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Speaker 1: What's up.

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Speaker 2: It's lip Service. This is a very very special one.

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Speaker 2: I'm in my day wen Gg maguire. Hey, it's been

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Speaker 2: nine years at lip Service and we are in Vegas

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Speaker 2: at the iHeartRadio Music Festival.

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Speaker 1: Is this your first time here I Heart? Yes? Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: and my first time at iHeart Music Festival.

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Speaker 3: You know, I love me some Vegas, so I'm here

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Speaker 3: for Vegas, but I'm excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for the opportunity. You know.

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Speaker 2: What I want to ask you, being that you always

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Speaker 2: are running around and going to different events and things.

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Speaker 2: Do you prefer to travel and do stuff like this

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Speaker 2: with your bay or do you prefer to.

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Speaker 1: Do this with your girls? Kyk scenario?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let's say iHeart Festival because you're out here

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Speaker 2: with your homegirl, with Banna and so. But you've been

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Speaker 2: here before with like your ex, not to this, but

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Speaker 2: like to concerts and so what's the difference? And for

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Speaker 2: women and for men, should you be concerned if your

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Speaker 2: significant other takes like a boys or girls trip to festival?

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Speaker 3: So specifically, with myself, this is work, so I'm definitely

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Speaker 3: here with my girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that.

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Speaker 3: This is a like quick baky situation because I have

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Speaker 3: you know, we can kick it in between and once

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Speaker 3: I'm done, and I could possibly do the same thing

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Speaker 1: And I'm such like a oh gosh, soccer.

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Speaker 3: I'm so attached to my guy that I feel like

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Speaker 3: I would want to give him my attention and I

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Speaker 3: work because but you know, where I find that the

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Speaker 3: most ideal relationships are when you are with somebody and

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Speaker 3: they like support that They're like, com at you, what

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Speaker 3: do you need?

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Speaker 1: Let me run downstairs, you want me to get this.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 3: But I don't think that the current situation that I

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Speaker 3: might have been in, well, I don't think the current

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Speaker 3: situation I might have been in for sixty days would

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Speaker 3: would have been that. And in the past, I've been

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Speaker 3: with my ex who is in this industry, and I

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Speaker 3: was always by his side doing work things and whatnot.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this in a second, but.

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Speaker 3: I was always just like kind of in the back pocket,

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Speaker 3: so to say, because I'm so glad.

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Speaker 1: DJ whatever just walked in whatever.

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Speaker 2: We got a distraction from the team D whatever. Now

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Speaker 2: let me just say I know DJ whatever for a

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Speaker 2: long time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know DJ whatever. Nice to meet you. Dimples.

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Speaker 1: I love the dimples. Yeah put them boats have phones

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Speaker 1: on so you can hear what's up. He's working by

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Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, you away from some just abilities real.

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Speaker 4: UT's go put on a quick mix.

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Speaker 1: With us just for a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: We were just talking about when you do stuff like this,

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Speaker 2: this is work, right, but do you think that it's

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Speaker 2: cool to bring like your significant other to say, a

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Speaker 2: festival where you're working and you know you're gonna be busy.

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Speaker 1: But then it's it's you know.

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Speaker 4: It depends on what kind of significant other you have.

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean, I haven't had the significan

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Speaker 5: and others I feel like are equipped for it.

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Speaker 1: You know what kind of equipped do you need to be?

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Speaker 5: Well, you got to let me do my thing, you

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Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You can't be you know, you

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Speaker 5: need attention. And then if females come over and you know,

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Speaker 5: say what's up, like, oh, don't hug her like na

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Speaker 5: like I'm at work.

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Speaker 1: Have you had that happen to.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's justsful, Yeah, because it is hard because people

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Speaker 2: who aren't in this business they don't understand. Yeah, they

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Speaker 2: don't understand it. And then to be honest, when you

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Speaker 2: go to stuff that this, people be a little toe up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and sometimes we'll actually be a little touchy.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, oh, I promise it's nothing.

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Speaker 4: They never have acted like this exactly.

