Speaker 1: What's up.
Speaker 2: It's lip Service. This is a very very special one.
Speaker 2: I'm in my day wen Gg maguire. Hey, it's been
Speaker 2: nine years at lip Service and we are in Vegas
Speaker 2: at the iHeartRadio Music Festival.
Speaker 1: Is this your first time here I Heart? Yes? Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: and my first time at iHeart Music Festival.
Speaker 3: You know, I love me some Vegas, so I'm here
Speaker 3: for Vegas, but I'm excited to be here.
Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for the opportunity. You know.
Speaker 2: What I want to ask you, being that you always
Speaker 2: are running around and going to different events and things.
Speaker 2: Do you prefer to travel and do stuff like this
Speaker 2: with your bay or do you prefer to.
Speaker 1: Do this with your girls? Kyk scenario?
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's say iHeart Festival because you're out here
Speaker 2: with your homegirl, with Banna and so. But you've been
Speaker 2: here before with like your ex, not to this, but
Speaker 2: like to concerts and so what's the difference? And for
Speaker 2: women and for men, should you be concerned if your
Speaker 2: significant other takes like a boys or girls trip to festival?
Speaker 3: So specifically, with myself, this is work, so I'm definitely
Speaker 3: here with my girl.
Speaker 1: I don't think that.
Speaker 3: This is a like quick baky situation because I have
Speaker 3: obligations that I'm being helped to personally, and my homegirls like,
Speaker 3: you know, we can kick it in between and once
Speaker 3: I'm done, and I could possibly do the same thing
Speaker 3: with Bay, but I feel like I need to be
Speaker 3: more focusing on point.
Speaker 1: And I'm such like a oh gosh, soccer.
Speaker 3: I'm so attached to my guy that I feel like
Speaker 3: I would want to give him my attention and I
Speaker 3: would feel bad that I have to leave him to
Speaker 3: work because but you know, where I find that the
Speaker 3: most ideal relationships are when you are with somebody and
Speaker 3: they like support that They're like, com at you, what
Speaker 3: do you need?
Speaker 1: Let me run downstairs, you want me to get this.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 3: But I don't think that the current situation that I
Speaker 3: might have been in, well, I don't think the current
Speaker 3: situation I might have been in for sixty days would
Speaker 3: would have been that. And in the past, I've been
Speaker 3: with my ex who is in this industry, and I
Speaker 3: was always by his side doing work things and whatnot.
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this in a second, but.
Speaker 3: I was always just like kind of in the back pocket,
Speaker 3: so to say, because I'm so glad.
Speaker 1: DJ whatever just walked in whatever.
Speaker 2: We got a distraction from the team D whatever. Now
Speaker 2: let me just say I know DJ whatever for a
Speaker 2: long time.
Speaker 1: I don't know DJ whatever. Nice to meet you. Dimples.
Speaker 1: I love the dimples. Yeah put them boats have phones
Speaker 1: on so you can hear what's up. He's working by
Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, you away from some just abilities real.
Speaker 4: UT's go put on a quick mix.
Speaker 1: With us just for a few minutes.
Speaker 2: We were just talking about when you do stuff like this,
Speaker 2: this is work, right, but do you think that it's
Speaker 2: cool to bring like your significant other to say, a
Speaker 2: festival where you're working and you know you're gonna be busy.
Speaker 1: But then it's it's you know.
Speaker 4: It depends on what kind of significant other you have.
Speaker 5: You know what I mean, I haven't had the significan
Speaker 5: and others I feel like are equipped for it.
Speaker 1: You know what kind of equipped do you need to be?
Speaker 5: Well, you got to let me do my thing, you
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You can't be you know, you
Speaker 5: need attention. And then if females come over and you know,
Speaker 5: say what's up, like, oh, don't hug her like na
Speaker 5: like I'm at work.
Speaker 1: Have you had that happen to.
Speaker 2: Oh that's justsful, Yeah, because it is hard because people
Speaker 2: who aren't in this business they don't understand. Yeah, they
Speaker 2: don't understand it. And then to be honest, when you
Speaker 2: go to stuff that this, people be a little toe up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and sometimes we'll actually be a little touchy.
Speaker 2: And you're like, oh, I promise it's nothing.
Speaker 4: They never have acted like this exactly.
Speaker 5: So it all depends, you know what I mean. It
Speaker 5: depends if you got the significant other that's gonna let
Speaker 5: you rock. She can be able to chill, mingle, do
Speaker 5: her own thing and know that you're working.
