club. Anyways, he said,

1220
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: I am materialistic and whatnot. First of all, I deserved

1221
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,560
Speaker 1: the motherfucking world because I gave him a daughter. This

1222
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: is also your baby daddy year bugging um. Not only, oh,

1223
01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: not only did I not get shipped for my birthday

1224
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 1: or Valentine and say, but we don't have sex? Last

1225
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: time we fund was on Christmas. I must say I

1226
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 1: am the one that don't want to have sex. But

1227
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: still he just does not turn me on anymore. Bitch,

1228
01:06:10,760 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 1: I am just motherfucker's tired of this whole situation. He

1229
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: expects me to go fifty fifty on bills when he

1230
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: gets paid double of what I get paid. Our daughter

1231
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 1: is two years old, and I feel trapped, no sex, stressed,

1232
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: this fuck. He can't even give me financial stability. Send help.

1233
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: I hate it here? Can I be honest with you?

1234
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: I'm just her um. Message was the reason for my

1235
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: rent today on Instagram, and it was no shade to

1236
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: this girl. It's just like I have fucking been there,

1237
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: and obviously nothing is you know serious, is uh having

1238
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: a kid with somebody? But I've been in a rut

1239
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: with a naked that I was just like, oh am,

1240
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: I gonna just meet someone off. I'll just say I

1241
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 1: could get better. Like I have fucking been there, and

1242
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, bitch, as someone who's been there, as

1243
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: someone who's been in situation ships, as someone who has

1244
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: been gaslighted by niggas, just leave now, because if you

1245
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: leave in six months, or leave in six years, or

1246
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 1: you leave in one year, it's going to fucking end.

1247
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: And I hate to say it like that, but the

1248
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: way that you're talking for someone not to even be

1249
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 1: considerate enough to the person they live with to get

1250
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: a gift. I mean, I lived with a guy for

1251
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 1: years and on Valentine's Day, shout out to Enoch even

1252
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 1: he got me something, um, just just because it brought

1253
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: home something small, and it's almost like the courtesy of it.

1254
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: When I lived with a woman, um, we got each

1255
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:26,479
Speaker 1: other just little candies and stuff and sent a text

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01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:31,400
Speaker 1: like it's just just just being there. It's fucking disgusting.

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01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: Like I really hate that men can be that comfortable

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01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: that they will treat poorly. And if you guys think

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01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, I totally understand. Like even Monnega and he

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01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 1: did great on Valentine's Day, but he was like, I've

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01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: never really done this. I've never done ship like this.

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01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 1: There's some hallmark ship, but if you like it. I

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01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 1: love it. That's all you needed to say. You know

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01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 1: it made me happy. But if it was a Valentine's Day,

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01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: you had a fucking birthday. And it's pretty fucking standard

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01:07:58,320 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 1: to at least do a little bit of something, then

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01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: to even use the excuse to say I paid for

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01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:04,040
Speaker 1: the drinks, and then you buy a bottle when he

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01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: makes double what you make. I don't know how many

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01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 1: children or have he has, or what other bills he has.

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01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to speak to that man's finances, but

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01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 1: and I hate to read him like this, but why

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01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 1: are you even there? Like? The only thing that I

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01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: will say as if you feel like you need him

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01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: to catapult your money in some way because you may

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01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 1: not be able to provide for yourself and your kid

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01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: on your own, that's totally understandable. But then if that

1278
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 1: is the case, you wouldn't have been writing and complaining

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01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 1: about your relationship with this person. You would have looked

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01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 1: at it like it was a money decision. And because

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01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: I don't think you are, I think you're just really stuck.