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Speaker 5: So it all depends, you know what I mean. It

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Speaker 5: depends if you got the significant other that's gonna let

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Speaker 5: you rock. She can be able to chill, mingle, do

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Speaker 5: her own thing and know that you're working.

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Speaker 2: That's cool, right, and also be able to come to

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Speaker 2: like dinners with the executives because you need to bring

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Speaker 2: babysity too, because that's another concern. You know, when somebody

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you want them to be a good representative. I've

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Speaker 5: had that issue too in the past. You know, you

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Speaker 2: And it's like make you look bad and like you

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Speaker 2: just left me by myself exactly. Now.

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Speaker 1: I want to get to this because right before you

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Speaker 2: Gigi was talking about a situation that she may have

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Speaker 2: been in, so she was engaged.

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Speaker 3: I was just engaged for sixty days or so, just

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Speaker 4: I went to look at the Yeah, okay, the.

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Speaker 3: Ring never happened, but it was a there was a

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Speaker 3: real proposal. There's a tattoo involved, and there was thirty

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Speaker 1: Now, I don't know what negative.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's say congratulations for.

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Speaker 3: It was an experience. My life has never been traditional.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't even born into this world in the traditional way.

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Speaker 3: So I embraced my uniqueness and I am the type

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Speaker 1: Who I live for today. I seize the moment.

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Speaker 3: You know, tomorrow was in promise, and I've been showed

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Speaker 3: that in multiple ways, and I just really just live

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Speaker 3: that it's right for me.

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Speaker 1: So I'm how fast you got engaged? Three days?

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Speaker 4: Oh whatever?

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Speaker 1: He said? I had never felt like that. I can't

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Speaker 1: even bring someone. So I'm gonna tell you, and you're

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Speaker 4: I called.

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Speaker 3: I called his bluff. I want you, I want you

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Speaker 3: to be my woman. I want to marry y'all want

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Speaker 3: to beat you my life. Okay, let's do it. Let's

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Speaker 1: I want it. I would have done it. Did you

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Speaker 4: Did you like it?

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Speaker 1: I love him still?

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Speaker 3: I did fall in love. It was love at first night.

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Speaker 4: Re engaged?

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Speaker 1: No, I wasn't getting what I needed, so I broke

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Speaker 2: Now, so okay, I'm going to ask you this. Have

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Speaker 2: you ever gotten a woman tattooed on you? You have tattoos?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, but if you got engaged, maybe I got his

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh but I got my name.

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Speaker 1: I got my I got my I got my.

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Speaker 3: Potential, I got my potential future name. Okay, tattooed, I

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Speaker 4: Big tattoo little it's comforable, Okay, everything you know I was.

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Speaker 1: Everything's removable. Have you ever composed to anybody? People think

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Speaker 1: tattoos are permanent, They're really not lads to remove.

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Speaker 2: While you can get a cover, you know, can you

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Speaker 1: No? You can't.

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Speaker 3: But when I got the tattooed, the response from not

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Speaker 1: But the public. But they were so outraged that you

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Speaker 1: got this man tattooed on you like I have so many.

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Speaker 3: I'm tatted from head to toel like literally, so it's

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Speaker 3: like all of my tattoos have significant meanings and there

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Speaker 3: I have I have like secret tattoos with guys who

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Speaker 3: they know it's for them, but the world doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: Something else, you know, I have.

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Speaker 3: Some I have subliminal tattoos where the guy knows that

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Speaker 3: I got this for you, even though it's not your name.

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Speaker 1: So it was like one tattoo too. Tattoos, schmoo, smooth,

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Speaker 1: Let's move on now.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, when things don't work out,

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Speaker 2: do you think about all the people that were like

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Speaker 2: I told you, I knew it wasn't gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Because that's always.

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Speaker 3: The thing too, honestly, Like, yeah, I've had that thought

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Speaker 1: I know I'm crazy, y'all not telling me nothing. I

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Speaker 3: Again, I am not a traditional person and I do

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Speaker 1: I lived my life for the experience.