Speaker 2: That's cool, right, and also be able to come to
Speaker 2: like dinners with the executives because you need to bring
Speaker 2: somebody if you need to know that, like, okay, you
Speaker 2: could come here be able to. I don't have the
Speaker 2: babysity too, because that's another concern. You know, when somebody
Speaker 2: or talk too much.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you want them to be a good representative. I've
Speaker 5: had that issue too in the past. You know, you
Speaker 5: bring one to an event.
Speaker 2: And it's like make you look bad and like you
Speaker 2: just left me by myself exactly. Now.
Speaker 1: I want to get to this because right before you
Speaker 1: walked in. Here.
Speaker 2: Gigi was talking about a situation that she may have
Speaker 2: been in, so she was engaged.
Speaker 3: I was just engaged for sixty days or so, just
Speaker 3: say sixty day.
Speaker 4: I went to look at the Yeah, okay, the.
Speaker 3: Ring never happened, but it was a there was a
Speaker 3: real proposal. There's a tattoo involved, and there was thirty
Speaker 3: days sixty day.
Speaker 1: Now, I don't know what negative.
Speaker 4: I don't know what's say congratulations for.
Speaker 3: It was an experience. My life has never been traditional.
Speaker 3: I wasn't even born into this world in the traditional way.
Speaker 3: So I embraced my uniqueness and I am the type
Speaker 3: of person.
Speaker 1: Who I live for today. I seize the moment.
Speaker 3: You know, tomorrow was in promise, and I've been showed
Speaker 3: that in multiple ways, and I just really just live
Speaker 3: a life of freedom and just do what I feel
Speaker 3: that it's right for me.
Speaker 1: So I'm how fast you got engaged? Three days?
Speaker 4: Oh whatever?
Speaker 1: He said? I had never felt like that. I can't
Speaker 1: even bring someone. So I'm gonna tell you, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna be friends.
Speaker 4: I called.
Speaker 3: I called his bluff. I want you, I want you
Speaker 3: to be my woman. I want to marry y'all want
Speaker 3: to beat you my life. Okay, let's do it. Let's
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 1: I want it. I would have done it. Did you
Speaker 1: want it? I didn't say what you want? Worked for it?
Speaker 4: Did you like it?
Speaker 1: I love him still?
Speaker 3: I did fall in love. It was love at first night.
Speaker 4: Re engaged?
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't getting what I needed, so I broke
Speaker 1: it off.
Speaker 2: Now, so okay, I'm going to ask you this. Have
Speaker 2: you ever gotten a woman tattooed on you? You have tattoos?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: Okay, but if you got engaged, maybe I got his
Speaker 3: name tattooed.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh but I got my name.
Speaker 1: I got my I got my I got my.
Speaker 3: Potential, I got my potential future name. Okay, tattooed, I
Speaker 3: got missus his name, A.
Speaker 4: Big tattoo little it's comforable, Okay, everything you know I was.
Speaker 1: Everything's removable. Have you ever composed to anybody? People think
Speaker 1: tattoos are permanent, They're really not lads to remove.
Speaker 2: While you can get a cover, you know, can you
Speaker 2: can cut your skin off?
Speaker 1: No? You can't.
Speaker 3: But when I got the tattooed, the response from not
Speaker 3: just my friends.
Speaker 1: But the public. But they were so outraged that you
Speaker 1: got this man tattooed on you like I have so many.
Speaker 3: I'm tatted from head to toel like literally, so it's
Speaker 3: like all of my tattoos have significant meanings and there
Speaker 3: I have I have like secret tattoos with guys who
Speaker 3: they know it's for them, but the world doesn't know.
Speaker 1: Something else, you know, I have.
Speaker 3: Some I have subliminal tattoos where the guy knows that
Speaker 3: I got this for you, even though it's not your name.
Speaker 1: So it was like one tattoo too. Tattoos, schmoo, smooth,
Speaker 1: Let's move on now.
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, when things don't work out,
Speaker 2: do you think about all the people that were like
Speaker 2: I told you, I knew it wasn't gonna work.
Speaker 1: Because that's always.
Speaker 3: The thing too, honestly, Like, yeah, I've had that thought
Speaker 3: of everybody that was like, bit you crazy.
Speaker 1: I know I'm crazy, y'all not telling me nothing. I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 3: Again, I am not a traditional person and I do
Speaker 3: not live my life for what people think of me.
Speaker 1: I lived my life for the experience.
Speaker 4: Life is an experience, you know yourself.
