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Speaker 1: It's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: could be read live on the air, just like this

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Speaker 1: one right here, and you never know it could be yours.

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Speaker 2: How about that?

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Speaker 3: How about that? Buckle up and hold on tight. We

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Speaker 3: got it for you here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Subjects he and his brother's baby mama. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I was married for eleven years and we had two daughters.

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Speaker 1: The last three years of our marriage, he messed with

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Speaker 1: his brother's baby mother and she got pregnant. His brother

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Speaker 1: has two sons by this woman, and my husband is

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Speaker 1: the godfather of both of his brother's sons. His brother

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Speaker 1: left left her after he caught her in bed with

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Speaker 1: another man at their house. She started popping up at

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Speaker 1: our house to talk to my husband, and I always

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Speaker 1: assumed it was to talk about his brother's dumping her.

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Speaker 1: I invited her over for Thanksgiving and she pulled my

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Speaker 1: husband aside to talk to him, and I let them talk.

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Speaker 1: She got very upset and was crying. Then she got

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Speaker 1: I rate and started pointing her finger forcibly forcefully into

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Speaker 1: my husband's head. He pulled her close to comfort her,

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Speaker 1: and I still did not get involved. This sort of

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Speaker 1: thing happened four more times, and she was always very

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Speaker 1: upset when she came to my house. I figured she

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Speaker 1: must still be suffering from the breakup, so I stayed

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Speaker 1: out of it. Then, earlier this year, my husband got

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Speaker 1: a letter from our local child support office and I

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Speaker 1: opened the letter and it said he is the father

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Speaker 1: of a baby girl, and it listed his brother's baby

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Speaker 1: mama as the mother.

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Speaker 2: I started snooping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I started snooping through his drawers and I found

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Speaker 1: DNA test results hitting in a cigar box in his

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Speaker 1: junk drawer. This woman mysteriously had a baby, and I

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Speaker 1: had no idea she was pregnant. I sent a picture

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Speaker 1: of the DNA results to my husband's brother and he

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Speaker 1: responded that he's known about them for three years because

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Speaker 2: I felt so lost and stupid.

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Speaker 1: Their daughter is two years old, and this woman wants

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Speaker 1: my kids to meet their sister, and she wants to

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Speaker 1: clear the air with me. Should I forgive her and

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Speaker 1: move on, or keep ignoring her forever, all right. Forgive them,

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Speaker 1: for sure, forgive her, not for them, not for her,

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Speaker 1: but because forgiveness is for you to be free to

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Speaker 1: move on with your life. But anything else, all bets

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Speaker 1: are off. Keep ignoring her forever, all right, And don't

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Speaker 1: you ever be that trusting to anyone again. You saw

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Speaker 1: what was going on, you didn't think for a second

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Speaker 1: that you know. I mean, I get that she was

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Speaker 1: distraught over her brother, but her pointing her finger at

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Speaker 1: its forehead and your husband pulling her close to him,

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Speaker 1: all that in your letter. I can't believe you didn't

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Speaker 1: suspect something was going on between them with all the

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Speaker 1: stuff they were doing. I mean, maybe because it was

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Speaker 1: done in your faith and not behind your back, you

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Speaker 1: didn't think that they would be doing what they were doing.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know too many women, including myself, who

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Speaker 1: would have allowed them to carry on like they were

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Speaker 1: carrying on in front of you.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna need.

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Speaker 1: You to get mad, you know, do something, not just

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Speaker 1: ask keep ignoring her forever. You know, it's okay to forgive,

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Speaker 1: but you shouldn't forget or clear the air with her

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Speaker 1: like she wants to do. If you choose not to, Okay,

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Speaker 1: do what's best for you and your children, your family.

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Speaker 2: Okay, keep her out of it.

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Speaker 1: She's trash at this point, as far as I'm concerned,

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Speaker 1: what she did to you and her husband Steve.

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Speaker 4: The most confusing damn letter of the year.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Surely, I can't make no sense of this.

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Speaker 4: I've been trying to find the turning points, but the

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Speaker 4: whole letter is a turning point.

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Speaker 3: The lady was married for eleven years with a husband.

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Speaker 4: They got two daughters, but then the last three years

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Speaker 3: His brother has two sons.

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Speaker 4: By this woman, and my husband is the godfather of

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, Wait a minute.

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Speaker 4: If this is your brother and he got two children,

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Speaker 4: what is you the godfather for you?

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Speaker 2: The uncle?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: They uncle?

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Speaker 4: See this family love given titles. Now his brother left her.

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Speaker 4: He left the baby mama after he caught her in

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Speaker 4: men that go over these other men's houses? Man, I

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Speaker 4: just don't understand that. I don't know why more of

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Speaker 4: these ain't winding up in depths. She started popping up

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Speaker 4: always soon it was to talk about his brother dumping her.

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Speaker 4: But now let me say this though, Could it be

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Speaker 4: the way this letter's written when she said her brother

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Speaker 3: Could the other man have been his brother?

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Speaker 1: Well? No, I think that that was an additional man, Steve,

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Speaker 1: because lower in the letter he said he's known about her.

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Speaker 4: Well, we'll find out. I invited over for Thanksgiving. It

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Speaker 4: she pulled my husband to decide to talk to him,

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Speaker 4: and I let him talk. She got upset and was crying,

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Speaker 3: You know how they be tapping on your head like

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Speaker 3: what you ain't nobody finna do that to me?

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Speaker 1: No, you're not gonna in front of mine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know any woman alive, none.

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Speaker 4: Quarterly What is she tapping your way? So that's kind

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Speaker 4: of crazy. And I still didn't get involved. This sort

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Speaker 4: of thing happened fom mo times, and she was always

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Speaker 4: upset when she came to my house. I figured she

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Speaker 4: must still be suffering from the breakup, so I stayed

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Speaker 4: out of about How stupid are you?