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Speaker 4: Life is an experience, you know yourself.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been had an experience where you were

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Speaker 5: Yeah, when I was way younger, I did. Why didn't

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: So sometimes that makes you stay longer because you want

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Speaker 3: And that happened to me when I was That was

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Speaker 3: I'm ana prove you're wrong. And I held up my

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Speaker 3: But unfortunately I wasn't getting what I needed. So I

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Speaker 2: And that's why it was next, because that's what made

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Speaker 1: I think about when when I was young. I diated

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Speaker 2: Your work, even though it was like a terrible I

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Speaker 2: But I was like, I have to make this work

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Speaker 2: to everything. Oh, you don't really know what he's been through,

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Speaker 2: because everybody that I've been through.

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Speaker 5: Something I've been I've been there. I know exactly what

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Speaker 2: We all do that, but sometimes it's like that for

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Speaker 2: everybody thinks you got to do what's best for you.

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Speaker 2: So for you Gg, I know, like because when we

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Speaker 2: he's loved bombing you, which I had never heard that expression.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard that?

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Speaker 3: They said that he was love bombing, that he was poor,

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Speaker 5: We haven't had those encounters yet. Well, he knew that's

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Speaker 3: At least what he said. He said, God told him.

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Speaker 3: God told him. He said, he said, God sent him

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Speaker 3: So nobody believes in love it first sight. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: What about like we have these shows ninety Dance and

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Speaker 3: So I just feel like tomorrow is in promised, you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, I was in it for the long haul. My

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Speaker 3: If he would have said let's go fly to Vegas

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Speaker 1: Are you know what, Giji, what did you learn from this? Nothing? No,

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Speaker 1: I'm playing. That's what I learned. I learned that. Stop playing.

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Speaker 3: I need to stop playing. Oh okay, I need to

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Speaker 3: stop calling people's bluss when they say things because I

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Speaker 4: I like it though you had the experience. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: We're always talking about what is wife material? Whatever? What

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Speaker 4: Respectful?

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Speaker 5: You know, able to be able to have fun with me?

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Speaker 5: You know, great personality. Those are some of the top

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Speaker 1: Everybody's attatched to I was so okay, this is one

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Speaker 3: He's so fine, so good, and his dig is so big,

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Speaker 3: However, you know, I'm not used to that, Like, no shade,

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Speaker 2: So does that mean moving forward? Now you need somebody

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Speaker 1: But I mean, it's all balance, its balance.

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Speaker 4: How long is that going to last? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, I'm saying it's all about balance. I feel

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Speaker 1: At my man being like, damn you so fine? Well

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Speaker 1: yeah whatever, I've never had that. Have you ever been

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Speaker 4: No, that's like a episode.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, you know what, you know what I'm

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Speaker 5: bugging early on I did early on, like early in

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Speaker 5: No people know about her, but I knew internally I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I was still outside, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: From you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been with somebody that at first you

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, like one that you know. When I got

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Speaker 1: Didy blew up.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, she just I didn't know what happened.

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Speaker 5: So I had to keep it moving.

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Speaker 2: As we get older, you know, did you tell her?

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Speaker 4: No, No, I tell you. Taking me back to my

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Speaker 4: early twenties, I was, I was dying.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of what we did back then kind

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Speaker 2: maybe that is people say it's cruel to have that

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Speaker 2: Like for you, whatever, what would you say in a relationship?

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Speaker 1: Are some of your flaws?

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Speaker 4: Maybe communication?

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Speaker 1: I need you to say that.

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Speaker 5: Maybe maybe, yeah, maybe maybe communication. I think I can

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Speaker 4: I might.

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Speaker 5: I probably could be better with attentsiveness too, because you

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Speaker 5: know the life we live. I'm so I'm so focused

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Speaker 5: small thing. Yeah, so you know, sometimes you could feel

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Speaker 5: I'm not texting you exactly.

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Speaker 2: But we all know that it's somebody mad is because

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Speaker 1: And this was the problem and.

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Speaker 3: Then they get you and then Yeah, the problem with

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Speaker 3: I made time for him to get to know him.