Speaker 2: Have you ever been had an experience where you were
Speaker 2: dating somebody and people around you didn't like them and
Speaker 2: they were like, don't do it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, when I was way younger, I did. Why didn't
Speaker 5: they like her attitude? They could tell that she was yeah,
Speaker 5: that she wasn't for me, that she was the jealous type,
Speaker 5: that she wasn't gonna really help push me to where
Speaker 5: I needed to be.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: So sometimes that makes you stay longer because you want
Speaker 2: to prove everybody.
Speaker 3: And that happened to me when I was That was
Speaker 3: my thought in that situation when I felt like I
Speaker 3: had to go harder to make it happen, to make
Speaker 3: it work because there were so many daughters like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: I'm ana prove you're wrong. And I held up my
Speaker 3: end of the war. Again, I called his bluff and
Speaker 3: I did what I needed to do to make it work.
Speaker 3: But unfortunately I wasn't getting what I needed. So I
Speaker 3: am removing myself from the situation.
Speaker 2: And that's why it was next, because that's what made
Speaker 2: me realize that you cannot judge your friends and their
Speaker 2: situations because the more you try to tell somebody you're
Speaker 2: doing this is wrong, this is messed up, whatever, the
Speaker 2: more that they're going to try to prove you wrong.
Speaker 1: I think about when when I was young. I diated
Speaker 1: this guy. My parents hated him. They were definitely right,
Speaker 1: but I kept trying to prove in the moment that
Speaker 1: I can make.
Speaker 2: Your work, even though it was like a terrible I
Speaker 2: like moved out of the house, wow and everything because
Speaker 2: they hated him, didn't want me to be with him.
Speaker 2: But I was like, I have to make this work
Speaker 2: because my parents cannot be right. And sometimes people staying
Speaker 2: things because they're like and then you feel defensive of
Speaker 2: the person. You know, you're like trying to defend them
Speaker 2: to everything. Oh, you don't really know what he's been through,
Speaker 2: because everybody that I've been through.
Speaker 5: Something I've been I've been there. I know exactly what
Speaker 5: you're talking about, and then I can relate.
Speaker 2: We all do that, but sometimes it's like that for
Speaker 2: everybody thinks you got to do what's best for you.
Speaker 2: So for you Gg, I know, like because when we
Speaker 2: talked about it on lip service and people were shocked
Speaker 2: that you got engaged so quickly, and people were like,
Speaker 2: he's loved bombing you, which I had never heard that expression.
Speaker 1: Have you heard that?
Speaker 3: They said that he was love bombing, that he was poor,
Speaker 3: he was giving too much love. It immediately at once,
Speaker 3: Like we started with the exchange of I love you
Speaker 3: first night, first date, we committed to each other in
Speaker 3: a relationship, first date, and by the end of the
Speaker 3: night it was I love you, I love you.
Speaker 5: I'm so confused by this, like like, we'll have to
Speaker 5: talk further.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm an open book every age. But you like that,
Speaker 2: like for you or whatever? Would you like us? Have
Speaker 2: you ever felt that way really quickly, like first date,
Speaker 2: first interaction, I love her, like in your head now
Speaker 2: they're growing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe that's what I was gonna say. I don't
Speaker 5: I can't even get there, if you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: We haven't had those encounters yet. Well, he knew that's
Speaker 5: gonna help me.
Speaker 3: At least what he said. He said, God told him.
Speaker 3: God told him. He said, he said, God sent him
Speaker 3: to me. I was a woman that he prayed for.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you but you've been in love?
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, And so how long do you think, on
Speaker 2: the average would you say it takes to really fall
Speaker 2: in love, because that's a other thing. People were saying,
Speaker 2: there's no way you could possibly be in love, And
Speaker 2: we had to remember. Christie Couperry came on and he
Speaker 2: was like, listen, take your time, Yeah, ticket time.
Speaker 3: So nobody believes in love it first sight. It wasn't
Speaker 3: love it first sight for me. It was love it
Speaker 3: first night. But nobody believe.
Speaker 4: I believe. I just I haven't had that experience, but
Speaker 4: I believe in it. Though.
Speaker 3: What about like we have these shows ninety Dance and
Speaker 3: Married at First Sight, and you know, we have arranged marriages.
Speaker 3: There are very a lot of cultures who have arranged
Speaker 3: marriages and that's been a thing for centuries, and it
Speaker 3: continues on.
Speaker 1: And that works out, and it works out sometimes times
Speaker 1: that don't.
Speaker 3: So I just feel like tomorrow is in promised, you know,
Speaker 3: Harpi diam lived for the moment.