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01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 1: And there's nothing that we could tell you for advice

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01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 1: to give, because you already gave it to him. But

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01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 1: I would say for anybody dating UM or in a

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01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: relationship UM, or someone is doing something that you don't like,

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01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,760
Speaker 1: I will say men will do what they think that

1287
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:52,160
Speaker 1: they're they're gonna get away with and what they're allowed

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01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:53,800
Speaker 1: to do. They can only do what you allow them

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01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 1: to do. So UM, reading this, I would say, you

1290
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 1: definitely were venting to us um it, I would say,

1291
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 1: to make sure your finances are are in order. I'm

1292
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 1: not sure what double your money is, but if you

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01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: can afford to get you and your child, UM, you know,

1294
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:11,560
Speaker 1: into something else, or if you need a roommate with

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01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 1: one of your friends or something like that, I think

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01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:16,080
Speaker 1: that it's better in the long run to just get

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01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: out of anything toxic UM. I've noticed and this is

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01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: just even a conversation on Patreon. I opened up about UM.

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01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 1: ME and Lawyer Bay recently going out to dinner and

1300
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 1: ME like telling him, how listen, I don't even want

1301
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,599
Speaker 1: you anymore, but there's a certain space that I still

1302
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 1: want you because I care about you. And I told him,

1303
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:37,400
Speaker 1: I said, do you know how draining it had gotten

1304
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 1: at one point that I couldn't even feel like I

1305
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:41,640
Speaker 1: could tell you the good things going on in my

1306
01:09:41,760 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 1: life because everything was just always so down for you.

1307
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 1: And so when you have someone who's toxic or you

1308
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: feel this strongly in a negative way about them, it

1309
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:55,240
Speaker 1: becomes so draining to your overall health in your overall

1310
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:59,040
Speaker 1: life to where it will start to bring you down. Um.

1311
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, I would say focus on yourself on that

1312
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: for sure. I think like, um, A lot of times,

1313
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:05,600
Speaker 1: a lot of women get wrapped up because that's my

1314
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: baby daddy whatever. I think. She might not and I

1315
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 1: don't know her. Um, she might not want to leave,

1316
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: she might have the finances, but a lot of times

1317
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:16,600
Speaker 1: they want some I want to show that we have

1318
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: a happy home so that my child, uh doesn't have

1319
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:23,679
Speaker 1: a broken home. And she just you know, she just said,

1320
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,599
Speaker 1: we don't have sex. We haven't had sex since Christmas.

1321
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:28,800
Speaker 1: You know, that's a whole that's the whole thing in

1322
01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:31,759
Speaker 1: itself that you guys are not having not having sex,

1323
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So there's a lot of

1324
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: situations going on there. I would have left off the

1325
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 1: fact because I'm not paying any bills if I live

1326
01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: with a man that but I also feel like I can't.

1327
01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: I don't know that that's how I agree, But I

1328
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,040
Speaker 1: also know that I'm working with a different conic, and

1329
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,840
Speaker 1: so I feel like I used to always say that,

1330
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: but I realized how demini it might be to somebody else.

1331
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: And I don't know what their financial situation is, but

1332
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:02,560
Speaker 1: it's just like you already have a kid with it,

1333
01:11:02,640 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 1: Like what is she supposed to do? They clearly agreed

1334
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 1: on that together, and that's what she decided on. I

1335
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 1: think we're talking about We're talking to three different women

1336
01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 1: in the room, you know what I'm saying. Like, for example,

1337
01:11:13,520 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: I've said that I would never um split bills with

1338
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: a nigger, which I haven't when I lived with one

1339
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: and wouldn't do. But I'm also the girl that loves

1340
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: to pick up checks for dinners and drinks and ship

1341
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 1: like that, where Mandia said no. So everybody has their

1342
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 1: little thing, and I think that if that's what makes

1343
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 1: her comfortable, and maybe they look at it as a

1344
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:33,880
Speaker 1: team thing, a pool of money. I don't know she

1345
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 1: doesn't look at it as a as a team thing,

1346
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 1: because she says, he's saying that I have to pay,

1347
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:41,840
Speaker 1: she's complaining about she's complaining about doesn't or maybe it

1348
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: needs to be, you know, based on their what they're

1349
01:11:45,360 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: making you know. Um, but Tay, I want to say