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Speaker 1: We did like a crash course on each other. And

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Speaker 3: I gotta work, I got family, I got a kid,

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Speaker 4: It's so important to have somebody to understand you.

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Speaker 3: It was like once I wasn't up under him all

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Speaker 2: And I voiced it to him a few times. And

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Speaker 1: Now? I spoke to him, what's today? Today?

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Speaker 3: Saturday? So I ended things on Tuesday. I spoke to

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Speaker 1: That's not good. He waited all those days. So when

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Speaker 3: Was just checking on you? You know, it's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I guess and whatever? Have you ever STI in the black.

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Speaker 1: And I'm working? Yeah, I definitely, yeah, I'm working.

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Speaker 4: I've definitely spun the block before.

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Speaker 2: Definitely any regrets of somebody that maybe you should have,

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Speaker 5: No, Like my girl here said I believe in God,

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Speaker 4: You know, I regret how I ended certain situations.

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Speaker 3: I think, yeah, yeah, I've definitely whatever he said was

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Speaker 3: that is the worst thing that you could do.

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Speaker 4: I did that once. I did regret that.

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Speaker 1: It's a few Did you ever run into her again?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I did?

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Speaker 1: All right, tell me why you did that?

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Speaker 2: Because women want to know when women are out here

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Speaker 1: Just tell me? I think people went closure they wanted.

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Speaker 5: I think it was one night she just did something

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Speaker 3: I feel like if I'm not with a kind of

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You don't think sex can get better, though, Like, have

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Speaker 2: in the beginning, and then it got better because that's

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, it does get better. It grows with time. Unintendency.

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Speaker 5: That's interesting because I've always felt like either is there

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Speaker 1: Get what everybody like.

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Speaker 3: The chemistry is there because but you have to realize

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Speaker 1: Like a from day one, and then you.

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Speaker 5: For me, it's the chemistry, it's the energy.

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Speaker 4: Also, See, the energy is something you can't teach.

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Speaker 5: You can't teach somebody like, hey I want this, I

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Speaker 2: I feel like in the beginning, I don't feel comfortable

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Speaker 2: enough like that until I get to know you better,

446
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,560
Speaker 2: and that's when I have better energy.

447
00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,800
Speaker 1: If we get to that point, balls out.

448
00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,240
Speaker 3: I'm balls out from day one.

449
00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:13,520
Speaker 2: And like women's bodies are very complex and sometimes guys

450
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:17,000
Speaker 2: don't know what you like until a few tries gross

451
00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,600
Speaker 2: because you know, and so I think that too, and

452
00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,840
Speaker 2: sometimes you have to like let them know, and then

453
00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,280
Speaker 2: they're not used to that because last person they were

454
00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,639
Speaker 2: with like this, even though you don't like it, you

455
00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:27,760
Speaker 2: have to like retrain them.

456
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Speaker 4: I agree with that.

457
00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:32,000
Speaker 1: Retrain them, and then you're like, he's going to be

458
00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,159
Speaker 1: amazing for the next person.

459
00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:37,639
Speaker 2: Now that he ghosted me, Now that he ghosted me,

460
00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,080
Speaker 2: what would you like to say to this woman that

461
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,160
Speaker 2: you ghosted years ago?

462
00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:45,960
Speaker 5: I apologize for ghosting you. Yeah, I should have made

463
00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,720
Speaker 5: you know colder. I should have told her the things

464
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Speaker 5: that I didn't like and just told her I was

465
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Speaker 5: going another way.

466
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Speaker 1: So then have you been going?

467
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Speaker 3: Have you been able to be honest about and have

468
00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,600
Speaker 3: that conversation of this isn't working for me. I'm going

469
00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,080
Speaker 3: to do this. I have because this is what I

470
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,879
Speaker 3: just had to do, right. I had to let him know,

471
00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:07,480
Speaker 3: you know, but you guys, this is not working.

472
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Speaker 1: I'm going to.

473
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Speaker 4: Switch put in any situation.