Speaker 2: But I also feel like we're not really expensive and
Speaker 2: very drawn out.
Speaker 1: Well, I was in it for the long haul. My
Speaker 1: heart was he says that my heart was there the
Speaker 1: day that he proposed.
Speaker 3: If he would have said let's go fly to Vegas
Speaker 3: right now and get married, I would have. If he
Speaker 3: would have said let's go to four live in Georgia. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm glad, but we live in court And County, Georgia.
Speaker 3: And if he would have said let's go to the
Speaker 3: Fort County courthouse right now, get married.
Speaker 1: Are you know what, Giji, what did you learn from this? Nothing? No,
Speaker 1: I'm playing. That's what I learned. I learned that. Stop playing.
Speaker 1: That's what you learned.
Speaker 3: I need to stop playing. Oh okay, I need to
Speaker 3: stop calling people's bluss when they say things because I
Speaker 3: like the challenge people. So don't come to me telling
Speaker 3: me you want to be with me for the rest
Speaker 3: of my life. Okay, let's do it now.
Speaker 4: I like it though you had the experience. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 4: saying that's what life.
Speaker 3: Is about, the experiences and the lessons that you learned
Speaker 3: from them and the things that you take moving forward
Speaker 3: in life. Because guess what, it's always another day, tomorrow,
Speaker 3: what's next.
Speaker 2: We're always talking about what is wife material? Whatever? What
Speaker 2: would you say, is wife material for you?
Speaker 4: Respectful?
Speaker 5: You know, able to be able to have fun with me?
Speaker 5: You know, great personality. Those are some of the top
Speaker 5: things for me. Of course, beautiful. I have to be
Speaker 5: attracted to her, and.
Speaker 1: Everybody's attatched to I was so okay, this is one
Speaker 1: thing about him too. Here we go.
Speaker 3: He's so fine, so good, and his dig is so big,
Speaker 3: and the sex was so good and.
Speaker 1: So there was a lot of lust involved.
Speaker 3: However, you know, I'm not used to that, Like, no shade,
Speaker 3: but I have not been in a relationship with a
Speaker 3: man that I felt like I wanted to swoon over
Speaker 3: like I was. I've never been in a relationship with
Speaker 3: a man that I just wanted to stare at all
Speaker 3: the time. You know, I'm more for personality and I'm
Speaker 3: more for like, you know, integrity, and.
Speaker 2: So does that mean moving forward? Now you need somebody
Speaker 2: you're physically I think so. I think he started something
Speaker 2: with that. I think that I feel like, okay, maybe
Speaker 2: I need to go more for the physical and less
Speaker 2: for the mental.
Speaker 1: But I mean, it's all balance, its balance.
Speaker 4: How long is that going to last? No?
Speaker 3: No, no, I'm saying it's all about balance. I feel
Speaker 3: like I need a balance more exactly. I feel like
Speaker 3: I need to balance it more. But I like the
Speaker 3: feeling of looking.
Speaker 1: At my man being like, damn you so fine? Well
Speaker 1: yeah whatever, I've never had that. Have you ever been
Speaker 1: with a.
Speaker 2: Woman that you weren't physically attracted to but you loved
Speaker 2: everything else about her?
Speaker 4: No, that's like a episode.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, you know what, you know what I'm
Speaker 5: bugging early on I did early on, like early in
Speaker 5: my twenties, I was I was tripping, I was doing
Speaker 5: a bunch of stuff earlier.
Speaker 4: They were like, yeah, yeah, So so you know what I.
Speaker 1: Did keep her a secret.
Speaker 5: No people know about her, but I knew internally I
Speaker 5: wasn't as attracted to her as I needed to be.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I was still.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was still outside, you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: just because I felt like I wasn't getting that that
Speaker 5: I needed.
Speaker 4: From you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Have you ever been with somebody that at first you
Speaker 2: were attacted and then there looks changed?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, like one that you know. When I got
Speaker 5: one of them, she was in shape, and then in
Speaker 5: the course of it, she just.
Speaker 1: Didy blew up.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, she just I didn't know what happened.
Speaker 5: So I had to keep it moving.
Speaker 2: As we get older, you know, did you tell her?
Speaker 4: No, No, I tell you. Taking me back to my
Speaker 4: early twenties, I was, I was dying.
Speaker 2: But a lot of what we did back then kind
Speaker 2: of shapes who we are in the decisions that we
Speaker 2: make today. No, you're right, you know, and so in retrospect,
Speaker 2: maybe that is people say it's cruel to have that
Speaker 2: conversation like okay, but I think some people can't hear
Speaker 2: that from their significant other, like take that type of criticism,
Speaker 2: Like for you, whatever, what would you say in a relationship?