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Speaker 2: Well, she said that she felt stupid.

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Speaker 3: All right, we're talking about to come back.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject he and

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Speaker 1: his brother's baby Mama. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: at vaxcist dot com. All right, come on, Steve, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today It's strawberry letter. The subject he and his

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Speaker 3: H This reggular hairs letter.

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Speaker 2: So confused? Time not the letter he had hated.

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Speaker 3: It's the letter Shirley's. We know these damn people mess

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Speaker 4: This lady married to her husband, they got two kids,

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Speaker 4: and then uh late three years, the last three years

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Speaker 4: of the marriage, he messed with his brother's babies mama,

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Speaker 4: and she got pregnant. His brother got two sons by

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Speaker 4: this woman, and my husband is the godfather to both

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Speaker 4: his brother's son. You ain't hunh, You ain't damn uncle.

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Speaker 4: You legally everything. You ain't uncle. You don't need no

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Speaker 4: extra titles. His brother left her because he caught her

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Speaker 4: in bed with another man at their house, and then

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Speaker 4: my husband. I always assumed it was to talk about

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Speaker 4: his brother dumping her. I'm telling you, Shirley, I think

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Speaker 4: is his brother, because right after that she kept coming

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Speaker 4: to the house. Yeah, mad every time she come to

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Speaker 4: over the Thanksgiving twenty twenty, she pulled my husband aside

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Speaker 4: to talk to him. I let him talk. She got

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Speaker 4: she started pointing her finger forcefully in my husband's head. Now,

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Speaker 4: damn because his brother found you in bed with another man,

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Speaker 4: or because he found you in bed and the.

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Speaker 3: Other man was his damn brother.

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Speaker 4: And I got started up to start to put it

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Speaker 4: This sort of thing happened fourmo times, and she was

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Speaker 4: she must be still suffering from the breakup, so I

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Speaker 4: stayed out. And she was something from the breakup because

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Speaker 4: your husband was the cause of the breakup, because he

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Speaker 4: got caught in his brother's house in that bed. That's

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Speaker 3: Then, earlier this.

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Speaker 4: Year, my husband got a letter from our local child

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Speaker 4: listed his brother's babies.

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Speaker 3: Mama as the mother.

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Speaker 4: I started snooping through his draws and I found DNA

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Speaker 4: test result hiding in a cigar box. That's what really,

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Speaker 4: Why is she putting this in a cigar box? What

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Speaker 4: you put this in a cigar box? Tro see now

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Speaker 4: like me, you ass got tight, now, my ass tight

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Speaker 4: because it's in a cigar box. Immediately, I go to

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Speaker 4: myself and how many cigar boxes I got. I can't

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Speaker 4: think of what important. I haven't put it in the

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Speaker 2: Box about you?

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Speaker 4: Anyway, this woman, misterly had a baby, and I had

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Speaker 4: no idea she was pregnant.

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Speaker 4: I sent a picture of the DNA results to my

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Speaker 3: Because he caught them in the act.

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Speaker 4: It was his brother that he walked in and saw

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Speaker 3: She stayed away and had.

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Speaker 4: This baby, but every time she came over she was

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Speaker 3: I felt so lost and stupid. They daughter two years old.

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Speaker 4: This woman wants my kids to meet their sister, and

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Speaker 4: she wants to clear the ad with me. Should I

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Speaker 4: forgive her and move on and keep it knowing her forever? Well,

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Speaker 4: you can and forgive her, but this is the most

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Speaker 4: confusing mess. I really ain't got nothing for her, no

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Speaker 4: more helpel And my biggest thing, like he is, I

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Speaker 4: don't know what is we finish? Call these kids because

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Speaker 4: see now, even if they meet, what is we Finnah?

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Speaker 4: Call these kids right here?

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Speaker 3: Mama?

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Speaker 4: Is these our cousins, Mama, is these our brothers and sisters?

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Speaker 3: They're not.

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Speaker 3: Is they our aunts? No?

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Speaker 4: No, baby, they're not your aunts. It's these our cousins

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Speaker 3: No, they not? What is they? Mama? Is these are nothing? Loss?

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Speaker 3: This this is our nothing lows? Mama? What is we

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Speaker 4: Your husband slept with his brothers, baby, Mama, the brother

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Speaker 4: caught them. You found the DNA report, sent it to

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Speaker 4: his brother to say, hey, on this DNA report, this

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Speaker 4: listing my husband, who is your brother as the daddy

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Speaker 4: know albout it.

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Speaker 3: So what kind of help?

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Speaker 2: She she? I really thought it was two different men.

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Speaker 1: But she says she felt so lost and stupid that yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think it's.

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Speaker 2: Ignoring what's going on in front of her eyes.

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Speaker 3: Why are we here? Who do you trust in this story?

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Speaker 2: You can't trust in law.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he held to the cold with his brother, and

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Speaker 4: she's nobody told you nothing right?

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Speaker 1: And then she's she's considering forgiving this woman and moving

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Speaker 2: None of this so.

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Speaker 4: Sure what you said made since you could forgive acause

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Speaker 4: forgiveness is for you, not the other person.

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Speaker 3: But to forgive don't mean to forget.

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Speaker 4: Right, You don't have to set yourself back up in

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Speaker 4: the line of fire just because you forgave somebody.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Tommy, I see you. Can't you forgive as you

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Speaker 3: walking out today with all your stuff? Can't you forgive it?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: She can keep ignoring her forever.

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Speaker 3: What I'm not finna do is sit here and deal

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Speaker 4: Now. The kids are gonna have to know each other eventually,

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Speaker 4: because that's the baby.

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