474
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 3: I am going to allow you to do the things

475
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,679
Speaker 3: that you need to do for yourself, because if you

476
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,640
Speaker 3: can't do forself, you can't give me what I need.

477
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Speaker 1: And I'm not getting what I needed.

478
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,880
Speaker 2: So whatever, I have you ever dated a woman who

479
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,520
Speaker 2: makes more than you or is more successful than you?

480
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Speaker 1: Now, would how would that beware from How would that

481
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:31,240
Speaker 1: beware for you?

482
00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,360
Speaker 4: Though I wouldn't.

483
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:35,640
Speaker 1: Some guys can't handle it.

484
00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:36,359
Speaker 4: I'm not, I'm not.

485
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,719
Speaker 5: I'm confident, I'm not insecure. So I could understand though,

486
00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 5: why a lot of guys would be, you know, intimidated

487
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,840
Speaker 5: by a woman like you or you that's that's out

488
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,440
Speaker 5: here doing your thing in the public.

489
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Speaker 4: Like a lot of dudes can't take that.

490
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Speaker 1: I have a.

491
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Speaker 3: Friend who I used to be an exotic entertainer. I

492
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Speaker 3: worked at Magic City shout out to the Creative, shout

493
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Speaker 3: out to the Trap. And I have a friend who

494
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,200
Speaker 3: when she was there dancing, she was with the guy,

495
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 3: and everything was all good until she told him how

496
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,879
Speaker 3: much money she had saved, and it was close to

497
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,680
Speaker 3: two hundred thousand, and he was like, you got.

498
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 1: More money than me. You got money.

499
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 3: But the reason why she told him that I have

500
00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,480
Speaker 3: this money is because she was looking to invest and

501
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,920
Speaker 3: build with him. So she was like, I have this money,

502
00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 3: what can we do together? He was like, so that

503
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Speaker 3: we can, you know, grow together and get money together.

504
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 3: I have this money, I want to invest it, like,

505
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Speaker 3: let's do something, and he was like I can't, Like

506
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Speaker 3: I can't even take that you have more than me.

507
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Speaker 2: But you know, it's interesting because he was dating a

508
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:34,920
Speaker 2: woman who was an exotic dancer.

509
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Speaker 1: He was fine with.

510
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 3: That, yeah, but when he found out she had band

511
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 3: on the bank successful way, he was.

512
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Speaker 1: Like, oh, no, this is not going to work for

513
00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 1: me because you had more than I do.

514
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Speaker 2: Could you date a dancer or former former dancer?

515
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Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. I

516
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 4: think I could.

517
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Speaker 5: I've never done it, Like I've dealt with plenty of

518
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 5: exotic dances, but never she can't really full on date,

519
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Speaker 5: even though they wanted that.

520
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,919
Speaker 4: But I don't know. I think something, Yeah, something was

521
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 4: holding me back.

522
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Speaker 3: Do you think it was the occupation? Do you think

523
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 3: it was the fact that they are naked us and

524
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 3: or not sexual but sensual with other men.

525
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Speaker 1: I think in their I think.

526
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 4: That's what held me back.

527
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Speaker 5: You know, I was younger too, like now it's a

528
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 5: little different, but back then, I think the fact that

529
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 5: men were looking at them all the time, you.

530
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Speaker 4: Know what I mean.

531
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Speaker 1: I had I.

532
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Speaker 3: During my ten year stint in the different clubs that

533
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 3: I've worked in, I always was in a relationship and

534
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Speaker 3: I've had a few of those relationships where the guy

535
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 3: was jealous. I had a relationship where he made me

536
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: quit and I retired. But I think that's a regional

537
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 3: thing to in certain cities.

538
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Speaker 2: That's what I want when I'm in Like if you

539
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,879
Speaker 2: live in Atlanta, if you live in Miami, if you

540
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 2: live in New York, it's.

541
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Speaker 4: Very did they mind what you what you did.

542
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 3: In the beginning, but then it got to a point

543
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:04,199
Speaker 3: of of insecurity, crepting, jealousy, crept in, and just not

544
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 3: really knowing how to communicate.