Speaker 1: Are some of your flaws?
Speaker 4: Maybe communication?
Speaker 1: I need you to say that.
Speaker 5: Maybe maybe, yeah, maybe maybe communication. I think I can
Speaker 5: be better with communication.
Speaker 4: I might.
Speaker 5: I probably could be better with attentsiveness too, because you
Speaker 5: know the life we live. I'm so I'm so focused
Speaker 5: on the on the money, on continuing to grow and
Speaker 5: small thing. Yeah, so you know, sometimes you could feel
Speaker 5: left out or like I'm not you know, I'm in
Speaker 5: i might be in Vegas and I'm not calling you,
Speaker 5: I'm not texting you exactly.
Speaker 2: But we all know that it's somebody mad is because
Speaker 2: when you in their stays where you trying to holler,
Speaker 2: you'll be over there texting.
Speaker 1: And this was the problem and.
Speaker 3: Then they get you and then Yeah, the problem with
Speaker 3: six today fiance was we spent thirty days together and
Speaker 3: I made time for him to get to know him.
Speaker 1: We did like a crash course on each other. And
Speaker 1: then I had to work. I had a hustle. I
Speaker 1: got a grind. I gotta get to the coin.
Speaker 3: I gotta work, I got family, I got a kid,
Speaker 3: I got dogs.
Speaker 4: It's so important to have somebody to understand you.
Speaker 3: It was like once I wasn't up under him all
Speaker 3: the time. Then things started to shift and it was
Speaker 3: like out of sight, out of mind, and I just
Speaker 3: felt like it was more of me putting forth the
Speaker 3: effort to make it work, and I wasn't getting that reciprocated.
Speaker 2: And I voiced it to him a few times. And
Speaker 2: right now that he was trying, is he trying harder?
Speaker 1: Now? I spoke to him, what's today? Today?
Speaker 3: Saturday? So I ended things on Tuesday. I spoke to
Speaker 3: him today for the first time. Wow, So I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's not good. He waited all those days. So when
Speaker 1: he spoke to you, was it I'm trying to get
Speaker 1: this back, or it.
Speaker 3: Was just checking on you? You know, it's like, hey,
Speaker 3: how you going to checking? Throwing it out there to scene,
Speaker 3: I guess and whatever? Have you ever STI in the black.
Speaker 1: And I'm working? Yeah, I definitely, yeah, I'm working.
Speaker 4: I've definitely spun the block before.
Speaker 2: Definitely any regrets of somebody that maybe you should have,
Speaker 2: you know, not messed up with.
Speaker 5: No, Like my girl here said I believe in God,
Speaker 5: like I believe what's for me is for me.
Speaker 4: You know, I regret how I ended certain situations.
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, yeah, I've definitely whatever he said was
Speaker 3: something that he lacked them, so at least he knows
Speaker 3: that is the worst thing that you could do.
Speaker 4: I did that once. I did regret that.
Speaker 1: It's a few Did you ever run into her again?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I did?
Speaker 1: All right, tell me why you did that?
Speaker 2: Because women want to know when women are out here
Speaker 2: get in ghosts and men's why why didn't he.
Speaker 1: Just tell me? I think people went closure they wanted.
Speaker 5: I think it was one night she just did something
Speaker 5: that I really didn't. Yeah, it turned me off and
Speaker 5: I realized I'm like yeah, and the sex wasn't that great,
Speaker 5: so it was like, yeah, let me just keeping let
Speaker 5: me just keep moving.
Speaker 3: I feel like if I'm not with a kind of
Speaker 3: off subject, but I feel like, if I'm not with
Speaker 3: one who can fulfill my needs sexually, I'm eventually gonna cheat.
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: You don't think sex can get better, though, Like, have
Speaker 2: you ever been by something and it wasn't that great
Speaker 2: in the beginning, and then it got better because that's
Speaker 2: definitely actually feel for me. It usually gets better the
Speaker 2: more we get to know each other.
Speaker 1: Well, yes, it does get better. It grows with time. Unintendency.
Speaker 5: That's interesting because I've always felt like either is there
Speaker 5: or not. Like chemistry, you.
Speaker 1: Get what everybody like.
Speaker 3: The chemistry is there because but you have to realize
Speaker 3: that some people have this let me hold off in
Speaker 3: the beginning and let me gradually give him everything, and
Speaker 3: then you have women like me here.