1350
01:11:49,320 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming and joining us. Yeah, no,

1351
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:56,479
Speaker 1: I loved. We actually did a whole bunch of sex

1352
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 1: talk to which I feel like people maybe you know,

1353
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:00,680
Speaker 1: be missing a little bit it. So we got real

1354
01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 1: runchy this episode. Before we get out of here, though,

1355
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: let our listeners know where they can find you on

1356
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: socials and also your website, which also is in the

1357
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 1: bio of your instagram. So my Instagram is Fairy Home

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01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:16,720
Speaker 1: Mother one and my website is Whole Universe ho you

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01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: dot org and it's called university. It is whole University.

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01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 1: That's a whole university. Awesome. And and again, um, what

1361
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: do you offer on how university? So I teach classes

1362
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:33,439
Speaker 1: on how to maneuver through um night flirt Um. I

1363
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: also get you the models that you are going to

1364
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:39,760
Speaker 1: play a match you with the voice, get your bio.

1365
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,800
Speaker 1: I get you completely set up. It's a one, two

1366
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 1: or three thing like get you making money, and you're

1367
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,720
Speaker 1: get inside of my exclusive group on Facebook where other

1368
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 1: girls are making money too awesome. I like that, And

1369
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: so we're gonna put her information in the description of

1370
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 1: this bio. I'm sorry not the bo the description of

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01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: this episode. Um, and again we're looking forward to seeing

1372
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 1: you guys in Charlotte in Orlando this week. We're gonna

1373
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 1: turn up. Weey got us gonna be ratchet, I guess.

1374
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 1: So let me go ahead and put my sneakers on

1375
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:08,800
Speaker 1: for Orlando. We could we jog in what we're doing.

1376
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: My mom, by the way, she was like, so what

1377
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 1: am I gonna be wearing. I'm thinking sequin pants? I

1378
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 1: said the shows at three? Thanks mom? Right, No, he's

1379
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:19,680
Speaker 1: not my mama. I don't know why my mom made

1380
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 1: she She's like, You're gonna put me at the table right.

1381
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, Mom, you don't have to. Just what

1382
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 1: did you think? Yes, Mom, Jesus Christ. Um, and my

1383
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 1: cousin's coming. So I'm excited that we get to finally, UM,

1384
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: go back to our hometown. My my my former um,

1385
01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 1: like one of my best friends growing up in middle

1386
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:37,640
Speaker 1: school and also my teammate. We played a U in

1387
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: the mills and basketball four years together. Um. She's like,

1388
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: I got my ticket to you on the seventh and

1389
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:47,679
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, neighbors, Um, I used to West Orlando.

1390
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 1: To Lando's listeners, there's a girl that I checked out

1391
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 1: on the elevator all the time, and I was always like,

1392
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 1: you look at cute today, Da da da, And so

1393
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: she was writing me in d m s and then

1394
01:13:57,479 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 1: finally I saw the last DM. She was like, I

1395
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: know you won't hit me back, but you still want

1396
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: to suck me all the time. Now, I guess you

1397
01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:04,560
Speaker 1: lit so you don't, but anyway, I'll be there on

1398
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,240
Speaker 1: this stuff. I was like, wow, that is crazy. None

1399
01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 1: of my old holes from Orlando, but the show, because

1400
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:12,040
Speaker 1: I don't, like, do you think it's from high school?

1401
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:13,800
Speaker 1: Still be trying to funk. I'm like, I know you're

1402
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: there high school, but I'm like no. He was like, um,

1403
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:20,439
Speaker 1: you know, I guess I gotta see your mom. I

1404
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm not. No, I'll tell y'all right now,

1405
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:29,000
Speaker 1: y'all see an It looks like he sells cocaine. He

1406
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: with me and he with Wheezy. If you see a

1407
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 1: guy who looks like he may or may not have

1408
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: played ball overseas, he's probably let me stop. Anyway, guys, again,

1409
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: we got bonus episodes. Let us fun over on Patreon.