545
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 4: Now, get you did you meet them while working?

546
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, you met me like this period. Imagine a

547
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,359
Speaker 2: women told you stop DJing.

548
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 4: I don't know, she gotta go right, and you're.

549
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 1: Like, I've been doing this.

550
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 2: I don't like you being in the clubs.

551
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: And you have to talk to these women because you

552
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: have right.

553
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: You have to talk to them. You have to invite

554
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: them out. If you're doing something, you have to have

555
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 2: a list of people. You want to make sure communicating whatever.

556
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 2: You know that women are coming out.

557
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 4: For some reason.

558
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 5: I feel like men would feel like exotic dancers don't

559
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,479
Speaker 5: necessarily love that or actually want to be doing it,

560
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 5: like they're only doing it for a time.

561
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Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, but a real dancer, like trained.

562
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 4: A dope.

563
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, so she was not a little bit. I'm not

564
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: going to just stand there and.

565
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 4: Working.

566
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you an amazing performance. I'm gonna put

567
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Speaker 3: on the show every single time. And I was known

568
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Speaker 3: for that.

569
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 2: Now, what if you were dating a girl and rappers

570
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 2: mentioned her in the song because that happened as well. Yes, yes,

571
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: Lil Wayne mentioned her in the song.

572
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: Lil Wayne Wile in Trouble May he recipes okay with.

573
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Speaker 1: That bother you?

574
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 4: It probably would.

575
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 5: It probably would because in my head not because I'm

576
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 5: probably gonna think like, if they know you on that level,

577
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 5: they probably clapping.

578
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying like that you won't say one did one?

579
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: Did one of the three got you?

580
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, That's what I would think, like if they.

581
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 3: Kind of obvious if you know, because you know, because

582
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 3: if you know the song, he literally talks about how

583
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 3: good I suck this day.

584
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 2: Would you want to know if, like, say, you got

585
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 2: with somebody, would you want her to tell you those.

586
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: Things that she had been with that person? Yeah?

587
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably I did so in a backfire because I

588
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 3: felt like I felt like I wanted him to know

589
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,640
Speaker 3: before someone else told him because I would never want

590
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 3: my partner to be blindsided by something in my past.

591
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 3: So I felt like, let me be honest and upfront

592
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 3: with him from the beginning. But because in hindsight, they

593
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 3: didn't know each other and he wouldn't have found out.

594
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 3: And then there was a time when said person saw

595
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 3: me on the side of the Stay There summer jam

596
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 3: and ran up to me and kissed me in my

597
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 3: mouth while this person was standing behind me. Then he

598
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 3: put my name in a song, so it got pretty deep.

599
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 3: It got pretty deep, and it got thrown in my

600
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 3: face for years, for years. It was always a problem.

601
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 3: It was always a problem. It was a dark cloud

602
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 3: that hovered above our relationship for a very long time.

603
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 3: I just feel like, you feel like I should not

604
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 3: have told him, and maybe none of this would happen.

605
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 3: I mean, he probably would still kiss in my mouth,

606
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 3: but you could have just been like, I.

607
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Speaker 1: Don't know what we did it. I think.

608
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so.

609
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 5: I think so yeah, because I feel like in our heads,

610
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 5: we you know, a lot of us want to think like, oh, you've.

611
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: Been a couple of you know what that real quick?

612
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 3: Why do men feel like being with a woman who

613
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 3: has barely been touched is better than being with a

614
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 3: woman would experience.

615
00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 4: He just feel like less less bodies, you know what

616
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 4: I mean? Like, I don't know.

617
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 3: I think it's less bodies means less experience. She don't

618
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,880
Speaker 3: know what she's doing and she's never done.

619
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 4: You're right, you're right.

620
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: And then the bitch used the teeth because she don't know.

621
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: But you think we sucking on characters and bananas. We

622
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: gotta suck.

623
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 4: They falling in love and they don't want to think

624
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 4: about that. They don't want to think. You're right.

625
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: Oh, I have another question.