Speaker 1: Like a from day one, and then you.
Speaker 5: For me, it's the chemistry, it's the energy.
Speaker 4: Also, See, the energy is something you can't teach.
Speaker 5: You can't teach somebody like, hey I want this, I
Speaker 5: want that, But bringing that energy that you need that
Speaker 5: turns you on, that's something I feel like you can't teach.
Speaker 2: I feel like in the beginning, I don't feel comfortable
Speaker 2: enough like that until I get to know you better,
Speaker 2: and that's when I have better energy.
Speaker 1: If we get to that point, balls out.
Speaker 3: I'm balls out from day one.
Speaker 2: And like women's bodies are very complex and sometimes guys
Speaker 2: don't know what you like until a few tries gross
Speaker 2: because you know, and so I think that too, and
Speaker 2: sometimes you have to like let them know, and then
Speaker 2: they're not used to that because last person they were
Speaker 2: with like this, even though you don't like it, you
Speaker 2: have to like retrain them.
Speaker 4: I agree with that.
Speaker 1: Retrain them, and then you're like, he's going to be
Speaker 1: amazing for the next person.
Speaker 2: Now that he ghosted me, Now that he ghosted me,
Speaker 2: what would you like to say to this woman that
Speaker 2: you ghosted years ago?
Speaker 5: I apologize for ghosting you. Yeah, I should have made
Speaker 5: you know colder. I should have told her the things
Speaker 5: that I didn't like and just told her I was
Speaker 5: going another way.
Speaker 1: So then have you been going?
Speaker 3: Have you been able to be honest about and have
Speaker 3: that conversation of this isn't working for me. I'm going
Speaker 3: to do this. I have because this is what I
Speaker 3: just had to do, right. I had to let him know,
Speaker 3: you know, but you guys, this is not working.
Speaker 1: I'm going to.
Speaker 4: Switch put in any situation.
Speaker 3: I am going to allow you to do the things
Speaker 3: that you need to do for yourself, because if you
Speaker 3: can't do forself, you can't give me what I need.
Speaker 1: And I'm not getting what I needed.
Speaker 2: So whatever, I have you ever dated a woman who
Speaker 2: makes more than you or is more successful than you?
Speaker 1: Now, would how would that beware from How would that
Speaker 1: beware for you?
Speaker 4: Though I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: Some guys can't handle it.
Speaker 4: I'm not, I'm not.
Speaker 5: I'm confident, I'm not insecure. So I could understand though,
Speaker 5: why a lot of guys would be, you know, intimidated
Speaker 5: by a woman like you or you that's that's out
Speaker 5: here doing your thing in the public.
Speaker 4: Like a lot of dudes can't take that.
Speaker 1: I have a.
Speaker 3: Friend who I used to be an exotic entertainer. I
Speaker 3: worked at Magic City shout out to the Creative, shout
Speaker 3: out to the Trap. And I have a friend who
Speaker 3: when she was there dancing, she was with the guy,
Speaker 3: and everything was all good until she told him how
Speaker 3: much money she had saved, and it was close to
Speaker 3: two hundred thousand, and he was like, you got.
Speaker 1: More money than me. You got money.
Speaker 3: But the reason why she told him that I have
Speaker 3: this money is because she was looking to invest and
Speaker 3: build with him. So she was like, I have this money,
Speaker 3: what can we do together? He was like, so that
Speaker 3: we can, you know, grow together and get money together.
Speaker 3: I have this money, I want to invest it, like,
Speaker 3: let's do something, and he was like I can't, Like
Speaker 3: I can't even take that you have more than me.
Speaker 2: But you know, it's interesting because he was dating a
Speaker 2: woman who was an exotic dancer.
Speaker 1: He was fine with.
Speaker 3: That, yeah, but when he found out she had band
Speaker 3: on the bank successful way, he was.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, no, this is not going to work for
Speaker 1: me because you had more than I do.
Speaker 2: Could you date a dancer or former former dancer?
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. I
Speaker 4: think I could.
Speaker 5: I've never done it, Like I've dealt with plenty of
Speaker 5: exotic dances, but never she can't really full on date,
Speaker 5: even though they wanted that.
Speaker 4: But I don't know. I think something, Yeah, something was
Speaker 4: holding me back.
Speaker 3: Do you think it was the occupation? Do you think
Speaker 3: it was the fact that they are naked us and
Speaker 3: or not sexual but sensual with other men.
Speaker 1: I think in their I think.
Speaker 4: That's what held me back.