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Speaker 1: There's over sixty over there, So if you haven't yet

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Speaker 1: become a patron. Um, we've been definitely like talking posting

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Speaker 1: more Wheezy, don't set up a group chat for the

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Speaker 1: top tier. And again, we've been meeting all of y'all

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Speaker 1: at the live shows. They're all linking up in the cities.

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Speaker 1: So if you feel like you can only go to

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Speaker 1: one of our live shows by your self, go ahead

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Speaker 1: and become a patron because you can link with our

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Speaker 1: Decisions Now and get your tickets. We come into all

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Speaker 1: y'all motherfucker hous, so get your tickets now. This has

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Speaker 1: been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions by This girl

1425
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 1: wrote me, and she is a top tier patron, which

1426
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:30,680
Speaker 1: is really what made me right her back, and she

1427
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: also wrote a very thought out sorry I kept her

1428
01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 1: very well thought out letter. She is referring to episode

1429
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 1: fifty six Valentines or Gallantine's Um. I'll play the clip

1430
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 1: for you guys, So here's what she says. Hello, Wheezy,

1431
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: I know this may not get seen, but this has

1432
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 1: been bothering me for quite some time. I understand the

1433
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 1: motive behind your show's outline is for the awareness in

1434
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 1: a black community, but I do get offended that I've

1435
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,240
Speaker 1: paid fifteen dollars a month to hear about how horrible

1436
01:15:57,280 --> 01:16:00,840
Speaker 1: decisions is made for black women. One as a mixed

1437
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: ethnic Latino relates to your show. I have always been

1438
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:09,560
Speaker 1: able to sideswipe the comments about Latino women, which is

1439
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: crazy because I don't really feel like we'll be talking

1440
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 1: to it all right. I do appreciate the love for

1441
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 1: afric Latino from Latinos from all areas and the spectrum

1442
01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 1: can relate to you. I don't understand how you could

1443
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 1: always just make horrible decisions a black thing when your

1444
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: audience has become so broad, especially when no matter what

1445
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: type of Latino we maybe we're still minorities. But hold okay,

1446
01:16:41,520 --> 01:16:43,960
Speaker 1: sorry guys in my hotel room and trying to fucking

1447
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:45,800
Speaker 1: do this Patreon episode with Eddie because you guys love

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01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: Eddie and also trying to give my money at the

1449
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: same time. Okay, especially when no matter what type of

1450
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,879
Speaker 1: Latino we maybe we are still minorities. Yes, our struggles

1451
01:16:53,920 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 1: are not the same, but it's a struggle we deal

1452
01:16:55,360 --> 01:16:58,519
Speaker 1: with on a regular Black women have overcame slavery, prejudice, segregation,

1453
01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 1: and fixation for years, but Latin women have as well.

1454
01:17:01,640 --> 01:17:03,639
Speaker 1: A lot of our mothers and fathers left their countries

1455
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 1: with no spability or strength education. I don't say we

1456
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 1: had it bad, but we had similar struggles. And I

1457
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:10,080
Speaker 1: feel like the show relates to women women who don't

1458
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: have a comfort space to speak on this stuff, because

1459
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:15,120
Speaker 1: how do I ask my Mexican grandmother about sucking dick.

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01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 1: I can't because it's one out of because one it's

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01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,320
Speaker 1: out of place, and two it's taboo and a lot

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01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,400
Speaker 1: of cultures and societies. And I just hope this gets

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01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:24,560
Speaker 1: comes across when it's bothers them that I've invested in

1464
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:27,680
Speaker 1: you guys, and I'm placed in a category where it

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01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: doesn't feel relatable. Um, it also bothered me in another

1466
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 1: patron who's Latino. Please be aware of our love and support.