626
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a friend, right, and he's gonna be

627
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 3: so mad at me for this, but I don't care.

628
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 3: He told me that he's not moving into his girlfriend, No,

629
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 3: not even moving in. He's not sleeping over at his

630
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 3: girlfriend's house until she buys, until he buys her new mattress.

631
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 3: Because other men have slept on a mattress.

632
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: Other men still been in the pussy, right you, So

633
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: you buy a mattress.

634
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: Mattress, pad, sheets, pillows, forkx plates, spoons, knives, talllet seat.

635
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: You got to replace everything.

636
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: This man touched if that's the case, And guess what

637
00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 3: you can't replace that pussy that came and and.

638
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 5: Everything like I'll be on the I'll never move into

639
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 5: a woman's house like we could.

640
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 3: He didn't take hold on different he said, he said,

641
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 3: he said, when I go to visit, they live into

642
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 3: different cities and they're in a relationship. He says, when

643
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 3: I go to visit her, I get a room because

644
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 3: I am not staying at her house.

645
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: He can't get like a mattress cover. He that's what

646
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: I said.

647
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 3: I knew sheets, a pillow, the whole mattress. But he

648
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 3: said that he's willing to buy the mattress. But she's like,

649
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 3: you're tripping like.

650
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 1: Mattress. Check out South Wire Beds.

651
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 2: Those mattresses are amazing, handmade coils, penetrated other I don't

652
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 2: even remember which one it is, but yeah, all right,

653
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: but tell her, tell her to tell him she wants

654
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 2: a sab wire mattress, and.

655
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: Well, he's going to buy you one. He's gonna buy

656
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 1: I'll past it. I'll pass it on. He's mine.

657
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 3: That what happens if they break I want to pass

658
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 3: it on. That's what I'm saying, Like what happened when

659
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 3: y'all break up? A good mattresses extensive when you so

660
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 3: when you break up with her, it's cool for the

661
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 3: next negative on the mattress that you bought.

662
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: Men. Men don't even be thinking that I need.

663
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: To see because I need to do between women, Like

664
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: do you watch?

665
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did. I used to do that.

666
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship now. Yeah, everything from a decade.

667
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 4: Ago right now, we're back in the day.

668
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 3: Yeah you had to Yeah, that's very used to like

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Speaker 3: to do that. It's nothing like she's discussed and make

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Speaker 3: and it smells like slobbery, I'm dry, or or if

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Speaker 3: you see like.

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Speaker 2: Stains like yeah, yeah, all right, Well listen, you guys

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Speaker 2: know we are at the iHeart Radio Music Festival. I

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Speaker 2: know whatever is out here working, so we don't want

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Speaker 2: to keep him till we have work to do too

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Speaker 2: to but we're just excited to be here. We're in

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Speaker 2: the Bows booth, which is really nice to be able

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Speaker 2: to sit here and do our post.

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Speaker 1: So cool. I'm loving this and we are on the

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Speaker 1: iHeart Radio. We're part of the family. We are.

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Speaker 2: Listening, you know to lip service. We've been off fore years.

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Speaker 2: We just celebrated nine years.

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Speaker 1: This is my podcast.

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Speaker 2: This is the first time whatever has joined us, and

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Speaker 2: I know this is a little different for you.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm with it, though, we gotta do it more.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's learning how to communicate.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting much better.

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Speaker 1: Listen, told me a lot of things, so you know, stick.

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Speaker 2: Around, you'll learn and like, next time you come back,

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Speaker 2: she might be engaged again.

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Speaker 5: Who knows, my god, I still need to know that song,

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Speaker 5: which song that was.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you as soon as we got to.

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Speaker 2: Next time you see her, throw it on in the club.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, DJ whatever, it's lip service. Thank you

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Speaker 2: so much to IR Radio. Thank you to everybody's listening.

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Speaker 2: Thank you to Boso. In this nice air conditioned space.

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Speaker 1: In the miss of all this heat. Yes, I love

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Speaker 1: this little space. Lip service being GG day one,