Speaker 5: You know, I was younger too, like now it's a
Speaker 5: little different, but back then, I think the fact that
Speaker 5: men were looking at them all the time, you.
Speaker 4: Know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I had I.
Speaker 3: During my ten year stint in the different clubs that
Speaker 3: I've worked in, I always was in a relationship and
Speaker 3: I've had a few of those relationships where the guy
Speaker 3: was jealous. I had a relationship where he made me
Speaker 3: quit and I retired. But I think that's a regional
Speaker 3: thing to in certain cities.
Speaker 2: That's what I want when I'm in Like if you
Speaker 2: live in Atlanta, if you live in Miami, if you
Speaker 2: live in New York, it's.
Speaker 4: Very did they mind what you what you did.
Speaker 3: In the beginning, but then it got to a point
Speaker 3: of of insecurity, crepting, jealousy, crept in, and just not
Speaker 3: really knowing how to communicate.
Speaker 4: Now, get you did you meet them while working?
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, you met me like this period. Imagine a
Speaker 2: women told you stop DJing.
Speaker 4: I don't know, she gotta go right, and you're.
Speaker 1: Like, I've been doing this.
Speaker 2: I don't like you being in the clubs.
Speaker 1: And you have to talk to these women because you
Speaker 1: have right.
Speaker 2: You have to talk to them. You have to invite
Speaker 2: them out. If you're doing something, you have to have
Speaker 2: a list of people. You want to make sure communicating whatever.
Speaker 2: You know that women are coming out.
Speaker 4: For some reason.
Speaker 5: I feel like men would feel like exotic dancers don't
Speaker 5: necessarily love that or actually want to be doing it,
Speaker 5: like they're only doing it for a time.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, but a real dancer, like trained.
Speaker 4: A dope.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she was not a little bit. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to just stand there and.
Speaker 4: Working.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you an amazing performance. I'm gonna put
Speaker 3: on the show every single time. And I was known
Speaker 3: for that.
Speaker 2: Now, what if you were dating a girl and rappers
Speaker 2: mentioned her in the song because that happened as well. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: Lil Wayne mentioned her in the song.
Speaker 3: Lil Wayne Wile in Trouble May he recipes okay with.
Speaker 1: That bother you?
Speaker 4: It probably would.
Speaker 5: It probably would because in my head not because I'm
Speaker 5: probably gonna think like, if they know you on that level,
Speaker 5: they probably clapping.
Speaker 1: I'm saying like that you won't say one did one?
Speaker 1: Did one of the three got you?
Speaker 5: Yeah, That's what I would think, like if they.
Speaker 3: Kind of obvious if you know, because you know, because
Speaker 3: if you know the song, he literally talks about how
Speaker 3: good I suck this day.
Speaker 2: Would you want to know if, like, say, you got
Speaker 2: with somebody, would you want her to tell you those.
Speaker 1: Things that she had been with that person? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably I did so in a backfire because I
Speaker 3: felt like I felt like I wanted him to know
Speaker 3: before someone else told him because I would never want
Speaker 3: my partner to be blindsided by something in my past.
Speaker 3: So I felt like, let me be honest and upfront
Speaker 3: with him from the beginning. But because in hindsight, they
Speaker 3: didn't know each other and he wouldn't have found out.
Speaker 3: And then there was a time when said person saw
Speaker 3: me on the side of the Stay There summer jam
Speaker 3: and ran up to me and kissed me in my
Speaker 3: mouth while this person was standing behind me. Then he
Speaker 3: put my name in a song, so it got pretty deep.
Speaker 3: It got pretty deep, and it got thrown in my
Speaker 3: face for years, for years. It was always a problem.
Speaker 3: It was always a problem. It was a dark cloud
Speaker 3: that hovered above our relationship for a very long time.
Speaker 3: I just feel like, you feel like I should not
Speaker 3: have told him, and maybe none of this would happen.
Speaker 3: I mean, he probably would still kiss in my mouth,
Speaker 3: but you could have just been like, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know what we did it. I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 5: I think so yeah, because I feel like in our heads,
Speaker 5: we you know, a lot of us want to think like, oh, you've.
Speaker 1: Been a couple of you know what that real quick?
Speaker 3: Why do men feel like being with a woman who
Speaker 3: has barely been touched is better than being with a
Speaker 3: woman would experience.
Speaker 4: He just feel like less less bodies, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean? Like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I think it's less bodies means less experience. She don't
Speaker 3: know what she's doing and she's never done.
Speaker 4: You're right, you're right.