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01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 1: In the clip, Mandy and I are talking about people

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01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: recognizing us in public, and I said, sometimes when I'm out,

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01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 1: black people look at me, and I wonder if it's

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01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:44,519
Speaker 1: a black thing, like, oh, I see you or if

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01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 1: it's because this podcast, And then I said, oh, on

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01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:50,479
Speaker 1: the cruise, come in. It's not a black thing. It's

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01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 1: a uh of horrible decisions thing. So she said it

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01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: bothered her that I said horrible Decisions was a black thing,

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01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 1: and I wrote back this, I once you tell me

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01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:06,280
Speaker 1: if it was hard as a Latin man. I'm sorry,

1477
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 1: but I can't apologize for this. Our show is a

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01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 1: black thing. Just because you're welcomed in this space doesn't

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01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 1: mean it's not a black thing anymore. I celebrate Latina's

1480
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:16,719
Speaker 1: love the culture, but I think it's unfair to pick apart,

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01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: especially when there aren't many spaces that celebrate black people

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01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:24,040
Speaker 1: or Latinos. But remember, we are black girls. I don't

1483
01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 1: relate to you in the story of you and your

1484
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: Mexican grandmother, but I relate to it with my black grandmother.

1485
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:33,839
Speaker 1: There's no um excluding you, but you've got to recognize

1486
01:18:33,880 --> 01:18:36,280
Speaker 1: how your feelings are problematic. I literally mentioned on the

1487
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:38,560
Speaker 1: Sex Injuries episode that Latina should be included in the

1488
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:41,599
Speaker 1: conversation with high mortality rates too. It's not a Latina show,

1489
01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 1: but I can't apologize that You've got offended for me

1490
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 1: saying the black thing. Not even white listeners write me

1491
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:49,599
Speaker 1: about this because they understand the purpose behind horrible. I'm

1492
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 1: sorry you felt that way, but I'm glad you wrote me.

1493
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:55,560
Speaker 1: I can't. I've I thought. I've been thinking about it

1494
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:58,040
Speaker 1: all night, and I really feel like I have to

1495
01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:01,679
Speaker 1: double down on not saying sorry. No, you can't say sorry.

1496
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,400
Speaker 1: And what she wrote was nice, but didn't it feel

1497
01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:09,400
Speaker 1: like why not me too? What the hell? It's okay?

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01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 1: Hi Aaron, my makeup artist is here and we're no.

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01:19:16,320 --> 01:19:19,640
Speaker 1: I'm good, Thank you so much. I almost set up

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01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 1: so yeah, I don't know what's your What was your

1501
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: favorite black thing growing up? And have you ever felt dude?

1502
01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: This is insane. No offense against this person. I'm glad

1503
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 1: you support a podcast. I'm glad you feel like you're

1504
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:33,160
Speaker 1: a part of it, but you feel but for you

1505
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 1: to feel excluded is absolutely not right. And here's why.

1506
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 1: Growing up, I listen to a lot of most deaf

1507
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: and Tali Kali I love Black Star. Did I say, hey, man,

1508
01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 1: what about me? I can enjoy black culture and not

1509
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:50,720
Speaker 1: feel like it's and and look at it from a farm,

1510
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:53,719
Speaker 1: be like that's amazing, and not feel excluded. I should

1511
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 1: be excluded it's not my experience. She got really mad.

1512
01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:58,720
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't believe you compared me to

1513
01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 1: a white listener. And I was like, the white listeners

1514
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 1: what it never said. If you want a podcast tailored

1515
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:08,720
Speaker 1: to you exactly, then go listen to one. I'm like,

1516
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:12,360
Speaker 1: what's feeling bad? Because as a feminist, I'm like, did

1517
01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:15,720
Speaker 1: I push her away with my response? She writes me back,

1518
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 1: and actually I was surprised she didn't get it problematic.