Speaker 1: And then the bitch used the teeth because she don't know.
Speaker 1: But you think we sucking on characters and bananas. We
Speaker 1: gotta suck.
Speaker 4: They falling in love and they don't want to think
Speaker 4: about that. They don't want to think. You're right.
Speaker 1: Oh, I have another question.
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a friend, right, and he's gonna be
Speaker 3: so mad at me for this, but I don't care.
Speaker 3: He told me that he's not moving into his girlfriend, No,
Speaker 3: not even moving in. He's not sleeping over at his
Speaker 3: girlfriend's house until she buys, until he buys her new mattress.
Speaker 3: Because other men have slept on a mattress.
Speaker 1: Other men still been in the pussy, right you, So
Speaker 1: you buy a mattress.
Speaker 3: Mattress, pad, sheets, pillows, forkx plates, spoons, knives, talllet seat.
Speaker 1: You got to replace everything.
Speaker 3: This man touched if that's the case, And guess what
Speaker 3: you can't replace that pussy that came and and.
Speaker 5: Everything like I'll be on the I'll never move into
Speaker 5: a woman's house like we could.
Speaker 3: He didn't take hold on different he said, he said,
Speaker 3: he said, when I go to visit, they live into
Speaker 3: different cities and they're in a relationship. He says, when
Speaker 3: I go to visit her, I get a room because
Speaker 3: I am not staying at her house.
Speaker 1: He can't get like a mattress cover. He that's what
Speaker 1: I said.
Speaker 3: I knew sheets, a pillow, the whole mattress. But he
Speaker 3: said that he's willing to buy the mattress. But she's like,
Speaker 3: you're tripping like.
Speaker 1: Mattress. Check out South Wire Beds.
Speaker 2: Those mattresses are amazing, handmade coils, penetrated other I don't
Speaker 2: even remember which one it is, but yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: but tell her, tell her to tell him she wants
Speaker 2: a sab wire mattress, and.
Speaker 1: Well, he's going to buy you one. He's gonna buy
Speaker 1: I'll past it. I'll pass it on. He's mine.
Speaker 3: That what happens if they break I want to pass
Speaker 3: it on. That's what I'm saying, Like what happened when
Speaker 3: y'all break up? A good mattresses extensive when you so
Speaker 3: when you break up with her, it's cool for the
Speaker 3: next negative on the mattress that you bought.
Speaker 4: Men. Men don't even be thinking that I need.
Speaker 1: To see because I need to do between women, Like
Speaker 1: do you watch?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did. I used to do that.
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship now. Yeah, everything from a decade.
Speaker 4: Ago right now, we're back in the day.
Speaker 3: Yeah you had to Yeah, that's very used to like
Speaker 3: to do that. It's nothing like she's discussed and make
Speaker 3: the pussy weather. If I lay on the man's pillow
Speaker 3: and it smells like slobbery, I'm dry, or or if
Speaker 3: you see like.
Speaker 2: Stains like yeah, yeah, all right, Well listen, you guys
Speaker 2: know we are at the iHeart Radio Music Festival. I
Speaker 2: know whatever is out here working, so we don't want
Speaker 2: to keep him till we have work to do too
Speaker 2: to but we're just excited to be here. We're in
Speaker 2: the Bows booth, which is really nice to be able
Speaker 2: to sit here and do our post.
Speaker 1: So cool. I'm loving this and we are on the
Speaker 1: iHeart Radio. We're part of the family. We are.
Speaker 2: Listening, you know to lip service. We've been off fore years.
Speaker 2: We just celebrated nine years.
Speaker 1: This is my podcast.
Speaker 2: This is the first time whatever has joined us, and
Speaker 2: I know this is a little different for you.
Speaker 4: No, I'm with it, though, we gotta do it more.
Speaker 1: Okay, he's learning how to communicate.
Speaker 4: I'm getting much better.
Speaker 1: Listen, told me a lot of things, so you know, stick.
Speaker 2: Around, you'll learn and like, next time you come back,
Speaker 2: she might be engaged again.
Speaker 5: Who knows, my god, I still need to know that song,
Speaker 5: which song that was.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you as soon as we got to.
Speaker 2: Next time you see her, throw it on in the club.
Speaker 2: All right, well, DJ whatever, it's lip service. Thank you
Speaker 2: so much to IR Radio. Thank you to everybody's listening.
Speaker 2: Thank you to Boso. In this nice air conditioned space.
Speaker 1: In the miss of all this heat. Yes, I love
Speaker 1: this little space. Lip service being GG day one,