1519
01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:23,040
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to be and I apologize for you

1520
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: feeling that way, but I'm bothered that you're not grasping

1521
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 1: the growth of your word. I fully understand that your

1522
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 1: show is meant to be a black thing, but your words,

1523
01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 1: your voice, and ability has reached women, not just one

1524
01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:35,479
Speaker 1: race or culture. And my issue is that you can

1525
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 1: you can say we started off as a black thing

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01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:39,720
Speaker 1: grown into a woman thing. No I can't. No, I

1527
01:20:39,840 --> 01:20:42,799
Speaker 1: can't say that, and I'm gonna tell you why. Because

1528
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:48,360
Speaker 1: this black thing influenced women, wasn't meant to be for

1529
01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 1: everyone else, but it grew. But just because it grew

1530
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:52,320
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I'm gonna say, Okay, well now it's not

1531
01:20:52,439 --> 01:20:55,880
Speaker 1: black ship. Because it is my nigga and it still is.

1532
01:20:56,160 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: I agree, except for the N word part. Hasn't you

1533
01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: Hearing your struggles has educated myself and other women? Um,

1534
01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 1: We've invested money into your brand to see you both

1535
01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:08,280
Speaker 1: win and grow because I support your word as a

1536
01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: young woman who has a platform to speak on things.

1537
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 1: But to hear that I'm welcomed as if there was

1538
01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 1: a privilege to relate to sex, it's hurtful thinking me.

1539
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:18,000
Speaker 1: It came on strong because I stressed the fact that

1540
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:21,880
Speaker 1: I'm Latino, but it's discredited when I've invested so much

1541
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 1: and you can't understand, um, and it's offensive. Basically her

1542
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:27,640
Speaker 1: saying it was harsh that I compared her to a

1543
01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:29,519
Speaker 1: white girl. And I only compared her to white girl

1544
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 1: because to me, when you see people complain about why

1545
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,160
Speaker 1: can't I be in this space, it's white girl ship. Yeah.

1546
01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 1: It's also kind of like a joke. It's like, you know,

1547
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 1: like I want to speak to your manager. It's kind

1548
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:42,720
Speaker 1: of like it's we all listen, You're it's okay to

1549
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: be excluded from things that aren't exactly you. That's that's

1550
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 1: appointment joint culture that isn't yours. It empowered her, influenced her,

1551
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 1: educated her. That's great, but like, I still feel like

1552
01:21:54,600 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 1: you can be educated by someone else. Do you go

1553
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: to an Indian restaurant be like, no Burger? Come on, man,

1554
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 1: did you ever think about if someone came in here

1555
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: there was a white guy? Now I hate fusion, okay?

1556
01:22:07,120 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 1: So like then, you know, I said to her, like

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01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:12,840
Speaker 1: I feel like, did someone write BT when they got

1558
01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 1: big and say okay, now wait now in BT, there's

1559
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:18,519
Speaker 1: Latino representation ship. They hired a friend of the show,

1560
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:22,360
Speaker 1: Sharona's he's after Latino but whatever, there's Latinos on that

1561
01:22:22,439 --> 01:22:25,760
Speaker 1: show on that channel. But and there's some white people

1562
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:28,000
Speaker 1: in their ship, but it's a fucking black show. Like

1563
01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,479
Speaker 1: so like I don't know why I have to hide that.

1564
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:33,280
Speaker 1: And like even when I when I was thinking about

1565
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,680
Speaker 1: her saying invested, I've invested in this and it's not

1566
01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 1: for me, Bro, I'm just thinking of one white listener

1567
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 1: in particular right now, her names Shannon, that fucking drove

1568
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:45,719
Speaker 1: hours to our show. Why do is fuck and time

1569
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 1: with ship? And mad she spent her white ass fucking

1570
01:22:48,880 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 1: dollars on these black girls, And when I've put money

1571
01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:55,840
Speaker 1: into latinos or Latin businesses and ship like that, or

1572
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:58,840
Speaker 1: even listen to podcasts like particularly Bodega Boys, where all

1573
01:22:58,920 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 1: fucking Marrow does ring off the Dominican flag and talk

1574
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 1: about how he's there for Dominicans. I don't feel excluded

1575
01:23:04,080 --> 01:23:06,320
Speaker 1: because I know that this is an art or just

1576
01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 1: enjoying culture from Afar. That's fine,